Don't Panic When Your Ex Starts Dating

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  • Опубліковано 15 лип 2021
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    When your ex starts dating don’t panic (when your ex starts dating right away don’t panic)
    How Often Do Exes Move On To Someone New?
    23% of the time.
    What To Do When They Start Dating Someone New
    - Longer Period Of No Contact
    - Understanding Why The Being There Method Works
    - The Avoidant Theory
    - Moving On To Someone New Yourself
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 86

  • @tylergarcia6636
    @tylergarcia6636 Рік тому +62

    We broke up and have been in no contact for 3 weeks now, and she's dating someone new. I'm dead inside. 😢

    • @Devdesmond1313
      @Devdesmond1313 Рік тому +14

      Me & u both same shit we been together for 7 years

    • @austinroberts1450
      @austinroberts1450 Рік тому +12

      I’m with you brother, just saw their pictures today. Stay strong. Let that certainty comfort you.

    • @Crimson_Jack
      @Crimson_Jack Рік тому +4

      Same here, after 5 years of being together.

    • @lover3308
      @lover3308 Рік тому

      😣

    • @droflivelife
      @droflivelife 10 місяців тому +7

      I know mate. Same here, it's been 3 months for me. I'm still traumatised. It was just so easy for her.

  • @jennymak77
    @jennymak77 2 роки тому +39

    if my loved one has already had some one lined up, i dont panic, i die right away

    • @jennymak77
      @jennymak77 2 роки тому +1

      been six months, and there was like dozens guys lined up for me. I'm now all good with a nice, hot guy

    • @jennymak77
      @jennymak77 2 роки тому

      @@marizahofercoach it's easier than we might have thought. only if we are willing to act fast

    • @jennymak77
      @jennymak77 2 роки тому

      just shift ur focus from the one u like now to other guys

    • @jennymak77
      @jennymak77 2 роки тому

      @@marizahofercoach omg never engage anything w married men. ive been thru so much of that. it wastes our time

    • @jennymak77
      @jennymak77 2 роки тому

      @@marizahofercoach if he knows u encounter a single, better man, he is likely going to back off immediately, knowing no more excuse to hv an affair with u. That is not enough love. Leave, girl!

  • @trickydicky7868
    @trickydicky7868 Рік тому +26

    I was always told as a kid that we give our used toys to the less fortunate. I see this with exes now :-D

  • @brucealmighty7288
    @brucealmighty7288 Рік тому +25

    She found someone new and we are done. It hurts my heart truly...

    • @MessageMan4225
      @MessageMan4225 Рік тому +8

      I’m right there with you. 2+ yrs, 1 kid, and a nice new apartment together later, she broke it off with me and found someone months later. Hurts but we will be okay. One day at a time . Stay strong

    • @tomvalone8928
      @tomvalone8928 Рік тому

      ​@michaelhilliard2457 how you holdin up man?

  • @johnullman6159
    @johnullman6159 4 місяці тому +5

    Girls always have a new guy waiting in the wings....hes now new

  • @davidperry4972
    @davidperry4972 Рік тому +11

    have fun you'll be missing me soon enough

  • @jacquelinema8137
    @jacquelinema8137 3 роки тому +6

    omgggg i woke up feeling horrible and this video was uploaded !!!! omg thanks Chris

  • @rydstallion75
    @rydstallion75 7 місяців тому +4

    My ex found someone new before she broke up with me. I've never hurt so much in my life. I was deeply in love with her.

    • @user-wu1ie8vr6b
      @user-wu1ie8vr6b 4 місяці тому

      Same here Exactly the same boat it’s an awful awful feeling But hopefully this pain Motivates us to Become Something bigger in life and successful

  • @ginaartiglio8978
    @ginaartiglio8978 Рік тому +28

    We've only split up a little over 3 weeks ago and he's already posting pictures of another girl last night with him on social media so I'm hoping it's a rebound I don't understand how somebody can tell you they love you and want a future with you and just move on that quick that's really weird to me

    • @satosansu
      @satosansu 8 місяців тому +3

      this is exactly what happened to me.

    • @ANTONIAQUEEN
      @ANTONIAQUEEN 6 місяців тому +1

      Men cad do that 😂

    • @wael5684
      @wael5684 4 місяці тому +1

      Did u decided to break up?

  • @lucystokes57
    @lucystokes57 3 роки тому +27

    my ex got into what I believed was a rebound relationship, he was still upset about our breakup and said he was lonely but also mad at me for things in the past. He blocked me after an argument while they were dating and naturally i went no contact. He has now been with her for 6 months and they are always posting together, he said he doesn't want to talk to me and seems to have completely forgotten me and replaced me with her, now I have no choice but to give up.

    • @maidalinepajarillaga9077
      @maidalinepajarillaga9077 3 роки тому +5

      We will be ok one day.. 🙂

    • @ahuriladaniel9849
      @ahuriladaniel9849 2 роки тому +2

      It will be fine

    • @rebeccaf.5119
      @rebeccaf.5119 2 роки тому +20

      It may be best to move on, but tbh, the people that post the most on social media I have found are pretty unhappy irl. I feel like if you’re secure in your relationship, you don’t need to display it for the world.KWIM?

    • @Reptilefan101
      @Reptilefan101 2 роки тому +2

      Omg im so sorry

    • @skylersadventures
      @skylersadventures Рік тому +15

      No. He’s doing all that posting because he wants you to see it. If anyone does anything out of the ordinary like that they aren’t over you.

  • @Wildanimal864.
    @Wildanimal864. 6 днів тому

    I think being there makes your ex get over you faster.

  • @sairungsaklim6963
    @sairungsaklim6963 3 роки тому +2

    I'm scared of the past year something about in my heart and my mind can not last go for the way I'm tingking about

  • @pamelamartinez5338
    @pamelamartinez5338 10 місяців тому +7

    We should just MOVE ON and stop stalking them .. let them gooo

  • @v.b6028
    @v.b6028 17 днів тому

    I really appreciate the advice they’re giving and the fact that they’ve admitted that they’ve adjusted their mindset into what to do when your ex is seeing someone new but there is no way in hell that I’m going to ever contact my ex. He dumped me. And as much as I want to talk to him and I miss him, he wanted the break up. So he can initiate the contact. And if that’s not going to happen, it’ll hurt but that’s life. I’ll learn to move on. Life is about learning new things about yourself, and this will be another learning point for me. I refuse to contact someone who broke up with me and then moved on so quickly with someone else.

  • @sairungsaklim6963
    @sairungsaklim6963 3 роки тому +1

    Now you're going through for sorry about all my heart more stong than I am can not forget about

  • @sairungsaklim6963
    @sairungsaklim6963 3 роки тому +2

    In the past ten years he living with the way he do things for me and he never contact me again never forget about the situation in my heart bokin head or the person who is wiatt

  • @sairungsaklim6963
    @sairungsaklim6963 3 роки тому +3

    My heart bokin I can not forget about

  • @droflivelife
    @droflivelife 10 місяців тому

    Im 90 days into no contact and i hasn't heard anything yet. My DA left me one day to the next. No reason given so i can only imagine its this next person.

  • @cerico76
    @cerico76 Місяць тому

    I don't , I just feel disappointed and betrayed! Simple as that!

  • @tsehoiching770
    @tsehoiching770 Рік тому +4

    we just got into no contact around 3 months then she already got new boyfriend

    • @jaybee4288
      @jaybee4288 Рік тому +2

      You’re doing no contact wrong.

  • @sairungsaklim6963
    @sairungsaklim6963 3 роки тому +1

    Love has become fixing all but he doesn't want me back now is it time going be last

  • @justincosta48
    @justincosta48 9 місяців тому +2

    Same here. Gf threw away a 13 year relationship all because my work cut alot of ppl to part time. I put my all heart wise into this girl. I cleaned house, I did all the laundry, I work nights & come home and pick up after our daughter which I don't mind. I pay bills and pay my half of rent. Crazy to know just a month ago she was kissing me n making me a lunch to take to work, now I'm "not good enough". Tired of being gave up on when all I ever did was "show" love and put in actual effort. None of this bothers her. And that shit hurts. 13 years. To let me go and feel nothing smh. 2 weeks after her finally telling me she don't love me anymore, I find out she's fuck!ng our neighbor! She used to go 2 months without even touching me now she's already opening her legs for this new guy?!!! Makes My heart hurt so dam bad. The pain is crazy. I figured 13years with someone and a child together that she would at least feel some type of emotion giving up on me. Instead she immediately starts sleeping with our neighbor! Ain't been broke up more than 2 weeks! The pain I feel is unbearable! 13 years together and a kid together and she could care less if I live or die. She's prolly sooo happy with this new guy already while me n my daughter feel broken and depressed. Thought she would feel something for me after that long together smh idk what to do anymore

    • @user-wu1ie8vr6b
      @user-wu1ie8vr6b 4 місяці тому

      Hang in there brother There’s many fellas just myself going thru a unimaginable time Feeling the worst But only time an The right people an a better mindset for yourself can make you Use that indescribable pain As fuel To Become Aggressively successful . Hope your doing well Brother am currently hurting rn as well with you

  • @jasoncynowa
    @jasoncynowa Рік тому

    So exactly how do i get my ex girlfriend to become friends? We were together from June 13 2020 to May 20 2023 with 2 breakup periods totalling 4 months and now the last one is now a little over 2 months but i went over to her house 2 weeks ago with a card and dozen roses and said i was sorry even though both have faults?
    I cried my eyes out then and told her she meant the world to me and now she is dating a new person for probably avout a month if i had to guess.
    I am trying to use rhe law of attraction methods but its proven to be very difficult

  • @nehakandu2184
    @nehakandu2184 Рік тому

    Hi I'm from India and when I try to acces ur program it's saying transaction not permitted by issuer
    What to do ?
    I really want to buy 😔

  • @artemvsoloviev
    @artemvsoloviev Рік тому

    Please help me understand !
    1) we knew each other for 20 years, almost 18 years of marriage, and two kids together.
    2) we broke up at the end of August 2022, and she started dating two weeks later, middle of September 2022
    3) she was dating a guy in October and November 2022, but then came back to me at the end of November, and she was hot and cold, but we were still seeing each other in December, January, and February 2023… there were numerous times when she told me that she does not have any feelings or emotions or connection to me, but other times we were fine and sleeping together… she would also say that she was confused.
    4) end of February 2023 she cut me off again, and at the end of March 2023 (recently) she went back to the same guy that she was seeing in October and November 2022… now she’s telling me that she is in a relationship with him, she has feelings for him, she loves him, and they have already been sleeping together.
    5) she has been continuously telling me to start dating and for me to move on… what should I do?
    What can I do? Is it over for us?
    Please help me understand 🙏

    • @joshuadevsimmz6396
      @joshuadevsimmz6396 Рік тому +2

      Yes buddy move on its hard... women checkout not walk away...
      The more you know

  • @skymc7019
    @skymc7019 Рік тому +1

    what if my ex involve my daughter shes 23 they are good terms , and my daugther told me to contact him ? its hard, hes also keep contacting me to call him but i am healing and recovering myself , what shall i do thsi day 27 days no contact

  • @wayseeker_
    @wayseeker_ 9 місяців тому

    What if i panicked and texted them do i have hope with the no contact work?

  • @jaylacabrera7326
    @jaylacabrera7326 Місяць тому

    Just pray, let it go and move on 6/12/24

  • @jaybee4288
    @jaybee4288 Рік тому +9

    Honestly best thing you can do is try to be happy for them and go focus on yourself. You can check back in at Christmas or something with a small nice message and see if they’re available then, although you have to be prepared for them to be happy/engaged/moved in or whatever if you do that. Most times it’s best just to go your separate ways when she starts dating again and maybe she’ll be in touch later. But being second choice isn’t a good feeling. Never try to interfere with their relationship, that pretty much kills the chances of you two ever being together in a healthy way again.

  • @The94Beanie
    @The94Beanie 5 місяців тому

    Yeah don't worry. Be glad that someone else has the problem now and not you anymore 🎉

  • @emilianoarsa4751
    @emilianoarsa4751 5 місяців тому

    wowow, getting someone back? i wanted to forget her

  • @hyperion752
    @hyperion752 3 місяці тому

    Maybe or not she seeing someone new i wish her luck i never truly loved her when were together its been 4 months now since the breakup and she still hates me

  • @OkOk-wl7le
    @OkOk-wl7le 9 місяців тому

    45 days of NC? I’ve been at it for more than 3 months now😂 I mean she blocked me on all platforms so why should I contact her smh😴😂

  • @Sara-cl4ql
    @Sara-cl4ql 3 роки тому +1

    What if after the ultimatum he chose the new girl?

  • @newyorksbeerreviews1280
    @newyorksbeerreviews1280 Місяць тому

    I feel I have everyone beat here in terms of pain…try having your ex be a co worker in a small restaurant. And she’s starting to date another co worker….

    • @audreydarling9193
      @audreydarling9193 12 днів тому

      Try ur ex dating ur so called friend on ur doorstep and in your face

  • @born2die613
    @born2die613 Рік тому +5

    I wish I could do no contact but we have children together. I dont know what to do

    • @MessageMan4225
      @MessageMan4225 Рік тому

      Same situation man. I found out she moved on when he dropped my kid off in a big white truck. Hurts but we will be okay🙏🏾

    • @atlantishorizon
      @atlantishorizon Рік тому

      You have to move on emotionally. Kids are actually a good way to show her you are better than her, then that will piss her off which will be obvious to you and will create attraction towards you. But for that you genuinely must get over her. Women have skills so good like us for seeing behaviors that would destroy a marriage, but in their case to know if the man has feelings for her inside him. It’s like puting a parasite inside you to feed on you while she takes care of the parasite now and then. You kill it, she gets concerned. Rare cases that she doesn’t, chances are she will get pissed at you cause you moved on 😂

  • @joelorei2146
    @joelorei2146 3 місяці тому

    When she told me everything I wanted to hear and did everything I could but still she decided to go after some jobless crackhead who rides a bicycle!! That was a huge slap in the face

  • @sairungsaklim6963
    @sairungsaklim6963 3 роки тому +3

    Sure enough if I found someone else better than I would be together with living love for the last of my life as well be true about