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  • @Wordsofwisdomultra
    @Wordsofwisdomultra  18 днів тому +10

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  • @SozjeCat.
    @SozjeCat. 7 місяців тому +2123

    1. Create the fear of losing you
    2. Don't be always available
    3. Don't reveal everything
    4. Be costly
    5. Prioritize your own needs
    6. Don't make them the center of your life
    7. Stop starting conversation all the time
    8. Create your own happiness
    9. Be willing to walk away from them
    10. Don't be attached emotional too much

    • @RamzaBeo
      @RamzaBeo 7 місяців тому +90

      You saved 20 min of my life. Thank you. ❤️ I really wish videos were as straight forward as you are! You don’t need 20 min to explain a few rules…

    • @riasearth3
      @riasearth3 7 місяців тому +29

      @@RamzaBeothere is more to it he explains why 5:03

    • @joed4066
      @joed4066 7 місяців тому +57

      @@RamzaBeo before u apply these rules u need to learn patience first!!!!!

    • @katrinadenicolo5463
      @katrinadenicolo5463 7 місяців тому +4

      Where can i find the whole speech word for word in this video

    • @zen_mindset1
      @zen_mindset1 7 місяців тому +32

      Being alone seems better

  • @PositiveEnergy733
    @PositiveEnergy733 7 місяців тому +1949

    You are not reading this by accident. If you're reading this, EVERYTHING'S GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Good energy is being sent to you from all over the universe. Be thankful and pay it forward. Many blessings!🙏🙏🙏

  • @Omar31587
    @Omar31587 7 місяців тому +1081

    Never chase attention, love or affection. If it's not given freely then it's not worth having.

    • @waldenmalcolm540
      @waldenmalcolm540 7 місяців тому +14

      I agree.

    • @venkateshwerramavaram6277
      @venkateshwerramavaram6277 7 місяців тому

      @@waldenmalcolm540😊😊😊😊

    • @junelledembroski9183
      @junelledembroski9183 7 місяців тому +4

    • @junelledembroski9183
      @junelledembroski9183 7 місяців тому +22

      I’m just learning this at 43

    • @junelledembroski9183
      @junelledembroski9183 7 місяців тому +5

      I did everything in my two marriages. Now I have a respectful relationship but I’ve learned to not make myself a priority to him. When I withdrew he came to me. I withdrew because I found myself doing everything again. I won’t anymore. I’m just going to do my own things. And I’ll go to him when I want to instead of seeing that he isn’t coming to me. And he’ll come to me when he wants to.

  • @Betterversion09
    @Betterversion09 7 місяців тому +770

    To the pretty stranger if you're reading this:
    I'm proud of you 😊
    You're doing a great job
    Overthinking is addictive so I hope you don't get addicted to it
    May all your worries anxiety and insecurity go away
    You're enough
    May God shower you with blessings 🙌

  • @jayak8217
    @jayak8217 5 місяців тому +193

    Here's something that always works, instead of making another human being the centre of your universe, place God at the centre and have everyone else sort of hover around and not be crucial to any part of your survival.
    The thing about God is that He is consistent, His love never fails and whether or not you realize it, He is everything you will ever need.

    • @usmanbajwa3726
      @usmanbajwa3726 4 місяці тому +5

      Absolutely! Wise words

    • @SamuelLed2k24
      @SamuelLed2k24 4 місяці тому +1

      💯

    • @nipunweerakoon_97
      @nipunweerakoon_97 3 місяці тому +3

      You should prioritize yourself rather than an imaginary being who you haven't even seen 😐

    • @SamuelLed2k24
      @SamuelLed2k24 3 місяці тому +5

      @@nipunweerakoon_97May The Lord Almighty reveal himself to you. He is real and he loves you. He is not imaginary

    • @nipunweerakoon_97
      @nipunweerakoon_97 3 місяці тому +2

      @@SamuelLed2k24 It never happened and would never happen. If it does you'll be the first one to know 👻

  • @elizabethd.2398
    @elizabethd.2398 7 місяців тому +787

    In my case, I decided to leave just one time - and one time only - never to return. I was the scapegoat of a very abusive narcissistic family who treated me terribly and contemptuously. Eleven years ago, I went no-contact with all of them and never looked back. It was the absolute best relationship decision I have ever made in my life. Like they say, you never know a good thing until it’s gone; and I’m sure they regret losing me. These days I’m practicing the art of non-attachment - I enjoy people and things without being attached to them. It’s very liberating. Peace to all. ☮️✌️

    • @Foxyflexx44
      @Foxyflexx44 7 місяців тому +36

      the only thing they regret is not having you there to abuse , now your easier to blame for everything because of your absence and you can’t defend yourself ,Let them and be happy . xoxox

    • @kschindle1
      @kschindle1 7 місяців тому +21

      @Elizabeth I can relate. They cannot handle your uniqueness and value they don't possess or don't chose to see or to self reflect and develop themselves because it is "too hard"

    • @ahmadhashimi926
      @ahmadhashimi926 7 місяців тому +10

      Same thing for me.

    • @drleo6409
      @drleo6409 7 місяців тому +20

      Some find it very difficult to cut family members off. However when they treat you with NO respect because of their emotional problems or whatever their problems are it is very easy to just walk away. My brother was the scapegoat and treated very badly by my father. He left when he was 16. My father had no one to take care of him during the pandemic and moved in with me and my family. After the pandemic he started looking for a place to live. Then he became very unappreciative about all we had done for him he is 92 now.
      Complains about anything he can think of . He is leaving in a week or so and I doubt I will ever see him again. He will be with in about an hour from me . But his showing such rudeness and disrespect. I have loss all concern for him .
      So I know you and I and many others have put up with unnecessary crap from family.
      This video has a lot of truth in it.
      As Jesus said love your neighbor as YOURSELF.
      There needs to be balance.
      But people that are unappreciative don’t deserve our time.
      Take care.

    • @jangolub8240
      @jangolub8240 7 місяців тому +3

      Your family as in parents or husbamd and children?

  • @cloudydays6277
    @cloudydays6277 7 місяців тому +127

    Stop starting conversations all the time. This is me, when I don’t start conversations, I don’t hear back for 1yr or more. Just gonna enjoy my aloneness now!

  • @user-im4ix2qf7e
    @user-im4ix2qf7e 7 місяців тому +280

    I PRIORITIZE my god given purpose. I am priceless and my absence will leave a hole in anyone’s life.

    • @marisolvaniabonampak359
      @marisolvaniabonampak359 7 місяців тому +4

      Exactly

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 7 місяців тому +1

      Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.

    • @yvettecook9870
      @yvettecook9870 5 місяців тому +1

      Yes! We leave our mark!

    • @Duran_205
      @Duran_205 Місяць тому

      I Also prioritize my god given purpose. I am Priceless and my absence will leave a hole in anyones life😏🥇💪🏾

    • @brendacrawford343
      @brendacrawford343 Місяць тому

      WOW!

  • @GymGarageMan
    @GymGarageMan 7 місяців тому +166

    Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing PUSH UPS on paint cans pull UPS on beams got ripped af at 52 years old!!!

    • @davehopkin2329
      @davehopkin2329 7 місяців тому +18

      Just checked your channel garageman BRUTAL training keep it up grandpa🔥

    • @user-qq6bz4th8e
      @user-qq6bz4th8e 7 місяців тому +7

      That's gonna make him mad if you call him that.I am 55 and I like to person I have become.

    • @Foxyflexx44
      @Foxyflexx44 7 місяців тому +5

      lol old man , nothin like the 50 's. keep going !!!!!!

    • @dejohnson2277
      @dejohnson2277 7 місяців тому +6

      Word. I'm ripped ASF at 49.

    • @Noname-gz1pw
      @Noname-gz1pw 7 місяців тому +3

      Keep grinding pops, u got this!

  • @inspoquotes_official
    @inspoquotes_official 7 місяців тому +335

    Remember, self-prioritization isn't selfish; it's a crucial step towards a more fulfilling and successful life.

  • @alnotz
    @alnotz 7 місяців тому +150

    I was a warrior in all my life, but I always fought for others... for others' country, for others' families and glory and money and appreciation... I forgot to fight for myself.. Now Im 46... perhaps it is not too late to fight for my own, finally.

    • @desiderata333
      @desiderata333 7 місяців тому +10

      Listen, it is not too late! I started over at 57 and life is so much better now. Allow yourself to shine. 🌟

    • @PranaChi369
      @PranaChi369 7 місяців тому

      It's not too late. I seen a 50 year old crack head on youtube get sober now he's buff living a healthy lifestyle making money off the net

    • @refirefiner
      @refirefiner 7 місяців тому +3

      Me at 55 lol, and this vid just confirmed I'm finally heading in the right direction lol. As disiderata333 said, allow yourself to shine anoltz, it's not too late at all

    • @refirefiner
      @refirefiner 7 місяців тому

      Sorry for misspelling both your names!

    • @janewanjiru258
      @janewanjiru258 7 місяців тому +1

      Ur not u were a blessing n ur life will be one ever

  • @sreprezents
    @sreprezents 7 місяців тому +128

    It's a hard lesson to learn, but you have to be "ruthless " about removing the people and things that have a negative influence on your life.

    • @thedarkriver1
      @thedarkriver1 6 місяців тому +5

      Agree

    • @irisrose4732
      @irisrose4732 6 місяців тому +6

      Yes! My crappy job is about to be "ruthlessly" removed from my life tomorrow. On to new beginnings now... YEE HAW BABY!!! Oh, and bye to the loser that broke my heart recently as well.

  • @soumya941
    @soumya941 7 місяців тому +88

    Me: if some treat me like option, I will leave them as choice. I am warrior for my life. I don’t want attention but healthy friendships. I need to be with people who prioritise and respect me. I spend time with people who gives me happiness and uplift me

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 7 місяців тому

      Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.

  • @TaufiqOmar-kd8li
    @TaufiqOmar-kd8li 7 місяців тому +198

    Thank you for the brutal and honest truth. I was about to let myself go weak in the knees for someone, and find that I was losing myself in the process. Hated that feeling. This is a wake up call for me.

  • @heavensgirlz
    @heavensgirlz 7 місяців тому +83

    "I AM A WARRIOR IN MY OWN LIFE, I WILL BE THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF & IF THERE'S ANYONE WHO TREATS ME AS AN OPTION I WILL THROW THEM AS A CHOICE, MY TIME & ENERGY ARE FOR THEM WHO GIVES ME HAPPINESS & UPLIFT ME TOWARDS MY DESTINY"💯💕🙏🏾 #POWERFUL

    • @DJK-cq2uy
      @DJK-cq2uy 6 місяців тому

      Thanks for hollering at any n all readers..that really helps!🎉

  • @k-popclub9927
    @k-popclub9927 2 місяці тому +7

    Today in here I promise myself that” I’ll value myself n not let anyone treat me like a choice(although it would be hard sometimes but I’ll remind myself n get thoughhh it)”.plz like my comment so I keep comin here🥰

  • @tiredreamer1
    @tiredreamer1 7 місяців тому +143

    I have confirmed that what they say its true.
    Its never late to learn, I'm 57 and haven't stopped listening to this advice for 24hrs now and I'm feeling my life is barely beggining.

    • @Sarahh929
      @Sarahh929 7 місяців тому +6

      You're doing absolutely amazing and yes it's never too late ❤ proud of you man live your life

    • @firelily77
      @firelily77 7 місяців тому +4

      That makes me feel so much better , im 47 and i thought it was too late

    • @thedarkriver1
      @thedarkriver1 6 місяців тому +5

      Bravo!!! 👌👏
      I'm 47 and getting ready to go skateboarding 😎

    • @endlessdaze6054
      @endlessdaze6054 6 місяців тому +4

      57 too! 🎉 Fellow 66er'. Just found the love of my life two years ago and, up until then my whole life before then was just ones whole pointless depressing lonely drunken mess. Today I am two years sober a year not smoking and happier than I ever in imagined was possible. Life really CAN just run along a long track and then suddenly turn on a dime. Wishing you good tidings ahead!

    • @esseshakur7311
      @esseshakur7311 6 місяців тому +1

      And me at 39 …This is by far the best I’ve come across on YT…Let’s keep learning and acting upon our lessons💪🙏

  • @dalemalloyfedbyravens4260
    @dalemalloyfedbyravens4260 7 місяців тому +18

    I grew up in a broken home that taught me to accept other peoples bad treatment and behavior toward me. That carried over into an 11 1/2 year broken marriage. I thought that was all I deserved, and she would always affirm that by mistreating me and betraying me enough finally became enough. Now several years after I am free, I am self-respecting. Another people respect me because I demand it. I no longer except being treated as a list than in my life is so much happier. Now I’m moving out of this rut and onto to Sevilla Spain to begin a new life adventure with a woman who truly loves me for who I am not my net worth.

  • @MoonKingGamingMobile
    @MoonKingGamingMobile 7 місяців тому +33

    The best love is self love stay blessed and stay solid.

  • @mrf4308
    @mrf4308 6 місяців тому +44

    This is all so true, and I wish I had found this years ago. I failed at all 10 points, so my 2.5 Yr relationship, therefore, failed. Never again will I allow myself to be so weak, so walked over, so undervalued. These points will stay with me and help me push through this pain 💪

    • @shauntetobias1755
      @shauntetobias1755 5 місяців тому +1

      Same here, but we got this now!

    • @1StepForwardToday
      @1StepForwardToday 4 місяці тому +3

      Pain & Suffering are the Great Teachers & Seeds of Wisdom

  • @MyrnaeHenderson
    @MyrnaeHenderson 7 місяців тому +86

    I'm favoured $130k every 4weeks! I now have a good house and can now afford anything and also support my family

    • @MiriamcNelson
      @MiriamcNelson 7 місяців тому

      Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
      I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @MyrnaeHenderson
      @MyrnaeHenderson 7 місяців тому

      I earn from investiing in the digital market with the guidance of Mrs Claudia Vecchi Nese
      Brokerage services.

    • @FloreThomas
      @FloreThomas 7 місяців тому

      That's great!! .I don't know anything about investing and I intend to start. What are your strategies?

    • @VenessaTate
      @VenessaTate 7 місяців тому

      I started off small trading with Mrs Claudia Vecchi Nese in 2022 and now my life is good. I thank God the most He alone made it possible for the opportunity to come my way.

    • @OlgahBrooks
      @OlgahBrooks 7 місяців тому

  • @spacentime1
    @spacentime1 7 місяців тому +37

    Please don't give up on this. Your voice heals,

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 7 місяців тому +122

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 7 місяців тому +1

      wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @bighearthoneybear
      @bighearthoneybear 6 місяців тому +1

      Did it work?

    • @bighearthoneybear
      @bighearthoneybear 6 місяців тому

      @@jaypritchett3414I’m very excited it worked for you. How long did it take?

    • @TTPIW
      @TTPIW 3 місяці тому +5

      Stop it , and stand up

  • @HealthyPersuit-sj3fr
    @HealthyPersuit-sj3fr 7 місяців тому +15

    If I feel that trying to be someone's friend is a struggle, time to walk away...

  • @TJ-cs5cs
    @TJ-cs5cs 5 місяців тому +21

    This all seem like a game, and it's tiring..
    Unfortunately, all this is true and I don't think I have the strenght to always keep in mind if I am oversharing information about myself, to remember to be mysterious, if I need to let them greet first this time, if I'm being too clingy by expressing my emotions, when to pause to give them space..
    I think I'm just better of alone, eventhough sometimes I crave companionship and affection..💔
    I also realized that the ones we want, don't give us the same energy back and the ones who want us, we don't want..🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @monster_dumpling_reaper
      @monster_dumpling_reaper 2 місяці тому +4

      It seems like a game because it is a game. These are "rules" teaching people how to mimic something they aren't.
      However, listen to this again as results rather than intentions and you'll realize that interesting, well balanced, confident people just naturally come across like this.

    • @estherisaiah3752
      @estherisaiah3752 Місяць тому +2

      Actually all of life is a game, we make the rules. Instead of saying the ones we want donf want us we can change it to “the ones I want want me more”. All it is is a belief based on old experiences. We have to prioritize ourselves and our happiness

  • @obievil
    @obievil 6 місяців тому +32

    As a man who is in his late 40s, I learned most of these lessons, the hard way with a lot of pain. I wish that someone had sat down and had this conversation with me 25 years ago. I’d probably be a lot happier than I am now. This video if anything else was a reminder and wake up call that I need to make some serious changes in my personal life. It’s going to suck, but I’ll be better for in the end.

    • @irisrose4732
      @irisrose4732 6 місяців тому

      Same boat here, but as a woman. SMH.

    • @mrf4308
      @mrf4308 6 місяців тому

      Same here 😢

    • @erica5746
      @erica5746 6 місяців тому +1

      Same here! 🥺 We should have a 40’s club.

    • @crazychristmas100
      @crazychristmas100 5 місяців тому

      Same here. Life is a lot better with balanced relationships.

    • @whoknown
      @whoknown 4 місяці тому

      me too. Nice to meet you all

  • @starrjanai2623
    @starrjanai2623 7 місяців тому +26

    I will not ever again neglect my needs, even when it emotionally affects me. I will stand on my worth and not anyone else define it for me. Those who see my worth as I see theirs will respect me and those who don’t will be banished from tunnel vision forever.

  • @user-RiversT
    @user-RiversT 4 місяці тому +39

    Dr Oluwaseun You did exactly what you said. I really appreciate that my partner is finally back with me. I am very happy to have followed your recommendations.
    My partner shows me a lot of affection. Thank you so much😇❤️

  • @latifah-su6vh
    @latifah-su6vh 4 місяці тому +42

    I must admit Dr oluwaseun your indeed a great man who knows he's job, thanks for bringing back my relationship which I lost over 4 years ago.❤

  • @benray4fun1
    @benray4fun1 7 місяців тому +57

    Sometimes walking away is necessary & it works well.
    However, when it happens more than once & they know this is what you will do, they will use it to discard you from their life. & so you have to love yourself more & let them take the loss....💯

  • @AmakaChukwukere
    @AmakaChukwukere 7 місяців тому +26

    When people treat you as an option, treat them as a choice... I can't stop listening to this... So compiling .. Thanks.

  • @suzettemcfarlane1500
    @suzettemcfarlane1500 7 місяців тому +10

    My worth is non negotiable and I deserve to be with people who know my worth, respect and love me... I am a warrior in my own life... I will be the best version of myself and if anyone treats me as an option I will throw them as a choice... my time and energy are for those who uplift me.🙏❤️💯

  • @tammie5801
    @tammie5801 7 місяців тому +13

    I am Worth treated with Value, respect and my presence is worth more than Gold. God is my purpose and I am working on Abundance and Meaning

  • @leish9203
    @leish9203 4 місяці тому +34

    I really appreciate Dr Oluwaseun the great spell caster for bringing my partner back begging me to forgive him🥺🥺

    • @leish9203
      @leish9203 4 місяці тому

      He’s on Facebook page

  • @corithy
    @corithy 19 днів тому +1

    I could listen to this guidance on a daily basis

  • @teim2002
    @teim2002 7 місяців тому +12

    I completely agree, it is all about how you allow anyone control of your ship. Many wish to feel good, only wasting your time and stealing from you treasures of life. I commit to be the gold, in the hands of the King, not the servant boy

  • @sukmitlepcha1591
    @sukmitlepcha1591 7 місяців тому +14

    I m the warrior of my life ,
    I m the master of a life

  • @wantedprince03
    @wantedprince03 7 місяців тому +16

    I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of myself. If they treat me in any other way I will delete them from my life as a choice. I understand my value and self worth.

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 7 місяців тому

      Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.

  • @aprilmoore2669
    @aprilmoore2669 2 місяці тому +1

    I SOOOO NEEDED THIS!! I must reflect and commit to doing the work..BRAVO and thank you🙏🏽

  • @cynthiadesimone1668
    @cynthiadesimone1668 11 днів тому +1

    These points are both self-loving and also boundary-setting! I have learned through this video that I already do practice a few of these teachings, however I am excited to implement the teachings here I have failed at. I felt unconditionally loved in this video. I felt that I am ALWAYS to see myself through the eyes God sees me with!
    Precious and cherished 💪💞

  • @gloriaadu5485
    @gloriaadu5485 7 місяців тому +17

    Thank you, I'm a senior was abandon from a child. and i feel like i had to be the good little girl if i wanted some kind of attention. I'm just finding out i deserve better. I'm tired of walking that one way street. it's never to late to learn. live is a learning experience. every day. thank you

  • @KellySilverioli
    @KellySilverioli 6 місяців тому +10

    That's my strength, when I say No, I never go back it doesn't matter how much I love this person. I love myself more❤

  • @Screenplaywriter
    @Screenplaywriter 7 місяців тому +1

    I needed this. I have a song in my channel called “my refusal” basically refusing to follow these types of rules because I like to give my all until nothing is left: so my relationships have been that I do the opposite of all this until I just leave with them chasing me to come back but it’s too late for them by that point. No games

  • @beingbinny49
    @beingbinny49 6 місяців тому

    Usually i don't watch videos like this but idk why but i played it and watched the whole video. Loved it and this is something i needed for a long time.

  • @tirsamazariegos4867
    @tirsamazariegos4867 7 місяців тому +13

    I am a worrior in my own life. I am becoming the best version of myself and if there's anyone treating me as an option I will throw them away as a choice. My time and energy are for them who give me happiness and uplift me towards my destiny. Without forgetting that forgiveness comes with letting go without bitterness. And, that all of this sounds great, buy without love, this process is incomplete.

  • @the_7th_card
    @the_7th_card 6 місяців тому +9

    Thanks for enlightening my mind. From now on I will think of myself not giving the priority of others thinking for no reason while they don't even care for me . I am what I am and I don't need to prove myself to anybody. I will be on myself and be happy with what I have and what makes me happy. I will bring positive change in me and become the best version of myself. I will never seek for any love or attention to others . If it's not free to take then I will not beg for it making one sided efforts. I will become emotionally stable and focus on my goals. I will not care for anyone who doesn't value my feelings at all. My dedication and love deserves to be felt my someone who actually cares about me .I will change myself and when I will make it happen I will comeback and tell you again that I made it . Thank you.🍀

  • @sudeshnachakraborty1908
    @sudeshnachakraborty1908 6 місяців тому

    All the points that are being pointed out are truly best. Yes we lose our walur as we don't value ourselves. I will try to focus on my own needs and goals first. People treat me like an option because I gave them a chance to damage me emotionally. Thank you for this video.

  • @angiesons9325
    @angiesons9325 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank U! This truly confirmed my reason for ending my 30 year relationship. STILL working on some of it.xoxo😘

  • @keoneahsan5473
    @keoneahsan5473 7 місяців тому +21

    Your life is your kingdom and you are the CEO of it be slow to hire and quick to fire. It’s is your journey too many times we been taught to give more and to expect anything back, to turn the other cheek and get smacked in the other. When you turn the other cheek you walk away for good. You are inspirational powerful force now beam out and believe Warrior.

    • @desiderata333
      @desiderata333 7 місяців тому +1

      I LOVE your comment! Thank you for sharing, from one warrior to another~! KEEP SHINING!!🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @gayecosmicchic9755
    @gayecosmicchic9755 4 місяці тому +6

    You can do all these things and still experience the pain of separation😂it's not a guaranteed forever 😊

  • @uttredbemberg-kb3dr
    @uttredbemberg-kb3dr 7 місяців тому

    I can listen to this every morning and every day. I dealing with a person in my life, who says that they can not live without me, they can not eat or sleep. I blocked them 3-4 times. I am getting into diving they are inspiring

  • @tet2mor282
    @tet2mor282 4 місяці тому

    I listen to this channel every morning to remind me of what's important in a relationship - 1 video each morning

  • @carlanear7740
    @carlanear7740 7 місяців тому +12

    I am a Warrior of God. If those around me don't recognize my dignity and worth then they lose the opportunity of this Warrior,.me, in thier life.

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 7 місяців тому

      Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.

  • @lindaohara4312
    @lindaohara4312 7 місяців тому +14

    Self love is the greatest gift you can give yourself! I've had to work on becoming a receiver not just a giver! It's hard work, like anything else change is hard to make but not impossible!, In order to be a well balanced person you need to do this for yourself! Hard lessons to learn in life! ❤

  • @ratnaestri2960
    @ratnaestri2960 2 місяці тому +1

    After listening to this wisdom..I finally have the courage to end tixic relationship..

  • @hshsj622
    @hshsj622 5 місяців тому

    Wow what a great wisdom , this topic is an eye opener to me ,I am overseas worker and I always wait my husband call me and most of the time I'm the one who initiated and most of the time he ignores my call I feel he is not interested after 28 years of supporting him and my son now I feel they don't need me,I was crying most of the time begging their attention it's hurt but after I hear this message it's like flashlight open my understanding. I want to hear it over and over again .I have to love my self and try to create my own happiness if my husband always ignoring me I'll let him out of my life ..and be free

  • @PorchiaP.
    @PorchiaP. 7 місяців тому +5

    I have to stop commenting on things like this when I’m upset. 🤪 Now my algorithm is full of videos like this and “challenge his ego”. I was mad one day, can I get my Cardi B twerking videos back please 😂🤣. Great video 💖

  • @doloreslujansalvador2644
    @doloreslujansalvador2644 7 місяців тому +16

    Oh, yes. precise, without too much of the unnecessarily to convey what is important in our relationships. Being a victim of the worst childhood relationships, I know how much energy do I need to unlearn what has put in my entire nervous system, in order to have the pleasure to know what a sane, balanced, relationship is. I do struggle everyday. I only have one or two healthy relationships and have to understand that I might loose them for many reasons out of my control.I am one of the persons that lost its identity in any relation. It was scary, more than being completly alone . many thanks for your work. I will appreciate as well the next one. so good. have my best regards. Lola.

    • @tracyann1664
      @tracyann1664 7 місяців тому +1

      Hi lovelies. Hope this finds you with love

  • @Yan-my7es
    @Yan-my7es 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, creator of this video. Came to me in a perfect moment. A happiness boost with a mix of nostalgia sadness from all of investment I wish to believe was not in vain. A learning experience for me, and also for them, if not just a moment of joy.

  • @marklastname373
    @marklastname373 2 місяці тому

    I see the goal of this video, and I agree that you're valuable and you deserve someone that sees that. We all will find someone that appreciates us for who we are, and when it happens you won't need to play any games. Heads up Kings and Queens

  • @soniamariaalvesdemelo6545
    @soniamariaalvesdemelo6545 6 місяців тому +3

    When you are Happy on your own.you will...never take crumbles from anyone..Love yourself first and never allowed anyone to put you down or undermine you.
    Tua first wrong move walk away and never looks back..vou are Worth of respect qnd NOONE will way the contrary or diminish you..if someone says I NEED YOU ..runs for your life🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

  • @user-tr7yg7zo3j
    @user-tr7yg7zo3j 7 місяців тому +3

    I always pick up when my best friends call; also my clients. We truly care about and don’t “ghost” each other. People l love are my priority, but I also love myself and my blessed solitude, which allows me to create. Seems to work out for me. But honestly, if someone I’m close to calls me, I always pick up.

  • @lovelysinha3123
    @lovelysinha3123 6 місяців тому

    I just did these rules applied in my life and I m so glad I could prioritize my self respect on their selfish behavior. Now I can see d fear in their eyes of loosing me. I m soooo happy. Thank you so very much for confirming that what I did was d perfect things. ❤❤❤

  • @priyanam1776
    @priyanam1776 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this as you helped me reconsider my choices..and you are blessed with a beautiful voice❤

  • @lilasteeves3693
    @lilasteeves3693 7 місяців тому +3

    This is one of the best advice I have ever received. I am doing these very things. Thank you.. thank you. Thank you. I have walked away. Thanks so much.. . He always used me S AN OPTION. ❤

  • @annamarieklups6499
    @annamarieklups6499 6 місяців тому +3

    I will create a safe save and energy by learning to gracefully but profoundly put myself first in my life. I will not be victimized by anyone who doesn’t value or recognize my worth. I will never chase anyone who doesn’t respect me and value my time and worth. I will walk away from disrespect and degrading behaviors from others. I will no longer be available to anyone that chooses to use me rather than appreciate my kindness and love. I will love myself and not seek validation from anyone anymore. It’s time to level up and hold my head higher with commitment to my needs and experiences. I will value myself rather than try to seek validation from others ❤

  • @tejal888
    @tejal888 6 місяців тому

    Wow!!!!!!!!! Eye opener video it's absolutely ming boggling I am saving this video for future reference too so that i may not forget any of the rule out of this ...This video is a knock knock for my inner soul which helped me remind that I am magnetic and valuable also hard catch... Also reminds me ( I don't chase , I attract what is meant for me will find me )
    I am Unforgettable
    I am Attractive
    I am Unique
    I have no reason to chase....
    Thanks a million for bringing up such an amazing guidance..
    Huge Respect
    Highly appreciated
    Thanks a ton ❤❤❤❤

  • @towandaallen314
    @towandaallen314 7 місяців тому

    I been on it, great reminder, thank you so much, stay blessed, keep up the amazing work and let's go! 💪💪💪💪💪💪

  • @liamjefferson9591
    @liamjefferson9591 5 місяців тому +10

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

    • @liamjefferson9591
      @liamjefferson9591 5 місяців тому +2

      Really? How do i find one please?

    • @liamjefferson9591
      @liamjefferson9591 5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @dennyfie
      @dennyfie 4 місяці тому

      ​@Willie--😢good luck Liam...it hurts that empty lost feeling. I just split with the only woman I truly loved, to much time has passed since we were first together, we both changed too much.glty

    • @skyt8327
      @skyt8327 3 місяці тому

      Any update?

  • @user-mq1sx4jq7y
    @user-mq1sx4jq7y 7 місяців тому +10

    Thanks for this great video, I was doing the opposite of all the rules. It mames sense why I'm treated the way I do. Thank you!

  • @Heylilnugget
    @Heylilnugget 3 місяці тому +2

    I am a warrior in my own life. I will be the best version of myself and if there is anyone who treats me like an option, I will leave them be as a choice. My time and energy are for those who give me energy and uplift me towards my destiny. I’m beyond grateful to come across all the beautiful souls I do, knowing everyone plays a role & all is temporary. I’m beyond grateful to be me, a powerful warrior capable of loving, creating, caring for and protecting despite any odds-I will prevail.💖

  • @user-xk4jt3qh4t
    @user-xk4jt3qh4t Місяць тому +1

    I am a warrior and will fight for my happiness.

  • @heidibush3307
    @heidibush3307 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for the best realistic truthful suggestions.
    Especially without background music able to delightful listening word by words. 👍

  • @followthatstargirl824
    @followthatstargirl824 7 місяців тому +16

    Thank you for this. I need to listen to this everyday ❤

  • @aurora5652
    @aurora5652 7 місяців тому

    This come timely. Brutal and honest truth is what i really need as am about to make a long distance call to person who always ghosted me, makes everything is my faults and abandoning myself in order to please him. I do love him but i gotta learn to love myself too this time to choose myself instead being a doormat. Thank you for these harsh truth , i know I'll be missing him but i need to respect myself more . Will be listening to this again if the urge to chase him come

  • @mrm7240
    @mrm7240 7 місяців тому

    This has to be one of the best videos I've ever seen it's brilliant

  • @user-qd5uu8ql8s
    @user-qd5uu8ql8s 7 місяців тому +7

    Everything very clearly stated... People need such clear videos in a stochastic world we are living inn.

  • @user-kd5ub4iy7c
    @user-kd5ub4iy7c 7 місяців тому +7

    I WILL LOVE MYSELF INSTEAD OF LOVING EVERYONE ELSE BEFORE ME. WONDERFUL WISE VIDEO. GREAT HELP.

  • @akachikata
    @akachikata 6 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely eye-opening, thank you so much!!!

  • @joshuasuiramo1709
    @joshuasuiramo1709 4 місяці тому +1

    I am a warrior of my life, self sufficient, confident, valuable and powerful 🙏🙏. Thanks for your message.

  • @DavePaolucci
    @DavePaolucci 7 місяців тому +34

    This is opening my mind, showing me what I’m doing wrong and it’s guiding me in the right direction, even applying just a little Works, thank you

  • @BeGoodorBeGoodatIt
    @BeGoodorBeGoodatIt 7 місяців тому +10

    thank you i needed to hear this. when im not sure which way to go, i say - Be Good or Be Good at It.

  • @user-tj9ez7im1w
    @user-tj9ez7im1w 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm kinda weak innocent person. This beautiful message really hit me! Time to be the best strong version of myself.... Ya Rabb 🤲
    Thanks for this amazing and fearless message.... 🙏🙏🙏
    God bless as all 😇

  • @user-mh7xb4wo5l
    @user-mh7xb4wo5l Місяць тому

    You are the most helpful person I ever know on youtube.

  • @dianah.9905
    @dianah.9905 7 місяців тому +6

    I will be the best version of myself. My time and energy is valuable..

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 7 місяців тому

      Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.

  • @CCRadio-qd8xy
    @CCRadio-qd8xy 3 місяці тому +3

    Take control of the game and make them see your true value :
    1. Create the fear of losing you
    2. Don't be always available
    3. Don't reveal everything
    4. Be costly
    5. Prioritize your own needs
    6. Don't make them the center of your life
    7. Stop starting conversation all the time
    8. Create your own happiness
    9. Be willing to walk away from them
    10. Don't be attached emotional too much

  • @SA-ud9nf
    @SA-ud9nf 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so very much. I needed this. I knew but confirmation and additional info here is so helpful.
    God bless you for all you do. ❤❤❤

  • @bhardwajmohit2406
    @bhardwajmohit2406 6 місяців тому

    This video resonates with my life thanks for optimistic rules and letting me know my self worth,self esteem.

  • @ColdheartCuzo
    @ColdheartCuzo 7 місяців тому +8

    I value this video.❤

  • @nzimmerman28
    @nzimmerman28 7 місяців тому +30

    I am honored to come across this. I love the brutal and honest words that have been spoken to inspire me to look at myself to look at others and to be able to recognize toxicity.
    Best Regards, nicolerachelle

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 7 місяців тому

      Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.

  • @PortiaMoses-rl7tj
    @PortiaMoses-rl7tj 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for this video I'm always undermined and look down at by people.and they always tell me I'm easy and weak

  • @ssemujjupeter1887
    @ssemujjupeter1887 11 днів тому

    For the past few days i am going through a heart break and my mental state is a mess, been blocked from all her social media handles but i still create new accounts just to text her till today i when i listened to this video, have just realised that i have neen cringing badly wanting her attention, love and care but after listening to this atleast my heart and anxienty are slowly pacing down and now am ready to let go, yes its not going to be easy for now but with time i hope to fully heal, i pray and wish you too out there heal through🙏

  • @ufmilan9760
    @ufmilan9760 7 місяців тому +3

    I am number one-today’s and always-zero tolerance with fake amigos-me me me!Amen

  • @maryhogan9186
    @maryhogan9186 3 місяці тому

    Your video was brilliant so much positivity and challenges to reflect on. Thank you

  • @perfecttransformation
    @perfecttransformation 3 місяці тому

    Wow, this is so helpful, un-believably. Thank you.🎉

  • @xombiekilla
    @xombiekilla 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for your words of wisdom, Agent 47.

  • @elliewilson8863
    @elliewilson8863 7 місяців тому +2

    I am a warrior in my own life. I am becoming the best version of myself and if there’s anyone who treats me as an option I will throw them away as a choice. My time and energy are for those who give me happiness and uplift me towards my destiny

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 7 місяців тому

      Yes! To single men (confirmed, sworn, not just those married men who refuse to wear a ring) and to your husband.

  • @lubofbangtan7620
    @lubofbangtan7620 Місяць тому +2

    I AM A WARRIOR IN MY LIFE, I WILL BE THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF AND IF THERE'S ANYONE WHO TREATS ME LIKE AN OPTION I WILL THROW THEM AS A CHOICE...MY TIME AND ENERGY ARE FOR THE ONE WHO GIVES ME HAPPINESS AND UPLIFT ME TOWARDS MY DESTINY...!!!!! I'M IMPORTANT
    💜🤝😌🙏💫💭😸🖇

  • @lindy146
    @lindy146 7 місяців тому +2

    wow thank you I needed that 100%