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-Men always come back. -You can’t change his value. Find a guy who has the same value system as you. -Three months if you are not in a relationship…move on -Stand up for yourself -Patterns reveal behaviour -some men will never love you -men take advantage of nice girls -when a man likes you it’s obvious
How do you know if he loves you ? When the give you money ? Tell you they love you ? Want a family with you ? But what if they are abusive but say they love you ?
@@adrianavilchez2706 Does he believe in a higher purpose than himself? In what ways does he express love about other things (family even)? Does he love and respect himself? This should at least tell you his capacity to love another person. I don't think someone who resorts to abuse can check these boxes.
That’s why us women should never push or insist on having a relationship with a man don’t matter how much you like/love him because you cannot force it with them…meaning they do them don’t matter how good you are to them. Being good to a man don’t mean nothing if he’s not that into you OR if he’s not the one for you.
This guy don't know what he's talking about. He's in it for profit, just take a look at how fucking long his video is. He's contradictory and baseless as well as very opinionated.
NO! Do not tell the guy how the last one hurt you, unless you want him to use that shit against you. I’ve learnt that men and WOMEN use this to see how they can treat you.
What I learned from a guy telling me about his exs is - he's not going to attracted to ME because I'm not toxic. Usually they have toxic exs and they like that- it stimulated that unhealthy part of there subconscious
Men do always come back, even if they claim to have replaced you. The man I had the most ridiculously painful relationship that there was literally NO going back from still came back just when I had already moved on. The game isn't over till it's over.
When they pull away n become distant, I don’t chase rather I just lean back n let it be. I remember how I manifested the break up when he didn’t want me due to a misunderstanding about me on my end side. He didn’t want a relationship with me anymore.
Trust the energy that comes from his presence when he is with you. Guys are more literal than women so please stop excusing his damn behavior over stress or bad mood swings etc. He knows his game and its time to end it🙅♀️ Thank you for this channel love the content 🙌🥰
The reason why this advice works on some men is due to self hate. When a woman treats a man well who hate himself, he will automatically dislike her because she likes something he dislikes WHICH IS HIMSELF. Your advice says more about where you are mentally at your age and isn't good for women who date healthy minded men who practice self honor.
Absolutely. But most of the men are BROKEN. Some of them toxic and some of them (5%) are healthy. I don't know maybe we should take a broken man and make them heal?
Honestly his videos have helped me a lot. Im texting a guy who’s trying to take me out on a date but I’m playing hard to get. Before I was so available for guys and also clingy but his advice has actually made me see what I was doing wrong.
High value guy who won't cheat- very principled, warm hearted and caring despite he's serious looking, you clearly see that his reaction to sleazy women flirting with him is as disinterested as a straight woman would look if women were flirting with her, he works a lot and is a perfectionist looking for high value in his life. Ive known couple of guys like this- unfortunately one is my best friend (who also dislikes the dating scene and has quit dating) and the other Im related to lol
well I think that youre best friend quit dating, then its time for you to become a Goddess,,, maybe he was looking for a gal just like YOU ! his best friend and didnt dare tell you about his feelings. Start hanging out and find out why he quit dating exactly, at what point in his life et, did he just split w someone etc? then you will have a clear path and you can slowly ask what type of gal he likes,,,,,,and just like magic, what if hes describing you? hihihi go on give him a call, ask what hes doing and ask if he wants to hang out and maybe you guys can get together for steaks on the BBQ? w a lil vino, ??? dont waste a Fantastic opportuniy right under your nose ! gosh,,, go for it ! hint talk guy gil topics, and dont tell him you stories,, ask about his ,,,,, and then pay attention to what he says, stay in the moment be blessed, i think this one's a slam dunk ! ihihi
This is definitely needed because I get into situations where guys show me that they’re interested in me. Dates etc. Even tell me they love me. Idk what to do because I don’t express how I feel or even say I like them. Idk
1: the hobby one is so TRUE- I own 3 ventures that also is a hobby. I do makeup, nails and an exotic dancer. Im dating an older man(he’s 37, I’m 25) and he blows up my phone whenever I’m in the middle of working on a pair of press ons or makeup to post for social media or my business.and choreographing pole choreo to post on social media or for my stage set at work. 2: the pull away- He came off strong but he starting to slack on good morning text and it’s only a week in. The push and pull. Im not messaging h first more than twice, I expect consistency. So I fell back. 3. That third one is true. I do not invest fully and keep multiples. 4. Boundaries and respect- I let them know what I do not like and warn them of the repercussions. If tried I follow through with what I said. 5. I don’t compete with exes. In fact I keep more than one option because I’m aware men typically keep women around in case the relationship don’t work. So gotta be one up. 6.I open up about the breakup that hurt me but they treated me a way that sets a precedent. 7.once he does something that violates boundaries he CUT CUT 8. I am around successful men so Ik they cheat but that’s why I ensure I keep him on my toes via, my looks so he knows just as he has options I got em too 9. I balance my feminine and masculine side. I stand my ground and not give in to what he wants. He begs for phone sex or attention. Always saying “ I need some attention “. I hit him with “ I got needs to” or “ I’m not a dog so Stop trying to train me” . Attention/phone sex/ physical intimacy is a doggy treat for when he does what I want so I got him trained.
@@Sarablueunicorn I read this book by G Lambert and “ Doggy treats” are quintessentially rewards for when that man does something and is the outcome I wanted ( for instance: surprising me at work with my fave flowers, jewelry or food that I told him. My response/doggy treat would be a “thank you” and kiss or once I get home I’d invite him over for dinner and sexy time depending on the level we’re on.)
He's too needy aF n taking up your time. Trust me he's immature. High value men don't blow up women 's phone bc they're too busy making and investing money, which is time consuming
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 many people, but a high value man knows decent human behaviour and won't cheat when in a relationship. He can always break up with his current partner if he feels unsatisfied and go live his life. 🤷
You're are a King ... so powerful and wise tips without selling wrapped stories. Application of all is challenge and bingo! Thank you Alex, love from Balkans❤
Alex looks fine af here 😍 Anyway, I've been watching these videos and gave my man space and he came to me multiple times and continued to reach out to me! I'm going to continue to put off short term happiness for long-term gain, thank-you, Alex! 👏🏽
1~Because you were just a rebound and he went back to his ex or moved to another serious relationship. 2~ you were just a part-time short term relationship to start with. He had other plans after a while. 2~ He was just spending time with you while looking for someone better to come along and he found it.
Hey Alex, I would love to see a video about when a guy pulls away due to *genuine* stress in his life that has nothing to do with the girl, what are your thoughts?
Girl, make a list of the requirements you want in a guy, like truly want. If he doesn’t meet the requirements, he is not the one and please save yourself some sleep
What if he’s not over her and it’s been years? I have a strong gut feeling that he’s not over her, I also saw things that made me think that( he also would share fond memories of her)
Hi Alex, would you ever consider doing ur seminars on Zoom as well? I’m in Sunny California.........and I’m not Traveling no time Soon...........However I would join ur Seminar virtually.........and pay full price Happily . I Just Luv ur Toxicity..........ur a Truth Teller! I’m a Nice Girl!!!!! 💋
Alex thank you for this video, Could you PLEASE do one on WHY men cheat, like the psychology around it… Like I understand we should leave, because they never do it just once… but how can we overcome it and better from it? It’s never happened to me until now and I’m kind of in shock, but a lot of it makes sense now….. like how can we know if the guy is being genuine VS not genuine and the signs he may be a cheater. And why he wants a relationship but will still cheat, or request 3somes especially early on in a relationship..
I thought that thanksgiving through Valentine’s Day was break up season. You’re saying that’s when they come back? Also, love the Tyrone shirt. I’m buying that it lol.
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-Men always come back.
-You can’t change his value. Find a guy who has the same value system as you.
-Three months if you are not in a relationship…move on
-Stand up for yourself
-Patterns reveal behaviour
-some men will never love you
-men take advantage of nice girls
-when a man likes you it’s obvious
I’ve heard of the 3 month rule. Makes sense
How do you know if he loves you ? When the give you money ? Tell you they love you ? Want a family with you ? But what if they are abusive but say they love you ?
@@adrianavilchez2706 Does he believe in a higher purpose than himself? In what ways does he express love about other things (family even)? Does he love and respect himself?
This should at least tell you his capacity to love another person. I don't think someone who resorts to abuse can check these boxes.
In another words most "women are fucked"
You are funny when u try to shut up yell the baby
That’s why us women should never push or insist on having a relationship with a man don’t matter how much you like/love him because you cannot force it with them…meaning they do them don’t matter how good you are to them.
Being good to a man don’t mean nothing if he’s not that into you OR if he’s not the one for you.
@Malorie D Don't I know it.
Yes that's true
Don't listen to this guy. This is a liar. He has a channel called mindful attraction. Go and see it for yourself on what he speaks about women.
This guy don't know what he's talking about. He's in it for profit, just take a look at how fucking long his video is. He's contradictory and baseless as well as very opinionated.
It's in his channel name
NO! Do not tell the guy how the last one hurt you, unless you want him to use that shit against you. I’ve learnt that men and WOMEN use this to see how they can treat you.
Truth
💯
Exactly
What I learned from a guy telling me about his exs is - he's not going to attracted to ME because I'm not toxic. Usually they have toxic exs and they like that- it stimulated that unhealthy part of there subconscious
Just because he’s a leader doesn’t mean he’s high value!
Yeah I agree high earner doesn't equal high value
Girl choose a high quality man not high value man now a days whats high in value are questionable
Could mean narcasissm as well, and without empathy they tend to make riskier decisions
All these videos can be summed up by saying this…
“Whoever loves the least will control the relationship”
I think he means it more like whoever can control how much they show and when they show it controls the relationship.
Men do always come back, even if they claim to have replaced you. The man I had the most ridiculously painful relationship that there was literally NO going back from still came back just when I had already moved on. The game isn't over till it's over.
And we determine when it's over. That's what men don't get
@@blueblaze9862 exactly
When they pull away n become distant, I don’t chase rather I just lean back n let it be. I remember how I manifested the break up when he didn’t want me due to a misunderstanding about me on my end side. He didn’t want a relationship with me anymore.
Same
I had an ex come back after 12 years
Was literally in college when we broke up
Trust the energy that comes from his presence when he is with you. Guys are more literal than women so please stop excusing his damn behavior over stress or bad mood swings etc. He knows his game and its time to end it🙅♀️ Thank you for this channel love the content 🙌🥰
Roxana don't listen to this guy. He is a fraud. Go and see his another channel on mindfull attraction and Listen what he talks about women.
This is a million dollar advice for free
Facts!
@Abc Def jup
God bless Alex! 👏👏👏
Liz this guy is lying to all the women in the vedio.
Caliel I've been following him for a couple years and I've tried the tactics and they work. 😊
The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior.
I live for his random comments in between the advice like “shut the fuck up bird” and “I painted a picture of Tyrone for a shirt”
Lol
Lmfao too funny so random thought it was just me that enjoyed those random comments as much as I do hahaha
I'm seriously in tears rn 🤣"shut the fuck up birds!" I can see a pellet gun commin out soon lmao
@@iCandiMandy yes absolute gold 🤣🙏
@@iCandiMandy 😄😄
People need to place focus on high character rather than high value. Ladies stop looking at superficial things!!
Facts
The reason why this advice works on some men is due to self hate. When a woman treats a man well who hate himself, he will automatically dislike her because she likes something he dislikes WHICH IS HIMSELF. Your advice says more about where you are mentally at your age and isn't good for women who date healthy minded men who practice self honor.
Facts
Truth spoken, you can't love unloveable
That's how it works with some men.
I agree but good luck finding a healthy man that's single. My friends and I have been looking for years
Absolutely. But most of the men are BROKEN. Some of them toxic and some of them (5%) are healthy. I don't know maybe we should take a broken man and make them heal?
Narcissists also always come back … be aware of the difference between the two.
"Find yourself a hobby booboo" FACTS! one of your best advice lines ever!
Going to the gym
The advice I received long ago just keeps proving to be true keep your options, open don't fall in love, let them chase you .
I’m not here to learn to attract men. That shit comes natural to me. I do enjoy watching you and your ways
share your tips please ,that wold really be helpful
I love that you get what I call the “3 month rule” I’ve been preaching it for over a decade! Such a pivotal marker in the dating game!
Honestly his videos have helped me a lot. Im texting a guy who’s trying to take me out on a date but I’m playing hard to get. Before I was so available for guys and also clingy but his advice has actually made me see what I was doing wrong.
Good for you. It’s all about human nature.
Ruth. This guy has another channel called mindful attraction and you will see there what he really speaks about women.
@@michaeldeglory777 I had no idea. Thank you.
You a true kind/sweet hearted Virgo ;) You have your frustrations and disappointments with women but still help them in the end
Thats why he is very educated and have a cold mind to teach us. I appreciate the fact he is a Virgo, my friends who are Virgo they are very logical
The waiting is the hardest thing for us.
Im in the mist of this right now its killer
@@crystalfoti8844 hang in there. Meditation helps...
Not if you learn how to focus on yourself
Ergghh know this to well
AMEN.
Lately I’m going through a process of learning & self-discovery. Your content is stimulating. Thank you
Very true. He knows human nature. Very true. Not all men are players. But some are. Avoid being played. My own experience.
I cannot wait to buy the nice girl course! You are so right. It's obvious when a man likes you and when a man loves you if you put it in plain terms
I like the determination you had to go through this with all the noises lmao and even in a calm manner.
I'm gonna watch this over and over again until it's ingrained into my mind.
here for tyrone the personal trainer
stay away from him! He toxic
😂👌
Where’s the t-shirt link at ?
HA! You got me hooked!!
But he’s fine as hell...who can resist
High value guy who won't cheat- very principled, warm hearted and caring despite he's serious looking, you clearly see that his reaction to sleazy women flirting with him is as disinterested as a straight woman would look if women were flirting with her, he works a lot and is a perfectionist looking for high value in his life.
Ive known couple of guys like this- unfortunately one is my best friend (who also dislikes the dating scene and has quit dating) and the other Im related to lol
well I think that youre best friend quit dating, then its time for you to become a Goddess,,, maybe he was looking for a gal just like YOU ! his best friend and didnt dare tell you about his feelings. Start hanging out and find out why he quit dating exactly, at what point in his life et, did he just split w someone etc? then you will have a clear path and you can slowly ask what type of gal he likes,,,,,,and just like magic, what if hes describing you? hihihi go on give him a call, ask what hes doing and ask if he wants to hang out and maybe you guys can get together for steaks on the BBQ? w a lil vino, ??? dont waste a Fantastic opportuniy right under your nose ! gosh,,, go for it ! hint talk guy gil topics, and dont tell him you stories,, ask about his ,,,,, and then pay attention to what he says, stay in the moment be blessed, i think this one's a slam dunk ! ihihi
This is definitely needed because I get into situations where guys show me that they’re interested in me. Dates etc. Even tell me they love me. Idk what to do because I don’t express how I feel or even say I like them. Idk
UA-cam is the best thing that could’ve ever happened!
This advice is GOLD!!!!🔥🔥🔥
High value, does not mean high quality though. And all of our actions, is a choice.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I've already seen high value married man is cheating
That’s right!
But Dusty definitely means BAD treatment!
Hello from South Africa 🇿🇦😊
I love how on sheras channel we have Pickmesia, Bonetta, etc. And here we have Tyrone the personal trainer lolol
Don't forget a Dusty on sheras 😆
@@dawngregorie7423 and Barbara the builder 😄
Ikr 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Sharkeshia
Love that you actually painted Tyrone and made it in to a t-shirt
Had I known this ten years ago, it would have saved me from years of heartache.
I am loving this new Alex! I haven't been watching your videos for long while but I just recently came back and I am really enjoying them.
Men are like kids....
Baby goats? Or children
LMAOOOOOOQUEEEENNNNOO
“stfu bird” 💀😭
I hit the like button after he told the bird to stfu 😂😂
Hahahaha. SAME
You are a God sent. This absolutely accurate advice. Wish I had this before I even started dating but I will use it now.Thank You!
It's sad that this is the way things are but from experience...this man is 100% CORRECT 💯🤷🏽♀️🙄
1: the hobby one is so TRUE- I own 3 ventures that also is a hobby. I do makeup, nails and an exotic dancer. Im dating an older man(he’s 37, I’m 25) and he blows up my phone whenever I’m in the middle of working on a pair of press ons or makeup to post for social media or my business.and choreographing pole choreo to post on social media or for my stage set at work.
2: the pull away- He came off strong but he starting to slack on good morning text and it’s only a week in. The push and pull. Im not messaging h first more than twice, I expect consistency. So I fell back.
3. That third one is true. I do not invest fully and keep multiples.
4. Boundaries and respect- I let them know what I do not like and warn them of the repercussions. If tried I follow through with what I said.
5. I don’t compete with exes. In fact I keep more than one option because I’m aware men typically keep women around in case the relationship don’t work. So gotta be one up.
6.I open up about the breakup that hurt me but they treated me a way that sets a precedent.
7.once he does something that violates boundaries he CUT CUT
8. I am around successful men so Ik they cheat but that’s why I ensure I keep him on my toes via, my looks so he knows just as he has options I got em too
9. I balance my feminine and masculine side. I stand my ground and not give in to what he wants. He begs for phone sex or attention. Always saying “ I need some attention “. I hit him with “ I got needs to” or “ I’m not a dog so Stop trying to train me” . Attention/phone sex/ physical intimacy is a doggy treat for when he does what I want so I got him trained.
doggy treats
@@Sarablueunicorn I read this book by G Lambert and “ Doggy treats” are quintessentially rewards for when that man does something and is the outcome I wanted ( for instance: surprising me at work with my fave flowers, jewelry or food that I told him. My response/doggy treat would be a “thank you” and kiss or once I get home I’d invite him over for dinner and sexy time depending on the level we’re on.)
How did you meet the older guy? Most on dating apps are weird asf.
He's too needy aF n taking up your time. Trust me he's immature. High value men don't blow up women 's phone bc they're too busy making and investing money, which is time consuming
'Tyrone the Personal Trainer' is a legend! 💯%
after this video I came to the conclusion: there’s no man out there I would like.
Not 1 of them!!!!
It is funny for me how my bf (for 2 years) has opinion that games in love are for kids, but every time i play it he secretly loves it! 😅
Lol all the noise in the background. You never skipped a beat.
Choose high quality rather than high value, now a days whats high in value are questionable
Hey, Amsterdamer! You're in Holland now. So cool.
This one was a really good one Father Alex. I'm glad you showered and cleaned up a little today :)
And do not mind the birds please, they add to the rhythm of all that is going on in the background.
I agree.
Thanks Alex. On point. All covered in very short time...impressive. 🙏
"high value men cheat" - technically a contradiction in itself
Who doesn't want a high value man?
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 many people, but a high value man knows decent human behaviour and won't cheat when in a relationship. He can always break up with his current partner if he feels unsatisfied and go live his life. 🤷
You're are a King ... so powerful and wise tips without selling wrapped stories. Application of all is challenge and bingo! Thank you Alex, love from Balkans❤
I love my toxic dating coach 😘 your so educated
Alex looks fine af here 😍 Anyway, I've been watching these videos and gave my man space and he came to me multiple times and continued to reach out to me! I'm going to continue to put off short term happiness for long-term gain, thank-you, Alex! 👏🏽
Alex be speaking facts ! Wish I would have learned about your videos before my last relationship. Would have saved me a lot of heart ache
When to use Brad and when to use Tyrone? Also, can you use Carlos occasionally
Why men don't come back - very interesting! Also good to know.
1~Because you were just a rebound and he went back to his ex or moved to another serious relationship.
2~ you were just a part-time short term relationship to start with. He had other plans after a while.
2~ He was just spending time with you while looking for someone better to come along and he found it.
“Stfu bird “ “stfu baby” 😭😭😭😂😂
When you said : buy the Thyrone tshirt. I’m laughing so hard 🤣
Hey Alex, I would love to see a video about when a guy pulls away due to *genuine* stress in his life that has nothing to do with the girl, what are your thoughts?
Girl, make a list of the requirements you want in a guy, like truly want. If he doesn’t meet the requirements, he is not the one and please save yourself some sleep
He ain’t it sis
THANK YOU SO MUCH ALEX I NEEDED EVERY WORD I APPRECIATE YOU
High value does not equate to having morals and standards aka being real high value
“He doesn’t like you… find yourself a hobby booboo” 🤣🤣❤️
you look really tidy this way papa, keep this look up
Keep Coaching!
Men always come back 🙏🏻
Real talk
Everyone come back
"Stfu burd"😂 & the Tyrone shirts.🤣❤
“Shut the fuck up bird” dead 😂
You're like the older brother I always needed! Thanks Alex :)
Father tyrone. I love you ur content really inspires me, and it makes me feel really happy.
The birds, the children 😂
They have no respect for him. lol
sound like he live in Jurassic Park.
Love the transparency
Wow! I used to watch you, then I unsubscribed, and now I found this video. You seem to have grown so much! Good job!
I swear same with me!!!!
I believe I unsuscribed because at the time, the sound quality was not good. I'm so blessed to have landed on this video.
What if he’s not over her and it’s been years? I have a strong gut feeling that he’s not over her, I also saw things that made me think that( he also would share fond memories of her)
Im glad there is a Tyrone shirt 😁
the birds sound fabulous...it's the screaming kids that are annoying! :)
Is there truly a difference between the guy loving you and being in love with you, or is that “woman speak”?
Thanks for the great Advice, I’m a silent watcher.
I saw it in the first seconds you where over here in Holland😂 we have a typical type of building tructures
Shut the fuck up baby 😹😹😹😹that rate there had me dying 😂😂😂
Hi Alex, would you ever consider doing ur seminars on Zoom as well? I’m in Sunny California.........and I’m not Traveling no time Soon...........However I would join ur Seminar virtually.........and pay full price Happily . I Just Luv ur Toxicity..........ur a Truth Teller! I’m a Nice Girl!!!!! 💋
Excellent IDEA!!!! Can’t believe he didn’t the past year!!!! ALEX do it!
Yeah good idea!
So cute and Amazing the way you stopped yourself talking, to type in your idea of topic Video for us. So passionate and dedicated.
The reactions for the background nice is hilarious 😂
Pleeeeease make a video about rebound relationships🥺🥺🥺🥺
As a man, ladies, I am not coming back. I can wait longer than you I promise
You look really good Alex ❤️
Very good video yet again
Life lessons right here!!!! Thank you so much for these advices.....
hey please make that video on signs they wont be coming back or why they wont be coming back! thankss!
Hii. Can you consider doing it on zoom so that people in Kenya can see this and learn
Great advice! Thanks for sharing
Alex thank you for this video,
Could you PLEASE do one on WHY men cheat, like the psychology around it… Like I understand we should leave, because they never do it just once… but how can we overcome it and better from it? It’s never happened to me until now and I’m kind of in shock, but a lot of it makes sense now….. like how can we know if the guy is being genuine VS not genuine and the signs he may be a cheater. And why he wants a relationship but will still cheat, or request 3somes especially early on in a relationship..
Watch Sheraseven videos on cheating. Very insightful.
Because he's black. Divest.
@@evegeneM he is black though. How did you know that.
@@luzloveslife I love Shera and I will watch it thank you!
@Abc Def facts
“Shut the fuck up bird”…. “These fucking birds” haha….
Lol
Omg this video is bomb 😍
There is special place in heaven for you! Sending you love! And THANK YOU! ❤️
I thought that thanksgiving through Valentine’s Day was break up season. You’re saying that’s when they come back? Also, love the Tyrone shirt. I’m buying that it lol.
No one wants to be alone during the holidays. They fake being in love for their own benefit
@@Shae_3 I’ve heard that they break up because they don’t want to deal with meeting the family, buying presents, etc. too much pressure.
Im starting to love your videos Alex 😘.