He picked a winner. She picked a winner. Some women lost out on Chandler because they saw he is different. This lady focused on character and values. Even if they don't work out, they atleast practiced focusing on deep vibes and not shallow things that don't last. The future is bright.
They actually have a lot in common. I don’t think he would’ve matched well with anyone else on the show. They fit together. Hope it works out for them long term.
Kinda annoying how a lot of people say the ladies missed out on Chandler. He simply wasn’t their type, which is fine because he was HER type and they matched.
I hate how everybody is doing the whole Pop the Balloon or Find Love concept BUT this is the ONLY channel that makes me watch it cause it's classy & respectful
Chandler finding his match on the show was so inspiring because all those other girls turned him down because they thought he was corny and weird but guess what - MISHNA DIDN'T!! It just reinforces the whole thing about being your authentic self. You don't have to be everyone's match. Be true to who you are and someone will find the beauty in you and you can tell how perfectly matched they are how they bounce off each other. It's getting me in my feels 😢 ❤💕!!
THIS IS WHAT HEALTHY BLACK LOVE LOOKS LIKE!!!! Fun, carefree, non toxic , not one conversation or mention about money, bills or 50/50. They actually LIKE one another and are not together for status,lust or financial gain
50/50 don’t matter when you with a man who women actually wanted & not settled for When she actually likes him it’s not his money or her it’s are future & what can we do to make things better for us! This why most women are & will be single they will have to settle for a man they really don’t want or stay single simple some get lucky tho
Men would pass on this woman for the wrong reasons and women would pass on dude for the wrong reasons. I'm just glad to see two of these types of people find each other.
That’s exactly why I stopped dating I no longer care for marriage these men are superficial and would rather pick the woman that treats them like trash
That’s exactly why I stopped dating I no longer care for marriage these men are superficial and would rather pick the woman that treats them like trash
They are actually courting each other before rushing into a commited relationship. I love that for them. Genuine friendship and actually liking each other as people is so important to lasting relationships.
They’re so goofy and nerdy! I love them for one another. They’re a cute match. Also…she looks so much more youthful here and she’s funny. He’s actually handsome & seems like good people.
Love to see it.. Theyve actually got to get to know and enjoy each other on 3 different inexpensive dates rather than spend a whole bunch of unnecessary money trying to act like celebrities eating at some upscale restaurant.
The commonality between these two is they are both comfortably and authentically themselves! Love that for them! ❤ Growing up black and not dressing a certain way or being awkward comes with so much pressure that many ppl tend to buckle just to please the crowd. I find them refreshing. 😊
This couple put the biggest smile on my face. Wishing them all the best!! We need more black ppl being their authentic selves. Nerdy / Awkward blacks are winning!!!
Chandler is gorgeous… wow! What a face. Can’t believe these girls passed based on his style. What a gain for Mishna! He got a great catch as well! They’re cute!
@@karenhendr1x everybody can use some improvement. He could update his style yet still keep who he is as an individual. It's not a bad thing if he chose to or if he decided not to, it's more about throwing away a potentially good relationship for something so cursory and in the grand scheme something unimportant to a successful relationship.
@@patcih9101it might have been too casual for a date for some people but her outfit was perfect for him(remember the other ladies were criticizing his outfit). So being too dressy or casual depends on the person they are with and where they are going?
@Hardawayfits dude, has nothing to do with pink or red nothing. I have watched this show and seen nearly all the women get caught up by the DM influx. why all of a sudden she is now more outgoing? dude, if you don't read between the lines, that is fine, well I do.
Speaking of that, Russell Wilson said that's exactly the reason why he married Ciara. She was down to earth and humble. He pulled out his wallet with a stack of money in it and she was not impressed. She also didn't try to change herself to satisfy him like other women did.
The genuine vibing with each other and having fun and exciting dates. Nothing radical, like 300 dollar day at an expense restaurant! This how it should be when you meet someone, but enjoying each other. There is nothing like an expensive interview date.
It's very refreshing seeing black people being comfortable in their skin. There is no pressure on having to follow stereotypical black culture in America.
This is what natural chemistry looks like! I love them!!! Their personalities compliment each other. The lady is hilarious, her personality didn’t get to shine in the first episode! Had no idea she was this funny. Best of luck to them!!! #Beautifulcouple 💍💍💍❤ UPDATE: I was wrong. Chandler turned out to be a real immature, insecure weirdo
@@EhhRell shout-out to women wearing whatever they want and feeling comfortable with their clothing choices. People don't have to subscribe to your respectability politics.
@@greg20423 for real. You can’t fake authenticity and someone unwilling to conform, is someone you should rock with and be proud to stand behind. It’s traits like that which has stood up to the oppressors for eons in our history. Too many sheep not enough shepherds !
Being understood is my favorite thing. The chemistry makes me happy. I'm so happy they are enjoying their time together. They are literally the cutest!
& I just wanna say how beautiful they both looked in this! Mishna’s makeup was on point, loved the lip combo & how she stayed true to her style. Chandler looking fine close up, clean look, & also stayed true to his style. They don’t give trendy at all, very a authentic people & it manifests in their appearance 😍
Arlet actually seems uncomfortable not negatively just like in a “I have no idea what yall are even talkin about yall like each other so much let’s go ahead and end this video” 😂 the conversation and vibes between them are so quirky, authentic, cute and exciting ! Ugh I love this a lot ! I hope we get another update !
Three dates and they’re both feeding of each others energy which seems to be authentic and pure. I hope this is the first couple to have an update telling us that they’re married
Marriage is the sexual intercourse for it is written : Matthew 5:[37]But let your word be Yea, yea; Nay, nay; but what is more than these is from evil. 1 Corinthians 7:[9] *But if they have NOT CONTROL OVER themselves, let them marry; for it is better to marry than TO BURN.* Do not fall for the Roman's Empire definition of marriage with the state, for it is written: Luke 20:[25] *And he said to them, Pay therefore what is Caesar's to Caesar, and WHAT IS God's to God.*
I love that the 1st date was at Barnes and nobles just for the vibe! This is how you date people. Your country and talk and learn about each other! It’s not about money and flexing it’s about a bond!! We have lost the true essence of dating! Social media got y’all tripping! I knew they’d date seriously outside the show! So dope! …. THE TRUTH!!
Facts! Anime, arcades, bowling, books from barnes & nobles or libraries, scifi shows/movies (star wars, star trek, & all the rest), video games (in moderation), healthy competition. Just chill. Nerdy & outdoorsy is perfect combo.
@@Vernetv as long as they're not dressing vulgarly, I feel like judging people based off of attire is not only extremely childish, but also ignorant and can even lean towards elitism at times.
Wish i could surround myself with ppl like these 2. Theyre not stuck up or judgemental. They're down to Earth. They dont seem fake or like they gossip too much. They dont give off "trying too hard" vibes. They just seem confident in themselves and not like they have have a spirit of competition, and that they compare themselves to other ppl. Its refreshing to see ppl like these 2. No wonder they matched.
@DiamondDs504 Right. I seriously need a life. Ppl im around, I'll ask them what they do for fun..... "Oh, i just smoke and chile." Or "I watch anime and play video games." or "Im in the club every weekend tryna be ghetto fabulous." Lol
I knew a girl just like her, lighthearted, funny, a gamer with such a positive personality. She dated Asians and others outside of her race because “black guys judged her and didn’t get her”. Both of them seem happy to have met and spend time together. I’m happy for them!
They bounce off each other so well. This is one of the few catch ups that Arlette didnt have to lead or ask a million and one questions to get the information. Arlette was in their world and i love it. I wish them the best
I LOVE them together! They both have great personalities and seem so ready and receptive to love..I hope they make the distance. They already seem so comfortable and natural with one another! ❤️🤞🏼🥰
I love them together. They’re both so secure in themselves, genuine and seem sweethearted. The BEST match so far on the show. No ego. I hope they go the whole distance. This is what healthy black love looks like and what healthy black love could and should be.
They are so perfect for each other! This is the best connection on the show so far! They both have beautiful personality's. This is proof you don't need a lineup of people to want you, you just need one!
💞 CHANDLER IS CUTE, and I love how he is UNAPOLOGETIC about his "individual" style. His attitude is "take it or leave it," and I like that. Contrary to popular belief, WE LOVE NERDS OVER HERE! I would rather deal with that, than a POOKIE, RAY-RAY, or "D-Boy" that can't stay from behind bars or don't support their kids!!!
@@augustbaby8254 A nerd is a nerd in my book. I love to read "different" books, but a BOOK IS A BOOK and they come in various categories for a reason...I LOVE THE "NERD" CATEGORY.
When he said “ not motherly but reserved “ I loved that because she wasn’t naked and she looked good and she was comfortable and I love wedges too girl . 😊❤❤❤❤❤🎉
Not sure if anyone else cared but the part about her needing to go into sephora was so cute to me 🥹😂, like he went with her and gave her time to go where she needed and loves (her being a makeup artist) but also finding a way to include himself and get her input by asking about the cologne. Love this chemistry and them finding joy in things they have in common ❤.
I know ppl love drama and watch this show for the negative comments to make jokes but I actually enjoy seeing the positive side of finding love. These two are very encouraging, they are building a foundation. 3 small fun dates where they can just be themselves and enjoy one another. I hope she gets more authentic people who actually want to find love not promote themselves or get clout. ❤
Not my cheeks hurting from smiling thru the whole video!! I already knew what it was from the thumb nail AND how short the video was lol. I love them together! I haven’t followed ANYONE from this show until Mishna I love her personality and it seems like she and Chandler are complementary to each other.
😂😂😂 I swear my lips turned chalky white, and I cant stop scratching & rocking back & forth.... feening. I dont even click on any other pop the balloon but this channel
This is the only catch up I was able to fully watch until the end. Not because of Arlette that I wasn’t able to watch the other ones…it was the people. This couple kept me entertained and I was smiling the entire time. They are so genuine and down to earth. No one was on bs. I love it and I wish them much happiness and long love and friendship! ❤
These two are my favorite match so far! And it's been said before that Arlette is such a great host! It comes so naturally! I appreciate that she gives everyone room to talk.
They’re literally the VERY FIRST set of people to look how they looked on their original episode.😂😅 She just has on glasses. Edit because somehow it’s not being understood what I’m saying: THEY ARE RECOGNIZABLE!!! They may be glowing and their outfits or her make-up and glasses may be bringing out something but they still. Look. The same!😅
@@samuelnjenga1761 I meant their faces! Everyone’s says how people always looks different on the catch-ups, that they don’t recognize them! But these two are completely recognizable here and have the same face! I mean because ofc their outfits and etc are different so it gives a different look but she (and him) still looks like the same person….
They are so perfectly matched this is adorable! Also everybody saying the other girls missed out, they 100% didn’t miss out anything, they wouldn’t have meshed well. They fit with each other.
Nope. He’s a nice guy but you still need someone with similar interest. None of those other girls are going to want to watch and talk about anime all the time .
@@Candy004 I guess, but I’m a huge NBA fan and wear NBA jerseys sometimes when I’m out. None of the women I dated cared about basketball but we still dated.
@@Candy004 I mean personally, I don't like watching anime. But if the dude I was with was interested, I'd occasionally watch and talk about it. It's really not that serious, people like things and can have hobbies separate from you lmao I think what you are correct about is, some girls are interested in certain personas, and he doesn't meet that at all. He is very much himself.
Best matched couple on the show. I love their energy together and how they bond over anime and they definitely bounce off each other. Great energy and I love that they are on the same page with the pace of the relationship! I hope they keep dating!!!
this was cute af. I adore both of their personalities. They are the epitome of living in your own truth and not giving af if other people agree with or understand it.
Has to be hands down the best matched couple on the show!
It's genuine. I feel you can't fake it.
True that
Def shot to number 1
YES
I think I agree, but I'm waiting to see the follow-up for that couple where the girl said "that's my match down there!" ❤
He picked a winner. She picked a winner. Some women lost out on Chandler because they saw he is different. This lady focused on character and values. Even if they don't work out, they atleast practiced focusing on deep vibes and not shallow things that don't last. The future is bright.
I hope we see a wedding
They actually have a lot in common. I don’t think he would’ve matched well with anyone else on the show. They fit together. Hope it works out for them long term.
They are so cute together 🎉❤
@@nizniz3351 No one missed out. They were most compatible.
Kinda annoying how a lot of people say the ladies missed out on Chandler. He simply wasn’t their type, which is fine because he was HER type and they matched.
I hate how everybody is doing the whole Pop the Balloon or Find Love concept BUT this is the ONLY channel that makes me watch it cause it's classy & respectful
@@KINGVenxm I agree
Well said
I was just going to say the same thing
Agree
exactly been spreading the word on this show
Chandler finding his match on the show was so inspiring because all those other girls turned him down because they thought he was corny and weird but guess what - MISHNA DIDN'T!! It just reinforces the whole thing about being your authentic self. You don't have to be everyone's match. Be true to who you are and someone will find the beauty in you and you can tell how perfectly matched they are how they bounce off each other. It's getting me in my feels 😢 ❤💕!!
Amen!
Omg he wouldve been the one I chose!!! As soon as I hear anime I light up like a lightbulb 😂😂😂
🫶🏾
They didn’t say all that😭😭 you added a couple of words😂
This not even talking no more …
Their energy so strong they made Arlette seem like the guest 😂
😅😅
Lol exactly
Omg this this ...yeessss she definitely felt out of that world
EXACTLY!!!!!! They're carrying the interview lol. Clearly Arlette isn't use to people actually liking one another 😂
@@Godslight1970s😂😂😂right !
THIS IS WHAT HEALTHY BLACK LOVE LOOKS LIKE!!!! Fun, carefree, non toxic , not one conversation or mention about money, bills or 50/50. They actually LIKE one another and are not together for status,lust or financial gain
Well put
I FELT THAT !🎯
50/50 don’t matter when you with a man who women actually wanted & not settled for
When she actually likes him it’s not his money or her it’s are future & what can we do to make things better for us!
This why most women are & will be single they will have to settle for a man they really don’t want or stay single simple some get lucky tho
On god, these two are making me believe in love again 😂
@@HannahNAWAR-bv4lo This definitely ain’t a conversation for you lmao.
I can actually see them married with five kids, acting silly with their kids and playing pranks on each other well into their 70’s🤗🙏🏿
I can totally see this too 😊
It's been so long since I've seen a comment like this on UA-cam. Everything has been criticism, G-raiding others, roasting, etc.
Soulmates❤
Me too!
Exactly 😂
they are so corny and geeky, literally so perfect for each other 😂 definitely one of the best matches
How're they corny? 😭
@@urbanvisions3795maybe they meant Quirky
Yea they aren't corny. Some of the best personalities I've seen. I like them!
@@urbanvisions3795frfr. They are mad cool
Not corny, definitely quirky 😏
Men would pass on this woman for the wrong reasons and women would pass on dude for the wrong reasons. I'm just glad to see two of these types of people find each other.
Cause opposites do attract ❤
Most of them said they wanted to try something different and they all folded at the end anyway. Oh well.
That’s exactly why I stopped dating I no longer care for marriage these men are superficial and would rather pick the woman that treats them like trash
That’s exactly why I stopped dating I no longer care for marriage these men are superficial and would rather pick the woman that treats them like trash
Yep, typically people in the black community are attracted to the wrong things. Those that skipped on these 2 really missed out big time.
They are actually courting each other before rushing into a commited relationship. I love that for them. Genuine friendship and actually liking each other as people is so important to lasting relationships.
Couldn’t have said it better.
Beautifully said!
😂😂 cap if u really like someone courting isn’t a thing. Females only use that for “nice” guys?
@@Yng619what r u talking about ?Courting is a beautiful thing done between two lovers.
@@speaktruth9989He Never Been Courted. Bro Just Projecting Cause He Never Experienced It 😂
The personalities, the authenticity, the intelligence, the humor, the teeth, the hair. These two right here are truly black excellence.
Lol the teeth so true 🤣
Beautiful white teeth ❤
"Remember, I'm a fraud analyst, I catch ninjas..." 😂😂😂 Love this couple.
Put that on a t-shirt 😂😂
In the words of queen Mishna, he's a fraud analyst but cant even smell his own bullshit 😂
😂😂😂 Arlette was like, "Oh, y'all happy? Wrap this shit up."
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂screaming
Right 😂😂😂😂
☠️💀💀☠️☠️💀☠️
😂😂😂💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chandler is a winner. Intelligent, funny, well spoken and smart. They discredited him because he likes animé? 🤦🏾♀️
You're worried about people who weren't checking for him, instead of focusing on the fact that someone likes him? See how y'all harp on the negative?
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalistit ain’t that deep, clam yourself sister solider
People
Usually like others folks that have common interests . We want people to pop and not pretend
It was a bigger deal how he was dressed.
Because of how he was dressed tbh which is still a weak reason… the right & best one matched with him
This might be the first genuine catch up so far. No drama, no miscommunication, no clout chasing and no lying.
That's because most people didn't come on the show for love they came to get exposure to build their business
This is the second one.
there's been like 1 or 2 before this that were really good genuine couples!
@@arnold2106 now you mentioned it yeah there was another couple that hit it off afterwards.
Nah it was two more actually
They’re so goofy and nerdy! I love them for one another. They’re a cute match. Also…she looks so much more youthful here and she’s funny. He’s actually handsome & seems like good people.
He is very handsome.
These two are free, free from insecurity, free from worrying about what others think, free from pretending to be something they are not
💯
This!!!
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Love to see it.. Theyve actually got to get to know and enjoy each other on 3 different inexpensive dates rather than spend a whole bunch of unnecessary money trying to act like celebrities eating at some upscale restaurant.
Yes!!! FREE!!!!
The commonality between these two is they are both comfortably and authentically themselves! Love that for them! ❤ Growing up black and not dressing a certain way or being awkward comes with so much pressure that many ppl tend to buckle just to please the crowd. I find them refreshing. 😊
So true
Very much so
Couldn’t have said it better myself! Absolutely love these two!
@@Seymore_Cox TheseAreFacts
Same!
This couple put the biggest smile on my face. Wishing them all the best!! We need more black ppl being their authentic selves. Nerdy / Awkward blacks are winning!!!
Period!!
I was literally smiling the entire time watching this episode. I love this for. They are truly a match for each other.
Where at because honey I’m losing.
Some women say they are funny...... she is naturally hilarious. She seems like so much fun.
“Drop kick” 😂
Chandler is gorgeous… wow! What a face. Can’t believe these girls passed based on his style. What a gain for Mishna! He got a great catch as well! They’re cute!
Yes very handsome, sweet and a gentleman
Fr that man needs to model!
Passed on him because of his clothes. A thing that can be changed easily. He seems pretty solid though and I wish them the best.
@@lincolnward85but why change his clothes if that's his style and how he's comfortable
@@karenhendr1x everybody can use some improvement. He could update his style yet still keep who he is as an individual. It's not a bad thing if he chose to or if he decided not to, it's more about throwing away a potentially good relationship for something so cursory and in the grand scheme something unimportant to a successful relationship.
Love that she was honest with herself about her outfit and made light of it! Shows true strength of character.
I liked her outfit. I thought it reflected her sweet personality 😅. It was definitely more conservative but it looked nice on her.
It was terrible she should burn it 😂
@@loryndabenson2118right?? She looked good. Maybe a little too casual for a date but still beautiful
@@patcih9101 I liked her sweater and the shoes, maybe pair with a nice black or white skirt next time for a more date night look???
@@patcih9101it might have been too casual for a date for some people but her outfit was perfect for him(remember the other ladies were criticizing his outfit).
So being too dressy or casual depends on the person they are with and where they are going?
He matched with exactly who he was suppose to. Love this for them!
Agreed. P.S. I lOVE Fifth Element. Haven't watched it in forever though.
Her DMs are popping, she is doing photoshoot for the hypergamy move, he will soon be friend zoned.
@@t33mc calm down the world is not revolved around red pill and pink pill content😅
@@Hardawayfits lmao right
@Hardawayfits dude, has nothing to do with pink or red nothing. I have watched this show and seen nearly all the women get caught up by the DM influx. why all of a sudden she is now more outgoing? dude, if you don't read between the lines, that is fine, well I do.
Chandler and Mishna are cracking me up. I hope they continue communicating. They have great energy.
They are not communicating
These are the people who get married more, the simple and humble people, not the superficial and shallow ones seeking clout.
Bingo!
Not one lie told ❤
Yes❤
Very true
Speaking of that, Russell Wilson said that's exactly the reason why he married Ciara. She was down to earth and humble. He pulled out his wallet with a stack of money in it and she was not impressed. She also didn't try to change herself to satisfy him like other women did.
3:24 I love her accountability. “People were kinda right!” Self awareness is so attractive!
@@NubianNefertiti EXTREMELY
For sure..It's so much easier to communicate with people who own their ish..
Finally two normal ppl who are super cool and genuine not clout chasing. They are full of energy, and they are so fun to listen to. ❤
Except "clout chasing" is the new normal. They are an anomaly. I love that for a young couple. ❤❤
I still "liked" your comment. 😊
REALLLLL
The genuine vibing with each other and having fun and exciting dates. Nothing radical, like 300 dollar day at an expense restaurant! This how it should be when you meet someone, but enjoying each other. There is nothing like an expensive interview date.
It's very refreshing seeing black people being comfortable in their skin. There is no pressure on having to follow stereotypical black culture in America.
Lol anime is not black culture...you guys love to claim everything but when other races do braids (which you didn't even start) you all go insane
@@stephenhenry5823do you know how to read
I agree!!! I Hope that people don’t purposely choose to misconstrue your comment.
@@noellerobin9896 o well! It is what it is. I just believe in being yourself. Some of us have had the peer pressure of trying to conform to society.
very well said
They’re a perfect match for each other. Just look how they’re feeding off each other during this sit down.
They have good chemistry and it is clear
Perfect friends
@@maxlogan7388lonely
Best couple to ever couple on the show
I love it for them
100%!
I agree!
Right omfg
So far i would have to agree
This is what natural chemistry looks like! I love them!!! Their personalities compliment each other. The lady is hilarious, her personality didn’t get to shine in the first episode! Had no idea she was this funny. Best of luck to them!!! #Beautifulcouple 💍💍💍❤
UPDATE: I was wrong. Chandler turned out to be a real immature, insecure weirdo
Why??? Did I miss something?
Shoutout to the modest dressing women out there!! Dont change for anybody, pleaseeee 😭
The women y’all don’t want in real life
The women y’all don’t want in real life
@@tsade6119you decide the women that men want? 🤔
@@EhhRell shout-out to women wearing whatever they want and feeling comfortable with their clothing choices. People don't have to subscribe to your respectability politics.
@@Mike_1nce_More🤣🤣 why are you mad at me shouting out modest dressing women? 😭
Bro chandler's articulation and confidence is so cool!
I love his his articulation.
Agreed! I love how he speaks. Reminds me of President Obama for some reason.
@@ShellyBee1208Right!!
🙄
@alexisporter6613 that was b4 seeing who he truly is ,so pls dont you dare
Shoutout chandler he stood ten toes that down when they questioned his ‘style’. “ THIS IS WHO I AM !!!”
Love it, that’s why he attracted the right women for him,
@@greg20423 for real. You can’t fake authenticity and someone unwilling to conform, is someone you should rock with and be proud to stand behind. It’s traits like that which has stood up to the oppressors for eons in our history. Too many sheep not enough shepherds !
Those other women don't know what they're missing.
Hollered 😂😂😂😂
Yea Esther was the one he had to explain that too and get this, Esther is supposed to be this woman of God judging people based on a fit lol ..
Being understood is my favorite thing. The chemistry makes me happy. I'm so happy they are enjoying their time together. They are literally the cutest!
& I just wanna say how beautiful they both looked in this! Mishna’s makeup was on point, loved the lip combo & how she stayed true to her style. Chandler looking fine close up, clean look, & also stayed true to his style. They don’t give trendy at all, very a authentic people & it manifests in their appearance 😍
@@ShayLamere they gave us " don't judge the book by its cover". They are a beautiful union
@@kgoalemoleboe4854 & did!! Put that saying to the TEST honey!!
@@kgoalemoleboe4854 They laid it to REST chile!!
No drama… no wild turn of the tables… just a genuine match that turned into an even better connection. W couple 🔥
What does W mean?
@@karenhendr1x Win.
this video is the definition of third wheeling 😭😭😭 they have so much chemistry
I know right!!! 😭😩
Right! Cause I definatelg felt like a third wheel
LITERALLY they match so good
two genuinely good down to earth people
Arlet actually seems uncomfortable not negatively just like in a “I have no idea what yall are even talkin about yall like each other so much let’s go ahead and end this video” 😂 the conversation and vibes between them are so quirky, authentic, cute and exciting ! Ugh I love this a lot ! I hope we get another update !
Being with a woman that likes you for who you are is priceless.
Three dates and they’re both feeding of each others energy which seems to be authentic and pure. I hope this is the first couple to have an update telling us that they’re married
Marriage is the sexual intercourse for it is written :
Matthew 5:[37]But let your word be Yea, yea; Nay, nay; but what is more than these is from evil.
1 Corinthians 7:[9] *But if they have NOT CONTROL OVER themselves, let them marry; for it is better to marry than TO BURN.*
Do not fall for the Roman's Empire definition of marriage with the state, for it is written:
Luke 20:[25] *And he said to them, Pay therefore what is Caesar's to Caesar, and WHAT IS God's to God.*
One guy proposed in the catch-up. But they'll probably do the same eventually.
Man I had a lot of hope for this couple! He seemed so ready and willing to love and so did she. I’m excited to see their outcome.
Factz they gonna make it. They gonna be the 1st or 2nd couple.
they looked the match so much! I am so happy to see this!
I love that the 1st date was at Barnes and nobles just for the vibe! This is how you date people. Your country and talk and learn about each other! It’s not about money and flexing it’s about a bond!! We have lost the true essence of dating! Social media got y’all tripping! I knew they’d date seriously outside the show! So dope! …. THE TRUTH!!
These two are my tribe! I'm a geek for life! Congrats to both of them! This is what being true to yourself looks like.
Facts! Anime, arcades, bowling, books from barnes & nobles or libraries, scifi shows/movies (star wars, star trek, & all the rest), video games (in moderation), healthy competition. Just chill. Nerdy & outdoorsy is perfect combo.
Chandler's actually the coolest, most interesting, and most engaging man they've had on.
💯💯I enjoy his personality too!
@@dcm2dcg ya but nobody wants him. because of the way he dresses. SMH
Agreed
@@Vernetv as long as they're not dressing vulgarly, I feel like judging people based off of attire is not only extremely childish, but also ignorant and can even lean towards elitism at times.
@@An_American_Man Elitism and modern sistas go hand in hand.
Wish i could surround myself with ppl like these 2. Theyre not stuck up or judgemental. They're down to Earth. They dont seem fake or like they gossip too much. They dont give off "trying too hard" vibes. They just seem confident in themselves and not like they have have a spirit of competition, and that they compare themselves to other ppl. Its refreshing to see ppl like these 2. No wonder they matched.
People like this are usually in Barnes and noble/ chess clubs/ painting / very artsy events.
@DiamondDs504 Right. I seriously need a life. Ppl im around, I'll ask them what they do for fun..... "Oh, i just smoke and chile." Or "I watch anime and play video games." or "Im in the club every weekend tryna be ghetto fabulous." Lol
I knew a girl just like her, lighthearted, funny, a gamer with such a positive personality. She dated Asians and others outside of her race because “black guys judged her and didn’t get her”. Both of them seem happy to have met and spend time together. I’m happy for them!
She is actually very pretty. Naturally! I wish them the best! They seem like genuine unproblematic people! Here for this! 😍👏🏽
Nothing but genuine vibes and authenticity. They compliment each other very well.
Lmao she took accountability for the aunty fit! Such a fun girl ❤😂
Loved that ❤
Instead of being loud and fighting it like that one girl who got mad when he said she look like his auntie
She’s so cute! I love their authenticity- the geek in me is happy for these two.
@@MummysFave-vw6gp lmao the auntie girl came from me of Instagram and called me a "half breed" not a nice person at all.
accountability?!! Like something is wrong with that outfit? WTH?!! I look for girls like that, this world is so upside down I swear.
This is my favorite follow up and I didn't expect it to be. They're both so authentic and quirky and cute
Mishna is a comedian I'm glad she and Chandler are working on being good friends first.
Yeah, i wonder if they will actually be more than friends. I don't see romantic chemistry with them but hopefully.
@@1Sakks0yeah. Chandler is not all the way there.
Nice match hope it works out well
@@mottie77ful Queen you not even qualified
@@jimpodolski7871😂😂😂
Mannnn I am cheesing! I love a love story but a NERD LOVE STORY?? I'm obsessed
OBESESSEDDDDD‼️‼️ ya hear me!!! 🫠
FACTS
Same. This just hits different.
Very authentic and wholesome. A great and solid foundation.
Hopefully it’s left at this and not be over shown on SM. Good luck to them
They bounce off each other so well. This is one of the few catch ups that Arlette didnt have to lead or ask a million and one questions to get the information. Arlette was in their world and i love it. I wish them the best
Yes like it was so short and to the point I wasn’t even mad 🤣🤣🤣
This made my heart smile. Two beautiful authentic vibrant young people who made a connection. I love to see it.
Only update I’ve ever been interested in.. fingers crossed that they actually kept in contact! Want my Haitian sis to win!
Same
Same
Dated a Haitian girl last year and a lot came wit that. Im curious to how her fam life will play a part
@@bayarea510 what does that mean? Just curious
@@ladylaurenia In terms of us dating or the family part?
Arlette's energy is so positive and infectious and gets you hooked
I really hope they stay together long term. They are both attractive and have great energy. They synergize.
Barnes & noble reading thru manga ? My inner child just screamed 😭❤️
I never clicked so fast 😂Arlette asked her to explain her outfit 🥹😂😂😂😂😂!!They may actually get married I can feel it 😅
I LOVE them together! They both have great personalities and seem so ready and receptive to love..I hope they make the distance. They already seem so comfortable and natural with one another! ❤️🤞🏼🥰
Me too
Me too😊
Arlette wasn't needed for this interview. Lol.
Shout out to Chandler and Mishna. Lovely couple.
I love their connection. They are able to be their authentic selves around each other. That is so important. They seem like a great match!
I love them together. They’re both so secure in themselves, genuine and seem sweethearted. The BEST match so far on the show. No ego. I hope they go the whole distance. This is what healthy black love looks like and what healthy black love could and should be.
Chandler is fine he’s def in his own lane which can make him seem eccentric and a lil nerdy. But he’s playful and cool too
He is eccentric and nerdy, and I think he would agree with you and be 💯 comfortable with that.
Yas he is gorgeous
I hope they stay together.
Bruh Chandler making it rain on face time is funny AF 😂😂 Mishna had to be like them anime pockets deep lol
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The fact she watches it too made me extra happy 😭🥲
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Out of all the updates, this is the best match update I’ve seen. Their chemistry is unmatched ! Both really genuine.
Their interaction on that episode had me smiling the whole time!
They are so perfect for each other! This is the best connection on the show so far! They both have beautiful personality's. This is proof you don't need a lineup of people to want you, you just need one!
💞 CHANDLER IS CUTE, and I love how he is UNAPOLOGETIC about his "individual" style.
His attitude is "take it or leave it," and I like that.
Contrary to popular belief, WE LOVE NERDS OVER HERE! I would rather deal with that, than a POOKIE, RAY-RAY, or "D-Boy" that can't stay from behind bars or don't support their kids!!!
We nerds love y'all too ❤❤❤❤❤
Guess the definition of Nerds is different nowadays. Smh
@@denz310 😘
@@augustbaby8254 A nerd is a nerd in my book.
I love to read "different" books, but a BOOK IS A BOOK and they come in various categories for a reason...I LOVE THE "NERD" CATEGORY.
You can’t be a black woman
When he said “ not motherly but reserved “ I loved that because she wasn’t naked and she looked good and she was comfortable and I love wedges too girl . 😊❤❤❤❤❤🎉
Omg I love her ❤ She so real and modest and honest! Go head girl!!
Not sure if anyone else cared but the part about her needing to go into sephora was so cute to me 🥹😂, like he went with her and gave her time to go where she needed and loves (her being a makeup artist) but also finding a way to include himself and get her input by asking about the cologne. Love this chemistry and them finding joy in things they have in common ❤.
I know ppl love drama and watch this show for the negative comments to make jokes but I actually enjoy seeing the positive side of finding love. These two are very encouraging, they are building a foundation. 3 small fun dates where they can just be themselves and enjoy one another. I hope she gets more authentic people who actually want to find love not promote themselves or get clout. ❤
I love these two. Two genuine level headed people comfortable in their skin. A true rarity.
Mischna representing 🇭🇹. You go girl. I hope they last. They really matched. I love the follow-up Arlette does.
I love this couple's energy and friendship!
This type of chemistry is rare. Glad to see folks happy fr 🙏🏼
Some might even say.. GodRare.. (dragonall joke)
Not my cheeks hurting from smiling thru the whole video!! I already knew what it was from the thumb nail AND how short the video was lol. I love them together! I haven’t followed ANYONE from this show until Mishna I love her personality and it seems like she and Chandler are complementary to each other.
Mine too!
I was smiling this entire interaction!!
Me too😊
my face hurts 😁
Right!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 me too
Gotta love a confident woman who can laugh at herself and not be offended by anyone’s opinion ❤
She has us waiting like fiends for a fix. Supply and demand has us wrapped around the block scratching our necks looking for the next video. lol
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That part!!!!!!!!!
😂😂😂 I swear my lips turned chalky white, and I cant stop scratching & rocking back & forth.... feening. I dont even click on any other pop the balloon but this channel
@@moonlitkhemistry 😂😂😂
I love that they’re just simple, genuine, and humble. Don’t care about all the extras. Just down to earth. My type of people!
This is the only catch up I was able to fully watch until the end. Not because of Arlette that I wasn’t able to watch the other ones…it was the people. This couple kept me entertained and I was smiling the entire time. They are so genuine and down to earth. No one was on bs. I love it and I wish them much happiness and long love and friendship! ❤
Agreed sis.
Same! I don't have the attention span for the rest... They talk too much!
These two are my favorite match so far! And it's been said before that Arlette is such a great host! It comes so naturally! I appreciate that she gives everyone room to talk.
They’re literally the VERY FIRST set of people to look how they looked on their original episode.😂😅 She just has on glasses.
Edit because somehow it’s not being understood what I’m saying: THEY ARE RECOGNIZABLE!!! They may be glowing and their outfits or her make-up and glasses may be bringing out something but they still. Look. The same!😅
Yes, for the guy
Completely disagree her outfit on the eposide looked low budget she looks amillon times better in a classy fit and glasses
@@samuelnjenga1761 I meant their faces! Everyone’s says how people always looks different on the catch-ups, that they don’t recognize them! But these two are completely recognizable here and have the same face! I mean because ofc their outfits and etc are different so it gives a different look but she (and him) still looks like the same person….
No cap
Agreed. I never recognized the thumbnails until this one.
Arlette always serving looks
And she doesn’t miss!
They are so perfectly matched this is adorable! Also everybody saying the other girls missed out, they 100% didn’t miss out anything, they wouldn’t have meshed well. They fit with each other.
I love this couple. They are so fun and light hearted. It’s refreshing to see them. Definitely one of the best couple hands down.
Nah, those ladies fumbled on Chandler. He’s actually very handsome, modest and he has a bag. These two make a great couple.
Nope. He’s a nice guy but you still need someone with similar interest. None of those other girls are going to want to watch and talk about anime all the time .
@@Candy004 I guess, but I’m a huge NBA fan and wear NBA jerseys sometimes when I’m out. None of the women I dated cared about basketball but we still dated.
Fr!!!! I was so frustrated. He's a keeper.
@@Candy004 I mean personally, I don't like watching anime. But if the dude I was with was interested, I'd occasionally watch and talk about it. It's really not that serious, people like things and can have hobbies separate from you lmao
I think what you are correct about is, some girls are interested in certain personas, and he doesn't meet that at all. He is very much himself.
@@Candy004shit ima street nigga and i watch dragonball z and naruto so it probably was more to it than just anime
They need to do a podcast or something TOGETHER! The way they feed off each other is organically natural! Best update yet💯
Yes..chandler & mishma show!!!
That’s a great idea and would be great!
She could be a radio show host/broadcaster. She’s very articulate. Love that.
I can see these two host a podcast haha
Finally, no drama, just two nerds that like each other 😂
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Watch their After the Catch Up episode … this might change your opinion
@ I watched it. It was messy!!
Why was I checking every few hours for the next episode yesterday!?!?!? 😂Mishna is so cute and hilarious!!!
I love her so much 😂❤
Right! They slipping 😂😂😂
I was too 😅. Its my Wednesday evening guilty pleasure lol
Girl yes, I was just waiting yesterday and nothing 😂
Mannnn I was excited at work waiting for the next episode yesterday 😅
I genuinley loveeeee this couple and pray that they grow into something real and beautiful! I had a smile on the whole interview
Me too!
Best matched couple on the show. I love their energy together and how they bond over anime and they definitely bounce off each other. Great energy and I love that they are on the same page with the pace of the relationship! I hope they keep dating!!!
this was cute af. I adore both of their personalities. They are the epitome of living in your own truth and not giving af if other people agree with or understand it.
They look so good and happy! I love this for them. Together or not, they would be able to create a bomb ass friendship from this!
I agree with you
Im so happy to see 2 blk "nerds" find love without feeling like they had to date outside the community. Love it ✊🏿🙏🏾
I really like them for each other, their personalities seem to vibe really well together. I'm rooting for y'all!!
This right here shows what is meant for you is meant for you! Don't switch up to fit in just be yourself!