The only way for laundry to work out in your house is teach the kids how to do their own get a folding board so they could fold their stuff too and it needs to be done in time slots and every day, that’s the only way it will ever work.
Girl I know you don't believe in public school and I totally understand why, I'm having issues with public school for my girl and I wish I could homeschool. But honestly I would advise you right now to just register your kids into school for at least a few months! They won't be traumatized frm a few months and then you will be able to save money on food (school provides low income students food) and you will have respite- more time to catch up on house stuff, get an organized system going and focus on the baby and Donnie. Just a few months!
As an amazing loving caring mom I BARELY have enough time or capacity to care for THREE children. I’m on go 24/7 don’t even have time to pee so there’s absolutely no possible way u have the capacity to care for all these children, it’s not physically or emotionally possible.
It actually takes a lot of confidence to parent. I have two children and I often feel outnumbered and overwhelmed. Creating and maintaining a family culture is not easy work and kids often need redirection. Veronica seems like she had a really hard life, lacks confidence and engages with kids as if they were all in the same herd, not as if she is the confident leader. She reminds me a lot of sister who has four kids and a bunch of deal kids from the neighborhood always drifting in and out-she is never alone and wants her kids to like her more than she cares to instill routines and expectations. The TV is always on and there is always noise. For me it’s triggering but for my sister it feels abundant and familiar.
@@thismadmamamy grandma had 15 kids, multiple with medical issues. She still made sure the house was clean, kids were fed (quality meals) and everyone went to bed on time and had chores. Kinda sounds like you just are a bad parent.
@@RedsSCABLyou are an awful human being. You should be ashamed of yourself. Your grandmother was super human. We are not all built like that. When kids are sick the last thing you care about is keeping the house spotless.
Was that baby bottle rinsed with cold water, made with cold water from the tap, and given to baby without heating after a quick shake which would hardly mix it properly? OMG! You should make breakfast for all the kids and eat together at a table.Too late now, I hear.
I always wondered why her kids always sound sick & noses full of buggies. This is why. There is not 1 reason out there for you to live like that. You have plenty of kids who should know how to clean. That house should be condemned. Definitely not healthy for a baby with cancer.
Hey :) not trying to hate at all just some friendly advice, maybe give them a set of chores and make a reward system. That way they can get use to it so when they are older they won't struggle with household things. Speaking from experience, my mom spoiled me and did 100% of the house work and wouldn't even let me do laundry. So when I moved out it was really inconvenient trying to teach myself everything vs if my mom would've had me help a little. I know the trial and error of them doing things on their own may be a little frustrating, yeah you may end up having to re do it yourself buts it's all about the learning process :) again not trying to do anything but be helpful and make the load on you a little easier. I have 4 children age 3-7 and they all help me around the house. The older ones fold and put away their own laundry and have to have their rooms clean or they won't be able to play on tablets or phones. They will complain in the beginning but it's all worth it in the end. More you time is just not only beneficial to your mental health but also physical. Don't over work yourself girl, it takes a crew to smoothly sail a ship. :) 💗
LET UR KIDS HELP & don’t be afraid they won’t do it right. Marv was practically begging u to help, he could have at least started mashing the potatoes, and took a little work off of u. No matter the chore, u can always go behind them and make sure it’s done the way u like it. I just want to see u less stressed.
Please stop asking them if they want to do things around the house.. you have to tell them what they need to do. Instead of “do you wanna do the dishes”, it’s “you need to do the dishes”
Please sit down and time block, write out a routine and just TRY it.. if it doesn’t work fuck it.. if it does work, you will have such a better life. Make ur younger kids goto bed at 10pm.. it might be hard at first but stick to it and within about 2 weeks it will be a routine. & u can enjoy your night after. I would love to see this channel evolve into thismadmama 2.0.. new and improved. It’ll go viral trust me. It’s what the people want.
I dont know if anyone has told you but your doing your best and good job. You know what others think dont matter. ❤ No one on the computer is with you 24/7 they get to see a glimpse into your family life and judge.
You need organization and structure in this house there’s NONE & it’s not healthy for you or your children.
The only way for laundry to work out in your house is teach the kids how to do their own get a folding board so they could fold their stuff too and it needs to be done in time slots and every day, that’s the only way it will ever work.
Girl I know you don't believe in public school and I totally understand why, I'm having issues with public school for my girl and I wish I could homeschool. But honestly I would advise you right now to just register your kids into school for at least a few months! They won't be traumatized frm a few months and then you will be able to save money on food (school provides low income students food) and you will have respite- more time to catch up on house stuff, get an organized system going and focus on the baby and Donnie. Just a few months!
Clear neglect
no structure, no responsibility, no respect.
And no pride in their appearence/hygiene orhow they keep the house. Its 🤯 she shows this like its ok
The kids don’t listen to you at all. You told your daughter to go eat a million times and she completely disregarded you.
Your kids shouldn't look these horrible stuff
As an amazing loving caring mom I BARELY have enough time or capacity to care for THREE children. I’m on go 24/7 don’t even have time to pee so there’s absolutely no possible way u have the capacity to care for all these children, it’s not physically or emotionally possible.
She's not. She just exploits these kids and parents them so lazily.
Also thank you for constantly calling her out in the comment sections. She's a pathetic excuse for a parent
It actually takes a lot of confidence to parent. I have two children and I often feel outnumbered and overwhelmed. Creating and maintaining a family culture is not easy work and kids often need redirection. Veronica seems like she had a really hard life, lacks confidence and engages with kids as if they were all in the same herd, not as if she is the confident leader. She reminds me a lot of sister who has four kids and a bunch of deal kids from the neighborhood always drifting in and out-she is never alone and wants her kids to like her more than she cares to instill routines and expectations. The TV is always on and there is always noise. For me it’s triggering but for my sister it feels abundant and familiar.
Everyone should fold their colored clothes!!! To help out. Something to do together and can spend time on something else. Stay strong.
Why is your house is an absolute state. Having that many kids by choice doesn’t equate to allowing neglect. Are you raising feral animals?
probably because I have to leave for weeks or months at a time for my son's cancer treatment
@@thismadmama even more of a reason why this neglectful lifestyle is disgusting. I feel sorry for all your kids
@@thismadmamamy grandma had 15 kids, multiple with medical issues. She still made sure the house was clean, kids were fed (quality meals) and everyone went to bed on time and had chores. Kinda sounds like you just are a bad parent.
@@RedsSCABLyou are an awful human being. You should be ashamed of yourself. Your grandmother was super human. We are not all built like that. When kids are sick the last thing you care about is keeping the house spotless.
Was that baby bottle rinsed with cold water, made with cold water from the tap, and given to baby without heating after a quick shake which would hardly mix it properly? OMG! You should make breakfast for all the kids and eat together at a table.Too late now, I hear.
I always wondered why her kids always sound sick & noses full of buggies. This is why. There is not 1 reason out there for you to live like that. You have plenty of kids who should know how to clean. That house should be condemned. Definitely not healthy for a baby with cancer.
Hey :) not trying to hate at all just some friendly advice, maybe give them a set of chores and make a reward system. That way they can get use to it so when they are older they won't struggle with household things. Speaking from experience, my mom spoiled me and did 100% of the house work and wouldn't even let me do laundry. So when I moved out it was really inconvenient trying to teach myself everything vs if my mom would've had me help a little. I know the trial and error of them doing things on their own may be a little frustrating, yeah you may end up having to re do it yourself buts it's all about the learning process :) again not trying to do anything but be helpful and make the load on you a little easier. I have 4 children age 3-7 and they all help me around the house. The older ones fold and put away their own laundry and have to have their rooms clean or they won't be able to play on tablets or phones. They will complain in the beginning but it's all worth it in the end. More you time is just not only beneficial to your mental health but also physical. Don't over work yourself girl, it takes a crew to smoothly sail a ship. :) 💗
Sounds like pinched nerve somewhere?
Oh girl, sorry...pan handle on inside. Handle hanging over front of stove is scary.
Just curious.. why is there tissue all over the bathroom/laundry room floor?
Because my kids threw tissue on the floor? Pretty self explanatory
LET UR KIDS HELP & don’t be afraid they won’t do it right. Marv was practically begging u to help, he could have at least started mashing the potatoes, and took a little work off of u. No matter the chore, u can always go behind them and make sure it’s done the way u like it. I just want to see u less stressed.
Please stop asking them if they want to do things around the house.. you have to tell them what they need to do. Instead of “do you wanna do the dishes”, it’s “you need to do the dishes”
The meal looks amazing ! ☺️
Please sit down and time block, write out a routine and just TRY it.. if it doesn’t work fuck it.. if it does work, you will have such a better life. Make ur younger kids goto bed at 10pm.. it might be hard at first but stick to it and within about 2 weeks it will be a routine. & u can enjoy your night after. I would love to see this channel evolve into thismadmama 2.0.. new and improved. It’ll go viral trust me. It’s what the people want.
Do u have ONE BATHROOM in that house ?!?
Why? Maybe because they are little kids unsupervised?
I dont know if anyone has told you but your doing your best and good job. You know what others think dont matter. ❤ No one on the computer is with you 24/7 they get to see a glimpse into your family life and judge.
How do you deal with criticism of your lifestyle? Do you have supportive adult friends or family?
I notice the lotus baby bath mat. I thought about buying one and just added one to my baby registry I’m currently pregnant lol
I have one and I do not like it used it once wish I could give it to u lol
18:04 your the mother, go and make your child breakfast.
The salt on the meat, I can’t.
No wonder Donnie was having nightmares
I wish I could come help you clean for the day. Hugs to you Mama - hang in there. ❤
Where are the kids and you now?
What did that onion do to you. That’s it I am coming over
That loud bang would be your furnace most likely …
Love the hour long thankyou can you do more ❤