Today in here I promise myself that” I’ll value myself n not let anyone treat me like a choice(although it would be hard sometimes but I’ll remind myself n get thoughhh it)”.plz like my comment so I keep comin here🥰
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1. Create the fear of losing you 2. Don't be always available 3. Don't reveal everything 4. Be costly 5. Prioritize your own needs 6. Don't make them the center of your life 7. Stop starting conversation all the time 8. Create your own happiness 9. Be willing to walk away from them 10. Don't be attached emotional too much
To the pretty stranger if you're reading this: I'm proud of you 😊 You're doing a great job Overthinking is addictive so I hope you don't get addicted to it May all your worries anxiety and insecurity go away You're enough May God shower you with blessings 🙌
I did everything in my two marriages. Now I have a respectful relationship but I’ve learned to not make myself a priority to him. When I withdrew he came to me. I withdrew because I found myself doing everything again. I won’t anymore. I’m just going to do my own things. And I’ll go to him when I want to instead of seeing that he isn’t coming to me. And he’ll come to me when he wants to.
In my case, I decided to leave just one time - and one time only - never to return. I was the scapegoat of a very abusive narcissistic family who treated me terribly and contemptuously. Eleven years ago, I went no-contact with all of them and never looked back. It was the absolute best relationship decision I have ever made in my life. Like they say, you never know a good thing until it’s gone; and I’m sure they regret losing me. These days I’m practicing the art of non-attachment - I enjoy people and things without being attached to them. It’s very liberating. Peace to all. ☮️✌️
the only thing they regret is not having you there to abuse , now your easier to blame for everything because of your absence and you can’t defend yourself ,Let them and be happy . xoxox
@Elizabeth I can relate. They cannot handle your uniqueness and value they don't possess or don't chose to see or to self reflect and develop themselves because it is "too hard"
Some find it very difficult to cut family members off. However when they treat you with NO respect because of their emotional problems or whatever their problems are it is very easy to just walk away. My brother was the scapegoat and treated very badly by my father. He left when he was 16. My father had no one to take care of him during the pandemic and moved in with me and my family. After the pandemic he started looking for a place to live. Then he became very unappreciative about all we had done for him he is 92 now. Complains about anything he can think of . He is leaving in a week or so and I doubt I will ever see him again. He will be with in about an hour from me . But his showing such rudeness and disrespect. I have loss all concern for him . So I know you and I and many others have put up with unnecessary crap from family. This video has a lot of truth in it. As Jesus said love your neighbor as YOURSELF. There needs to be balance. But people that are unappreciative don’t deserve our time. Take care.
Here's something that always works, instead of making another human being the centre of your universe, place God at the centre and have everyone else sort of hover around and not be crucial to any part of your survival. The thing about God is that He is consistent, His love never fails and whether or not you realize it, He is everything you will ever need.
Stop starting conversations all the time. This is me, when I don’t start conversations, I don’t hear back for 1yr or more. Just gonna enjoy my aloneness now!
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing PUSH UPS on paint cans pull UPS on beams got ripped af at 52 years old!!!
Thank you for the brutal and honest truth. I was about to let myself go weak in the knees for someone, and find that I was losing myself in the process. Hated that feeling. This is a wake up call for me.
I grew up in a broken home that taught me to accept other peoples bad treatment and behavior toward me. That carried over into an 11 1/2 year broken marriage. I thought that was all I deserved, and she would always affirm that by mistreating me and betraying me enough finally became enough. Now several years after I am free, I am self-respecting. Another people respect me because I demand it. I no longer except being treated as a list than in my life is so much happier. Now I’m moving out of this rut and onto to Sevilla Spain to begin a new life adventure with a woman who truly loves me for who I am not my net worth.
I was a warrior in all my life, but I always fought for others... for others' country, for others' families and glory and money and appreciation... I forgot to fight for myself.. Now Im 46... perhaps it is not too late to fight for my own, finally.
Me at 55 lol, and this vid just confirmed I'm finally heading in the right direction lol. As disiderata333 said, allow yourself to shine anoltz, it's not too late at all
This is all so true, and I wish I had found this years ago. I failed at all 10 points, so my 2.5 Yr relationship, therefore, failed. Never again will I allow myself to be so weak, so walked over, so undervalued. These points will stay with me and help me push through this pain 💪
Yes! My crappy job is about to be "ruthlessly" removed from my life tomorrow. On to new beginnings now... YEE HAW BABY!!! Oh, and bye to the loser that broke my heart recently as well.
A child that is not embraced by the village, will burn it down: to feel its warmth... When a broken/damaged/immature/abusive man is using a woman, he’ll show these signs: - he avoids truly deep and emotionally vulnerable conversations - he's inconsistent - he only contacts you when he needs/wants something - he doesn't REALLY include you in his life (it's all an illusion/fantasy) - he avoids commitments/labels - he makes you feel guilty/crazy/needy - he doesn't truly support you or your goals (in any real and tangible way) So, If he pulls away, give him a push... Let him go! When he pulls away, he can stay away, it is over! It is complete. 1) Never EVER be afraid of losing him. You are the Divine feminine. Let him fear losing YOU! 2) Have an EXTREMELY low tolerance for ANY bad behavior... AVOIDANT or NARCISSIST? Let's be real. It's irrelevant. They both behave the same. The damage they do is the same. The trauma they cause is the same. FUCK THEM BOTH. So, When there’s a disagreement, an argument, a conflict, some bullying, disrespect, boundaries being crossed etc... someone will inevitably, most likely, be disappointed in me... So, I engage in each and every situation in a way that ensures, that the person disappointed in me, NEVER ENDS UP BEING ME! I aim to never repress, never suppress. I aim to never lose parts of myself. Radical honesty only: 100% of the time. Always, all ways. AND REMEMBER: to test if ANY relationship is healthy - you've got to judge the relationship on its bad days, not on its good ones! ALSO, If you haven't heard today... You are so very loved and you are so very worthy of love. The hardest part is learning to love your self and to know: it's not all your fault, and to see: that you're beautiful; wonderfully perfectly brilliantly divinely created. You're stronger than most; a true leader/warrior in the making. Keep going and keep thanking. Remember Jesus was an outcast and he suffered more than any human being could ever endure... And the most important message here is to forgive them and to forgive yourself and to love all. Keep walking in truth. AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER: * I completely totally entirely permanently forgive, release, let go, move on, and surrender to Jesus * I accept myself, 100% * I am a creative being, I create miracles * I fully harness all my power and magnificence and beauty * I am a master alchemist * My life always, and in all ways: unfolds perfectly, in accordance with divine guidance * I am restored to my true nature: which is LOVE * I constantly/consistently feel/accept: the love and bliss and joy and blessings that flow into my life Yes I AM blessed everything goes my way!
"I AM A WARRIOR IN MY OWN LIFE, I WILL BE THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF & IF THERE'S ANYONE WHO TREATS ME AS AN OPTION I WILL THROW THEM AS A CHOICE, MY TIME & ENERGY ARE FOR THEM WHO GIVES ME HAPPINESS & UPLIFT ME TOWARDS MY DESTINY"💯💕🙏🏾 #POWERFUL
If someone can’t see how valuable you are then don’t complain and don’t explain just focus on you. You’re worth it. I learned to stop waiting on someone to love me and to start loving myself in all my ways and actions. Self care is the greatest gift you can give yourself.
As a man who is in his late 40s, I learned most of these lessons, the hard way with a lot of pain. I wish that someone had sat down and had this conversation with me 25 years ago. I’d probably be a lot happier than I am now. This video if anything else was a reminder and wake up call that I need to make some serious changes in my personal life. It’s going to suck, but I’ll be better for in the end.
Me: if some treat me like option, I will leave them as choice. I am warrior for my life. I don’t want attention but healthy friendships. I need to be with people who prioritise and respect me. I spend time with people who gives me happiness and uplift me
My worth is non negotiable and I deserve to be with people who know my worth, respect and love me... I am a warrior in my own life... I will be the best version of myself and if anyone treats me as an option I will throw them as a choice... my time and energy are for those who uplift me.🙏❤️💯
This all seem like a game, and it's tiring.. Unfortunately, all this is true and I don't think I have the strenght to always keep in mind if I am oversharing information about myself, to remember to be mysterious, if I need to let them greet first this time, if I'm being too clingy by expressing my emotions, when to pause to give them space.. I think I'm just better of alone, eventhough sometimes I crave companionship and affection..💔 I also realized that the ones we want, don't give us the same energy back and the ones who want us, we don't want..🤦🏻♀️
It seems like a game because it is a game. These are "rules" teaching people how to mimic something they aren't. However, listen to this again as results rather than intentions and you'll realize that interesting, well balanced, confident people just naturally come across like this.
Actually all of life is a game, we make the rules. Instead of saying the ones we want donf want us we can change it to “the ones I want want me more”. All it is is a belief based on old experiences. We have to prioritize ourselves and our happiness
I couldn't have said this better. I'm not playing games. I'm just gonna be me. Before this last 2 yr relationship that should have been over after 6 mos I was single for 7 years. It was heaven, lol I'm going back to that. I think social media that now has porn and nudity all over it has ruined the idea of relationships. I'm just disgusted with myself for believing in anyone. I believe in me and no one is better than that, dammit I set the bar so high and I live up to it. Integrity is everything bc that encompasses trust, Loyalty, and all the rest. I'm tired too, I'm gonna take a really looooong nap from this horseshit.
I am a worrior in my own life. I am becoming the best version of myself and if there's anyone treating me as an option I will throw them away as a choice. My time and energy are for them who give me happiness and uplift me towards my destiny. Without forgetting that forgiveness comes with letting go without bitterness. And, that all of this sounds great, buy without love, this process is incomplete.
I will not ever again neglect my needs, even when it emotionally affects me. I will stand on my worth and not anyone else define it for me. Those who see my worth as I see theirs will respect me and those who don’t will be banished from tunnel vision forever.
Sometimes walking away is necessary & it works well. However, when it happens more than once & they know this is what you will do, they will use it to discard you from their life. & so you have to love yourself more & let them take the loss....💯
This video has left a huge impact on me. A lot of good points were made! I was unexpectedly discarded by a narcissist & it has shaken me. I was the one trying to salvage the relationship but after coming across this video, I will no longer reach out to this person or be readily available for him. My time is valuable, my life was important, yet he so easily cut me off. I will become a mystery and proceed with my life. I care about him but I cannot be taken for granted. I will not chase, I hope others refuse to chase anyone who doesn't recognize their worth. I will give him tons of space and prioritize myself now. Everytime you pursue someone who devalues you or pushes you away, your value drops like a sack of potatoes. Thankyou for this. Very inspiring!
I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of myself. If they treat me in any other way I will delete them from my life as a choice. I understand my value and self worth.
I completely agree, it is all about how you allow anyone control of your ship. Many wish to feel good, only wasting your time and stealing from you treasures of life. I commit to be the gold, in the hands of the King, not the servant boy
Take control of the game and make them see your true value : 1. Create the fear of losing you 2. Don't be always available 3. Don't reveal everything 4. Be costly 5. Prioritize your own needs 6. Don't make them the center of your life 7. Stop starting conversation all the time 8. Create your own happiness 9. Be willing to walk away from them 10. Don't be attached emotional too much
I will create a safe save and energy by learning to gracefully but profoundly put myself first in my life. I will not be victimized by anyone who doesn’t value or recognize my worth. I will never chase anyone who doesn’t respect me and value my time and worth. I will walk away from disrespect and degrading behaviors from others. I will no longer be available to anyone that chooses to use me rather than appreciate my kindness and love. I will love myself and not seek validation from anyone anymore. It’s time to level up and hold my head higher with commitment to my needs and experiences. I will value myself rather than try to seek validation from others ❤
Thanks for enlightening my mind. From now on I will think of myself not giving the priority of others thinking for no reason while they don't even care for me . I am what I am and I don't need to prove myself to anybody. I will be on myself and be happy with what I have and what makes me happy. I will bring positive change in me and become the best version of myself. I will never seek for any love or attention to others . If it's not free to take then I will not beg for it making one sided efforts. I will become emotionally stable and focus on my goals. I will not care for anyone who doesn't value my feelings at all. My dedication and love deserves to be felt my someone who actually cares about me .I will change myself and when I will make it happen I will comeback and tell you again that I made it . Thank you.🍀
When you are Happy on your own.you will...never take crumbles from anyone..Love yourself first and never allowed anyone to put you down or undermine you. Tua first wrong move walk away and never looks back..vou are Worth of respect qnd NOONE will way the contrary or diminish you..if someone says I NEED YOU ..runs for your life🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
@Willie--😢good luck Liam...it hurts that empty lost feeling. I just split with the only woman I truly loved, to much time has passed since we were first together, we both changed too much.glty
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
Thank you, I'm a senior was abandon from a child. and i feel like i had to be the good little girl if i wanted some kind of attention. I'm just finding out i deserve better. I'm tired of walking that one way street. it's never to late to learn. live is a learning experience. every day. thank you
Oh, yes. precise, without too much of the unnecessarily to convey what is important in our relationships. Being a victim of the worst childhood relationships, I know how much energy do I need to unlearn what has put in my entire nervous system, in order to have the pleasure to know what a sane, balanced, relationship is. I do struggle everyday. I only have one or two healthy relationships and have to understand that I might loose them for many reasons out of my control.I am one of the persons that lost its identity in any relation. It was scary, more than being completly alone . many thanks for your work. I will appreciate as well the next one. so good. have my best regards. Lola.
Your life is your kingdom and you are the CEO of it be slow to hire and quick to fire. It’s is your journey too many times we been taught to give more and to expect anything back, to turn the other cheek and get smacked in the other. When you turn the other cheek you walk away for good. You are inspirational powerful force now beam out and believe Warrior.
I always pick up when my best friends call; also my clients. We truly care about and don’t “ghost” each other. People l love are my priority, but I also love myself and my blessed solitude, which allows me to create. Seems to work out for me. But honestly, if someone I’m close to calls me, I always pick up.
I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of myself and if there is anyone who treats me like an option, I will leave them be as a choice. My time and energy are for those who give me energy and uplift me towards my destiny. I’m beyond grateful to come across all the beautiful souls I do, knowing everyone plays a role & all is temporary. I’m beyond grateful to be me, a powerful warrior capable of loving, creating, caring for and protecting despite any odds-I will prevail.💖
Dr Oluwaseun You did exactly what you said. I really appreciate that my partner is finally back with me. I am very happy to have followed your recommendations. My partner shows me a lot of affection. Thank you so much😇❤️
Self love is the greatest gift you can give yourself! I've had to work on becoming a receiver not just a giver! It's hard work, like anything else change is hard to make but not impossible!, In order to be a well balanced person you need to do this for yourself! Hard lessons to learn in life! ❤
I am a warrior in my own life I will be the best version of myself and if there any one who treat me as option i will throw them as a choice . I will be best version of myself . My time and energy who give me happiness ,respect and uplift me towards my destiny
How do people honor God consciously with this advice. Its a constant exhaustion to live as if someone is always out there to sabbotage your trust in them and love for them.
This is one of the best advice I have ever received. I am doing these very things. Thank you.. thank you. Thank you. I have walked away. Thanks so much.. . He always used me S AN OPTION. ❤
I'm kinda weak innocent person. This beautiful message really hit me! Time to be the best strong version of myself.... Ya Rabb 🤲 Thanks for this amazing and fearless message.... 🙏🙏🙏 God bless as all 😇
I started off small trading with Mrs Claudia Vecchi Nese in 2022 and now my life is good. I thank God the most He alone made it possible for the opportunity to come my way.
I can listen to this every morning and every day. I dealing with a person in my life, who says that they can not live without me, they can not eat or sleep. I blocked them 3-4 times. I am getting into diving they are inspiring
I am a warrior in my own life. I am becoming the best version of myself and if there’s anyone who treats me as an option I will throw them away as a choice. My time and energy are for those who give me happiness and uplift me towards my destiny
Great message, i have done the opposite and got bamboozled. It was my fault and have learned to forgive myself, now I'm protecting my peace. Some days are better than others but it's but the more i focus on the most high and myself it's truly a fantastic experience
The most IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE IS YOU! We all were created to be loved! So to LOVE yourself is doing what it is that was meant for you! If you Love who you are only then will it surround you! Surrounded by your own positive energy is all one needs! ❤ 20:01
I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of my self. And if there is anyone who treats me as an option. I will throw them as a choice. My time and energy are for them who give me happiness up lift me towards my destiny..
I AM A WARRIOR IN MY LIFE, I WILL BE THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF AND IF THERE'S ANYONE WHO TREATS ME LIKE AN OPTION I WILL THROW THEM AS A CHOICE...MY TIME AND ENERGY ARE FOR THE ONE WHO GIVES ME HAPPINESS AND UPLIFT ME TOWARDS MY DESTINY...!!!!! I'M IMPORTANT 💜🤝😌🙏💫💭😸🖇
Wow what a great wisdom , this topic is an eye opener to me ,I am overseas worker and I always wait my husband call me and most of the time I'm the one who initiated and most of the time he ignores my call I feel he is not interested after 28 years of supporting him and my son now I feel they don't need me,I was crying most of the time begging their attention it's hurt but after I hear this message it's like flashlight open my understanding. I want to hear it over and over again .I have to love my self and try to create my own happiness if my husband always ignoring me I'll let him out of my life ..and be free
Been in a very desperate situation, after putting my world revolve just around him and unawarely putting him in a pedestal. Thank you for these valuable lessons. I love this words of wisdom. Now i am making myself the the priority and love myself deeply because i truly deserve to be happy.
I am honored to come across this. I love the brutal and honest words that have been spoken to inspire me to look at myself to look at others and to be able to recognize toxicity. Best Regards, nicolerachelle
I’m the wounded worri of my life, I create the path of my own happiness. I am lovable, unique & always in mission of establishing my success & fame towards raw bitter honesty & gratitude
These points are both self-loving and also boundary-setting! I have learned through this video that I already do practice a few of these teachings, however I am excited to implement the teachings here I have failed at. I felt unconditionally loved in this video. I felt that I am ALWAYS to see myself through the eyes God sees me with! Precious and cherished 💪💞
I have to stop commenting on things like this when I’m upset. 🤪 Now my algorithm is full of videos like this and “challenge his ego”. I was mad one day, can I get my Cardi B twerking videos back please 😂🤣. Great video 💖
So there is a saying now in psychology. U have two types of love. Conditional love and unconditional love. Self-love is the aspect of all things because if u haven't got it, how u supposed to give it. Empathy and apathy are one in between. So, too fully create the place you want, you must connect yourself to your passionate dreams. Find it in yourself to go forward but not for people pleasing or for centre needs. For you and you only. For you hold a key.
All love is conditional when you're looking for someone else to love you, however you loving yourself is the only unconditional love out there. You can't reasonably expect another to love you unconditionally not even your parents could do that, god doesn't even do that when you look at the actual words & in bible actions god takes on others he loves extremely conditionally its the first thing he states in the bible.
Usually i don't watch videos like this but idk why but i played it and watched the whole video. Loved it and this is something i needed for a long time.
I needed this. I have a song in my channel called “my refusal” basically refusing to follow these types of rules because I like to give my all until nothing is left: so my relationships have been that I do the opposite of all this until I just leave with them chasing me to come back but it’s too late for them by that point. No games
I just did these rules applied in my life and I m so glad I could prioritize my self respect on their selfish behavior. Now I can see d fear in their eyes of loosing me. I m soooo happy. Thank you so very much for confirming that what I did was d perfect things. ❤❤❤
I promise myself I am going to continue to create & Be the best version of myself everyday. I want to show up to myself with a full cup & radiate confidence always !
I am a WARRIOR in my own life i will be the best version of myself, if someone treats me as an option then i will throw as a choice. Focus on just my son rather than his mother & her rebound. Focus on bringing myself to the vision my Higher Self instructed me to be. Focus on elevation rather than descent. Focus on being a high value man like my father was before me. I am value, i am potential, i am infinite!
I’m always helping my family. Sometimes … often times … they take it for granted. One time, when they were especially misbehaving … I said “watch this”, took my purse and left their home. The task was left undone. I still help them. But their behavior, their form, has improved.
I will survive these rule for my life to find myself an me. An I. Iam important by health an mind an soul. Love myself as God loves as a child of God . Thank you so much for this important wake up call. .
Starting right now my motto in life is that I will not allow any body who will not treat me right and don’t validate my feelings and lastly who treat me just an option and least priority. Because for me I’am Strong, Independent, Unique, woman with a Beautiful kind soul.😊
I will the best version of my self ever, I promise. I will never have the fear of loosing anything in life but rather be more confident for the better results with the best efforts I can put into.
"Wow, this video is a goldmine of wisdom! 🌟 The brutal psychological rules shared are not just strategies but powerful tools to transform one’s approach towards priorities and life. Applying these rules can indeed be a game-changer, helping us to stand out and be inevitably prioritized. It's not just about being noticed, but about cultivating a presence that resonates with value and significance. Let's embrace these insights and embark on a journey towards a more impactful and prioritized self! 💪🚀"
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Today in here I promise myself that” I’ll value myself n not let anyone treat me like a choice(although it would be hard sometimes but I’ll remind myself n get thoughhh it)”.plz like my comment so I keep comin here🥰
Same goes to myself..
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It's sad that humans love being trashed. That's why self love 1st.
You are not reading this by accident. If you're reading this, EVERYTHING'S GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Good energy is being sent to you from all over the universe. Be thankful and pay it forward. Many blessings!🙏🙏🙏
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1. Create the fear of losing you
2. Don't be always available
3. Don't reveal everything
4. Be costly
5. Prioritize your own needs
6. Don't make them the center of your life
7. Stop starting conversation all the time
8. Create your own happiness
9. Be willing to walk away from them
10. Don't be attached emotional too much
You saved 20 min of my life. Thank you. ❤️ I really wish videos were as straight forward as you are! You don’t need 20 min to explain a few rules…
@@RamzaBeothere is more to it he explains why 5:03
@@RamzaBeo before u apply these rules u need to learn patience first!!!!!
Where can i find the whole speech word for word in this video
Being alone seems better
To the pretty stranger if you're reading this:
I'm proud of you 😊
You're doing a great job
Overthinking is addictive so I hope you don't get addicted to it
May all your worries anxiety and insecurity go away
You're enough
May God shower you with blessings 🙌
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How I wish I can talk to same one 😢
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Never chase attention, love or affection. If it's not given freely then it's not worth having.
I agree.
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I’m just learning this at 43
I did everything in my two marriages. Now I have a respectful relationship but I’ve learned to not make myself a priority to him. When I withdrew he came to me. I withdrew because I found myself doing everything again. I won’t anymore. I’m just going to do my own things. And I’ll go to him when I want to instead of seeing that he isn’t coming to me. And he’ll come to me when he wants to.
In my case, I decided to leave just one time - and one time only - never to return. I was the scapegoat of a very abusive narcissistic family who treated me terribly and contemptuously. Eleven years ago, I went no-contact with all of them and never looked back. It was the absolute best relationship decision I have ever made in my life. Like they say, you never know a good thing until it’s gone; and I’m sure they regret losing me. These days I’m practicing the art of non-attachment - I enjoy people and things without being attached to them. It’s very liberating. Peace to all. ☮️✌️
the only thing they regret is not having you there to abuse , now your easier to blame for everything because of your absence and you can’t defend yourself ,Let them and be happy . xoxox
@Elizabeth I can relate. They cannot handle your uniqueness and value they don't possess or don't chose to see or to self reflect and develop themselves because it is "too hard"
Same thing for me.
Some find it very difficult to cut family members off. However when they treat you with NO respect because of their emotional problems or whatever their problems are it is very easy to just walk away. My brother was the scapegoat and treated very badly by my father. He left when he was 16. My father had no one to take care of him during the pandemic and moved in with me and my family. After the pandemic he started looking for a place to live. Then he became very unappreciative about all we had done for him he is 92 now.
Complains about anything he can think of . He is leaving in a week or so and I doubt I will ever see him again. He will be with in about an hour from me . But his showing such rudeness and disrespect. I have loss all concern for him .
So I know you and I and many others have put up with unnecessary crap from family.
This video has a lot of truth in it.
As Jesus said love your neighbor as YOURSELF.
There needs to be balance.
But people that are unappreciative don’t deserve our time.
Take care.
Your family as in parents or husbamd and children?
Here's something that always works, instead of making another human being the centre of your universe, place God at the centre and have everyone else sort of hover around and not be crucial to any part of your survival.
The thing about God is that He is consistent, His love never fails and whether or not you realize it, He is everything you will ever need.
Absolutely! Wise words
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You should prioritize yourself rather than an imaginary being who you haven't even seen 😐
@@nipunweerakoon_97May The Lord Almighty reveal himself to you. He is real and he loves you. He is not imaginary
@@SamLed144k It never happened and would never happen. If it does you'll be the first one to know 👻
Stop starting conversations all the time. This is me, when I don’t start conversations, I don’t hear back for 1yr or more. Just gonna enjoy my aloneness now!
Hahaha
It means never start conversation all the time only you...
Me tooooo! They drop like flies if I don’t initiate! 😆
They don’t like you… 6:30
I value myself and my happiness.
Im chased ..i dont chase.
I will leave if Im an option.
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing PUSH UPS on paint cans pull UPS on beams got ripped af at 52 years old!!!
Just checked your channel garageman BRUTAL training keep it up grandpa🔥
That's gonna make him mad if you call him that.I am 55 and I like to person I have become.
lol old man , nothin like the 50 's. keep going !!!!!!
Word. I'm ripped ASF at 49.
Keep grinding pops, u got this!
Remember, self-prioritization isn't selfish; it's a crucial step towards a more fulfilling and successful life.
I PRIORITIZE my god given purpose. I am priceless and my absence will leave a hole in anyone’s life.
Exactly
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
Yes! We leave our mark!
I Also prioritize my god given purpose. I am Priceless and my absence will leave a hole in anyones life😏🥇💪🏾
WOW!
Thank you for the brutal and honest truth. I was about to let myself go weak in the knees for someone, and find that I was losing myself in the process. Hated that feeling. This is a wake up call for me.
Same
Me too❤
Me too
Me too dear please we pray for are self but really it's so hard 😢😢😢
Me too..
I grew up in a broken home that taught me to accept other peoples bad treatment and behavior toward me. That carried over into an 11 1/2 year broken marriage. I thought that was all I deserved, and she would always affirm that by mistreating me and betraying me enough finally became enough. Now several years after I am free, I am self-respecting. Another people respect me because I demand it. I no longer except being treated as a list than in my life is so much happier. Now I’m moving out of this rut and onto to Sevilla Spain to begin a new life adventure with a woman who truly loves me for who I am not my net worth.
I was a warrior in all my life, but I always fought for others... for others' country, for others' families and glory and money and appreciation... I forgot to fight for myself.. Now Im 46... perhaps it is not too late to fight for my own, finally.
Listen, it is not too late! I started over at 57 and life is so much better now. Allow yourself to shine. 🌟
It's not too late. I seen a 50 year old crack head on youtube get sober now he's buff living a healthy lifestyle making money off the net
Me at 55 lol, and this vid just confirmed I'm finally heading in the right direction lol. As disiderata333 said, allow yourself to shine anoltz, it's not too late at all
Sorry for misspelling both your names!
Ur not u were a blessing n ur life will be one ever
This is all so true, and I wish I had found this years ago. I failed at all 10 points, so my 2.5 Yr relationship, therefore, failed. Never again will I allow myself to be so weak, so walked over, so undervalued. These points will stay with me and help me push through this pain 💪
Same here, but we got this now!
Pain & Suffering are the Great Teachers & Seeds of Wisdom
It's a hard lesson to learn, but you have to be "ruthless " about removing the people and things that have a negative influence on your life.
Agree
Yes! My crappy job is about to be "ruthlessly" removed from my life tomorrow. On to new beginnings now... YEE HAW BABY!!! Oh, and bye to the loser that broke my heart recently as well.
When people treat you as an option, treat them as a choice... I can't stop listening to this... So compiling .. Thanks.
A child that is not embraced by the village, will burn it down: to feel its warmth...
When a broken/damaged/immature/abusive man
is using a woman, he’ll show these signs:
- he avoids truly deep and emotionally vulnerable conversations
- he's inconsistent
- he only contacts you when he needs/wants something
- he doesn't REALLY include you in his life (it's all an illusion/fantasy)
- he avoids commitments/labels
- he makes you feel guilty/crazy/needy
- he doesn't truly support you or your goals (in any real and tangible way)
So,
If he pulls away, give him a push...
Let him go!
When he pulls away,
he can stay away,
it is over!
It is complete.
1) Never EVER be afraid of losing him. You are the Divine feminine. Let him fear losing YOU!
2) Have an EXTREMELY low tolerance for ANY bad behavior...
AVOIDANT or NARCISSIST?
Let's be real.
It's irrelevant.
They both behave the same.
The damage they do is the same.
The trauma they cause is the same.
FUCK THEM BOTH.
So,
When there’s a disagreement,
an argument, a conflict, some bullying,
disrespect, boundaries being crossed etc...
someone will inevitably,
most likely,
be disappointed in me...
So,
I engage in each and every situation
in a way that ensures,
that the person disappointed in me,
NEVER ENDS UP BEING ME!
I aim to never repress,
never suppress.
I aim to never lose parts of myself.
Radical honesty only:
100% of the time.
Always,
all ways.
AND REMEMBER:
to test if ANY relationship is healthy -
you've got to judge the relationship on its bad days,
not on its good ones!
ALSO,
If you haven't heard today...
You are so very loved
and you are so very worthy of love.
The hardest part is learning to love your self
and to know:
it's not all your fault,
and to see:
that you're beautiful;
wonderfully perfectly brilliantly divinely created.
You're stronger than most;
a true leader/warrior in the making.
Keep going and keep thanking.
Remember Jesus was an outcast
and he suffered more
than any human being
could ever endure...
And the most important message here
is to forgive them
and to forgive yourself
and to love all.
Keep walking in truth.
AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER:
* I completely totally entirely permanently forgive, release, let go, move on, and surrender to Jesus
* I accept myself, 100%
* I am a creative being, I create miracles
* I fully harness all my power and magnificence and beauty
* I am a master alchemist
* My life always, and in all ways: unfolds perfectly, in accordance with divine guidance
* I am restored to my true nature: which is LOVE
* I constantly/consistently feel/accept: the love and bliss and joy and blessings that flow into my life
Yes I AM blessed
everything goes my way!
Please don't give up on this. Your voice heals,
"I AM A WARRIOR IN MY OWN LIFE, I WILL BE THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF & IF THERE'S ANYONE WHO TREATS ME AS AN OPTION I WILL THROW THEM AS A CHOICE, MY TIME & ENERGY ARE FOR THEM WHO GIVES ME HAPPINESS & UPLIFT ME TOWARDS MY DESTINY"💯💕🙏🏾 #POWERFUL
Thanks for hollering at any n all readers..that really helps!🎉
If someone can’t see how valuable you are then don’t complain and don’t explain just focus on you. You’re worth it. I learned to stop waiting on someone to love me and to start loving myself in all my ways and actions. Self care is the greatest gift you can give yourself.
As a man who is in his late 40s, I learned most of these lessons, the hard way with a lot of pain. I wish that someone had sat down and had this conversation with me 25 years ago. I’d probably be a lot happier than I am now. This video if anything else was a reminder and wake up call that I need to make some serious changes in my personal life. It’s going to suck, but I’ll be better for in the end.
Same boat here, but as a woman. SMH.
Same here 😢
Same here! 🥺 We should have a 40’s club.
Same here. Life is a lot better with balanced relationships.
me too. Nice to meet you all
Me: if some treat me like option, I will leave them as choice. I am warrior for my life. I don’t want attention but healthy friendships. I need to be with people who prioritise and respect me. I spend time with people who gives me happiness and uplift me
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
The best love is self love stay blessed and stay solid.
My worth is non negotiable and I deserve to be with people who know my worth, respect and love me... I am a warrior in my own life... I will be the best version of myself and if anyone treats me as an option I will throw them as a choice... my time and energy are for those who uplift me.🙏❤️💯
This all seem like a game, and it's tiring..
Unfortunately, all this is true and I don't think I have the strenght to always keep in mind if I am oversharing information about myself, to remember to be mysterious, if I need to let them greet first this time, if I'm being too clingy by expressing my emotions, when to pause to give them space..
I think I'm just better of alone, eventhough sometimes I crave companionship and affection..💔
I also realized that the ones we want, don't give us the same energy back and the ones who want us, we don't want..🤦🏻♀️
It seems like a game because it is a game. These are "rules" teaching people how to mimic something they aren't.
However, listen to this again as results rather than intentions and you'll realize that interesting, well balanced, confident people just naturally come across like this.
Actually all of life is a game, we make the rules. Instead of saying the ones we want donf want us we can change it to “the ones I want want me more”. All it is is a belief based on old experiences. We have to prioritize ourselves and our happiness
So true
Who are you? Can we be friends? First time I am asking someone in my entire life. You spoke exactly what I feel. Its exhausting.
I couldn't have said this better. I'm not playing games. I'm just gonna be me. Before this last 2 yr relationship that should have been over after 6 mos I was single for 7 years. It was heaven, lol I'm going back to that. I think social media that now has porn and nudity all over it has ruined the idea of relationships. I'm just disgusted with myself for believing in anyone. I believe in me and no one is better than that, dammit I set the bar so high and I live up to it. Integrity is everything bc that encompasses trust, Loyalty, and all the rest. I'm tired too, I'm gonna take a really looooong nap from this horseshit.
I am a worrior in my own life. I am becoming the best version of myself and if there's anyone treating me as an option I will throw them away as a choice. My time and energy are for them who give me happiness and uplift me towards my destiny. Without forgetting that forgiveness comes with letting go without bitterness. And, that all of this sounds great, buy without love, this process is incomplete.
I will not ever again neglect my needs, even when it emotionally affects me. I will stand on my worth and not anyone else define it for me. Those who see my worth as I see theirs will respect me and those who don’t will be banished from tunnel vision forever.
❤ well said 👏
Amen…
Sometimes walking away is necessary & it works well.
However, when it happens more than once & they know this is what you will do, they will use it to discard you from their life. & so you have to love yourself more & let them take the loss....💯
Facts
True
If I feel that trying to be someone's friend is a struggle, time to walk away...
Absolutely.
I am Worth treated with Value, respect and my presence is worth more than Gold. God is my purpose and I am working on Abundance and Meaning
This video has left a huge impact on me. A lot of good points were made! I was unexpectedly discarded by a narcissist & it has shaken me. I was the one trying to salvage the relationship but after coming across this video, I will no longer reach out to this person or be readily available for him. My time is valuable, my life was important, yet he so easily cut me off. I will become a mystery and proceed with my life. I care about him but I cannot be taken for granted. I will not chase, I hope others refuse to chase anyone who doesn't recognize their worth. I will give him tons of space and prioritize myself now. Everytime you pursue someone who devalues you or pushes you away, your value drops like a sack of potatoes. Thankyou for this. Very inspiring!
I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of myself. If they treat me in any other way I will delete them from my life as a choice. I understand my value and self worth.
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
I completely agree, it is all about how you allow anyone control of your ship. Many wish to feel good, only wasting your time and stealing from you treasures of life. I commit to be the gold, in the hands of the King, not the servant boy
Take control of the game and make them see your true value :
1. Create the fear of losing you
2. Don't be always available
3. Don't reveal everything
4. Be costly
5. Prioritize your own needs
6. Don't make them the center of your life
7. Stop starting conversation all the time
8. Create your own happiness
9. Be willing to walk away from them
10. Don't be attached emotional too much
I will create a safe save and energy by learning to gracefully but profoundly put myself first in my life. I will not be victimized by anyone who doesn’t value or recognize my worth. I will never chase anyone who doesn’t respect me and value my time and worth. I will walk away from disrespect and degrading behaviors from others. I will no longer be available to anyone that chooses to use me rather than appreciate my kindness and love. I will love myself and not seek validation from anyone anymore. It’s time to level up and hold my head higher with commitment to my needs and experiences. I will value myself rather than try to seek validation from others ❤
Thanks for enlightening my mind. From now on I will think of myself not giving the priority of others thinking for no reason while they don't even care for me . I am what I am and I don't need to prove myself to anybody. I will be on myself and be happy with what I have and what makes me happy. I will bring positive change in me and become the best version of myself. I will never seek for any love or attention to others . If it's not free to take then I will not beg for it making one sided efforts. I will become emotionally stable and focus on my goals. I will not care for anyone who doesn't value my feelings at all. My dedication and love deserves to be felt my someone who actually cares about me .I will change myself and when I will make it happen I will comeback and tell you again that I made it . Thank you.🍀
I SOOOO NEEDED THIS!! I must reflect and commit to doing the work..BRAVO and thank you🙏🏽
When you are Happy on your own.you will...never take crumbles from anyone..Love yourself first and never allowed anyone to put you down or undermine you.
Tua first wrong move walk away and never looks back..vou are Worth of respect qnd NOONE will way the contrary or diminish you..if someone says I NEED YOU ..runs for your life🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
Really? How do i find one please?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@Willie--😢good luck Liam...it hurts that empty lost feeling. I just split with the only woman I truly loved, to much time has passed since we were first together, we both changed too much.glty
Any update?
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Did it work?
@jaypritchett3414I’m very excited it worked for you. How long did it take?
Stop it , and stand up
After listening to this wisdom..I finally have the courage to end tixic relationship..
Thank you, I'm a senior was abandon from a child. and i feel like i had to be the good little girl if i wanted some kind of attention. I'm just finding out i deserve better. I'm tired of walking that one way street. it's never to late to learn. live is a learning experience. every day. thank you
Thanks for sharing!
🤗 to you @gloriaadu5485
That's my strength, when I say No, I never go back it doesn't matter how much I love this person. I love myself more❤
Hahahahha
I am a Warrior of God. If those around me don't recognize my dignity and worth then they lose the opportunity of this Warrior,.me, in thier life.
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
Oh, yes. precise, without too much of the unnecessarily to convey what is important in our relationships. Being a victim of the worst childhood relationships, I know how much energy do I need to unlearn what has put in my entire nervous system, in order to have the pleasure to know what a sane, balanced, relationship is. I do struggle everyday. I only have one or two healthy relationships and have to understand that I might loose them for many reasons out of my control.I am one of the persons that lost its identity in any relation. It was scary, more than being completly alone . many thanks for your work. I will appreciate as well the next one. so good. have my best regards. Lola.
Hi lovelies. Hope this finds you with love
Your life is your kingdom and you are the CEO of it be slow to hire and quick to fire. It’s is your journey too many times we been taught to give more and to expect anything back, to turn the other cheek and get smacked in the other. When you turn the other cheek you walk away for good. You are inspirational powerful force now beam out and believe Warrior.
I LOVE your comment! Thank you for sharing, from one warrior to another~! KEEP SHINING!!🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
I am a warrior in my own life.
My time and energy are reserved for those who uplift me and value me.
You can do all these things and still experience the pain of separation😂it's not a guaranteed forever 😊
Thanks!
Welcome!
I always pick up when my best friends call; also my clients. We truly care about and don’t “ghost” each other. People l love are my priority, but I also love myself and my blessed solitude, which allows me to create. Seems to work out for me. But honestly, if someone I’m close to calls me, I always pick up.
You are good people…
I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of myself and if there is anyone who treats me like an option, I will leave them be as a choice. My time and energy are for those who give me energy and uplift me towards my destiny. I’m beyond grateful to come across all the beautiful souls I do, knowing everyone plays a role & all is temporary. I’m beyond grateful to be me, a powerful warrior capable of loving, creating, caring for and protecting despite any odds-I will prevail.💖
Dr Oluwaseun You did exactly what you said. I really appreciate that my partner is finally back with me. I am very happy to have followed your recommendations.
My partner shows me a lot of affection. Thank you so much😇❤️
He’s on Facebook page
I WILL LOVE MYSELF INSTEAD OF LOVING EVERYONE ELSE BEFORE ME. WONDERFUL WISE VIDEO. GREAT HELP.
Absolutely!
Self love is the greatest gift you can give yourself! I've had to work on becoming a receiver not just a giver! It's hard work, like anything else change is hard to make but not impossible!, In order to be a well balanced person you need to do this for yourself! Hard lessons to learn in life! ❤
I will be the best version of myself. My time and energy is valuable..
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
I am a warrior in my own life
I will be the best version of myself and if there any one who treat me as option i will throw them as a choice . I will be best version of myself . My time and energy who give me happiness ,respect and uplift me towards my destiny
How do people honor God consciously with this advice. Its a constant exhaustion to live as if someone is always out there to sabbotage your trust in them and love for them.
The new world is like this
🎯💯
I believe everyone would get the attention and love they deserve when they understand and believe that YHWH lives in them and they love themself first
This is opening my mind, showing me what I’m doing wrong and it’s guiding me in the right direction, even applying just a little Works, thank you
You're so welcome!
This is one of the best advice I have ever received. I am doing these very things. Thank you.. thank you. Thank you. I have walked away. Thanks so much.. . He always used me S AN OPTION. ❤
I'm kinda weak innocent person. This beautiful message really hit me! Time to be the best strong version of myself.... Ya Rabb 🤲
Thanks for this amazing and fearless message.... 🙏🙏🙏
God bless as all 😇
Everything very clearly stated... People need such clear videos in a stochastic world we are living inn.
Excellent comment! 🌟
thank you i needed to hear this. when im not sure which way to go, i say - Be Good or Be Good at It.
You are so welcome
I must admit Dr oluwaseun your indeed a great man who knows he's job, thanks for bringing back my relationship which I lost over 4 years ago.❤
He’s on Facebook page…
I m the warrior of my life ,
I m the master of a life
I'm favoured $130k every 4weeks! I now have a good house and can now afford anything and also support my family
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
I earn from investiing in the digital market with the guidance of Mrs Claudia Vecchi Nese
Brokerage services.
That's great!! .I don't know anything about investing and I intend to start. What are your strategies?
I started off small trading with Mrs Claudia Vecchi Nese in 2022 and now my life is good. I thank God the most He alone made it possible for the opportunity to come my way.
I have heard a lot of wonderful things about this woman on the news but didn't believe it until now.
I can listen to this every morning and every day. I dealing with a person in my life, who says that they can not live without me, they can not eat or sleep. I blocked them 3-4 times. I am getting into diving they are inspiring
I am a warrior in my own life. I am becoming the best version of myself and if there’s anyone who treats me as an option I will throw them away as a choice. My time and energy are for those who give me happiness and uplift me towards my destiny
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
Great message, i have done the opposite and got bamboozled. It was my fault and have learned to forgive myself, now I'm protecting my peace. Some days are better than others but it's but the more i focus on the most high and myself it's truly a fantastic experience
The most IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE IS YOU!
We all were created to be loved! So to LOVE yourself is doing what it is that was meant for you! If you Love who you are only then will it surround you! Surrounded by your own positive energy is all one needs! ❤ 20:01
I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of my self. And if there is anyone who treats me as an option. I will throw them as a choice. My time and energy are for them who give me happiness up lift me towards my destiny..
I AM A WARRIOR IN MY LIFE, I WILL BE THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF AND IF THERE'S ANYONE WHO TREATS ME LIKE AN OPTION I WILL THROW THEM AS A CHOICE...MY TIME AND ENERGY ARE FOR THE ONE WHO GIVES ME HAPPINESS AND UPLIFT ME TOWARDS MY DESTINY...!!!!! I'M IMPORTANT
💜🤝😌🙏💫💭😸🖇
Wow what a great wisdom , this topic is an eye opener to me ,I am overseas worker and I always wait my husband call me and most of the time I'm the one who initiated and most of the time he ignores my call I feel he is not interested after 28 years of supporting him and my son now I feel they don't need me,I was crying most of the time begging their attention it's hurt but after I hear this message it's like flashlight open my understanding. I want to hear it over and over again .I have to love my self and try to create my own happiness if my husband always ignoring me I'll let him out of my life ..and be free
Thank you for this. I need to listen to this everyday ❤
Thanks for listening
Been in a very desperate situation, after putting my world revolve just around him and unawarely putting him in a pedestal. Thank you for these valuable lessons. I love this words of wisdom. Now i am making myself the the priority and love myself deeply because i truly deserve to be happy.
I am honored to come across this. I love the brutal and honest words that have been spoken to inspire me to look at myself to look at others and to be able to recognize toxicity.
Best Regards, nicolerachelle
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
I’m the wounded worri of my life, I create the path of my own happiness. I am lovable, unique & always in mission of establishing my success & fame towards raw bitter honesty & gratitude
IAM a Warrior for God in Heaven! And I deserve to be treated with much love and affection! Keith Haley understand this!
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.
These points are both self-loving and also boundary-setting! I have learned through this video that I already do practice a few of these teachings, however I am excited to implement the teachings here I have failed at. I felt unconditionally loved in this video. I felt that I am ALWAYS to see myself through the eyes God sees me with!
Precious and cherished 💪💞
I have to stop commenting on things like this when I’m upset. 🤪 Now my algorithm is full of videos like this and “challenge his ego”. I was mad one day, can I get my Cardi B twerking videos back please 😂🤣. Great video 💖
lol
😂
I am a warrior In my owe life..my chose myself before others..I am worth it..I am powerful
So there is a saying now in psychology. U have two types of love. Conditional love and unconditional love. Self-love is the aspect of all things because if u haven't got it, how u supposed to give it. Empathy and apathy are one in between. So, too fully create the place you want, you must connect yourself to your passionate dreams. Find it in yourself to go forward but not for people pleasing or for centre needs. For you and you only. For you hold a key.
All love is conditional when you're looking for someone else to love you, however you loving yourself is the only unconditional love out there. You can't reasonably expect another to love you unconditionally not even your parents could do that, god doesn't even do that when you look at the actual words & in bible actions god takes on others he loves extremely conditionally its the first thing he states in the bible.
Usually i don't watch videos like this but idk why but i played it and watched the whole video. Loved it and this is something i needed for a long time.
Thank you. I will even if it hurts 😟🥺
You will be fine. Only time can heal.
I listen to this channel every morning to remind me of what's important in a relationship - 1 video each morning
I needed this. I have a song in my channel called “my refusal” basically refusing to follow these types of rules because I like to give my all until nothing is left: so my relationships have been that I do the opposite of all this until I just leave with them chasing me to come back but it’s too late for them by that point. No games
I promise to rewatch until this is memorized mantra!
Even me i am going to watch this video till it becomes my life long lesson every day twice
I just did these rules applied in my life and I m so glad I could prioritize my self respect on their selfish behavior. Now I can see d fear in their eyes of loosing me. I m soooo happy. Thank you so very much for confirming that what I did was d perfect things. ❤❤❤
I promise myself I am going to continue to create & Be the best version of myself everyday. I want to show up to myself with a full cup & radiate confidence always !
I am a warrior of my life, self sufficient, confident, valuable and powerful 🙏🙏. Thanks for your message.
I am a WARRIOR in my own life i will be the best version of myself, if someone treats me as an option then i will throw as a choice.
Focus on just my son rather than his mother & her rebound. Focus on bringing myself to the vision my Higher Self instructed me to be. Focus on elevation rather than descent. Focus on being a high value man like my father was before me. I am value, i am potential, i am infinite!
I’m always helping my family. Sometimes … often times … they take it for granted.
One time, when they were especially misbehaving … I said “watch this”, took my purse and left their home. The task was left undone.
I still help them. But their behavior, their form, has improved.
Thank you for the best realistic truthful suggestions.
Especially without background music able to delightful listening word by words. 👍
Glad you enjoyed it!
Absolutely! The music is so distracting
🙂
I will survive these rule for my life to find myself an me. An I. Iam important by health an mind an soul. Love myself as God loves as a child of God . Thank you so much for this important wake up call. .
Starting right now my motto in life is that I will not allow any body who will not treat me right and don’t validate my feelings and lastly who treat me just an option and least priority. Because for me I’am Strong, Independent, Unique, woman with a Beautiful kind soul.😊
I will the best version of my self ever, I promise. I will never have the fear of loosing anything in life but rather be more confident for the better results with the best efforts I can put into.
Thanks for this great video, I was doing the opposite of all the rules. It mames sense why I'm treated the way I do. Thank you!
My time and energy is for them who uplift me and give me happiness
"Wow, this video is a goldmine of wisdom! 🌟 The brutal psychological rules shared are not just strategies but powerful tools to transform one’s approach towards priorities and life. Applying these rules can indeed be a game-changer, helping us to stand out and be inevitably prioritized. It's not just about being noticed, but about cultivating a presence that resonates with value and significance. Let's embrace these insights and embark on a journey towards a more impactful and prioritized self! 💪🚀"
Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.