Braylene and Kiana Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

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  • @blackzu229
    @blackzu229 3 місяці тому +2822

    She is so freaking gorgeous. That natural beauty just hits differently 😍

    • @daughterofyah6209
      @daughterofyah6209 3 місяці тому +62

      Yes I was looking at her! Shes so pretty!

    • @kamkam4571
      @kamkam4571 3 місяці тому +65

      Such a relief from the current beauty trends that are not so beautiful

    • @Man295t
      @Man295t 3 місяці тому +8

      Simp

    • @hurricaneethyl3936
      @hurricaneethyl3936 3 місяці тому +41

      @@Man295thater 😂

    • @malicious_bunny
      @malicious_bunny 3 місяці тому +22

      stop the cap my guy, yes she's decent looking but nothing like what youre sayin

  • @PrimordialLove
    @PrimordialLove 3 місяці тому +2236

    Her getting sick was God working in her favor. Straight up protection. 💫Keep shining beautiful soul 🔆

    • @arandabell8030
      @arandabell8030 3 місяці тому +52

      Look at God!! Won't he DO IT 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @DRex45
      @DRex45 3 місяці тому +33

      Protection from a relationship and no husband. I still see a single successful black woman who gonna end up being settled for

    • @Meccaone17
      @Meccaone17 3 місяці тому +29

      @@DRex45she’s like 23

    • @swagerellaaa
      @swagerellaaa 3 місяці тому +29

      The rain was a sign too

    • @swagerellaaa
      @swagerellaaa 3 місяці тому +5

      @@DRex45what

  • @tbad83
    @tbad83 3 місяці тому +1517

    Its obvious that he was trying to get some and she wasn't giving it up. I respect her for "standing on business".

    • @Roxflo2
      @Roxflo2 3 місяці тому +53

      oh it's. obvious 😅

    • @KK32022
      @KK32022 3 місяці тому +150

      They shouldn’t have been staying at each other’s places and doing things that couples do in such a very short period if time! 3 trips in the course of 2 weeks is crazy. Can you blame him for wanting to be intimate at the pace they were going?

    • @LaToyaHarris-yj1yu
      @LaToyaHarris-yj1yu 3 місяці тому +25

      Exactly!! Agreed like slow down and get to know the person.

    • @charlesgolden7645
      @charlesgolden7645 3 місяці тому +109

      They spent the night at each others house she gave him massages every night and you don’t think she gave it up ?

    • @ShayMarie.00
      @ShayMarie.00 3 місяці тому +15

      ​@@KK32022 I can't blame him, but I can't blame her for wanting to wait too. That's way too soon.

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 3 місяці тому +268

    I love her hair and skin. Natural beauty just stands out.

  • @Markan6186
    @Markan6186 3 місяці тому +921

    I actually really love how Kiana is handling him 😂😂😂 she's so sweet, love her personality!

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому +83

      She's definitely a class act and deserves BETTER than East Cleveland

    • @Treasure2023
      @Treasure2023 3 місяці тому +3

      Agreed!!

    • @AnomalyBelleza
      @AnomalyBelleza 3 місяці тому +18

      @@sylvia6583 “East Cleveland” 😂😂🤣🤣

    • @knowEgo
      @knowEgo 3 місяці тому +3

      Imagine a man saying “I like how he handles her” these women would blow a gasket….

    • @RaeDee1111
      @RaeDee1111 3 місяці тому +3

      @@knowEgo yall are so desperate for a gender war 😂😂😂. Give it a rest. Lay your armor down.

  • @calvincollage5884
    @calvincollage5884 3 місяці тому +939

    The good news is he really liked her, wanted her, and pursued her. The bad news is that he has a mean side when things are not working to his advantage. Run Kiana...run..🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀

    • @gltellnotales32
      @gltellnotales32 3 місяці тому +14

      How was he mean?

    • @calvincollage5884
      @calvincollage5884 3 місяці тому +55

      @@gltellnotales32 The part when he seemingly threatens her not to make him go there.

    • @gltellnotales32
      @gltellnotales32 3 місяці тому

      @@calvincollage5884 threaten is a reach but ok

    • @stacyedo6007
      @stacyedo6007 3 місяці тому

      @@calvincollage5884he didn’t threaten he clearly they had private conversation about what took place with them this man literally took accountability about ghosting her but you can tell he’s an affectionate guy I can’t with you people. It’s baffling how yall labeling him because you’ll can’t understand his love language and lingo. Everybody ain’t for everybody but she clearly likes him and his personality she just needs to fix her road block from preventing them to work. Period!

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 3 місяці тому

      @@calvincollage5884is that being mean ?

  • @jesslee5560
    @jesslee5560 3 місяці тому +301

    He fumbled and he knew it. She is a gem! Very entertaining followup interview. :-)

    • @moondogg2408
      @moondogg2408 3 місяці тому +19

      Fumbled tremendously he did bad😂 he not ready for that Goddess I hope she finds her soulmate 👏🏾

    • @Unc1ecee
      @Unc1ecee 3 місяці тому +5

      It's definitely a major bag fumble. Tbh she was sending mixed messages with those massages, trips, and cooking etc. So i get his frustration.

    • @msinna6433
      @msinna6433 3 місяці тому +1

      Nah she look like she play too much he prolly used to women acting a certain way when they like him and she not doing it been there 😂 she def not ready for a full blown relationship with a guy that has experience cause he gone feel like something not right

  • @Sayithowitis15
    @Sayithowitis15 3 місяці тому +143

    I think when she does find a guy. That guy will be blessed to be with her. She seems so kind, vary smart, and quality person

    • @wasimdbala349
      @wasimdbala349 2 місяці тому

      she's ran thru and entitled sorry

    • @Sayithowitis15
      @Sayithowitis15 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@wasimdbala349 nah she really doesn't seem that way, but you sure sound like you've been ran through😂

    • @wasimdbala349
      @wasimdbala349 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Sayithowitis15 Nahh, she kinda does.
      Also, men don't "get ran thru". they do the running thru. Learn the sexual marketplace. you're confused about roles in heterosexual mating. Peace!

    • @Sayithowitis15
      @Sayithowitis15 2 місяці тому +4

      @wasimdbala349 nah i think you got run through. You sound very insecure.

    • @wasimdbala349
      @wasimdbala349 2 місяці тому

      @@Sayithowitis15 You're projecting

  • @kaycee7733
    @kaycee7733 3 місяці тому +316

    Kiana, you are such a real woman, rejection is protection, you dodged a bullet. When a man shuts down like that, run🏃🏽‍♀️and don’t look back!!🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @Buy_AskAndItIsGiven_Book
      @Buy_AskAndItIsGiven_Book 3 місяці тому

      Yeah!
      Let me take this platform to say the same thing to my brothers out there -
      Keep going out and trying, and if (or rather, WHEN) a beautiful girl rejects you, you probably dodged some sh*t. So keep moving, there's plenty more.

  • @mollygrace3068
    @mollygrace3068 3 місяці тому +937

    I’m proud of her. Apparently what he needed was a woman who would drop all her plans, be at his beck and call, and it’s implied they disagreed over when to have sex. I hope she keeps her boundaries. He was disrespectful to her several times just in this conversation.

    • @mrbrave29
      @mrbrave29 3 місяці тому

      You are bias against men.

    • @IloveJesus777j77
      @IloveJesus777j77 3 місяці тому +62

      Jesus is coming back. Repent to be saved.

    • @187tip7
      @187tip7 3 місяці тому +7

      Time stamps or you just have a wild imagination

    • @illman5141
      @illman5141 3 місяці тому +16

      @@187tip7 Yall have to stop being so politically naive. I don't know why you all would think that they would be spending all that time and money together without participating in adult activities.

    • @Angeliz225
      @Angeliz225 3 місяці тому +17

      @@mollygrace3068 yes, and she kept it cute to save him. He thought he was gonna get the panties within two weeks of knowing her

  • @candicane1
    @candicane1 3 місяці тому +534

    She’s a natural beauty!

    • @Woah2992
      @Woah2992 3 місяці тому +6

      Real shit

    • @falsealarmno
      @falsealarmno 3 місяці тому +5

      She's decent looking.

    • @Yutsekelman
      @Yutsekelman 3 місяці тому +17

      ​@falsealarmno decent!!! She very pretty

    • @falsealarmno
      @falsealarmno 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Yutsekelman U think?

    • @RedRag684
      @RedRag684 3 місяці тому

      21:47

  • @znalawilliams1673
    @znalawilliams1673 3 місяці тому +192

    Lord please make sure that a man like this never finds me ❤

  • @Chrissy-g3g
    @Chrissy-g3g 3 місяці тому +986

    This woman is naturally BEAUTIFUL ❤ EDUCATED, well spoken. Emotionally mature, Bradlyn cmon, You fumbled. She deserves much more.

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому +89

      He's not in her league! He's immature

    • @Chrissy-g3g
      @Chrissy-g3g 3 місяці тому +44

      He wants more? she just met him. Had he had some patience and let the chemistry flow naturally and not force affection /affection/sex within 2 weeks, maybe there could have been a chance. Start thinking with the head on top of your shoulders.

    • @fortyacres
      @fortyacres 3 місяці тому +12

      plenty like her. he will be fine.

    • @worth7k117
      @worth7k117 3 місяці тому +18

      @@fortyacresnot really lol

    • @DLShoulders29
      @DLShoulders29 3 місяці тому +10

      She’s young and pretty with options, and she knows it. The man flew out to see her, and she “strolled” with her Sorors at an event all night.
      She’ll be the one calling Kendra G in her 30’s demanding a 6’ tall high earner. They never learn.

  • @yankswright5326
    @yankswright5326 3 місяці тому +712

    He definitely had a rebound for that Florida trip lol No response that entire time. Thats a no brainer

    • @Archedbykemo
      @Archedbykemo 3 місяці тому +35

      This part

    • @ladygamer6969
      @ladygamer6969 3 місяці тому +65

      Right 😂😂😂. He was having a good ole time in Florida.

    • @TakeaSwigofTheJuice
      @TakeaSwigofTheJuice 3 місяці тому +5

      That's where he had to go back to before he went to Florida 😂

    • @DeeDee_999
      @DeeDee_999 3 місяці тому +16

      dude was busy with some other babe in florida for 36hrs❤

    • @msinna6433
      @msinna6433 3 місяці тому +9

      Hell nah he was prolly just tight and felt like she was playing and didn’t wanna focus on her if he felt like she was on bs

  • @ShadrockMarciano
    @ShadrockMarciano 3 місяці тому +690

    Dude is lowkey a manipulator, he knows how to duck a direct question. He never answered exactly what he did in Florida and why he ghosted her for 36 hours, he just "apologized." She's too beautiful to be caught up with this type of dude

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 3 місяці тому +8

      Too beautiful nope. Most AKA and college educated women, prefer guys with an edge. She knows she can’t walk over him or him being intimidated by her being “educated”.

    • @TheBookofEliTheGreat
      @TheBookofEliTheGreat 3 місяці тому +12

      @ShadrockMarciano What did he say that makes you say he’s a manipulator? When was he asked what he did in Florida? He paid/planned a trip for her to go with him.
      He ghosted her because she didn’t come. I didn’t hear anyone ask what did he do without her. He said that he went anyway. He wanted to spend time with her. The only thing he did wrong was get upset because she was sick and didn’t want to go. He also apologized. Where was the the manipulation?

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 3 місяці тому +2

      @@TheBookofEliTheGreat I didn’t say he was a manipulator wrong person

    • @conversationswithdebra
      @conversationswithdebra 3 місяці тому +16

      He clearly struggles with communicating while he's upset. Out of respect, and avoidance, he chose to isolate himself. Was it the best thing to do? No. If he can come back from the apology and actually work on changing that behavior, he will be fine. He has a pattern of expressing anger through unhealthy means and was trying to disrupt it by pulling away. It is a major flaw that many black men have due to not having their emotions taken seriously as young men. Some men have never experienced expressing disdain and it being received positively. If he was expecting a fight, he pulled away to protect himself. Something in him felt he needed to be protected. The thing is, this type of behavior doesn't sit well with women who are more healed in the area of communication. It doesn't make logical sense, therefore they will be unequally yoked. It's best to work on the physical manifestation of this trigger and apologize ASAP (and mean it) by changing the behavior moving forward. She says an apology would have been great a week and a half ago. He waited to come on the show to actually apologize. He never fully articulated why he was upset to her. She never really knew. He just ghosted her. Most relationships would work out if people just learned to talk and listen.

    • @dannydillard8233
      @dannydillard8233 3 місяці тому +4

      He ame put a L on the front asf.. (got to beat the algo to get the comment on board)

  • @TamaraC840
    @TamaraC840 3 місяці тому +44

    I love Kiana, she knows who she is and what she wants. Good for her!

  • @daisylazyyy
    @daisylazyyy 3 місяці тому +1189

    Kiana: He be doing too much
    Arlette: YES
    😂😂😂

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 3 місяці тому +4

      😂😂😂

    • @alakazam25yearsago8
      @alakazam25yearsago8 3 місяці тому +30

      Arlette just salty because she got weave on all the time😂

    • @Wonderfullymade1212
      @Wonderfullymade1212 3 місяці тому +33

      @@alakazam25yearsago8 and you’re watching and putting money in her pocket! Thank you for your service 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @christinasmart1646
      @christinasmart1646 3 місяці тому +97

      Arlette doesn't care what "Bryan with the hat " thinks. She's happily married to a man who absolutely adores her and whatever she does with her hair. ​@alakazam25yearsago8

    • @09irishpride
      @09irishpride 3 місяці тому +59

      @@alakazam25yearsago8 salty about what? Her husband don’t mind & that’s all that matters

  • @Mrs_Sandra7
    @Mrs_Sandra7 3 місяці тому +1158

    I’m normally sad when the couples don’t make it, but I’m actually elated they didn’t. He’s an immature child and she deserves so much better! Please bring her back 😍

    • @jmonie02
      @jmonie02 3 місяці тому +17

      I'll date her. i like her.

    • @81722Les
      @81722Les 3 місяці тому

      That's bullshit and you are talking our of your rabid mouth pls. Shut up. There was nothing in this engagement that communicated that

    • @eon001
      @eon001 3 місяці тому +41

      He's funny, but he's immature for real. Speaking as an immature man myself, it takes one to know one. 😩🤣

    • @Commentraider3
      @Commentraider3 3 місяці тому +7

      ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT

    • @Commentraider3
      @Commentraider3 3 місяці тому +41

      @@eon001nah it’s more than “immature” joking. He was demeaning, arrogant, petty and insecure badgering everybody else because someone dissed on his sneakers?

  • @Itzmizzypooh
    @Itzmizzypooh 3 місяці тому +223

    All I can say is, I'm so glad that you have a STRONG MIND ,sis! This man is attractive, and he's used to women giving in... and completely controlling situations. I'm glad you didn't give your body to someone who doesn't deserve it. I pray that you find a mature man who's willing to love you hun!❤

    • @m.fernandez6723
      @m.fernandez6723 3 місяці тому

      😮😮😅 all that spending the night together they did .. and you believe he didn't smash ?

  • @Itzmarandakellz
    @Itzmarandakellz 3 місяці тому +41

    Every man wants the “10” but can you handle it. She literally all the above fit, feminine, and intelligent. ❤❤❤

    • @ezekielthemack
      @ezekielthemack 2 місяці тому

      Stop being ridiculous. This woman is a very nice and genuine person. but she is NOWHERE near a 10 in looks.

    • @shynebayarea510
      @shynebayarea510 Місяць тому

      Cap you not a man..Men don't care about a 10. Old simps do

    • @TeamDynamiteTV
      @TeamDynamiteTV 27 днів тому +2

      I feel u but remember...thats just one guy

    • @Itzmarandakellz
      @Itzmarandakellz 24 дні тому

      @ absolutely

  • @_NonMember
    @_NonMember 3 місяці тому +279

    I’m SO happy she’s a smart girl .. omg my heart is smiling ..

  • @aboachie1
    @aboachie1 3 місяці тому +866

    Her getting sick was God interceding on her behalf.

    • @jayelee7112
      @jayelee7112 3 місяці тому +32

      Ain't he an on time God !!

    • @Meccaone17
      @Meccaone17 3 місяці тому +46

      Yes! he paid a $1000 dollars.. you kno he was going to pressure tf outta her. He clearly really likes her but doesn’t deserve her

    • @WhoSaidThatJOC
      @WhoSaidThatJOC 3 місяці тому +6

      He's real!

    • @EricJohnsonresign
      @EricJohnsonresign 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Meccaone17 He doesn't deserve her, please elaborate?

    • @kingmoney05
      @kingmoney05 3 місяці тому +6

      How you gonna speak for God?.. lol.. that's amazing

  • @meydallas
    @meydallas 3 місяці тому +1644

    The fact that some of these people barely know each other, but think that it's okay to travel to a different city and stay at the other person's place baffles me.

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому +92

      Baffles Me too.. ..... I think it's a generational thing!

    • @meydallas
      @meydallas 3 місяці тому +99

      It starts to become like a trend in this show, I saw at least 2 couples who matched in this show and one of the match traveled to the other match city and stayed in his/her place. I don't even know if they do a background check in this show. I won't let anybody I barely know stay at my place, I will get you a hotel room though.

    • @CarlynneSkinner
      @CarlynneSkinner 3 місяці тому +32

      i agreeeee thts so risky

    • @KeiwarrenLuke-u6l
      @KeiwarrenLuke-u6l 3 місяці тому +32

      Yeah, they were moving way too fast

    • @rockeedc3867
      @rockeedc3867 3 місяці тому +3

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @Ashley-id2cb
    @Ashley-id2cb 3 місяці тому +131

    He's mad bc she has a whole, fulfilled life outside of a man! 💪 You go girl!!!! Keep doing big things. So glad you escaped this one; He's not for you!....He's on that Red Pill mentality. He needs therapy and a teddy bear.

  • @GazelleMonet
    @GazelleMonet 3 місяці тому +616

    So because one girl didn’t like his shoes he decided to disrespect everyone else after. Lord, I’d run so far away from this man. He’s probably still hurt over a girl denying him in pre-k 🙄

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому +22

      YESSSSSSSS....... definitely immature

    • @Tharealari
      @Tharealari 3 місяці тому +37

      That’s the same as “I got my heart broke once in middle school so Ian trusting nobody” 😭 men be so unhinged.

    • @mvm5439
      @mvm5439 3 місяці тому +7

      How do you run away from Black men who are not coming for YOU?

    • @GazelleMonet
      @GazelleMonet 3 місяці тому

      @@mvm5439 hey so, I’m speaking in general of men like him, that exist in abundance and have shown interest in me. Hope this helps!

    • @tiffanystrong3090
      @tiffanystrong3090 3 місяці тому +10

      😂😂😂 that was the part for me. Shows a deep level of immaturity.

  • @commetacc
    @commetacc 3 місяці тому +1337

    he turns everything into an argument omg I don't know who has the patience for him.

    • @cdub3019
      @cdub3019 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes! He is a full-grown man-baby and has a superiority complex... he will never change. Can't even hold a decent conversation with her and acts like she was capricious for going to work! This woman has a career, let her be responsible. He wanted her to be devoted to him after a few days of knowing his average behind? Ain't even that cute to be putting up with his childish behavior. Get on down the road and to the bucket hat store.

    • @Smoked-y2n
      @Smoked-y2n 3 місяці тому +21

      ​@@damiandennis3740yh someone who's gonna sit and take all that😂

    • @TubeManagement
      @TubeManagement 3 місяці тому

      Huh???? I’m convinced yall want dummies …. Modern Women simply just want a man to just be fine fit tall hung rich and silent 😂😂

    • @ItsNeezy
      @ItsNeezy 3 місяці тому +34

      Y'all don't understand his humor or humor in general and it shows.

    • @flowd7451
      @flowd7451 3 місяці тому

      @@damiandennis3740 a dumb ass.

  • @fxdavidg
    @fxdavidg 3 місяці тому +1518

    “That’s clown activity.” 😂 Quote by the great Bryan💀

    • @_CPerk
      @_CPerk 3 місяці тому +94

      He was right

    • @DecoratingWithKey
      @DecoratingWithKey 3 місяці тому +92

      😂😂😂😂 Brian had me cracking up when he said that.

    • @fxdavidg
      @fxdavidg 3 місяці тому +67

      Lmaoo he was serious as hell too

    • @Martin199320
      @Martin199320 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@DecoratingWithKey you clearly think Brian is cute

    • @daisylazyyy
      @daisylazyyy 3 місяці тому +69

      This comment is "Top Tier" 😂😂😂😂

  • @fransina8032
    @fransina8032 3 місяці тому +22

    I love these two's energy😂. Its how they are able to laugh through this suppose to be sad moment after realising they are not compatible.

  • @torip9444
    @torip9444 3 місяці тому +280

    Arlette is soooooo funny 😂😂😂😂 she know how to throw shots, not be bossed around, and get the tea all in one sitting. Straight up boss 💐

  • @Lionheartx675
    @Lionheartx675 3 місяці тому +794

    Bro's immaturity is blocking his own blessings. That woman is wife material.

    • @meaux-kneaux
      @meaux-kneaux 3 місяці тому +42

      No she's not, she doesn't have the time to be

    • @souljackmusic
      @souljackmusic 3 місяці тому +15

      ​@@meaux-kneauxexactly she wants a man to move in her house an pay bills her place is already to high if u peep wat he said

    • @VashtiTracey
      @VashtiTracey 3 місяці тому +73

      @@souljackmusic Actually that's not what she said. He wants her to drop everything and be with him 24/7 and she's saying well I'm a working girl and I have bills so the only way imma drop all of my work and responsibilities to come sit at ur knees is if you're paying my bills. What's wrong with tht??? It's not as if she's jobless and wants him to pay her bills, he wants more than she's willing to give in such a short time to a complete STRANGER, wanting her to shift up her routine to please him. Narcissistic and entitled. Big red flag

    • @pleasedtomeetyou1284
      @pleasedtomeetyou1284 3 місяці тому +4

      @@meaux-kneauxthen whose marriage material? Enlighten us. And be broad with your description because what you would marry is not what everyone would marry.

    • @BrianWilliams32
      @BrianWilliams32 3 місяці тому +10

      @meaux-kneauxL anyone can make time for someone. She already knew they wasn’t compatible and it’s clear . He’s too argumentative. She doesn’t want to have sex with him too soon and so he’s not willing to wait then that’s on him .

  • @riahbabe53
    @riahbabe53 3 місяці тому +1414

    There’s no way this man is anyone’s therapist or counselor 😂😂

    • @denardmcclairne8453
      @denardmcclairne8453 3 місяці тому +102

      Those be the ones who are more messed up in society 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @krystynaa_
      @krystynaa_ 3 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kaylaciare
      @kaylaciare 3 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Kris_is_a_Ten
      @Kris_is_a_Ten 3 місяці тому

      @@denardmcclairne8453 aht aht not too much on us lol but fr this guy is not a licensed therapist trust me- he may be a peer counselor or case worker but he is not credentialed

    • @MuhidinAli-gc6rs
      @MuhidinAli-gc6rs 3 місяці тому +2

      That’s what I was saying 😂😂😂

  • @christianrikong5576
    @christianrikong5576 Місяць тому +31

    Man these two look good together they actually have chemistry

  • @somebodylying
    @somebodylying 3 місяці тому +1460

    He ghosted you when you were sick... and got that "physical affection/touch" he was looking for, Sis. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 He's a manbaby.

    • @ProdJefeDelPerre0
      @ProdJefeDelPerre0 3 місяці тому +27

      this all based on assumption

    • @Mike_1nce_More
      @Mike_1nce_More 3 місяці тому +96

      ​@@ProdJefeDelPerre0 no. It's based on facts backed up by evidence. You're lying for this dude because you're probably the same way.

    • @nthgcangetmedown4573
      @nthgcangetmedown4573 3 місяці тому +16

      ​@ProdJefeDelPerre0 the man literally apologized to her for ghosting her and you're out lying for him?

    • @alakazam25yearsago8
      @alakazam25yearsago8 3 місяці тому +6

      And you’re a LadyGirl, you don’t know dude from a hole in the wall.. Just mad at him for being real😂 She ain’t innocent

    • @Wonderfullymade1212
      @Wonderfullymade1212 3 місяці тому +3

      @@somebodylying manbaby is hilarious 🤣

  • @Nancybaybeh
    @Nancybaybeh 3 місяці тому +260

    She's so beautiful and soft spoken. Goals fr >>

    • @backseatoftherollstruck
      @backseatoftherollstruck 3 місяці тому

      Wdym by "goals"

    • @Nancybaybeh
      @Nancybaybeh 3 місяці тому +9

      @@backseatoftherollstruck her soft spokeness. It's very admirable

    • @CAL0725
      @CAL0725 3 місяці тому +2

      Not hard when you are a walking red flag

    • @samanthayates8812
      @samanthayates8812 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@caliphusakuma297 looking the way you do, it's crazy that you made one disparaging comment about her, but then to make multiple? Mind how you look and don't be bitter my guy

    • @CAL0725
      @CAL0725 3 місяці тому +3

      @@samanthayates8812 I commented because I can. Bitter no. Because yall trying to make it seem like dude did wrong when she did all the wrong.

  • @takem2church513
    @takem2church513 3 місяці тому +83

    Her natural beauty is killing the game. Simply Beautiful.

  • @coryyoung4406
    @coryyoung4406 16 днів тому +4

    He fumbled a queen and didn't take her seriously. She's a good woman, has a good heart, personality, and stands on business.

    • @luggerphilippe8409
      @luggerphilippe8409 12 днів тому +1

      I like dude but he supposed to take her off the market asap..

  • @ChillingWithMonie
    @ChillingWithMonie 3 місяці тому +562

    There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference. It becomes an issue when you are disrespectful in explaining your preference in comparison for others. You don’t have to be disrespectful to get your points off. He disrespected that woman based off how previous women disrespected other people on the show, which had absolutely nothing to do with her. Like he said in the reunion, he showed up for a viral moment. At everyone’s big age, this shouldn’t be a debate or a hard concept to grasp.

    • @Mike_1nce_More
      @Mike_1nce_More 3 місяці тому +7

      This right here

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime 3 місяці тому +20

      You’re right. He’s a man baby though and was soft on her. He fumble it being passive aggressive.

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 3 місяці тому +2

      All of this!

    • @princeroan
      @princeroan 3 місяці тому +20

      But females do this exact thing you just said all the time. Like, oh no honey! I'm taller than you in heels. All this man said was I like a natural woman with real hair. What's wrong with that?

    • @victorbrown186
      @victorbrown186 3 місяці тому +8

      Women on this show has rejected men because of their height...what's wrong with him having a preference with a natural woman??? People don't have control over their height, but women definitely has control on staying natural without all that artificial looks

  • @kimmydiunicorn
    @kimmydiunicorn 3 місяці тому +156

    She deserves sooooo much better. Glad she knows that! ❤

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому +5

      Absolutely agree 💯

    • @Himunich
      @Himunich 3 місяці тому +6

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @meaux-kneaux
      @meaux-kneaux 3 місяці тому +1

      Huh, he stopped talking to her tho. He deserves better!

    • @marquitahatcher3561
      @marquitahatcher3561 3 місяці тому

      It's a lot of man child like him.

    • @itsmenala9087
      @itsmenala9087 3 місяці тому +1

      @@meaux-kneauxerm he ghosted her.?

  • @candicane1
    @candicane1 3 місяці тому +1553

    Can we please bring Kiana back? I feel like she deserves a re-do! This guy is beyond a jerk! Completely self-absorbed and a narcissist! Kiana deserves better. She has her stuff together and deserves a top-tier King of a man!

    • @dwaynemattis383
      @dwaynemattis383 3 місяці тому +57

      Stop it, the market is showing her what she deserves. if she could've do better then she wouldn't be on a dating show.

    • @Lmk790
      @Lmk790 3 місяці тому +69

      Ppl keep misusing the word narcissist like crazy nowadays. He just wants an affectionate woman and she’s extremely busy for his liking. That does not make him a narcissist

    • @JeffreyWindley-n4i
      @JeffreyWindley-n4i 3 місяці тому +2

      If you listen, she said if he pays the bills, she is willing .

    • @Blackhomeking12
      @Blackhomeking12 3 місяці тому +49

      @@Lmk790 he ghosted her for 36 hours for a disagreement and didn't even answer the question about it

    • @kimmydiunicorn
      @kimmydiunicorn 3 місяці тому +1

      Agreed!

  • @mimid.8346
    @mimid.8346 Місяць тому +6

    He got some in Florida! Guuurl, run! You're too good for this kind of men who are players.

  • @RicherThanIeverbeen
    @RicherThanIeverbeen 3 місяці тому +233

    He matched with one of the best ones on that episode. Beautiful and natural gym going woman 🔥

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 3 місяці тому

      Not just on that episode…..on the whole damn show. Nigga is a goofy.

    • @BREASHONTELL
      @BREASHONTELL 3 місяці тому +3

      Who cares because she was smart enough break things off with him

    • @jimmye.787
      @jimmye.787 15 днів тому

      These types of shows prove that looks matter. You could tell he was a player from miles away.

  • @charlenecoles4146
    @charlenecoles4146 3 місяці тому +75

    :( I hope she never settles. She is naturally a beautiful person who deserves better!!’

  • @lisalistener
    @lisalistener 3 місяці тому +467

    He used to and wants women to fawn all over him, be up under him and the fact that she not doing that has his ego shedding little tears

    • @politicsdrc153
      @politicsdrc153 3 місяці тому +35

      He wanted the box and she refused to give him lol

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 THIS

    • @alakazam25yearsago8
      @alakazam25yearsago8 3 місяці тому +4

      And what’s wrong with wanting that? Should he just stay if he isn’t getting what he wants?😂 yall be so bitter

    • @midheaven_mimi
      @midheaven_mimi 3 місяці тому +4

      🎯🎯

    • @rono238
      @rono238 3 місяці тому +7

      He is so childish

  • @Thereservist45
    @Thereservist45 3 місяці тому +12

    I think Arlette should do two versions of this show. Pop the Ballon Locals & Pop the Ballon long distance. Its very hard for ling distance relationships to work and most of the guest dont know where each person is from until after theyre matched. Like we see here, both have their lives already in motion with schedules, being in different states makes it that much harder to really connect. I do think sleeping at each others house first week is crazy work! She definitely made the right choice but not pursuing that dude any more.

  • @Dlittle1107
    @Dlittle1107 3 місяці тому +295

    So she immediately flew to visit you, cooked for you, gave you massages, and he couldn’t even check on her while she was sick because you wanted to”more” (we all know what that really means). Wow

    • @Darry-m6x
      @Darry-m6x 2 місяці тому +14

      Same thing I was saying she was sick and you ghost her he full of shit talking about don't want to waste money money more important than her

    • @leelee2357
      @leelee2357 2 місяці тому +4

      Your spot on with this one....

    • @luggerphilippe8409
      @luggerphilippe8409 19 днів тому +2

      ​@@Darry-m6xman I was rooting for buddy he caught a winner he needs to slow down so he can have a good woman..

  • @somebodylying
    @somebodylying 3 місяці тому +3810

    These couples move fast af. They spend the night at each other's houses within a week. Ain't no way.

    • @MahliA-m3o
      @MahliA-m3o 3 місяці тому +383

      Within hours

    • @lowkeyyyiannn
      @lowkeyyyiannn 3 місяці тому +629

      I suspect nothing happened and that’s why he keeps going on and on about wanting more and she not giving it

    • @somebodylying
      @somebodylying 3 місяці тому +409

      ​@@lowkeyyyiannn right. she didn't give up the cookie.

    • @Lynese_co
      @Lynese_co 3 місяці тому +153

      I literally just said this to myself. It’s nut’s & way too fast for me but to each their own.

    • @Chakras.N.Chasers
      @Chakras.N.Chasers 3 місяці тому +25

      Agreed.

  • @dranoelwilson3841
    @dranoelwilson3841 3 місяці тому +102

    “Oh you showing us?…bald head…”
    - Arlette 😂😂😂😂

  • @KorothaKofe
    @KorothaKofe 3 місяці тому +3

    These cats be asking for affection from people they don't even know. 😂😂😂 "Hi. Nice to meet you. Where my hug at?"

  • @noelnoni
    @noelnoni 3 місяці тому +2277

    I don’t remember anyone who comes back but I remember this hat-fisher clear as day🤣🤣

    • @tyreenirene4313
      @tyreenirene4313 3 місяці тому +32

      Me too 😂😂😂

    • @MahliA-m3o
      @MahliA-m3o 3 місяці тому +12

      😂😂😂😂

    • @arnabiarnab3037
      @arnabiarnab3037 3 місяці тому +18

      😅😅😂🤣😂😅😅😂😂😂🤣🤣😂

    • @Noneyabiz13
      @Noneyabiz13 3 місяці тому +7

      Omg same! 😂

    • @sophiaandre139
      @sophiaandre139 3 місяці тому +101

      Especially, how he was trying to be co-host to Arlette during the reunion.😂

  • @abbnorm
    @abbnorm 3 місяці тому +968

    He must love that outfit. 😂

    • @_ChaoticCreative_
      @_ChaoticCreative_ 3 місяці тому +82

      YES 😂 because didn't he wear this during the reunion too?? 😂😂😂😂

    • @biancasummers9602
      @biancasummers9602 3 місяці тому +50

      he got one white bucket hat so he gotta match it with something

    • @shesinsports
      @shesinsports 3 місяці тому +57

      Permanent vacation vibes 😂

    • @user-eh2ty4mv3e
      @user-eh2ty4mv3e 3 місяці тому +24

      Straight from the damn Tommy Bahama collection

    • @StSt-f7y
      @StSt-f7y 3 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @fbspin
    @fbspin 3 місяці тому +2179

    Arlette please stop giving this man a platform 😭😭😭

  • @shariffbrown04
    @shariffbrown04 3 місяці тому +9

    He dropped the ball, her getting sick and hospitalized was a huge RED FLAG... he has growing to do and she is the total package and will adjust her busy schedule for the right person❤.
    Finally, he needs therapy to heal his childhood trauma... she can not heal his hurt.

  • @csmith2484
    @csmith2484 3 місяці тому +1664

    He's very immature. Yes, he's attractive but his demeanor is childish, abrasive, and disrespectful. Addition: He's not ready.

    • @Decades-pl2kl
      @Decades-pl2kl 3 місяці тому

      You just described a whole race of men who are too egotistical, vain and narcissistic to even care.

    • @zOYAlove215
      @zOYAlove215 3 місяці тому +83

      And she's settling...

    • @relaxwithngozi992
      @relaxwithngozi992 3 місяці тому +46

      Exactly red flag

    • @babyt556
      @babyt556 3 місяці тому +48

      That comes from a life of mommy issues and possible neglect.

    • @tonye.5410
      @tonye.5410 3 місяці тому

      You women are haters.. stop acting like the stereotypes we as men hate.

  • @LongLiveTheFilmmaker
    @LongLiveTheFilmmaker 3 місяці тому +971

    24:18 this man really is that “where my hug at tho” kind of guy 😂🤣

    • @itsmetheinterrupter
      @itsmetheinterrupter 3 місяці тому +10

      Loooool

    • @10150403
      @10150403 3 місяці тому +15

      Soooo accurate 😂

    • @all4kicks
      @all4kicks 3 місяці тому +5

      Real Tears❗️🤣🤣🤣🤪

    • @IloveJesus777j77
      @IloveJesus777j77 3 місяці тому +17

      @@itsmetheinterrupter Jesus is coming back. Repent to be saved.

    • @IloveJesus777j77
      @IloveJesus777j77 3 місяці тому +11

      @@all4kicks Jesus is coming back. Repent to be saved.

  • @Lasandraxoxo
    @Lasandraxoxo 3 місяці тому +563

    “Bald heaaaaddd”💀🤣 ARLETTE kills me 😭

    • @Decades-pl2kl
      @Decades-pl2kl 3 місяці тому +36

      Arlett is good at playing the role on camera but her African culture side be looking at some of these people like they are crazy & have absolutely nothing to do with her and her folks back home. She be frowning up and giving folks the side-eye at like OOOH YALL PEOPLE DIFFERENT FROM US 😂

    • @BrotherAcee
      @BrotherAcee 3 місяці тому +7

      @@Decades-pl2klI thought Arlette husband was African not her

    • @stephenxadonai
      @stephenxadonai 3 місяці тому +1

      @@BrotherAceeshe naija too

    • @ProMi6
      @ProMi6 3 місяці тому +15

      ​@@BrotherAceeShe's also from Congo

    • @BrotherAcee
      @BrotherAcee 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Lasandraxoxo ohhh ok I learned something new

  • @KUCHYRock
    @KUCHYRock 3 місяці тому +263

    Arlette’s comment, “So, he didn’t hat-fish you?” was actually hilarious, even though she was the only one laughing at it 😂👏

  • @GabB-m5w
    @GabB-m5w 3 місяці тому +260

    He said “In life sometimes you have to apologize when you’re wrong.” Ummm no u ALWAYS apologize and take accountability when you’re wrong. Then he says people make mistakes can he have grace.
    IMMATURE

    • @Vexed711
      @Vexed711 3 місяці тому +4

      Atleast he apologized

    • @geoffreywright9856
      @geoffreywright9856 3 місяці тому +25

      @@Vexed711Na you’re missing the point. Apologise for something and leave it as that. When you accompany the apology with “nobody is perfect”and blah blah, it waters down the sincerity of the apology. Say sorry and full stop!

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle 3 місяці тому +1

      She*

    • @Blaztoize
      @Blaztoize 3 місяці тому +1

      Out of all the parts of this vid that was the one you thought was immature 😂 hell that was the only time he was right

    • @KK32022
      @KK32022 3 місяці тому

      Be apologized and took accountability without saying “But I did it because” and it still isn’t good enough… yall are insufferable 😂

  • @Sydney-tk5ws
    @Sydney-tk5ws 3 місяці тому +255

    He love bombed her with excessive attention, ghosted her when she got sick in order to try to manipulate her into doing what she wanted….he’s very toxic.

    • @DEEDUBZ
      @DEEDUBZ 3 місяці тому +1

      OR U COULD LOOK AT IT AS SHE GAVE HIM ATTENTION WHEN SHE WENT CLEVELAND TO MAKE HIM FALL FOR HER, THEN STOPPED GIVING IT AFTER. OVERALL, IT'S CLEAR THIS COUPLE LIKES EACH OTHER. WISH 'EM ALL THE BEST TOGETHER

    • @Imlastudios
      @Imlastudios 3 місяці тому

      😂

    • @comfortzone5618
      @comfortzone5618 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes! He seems very manipulative. He is probably very toxic!

    • @philowamuigua6885
      @philowamuigua6885 3 місяці тому +4

      You can't satisfy such a man ..

    • @alexisallen6777
      @alexisallen6777 2 місяці тому

      💯💯

  • @antwondburrell5695
    @antwondburrell5695 Місяць тому +1

    Arlette saying “ A Bald Head” took me OUT!!! 😂😂😂

  • @SilverBaeCB
    @SilverBaeCB 3 місяці тому +1034

    I can’t tell if he’s jealous, insecure, or arrogant… he has unprovoked tension.

    • @michaelm3512
      @michaelm3512 3 місяці тому +174

      He has a mad superiority complex and unresolved past trauma

    • @t33mc
      @t33mc 3 місяці тому +54

      yall just like to do arm chair psychology and spit out your psychobabble nonsense

    • @snswaagloveu1
      @snswaagloveu1 3 місяці тому +76

      @@t33mcyou mean to tell me based on what we are seeing that he’s a functioning and mentally healthy male human being? If so something is wrong with you…

    • @ms.evegene
      @ms.evegene 3 місяці тому +88

      Yes. He is scary to me. Sassy and power driven. Which means he is actually powerless

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 3 місяці тому +7

      Because its all of them...

  • @widankori
    @widankori 3 місяці тому +122

    Love a sister that stands on business 👏🏿🎉

  • @MissOfficer24
    @MissOfficer24 3 місяці тому +983

    The first few seconds tell how things went with them. 😂😂

    • @paigesmith2966
      @paigesmith2966 3 місяці тому +38

      Yesss ! I’m on 0:48 and you can feel the energy through the screen .

    • @careerkitchenshow
      @careerkitchenshow 3 місяці тому +9

      I’m 47 seconds in 😂

    • @ShauntalCC
      @ShauntalCC 3 місяці тому +18

      25 secs in! And I paused to see if anyone else noticed

    • @angelgreen9945
      @angelgreen9945 3 місяці тому +3

      Facts

    • @grammyslim5766
      @grammyslim5766 3 місяці тому +11

      For me, the facial expressions tell it all

  • @IbelieveinJesusAmen
    @IbelieveinJesusAmen 3 місяці тому +2

    Sister on our right is flawless!!!! That’s a real black queen! 💯

  • @danounou00
    @danounou00 3 місяці тому +336

    Calling her a CNA when she has a Doctorate in PT, this man is scary. I can't imagine his dating history with women that aren't as advanced in their professions like Kiana and him saying that women deter from their goals when it comes to him is a tell tale sign. He knows that she's above his league because she has standards and is firm on that. Young women please do not postpone your dreams and education for anyone. And he's a therapist?????????

    • @allegrasalaine3834
      @allegrasalaine3834 3 місяці тому +84

      Nope he says he works in Mental Health. Judging by his personality, he could be a front desk assistant.

    • @Wonderfullymade1212
      @Wonderfullymade1212 3 місяці тому +3

      @@allegrasalaine3834emptying trash and urinals 🤣🤣

    • @misstiff29
      @misstiff29 3 місяці тому +43

      So true, he would demean her. He didn't even like when she talked about her business. Even a stay at home wife, he would still be the type to be jealous of his own children she is mothering.

    • @danounou00
      @danounou00 3 місяці тому +19

      @@misstiff29 I saw that as well, he whispered under his breath when she shouted out her business. YES!!!!!!!! I was thinking the same thing, you can't submit to men like that. I can't imagine a woman with low self esteem coming across a man like him. Honestly triggered me, a remember dating a guy who was self conscious of not having a degree and I was in pursuit of going back to school, this man verbatim said "you're going to leave me and be with those college guys." Literally 2 weeks in of getting to know each other.

    • @ms.evegene
      @ms.evegene 3 місяці тому +3

      😮🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @domosomone
    @domosomone 3 місяці тому +659

    So basically “affection” is code for he wanted some 🐱 in those 2 weeks & she wasn’t trying to give it to him that early

    • @tanakamagazen499
      @tanakamagazen499 3 місяці тому +18

      I said thisddds😂

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому +35

      PRECISELY! The audacity

    • @SuperDevildog2009
      @SuperDevildog2009 3 місяці тому +74

      And then to make it worst he was getting massages so the affection was there. He just use to his way.

    • @UnknownUserCommented
      @UnknownUserCommented 3 місяці тому +4

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @hurricaneethyl3936
      @hurricaneethyl3936 3 місяці тому

      These the same men that complain about being women not having standards or being a certain way now a days but can’t uphold those standards or respect. They definitely hypocrites. That’s right ladies keep denying these perverted baby boys

  • @jjayphilly342
    @jjayphilly342 3 місяці тому +796

    He probably was one of those dudes that was "the man" in high school, but the real world showed him his worth, and he STILL thinks he's that guy.

    • @yaniie007
      @yaniie007 3 місяці тому +132

      Which is why the lord done took away his hair

    • @hurricaneethyl3936
      @hurricaneethyl3936 3 місяці тому +20

      @@yaniie007😂😂😂

    • @ashakaron
      @ashakaron 3 місяці тому +17

      ​@@yaniie007😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀

    • @Reallythere54321
      @Reallythere54321 3 місяці тому +39

      I think the kids call it peaking in highs school

    • @MarkeeCoco
      @MarkeeCoco 3 місяці тому +22

      Yeah he’s forgetting he’s 30 lbs heavier with no hair left

  • @Ketla_Pitso
    @Ketla_Pitso 2 місяці тому +6

    What a sweet, beautiful and humble woman she is. She deserves a lot more than this arrogant guy

  • @LuLu-qo7ly
    @LuLu-qo7ly 3 місяці тому +91

    She is literally one of the most beautiful women I've seen.

  • @ForbiddenFruit333
    @ForbiddenFruit333 3 місяці тому +449

    He took somebody else to Florida 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @annagabri3ll3
    @annagabri3ll3 3 місяці тому +742

    She got sick he ghosted her when he went to Florida. He was probably with another woman and she’s a good catch and should keep it moving. Know your worth girl and keep it moving.
    Edit: His name is Braylene Adams and he has a pending court case number 24CRB00150 at Shaker Heights municipal court for DV. This girl dodged a bullet. Arlette and BM y’all need to be careful of who you accept on the show.

    • @CAL0725
      @CAL0725 3 місяці тому +24

      Good catch how?

    • @RedRag684
      @RedRag684 3 місяці тому +53

      Yall take these entertainment shows too seriously.

    • @hurricaneethyl3936
      @hurricaneethyl3936 3 місяці тому +99

      I’m so happy she didn’t let this thirsty loser ruin her! She’s a real catch and deserves a good man on her level

    • @viv_677
      @viv_677 3 місяці тому +43

      I was thinking the same thing, he ghosted her cuz he was w all types of women in florida or took another girl on his roster lmao

    • @hurricaneethyl3936
      @hurricaneethyl3936 3 місяці тому +63

      @@CAL0725 she didn’t let dirty horn dog hit just because he wanted to. Y’all dogs need to lay down with fleas not good women. I’m so happy she dodged this bullet and you mad cause you just him !😂😂

  • @daddyIce-vq8wp
    @daddyIce-vq8wp Місяць тому

    Arlette is my best character in this show. Her attentiveness and facial expressions makes me laugh sometimes. She is just so professional, genuine and unbiased.

  • @BrithaneeTv
    @BrithaneeTv 3 місяці тому +617

    I just know he linked up with someone during that 36 hours 🤣 n i'm not even projecting. I jus have this feeling.. cause no way

  • @chukwukere
    @chukwukere 3 місяці тому +364

    "some people may say I am wrong"; "I'm sorry"; "nobody is perfect"; when people apologise like this, they're usually bad news.
    His behaviour in the episode, the reunion, and now this. This man is not a nice person. Too needy and somewhat inconsiderate.
    Imagine him saying "when women say things about their schedule, they change it for me"... that sounds like, and I'm using this very carefully, narcissism.
    She should cut her loss and keep it moving.
    Always comparing a man vs a woman. Sounds like all them red pill podcasts bros. Free this guy.

  • @kernilee
    @kernilee 3 місяці тому +94

    Arlette’s gonna have to make a fashion channel at this point. Her outfits are always on point.

    • @Candy-gw1es
      @Candy-gw1es 2 місяці тому +3

      I agree. I love all her outfits. ❤

    • @nicoleybby
      @nicoleybby 2 місяці тому

      sexy and classy!

    • @cecep7477
      @cecep7477 2 місяці тому

      I was just telling myself this.

    • @Beloved9632
      @Beloved9632 2 місяці тому

      I think she has a deal with fashion nova if I’m not mistaken

    • @cecep7477
      @cecep7477 2 місяці тому +5

      @@Beloved9632 that would be surprising because them outfits don’t give fashionova at all, they give expensive high quality if you ask me.

  • @LegginzPlans
    @LegginzPlans 2 місяці тому +7

    In his defense… inviting someone to visit you and going to the gym by yourself until 1030 at night while your visitor is at your house is crazy work, but he still sucks 😂

    • @kiracarter5454
      @kiracarter5454 12 днів тому

      I think she was sending mixed signals but he's still a jerk. They will get together.

  • @mitziphillips9889
    @mitziphillips9889 3 місяці тому +70

    I’m not surprised at all. We saw what he was about before this lovely woman got a chance to. I’m glad she kept her head about it and her tail to herself.

  • @ivysmith2794
    @ivysmith2794 3 місяці тому +176

    The bottom line is, hes NOT a good guy.. he's verbally abusive, self conceited and inconsiderate. He wants it to be ALL about him. I knew that she would have regreted, matching with him, from his vile behavior on the show. He's too needy, daddy and mommy issues but projects it on the women he dates, that's why it doesn't last.

    • @loveispinkxoxo1
      @loveispinkxoxo1 3 місяці тому +7

      Exactly, spot on this dude here is a burning hot mess‼️

    • @believeume122
      @believeume122 3 місяці тому +1

      Agree

    • @KevinKevs-sp1rd
      @KevinKevs-sp1rd 3 місяці тому +5

      Sounds like you’re the one projecting now

    • @ivysmith2794
      @ivysmith2794 3 місяці тому

      @@KevinKevs-sp1rd you're empty headed and lack discernment. This 🤡 said that he shown allot of affection growing up. That explains it all..stop making excuses for your boyfriend, toxic behavior

    • @ivysmith2794
      @ivysmith2794 3 місяці тому

      @@KevinKevs-sp1rd you lack discernment! This GOUF BAWL said that he wasn't shown affection as a child, that explains it all. Stop making excuses for your boyfriend

  • @nataliesmith-ti7oe
    @nataliesmith-ti7oe 3 місяці тому +345

    This is a dangerous man.
    I'm glad she figured out that they were not compatible and I hope she stays away.
    She is way too much for him. He would do better with a sad, lonely, needy chic, with low self esteem that will drop everything for him although he's not doing much for her.
    This man is the type to make a successful, happy, valuable woman feel bad about who she is, just so he can get her the way he wants her.
    Kiana is a real one and this man would have to level himself right up to be worthy of her.
    Stay far Queen....

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 3 місяці тому

      Agreed. He’s the type of guy that might fuck around and murder a woman due to his over zealous aggression, anger, and potential low self esteem.

    • @trinafolkes7859
      @trinafolkes7859 3 місяці тому +22

      You nailed it..he really don’t like women the way he speak and respond, nothing about him speaks loving a black woman!

    • @neatynel
      @neatynel 3 місяці тому +3

      OMG yesssssssssss!

    • @DanielaTabois
      @DanielaTabois 3 місяці тому +9

      You hit the nail on the head! I really didn’t like how he tries to downplay her job/business and pass it off as jokes. He seems to be the type of man that secretly don’t like his women to have to much of a spotlight. Very dangerous

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 3 місяці тому

      @@DanielaTabois You know? It’s crazy because I hear some women say that men hate on them, but never seen it in real time. Now, I believe it. This shit is disgusting and scary. This type of man might really harm a woman, on some bullshit.

  • @TheeBeautyCocoon
    @TheeBeautyCocoon 2 місяці тому +2

    the way Arlette says “a bald head” has me cackling😂😂😂😂

  • @lizanal1521
    @lizanal1521 3 місяці тому +64

    Yo, y’all already said EVERY SINGLE thing I was thinking as I was watching this, good to know there is a 100% general consensus on the internet about this dude, Ima leave it at that, shoutout to the internet friends 😂

    • @ZeeTene
      @ZeeTene 3 місяці тому +3

      Period! Facts! 😂💯 we all on the same page

    • @chymerexdesign
      @chymerexdesign 3 місяці тому

      and that's how people ultimately miss out on good-hearted genuine people, too busy listening to the internet. Half these people probably miserable and living vicariously through strangers that's easily influenced

    • @lizanal1521
      @lizanal1521 3 місяці тому

      @@chymerexdesign Huh???

  • @wilapblkhistory8310
    @wilapblkhistory8310 3 місяці тому +129

    This dude is quietly unstable and loudly incapable of hiding it… he’s giving controlling and rude, he wants you to adhere to HIS NEEDS at all times, being sick is unacceptable….

    • @rubymargaritais5657
      @rubymargaritais5657 3 місяці тому +8

      He looks like he ruins every bodies path who let's him in.

    • @georgehouston2310
      @georgehouston2310 3 місяці тому

      Such a foolish conclusion... He has a high need for affection and she is aware. He apologized for responding badly. Again you don't get men's needs and you don't really care

    • @wilapblkhistory8310
      @wilapblkhistory8310 3 місяці тому +1

      @@georgehouston2310 selfish!

    • @georgehouston2310
      @georgehouston2310 3 місяці тому +1

      @@wilapblkhistory8310 More like you're ignorant 🙄

    • @OhGodSheALeo
      @OhGodSheALeo 24 дні тому

      ​@@georgehouston2310 She wants to wait before sex. Go hump an electric fence

  • @MHicks2023
    @MHicks2023 3 місяці тому +36

    Woooowwwww she is even more gorgeous in the pictures that they took .

  • @GeorgeSoFire
    @GeorgeSoFire 2 місяці тому +4

    Give the man an Oscar for The 36 hr excuse 🏆🏆 🏆 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂😂😂

  • @kamilmuse
    @kamilmuse 3 місяці тому +531

    He’s very sassy and argumentative. He thinks his behavior makes him masculine but it gives the total opposite.

    • @user-eu6wp6ws7c
      @user-eu6wp6ws7c 3 місяці тому +22

      Masculine comment.

    • @Yahoo.com123-c7r
      @Yahoo.com123-c7r 3 місяці тому

      I gotta smh this guy acting like he is the girl complaining about affectionate the girl isn't on that time everything he saying is what he heard on UA-cam nothing he saying is truly from his mind its all script and letting him look likes a little b**tch

    • @lejamesbron5880
      @lejamesbron5880 3 місяці тому +32

      He has needs. She didn't meet those needs. How is everything Sassy in 2024? Yall are hilarious 😂

    • @kamilmuse
      @kamilmuse 3 місяці тому +26

      @@lejamesbron5880 did you hear how he spoke to her the whole interview? 🤔 It wasn’t about his needs cause that’s understandable it’s his behavior. Men who like to argue with women give sassy.

    • @Mcnasty78
      @Mcnasty78 3 місяці тому +17

      Yeah, he acts like a little boy

  • @ko7477
    @ko7477 3 місяці тому +79

    She is so naturally beautiful omgggg

  • @nathanieladams2052
    @nathanieladams2052 3 місяці тому +171

    She looks like Ari Lennox bruh 😭❤️

  • @brebrebre93
    @brebrebre93 2 місяці тому +4

    Kiana impressed me, so classy with her self respect not giving into his idea off affection which is a “freak off” then he linked with someone else while she was sick 😞 then texting talking about some hey 👋🏽 boy you feeling like a man now boy bye ✌🏽 👨🏽‍🦲

  • @truthasia1787
    @truthasia1787 3 місяці тому +107

    so dude was coming for all the girls hair when he aint even got none at all 😂😂😂

    • @sylvia6583
      @sylvia6583 3 місяці тому +9

      The AUDACITY..... And he double downed on this on the reunion show

    • @sophiaandre139
      @sophiaandre139 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@sylvia6583 _ oh man! He was insufferable during the reunion show. So was Bryan!😂

    • @meaux-kneaux
      @meaux-kneaux 3 місяці тому +8

      At least he ain't got a toupee. That's his point!

    • @deanscurse
      @deanscurse 3 місяці тому +1

      @@meaux-kneaux not a good point. He's using a hat to hide his baldness.

    • @meaux-kneaux
      @meaux-kneaux 3 місяці тому +2

      @@deanscurse he can take his hat off at will, and did...y'all taking y'all's wig off on command? Let's be real

  • @jleezy612
    @jleezy612 3 місяці тому +300

    Arlette does not like Braylene and she has a hard time hiding it 😂😂 That's my girl! Lol

    • @CullodenJones
      @CullodenJones 3 місяці тому

      She's a closet feminist

    • @Jeanpierres2023
      @Jeanpierres2023 3 місяці тому +25

      In my opinion, Arlette doesn’t seem like the type of person that doesn’t like people for no reason. Arlette might have been annoyed with the answers but to say she didn’t like the girl is a stretch.

    • @Mike_1nce_More
      @Mike_1nce_More 3 місяці тому +54

      ​@@Jeanpierres2023 Braylene is the boy

    • @pinkextra305jetsetter4
      @pinkextra305jetsetter4 3 місяці тому +47

      @@Jeanpierres2023
      Loud and wrong lol

    • @tremackin
      @tremackin 3 місяці тому +8

      Where are you getting this? She probably don't like his answer's to some things like when he alludes to virality and clicks. However, she clearly thinks he's funny and charming. The laughing and body language tell you that. Also, she has had him on the reunion and now a catchup. Not everyone is invited to the reunion and not everyone gets a catch up to my knowledge.

  • @sunnie2044
    @sunnie2044 3 місяці тому +28

    She's so pretty and well-spoken😍

  • @SwaayWay
    @SwaayWay 2 місяці тому +3

    19:03 He felt the heat when he removed the hat 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @JillianSmall_ChildofGod
    @JillianSmall_ChildofGod 3 місяці тому +207

    He seems narcissistic tbh. I'd say run Sis. He doesnt seem happy about her business, he's saying he "let her shine", doesn't like that she's out doing what she has to do, he seems self-absorbed. These are serious red flags 🚩🚩

    • @dcm2dcg
      @dcm2dcg 3 місяці тому +2

      💯💯💯

    • @VendieSolde
      @VendieSolde 3 місяці тому +2

      He definitely is

    • @blakerobinson5084
      @blakerobinson5084 3 місяці тому +13

      He is a jealous man. He's attracted to her. He admires her. But he is jealous of her and her discernment.

    • @chrtyhwrd
      @chrtyhwrd 3 місяці тому +11

      He irked my soul. When she began to speak, and he made that weird noise..I immediately got the sense that was his way of telling her to keep quiet. Like I can totally see that gesture being something he do to her that's triggering later in the relationship. But only she knows what it means if they were around ppl and they didn't pick up on it, and didn't realize it was a big deal. The fake calm persona, the weird request for affection and sex right away. I also picked up on the subliminal criticism with her cooking, overall not liking her speaking about certain things that he felt was damaging to his online image. He gave her subliminal warnings. He was trying to check her. Im so glad she held herself. Responded with Okay. Red flags.

    • @mucleboy0151
      @mucleboy0151 3 місяці тому

      ​@@chrtyhwrdhow is askimg for sex and affection right away when they sleeping in bed week at a time, he jus wanted sex more than what she was giving in case it went over ur head

  • @itspossible3381
    @itspossible3381 3 місяці тому +53

    Those unexpected “surprises” are the “small graces” given to folks as a blessing and an insight into how people move in difficult situations.

    • @Mike_1nce_More
      @Mike_1nce_More 3 місяці тому +4

      Are you talking about when Kiana ended up in the hospital?

    • @tahir15
      @tahir15 3 місяці тому

      💯%HE WAS PRESENT WITH HER IN EVERY MOMENT.....MY G💯💪🏾

    • @itspossible3381
      @itspossible3381 3 місяці тому

      @@Mike_1nce_More anyone ghosted 👻 when they are sick will have clear insight into how a potential partner deals with obstacles.

  • @shaq5191
    @shaq5191 3 місяці тому +145

    So basically Braylene wants physical intimacy and Kiana wants security. He can’t expect treat a woman from Boston with a Phd like a woman off the street from Ohio.. Sorry Braylene, Kiana is out of your league!

    • @urRAWRsoundsfunnyLOL
      @urRAWRsoundsfunnyLOL 2 місяці тому

      Bingo. He's used to them Cleveland hoochies that chase him

  • @camryncothran8058
    @camryncothran8058 2 місяці тому +1

    “do you want me to stroll with you?”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @countitalljoyfam
    @countitalljoyfam 3 місяці тому +199

    When Arlette said “ Ah Bald head…” I was at the finish line…done I tell ya…done😂😂😂😂😂😂!

    • @geegee9126
      @geegee9126 3 місяці тому +13

      😂😂😂 😂She is a wild girl, she’s so funny without trying

    • @countitalljoyfam
      @countitalljoyfam 3 місяці тому +2

      @@geegee9126 😂

  • @toshanamartinez1212
    @toshanamartinez1212 3 місяці тому +27

    Arlette giving him that side eye when he's apologizing LOL!!!!

  • @Ar15slusz
    @Ar15slusz 3 місяці тому +298

    Kiana is so beautiful omg 😩🥺

    • @Essays4College
      @Essays4College 3 місяці тому +8

      She is....and she has great teeth too.

    • @CoffeeCrazy
      @CoffeeCrazy 3 місяці тому +2

      She also seems like a beautiful person, because he would not have received three calls after the first one was not answered.

    • @Yutsekelman
      @Yutsekelman 3 місяці тому +2

      Very beautiful yes

    • @itsmetheinterrupter
      @itsmetheinterrupter 3 місяці тому +2

      She really is 😊

  • @charB1518
    @charB1518 Місяць тому

    Arlette’s facial expressions are hilarious 😆

  • @bravoanane
    @bravoanane 3 місяці тому +81

    “Directly under that fan”, “i was kinda upset” and then saying the price of the trip is all egotistical, defensive and narcissistic. Feeling bad after she got sick, no call to check on her, no empathy, he took the sickness personally, the message “hey” showing no concern or care at all. He’s trying to love bond then break that woman’s soul but she seems solid.

    • @bravoanane
      @bravoanane 3 місяці тому +10

      Upset because she was unwell is crazy work then instead of explaining what he was doing he just says he was sorry and upset.

    • @bravoanane
      @bravoanane 3 місяці тому +15

      The calls got dry because he had enough of pretending

    • @July-ola
      @July-ola 2 місяці тому

      “I dropped a band on that trip” lmao….