Former Foster Daughter Reaches Out!

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  • Опубліковано 4 лис 2020
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    Be The Village
    P.O. Box 348
    Maineville, OH 45039

КОМЕНТАРІ • 77

  • @lauradavis4848
    @lauradavis4848 3 роки тому +76

    Awe, I'm so happy to hear how well your first foster daughter is doing. I have wondered about her.

  • @nomis9913
    @nomis9913 3 роки тому +43

    So happy that your first foster daughter is doing well and that you were able to reconnect! And so happy for Miss A that she and her family have a reunification timeline in place ❤️

  • @camilamoyac
    @camilamoyac 3 роки тому +43

    So happy to hear that Miss First Placement is doing good! I remember that I found your channel right when she arrived and I started binging all of your other videos about the process of becoming foster parents, the classes, and everything!

  • @LovelyBri
    @LovelyBri 3 роки тому +5

    Oh yea, I remember her... 💜🧡. That's awesome she reached out and that her and Miss A are ig friends. That's gotta feel good to know she holds a place in her heart for you guys!!

  • @mellyander
    @mellyander 3 роки тому +31

    I'm so happy to hear your first placement is doing well. I'm remember her move to her kinship was very quick. Wonderful it's working out.

  • @dakotadominique9063
    @dakotadominique9063 3 роки тому +6

    I’m so happy you could keep in contact with her! Praying for you guys and Miss A! 💛

  • @sarahemf
    @sarahemf 3 роки тому +10

    I’m so excited for miss a to have a plan for reunification and that you all pushed for it to be a process. When I was younger my mums best friend had a foster daughter for years while she was in care her mum passed away, but they finally managed to find her dad. And over night she went from being in our lives every day for over 2 years to being with her dad and no contact. I know me and her foster mum always think about where she is now how she copped if her life with her dad was good or bad. We create story’s for her what her life was like and they help I wish we had that good bye moment

  • @NancyB35
    @NancyB35 3 роки тому +5

    So soooo glad she’s doing so good!!! 🙌❤️

  • @carleyglad9471
    @carleyglad9471 3 роки тому +12

    It makes my heart so happy that you guys got to hear from her! ❤️❤️

  • @sam_i_am_.
    @sam_i_am_. 3 роки тому +5

    I remember telling you that you would always be a part of her story. So glad you got to connect. What a blessing.

  • @Boostwithbritt
    @Boostwithbritt 3 роки тому +3

    Awwww! That’s so cool she’s doing well! ❤️ What a huge blessing! You guys are awesome!

  • @tifbrown8419
    @tifbrown8419 3 роки тому +4

    That's so nice you got to hear from her and she's doing so well! 💛

  • @melissagreen1117
    @melissagreen1117 3 роки тому +10

    How wonderful, ur first placement contacted you guys. So glad she's doing well. Also good news for Miss A. We will miss her here, but glad she will be back with her parents. Hugz to you guys. You both have done an awesome job for her. Have a good nite🌛

  • @colleenshaw1607
    @colleenshaw1607 3 роки тому +2

    It's nice for once to have happy tears

  • @heyitsme7334
    @heyitsme7334 3 роки тому +9

    I’m so glad you guys got to hear from your first foster daughter! I bet that was so wonderful! And I’m so happy to hear that you guys have a timeline for when Miss A can finally go be with her family again! We will miss her, but I love that her family has worked hard and gets to bring her back! Good for them! ❤️

  • @heidihokes7789
    @heidihokes7789 3 роки тому

    Everything sounds wonderful as changes are coming about💖

  • @beautyizeasy
    @beautyizeasy 3 роки тому +1

    It is so great to hear that your first foster daughter is doing well! That’s awesome! And I am so happy to hear that Miss A’s family is doing well and that reunification is coming soon! That’s incredible news!

  • @sueanntweet3941
    @sueanntweet3941 3 роки тому +1

    You are such good people

  • @KM-ye9so
    @KM-ye9so 3 роки тому

    I'm so glad you were able to connect with your first foster daughter again, and I'm really, really glad she's doing well! How great that she and Miss A have also connected. They can relate to each other in a way that some other teens just can't, should they ever want to chat about any of that stuff (of course, I bet they also just chat about a ton of average teen stuff too).

  • @1stfacts542
    @1stfacts542 3 роки тому +1

    I wish I had foster parents like you two. Thank you for all you do 👍

  • @custardcream
    @custardcream 3 роки тому +12

    That's awesome! Also, your eye make up really brings out your eyes. So pretty.

  • @dianabrown2258
    @dianabrown2258 3 роки тому

    I'm so glad you guys got a call from her!! You are so lucky and it's so good to hear that your state has a transition plan, in NJ there's really no proper transition, it was an overnight disaster, too many people were just not supported especially the kin that was gaining a new child whom they knew nothing about and there was a language barrier. We moved to Vermont now and I'm filling out my application! So relieved to be learning about VT's system and how family oriented it is! Love your channel, been busy with the move but so happy to be catching up on your vids :) -Diana (formerly Taking the Fork)

  • @kittymervine6115
    @kittymervine6115 3 роки тому +1

    my heart matches your smiles! HOW WONDERFUL! Your family (foster and all), have really been a blessing and helped me get through this.

  • @doseofhope3481
    @doseofhope3481 3 роки тому

    Always inspiring. 💕🙏😇👍💕!!!!!

  • @nicole42999
    @nicole42999 3 роки тому +6

    I'm so happy that reunification is almost near! I never realized that process of how foster care works s thanks for sharing. Especially when it come to reunification. Idk if you've answered this before, but what are the other end ups of foster care? You said something about a kinship with family, is there more to that that you can share in general? I'm very glad that the reunification works in stages of days to weekends to finally fully being with the family. Her siblings and parents and her must be so happy. It really seems like a system that has children's best interests in mind, and works with the family

  • @scrappingscootergirl
    @scrappingscootergirl 3 роки тому

    The garage looks great! Glad to hear that your former foster daughter is doing well and she reached out to you! I hope you are able to stay in connect with Miss A. I think her leaving will be really hard for Darcy and Sawyer as they are little! They seem to have a great bond with her!

  • @jessicaeldridge4197
    @jessicaeldridge4197 3 роки тому

    You guys are amazing

  • @tasha_111_
    @tasha_111_ 3 роки тому +3

    Aww that’s super sweet!!! Hey Miss A!!!!!! 🤓🤗😊

  • @Star3marie304
    @Star3marie304 3 роки тому +1

    You look so pretty btw 💜 I know that must have made you feel kinda warm and fuzzy inside that she had a picture on her wall that her and Darcy made when she was with you😊😊As a former foster kid, I still have art work and special things saved from my foster family and some of it is on my bedroom wall too:)

  • @ONTHEFLYTV
    @ONTHEFLYTV 3 роки тому +3

    Happy Thursday

  • @emilymanthei442
    @emilymanthei442 3 роки тому +5

    Have never stopped everything for a video before I’m so intrigued!!,

  • @colleenquinn8154
    @colleenquinn8154 3 роки тому

    I literally aspire to have a marriage like yours. You guys are such a good team!

    • @BeTheVillageCommunity
      @BeTheVillageCommunity  3 роки тому +1

      We aren’t perfect, I promise. Always a work in progress.

    • @colleenquinn8154
      @colleenquinn8154 3 роки тому

      @@BeTheVillageCommunity that I understand, no one is perfect (imo). Marriage is work but for someone you truly love it seems so awesome and inspiring that you two are aware of that and just willing to work together!
      I love your positive reach you make with everyone from like (idk old enough to not watch UA-cam kids I’m guessing here ?) like a ten year old to a eighty year old human.

    • @colleenquinn8154
      @colleenquinn8154 3 роки тому

      I’m at that age where EVERYONE is oooo who are you with are you serious do you think he’s the one and (as annoying as it is) it’s kinda fun. Always a good way to imagine the idea of marriage through more than just a parents relationship. Idk sorry for the ramble it’s cool that I can see how some marriages work and how others manage and all that stuff :)

  • @HAlC-up4hm
    @HAlC-up4hm 3 роки тому +12

    I'm so glad your first foster daughter is doing well and you guys got to connect :) Sitting here eating a pint of Graeters and this bit of joy is a nice reprieve from the current crazy. lol Just a heads up, I noticed you can see your entire license plate. You might want to consider blurring it out for safety considerations.

    • @BeTheVillageCommunity
      @BeTheVillageCommunity  3 роки тому +1

      Meh, if people want to find us they’ll find us lol. But I appreciate the concern :) and there is nothing wrong with making choices for whatever will get us through this craziness, even if it’s ice cream!

  • @keelykratzer3064
    @keelykratzer3064 3 роки тому

    I’m so happy your previous foster child made contact and I hope she stays in your life. Some in my family still keep in touch with 2 nieces that were foster kids. Both were about 15 when they came to live with my sibling and basically aged out of the program but they are still my nieces (and they are in their 30s now). Actually going Sunday to spend the day with one (and her family) and do some canning. Really looking forward to it. Great ladies, both of them.

  • @JAF1323
    @JAF1323 3 роки тому

    I am glad that you were able to do this. My mom and dad are foster parents. We fostered for placements before taking a very very long break, around seven or eight years or so. We have now had our second placement for almost 3 years now. We have never heard anything from the other four placements. One ended up living in our same neighborhood. The others went back with their families.
    I had a friend who was in foster care. My seventh grade English teacher was her foster parent. She was with them for a year. She was the nicest person I have ever met in my life. We were such good friends. It hurts to talk about her because I miss her. I have not been able to see her since November when she went back with her family. She was the mother to her siblings. Because of this, she was very mature, almost too mature. I am six years older than her, but we thought the same. Well, I am seven years older than her now. She was always so considerate with other people; She could tell how you were feeling and was always so happy. She was only nine years old when she went back. I really miss her and hope that she is doing well. I know that she is smart and she knows what is sensible and what is not. I know that she will do well in her life. I hope that she gets out of where she is. Her name is Janeicia.
    Again, I am so glad that you were able to do this. I hope that you will be able to do this a lot more in the future and that you will be able to have contact with all of your future foster placements once they leave. Thank you for all that you do. I love your channel and really appreciate all that your family does.

  • @kimberley5729
    @kimberley5729 3 роки тому +24

    That's a messy garage?! I could show you a messy garage!! We've lived here over 13 years and have never had a car parked in the garage! 😊

  • @janicaribeiro6350
    @janicaribeiro6350 3 роки тому

    Whitney and John I want to be you guys , so tidy and organized . I have not slept in 3 nights waiting on Election results , and I’m in Europe! 💙

    • @BeTheVillageCommunity
      @BeTheVillageCommunity  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you for thinking of us over here 💙

    • @janicaribeiro6350
      @janicaribeiro6350 3 роки тому

      @@BeTheVillageCommunity we are a village so we care 💙 I have a heart full of gratitude for everyone working so hard counting ALL the votes .

  • @barbaraunderwood1762
    @barbaraunderwood1762 3 роки тому +1

    That’s great. Didn’t u say u had one that was pregnant? Miss A won’t let u out of her life. She’s has a bond with your family, especially Sawyer.

  • @genevieveemond843
    @genevieveemond843 3 роки тому +8

    I was just wondering about her not long ago. If i remember correctly the firts family member where she went didn't work out. I was curious how she was doing. Thank you for the update

  • @jow.2450
    @jow.2450 3 роки тому +8

    Is it hard for Miss A to juggle longer visits with homework?

    • @BeTheVillageCommunity
      @BeTheVillageCommunity  3 роки тому +1

      Good question, not so far.

    • @jow.2450
      @jow.2450 3 роки тому

      Be The Village I’m watching my own kids, that age, have to skip after school activities, but that is a whole lot different than Miss A. having to juggling something a lot more important. I’d think some teachers would understand, but high school is a different ball game. It’s much harder to catch up.

  • @lauradavis4848
    @lauradavis4848 3 роки тому +4

    The sped up videos always make me wish I could move that fast for real 🤣

    • @BeTheVillageCommunity
      @BeTheVillageCommunity  3 роки тому +3

      Your comment made me remember I forgot the music 🤦🏻‍♀️ just added the UA-cam music which means it’ll take hours to go into effect, ah well :)

    • @erinaa9486
      @erinaa9486 3 роки тому

      @@BeTheVillageCommunity I wondered if my headphones stopped working...

    • @lauradavis4848
      @lauradavis4848 3 роки тому

      @@BeTheVillageCommunity oh its fine. I thought it was cute y'all speeding around the garage 😆

  • @tonischofield7380
    @tonischofield7380 3 роки тому +8

    Is miss A still with you guys?

  • @MissLea922
    @MissLea922 3 роки тому

    You might want to hold onto the double stroller incase you get a placement that's a baby or toddler.

    • @elizabethann5308
      @elizabethann5308 3 роки тому +1

      While that is true their age limit starts at 5 or 6

  • @sophiapiper4978
    @sophiapiper4978 3 роки тому

    do i spy lots of container store stuff in that garage? lol!

  • @cathefeline
    @cathefeline 3 роки тому

    Did this video end a little abruptly? Not judging or anything just a tad confused

  • @rhondamort6476
    @rhondamort6476 3 роки тому

    What is a kinship home? Was she adopted?

    • @autumnsnoop
      @autumnsnoop 3 роки тому

      Kinship is where you go into a home that is someone from your family. My cousins kids are currently in kinship and are with family until the parents can get custody again

  • @kayleighbrookes8056
    @kayleighbrookes8056 3 роки тому

    Not watched do a pretty long time

  • @cleikav
    @cleikav 3 роки тому

    I was confused, I thought Miss A was your first placement.

  • @lauradavis4848
    @lauradavis4848 3 роки тому

    Am I really first? No way!