They shouldn’t have been staying at each other’s places and doing things that couples do in such a very short period if time! 3 trips in the course of 2 weeks is crazy. Can you blame him for wanting to be intimate at the pace they were going?
@@denardmcclairne8453 aht aht not too much on us lol but fr this guy is not a licensed therapist trust me- he may be a peer counselor or case worker but he is not credentialed
The good news is he really liked her, wanted her, and pursued her. The bad news is that he has a mean side when things are not working to his advantage. Run Kiana...run..🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀
@@calvincollage5884he didn’t threaten he clearly they had private conversation about what took place with them this man literally took accountability about ghosting her but you can tell he’s an affectionate guy I can’t with you people. It’s baffling how yall labeling him because you’ll can’t understand his love language and lingo. Everybody ain’t for everybody but she clearly likes him and his personality she just needs to fix her road block from preventing them to work. Period!
Dude is lowkey a manipulator, he knows how to duck a direct question. He never answered exactly what he did in Florida and why he ghosted her for 36 hours, he just "apologized." She's too beautiful to be caught up with this type of dude
Too beautiful nope. Most AKA and college educated women, prefer guys with an edge. She knows she can’t walk over him or him being intimidated by her being “educated”.
@ShadrockMarciano What did he say that makes you say he’s a manipulator? When was he asked what he did in Florida? He paid/planned a trip for her to go with him. He ghosted her because she didn’t come. I didn’t hear anyone ask what did he do without her. He said that he went anyway. He wanted to spend time with her. The only thing he did wrong was get upset because she was sick and didn’t want to go. He also apologized. Where was the the manipulation?
He clearly struggles with communicating while he's upset. Out of respect, and avoidance, he chose to isolate himself. Was it the best thing to do? No. If he can come back from the apology and actually work on changing that behavior, he will be fine. He has a pattern of expressing anger through unhealthy means and was trying to disrupt it by pulling away. It is a major flaw that many black men have due to not having their emotions taken seriously as young men. Some men have never experienced expressing disdain and it being received positively. If he was expecting a fight, he pulled away to protect himself. Something in him felt he needed to be protected. The thing is, this type of behavior doesn't sit well with women who are more healed in the area of communication. It doesn't make logical sense, therefore they will be unequally yoked. It's best to work on the physical manifestation of this trigger and apologize ASAP (and mean it) by changing the behavior moving forward. She says an apology would have been great a week and a half ago. He waited to come on the show to actually apologize. He never fully articulated why he was upset to her. She never really knew. He just ghosted her. Most relationships would work out if people just learned to talk and listen.
@@Sayithowitis15 Nahh, she kinda does. Also, men don't "get ran thru". they do the running thru. Learn the sexual marketplace. you're confused about roles in heterosexual mating. Peace!
I’m proud of her. Apparently what he needed was a woman who would drop all her plans, be at his beck and call, and it’s implied they disagreed over when to have sex. I hope she keeps her boundaries. He was disrespectful to her several times just in this conversation.
@@187tip7 Yall have to stop being so politically naive. I don't know why you all would think that they would be spending all that time and money together without participating in adult activities.
Yes! He is a full-grown man-baby and has a superiority complex... he will never change. Can't even hold a decent conversation with her and acts like she was capricious for going to work! This woman has a career, let her be responsible. He wanted her to be devoted to him after a few days of knowing his average behind? Ain't even that cute to be putting up with his childish behavior. Get on down the road and to the bucket hat store.
The fact that some of these people barely know each other, but think that it's okay to travel to a different city and stay at the other person's place baffles me.
It starts to become like a trend in this show, I saw at least 2 couples who matched in this show and one of the match traveled to the other match city and stayed in his/her place. I don't even know if they do a background check in this show. I won't let anybody I barely know stay at my place, I will get you a hotel room though.
I’m normally sad when the couples don’t make it, but I’m actually elated they didn’t. He’s an immature child and she deserves so much better! Please bring her back 😍
@@eon001nah it’s more than “immature” joking. He was demeaning, arrogant, petty and insecure badgering everybody else because someone dissed on his sneakers?
He's mad bc she has a whole, fulfilled life outside of a man! 💪 You go girl!!!! Keep doing big things. So glad you escaped this one; He's not for you!....He's on that Red Pill mentality. He needs therapy and a teddy bear.
Yeah! Let me take this platform to say the same thing to my brothers out there - Keep going out and trying, and if (or rather, WHEN) a beautiful girl rejects you, you probably dodged some sh*t. So keep moving, there's plenty more.
So because one girl didn’t like his shoes he decided to disrespect everyone else after. Lord, I’d run so far away from this man. He’s probably still hurt over a girl denying him in pre-k 🙄
So basically Braylene wants physical intimacy and Kiana wants security. He can’t expect treat a woman from Boston with a Phd like a woman off the street from Ohio.. Sorry Braylene, Kiana is out of your league!
Nah she look like she play too much he prolly used to women acting a certain way when they like him and she not doing it been there 😂 she def not ready for a full blown relationship with a guy that has experience cause he gone feel like something not right
Arlette doesn't care what "Bryan with the hat " thinks. She's happily married to a man who absolutely adores her and whatever she does with her hair. @alakazam25yearsago8
He wants more? she just met him. Had he had some patience and let the chemistry flow naturally and not force affection /affection/sex within 2 weeks, maybe there could have been a chance. Start thinking with the head on top of your shoulders.
She’s young and pretty with options, and she knows it. The man flew out to see her, and she “strolled” with her Sorors at an event all night. She’ll be the one calling Kendra G in her 30’s demanding a 6’ tall high earner. They never learn.
So she immediately flew to visit you, cooked for you, gave you massages, and he couldn’t even check on her while she was sick because you wanted to”more” (we all know what that really means). Wow
“Directly under that fan”, “i was kinda upset” and then saying the price of the trip is all egotistical, defensive and narcissistic. Feeling bad after she got sick, no call to check on her, no empathy, he took the sickness personally, the message “hey” showing no concern or care at all. He’s trying to love bond then break that woman’s soul but she seems solid.
All I can say is, I'm so glad that you have a STRONG MIND ,sis! This man is attractive, and he's used to women giving in... and completely controlling situations. I'm glad you didn't give your body to someone who doesn't deserve it. I pray that you find a mature man who's willing to love you hun!❤
@@souljackmusic Actually that's not what she said. He wants her to drop everything and be with him 24/7 and she's saying well I'm a working girl and I have bills so the only way imma drop all of my work and responsibilities to come sit at ur knees is if you're paying my bills. What's wrong with tht??? It's not as if she's jobless and wants him to pay her bills, he wants more than she's willing to give in such a short time to a complete STRANGER, wanting her to shift up her routine to please him. Narcissistic and entitled. Big red flag
@@meaux-kneauxthen whose marriage material? Enlighten us. And be broad with your description because what you would marry is not what everyone would marry.
@meaux-kneauxL anyone can make time for someone. She already knew they wasn’t compatible and it’s clear . He’s too argumentative. She doesn’t want to have sex with him too soon and so he’s not willing to wait then that’s on him .
Can we please bring Kiana back? I feel like she deserves a re-do! This guy is beyond a jerk! Completely self-absorbed and a narcissist! Kiana deserves better. She has her stuff together and deserves a top-tier King of a man!
Ppl keep misusing the word narcissist like crazy nowadays. He just wants an affectionate woman and she’s extremely busy for his liking. That does not make him a narcissist
@@t33mcyou mean to tell me based on what we are seeing that he’s a functioning and mentally healthy male human being? If so something is wrong with you…
Arlette, thank you so much for the work that you and BJ are doing. I can't put into words how important what you were doing is. My wife and I watch the these and PTB episodes consistently. We also allow our school age children to join us for their education and understanding of how social dynamics and dating works. I can't say thank you enough for this work, and pray that God continues to bless you both for the value that you've brought to so many, and the impact you're making around the world.
These the same men that complain about being women not having standards or being a certain way now a days but can’t uphold those standards or respect. They definitely hypocrites. That’s right ladies keep denying these perverted baby boys
Ladies, do not travel to and cook for a man you just met! He has to earn that. He should come and visit you and take you out on a real date. In addition, do not spend the night at his house or invite him to stay at your house until you are on a real relationship!
@@MrLionLC great question. I wonder if she'll be able to answer that. Unless it's marriage then what's a real relationship for real. When you fill out a job application it gives you two options, 1. married or 2. single......... There is no in between such as boyfriend/girlfriend option.
He love bombed her with excessive attention, ghosted her when she got sick in order to try to manipulate her into doing what she wanted….he’s very toxic.
OR U COULD LOOK AT IT AS SHE GAVE HIM ATTENTION WHEN SHE WENT CLEVELAND TO MAKE HIM FALL FOR HER, THEN STOPPED GIVING IT AFTER. OVERALL, IT'S CLEAR THIS COUPLE LIKES EACH OTHER. WISH 'EM ALL THE BEST TOGETHER
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference. It becomes an issue when you are disrespectful in explaining your preference in comparison for others. You don’t have to be disrespectful to get your points off. He disrespected that woman based off how previous women disrespected other people on the show, which had absolutely nothing to do with her. Like he said in the reunion, he showed up for a viral moment. At everyone’s big age, this shouldn’t be a debate or a hard concept to grasp.
But females do this exact thing you just said all the time. Like, oh no honey! I'm taller than you in heels. All this man said was I like a natural woman with real hair. What's wrong with that?
Women on this show has rejected men because of their height...what's wrong with him having a preference with a natural woman??? People don't have control over their height, but women definitely has control on staying natural without all that artificial looks
He dropped the ball, her getting sick and hospitalized was a huge RED FLAG... he has growing to do and she is the total package and will adjust her busy schedule for the right person❤. Finally, he needs therapy to heal his childhood trauma... she can not heal his hurt.
This is a dangerous man. I'm glad she figured out that they were not compatible and I hope she stays away. She is way too much for him. He would do better with a sad, lonely, needy chic, with low self esteem that will drop everything for him although he's not doing much for her. This man is the type to make a successful, happy, valuable woman feel bad about who she is, just so he can get her the way he wants her. Kiana is a real one and this man would have to level himself right up to be worthy of her. Stay far Queen....
You hit the nail on the head! I really didn’t like how he tries to downplay her job/business and pass it off as jokes. He seems to be the type of man that secretly don’t like his women to have to much of a spotlight. Very dangerous
@@DanielaTabois You know? It’s crazy because I hear some women say that men hate on them, but never seen it in real time. Now, I believe it. This shit is disgusting and scary. This type of man might really harm a woman, on some bullshit.
He said “In life sometimes you have to apologize when you’re wrong.” Ummm no u ALWAYS apologize and take accountability when you’re wrong. Then he says people make mistakes can he have grace. IMMATURE
@@Vexed711Na you’re missing the point. Apologise for something and leave it as that. When you accompany the apology with “nobody is perfect”and blah blah, it waters down the sincerity of the apology. Say sorry and full stop!
Calling her a CNA when she has a Doctorate in PT, this man is scary. I can't imagine his dating history with women that aren't as advanced in their professions like Kiana and him saying that women deter from their goals when it comes to him is a tell tale sign. He knows that she's above his league because she has standards and is firm on that. Young women please do not postpone your dreams and education for anyone. And he's a therapist?????????
So true, he would demean her. He didn't even like when she talked about her business. Even a stay at home wife, he would still be the type to be jealous of his own children she is mothering.
@@misstiff29 I saw that as well, he whispered under his breath when she shouted out her business. YES!!!!!!!! I was thinking the same thing, you can't submit to men like that. I can't imagine a woman with low self esteem coming across a man like him. Honestly triggered me, a remember dating a guy who was self conscious of not having a degree and I was in pursuit of going back to school, this man verbatim said "you're going to leave me and be with those college guys." Literally 2 weeks in of getting to know each other.
"some people may say I am wrong"; "I'm sorry"; "nobody is perfect"; when people apologise like this, they're usually bad news. His behaviour in the episode, the reunion, and now this. This man is not a nice person. Too needy and somewhat inconsiderate. Imagine him saying "when women say things about their schedule, they change it for me"... that sounds like, and I'm using this very carefully, narcissism. She should cut her loss and keep it moving. Always comparing a man vs a woman. Sounds like all them red pill podcasts bros. Free this guy.
I think Arlette should do two versions of this show. Pop the Ballon Locals & Pop the Ballon long distance. Its very hard for ling distance relationships to work and most of the guest dont know where each person is from until after theyre matched. Like we see here, both have their lives already in motion with schedules, being in different states makes it that much harder to really connect. I do think sleeping at each others house first week is crazy work! She definitely made the right choice but not pursuing that dude any more.
Arlette was not feeling his tone and was ready to check him 👏👏👏👏 he the type who smile in front of companies and back hand slap you behind doors. Hope Kiana runs for her life.
Yeah I think so too. I pray he gets a competent therapist and works through his stuff. Some women talked about his shoes and he said, “…In my mind everyone else is getting it!” This means he can’t regulate himself and takes stuff out on others who aren’t even involved in what happened to him previously.
@@chimeramon2765 21:49-21:53 that grinding teeth is that when you acting up in public and your parents telling you they gonna strengthen you up when you get home. That’s a grown woman you just met…she can’t speak freely. I ain’t saying his abusive but the signs are there
@@Freelyandpeace It was so weird, and when he said something about in front of these cameras...like sir what if it was off camera??🤔🤔 I definitely get where you're coming from. Even Arlette looked very concerned at that.
She got sick he ghosted her when he went to Florida. He was probably with another woman and she’s a good catch and should keep it moving. Know your worth girl and keep it moving. Edit: His name is Braylene Adams and he has a pending court case number 24CRB00150 at Shaker Heights municipal court for DV. This girl dodged a bullet. Arlette and BM y’all need to be careful of who you accept on the show.
@@CAL0725 she didn’t let dirty horn dog hit just because he wanted to. Y’all dogs need to lay down with fleas not good women. I’m so happy she dodged this bullet and you mad cause you just him !😂😂
Kiana impressed me, so classy with her self respect not giving into his idea off affection which is a “freak off” then he linked with someone else while she was sick 😞 then texting talking about some hey 👋🏽 boy you feeling like a man now boy bye ✌🏽 👨🏽🦲
I gotta smh this guy acting like he is the girl complaining about affectionate the girl isn't on that time everything he saying is what he heard on UA-cam nothing he saying is truly from his mind its all script and letting him look likes a little b**tch
@@lejamesbron5880 did you hear how he spoke to her the whole interview? 🤔 It wasn’t about his needs cause that’s understandable it’s his behavior. Men who like to argue with women give sassy.
He seems narcissistic tbh. I'd say run Sis. He doesnt seem happy about her business, he's saying he "let her shine", doesn't like that she's out doing what she has to do, he seems self-absorbed. These are serious red flags 🚩🚩
He irked my soul. When she began to speak, and he made that weird noise..I immediately got the sense that was his way of telling her to keep quiet. Like I can totally see that gesture being something he do to her that's triggering later in the relationship. But only she knows what it means if they were around ppl and they didn't pick up on it, and didn't realize it was a big deal. The fake calm persona, the weird request for affection and sex right away. I also picked up on the subliminal criticism with her cooking, overall not liking her speaking about certain things that he felt was damaging to his online image. He gave her subliminal warnings. He was trying to check her. Im so glad she held herself. Responded with Okay. Red flags.
@@chrtyhwrdhow is askimg for sex and affection right away when they sleeping in bed week at a time, he jus wanted sex more than what she was giving in case it went over ur head
@caliphusakuma297 looking the way you do, it's crazy that you made one disparaging comment about her, but then to make multiple? Mind how you look and don't be bitter my guy
Arlett is good at playing the role on camera but her African culture side be looking at some of these people like they are crazy & have absolutely nothing to do with her and her folks back home. She be frowning up and giving folks the side-eye at like OOOH YALL PEOPLE DIFFERENT FROM US 😂
Dude ghosted her thinking it was going to knock her into submission by drowning him with affection.. boy gone. You gotta let it build up to that. Talking about give grace. He doesn’t extend grace to anyone. He reminds me of a guy I friend zoned and eventually cut off completely
The bottom line is, hes NOT a good guy.. he's verbally abusive, self conceited and inconsiderate. He wants it to be ALL about him. I knew that she would have regreted, matching with him, from his vile behavior on the show. He's too needy, daddy and mommy issues but projects it on the women he dates, that's why it doesn't last.
@@KevinKevs-sp1rd you're empty headed and lack discernment. This 🤡 said that he shown allot of affection growing up. That explains it all..stop making excuses for your boyfriend, toxic behavior
@@KevinKevs-sp1rd you lack discernment! This GOUF BAWL said that he wasn't shown affection as a child, that explains it all. Stop making excuses for your boyfriend
This dude is quietly unstable and loudly incapable of hiding it… he’s giving controlling and rude, he wants you to adhere to HIS NEEDS at all times, being sick is unacceptable….
Such a foolish conclusion... He has a high need for affection and she is aware. He apologized for responding badly. Again you don't get men's needs and you don't really care
In his defense… inviting someone to visit you and going to the gym by yourself until 1030 at night while your visitor is at your house is crazy work, but he still sucks 😂
I’m not surprised at all. We saw what he was about before this lovely woman got a chance to. I’m glad she kept her head about it and her tail to herself.
She is absolutely beautiful and goals asf! I aspire and I STAN! I know she is not a perfect woman but I love the way she presents herself! I love that!
Braylen is so used to getting his way with these other women.After and now he has found a real boss chick and he just can't handle it.She stands on business and she's not falling for the b.S that he's putting out he kind of give off narcissist vibes
She was sick and in the hospital and he ghosted her for 36 hours?!! Buddy wants more affection when he chose not to simply be there for her when she was sick. My goodness.
Yo, y’all already said EVERY SINGLE thing I was thinking as I was watching this, good to know there is a 100% general consensus on the internet about this dude, Ima leave it at that, shoutout to the internet friends 😂
and that's how people ultimately miss out on good-hearted genuine people, too busy listening to the internet. Half these people probably miserable and living vicariously through strangers that's easily influenced
Arlette is my best character in this show. Her attentiveness and facial expressions makes me laugh sometimes. She is just so professional, genuine and unbiased.
In my opinion, Arlette doesn’t seem like the type of person that doesn’t like people for no reason. Arlette might have been annoyed with the answers but to say she didn’t like the girl is a stretch.
Where are you getting this? She probably don't like his answer's to some things like when he alludes to virality and clicks. However, she clearly thinks he's funny and charming. The laughing and body language tell you that. Also, she has had him on the reunion and now a catchup. Not everyone is invited to the reunion and not everyone gets a catch up to my knowledge.
2:26 translation: "Since this one woman said something I didn't like I'm going to take it out on all these other women that had nothing to do with the 1st situation because I'm an insecure little boy".
Its obvious that he was trying to get some and she wasn't giving it up. I respect her for "standing on business".
oh it's. obvious 😅
They shouldn’t have been staying at each other’s places and doing things that couples do in such a very short period if time! 3 trips in the course of 2 weeks is crazy. Can you blame him for wanting to be intimate at the pace they were going?
Exactly!! Agreed like slow down and get to know the person.
They spent the night at each others house she gave him massages every night and you don’t think she gave it up ?
@@KK32022 I can't blame him, but I can't blame her for wanting to wait too. That's way too soon.
Her getting sick was God working in her favor. Straight up protection. 💫Keep shining beautiful soul 🔆
My thoughts exactly!!!!
Look at God!! Won't he DO IT 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Protection from a relationship and no husband. I still see a single successful black woman who gonna end up being settled for
@@DRex45she’s like 23
The rain was a sign too
She is so freaking gorgeous. That natural beauty just hits differently 😍
Yes I was looking at her! Shes so pretty!
Such a relief from the current beauty trends that are not so beautiful
Simp
@@Man295thater 😂
stop the cap my guy, yes she's decent looking but nothing like what youre sayin
I love her hair and skin. Natural beauty just stands out.
There’s no way this man is anyone’s therapist or counselor 😂😂
Those be the ones who are more messed up in society 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
@@denardmcclairne8453 aht aht not too much on us lol but fr this guy is not a licensed therapist trust me- he may be a peer counselor or case worker but he is not credentialed
That’s what I was saying 😂😂😂
The good news is he really liked her, wanted her, and pursued her. The bad news is that he has a mean side when things are not working to his advantage. Run Kiana...run..🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀
How was he mean?
@@gltellnotales32 The part when he seemingly threatens her not to make him go there.
@@calvincollage5884 threaten is a reach but ok
@@calvincollage5884he didn’t threaten he clearly they had private conversation about what took place with them this man literally took accountability about ghosting her but you can tell he’s an affectionate guy I can’t with you people. It’s baffling how yall labeling him because you’ll can’t understand his love language and lingo. Everybody ain’t for everybody but she clearly likes him and his personality she just needs to fix her road block from preventing them to work. Period!
@@calvincollage5884is that being mean ?
Dude is lowkey a manipulator, he knows how to duck a direct question. He never answered exactly what he did in Florida and why he ghosted her for 36 hours, he just "apologized." She's too beautiful to be caught up with this type of dude
Too beautiful nope. Most AKA and college educated women, prefer guys with an edge. She knows she can’t walk over him or him being intimidated by her being “educated”.
@ShadrockMarciano What did he say that makes you say he’s a manipulator? When was he asked what he did in Florida? He paid/planned a trip for her to go with him.
He ghosted her because she didn’t come. I didn’t hear anyone ask what did he do without her. He said that he went anyway. He wanted to spend time with her. The only thing he did wrong was get upset because she was sick and didn’t want to go. He also apologized. Where was the the manipulation?
@@TheBookofEliTheGreat I didn’t say he was a manipulator wrong person
He clearly struggles with communicating while he's upset. Out of respect, and avoidance, he chose to isolate himself. Was it the best thing to do? No. If he can come back from the apology and actually work on changing that behavior, he will be fine. He has a pattern of expressing anger through unhealthy means and was trying to disrupt it by pulling away. It is a major flaw that many black men have due to not having their emotions taken seriously as young men. Some men have never experienced expressing disdain and it being received positively. If he was expecting a fight, he pulled away to protect himself. Something in him felt he needed to be protected. The thing is, this type of behavior doesn't sit well with women who are more healed in the area of communication. It doesn't make logical sense, therefore they will be unequally yoked. It's best to work on the physical manifestation of this trigger and apologize ASAP (and mean it) by changing the behavior moving forward. She says an apology would have been great a week and a half ago. He waited to come on the show to actually apologize. He never fully articulated why he was upset to her. She never really knew. He just ghosted her. Most relationships would work out if people just learned to talk and listen.
He ame put a L on the front asf.. (got to beat the algo to get the comment on board)
I think when she does find a guy. That guy will be blessed to be with her. She seems so kind, vary smart, and quality person
she's ran thru and entitled sorry
@wasimdbala349 nah she really doesn't seem that way, but you sure sound like you've been ran through😂
@@Sayithowitis15 Nahh, she kinda does.
Also, men don't "get ran thru". they do the running thru. Learn the sexual marketplace. you're confused about roles in heterosexual mating. Peace!
@wasimdbala349 nah i think you got run through. You sound very insecure.
@@Sayithowitis15 You're projecting
I’m proud of her. Apparently what he needed was a woman who would drop all her plans, be at his beck and call, and it’s implied they disagreed over when to have sex. I hope she keeps her boundaries. He was disrespectful to her several times just in this conversation.
You are bias against men.
Jesus is coming back. Repent to be saved.
Time stamps or you just have a wild imagination
@@187tip7 Yall have to stop being so politically naive. I don't know why you all would think that they would be spending all that time and money together without participating in adult activities.
@@mollygrace3068 yes, and she kept it cute to save him. He thought he was gonna get the panties within two weeks of knowing her
he turns everything into an argument omg I don't know who has the patience for him.
Yes! He is a full-grown man-baby and has a superiority complex... he will never change. Can't even hold a decent conversation with her and acts like she was capricious for going to work! This woman has a career, let her be responsible. He wanted her to be devoted to him after a few days of knowing his average behind? Ain't even that cute to be putting up with his childish behavior. Get on down the road and to the bucket hat store.
@@damiandennis3740yh someone who's gonna sit and take all that😂
Huh???? I’m convinced yall want dummies …. Modern Women simply just want a man to just be fine fit tall hung rich and silent 😂😂
Y'all don't understand his humor or humor in general and it shows.
@@damiandennis3740 a dumb ass.
The fact that some of these people barely know each other, but think that it's okay to travel to a different city and stay at the other person's place baffles me.
Baffles Me too.. ..... I think it's a generational thing!
It starts to become like a trend in this show, I saw at least 2 couples who matched in this show and one of the match traveled to the other match city and stayed in his/her place. I don't even know if they do a background check in this show. I won't let anybody I barely know stay at my place, I will get you a hotel room though.
i agreeeee thts so risky
Yeah, they were moving way too fast
💯💯💯💯💯
Her natural beauty is killing the game. Simply Beautiful.
I actually really love how Kiana is handling him 😂😂😂 she's so sweet, love her personality!
She's definitely a class act and deserves BETTER than East Cleveland
Agreed!!
@@sylvia6583 “East Cleveland” 😂😂🤣🤣
Imagine a man saying “I like how he handles her” these women would blow a gasket….
@@knowEgo yall are so desperate for a gender war 😂😂😂. Give it a rest. Lay your armor down.
Her getting sick was God interceding on her behalf.
Ain't he an on time God !!
Yes! he paid a $1000 dollars.. you kno he was going to pressure tf outta her. He clearly really likes her but doesn’t deserve her
He's real!
@@Meccaone17 He doesn't deserve her, please elaborate?
How you gonna speak for God?.. lol.. that's amazing
I’m normally sad when the couples don’t make it, but I’m actually elated they didn’t. He’s an immature child and she deserves so much better! Please bring her back 😍
I'll date her. i like her.
That's bullshit and you are talking our of your rabid mouth pls. Shut up. There was nothing in this engagement that communicated that
He's funny, but he's immature for real. Speaking as an immature man myself, it takes one to know one. 😩🤣
ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT
@@eon001nah it’s more than “immature” joking. He was demeaning, arrogant, petty and insecure badgering everybody else because someone dissed on his sneakers?
He's mad bc she has a whole, fulfilled life outside of a man! 💪 You go girl!!!! Keep doing big things. So glad you escaped this one; He's not for you!....He's on that Red Pill mentality. He needs therapy and a teddy bear.
you said this perfectly.
He definitely had a rebound for that Florida trip lol No response that entire time. Thats a no brainer
This part
Right 😂😂😂. He was having a good ole time in Florida.
That's where he had to go back to before he went to Florida 😂
dude was busy with some other babe in florida for 36hrs❤
Hell nah he was prolly just tight and felt like she was playing and didn’t wanna focus on her if he felt like she was on bs
Kiana, you are such a real woman, rejection is protection, you dodged a bullet. When a man shuts down like that, run🏃🏽♀️and don’t look back!!🙏🏽🙌🏽
Yeah!
Let me take this platform to say the same thing to my brothers out there -
Keep going out and trying, and if (or rather, WHEN) a beautiful girl rejects you, you probably dodged some sh*t. So keep moving, there's plenty more.
So because one girl didn’t like his shoes he decided to disrespect everyone else after. Lord, I’d run so far away from this man. He’s probably still hurt over a girl denying him in pre-k 🙄
YESSSSSSSS....... definitely immature
That’s the same as “I got my heart broke once in middle school so Ian trusting nobody” 😭 men be so unhinged.
How do you run away from Black men who are not coming for YOU?
@@mvm5439 hey so, I’m speaking in general of men like him, that exist in abundance and have shown interest in me. Hope this helps!
😂😂😂 that was the part for me. Shows a deep level of immaturity.
So basically Braylene wants physical intimacy and Kiana wants security. He can’t expect treat a woman from Boston with a Phd like a woman off the street from Ohio.. Sorry Braylene, Kiana is out of your league!
Bingo. He's used to them Cleveland hoochies that chase him
Arlette please stop giving this man a platform 😭😭😭
I thought she was going to hit him with the mic 1:40 over that weave comment. LOL
Why? This guy is funny
I over agree
Why???
Why?
He ghosted you when you were sick... and got that "physical affection/touch" he was looking for, Sis. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 He's a manbaby.
this all based on assumption
@@ProdJefeDelPerre0 no. It's based on facts backed up by evidence. You're lying for this dude because you're probably the same way.
@ProdJefeDelPerre0 the man literally apologized to her for ghosting her and you're out lying for him?
And you’re a LadyGirl, you don’t know dude from a hole in the wall.. Just mad at him for being real😂 She ain’t innocent
@@somebodylying manbaby is hilarious 🤣
He fumbled and he knew it. She is a gem! Very entertaining followup interview. :-)
Fumbled tremendously he did bad😂 he not ready for that Goddess I hope she finds her soulmate 👏🏾
It's definitely a major bag fumble. Tbh she was sending mixed messages with those massages, trips, and cooking etc. So i get his frustration.
Nah she look like she play too much he prolly used to women acting a certain way when they like him and she not doing it been there 😂 she def not ready for a full blown relationship with a guy that has experience cause he gone feel like something not right
Lord please make sure that a man like this never finds me ❤
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amen in Jesus name
Kiana: He be doing too much
Arlette: YES
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Arlette just salty because she got weave on all the time😂
@@alakazam25yearsago8 and you’re watching and putting money in her pocket! Thank you for your service 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Arlette doesn't care what "Bryan with the hat " thinks. She's happily married to a man who absolutely adores her and whatever she does with her hair. @alakazam25yearsago8
@@alakazam25yearsago8 salty about what? Her husband don’t mind & that’s all that matters
This woman is naturally BEAUTIFUL ❤ EDUCATED, well spoken. Emotionally mature, Bradlyn cmon, You fumbled. She deserves much more.
He's not in her league! He's immature
He wants more? she just met him. Had he had some patience and let the chemistry flow naturally and not force affection /affection/sex within 2 weeks, maybe there could have been a chance. Start thinking with the head on top of your shoulders.
plenty like her. he will be fine.
@@fortyacresnot really lol
She’s young and pretty with options, and she knows it. The man flew out to see her, and she “strolled” with her Sorors at an event all night.
She’ll be the one calling Kendra G in her 30’s demanding a 6’ tall high earner. They never learn.
So she immediately flew to visit you, cooked for you, gave you massages, and he couldn’t even check on her while she was sick because you wanted to”more” (we all know what that really means). Wow
Same thing I was saying she was sick and you ghost her he full of shit talking about don't want to waste money money more important than her
Your spot on with this one....
“Directly under that fan”, “i was kinda upset” and then saying the price of the trip is all egotistical, defensive and narcissistic. Feeling bad after she got sick, no call to check on her, no empathy, he took the sickness personally, the message “hey” showing no concern or care at all. He’s trying to love bond then break that woman’s soul but she seems solid.
Upset because she was unwell is crazy work then instead of explaining what he was doing he just says he was sorry and upset.
The calls got dry because he had enough of pretending
“I dropped a band on that trip” lmao….
All I can say is, I'm so glad that you have a STRONG MIND ,sis! This man is attractive, and he's used to women giving in... and completely controlling situations. I'm glad you didn't give your body to someone who doesn't deserve it. I pray that you find a mature man who's willing to love you hun!❤
😮😮😅 all that spending the night together they did .. and you believe he didn't smash ?
He must love that outfit. 😂
YES 😂 because didn't he wear this during the reunion too?? 😂😂😂😂
he got one white bucket hat so he gotta match it with something
Permanent vacation vibes 😂
Straight from the damn Tommy Bahama collection
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Arlette is soooooo funny 😂😂😂😂 she know how to throw shots, not be bossed around, and get the tea all in one sitting. Straight up boss 💐
Arlette’s gonna have to make a fashion channel at this point. Her outfits are always on point.
I agree. I love all her outfits. ❤
sexy and classy!
I was just telling myself this.
I think she has a deal with fashion nova if I’m not mistaken
@@Beloved9632 that would be surprising because them outfits don’t give fashionova at all, they give expensive high quality if you ask me.
Bro's immaturity is blocking his own blessings. That woman is wife material.
No she's not, she doesn't have the time to be
@@meaux-kneauxexactly she wants a man to move in her house an pay bills her place is already to high if u peep wat he said
@@souljackmusic Actually that's not what she said. He wants her to drop everything and be with him 24/7 and she's saying well I'm a working girl and I have bills so the only way imma drop all of my work and responsibilities to come sit at ur knees is if you're paying my bills. What's wrong with tht??? It's not as if she's jobless and wants him to pay her bills, he wants more than she's willing to give in such a short time to a complete STRANGER, wanting her to shift up her routine to please him. Narcissistic and entitled. Big red flag
@@meaux-kneauxthen whose marriage material? Enlighten us. And be broad with your description because what you would marry is not what everyone would marry.
@meaux-kneauxL anyone can make time for someone. She already knew they wasn’t compatible and it’s clear . He’s too argumentative. She doesn’t want to have sex with him too soon and so he’s not willing to wait then that’s on him .
Can we please bring Kiana back? I feel like she deserves a re-do! This guy is beyond a jerk! Completely self-absorbed and a narcissist! Kiana deserves better. She has her stuff together and deserves a top-tier King of a man!
Stop it, the market is showing her what she deserves. if she could've do better then she wouldn't be on a dating show.
Ppl keep misusing the word narcissist like crazy nowadays. He just wants an affectionate woman and she’s extremely busy for his liking. That does not make him a narcissist
If you listen, she said if he pays the bills, she is willing .
@@Lmk790 he ghosted her for 36 hours for a disagreement and didn't even answer the question about it
Agreed!
He's very immature. Yes, he's attractive but his demeanor is childish, abrasive, and disrespectful. Addition: He's not ready.
You just described a whole race of men who are too egotistical, vain and narcissistic to even care.
And she's settling...
Exactly red flag
That comes from a life of mommy issues and possible neglect.
You women are haters.. stop acting like the stereotypes we as men hate.
I love Kiana, she knows who she is and what she wants. Good for her!
These couples move fast af. They spend the night at each other's houses within a week. Ain't no way.
Within hours
I suspect nothing happened and that’s why he keeps going on and on about wanting more and she not giving it
@@lowkeyyyiannn right. she didn't give up the cookie.
I literally just said this to myself. It’s nut’s & way too fast for me but to each their own.
Agreed.
“That’s clown activity.” 😂 Quote by the great Bryan💀
He was right
😂😂😂😂 Brian had me cracking up when he said that.
Lmaoo he was serious as hell too
@@DecoratingWithKey you clearly think Brian is cute
This comment is "Top Tier" 😂😂😂😂
She’s a natural beauty!
Real shit
She's decent looking.
@falsealarmno decent!!! She very pretty
@@Yutsekelman U think?
21:47
Every man wants the “10” but can you handle it. She literally all the above fit, feminine, and intelligent. ❤❤❤
Stop being ridiculous. This woman is a very nice and genuine person. but she is NOWHERE near a 10 in looks.
He probably was one of those dudes that was "the man" in high school, but the real world showed him his worth, and he STILL thinks he's that guy.
Which is why the lord done took away his hair
@@yaniie007😂😂😂
@@yaniie007😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀
I think the kids call it peaking in highs school
Yeah he’s forgetting he’s 30 lbs heavier with no hair left
I can’t tell if he’s jealous, insecure, or arrogant… he has unprovoked tension.
He has a mad superiority complex and unresolved past trauma
yall just like to do arm chair psychology and spit out your psychobabble nonsense
@@t33mcyou mean to tell me based on what we are seeing that he’s a functioning and mentally healthy male human being? If so something is wrong with you…
Yes. He is scary to me. Sassy and power driven. Which means he is actually powerless
Because its all of them...
He used to and wants women to fawn all over him, be up under him and the fact that she not doing that has his ego shedding little tears
He wanted the box and she refused to give him lol
❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 THIS
And what’s wrong with wanting that? Should he just stay if he isn’t getting what he wants?😂 yall be so bitter
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He is so childish
Arlette, thank you so much for the work that you and BJ are doing. I can't put into words how important what you were doing is.
My wife and I watch the these and PTB episodes consistently. We also allow our school age children to join us for their education and understanding of how social dynamics and dating works.
I can't say thank you enough for this work, and pray that God continues to bless you both for the value that you've brought to so many, and the impact you're making around the world.
The first few seconds tell how things went with them. 😂😂
Yesss ! I’m on 0:48 and you can feel the energy through the screen .
I’m 47 seconds in 😂
25 secs in! And I paused to see if anyone else noticed
Facts
For me, the facial expressions tell it all
I don’t remember anyone who comes back but I remember this hat-fisher clear as day🤣🤣
Me too 😂😂😂
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Omg same! 😂
Especially, how he was trying to be co-host to Arlette during the reunion.😂
So basically “affection” is code for he wanted some 🐱 in those 2 weeks & she wasn’t trying to give it to him that early
I said thisddds😂
PRECISELY! The audacity
And then to make it worst he was getting massages so the affection was there. He just use to his way.
I was thinking the same thing
These the same men that complain about being women not having standards or being a certain way now a days but can’t uphold those standards or respect. They definitely hypocrites. That’s right ladies keep denying these perverted baby boys
Ladies, do not travel to and cook for a man you just met! He has to earn that. He should come and visit you and take you out on a real date. In addition, do not spend the night at his house or invite him to stay at your house until you are on a real relationship!
What's a real relationship if not marriage?
@@MrLionLC great question. I wonder if she'll be able to answer that. Unless it's marriage then what's a real relationship for real. When you fill out a job application it gives you two options, 1. married or 2. single......... There is no in between such as boyfriend/girlfriend option.
Don't dodge his question either, if you can't answer then u just talking pointlessly
what a cope lmfao
I just know he linked up with someone during that 36 hours 🤣 n i'm not even projecting. I jus have this feeling.. cause no way
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I was thinking the same thing 😂
never even answered the question
It was probably a dude with his sassy arse
I thought that too.
He love bombed her with excessive attention, ghosted her when she got sick in order to try to manipulate her into doing what she wanted….he’s very toxic.
OR U COULD LOOK AT IT AS SHE GAVE HIM ATTENTION WHEN SHE WENT CLEVELAND TO MAKE HIM FALL FOR HER, THEN STOPPED GIVING IT AFTER. OVERALL, IT'S CLEAR THIS COUPLE LIKES EACH OTHER. WISH 'EM ALL THE BEST TOGETHER
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Yes! He seems very manipulative. He is probably very toxic!
You can't satisfy such a man ..
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There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference. It becomes an issue when you are disrespectful in explaining your preference in comparison for others. You don’t have to be disrespectful to get your points off. He disrespected that woman based off how previous women disrespected other people on the show, which had absolutely nothing to do with her. Like he said in the reunion, he showed up for a viral moment. At everyone’s big age, this shouldn’t be a debate or a hard concept to grasp.
This right here
You’re right. He’s a man baby though and was soft on her. He fumble it being passive aggressive.
All of this!
But females do this exact thing you just said all the time. Like, oh no honey! I'm taller than you in heels. All this man said was I like a natural woman with real hair. What's wrong with that?
Women on this show has rejected men because of their height...what's wrong with him having a preference with a natural woman??? People don't have control over their height, but women definitely has control on staying natural without all that artificial looks
He dropped the ball, her getting sick and hospitalized was a huge RED FLAG... he has growing to do and she is the total package and will adjust her busy schedule for the right person❤.
Finally, he needs therapy to heal his childhood trauma... she can not heal his hurt.
I’m SO happy she’s a smart girl .. omg my heart is smiling ..
YESSSSSSSS...... very smart
Me too ❤🎉
Wait to find out that they started going out again
@@beausackey142I sure hope not
This is a dangerous man.
I'm glad she figured out that they were not compatible and I hope she stays away.
She is way too much for him. He would do better with a sad, lonely, needy chic, with low self esteem that will drop everything for him although he's not doing much for her.
This man is the type to make a successful, happy, valuable woman feel bad about who she is, just so he can get her the way he wants her.
Kiana is a real one and this man would have to level himself right up to be worthy of her.
Stay far Queen....
Agreed. He’s the type of guy that might fuck around and murder a woman due to his over zealous aggression, anger, and potential low self esteem.
You nailed it..he really don’t like women the way he speak and respond, nothing about him speaks loving a black woman!
OMG yesssssssssss!
You hit the nail on the head! I really didn’t like how he tries to downplay her job/business and pass it off as jokes. He seems to be the type of man that secretly don’t like his women to have to much of a spotlight. Very dangerous
@@DanielaTabois You know? It’s crazy because I hear some women say that men hate on them, but never seen it in real time. Now, I believe it. This shit is disgusting and scary. This type of man might really harm a woman, on some bullshit.
24:18 this man really is that “where my hug at tho” kind of guy 😂🤣
Loooool
Soooo accurate 😂
Real Tears❗️🤣🤣🤣🤪
@@itsmetheinterrupter Jesus is coming back. Repent to be saved.
@@all4kicks Jesus is coming back. Repent to be saved.
I love these two's energy😂. Its how they are able to laugh through this suppose to be sad moment after realising they are not compatible.
:( I hope she never settles. She is naturally a beautiful person who deserves better!!’
He matched with one of the best ones on that episode. Beautiful and natural gym going woman 🔥
Not just on that episode…..on the whole damn show. Nigga is a goofy.
Who cares because she was smart enough break things off with him
He said “In life sometimes you have to apologize when you’re wrong.” Ummm no u ALWAYS apologize and take accountability when you’re wrong. Then he says people make mistakes can he have grace.
IMMATURE
Atleast he apologized
@@Vexed711Na you’re missing the point. Apologise for something and leave it as that. When you accompany the apology with “nobody is perfect”and blah blah, it waters down the sincerity of the apology. Say sorry and full stop!
She*
Out of all the parts of this vid that was the one you thought was immature 😂 hell that was the only time he was right
Be apologized and took accountability without saying “But I did it because” and it still isn’t good enough… yall are insufferable 😂
Man these two look good together they actually have chemistry
She looks like Ari Lennox bruh 😭❤️
That’s what I was thinking from that episode 😍
Right!
Yoo foreal especially with the hairstyle..i love Ari
Yess so beautiful
I said the same thing on the original video.
Calling her a CNA when she has a Doctorate in PT, this man is scary. I can't imagine his dating history with women that aren't as advanced in their professions like Kiana and him saying that women deter from their goals when it comes to him is a tell tale sign. He knows that she's above his league because she has standards and is firm on that. Young women please do not postpone your dreams and education for anyone. And he's a therapist?????????
Nope he says he works in Mental Health. Judging by his personality, he could be a front desk assistant.
@@allegrasalaine3834emptying trash and urinals 🤣🤣
So true, he would demean her. He didn't even like when she talked about her business. Even a stay at home wife, he would still be the type to be jealous of his own children she is mothering.
@@misstiff29 I saw that as well, he whispered under his breath when she shouted out her business. YES!!!!!!!! I was thinking the same thing, you can't submit to men like that. I can't imagine a woman with low self esteem coming across a man like him. Honestly triggered me, a remember dating a guy who was self conscious of not having a degree and I was in pursuit of going back to school, this man verbatim said "you're going to leave me and be with those college guys." Literally 2 weeks in of getting to know each other.
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"some people may say I am wrong"; "I'm sorry"; "nobody is perfect"; when people apologise like this, they're usually bad news.
His behaviour in the episode, the reunion, and now this. This man is not a nice person. Too needy and somewhat inconsiderate.
Imagine him saying "when women say things about their schedule, they change it for me"... that sounds like, and I'm using this very carefully, narcissism.
She should cut her loss and keep it moving.
Always comparing a man vs a woman. Sounds like all them red pill podcasts bros. Free this guy.
Exactly 💯
Heavy on the free this guy. I hope we never see him again.
Exactly what I said. He's probably the worst character I've seen on this show. ..and Dr. Elom exists
I totally see it too
Simp!!!
I think Arlette should do two versions of this show. Pop the Ballon Locals & Pop the Ballon long distance. Its very hard for ling distance relationships to work and most of the guest dont know where each person is from until after theyre matched. Like we see here, both have their lives already in motion with schedules, being in different states makes it that much harder to really connect. I do think sleeping at each others house first week is crazy work! She definitely made the right choice but not pursuing that dude any more.
Arlette was not feeling his tone and was ready to check him 👏👏👏👏 he the type who smile in front of companies and back hand slap you behind doors. Hope Kiana runs for her life.
Yeah I think so too. I pray he gets a competent therapist and works through his stuff.
Some women talked about his shoes and he said, “…In my mind everyone else is getting it!” This means he can’t regulate himself and takes stuff out on others who aren’t even involved in what happened to him previously.
There's nothing abusive about the dude he's just two argumentative in a passive way.
@@chimeramon2765 21:49-21:53 that grinding teeth is that when you acting up in public and your parents telling you they gonna strengthen you up when you get home. That’s a grown woman you just met…she can’t speak freely. I ain’t saying his abusive but the signs are there
@@Freelyandpeacethat’s why some of these women end up in abusive relationships because they just be ignoring those red flags
@@Freelyandpeace It was so weird, and when he said something about in front of these cameras...like sir what if it was off camera??🤔🤔 I definitely get where you're coming from. Even Arlette looked very concerned at that.
Arlette’s comment, “So, he didn’t hat-fish you?” was actually hilarious, even though she was the only one laughing at it 😂👏
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He had bald man syndrome
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Yeah that was pretty good lol
She said it while i was reading this comment lol
She got sick he ghosted her when he went to Florida. He was probably with another woman and she’s a good catch and should keep it moving. Know your worth girl and keep it moving.
Edit: His name is Braylene Adams and he has a pending court case number 24CRB00150 at Shaker Heights municipal court for DV. This girl dodged a bullet. Arlette and BM y’all need to be careful of who you accept on the show.
Good catch how?
Yall take these entertainment shows too seriously.
I’m so happy she didn’t let this thirsty loser ruin her! She’s a real catch and deserves a good man on her level
I was thinking the same thing, he ghosted her cuz he was w all types of women in florida or took another girl on his roster lmao
@@CAL0725 she didn’t let dirty horn dog hit just because he wanted to. Y’all dogs need to lay down with fleas not good women. I’m so happy she dodged this bullet and you mad cause you just him !😂😂
Kiana impressed me, so classy with her self respect not giving into his idea off affection which is a “freak off” then he linked with someone else while she was sick 😞 then texting talking about some hey 👋🏽 boy you feeling like a man now boy bye ✌🏽 👨🏽🦲
He’s very sassy and argumentative. He thinks his behavior makes him masculine but it gives the total opposite.
Masculine comment.
I gotta smh this guy acting like he is the girl complaining about affectionate the girl isn't on that time everything he saying is what he heard on UA-cam nothing he saying is truly from his mind its all script and letting him look likes a little b**tch
He has needs. She didn't meet those needs. How is everything Sassy in 2024? Yall are hilarious 😂
@@lejamesbron5880 did you hear how he spoke to her the whole interview? 🤔 It wasn’t about his needs cause that’s understandable it’s his behavior. Men who like to argue with women give sassy.
Yeah, he acts like a little boy
He seems narcissistic tbh. I'd say run Sis. He doesnt seem happy about her business, he's saying he "let her shine", doesn't like that she's out doing what she has to do, he seems self-absorbed. These are serious red flags 🚩🚩
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He definitely is
He is a jealous man. He's attracted to her. He admires her. But he is jealous of her and her discernment.
He irked my soul. When she began to speak, and he made that weird noise..I immediately got the sense that was his way of telling her to keep quiet. Like I can totally see that gesture being something he do to her that's triggering later in the relationship. But only she knows what it means if they were around ppl and they didn't pick up on it, and didn't realize it was a big deal. The fake calm persona, the weird request for affection and sex right away. I also picked up on the subliminal criticism with her cooking, overall not liking her speaking about certain things that he felt was damaging to his online image. He gave her subliminal warnings. He was trying to check her. Im so glad she held herself. Responded with Okay. Red flags.
@@chrtyhwrdhow is askimg for sex and affection right away when they sleeping in bed week at a time, he jus wanted sex more than what she was giving in case it went over ur head
She's so beautiful and soft spoken. Goals fr >>
Wdym by "goals"
@@backseatoftherollstruck her soft spokeness. It's very admirable
Not hard when you are a walking red flag
@caliphusakuma297 looking the way you do, it's crazy that you made one disparaging comment about her, but then to make multiple? Mind how you look and don't be bitter my guy
@@samanthayates8812 I commented because I can. Bitter no. Because yall trying to make it seem like dude did wrong when she did all the wrong.
“Bald heaaaaddd”💀🤣 ARLETTE kills me 😭
Arlett is good at playing the role on camera but her African culture side be looking at some of these people like they are crazy & have absolutely nothing to do with her and her folks back home. She be frowning up and giving folks the side-eye at like OOOH YALL PEOPLE DIFFERENT FROM US 😂
@@Decades-pl2klI thought Arlette husband was African not her
@@BrotherAceeshe naija too
@@BrotherAceeShe's also from Congo
@@Lasandraxoxo ohhh ok I learned something new
I can’t believe she went straight to his hometown, to his home and he cooked dinner. Woah be more careful folks
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I was just thinking that, I get ppl want to show initiative but still be cautious, complete strangers. I’m just saying
🆘 I watch wayyyyy too much First48
@@ambitious_iv girrrrrrrl..
She needs to watch Dateline or Forensic Files 😮😮
He took somebody else to Florida 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ABSOLUTELY
And DID!!!
That's definitely what I got from that 😂
Right 😂
As he should 😊
As a man I definitely recommend this lady to please run
Dude ghosted her thinking it was going to knock her into submission by drowning him with affection.. boy gone. You gotta let it build up to that. Talking about give grace. He doesn’t extend grace to anyone. He reminds me of a guy I friend zoned and eventually cut off completely
The bottom line is, hes NOT a good guy.. he's verbally abusive, self conceited and inconsiderate. He wants it to be ALL about him. I knew that she would have regreted, matching with him, from his vile behavior on the show. He's too needy, daddy and mommy issues but projects it on the women he dates, that's why it doesn't last.
Exactly, spot on this dude here is a burning hot mess‼️
Agree
Sounds like you’re the one projecting now
@@KevinKevs-sp1rd you're empty headed and lack discernment. This 🤡 said that he shown allot of affection growing up. That explains it all..stop making excuses for your boyfriend, toxic behavior
@@KevinKevs-sp1rd you lack discernment! This GOUF BAWL said that he wasn't shown affection as a child, that explains it all. Stop making excuses for your boyfriend
“Oh you showing us?…bald head…”
- Arlette 😂😂😂😂
Give the man an Oscar for The 36 hr excuse 🏆🏆 🏆 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂😂😂
This dude is quietly unstable and loudly incapable of hiding it… he’s giving controlling and rude, he wants you to adhere to HIS NEEDS at all times, being sick is unacceptable….
He looks like he ruins every bodies path who let's him in.
Such a foolish conclusion... He has a high need for affection and she is aware. He apologized for responding badly. Again you don't get men's needs and you don't really care
@@georgehouston2310 selfish!
@@wilapblkhistory8310 More like you're ignorant 🙄
Can’t believe he tried to call her a CNA when she’s a DOCTOR
Tryna belittle her. Whew he ain't shiiiidddd😂😂😂
He clearly doesn't have much going on and he can't handle that she does.
That irked me
Thought she said shes a physical therapist
@@tinashe4463 She is, he was trying to be funny..
She is literally one of the most beautiful women I've seen.
Facts and making money. This nigga tripping.
In his defense… inviting someone to visit you and going to the gym by yourself until 1030 at night while your visitor is at your house is crazy work, but he still sucks 😂
YEP, i don’t blame kiana on the “too early” as far as the affection.. he knows what he really wanted
He ready to jump in the bed😮
Building a friendship is crucial for a healthy relationship. Setting boundaries are and following your gut feelings. Kiana has that option.
Yeap.....whatever he paid for that date, in his mind she owed him
So it ain’t too early to be taking matching pj pics with an arm in her stomach huh?
they already fukked what are you even saying🤣🤣
She deserves sooooo much better. Glad she knows that! ❤
Absolutely agree 💯
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Huh, he stopped talking to her tho. He deserves better!
It's a lot of man child like him.
@@meaux-kneauxerm he ghosted her.?
I’m not surprised at all. We saw what he was about before this lovely woman got a chance to. I’m glad she kept her head about it and her tail to herself.
She is absolutely beautiful and goals asf! I aspire and I STAN! I know she is not a perfect woman but I love the way she presents herself! I love that!
Braylen is so used to getting his way with these other women.After and now he has found a real boss chick and he just can't handle it.She stands on business and she's not falling for the b.S that he's putting out he kind of give off narcissist vibes
She literally cooked for him and slept at his house HOURS after meeting him. She no different
Bro wore the same back to school outfit again🤣🤣
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I really did laugh all the way out loud in the middle of the park with this comment. Thank you for your service 😂
It's actually a different outfit except the hat
He is beyond immature! 🤯🤯🤯
They don't know each other yall expect people to behave like couples in a few days smh
She BETTER RUN
hes disrespectful yes
@@erik15ththey’re talking about him as person not them as a couple, reading comprehension
@@loismetuge9316 erik would give himself an aneurysm just trying to figure out what the term "reading comprehension" means.
What a sweet, beautiful and humble woman she is. She deserves a lot more than this arrogant guy
She was sick and in the hospital and he ghosted her for 36 hours?!! Buddy wants more affection when he chose not to simply be there for her when she was sick. My goodness.
You can't get more affectionate than taking care of somebody when they're down.
You act like that man knew she was in the hospital.
@@Mdieiwnsndke What makes you think she didn't communicate??
He definitely knew @@Mdieiwnsndke
Yo, y’all already said EVERY SINGLE thing I was thinking as I was watching this, good to know there is a 100% general consensus on the internet about this dude, Ima leave it at that, shoutout to the internet friends 😂
Period! Facts! 😂💯 we all on the same page
and that's how people ultimately miss out on good-hearted genuine people, too busy listening to the internet. Half these people probably miserable and living vicariously through strangers that's easily influenced
@@chymerexdesign Huh???
He’s like a Dr Elom 🙄
11:20 he let her shine? Boy she shines without you
His goal was to smash in which he did so I think he ain’t care about shining or whatever 🤣🤣
@@ShafiAhmed479 He definitely didn't smash... hence why he's salty and insecure.
Exactly!!!!
Arlette is my best character in this show. Her attentiveness and facial expressions makes me laugh sometimes. She is just so professional, genuine and unbiased.
He is a living, breathing, walking, talking red flag. Kudos to Kiana for keeping it moving bc bayBEEEEE! That man is toxic.
Arlette does not like Braylene and she has a hard time hiding it 😂😂 That's my girl! Lol
She's a closet feminist
In my opinion, Arlette doesn’t seem like the type of person that doesn’t like people for no reason. Arlette might have been annoyed with the answers but to say she didn’t like the girl is a stretch.
@@Jeanpierres2023 Braylene is the boy
@@Jeanpierres2023
Loud and wrong lol
Where are you getting this? She probably don't like his answer's to some things like when he alludes to virality and clicks. However, she clearly thinks he's funny and charming. The laughing and body language tell you that. Also, she has had him on the reunion and now a catchup. Not everyone is invited to the reunion and not everyone gets a catch up to my knowledge.
so dude was coming for all the girls hair when he aint even got none at all 😂😂😂
The AUDACITY..... And he double downed on this on the reunion show
@@sylvia6583 _ oh man! He was insufferable during the reunion show. So was Bryan!😂
At least he ain't got a toupee. That's his point!
@@meaux-kneaux not a good point. He's using a hat to hide his baldness.
@@deanscurse he can take his hat off at will, and did...y'all taking y'all's wig off on command? Let's be real
the way Arlette says “a bald head” has me cackling😂😂😂😂
2:26 translation: "Since this one woman said something I didn't like I'm going to take it out on all these other women that had nothing to do with the 1st situation because I'm an insecure little boy".
he's a 🤡
Basically how these baby boys are. Men are rare nowadays …. Just a generation of baby boys