Crystal Meth Addict interview-Arianna (follow up)

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  • Опубліковано 7 лис 2024

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  • @oneeks5908
    @oneeks5908 Рік тому +320

    You’re not ready to have a child. That’s who my heart hurts for. The helpless children who are born into a life like this.

    • @morganc0
      @morganc0 Рік тому +36

      Then make sure you vote for reps who are pro-choice. I was in her position once. Thank goodness I had access to an abortion because there was no reason to bring a child into that. Now I am in recovery with two children who thankfully are not traumatized from the lifestyle I used to live. ❤️

    • @marinaephremis7906
      @marinaephremis7906 Рік тому +14

      Agree these poor children that are born addicts ......

    • @morganc0
      @morganc0 Рік тому

      @@marinaephremis7906 born dependent* on drugs/substances. NOT born addicts. No one is born an addict. Do not call a baby an addict, dear god, please. That is so wrong.
      Addiction is not the same as a chemical dependency. Chemical dependency is what causes withdrawals in babies. Not addiction. Addiction is a disease that USUALLY INCLUDES but is not limited to chemical dependency. A withdrawing baby does not meet the diagnostic criteria for addiction at ALL. Please learn the difference. Calling babies addicts is so unfair and wrong even though I truly do not think you meant any harm. ❤️

    • @moneyroute9809
      @moneyroute9809 Рік тому +20

      @@morganc0 Or u could just not have unprotected sex ..

    • @daplayer1098
      @daplayer1098 Рік тому +12

      @@moneyroute9809 Well, u suggest not even knowing the context of her situation

  • @MoonChild-po9du
    @MoonChild-po9du Рік тому +214

    This is a perfect example of "If you keep on doing what you're doing you're gonna keep on getting what your getting".

    • @vtorialyn
      @vtorialyn Рік тому +7

      @@Omerta_1964…and that’s the definition of addiction 😢

    • @SwissCheese112
      @SwissCheese112 Рік тому +4

      @@vtorialyn ..insanity

    • @shannonjohnson4207
      @shannonjohnson4207 Рік тому +5

      My dad always said to me, if you always do what you've always done you'll always get what you've always got.

    • @vtorialyn
      @vtorialyn Рік тому +1

      @@shannonjohnson4207 exactly

    • @carlos66965
      @carlos66965 Рік тому +2

      Platitudes work out about 50%. But like they say a broken clock is still right twice a day. Take that as you see fit.

  • @rebpos6519
    @rebpos6519 Рік тому +101

    You can't play the pregnancy card if you're using and refusing treatment while pregnant. You may as well be the one throwing punches at your stomach.

    • @keirasmith5706
      @keirasmith5706 Рік тому +1

      #facts

    • @jayeb4494
      @jayeb4494 Рік тому +7

      Tell me you don't care about your baby without telling me you don't care about your baby. Smh.

  • @mysmirandam.6618
    @mysmirandam.6618 Рік тому +23

    I quit cold turkey when i found out i was pregnant 21 years ago ❤ i pray she finds peace soon

  • @StarvieCarvie
    @StarvieCarvie Рік тому +48

    She was really proud her baby daddy has a shed with power.

  • @richardodell2840
    @richardodell2840 Рік тому +139

    My whole take on this is she is NOT ready to get sober. She has not hit her bottom yet. Everything may seem all sad in your story, but these are mostly excuses. Get rid of the excuses and take a good look at yourself. But until you're ready truly, you will never get clean.

    • @davejones1959
      @davejones1959 Рік тому +9

      I work with young people all the time in my community. It is a long arduous journey that few succeed. A good support system is critical.

    • @OrangeHeadTM
      @OrangeHeadTM Рік тому +7

      Your take is an opinion.

    • @steveerickson1807
      @steveerickson1807 Рік тому

      U people know nothing about her or the drugs she uses and ur attitude and comments show how u are and who u think u are lol give ur head a shake commenting and trading people down on UA-cam get a life

    • @wendyWERKKZ
      @wendyWERKKZ Рік тому +1

      I WISH people didn’t need to hit rock bottom to desire to change, but I feel you’re right. She more so wants a roof over her head but not to go back to rehab. And gets agitated when people in her life ask if she’s going to go back to a rehab. I get the desire for guidance and support but there needs to also be the desire to get and stay sober . At least for the baby in her belly that she seems intent to keep

    • @greysoul8109
      @greysoul8109 Рік тому

      Nobody As les for your take to begin with

  • @stephinvestigates
    @stephinvestigates Рік тому +100

    i think what people are failing to realize is she is saying she needs the guidance/support to get where she needs to be because she has never had it if you always lived in hell and been mistreated , you get comfortable there overtime and crave what you have been missing & most have . i hope she finds somebody that genuinely and outwardly cares for her, everyone is worthy of love AND that she realizes her own worth and the healing she is capable of doing on her own

    • @alicebarclay
      @alicebarclay Рік тому +11

      When she said this, I had an image of her aunt and the other family members hearing this and being very frustrated. I completely see how trauma has played a role in her becoming an addict, but it's clear she has been offered guidance and support over and over again. She was in treatment for 5 months. She mentions her grandmother trying to protect her and keep her from leaving her home. She mentions her family encouraging her over and over again to get treatment and take care of her son. She definitely has been offered guidance and support but only she can make the decision to take it. She has to decide she's worthy and deserving of love and support. She needs to stop pushing away guidance and support and love herself enough to take the help that is offered to her.

    • @Ms.Cortez5653
      @Ms.Cortez5653 Рік тому

      Be that as it may, even a stray dog or cat is responsible for their children. If she has no guidance or support why is she having children? Because she's just pure stupid and totally irresponsible. I have no sympathy for the likes of her! Bringing innocent children into the world just to not be responsible for them and being full of excuses. Smdh!!!

    • @420JOHNNYBLAZEIC
      @420JOHNNYBLAZEIC Рік тому

      God bless

    • @InkaPley
      @InkaPley Місяць тому

      Exactly. We are attracted to those that confirm our inner voice of who we think /have been conditioned to believe we are and anyone not confirming that, we feel we are not attracted to/give excuses why it would not work/unconsciously feel we do not deserve.

  • @DaveVoyles
    @DaveVoyles Рік тому +159

    Can you imagine how messed up the life of her child is going to be?

    • @Whiskey_Jane
      @Whiskey_Jane Рік тому +17

      My aunt adopted two children since she could not have any. They are loved as if they are our own family. Definitely tough to raise these kids though. One is doing well and the other has some mental health struggles for sure.

    • @alexismartinez7092
      @alexismartinez7092 Рік тому +7

      I dated a guy who was adopted..similar circumstances. He was from Romania and….omg was it a ride, I felt so bad for his parents cause they did love him like he was their own but wow the amount of money they’ve spent on him to prevent him from going to jail or rehabs or whatever. Mental problems for sure.

    • @aspartamekillsyaknow9019
      @aspartamekillsyaknow9019 Рік тому +15

      Kid ain't gonna have a chance. She'll raise him to either be a dealer or a dope fiend.

    • @maryalbert6138
      @maryalbert6138 Рік тому +5

      So sad.

    • @PinkQB
      @PinkQB Рік тому +8

      Terrible, and the cycle continues 😪 😑

  • @myb4208
    @myb4208 Рік тому +71

    to have a kid in those circumstances is absurd and selfish. That kid is either gonna be taken from her or struggle with her.

    • @alsie1882
      @alsie1882 Рік тому +6

      Well the obvious solution is available

    • @AD-kh3wj
      @AD-kh3wj Рік тому

      Shed sell the baby if she could

  • @patricklary81
    @patricklary81 Рік тому +47

    Maybe you should take your families advice and go to rehab. It may be hurtful, but they probably want you to be clean so you can reenter your family.
    Sounds to me like she wants help from everyone, and wants people to just give her everything, but she doesn't want to put in tye work it takes to get there.

  • @micahhayes8770
    @micahhayes8770 Рік тому +22

    She was all smiles, laughs, jokes and shit talking in her last her interview but this time around she is the exact opposite bc the drugs are no longer numbing the pain ,shame and guilt. Im here to encourage and pray for her and her family a better future together.

  • @breezyncj
    @breezyncj Рік тому +68

    Goodness her ego is what's gonna be the death of her if she doesn't check it. She is literally complaining about having people in her life that care about her and want to see her succeed, she's had opportunities to go to rehab and just wont do it. Her family is acting exactly as they should and they've probably had a long road with her thus far and had to make the decision to love her from afar and get on with their lives instead of enabling her so good for them. Hope she checks herself and realizes she's the only person that's holding her back.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому

      she gets what she deserves dont feel bad for her rewatch the old interview she dont change in 2 yrs and she wanna play victim but calls the cops and in her words she beat the black off a guy talkn like that she will reap what she sow its why she always get beat she hangs with dopefins and felonzzz she gets what she deserves. she likes white guys cause they not as violent they like mark hand out money easily

  • @AntiPlatitude
    @AntiPlatitude Рік тому +115

    If she chooses to voluntarily use narcotics while aware that she is pregnant, she should be arrested.

    • @FIuxWave
      @FIuxWave Рік тому +10

      And how exactly would that help anything

    • @AntiPlatitude
      @AntiPlatitude Рік тому +12

      @@FIuxWave honestly I don’t care if it helps her, but at least she’d at least be forced to have some form of prenatal doctor supervision.

    • @HungLikeAnOX
      @HungLikeAnOX Рік тому +11

      People who disagree with your comment shouldn’t be parents

    • @bettybridges1635
      @bettybridges1635 Рік тому +3

      She needs to face it she brought it all on herself and needs to get help that poor baby deserves to be protected get off the drugs praying for her unborn baby shame on her

    • @0N3R1OfficialWSR
      @0N3R1OfficialWSR Рік тому +7

      Do u know how hard it is to quit doing drugs? Especially when you have so much pain and loss in your life and don't know any other way to cope with life. I'm sure u have some addiction maybe social media, UA-cam, nicotine, alcohol, caffeine, food, marijuana, something. Everyone has a poison.

  • @nellycct
    @nellycct Рік тому +168

    She sounds like my neice. She doesn’t take responsibility for anything and just blames everyone else. Just has kids to gives them up but doesn’t think about how to take care of them.

    • @gameZA40
      @gameZA40 Рік тому +14

      that's what this channel is about , allowing people talk things and blame other people

    • @originalpolo
      @originalpolo Рік тому +18

      ​@GameLoop not necessarily. Just allowing them to talk.

    • @roxannemoser
      @roxannemoser Рік тому +6

      ​@GameLoop where is your heart? You think you're immune?

    • @southphillylilly
      @southphillylilly Рік тому +9

      Maybe don't put your nieces business out there. Perhaps her mother or father, wouldn't take to kindly to you exposing her, especially since it looks like you use your whole name here on UA-cam.
      Think whatever you want, but have some couth and a little bit of respect. Because your niece, my blame everybody, but it seems you lack respect.

    • @yamommasbox
      @yamommasbox Рік тому

      Yeah that’s what drug addicts do because they’re selfish pieces of trash

  • @susanbookman1631
    @susanbookman1631 Рік тому +28

    Arianna - I am holding in my mind and heart the image of you being the best version of yourself - strong, beautful, clear minded, articulate, helping others, raising your child, leaving all this behind, learning how to breath and feel the magic of your healthy heart beating and clean blood flowing through your body. You can get there and that it what I am imagining for you!

    • @juuustpeachy
      @juuustpeachy Рік тому +4

      This is a beautiful thing to say Susan. Power of life and death is in the tongue. Holding this vision with you ❤

    • @louisbernardo3694
      @louisbernardo3694 Рік тому +4

      Nice of you. Thats a beautiful statement.

    • @InkaPley
      @InkaPley Місяць тому

      Lovely. ❤

  • @thecolorfulvegan
    @thecolorfulvegan Рік тому +59

    Having someone like this in your family is absolutely life draining. Perpetual victim with an addiction to chaos.
    I hope there is a chance to evolve + heal.

    • @Lizablue0608
      @Lizablue0608 Рік тому +3

      Exactly! I also think people sure has a lot to say about other’s lives they’ve never even lived. I DO have someone in my family struggling hard with addiction and another who has actually died from it. It still wasn’t enough for him to try HARDER to get help. Gaslighting and playing the victim card has now become a broken record to us all in our family. But we don’t love him an less. We worry 24 7. He knows what to do if, and when, he goes into treatment (again). We’d all be there AGAIN and AGAIN until he makes it. Relapsing is part of the process, but for us, we’re so damn tired..😔 We no longer enable him so we’re not much of a value right now to him. 💔

  • @GiGiM-1114
    @GiGiM-1114 Рік тому +65

    She states she is 3 months pregnant-has “the two lines.” But continues to use drugs and she is waiting for guidance…. She is 29 years old and wants someone to fix her life.

    • @crystalclear6661
      @crystalclear6661 Рік тому +3

      Well if you’ve never had guidance in your life, especially when you’re a kid, how do you supposed to self regulate and guide yourself in your own life? I’m 38 and I still need guidance because I had none as a kid and I tried my best and I’m doing my best, but it took me a long time and I’m still making a shit tonne of mistakes so that no family nobody to guide me and people do you need that some people do

    • @GiGiM-1114
      @GiGiM-1114 Рік тому +3

      @@crystalclear6661 …..it is called “PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY.” Yea, I get it--I work for Children/Family Services & see teenagers making the same decisions as some of these adults. At some point an adult person has to decide they want a better life and what do they do to have that life. For her, she needs to stop the drugs, go to a rehab. I believe once her family sees she is trying for a better life, they may help her. She obviously has worn them out.
      BTW, my son is 40 and I have stopped “mothering and enabling” him. He finally got the message and is doing just fine!

    • @Xyz46786
      @Xyz46786 Рік тому +2

      I am so sick of ignorant comments like this.

    • @Xyz46786
      @Xyz46786 Рік тому

      @@GiGiM-1114no you don’t get it actually. You are clearly extremely ignorant and it’s sad that your job obviously taught you nothing. What’s the point in being so callous? Please get off your high horse.

    • @Xyz46786
      @Xyz46786 Рік тому

      @@GiGiM-1114btw I would hope you weren’t still mothering your SON at 40 😂

  • @vonderloo3184
    @vonderloo3184 Рік тому +50

    No a good person does not subject a fetus to meth. 😢

    • @PinkQB
      @PinkQB Рік тому +5

      Period.!

    • @jenn8459
      @jenn8459 Рік тому +6

      Exactly. A SECOND time too. Remember her last interview a couple years ago? She was about 5 mo pregnant & high as a kite 😵‍💫

    • @YesseniaMartinez_03
      @YesseniaMartinez_03 4 місяці тому

      @@jenn8459she’s having a third child now .

    • @ZenSei03042
      @ZenSei03042 3 місяці тому

      Its weak. But not evil.

  • @mandyylolo
    @mandyylolo Рік тому +144

    “Women and I don’t get along because of my pretty face” 🤦🏼‍♀️ my goodness, there’s just SO much “playing the victim” and immaturity here I can’t even deal. GET YOURSELF TOGETHER

    • @melissamartinez3593
      @melissamartinez3593 Рік тому

      Right dude cum
      On she’s prob a skonka and no one wants her around cuz she does what ever she wants

    • @ministryofpeacekmk
      @ministryofpeacekmk Рік тому +10

      Right??

    • @LM-dl3yx
      @LM-dl3yx Рік тому +17

      Yep. Not feeling sorry for someone who does not want to get sober and change their behavior. I grew up around this crap my entire youth. I've heard sob stories on repeat. So much crying!!! It's all bull💩
      She needs God! God wats her to get sober and change her behavior! Period!

    • @heather8518
      @heather8518 Рік тому +14

      Right, I had a good eye roll when she said that.

    • @GENXJOPLIN
      @GENXJOPLIN Рік тому +13

      Sidenote I thought she looked MUCH older than 29 prior to her saying her age like fym

  • @arnoldgarcia9858
    @arnoldgarcia9858 Рік тому +65

    I went to middle school with her in south central. Some kids dared me to go bodies with her and as reluctantly I was, she had me in the ground in a blink of an eye. She then quickly apologized. I used to hear crazy stories that I didn’t want to believe because she had such an eccentric and sweet personality. I hope nothing but the best for you, Ariana. God bless you.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому +5

      TO GO WHAT WITH HER LOLOL

    • @breakupgoogle4668
      @breakupgoogle4668 Рік тому +2

      Go bodies?

    • @xrated2k3
      @xrated2k3 Рік тому +4

      ​@@subtomypage it's means friendly fight

    • @xrated2k3
      @xrated2k3 Рік тому +5

      ​@@breakupgoogle4668 basically means a "friendly" fight , like sparring

    • @daybae7229
      @daybae7229 Рік тому

      @@xrated2k3bro said sparring 💀💀

  • @wanderfully4724
    @wanderfully4724 Рік тому +128

    She is not gonna get off the streets if she keep waiting for someone to do it for her. I don’t blame her family they are done until she is committed to fixing herself. It’s pretty obvious “kicking it” is her top priority. So sad.. so many excuses to stay on the drugs 😢 I hope she finds accountability and strength to get better before it’s too late.

    • @ministryofpeacekmk
      @ministryofpeacekmk Рік тому +6

    • @OrangeHeadTM
      @OrangeHeadTM Рік тому

      Shes looking for someone to give her guidance and support, not a whole new life. Are you an NPC?

    • @krismck6872
      @krismck6872 Рік тому +2

      Drug addiction is brutal, it warps the brain and mind….she’s suffering.

    • @carlos66965
      @carlos66965 Рік тому +1

      Except if you're real family, you are never done. Tough love is just an excuse to be an acceptable level of cruel.

    • @wanderfully4724
      @wanderfully4724 Рік тому

      @@carlos66965 family cannot help someone that doesn’t want to be helped. Until fixing herself is her top priority then a family can be done.. to save themselves.

  • @Ms.Ramellibaby
    @Ms.Ramellibaby Рік тому +25

    She needs to wake up and stop blaming others for her choices. Only she can make her life better, no one else, she just has to want it. Take a step back and take a hard look at yourself. You can do this! Go to the shelter, it shouldn't matter if they are all women. Suck it up and get the help you you need for that baby coming.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому

      shesretortearded and this interview is why she love white men mark gave her 100 this interview just fed into her addiction more and mark a simp we know she didnt have to do anything now if she did do mark then instead of 100 she get 250 and a phone lolol

  • @OfftheRecord2021
    @OfftheRecord2021 Рік тому +11

    Sharing personal stories of addiction takes courage and strength, and Arianna's interview sheds light on the harsh realities of crystal meth addiction and the importance of seeking help.

  • @davecaldwell445
    @davecaldwell445 Рік тому +48

    This kind of went off the rails. You are the only person who can fix you, Adrianna. Get to it.

  • @markszawlowski867
    @markszawlowski867 Рік тому +51

    29 is too old to be this clueless. She's not ready to kick the monkey. Good fortune to her.

    • @PrimateProductions
      @PrimateProductions Рік тому +8

      Yep..I was surprised she is 29..she sounded 15 or 16...exactly the same mentality

    • @ferguson8143
      @ferguson8143 Рік тому +9

      ​@@PrimateProductions yeah I noticed that most people that start drugs young and dont stop seem to get mentally stuck at that age no matter how old they get in life

    • @ministryofpeacekmk
      @ministryofpeacekmk Рік тому

      ​@@ferguson8143 ✔

    • @debbiebasche5337
      @debbiebasche5337 Рік тому +1

      So true.. with her experience on the streets she should be wise beyond her yrs...isn't like she's been sheltered and unaware of the ways of the world 🌎 ...

  • @Sobermamma86
    @Sobermamma86 Рік тому +89

    I'm not gonna sit and judge her I'm just so happy to hear she's still pushing I wish you sobriety and happiness Arianna you can do this don't let anyone tell you other wise you have my support ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @plutoplatters
      @plutoplatters Рік тому +3

      Everyone ever born (judges) It comes from seeing things happen over and over....annnnnnnnnd over. Sometimes you can be wrong. Other times correct.

    • @Sobermamma86
      @Sobermamma86 Рік тому +1

      @plutoplatters I'm not talking about those kind of judgemental people I'm talking about the Karen's and the Steve's lol

    • @aspartamekillsyaknow9019
      @aspartamekillsyaknow9019 Рік тому +3

      I'll go ahead and judge her then, I'm not shy

    • @Sobermamma86
      @Sobermamma86 Рік тому +1

      @Aspartame Kills, ya know? go ahead that's your right I only said what I feel

    • @seansullivan7928
      @seansullivan7928 Рік тому +6

      Angie why dont you go help her, give her a meal and a place to sleep. In the morning come vack and see that she called her cronies to come and rob you blind. Everything she says is a lie, shes giving a sob story to make us feel sorry for us so she can get something out of it.

  • @wakingohiomama9110
    @wakingohiomama9110 Рік тому +40

    This is just sad. She is so gorgeous but cannot get her stuff together. She's deflecting 100%. No rehab tells you to have 2 day's clean before you can be admitted . She is full of stories from a painful past. Praying for her.

    • @UnseenOct
      @UnseenOct Рік тому +8

      There are some more sober living type of places that do. They're not rehabs though, more so halfway houses that offer therapy and boarding but aren't equipped to take care of people in active withdrawals

    • @lanaatkins3872
      @lanaatkins3872 Рік тому +4

      There are LOTS of places that you have to go to a detox before you go to the treatment site. Detoxes are some of the worst places out there, from the staff to the other addicts in there so I don't really blame her for this.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому +3

      defintely not geourgous

    • @wakingohiomama9110
      @wakingohiomama9110 Рік тому +1

      @@UnseenOct sober living is always a good place to go after rehab for sure.

    • @wakingohiomama9110
      @wakingohiomama9110 Рік тому

      @@DamianWilkins-kp4ww lol Thank you that was nice!

  • @RobertRagland-bj6wz
    @RobertRagland-bj6wz Рік тому +5

    Dang..This girl has so much more to offer to the world..She's in really bad situation and it's sucked her life into that web..I'm rooting for this one and pray somebody enters her life that provides a chance for her to do better..Good luck to her..

  • @keirasmith5706
    @keirasmith5706 Рік тому +12

    I’m glad a follow up was done. Thanks Mark.

  • @2010davian
    @2010davian Рік тому +8

    I always wondered what happened to her since her last interview… was hoping you would interview her. Sad to see she is still struggling even worse than before … I hope she takes her life seriously

  • @jessicasteuer8921
    @jessicasteuer8921 Рік тому +40

    I know this is mean, but I don't believe anything this one says. She wants sympathy.

    • @bubblesangel555
      @bubblesangel555 Рік тому +5

      And a hand out!

    • @tomdadon756
      @tomdadon756 Рік тому +2

      Not wanting a hand up but a hand out?

    • @albertomedina4294
      @albertomedina4294 Рік тому +1

      @Jessica Steuer Hey, how so you feel like you don't believe her

    • @albertomedina4294
      @albertomedina4294 Рік тому +1

      @Jessica Steuer how's Canada nowadays?

    • @jessicasteuer8921
      @jessicasteuer8921 Рік тому +3

      @Alberto Medina I just get the vibe she has never had any responsibility and is never accountable for her awful behaviour. And Canada is great! Spring is full tilt here and it is beautiful.

  • @Nicthatsit
    @Nicthatsit Рік тому +11

    Thank goodness for the people in the comments who can really see that she needs help and love like we all do

  • @katelynnrossi
    @katelynnrossi Рік тому +18

    Girl you can do this. Each day you wake up is a new day. You need to know you have the strength to make your dreams come true. Make a plan and take each day at a time. And if you slip get up and start again.

  • @AnaFernandez-jp5uh
    @AnaFernandez-jp5uh 7 місяців тому +4

    This is a different Adrianne than last time. I see all these comments and it is evident that people do not understand addiction and how hard it is to get out of homelessness. She did not get a good start in life to begin with.

  • @jaimelovemac88
    @jaimelovemac88 Рік тому +32

    What???? You called your auntie and "tricked" her that you were dead? And you wonder why your family is all done putting up with your shit? My heart hurts for what your poor auntie had to go thru when you did that to her. 😢

    • @errorASMR
      @errorASMR Рік тому +3

      pretty messed up

    • @jaimelovemac88
      @jaimelovemac88 Рік тому +5

      @@errorASMR or like my son says, "That's meth'd up." 😉

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому

      she admitted to stealn from a guy and then returing he aint even know she defintely steals from anybody family included and lies tooo they go hand n hand . this real reason she get beat shes that type that will smoke for free or cheap then wonder why she smoken 30 bucks of dope for 5 bucks but dont wanna give head or puseeee so she get beat shes no victim

  • @maricalane2242
    @maricalane2242 Рік тому +64

    She’s impossible. No change will come to her without her ownership of her life.

    • @LM-dl3yx
      @LM-dl3yx Рік тому +8

      Yep. Not feeling sorry for someone who does not want to get sober and change their behavior. I grew up around this crap my entire youth. I've heard sob stories on repeat. They all cry so much!!! It's all bull💩
      She needs God! God wants her to get sober and change her behavior! Period!

    • @benkurtz1773
      @benkurtz1773 Рік тому +1

      Agreed, Our father in heaven gave us all free will and this is what she is choosing to do with her free will. Nothing will change unless she wants to stop listening to the dark spirits and sin no more. If she doesn't like skid row then she definitely not enjoy hell, and once you are in hell away from Gods presence there is no more 2nd chance. And the smoke of her torment will rise night and day along with weeping and nashing of teeth

  • @Clymers1984
    @Clymers1984 Рік тому +42

    March 20, 2023 - Was my 24 years of being clean from methamphetamines. I draw strength from my higher power Jesus Christ to make the decisions that have gotten me this far! “Using is no longer an option for me” Life is so much better without it!! 🙏🏼

  • @therealelgwapo
    @therealelgwapo Рік тому +10

    Get your priorities straight. Instead of looking for a baby daddy, look for a job. Attend as many "Alcoholics anonymous/Narcotics anonymous" meetings as you can. Stabilize your mind, Get yourself healthy. Surround yourself with healthy people Instead of hanging out with the same junkies... see people play the "victim" role way too much. Self discipline doesn't seem to matter much but it's so important. I hope this girl matures into a woman cause she talks a good talk, but the actions don't speak too loud. I honestly pray for you and that baby. Good luck.

  • @TheEverydayShopperReview
    @TheEverydayShopperReview Рік тому +7

    Take responsibility and learn. Stop putting this on other people. Stop saying you’re the prettiest thing out there, your looks don’t have anything to do with going into a program. Take responsibility and you will flourish and your family will take you back. Bet!

  • @D-Rizzle653
    @D-Rizzle653 Рік тому +5

    I was wondering bout this girl.. her last interview she said she was pregnant last time, she was saying she was having sex with enemies from different hoods and she said her hood was looking for her to kill her.she seems a lot more mature now since last time. Kinda good to see her still alive, I hope she is alright.

  • @tinyblonde
    @tinyblonde Рік тому +55

    Such a beautiful strong woman. There’s a lot of entitlement and ego peeking through so much of what she says. A lot of blaming others.. no one will hand you an apartment, or job, it’s absurd to expect that. Seems like she’s expecting food and smoke to be given to her from people. You don’t want to be that person who comes around and everyone’s thinking “oh heres the chick that’s gonna be asking for stuff”. It’s so important to be able to take care of yourself, even as an addict. helping someone with the same things over and over will turn into a burden for those helping you when you’re making no improvement. People’s generosity can only go so far before you need to put in some effort yourself. I hope she is safe and happy, I know it’s hard out there.

    • @roxannemoser
      @roxannemoser Рік тому +1

      A whole diatribe of insults only to say you hope she's happy.

    • @RustyEast
      @RustyEast Рік тому +7

      It seems pretty accurate

    • @ericqualley6764
      @ericqualley6764 Рік тому +6

      @@roxannemosertelling someone to rely on themselves and take responsibility isn’t really an insult. It’s a problem that people think that it is.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому

      simps like mark hand them that its y she like white men he will pay her 100 for this and get nothn in return

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому

      @@ItsSauIGoodman glad some of us smart add what u say to what she said about likeing white men and marks history with people like rebecca its an easy 100 and phone for this girl in video and she knows mark easy wont want sex but if she do sex she probably will get 250 and a phone

  • @PinkQB
    @PinkQB Рік тому +12

    Some people create their own drama and thrive off of being viewed as a victim. We have to love ourselves enough to boost ourselves up, that is our job solely to do that. We can't always applaud and cheer for what isn't applaudable.

  • @tboneito
    @tboneito Рік тому +16

    She’s not ready to get sober..

  • @blueblissification
    @blueblissification Рік тому +10

    The baby. My whole heart goes out to that poor unborn baby that didn't ask for any of this and will be affected for its entire life.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому +1

      that kid has no hope any woman that say the are going to still use and she dont care if itsretortttearded horrible no shot at life

  • @greysoul8109
    @greysoul8109 Рік тому +3

    I re watched her first interview so many times in the past. Looked it up today and just stumbled upon this video, so happy to see she's not dead or in jail

  • @bestkksser
    @bestkksser Рік тому +32

    If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸

    • @terrylucas630
      @terrylucas630 Рік тому +3

      Don’t let a bad yesterday ruin a great today. I hope this reaches you and those you love in great health and happiness🙏❤️🫡

    • @anamericanprayer1967
      @anamericanprayer1967 Рік тому +3

      Thank you for writing this … I am grateful to be alive.

  • @micahhayes8770
    @micahhayes8770 Рік тому +4

    Everybody is saying she is blaming others but I see through it as a cry for help in which she is asking for guidance.

  • @anamericanprayer1967
    @anamericanprayer1967 Рік тому +39

    “I use to be a very nice girl” she said.
    You still are… sweet young lady.
    GET OFF the poison & use your hellish experience as a way to help others.
    What is wrong with structure? Chaos is addictive ❤

    • @SwissCheese112
      @SwissCheese112 Рік тому +1

      their reality reflects their minds. nuts

  • @guycalgary7800
    @guycalgary7800 Рік тому +42

    A "sad story" grifter . She is a total energy vampire.

  • @breana4132
    @breana4132 Рік тому +3

    She's the first interview I came across on SWU and she is why I'm still hooked today.

    • @AriannaMedina-uq2uf
      @AriannaMedina-uq2uf Рік тому

      Don't blame me for your addiction I don't even know YOU!! find a better excuse don't try to use me as one YOU GOT SOME NERVE

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS Рік тому +7

    when she talked about the way her bd comes at her so negatively about her addiction instead of in a more positive, encouraging way, I knew exactly what she was talking about.
    Where I am no where near her situation or ever been, there was a time i struggled greatly with the direction my life was going and I always wished my loved ones would speak positively, bring up my positive qualities, what’s great and lovable about me and build me up overall instead of using constant negative language and only pointing out my flaws and what I’m doing wrong.
    Not everyone is a “I want to prove ppl wrong” type of person. Some ppl it makes us more and more depressed and feel more helpless. You can build someone up without agreeing with everything they do and every choice they make. Positive language can potentially transform someone’s outlook and life.
    I ended up being fine and figuring it out on my own but I now always try to use positive language when ppl who are going through something talk to me about it. Always bring up their strengths instead of their weaknesses and get them to lean into those instead of focus on what they lack. When someone is already in a slump and depressive mindset the last thing they need is to be reminded of all their faults and flaws.
    TRUST ME they already know!!! & beat themselves up over it 24/7

    • @Missstrish
      @Missstrish Рік тому +1

      But look at you!! You made it you picked your ass up and got it together she needs to do the same. Hanging with Jose on Skid Row is not the way. Skid row is rough for those that have never seen it. IMO San Francisco tenderloin is way worse but it’s bad in skid row

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Рік тому

      @@Missstrish which women look better?.

  • @zamiadams4343
    @zamiadams4343 Рік тому +43

    I live in the UK and haven't tried meth but I was a speed freak in my younger years and the main reason I took it was the sex and sexual feelings it gave me. There is really nothing else that comes close, i'm 48 and don't touch anything anymore but I understand where these young people are coming from.

    • @ferguson8143
      @ferguson8143 Рік тому +7

      Here speed is slang for meth then you have ice and at the very bottom you have some bathtub dope called anhydrous

    • @Milkyway109
      @Milkyway109 Рік тому +4

      It was great 30 years ago

    • @Milkyway109
      @Milkyway109 Рік тому +3

      Doves and mitsubishis too lol

    • @ferguson8143
      @ferguson8143 Рік тому +3

      @@Milkyway109 what form did you use it in as in smoked or snort or in a pill form

    • @sgrfpprmnt
      @sgrfpprmnt Рік тому

      Crystal meth is much better than speed for sex.

  • @blazintrails3023
    @blazintrails3023 Рік тому +14

    Nothing is her fault yet she decided to get soldier tatted across the chest. That kinda destroys the whole victim claim

  • @sirussid3671
    @sirussid3671 Рік тому +4

    I had to stop watching these videos lately, to be✨ candid they get me 💤depressed‼️

    • @peacelily64
      @peacelily64 Рік тому

      Some interviews really touch me and others make me think this person is just playing a victim and could help themselves they just playing the victim card and identify with their addiction that it gets them attention from staying high .. then I feel like judgmental person 😢

  • @seefeelsixtynine
    @seefeelsixtynine Рік тому +47

    it almost sounds like she only came back on here to hustle for more money from gofundme etc

    • @PrimateProductions
      @PrimateProductions Рік тому +9

      Yep

    • @bad3032
      @bad3032 Рік тому +1

      Agreed, she just wants "support". Probably not even pregnant.

    • @myb4208
      @myb4208 Рік тому +4

      if she did, this interview did the exact opposite effect of what she wanted.

    • @memmade4600
      @memmade4600 Рік тому

      this ho cant be trusted

    • @ScrappyBoy626
      @ScrappyBoy626 Рік тому +1

      It’s not even from Gofund me I’m sure mark shoots them a few bucks to get on here.$100-$200 if that to do an interview

  • @EDYN15
    @EDYN15 Рік тому +3

    Your 1st baby daddy is the only one that really loves you. That's why he pushes you to get clean.

  • @DrCielo1
    @DrCielo1 Рік тому +18

    She is a mess. She sees herself as a victim. She is using her pregnancy as a tool for more pitiness, not really concerned for her baby. Poor child not a bright future with this parenting.

    • @aryehalice
      @aryehalice 4 місяці тому

      She's a victim of child abuse and neglect! Abuse is all she knows

  • @IamCareyann
    @IamCareyann Рік тому +12

    Wow, she thinks its funny to call her family and have them believe shes dead... wtf does that with out feelings and then thinks its funny?!?
    I just cant have empathy for a person with this type of attitude

    • @PinkQB
      @PinkQB Рік тому

      Same

    • @luciddreamwalking4203
      @luciddreamwalking4203 Рік тому

      Hurt people like to hurt people. But yes, this is the dirtiest thing that you can say to a family member. It's like crying wolf. When she really needs them I'm sure they will be hesitant if offer help at all. Burnt bridge... 😢

  • @bruiz5240
    @bruiz5240 Рік тому +9

    She hasn't changed

  • @pamkuhn4124
    @pamkuhn4124 Рік тому +2

    If possible please try to keep up with this girl. I watched the 1st interview with her and I would love to keephearing from her.

  • @N0LAB3L
    @N0LAB3L Рік тому +4

    For educational purposes you have to stay in a rehab for 6 months minimum so the drugs can fully dissipate from your brain. It takes that long. After that I'd suggest staying 3 more months to fully adjust. That's what I did.

    • @poppymiller3156
      @poppymiller3156 Рік тому

      I agree. She says she can’t control her crying. It is funny once you are sober there is a lot less waterworks. You finally take charge of your emotions and the tears dont come as easy.

    • @N0LAB3L
      @N0LAB3L Рік тому

      Crying Is a good thing that's not my point I expect feelings when listening about this kind of stuff. I'm sorry you miss interpreted my words. I'll do better moving forward

  • @sandife4nandes365
    @sandife4nandes365 Рік тому +28

    I remember her first interview where she was pregnant. I'm so glad she is still alive.

    • @Osuna11
      @Osuna11 Рік тому +8

      What happened with the baby?

    • @heatherh.197
      @heatherh.197 Рік тому +1

      🤷‍♀️

    • @liliristagno7061
      @liliristagno7061 Рік тому +1

      Why

    • @GiGiM-1114
      @GiGiM-1114 Рік тому +2

      @@Osuna11 I believe she stated the father has the child.

    • @sandife4nandes365
      @sandife4nandes365 Рік тому +1

      @@Osuna11 her baby's daddy is raising the child. She can't be with them unless she's goes to rehab. That's what she says in this interview.

  • @faithhoperecovery
    @faithhoperecovery Рік тому +2

    Watch the first video
    You'll understand. You'll see the difference. Think she's immature in this? No, watch the first.

  • @Mines22
    @Mines22 Рік тому +6

    (Arianna) Regardless of any and all the negative comments or whatever I truly wish the best for you Arianna you are a strong woman deep inside in fact for talking about suicide and you are still here really means a lot. Reach out and speak to God have faith create a better path and stay away from negativety as much as possible understand you are here for a reason and can do anything possible to be a beautiful woman for yourself trust in yourself more do more things right be positive find better friends and different people to associate with or just to talk to evil is everywhere but be strong you got this. 🙏💪👍🙌😇

  • @maryalbert6138
    @maryalbert6138 Рік тому +6

    What would it take to put down the drugs?? You’re pregnant what about the baby????

  • @venetia6296
    @venetia6296 Рік тому +12

    Why get pregnant?
    “No glove no love” Arianna

  • @maureent8653
    @maureent8653 Рік тому +7

    Stop getting pregnant!! Poor kids are the ones who suffer…

    • @myb4208
      @myb4208 Рік тому +2

      they don’t give a fuck. They just care about their next fix. Especially her.

  • @ronarmitagejr8758
    @ronarmitagejr8758 Рік тому +16

    Never judge. Bless her beautiful heart.

    • @ronarmitagejr8758
      @ronarmitagejr8758 Рік тому

      @Jackie Only God Judges Jackie. That isn't our job mam.

  • @starfire8593
    @starfire8593 Рік тому +10

    The only way someone gets sober is because they truly want to. Programs are helpful because they teach you how to stay clean and how to live life sober. God is a must. You need a higher power to surrender to and to draw strength from. I pray for all those still suffering in addiction that they would become willing to stop and break free. ❤

  • @anthonynunez9173
    @anthonynunez9173 Рік тому +3

    Damn, I'm glad to see she's still alive! She looks alot better but she's still smoking. I really hope she continues to better her situation. 🙏🏼

  • @illuzn_
    @illuzn_ Рік тому +1

    to think u were in my city of Sun Valley is mind boggling! i know every place u mentioned…
    rooting 4 u Arianna!!! 💪🏾💖

  • @revinmt
    @revinmt Місяць тому +1

    She relocated since her last interview and went to Arizona or somewhere and started working at Burger King. She seemed to be doing better but she is back... She is extremely sad compared to her first interview... she said it herself in this interview "it's not funny anymore."

  • @crys2classy
    @crys2classy Рік тому +12

    People really have to have the mind set of helping themselves first…you gotta meet the help that you desire halfway….

  • @Alexandria250
    @Alexandria250 Рік тому +4

    Wow she’s like a completely different person from her 1st interview! She was acting so tough and intense in the first one. She’s way more mellow and softer speaking here 😨

    • @SwissCheese112
      @SwissCheese112 Рік тому +1

      she is mental...these people arent consistent lmao

  • @xoxoxok
    @xoxoxok Рік тому +22

    Awww she was prego last time. Her first interview had me obsessed especially when she farted and she goes "shots fired" hilarious lady. Her heart looks broken like a piece of her is lost.

  • @gracehall9199
    @gracehall9199 Рік тому +2

    Unfortunately you can’t have expensive things living on the streets. I hope this dude man’s up and takes care of his responsibility. Best of luck to you and hopefully you’re able to clean you during and with this pregnancy.

  • @jessicajennifer9827
    @jessicajennifer9827 3 місяці тому +2

    So she's pregnant 🤰 AGAIN?? wasn't she in her first interview as well??!! And the cycle continues

  • @lesliebates2108
    @lesliebates2108 Рік тому +26

    She has to take responsibility for her own choices. She'll grow and learn.

    • @DigitalNomadOnFIRE
      @DigitalNomadOnFIRE Рік тому

      Has to? Most people don't.
      Also remember, we all make mistakes and could all end-up there somehow.
      We should all take responsibility though yeah.

    • @SlumpTia
      @SlumpTia Рік тому +7

      @@DigitalNomadOnFIRE what even what was your point in ur comment?
      talking a whole lotta nothin

    • @denovo3949
      @denovo3949 Рік тому

      Everyone does

    • @anamericanprayer1967
      @anamericanprayer1967 Рік тому +1

      The BRUTAL reality - she is pregnant. Addiction is a cunning disease. I have hope. No one is so far gone; they can’t get back up. Miracles happen.

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 Рік тому +1

      @@DigitalNomadOnFIRE
      Yes! "Has to"
      Have you ever had to, yourself?

  • @fi-mynameis2639
    @fi-mynameis2639 Рік тому +3

    This breaks my heart... There's so much suffering in this world.

  • @imalright2837
    @imalright2837 Рік тому +9

    “No glove no love”…. And yet you have another child on the way

  • @Dp-dx3zu
    @Dp-dx3zu Рік тому +16

    We all just need each other and we are all just too stupid to realize it.

    • @donacatanguma
      @donacatanguma Рік тому +1

      Best comment in the entire thread.
      ☮️❤️🌞💪🏻💪💪🏽💪🏿

    • @Dp-dx3zu
      @Dp-dx3zu Рік тому +2

      @@jacobus57 you are apart of the problem, she needs people like you! That can give structure! Peer accountability, she’s obviously trying.

  • @kevinledford8260
    @kevinledford8260 Рік тому +20

    she dont want a program, just a hotel or an apartment? Dont we all

    • @Ryan-si2gu
      @Ryan-si2gu Рік тому +2

      Nice observation Kevin , you seem so smart..

    • @kevinledford8260
      @kevinledford8260 Рік тому +4

      @@Ryan-si2guQuit school 3rd grade, got my license, and started teaching kindergarten all in the same year

    • @Ryan-si2gu
      @Ryan-si2gu Рік тому

      @@kevinledford8260 great you want a cookie or something? Congrats azzwipe

  • @kimwood1274
    @kimwood1274 Рік тому +3

    She was given guidance, support, love and help for over 2 years from me and others in the circle! She wanted no part of motherhood when she was clean! She is doing this video for sympathy and the $200 they give her for doing this video. Many good people tried to help. She doesn't really want it. She has been in and out of rehab many times to no avail. She needs to put on some big girl panties and grow up and stop looking for anybody/everybody else to support her and her habit.

  • @BeeKay4444
    @BeeKay4444 Рік тому +4

    Arianna if you see this please know you deserve good things honey. I am saddened that your family would be so cold but playing games about you being gone is not cool at all. As a mom this would upset me too. Stay away from all those bangers and give this baby a chance. Please get sober and look after this baby. Sending you ❤️

  • @jackierosado1777
    @jackierosado1777 Рік тому +16

    Bringing another child to this world 🤦‍♀️🥺😥

  • @liliristagno7061
    @liliristagno7061 Рік тому +11

    We're supporting that kid, so yeah...we do get to judge.

  • @Gram72534
    @Gram72534 Рік тому +13

    Yeah im pregnant again, but when i do have sex, it's "no glove no love".?.?.?

    • @Rochelle721
      @Rochelle721 Рік тому +1

      💀 Strappity strap it like a g*n!!
      #YouareNOTthefather
      😂

    • @Gram72534
      @Gram72534 Рік тому +1

      @@Rochelle721 lol, sorry Mama I know I should be a nice boy, but this 1 was hard to watch!!! Have a great day my friend!!!

    • @Rochelle721
      @Rochelle721 Рік тому +1

      @@Gram72534 You’re always nice 😉 I hope your day is a good one too, thanks love 😎

  • @Rochelle721
    @Rochelle721 Рік тому +10

    Good morning SWU crew! It is just after 3:00 a.m here in Stockton, California where it is currently a sweet 50°.✌🏽
    I’m @ the 9 min mark & wont be able to finish this one. There’s no reasoning & I feel so disoriented from confusion 🤦🏽‍♀️
    Good groovy vibes & mad love, fam! 💚

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 Рік тому

      🤟❤💯%
      How ya doin!?!?
      I'm a bit late tuning in today, it's been a Hell of a Monday morning😭
      But it's getting better! Much love, Rochelle, from West Atl😁

  • @a.wanderer5006
    @a.wanderer5006 Рік тому +5

    Do whatever you want, party til sunrise everyday but don't have kids!!!! How many time do i have to say it? But now that you are, get your shit tight, homegirl. Listen to abuelita ahorita.

  • @agirly1503
    @agirly1503 Рік тому +1

    I barely recognized her! She makes a little more sense now. Good luck Ma'am 👍 💓

  • @lisahinkhouse6903
    @lisahinkhouse6903 4 місяці тому +3

    Idk, 29 yrs old? Time to grow up.

  • @dnf7778
    @dnf7778 Рік тому +3

    What a scary place to have to live in (skid row ) . I live in Canada and can't imagine treating a women like this. What a cold world. Try and get outta that snake pit and off the drugs because there are decent people out there. I wish you well Arianna, you seem like a nice person

  • @darrylblake9680
    @darrylblake9680 Рік тому +3

    I think she has have more pressing concerns than worrying about government conspiracies.

  • @poppymiller3156
    @poppymiller3156 Рік тому +4

    You know these men that you “kick” it with are after a piece. You cannot be that naive. I know you can get out of this lifestyle. I did. I was never homeless but recklessly ran the streets with unsavory people. It’s dangerous. You will suffer the consequences if you do not get outta there. Wish you luck honey. Life can be better!!❤

  • @adrienneaguayo8364
    @adrienneaguayo8364 Рік тому +2

    Is there some way I can get in contact with her?
    I used to work in a treatment center where she was for a while. I'd like to see if there's some way I can help her..
    She is such a sweet girl. She has a beautiful heart. She just needs help and someone to believe in her.
    If you see this Ariana I want you to know that I'm praying for you. I've never stopped.

  • @evac422
    @evac422 Рік тому +1

    "Arianna la chikis del barrio" as she said before. I was waiting for this interview for a long time, wishing her the best . Sometimes we fail to see that regardless of someone´s decisions they -we- need to learn from experience and it may take longer for some of us, in her case -as it was in mine- she needs to understand that the family rejection that she is facing might be caused because they either don't know how to handle the issue or they are trying to help her by letting her alone, in any case we need to find that love and support in some other instances. Much love to her and her growing process and much love and my best wishes for the babies she might be having (it is a cruel world and even when it seems that some are better "trained" to be parents we are not the ones to interfere on those decisions, sadly).

  • @Johnny-wo4jn
    @Johnny-wo4jn Рік тому +3

    Dude, she needs to go to jail and save that baby

  • @marlismueller4496
    @marlismueller4496 Рік тому +12

    @Mark: What happens to all these people that you interview? I have watched so many Interviews that touched my heart and I am always wondering: Did they get any help? Are they still alive??? All of these poor souls, traumatized people, victims of abuse... I cannot help them because of various personal reasons. Do you try to stay in touch with your interview partners, Mark? I suppose you do.

    • @714christina
      @714christina Рік тому

      He's not a baby sitter 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @stephxrosee
    @stephxrosee Рік тому +4

    sometimes it’s really hard to stay in peoples lives who have issues with drugs and this lifestyle. they’re addicted to this life, they like the rush, they know they’re f**ing up, but they’re so addicted that the rush means so much more than what they’re messing up. i don’t doubt that she’s loved & i don’t doubt that she can be a good person but i also don’t doubt that their have been nice people willing to help her or extend a hand and she fumbled it. you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. as much as she may preach that she needs support and that support and a plan is what she needs, her willingness to fully ingulf herself into those positive actions & lifestyle will depend on her and chances are, she won’t be willing to make that drastic change. baby or no baby.

  • @malavikamuraleedharan8720
    @malavikamuraleedharan8720 Рік тому +3

    Omg !! She is back 😮