When a Dad Realizes His Son is a Psychopath

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @ExploreWithUs
    @ExploreWithUs  Рік тому +5468

    I hope you're enjoying the new releases, the goal is to get one video released on this channel every week, which has been a challenge, but we are working hard to make it happen. Our main objective is to not sacrifice quality for quantity. Stay tuned, we will continue working hard to produce new content for you. I hope you all had a wonderful weekend!

    • @taraharvey8123
      @taraharvey8123 Рік тому +101

      35:24
      🤔🤔🤔
      *Thus far.. I have a feeling Ethan is doing "Roids"! And it would definitely explain his erratic behaviour and his anger!*
      *I have seen "Roid Rage" and it looks a lot like this!*

    • @Mcfc2Rich
      @Mcfc2Rich Рік тому +253

      Yep, please don't water down your content, I'd rather wait longer for what you keep producing

    • @spicyirwin5835
      @spicyirwin5835 Рік тому +42

      Thx this was my Halloween horror story. This will stay with me for days. Judy saved so many victims from being hurt. Obviously she shouldnt have been killed. What is the answer tho? Judy did everything rt, didnt she?🙄

    • @CrochetLover85
      @CrochetLover85 Рік тому +88

      I would NOT expect content of this quality to be released once a week, every week. Unless you're taking off several months a year, like with television. ❤❤

    • @spicyirwin5835
      @spicyirwin5835 Рік тому +29

      ​@@taraharvey8123Maybe but Ethan has zero empathy or compassion. Mixed with roids: YIKES🥺

  • @ZessXXify
    @ZessXXify Рік тому +19843

    This kid is like if a cartoon bully wandered into the real world. Truly unbelievable

    • @gnosticmind
      @gnosticmind Рік тому +174

      Unbelievable as in I don’t believe a word of it…

    • @grantkeller4634
      @grantkeller4634 Рік тому +266

      Sigma grindset

    • @Merpsicles
      @Merpsicles Рік тому +483

      Down to the appearance and mannerisms, bro. I'm honestly impressed.

    • @DagosArts
      @DagosArts Рік тому +552

      Dude's austistic and thinks this is how you're supposed to act.

    • @negaless1144
      @negaless1144 Рік тому +14

      Been around for like remember

  • @cjones1499
    @cjones1499 Рік тому +5325

    It's absolutely unforgiveable that the father ignored the mother when she said "I'm scared he will kill me in my sleep". Absolutley disgusting. A mother doesn't say that about her son lightly

    • @alexisjune892
      @alexisjune892 Рік тому +316

      I've said this about my son since he was 11 yrs old, he's now 25. He's been arrested 19x he's currently in prison. What do you think the father should have done? This is a real question because I've been so upset that his dad can just walk away and leave me with this kid that can kill me. But I also think what else can he do? It hasn't happened yet and it's either me, him or his wife. Idk. 🤷‍♀️

    • @godwarrior3403
      @godwarrior3403 Рік тому

      ​​@@alexisjune892Keep your distance. Get cameras around your house, as best as you can afford. Get good locks, reinforced doors that make it harder to break in without letting you know something's happening. Get a firearms and learn how to use it, and keep it easily accessible to you, not unloaded and in a safe where you can't get it in time. Don't ever reach out to him first. If he contacts you, that's fine. If you ignore him when he reaches out, it may cause anger, but if you don't reach out yourself, he may get distracted with life and sort of forget about you for long periods. You'll never be 100% out of the risk zone, but there are things you can do to make it easier for yourself and harder for him. Good luck.

    • @albertoalmeida3424
      @albertoalmeida3424 Рік тому +259

      @@alexisjune892 A father has the duty to protect his wife, even against his own children. I heard this from a catholic dude. Like, if the children raise their voice and disrespect the mother, the father must intervene and protect the wife. I guess it is like a family hierarchy thing.

    • @bodhi_satfa
      @bodhi_satfa Рік тому +165

      ​@@alexisjune892He is 25. He's gonna have to sort things out on his own...you can support from afar if at all. But be careful what personal information he has access to of yours, especially if you move. If he's too far gone and that unstable, it may be best to run away and never look back.

    • @PeterSWiley
      @PeterSWiley Рік тому +25

      I would have to agree with you. Disgusting

  • @jolenepotter664
    @jolenepotter664 Рік тому +3304

    What’s sad is that this woman told multiple people that she was afraid of her own son and everyone, especially his father, thought she was being over dramatic. And eventually she lost her life. This kid needed help long before this happened. He should have been in residential treatment several years before the murder.

    • @philosopherwithin
      @philosopherwithin Рік тому +120

      Is there residential treatment for psychopathy? For minors? Oh god! What an awful place to work. Can you imagine being a completely ignored counselor there?😱 I’m a counselor in a residential facility for criminal behavior and addiction. And I thought my clientele was rough…

    • @1cont
      @1cont Рік тому +25

      Hindsight is 20/10

    • @lydtrashnumber1
      @lydtrashnumber1 Рік тому +93

      yes, I've seen kids as young as 3-10 years old in psychiatric facilities for violent behavior. its pretty sad@@philosopherwithin

    • @Doritofeet666
      @Doritofeet666 Рік тому +10

      Agree with original comment

    • @ladeeshaw-py3qt
      @ladeeshaw-py3qt Рік тому +6

      ​@@philosopherwithinyep pavilions or behavior health hospital

  • @BiomedicalDesigns
    @BiomedicalDesigns 3 місяці тому +420

    This kid told a psychiatrist, a school counselor, and a teacher that he had these repetitive thoughts to kill, and they did nothing. Not to mention adopting as his idol a murderous psychopath.

    • @forpetessake3532
      @forpetessake3532 3 місяці тому +17

      sadly our laws don’t cover charging a person for what he MIGHT do - and we got rid of insane asylums years ago - we need them back ! they would be full

    • @forpetessake3532
      @forpetessake3532 3 місяці тому +2

      this kids extremely dangerous and crazy

    • @AndreaRiccardi-NYC
      @AndreaRiccardi-NYC 2 місяці тому +6

      Yeah, the mental health community dropped the ball on this one.

    • @meechiebaby493
      @meechiebaby493 2 місяці тому +9

      The psychiatrist has a duty to warn, so I don't know what happened there. The teacher is a mandatory reporter, so wtf? I believe that the counselor would be a mandatory reporter as well. So many people failed that poor woman. What a shame.

    • @a.azazagoth5413
      @a.azazagoth5413 2 місяці тому +5

      For people saying that no one can do anything until an actual crime is committed is not completely true. Orders of protection can be filed, mental health observations with psychiatric professionals can be arranged and her can be put on medication.

  • @sdl1998
    @sdl1998 Рік тому +6533

    I’ve never seen anyone be equal parts disturbing and try hard cringe at the same time. Quite a unique collection of traits you got there kid.

    • @charliechurch5004
      @charliechurch5004 Рік тому +44

      Yes! Lol

    • @Psilocybrina
      @Psilocybrina Рік тому +145

      This is quite a leap of relevancy to your original comment but this makes me question afterlife a lot. How can heaven be unconditional bliss where you can see what's happening on earth when you get murdered by your son who turned out to be a psychopath? Imagine holding your kid for the first time with the incredible feeling of loving your child, and then fast forward 15 years later. Genuine mindf*ck

    • @CQ-369
      @CQ-369 Рік тому +93

      Worst acting I've ever seen!

    • @fugginrambo
      @fugginrambo Рік тому +78

      ​@@CQ-369He's right up there with top WWE Wrastlers

    • @AMNEZ1A
      @AMNEZ1A Рік тому +147

      I had to force myself to finish the video, the cringe was so intense that I had to skip through some of his "acting". I truly hope he'll be ridiculed for this for the rest of his life.

  • @Cjewell0422
    @Cjewell0422 10 місяців тому +3789

    Sad & pathetic how he thought his yelling and banging on a table would intimidate grown men because he used to intimidate & control his poor mother.

    • @katarinatibai8396
      @katarinatibai8396 9 місяців тому +57

      💯💯💯this.
      This "kid" islike Alex from "The clockwork orange" muvie.
      I bet he has seen this muvie and decided that this will be his prefered method to bullie people.

    • @katarinatibai8396
      @katarinatibai8396 9 місяців тому +37

      ​@@kubricksghost6058My father's "normal"
      That's ehy this shit doesn't work on me.
      But grew up with one of his kind was a freaking nightmare.
      I am so glad that he is 6 feet under.

    • @ludwigwittgenstein1280
      @ludwigwittgenstein1280 9 місяців тому +19

      I bet she would tolerate it because of her own issues. Sadly it didn’t end well.

    • @mariejones2669
      @mariejones2669 9 місяців тому +9

      Much to late for that tantrum

    • @mariejones2669
      @mariejones2669 9 місяців тому

      ​@@katarinatibai8396wth is muvie

  • @jessicasnyder4507
    @jessicasnyder4507 7 місяців тому +358

    I hope they deny his parole.. forever.. he should never be allowed out of prison.

  • @missm3881
    @missm3881 3 місяці тому +90

    This kid's voice is absolutely grating, he's incredibly immature and mocking. Is he trying to be that obnoxious????? The detectives had zero control over this interrogation.

    • @thewhitelodgery
      @thewhitelodgery 2 місяці тому +2

      'Holmes!'

    • @avriel9527
      @avriel9527 2 місяці тому

      ​@@thewhitelodgeryMore like: Cluso - or should that be: "Clueless!" 😒

  • @MattyH1992
    @MattyH1992 Рік тому +6755

    This dude is just one small step above the "I'll unleash my bipolar" kid, mentally.

    • @Chiefland7
      @Chiefland7 Рік тому +162

      Yep. He reminds you of him huh 🤣

    • @ERICA72766
      @ERICA72766 Рік тому +126

      Lol. He did remind me of that kid!

    • @lindarackstraw7711
      @lindarackstraw7711 Рік тому +89

      Ha ha ha. I remember that. Never saw it unleashed tho 😁

    • @Alikatt9
      @Alikatt9 Рік тому +13

      Same

    • @yakattack93
      @yakattack93 Рік тому +35

      LMAO I was thinking the same thing!

  • @niphrim
    @niphrim 6 місяців тому +1121

    Mom asked father for help and he thought she was being dramatic. I hope that haunts him forever.

    • @lostenvy4258
      @lostenvy4258 6 місяців тому +43

      She could have called to have him admitted to a ward. She could have helped herself just sayin

    • @TheBaumcm
      @TheBaumcm 6 місяців тому +37

      Mom failed him too. Sucks she paid the price but your one job as a parent is to make sure your kids make it to adulthood without effing their futures.

    • @hannahkristiansen1568
      @hannahkristiansen1568 5 місяців тому +69

      But when you're feeling scared, confused and unsupported you question yourself. And you love your kids, you hope your love is enough to help them through anything.

    • @tracydull1369
      @tracydull1369 5 місяців тому +55

      Ethan himself requested to see his counselor every week and dad said every 2 weeks was cheaper!

    • @estelladog1
      @estelladog1 5 місяців тому +21

      Nice thought. But no one cared least of all the father.

  • @lorahunter180
    @lorahunter180 6 місяців тому +773

    This individual should not be released from prison ever.

    • @carlhunton9516
      @carlhunton9516 3 місяці тому +25

      Yeah, out in 9 years, a fully confirmed murderous psychopath...

    • @jomoland
      @jomoland 3 місяці тому +20

      @@carlhunton9516he’s out in 9?? God help us.

    • @katattack907
      @katattack907 3 місяці тому +18

      You'd think the Supreme Court would make an exception for minors who are clearly dangerous psychopaths.

    • @jacobsirois2862
      @jacobsirois2862 3 місяці тому +6

      @@katattack907the only issue is that you can’t diagnose any child under the age of 18 with ASPD. The brain is still developing and it could always just boil down to a kid reacting to their environment. Kids that display ASPD traits can outgrow them, but you can never really tell until they’re adults.

    • @katattack907
      @katattack907 3 місяці тому +4

      @@jacobsirois2862 that's a good point about the existing diagnostic categories for minors. But this kid was what, 16? Do many teens actually grow out of their callous/antisocial behavior after that age (genuinely curious if you have any stats)? For that matter, if our brains keep developing until 25 or so, should 18 year olds even be held responsible as adults for their violent actions? And couldn't you make an argument that an adult with ASPD is also just reacting to their environment? Psychopathy is a neurodivergence that really intrigues me because its consequences can be extremely harmful and we really don't have effective tools or strategies for dealing with it yet.

  • @FerenswayRecords
    @FerenswayRecords 3 місяці тому +82

    Ethan mocking people for being influenced by books and movies while sitting there trying to talk and act like Patrick Bateman is wild.

    • @wesker-luvr
      @wesker-luvr 3 місяці тому +2

      literal projection

    • @thewhitelodgery
      @thewhitelodgery 2 місяці тому

      I remember Bateman calling people 'Holmes' a lot...
      Worst projection ever. lol

    • @justapanpirate
      @justapanpirate 2 місяці тому

      At some points like the “think of him as a business” he follows up with “his book” and it honestly sounds like he believes Bateman is the one who wrote it.

    • @WhatsInYourSkillet
      @WhatsInYourSkillet Місяць тому

      @@thewhitelodgeryis that where the “homes” is from?! Sheesh…beyond cringy

    • @bunniesandbeauty700
      @bunniesandbeauty700 Місяць тому +1

      Yeah that lack of self awareness there was lowkey hilarious

  • @kt1pl2
    @kt1pl2 9 місяців тому +1306

    Bullying his mom--this little jerk is disgusting. Made her life hell and then he murdered her.

    • @saythankyou111
      @saythankyou111 8 місяців тому +30

      I was just thinking how sad to see your son killing you🕊❤️🕊❤️

    • @ToddBerthiaume
      @ToddBerthiaume 8 місяців тому +14

      Sad but should have been disbached at a young age , so sad

    • @jasmeena1010
      @jasmeena1010 8 місяців тому

      Can’t even imagine the torture this pos has put on her. Poor woman

    • @rdvbailey5990
      @rdvbailey5990 6 місяців тому +6

      What did she do or didn't do with her child since he was born? Why did he become this guy? What happened?

    • @ironiron-nf3oc
      @ironiron-nf3oc 6 місяців тому +5

      Yes that’s a really good question. I think parents should held accountable too , that many time he said i have this monster that need to kill.
      1:50 told the psychiatrist he needs more medicine 💊
      I think the horror movies can get somebodys brain in reallY bad ideas , if they are too deep in.
      Those psycho in the fillms that he watched was his idols.

  • @magnetdance
    @magnetdance 9 місяців тому +1020

    He's so infuriating to listen to. I can't even imagine how much worse it was for his poor mother.

    • @charlesku4308
      @charlesku4308 7 місяців тому +1

      And this kid is in SEVERAL AP courses?
      What state is this? He sounds dumb as shit.

    • @amberturdcoloringbook1733
      @amberturdcoloringbook1733 7 місяців тому +7

      Similar to the movie "Let's talk about Kevin"

    • @crob949
      @crob949 7 місяців тому

      Exactly!!!! And obnoxious narcissist sociopath/psychopath

    • @fgdfgdfgdfg4tgrdfg
      @fgdfgdfgdfg4tgrdfg 6 місяців тому +7

      Imagine that attitude on a daily everyday all day on repeat poor mom is not even strong enough to explain how I feel toward that poor lady. She seem so nice on top of it ;w;
      Remind me of Sid from Toy Story

    • @TheBaumcm
      @TheBaumcm 6 місяців тому +3

      Not trying to victim blame but I’m not going to act like she was some poor put upon mother who had no hand in creating him. Many parents of divorce parent by guilt, not wanting to give their kids more discomfort than necessary. Kid learns he can leverage that guilt or even parents against each other. Not saying it’s easy to overcome for the parent but you have to recognize that you’re doing it. Had a friend whose brother was SA’d at a young age. Mom became more permissive and excused his behaviors as a result of the trauma. His sisters are both functional adults, holding good jobs. He is in and out of prison, has multiple kids by multiple women and broke into his last job.

  • @Caleb_son_of_God
    @Caleb_son_of_God Рік тому +2466

    Sad thing is that this kid thinks he’s a badass and that he’s intimidating. Kids got a rude awakening on the horizon.

    • @carolw8579
      @carolw8579 Рік тому +122

      Many years in the CLINK will fix that really quick😮

    • @morivenit
      @morivenit Рік тому +204

      @@carolw8579One attempt at talking back like he’s hot shit and it’s over 💀

    • @ElSantoLuchador
      @ElSantoLuchador Рік тому +145

      I disagree. This kid was born to be an enforcer for the aryan brotherhood. He's going to be just fine on the inside.

    • @SaltyFloridian
      @SaltyFloridian Рік тому +39

      You could be right about that. He may have to be broken down a bit first so he behaves himself and takes orders without question.

    • @dontfckwithspiders5684
      @dontfckwithspiders5684 Рік тому +107

      And he's the star of "When the killer is cringe" 😂

  • @pistol80
    @pistol80 4 місяці тому +70

    If this kid would have uttered, "I have not reached my final form!", I would be be like, "There it is."

  • @brrrrrrrrino
    @brrrrrrrrino 6 місяців тому +577

    So many people keep blaming Judy for not institutionalizing him but she didn’t even have the power to do that. Mental health professionals need to put in those requests and begin that process. Everyone failed her. Even the people in these comments that keep victim blaming her.

    • @AnnWright-jb2dw
      @AnnWright-jb2dw 5 місяців тому +9

      She needed to keep reporting him until it could not be ignored. She could have secured the house afainst him. He had a father to go to.

    • @emilycarter2492
      @emilycarter2492 5 місяців тому +48

      The harsh reality is that personality disorders like ASPD (psychopathy) are nearly impossible to treat, so the chance that any amount of treatment would have resulted in him not ultimately becoming a violent killer, is infinitesimal. He was probably going to become a killer eventually regardless of how much therapy he received.
      His mother should be remembered as a victim who heroically sacrificed her life so that the monster who murdered her was unable to take the lives of numerous other victims. The fact is that his mother was the only person who he had even the tiniest emotional connection to in any way. Killing her facilitated a very small reactionary response in him, which resulted in a short pause of his spree as he walked to his father’s home. She is the ONLY victim that was able to temporarily curtail his plans to immediately go on a massive homicidal spree, which could have included the most vulnerable and innocent. If his first kill would have been anyone else, he would not have temporarily paused and many more people would have lost their lives in horrific ways. His mother’s sacrifice saved countless innocent victims that night and she should be honored for her sacrifice by every viewer.

    • @AnnWright-jb2dw
      @AnnWright-jb2dw 5 місяців тому +7

      @@emilycarter2492 When parents know they have a psychopath in the family, they should do everything in their power to let people know so at least they can be forewarned. In this case the mother was killed, in many cases it is hidden from everyone and innocent people are murdered.

    • @tracyanne8616
      @tracyanne8616 4 місяці тому +9

      Truly horrific for the poor woman. No thanks to his dad.

    • @AnnWright-jb2dw
      @AnnWright-jb2dw 3 місяці тому +3

      @@brrrrrrrrino Incorrect. The MH professionals have to be told there is even a problem first, they don't pluck their information out of the air. The family or caregiver or whoever should report/request help or whatever is needed and do so repeatedly until they are heeded. Things escalate unnoticed if the people at the centre do nothing, anc pass responsibility onto a third party to do something. The squeaky wheel gets the oil.

  • @Mylifeisnotmyown
    @Mylifeisnotmyown Рік тому +6497

    Watching this kid defend himself is just like watching a 1980’s job training video. Like, if the police academy had a low budget interrogation training video…..

    • @christinasmith272
      @christinasmith272 Рік тому +271

      With all the bad actors , irrelevant statements, extreme dramatizations && voices 🫢

    • @Chloe__________xx
      @Chloe__________xx Рік тому +89

      Lmao nailed it.

    • @Chloe__________xx
      @Chloe__________xx Рік тому +213

      Acting level: p0rn

    • @klof4276
      @klof4276 Рік тому +118

      Knew the guy from high school... Big into the anime club... Real piece of work...

    • @professordogshit
      @professordogshit Рік тому +18

      hahaha this just cracked me tf up

  • @YMS137
    @YMS137 10 місяців тому +1356

    A life sentence for murder should not be considered to be "cruel and unusual" punishment. The thought that this monster will be eligible for parole in 10 yrs is frightening. The legislators are really screwed up.

    • @deannausernametaken
      @deannausernametaken 9 місяців тому +135

      Insane that people are doing time for drug deals. Prison should not be a “penalty.” It should be to keep the rest of us safe. This man is clearly not safe.

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 9 місяців тому

      The system is more worried about controlling illegal finances than keeping citizens safe, messed up @@deannausernametaken

    • @Raffterman2003
      @Raffterman2003 9 місяців тому +22

      Fortunately, im pretty sure that judges can make an exception for specific heinous crimes and still give life without parole sentences to minors of certain ages.

    • @AT-sf1db
      @AT-sf1db 9 місяців тому +26

      Legislators commit crimes just as horrific as this., this boy wasn't born this way. This was learned behavior during the developmental stage of puberty via his exposure to inappropriate entertainment and literature.
      Lack of parental guidance and proper discipline I'm sure played a role in his character building.
      Parents need to be far more diligent in what they expose their children to and allow their children to come Into agreement and interest with.

    • @anasfilmproj
      @anasfilmproj 9 місяців тому +44

      @@AT-sf1db Idk how much of nurture is cause for this boys nature, he didn't show any remorse for doing something that most normal people would be in hysterics about

  • @jadeangel000078
    @jadeangel000078 4 місяці тому +39

    I get the feeling that this disturbed kid truly feels like he's a genius and also, probably thinks he's hilarious. This is so incredibly uncomfortable to watch at times.😬 I can't even imagine what his mother endured. It's all awful and heartbreaking.

    • @valkyriesshield
      @valkyriesshield 17 днів тому

      Well, AP classes means he is "smarter than college educated professionals"-he thinks.

  • @MrLSalazar714
    @MrLSalazar714 Рік тому +765

    This video shows how much difference there is between an excellent interrogator and an interrogator that should be taking notes.

    • @e.abrahamovich8981
      @e.abrahamovich8981 Рік тому

      I hope his sphincter is destroyed in prison every day for the next 60 years.

    • @JAnA-eu4pn
      @JAnA-eu4pn Рік тому +20

      Well said!

    • @theonlypinky
      @theonlypinky Рік тому +43

      my exact thoughts. it was more cringe-worthy then watching and listening to Ethan. Hopefully the video and its analysis can be used for future training.

    • @Epic_C
      @Epic_C Рік тому +45

      It seems he's wanting to retire and he doesn't care anymore.

    • @holahellomarhabahi2040
      @holahellomarhabahi2040 Рік тому +40

      @@Epic_C It's clear that he should. He doesn't listen, doesn't let the suspect "bond" over the thing he was passionate about, finally gets him talking then interrupts him repeatedly, has no idea how to drive an interrogation, eesh. Time to retire, dude.

  • @PunkersTV
    @PunkersTV Рік тому +1815

    Poor woman spent hours walking or aimlessly digging her garden just to avoid her own son. She must have scared witless. I cant begin to imagine the anguish. My thoughts are all for her.

    • @scoon2117
      @scoon2117 Рік тому +56

      That's why you keep your demon spawn in check.

    • @vl647
      @vl647 11 місяців тому +2

      I don't know. You don't think there is anything he knows that could help this world end the senseless killing?

    • @Mirabel1er
      @Mirabel1er 11 місяців тому +22

      She’s Resting In Paradise without a doubt. I would NOT have him in my home if I were feeling that way. It’s too scary. If I felt the intuition that my child was a danger to me; I’d place him or her in a mental hospital. It’s not safe whatsoever! Never take things like this lightly and think that it’ll go away. It’ll only get worse. My 16 yr old daughter acted very crazy when she was 16. Disrespectful & not listening to anything I’d told her to do. Didn’t want to focus on education. Top priority for me. I didn’t believe in spanking like my former father did to me & step-mother. So I told her she wasn’t allowed to go out. Especially on school nights. She was VERY UPSET! She literally tried to beat me up! I NEVER laid a hand on my “parents” that is w/o a doubt disrespectful and I never talked back either. Millennials now; they seem to cross boundaries due to having no consequences for their actions. I had to hold her fists as she kicked me. Telling her to stop. 💔😢 it hurt! Couldn’t believe how kids are & how they could do this to their own parents. Anyhow, she’d grown up & stopped talking to her former best-friend who influenced her to do drugs, and take a flight to Northern Cali to meet a boy she’d never met w/ his parents! I told her not to go. She ignored me. The parents influenced her to sleep w/ him! No condoms, etc! I was astounded! He’d NEVER had a gf b4 so apparently she’d lost it to him & moved to Iowa. 💔😢 I told her you don’t know what life is like. You haven’t even lived life to the fullest & haven’t experienced life! You can’t just go w/ this guy & think this is love! He doesn’t even have a proper education & doesn’t have a job. His parents are the ones influencing you. Don’t do this. I’ve always been accurate w/ what I’ve said. I told her it won’t go well. Don’t do this. You’ll regret it. 😔💔 Life is what it is. Very devastating for parents that love their children so much but yet they get assaulted by their own children. Absolutely brutal. May she be at peace and her family and friends remember her always w/ a big heart & her caring nature! 🙏🕊️🤍

    • @Aaron-i4k
      @Aaron-i4k 11 місяців тому +22

      ​@@Mirabel1erI think he probably would have killed her sooner if she reported him to some kind of mental institution. Unfortunately no matter how bad the child's behavior you can't send them to a place like that against their will. I don't know what I would have done. Probably just pack up my stuff and go

    • @islixxn
      @islixxn 11 місяців тому +8

      most likely delusional mother@@Mirabel1er

  • @kevinbrown6116
    @kevinbrown6116 Рік тому +3511

    The idea that someone like this can still be released back into the public is fucking terrifying

    • @mtss9566
      @mtss9566 Рік тому +129

      2033...😮

    • @racheltarentino3314
      @racheltarentino3314 Рік тому +214

      These people are everywhere

    • @frankiesaenz2081
      @frankiesaenz2081 Рік тому +1

      ​@naeberli9120 skin color?? Lmao you're the smartest out of all the kindergarteners aren't ya? Was OJ White ? No? 😂 plenty of other examples

    • @TophinatorStreams
      @TophinatorStreams Рік тому +1

      @@racheltarentino3314 About 1.2% of U.S. adult men and 0.3% to 0.7% of U.S. adult women are considered to have clinically significant levels of psychopathic traits. No, they’re not “everywhere”. There are between 0.5% and 5% of people in the U.S. may have Narcissistic traits. They may be who you’re referring to, but don’t be ignorantly spreading misinformation.

    • @jamesself3990
      @jamesself3990 Рік тому +23

      thank you know whos for twisting our legal system

  • @cosmicbodyguards4285
    @cosmicbodyguards4285 4 місяці тому +116

    Oh man. My nephew started to behave exactly like this toddler here. My nephew is 11 now but his extreme tirades began in 2020 when my father died. He is truly a terribly difficult child to be around and I find him terrifying. I will never leave him alone with my 2 year old son and I lose sleep some nights because I worry so much that he’s going to hurt my sister and brother in law one day. He has been admitted to the mental institution for children 2 times this year. No matter the countless thousands that have been spent on every kind of therapy you can imagine, medication & lifestyle changes my nephew just stays the same way.

    • @sunnyboknow
      @sunnyboknow 4 місяці тому

      He’s wired wrong .. I’m so sorry to hear that. He’s was born with some sort of brain disorder

    • @Godlylegion
      @Godlylegion 4 місяці тому +19

      I’m sorry you have to go through this, I’m sure it’s hard to think of your family like this hopefully things get better.

    • @JenniDoesCrimes
      @JenniDoesCrimes 4 місяці тому +15

      Sometimes this is just how people are. Could have been born with atypical neurology or it could have been under the surface and triggered by an event. And short of practically tranquillizing them, there’s a lot who just don’t respond to medication we currently have.
      I’m sorry you’re going through this and hope he is able to get effective help.

    • @BiomedicalDesigns
      @BiomedicalDesigns 3 місяці тому +9

      He is possessed. That is what it is.

    • @organfirebutgay
      @organfirebutgay 3 місяці тому

      @@BiomedicalDesignsyou don’t need to spread that bullshit right now pal. An exorcism isn’t going to fix a naturally rotten child. Almost nothing CAN fix people like that

  • @Godfamthem
    @Godfamthem 10 місяців тому +1495

    Why the hell would they let someone like this back out into society? His next victim will be their fault. Unbelievable

    • @charlottesmith946
      @charlottesmith946 10 місяців тому +78

      I agree our system is so broken.

    • @christinalikoski4937
      @christinalikoski4937 10 місяців тому +35

      Was thinking the same thing.
      2033 free. You must be kidding me.
      Australia 💕 Christina

    • @macielynn7761
      @macielynn7761 10 місяців тому +64

      The way he acts, he won't make it out of prison

    • @BillyJack85
      @BillyJack85 10 місяців тому +80

      One word: Liberals

    • @chestrockwell1794
      @chestrockwell1794 10 місяців тому

      These are the same people who fight daily to take the right to protect ourselves and our families away. I have been shocked at the monsters the judicial system has let out repeatedly over the last few years especially.

  • @Uzumaki_Barrage_
    @Uzumaki_Barrage_ Рік тому +1414

    The first thing the dad said when he was told his ex wife passed away was "Ethan did it, huh?" That was so amazing to look at how much they knew he was unstable and has been for a while. Has to be one of parents worst nightmares.

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 Рік тому +148

      Especially when you don't try to get help for your son. What's wrong with people!

    • @BOSSLADY_DMB
      @BOSSLADY_DMB Рік тому +62

      ​@@theresaohman7187exactly like I get that he knew his son & all but if you KNOW that much TELL SOMEONE!

    • @Ww-nh9pl
      @Ww-nh9pl Рік тому

      @@theresaohman7187not much help for people like this. Therapy is about it and people like this guy will manipulate and charm the therapist every step of the way. There is no help or cure for psychopaths

    • @CyrusMcWin-bd3sl
      @CyrusMcWin-bd3sl Рік тому +13

      Mother could have done it all. So her enabling and allowing the son to live with her and not kick him out. She is her own killer; really. Lmao

    • @eboyd2478
      @eboyd2478 Рік тому

      @@CyrusMcWin-bd3slYou sound fkd up in the head.

  • @forpetessake3532
    @forpetessake3532 Рік тому +1534

    can you imagine how this kid treated his mother after seeing how he acts with the cops ? scary, no doubt she was afraid .

    • @mr__southern1492
      @mr__southern1492 Рік тому +40

      If you failed this badly as a parent and you're afraid of your child you probably shouldn't wait around for them to kill you, Maybe seek help or send them away to a place that can be more of a success than you.

    • @haretyper4954
      @haretyper4954 Рік тому +20

      ​@eh-i1841 that sounds the most safe, and makes sense in the spirit of safety, but as a minor, she'd be charged with abandonment and neglect. Parents don't have a lot of options with things like this. Police also have their hands tied often in domestic violence situations and say to take it to civil court. I can't even imagine having to have to deal with this. It's absolutely heartbreaking.

    • @haretyper4954
      @haretyper4954 Рік тому +105

      ​@@mr__southern1492don't victim shame this woman.

    • @Gizzardx0
      @Gizzardx0 Рік тому +3

      @@haretyper4954Why?

    • @alabama.worley
      @alabama.worley Рік тому +16

      ​​@@haretyper4954I don't see that as victim shaming. It's spreading awareness, so as to educate others who may be dealing with personality disordered children. Dialogue is necessary in order for action to be taken, rather than shaming someone under the ironic guise of them being the one causing unwarranted shame.

  • @Topper_Harley68
    @Topper_Harley68 4 місяці тому +74

    Letting him loose will be a big mistake.

  • @TheRockgremlin
    @TheRockgremlin Рік тому +1524

    By far one of the most heinous and callous EWU cases I've ever seen. This kid should *NEVER* be paroled.

    • @Yumyanownsuall
      @Yumyanownsuall Рік тому +80

      I thought the same. I've seen so many of these and this kid sickens me more than any other interrogation. He thinks he's making a movie.

    • @momsdiva71
      @momsdiva71 Рік тому +67

      I agree. This kid is literally evil. He doesn't deserve to see the light of day outside of prison or in an institution. The thought of him being among society truly frightens me.
      RIP to his mother.

    • @michellenatsumi4666
      @michellenatsumi4666 Рік тому +40

      He's no longer a kid now and I think he should be on the death row... Having no feelings for killing the person who brought him into this world... it's really sad how he was being influenced mentally by movies and books.
      RIP to his mother, Judy.

    • @markogaudiosi5243
      @markogaudiosi5243 Рік тому

      ​@@momsdiva71why? Probably his mom was a bitch.

    • @DaVinciSketch
      @DaVinciSketch Рік тому +59

      He certainly will kill again if released

  • @PinePrince
    @PinePrince Рік тому +1119

    “Why would I kill my mom? She bought me expensive things.” Disgusting. I lost my mom when I was young and I can’t imagine that being the thing I remember or brag about her for. Smh

    • @JayOne44
      @JayOne44 Рік тому

      What's wrong with being incredibly kind and generous and being remembered for such 🤔 there's nothing disgusting about that. Now this pos on the other hand is psychopathic maniac.

    • @boooooof731
      @boooooof731 Рік тому +45

      sorry for your loss, im sure watching shit like this must make ur blood fucking boil

    • @PinePrince
      @PinePrince Рік тому +37

      @@boooooof731 Thank you and yes it does.

    • @Haruspell
      @Haruspell Рік тому +22

      Same for me.
      My dad died and this grown ass man saying this pisses me off.
      I hope you’re doing ok
      ( he died due to Covid 19 when I was 8 )

    • @PinePrince
      @PinePrince Рік тому +20

      @@Haruspell I’m sorry for your loss. Just remember to always keep your guard up. People like us who lose parents at a young age can be even more susceptible to addiction later in life and it can get when you least expect it. Luckily I was able to get clean and turn my life around but many of my friends weren’t so fortunate. I’m rooting for you. Just stay strong.

  • @vivian_joan
    @vivian_joan Рік тому +690

    I just want to say that I love how accurate this channel is regarding diagnoses.
    So many people throw around the term “psychopath” and “antisocial” in incorrect ways and never talk about Conduct Disorder. Fantastic job, EWU!

    • @hoebywan
      @hoebywan Рік тому +52

      Conduct Disorder is just psychiatrists saying we can't diagnose them with psychopathy or ASPD yet because they're too young.

    • @spicyirwin5835
      @spicyirwin5835 Рік тому +17

      What should Judy have done to survive Ethan. She got him mental health. Yet no cure for lack of empathy & compassion. I believe Judy being killed by Ethan saved so many more victims. He has smarts to learn how to kill like his role models.

    • @vivian_joan
      @vivian_joan Рік тому +13

      @@hoebywan some kids “outgrow” conduct disorder or they have a different personality disorder that cant be distinguished at their age/maturity…but ultimately yes😂

    • @hoebywan
      @hoebywan Рік тому +31

      @@vivian_joan "some kids “outgrow” conduct disorder" could also mean they were misdiagnosed and were autistic or similar.

    • @vivian_joan
      @vivian_joan Рік тому +10

      @@hoebywan yeah. Like with kids it is so hard to truly diagnose/distinguish certain disorders (i.e. ODD vs DMDD vs conduct disorder) because you cant really see what the kid would do on their own (in some cases) if that makes sense. Like would they do worse things if their parents aren’t around? If they could drive on their own? Etc. 😬
      Edit: That’s why i added the quotes😂

  • @actuallyapathy
    @actuallyapathy 4 місяці тому +15

    the fact that this kid genuinely believes he's the smartest person in the world despite barely being able to get out a coherent sentence, or go 10 seconds without a random outburst is truly embarrassing.

  • @theresahouseman4246
    @theresahouseman4246 6 місяців тому +1068

    Dear God! How in the hell did that first detective last 30 yrs with his department? WORST interrogation tactics EVER!

    • @spiwolf6998
      @spiwolf6998 6 місяців тому +122

      After binge watching this channel for the past two weeks I thought maybe he was just unseasoned and didn't have a lot of experience. When he said he's been doing this for 30 years, I balked. 😮

    • @M.ds87
      @M.ds87 6 місяців тому +149

      Because he's one of those old career boomer man's man kinda guys.
      "well, I mean.. Frank HAS been with the department for a decade, where do we put him..? Vice? Narcotics? He NEVER missed work..."
      Next it's like "well, shit... Frank is up for a review, but he's really holding back the newer guys on narcotics, he calls Marijuana dope, and couldn't spot anything else right in front of him... Like they had meth and crack on the table and he mentioned it was all clear except drywall on a scale... But it was crack... Well.. Fuck it... Put him on homicide, it's been, what... 5 years since we had one of them?
      Yeah.. Homicide.. Then just let him coast until retirement.. Still never missed work but I think he's drinking on the job now too... "

    • @lostenvy4258
      @lostenvy4258 6 місяців тому

      White boomer privilege

    • @nickalasd.1091
      @nickalasd.1091 6 місяців тому +11

      ​@@M.ds87well I can tell what your favorite class was 😅 shit was funny also

    • @777Maranatha
      @777Maranatha 6 місяців тому +42

      EXXXACTLY!
      I’m utterly speechless 😶 😮
      33:39 what appears to be happening is that the detective is completely incompetent and is doing everything to destroy any rapport with this sick guy, instead of trying to get on the same side with him to get him talking!
      I don’t think I’ve ever seen such an incompetent lackadaisical interview of a suspect in my life.

  • @kellycuckoo3143
    @kellycuckoo3143 5 місяців тому +139

    I can barely take this kid a minute. I can’t comprehend how anyone could live with him. I feel so terrible for his mom. I hope she has peace now.

  • @liamfslal
    @liamfslal Рік тому +1365

    This guy is the worst liar I have seen in a long time! I mean yes, he is guilty as all hell, but even though the detective skipped quite a few commonly used steps in interrogations, this kid didn't stand a chance! He reminds me of that "Don't make me break out the bi-polar" guy that helped that Ellie girl in the murder of her father.

    • @alexandergreenfield91
      @alexandergreenfield91 Рік тому +31

      Yes I agree entirely....

    • @pixiehopper8
      @pixiehopper8 Рік тому +81

      He totally reminds me of the bipolar guy too!

    • @FatalPhenom
      @FatalPhenom Рік тому +60

      Oh man that guy was a goofball. Wasn't his name like Russell or something?

    • @-HeyLyd-
      @-HeyLyd- Рік тому +33

      Agreed. However well-read he was and no matter his good grades, the way he tried to explain away the obvious clues of his guilt along with the silly illogical story of this 'other killer' was like listening to a pre-schooler explain how the cookies were gone from the jar.

    • @sherijobe9754
      @sherijobe9754 Рік тому +56

      He graduated from the amber heard school of acting 😂.

  • @mondoprime
    @mondoprime 3 місяці тому +15

    It's really satisfying how he catastrophically misinterprets American Psycho, both the book and the movie. Total jabroni.

  • @gill7380
    @gill7380 6 місяців тому +131

    I don’t understand the father, when his son got nasty at his house he returned him to the scared mother living by herself. I guess out of sight out of mind, shame on him.

  • @lyditsaaa
    @lyditsaaa 6 місяців тому +789

    he bullied her in every way, yet had the nerve to make fun of her dealing with depression. what an absolute joke of a kid

    • @ceceslivinglife
      @ceceslivinglife 5 місяців тому +20

      Allowing your child to bully you is beyond insane!!! It was her job to teach him how to act or give him the help she clearly knew he was desperately in need of. How is it so hard to take your child to a therapist or psychiatrist? Not acting on his terrible behavior is what led to her demise

    • @zodiaccentral8908
      @zodiaccentral8908 5 місяців тому +16

      Right!? I was a troubled kid, constantly getting suspended time and time again because I refused to be bullied or tested by the other kids. I’ll tell you for sure that the most terrifying thing to me was when I would get home after getting into trouble 😂 My Mom didn’t have any time for the nonsense and games and she didn’t hesitate to discipline us when it was necessary. I knew not to talk back my parents, or be disrespectful to teachers/my elders. I’m grateful that I grew up that way especially when you see stories like this one.☝️

    • @PandaCheeks
      @PandaCheeks 5 місяців тому +3

      ​@zodiaccentral8908 yeah but come on, it's different for women...They get coddled so much its disgusting.

    • @zodiaccentral8908
      @zodiaccentral8908 5 місяців тому +33

      @@PandaCheeks I can’t speak for other women/girls, but I most certainly was not coddled in any kind of way by my parents. My parents were crazy strict and my brothers had a lot more freedom than the girls did.

    • @artimus4198
      @artimus4198 4 місяці тому +1

      ⁠@@zodiaccentral8908I think that’s what they mean, some parents think that their daughters are helpless so they don’t give them any responsibilities or freedoms. My parents shamed into getting a job at 16 while I was struggling greatly with school and anxiety and depression, meanwhile my sister had everything paid for immediately and didn’t work half as much as me.

  • @niclas9990
    @niclas9990 11 місяців тому +828

    I can't help but feel like lots of people in Judy's life failed her. They should have pushed harder to get her out of that situation. I've known some "overdramatic" people in my life and none have ever claimed they were afraid someone was going to kill them. That's a very specific fear no one should shrug off.

    • @RLF1
      @RLF1 10 місяців тому

      Judy had choices and she chose to let her son live with her despite her extreme fear.
      Judy failed herself.
      Ethan should have been committed to a juvenile psyche ward long ago.
      Even with meds and therapy, these mentally ill people remain a danger to society and themself.
      The shrink, the dad, and the school Ethan went to, all failed.

    • @beverlybalius9303
      @beverlybalius9303 10 місяців тому +23

      Look,,, you cannot help others see the light sometimes,,, she failed by spoiliing him and not correcting him when he was young. She created her own monster,,, I know at least 3 women that did the same thing,,, all divorced and all weak willed..

    • @robinmccoy4671
      @robinmccoy4671 10 місяців тому +90

      ​@@beverlybalius9303really!? Victim shaming! You have zero clue about how she raised him.

    • @barbaranymiel3089
      @barbaranymiel3089 10 місяців тому +11

      You reap what you sow.

    • @superwildside4585
      @superwildside4585 10 місяців тому +14

      @@robinmccoy4671 Zero clue? Look at the DVD's, the titles? ZERO clue!! lol

  • @specialk082599
    @specialk082599 4 місяці тому +33

    This detective can’t even say “hello” with out Ethan being like “WHaT DO yOu MEaN HeLlO?!? yOU THiNK I dID SOmEthINg?!??! 😡😤”

  • @oblivious108
    @oblivious108 Рік тому +1234

    As much as I'm disgusted by what this kid did, I'm quite appalled how poorly this detective handled the situation as well.

    • @oldschool657
      @oldschool657 Рік тому +175

      Honestly; if that is how he has been interrogating people, I am surprised he has had his job for 30 years. Every step he took was the wrong one.

    • @saddad6601
      @saddad6601 Рік тому +80

      looks like he learned interrogation from watching a handful of these videos

    • @liamc1102
      @liamc1102 Рік тому

      Still got a confession. @@oldschool657

    • @Kibermozgai
      @Kibermozgai Рік тому +43

      @@saddad6601 I have the same feelings. He did make a few classical moves and quotes, but all in the wrong time or for the wrong reason. I'm not sure who is more cringe in that situation tbh

    • @haji818721
      @haji818721 Рік тому +47

      Oh please, none of you would have the first clue what to do. Because you watched a few interviews your an expert? Also he does a good job with the videos but there a lot of things he is guessing at or pointing out a cues that aren't really there. He got the confession. Period.

  • @voiceovreason8690
    @voiceovreason8690 10 місяців тому +481

    You don't need to be a psychologist to know this kid is an absolute nutcase even before he confessed. Bless his mom RIP.

    • @Angen77
      @Angen77 9 місяців тому +20

      true, but he did ask for help, and no one gave it to him. gave plenty of red flags that the parents friends and psychiatrist ignored. He doesn't have feelings and was most likely born that way (brain abnormality), so it was inevitable he would eventually act out. I don't believe he should be free in society, but they should have acted sooner.

    • @andromeda3447
      @andromeda3447 9 місяців тому +11

      @@Angen77he clearly has a capacity for anger. And not all people that lack emotion act out - that‘s quite a stretch. I’d guess a large percentage of violent crimes are actually caused by uncontrolled emotions.

    • @PeteFIN
      @PeteFIN 9 місяців тому +7

      Out of all these real life interrogation videos, which i've seen quite a few of...this is one of the sickest for sure. Not as bad as child killers but pretty bad still. Don't really care much about his stupid antics and Bateman impersonations, but the thrill and pride he clearly felt afterwards and total lack of remorse were pretty unsettling. He clearly has feelings, strong ones, but only for himself. Should never let him out in my opinion, he will do it again

    • @JessStone-hl8ed
      @JessStone-hl8ed 9 місяців тому +6

      You said this kid got no help, then mention a psychiatrist & a detective asked for permission to speak to his therapist. Sounds like he got plenty of help. ​@Angen77

    • @snakefinn
      @snakefinn 6 місяців тому

      @@andromeda3447 For people with anti social personality disorder or psychopathy anger is one of the only emotions they can actually experience.

  • @elenabaker3967
    @elenabaker3967 6 місяців тому +260

    He told so many people even his Psychiatrist that he needed to be placed in a mental health facility. Adults need to hear and listen to the kids!

    • @phylis3917
      @phylis3917 3 місяці тому +6

      Many times falls on deaf ears.

    • @LoganFarmer-ub3qp
      @LoganFarmer-ub3qp 3 місяці тому +2

      My experience has been that many mental health professionals are bad at helping with things, pertaining to autism. I could imagine that it could be the same for ASPD. A lot of them never seek help. So less clinicians will be likely to have a germane skill set. Seeing any sort of specialist can be a huge PITA. Its not like we have a particularly functional health care system at all.

    • @sharonbland9061
      @sharonbland9061 3 місяці тому +1

      So does the mental health professionals

    • @mariebee3146
      @mariebee3146 3 місяці тому

      The US does nothing. All they do is wrote prescription after prescription. This is why the crime rate is so high. Lots of crazies walking around with drugs in their system, throwing off the brain chemistry even more.

  • @giaximoi
    @giaximoi 4 місяці тому +25

    Ethan Windom is 34 now. Life without parole and had argued that his immaturity and youth should have been taken into account with his resentencing. It really sounded like his mother was a sweet woman who loved him.

    • @forpetessake3532
      @forpetessake3532 3 місяці тому

      soneone said he only got 9 years - i’m confused

    • @beckbabej
      @beckbabej 21 день тому

      @@forpetessake3532 He was serving life, but was resentenced in 2019 after serving 12 years to 26 years in prison.

    • @valkyriesshield
      @valkyriesshield 17 днів тому

      He was up for parole after 9 years.

  • @llikthestar6796
    @llikthestar6796 11 місяців тому +651

    Thinking about this woman's last moments is so disturbing and sad. You know that the last thing she saw was her son killing her, and that must have been so terrifying, confusing and heartbreaking.

    • @cynthianewton3987
      @cynthianewton3987 10 місяців тому +11

      She was asleep though, thank God

    • @angiealexis3093
      @angiealexis3093 10 місяців тому +25

      @@cynthianewton3987 She could had woken up due to the pain, at least momentarily!

    • @dh8241
      @dh8241 10 місяців тому +23

      i had an ex seriously try to hurt me, if not kill me, and i’ll never forget the feeling of betrayal & sheer terror realizing that someone i loved so much & would do almost anything for would want to hurt me like that. i absolutely cannot imagine realizing that your own son was going to kill you. hopefully there is peace and full understanding in the afterlife, hopefully there is a fulfilling answer as to why

    • @lavonnewashington4769
      @lavonnewashington4769 10 місяців тому +12

      Sad thing is she bought him in the world and he sadly took her out

    • @brandieblair6717
      @brandieblair6717 10 місяців тому +11

      Thinking about her last weeks, months… Poor woman! He’s such an aggressive Bully.

  • @TrevorTatro918
    @TrevorTatro918 Рік тому +717

    It’s so sad that this mother cried for help and none listened. I can’t imagine the fear this woman lived with every day knowing what was coming. This child should have been committed years before this happened. Rest peacefully Judy.

    • @potatopirate5557
      @potatopirate5557 Рік тому +21

      It happens all the the time in the US. there's no significant recourse for families in this position.

    • @GlitterC8k
      @GlitterC8k Рік тому +13

      ​@@potatopirate5557could they relinquish their parental rights by giving their child to the state? Committing them?

    • @swanclipper
      @swanclipper Рік тому

      @@GlitterC8k expand that idea... do you really think the best ineterests of the kid are going to be the reason for this idea you suggest?
      or don't you think a bad parent is just gonna "give up" and force an innocent child into that system just because the parent is a selfish bastard?
      your intention is great and amazing to consider for everybody involved... but that's not how these things get used. only innocents get put through them. it took forever for americans to realise the circular logic with the prison system. get arrested for minor infraction, get thrown in jail falsely... months, maybe a year goes by, and that innocent, doesn't appreciate what they got jailed for, they distrust the law enforcement and judges, then they live as they want, knowing full well that being in jail is just a partial stay before they're thrown away again. only to get caught doing other shit and back they go.
      sure. SOME people deserve it and it helps them for rehab into society, but innocents, they revile the system for what happened to them and, justly, they become the criminals and animals society told them they are.
      keep your intentions and integrity. figure out a real solution. you wrote a really short version of your thoughts. but "as is" that will only harm innocents and benefit bastards.

    • @broccoli4002
      @broccoli4002 Рік тому +22

      This is like my mum with my sister….we’ve all cried out for help , but the authorities only see the act she puts on to manipulate them. I worry that one day she might snap and murder my mum. Social aren’t bothered , I’ve warned them if anything happens they will be held over their failings. So it’s not just America these people are all over the world.

    • @rawniii
      @rawniii Рік тому

      commited???

  • @jaimesanchez4297
    @jaimesanchez4297 10 місяців тому +640

    If he's talking like that to the cops just imagine how he was with his mom

    • @thearmy88ify
      @thearmy88ify 9 місяців тому +6

      "All these kids are freaking whacked out on some kind of medication" You must have missed that little tid bit. His behavior sounds exactly like the side effects pamphlet for most psychiatric medications.

    • @nunyabusiness2945
      @nunyabusiness2945 9 місяців тому

      @@thearmy88ify who says commenter missed anything? Why be rude like that?

    • @jdmartin2984
      @jdmartin2984 9 місяців тому

      ​@@nunyabusiness2945cause it's the internet

    • @Twerkenstein
      @Twerkenstein 9 місяців тому

      idk why but I laughed way to hard at this comment @PolPot-ef1qq

    • @anitacrumbly
      @anitacrumbly 9 місяців тому

      @@thearmy88ify NO it's called having a conduct disorder this display is nothing the anger as stated in the video was all farce had he not been medicated you would have really seen some rage and I'm guessing depending on how well he learned coping mechanisms maybe a go at the crappy investigator cop.

  • @knotlock
    @knotlock 4 місяці тому +22

    Patrick Bateman would be so offended.

    • @mari-eu1ph
      @mari-eu1ph 3 місяці тому +6

      He would literally die of cringe

  • @michellehawkins1027
    @michellehawkins1027 10 місяців тому +426

    Sad that not only had the mom said she was scared of him,but he himself told people including his doctor what he was feeling and asked to be locked up. Why did they not listen?

    • @lesam7813
      @lesam7813 9 місяців тому

      Because most people do not care about what happens to girls and women. We are hated and they would not dare punish a boy or a man. That is why most males get away with anything and women who fight back, are severely punished or killed. We see it it every day around the world. Everyone will know a man raped a 6yr old, but at most he'll get 4months in jail. Yet when a woman kills a known rapist in self defense, she gets the book thrown at her or is murdered by other men in retaliation, bec how dare a woman fight back?

    • @marisamartin3664
      @marisamartin3664 9 місяців тому +9

      Well at least he is locked up now and I pray he will never get out.

    • @Jimmymatthewb
      @Jimmymatthewb 9 місяців тому

      ​@@marisamartin3664well he's up for parole in 2033.

    • @elvy9326
      @elvy9326 9 місяців тому +11

      ​@marisamartin3664 well he get parole and will be out in 10 yrs

    • @charlieevergreen3514
      @charlieevergreen3514 9 місяців тому

      Yeah, plenty of warning. But for some reason, many people don’t believe in “preventative” treatment. He could’ve been committed, studied, MAYBE even helped, with no victims involved. Part of the problem is that we don’t really have any good treatment for psychopathy. We barely know exactly what’s causing it in the brain, much less how to treat it.
      One of the interview notes onscreen said that Ethan himself thought he was “this way” because he got hit in the head with a baseball, which is honestly very plausible. I’m not saying he should be free, but perhaps he could be “fixed”, if we knew more about the brain. The medical field is still struggling with complex medical concerns. It’s tragic for everyone.

  • @jello4835
    @jello4835 Рік тому +573

    It's astounding that he can sit there and say that people who base their crimes on movies are unintelligent and uncreative, and not realize that's exactly what he's done. Seems like a good indication that he's not only evil, but quite literally incapable of any form of self reflection.

    • @AHD2105
      @AHD2105 Рік тому

      He's just high after having killed someone, he's a big man now you know. Just like American psycho.
      The problem with the US is that kids are raised on too much entertainment and not enough education.

    • @informitas0117
      @informitas0117 Рік тому +39

      He's making the bricks in my wall look like intellectually stimulating company.

    • @daddyshark3105
      @daddyshark3105 Рік тому +5

      ​@@lanahaxerhe thinks he did but instead the comment hit it spot on

    • @spookyf1nger979
      @spookyf1nger979 Рік тому +20

      @@lanahaxer I don't think he possesses the level of self awareness required for something like that. These traits and impulses were always inside of him, he used Bateman's character as validation and justification to act this way. It was his prime example of what to strive to be as a result of overcompensation for his lack of identity and purpose. He wanted to feel special and different and would hurt and manipulate anybody to achieve this. He so badly wants to live up to this image of himself that he created in his mind that he isn't thinking very hard past that point.
      I don't think he even read any of those books he bullied his mom into buying for him. They're just more cosplay props for him to live out his mentally ill fantasy of parroting American Psycho.

    • @abethebabelincoln7960
      @abethebabelincoln7960 Рік тому +19

      @@spookyf1nger979considering he thinks patrick bateman is real and actually successful in real life proves he’s not self aware
      he’s a perfect example of someone who think they’re different than the rest not realizing he’s trying his hardest to be someone else

  • @LadyDi0514
    @LadyDi0514 Рік тому +746

    The most frightening thing about this whole video is that this psychopath is going to be back out on the streets in as little as 10 years. Thanks for bringing this to us, EWU!!!!

    • @realrebelli0n
      @realrebelli0n Рік тому +35

      I doubt he will actually get parole ever.

    • @defaultname7685
      @defaultname7685 Рік тому +35

      I’m sure someone with his kind of agreeable personality will do well at his parole hearing. Besides this is not the kind of dude that can do his bid and keep his head down for 10 years.

    • @iveliserojas612
      @iveliserojas612 Рік тому +13

      @@realrebelli0nif he didn’t he be the next serial killer who ever gave that sentence is dummy he’s a serial killer lover

    • @deepg7084
      @deepg7084 Рік тому +29

      ​@@defaultname7685he was still a minor though. By 2033 he might be more mature in his tactics after learning from his mistakes in this interrogation. He has an obsession with learning to manipulate people. He will modify his strategy for sure. He's probably in his cell practicing how to fake cry as I type this lol.

    • @KrisPcracker
      @KrisPcracker Рік тому

      Vote RED or you may wind up dead...

  • @3xpoc3nt3r
    @3xpoc3nt3r 3 місяці тому +22

    Why does the detective make so so many mistakes when he's such a veteran? Happy they got this kid, but wow that was embarrassing for the detective.

    • @chantallvardas
      @chantallvardas 3 місяці тому +3

      I’m 45 minutes into watching this. That first detective was 100% doing everything incorrectly. According to almost all of the 1000’s of these types of videos that I have watched. Goodness Me. What a sad thing. The detective could have avoided wasting precious time, by instead of taking literally everything personally, he could have approached Ethan with a more ‘understanding & positive manner’ albeit a means to an end. Gee Whizz

    • @thewhitelodgery
      @thewhitelodgery 2 місяці тому +2

      Some people shouldn't be homicide detectives...

    • @Chris-cb5xh
      @Chris-cb5xh 2 місяці тому

      In his defense he allowed the other detective to set up a better approach and actually get the confession.

  • @nq6508
    @nq6508 10 місяців тому +639

    I had siblings like this. Crazy violent stuff would happen and parents would always get mad at me for wanting to call the police. Brother used to run around screaming and banging on the door with a shot gun while i would hide behind it with my little niece and nephew. Sometimes i use to just leave the house with the kids until they left or things calmed down. It was horrible. I feel bad for that mother. You feel helpless physically and emotionally. You dont want to believe your baby turned into a monster.

    • @nq6508
      @nq6508 10 місяців тому +73

      Context-Brother didn't normally act that way but was addicted to meth and Xanax and would often lose his mind. They were eventually kicked out and still haven't straightened out their lives 5 years later. Living like that was traumatizing. You never know when something bad will happen. Now I refuse to ever be put in situations like that again. It doesn't matter if we are family. Sadly that mom found out too late.

    • @305CardCollector
      @305CardCollector 10 місяців тому

      @@nq6508comparing a drug addict dealing with drug induced psychosis to a psychopath who murdered his mom is pretty harsh. Check yourself

    • @zerobaseone_TimeLessWorldTour
      @zerobaseone_TimeLessWorldTour 10 місяців тому +31

      thank u for sharing yr story, 2024 blessings & healing to u and family!

    • @louniece1650
      @louniece1650 10 місяців тому +25

      I'm sorry you had to endure the crazy but I'm glad you survived. May 2024 bring you peace of mind and many, many more years of peace.❤

    • @comennish9994
      @comennish9994 10 місяців тому +23

      Damn can't imagine how your niece and nephew feel, but you were there for them, you did good

  • @truesnuh4781
    @truesnuh4781 Рік тому +588

    The behavior of Ethan is genuinely disturbing. I am glad you exposed this case and made it available to us, thanks EWU for another great documentary.

    • @volvo09
      @volvo09 Рік тому

      Yeah, what a sick f-ck...
      His poor mother 😔

    • @Mike-es2yg
      @Mike-es2yg Рік тому +12

      In the last quarter, he's totally losing it. He can't find simple words, making weird faces and moving in abnormal ways....he's totally nuts. I feel SO bad for his mom, her ex husband and ESPECIALLY her older son completely failed her.

    • @shimmershine6902
      @shimmershine6902 Рік тому +7

      I think he’s slow and got his mannerisms and social skills from cartoons and memes😭 it’s giving Chris Chan

    • @lyndavis113
      @lyndavis113 Рік тому +5

      It's totally pathetically sad that his mother had to die for his evil mind to come to show to the right people so he could be put away for the rest of his life where he can't hurt anybody but himself unless he attacks other inmates , and I can totally see him being that kind of person

    • @lyndavis113
      @lyndavis113 Рік тому +6

      @@shimmershine6902 he got his mannerisms from that stupid movie he loves with that Looney serial killer, he talks like him moves like him and laughs like him at people at the weirdest times

  • @karizmic916
    @karizmic916 Рік тому +439

    This one gives me chills. I had an ex who was violent and obsessed with Patrick Bateman. He talked just like this kid when he would get mad, it’s uncanny. The scoffing, laughing, attempt to talk down. Even got locked up for trying to strangle me during a fight. After everything I’ve learned from this channel it truly makes me wonder if he’s a budding killer. Glad I got out.

    • @RumbleGuts
      @RumbleGuts Рік тому +33

      Well done Jenna, you are strong.❤

    • @justairyx
      @justairyx Рік тому +35

      *insert cringe sigma music here*

    • @shroomyk
      @shroomyk Рік тому +28

      I have had some nutty exes too, and yeah a strangler. He got out on bail before I could even get a ride back to my parents' house, so I could not safely talk to the DA. Glad you got out too.

    • @xoxxxsar2227
      @xoxxxsar2227 Рік тому +11

      did you date my ex too ?! sorry you went through that love . 💗

    • @JanePixel
      @JanePixel Рік тому +40

      @@foxlimbs7167 lol I know right, all these dudes thinking they're so badass, when everyone else is rolling their eyes. I've known a few of them, they are the most sensitive flowers you've ever met! Can't take a single slight to their ego. They absolutely lose their shit if you laugh at them

  • @thegfguys
    @thegfguys 4 місяці тому +30

    The guys delivery after the detective asked "do you believe in God" NO!??! Is so good

  • @bethanylee4284
    @bethanylee4284 8 місяців тому +512

    The last detective who interviewed him has nerves of steel to listen to this absolute psycho describe in chilling detail how he murdered his mother. Much respect for this officer.

    • @erikeriks
      @erikeriks 7 місяців тому +4

      What can he do.

    • @jordyhelwig7657
      @jordyhelwig7657 7 місяців тому

      Hot coffee???😮🎉😢

    • @Roxus1
      @Roxus1 6 місяців тому +1

      Nerves of steel for sitting at a table in front of a teenager? C'mon now..

    • @Ant_Stark
      @Ant_Stark 6 місяців тому +2

      He probably should be locked up too

    • @katego370
      @katego370 6 місяців тому +4

      And to just calmly stare right at him when he aggressively bangs the table. He could very well have jumped on the cop with that temper but the cop didn't even flinch and stayed up close and personal.

  • @LKre-vi5oq
    @LKre-vi5oq 9 місяців тому +267

    Feel so bad for the Mom. She asked repeatedly for help with this freak. She never got it.

    • @deepemotion2745
      @deepemotion2745 7 місяців тому

      he was put on anxiety meds and depression meds when he was just a young boy, look up and read (state VS windom).
      child abuse from the mother. that backfired years later.
      anyone who puts children on anti psychotic meds when there still children are sick in there head the brain is not developed.
      let your child smoke a joint the state will come take your kid and charge you. but corporate drug dealers can perscribe literal children pychotic medicine? and parents will do it?
      how do u make a 7 year old take a pill? crush it up put in there orange juice? shove it down there throat? absolutely disgusting.
      make that make since,. any adult parent to put a child on anti psychotics isn't a real parent anyways. period.

    • @justlikethewizard
      @justlikethewizard 7 місяців тому +10

      That's what gets me! She voiced that she was afraid for her life. That she needed help. Poor Judy gave so many signs that she needed someone to get her away from her son.

  • @aran7teen
    @aran7teen 10 місяців тому +981

    I don’t know how many more warning signs Ethan could have given. Everyone knew. The school, his family, family friends. Seems like no one cared enough about Judy to do anything. Not to minimise what Ethan did but she didn’t die because her son is a homicidal psychopath, she died because no one cared enough about her.

    • @myturn9431
      @myturn9431 10 місяців тому +79

      She knew how dangerous he was, question is, why didn’t she have him committed to a mental facility. He is under 18, so she could have committed him. Not to say taking the chance that he would hurt her or a different innocent person. The father just didn’t care about the family he left to do anything.

    • @AntiCrimer
      @AntiCrimer 10 місяців тому +22

      Very good point. And so sad.

    • @TerriePehrson
      @TerriePehrson 10 місяців тому +12

      Sad😢

    • @KellyKamikaze
      @KellyKamikaze 10 місяців тому +100

      ​@@myturn9431idk if it's thr same everywhere....but here if you 302 someone and have the committed., they'll only hold them for 48 hours unless they seem dangerous or suicidal, and 9 times out of 10, they can lie their way out of it. I've been through it countless times with my sister. So the mother was probably so scared to lock him up knowing he'd be out in a couple days it's sad how screwed up the whole mental health system is.

    • @susanhopkins1451
      @susanhopkins1451 10 місяців тому +32

      People don't care, because it is not them

  • @clairevandenberg8204
    @clairevandenberg8204 5 місяців тому +13

    How did no one see the warning signs? He must have a history of behavioral incidents that led up to this. Everyone dismissed his mother’s fear.

  • @lisainthelab
    @lisainthelab Рік тому +572

    What a strange, strange kid. It’s like he’s a 6 year old trying to act like a big bad gangster. The most shocking part of this whole video is the part where it says he did great in school and was in the top classes and AP classes. 🤷🏻‍♀️ He just seems so immature and like he wouldn’t even sit through a class. I can’t blame the detectives for being irritated with him honestly, he’s so incredibly obnoxious it was hard to even watch this, let alone try to speak to him. 😬

    • @chantalheen484
      @chantalheen484 Рік тому +43

      I was thinking the same thing, I was in advanced English classes throughout high school, he just didn't come across as someone who would be in such a class, but who knows 🤷‍♀️

    • @chardiemacdennis7218
      @chardiemacdennis7218 Рік тому +8

      He was mentally I’ll. So…..

    • @zekumi
      @zekumi Рік тому +29

      I’m glad someone else pointed this out. I was baffled at the idea of a kid like this excelling in school.

    • @cockthesheep3051
      @cockthesheep3051 Рік тому

      I'm suspecting he cheated on his tests to give anyone the impression he was a good student

    • @lisainthelab
      @lisainthelab Рік тому +26

      @@chardiemacdennis7218 yeah, true. But that was mentally ill like I have never quite seen before. Very odd manner of speaking and mannerisms. Seemed as if he was attempting to play a character rather than being himself.

  • @lauverr3808
    @lauverr3808 Рік тому +297

    He is the most annoying child I've ever seen on this channel. I've watched a lot of interrogations and not only is every action melodramatic but he's a terrible liar. Truly just horrible at lying. It's the equivalent of how a 5 year old would react when being told "no" by a parent.

    • @squiffybro
      @squiffybro 11 місяців тому +1

      Ehhhh Jeff Scullin still the worst lmao

    • @adrienneadams3009
      @adrienneadams3009 11 місяців тому +4

      He does remind me of a big ass toddler.😂

    • @brinckau
      @brinckau 10 місяців тому

      Excellent analysis. Very few people actually understand this. This comment should be pinned, so it can be seen by the 99.9% of people who think that the kid is honest and mature.

    • @libidooverdrive
      @libidooverdrive 10 місяців тому +1

      @@brinckau uh.. absolutely no one believes him.

    • @brinckau
      @brinckau 10 місяців тому

      @@libidooverdrive That was my point, expressed with sarcasm.

  • @caricaturecontest7899
    @caricaturecontest7899 Рік тому +914

    Dayum ...This kid is a nightmare. Thanks so much for sharing, can't believe humans like this even exist.

    • @cutup6166
      @cutup6166 Рік тому +33

      Have you watched the news lately? The world is filled with awful Humans.

    • @thr0w407
      @thr0w407 Рік тому +29

      It's a shame we don't regard politicians sending people to war the same way.

    • @caricaturecontest7899
      @caricaturecontest7899 Рік тому +8

      @@cutup6166 agree but I'm still in disbelief.

    • @caricaturecontest7899
      @caricaturecontest7899 Рік тому +22

      @@thr0w407 yup. And how vets are treated when back home... So sad

    • @adamgardener8624
      @adamgardener8624 Рік тому +5

      Nicocado Is being a jerk.....

  • @timpletke9440
    @timpletke9440 3 місяці тому +15

    Too bad this guy didn't discover Sonic the Hedgehog instead.

  • @myliza700
    @myliza700 Рік тому +208

    The fact that nobody including his father listened to her is so heartbreaking

  • @thatswhatshesays
    @thatswhatshesays 10 місяців тому +250

    Quite possibly the worst interrogater I've ever watched. They should send him off for training.

    • @PeteFIN
      @PeteFIN 9 місяців тому +17

      Yeah the first guy was pretty bad. I think though that he felt they had so rock solid case against him that they didn't even need a confession. He just went with whatever came out of his mouth. Still probably not a good idea in any situation...well at least they pulled him off

    • @SheriffChuck81-qq5vq
      @SheriffChuck81-qq5vq 9 місяців тому +17

      They actually got him to blurt out a lot of incriminating statements. His anger was the weakness they exploited to get him to talk.

    • @che3se1495
      @che3se1495 8 місяців тому +4

      I think he believed the suspect was a lot more emotionally unstable than he actually was, and would break under the pressure of guilt. Instead, the suspect does not feel guilt, and his displays of emotion are mostly either theatrical or self serving.
      Most of the murderers they get will be emotionally unstable, and have killed in the heat of the moment without planning. Applying pressure to these types will reinforce their scattered thoughts of guilt and shut down other thoughts of selt pitty or fear (of consequences). You hammer into them that their only way forward is to confess and you squash any other lines of thought.
      Since this suspect didn't feel any guilt, this method wasn't effective. His ego meant that he just got more argumentative and entrenched in his position when pressured.

    • @GraceMarieNeary-Nashvill-qs3pi
      @GraceMarieNeary-Nashvill-qs3pi 8 місяців тому +2

      Yes, he is bad. He is doing all the talking and inferring.

  • @sue9861
    @sue9861 Рік тому +2073

    We all know psychopaths are dangerous, but a lot of people also tend to think that psychopaths are highly intelligent masterminds.
    Then there's Ethan, proving the complete opposite.
    Dangerous? Absolutely.
    Intelligent? Let me spell it out for Ethan: N O.
    Anyone else lose several brain cells just listening to him talk?

    • @Tyler-nh6op
      @Tyler-nh6op Рік тому +50

      That's because being impulsive lying and being a manipulator are merely symptoms of psychopathic behavior. Not every symptom is present, so of course you will find people with this disorder who aren't able to accomplish these traits.

    • @Aim4aCreativeLife
      @Aim4aCreativeLife Рік тому +174

      He seems to be on the spectrum IMO. ASD individuals are often very intelligent but have focused intense interests that are often obsessive. Interrupting patterns or the focus of their interest can result in massive meltdowns. Just as with anyone, this doesn't make them dangerous, but if one's obsession is paychopaths and role playing them one very well can be. Since social emotional skills are challenging for ASD individuals, role playing gives them a script that they know and can feel comfortable acting in, whereas general societal interaction can feel uncomfortable due to missing social cues and social mores, etc. That's my hypothesis on this guy.,

    • @seczajkowski
      @seczajkowski Рік тому +77

      @@Aim4aCreativeLife I worked with people on the spectrum for 7 years and I totally agree and came to the same conclusion.

    • @Aim4aCreativeLife
      @Aim4aCreativeLife Рік тому +26

      The leg rubbing could be a for of ASD stimming.

    • @lindaarrington9397
      @lindaarrington9397 Рік тому +45

      It's that detective that's blowing my mind
      He's like
      Tell me why you did it
      And keeps badgering away at a 16 yr old.
      Anyone that has ever had a son at that age knows it just makes um mad and they bull up I would have approached that young man way differently
      It' just made me angry.

  • @BostonBaby1000
    @BostonBaby1000 4 місяці тому +9

    This is a boy whose father abandoned for another woman. He idolized and idealized a male role model psycho character and played this out in an effort to punish his father.

  • @CSwizzy69
    @CSwizzy69 5 місяців тому +190

    I love this guy explaining the deeper meanings of American Psycho with the voice and cadence of someone making fun of a dumb person

    • @mari-eu1ph
      @mari-eu1ph 3 місяці тому +20

      His head went completely over the meaning of the movie/book as well lmao. Hes so confident describing patrick’s character, as if the point of the movie was to illustrate the ideals of what a psychopath is or could be. I believe bateman’s mind, at the end of the film, could even be seen as the voice of reason! The movie is not a documentary on a psychopath. The movie is a commentary on the capitalist model of business this society runs on, having the killings depict tactics that are often seen as normal in society just to gain an advantage for your interests. To the point where at the end whatever bateman did doesn’t even matter because everyone he was around did it too (metaphorically speaking). They even found a way to cover it up so they could sell the apartment! This critique on society just uses patrick as a vessel, to deliver a message. Anyone of sound mind (or that even watched the whole movie, maybe understands literary devices to some degree, also knows a bit about psychology ) knows that patrick is not an example of how psychopaths behave in the real world and what happened in the movie was exaggerated to the point even patrick himself can not distinguish from reality and imagination at times because of how absurd everything is. If the guy sitting in this interrogation room was so smart he would’ve picked another idol to excuse his sadistic tendencies and his overall disgusting personality. And if he was even smarter he would’ve just tried to live a semi normal life until he could get appropriate help.

    • @oatspoons
      @oatspoons 17 днів тому +2

      “he knocks anybody that gets in his way” like that homeless person he killed? 😭 im dying

    • @yagurla
      @yagurla 12 днів тому

      this made me CACKLE

  • @aprilwilliams4743
    @aprilwilliams4743 11 місяців тому +320

    I've seen a ton of interrogations and this one is by far the worst. The fact that he's only 16 and allowed to control the interview with his outbursts and consistent rambling. I hope these detectives learned something from this case. R.I.P. to his mother.

    • @helianabanes4875
      @helianabanes4875 11 місяців тому +13

      Or whatsherface's interrogation...the gal that suffocated her bf in a suitcase. That was horrible, too.

    • @Prizzlesticks
      @Prizzlesticks 10 місяців тому +30

      In the end, he confessed in great detail, so it seems like a highly successful interrogation to me.
      As far as interrogations go, I'd say who cares how it goes so long as it doesn't result in inadmissible evidence or a false confession.

    • @MrNota500
      @MrNota500 10 місяців тому +13

      If you ever dealt with a crazy person, you would know that you don't control "the situation" you have to deescalate it before it gets worst. This kid is straight up nuts and should not be messed with.

    • @sparkybig9799
      @sparkybig9799 10 місяців тому

      @@PrizzlesticksI agree with you hottnes

    • @cdelane3335
      @cdelane3335 10 місяців тому +21

      I think they let him do it on purpose to keep on talking and talking cause eventually he was gonna talk so much it was gonna get him into trouble.

  • @victoriastone2975
    @victoriastone2975 10 місяців тому +358

    He should NEVER get parole! Although I’m in the UK and think that life with out parole sentences should not be applied to juveniles, there are some cases (like this one) where parole could never be deemed safe.

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz 10 місяців тому +10

      I agree with you that many times juveniles shouldn’t be sentenced to life without parole. They changed that here in America too but some teens still receive it.
      With all that said, how do you feel about your justice system there? I watch lots of true crime and I’ve noticed rapists, murderers and child predators get much lighter sentences there than they typically would here. It happens here as well but doesn’t seem to be nearly as often. Are people in the UK frustrated with this at all?

    • @littleme3597
      @littleme3597 10 місяців тому +3

      That would mean more than half of ghetto would be in jail. With no parole.

    • @gloriapena3649
      @gloriapena3649 10 місяців тому +4

      She is just his first victim.

    • @Drogas3653
      @Drogas3653 9 місяців тому

      @@littleme3597not true

    • @sk8queen
      @sk8queen 9 місяців тому +2

      I’m nowhere near there and I’m afraid after seeing this. Folks will rue the day they let him out.

  • @Thunderpaws111
    @Thunderpaws111 3 місяці тому +10

    This man never stops talking! Like a hyperactive, manic toddler….

  • @Djingoclottates
    @Djingoclottates Рік тому +778

    Just goes to show that doing well in school and being intelligent are two very different things

    • @chantalheen484
      @chantalheen484 Рік тому +20

      I guess this interrogation is proof

    • @BiggerBossN313
      @BiggerBossN313 Рік тому +42

      There’s a difference between intelligence and wisdom.

    • @29rbs
      @29rbs Рік тому +86

      ​@@BiggerBossN313this kid is obviously neither. He completely lacks the capacity to even form a half logical train of thought or act with any strategy

    • @ΓιώργοςΚαπάτος
      @ΓιώργοςΚαπάτος Рік тому +27

      I'm no expert, but I don't think cleverness/ i.q. is the issue here. More like state of emotional intelligence, mental health, hormones, genetic predisposition, experiential history etc.

    • @medusareigns
      @medusareigns Рік тому +29

      Maybe he bullied his mom into doing his homework for him

  • @KevinManson-sp6bl
    @KevinManson-sp6bl Рік тому +500

    It is absolutely frightening to think that this person will potentially be roaming the streets in a decade.

    • @killiemucken
      @killiemucken Рік тому +24

      @@chillingwithshillamhe can get out in 2033 literally in a decade he could be free. That’s not right he should have life all murders should get life no matter the age of them

    • @CL-kn1rq
      @CL-kn1rq Рік тому +6

      No,throw away the key

    • @killiemucken
      @killiemucken Рік тому +7

      @@chillingwithshillam did you not read the end part were it said he had another sentencing in 2019 and was giving 26 years and he’s already served 16 of them the guy in the video literally said he can be eligible for parole in 2033 maybe try watch the whole of the video next time before you think you know everything

    • @killiemucken
      @killiemucken Рік тому +5

      @@chillingwithshillam we defo are on the same side he shouldn’t be released

    • @assrammington7961
      @assrammington7961 Рік тому +1

      He’s harmless. Don’t worry. His biggest problem in life was his mom and he took care of it.

  • @dr.sammypryor
    @dr.sammypryor 10 місяців тому +888

    Yes, I was married to a psychopath. When we were dating, he amazed me one time by talking to someone about a subject I didn't know he knew. So, I complimented him on all his knowledge. He told me, "When I was young, I began learning a little about every topic, so I could talk to anyone to get them to trust me." AHHHH- I should have ran!

    • @J383n
      @J383n 10 місяців тому +130

      Sorry you went through that. Saying you learn a bit of everything so you can talk to everyone isn't really bad, but doing it so they can "trust" you is something else all together

    • @crownpoint9
      @crownpoint9 10 місяців тому +33

      I am so sorry you had to deal with that.

    • @cheriedavies6116
      @cheriedavies6116 10 місяців тому +58

      My son ex displays traits of psychopathy, BPDand bipolar disorder. She literally is dangerous yet always the victim. Watching this video reminds me of her. Im freaked out

    • @iamthebadwolf7296
      @iamthebadwolf7296 10 місяців тому

      @@cheriedavies6116our son is the same way, he would hit us for not getting his way, or not buying him what he wanted or for no reason at all. Then he would explain why it was my fault he hit me, then he’d say he’d tell his teachers to call CPS because I hit him (never once laid a hand on him or even spanked him).
      I told him that was fine, I had shut off his cell phone for misbehavior and I just told him I could use the vacation and his cell phone would have to stay off permanently then because I couldn’t work to pay his cell phone bill if I’m in jail for child abuse, and if he ended up in foster care they wouldn’t get him a cell phone either. So his only shot at getting the phone turned back on was to straighten up and stop hitting me.
      The look he gave me, I thought he’d kill me then, but then he knew he wouldn’t get a cell phone in juvenile detention. That cell phone was the only thing I ever saw him “care” about.

    • @Maruzzela-l1u
      @Maruzzela-l1u 10 місяців тому +12

      It's that one they say which us trully odd and ugly yet we disregard it.

  • @lizbrown9198
    @lizbrown9198 4 місяці тому +14

    Ethan : I DID NOT DO IT!
    Cop: I can promise you your own cell
    Ethan:... ya I guess I did it 🤷‍♂️

  • @syence_nird
    @syence_nird 8 місяців тому +337

    so let me get this straight, its considered "cruel and unusual punishment" to lock up this monster for life without parole, but what he did to his mother as not? the idea of this guy roaming free at some point in the future is rather chilling.

    • @GH-oi2jf
      @GH-oi2jf 8 місяців тому +10

      Juvenile offenders can be held for life, as long as they are eligible for parole.

    • @markelmslie6832
      @markelmslie6832 7 місяців тому +14

      The emphasis in law needs less on punishment and more on the protection from criminals.

    • @Lilliz91
      @Lilliz91 6 місяців тому +2

      That’s many people today, they keep thinking, if I were to do something like that it must be either I’m poor or really angry. So they would want to get a lower sentence if they end up in a same position. Kind of self telling really.

    • @nonyabusiness2510
      @nonyabusiness2510 6 місяців тому

      who stated he should be free at some point?

    • @nonyabusiness2510
      @nonyabusiness2510 6 місяців тому +3

      @@markelmslie6832 That comment is absurd and makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. You can't have protection from criminals without isolating them from society. That's a punishment sunshine. In addition it's not the "law" that would provide protection from criminals. You don't really have any concept of what you are talking about.

  • @bubblegummel
    @bubblegummel Рік тому +249

    The older i get the less sad and shocking crimes get. And the more "cringe" they seem. That's really sad that I feel that way

    • @grimmpunisher
      @grimmpunisher Рік тому +21

      Totally get that.

    • @lopopachope
      @lopopachope Рік тому +71

      Yeah it becomes more the feeling of “they really destroyed the rest of their life and others for a Patrick Bateman obsession?”
      It’s sad but very disappointing and pitiful.

    • @Gilbert_Dice_Gottfried
      @Gilbert_Dice_Gottfried Рік тому +20

      For me it’s more like I used to find these crimes sad and shocking but now I feel like I understand more that these are real crimes people have done. The feeling I would describe it as is really creepy. I would say some of the crimes also definitely make me cringe too. Some of the things people kill for is incredibly ridiculous. Especially when they kill because of some petty inconvenience. It’s also cringy that people think they can outsmart detectives and get away with murder.

    • @spicyirwin5835
      @spicyirwin5835 Рік тому +8

      Im clueless on what a mom should do when they bore a psychopath. Dr Phil had nothing on this.
      1st Ukraine was bad then Israel & now Gaza. When in USA we have mass shootings everywk & rd rage. We r on earth to love & care for each other. Im disabled & cant have a pity party compared to what Judy, Ethan's mom had to live thru. She loved & feared her own son.
      Olden days there were fist fights & today bullets😢

    • @loveistheanswer5924
      @loveistheanswer5924 Рік тому +3

      It is strange that you feel this way because such cases are really sad and shocking 💔

  • @crystalmeo7348
    @crystalmeo7348 10 місяців тому +241

    My step son just physically attacked my mom. We have restraining order on him. And he acts like this. It's terrifying.

  • @NickanM
    @NickanM 4 місяці тому +10

    *_Do NOT blame poor Judy. She had the bad luck of getting a psychopatic child. Most psychopaths are born, not made. There is some genetics involved. I feel so bad for her._*
    *Rest in eternal peace, Judy.* 🕯

  • @leticafe
    @leticafe Рік тому +382

    i don't think ethan realises how illogical it is for a random intruder to say "hey can you stab your own mother once for me" and after they leave, you go "well, better wash this off"

    • @-HeyLyd-
      @-HeyLyd- Рік тому +69

      Yeah, along with "The killer left me alone in the garage and shut the door to the house, but instead of escaping out through the garage, I knocked on the door and waited for the OK to go back inside with the armed murderous intruder." Like, a 5 year old might tell a more believable story than this.

    • @caricaturecontest7899
      @caricaturecontest7899 Рік тому

      Well, thank God he's a dumb ass, get him locked away

    • @Boyso5407
      @Boyso5407 Рік тому

      It’s pretty obvious that this kid is an idiot. He’s trying so hard to be this manipulative killer but he’s so stupid that he doesn’t come even remotely close to pulling it off.

    • @annazaman9657
      @annazaman9657 Рік тому +5

      Teenagers are not logical

    • @christinasmith272
      @christinasmith272 Рік тому +6

      @@calgaryhockey6991because in his mind, he HAD to be involved, had to put his mark on her while ALSO trying to maintain being the victim story … I’m with someone like this and the amount of illogical things that come out of his mouth ALMOST make you want to ALMOST feel bad for them having such a confusing, uncontrollable mental state. It’d be a terrible existence, truly.

  • @spicyirwin5835
    @spicyirwin5835 Рік тому +495

    What could the mom have done differently? She got him to mental help. She was scared of her own son & walked on egg shells to survive. This has been very enlightening yet my heart aches for Judy, the dead mom.💜🙏💜

    • @Sakine-animate
      @Sakine-animate Рік тому +34

      And I wonder how long this has been going on for. I remember hearing about a mom being scared of her child as well because they were violent and they weren’t welcomed in her home anymore. Unfortunately since the kid was a minor, they forced the mom to let the kid live with her because it was her dependent. What can a parent do when they’re the ones needing protection?

    • @matthewward1346
      @matthewward1346 Рік тому +20

      Residential programs or group homes would have been a good resource for her to seek out, but that can be a tough road with lots of rejections and long wait lists.

    • @Sakine-animate
      @Sakine-animate Рік тому +23

      @@beachybird1251 I don’t think we know when he started being aggressive towards her, but I feel like it started more when he got stronger and more able to forcibly push her around. Hard to have control over a situation at that point.

    • @itsoktoberight4431
      @itsoktoberight4431 Рік тому +17

      You can't let your kids get the better of you, if you don't feel safe then call the cops, evict them, get a restraining order. She obviously let her feelings get the better of her, that's why we need strong father's, sadly in this case they split up

    • @Sakine-animate
      @Sakine-animate Рік тому +36

      @@itsoktoberight4431 you can’t evict your kids unfortunately. I mentioned in my comment another mother tried that when she felt endangered by her kid and the cops sent them back home and made her allow the kid to stay there because they were a minor and she’s responsible for them. Its not that easy unfortunately

  • @FriendfullFJ
    @FriendfullFJ Рік тому +265

    Cringe is appropiate but an understatement. This had atomic levels of second hand embarrassment.

    • @Delegans
      @Delegans Рік тому +5

      😂😂Absolutely!

    • @charliechurch5004
      @charliechurch5004 Рік тому +2

      YES!!! DEFINITELY

    • @erin6015
      @erin6015 Рік тому +8

      So true lol this is the lamest version of Patrick Bateman of all time

    • @thewhitelodgery
      @thewhitelodgery 2 місяці тому +1

      @@erin6015 Right? Probably can't even see the movie now with out being like ''Ethan Windom thinks he's like this guy...'' in my own head and turn it off.

    • @thewhitelodgery
      @thewhitelodgery 2 місяці тому

      Total douche-chills this entire interview

  • @clovala
    @clovala 4 місяці тому +10

    Wait, he’s getting out in 8 years? F’ing ridiculous

  • @Just-A-Girl-77
    @Just-A-Girl-77 Рік тому +581

    My ex was diagnosed bi-polar schizophrenic with accute delusions. This kid reminds me of him so much in the way he talks. Even down to the squeaky tone of voice. My ex also used to be heavily influenced by media. At one point he swore he was Keyser Soze from the usual suspects. He also thought he was superior and more intelligent than most people. He also would switch is tone of voice and how he talked on the drop of a hat. This whole interview gave me the chills
    Ironically he also brutally killed his mother a few years after I broke up with him. He was in his 40s. He was never prosecuted because he decided to take his own life before anyone even found out what had happened.
    This kid honestly scares me and I hope he never sees the light of day I wouldn't doubt if he did it again

    • @RealAmericanHero420
      @RealAmericanHero420 Рік тому +90

      I’m glad you got away from him because you were absolutely in danger.

    • @jorey_banks2
      @jorey_banks2 Рік тому +32

      Thats.. terrifying. I'm just happy you got out of that situation.

    • @Just-A-Girl-77
      @Just-A-Girl-77 Рік тому +58

      I was actually numb when I heard about what he had done. I truly feel like I dodged a bullet. To this day, I thank God I got out of that situation before he completely went off the deep end

    • @Cislunar13
      @Cislunar13 Рік тому +3

      You should probably research this topic more.

    • @Grawlix_Jungle
      @Grawlix_Jungle Рік тому +15

      Maybe a silver lining is that you won’t miss any more red flags now that you’ve seen them all

  • @nicholasyoung2867
    @nicholasyoung2867 Рік тому +736

    For a cop that supposedly had been "doing this for over 30 years," he did a terrible job with this interrogation. He let a 16 year old kid get under his skin.

    • @andrewprindiville119
      @andrewprindiville119 Рік тому +48

      yes because im sure all of your interrogations go swimmingly, its so easy for the layman to criticize a professional when they have zero experience with the topic

    • @patmcconnell9956
      @patmcconnell9956 Рік тому +1

      @@andrewprindiville119ahh there we go with the cop boot lickers coming out of the woodwork. since when does someone need to be an actual cop or be involved in police interrogations to make an entirely valid judgement about this cop’s performance? even the video narrator comments on how the cop seemed to be taking it personally and explained why the usual, rational tactic would be to build rapport with the suspect and not disagree with him to provoke him this way. this is so obvious, what makes you feel so righteously responsible to defend or justify this guy’s objectively shitty and hindering methods?

    • @suan2553
      @suan2553 Рік тому +27

      Everybody has a bad day at work sometimes. Sometimes nothing wants to work the way you want. You sleep it off and let someone else take over for the day

    • @ivancito7790
      @ivancito7790 Рік тому +42

      I don't blame the cop man. It's hard not to get emotional when you see what these people do. Especially first hand. That's gotta affect you in some ways. And nothing can really prepare you for how cold blooded some of these killers can be.

    • @SirEnglishBatman
      @SirEnglishBatman Рік тому +38

      It still set up the second cop as the good cop. And it demonstrated how he reacts when angered. So it was still useful and they got a confession.

  • @SpookyFoxyMulder
    @SpookyFoxyMulder 7 місяців тому +146

    That poor, poor mother. I truly hope she's at peace.

    • @RowdyProwdy
      @RowdyProwdy 5 місяців тому +1

      🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @mari-eu1ph
      @mari-eu1ph 3 місяці тому +2

      I cant help but feel sorry for her, still somehow glad that she’s in a better place now. She was living hell on earth with that creature as her son. She’s resting now from that nightmare.

  • @ashleighh2343
    @ashleighh2343 4 місяці тому +18

    This guy sounds like Billy Madison when he’s talking to the imaginary penguin.

    • @pmc6925
      @pmc6925 4 місяці тому +2

      😂👌

    • @irlGlitches
      @irlGlitches 3 місяці тому

      I was thinking Waterboy lol

  • @zoeyfalconer85
    @zoeyfalconer85 7 місяців тому +163

    he was definitely NOT giving Patrick Bateman, but he sure was giving arrested development

    • @lennaymaboyyy4848
      @lennaymaboyyy4848 6 місяців тому +37

      he was going for Patrick Bateman, he got Eric Cartman

    • @vickimoore9313
      @vickimoore9313 5 місяців тому +4

      Dude for real! Almost comical if the situation wasn't so incredibly sad.

    • @sarahkay3213
      @sarahkay3213 5 місяців тому +5

      …so perhaps Jason Bateman?
      (sorry i couldn’t resist)

    • @heatherbukowski2102
      @heatherbukowski2102 4 місяці тому +2

      more like patrick star

    • @davelafave6678
      @davelafave6678 4 місяці тому

      YES! ​@@lennaymaboyyy4848

  • @SIQmai
    @SIQmai Рік тому +231

    Holy shit... the whole 3/4 of this video was super hard to go through because of how insuferable he is, but man, hearing him describe it at the end... the tone of his voice suddenly changing to delight and pride... so casual... I'm having shivers. 😰
    To think he could ever get out??!! Terrifying.

    • @ericjohansen9136
      @ericjohansen9136 11 місяців тому +8

      Betcha the detective was freaking out inside

    • @JohnDoe-xd2ld
      @JohnDoe-xd2ld 10 місяців тому +2

      Justice ⚖️ will be served weather in jail or when he gets out. I just worry about his brother snapping and ending up in jail over self-defense when his brother tries something with him and his family.

  • @Ilovechickpeas24
    @Ilovechickpeas24 Рік тому +819

    It’s frustrating watching interrogation videos that are so well done by the detectives, then seeing this and just watching them continuously dropping the ball.

    • @elizabethb1096
      @elizabethb1096 Рік тому +43

      I literally have to keep pausing it bc it so frustrating/annoying

    • @AntimatterBeam8954
      @AntimatterBeam8954 Рік тому +42

      These detectives frustrate me too

    • @doobydoo854
      @doobydoo854 Рік тому +35

      Murders are not common in Boise. They don't have to deal with this very often.

    • @niania7022
      @niania7022 Рік тому +22

      This was hard to watch for me too. Watching a lot of these crime videos, I rarely see someone who truly pass for mental health problems. However, this guy has me convinced he is mentally ill. Him going from one thing to a totally different person is really difficult to watch and everyone should be scared when he gets released.

    • @katemangos1705
      @katemangos1705 Рік тому +27

      This detective is so bad at his job, I couldn't watch the video.
      Terrible, unprofessional, cringey.

  • @pixarian
    @pixarian 4 місяці тому +3

    This made me want to tell my mother (whom I love and have had a peaceful co-existence with) that I apologize for any issues she had with me. Rest in peace, Judith.

  • @Penrose707
    @Penrose707 8 місяців тому +298

    Jesus christ this guy is an absolute psychopath, RIP Judy, you never ever deserved this pain. May you have peace now

    • @prestonhanson501
      @prestonhanson501 7 місяців тому

      Real phycos are much better at hideing it. They know what to say and act. He's an idiot phycopath. I say idiot because he thinks he's smart and its always the dumb ones who think their smart

    • @vickyCA1643
      @vickyCA1643 6 місяців тому

      Jesus Christ is a friend of mine. Do you know him?

    • @nonyabusiness2510
      @nonyabusiness2510 6 місяців тому +1

      Judy helped shape this person into what he is. divorced dysfunctional family coupled with ineffective parenting. Nobody deserves to be murdered but let's not absolve the parent's reponsibility in creating this monster.

  • @jewelsbug84
    @jewelsbug84 10 місяців тому +183

    It’s like interrogating a well spoken toddler.

    • @snowredsnow666
      @snowredsnow666 9 місяців тому

      yup all NPDS and ASPDS are... They are stuck at the age they turned ''dark triad'' and brains underdeveloped. it's also sad.

    • @DelaineyJones
      @DelaineyJones 8 місяців тому +11

      I think he’s developmentally immature.

    • @mxnjones
      @mxnjones 7 місяців тому +2

      It makes about as much sense.

    • @ivandragokrizanac9429
      @ivandragokrizanac9429 6 місяців тому +1

      thats essentially what psychopaths are: gigantic toddlers with smarts. they're individuals whose brains, emotionally, didnt develop past the infant-early toddler stage. they're stuck emotionally in the toddler/infant stage. they are toddlers in adult shells with adult strength and adult smarts. scary.

    • @DelaineyJones
      @DelaineyJones 5 місяців тому +2

      @@ivandragokrizanac9429 I’m sorry but that’s just not true. Ppl with ASPD definitely developed past infant toddler development lol or they wouldn’t be able to speak and calculate and sometimes have good social skills. You can be very developmentally advanced or have an intellectual disability with ASPD it’s a spectrum like most mental disorders/neurotypes

  • @jasperottemusic
    @jasperottemusic 11 місяців тому +105

    I love how he says "people who get influenced are dumb" and then a few moments later says i can change into any character i want its easy.

    • @mayj257
      @mayj257 10 місяців тому +6

      He read those books because he was looking for people who thought the way he did

    • @yrdyekcy2709
      @yrdyekcy2709 9 місяців тому +2

      @@mayj257 and pretty much changed into Bateman for no reason? He wasn't looking, he was influenced the same way. He thought American Psycho is cool, like "sigmas" do now xd

    • @Bleacher22
      @Bleacher22 9 місяців тому +2

      Yes, and how these two things are related? He meant he can disguise into any character to manipulate and influence others.

  • @catgarza4947
    @catgarza4947 4 місяці тому +8

    I can't believe the detectives let this Psycho take control of the interview.

  • @tonyacampos85
    @tonyacampos85 10 місяців тому +186

    What is even more disturbing is that he was sentenced to life without parole, appealed to a reduced sentence due to the sentencing not taking into account for his age and immaturity 🙄🙄🙄.
    The Supreme Court ruled that he should be resentenced and the fixed life sentence was *UNETHICAL and INHUMANE* for a juvenile being sentenced to a fixed life sentence. Tf?
    So, he was resentenced as 26 to life with the 12 years he had already served being credited. This psychopath is eligible to be released in 2033.
    So, my question is…when he gets out and starts killing again, can the families of the victims sue the Supreme Court for allowing any sort of leniency for a psychopath who will kill again?

    • @MikeRotch-ur7sx
      @MikeRotch-ur7sx 10 місяців тому +21

      They'll be too busy denying GOP presidential candidates from various state ballots 😂

    • @Bri_g3
      @Bri_g3 10 місяців тому +3

      No they can’t

    • @tonyacampos85
      @tonyacampos85 10 місяців тому +2

      @@Bri_g3 oh, I know. Just being dramatic

    • @Bri_g3
      @Bri_g3 10 місяців тому

      @@tonyacampos85 oh sorry

    • @radicalreactions1633
      @radicalreactions1633 10 місяців тому

      You mean they'll be too busy denying women's rights and of course helping the ex-terrorist-in-chief steal another election by force, since 85% of your precious Not-so-Supreme Count are the GOPukes themselves.@@MikeRotch-ur7sx

  • @davidjh7917
    @davidjh7917 Рік тому +728

    The fact this guy will be getting out of prison in the next 10 years is terrifying. There’s no fixing this man

    • @catherinerainville4232
      @catherinerainville4232 Рік тому +42

      I can see him being abusive to whomever he dates or marries. :(

    • @kRomani-gh4ws
      @kRomani-gh4ws Рік тому

      ​@@catherinerainville4232a great candidate for lifetime sanatorium

    • @NobleCreatorr
      @NobleCreatorr Рік тому +28

      @@catherinerainville4232 women should avoid trying to date those types of people then

    • @brianhanley2933
      @brianhanley2933 Рік тому +37

      @@catherinerainville4232most definitely he will. We will be seeing this turd again if they ever let him out.

    • @reapthewhirlwind6915
      @reapthewhirlwind6915 Рік тому +12

      ​@@NobleCreatorrlmfao

  • @calgaryhockey6991
    @calgaryhockey6991 Рік тому +1097

    Detective: "I'm saying you killed your mother"
    Ethan: "Okay."
    Detective: "I'm saying you like 50 Cent"
    Ethan: "MOTHER FUCKING WHAT YOU JUST SAY?!"