The Cooperation Paradigm: How to Get People to Listen & Cooperate | Janine Driver | TEDxWilmington

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2017
  • In this talk Janine discusses strategies to gain agreement and cooperation with others - even in difficult situations. JANINE DRIVER is the CEO of the Body Language Institute,
    the NY Times Best-Selling author of YOU SAY MORE THAN
    YOU THINK, an international trainer, an award-winning
    keynote speaker, and a retired ATF Investigator.
    Janine attained rank #1 in the «Inspiration» category in the
    World’s Top 30 Body Language Professionals for 2017. In
    2015, Janine was named one of the top twenty educational
    trendsetters in the meetings industry by Meetings Today
    Magazine. Janine is a popular media guest on NBC’s
    TODAY, Harry Connick Jr›s show called HARRY, Steve Harvey
    Show, CNN Morning Show,and more. She has been quoted
    in publications, such as the New York Times, the Washington
    Post, and Cosmopolitan.
    Janine›s corporate clients include companies such as
    Proctor & Gamble, Lockheed Martin, ADP, KRONOS,
    Charles Schwab, Prudential, Remax, and YPO. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @alabamajenny8751
    @alabamajenny8751 4 роки тому +16

    I wish I had a TED talk with Janine every single day. I am just in awe of her relatability. She was created to lead. Thank you Janine. You are the real MVP!

  • @thinkoutsidetherock
    @thinkoutsidetherock 4 роки тому +57

    you are an amazing speaker. I can't believe I never heard you before - April 5, 2020 is the day I discovered Janine Driver. This is the fifth of your videos I have watched and you leave me in tears, cheers, and YES! I love your passion and your sensitivity.

    • @MindsetMom
      @MindsetMom 3 роки тому

      Same here. First time seeing her. I'm addicted. Watching Dec 2020.

    • @denasellsKC
      @denasellsKC 3 роки тому

      Ikr I just found her an hour ago. This is my 3rd video that I've found of hers. She is an excellent teacher and speaker.

    • @annaayoub551
      @annaayoub551 Рік тому

      Found her yesterday. Made me cry in every video. What an amazing woman!

  • @suneelewitzky6797
    @suneelewitzky6797 11 днів тому

    A mama in tears over here. Thank you for this and for sharing your stories. I am going to try this with my kiddos.

  • @jocelynstewart1186
    @jocelynstewart1186 3 роки тому +4

    thank you for being my teacher. a blessing to us all.......

  • @RudeBwoyKaban
    @RudeBwoyKaban 3 роки тому +5

    your passion is captivating
    ✓ I'm cooperative 100%
    Love & Gratitude
    Thank you 🕉️

  • @QCDoggies
    @QCDoggies 4 роки тому +21

    Janine's techniques are incredible, I'm watching all of them! Now I want to check out her books.

  • @nourhanahhamdy1425
    @nourhanahhamdy1425 4 роки тому +43

    i have just seen the body language video in 2019 n now i am tracing the rest of ur series without even noticing their topics !! Janine Driver is my new incredible name on my idols list !

    • @leah387
      @leah387 11 місяців тому

      Same. We just want MORE, Janine!!!

    • @leah387
      @leah387 11 місяців тому

      Even in 2022

  • @alabamajenny8751
    @alabamajenny8751 4 роки тому +2

    Ive actually spoken on phone with Jim Kavanaugh when I worked at our local police dept in Hoover AL. He is a superhero. But then, so are you Janine!

  • @leslibonanni6124
    @leslibonanni6124 3 роки тому +4

    Janine, I am obsessed with your videos! You deliver messages that are truly life changing, wise, authentic, and with just the right amount of humor to make it all fun to learn! What a gift to the world you are. Thank you immensely.

  • @dbroenen
    @dbroenen 4 роки тому +104

    Janine, the Like button is not good enough for this talk. I wish there was a LOVE button to click for you!

  • @debfebruary
    @debfebruary 3 роки тому +5

    Janine, you have a wonderful gift. You've taught us so much and I'm so grateful to you. Your emotion is your truth about what is most important. Thank you.

  • @lisafeck1537
    @lisafeck1537 4 роки тому +6

    I really like Janine Driver. I've watched 3 of her Ted talks, all good.

  • @miachevaisav2285
    @miachevaisav2285 4 роки тому +4

    One of, if not the best, talks I've ever heard.

  • @drummermomcjs
    @drummermomcjs 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you Janine for sharing this. Having watched several Ted talks featuring you, I must say that I appreciate this one the most. All of your talks are great, and useful, but as a mother I appreciate this one the most. I want to speak words that bring life to people, not fear, anger and sadness. I am eager to put the wisdom that you shared in this video to use with the people around me and no longer assign traits that I abhor but rather assign traits that build them up. Once again thank you for sharing.

  • @kellybarnes9434
    @kellybarnes9434 4 роки тому +15

    BEAUTIFUL! Thank you, Ms. Driver! I've only just "found" you today and am already A HUGE fan! Thanks so much!

  • @babybloo1818
    @babybloo1818 4 роки тому +40

    Janine is incredible! She's one of the best speakers I've ever seen! Thank you so much for this video!

  • @nspector
    @nspector 5 років тому +6

    Holy cow, Janine. I don't know if you look at these comments, since this isn't on your channel, but, damn, I'm glad I found you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • @chcamerica22
    @chcamerica22 4 роки тому +7

    Beautiful presentation, Janine, you are a smart intuitive woman and I thank you for sharing your wisdom. The answer to your unasked question is YES, you prevented many of us from going down a destructive path by showing us how to make intelligent choices. Job well done.

  • @barbievallot9146
    @barbievallot9146 4 роки тому +7

    Best Ted Talk Ever! Thank You!

  • @emiliana1767
    @emiliana1767 5 років тому +14

    How can you grip me emotionally within a second janine?! I instantly cried when you did, i felt your regret so much. And learned A LOT! thank you so much dear 🙏

    • @miachevaisav2285
      @miachevaisav2285 4 роки тому +1

      Ditto

    • @dudelmicha
      @dudelmicha 3 роки тому +2

      Yes, me too. It just triggered me instantly, burst in tears, made me searching in the comments for likewise people. I believe in you as a great mom!

  • @gnuman1841
    @gnuman1841 3 роки тому +3

    This talk, and Janine herself, is an amazing lesson/speaker and an amazing paradigm/communicator to learn from.

  • @michelleglowala2360
    @michelleglowala2360 4 роки тому +2

    Janine. You are a phenomenal leader and teacher. I just discovered your talks and I will look to purchase your books. Amazing.

  • @latinkeys1
    @latinkeys1 3 роки тому +2

    Incredibly awesome

  • @rememberyj
    @rememberyj 5 років тому +8

    so i have of course watched this again because its so awesome and i need repetition to integrate...and i had a thought. Angus didnt think you were mean on thanksgiving. which is beautiful. it also makes me think about how when we talk negatively to our kids they absorb it so easily they dont even remember it as trauma or abuse. omg big ah ha. we teach out kids what negative comments about them to accept as normal and believe.. :-( yikes thats huge. thanks SOOOO much for shifting my paradygm.

  • @musicfanmic
    @musicfanmic 5 років тому +17

    Beautiful Brilliant Bold. Thank you Janine! Thank you so much!

  • @kathleenreyes4345
    @kathleenreyes4345 4 роки тому +8

    Just beautiful Janine! Thank you for this talk!!

  • @florakoutouzakis9615
    @florakoutouzakis9615 4 роки тому +2

    I LOVE hearing you!

  • @digitalheartistry8018
    @digitalheartistry8018 3 роки тому +1

    Janine is Brilliant.

  • @staciwalters2065
    @staciwalters2065 6 років тому +7

    I was in the audience that day and Janine is amazing! You will laugh, cry and learn so much from her talks!

  • @chybrennafitch-minton7291
    @chybrennafitch-minton7291 3 роки тому +2

    Very good lesson!

  • @CrystalNibarger
    @CrystalNibarger 2 роки тому

    Someone in my life needs to watch this.

  • @asabove_sobelow_333
    @asabove_sobelow_333 4 роки тому +3

    What a Great talk. Thank you for your transparency & love.

  • @ItsaShortLyfe
    @ItsaShortLyfe Рік тому

    Jeanne Driver is a powerhouse. She provides people with the tools needed to navigate tough situations. Though I cannot promise you that you will WIN every time. I CAN PROMISE that you will be a better version of yourself. More aware, stronger, faster version of whoever you were before Jeanne blessed you!

  • @hydro58
    @hydro58 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you! This is a great life lesson. Thanks for your time and effort.

  • @scootydub
    @scootydub 4 роки тому +3

    This was fantastic!

  • @prepperjonpnw6482
    @prepperjonpnw6482 4 роки тому +3

    Another awesome video!
    This is the third video of yours I’ve watched all in a row lol
    Yes I’m about to search for more of your videos lol
    Cheers

  • @DrSantiagoHolyday
    @DrSantiagoHolyday 3 роки тому +2

    unbelievable! Amazing talk! I teared up and I never cry!

  • @greatape2522
    @greatape2522 3 роки тому +3

    Incredible! That really opened my eyes, thank you so much.

  • @digitalheartistry8018
    @digitalheartistry8018 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you.

  • @leahdamron2176
    @leahdamron2176 4 роки тому +3

    Damn it, I'm sick of this lady making me cry. The best ted talk EVER!

    • @annajeanblackburn240
      @annajeanblackburn240 3 роки тому

      I just found this yesterday and again right now...and am already awed. Do you happen to know What the T.E.D. stands for ?

  • @dorothybailey1789
    @dorothybailey1789 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for your talks Janine. You are a very inspiring speaker

  • @jenina247
    @jenina247 4 роки тому +3

    This is phenomenal!

  • @cintremblay9795
    @cintremblay9795 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you, you have no idea what you just unlocked for me. xxx

  • @vickydittfield9822
    @vickydittfield9822 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for inspiring me ! Phenomenal is the way to describe your gifts. I want to view everything you have written and spoken !I have a Solike Angus, too! He is my favorite of the gifts of life !

  • @yavrum22
    @yavrum22 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you 🙏

  • @rememberyj
    @rememberyj 5 років тому +22

    holy shite!! this is incredible. i cant thank you enought for sharing this. this should be taught to all new parents. should be a requirement. thanks you so much.

  • @jenniferhizzy6591
    @jenniferhizzy6591 4 роки тому +3

    I love this lady

  • @pieterlast4864
    @pieterlast4864 4 роки тому +3

    Wow Wow. You brought tears to my eyes. LOVE you. AWESOME job.

  • @carolinepuno8788
    @carolinepuno8788 2 роки тому

    You're darn good, Janine! Your mundane exchanges with your son are loaded with lessons to learn from a mom like me. Thank you.

  • @mike-yp1uk
    @mike-yp1uk 10 місяців тому

    I'm a big fan of Janine and she detects lies but she definitely speaks the truth. This content is so true

  • @toniques7
    @toniques7 4 роки тому +1

    She’s awesome! What she says is very practical and easy to use.

  • @ClearlyHinze
    @ClearlyHinze 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! You are an amazing speaker. I was moved and gained so much wisdom at the same time. Thank you so much for sharing yourself and what you know. It's helping me so much.

  • @theresagarcia6699
    @theresagarcia6699 10 місяців тому

    God bless you Janine I appreciate all you share with us 💕

  • @adefay7813
    @adefay7813 3 роки тому +3

    TED talks has made a significant impact in my life. I can't express my gratitude for the things I've learnt . Thank you so much.

  • @kathywinkler9802
    @kathywinkler9802 5 років тому +2

    Well done!! ........... I will remember this.......

  • @FuckingGodess
    @FuckingGodess 3 роки тому +1

    Janine I love you I get what you're doing you need to get our attention and all I understand you know how to create pathos bur srsly some of us are very sensitive and it's just too much. and again, love you.

  • @danareed2729
    @danareed2729 5 років тому +5

    I absolutely loved your talk.

  • @ozdigg9254
    @ozdigg9254 11 місяців тому

    Brilliant, thank you. Allow What and How, Say Bye to Why. Assign a positive trait to them. The real life situations you illustrate your talk with are very helpful. Thank you for your emotional honesty, Janine. All peace and strength to you. ❤ 🌹🌹🌹

  • @jenniferrumsey9887
    @jenniferrumsey9887 3 роки тому +2

    I wish this was taught to DCS workers.

  • @barbierimando8133
    @barbierimando8133 5 років тому +2

    thank you for sharing this video...i needed this...i just said things to my son this morning that I totally regret right now..i have to make it up to him when I will pick him up from school this afternoon keeping in mind what Janine said...

  • @MRS.SammeK
    @MRS.SammeK 3 роки тому

    Beyond wisdom. Parents are not perfect and love always matters. You are doing amazing. Doing it through anxiety. I did it the sand way. Thank you for pointing it out. These boys are amazing! They aren’t the norm! Sounds like my boy!

  • @sunflower-mr5nj
    @sunflower-mr5nj 5 років тому +7

    amazing!

  • @theblackroe8832
    @theblackroe8832 3 роки тому +2

    I love you jeanine

  • @wondafaith8621
    @wondafaith8621 4 роки тому +1

    Love your realness! Thank you.

  • @shaniroga
    @shaniroga 4 роки тому +1

    I Love, Love, Listening to this Lovely Woman!

  • @writerinfact1768
    @writerinfact1768 6 років тому +8

    Just wow! Thank you.

  • @JacquelynnFaye
    @JacquelynnFaye 10 місяців тому

    I needed this. 😭❤❤❤❤

  • @innerpeaceproject
    @innerpeaceproject 5 років тому +3

    Wow! Awesome presentation and valuable information.

  • @user-bo7wc8jo8x
    @user-bo7wc8jo8x 27 днів тому

    ❤❤ amazing speaker- useful for business or home ❤

  • @beyourselfbekind4371
    @beyourselfbekind4371 3 роки тому +1

    How and what!! Only questions to ask. Forget the why!

  • @2muchtalk173
    @2muchtalk173 2 роки тому

    Great Talk !! Love you Janine !!

  • @sabinewk625
    @sabinewk625 4 місяці тому

    🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼thank you !!

  • @sherikennedy4117
    @sherikennedy4117 3 роки тому +1

    you are fabulous.

  • @yeame1033
    @yeame1033 3 роки тому

    so relatable and easy to understand, you make us live your moments. Thank you for sharing,you are truly inspirational!

  • @pattymackey5467
    @pattymackey5467 2 роки тому

    Wow this is so good, thank you Janine!

  • @spbtch
    @spbtch 3 роки тому

    I LOVE this woman!!!

  • @kyleneeley9200
    @kyleneeley9200 5 років тому +2

    Thank you so much

  • @ouafieddinenaciri3783
    @ouafieddinenaciri3783 5 років тому +1

    Nice and Great Talk .. Thank you so much Janine

  • @pattyoreilly1097
    @pattyoreilly1097 6 років тому +4

    Amazing ... wish I heard this presentation years ago!

  • @alexisbarlow5148
    @alexisbarlow5148 3 роки тому

    I love this!!

  • @StasherDragon
    @StasherDragon 4 роки тому

    Didn't expect the feels!

  • @magma9138
    @magma9138 4 роки тому

    EXCEPTIONAL!

  • @christineh4782
    @christineh4782 3 роки тому +1

    💗💝💖💓💕👍 Janine Driver is fantastic! Wish I could her a question.

    • @TheRealJanineDriver
      @TheRealJanineDriver 3 роки тому +1

      Janine here, what's your question?

    • @christineh4782
      @christineh4782 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheRealJanineDriver I don't remember. You may have already answered it. I watched this video again. You are excellent at your job. Glad I found you. Lots to learn from you.

  • @araratqarachatani3806
    @araratqarachatani3806 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @moniquemurphy4851
    @moniquemurphy4851 4 роки тому

    You are awesome!

  • @Marked992
    @Marked992 2 роки тому

    Just brilliant

  • @transformationaltalkshub
    @transformationaltalkshub 5 років тому

    credible talk.

  • @samantharimmer6270
    @samantharimmer6270 3 роки тому +1

    good video

  • @chrisjones2625
    @chrisjones2625 3 роки тому +2

    Wow

  • @mittenkitten89
    @mittenkitten89 2 роки тому

    Amazing

  • @AragonaAlessandro
    @AragonaAlessandro Рік тому

    Gosh ..she made me crazy again 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😘

  • @transamsteve1
    @transamsteve1 4 роки тому

    Great points. Will definitely keep in mind in the future. Don’t think the emotion was authentic.

  • @joycereese6731
    @joycereese6731 2 роки тому

    Tears

  • @jameslipke354
    @jameslipke354 Рік тому

    Wow. Just Wow! That's all I've got.🤯 ❤
    ~ APRIL LIPKE

  • @brendashenda4249
    @brendashenda4249 4 роки тому +1

    holy. wow.

  • @cecilsingh970
    @cecilsingh970 3 роки тому

    you are the rebirth of god. thanks. I have a 4 yrss old autism son and I get too uptight

  • @exposingunconditionalselfl8731
    @exposingunconditionalselfl8731 4 роки тому

    Is that what the basis to hypnosis to get control over a person or does it work the same?

  • @nikital.8255
    @nikital.8255 Рік тому

    What’s ur plan?
    How will you implement this?
    No ‘why’ questions cause it makes one think ur questioning their judgement.

  • @foxleyshop2174
    @foxleyshop2174 4 роки тому +1

    OMG!😢😢😢👏👏👏👏

  • @Iamluckygirl1111
    @Iamluckygirl1111 3 роки тому

    🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️