He’s trapped in the USA for 7 years while his wife waited in Africa and this happened…
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Thanks Frankleen for this once again. Been following your channel for over 2 years while in Texas. Believe me with your insight I damned the perceived war zone status of Nigeria and returned to my wife and 2 kids after 5 years in Texas. It s been 9 months since I returned and I m enjoying my family to the fullest. Now I know God blessed me with a good wife bcos everyone on the street and even far away testified of her faithfullness and goodness while i was away. She handled and completed our 8 flats apartments now fully rented. I m now fully into poultry biz while she uses one of my cars to run her value chain supply biz. Thanks Franklin once again and keep doing what you are doing. You dont know how many families you are saving and helping to take bold decisions.
Hope you were faithful also?
@@anngore3842 not only that but must get her a car in her name instead of using one of, quote "my cars"
God bless your wife 🙏 and your entire family
You don try for building commercial renting apartments
You are a good man, my own father returned after 18yrs.. I saw hell and we faced financial hardship all our life.
@@nidiagraham7444 Sh*t up also
Never waited on nobody my Aunty waited on her husband for many years without knowing he already got three kids in the USA and living with a women. I had to break the news to her. I had to be the one to tell her when I came to the USA and travel to see him at the address she gave me. The heartbreak she got I don't think she will ever recover. People cannot be trusted. Never wait on no men that travel abroad.
What a terrible finishing, inciting?!!
Life isn't fair and doesnt owe anyone anything. The woman really has received a bad deal. Here she is with two children and an absentee husband who has effectively chosen another life abroad. It will be difficult to 'start afresh', with 2 kids in tow and a decade older. This man should have done the decent thing which is cut his losses and return home (about 3-4 years ago). His American dream is a full blown nightmare now. His kids are growing up without a father and wife without husband, at this point what nonsense ''better life' is he hoping to provide?
😂😂😂the nonsense "better life" exactly how I see it. We live in an illusion for real
Africans always think their blessings lies in America or Europe. That man’s blessings or helper might be in Nigeria and he’s just wasting away in America. Everyone can’t be in Europe cos there’s a reason God created us as Africans.
TotLly agree. It is better to cut his losses and allow her to be free.
Anyone,, man or woman who leaves the spouse for an extended period of time is asking for trouble. 9 years is way too long. We need to be fair to each other.
Thanks for posting.
We as men have to understand that women's sexualaility is as strong as men...
I'm a older man and I learned the hard way!
Not according to African men, lol.
“Smashing her to smithereens”😂😂😂😂The way this man puts words together always takes me out!!!😂😂😂😂
Lol.... Sugerwalls
I'm telling you ,😆😆😆
Lol
I like Phrankleen’s use of “sugar walls”!
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I love when phrankleen says "let's call a spade a spade"😅
Always on point Phrankleen. Like you said the man probably have another family in the states. I personally have seen men abandon their families in Nigeria and start a new life with another woman. It is terrible, as difficult as it may be, tell your wife the truth and let her move on, even in most cases, the wife here has no idea the man is married with children. Sad indeed to treat another human that way.
He may even be married in the USA
I don't think anyone is trapped abroad except they trap themselves. Nobody holds anyone down from returning to their country. My advise to anyone who finds themselves in a situation where there is no headway in regularising their stay is this: work hard, save money , build themselves a good home build strings of viable businesses, have emergency fund in fixed income instruments and return home to their wives and kids. Good life can be achieved anywhere in the world as long as you have the money. Don't be fooled by all the glamor abroad and think it is living abroad or nothing. Nothing is cast in stone . Believe in yourself and make the move back home. Ire o!
Easier said than done bro
@@chibuzoanaekwe2560 Yes. It is easy.
Easy for people who got married for right reason. The right reason being that they liked each othe company and wanted to share their days and life together.
You're talking of working hard and saving money and returning home without having the valid papers. Right? Who would hire you without you having and showing the employer a valid work authorization document? Where will you get the work that you want to work hard without the legal paper that qualifies you to apply for the job? Are you really serious? Seriously? Please stop giving advice on what you knew nothing about. You can't work without a valid and authentic work authorization. Period! And if you did, you would be caught. And when you're caught, you'll first go to jail. And after you finish serving your jail term, you'll be deported back to your homeland.
For me, this idea of one the partners going abroad while the other one stays comes with too much emotional and psychological risks.
Things are changing...........couples now have to travel together...........sexual satisfaction is a need that must be met...............there is no way around it.
Word 👌🏾🔥
Truth
Exactly!
Fact
Absolutely spot on! Even the companionship is important!
Phrankleen the biggest issue is that a lot of people put money on a pedestal when really what matters are relationships. Imagine sacrificing a good husband or wife over bread. Even if one spouse gets into immigration issues then they should save hard and fast and reconcile within two or three years.
As you rightly said as African men we are socialized to expect our women to be superhuman beings, to do that which we cannot do ourselves. The man is a head of household but your wife should be your friend and you don’t treat your friend or anyone else as a commodity.
The man is the greatest fool on earth. Cutting his wife off based on fabricated tales from his family is stupidity. He can’t tell me he’s not been sleeping around too especially most single men I know in New Jersey that dey can sleep with anything in skirt. He’s just being manipulated by his family so they can milk him dry financially without any interference from his wife.
He’s the greatest mugu of all times.
My advise to him is to amend his ways else the spirit of those children and his wife will judge him no matter how long.
You’re right about his family’s manipulation 🤔
Keep up with the good work .
Ladies, men; do not ever travel abroad and leave a spouse behind to take care of things there. It never works out, the man always gets a sidechick, the marriage is over. Not fair to any children!!!
Goes both ways….. however i totally agree with you….
@@bigrich4116 - I hope it goes both ways if the man is cheating.👍
The scary thing people don't know is we have Nigerians who do this thing to wives in America too. They stay in one state and the family is in another. They claim the family is in a calm but boring area and refuse to move there. They visit family once in a few months and live like single men where they are
8 years is too long. Thank you
I live in Bamako,Mali. This practice is commom over here. It literarlly becomes part of the tradition.
I think because of accepting islam and with its four wives idea and loosing your indigenous traditions that is where you find yourself in today in Mali.Stick to your original african traditions that protected our wives as most men only stayed with one wife. Saying loud from Kenya 🇰🇪
Its the first time i ws able to view your video story..I've heard of things like this..which is appalling heart wrenching n totally one sided on the part of the absentee partner...As a caribbean woman no way would i agree to live under this condition..its.unfeeling n 100%uncaring?✌🏼
I know one here in Australia who left wife in Africa with 6 kids, married an Australian lady and they had a child together. The wife in Africa waited for 5 years but sadly passed away. He couldn't mourn and had to hide his grief and suffer in silence.
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So sad 😭
What happened to the children?
Sad
African men just seem undisciplined.
short and well precise video 👍
We are living in dark times..... very dark times.
One can still be stuck abroad even if they travel "properly".
Well said
Frank well done and compliments of the season. I am enjoying the recent and frequent uploads especially this holiday season.. Hahhahah.. Our people with all this abroad stories that can be avoided... 😂😂👍. God bless
It's as good as imprisonment! Not fair at all.
You said it right, Prankleen. I think the solution is that people need to know that life in Diaspora isn't easy and may result in splitting the family if one spouse has to go first. It DOES NOT WORK!
You said it right Man and wife should stick together. If one is to travel first it has to be on legal papers and strict plan of when the other joins , not this shambles when I make it. Make what?
Nothing that starts badly can end well. If he would have started on the right path none of this would have happened.
Meanwhile the guys is slaying cheeks in the USA.
Some of these stories are hard to listen to, they stress me . Is this really all to life? People married and staying far away from each other for years... is it really worth it?
No not worth it. They also do the same to african women here in abroad. They empregnate and then make sure that they live far apart while hooking up with many other sidekicks.
I totally agree 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
Smashing her to smithereens 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Phrankleen you always cheer me up 😜 happy new year brother☻
Regarding the commodification of women, the double standards are real! Particularly in the Muslim community. I once dealt with this dude in Senegal who expected nothing but sexual purity or virginity from the girl that he wanted to marry while he was involved sexually with another woman as if he was totally entitled to that relationship. Go figure he is polygamous and sees himself as “extremely religious”!!! Alas!
Yes I agree with , some here in the uk who left their wives in Africa, and they fooling around with other women.
So shameful his dick.is wagging everywhere like a dog's tail but is adamant he wants a virgin. What an audacity? 🇰🇪
It is absolutely bunkus. Do not know what is wrong with these men that do this
This is so true 👍 .
I'm pretty sure the in-law got jealous of the way he was taking good care of her. Then, when I get another woman abroad who doesn't take well sending money b ack well, they'll start regretting ever made up those stories against the first wife. Usually, that's the way it ends.
Mr. Phrankleen, you said it all. We all need to say the TRUTHS and be SPECIFIC in our decision making. A husband leaving his spouse at home to go look for a greener´s pasture shouldnt be considered "marriage" anymore. Also, in African Community, we need to unlearn that stigma on WOMEN about being faithful when their husbands go out there to look for a better life all in the name of "to better their marital life".
One thing that is sure here is the in-laws trying to manipulate the minds of their brother in the US. The wife should think about leaving the marriage and forget about this MAn because immediately he(the husband) left for Abroad, that was when the marriage was OVER.
May the Universe give them the wisdom to thread this problem.
I think this mentality is something that some Nigerian men apply to their relationships with their children. There are women raising their children alone because the fathers believe their only roles are providing money and discipline. What about emotional connection? What about building good memories and foundations about their childhood? Then they get upset that the children prefer uncle X. The way people treat intimate relationships and family relationships in Nigeria says a lot about the rot in our country. People are so emotionally bankrupt and psychologically damaged. I work with children and the damage is depressing because their coping mechanism is to justify the lack. Thank you for an insightful commentary.
It was all his fault,no one expect a woman to wait seven years without getting laid, is human nature.
In my opinion if you are an illegal immigrant, work your butt off for 3 years and then go back.
Most people, man or woman wouldn't be able to last 6 months without sexual contact.
There are people making it in Africa and haven't even been to a border country.
As Africans we need to stop that sense of returning to Africa being a death sentence. Just because you don't have money to meet your family's unrealistic expectations of luxury, doesn't mean that you should be working like a slave paying bills and debt abroad.
I am finishing my house in Ghana at the moment. Once that is done I am saving up some money and I am out of here!
Correction many Good women can last nd save themselves from sexual needs when husband is away It's All MIND over Matter, but when the man stops contact or sending u money than women need to smell the coffee
@@tombimashri8149 If we are being honest those 'good women' are in the minority. Money doesn't turn off a woman's sexual desires. She might even spend it on her side piece.
I am moving back next year. I made up my mind 2years ago, though I have my papers, but it is not my philosophy to stay abroad for up to 10 years. Businesses set up within 2years period and a befitting house built with all the facilities I need. I am contented with what I have achieved so far. No regrets. But next summer I will be gone to my Africa where I don't have to pay bills every month while I work like a horse and eat natural chicken and beef 😄
Nice one for your objective views of things. I will also agree that you are a product of your "environment and personal choices".
Nice one
It’s the way @phrankleen says the funniest things with a straight face for me. That “omo ko easy” at 18:51 took me out 😭😅
You make it sound interesting 😂😂 "piping her down"
If the man did give her money, she will be calling him a loser. It's a give and take.
This is one reason I didn't marry while in Nigeria,. Because I don't know how long I am staying .
Ok let me send you 3 potential wives from Europe 😅😅😅
Naijawomen you all know your men are highly sexauly active and cannot abstain from sex for a long time, face facts smell the coffee, plan you lives very well. Phrankleen Bro it's a tough call on both men nd women. Maybe women hv only one child until you go nd join your hubby wherever he has gone to. If one or two years pass valuation your life and think of you.
This title 😂
These men do things like, moving to another country and leaving their wives alone for years leads me to think, that men think these women are not people and they are not human. I know that the man himself is not just working and celebate and sending home money. If a guy says that , he lying. these guys maan! smh. the husband definitely has a wife and children in the states.
What!!! Nine years?
I knew guys in same situation, they took their wives abroad to struggle with them.
Piping her down, her sugar walls lol
Frank is Frank lol
Any man that left his family in Nigeria and come abroad alone is stupid and selfish. My personal opinion.
Most of them are onishina here in abroad sleeping around and demanding celibacy from their wives in Nigeria.
I laugh in Korean if you are a woman’s in Nigeria and thinking your husband abroad is not seeing anyone.
Yes very toxic
Very smart analyses of the whole topic. Frankly speaking it has never been a good choice from the beginning of time to move in with inlaw. All those inlaws were out to do was to destroy her. They probably did not like her from day one and were pretending. Thank God she was able to move out of the inlaws house.
The fact is you are deluded if you think your partner can be in another country for years without cheating.
I know that love is "strong" and all that but there are physical needs. You will either know about it or not.
That crazy lifestyle/ culture needs to stop.
This story is exactly the same as what happened to me.
Please some women too are the problem some don't even want to divorce the man because he is in abroad and is sending her money she is getting everymonth for upkeep I no a women who refuse to divorce her husband just because she want the money and also the respect she get from her village that her husband is in abroad sometimes it is not about the men fault 😢
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Great topic bro! I think it is very unrealistic and insensitive when some men leave their women and kids to go struggle abroad with no proper plan of sending for them in due time or going back to them at some point.
I know a brother in the US, who started smashing another woman in less than a year of relocating.
But then he had the nerve to believe in what some insane prophets told him about his wife back home, saying if she goes with another man, she may die. So what about him that’s already “done” a few women? So insensitive! Again, absurd religiosity.
Some folks can be so obnoxious!
These stories are always so sad! Living separately for extended periods in marriage should be avoided even for economic benefits. The marriage oftentimes breaks down as it just does not usually work! 8 years apart! Haaaaa, not fair!
Hmm 7 years abroad?
So true people do not prepare themselves well, my brother built his own house with everything except solar at the time he did not even think he was going abroad because he kept playing the US lottery for years and finally won three years ago. he left his wife and three children in their own home not with crowd and now they are all in university, but the difference is he came with US green card and was able to get a small job in a month able to feed his family back home, We went home last year Christmas and preparing to go again this Christmas but the wife stopped us due to their politics problem as next year is general election. We are lucky we do not have that nonsense, even if we do not like someone, I have never seen anyone interfere because we believe and honor Marriage in our family. My sister-in-law is my backbone helping with everything so I can have my own place. I think when you get married you should have you own place if you can't then do not marry. My though is they are doing this for money thinking the Man is going to get rich so the Lady will enjoy the money and not them
In Isreal no one allows their daughter to marry until the future husband has built or bought a house nd is ready to take care of a wife nd coming baby's., maybe it's a good idea
Mine was almost ten years! And guess what?
10 years??. That's pain.
Good topic dear. Please tell the men so that they can learn. I as a lady I believe if a man loves you and his children before he migrate. He must have a good plan for the family for at least next 3 years what will be there plan. Period. No normal woman can wait for a man for many years.
PLANTATION MIND SET
Hello man. I’m from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 living in South Africa 🇿🇦.
Does this count as the diaspora?
I don’t think so, You living in your neighbours house. 😂
@@hassanhersi5066 😀😀😀
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@@hassanhersi5066 😅😅😅
Does it really worth it?
You don't tempt God and blame the devil.
People should be careful how they desperately embark on a journey that will get them separated from their families for years without considering the adverse consequences.
Don't forget all those dark shit they got from religions and coloniser dating way back from the Persians, Arabs, Romans, etc and made them part of the African culture.
Now they call upon 'African culture' when it benefits them.
Chei
Yes oo I agree
Some they are already married in the USA maybe just for the papers but they can’t get out of that situation if you have a kid with that woman she will treated you to call the police on you and pay child support until the baby is 18 be careful you don’t know what you got into it
Oro buruku Tohun terin 🤔
Franklin men and women have needs. Who’s to say neither was faithful while separated. However I’ve known Foreign students to send for their wives when they’ve finished school and got a job. They get back together and both have changed. People mature, grow and change. Something to look out for or expect.
hello Phrakleen, i sent you an email a couple of weeks ago. please i would be glad if you can look at it.
Odindi Odun mesan without dancing ijo fujii larinrin🤣🤣🤣....Some men are sha. Some will even say their women can't buy sex toys to cure her konji. 😏😏
It is possible to Waite 10yrs.its is possible
Good points, but The Most High forbids us to do divination. APTTMH YAHAWAH!
"smashing her sugar walls" "emptying your balls" smashing to smithereens" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I swear you kill me, especially when you say it with a straight face but make it so comical.
Jokes apart I've been there. I left my Missus in Nigeria, was back to visit in less than a year and she was already getting her sugar walls decorated. I didn't blame her as i was nutting it here in the UK. While she got angry with me on hearing things(mostly lies) i let her activities go unquestioned and continued to look after her and my son until she started doing things behind my back and telling people i had abandoned her. Even though I was giving her twice her salary as a matron in a state hospital at the time as allowance and paying the rent. At the time naira had a lot more 1998
Bro what I have seen is that some men with sich plans will marry a very young person of 16 or 17 years old and leave her in their father compound.
By the time the lady regain her senses from in-law ill treatment, then by year 5 , or 7 or 10 then she might still enter the dating game.
Born Again Christ can do it. But it is very hard and I don't recommend it.
The best option is always to choose to day if the situation is not life-threatening.
In which era do you live? Born again Christians are humans at the end of the day