8 Best Ways To Speak With People You Can't Stand
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- Опубліковано 13 лип 2024
- We all meet people who have strong opinions and lack critical thinking. This video will teach you 8 techniques how to better handle these situations and how not to escalate them. These techniques are suggested by critical thinking expert Peter Boghossian in his book written together with James Lindsay called How To Have Impossible Conversations: A Very Practical Guide where he explains various what to do's and not to do's in a conversation with a person who lacks critical thinking abilities or has an opposing opinion.
00:00 Intro
00:43 Technique #1
01:17 Technique #2
02:45 Technique #3
03:20 Technique #4
04:20 Technique #5
05:04 Technique #6
06:22 Technique #7
07:23 Technique #8
08:40 Conclusion
For years I used to have a lack of critical thinking myself. I used to believe many things which had little evidence or truth behind them. These beliefs led me to decisions which did not turn out to my favor. Eventually I discovered critical thinking and changed my life for the better. Now I choose what I believe in with much more care. Make better, more informed decisions and enjoy the results. Yet it doesn’t take much time to see that many people still fail to separate true information from false. That’s why I created the Practical Critical Thinkers channel.
If you are looking for a critical thinking channel - look no more and let's create a culture of practical thinking together!
Watch these videos to learn how to apply critical thinking in mastery of skills, profession and yourself:
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This great but at the heat of the moment, it's tricky to maintain 😅😅
Haha, I agree with you 100%! 😂 It does become easier with practice though I find :) And just keeping it in mind already helps too. It actually reminds me of my martial arts/Brazilian Jiu Jitsu training: at the beginning someone beats me with some move and I don't even have a clue how they did it. I then get to know the move, what it is and how it works. Next series of times I get beaten by the same move again, but this time I recognize - "oh, it was that move!:. Later on I start noticing a few seconds just before I get beaten: "Oh, I'm about to be caught by this movement!" and then eventually I start to notice it early enough to start working on preventing it :)
I think this is similar. You first notice yourself failing, but at least you notice! Then you can start to notice earlier, until eventually you are early enough to change on the stop and prevent it, until it eventually starts to become more natural.
@@Rokasleo preparing a mindset of trial and error... interesting 🧐😇when leave home more often, might as well try
@@lenel2926 Awesome! I am actually a big fan of trial and error, learn through deliberate failure. Did you by any chance watch this video that I've made about it? ua-cam.com/video/YRr1U0tsiPA/v-deo.html
@@Rokasleo sure did...I was wondering how do comedians hone their skills and experience if they most of the time are doing tours
Edit: LoL, thanks for the heart🤲🏾
@@lenel2926 That's a good question. I would be guessing that maybe they do a tour once in a while, like rock bands and then spend the rest of the time preparing... Honestly though, not my field, so I don't know 😁 But the story was really inspiring :)
Without being "rude" how do you stop someone from talking too much please?
Awesome video! I make simular content. Would be great to get your feedback
Whe don't live on a sphere or oblate spheroid.
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@@Rokasleo Go here right now if you have the guts ua-cam.com/video/KQrJPUaVcDs/v-deo.html
welp, that sudden change of style not the best idea, i thought that this channel just get hacked
Haha 😁 Yeah, I get what you are saying. It's a bit of my nature to make sudden changes (sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse). I'm planning to give more explanation of what's happening as I go, instead of the other way around 😁 Sorry about that