I experienced terrible rage and it was from a narcissistic so called friend, she even attacked me the last time. I cannot even imagine what it’s like living with one of these demons. This was just a friend and it made me ill, thankfully she is no longer a friend or in my life.
@Shadow-b3t9e Thank you I stayed in it for five years. The last straw was when he punched me in my stomach. Even after I got a restraining order, six months later he came by my house and damaged all four of my car tires. I saw him that morning walking away, but because I didn't have a camera in place I couldn't prove it. I have a camera now. I still watch my surroundings but I am happy to be out of that. I do feel if I had allowed my ex to stay in my company any longer it would have gotten worse. I knew it was time to end it. It's been a little over two years now.
Great video! It’s shocking how covert narcissists manipulate others while hiding behind a false persona. This really helped me understand the signs better!
Leading double lives - hypocrites - holier than God publicly, and Satan himself privately - Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde. Pretending to build you up publicly, reality is tearing you down privately. Truly a snake who has slithered up from the pit of hell itself. I actually knew such a person - the godliest church pastor you've ever met.
@teresadvorak6145 True, but it seems these narcissists insular cortex responsible for empathy and love was never downloaded remaining empty. A narcissistic parent, usually the mother never showed love and used the child as an extension of themselves, even reversing the parent/child roll. Narcissistic Personality Disorders like type 2 diabetes are hereditary as learned diseases. Just one is mental abuse, while the other is physically damaging by teaching bad eating habits. Unfortunately, in particular, a covert narcissist never grew up emotionally. If this can be repaired at an adult stage, it would require accountability, which is also lacking in these damaged souls. It's not their fault what they are, but it is their fault when they lie through omissions, gaslight, manipulation, and cheat. They know what they do is wrong, but they don't understand other people's feelings or care about anyone but themselves. This includes their own children.
@@terrywhelan6651 Your vivid descriptions resonate deeply; only a survivor can talk like that. The uninitiated ones (looking at you @nopereradicator) seemly are incapable of comprehending.
The 2 personalities she's referring to are the false self and the dark entity. Basically, their public, while outside of the house personality (acting) and their at home when no one is watching personality. The 3rd hurt inner child comes closer to Mortification when the above 2 collapse when caught up in their lies. It is a personality you wish you could forget but never will.
You are so beautiful. Most of the abuse survivors I have met are beautiful and the narcs always looked so completely out of place. Being with a narc is somewhere we never belonged. We should never have been there
The single most rewarding investment I made was an investment in myself to heal. NEVER allow a narcissistic person in your life. They're out to destroy your soul.
100% correct, she literally changed overnight, it was like getting hit with a truck, I didn't know what was going on, a literal narcissistic sociopath all of which I knew nothing about at the time...... As for the flying monkeys.... They have no boundaries, they are deranged.
You are describing my mother 100%. She was constantly threatening to disown me, and she did twice, until I finally walked away for good. It wasn't just me she wanted to control, it was my thoughts and opinions and interests as well. If they didn't line up with what she demanded, I was always punished. I would never give in and go along to get along like my siblings. I was the problem child always causing her trouble and grief. She was always listening in on my phone calls on the other extension, going through my private things in my room. In my personal experience, she reveled in playing the role of victim on the outside from other people in order to gain attention, sympathy, and "supply". When I was growing up as the scapegoat, I always thought there was something really wrong with me, she made me believe that. When I grew up and left home, I began to ask the question, "What the hell is wrong with you? Why do you hate me that much? Are you jealous of me? What is it exactly?" Now after going no contact 17 years later, whenever I look back the only conclusion I have is that she simply was just evil. All narcissists are evil. When I was married the first time to one, we went to marriage counseling after I gave birth to our son. After our first couple session together, I was set up to be counseled privately. I was told by my psychotherapist that I must leave asap while my child is still a baby. Told me that he won't change, they never change, the marriage won't get better. Said to quietly plan it and not tell him, just pack up and go while he is away at work. They were worried for my safety, said they believed he was dangerous and might harm me or worse. They told me to go to the courthouse and get a pfa when I leave. Boy were they right. I am really glad I listened to them. You guys are doing really great work, you don't get enough credit in society today as being essential. I appreciate all you mental health workers. You are the nurses of mental health. Much love to you, and to all the rest ❤ ♥
@@meme-zv7kw No contact. I had no choice. I am a Christian, so I fasted and prayed about it, and I knew that was the only way I could heal was to cut ties. With all of them, as she turned my entire family against me lying about me telling them all I was a drug addict and my cousin who was my best friend that I was planning on trying to seduce her husband and steal him away from her. All narcs, I have concluded through my own personal experiences with them, aren't just mean or sick, they are evil. In my case, she could not control me, she could not k177 me, so she set out to destroy me and my reputation whatever way she could. I have no regrets, understandably. I only wish I had done it a little sooner. 💛
She never gave me any privacy, always rummaging through my things and reading my notes and journals. A lock on my door was never an option and had to be open even if my girlfriend's were over. Sick and controlling.
The double lives of the narcissists interacted is how they got away with committing domestic violence for decades. I need to leave them to speak my truth, my experience with them to recover from being their victim for so long.
I am in shock. I cannot even wait until the end of your video. I paused it at minute 4:19 My soon to be ex spied on me with cameras at our home for 26 months! Anyone out there if you’re going through a divorce and you have a home security alarm system with cameras, call an alarm company and have them check your system I had a malfunction with one of the cameras and called for service, however, I didn’t want to use the company that I had been using during my marriage (because my ex was friends with the owner) I called a different company and they brought it to my attention. They could tell that someone was remotely viewing the cameras offsite from a desktop and a mobile device. The service tech called the previous alarm company and demanded that they disconnect I’m not tech savvy. I may have gotten some of these details wrong but it’s true. Protect yourselves! It’s worth the service fee, call and do it !
Be very careful when texting with these people - I knew one that would change the wording of text messages sent to them and forward those messages to others - to paint the original sender in a bad light. Those changes can be quite subtle but still enough to cause conflict and/or tarnish a person’s reputation. They are such devious creatures 😈
Just listening to this makes me feel ill, drags me back to that hell that I escaped from. No one has described my ex so explicitly. It's frightening. I thought I was a man but I never stood a chance. Ouch, ouch, ouch.
This describes my ex friend, she makes out she is very caring and helpful when in fact the opposite is true, she will talk about the people she has helped behind their back in a derogatory way. I challenged her on some of her behaviour and I got the narc rage. I finally saw through her with her triangulation, gaslighting, demeaning behaviour. I feel sorry for her partner if I went through hell with her and I never saw her that much, what must he be going through. Awful people run from them.
Wow!! Thank you, you have described them very well, my eyes are starting to open to the many narcissists in my world, i also grew up with a malignant narcissist mother.
Being publicly defamed is hard to suppress the sheer anger knowing that no reaction is better than a reaction all to the delight, sometimes pleasurable form of coercive control for the toxic leeching toxic predators
This is my ex husband and children's bio father to the T!!!! It's been 15 years he is still putting me down to the children, playing the victim and will drive by places he knows that I'm at. One of my children has completely went no contact two others are impatiently waiting (and I don't blame them)for their 18th birthday. One of the children asked me the other day "tell me again why you thought it was a good idea to marry him" I just said because I was young (I was a teenager) and stupid and had no understanding of what I was getting myself into....
Your description fits my ex wife of 13 years perfectly. Because I loved her so much, I endured her systematic and relentless torture all those years thinging that if I tried hard and long enough I could MAKE her happy. Huge mistake. You will never fill the enormous hole they have in their soul. Unfortunately for me, the light bulb never came until my life was utterly and completely destroyed. No way short of a miracle, could I ever recover the massive damage she inflicted upon me. She is without a doubt FILLED with demons.
Wow, my narc woman once picked up my journal. I asked her to give it back which she did. However, the next day she asked me what it was, was it my journal? I said yes it was, and I normally keep it locked in my filing cabinet. Of course she was offended I didn’t trust her. It wasn’t that at all, I just kept all my important papers in there with valuables.
Support, withdrawal, silence, and favoritism within the group - on repeat. Keeps everyone involved chasing - constantly. Popular in corporate and dysfunctional families.
This guy (my friend) secretly synced his phone to mine, stole things from me and lied to me. But all his other friends would never guess that he has done all these things. To them he’s so much fun, so caring, the best friend you could ever want.
Because they deceive you at first - they are the most loving, kind , respectful people you can meet. Once you fall in love - the abuse begins- slowly, covertly ….
Indeed. Thankfully I don't have this problem. My small circle is enough for me. I don't have the patience nor will to entertain that nonsense. Life's short
It is well with my soul. I have no friends and neighbors keep a distance bc of slander-so no secrets bc I have been scapegoated and outcasted by being a truth teller. So there’s that. I can care less about the public and keeping up appearances. I am a narcissist survivor over the physical and digital. It is well, with m y soul.❤
When their eyes no longer reflect light and their soul has left their body. And when they enjoy every moment of the misery, they cause you. There is no limit, including turning your entire family against you when your child is dying.
@@dgvfsa66 - I have heard of this. I never saw it- until 2 nights ago. A woman I know, at karaoke, started chanting in Latin; her eyes had black holes in place, no white at all.
People claim ,like myself, that they have different personalitys. Like a two year old trying hard to get what they want. Before they learn exceptance, patients, honesty, emathy for others, safety, and self awareness, reasoning, exsetra. They are mentally, and emotionall incapeable of understanding these simple prinsibles. Sad!
I get confused as to whether someone is borderline or a covert narcissist… I’ve been going through hell with a friend of mine and she said she was diagnosed with borderline a long time ago, but she also uses all these tactics 😕 it makes it harder to know how to tackle the situation
My sister in her sixties and me in fifties. She will rage if I point out "that was a little selfish what you did to me and it hurts. Rage overcomes her. Yhan she starts taking away her car even for my job. Its treating me like a child. I work shes on ssi and hasnt had a job in thirty years. If i bring up how I feel its dicipline time. A guy where she gets groceries asked her out and she was nice until next day and is completely ignoring me hanging out with neighbors. I have to be her dutiful sister or dicipline time and talks smack about me to neighbor. I hate living with her. I was her 😅 caretaker for nine months or slave for her broken shoulder but you would think she was dying. Now shes done with me and its tome for me too disappear shes done. I cant stand her
stellar vid. . .so in thd 70s, they would attend SWING parties and F their g/f´s HUSBANDS. .found the right one for long term supply the older man after humiliating her husband, my dad. . she´s even worse/abusive and more skilled with age
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You just determine a person I lived with for 15 months thanks God I get out now I’m facing false accusations in court and she asking for no parenting time for my child and tried to sneak a deal for me to give her full custody and she will removes her accusations against me the worst part is the judge don’t even care about the truth , is enough for them when they see a victim is female automatically she will be believed even this person has ten years of domestic violence alcoholism drug use and abuse attempted murder of her ex boyfriend no one cares to see that’s this person is awful on top of that she’s an ex prostitute that’s pretend to be a Christian for the first month on top of that she suffer from hallucinations and again she’s on pills for schizophrenia but you will be surprise the judge granted her a protective order even tho I was abused for 12 months she admitted that on a record I live in Arizona need help it’s unbelievable how those people get away with stuff
Very useful - helping me to see through the MOST UNLIKELY candidate for covert natcissist - my super religiously dedicated church pastor! Interestingly, Jesus Himself told such people that prostitutes and publicans (financially "shifty" tax collectors) would get into heaven before they would.
While having a bad childhood can create personality disorders, and its not their fault, it’s up to them when they become an adult to take responsibility for their issues. Nobody has the right to abuse and harm people
They aren't always mean, but just indifferent and withhold love through neglect. They have no loyalty.
The "Rage" I experienced while I was in my Toxic relationship was awful! I am so happy to be out of that!
Same.
I experienced terrible rage and it was from a narcissistic so called friend, she even attacked me the last time. I cannot even imagine what it’s like living with one of these demons. This was just a friend and it made me ill, thankfully she is no longer a friend or in my life.
@Shadow-b3t9e Thank you I stayed in it for five years. The last straw was when he punched me in my stomach. Even after I got a restraining order, six months later he came by my house and damaged all four of my car tires. I saw him that morning walking away, but because I didn't have a camera in place I couldn't prove it. I have a camera now. I still watch my surroundings but I am happy to be out of that. I do feel if I had allowed my ex to stay in my company any longer it would have gotten worse. I knew it was time to end it. It's been a little over two years now.
Its crazy how they cause us to rage
Me too
Triangulation/smear campaign …falling out with people you have never spoken to.
Very accurate explanation.
Thank you:
Great video! It’s shocking how covert narcissists manipulate others while hiding behind a false persona. This really helped me understand the signs better!
Leading double lives - hypocrites - holier than God publicly, and Satan himself privately - Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde. Pretending to build you up publicly, reality is tearing you down privately. Truly a snake who has slithered up from the pit of hell itself. I actually knew such a person - the godliest church pastor you've ever met.
They have a 3rd personality.
The hurt inner child.
Once you've seen it, you will never forget.
Well, all of us have an inner child ❤
@teresadvorak6145 True, but it seems these narcissists insular cortex responsible for empathy and love was never downloaded remaining empty. A narcissistic parent, usually the mother never showed love and used the child as an extension of themselves, even reversing the parent/child roll.
Narcissistic Personality Disorders like type 2 diabetes are hereditary as learned diseases. Just one is mental abuse, while the other is physically damaging by teaching bad eating habits.
Unfortunately, in particular, a covert narcissist never grew up emotionally.
If this can be repaired at an adult stage, it would require accountability, which is also lacking in these damaged souls.
It's not their fault what they are, but it is their fault when they lie through omissions, gaslight, manipulation, and cheat.
They know what they do is wrong, but they don't understand other people's feelings or care about anyone but themselves. This includes their own children.
@@teresadvorak6145This comment alone means you have no idea what she’s talking about.
@@terrywhelan6651 Your vivid descriptions resonate deeply; only a survivor can talk like that.
The uninitiated ones (looking at you @nopereradicator) seemly are incapable of comprehending.
The 2 personalities she's referring to are the false self and the dark entity. Basically, their public, while outside of the house personality (acting) and their at home when no one is watching personality.
The 3rd hurt inner child comes closer to Mortification when the above 2 collapse when caught up in their lies.
It is a personality you wish you could forget but never will.
You are so beautiful. Most of the abuse survivors I have met are beautiful and the narcs always looked so completely out of place. Being with a narc is somewhere we never belonged. We should never have been there
So true.
I've just spent 33 years as a victim of what I now understand is a narcissist !
I've lost everything !
@@Steve20333 Bless you❤️
Take one step in your healing❤
You have gained yourself. That’s big. Not easy for sure. Go no contact. Im out a year now after 34 years. Good luck to you❤
@Blewsi-p1e 💜
I'm so sorry. You can recover and restore your life
The single most rewarding investment I made was an investment in myself to heal. NEVER allow a narcissistic person in your life. They're out to destroy your soul.
If you thought they were attractive it doesn’t take long after you’re married to wonder how you could have ever thought that.
100% correct, she literally changed overnight, it was like getting hit with a truck, I didn't know what was going on, a literal narcissistic sociopath all of which I knew nothing about at the time...... As for the flying monkeys.... They have no boundaries, they are deranged.
You are describing my mother 100%. She was constantly threatening to disown me, and she did twice, until I finally walked away for good. It wasn't just me she wanted to control, it was my thoughts and opinions and interests as well. If they didn't line up with what she demanded, I was always punished. I would never give in and go along to get along like my siblings. I was the problem child always causing her trouble and grief. She was always listening in on my phone calls on the other extension, going through my private things in my room. In my personal experience, she reveled in playing the role of victim on the outside from other people in order to gain attention, sympathy, and "supply". When I was growing up as the scapegoat, I always thought there was something really wrong with me, she made me believe that. When I grew up and left home, I began to ask the question, "What the hell is wrong with you? Why do you hate me that much? Are you jealous of me? What is it exactly?" Now after going no contact 17 years later, whenever I look back the only conclusion I have is that she simply was just evil. All narcissists are evil. When I was married the first time to one, we went to marriage counseling after I gave birth to our son. After our first couple session together, I was set up to be counseled privately. I was told by my psychotherapist that I must leave asap while my child is still a baby. Told me that he won't change, they never change, the marriage won't get better. Said to quietly plan it and not tell him, just pack up and go while he is away at work. They were worried for my safety, said they believed he was dangerous and might harm me or worse. They told me to go to the courthouse and get a pfa when I leave. Boy were they right. I am really glad I listened to them. You guys are doing really great work, you don't get enough credit in society today as being essential. I appreciate all you mental health workers. You are the nurses of mental health. Much love to you, and to all the rest ❤ ♥
What did you do to heal ?
yeah, that's true, the nurses of mental and psychological health. Jill really knows the ins and outs well.
@@meme-zv7kw No contact. I had no choice. I am a Christian, so I fasted and prayed about it, and I knew that was the only way I could heal was to cut ties. With all of them, as she turned my entire family against me lying about me telling them all I was a drug addict and my cousin who was my best friend that I was planning on trying to seduce her husband and steal him away from her. All narcs, I have concluded through my own personal experiences with them, aren't just mean or sick, they are evil. In my case, she could not control me, she could not k177 me, so she set out to destroy me and my reputation whatever way she could. I have no regrets, understandably. I only wish I had done it a little sooner. 💛
@@meme-zv7kw I shared but yt is hiding my reply. You may be able to view it under the newest tab at the top of the comment section 💛
It is unfortunate that adult children are able to procreate and punish their offspring with psychopathic narcissism.
She never gave me any privacy, always rummaging through my things and reading my notes and journals. A lock on my door was never an option and had to be open even if my girlfriend's were over. Sick and controlling.
How they all play by the same script, still is beyond me.
The double lives of the narcissists interacted is how they got away with committing domestic violence for decades. I need to leave them to speak my truth, my experience with them to recover from being their victim for so long.
You are so right. I've been there too. We cannot heal at the feet of those who abuse us. No contact was the thing that works❤
Thank GOD I walked away and called off my engagement. It was subtle but I realized this is who she is
Good for you. 👍
My nex had one emotion and that was rage. Around others he was Mr. Nice Guy.
Good video!!👍
I am in shock. I cannot even wait until the end of your video.
I paused it at minute 4:19
My soon to be ex spied on me with cameras at our home for
26 months!
Anyone out there if you’re going through a divorce and you have a home security alarm system with cameras, call an alarm company and have them check your system
I had a malfunction with one of the cameras and called for service, however, I didn’t want to use the company that I had been using during my marriage (because my ex was friends with the owner)
I called a different company and they brought it to my attention. They could tell that someone was remotely viewing the cameras offsite from a desktop and a mobile device.
The service tech called the previous alarm company and demanded that they disconnect
I’m not tech savvy. I may have gotten some of these details wrong but it’s true. Protect yourselves!
It’s worth the service fee, call and do it !
He likely also has spyware software on your phone and computer.
Be very careful when texting with these people - I knew one that would change the wording of text messages sent to them and forward those messages to others - to paint the original sender in a bad light. Those changes can be quite subtle but still enough to cause conflict and/or tarnish a person’s reputation. They are such devious creatures 😈
The reality the victim tells about the covert narcissist, deems the victim crazy, because of public facade of the narcisist.
Just listening to this makes me feel ill, drags me back to that hell that I escaped from. No one has described my ex so explicitly. It's frightening. I thought I was a man but I never stood a chance. Ouch, ouch, ouch.
Yes Yes Yes ! I can’t stand being with this horrible narcissist anymore !
My mother. She was hellbent on destroying me since I looked like my dad.
@@sheilathomas6215 🍏❤️
This describes my ex friend, she makes out she is very caring and helpful when in fact the opposite is true, she will talk about the people she has helped behind their back in a derogatory way. I challenged her on some of her behaviour and I got the narc rage. I finally saw through her with her triangulation, gaslighting, demeaning behaviour. I feel sorry for her partner if I went through hell with her and I never saw her that much, what must he be going through. Awful people run from them.
They will put headphones on or turn a vacuum cleaner on to mute you..
Wow!! Thank you, you have described them very well, my eyes are starting to open to the many narcissists in my world, i also grew up with a malignant narcissist mother.
Thank you for explaining emotional blackmail. This video has brought clarity to my experience that I recently left.
The intrusive control is skirting the law.
Life saving advice.
Brilliant clip. Thanks so much.
Thank you so much for your videos ♥️
Being publicly defamed is hard to suppress the sheer anger knowing that no reaction is better than a reaction all to the delight, sometimes pleasurable form of coercive control for the toxic leeching toxic predators
This is my ex husband and children's bio father to the T!!!! It's been 15 years he is still putting me down to the children, playing the victim and will drive by places he knows that I'm at. One of my children has completely went no contact two others are impatiently waiting (and I don't blame them)for their 18th birthday. One of the children asked me the other day "tell me again why you thought it was a good idea to marry him" I just said because I was young (I was a teenager) and stupid and had no understanding of what I was getting myself into....
I’m so happy for you dear. Did you expose him to them or did you allow them to see him for themselves?
You explain my ex so well
I like your artwork for this piece. It is a perfect illustration of my CN wife.
Double comment: all of this is true! I dealt with two at the sometime. A mother and day.
If they live 2000 miles from you & they wanna know if you own property is this suspicious?
100% spot on.
Your description fits my ex wife of 13 years perfectly. Because I loved her so much, I endured her systematic and relentless torture all those years thinging that if I tried hard and long enough I could MAKE her happy. Huge mistake. You will never fill the enormous hole they have in their soul. Unfortunately for me, the light bulb never came until my life was utterly and completely destroyed. No way short of a miracle, could I ever recover the massive damage she inflicted upon me. She is without a doubt FILLED with demons.
Wow very great video!! Thank you
My MIL perfectly summed up in a video.
Wow, my narc woman once picked up my journal. I asked her to give it back which she did. However, the next day she asked me what it was, was it my journal? I said yes it was, and I normally keep it locked in my filing cabinet. Of course she was offended I didn’t trust her. It wasn’t that at all, I just kept all my important papers in there with valuables.
You describe my childhood with my mother and the marriage to my ex husband. People have absolutely no idea. No contact with them
Thank God im finally divorced from this monster
👍❤️
Support, withdrawal, silence, and favoritism within the group - on repeat. Keeps everyone involved chasing - constantly. Popular in corporate and dysfunctional families.
Once you're in their cross hairs, it will never end.
This guy (my friend) secretly synced his phone to mine, stole things from me and lied to me. But all his other friends would never guess that he has done all these things. To them he’s so much fun, so caring, the best friend you could ever want.
The thing is their whole life is a lie.
@@victordevonshire807 ❤️
Yes all of this🙌🏻My mother was a great example💯
My sister.😮 narcissister that is.
Most people in reality tv have a personality disorder.
Thats why most of them suffer from depression
They're not suffering from shit.
My mother is described throughout the whole video.
Lmao the thumbnail for this video is SPOT ON. The beautiful lady on the left is the same psycho on the right. This is my cheating wife to a T.
I've heard enough. Why would anyone spend more than five minutes with them?
Because they deceive you at first - they are the most loving, kind , respectful people you can meet. Once you fall in love - the abuse begins- slowly, covertly ….
What if it’s your parent? Supervisor? Neighbor (and you own)?
Clue is in the title
Give people time that’s the problem so many rush into things. You will see there true color give them time.
Indeed. Thankfully I don't have this problem. My small circle is enough for me. I don't have the patience nor will to entertain that nonsense. Life's short
Being a target sucks 😉😢
Really struggling to know if I am a scapegoat or a covert narcissist
If you're wondering you're not a narcissist - a narcissist wouldn't entertain the idea
It is well with my soul. I have no friends and neighbors keep a distance bc of slander-so no secrets bc I have been scapegoated and outcasted by being a truth teller. So there’s that. I can care less about the public and keeping up appearances. I am a narcissist survivor over the physical and digital.
It is well, with m y soul.❤
At what point does their abuse become psychopathic
When their eyes no longer reflect light and their soul has left their body. And when they enjoy every moment of the misery, they cause you. There is no limit, including turning your entire family against you when your child is dying.
When the trap springs shut.
Wondered the same. I think malignant covert narc?
@@dgvfsa66 - I have heard of this. I never saw it- until 2 nights ago. A woman I know, at karaoke, started chanting in Latin; her eyes had black holes in place, no white at all.
@@notaclue822 - They can take years setting you up.
So ironic that the cover photo shows a crazy redhead... all redheads like my ex are insane and love to hide it
People claim ,like myself, that they have different personalitys. Like a two year old trying hard to get what they want. Before they learn exceptance, patients, honesty, emathy for others, safety, and self awareness, reasoning, exsetra. They are mentally, and emotionall incapeable of understanding these simple prinsibles. Sad!
Excelente 📗🖊️
Get out of karmas way. You can't fix the people of the lie.
I get confused as to whether someone is borderline or a covert narcissist… I’ve been going through hell with a friend of mine and she said she was diagnosed with borderline a long time ago, but she also uses all these tactics 😕 it makes it harder to know how to tackle the situation
Sorry I should say “most” of these tactics as she’s doesn’t have the cheating behaviour going on
Borderlines easily slip into secondary psychopathy. They're Cluster B as well. Separate yourself.
@@elizecampbell9466 borderline-narcissistic disorder, 🍏
I am a 73 year old man married 50 years i still does know her
My sister in her sixties and me in fifties. She will rage if I point out "that was a little selfish what you did to me and it hurts. Rage overcomes her. Yhan she starts taking away her car even for my job. Its treating me like a child. I work shes on ssi and hasnt had a job in thirty years. If i bring up how I feel its dicipline time. A guy where she gets groceries asked her out and she was nice until next day and is completely ignoring me hanging out with neighbors. I have to be her dutiful sister or dicipline time and talks smack about me to neighbor. I hate living with her. I was her 😅 caretaker for nine months or slave for her broken shoulder but you would think she was dying. Now shes done with me and its tome for me too disappear shes done. I cant stand her
@@Mysticalvibe1 ❤️
stellar vid. . .so in thd 70s, they would attend SWING parties and F their g/f´s HUSBANDS. .found the right one for long term supply the older man after humiliating her husband, my dad. . she´s even worse/abusive and more skilled with age
Ps, the email address attached to this message ( is NOT MY EMAIL ADDRESS, but has a photo of me that I have never been the "author" of the email address as "person and author of the above comment.
My ex was tragic 1 question why burn her self horrible burns on her stomach
Jill...
Are you related to Jerry Wise in any way? Just curious.
Great video topic. X
No, I’m not. At least that I know of 😂
Would it be likely that a female covert narcissist would be loving to their children but abusive to their husband?
@@littlebird2037 Nope
You just determine a person I lived with for 15 months thanks God I get out now I’m facing false accusations in court and she asking for no parenting time for my child and tried to sneak a deal for me to give her full custody and she will removes her accusations against me the worst part is the judge don’t even care about the truth , is enough for them when they see a victim is female automatically she will be believed even this person has ten years of domestic violence alcoholism drug use and abuse attempted murder of her ex boyfriend no one cares to see that’s this person is awful on top of that she’s an ex prostitute that’s pretend to be a Christian for the first month on top of that she suffer from hallucinations and again she’s on pills for schizophrenia but you will be surprise the judge granted her a protective order even tho I was abused for 12 months she admitted that on a record I live in Arizona need help it’s unbelievable how those people get away with stuff
@@kevinkonga7324 And in court too!
My ex wife
Very useful - helping me to see through the MOST UNLIKELY candidate for covert natcissist - my super religiously dedicated church pastor! Interestingly, Jesus Himself told such people that prostitutes and publicans (financially "shifty" tax collectors) would get into heaven before they would.
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Narcissist has worst childhood. They are mentally ill😢😢
Why not everyone understand this
Cause it's not true lol
@nyxcole9879 narcissistic personality disorder development by low self esteem
Low self esteem caused by self doubt 😔🤔
@SanathaniKarmaYogi Wrong. Its genetic
@@nyxcole9879 Thank u for ur clarification 😮🙏
That means narcissist will not change into good person 😔😶💀
While having a bad childhood can create personality disorders, and its not their fault, it’s up to them when they become an adult to take responsibility for their issues. Nobody has the right to abuse and harm people