Day in my life: Thismadmama vlog
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- It’s not the most exciting day but I’m sharing it anyway. I’m the mom of 12 and I recently was sick in a coma and while I was in the hospital my kids were placed in foster care. Now that I’m home, most of the kids are back, but the 4 youngest can’t come home until we fix the lead paint problem. We get 2 unsupervised visits per week though since this is technically considered a voluntary placement. I’m pushing myself to post more so I’ll have the funds to get the supplies to get the lead problem taken care of. Thank you all for your support #thismadmama
She loves looking at herself in the camera. She’s all about her.
Yeah it's so weird.
She's very vain and I don't know why.
@@Simple-d9i I’m curious to know what she finds so interesting 🤨
You complained about the prices of everything but still bought it. You could have easily gone to Walmart. I have never understood you Vic not from day 1.p
@@lynvilliers2081 She really makes no sense. For a Mother of 12 she acts like a teen. I really feel sorry for her children.
Damn you have done nothing but complain about the prices of stuff... don't buy it then go elsewhere 😮😮
Why are you buying fancy food when money is apparently what you need to get your kids back
If you call that “fancy food” I’d hate to see what you buy 🥴 and it’s food stamps not $
@@kristennelson2480 she called it fancy lol
Yess Queen you are 100% Correct
@@kristennelson2480She can survive without sushi. Why doesn’t she eat spaghetti o’s, like she feeds her kids?
She gets ebt
Why are you asking your child for money that she works for?
You shouldn't be dependent on her income at all. She's a child & should be able to keep her paycheck. Your putting adult responsibilities on her & its not fair.
She was asking for money to take her to work and pick up. So she has every right to ask for that.
She clearly is asking for a ride because she has no other way to get there. The girl probably makes pennies. Her kids are parentified & made to be adults much to early. They deserve the chance to try & dig themselves out of this mess that Veronica created with as much help as possible.
Mama this video is not doing you justice for CPS ! I would take this down if I were you. It shows you disheveled, you didn’t have any clean dishes for the kids to eat on. And most importantly 2 of your kids said they haven’t eaten all day when it was already dark out. And it’s summer so that means like 8 or 9 pm. But you made sure to feed yourself during the day then took a nap! Veronica please 🙏🏻 try a little better
Casseroles are much more economical than this type of meal.
Why should she worry about making casseroles when the taxpayers are supporting her?
Always junk food from the dollar tree
Tips for saving money: buy in cheap supermarket once a week instead of couple times a day, don't buy pre-made food, basic ingredients cost less, cook at home, don't buy chips, keep attention to bills, so they're no overdue or unexpected. Save some money for accidents, go to work.
She's too lazy! Plus us taxpayers are paying for all that food.
If she can’t sit up to make a video do u really believe she’s going to stand up to cook? The stoves not next to her bed so she’s not going to cook. She opens 13 cans of spaghetti ohs and they don’t even use spoons. They drink it from the can cold. Dinner over.
You’re looking for lunch for the kids in that aisle? U need to find the candy aisle or go over to dollar tree.
@@anntunaley9974 She doesn't know how to cook let alone shop.
Watching this makes me realize how lucky I am to of been born to a mother who loves me and always thought of me. This video is sad and how little care you put into your children. I can’t imaging bringing children into the world not making them healthy meals, not showing them love, or being negligent like you.
Those children are the only ones I feel sorry for.
You are going to get so much hate for this video but you should take it. You make choices to be different, and like you tell your kids. " Just own it." You are really out there in your actions. And you have no issue letting your kids get teased.
BFFR……….
@@I3rook390 I am sure we agree, I was just trying to put a nice spin on her being so weird
@@I3rook390It's not normal to just use the first letter of a word to make sentences and expect everyone to know what you're saying. Please, grow up, and learn to spell and speak actual words.
@@AmysAttitude ok I will, BE FUCKING FOR REAL.
Omg I see why her and Alicia get along (for that one day anyway)……every single thing in that cart is processed other than tomatoes, cucumbers and lettuce 🤦🏽♀️ pure laziness…it’s actually cheaper to make with fresh ingredients especially making large quantities to have as more than one meal
Neither one of them know how to cook.
Maybe brush your hair when you wake up!?! 😂 Maybe wash some dishes!!
I can tell you from experience I am a social worker and if you don't cut your hair and wash it and put it up in a messy bun or some sort of hairstyle you will be judged by cps, you need to start carrying a little bit more about your image, you are already looked down upon and if you want your kids back
With all due respect, that’s the least of the worries. Her hair is clean.
@@JustJenn1982-zp6qhno her hair is not clean and it's not even brushed, and that is going to make the biggest impression if she shows up looking like she just rolled out of bed she's going to look trashy and unkempt if she can't even take care of herself they will think she's not able to take care of the kids it's just a fact of life people judge. She needs to at least brush her hair and put it up and get it out of her face and look presentable it's just basic and if you have a problem with that you're probably trashy yourself
I don’t think she cares at all. She’s lazy
I'm quite surprised that all you took from this video is that she should take more care of her appearance, considering you're a social worker I thought you would have picked up on the fact that she expects a child under 13, who also happens to be extremely small, to feed himself 3 times a day, is that not neglect? She didn't realise he hadn't eaten at all until evening time, isn't that just awful?
@@kirstye9450You’re really invested in leaving your negative energy all over, aren’t you?
Poor Marvelous talking about his hot bedroom. 😢 And then Veronica demanding money from Mara… I feel so bad for these children.
Veronica you look ill and really need medical attention
She needs help. Like real help. Help with her house and help to find a job she can handle.
She doesnt need you guys to bully her. She needs genuine help from people who care. Not hate.
Hundreds have left comments to support her and with the lead find programs for her. Someone even offered to pay! Another single mom offered to show her how she got rid of lead in her home. And she’s taken exactly ZERO info and acted upon it
What has happened to you Vic? Not only are you not caring about what you look like but the way you are talking to the children has changed a lot. It's like you have just dropped the entire facade now. The one a lot of us knew you were putting up from the start.
She plays favoritism with her children I've seen her take her older kids out to a nice dinner while the younger ones stay home any cold chef boyardee out of a can, our youngest son has cancer she was told so many times to get birth certificate for him social security card so she can get insurance for him That's negligence on her part why didn't she do that so he could be insured and get the treatment that he needs it's evident she cares not one bit about her children and CPS stepping in and taking them from the home was the best thing that ever happened to them
Her favorite is definitely Mara.
Why do you buy so much processed food? Its terrible for the kids.
Like I told many other people on here, she doesn't worry about the cost of anything because us taxpayers are paying for it. Plus she is lazy.
@@DiannaGrable-fm8jd I'm not defending her, but I'm also not fighting against you. I was recently on foodstamps after losing a job. I fed 2 adults on $300 a month. I DEFINITELY wasn't buying chips or sushi or single serve drinks. I shopped sales, meal planned for the whole month and made everything from scratch that I could. I just felt the need to say, not all on food stamps are lazy pieces of trash. I wonder what she even eats at the end of the month after shopping so irresponsibly.
@@DiannaGrable-fm8jdshe’s not getting food stamps here bc she didn’t reapply for them when this was posted . Not sure if she did yet Lol
The paint is called Kilzs; you need to use the encapsulating kind and at least three coats.
Ive been through lead remediation in Massachusetts when my eldest was 2 and i was 8 months pregnant with my second; let me know if you need any help figuring it out
There are also grants and you can borrow against your house with no interest to get it done.
I’m here from tiktok. I hope you and your family get through these tough times
If it's cheaper at walmart like you said, why not just go there instead? Is it currently out of gas range for you?
She’s at Walmart
I meant for lunch@@kristennelson2480
@@kristennelson2480 The firsst store she went to was not Walmart.
@@DiannaGrable-fm8jd I’m aware of that…she comparing prices to Walmarts from the first store she at as well as when she was at Walmart realizing everything is cheaper at Walmart which is why @ravensdreamsx made the above comment
She said she went to the first store because they have sushi
I hope those children in care are getting the best life. They deserve love, clean clothing, real food and a chance to live a normal life.
Why do your kids have to put the groceries in the car, then bring them in the house while you're stuffing your face with chips? Your kids deserve so much better.
Edit: nobody wants to see a close up of you eating
No fruits or vegetables for the kids 😒 also no meat to cook - worse than the average college student grocery run
Can I ask why the other two littles are ok to be at home but the others can’t? I know about the lead but why is it ok for the other two littles?
Get the Great value Frozen family size lasagna you can add more mozzarella cheese on top if you have to it will feed the whole family and then some you can also get some bagged salad or frozen broccoli to have with it, and the Great value Cheez-Its taste the exact same as the name brand
I love GV stuff they recently came out with Dino nuggets she can get a bag or two for the kids to eat. They taste the same as Tyson’s.
Liver failure does affect your memory and concentration….look up the medical term debility
Bless Donnie
Going to the shops without having a shower in the heat? That is disgraceful if your personal care is so lax the kids will do the same, I shower once a day in the summer twice a day, I would NEVER get into bed all sweaty, you all look like some personal care routine should be a must. My kids have a bath in the evening and a shower the next day, their clothes are cleaned and ironed!
I wanted to hit my iPad at you chomping gum in bed, you eat as though you are starving, the kids need a variety of food, absolutely NO fruits or vegetables went into your trolley! I got very upset watching Donnie following you around crying he just wanted a hug from his mummy, the fact that he has cancer or recovering from cancer made my heart ache, you need a set routine a video I watched was you making soup which had a lot of vegetables but I thought they were eating at 5pm not 9.30pm, I was totally blown away he should have been asleep in his bed sound asleep!
Hayley you're a great mom. Also showering helps prevent UTIs etc
@@Platothedog Thank you for your reply it is so, sweet, I really struggle watching her kids eating sandwiches again, it has such poor nutrition it would be better to put cucumber and tomatoes in their sandwiches at least there is a little vegetables and fruit! Her kids have absolutely no routine her little girls are still awake in the early hours then they sleep all day! My kids would never cope without a routine especially my youngest he is autistic, all children need a routine to feel safe and loved! ❤
@@Hayley0412 I had bad hygiene as a kid and personally ended up with ear infections, tooth infections, UTIs. I was the second of three so I know personally hygiene is very important
@@Hayley0412 yes bread can be bad in high amounts because it turns to glucose faster. Eating bread all the time risks diabetes etc. you are right
Yes life/ food is expensive lol that’s why people refrain from having a ton of kids lol
I miss the cooking videos😢 I'm going to have to agree with the "haters". I've been watching your content for years and even defended you... But lately I'm disappointed in your self-absorbed behavior and excuses. I feel you're focusing your energy on the wrong things when the priority should be getting the little ones back.
There's no excuse anymore. Marty has been arrested for sexual abuse right when the kids were taken by the CPS. It's not the first time either, he has a record.
She's just overwhelmed with all the kids I don't think she really wants them back she's probably enjoying the break while still getting to see them😢
@@user-zv5th9jx7v She's on IG looking for new friends in her area. I don't have nearly as many kids and barely have time for friends. Priorities.
Prisoners here in the UK eat so much better than your children, it is always bread of some sort your kids are going to suffer with severe constipation. You have six kids at home and you don’t think to cook??? I am stunned I only have two children and they always have a hot homemade meal, I always make something for their lunch, yours are young they have such a poor nutrition! You always have late wake ups my kids are always up and ready to start their day at 6am, they make their own cereal and toast occasionally, we go out for picnic lunches on days out, salad, chicken, boiled eggs and lots of fruit and yoghurts!
Donnie looks so well, he looks great in his summer clothes and sandals, I think Modhi is getting a little thinner which will help him move around a lot easier, can you put up a video about Donnie’s cancer, what were the symptoms? Is Donnie now in remission? He is such a gorgeous little boy his little chats always make me smile, he seems quite happy in foster care, has he asked to go home with you?
Why does this lady look proud she could eat a sandwich. These poor kids. That isn’t something you should be proud of if you have a ton of kids.
Your kids are so sweet 🌸
They really are.
Those prices are what my “cheap” stores are in CO
Please please please please do not copy Alicia dougherty! She has money but she doesn't look like it because she wastes it, she buys food from expensive stores and buys a bunch of cheap crap, my husband and I are extremely wealthy and we buy store brand, go to the Dollar tree and get your bread or make the trip to Walmart or sign up for Walmart delivery it's cheaper than gas.
At least her kids are being fed. 🤨
What do yall do for work 🧐
You seem super humble
Oh shut up.
You have the potential to make your content so much better. To have it actually have a purpose and a point. You also have the ability to improve your life please put the effort in to do so!!
She wont
WHY CANT YOU LIE TO THE CAMERA? NOT THE SKY?
0:56 we're just going to Donnie's dr appt without brushing our hair. Great 👍🏼
Yeah I don't always brush my hair, hence the messy hair in my logo 😂
@@thismadmamait makes you look like a lazy trashy teenager instead of a capable mother, take some pride in your appearance. All adults have to clean the house bathe regularly and put on clean clothing and keep our hair tidy
@@thismadmama Why do you always have a smartazz comeback. Do you realize how ignorant that makes you look?
@@thismadmamaew
@@thismadmamathat doesn't make it better.
Why not shop in big bulk store? Costco, Bjs, Sam’s club????
I have a lot to say so. Here it goes. Yes, we all make our choices. Yes, we all, "Make our beds and have to lie in them." I will say I have never seen hate on social media towards single Dad's as I do towards single mothers. I see many single dads on social media being praised for bare minimum cleaning, or hell, even making the house a disaster on purpose to clean for videos (and getting praise) we don't support single moms with our words we pick them apart fully!!! No matter what.. like it's fun to pick someone apart because the fingers aren't pointing at you. Feeding your kids sandwiches BAD, not feeding them Bad, staying up late bad, sleeping in bad, blah blah blah. There is no village for single Mom's but a dad takes their kids to mcdonalds and he's super dad cause he's at least he's feeding them? Imagine being a single Mom of this many kids (yes im sure some will say, "Well, I never would have that many kids if i couldn't take care of them") Okay and? Literally touch grass. How about instead of judging someone, you leave a kinda word or encouragement like everyone does for Joey Foo on Tiktok.. make it make sense. I'll tell you one thing... Mom's, especially single ones are the harshest judged under a microscope of anyone! I'm sure everyone who leaves judging comments is perfect!!! Here's some grass for ya'll 🌱🌱🌱 touch it. 💋
You’re obviously super new here. She gets hate for a reason ready? She allowed her ex bd to live in the basement and he sa the kids. He was removed from the home cps got involved and she freaked and od on Tylenol. Cps found out that 2 kids didn’t have BC. Her one kid w cancer lost his insurance because of this and hadn’t had his scans for months. She got charged with child neglect. 4 kids are in foster care. She had unassisted home births cause she didn’t want anyone seeing the squalor she lives in. She said she was brainwashed not to get the other kid BC by a fb conspiracy theory group. Cps did a home inspection and discovered a high amount of lead in the house. She bought it for 20k w her oldest. It was a tear down and not supposed to be lived in. The kids have lead poisoning. She spent 7k on cmas but neglected to pay her electric and property taxes or fix the lead windows or roof. She doesn’t even mow her yard and the city does it and fines her $200 each time. She’s made a tt saying how she used to have her oldest do everything she didn’t want to do. Cleaning cooking diapers. Her house was going to be condemned this week but she got an extension. She hasn’t made any phone calls or taken any action to fix the house. She refuses to work and said she has learned helplessness so she doesn’t have too. She’s done several gofundme in the past and misappropriated the funds. Her latest she lies in the description. Her kids are always messy and dirty. You can clearly tell the difference between the kids at home and the ones in foster care. Oh and she got a cat last week before she knew she had more time to fix the roof. She just wants to sit back and blame everyone but herself for her problems have you seen her shopping Tt or yt? The ones on the house? Her spending 7k and bragging about it. Or let’s go with the simplest one..she exploits her kids on the Internet for money.
You’re turn to touch grass
@@tamrughamennnnnn
@@tamrugh ooh burn 🔥 you ate that Tam Tam literally slayed go off queen
I'm from Oneida and I miss freihofers . They have the best baked goods 😋. Wishing you a peaceful weekend girl 🌻
I am so bad at those grabby games lol. At least you got one quickly!
I am retired, get a pension each month, own my own home and car and I can't afford to buy 1/8 of the stuff she buys. But of course the taxpayers aren't paying for my living. I cook almost everything homemade because it tastes so much better and is cheaper also. If you have 12 children, you should know how to shop economically, know how to cook homemade things that will fill your childrens bellies up, know to have them bathed and in bed by at least 8 (mainly the little ones) have clean bed linen on their beds, don't send them out the door for school or anywhere else looking like they just came out of a wrestling match. I have never seen anyone like this before and that is so sad. My heart breaks for those poor children.
You shop like i shop. No lists haha
Well I try to make lists but then I forget to look at them 😅😅😅
@thismadmama I've been doing better and making meals then just ordering it for pickup bc it's so much for the week.
I wonder what she would do without food stamps. They would all starve to death
The best part of this video was you saying “What are thoooooseeee” lol reference to vine video of cop shoes
Damn. Wegmans has cheaper sushi than that place.
u should come shop in canada lol. those are sale prices!
Why do u lay in bed during almost all of your videos?
Your kinds are so kind . Awwww
They really are
And as a kid who had to grow up too fast, asking your child to help with gas money is literally so annoying. She has a job let her save her money cuz clearly you aren’t the smartest with it
When I started working at 16 I would have to pay my mom gas money. It teaches you responsibility
@@gennbenn respectfully disagree in this situation it seems more like mom “ can’t “ work so i have to be the one who’s financially responsible
Please don’t talk while you’re eating with the camera right in your face.
You forgot to pay your power bill since April??
Yeah so, I didn't get a bill. Then I was in a coma and woke up feeling confused and stressed out so the power bill wasn't on my mind
My 15 & 12 yr olds are obsessed with the jalapeno Cheetos mac & cheese. I have to keep it stocked at all times.
If you throw those flatbreads into the toaster on low it makes them 10 X better (in my opinion)
@@JustJenn1982-zp6qhis it really spicy? My son wants to try it but can't take really spicy
@@kolbi-sis It’s spicy. But in our opinion the jalapeno mac has a better flavor and is less spicy than the flaming hot version.
@@JustJenn1982-zp6qh ok thank you.
You're older kids are extremely rude to you, I hope that everybody that is of age is getting a part-time job and putting a certain amount of their paycheck into a big jar and at the end of the month everybody can open that jar and go buy the supplies you need to improve your home you need to work together as a family. Do you know how incredibly blessed you are that you have adult children living there that can be contributing to the money? Poverty is a choice for you at this point
It is nobody’s responsibility other than the mother and father to contribute to the home expenses or the smaller children financially. Don’t forget who the parent is supposed to be.
I didn't say that the kids had to do everything I said that in an emergency like this they should be putting the family first, that's what family does or at least used to do I know you might be a modern person that lives in today where everybody fends for themselves but where I come from families work together in hard times to help each other out@@court7686
They probably miss their little siblings they have every right to be rude and angry at their "mother"
You are correct, but Adam is an adult. He could at least help out with a bill or groceries. @@court7686
it’s not her kids responsibility to fix the house. what a weird comment
I think u look alot better 😊
Than what?
turn to god
Oh ya he’ll wave his wand and fix the house so she doesn’t become homeless in 3 weeks lol
@@tamrugh god won't save someone who doesn't turn to him or ignores his word. She needs to follow the bible and lead her kids away from demonic stuff
Keep on keepin’ on. I believe in you if nobody else has told you that today. It’s a corny phrase but it has good meaning and I mean it 🫶🏼🤍