My girlfriend left me without any explanation when.

My girlfriend left me without any explanation when she found out I was proposing; now, when she finds out I'm dating someone new, she's lost her mind. #story #redditstories #reddit #storytime

[@itsnicorobiigaming334]

i love the part where she loses her mind when op started dating someone new. wow. great story. bum ass

[@jerry6789]

OP dating someone else is not even in the story. Where the hell is the ending.?

[@ironlion2476]

The daiting someone else is clickbait

[@thatonedolphinsfan]

0 likes in 2 milliseconds bro really fell off

[@cuttermasterson]

This is a little weird. It’s like missing half of the story

[@ironlion2476]

Its not it just ends suddenly

[@hiiamyou8847]

Dawg where is the update???? Normally your next video is a part 2 not a different video

[@ironlion2476]

There was no update and the story is prob fake.
Post:My girlfriend left me on the day I was proposing without any explanation
This is a throwaway account and all names are fake. The story includes me(28M), my (now ex) girlfriend Elise(27F), and her best friends Leah(27F) and David(27M).
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Elise and I had been together for 3 years and living together for 1.5 years. Our relationship was very strong and we were madly in love. All of our friends always used to say that we were a perfect couple. Our communication was strong and we had everything planned in our lives. I told her that I won't be marrying her before I get a job that pays well enough to build our family, and she agreed. Well, I got a very good job 2 months ago and we started planning our lives together. Our plan was to get married in the next year or two, buy a house, and then have kids when we have more financial stability. She also started dropping hints that I should propose. I was already planning to propose, so I started researching for rings, proposal venues etc.
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This is when I contacted Leah and asked her to meet me and keep it a secret. I told her my plans and she confirmed that Elise would love this and also gave me some suggestions which I loved. Leah also included David as the three of them were best friends since childhood and knew each other very well. They also helped me pick the ring. The plan was to rent a cabin surrounded by nature and wilderness as Elise likes that a lot. I rented the cabin and on Friday I took the day off without telling my girlfriend and met up with Leah and David and one of my friends to set up everything. I gave instructions to my friend about how I wanted everything to be set up as he was supposed to go there the next day before us and set up everything (flowers, cameras etc.). I went back home after that and ordered Elise's favorite takeout. We talked about her day and then went to bed.
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Now a week ago Leah had invited Elise for brunch on Saturday (proposal day) at a new fancy place (the proposal location). She emphasized that the place was fancy so that Elise wouldn't get suspicious of Leah asking her to wear a nice dress. On Saturday morning Leah and David came to our apartment to pick up Elise. As soon as they left I called a friend of mine who was waiting just around the corner and I left soon after. Then I called my other friend who was supposed to be at the cabin and asked him how everything was going. He assured me that everything was set up exactly how I wanted it. I had also asked David to share their location and to drive slowly or take a longer route so that I can get there 10-15 minutes before them. I realized David hadn't shared the location but it was fine. We got there and I just ran in to change into a suit. Then I went to the exact position and checked the camera angles. Everything was perfect. Then I waited for my girlfriend and her friends to arrive. The drive is 30-40 minutes from our apartment and they should've been there. I thought they went slightly overboard with stalling. I waited there for another 20 minutes.
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It had already been more than an hour since they left the apartment and I was getting worried so I asked one of my friends to call David and sneakily ask how long it'll take them. They called him 2-3 times, but no answer. Then they called Leah 2-3 times. No answer. I assumed the worst. I called David and Leah as well. Still no answer. Finally, I decided to call Elise. First call, she didn't answer. My heart was racing at this point. As soon as I called her again, Leah answered instead. I was panicking and asked her if everything was alright and why is nobody answering the phone. She went silent for 2 seconds and then started yelling at me. She told me to never call Elise ever again and that I was dead to her. That I was a horrible human being for doing that to her. That she doesn't want to see my face or talk to me ever again. I was confused, but before I could say anything she hung up. I was so confused and started crying and my friends had to console me. Soon after that, I got a text from Leah that she'll be coming over later with David to get Elise's stuff and that Elise doesn't even wanna step into the apartment, even if I'm not there. I immediately called her parents to ask what was going on. They knew about the proposal and we were supposed to go to their home for lunch after the proposal. They had no clue what was going on and told me that they'll call her and ask. I got a call from them 10 minutes later saying that they called Elise and she told them that she can't talk right now and she'll call them later. They were also confused about all this. I was devastated and I didn't know what to do.
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My friends took me back to my apartment and we hung out. David and Leah came over in the evening to take Elise's stuff. My friends and I tried to talk to them but they didn't say anything. They just asked me where Elise's stuff was and just took some of it and said they'll be back for the rest. They also reiterated that if I tried contacting Elise again, I'll be reported for harassment. At that moment I just wanted to cry because just the thought of me harassing my girlfriend was overwhelming. After they left, my friends told me that they think I shouldn't be alone right now and they were staying the night, and won't take no for an answer. We stayed up and talked till 4am last night and then everyone went to bed. I wasn't able to sleep and I've been just thinking about every potential reason for Elise's behavior, but I don't have any answers. The only scenario I can think of is that Elise was cheating on me and somehow she realized I was gonna propose and she freaked out and told her friends that she can't do this because I cheated on her. This still doesn't make sense but it's the closest thing to an explanation I have right now. I know it's a horrible thing to think about. Today was supposed to be the first day of our engaged life together. Hopefully, I'll be able to get some answers from her parents if they talk to her.
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ETA: Been up all night and was going through the comments. I cannot reply to every comment and message but I just wanted to say that I appreciate all the supportive comments and messages. I don't have any updates yet but I wanted to add some details for the people speculating. For the people worried about Elise's safety, her parents called her yesterday and talked to her briefly. She just said that she's not feeling good right now and she'll call them in a few days to talk. So apparently she's safe. I've told them to call me as soon as they hear back from her. Also, David is gay so I don't think there's anything going on romantically between them. For the people saying that I did something wrong (cheat, or physically hurt her) IDK what to say to you. If I did that then I won't be losing all my sleep looking for answers. Some people suggested that I don't give Elise's stuff to Leah and David, and I think it's a good idea. I'll tell her parents that if they want her stuff, they can either tell Elise to get it or come get it themselves. When Leah and David came to get some of her stuff they just took some clothes and shoes. There are many people who are confused about the timeline. All of this happedned 2 days ago on Saturday, not last week. I'll also try to contact Elise. I'll write down everything I can think of and send her an email as I'm blocked on everything else. Also, one of my friends knew Leah before we met (they were colleagues at their old job and they set us up) so I've asked him to try to find out what's going on from their mutual friend group.

[@quantumpotato1358]

Please post update if there is one!

[@RomanceRoach]

Yeah I’m unsubscribing, I’m tired of not getting an ending to these stories lmao