Shawn & Lexxi Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- Welcome back to my channel! In this segment of "Catch Up", we got a chance to follow up with our matches and see where they are today.
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ARLETTE PLS HAVE HIM BACK. HE IS ACTUALLY LOOKING FOR LOVE
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I fully agree.
Exactly. He might be a tad needy but seem VERY intentional!
Yes!!!
Lexxi’s ability to talk for 12 mins straight & not say shit is on another level
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lyricist of the year ! 😂
Stop it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
An airhead.
Shawn is suuuuuuuuuuuuch a catch...emotionally available, vulnerable, humble, emotionally regulated, diplomatic, intelligent, ambitious, hardworking, EXCELLENT communicator, suuuuuper handsome and appealing. I pray he finds a beautiful woman who will give him the love and honor he deserves. He is a KING. You can see the sincerity in his eyes. I'm sure he isn't perfect, but he exhibits some key ingredients for legacy building. A man like this, with the support of the right woman, could easily go on to build an empire.
He's definitely legacy quality. Unfortunately these folks aren't seeking that kind... They're on a quest for the kind of attention that'll fizzle out with the notoriety of the next "match". Very short sighted and shows a lack of wisdom, which is necessary in legacy building. Then imagine if she's really a witch. Yeah nope!
They're young 😊
@@kashtagraham7973 and I would say they're old. When you are sexually "one" with numerous souls you take on their essence. This adds up over the years. This phenomenon of eternal dating is contaminating their true beings. This is why we have ppl old enough to be legit grandparents still out here talking about dating like nineteen year olds. It's arrested development.
Uhh doesnt he have two children from two different women?? Never married . He’s building broken homes and is sexually irresponsible . You described him with all the ideal characteristics like a MOM , lol.
“emotionally regulated” is a really cool compliment!
Long story short. He was interested and she showed that she wasn't interested by not responding in a timely fashion. He called her out on it and she got defensive instead of just simply saying she ain't interested.
I agree. She made a long song and dance for no reason.
I hope he does a no show at Red Lobster
Or even apologize or acknowledge the fact that she didn’t respond just acted like it wasn’t a big deal
Period
Confirmed
It’s funny that in every episode everyone claims to be “ big on communication “ , but that’s the main reason most of the matches didn’t work out .
Ok!! Most just on this show for social media attention and followers.
Lmaoo cuz they CAPPIN!
She was busy BUT she had time to eat out with Boa
No...the couples didn't work out because most of the chicks come on thr show for clout and IG followers. The dudes have all been classy..and asking the females out but all of a sudden they are soooo busy. If you are soooo busy...why did you even come on a dating show?? It's all for clout and attention.
Very true. I find that most people lack self-awareness, so they say things that they know take to have a healthy relationship but no idea how to follow thru
Arlette you need to bring real individuals looking for love. Most of these people you interview are on here to promote their brand. We need more authentic interactions.
These types of internet shows will always self-select for people trying to grow their personal brands
Facts it’s def giving I just want exposure to promote what I got going on they ain’t looking for real love
Only Terrance was there to find love
Exactly
Facts
Why do these people go on this show if they don’t have time to date? It’s so dumb 🤦🏽♀️
They aren't there for love...
They don’t come on here for love. People come on here to promote their music, modeling career, and Real Estate agencies under the guise of looking for love.
For clout, I guess
Clout
Right!
Awwww I can see his demeanor change and that he felt bad when she kept going on and on about him texting her being a red flag. This girl sat there and had an entire conversation with herself while Shawn and the host just watched 🥴 He seems like a good guy and I hope that he finds genuine love
I completely agree! I saw that as well. She was dramatizing their encounter, and you could see that he was affected by her depiction of him. Contrary to what she says, she seems a bit attracted to drama and negativity. She looks for negativity in a lot of situations... She also didn't become reinteresred in him until he was willing to walk away from her. Once he validated her acclamation of him being a red flag and was willing to give her that, and he walked away, all of a sudden, his red flags didn't exist anymore, and she wanted to date again.
@@lady316so I guess she just like the attention and wants to be chased
This is called gaslighting. She was never that interested but don't want to admit it. Now she wants to make him the villain. Women are professionally victims
To be honest. Like I wish my guy was like him. Wanting to text me. I don't necessarily see what he's doing to be a red flag because he sounds like he genuinely was being considerate with how busy she was, and is supporting her in ways.. that's more than any guy would ever do, really. It's very unfortunate that this didn't end up being a good match but I'm all for Shawn. I hope he finds someone to love as much as he does and appreciates his effort. I hope this doesn't change him from being the good guy that he is.
She talks too much gosh, let him speak for a bit. 🤔
A simple “I wasn’t interested” could’ve saved my mans a lot of texts and time. 😂 She just dragged it for no reason.
She was busy but had time to eat out with Bo lol 😂
sh could've popped her ballon
💯 agreed. She was on the shoes for exposure
No response is a response from women .high value men don't double text .😅
@@mrknow-it-all9619 yeah because the prostitutes you contact are about their coins, hot light bing, pick up on one ring or less
I still can't comprehend how they have time to show up for a follow up interview but can't find time for a date.
Facts
She had time to go on ig live and check dms but a simple reply back or date is like a massive burden it seems
The follow up comes with a camera and an upload to UA-cam...the date doesn't lol
@@SomnnaVibes she had time to go to lunch with another man too then as much as she talks you cant communicate with your match your feelings but instead you can wait to humiliate him publicly and call him a red flag. He had nothing but nice things to say about her
For Real For Real.
Factsssssss
“I cant deal with the control and the possessiveness” the man just asked for a text back 😭
And when a white girl texts him back, everyone will start cussing him that he hates his mother
That's what i was thinking. He just wanted to know where they was at with it and she ghosted him.
😂😂
Lol women only think a man is controlling or possessive when they don't like them.
Exactly 💯... I'm so sick of these young "ladies" labeling these men "red flags" & "possessive" When the women are being inconsiderate and petty. Like they want the men to chase them down and apply pressure, but then they want to IGNORE the men, and not communicate... THEN turn around and get mad when the men ask them if they're still interested in dating/meeting up!! 🤷🏾♀️ 🤷🏾♀️ make it make sense. It looks like the men are making all of the effort to communicate with the women, and the women are trying to "say" they're SO BUSY that they can't even take a moment to send a text in response to the man. If you got tome to plan meeting with friends and being at other events,... A quick text or call can be done. It's just a lot of immature ladies on here. Then they're more interested in the clowns in their DM's... you git time to read and respond to DM's... but no time to respond to the person that you matched with 🤷🏾♀️ 🤷🏾♀️ 🤷🏾♀️ STOOOPPP!!!! ✋🏾 ✋🏾 BYE FELICIA!!!! 😮😮
She was not looking for love and was feeling herself a little too much. She mistook him showing interest as controlling. Shawn was a true gentleman and very respectful. As KS would say “Buy a dog and die alone.”
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She went in circles the whole interview just to avoid saying she not feeling it. She kept saying she was busy but we all know women make time for who they want it's no secret. She needs to just be 💯
@shaudthetruth2300 precisely
Came on the show and wasted lil mans time.
Or maybe they smashed and she didn’t like it lol or it was small but she didn’t want to be mean. It’s definitely more to this story.
@@cupcake2009ist that could be true.
Exactly! And they make exceptions for levels of attraction.
For her to call him controlling and possessive because he noticed her lack of interest and decided to not let her play in his face by calling a spade a spade is WILDDDDD. Especially coming from a “grown” “experienced” woman.
Girl, if you want to ignore people while doing you, then do so, but please do not make him seem like he’s the problem just because he went on a dating show and expected to date😂
Good Luck Shawn💕
Its scary how she did that. And notice how Brown Dress is saying “aPPly PresSure.”
Damned if we do damned if we dont.
She want steak and lobster dinner right now.
She's the whole Red Flag 🚩 Very immature,.playing games, and selfish. Notice how she all of a sudden want to go eat but he told her he had to work and she still was talking about they going to dinner. I hope he didn't go. Her energy is toxic and manipulative.
The gaslighting was real with her. I really so feel for Shawn, he looked genuinely sad and confused. He did nothing wrong and i'm actually glad he inadvertently dodged this bullet named Lexxie. She's a WHOLE red flag!
The representation that was seen from her on the actual episode is not the representative that is sitting here in this seat. I'm not even speaking of clothes, changed hair etc.. she literally seems like an entirely different person.. and all of that stuff she was spittin on the episode about finances, investments, stock, business etc was never a thing ' actually' lol. I'll stop with that.. cause it's giving bamboozled. Also at the end of this video she didn't care about really trying to make something work with him. She wanted a meal 😂! 🍽️
She makes way too many excuses. He can do much better. He’s very patient and was polite. All she had to do was politely decline
Love seeing women with honest common sense. I couldn’t agree more.
She was clearly trying to save face.
She found out that he wasn’t what he was claiming to be 🤯
@@tmcurly what did he claim to be? If I remember right he was honest with her.
@@tmcurlywhat? you don’t even believe that. start holding yourselves accountable for this clown shit.
First i thought she was on drugs but she is just exreme western feminist. Maybe she needs therapy to overcome this mindset and travel more to see how women should supposed to act.
"Im Cool With Just Being A Dad..." - Shawn, you ATE THAT!!!!! 💯💯💯💯
25:55
Her: I don't know no dj
Also her: shoutout to dj Pez
😂😂
Facts 😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Brooo I would've been so tight if she played in my face like that 😂
I love how mature Shawn was with his responses & reactions. Real King energy.
He failed to exude his masculine energy, which is why she didn't open up to him after the show. A true king would have effortlessly secured a date with her. Now, is the guy a nice person? Absolutely, but it's often said that nice guys finish last. It was clear she was curving him the whole time. To put it simply, if she could make time to appear on the show again, surely she could set aside one evening for a date with him.
@@7_Kingz Shawn didn't do anything wrong. He handled himself well. It was very clear that she wasnt interested. She most likely came on the show to promote her brand or music. It's really that simple.
@@Penelope416 tells him to his face on this video.
@@Penelope416right, but she will not disclose the truth
@@emariciera Most of them won't. This show is supposed to be about finding love, but it mostly attracts clout-chasers and brand promoters. LMAO.
When she tries to make him look like the bad guy and it back fires😮
Lexxi is a chatterbox and it takes too long for her to make a simple point. Draining energy
I still ain't get one point from her yet
So if the man dont text hes not chasing enough and if he text he is too much and trying to control you. Communication works both ways. This is a great man.
Well said .
He’s definitely a great man!!!
I would be running far away from this music industry and try get me a good man to settle down and start a family with. Go back to school, get you a career or something! She’s just babbling and not saying anything!
She was projecting a lot , people need to leave the pass in the pass. I understand trauma but every case is different you gotta just observe the situation before making those pre connotations. She’s the real red flag if anything . Any person that says she’s too busy etc isn’t the one, that was evident she wanna be outside and not looking to be in anything serious. The hell with all that we some grown ass men , men don’t got time to be chasing women around especially when you talking about buddy that’s a whole father.
@@michaelj.sanchez1862 Totally agree!
She's just making a bunch of excuses. She's just not interested. Ppl make time for what they truly desire. The Dude was genuinely interested and he tried to communicate that. At this point she's just blabbering NEXXXT!!!
Facts Mayne...females will move things around to link if they want to
No he wasn't he was looking for approval from his boys.And already began to be needy.You give the energy that you receive .Nothing more 😂
Absolutely not. She is correct. That whole, "Guess you aren't interested," after knowing someone for 72 hours is a RED FLAG. Its not an excuse.
She literally just asked him out at the end, what are you talking about. She is just very detailed and careful when she speaks which is a sign she doesn't want to hurt feelings.
She a player waste timer.. These ladies who love to be famous drame 👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾 she 💩💩💩🚩🚩🚩
He dodged a bullet ..”she doesn’t even know if she’s a witch or not.”Like come on.
Exactly that’s a yes or no question
I can't stand this bihhhhh
& if she is run 🏃🏾♀️
Big Facts
This!!!
29:20 “I need to still eat dinner tonight” bro leave her in the streets
She's a red flag, gas lighting him on him being a red flag
He can get all burnt by her if he wants to. She has shown enough bs. She’s t r a s h. Let the dudes on the st to pass her around
💯 He better not take her anywhere because now she's just trying to use him. She dead wrong!
The young man handled himself quite well!
He is a King
Shawn is very patient and respectful!
Lied about his employment and investments that don’t exist.
Not defending anyone but if you come on and lie ( on both sides) as soon as people figure out they will loose interest ….🤔
Dodge the bullet and keep it moving Shawn 💯
@@tmcurly I thought she wasn’t interested in him because he was controlling maybe I missed a few parts
He’s handsome, kinda reminds me of a younger Lloyd 😊
Factsss
Yes! Thought the same thing
Saying younger Lloyd is wild. I’m getting old 😂😂😂
Omg YES I was just thinking that!
Lloyd mix with Nipsey ❤
They don’t have time to go on a date but have time to come back on the show wow 😂
For real make it, make sense! 🧐🤨🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️💯✨
Her and serenity had time to go out with each other but not their respective dates 😭😭😭
Facts,!!!!!
Exactly you caught that too
notice how the other guy didn't sweat or do extra chasing for Serenity..she said he didn't apply enough pressure...the guy gives a couple of follow up text to this girl..says, ok, well I guess you're not interested..and she says he's doing too much and it's a red flag, as if he's possibly a future abuser. smdh. These woman will think about this when they are 65 and alone.
@@JJ-ut3sn Made up a whole ass story in her head about how he POTENTIALLY could be. All based on her previous experiences that she claims to be currently healed from.
She didn't heal from a damn thing.
If a woman cheated on me when she said she was going to the grocery store, and from that point on it's a "red flag" any time a woman I'm involved with says that she's going to the grocery store... I'm not healed from my previous experience if that's the case. Her picturing him as an abuser for a few mild text messages is insanity.
I hope he leaves them damaged goods alone
Not even a text
I don’t like commenting on videos like that, but this got me tight. How u say u don’t know any DJ and then say “shoutout to DJ PES, u know I love u”
Exactly. She was full of it.
😂😂😂
That femal fonny..!!!facts..
Brother dnt be a free meal..
That part
Baby, if your life is that busy, why go on a dating show? Make it make sense!
For real.
For fame
Exactly. She said she went to two restaurants/bars with her homegirl after work. But she was just too busy to respond back to a simple text message. Girl please sit down.
She has time she just doesn't like the guy she chose.
She's full of shit
Oh serenity is her friend, got it lol…birds of a feather 🤣
Funny bc Serenity wanted the guy she matched with to apply “pressure” and he didn’t get a text back so there was “no more pressure/interest“
Meanwhile Shawn is over here trying to get a text back while applying “pressure/interest” and he also is not getting a text back 😢
Right…they both crave clout
Both chickenheads
@@luzvibes4981 Right! And applying "pressure" was a "red flag". Imagine that🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂😂lmfaooooo bruh i could of exited after that line alone 2+2 type shit
She’s a cornball fr, the man literally said he checked himself and let it go and she’s still pressed.
She’s cool, check out her stuff
No, she is avoiding a situation that could become worse. Imagine you are texting a woman for 3 days and you get busy and dont respond one day and she says, "Oh I bet you are out are in some other woman's face right now. Good luck in life." Would you still proceed?
She probably is downplaying the text she got from him to us but she seemed pretty freaked out. Some actions closed doors that apologies can't reopen
@@Noise_floorxx😂😂😂 you really thought you said something here huh?
@@gothamtyler uhm.... just because you aren't emotionally intelligent enough to engage in conversation with me doesnt mean that I didn't say anything. Stay within your IQ babes 😘
Shaun was not even triggered he continued to laugh & keep his vibration high
A tip for all men going on this show if they’re into entertainment, music, training anything that is about being promoted on social media- POP THAT BALLOON!!!
KS said all this and women bashed him for it amongst other things but we are all seeing his teachings come to fruition in every aspect of dating.
💯💯💯💯💯💯
Word
That should be an immediate red flag. You already know they’re only there on the show for clout. Useless.
She's the perfect example of wasting someone's time saying a bunch of nothing.
We need a Shawn Episode like the homie Terrence got. Yes please.
Lexxi is projecting her fears on dude.
Hopefully not a blind date
She totally did
Why I feel like Arlette made this show after getting married, so she can laugh at single folks in their face 😂
Hell yea😂 imagine these convos she be having wit her husband about these people.....😂
Cause lord knows the conversations my husband and I have after watching these be WILD 😂 the singles are out here showing out
😂😂😂😂😂😂 willldddddd
@@DomPole I swear yall next level with it 😂
😂😂😂
She’s two faced, she’s pretending to be nice, hiding behind that smile, she’s not really, it’s all about communication, ghosting is a red flag.
You get, veey pretentious
You don't know this woman in real life, it's weird to speak like you know her personally.
Well she is going into the entertainment industry as a musician. So it fits
@@orangemoon9634 u defending ghosting? only someone who exhibits this type of behavior can defend this.
@@orangemoon9634we know enough what we saw here. He definitely dodged a bullet with this child
Lexi gives weird energy and he still seems interested. I hate that for him
She not interested
She’s def weird. Annoying too
Totally agree. And quite annoying. And she wasn’t interested. Everything everyone just said 😂. She should have just kept it real because she’s coming off real artificial.
@@tinawalker5335 he should have stopped trying after she didn't respond the first time. If she cancels the first date, DON'T make a 2nd
He definitely needs to move on
She is pointing to him as a red flag, but from what we see in reality, she is the true red flag. 🚩
Facts!
These women sabotage themselves. She’s acting like the dude cussed her out or something…He did nothing wrong. All she had to do was respond with “My bad for not replying, I was out all day.” and be done with it. Why make all these weird assumptions about his character based on what random people did in the past? He seems like a cool guy but she didn’t even give him a chance based on something so minor.
Excellent point. I can understand her concern from the 1st text, but you’re right, she could have communicated with homeboy to clear the air. She just wasn’t interested. I hope she doesn’t string him along.
Seemed like an excuse. I agree with the comment above. She should have communicated straight forward
THANK YOU 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I THOUGHT SHE WAS GOING FOR A CRAZY REACH FOR MAKING ALL THOSE ASSUMPTIONS OFF OF 3 RESPONSES & SHE DIDNT RESPOND BACK. ALL SHE DID WAS DEFLECT FROM ACCOUNTABILITY, WASNT BIG ON COMMUNICATION & SOMEHOW EVEN WHEN SHE WAS IN THE WRONG STILL WAS ABLE TO FLIP IT BACK ON HIM. CRAZY
All that is just an excuse because she was not into him..If a woman really likes you,you can stalk her and she will say " That is so Sweet " with a huge smile on her face
They are the sabotage/ops embodied
She looks like she came on here to promote her brand and her music. You make time for people you feel are a priority in your life which is okay she’s ducking and taking us on a whole tour of a daily life.
That’s what they all do, don’t hate
No. She avoided a red flag. That was his perspective. You arent listening to her.
@@Noise_floorxx: It’s 2024… Takes 30 seconds to text someone… Not hard
She had time to go out and eat with Bo. So how come she didn’t have time to coincidentally call Shawn and ask him to meet up for lunch. Everyone has to eat. Also if she’s not a red flag herself then why didn’t she communicate her feelings to Shawn instead of waiting to get back on this show to talk bad about him and say negative stuff he only had good things to say about her even if she did bring up how she felt she didn’t have to start calling him a red flag and stuff
@@AlwonDomzexactly!
After reading the comments I'm real happy to see women pointing out Lexxi's bizarre logic. A lot of times it takes a video recording to recognize how much gaslighting is done when some of you communicate, and why man at times try to say as little as possible till something is said out of pocket!
Is everybody in Arizona a rapper, producer, entertainer, or model ?!?!😂😂
No they also work in “mental/behavioral health”
I didn't know az was that fly
@@nTrubl3 😂😂😂😂I noticed that too.
Yes i was dating a guy who moved to Arizona and after only a brief period of time started to model and had multiple friends that were either producers, musicians or DJs
@@nTrubl3lol wtf
OMG this girl can talk! Ain't gonna say no more about her. Shawn seems like a nice guy, genuinely about looking for a connection. Bless him
Oh lord everybody playing mind games. First she don’t know any dj’s now she giving him a shout out !!! 🤦🏾♀️
Facts 😂
She's a liar like most women
😂😂😂
Rite!😒
🤣
12:51 (Is when I exited the chat)
“I don’t really know any DJ’s”
- Then proceeded to tell a man WHOLE GOVERNMENT name & family 😂😂‼️
These artists aren’t there for a relationship. They’re there for exposure. POP YOUR BALLOON for these type of ppl. And Arlette needs to vet these ppl more. We’re not here for these artists. We’re here for ppl to genuinely find love, not IG followers.
I agree
Correct
There’s a way to communicate that you’re busy and set expectations while letting the person pursuing you know that their efforts aren’t in vain.
Right, because if he wasn’t showing any interest in her this interview would have been a lot different. She would be acting like he was the one not interested. The fact that she admitted she had time to have lunch with another man but none of those days had time to call Shawn for lunch and as much as she talks she couldn’t reach out and let Shawn know how she felt before bashing him like that publicly. She didn’t even give him a chance to explain himself to her to find any reason before she did that to him and to me that’s not right especially when he was just trying to actually follow through with getting to know her since she picked him.
@@dexteranthony3069 absolutely.
Well said ma'am
Well said 👏🏾
This was not the right young lady for this gentleman.
Shawn needs his own episode! Arlette make it happen 🎉
Yesssss 😊
I’m here for it!!
“I don’t really know any DJs” to “Shout out to DJ Pest, DJ Pest you know how much I love you!! Then names another DJ….
bruh
She wasn’t interested. That’s all she genuinely had to say 🤷🏾♀️
Facts!!
I think Arlette should start vetting people who come onto the show to ensure their intentions align with the kind of happy-ever-after ending we're aiming for.
The women are chasing clout and opportunities to expand their careers while the guys always say I called her and texted her, but she was "busy" aint nobody that damn busy
People make time for who they wanna make time for. It’s really just as simple as that. Like you wrote, exposure is their main goal 🤷🏾♂️
She does not organize the show,she's only the host
Yeah, lots of immaturity
@@jaybaby9713 yea it's a shame because ..... the wy I wouldn't fumble these men that be on here! I have seen some excellent men on the show!
Same ole story… The women match then fall in love with all the attention/Dms then they start looking for a better choice. It’s typical lol
Amen
Yep
Bro I’m telling you 😂😂
💯💯💯
Facts
My brain gets tired after listening to Lexie just blowing hot air & thinking she’s making sense.
He dodged a bullet. She’s all over the place.
I beg to differ- he seems to balance her out. They compliment each other, but relationships need to be nurtured on both ends.
the other two guys called it and most rappers be capping lol when they say the rap take it with a grain of salt they just talking
@@ThisNurulol
She said she has a lot of experience. She’s the one putting off most the red flags.
No she's not, lol.
😂 I was thinking the same thing like okay girl damn you been around the block, I hear you 😂
@@UnapologeticallyAshley lmfaooo they be tellin on themselves like ohh thanks for tellin us you're ran thru
*According to the A.I. summary, she wasn’t interested, she lacked communication, Shawn was a Catch, and She talked too much about NOTHING. DAMN!* 😂😂😂
*_I was gon talk about how they bbq’d in these comments but A.I. beat me to it!_* 🤣🤣
Lmao
W AI compil
This 😂
He dodged a bullet cus this mf loooovvvvveeeeee hearing herself talk damn. I'm usually on the women's side but gahdamn girl I can't defend this. Just text the man, call him, something. You didn't talk to him as much as you talking here lol.
She is doing the MOST and not ready to date! She came on the show for followers!
He is ready for love and available!
Periodt.
Bro you bet not take her out to eat after this. Dont be the guy she use for dinner and that's it.
Exactly. And then she ends it with “i have a dis track coming”
That’s what it felt like. A free meal ticket for her. I didn’t like that feeling and I can tell bro felt that too. I hope he didn’t play himself.
Free dinner & drink...
Yoooo that was wild crazy. “I got time tonight for dinner, I want some crab legs” after going on a 12 minute diatribe about how she felt he wasn’t for her, red flags and all and also the “wait I let you speak “ actions. Hell No we ain’t going out. He’s a sucker if he lets her control all that, she’ll never respect him.
THIS THE 1
"I dont know no DJ"
*5 seconds later*
"Shoutout DJ Pest" BRUH🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣
Peeped !
Yea she's the 🚩 she tried to disrespect him then ask for a date smh then said i wrote a diss track😅
She full of shit
Even nurses and doctors not that busy that bs
Wild g
Shawty said "I still need to eat dinner tonight"..😮 my man's, respect yourself
Ouch. Yeah… he’ll be alright
😅 she not interested in him, she want a free dinner
Yo facts are most men just blind!!!
You knew exactly what it was the second she said that
She made time for her girlfriend, she made time to do her music and she made time to be on this video right here. I do know from experience you will make time for a new crush, you're excited and can't resist texting or talking to them. I'm busy excuse is usually a sign someone isn't interested. I met a guy who adjusted his work schedule just to accommodate my work schedule so we can hang out , his interest level was over the top, point I'm making someone will make time if in fact they are genuinely interested. But to just leave someone hanging isn't cool.
Hellllooooooooo! Intention is EVERYTHINGGGG! When she said her and her friend went to TWO spots in one day I stopped listening. Because girl bffr!
Lmao she overthinking and saying a whole bunch of nothing. He needs to take this opportunity to dodge this bullet
now she getting free food and gonna ghost yo ass again lmao
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She went to pop the balloon for clout… she is sick in the head… run for the hills😂😂😂😂😂
This should be called "We Never Caught Up"😂😂😂😂
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Crying 😂
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Oh so you're friends with Serenity... finally makes sense😂😂😂
Crazy ahhhhhhh women lol
You can tell Shawn is a good dude and really likes her. He's just excited to see what she's all about. I don't think there's any red flags, but rather a grown man with genuine interest in a grown woman. She said she didn't want to bring her past digressions into current/future partnerships, but she's doing that right now with the assumption that Shawn's pursue of her is negativity. Girl! Let that man be a man and pursue you as a man is supposed to do. Don't get your balloon popped, Lexxi. You're about to drop the ball on a good man. Food for thought though-I've been married 12 years. I'm 39 years old. I too used to have a wall up until I let my husband pursue me.
On the other hand, I'm thinking maybe you and ''Brown Dress'' need to switch guys. She wants what your man is giving. And it sounds like you want what her man is giving. Just saying! Anyway, love the show. However, I still think contestants should be sent on dates as soon as they match or the show wraps. Little bit of a Love Connection vibe.
I was thinking the same! They need to switch men lol.
Absolutely! It should be mandated to go on a date right after
I think she was very immature that you have the man’s number and you don’t communicate with him your feelings and instead you wait until you get back on camera in a public setting to call him a red flag and try to make him look bad knowing their are internet bullies. And he had nothing but nice things to say about her.
I couldn't agree more. It's like they should just swap dates! 😂 But it seems accountability is a challenge for some women. Both of them made those comments to deflect accountability for not putting in the effort to arrange a date. They received plenty of messages in their DMs, and more appealing options arose. That's the harsh truth they'd never admit, as it sounds quite harsh and politically incorrect.
@dominquewoods7646 Everything you said I was going to type. So I agree with you on mostly everything except for them switching men. Madit would have reached out to her, and if she was busy he would've waited for her to let him know when she's free. So Lexxii would have dropped the ball on two decent guys.
Nobody does it like Arlette, she’s honestly so nice and so classy i love how she runs everything so swiftly. ❤️
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You can tell she was raised well and by a father. If it were our AA women, you will be seeing attitudes, eye rolling and temper.
No, keep it the same. This is funny. These are grown people, Arlette can't control whether they lie or not 😂
Stay tuned we bring it to Houston
Agreed, she's very classy.
Shawn is a great guy 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 whoever raised him raised him well. I pray he finds a great woman.
Ending with “I may or may not have a diss track” while slyly looking at him is wiiiiillld.
Str8 nasty work on her part!
She is just lying soo badly. Her gestures, starting etc says it all. Shawn man you a good dude. You gon find a queen!!
Her friendship with serenity is giving misery loves company. Especially after watching both their excuses
You think Serenity is miserable? You need help lbs.
@@lilymonroe8882 serenity didn't respond to her guy either, she was dumb too
They started getting attention from other ppl
@@urbantacticalasylum I am not sure if you're a man or not but those DMs from virtual profiles versus a man in your city trying to take you out on a date, whom you've met, is entirely different. Women are confusing messages from horny men with serious options. They aren't the same.
These people are not together in real life. If she wasn't feeling it, she wasn't feeling it. @@Marco-zz2ed
14:45 AYYY THERE YOU GO SHAWN! - hahaha, brodie was steady trying to get to know her, posted her on his page, got on her live too? Most solid dude from the show in my opinion, he fell back respectfully. 💪🏾
Hopefully one flawed female won’t change him
Shawn if you’re reading this. PLEASE LISTEN!!! This woman don’t want you. Nor deserve you. A woman will MAKE time for the man she’s interested in. ( All my REAL sisters help Shawn by commenting and backing me up ) 👍🏾
Agreed 💯
When you’re not interested, say you’re not interested.
That's it! That's all! 🤦🏽♀️
She's playing games if she's not interested then why say now she wants to go to dinner let it go
Shawn is such a gentleman and so handsome!
“I’m going to give her until Sunday because that’s God’s day” 🤣😭🤣
She dominated the episode . Dang she can talk
These matches never work out. And she talks tooooo much.....
For someone who talks too much you’d think she would’ve tried having a rational conversation with him instead of ghosting him and waiting to publicly try to humiliate him. Then the fact that she wanted him to speak first so she could determine how hard she was going to bash him
Way too much and all over the place plus I don’t like her shoulders
Yeah it’s hard to follow what she’s saying . Like ….what girl?
@@BigALsSeafoodBoilHER SHOULDERS😭😭😭😭 that’s so random
@@BigALsSeafoodBoilHer shoulders are perfect.
Dude, just keep it moving. I wouldn't even call her a friend. As she said. She has a lot of trauma that she has yet to handle and resolve. She made it out to make this guy seem possessive but couldn't even communicate.
Trauma? For avoiding a red flag? Its called you live and you learn. From what I hear from men, its our fault when we choose the wrong men. So what choices do we have? Keep pursuing men who have res flags then be blamed when things go wrong? Or.. see the red flags, notice them and move on.... then we have trauma. Got it
Had the nerve to hang out with everyone else! She is a piss poor communicator! I agree with you!
@@TheCakediva08 She is a piss poor communicator. Honestly, I would welcome her invitation for the lobster date and not show up. She’s a waste of time.
@Noise_floorxx she literally asked him out at the end. You are trying so hard to demonize another bm.
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only takes 1 second to send a text communicating that your busy.
She be capping
Because it wasnt about her being busy. It was about his immature response when she was busy. You text a woman for 3 days, one day you are busy and forget to text and she responds in an immature manner and assumes you are interested anymore. What do you do?
She’s clearly not interested but she’s to nice to come out and say it but if he would listen close enough she told him he was friend zoned.
@@Noise_floorxx If i ever forget to text a woman i met 3 days ago, it's prolly cause i don't like her.
Don’t sweat it bro, you dodged a BULLET!!
She literally said she don't know any DJ's but then said she did know the DJ. Then she got defensive because she knew she was in the wrong. Girl, just hold yourself accountable. The attention got to her head. She just wasn't interested
Why was he mentioning to the world rumours that he had heard about her messing with married men??
Tacky, both of them 😂👆🏾
@@tmcurlyI think you didn’t listen, he said she was very busy And he’s friend told him, that she really hitting the market bec she working with a lot DJs . That man didn’t say anything about her messing with a married man , why you trying to flip it the same way she try to ..?
Right
“I dont know any Dj” 😂😂
No disrespect, but she don’t even look like the same person before even with the boots… Am I Trippin?
She doesn’t I was thinking who is this lady? Lol, but I remember him.
She look better now 😂
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No you not tripping. She definitely looks like a different person.
She does look different but she looks great in both
"If you are getting red flags, please step away from me"
#THEGOAT
I think we should rename from Pop the Ballon to "Great Excuses or Find Love"..these ladies spoiling the show.
He should’ve left her goofy ass & them boots right there …. How you want a man to “pursue you “ yet you oh so busy for him but have time for EVERYTHING ELSE . Girl gone . 😂 she done pissed me off for him .
He’s the one that has 3 jobs, yet he’s making time and reaching out. Girl, bye!
not you tagging me for my opinion 2 months ago when I don’t even remember the video tbh babes but go off 🤣 lmfao
😮 Huh? I am agreeing with you! LOL and yes, people discover videos at different times. 😂
@@kashanie5414ohhh baby I was finna say , I can’t even remember what happened Chile
She talked for 20 minutes during this interview about nothing. He has patience.
he dodged a bullet…especially when she said in the beginning that she wasn’t sure how to answer regarding being a witch or not…
Fr and she didn't confirm it nor deny it.....which is still a red flag.....
she's definitely of the devil
judging by her necklace, she probably is.
THIS!!! Dodged her confusion and a lot of spiritual warfare. The blood of Jesus 👀
@@buckwheat6245 An ankh has nothing to do with being a "witch" 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
28:54 That Shawn's response to the "haven't had a date yet", THEEEEEE BEEEEST😂😂😂
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They both sitting apart which has only one meaning 😂😂
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Ended pretty swell though lol
ONLY ONE 😂
She talks too much about nothing
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Yeahhhh her talking on and on was ick. Kept fast forwarding and she still talking lol
His reaction was so respectful.
I love how Shawn showed up! even with her talking for the majority of the episode, he still said his piece respectfully w no hostility towards her how things went
of course, y'all love when a man doesn't check female bullsh1t and delusional babbling. It's soo "mAtUrE"
Nah, He is a good guy!! I honestly feel bad for him!
She was simply not interested in him..
she basically lost interest because he was “too interested in her” he seems like a super sweet and respectful guy. and he deserves communication tbh
Shawn was one of my picks when i watched this episode. He’s easy on the eyes and seems very genuine. I hope he finds what hes looking for ❤