YOU TEACH MEN HOW TO TREAT YOU
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Always remember this. Never take the role that society gives to you. People are always trying to sense weakness in you and you’re always either sending signs of strength or weakness. If you are sending signs of weakness, no matter who it is, they cannot help themselves but exploit you.
1. Avoid people who don't like you - Avoid people who don’t even come out of their way to make a conversation with you. Who are inconsistent because they will be disrespectful in the long run.
2. Stop rewarding disrespect - Stop rewarding disrespect with your attention and also start punishing disrespect if they’re close to you. Teaching people how to respect you is not about submitting to them, it’s about having peace of mind and living a life not filled with disrespect.
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You teach men how to treat you by having healthy boundaries self- respect dignity and worth
And that's exactly what I am practicing!
Facts on facts
Ain’t that the truth!!
Alex.. i was mean to my fiance most of the time and he proposed to me under a year. This was the first relationship I wasn't a doormat and i got the ring. I wasn't mean like abusive, but I stood firm in my boundaries and i wasnt afraid to show I would walk away. He said "I like how i know i cant just pull anything on you". I had to develop a sense of self.
How do you state those boundaries in a feminine way though?
I really don’t think “mean” is the correct term here.
Be firm and follow through.
Brooklyn yes it’s not but that’s how it’s presented in society. Men like “bitches”
Yep. Same. I was mean to my husband and he proposed to me after a month of knowing me/dating. Married a week later. Still not taking shit.
This is true. Dont give people the benefit of the doubt that they appreciate your understanding nice mentality. People see that as a weakness and they lose respect for you. The only people who appreciate you being nice and understanding is your close family. Everyone else will just take advantage of you.
Hmm you’ll be surprise even your own family member will take advantage of your kindness
“Attack people who attack your boundaries”
- Alex, Mindful Attraction
Even family will treat u with disrespect as lonh as u let them
@S B that's why you gotta change it and learn how to help it. it's a matter of survival.
Inconsistency leads to disrespect 🔥 yup!
inconsistency is disrespect in itself.
Reward only things a man does when he goes beyond and more for you that is big. Everything else you just say thank you and expect it.
Iv mastered the art of Walkin away from people… some is harder then others but after 3 days I 4get they were even in my life idk how I do it but I do
no space for name calling, hitting, cheating 💯
it all starts with name calling, that’s when they’re testing your limits so establish boundaries right away, happens again then walk away ✨
Verbal abuse is the first rung, always. 🏃♀️ Run, don’t walk. It only escalates.
You should never let it happen TWICE. If it happens ONCE, it's a WRAP.
Yeah, he said it's fun to call names, it's not...ever..
Yeah, he said it's fun to call names, it's not...ever..
I love your insight. You’re the toxic dating coach but you’re actually teaching us to stand up for ourselves and not put up with sh*t 😆
When I have kids ima make them watch your videos to educate themselves. What you teach is more than just dating and relationships. It's about cultivating true respect for yourself and know your value
Same 😂 😂
"Mommy, why is he waving a stick when teaching?" 😂
@@aj.meso26 Father Alex means business 🤣
Whenever people will sense weakness they'll exploit it.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 3:25
See yourself worthy of love & embody you're in that loving relationship. He or She will have to confront & see that version of you
Very well-said 💯
This is by far one of his most important videos to watch. No game playing just straight facts,,never let someone get comfortable disrespecting you. Someone can only do to you what you allow. Choose people that choose you, as soon as you see something that is mediocre and disrespectful,,cut'em off. I have learned through many tears, 4 page letters lol, none of that means anything to a fboy. A real relationship and person will communicate and bring positivity to your life. Peace y love to everyone 🌅🥰😘
I totally agree with keeping your finger on the trigger, he need to know that I’m always on go! Try me!
A king teaching all of y'all to be queen's.
No space for name calling, hitting, cheating. Should be obvious🙄. Yet somehow toxic people convince you to apologize just for peace
The is very interesting. It sounds like you're saying a man treats us the way he sees us; if he doesn't think we are worthy of respect, he will not respect us. So the question is, what characteristics do men respect in women?
That’s not always the case. A woman carrying herself with dignity & respect can be attacked by weaker men. A clear indication that someone is intimidated by you is they’ll try to randomly disrespect you. Or if you seemingly hold the power in a relationship or have a high self esteem, weak men will covet it and attack. Maintain you boundaries and disengage. If you’re operating in your higher self and someone is attacking you then it’s because you’re already above them. Do not drop to their level; Continue being yourself and they’ll either meet your standards or disappear
From this video it's a woman you is willing to pull the trigger and end it over disrespect
They don’t respect women. Most men have zero empathy and want women to be like their mothers. They want bangmaids and not a true partner. High value men don’t treat women badly, abuse them, lie to them or manipulate them. Just hold yourself to a high standard and know your worth. At any point a man disrespects you (block, delete) bye forever.
I really appreciate you & your videos. U teach me valuable lessons daily. I’ve been in prior abusive relationships or ignored red flags & forgave but it’s always been a complete disaster. I’ve pulled that trigger & left 4 times now 4 different men over the yrs. I hate that I am attracting these types of guys. It’s good in beginning then ends disastrous. I’d like to learn how to attract respectful men. Thank u Alex xo
I wish I had these videos to listen to 15 years ago 🤣. You give these ladies the best advice!!!
I can’t get enough of your videos. Your advise are all golden. I am impressed how a person as young as you are can be this wise. Btw this is my first time ever commenting on UA-cam. Thanks!
I believe he said he's 40 something. Yes just young passing
Yes. True.
I used to be the forgiving Chic. Nope not anymore. I’m learning my value
Absolutely true! Love it .
Wouldn’t be nice to live in the world where people are honest to each other, unconditionally accepting others who they are, none judgemental and respectful, but … human nature is human nature, we have to learn to survive…
I like Alex is upfront and straight forward
Alex, you deserve a million subscribers 😂 you are amazing
The Messenger isn't perfect but the message is everything ❤thank you Alex
I really wish I saw this sooner or knew some of these things during my younger years. Would have saved me a ton of heartache. Thank you Alex!
Alex. I lost my brother in a miscarriage. I see an elder brother in you. Thank you.
Great , video and many great concepts. I totally agree with always be willing to walk away. Next, don’t accept the roles society gives you. Not, rewarding bad behavior.
People have disrespected me my whole life. The nicer you are the more people will take advantage of that. Better to be a bitch! Haha! Not really, just stand up for yourself and cut people out of your life who disrespect you. Thanks for your videos, you always make me laugh 😁
This by far one of best videos I've watched for you and I've watched most of your videos multiple time! Golden advice! We definitely need more videos on this topic, life changing!!!!
Love this video! I stop rewarding bad behavior a long time ago!
I miss your old video style! Like a BOSSSS!
Wow, Alex, spot on. They give the chump roles, clean the toilet. I love this!
Thank You Alex! Ive learned a lot from you and, I look up to you. You’ve made me a better person. I hope that one day I get to meet you! Hugs, Iris 🤗
Everything you be saying is literally on Damm Point ✨ I practiced all these lectures you’ve spoken about way before I even knew it was actually how the human relations and energy work.
Thanks Alex …. I love you for being so damn honest
This is a very insightful video. I have allowed so much disrespect and I realise this is entirely my fault. I had no idea.
This is gold, thank you!!
Alex, I wish I had had a brother like you to teach me about life like this. Than you so much!
I pray for your healing journey to become clean and sober
Thank you father Alex. Love you.
I wish you talk about how to forget someone you love after a breakup please
Watch his video on self respect and give yourself some time. That's it.
He’s got a lot of videos on that
Time is really the only cure
Don't care about anyone who doesn't care about you PERIOD.
I am tired of being some play thing or all the above when men feel lonely or bored but when phase is over go back to their friends life I am nobody therpist
Alex we appreciate your channel so much! You make us better partners and better versions of ourselves
como una frase icónica que se dice en mis tierras "como te ven te tratan, si te ven mal te maltratan"
1:33 "soul creator of our reality" folks. You hear that? Listen to father Alex 🥺
Sooo trueee
Wow father alex looks like he just woke up
Wow thanks for your advice! I feel like I really needed to hear this today.
Great topic Alex 👍🏼
I am sorry you are getting a cold. And I love what you’re teaching. You distill important ideas from psychology, neurology and sociology, presenting these to the general public. Very nicely done.
Excellent advice!! Thanks!
You are wonderful! What a teaching. I'm grateful
Talk about women ghosting men? Does it work
Very great your information that you share,hope one day you can make a seminario in Montreal Canada.... bless
Yes. Absolutely!!!
Excellent video❣
Boi, you came thru with this one, thank you💯💯💯💯
Leave anything that is not up to par from the get go. F it. Blood relations or not. Learn it from my childhood. I left my mom. Shows how bold IDGAF. Reward - I'm successful af.
Thanks Alex! I love your counseling 😉❤
Great teaching!
Great video ✨✨
Amazing video, Thank you Alex!
Thank you so much. Greetings from Peru 😘
Come to Denver some day! I would love to attend a seminar!! BTW great video 🙌
Thank you for this video 🙏
There goes the toxic stick
Very true video 👌
Loved that about having the hand on the trigger all the time ! Ja ja . Thanks! 🙏🏻
Thank you so much Coach ❤
No space to abuses, and cheating 💯💯
Thanks Alex, this one was wonderful.
Dam Alex I needed this wake up call 👏🏿
I love your personality - and you speak the truth 💯💯💯💯✅✅✅
Yup. No space for THAT. 👏👏👏
This video is Booom!!! 💯💯💯 Thank you Father Alex 😊
Thank you
Thank you so much
Why he always look like he just woke up in his videos 😂🤣 anywho I still like your videos
Because I do just wake up. Or else I won't be able to make it 😖
This is wicked advice for every relationship in life 👌
As someone who grew up in a really religious family - I took so much disrespect in my school years, I can see why I’m attracted to people who isn’t consistent
Why in a hell u dont have more likes and subscribers ! !
Because most people do not like reality! Most people enjoy lies
We love you Alex
Luv u father Alex 💕♥️💕
You’re so magical, you have a rainbow 🌈 on your face😩✨
To met your chanel was a bless for me and the day that I spoke with you in Instragram in a live that you share I was so happy to make a cuestión direct to you. And you were very nice. Thanks you ...and take care ...you are very intelligent and the information that you share is very wise..and no all the coaches share something like that ....nice to meet you by your videos....
Okay i have 1 question
You said , dont be too emotional, like in the last video you said emotional and sensitive people with high egos- who's reactions we can easily predict . So in this vedio you said , always be aware about the red flags (disrespect) people are showing to you in order to make you submit , so always have your sword in your hands , so if someone disrespects us and if we teach them through sending subtle signs of coldness , anger , unavailability , willingness to walk away etc that we are not someone to be fucked with , will i be known as a emotional and overly sensitive person with a high ego just because i am self-aware about myself and consciously sensing the energy people throw at me ?
Thats quite a bit girl....I truly think he shares, we have to understand the rules of the game and play accordingly in the beginning, but anyone who actually cares for you and loves you is not going to do you dirty.
Anytime and at any point, they start to intentionally treating you poorly, DIP OUT. PERIODT.
You’re a feminine woman with a heart of steel. “Act like a lady, think like a man.” Do no harm, but take no shit.
As the guy i was seeing is flaking rn, this is exactly what i needed. Boom and gone, stay toxic
Awesome advise 😊thanks so much
Great video as always
Thank youuu haha greetings from Germany 🦋
YOU NAILED THIS!
Extremely helpful
Wish I could come to the seminar
How can you be so young and be so smart... I'm 48, and don't know half this stuff
Sending love to Father Alex from Kenya🇰🇪 am getting toxic😄
Hey sis!
Hey babe🇰🇪
You're great, Alex!
I needed this so bad tonight.
Thank you for this video
Love this video.
It's a shame you gotta teach people (men and women) self respect.
"Zero tolerance for name calling, cheating, abuse."
Excellent advice Alex.
Alex if you could mesh all your knowledge thus far with Law of Assumption, you'd break the innanet!!!! I'll be waiting....😏😏😏
This is better than diamonds…