Arlette, you have been THE only content creator doing this the right way! I can hardly watch any of the other balloon videos by others. I love your professionalism, the way your process had consistency and the way you are doing flow ups!
She’s a great host because she allows them to talk and these people just spew all their red flags with ease. But I could tell that car and speaker was having her over there holding the deepest breathe 😂
I don't think you listened to him properly, bro. She said he said he didn't have a card and he said he actually tried other options as well as the card wasn't working so it wasn't just "I don't have the card". They're talking past each other a bit but she seems to have a strange attitude to me. He doesn't seem to be lying if not much, at all. God bless you all that read this.
She said she was not expecting the things that were presented to her because of how he was talking before. She didn't even say it was bad, it was just unexpected and he got offended by her reaction.
@@jaymanfxBecause her main purpose was to embarrass him, while saying, she wasn’t trying to embarrass him😆. All that shade throwing she was doing, just to stay on the date, instead of dipping.
I feel like she would have looked past everything and gave him one more chance, but he ruined it with his pride. Fellas takes notes, sometimes silence is golden.
Weird mentality. You’re acting like she’s the only woman on the planet or something. She belittled him first, so he fired back. Never let a woman trample over you just because you want a second chance. You’re just waiting to be used as a doormat in the future.
He fumbled bad. She was willing to take all that but he still tryna call her a gold digger. A gold digger would’ve definitely left him at Honda accord 😂😂
Les gar "American" Dieu ma vraiment epargné de ses gamins. Ca c'est une fille ki a la tete sur ces epaule. Et elle croyait etre avec un vrais homme mais helas.!!!
@@jadedabratz7442she is lying about the oil change tho, if you know enough to check it, then you should know if it’s low you just have to power some in.
@@Frosybeats_FbM dang on point. Sometimes, I worry about some women's taste honestly. There were better options right there. Reminds me of the episode with the intelligent girl in the yellow dress whose choice was also bleh! Oh well, to each their own as it is said😁
@@Earthspirit555On average 40% of men around the world are bald, so that’s ok. But all the make up, weave, nose rings, ect, that isn’t beautiful at all. Not for wifey material.
@@MyOwnBossPR Okay?? No one is trying to look beautiful for you all though. Instead of figuring out who’s beautiful, you should be heading to a dermatologist and get some hair implants.
Wow, the way she communicates is so mature and feminine. I love that she kept an open mind and heart. I truly hoped she finds someone who is honest and communicative❤. If she was a goldigger in any way when she saw the 08’ it would’ve been bids off.
tbh they both problematic. the episode gave gold digger energy but she speaks well. that doesnt mean she not materialistic. why bring up rooftops and you know you are busy ? reservations need to be made no ?
@@ra-neter6662 In all fairness, he’s the one who brought up the rooftop in ep.4. That was his answer to the final question before she chose him. That said, he definitely sold her a dream and she bought it so well that it seems she falls for that kind of stuff often.
@@krazyintellectual7392Yes, people will lie so she has to be able to discern when someone is not being honest even when they don’t overtly tell you. Watch people do, not only what they say.
I agree to a certain extent. I think people in general need to make sure they are healed..mentally and financially stable before trying to date. The thing with these two though he asked money or personality and of course personality means more but I think he ran with that thinking he could be comfortable🤣 but obviously he didn’t listen to her answers with some of the other guys. I don’t think it’s about increasing his hustle it’s more about being honest bc he sold her a pretty picture. Had he let her know his situation she may have rode it out with him.
The minute he asked her what was more important “money or personality”, she should have left him with the balloon. Why would anyone ask that? It gave, “I don’t have it right now” energy.
Khalov is not a gold digger. Listen fellas, the man pays for the first date, he ask the female if he needs to pick her up. If you’re not in the place in your life to do these things get yourself together first before you get on the dating scene. Period!
I think the problem is all these people are liars to make themselves look good for the camera... Im a actor, model, business owner, doctor. Come to find out they work at DHL, Amazon, Walmart etc. Just be honest!
Now that's a fact. Shorty knew she had no oil in her car (which is crazy). She could've got that taken care of easily. It don't even cost much. She could've even ordered the right oil from Walmart to put some in her car lol. A blind man can tell homie wasn't papered up like that. Everybody lie on these shows.
Yea I don’t get the car thing with our community like why does the car u drive matter if u gotta bag, ppl out here breaking they backs tryna pay a car payment to flex while living in shambles vs buying a car outright and saving that money smh the Bluetooth speaker willddd tho lol
I completely understand the woman here. The fact that he got upset when she brought up the debit card situation speaks volumes. He has a lot of shame when it pertains to his financial situation and he tries and tried to hide it. He basically has a financially stable facade when in fact his financials are in shambles for his age. She simply recognized that. That’s all. He should just keep it real, and that’s what she’s asking. On the other hand, I understand why a man would hide that and lie about that. It’s a hard predicament.
Exactly, I would never pick a guy who when you ask them their job they say I am an actor, model, musician and dhl driver. Red flag. 🚩 He could be unemployed for all we know.
Yes I agree with you all about him. My question is why didn’t she have an oil change? A car with no oil in it doesn’t happen over night. The sticker lets you know how many miles you have until it needs to be changed…. You can go get it changed a little early or a little late but not late to the point that you can’t drive it 🤔
Ishmael doesn’t listen, he just talks and you can see he was offended lol. You can have a good time with someone and not want another date 🤷🏾♀️. She explained why and he still missed the point.
@@flipkiddmuzik462Boys who have no money will always claim a woman is a gold digger. Never in my life have I experienced a man with money being upset about spending it on a woman because that’s just what comes along with being a provider and quite honestly is the bare minimum. If you don’t have it just say that lol
@@MultiMimi234but that role of the man being the provider comes from religious, and a lot of these people love to only use religion like a shopping cart to pick out things they want without any responsibility or upholding values, otherwise men and women are equal if you are not religious, it’s not a moral obligation of a man to provide for a woman this age where women have 80% of the purchasing power and the upper hand in almost every part of society when you exclude the top .01% of men who control the world, so if you want a provider, are you going to uphold all the other responsibilities of said religion, whether it’s quran or bible, that provider role comes with complete authority over the woman, who is btw a virgin, so when i hear women saying they want a provider while not upholding all the other religious obligations, it sounds a lot like the wicked men who do wicked things but say they need to marry a virgin
@@saherking2707 Relax. Not everyone fits into the category you’re speaking of. Live longer expand your socials groups and you’ll see some people are deserving and live up to what I’m speaking of.
@@woke.hunchoyeah she was making homie look broke. He was unprepared but had cash and his apple pay. If I knew my chip acting up I wouldn't went to the back for a replacement. Chip not working is embarrassing.
She keeps insinuating he's broke even though she saw he had cash on him. She acts like she's not superficial, but rather than expressing her displeasure, she says, "it's not what I was expecting."
@@millionaire_Bradythis is what I came here to say, yes her feelings are valid however, the first thing that came out of her mouth is the reaction that she received from the internet both bad & good… No, I don’t feel like he handled this well but tell me who would when you’re being exposed like that ON THE INTERNET! Every question didn’t need to be answered, she should’ve just said the date was okay & not what she expected but he’s a great guy and move along. I just don’t believe in setting someone up for embarrassment like that especially on a public platform…🤷🏽♀️ She didn’t have to go in about the car,asking the year, make & model 😂the speaker (yes it was funny )& saying she had that car at 18, okayyy??? but what does she think the internet will do with that information? As a lady we’re taught to not get rides on the 1st date anyways, she should’ve gotten dropped off by a family member or ride share… The odds were against him😂 it is what it is but they’re not meant for each other & that’s okay but she deff tried to parlay him right here.
@@AngelDrewThomasShe seems like a really cool girl, very pretty at that. She was calm and held her composure for sure however, I believe she went in on him. No need to do that to a man, the internet is ruthless. She had a date,didn’t complain when they were out, and made it home safely by the grace of God. We all will run into others that won’t meet our expectations but it’s good to take what you can from that experience and learn from it.
The crazy thing is I clocked this man being this way during the pop the balloon video. I just knew. Something about his energy gave he just be saying anything to get women.
Just proves women fall for this all type they fall for the good talker and pretenders but hey can’t blame fellas for this after all they getting the goods
@@Tony_Wes bro its the first date… have 2nd 3rd and 4th backup plans. You need to be readily prepared. Know ticket prices, parking prices, credit card in case your debit doesn’t work, etc… You’re supposed to impress the woman you wanna make yours on the first date.
she’s very respectful! this man is in his feelings, starting to curse instead of just using his words to communicate effectively. cutting her off, being defensive and offended. calling her a gold digger lol. and she was still polite! i like her. i hope she finds a good man
LOL it seems like everyone is fraudsters on the show trying to win the other over but when they're off the show they get nothing of what's been expected.
There were soo many L’s on his part but some uncontrollable tho. And then her expectations and not asking the right questions before hand ruined the date
Yes to everything. Someone once said you should not be dating (men and women) if you don’t have your shit together, well this is what can happen if you don’t
Arlette is SOOO professional & she actually listens to EVERYONE & is able to articulate accurately their perspective. GIVE THIS LADY WHATEVER DEAL SHE WANTS!! Because i would be ctfu in front of these people!😂
Sounds like she was pretty graceful during the date. Now he's a bit taken aback hearing how she actually felt about things + we tend to bend perception as a means to cope and defend ourselves
"she chose that nasty ass fucking chicken tenders" with Arlette holding her laugh, this is honestly better than the show itself. These people straight-up roasting each other 🤣
I’m not gonna lie, I have such a love-hate relationship with watching these people throw shade at one another because on one hand it’s not me, it’s dramatic and entertaining but on the other hand it highlights the dysfunction in our community we live out every day which saddens me. We really got two broke people up here posturing like they’re not broke judging each other on their brokenness 😬
Exactly 💯 like two broke people trying to make one come off as broker than the other is WILD!!! I think they would've been good together. They're both really beautiful individuals. She says he should've been honest about his "situation" but I think that even if he had... she would've NEVER went on a date with him from jump. She wouldn't have been as understanding as she claims she would've been. But his aggressiveness is the real turn off. He doesn't like being corrected, or even let her feel however she feels/felt.
Right, but this is why social media is such a poison. The average person don't got it like that but everyone wants to posture and make themselves bigger than they actually are. Nothing wrong with being broke or lower income, you can still have a dope date where you don't spend much, you just have to be creative. At the end of the day, just gotta be honest a lot of people will appreciate the effort.
Idk where people are getting that she's superficial. The only reason she brought up rooftop is because that's the type of dates HE said he was on prior to them matching. She even said that it's nothing wrong with being in a rough spot financially, just be honest and be yourself, don't try to portray yourself as something you're not. I like her, she seems down to earth to me. His priorities are clearly in the wrong place. Nothing wrong with taking time to handle that.
That's what I got out of it. She wasn't being no gold digger he was the one who told her he would take her on a roof top date and didn't. But she still went with him to the movies. Should've just been honest from the jump about his situation.
@@Bossdog05-m3w I remember him definitely flexing on their episode so I can see why she would be thrown off by the circumstances but she was still open to going on a date with him which I think speaks volumes...the date just progressively got worst because he bit off more than he could chew. He was backtracking on this clip saying he never said he had the bag but I hope this teaches people to just stay authentic.
@@gxp958 idk what you’re responding to. I wasn’t saying that he should’ve took her to the rooftop but people were calling her superficial for wanting that and i was just saying the reason she brought it up
Idk. The girl seemed really chill and wasn’t trying to bash anybody but dude got hot and I feel like he’s trying to put on an image. Not to say he’s a bad person but she never got loud and she kept her composure. He seem hostile.
He started off very calm she mentioned they went to the movies vs the rooftop but didn’t state all the facts about how her obligations or life plans got in the wall of that then it just went back and forth she mentioned is car etc
lol why is she clowning an accord? I’m an engineer and I have a 2007 Honda Accord. People need to stop conflating a depreciating asset like a car with income. There are people driving chargers living paycheck to paycheck
Definitely. A paid for vehicle is an asset where one with a note is a liability and if not a luxury vehicle the value isn’t holding and even those depreciate. It’s people in NYC with no vehicles and they have $$$ But he is ashamed of his finances and in today’s day and age it’s hard for men to be honest because everything is about money!
I've been there before. Not on a date but I had the Bluetooth speaker on a road trip for my car. Amp went out and could not locate anyone that could fix it
It was a decent date, he picked her up, he paid for her movie ticket, snacks, food and parking gas to take her back home. Sounds like a decent date to me. 😂
American men must learn to be in charge. You don't take someone out and have so many misses. You gotta be sure of your thing. For a first date things must synchronize. Hire a car if you have to. Book a good restaurant. Tell your true situation, if it's not the best, she will appreciate the effort for the quality u put in to have a good time and telling the truth. May be he's still young and will learn that women who really want a men don't really ask for much than you be in charge. lead well she will follow
Nah as a Man I would feel embarrassed to take someone out if ion got everything situated for myself first. But I do understand his side of things tho but communication is key. I would have just said I’m having a bad month 😭😭
She was trying not to divulge all of the details at first, but eventually just let everything out. His pride was definitely hurt and he stayed in defense mode this whole conversation.
I was on homie side in the beginning but the lack of preparation had me dying 😂 I definitely understand why she wasn’t feeling homie, I think if he was honest and more respectful he would’ve had a good chance though. Neither of them sound like they are in a position they strive to be in so judgment should be minimal on both sides.
First and foremost if you’re an adult and going through anything, dating/looking for love should be the last thing on your mind. Having a debit card should not be your only card on you….ever. You should always have a credit card for emergencies. Secondly, if your car is missing items within the interior just take an Uber/Lyft to the destination. He could have sent an Uber for her and that whole uncomfortable situation would have been avoided. Thirdly, stealing candy on the low is diabolical… if you’re going to do that then THE BOTH of you need to be in on it so it’s an adventure 🤣🤣😂. Lastly, when a woman provides a schedule it is 💯% on the man to plan the date. A man coming to the woman asking her what she wants to do is off putting to say the least.
These men hate accountability. He wasn’t prepared to date at all. Go home and get your life together before u start dating young man. He should be ashamed
Him and the men supporting him in the comments are baffling. How can you be wearing cartier but driving a honda with not even an aux cord to its name. No debit/credit card in sight, thinking that you should receive a round of applause for buying chicken tenders. Wawu
Come on man. This sounds like it couldve been a rags to riches story😂😂😂 "babe remember that time when we had to listen to music in the car thru a phone"
She complained about his car but was driven in it, she complained about the chicken tenders but in actuality she ate it, she furthermore told him she enjoyed her date. When he corrected her she didnt dispute anything he said about those things. She should've took her own advice and keep it 💯
Well with the car she either had to ride in it OR refuse which would have been ridiculous…they both mentioned things they shouldn’t have. Seems like she didn’t have a car or at least a way to the first date so why is she complaining..why is he complaining about picking up a lady for a first date this is just weird
@@ESBEAUTIIagreed. they both don’t need to be dating fr fr however…i do think…he is being up front and direct. i don’t think she is and is shading him to cover up whatever she got going on.
he really wasnt prepared which says a lot. both parties are worth effort and intentionality. and i like how she kept her composure and kept it respectful.
You pick a dude with grills from top and bottom but then confused when he does hood stuff
😊truth.
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That’s women for you
Ol' girl was quiet at first, then she let the cat out the bag and told EVERYTHING 😂
Man aye 😂
She was waiting to go off 😂
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She was OVER IT 😂
@@yourriderdie8472 Ok went Awwwffff 🤣😂🤣 I can’t
Arlette, you have been THE only content creator doing this the right way! I can hardly watch any of the other balloon videos by others. I love your professionalism, the way your process had consistency and the way you are doing flow ups!
Frfr I agree
All of this!
Seriously a lot of them are CRINGEY
Because she does it for the mature crowd ❤️❤️❤️everybody else does it for 18-21 year olds
Yea, you’re the ghost on these
Telling her to hold the phone to her ear was wilddddd though, my mouth dropped on that part 😭
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Crazy part she was down. But he fake he act as if he had it when he clearly don’t. lol he a fraud.
😂😂😂 to listen to HIS music💀
I know at the end of the day, Arlette gets into her car and laughs her ass off
lmaao oh my god i'm crying
All the way home to her husband 😂😂
She’s a great host because she allows them to talk and these people just spew all their red flags with ease. But I could tell that car and speaker was having her over there holding the deepest breathe 😂
I love her 😂😂
Also praises the Lord that she's not in this horrendous dating world anymore.
the date kept getting worse 😭 😂🤣🤣
Like dramatically worst. I feel bad!
😂😂😂@@Goodmanj1221
The speaker in the car would've been enough for me😭
Yesssss! A hot mess 😂
For real lol
She couldn’t wait to vent and talk about this bootleg date 😂😂 she had me hollarin 😭
😂😂 dawg didn’t do us any justice
Im dead
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Bootleg 😂😂😂😂
Me too 😂 I ain’t never heard of nothing like this. Putting the speaker close to the ear to listen to his song and the speaking blows out 😂😂😂😂
Stealing candy on the first date and getting caught then proceeding to say " next date on you right" is DIABOLICAL work 🤣🤣
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I’m sorry but the phone to the ear after the speaker died 😂😂😂
You sound pleasant not
How u even ask a girl to put the phone on thy ear😂😂
@@timlynch6271 you sound like you need something better to do than mind my business stay blessed
Right!!! I was dying
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He keeps saying that she 🧢 but his story validates what she was saying. He was just in his feels…that’s all 😅
I don't think you listened to him properly, bro. She said he said he didn't have a card and he said he actually tried other options as well as the card wasn't working so it wasn't just "I don't have the card". They're talking past each other a bit but she seems to have a strange attitude to me. He doesn't seem to be lying if not much, at all. God bless you all that read this.
@@kolijboss facts man, why didnt she mention the fact that he had cash, even though his cards were malfunctioning
She said she was not expecting the things that were presented to her because of how he was talking before. She didn't even say it was bad, it was just unexpected and he got offended by her reaction.
@@jaymanfxBecause her main purpose was to embarrass him, while saying, she wasn’t trying to embarrass him😆. All that shade throwing she was doing, just to stay on the date, instead of dipping.
@@ghostpeppers9199right lmfaooooo she went low after he threw shade saying she didn’t have a car 💀😂😂😂😭
This is more funny than the episode 🤣🤣🤣
Arlette: "You were talking about the car he pulled up in" 🤣🤣🤣
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I idk but “where my hug at” & “let me play you my song” is just the same to me 😂😂
Most times the song is trash & it’s really awkward
The way I cringe when niggas wannna play they music for me n then wanna perform it too😅
Let me play my song for u on the Bluetooth was crazy lmaooooo
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You can tell how well they hit it off by how they avoided looking in each others direction at the beginning..ALWAYS!!
Until she realised he was a brokie
“No debit card , taxing , Bluetooth speaker” lmaaaaaooo this 💩 had me weak asl
Ikr??! I was on his side until that happened. He’s cool but he fumbled on that date! 😂
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I feel like she would have looked past everything and gave him one more chance, but he ruined it with his pride. Fellas takes notes, sometimes silence is golden.
Fact 👌
lol second chance for what?? It’s more fish in the sea. He gots kids, she don’t!
Weird mentality. You’re acting like she’s the only woman on the planet or something. She belittled him first, so he fired back. Never let a woman trample over you just because you want a second chance. You’re just waiting to be used as a doormat in the future.
He dodged a bullet with her. If that's all the appreciation he gets from spending on her & picking her up then she's too spoiled to deal with.
Nah, buddy outta pocket with the Bluetooth speaker.
She is soo valid; you can tell she has a good head on her shoulders, I love how calm but assertive she is.. you fumbled my boi
He fumbled big time! Too immature. Lost a great woman.
Agreed!
He fumbled bad. She was willing to take all that but he still tryna call her a gold digger. A gold digger would’ve definitely left him at Honda accord 😂😂
The boy is just sooo imature. He sold himself sooo high but at the end of everything he is a hooood boy. He is soo defensive
Les gar "American" Dieu ma vraiment epargné de ses gamins. Ca c'est une fille ki a la tete sur ces epaule. Et elle croyait etre avec un vrais homme mais helas.!!!
That bluetooth speaker dying and Khalov doing the wind effect was insane! LMAO really cracked me up how she nailed that sound fx. LMAO
Lmfao right
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An 08 Honda accord with a Bluetooth speaker after talking about a bag is CRAZY
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Didn't I see you in traffic with an '06 Rav 4?
Yes 😂
Her play by play was impeccable. That was hilarious. City boys down bad.
Nah the set up was wild
Yes I was visualizing their whole date lmao
Exactly then to say she lying is even crazier
@@jadedabratz7442she is lying about the oil change tho, if you know enough to check it, then you should know if it’s low you just have to power some in.
@@carnelpatterson4101 she probably didn't want to put any new oil if it was gonna get changed anyway
I'm not usually into drama but for some reason I am SO into this series 😂 Who knew a lil balloon popping could lead to such mess 😅
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She chose a Pookie, and I knew that it would end this way. Precisely.😂😂😂
The rooftop got her!
Nah she was thinking she was going to get money spent on her. Lol
@@Frosybeats_FbMexactly 😂😂
@@buzzbabe1901 and you can tell from the jump homie is a front! But the Bluetooth speaker that, I would never.
@@Frosybeats_FbM dang on point. Sometimes, I worry about some women's taste honestly. There were better options right there. Reminds me of the episode with the intelligent girl in the yellow dress whose choice was also bleh!
Oh well, to each their own as it is said😁
Okay at first I was giving her a side eye , but as she kept talking I was like sis am rocking with you ! You can’t just ignore those little details
How tho nothing about her from the gate gave side eye
You know she was telling the truth. Buddy was hallucinating at the end . I wish her the best she’s gorgeous
She has nose rings and tattoos. Nothing about that is gorgeous.
@@mrrdw77You’re bald. Hush.🤫
Yea he was really in his feelings lol
@@Earthspirit555On average 40% of men around the world are bald, so that’s ok. But all the make up, weave, nose rings, ect, that isn’t beautiful at all. Not for wifey material.
@@MyOwnBossPR Okay?? No one is trying to look beautiful for you all though. Instead of figuring out who’s beautiful, you should be heading to a dermatologist and get some hair implants.
“Ian say da bag was there” 😂🤣 took me out
Wow, the way she communicates is so mature and feminine. I love that she kept an open mind and heart. I truly hoped she finds someone who is honest and communicative❤. If she was a goldigger in any way when she saw the 08’ it would’ve been bids off.
Right. men with no money, especially the ones who sell dreams the way he did, love to say women are gold diggers.
tbh they both problematic. the episode gave gold digger energy but she speaks well. that doesnt mean she not materialistic. why bring up rooftops and you know you are busy ? reservations need to be made no ?
@@ra-neter6662 In all fairness, he’s the one who brought up the rooftop in ep.4. That was his answer to the final question before she chose him. That said, he definitely sold her a dream and she bought it so well that it seems she falls for that kind of stuff often.
@@krazyintellectual7392Yes, people will lie so she has to be able to discern when someone is not being honest even when they don’t overtly tell you. Watch people do, not only what they say.
Yeah this video made me love her. She gives me that 90s authentic vibe. Real mature.
Dude shouldn't be dating right now. He needs to increase his hustle.
OMM
Facts
I agree to a certain extent. I think people in general need to make sure they are healed..mentally and financially stable before trying to date. The thing with these two though he asked money or personality and of course personality means more but I think he ran with that thinking he could be comfortable🤣 but obviously he didn’t listen to her answers with some of the other guys. I don’t think it’s about increasing his hustle it’s more about being honest bc he sold her a pretty picture. Had he let her know his situation she may have rode it out with him.
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Lawd these are becoming better and better 🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿
This guy is unbelievable, damn babe I am sorry. This woman deserves a round of applause she has been through a lot.
Get a life
Sis was EXPOSING!!!!! Lmao . He is pisssed 😂😂😂😂😂 !.
The minute he asked her what was more important “money or personality”, she should have left him with the balloon. Why would anyone ask that? It gave, “I don’t have it right now” energy.
I’m not mad at him but why didn’t he just reimburse her if he had cash? Maybe he was flexing. 😬
@@opulence_primewhy you say “reimburse”? He paid for everything. He had cash on em.
@@opulence_primehe did though
he’s bigggg mad 😂😂😂😒 she dodged a bullet fr. he’s trying to put on a facade.
Khalov is not a gold digger.
Listen fellas, the man pays for the first date, he ask the female if he needs to pick her up. If you’re not in the place in your life to do these things get yourself together first before you get on the dating scene. Period!
I think the problem is all these people are liars to make themselves look good for the camera... Im a actor, model, business owner, doctor. Come to find out they work at DHL, Amazon, Walmart etc. Just be honest!
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They leaving out the word "aspiring"
Now that's a fact. Shorty knew she had no oil in her car (which is crazy). She could've got that taken care of easily. It don't even cost much. She could've even ordered the right oil from Walmart to put some in her car lol.
A blind man can tell homie wasn't papered up like that. Everybody lie on these shows.
Same thing me and my man was saying 😂😂
😂😂😂
The way she said “was it a 2008 or 2000” I hollered 😂😭😭
It's not about the year, it's about the mileage. And putting the old cassette tape deck back in!
he has a car at least
Yea I don’t get the car thing with our community like why does the car u drive matter if u gotta bag, ppl out here breaking they backs tryna pay a car payment to flex while living in shambles vs buying a car outright and saving that money smh the Bluetooth speaker willddd tho lol
She was trying to clown him. Cause if she "had the same car as him" from when she was 18, then why did she question the year? Weird
Yooooooooo I can’t breath🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I completely understand the woman here. The fact that he got upset when she brought up the debit card situation speaks volumes. He has a lot of shame when it pertains to his financial situation and he tries and tried to hide it. He basically has a financially stable facade when in fact his financials are in shambles for his age. She simply recognized that. That’s all. He should just keep it real, and that’s what she’s asking. On the other hand, I understand why a man would hide that and lie about that. It’s a hard predicament.
The debit card situation didn’t need to be brought up if he gave her back the cash .
Exactly, I would never pick a guy who when you ask them their job they say I am an actor, model, musician and dhl driver. Red flag. 🚩
He could be unemployed for all we know.
@@tmcurlyI thought I was the only one that thought like this 😂
Sad to say this man don't suit her personally .
Yes I agree with you all about him. My question is why didn’t she have an oil change? A car with no oil in it doesn’t happen over night. The sticker lets you know how many miles you have until it needs to be changed…. You can go get it changed a little early or a little late but not late to the point that you can’t drive it 🤔
Ishmael doesn’t listen, he just talks and you can see he was offended lol. You can have a good time with someone and not want another date 🤷🏾♀️. She explained why and he still missed the point.
Cuz he was salty n butthurt. Just her simply explaining the date, he sounds embarrassing
So basically all this matches are a disaster after the cameras go off😅
It’s like that on all the dating shows.
Marquis and the blonde girl are hopeful.
Just because of her standards on how she would like to be treated doesn't make her a gold digger, lmaooo. He got real defensive like relaxxxx
What standard?? Ultimately ur so-called standard is what could make u a gold digger!
@@flipkiddmuzik462Boys who have no money will always claim a woman is a gold digger. Never in my life have I experienced a man with money being upset about spending it on a woman because that’s just what comes along with being a provider and quite honestly is the bare minimum. If you don’t have it just say that lol
@@MultiMimi234u make no sense because broke boys don’t even get chances with girls these days. U just chatting to get likes suck u madda
@@MultiMimi234but that role of the man being the provider comes from religious, and a lot of these people love to only use religion like a shopping cart to pick out things they want without any responsibility or upholding values, otherwise men and women are equal if you are not religious, it’s not a moral obligation of a man to provide for a woman this age where women have 80% of the purchasing power and the upper hand in almost every part of society when you exclude the top .01% of men who control the world, so if you want a provider, are you going to uphold all the other responsibilities of said religion, whether it’s quran or bible, that provider role comes with complete authority over the woman, who is btw a virgin, so when i hear women saying they want a provider while not upholding all the other religious obligations, it sounds a lot like the wicked men who do wicked things but say they need to marry a virgin
@@saherking2707 Relax. Not everyone fits into the category you’re speaking of. Live longer expand your socials groups and you’ll see some people are deserving and live up to what I’m speaking of.
Arlette not trying to laugh out loud is hilarious, baby girl I wouldn’t been rolling on the floor!!!!
I really do like her vibe and the way she speaks she really seems like a down-to-earth cool chick
i like how she speaks but she was exagerating by the way she was saying that he couldn't afford the prices of the date
@@woke.hunchoyeah she was making homie look broke. He was unprepared but had cash and his apple pay. If I knew my chip acting up I wouldn't went to the back for a replacement. Chip not working is embarrassing.
nah my card not working right and my card on the way but i got apple pay so i understand what he saying@@Tony_Wes
@@Tony_Weswell he said the card was just working earlier that day so, plus he had cash and Apple pay so he figured he was good. Things happen.
She is cool but idk about her vibe. She really sound like she just be doin anything. But dog out his shit 😂😂
Khalov is SO PRETTY. Her skin is so beautiful! And her smile! ☺️
Boy could’ve avoided this whole situation. This ain’t on her, this on him lol
Agreed! 😂 but truthfully both should’ve waited until they were more prepared for the date. I personally would’ve wanted to drive myself.
All that being said, if given the opportunity...she wasn't gonna pass up on shaming him!
@@demetriusjames9535she wasn’t shaming him, she was just saying how the experience was 😂
@@Goddess118 Tell me you've shamed a man without *telling* me that you have shamed a man...
HE aint do nothing wrong, she was expecting Quavo or Future
These catchups are getting better. Enjoying them as much as the actual balloon popping videos. You got a good formula here lol
I’m a guy and I 100% agree with her she makes sense he’s taking it the wrong way tbh hella aggressive
Bruh she lowkey tried to play him come on now
@@millionaire_Brady you think so? Or maybe I read her wrong to me she sounds reasonable I don’t think she was trying to be mean
She keeps insinuating he's broke even though she saw he had cash on him. She acts like she's not superficial, but rather than expressing her displeasure, she says, "it's not what I was expecting."
@@millionaire_Bradythis is what I came here to say, yes her feelings are valid however, the first thing that came out of her mouth is the reaction that she received from the internet both bad & good… No, I don’t feel like he handled this well but tell me who would when you’re being exposed like that ON THE INTERNET! Every question didn’t need to be answered, she should’ve just said the date was okay & not what she expected but he’s a great guy and move along. I just don’t believe in setting someone up for embarrassment like that especially on a public platform…🤷🏽♀️ She didn’t have to go in about the car,asking the year, make & model 😂the speaker (yes it was funny )& saying she had that car at 18, okayyy??? but what does she think the internet will do with that information? As a lady we’re taught to not get rides on the 1st date anyways, she should’ve gotten dropped off by a family member or ride share… The odds were against him😂 it is what it is but they’re not meant for each other & that’s okay but she deff tried to parlay him right here.
@@AngelDrewThomasShe seems like a really cool girl, very pretty at that. She was calm and held her composure for sure however, I believe she went in on him. No need to do that to a man, the internet is ruthless. She had a date,didn’t complain when they were out, and made it home safely by the grace of God. We all will run into others that won’t meet our expectations but it’s good to take what you can from that experience and learn from it.
The crazy thing is I clocked this man being this way during the pop the balloon video. I just knew. Something about his energy gave he just be saying anything to get women.
You have on thick eye lashes just like the broke single girl in this video . Next
But everything she said does seem like she a gold digger
When he said hes from the Bay I automatically thought dam he bout to ruin her life lol
Just proves women fall for this all type they fall for the good talker and pretenders but hey can’t blame fellas for this after all they getting the goods
@@ke5146no this proves men be frontin….
She took me out wit the Bluetooth speaker going out😂 "boof"
The way Arlette controls her urge to laugh though 🤣🤣🤣 I could never
Yes!! 🙃😆😆😆😆😆
‘No debit card, Bluetooth speaker, ‘taxin’ it’s all adding up’
He said he had a debit card the chip was just not working. He tried to pay with Apple pay (he should've known not everyone use it) and cash.
Taxing on $9 for parking had me dying 🤣🤣😭😭
@@Tony_Wes bro its the first date… have 2nd 3rd and 4th backup plans. You need to be readily prepared. Know ticket prices, parking prices, credit card in case your debit doesn’t work, etc… You’re supposed to impress the woman you wanna make yours on the first date.
@Tony_Wes Yep, and he had cash
And don't forget stealing candy
Ooohhh he didnt know she was watching EVERYTHING!!!
Yes people aren’t oblivious!
Especially the stealing the candy
@@yourriderdie8472😂
That's women for you lol
Body language speaks volumes.
Exactly!!
😂😂👀
Everytime
Wasn't no need to know the body language when she was telling all-all lol
85 percent of communication is NON VERBAL
she’s very respectful! this man is in his feelings, starting to curse instead of just using his words to communicate effectively. cutting her off, being defensive and offended. calling her a gold digger lol. and she was still polite! i like her. i hope she finds a good man
LOL it seems like everyone is fraudsters on the show trying to win the other over but when they're off the show they get nothing of what's been expected.
Social media vs. reality
I swear…..
It's all fake. Looks like no one ever found love on this show
Arizona must be rough. She needs to come to DC
The Honda with the the Bluetooth speaker 🤣🤣🤣on our way to AMC no debt card 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ETS Everything Skanless lmao
Had me weak 😂😂
Then why get in tha car?!? 😂😂
@@calikidmael7075 facts
You need to do a feature on his ep
There were soo many L’s on his part but some uncontrollable tho. And then her expectations and not asking the right questions before hand ruined the date
This was a ghetto date 🤦♀️ . But she look better without a hat, he look better without glasses 🤷♀️💯
lol very ghetto 😂😂 He needs someone more compatible with him.
Yes to everything. Someone once said you should not be dating (men and women) if you don’t have your shit together, well this is what can happen if you don’t
Yea ikr. They look completely different 😂 i only recognized him because of the grills & she is gorgeous !!
She looks like the singer H.E.R
This ish remind me of Hell Date 😈🔱 back in the day 😂😂
Arlette is SOOO professional & she actually listens to EVERYONE & is able to articulate accurately their perspective. GIVE THIS LADY WHATEVER DEAL SHE WANTS!! Because i would be ctfu in front of these people!😂
She’s so beautiful and I believe everything she said😂 whatever she said he did, HE DID THAT SH!T
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Period 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
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"She had a great time..."
How you finna tell her what kinda time SHE had 😂
Cause she said it at the beginning lol, just wasn’t what she was expecting but she still had a good time
😂😂😂😂😂
That’s the impression she gave out😂😂😂
Sounds like she was pretty graceful during the date. Now he's a bit taken aback hearing how she actually felt about things + we tend to bend perception as a means to cope and defend ourselves
She stayed for for the chicken tenders😅😂😂😂😂
Ohhhhh, he trippin trippin!!! His character showing today
"she chose that nasty ass fucking chicken tenders" with Arlette holding her laugh, this is honestly better than the show itself. These people straight-up roasting each other 🤣
For real, what a loser 👎
This story is hilarious, they should make a movie out of it 😂😂😂😂
I’m not gonna lie, I have such a love-hate relationship with watching these people throw shade at one another because on one hand it’s not me, it’s dramatic and entertaining but on the other hand it highlights the dysfunction in our community we live out every day which saddens me.
We really got two broke people up here posturing like they’re not broke judging each other on their brokenness 😬
Exactly !!!!
All she was saying was "don't lie about your brokenness," and he got upset and b*tchy.😂😂😂
Exactly 💯 like two broke people trying to make one come off as broker than the other is WILD!!! I think they would've been good together. They're both really beautiful individuals. She says he should've been honest about his "situation" but I think that even if he had... she would've NEVER went on a date with him from jump. She wouldn't have been as understanding as she claims she would've been. But his aggressiveness is the real turn off. He doesn't like being corrected, or even let her feel however she feels/felt.
Right, but this is why social media is such a poison. The average person don't got it like that but everyone wants to posture and make themselves bigger than they actually are. Nothing wrong with being broke or lower income, you can still have a dope date where you don't spend much, you just have to be creative. At the end of the day, just gotta be honest a lot of people will appreciate the effort.
I don’t think it’s a community thing
Idk where people are getting that she's superficial. The only reason she brought up rooftop is because that's the type of dates HE said he was on prior to them matching. She even said that it's nothing wrong with being in a rough spot financially, just be honest and be yourself, don't try to portray yourself as something you're not. I like her, she seems down to earth to me. His priorities are clearly in the wrong place. Nothing wrong with taking time to handle that.
That's what I got out of it. She wasn't being no gold digger he was the one who told her he would take her on a roof top date and didn't. But she still went with him to the movies. Should've just been honest from the jump about his situation.
@@Bossdog05-m3w I remember him definitely flexing on their episode so I can see why she would be thrown off by the circumstances but she was still open to going on a date with him which I think speaks volumes...the date just progressively got worst because he bit off more than he could chew. He was backtracking on this clip saying he never said he had the bag but I hope this teaches people to just stay authentic.
They literally couldn’t do the rooftop (not cuz he couldn’t afford it) but because of their schedules. Did u not watch the whole video?
@@gxp958 idk what you’re responding to. I wasn’t saying that he should’ve took her to the rooftop but people were calling her superficial for wanting that and i was just saying the reason she brought it up
@@gxp958 I really want to know what time they went to the movies. Hard to believe they couldn't find time to go to a rooftop bar
They lowkey perfect for each other
Swear 😂😂😂😂
Facts lol
Especially how he wants to rage n he she remains calm which in turn, forces him to calm down
Right cus girl buy you some oil and drive your car
I guess she wanted to see what he was about she chose wrong being scared of the third one from picking him
Idk. The girl seemed really chill and wasn’t trying to bash anybody but dude got hot and I feel like he’s trying to put on an image. Not to say he’s a bad person but she never got loud and she kept her composure. He seem hostile.
He started off very calm she mentioned they went to the movies vs the rooftop but didn’t state all the facts about how her obligations or life plans got in the wall of that then it just went back and forth she mentioned is car etc
Simp central
@@kingriobing2398 low IQ central
not only is she beautiful buts she's hilarious!
I am dying at how she telling her side of the date!😂😂😂😂
lol why is she clowning an accord? I’m an engineer and I have a 2007 Honda Accord. People need to stop conflating a depreciating asset like a car with income. There are people driving chargers living paycheck to paycheck
Very perceptive
You make a valid point
Thank you most ppl live pay check to paycheck it’s just about the limits of each person
Definitely. A paid for vehicle is an asset where one with a note is a liability and if not a luxury vehicle the value isn’t holding and even those depreciate. It’s people in NYC with no vehicles and they have $$$
But he is ashamed of his finances and in today’s day and age it’s hard for men to be honest because everything is about money!
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LMAO at the Bluetooth speaker 😂😂😂.
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I've been there before. Not on a date but I had the Bluetooth speaker on a road trip for my car. Amp went out and could not locate anyone that could fix it
"It ain't my fault u chose chicken strips, them nasty ass straps, I told you" 😂😂😂
How she a gold digger for wanting a decent date.🤷🏾♂️
It was a decent date, he picked her up, he paid for her movie ticket, snacks, food and parking gas to take her back home. Sounds like a decent date to me. 😂
Maybe if she had a car she could meet up with him for the date she wanted lol
@@UnapologeticallyAshleyif a movie date is your ideal first date, then you need to increase your standards hun. 😂
He tested her Gold Digger Status...and her bonnie and clyde vibe...LOL he stole the candy!
Frl
American men must learn to be in charge. You don't take someone out and have so many misses. You gotta be sure of your thing. For a first date things must synchronize. Hire a car if you have to. Book a good restaurant. Tell your true situation, if it's not the best, she will appreciate the effort for the quality u put in to have a good time and telling the truth. May be he's still young and will learn that women who really want a men don't really ask for much than you be in charge. lead well she will follow
I agree. African & Caribbean men operate very differently.
100%
You could leave out that "lead" part. Communicate expectations is what SHOULD happen --from BOTH parties.
I believe everything she said about this person. Prayers 💕✌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Arlette in the next pop the ballon you have to have the Doctor & ol girl who talk about her little brother on the same set. They made for each other
Nah him and that girl adanna…wanna see something
😂😂😂😂😂
The Dr. Would Demolish Her, He is Kevin Samuels Jr. lol 😂 😂 but I would love to see that matchup !!!
@@UzitheSaintlol that’s gon be toxic af n YK what. I’m here for it. They both suck equally 😂
@@UzitheSaintLmaoo😂😂😂😂
Nah as a Man I would feel embarrassed to take someone out if ion got everything situated for myself first. But I do understand his side of things tho but communication is key. I would have just said I’m having a bad month 😭😭
They could have had a date in the park 😂
And that’s all she was saying, just say you don’t have it at this time.
Right. He was false flagging 😂
She was trying not to divulge all of the details at first, but eventually just let everything out. His pride was definitely hurt and he stayed in defense mode this whole conversation.
These updates getting juicy 😂
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I’m loving the follow ups chilleee I’m addicted to these shows now 😂
I was on homie side in the beginning but the lack of preparation had me dying 😂 I definitely understand why she wasn’t feeling homie, I think if he was honest and more respectful he would’ve had a good chance though. Neither of them sound like they are in a position they strive to be in so judgment should be minimal on both sides.
Man Arlette does one hell of a job with holding on to her laugh outburst...🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
Phone to the ear is crazy😂😂
First and foremost if you’re an adult and going through anything, dating/looking for love should be the last thing on your mind. Having a debit card should not be your only card on you….ever. You should always have a credit card for emergencies. Secondly, if your car is missing items within the interior just take an Uber/Lyft to the destination. He could have sent an Uber for her and that whole uncomfortable situation would have been avoided. Thirdly, stealing candy on the low is diabolical… if you’re going to do that then THE BOTH of you need to be in on it so it’s an adventure 🤣🤣😂. Lastly, when a woman provides a schedule it is 💯% on the man to plan the date. A man coming to the woman asking her what she wants to do is off putting to say the least.
This episode was hilarious😂😂😂
This is straight comedy 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂. I rocks with her though, she seems mad chill.
These men hate accountability. He wasn’t prepared to date at all. Go home and get your life together before u start dating young man. He should be ashamed
Him and the men supporting him in the comments are baffling. How can you be wearing cartier but driving a honda with not even an aux cord to its name. No debit/credit card in sight, thinking that you should receive a round of applause for buying chicken tenders. Wawu
He’s definitely a Dusty🤷🏽♀️
sprinkle sprinkle 😭😭😭
No, he is just younger than her by 6 years
@@CullodenJones i would’ve assumed he was in his late 30s and she was in her 20s, yk for a fact he’s 6 yrs younger?
He dusty with a pocket full of cash cause she never denied that part and he has a car but she don’t have a car her shit raggedy and broke down
So true he is .from ask for her card am walking 🚶 away 😂
Looking at the women' faces with these follow ups, I already know the result lol.
Exactly 😂
He definitely fumbled her. Ladies this is a prime example of don't lower your expectations.
He knows he’s dead wrong for that date 💀
He was tryna clap the cheeks
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The phone to the ear had me dead.
@@lql1094 LMFAAAOOOOO FRLLL
Sir! You didn't expect to pick her up for a DATE?! That's insane lol.
Come on man. This sounds like it couldve been a rags to riches story😂😂😂 "babe remember that time when we had to listen to music in the car thru a phone"
Mane U stupid😂😂
Type shìt🤣🤣🤣‼️😭
He ain't going no where unless he hit that 1 in a million rapper ticket.
Get the oil change or put oil in your vehicle ...or reschedule the date after you handle your responsibilities..how old are we!?!
Exactly!!!!
How can u talk about his car and u have a car with no oil🤦🏽♀️ priorities and he come off more established then her
Ngl I'm feeling ol girl's energy my boy got out of his masculine frame and got defensive lol.
I can tell ishmael is actively pushing it thru and still ambitious and I can tell Khalov deserve what she wants yk so I can enjoy this w no bias,
This is absolutely crazy! If I were him I would not have agreed to do this follow up 😕
I had to come back to watch this after the reunion episode! 😂❤
Same!
Me too
Me too
She complained about his car but was driven in it, she complained about the chicken tenders but in actuality she ate it, she furthermore told him she enjoyed her date. When he corrected her she didnt dispute anything he said about those things. She should've took her own advice and keep it 💯
Well with the car she either had to ride in it OR refuse which would have been ridiculous…they both mentioned things they shouldn’t have. Seems like she didn’t have a car or at least a way to the first date so why is she complaining..why is he complaining about picking up a lady for a first date this is just weird
@@ESBEAUTIIagreed. they both don’t need to be dating fr fr however…i do think…he is being up front and direct. i don’t think she is and is shading him to cover up whatever she got going on.
@@baggalmamiShe will always be like this, forever immature
He shouldn't of been miss leading to begin with, his ego was big
Y’all are mad she doesn’t wanna settle let’s be fr
he really wasnt prepared which says a lot. both parties are worth effort and intentionality. and i like how she kept her composure and kept it respectful.
Not the Bluetooth speaker😭😂😂😂😂 I’m cryingggggg
You single ?
No. The holding the phone up to her ear.😂😂😂😂
But she don’t have a car her shit was broke
That’s had me dying😂
I LAUGHHEDDD SOOO HARD IN THAT PART!!!! Especially when the speaker died, I died too 😩😩😩
He dropped the ball. Bruh was not prepared 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 he's soo BROKE AND ANGRY😅
I dont care what nobody say but the part about the bluetooth speaker was funny af🤣🤣and the way she presented it🤣