Crystal Meth Addict interview-Yolanda
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Yolanda, a crystal meth addict in South Central Los Angeles.
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My mother was addict. I went through so much being by her side… I never told anyone what she was doing bc I thought I was the only person who could fix her. I was afraid they would take me away from her. She finally got sober and wanted to come live with me and my dad. My dad agreed and she headed our way. Unfortunately she died in a car crash on the way. If you want to change, please do it before it’s too late. Sometimes I wish I died with her, I just hope I see her again some day.
I am so sorry to read this about your mother. I cannot imagine the pain you must feel each day. Im sorry that things happened that way. I promise you are alive for a reason though. Imagine if you father lost you both in rhe tragic accident. Imagine all the life you have ahead of you. I was in a bad car accident in 2016 and because of my chronic pain for years I've had days where I wish I would have died but I try to think about my family and know how heartbreaking it is to lose someone you care about so much.
@@danichesney1876that’s the only thing that keeps me pushing. I know my family needs me. I love you and wish you the best friend. I hope things get easier for you as well
Wishing you both peace. And only good things.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother.
I can't imagine how much desperation and hate you must've feel when she died after finally getting sober!
I can only look at myself and I'd become so angry and bitter. But then again you had your dear father so maybe you aren't bitter.
It's something about living each day to it's fullest, maybe that was your teaching.
I don't know I just know that the pain must've been unbearable.
I hope you find your way.
Best wishes for the future.
@@leneo1731 I appreciate your kind words. I am very bitter and even more sad. It’s been 20 years since she passed and it still physically hurts to think of her. I have forgotten how she talked and laughed, but I’ll never be able to forget the bad memories. I miss her, I just hope and pray I’ll be able to see her again. RIP Bobbie Sue
She is an emotional train wreck. 10 lives affected by her emotional instability. There is no way she & her "Cuban" (not sure why she kept saying that) provided a good home for them. I feel like I need therapy after this one 😫😫
AMEN. Her story pales in comparison to most on this channel but she feels so sorry for herself and makes endless excuses…now she’s focused on Covid taking her husband… while thousands have lost their spouses this way. 10 kids and none of them helping her? There’s a reason for that-look at yourself Yolanda!
It's def sad but I 😂 when she said I'm crackalackin
Yeah thats like a Nigerian woman overemphasizing her husband's were from Ghana and Kenya. 🙄🖐
She said "he didn't have papers." I'm assuming she said he was Cuban a few times b/c he wasn't able to provide for his family. Nothing wrong with telling why.
@lisaware9697 He wasn't able to provide for his family bc he was on drugs. Unfortunately, there are many people that are illegal collecting many American dollars. 😕
The fact she decided to bring 10 kids into the life she was living is so sad. So much needless trauma
Irresponsible and selfish. One or two, ok. 10!!! Shame on her
Did she really choose this? Of course she didn't. You must be really ignorant to not understand how it works. Why do you think that mostly poor people have the most children? You can easily educate yourself on why that is. Answer is only 2 clicks on your phone away.
Kinda looks like she’s expecting another one 😳😲🤷🏻♂️
@@rolandohernandez1337 oh no 😕
She said the only mistake she’ll admit was falling in love. Pure Delusion.
I don't want to sound unsympathetic, but something tells me there is a LOT more to her story than she told us.
I feel sorry for her kids! They were born into a situation that set them up for a horrible life.
Or a life in which they are forced to overcome excess adversity. She’s certainly got a book for her excuses, but her children may grow up stronger than most. Pressure makes coal and diamonds. The greater the adversity, the greater they get back up - no matter the fall - the greater their victories may be. Changing generational curses is not learned behavior - it takes entirely new contrivance. The one advantage intuitive people have in horrible life situations is that they have the ability to learn all of what not the to do.
With that, I am hopeful for her children’s intuition.
Just as she was born into a story of adversity
@@southphillylillyExactly
There's nothing worse than living with an alcoholic. Their personalities completely change and you can never mention what they did or said. They lie nonstop and blame everyone else, except themselves. I despise them so badly they turn my stomach. I can't feel sorry for them or have empathy. 😊
She paints herself as a loving mother but, i cannot see how that is possible😢
Mommy Dearest or Fearest! 🙄
She barely admits to having any flaws ( narcissism , ME ME ME )
Would love to hear the kids point of view .
@@michaelr1221YEP
@Broskisnowski Right on!!
Perhaps she does love her children but, she doesn’t love herself enough to get it together and effectively show them the love they’ve always deserved… This is why words alone are futile.
It’s selfish to have 10 kids while being an addict but an addict will never see it that way. That’s very sad. She doesn’t take accountability at all, blames everyone else. She paints herself to be a “good mom” but this interview kinda proves otherwise. I hope her kids get some peace. Sometimes you just have to accept your parent as they are and know you’re probably better off without them. Wish her the best of luck and hope she is safe on her journey.
Yup 0 accountability, “only mistake was falling in love” what about meth?
She's not a good mom. When I hear someone saying this the contrary is obvious. And, yes, they have plenty of books on parenting. The fact that she denies this speaks volumes in itself. We can blow more smoke at this lady, but she'll just continue to get high. I hope she proves me wrong, for her children's sake. She probably doesn't even know where most of them are.
Do you really wish her luck? You sure got off on telling her your thoughts.
@@doloresparra4604 , It's called tough love. I'm speaking for the sake of her 10 kids that very much Love and need her. I guess I do care a little more about them as they have no choice. I really do wish them all much better.
@@doloresparra4604 Praying for the sake of her children that she gets some help for herself before it's too late. I'm sure she loves them, now prove it to them.
THIS is "trying your best?" No, Yolanda, trying your best is doing the really hard work to get off the pipe and stop having babies so your relatives don't have to raise your kids for you. Give your kids just one thing to be proud of before you die and get cleaned up.
10 kids?? Damn shame!! One minute she raised them all one minute her parents did.. always a victim.. details that don't have sht to do with sht.. accountability is key.. but 10 kids?? You decided to live this life and still have 10 kids?? I would love to hear from just one of those kids... Good luck girl...
She is quite the victim. None of this is her fault according to her. I'd like to hear from her kids. Let's see if ty think she was a good mother like she thinks she was.
Yeah unfortunately some sad and broken persons only have one thing to hold on to in order to keep their sanity. And that is blaming someone else for their jacked up decisions.
Yeah, right? Awfullll! Poor kidos. If she was a good parent the two of them probably wouldn't do Fentanyl, and rest...who knows whats up with them ... And she says she couldn't takr anty baby pills cuz she's prone to getting blood clots, I mean like really? Don't let him come inside, or abort all of the kids. How can you bring kids into you fucked up life?! OMG
If you only knew!!!
Give her a break she got covid
"I didn't do anything wrong"? You haven't done anything right! Repent please
I’d love to hear interviews and the side of the story from any of her children
I am a child of a woman like this. Always an excuse. Never her fault. Still on drugs to this day. I would love to hear her story on here. Maybe she would tell SOME truth. If she is even aware what the truth is.
@actionfigureShowcase You have no way of knowing anything about her children. "Good" people can come from bad circumstances and troubled people can come from good circumstances.
Yes!!!
Absolutely no sympathy for this woman whatsoever😮😮 As a mother she was not a mother. My heart breaks for those innocent children I wish I was her neighbour I would have fed these beautiful children and made them feel important🫣🤦♀️🫣🤦♀️🫣 I wish you would stop freaking saying that she was a good mother. Are you kidding me!!! 💔💔💔💔💔
100% - I'm AARP age and still remember the family up the street and my little friends who fed me sometimes.
Same, absolutely none. 13 kids and she couldn't get her stuff straight.
Couldn't agree with you more!!
I despise alcoholics! They literally turn my stomach..
Why can't I live in a perfect world, where I'm perfectly high all the time, with a perfect amount of free money earned by hard working others, in a perfect house that others clean and maintain, with a perfect husband who's also always high but in perfect health, with 10 perfect kids perfectly raised and educated by others and so never get high themselves, who all perfectly love me, who all just give me all the things I want and need, because I did my best contributing absolutely nothing to society but live in a state of permanent victimhood with sharks everywhere, you know, these other people who actually do meaningful things in an adult-like state of awareness and responsibility.
Surely if we keep voting democrat they'll give us those things, right?
Well said
All them tears are for herself
@@letuswrap yep
Don’t like this one. Horrible mother.
Meth has got to be one of the worst drugs. She blames everyone and everything else but herself.
I think alcohol has a hold on her more than meth. She's so drunk in this interview, I can smell it!! 🥴
So true. I've known few and they were all the same.
You finally found someone I don't need an update from.
Lol true that
For real, I could barely make it through this one.
EXACTLY!
Good job narcissist
That made me chuckle
I feel sorry for the kids 😢
I always think that when I watch these interviews.
All this misery and addiction but she gets her nails done. 🤷♀️
Those are some CLAWS
Although everyone has a past and no one but themselves should bear that burden, it seems that this woman does not want to assume any responsibility for her actions and always justifies them by showing herself as a passive subject. The first step to healing and change is to take responsibility for your own actions and empower yourself.
exactly
Addicts always blame everyone but themselves. Her dad was strict and messed her life up…
Poor kids that’s it.
Not all. Im fully aware its all my own fault
Not all - but I agree that she does.
Just mayb she was mistreated emotionally n hardly in her home. Rejection n rebellion go hand in hand. She as a children tried 2 escape this, but quite often u go into even more abuse, poor woman.
Harsly
Yeah at her age she outta quit. She sounds like today's youth who think that parents wanting the best for them is called abuse.
She took no responsibility for anything. I don't feel bad for her only her kids
Love how she blames her parents at her age.
learn about ptsd
@@valireklaam yes, please.
Well, they are to blame for being misserable and broken, but her choice was to do drugs!!!! Everyone can cope if they really want to
@@valireklaam I have PTSD SO DON’T TELL ME ! I had a crazy son of a bitch he didn’t even know my daughter killed her in cold blood. He executed her, put her body in her car on the train tracks. I didn’t turn to drugs or I didn’t turn in drinking and I am hurting every fucking day. She’s five days from turning 22 years old less than a year for becoming a nurse. My life has been shattered.
@@KO-wx6tb you probably weren't abused as a child.
I bet she put her kids through a lot of crap. Poor kids.
Drunks are the worst. I can only imagine the verbal, emotional, and physical abuse they suffered. She couldn't even feed them!!
She's the parent we hear about from these kids who had horrible upbringing and they themselves didn't break the cycle. My heart aches for the kids. She made her decisions when she was given a fair chance by parents who raised her.
She’s a mirroring image of my own meth addict of a ‘mother’..my siblings and I broke the cycle. I pray her kids can too. No sympathy for these type of people. They made active choices to neglect their children & chase drugs & men. Full of excuses.
I’m sorry. But 25 years of drugs and having babies that you can’t support is not “doing your best”. Haven’t heard her mention once trying to get clean for her kids. It’s 25 years of putting drugs above your kids. Bless those kids for whatever they went through.
Tweakers are the worst human beings imaginable
I love this channel. It helps me understand there is so many people struggling with addictions not just my family. Unfortunately my oldest brother who caused hell most of our lives past away a few years ago. I hated him so much but I loved him just the same!
I know where your coming from much love from the UK
@marinaephremis7906 me too...Chaos , ripple effects are enormous..but will always love...💙
I'm so sorry that you lost your brother 😔 I hope you are finding ways to heal ✨️
I'm trying thank you
Hugs
She mentioned 2 of her kids are also homeless, fentanyl addicts…
It would be very interesting to listen to their side of the story.
I wonder if Mark can get an interview with either of them.
This interview is very self-centered, even her husbands are just “Colombian” and “Cuban”, and kids are just “10 kids”, none gets even mentioned by name, let alone speaking a bit more about them 😢
The moral of this story: 1) obey your parents; they know more than you do. 2) Focus on school and not boys 3) Take birth control and don't bring innocent lives in a life of chaos and drug abuse. 4) Always take responsibility for your bad choices as life is all about the choices we make.
Birth control is messed up. It's better to practice self control.
@@eggyolked108 that may be better. But is it realistic? For everyone? Maybe it works for you and others but stop trying to control others. Birth control is absolutely necessary.
Should her children obey her?
@@codirennke1109 weak rebuttal
Moral of this story: don't have children if you can't bring them up to feel loved.
Hard to watch. The whole thing is a pity party. No accountability.
Reflect on yourself her story seems like a pity party because you probably do the same in life. Blame and shame.
@@All5AJzshe justifies her addictions by blaming everyone else
@@All5AJzor it seems like what it is. Occams Razor and what not.
@@All5AJzI'd be so embarrassed to make a comment like this, and think I actually said something meaningful.
If I witness a murder, and am able to call and report the murder... that doesn't make me a murderer. Simply because I can make sense of and retell what I witnessed
Some of you mentally delayed people need to stay away from the comment section. Buffoon🤡🤫
Could be a learned behavior from narcissistic family members
No accountability. Full of excuses. Blames everyone and plays the victim foh
Why would anyone willingly have so many kids while your in active meth addiction with a crackhead from Cuba w no papers….. but “trust and believe I was a good mom”. Smh, my wife and I can’t have a baby and people like this spit them out left and right. It’s never their fault and everyone else is to blame for where they are in life. At some point you have to take responsibility, but the only thing she did wrong was “fall in love”. Ok hun, whatever you need to
Tell yourself. I feel bad for the ten kids that were raised by grandparents.
At least they weren't crushed and ripped apart by scalpels and forceps.
Birth control is hard to manage when you’re high.
She is pregnant right now too.
Uh your not a good mother when your kid climbs out the window in the night and and shows up next door asking for a cookie. I’d call social services too. I wish her well but this whole interview she cries victim. Everything bad in her life will always be someone or something else’s fault.
@@col.cottonhill6655There’s a choice other than abortion & having endless kids. At any point after birth ask for your tubes to be tied.
There is NOTHING more disturbing to me than having kids and not being able to raise them.
You need a license or have to take a test for so many things in life, but you can have kids without any parameters. You should be financially stable, educated, and able to provide before even thinking about bringing kids into the world.....makes me sick to see soooooo many broken families by parents who have no right in the first place.
Those things don't insure you'll be good parents EITHER DUMMY. THERE'S PLENTY OF ABUSE GOING ON IN MIDDLE CLASS/ RICH HOMES JUST UNDER REPORTED OR SWEPT UNDER RUG
Yep
It's crazy. I knew a woman who had (at the time) 7 kids. Every baby she'd brag how much more she'd be getting on her SNAP/LINK account. It was surreal. I wanted to start a petition for some sort of licensing. Imagine having kids so you can get more benefits, that you can sell on the street in exchange for weed or crystal. It didn't even hardly go to her kids at all.
Indeed!!
A person like this ruins everyone around them shes such a terrible mother and person in general and she doesn't even realise it because her IQ is so low . This is a damn shame for real.
Ugh, I’m not this type of unsympathetic person….but I actually can’t stand this crack for brained lunatic who spent this whole interview swimming in the pity pot.
Believe me it has absolutely nothing to do with her IQ
“….I was a good mom…”. How? Stop blaming your own parents. They were doing their best to protect you!but you made other choices. Consider rehab Yolanda… it might help you.
I want you to interview one of her children I can’t watch this🙄🙄
I like how everyone in the comments sees right thru her bs and knows she’s the problem not everyone and everything around her. What a joke
Imagine if she would’ve just listened to her dad.
Sterility must be a clear viable option for a large segment of the population. What is the obsession with having children while being an active drug user? Who says, "hey, let's have a kid!" Then smokes meth. Our collective demise continues unabated.
Man I hate meth - it is such a destructive, evil drug. Praying that she gets out of the victim mentality and decides to change. It’s not easy but I know it is possible.
A sad story as old as time. Rebellion and refusal to be controlled in a fair honest environment. Traded for an unjust unstable yet controlled by violence environment in which the children aren’t given a chance.
This needs to be seen by our youth. I pray this message can reach the most at risk children.
As for Yolanda, she is still rebellious, defiant and full of blame.
I don’t see her changing, not for the children not for herself or anyone.
Right. She refuses to take accountability for her drug addiction, being the caused of losing her first 3 children and raising her last 7 . I wish them the best.
How do you know what her environment actually was like? Why come here to judge?
@@BelleTolles we’re called to have right judgment. As you just did the same. #hypocrisy
If she doesn't change for herself, she is not changing for her loved ones.
Some people don't have the ability to take responsibility for their actions.
My heart goes out to children born to bad parents. Sometimes it makes them stronger, but most of the time it just continues the cycle. It’s frustrating when people say they were good parents when actions show they were anything but. I hope her kids can forgive her. There are so many different kinds of birth control, not everything causes blood clots. Too much dramatics, she could have just been honest on this interview.
She's a terrible mother and terrible person for having so many kids and being so irresponsible not stepping up to the plate and handling her own problems. Her kids suffer from having a LOSER as a mother.
Lol, she's an addict. She is incapable of honesty at this point. This is why many people can't get sober. They can't get honest. Sobriety requires honesty to stay free. Remember, only the Truth will set us free.
Good parenting means first of all just love … and Yolanda loves her kids more than she was loved by her parents who ostracized her 😔..
yes she didn’t do right for her kids , but that’s what she was able to , including all circumstances . I feel the same about her and her kids .. sadness
All I heard was excuses. She keeps telling herself that she’s “a good mom.” I’m willing to bet her children would have a different take on that perspective. 😒
@@MsDorcelus Have you been terrified by your father like she was , and had no compassion from your family ? It is a strong abuse . She considered herself a good mother because she loved and understood them … but , yes , you’re right : she didn’t do a great job overall , unfortunately !😞
From gaudy weeping to self-absorbed lament in the blink of an eye. I feel for this woman’s kids.
She is someone's kid. What will you say in 20 years when one of her kids has the same story?
@@8ofwands300well for one I wouldn’t be a parent until I’m ready, and if/when I become one I won’t create an environment that produces a woman such as this 🥂
@@bagelman10 You said you " feel for her kids, " but you won't in 20 years. That's the problem with our society; we don't help damaged people. We'd rather judge them and feel superior to them. You sound younger than I am. .I hope life doesn't throw you curve balls. 😐
She blames her dad for her getting pregnant but clearly he knew that the guy was a loser. Victim mentality like I’ve never seen before.
I'm really disheartened by the lack of compassion in the comments. What I hear when I listen to Yolanda's story is a grown woman who was given no support during her life. She may be in her 50's but her emotional maturity is that of a teenager (probably when she started using). She's been in survival mode her whole life and yes, she did the best she could with what she knew and what she had. Thank you Mark for continuing to shine a light on those who society wants to forget about. Who knows how much different Yolanda (and subsequently, her children's) lives would be if she had been given some support, shown some compassion and maybe had some nurturing familial figures growing up. You're not alone Yolanda. There are so many of us just like you. xx
The lack of compassion is disturbing me more than this lady..She deeply unwell and high...these comments are high on the judgement...
i’m an empath and i’m usually very sympathetic to people but this lady to me screams narcissism. we all have our own faults but 10 kids and she saying her child just had a little coke like it was no big deal and also her other child leaving the house while she was asleep. she was reported because her neighbor ( her aunt) knew she was irresponsible and knew the red flags
The whole interview i thought, "Wow she's such a basket case" and then she described herself that way right at the end. But she spent 8 years of her life pregnant was she doing drugs then?
I don’t feel sorry for her … she deserves every aching pain in her heart for failing on her kids .. I’m sorry
Im sorry i cant watch this one. Shes all over the place. I'd say mentally ill. Needs to be committed then she had a slew of kids that she shouldn't of had. Im sorry not everyone are suited to be parents
She so drunk!! All drunks are all over the place when talking and they almost always cry. Pity party, poor me, nothing's my fault. 🥴
What a damn mess. All of those children born with a possibility of a beautiful life and she ruined it for them. Damn good mother????
I mean she said she was a good mother. That's debatable.
There's no debate!! She's no mother!! She said it doesn't come with a handbook. No, because it comes naturally to most of us. I have no sympathy for her. All she does is blame everyone else. Makes me sick.
So she blames her father forgetting pregnant because he didn't want her to get pregnant?
Her story is heartbreaking, regardless of her drug addiction. I wish her nothing but luck and happiness in her future.
Heartbreaking for her children !
No sympathy for her. She’s had chances to make better choices.
Ew!
I’m a compassionate person, I swear.
Not today.
She’s an unhinged, crack for brained, chronic whining, energy sucking lunatic…drowning in a pity pot.
Bankrupt of all accountability.
She’s choosing to not livid in reality…. I can’t stand her.
Odd how people cheer for some addicts and condemn others. Strange channel.
Heartbreaking my A rse
With all due respect, Mark, how do you have the patience to do these interviews? I watch every single one of them. My favorite interviews are the ones that are obnoxiously overwhelming to watch, like this one. Yolanda's fake crying is nearly too much to take. I wanted to close my browser eight times while watching this. Do you get as annoyed as we, your viewers?
I think Mark zones out during many of these interviews.
@@btnhl🤭🤭
Same here. She frustrated me. Like another viewer who felt like I needed therapy after watching her. Don’t need an update.
*with all DUE respect* 😊 but I totally agree with what you're saying.
@ashtynheneke5456 I'm a stickler for grammar, and yet I missed that one! Corrected. 🤘
Who knows how much of what she is saying is real. For one, all Cubans have papers because there is a law called "Ajuste Cubano" that grants Cubans citizenship just 1 year after stepping foot on dry land no matter how they got here.
Most of these people just need to be listened to. Instead, they turn to drugs and alcohol. I did, then I turned to God, and it changed my life 🙏
Yes, at least your good is a better drug for your health
She should be put in jail for what she did to those children. This is the first video that made me sick to me stomach.
Inside she knows she was a bad mother who made bad choices. She is trying her best to convince herself and defend her choices, but I don’t believe for a second she thinks it’s true. She has created a narrative of being a victim to make herself feel better enough up carry on with her life. Sad and so deeply mentally ill.
So much pain. My heart aches for her. I pray she gets sober. Sending love.
She must be drunk right now. Very dramatic.
She's a hot mess! She needs to get off the drugs and stop making excuses. I feel bad for her 10 kids! 😒
You Definitely were not a mama.😂 My cat had kittens now she’s a great mama she made sure nobody touch those kittens. She never left her side
Heartbreaking! Mark, how you remain so calm and focused on the interview during these emotional breakdowns is amazing. I’m not homeless, but like most, I have my share of unaddressed trauma. How I wish you could interview me, hoping I’d have a cathartic moment to help rid me of the pain I hold inside.
I’ll listen!🫶🏾😘
All people who are in the profession of broadcast interviews conduct themselves primarily the same way in order to successfully guide the person through the information they seek. It would defeat the purpose if they couldn't remain calm. It has never been Mark's responsibility to fix someone. He can provide and recommend resources and the outcome is up to you.
A masterclass in spontaneous character acting from Dorothy
Mark, have you come across her children in your travels ?
Disturbing
She reminds me of my mother: can't see and admit her mistakes because it would break her down to the ground. She has to believe she was a good mother because she can't deal with the truth.
You want to know the impact on me? Every time I tried to talk to her about what she did, she denies it. She says I invent it, I dreamt it and stuff like that. Result: I have to find a way to heal without the person that destroyed my life ever even acknowledge that I suffered.
I am an addict in recovery (5 years clean) and the one thing I can say is I always took responsibility for MYSELF and she’s definitely not taking responsibility for ANYTHING
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏼 for you, congratulations, not easy.
I know this was a year ago, but have to say Congrats! I’m 8 years clean of opiates. That’s one thing I always did as well. I KNEW what was wrong in my life because of MY actions. I did it to myself. Nobody made me, and no circumstances (and I had several in childhood/teenage years) was to blame. It was all MY responsibility. It was also MY responsibility to get clean for my own kids. And I did just that.
Thank you Mark. Everyone has a story, we are all human beings with feelings, thoughts, and emotions. We should all be treated with empathy. Mark, you do this for the people you interview. You let their voices be heard with respect and compassion. Your a rock star!!!
It's crazy how Life gets away from you .😥 Drugs are altering so many people's lives in such a terrible way.
You're not a good mom if you do drugs and get your children taken away from you! Poor kids.
What a terrible actress. I feel bad for her kids. Take some responsibility. I usually have a lot of compassion for the people on these videos.
As the saying goes, “Every child deserves parents, not every parent deserves children…” What a SAD state of fucking affairs! Peace be upon those kids. ❤️🩹💭
She’s very unlikable - she’s too much for me….
What a self aggrandizing drama queen! No acceptance of responsibility at all. Those poor children!!!!
I have to agree with the general consensus. Ten kids without the capacity or resources is moronic and shameful.
She repeats herself when she is thinking of more lies.
You (rangle127) write nasty useless unconstructive comments while thinking of more ways to hurt the world - you dumb troll - shut up.
To absorb yourself in this pool of self denial and pity really is horrible. She's caught in this delusion that her rebellious attitude was her parents fault and although she smoked meth and continuously put her children in harms way, shes still a good "mama". She needs to put her life into perspective. Good parents with healthy relationships are fighting tooth and nail to have ONE kid of their own to love and cherish. And she has the audacity to call herself a good mother bringing TEN kids into an addiction fueled world where they will experience the roughest of upbringings and "TASTE?!?!?!" crack at 10 years old? I pray for these kids man. Maybe its best she stay out of their lives.
I totally agree with you Scott
OKAY, yeah, right…..wow brain running on a loop. So sad but come on 10 kids! How many life’s are damaged??
Her and the cuban guy were wasted on crack and meth 24/7 but she was a good mom after 10 kids later, gtfoh with that bs, she says the only mistake that she made was fall in love, I'm thinking maybe getting addicted and not keeping your legs closed would be some bad mistakes, one thing that I've noticed in all of these stories is that its always someone else's fault, absolutely no accountability whatsoever.
God bless those kids..you can tell she has told this story a time or 2…
She's either lying about her age or she's the oldest 55 year old I've ever seen, more like 75!!
Shows what hard living does to you.
What's the cuban connection? 😂🤣🤓
I would love to hear more stories from people who grew up in Mexico and moved to America. How they used to live, what they hoped for, what they found when they got to the US...
She's American of Mexican descent. If you paid attention and watched the video, you would have known that already. Your bigotry is reflected in the stupid comment you made.
Ten children who were affected by her and most likely the cycle will continue. What a shame.
I’d love to know what her kids think about her parenting, if she really was a good mother, as a drug addicted Mumma?
Listened more than half way through.. hearing nothing but self pity got old. Her poor children
While I'm sure she has had her share of heartache she's got the "victim mentality"down pat
Every single problem she has comes from her own decision! From jumping out the window because of love? She doesn’t even admit that was the biggest mistake of her life at that point. Claims raising a family doesn’t come with a book? Common sense tells you not to be messed up on drugs when you have babies. Seems like every problem she has, she blames on something else. Pray for all of her children that they turn out ok. 🙏
My first comment on this channel after watching for several years, and all I can come up with is “Yikes”. Not meaning to be uncaring, but this person takes the cake.
This is the first video that ever made me feel sick to my stomach. Get your tubes tied. There’s different types of birth control , condoms. She’s so full of shit it’s mind blowing.
The first interview that I did not like. She should have kept her legs together. 10 kids! She is NOT a good mom. She says she is NOT a victim.. ha that is all she is.
I have watched all your interviews Mark, and this is the ONLY person I really dont like.
I can't stand alcoholics!! I couldn't find it in me to have an ounce of empathy. They're always the victim, and god help if you mention anything they said or did while drunk.
I've watched most of Mark's interviews too and the one guy who I couldn't stand, made my stomach turn, was a guy name Jessie who's a crack addict. He was on about two years ago, and one of the most arrogant assholes, ever. I seriously wanted to punch him. Lol😅
@baublesanddolls5756 I remember him, he was an addict and the interview was with his girlfriend. This lady really made me angry, and I feel sorry for her kids.
@Broskisnowski The chomo's/gangsters are worse but I could feel sympathy for them because of their upbringing or circumstances. This lady just annoyed me with her blame and lack of self-awareness and accountability.
@Broskisnowski I am obsessed with Rebecca and hope she is still alive!!
Step 1- accountability. Step 2- forgive everybody else. Step 3- figure out if you’re serious, cause you’re out of time, and your kids don’t need this shit.
Amen
There is more at play than drug addiction...
Mark you are truly leaving this world a better place. Thank you for your work on this channel. great and beautiful photography as well.
This is a tough one. I hope Mark can take care of himself after all of this that he is taking on.
Mark is fine and enjoys the power this channel gives him
Think he's learned to not let it effect him after all these years.
She is a professional 'baby mama". No self respect.
She's no mama. She dropped them out in order to get more money from the government, which meant more money for drugs and alcohol. I may sound cruel, but I despise alcoholics and have absolutely zero empathy for them. They gross me out!! 😝🤬
I can tell she was not a good mother the way she talks... neglect is still neglect even if you thought you were a "good mama". And yes they actually do write books on how to parent!
Being a good mother comes naturally with most moms. It's a natural instinct, but those without it shouldn't have children. She's probably never even read a book!
So the only thing she did wrong was fall in love... My Lord
She needs to take responsibility for her life decisions.
Turned her off when she stood up cheering, "I am not a victim."
I feel that role belongs to her 10 children. 💔
Absolutely 💯 agree!
Imagine the life her kids had !!! Mark you will be interviewing them in the future, messed up members of society because they had drug addicted parents.
This lady has had so much pain she’s so emotional drugs block her pain but the children suffer I wish her the best ❤❤