Sex worker - the truth behind the smile | Antoinette Welch | TEDxAntioch

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  • In this talk, Antoinette Welch, former ADA in Nashville, TN who won a landmark case under enhanced sex trafficking law, identifies and tackles the issues with the unequal societal perception of prostitution, how those views leave women drowning in the cycle of prostitution, and how the Hannah Project levels the playing field for those who want and need help to get out of the vicious cycle.
    The Hannah Project works along with the court system and is a one-day court ordered program for women arrested for prostitution. Its mission is to be the missing link between the judicial system and helping and identifying victims of sex trafficking and those stuck in the cycle of prostitution; It is the first of its kind in the nation.
    Antoinette Welch, former ADA in Nashville, TN, is the founder of a program called The Hannah Project. It is a program used to screen for victims of sex trafficking as well as help women stuck in the cycle of prostitution with options of treatment and counseling. The Hannah Project has been in 5 documentaries and one best-selling book written by Pulitzer Prize winner, Nicolas Kristoff on the subject of sex trafficking. Mrs. Welch spent 8 years as an instructor at Nashville's John School. A program aimed at getting 1st time offenders of soliciting prostitutes to understand the full ramifications of their behavior and to prevent further occurrences.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @TheTrueabundance
    @TheTrueabundance 7 років тому +1771

    it takes two to tango. If it's illegal to sell sex, it must be illegal to buy it too.

    • @heidivillaran5625
      @heidivillaran5625 6 років тому +55

      So agree Trueabundance! If everyone gets busted when police stop a drug deal, why not with prostitution?

    • @greatonco7990
      @greatonco7990 5 років тому +14

      i sell it to myself it only takes one ..

    • @cynthiakalif586
      @cynthiakalif586 5 років тому +56

      no one should get arrested. prohibition doesnt work.
      quit living in the past.

    • @gretaholmes783
      @gretaholmes783 5 років тому +38

      Tango??? NOT SO MUCH!! THE WOMEN ARE BEING DEHUMANIZED AND EXPLOITED* - the *MEN WHO *EXPLOIT THEM ARE ALL ON the *PREDATOR SPECTRUM* -- TIME TO MAKE IT STOP 🛑

    • @gretaholmes783
      @gretaholmes783 5 років тому +29

      cynthia kalif WOW 😮 *Do you feel the same about slavery???*

  • @helenhortin7059
    @helenhortin7059 3 роки тому +25

    The problem is that the majority of people who use prostitutes really do not care what life they live or have lived. It's a sad, true reflection on society that there is a high percentage of people who will use others for self gratification. What needs to change is for jobs to be more profitable than selling yourself. Don't leave abused women to choose between a low paid job or a job they can't manage because of their history/low self esteem.

  • @claireandersongraham3581
    @claireandersongraham3581 7 років тому +282

    Wow, that was real, and HIT HOME: THANK YOU!!!...This is so important. Everyone HAS VALUE! ...my 27-yr-old sister, Hanna just died from heroin being shot into her back where she had an open wound from a flesh-eating bacteria, and this was a bit of a shock to suddenly hear "HANNAH" project. I only wish she could have had some help. I just learned that she went to jail 18 times, and once she asked a guard in an L.A. jail to help her, because she was being beat up in the cell, and the guard said, "You are going to have a long night." He refused to assist or protect her when she asked. She was 5'3", blonde, blue-eyed, and the most sensitive, loving human being, and she spent ten years living in this Hell, and selling her tiny body for heroin. It is such a tragedy. We were adopted by monsters, Hollywood monsters, and I can not fathom what she suffered through. We always had fun together and were very close before she went down the path of drugs. Our mother would not let us be alone together, because she knew Hanna would have someone to tell the truth to, and that would heal Hanna and convict our adoptive mother and father for their evil deeds. I reached out to Hanna regularly, and she could only -- sometimes -- successfully type back on Facebook messenger: "Love." She died Oct. 22, 2016, 12:22am, Sherman Oaks, CA. June 24, 2017 she would have been 28. RIP Sis!

    • @thewalkingoriginal3478
      @thewalkingoriginal3478 6 років тому +16

      Claire Anderson Graham So sorry to hear about all the pain that you and your sister went through. Your adoptive parents should be held accountable.

    • @7Lace77
      @7Lace77 5 років тому +1

      Are you sure, I've never heard anyone use like that... if you don't find a vein it's usually painful and you won't get a lot from it. Not as bad as hitting an artery, but that's accidental. I can't see someone trying to use that way, would probably get more from smoking it, and less painful.

    • @NStreit04
      @NStreit04 5 років тому +4

      Rest In Peace and in power Hanna

    • @karinlarsen4251
      @karinlarsen4251 5 років тому +4

      Your story breaks my heart, I hope you're able to find the healing that you deserve. Trust God that Hannah is in His loving arms. Jesus is the solution to troubles like you've seen

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 4 роки тому +2

      I'm sorry baby girl to read about your loss. Sending you a hug

  • @rodsitvideos
    @rodsitvideos 7 років тому +1163

    Police should do more talks - they see more trauma than ANY OTHER profession.
    She knows whats she's talking about compared to many others that talk about the same thing.

    • @tensortab8896
      @tensortab8896 7 років тому +33

      This cop is as clueless today as she was when she started. She's self-righteous and ignorant.

    • @tristancollins8789
      @tristancollins8789 7 років тому +46

      Police create the black markets that these traumas happen in by enforcing criminalization. Her work is one half the cause of the suffering she sees.

    • @beatrixbliss276
      @beatrixbliss276 7 років тому +27

      That's because they cause the trauma! Rape the second most reported complaint about law enforcement nationally, and even though sex workers are not the ones who file these complaints, we are probably experiencing a higher incidence of abuse because it seems to be a common occurance.

    • @mickfpmcolo5478
      @mickfpmcolo5478 7 років тому

      Beatrix Bliss Aa

    • @Smorss2011
      @Smorss2011 7 років тому +17

      So police are raping, beating, and killing women ? "Seems to be" is not an educated argument...I want to see your data.

  • @Irishwhatever4
    @Irishwhatever4 5 років тому +244

    I've seen a lot of comments here talking about whether or not to legalize prostitution. While that is an important discussion, it is not what the speaker chose to present about, and some have argued that the speaker's claims should be totally discredited because the topic is absent. I believe these people are missing the point -- the important thing is that she has taken the initiative to tend to people who were endangered in the field of prostitution. Sure, have your opinions on legalization, but recognize that the work she is doing is bettering and saving the lives of people who otherwise have nowhere to turn.

    • @beaglesguy
      @beaglesguy 5 років тому +13

      Amen. Glad you get it. Most commenters don't. Change takes time. Antoinette Welch and The Hannah Project are helping people here and now. Not sitting idly by hoping for a possibly different future.

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 5 років тому +13

      Also if we were to legalize the work then they'd have a place to turn.

    • @Waitwhat469
      @Waitwhat469 5 років тому +10

      I agree.
      Until you can guarantee workers safety, you shouldn't use buy or endorse that service. Ignorance doesn't excuse complicity in slavery or abuse.

    • @chikaka2012
      @chikaka2012 5 років тому +14

      greenbutater Yes, legalization of prostitution is a completely separate topic. People who bring this up here are simply deflecting because this talk made them feel guilty in some way

    • @charlesritter6640
      @charlesritter6640 5 років тому +4

      It's a bandaid solution.

  • @shanearroyo4224
    @shanearroyo4224 4 роки тому +23

    I broke down into tears when I felt the women's value individually. I wanted to make sure no one would ever find the pimps, traffickers, & tricks, comfort all of them when they mourn as a cosmic father, healing their emotional wounds through encouraging, uplifting, & inspiring these women.

  • @biondna7984
    @biondna7984 6 років тому +106

    Bless her, and everyone she helps. I hope it goes all over the nation and the world.

  • @Hannah-ls7xb
    @Hannah-ls7xb 4 роки тому +8

    Heartwarming. Such a wonderful program. These women need support and inspiration. Thank you to everyone that is involved 💛

  • @siddsen95
    @siddsen95 5 років тому +99

    I don't know how TED speakers maintain such calm and impersonal tones while speaking about the most unacceptable realities.
    God bless this woman and everyone she wants to help.

    • @silverdove88
      @silverdove88 10 місяців тому

      I think many of these speakers work for years with unacceptable realities. It’s a long and sometimes difficult labour of the heart, mind, body & spirit to gain an ability to deeply accept the unacceptable & speak calmly, care deeply, and make the extraordinary difference they do to better our world. It’s so beautiful

  • @GuilloRamiro
    @GuilloRamiro 4 роки тому +11

    I love TEDx Talks, they allow people to share true painful stories, and thats a really big step to rise awareness and ultimately healthy changes.
    To share resources like the Hannah proyect, so people can reach out for help, and also that more often than not, we are not alone with our problems, somewhere, someone is experiencing the same problems, and someothers with better chances, are working to help them.
    ❤👍

  • @kelh8999
    @kelh8999 5 років тому +19

    That's amazing work. There are so many facets of abuse of women including human trafficking and I am so proud of you for taking the initiative to help truly serve and protect.

  • @aidoll3692
    @aidoll3692 6 років тому +459

    Some ted talks have wonderful, kind, and intelligent comment sections.
    *This, however, isn't one of them.*

    • @kirajahn207
      @kirajahn207 6 років тому +38

      Really? When it comes to Tedx talk comments, half of what I've encountered is the standard MRA troll talk, peppered with thoughtful comments like "I'd suck those tits."

    • @marcgrundfest1495
      @marcgrundfest1495 6 років тому +6

      And some Ted talks have this thing called evidence and reasoning. Incidentally the Hanna project is just a cute name for clemency.. Been around for some time now.. Like most of Ted it's about politics not policy..

    • @BG-rx6ts
      @BG-rx6ts 6 років тому +3

      Marc Grundfest oof

    • @brittkelly9878
      @brittkelly9878 5 років тому +6

      Oh Jesus Christ why should it be illegal for these women to be making money off of what everybody is doing anyway come on guys were all fuking these women are at least getting paid for it!! Like come on now

    • @brenthunter5078
      @brenthunter5078 5 років тому +4

      why, because they disagree with you?

  • @shalow2
    @shalow2 5 років тому +129

    If I found out that one of my friends had a conviction for prostitution I'd lose faith in the system. That's not something a person should be criminalised for. And criminalising it just adds to the social stigma of it.
    The Hanna project sounds like a good idea though.

    • @M0viLover
      @M0viLover 3 роки тому +2

      There's a good TEDx talk, comparing the .. legalization of prostitution. Per the presenter - the favored model is decriminalization, which is only in New Zealand.

  • @blackrocktile5855
    @blackrocktile5855 7 років тому +308

    Good parenting can only happen when you have a society that has support systems that foster healthy citizens , with affordable housing, living wage, universal health care....justice, addressing sexism, racism, prejudice and so on....it take a village to raise a child.....in other words a society

    • @marcgrundfest1495
      @marcgrundfest1495 6 років тому +6

      BlackRock Tile
      so your saying society should only allow certain persons to breed since the issue of such unions is a societal responsibility. Or maybe your saying responsibility is a social thing, but folks can do whatever the fk they want with the costs shifted to everyone else.
      Frankly it doesn't matter what you are saying, because either way it's delusional..

    • @j.h.6633
      @j.h.6633 6 років тому +5

      I see what you are saying. I completely agree with you!

    • @cheesecake4648
      @cheesecake4648 5 років тому +1

      yes, marc, certain people should have the right to have children. so there wouldn't be any child abuse of any kind.

    • @glovefet
      @glovefet 5 років тому

      well said

    • @karinlarsen4251
      @karinlarsen4251 5 років тому +6

      I believe good parenting comes from good parenting. Education can teach children that their parents are violating them. Children in dysfunctional families keep secrets.

  • @Rissy617
    @Rissy617 7 років тому +27

    thank you for sharing this story, changing lives, and remembering we are all humans and it's not our job to judge ❤

  • @PinkCoils
    @PinkCoils 5 років тому +7

    Some people say that prostitution should be legalized, but then there would be the problem of human trafficking. If you legalize prostitution, you legalize human trafficking. And that, is no bueno. Instead, they should stop arresting the prostitutes/victims and focus on arresting pimps and johns.

  • @anubhavganguly5838
    @anubhavganguly5838 6 років тому +18

    Felt so sad after hearing this. Hope someday the conditions will improve.

  • @Huveto
    @Huveto 5 років тому +2

    Thank you! Keep working. People like you are the reason we still have hope in humanity!

  • @electrology
    @electrology 5 років тому

    Wow. God Bless you Ms.Welch. I will do my part in The Hannah Project. What a noble cause

  • @radheshyamdevotion7132
    @radheshyamdevotion7132 7 років тому +4

    great talk and work with the Hannah project. Very courageous.

  • @sydneyellis2141
    @sydneyellis2141 6 років тому +48

    And I do have a relative with a solicitation charge, and I don’t see her differently. Maybe this is because I’ve been educated about this for long

    • @secret1167
      @secret1167 4 роки тому +4

      I'd feel more empathy than anything.

    • @eryiyn1418
      @eryiyn1418 4 роки тому +3

      @@ozzwaidothegreat2221 women are wonderful and powerful human beings, and thats the fact

    • @ethanpoole3443
      @ethanpoole3443 4 роки тому +1

      I would not see such a woman as someone lesser either, if anything as an empath I would reach out to such a person to relive them of some of their pain and remind her that she is not alone in suffering. I’ve spent most of my life battling my own demons from years of abuse and social rejection as a child and the collapse of my physical health combined with Complex PTSD, all as a result of that abuse - the last thing I’m going to do is judge another for their own demons. I’m grateful addiction was never among my demons, but disability, my myriad chronic illnesses and my mental health issues and severe chronic pain certainly would have placed me at very high risk for addiction had I been born with an addictive personality...and that is a roll of the genetic dice that none of us has any control over.

  • @lalab5869
    @lalab5869 Рік тому +2

    It’s wonderful to hear about this kind of program. Humanitarian work saves lives. I love hearing about this. Amazing!

  • @LovelyFlyShy
    @LovelyFlyShy 4 роки тому +21

    I love this concept! I wish something like this could be implemented here in Las Vegas. My Lord. The ending statement brought tears to my eyes it is so true. I do hide behind a smile amongst all the other things you named, and I'm currently reduced to this lifestyle :(

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 роки тому +4

      If you don't like what you do, stop.
      Do something else.
      If you view it as a "Reduction" then it's obviously not for you.
      Go to school, learn a skill set and take up a new line.
      The only person limiting you is you.
      If you're being forced you will have to be sneaky and hide some money for your run, but there's always a way to change your life if you really want to.

    • @LovelyFlyShy
      @LovelyFlyShy 3 роки тому +6

      @@kenkneram4819 I really appreciate your comment. I've since been freed from that lifestyle and in active recovery❤

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 роки тому +1

      @@LovelyFlyShy
      Congratulations.

    • @evertdevries8814
      @evertdevries8814 3 роки тому +5

      @@kenkneram4819 And while she's doing all the stopping of work and going to school again, the rent and the bills have to be paid. How, if you have nothing?

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 2 роки тому

      @@kenkneram4819 👏👏👏...

  • @JLS639
    @JLS639 4 роки тому +7

    Every job I have applied to outside of California in the last 20 years has asked if I was ever in a diversion program (many said "diversion program or similar alternative to prosecution" or something similar). Every one said applicants who lied about being in diversion could be fired immediately. The idea that diversion programs like The Hannah Project get around the problems of conviction is a farce.

  • @Collateral0
    @Collateral0 4 роки тому +3

    this is why this lifestyle shouldn’t be supported or shown as a good example, most people get into because of very bad reasons that people don’t want to fix. If a woman is selling herself for money its not because she truly wants to but because there is definitely a point in her life where things took a dark turn. We should be encouraging people away from that harsh lifestyle and to improve themselves by not selling themselves. We should be helping these women and not promoting in industry that summarily denounces them and objectifies them as objects to be bought and sold. That is not humanity, that is the opposite.

  • @HCVAdvocate
    @HCVAdvocate 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this sad story!! Wake up people!

  • @ritaschaffer780
    @ritaschaffer780 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for telling people how it is & for making a difference in the world & in people's lives.

  • @paulwnuk8323
    @paulwnuk8323 3 роки тому +4

    Prostitution needs to be legalized, taxed, and regulated. It will help stop human trafficking and end the shame and stigma for the industry.

    • @Ivan_Lopez2024
      @Ivan_Lopez2024 3 роки тому

      Too many sheep living in fear

    • @lanac7974
      @lanac7974 2 роки тому

      Human trafficking and prostitution is different

  • @lorettajames6158
    @lorettajames6158 6 років тому +48

    Thank you so much for all you have done to understand the real feeling that's behind us is the worthlessness especially when you do ask help and it never comes my nightmares are hardly ever about the attacks but about emotional abuse or ones that remind me of how worthless I am I was told I would get help to get CBT 2 years later I'm still waiting besides one family member no one has ever try to support me I feel not worthy of this world anyway I lost myself 2 years ago and I want to find her again

    • @chikaka2012
      @chikaka2012 5 років тому +6

      Loretta James Don’t give up. You will get there!! You are stronger than most of us, because you are seeking help with hardly anyone supporting you. If you need information, some of us are here for you

    • @DiscoTimelordASD
      @DiscoTimelordASD 4 роки тому +1

      Loretta - you are worth A LOT❤
      I can't imagine what you've been through, but you will find yourself again.
      It's taken me over ten years and I'm still not complete, but I feel better than I ever did back then.
      I'm here, and I care❤

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 4 роки тому +1

      Keep fighting. Don't give up.

    • @k9la77
      @k9la77 3 роки тому

      don't give up, Loretta! lots of love and support from me❤

  • @dawn9143
    @dawn9143 6 років тому +12

    I am glad that this talk exists in that this is defiantly a subject that needs more conversations. Indeed continuing to punish women that are already being punished by life will only make them fearful of institutions that should be helping them. However, I do not think that a one day program is doing enough, although being given the offer to clear charges in a big step. Many women are afraid or may have no other skills to support their families. Besides that if we focused on the larger issue some of this would be cleared up. Our poor and homeless are trapped. They cannot afford training to build skills but minium wage jobs often do not pay enough to live and added to that it can be difficult to even get a skill less job.

  • @dondressel4802
    @dondressel4802 5 років тому +22

    My ex-girlfriends 20 year old daughter turned to prostitution because as she says it’s easy good money
    It broke my ex’s heart
    We only hope and pray she’ll wake up someday without being murdered
    Her father was never there for her
    I wonder if there’s a connection because of it?

    • @recyclespinning9839
      @recyclespinning9839 4 роки тому +3

      I think there may be a connection. Though you may never know the truth. You say it was your ex girlfriends daughter,,, no doubt your ex had other ex boyfriends before you, and no doubt at least one of her ex boyfriends had at least his eye on her daughter. So like I said you may never know the real reason she went into prostitution, but I got a hunch....

  • @alrino9820
    @alrino9820 4 роки тому +4

    What a wonderful project. Kudos to you Antoinette! Thank you for caring.

  • @rebuildchronicales
    @rebuildchronicales 6 років тому +39

    Good work madam! for not only America but the whole human civilization.

  • @JessRenee91481
    @JessRenee91481 4 роки тому +4

    I can't help but think that making prostitution illegal isn't protecting these women rather serving only to make the problems worse.

  • @christianefiorito6684
    @christianefiorito6684 4 роки тому +65

    decriminalization of prostitution is the only way to protect women, organize themselves and get help form the police and NGOs, Its the pimps and human traffickers who need to be punished, not women who are among ths most vulnerable of all societies in this world

    • @YagamiKou
      @YagamiKou 4 роки тому

      agreed...
      minor correction
      "most valuable" fits better imo

    • @DaRyteJuan
      @DaRyteJuan 6 місяців тому +3

      Yeah. Al Capone only got rich as a gangster because of the Prohibition.
      Everything just went underground and the murder rate went up.
      Anyhow, how hard is it to become a cam girl these days?

    • @Smitty-op4ld
      @Smitty-op4ld 5 місяців тому

      Agencies can’t bust prostitution rings if they’re legal the women are broken and victimized behind those smiles whether it’s legal or illegal

  • @manishadadlani2086
    @manishadadlani2086 5 років тому +5

    The Hannah project seems a wonderful way to tackle in essence a core requirement which is the need to feel lovable and cared for. Thank you for the initiative. The statistics in this talk are an eye-opener on stereotypes and generalizations that we make about prostitution in America. 🙏🏽

  • @chrisogonas
    @chrisogonas 4 роки тому +3

    Superb! When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change!

  • @GryphonSkull
    @GryphonSkull 7 років тому +434

    these comments are absolutely disgusting
    80% of them: "I am/I know a sex worker who is happy, so _obviously_ I know enough to speak for _all prostitutes_ and I will loudly defend prostitution even if the _vast_ majority will horribly suffer because of it"
    just because you, as somebody who probably lives safely and stable, have positive experiences with it, does not mean that you represent the HUGE market of prostitutes
    there are sex slaves, women afraid for their lives, women who have been brainwashed, women who suffer, women who have been trafficked, women who are threatened, women who's family has been threatened, women who are _traumatized_ and who can't get out partly because of people like you defending a horribly broken system
    but hey, you get to earn money with sex, and you have fun with it, so yeah, go, complain about this woman who _actually helps suffering victims_ , who actually deals with statistics and recovery programs... go, complain about the people who help victims, and defend the system that creates them, well done
    you make me _sick_

    • @ysabellabravetalk
      @ysabellabravetalk 7 років тому +21

      APPLAUDS

    • @tristancollins8789
      @tristancollins8789 7 років тому +29

      Antoinette Welch, the speaker, is recounting her experience of prostitution in the black market- where you see a lot of desperation, drug use, violence, rape, human trafficking. People who are pro prostitution want it moved into the white market, want it decriminalized. In this way workers and clients both can seek protections that eliminate abuses. If you look at a country with legal prostitution it does not remotely look like human trafficking. It is a means to Protect the suffering that you point it, by legalizing it.

    • @zaramahmood9628
      @zaramahmood9628 7 років тому +6

      THANK YOU!!!

    • @Veronensis
      @Veronensis 7 років тому +24

      If 80% of comments are from happy sex workers, how do you know that "the vast majority will horribly suffer" If you stigmatize and criminalize prostitution as a whole, it is MUCH HARDER to help the people who are forced in this profession. If you decriminalize, the people who want to do this profession can do it, and it will become much more obvious where the problems lie, because sex workers can report problems to the police. I am a sex worker in a country where sex work is legal, and I DON'T speak for all prostitutes, but i know ENOUGH woman who want to do this. If we just accept that women have a sexuality and can choose to do this job out of their own free will, We can work together to eradicate the trafficking and forced prostitution problems.

    • @donjuan9127
      @donjuan9127 7 років тому +3

      the woman in this video flat out lied several times, i.e. "no little girl EVER wanted to be a prostitute", "every prostitute hated it every day", etc. the woman in this video blames prostitution 100% on men but you're mad at people truthfully rebutting those lies. I personally hate prostitution and pimping, but I've been around... maybe as a former cop she heard over and over hookers claiming they had no other choices or options, but as a man that used to be out there in them streets, especially as a young teenage troublemaker... turning tricks is a woman's game and a woman's world... dudes don't be pimping like movies and rap songs say, most pimps got turned out by hoes and they get swallowed alive by the bitches often... at least 99% of women selling sex can stop any second they want
      +

  • @turkeyweasel9347
    @turkeyweasel9347 4 роки тому +5

    Wow! Thank you thank you thank you for making a difference in these woman s life's. You didn't have to do this especially coming from a good solid background and not initially understanding the street live so many of us lived or were groomed into. You could have judged us broken women and made jokes or regarded us as trashed whores instead you made a change to protect us/them. I cried watching this and gained a diffrent perspective on female cops WOW just wow thank you for helping those who have felt hopeless and now have a chance to learn unconditional love.

  • @pixistix666
    @pixistix666 5 років тому +3

    this is so amazing i can’t even

  • @nebojsagalic4246
    @nebojsagalic4246 7 років тому +20

    What about porn? Isn`t that the exact same thing? Why not complain for that?
    But we should legalize it. Definitely. We need more rehabilitation, and much crueller punishments for sex traffickers(say 30 years in a forced labor camp in Alaska), and more undercover actions to arrest traffickers.

    • @stephaniejade7056
      @stephaniejade7056 6 років тому +5

      Why is she supposed to talk about every subject?? Ted talk only gives so much time!! Why don't you talk about it? Legalizing would reveal your name, publicly, so you might to rethink that.

    • @carnivoroussarah
      @carnivoroussarah 5 років тому

      Her point wasn't on legalization. It was on help programs for legit survivors.

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 4 роки тому

      What about sugar daddies? That is a form of prostition.

  • @wafaqureshi9330
    @wafaqureshi9330 7 років тому +2

    👏👏👏👏👏amazing step taken by making the project

  • @francescap919
    @francescap919 7 років тому +2

    👏 hope this project grows and becomes able to provide also initial economic support
    Great way of removing shame

  • @bigfanshope9415
    @bigfanshope9415 7 років тому +48

    I believe ,that she believes this is a good perspective, My authentic self knows this is over the top biased one view. As usual law enforcement works like the doctor who does not listen to his / her patients. As it was said before watch Toni Mac's TED Talks , I understand as Substance abuse counselor to be effective , I work with Sex workers pretty regular basis. The commonalities between sex sales laws and drug laws are undeniable. It is the system that elevates the the harm , risk and social stigma. Education , Treatment and harm reduction open more doors than shutting them for those who desire change and enhance the spark to potential desire, with a no strings opportunity. Instead of control and laws that have become the money racket we all know that they are.

    • @karengrove5750
      @karengrove5750 4 роки тому

      You sound like you have a little knowledge. Thank you! Agreed.

  • @kk-lz1by
    @kk-lz1by 7 років тому +29

    This is straightforward and to the point. Brilliant, this what we need.

    • @butterballs9206
      @butterballs9206 6 років тому +2

      Nope. Prohibitionist drivel.

    • @zvipatent
      @zvipatent 5 років тому +2

      nori - it's a nice thing, but a one-day hug-out and 3 meals will not solve the problem.

  • @rhonnachurch6929
    @rhonnachurch6929 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video!

  • @PassionJo777
    @PassionJo777 3 роки тому

    Very sad-well delivered!

  • @contrafax
    @contrafax 6 років тому +14

    When New Zealand decriminalized prostitution wasn't there a HUGE drop in the kind of stuff she was talking about?

    • @decipheritalian
      @decipheritalian 5 років тому +2

      @@silentvoice4970 How? Please explain and provide references

    • @snap-off5383
      @snap-off5383 4 роки тому +1

      decriminalization =/= legalization. With decriminalization everyone STILL gets busted, they just don't get jail time, they pay big fines. With legalization NOBODY gets busted, and the activity goes on undeterred. So logically with decriminalization all the "back alley" and "hiding" aspects of the industry will still persist, thus all the ills that go along with that system will still exist. You'd LOGICALLY expect: ZERO CHANGE. Getting worse is just a product of "more population will yield higher number totals".

  • @alexd5637
    @alexd5637 7 років тому +82

    So in your country she has to choose from being at the mercy of a pimp vs being at a mercy of you and judges. Nice choice .. I have a feeling prostitution is much more grey in other countries where they actually have a justice system and prostitution not much criminalized. USA may have a good Constitution but the justice system is a joke and you can see that in prison population.
    If you want to help them, what about stopping to prosecute them? Prosecution is an act of violence period. Oh you can't stop because you need to pay for food and rent? For some time people in your country argued that the issue is with the criminal system that makes an imperfect world much worse.

    • @JaimeWarlock
      @JaimeWarlock 4 роки тому +5

      Exactly. i have lived in countries where it is legal and if you beat one up, she can have you prosecuted.

    • @claudearmstrong9232
      @claudearmstrong9232 4 роки тому +1

      @RTHA300 The Constitution is fine. It's rthose communist socialist who hate the morality that the Constitution defines. The immoral leaders of America have forced unConstitutional laws on the people that are oppressive and double standard, anything goes for wealthy, nothing goes for the poor.

  • @daniellebragance2616
    @daniellebragance2616 4 роки тому +2

    Magnifique Projet. Souhaitons qu'il soit appliqué ailleurs ds le Monde. En France notamment

  • @pandvsims
    @pandvsims 5 років тому +5

    Such a sad reality that any of our sisters should ever have to endure the terrible effects of abuse. The bastards that abuse these women have no idea of the pain and suffering they inflict upon their victims.

  • @MrFlyingmachine
    @MrFlyingmachine 2 роки тому +7

    Unfortunately it's a business where the demand will never disappear and therefore the supply won't. Just decriminalize it and give these women (and men) the support and protection they deserve.

  • @clairehiggins7120
    @clairehiggins7120 7 років тому +6

    You are doing amazing work, I hope it can keep growing and helping more women 🥇

  • @walterhines6148
    @walterhines6148 4 роки тому +1

    The Hannah project sounds beautiful. Keep up the work

  • @mishmacD26
    @mishmacD26 5 років тому

    Thank you for your work.

  • @juanmanuelpenaloza9264
    @juanmanuelpenaloza9264 4 роки тому +14

    It's as the song goes.
    "God forbid you ever have
    To walk a mile in their shoes
    Cuz then you might know what it's like
    To have the blues."

  • @sandralilianabarcenas1260
    @sandralilianabarcenas1260 4 роки тому +3

    Amazing! God bless her!❤️

  • @reubenrodrigues7962
    @reubenrodrigues7962 7 років тому +2

    aswome 👍 may God bless this project and that this project may spread world wide.

  • @wiardzijlstra5905
    @wiardzijlstra5905 4 роки тому +17

    I agree with everything she said except that there are no woman out there who are just interested in prostitution for extra money. I talked to people who said they were

  • @anshulgupta1384
    @anshulgupta1384 7 років тому +68

    it hurts to hear this but this is the truth.. god help those who are in desparate need ..

    • @k3nny111
      @k3nny111 7 років тому +3

      "it hurts to hear"
      Yeah the audio is really shitty. :-/

    • @zvipatent
      @zvipatent 5 років тому

      Anshul - if god could help, would he/she ?if not, is there really a god ? Spoiler: no gods. But, glad you care.

  • @magdalene1970
    @magdalene1970 7 років тому +4

    May G-d bless you and keep you and your family safe in this life and the after life! May you be prosperous and continue to share your gift of love and respect! People like you restore my faith in humanity! Thank you for being a caring individual!

  • @grubbsgrady96
    @grubbsgrady96 7 років тому +1

    more ppl need to hear this

  • @Allegan49010
    @Allegan49010 4 роки тому +2

    Great presentation and a project that was long overdue!

  • @sjukfan
    @sjukfan 8 років тому +362

    Unfortunately hugs and dreams don't pay for the rent.

    • @sidsimo
      @sidsimo 7 років тому +94

      Talked to a Hooker from Rio....why, I asked her?
      Her answer, I don't like to eat dirt.

    • @k3nny111
      @k3nny111 7 років тому +37

      Depends on the hugs, I guess.

    • @adaj472
      @adaj472 6 років тому +31

      No, but I think expunging a charge might. Considering that’s what’s keeping them from being able to get a job or rent an apartment. The hugs and love come after that.

    • @CriS-jq6em
      @CriS-jq6em 5 років тому +8

      Not immediatly, but it will help them
      because they will trust again on theirselves and try again to find an other job...

    • @gracefoster4861
      @gracefoster4861 4 роки тому +8

      She also mentioned all of the practical assistance, not just hugs and dreams.

  • @juliettemacdonald5792
    @juliettemacdonald5792 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent + sobering “wake-up” speech!
    “The Hannah Project” sounds like a solution for all those victimized women forced into a most dangerous way to survive- who finally are offered the kind of help that works.
    This project needs to become a worldwide project for all women wanting to escape the binds of prostitution.

  • @andykolte5613
    @andykolte5613 3 роки тому

    Respect you and your work

  • @Hoid.
    @Hoid. 5 років тому +1

    Such an important talk

  • @edeananda
    @edeananda 5 років тому +8

    More cities need this, and especially John Schools.

  • @Makambapretu2012
    @Makambapretu2012 5 років тому +9

    The Hannah project seems a good way to start over. But i wonder do the cities where these women attent these projects also help them after such project with e.g. a job or a course that can help them to a job?

  • @eugenewutoh3086
    @eugenewutoh3086 6 років тому +1

    I'm joyfully tearing. My sincere gratitude for your kind of saviour.

  • @wesleynicholls
    @wesleynicholls 7 років тому +1

    The best speaker ever!!!!

  • @h.calvert3165
    @h.calvert3165 4 роки тому +5

    All those who want prostitution legalized, saying it's a career choice, a profession: I'll believe you when you get pimps booked into Career Day at your kid's high school, & you start asking your daughters "So honey, have you considered prostitution as a career? Law & medicine aren't all they're cracked up to be, you know!".

    • @annmurry8589
      @annmurry8589 4 роки тому

      Yeah
      When coersion in various forms, the removal of choice (to say no or how it goes), the lack of support for the healthcare dimensions (cosmetic repairs, ressucitation burials, childbirth, stab wounds), and the lack of autonomy of those involved to make choices about their living arrangements, bank accounts, attire, diet, free time, etc. - all get turned around - only then can the legitimacy conversation even begin.
      As an experiment, let the coersion let up for even one day - how many would still keep doing it? Maybe a few. What percent? 50%? 25%? 20%? 10%? 5%? What percent would even put up with this if they could be choosy and keep the money? Is that even the same thing?
      There is a demand motivating the placement of people in a category. How can anyone that even catches a glimpse of this believe people want to be doing this? People know they have to be aggressive to make people do this because obviously they won't otherwise.

    • @h.calvert3165
      @h.calvert3165 4 роки тому +1

      @@annmurry8589
      Excellent points! 👍

    • @vidyasreeram2587
      @vidyasreeram2587 2 роки тому

      Well said.

  • @ashrafulalam3662
    @ashrafulalam3662 5 років тому +3

    she's a good speaker

  • @stephaniejade7056
    @stephaniejade7056 6 років тому +12

    Men need to be held responsible for the violent culture which constructs the horrors most people live in (including themselves). See Ted talks by 1) *Tony Porter* and 2) *Jackson Katz*

    • @ReligiousZombie
      @ReligiousZombie 4 роки тому

      Why men in particular? Why not our politicians? And who is responsible for them? The people who voted for them, that's who.

  • @MoovyTimeProductions
    @MoovyTimeProductions Рік тому

    Does anyone know hwo I can get in contact with this woman? or any updates about the program?

  • @NoraLexie
    @NoraLexie 5 років тому +17

    How can I get a Hannah Project started in my own state?

  • @AO-pn9so
    @AO-pn9so 7 років тому +3

    If you want to understand some of what she is talking about, I recommend reading Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers. It's a Christian book but it portrays the horrible reality of human trafficking so well

  • @Irene-gq4jr
    @Irene-gq4jr 7 років тому +1

    Excellent talk. Thank you for saying everything you did so well. I don't first hand have experience of this world but I've known one woman who did, she was a heroin addict, and I feel so much for all those others who live their lives in such a miserable and dangerous way.

  • @markpaolino5908
    @markpaolino5908 4 роки тому

    How can one get more info the Hanna Project?

  • @coralofyt
    @coralofyt 8 років тому +292

    Sex worker rights are human rights!
    Decriminalize sex work now!

    • @coralofyt
      @coralofyt 7 років тому +31

      As a sex worker I know from my own experience laws against sex work make it impossible for the safety of sex workers to report abuse & slavery! it is hurtful & extremely harmful to tell a migrant sex worker they can NOT contribute to the economy as a sex worker & therefore are subjected to abusive, slavery & criminal element, as a sex worker working in a illegal & can NOT obtain a work visa as a sex worker does NOT have the same human rights as any other worker & makes it IMPOSSIBLE for that sex workre to report violence against them & criminal know this!
      so yes! by prohibiting migrant sex workers from sex work you are in fact creating a problem & the opportunity for criminals to prey on sex workers who have been made vulnerable by a system that does not include us as any other workers with workers rights & human rights!
      sex work need to be FULLY DECRIMINALIZE if you are serious in addressing the real problems that come with the prohibition of adult sex work!

    • @bonniepiovet6964
      @bonniepiovet6964 7 років тому +16

      kimxxxyyy then don't be a sex worker....

    • @DAngelo136
      @DAngelo136 7 років тому +11

      Then don't bother sex workers. Prostitution laws are not for those who don't engage in prostitution. So if you don't want to, then why have the laws for those who do?

    • @multuminparvo5
      @multuminparvo5 7 років тому +13

      The way you worded that (Decriminalize sex work now!) makes it sound like you want to make sex work legal, and that would further endanger the children and their moms.

    • @beatrixbliss276
      @beatrixbliss276 7 років тому +13

      multuminparvo5 The only children being sold for sex are typically by their parents! There is as high as 3% of prostitution that is forced. And police should concentrate on them instead of criminalizing consensual adult activities.

  • @the111queen9
    @the111queen9 4 роки тому +8

    these women probably did not have any dreams of what they wanted to be when they grew up…..their only dream was to survive

  • @juswuzz8929
    @juswuzz8929 6 років тому

    god bless u ms welsh. unfortunately we wont get the funding to expand things like the hannah project to the level required. tiny steps tho. well done. all my love to all working gals and boys. stay safe out there. j

  • @augustusjalal188
    @augustusjalal188 4 роки тому

    Wonder Full work Antoinette Welch Love you for your work

  • @malindaclaeys2591
    @malindaclaeys2591 5 років тому +29

    with all do respect, lady, police don't help them. it's so male dominated. and men harshly punish women but not other men. but I really appreciate your speech. Thanks for seeing the reality. and standing up for women. blessings to you.

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 4 роки тому +2

      Meanwhile women get lesser sentences than their male counterparts for the same crime

  • @mizzpipedream
    @mizzpipedream 7 років тому +6

    thanks for the speech, i found it very good.

  • @cathiiannii
    @cathiiannii 6 років тому +2

    Heartbreaking..

  • @andrewmendoza9480
    @andrewmendoza9480 4 роки тому +2

    God bless this woman. I hate that we don’t protect women better. I’m so frustrated

  • @carissapederson3168
    @carissapederson3168 4 роки тому +3

    Omg I want to work for the Hanna project

  • @calie-annecaz5474
    @calie-annecaz5474 5 років тому +5

    In Ontario Canada prostitution is NOT illegal but solicitation is so its great to know if anything ever did happen, I can call the police without worrying. It also discourages any abuse from the men they aren't protected legally like the escorts are. Yay 🇨🇦 Canada 🍁

    • @jennifercrespo1383
      @jennifercrespo1383 4 роки тому

      Do u like it

    • @annadstar777
      @annadstar777 4 роки тому

      Calie-Anne Caz doesn’t make sense that it’s legal to sell but not buy 🤔

  • @karinlarsen4251
    @karinlarsen4251 5 років тому

    A wonderful book of victory circling this subject is: The Lost Years, it provides healing

  • @skyjust828
    @skyjust828 4 роки тому

    You are a superhero! Thank you for not only seeing a need but finding something to do about it!

  • @pinheadlarry2921
    @pinheadlarry2921 7 років тому +75

    If prostitution was decriminalized they'd be able to go to the police bc their 'pimp' beats them or a client attacked them. There WOULD be so much more happy women who love their job. The women who dont want to be there can leave, and because of that there would be less pimps and less attackers because theyd be getting caught. You can never get rid of the problems, but its the same with so many other things.

    • @viktoriajost430
      @viktoriajost430 5 років тому +3

      100%

    • @GeneralNickles
      @GeneralNickles 5 років тому +2

      @@silentvoice4970 also, new zealand isn't the only place where it's compeltely legal. It's also legal in the Netherlands.
      I'm not completely sure, but I think it's legal in Australia too.
      And it's at least partially legal in Japan.

    • @snap-off5383
      @snap-off5383 4 роки тому

      LEGALIZED. Decriminalized means its still illegal, just not criminal, so a fine not jail. You still get busted. Legalized is what you're shooting for.

    • @snap-off5383
      @snap-off5383 4 роки тому

      @@GeneralNickles Its legal in the U.S. too in some places. And its very clean and orderly. There aren't rapes and murders constantly in Reno.

  • @artsmart
    @artsmart 4 роки тому +45

    Misogyny is the enemy here, both by police, judges and johns. Time for a makeover of societies values. I'm a man but if I was faced with eviction, hunger or drug dependence, I know what I'd do to survive and most people reading this would do likewise. Let him(her) without sin cast the first stone.

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 роки тому +4

      Not misogyny, poverty.
      Poverty is the enemy here.

    • @artsmart
      @artsmart 3 роки тому +8

      @@kenkneram4819 yes poverty always lurking nearby of course but mysogynistic attitudes on the part of the ones with the money adding to their misery.

    • @anthonymort5202
      @anthonymort5202 2 роки тому +2

      @@artsmart our hyper capitalist society is the reason that people feel the need to go out and sell their bodies to get money because it's the only commodity they have it's the only mechanism of acquiring wealth that they have control over when you sell your hours of Labor to a capitalist you have no control these people are trying to take back control of their lives and control of their finances

    • @atlntcostv7293
      @atlntcostv7293 2 роки тому +1

      How are Johns the problem?? they’re the ones paying you

  • @54321mas
    @54321mas 5 років тому +1

    Powerful message

  • @laviniaconde7580
    @laviniaconde7580 4 роки тому +1

    You're telling me., I hear you loud and clear.

  • @johnny_veritas
    @johnny_veritas 6 років тому +11

    Like we don't do our jobs under the coercion of starvation and homelessness as well. The difference about prostitution is that it is more psychologically degrading.

  • @annalenae.5501
    @annalenae.5501 4 роки тому +52

    The best way would be to legalize prostitution for the prostitutes and criminalize the pimps and johns. But as long as laws are made by men, things won't change

    • @jennifercrespo1383
      @jennifercrespo1383 4 роки тому +11

      Those women aren't happy either. They don't like it and eventually it takes a toll on them emotionally to be treated like a thing.

    • @richardwolfendale8783
      @richardwolfendale8783 4 роки тому +2

      I agree with the first thing you said, but not with the second. In case you didn't know, men care too.

    • @xarzarechus3542
      @xarzarechus3542 4 роки тому

      Lol

    • @maximillian1109
      @maximillian1109 4 роки тому

      That is how the law is in my country.

    • @kenkneram4819
      @kenkneram4819 3 роки тому

      So basically what you're saying is that we should punish men for being men and treat all women as victims??!!! 🤨🤨🤨
      Typical feminazi position! 😏😠

  • @amandabrisbane8716
    @amandabrisbane8716 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Antoinette

  • @saxmanjpr5092
    @saxmanjpr5092 3 роки тому

    Thing about backpage is that there are many other pages that are the same thing and the law is not shutting those pages down. Backpage was only shut down because of media attention.

  • @dejanmarinkovikj7254
    @dejanmarinkovikj7254 4 роки тому +6

    My support to any project who help weak people, including Hannah projects, but, sorry: that's loosing time. The real solution is: change the low, equalize trafficking with killing and put the traffickers in jail forever.