It is definitely a privilege to grow older, think of all those who do not. we must be grateful that we are getting older and everything we experienced- remember everything is a transition, nothing lasts forever, neither the good nor the bad things in life.
Nikol. Listening to your beautiful video today I just cried my eyes out! It’s as though I were speaking, only mine falls on deaf ears! Lol you are my hero! I’m a 74 year old makeup artist and I’m beautiful. I have about 25 lbs I could lose, but I keep myself much like you do. Recently I have been discriminated due to my age. I’ve been a makeup artist and esthetician for over 30 years I have a beautiful little one person studio at home. I used to do bridal party’s every weekend and now that’s stopped. My clients are mostly over 60 and you’d think we were ready for a nursing home according to society. I have more experience in my ( very steady I might add) hands than so many younger women looking plastic. Like you said, I truly make no judgment about anyone’s choices as far as enhancement.. it’s my business to make women look their best, but I’m so frustrated with “ being left behind” because of my age. I’m in good physical shape so far and have SO MUCH ENERGY. I do yoga everyday for YEARS. We are a group of overlooked wimen who have money and so much to offer, so I praise you, thank you for being the voice that so many of us lucky girls have!! By the way.. YOUR STUNNING! P
Aging is a privilege and we should embrace all of the changes that go with it! Thanks for reenforcing that. At my age I’ve learned how to love who I am and have become. ❤️
We ladies over forty are so lucky to have you as a "fierce" advocate for our demographic. I feel very fortunate to be 69 years old and healthy. My husband and I have been married 46 years and have two wonderful children and four grandchildren. I raised our children telling them that they are only given one life and live it the best way that they can. It's not really a quote but my mantra. Enjoy your beauty conference Nikol. Love the new cut!
I used to be the one who was sad about getting old, but now I'm proud of my age, how I look and what I'm doing. My quote is from Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding, submit your ways to Him and He will make your paths straight. I tell everyone now, there are no rules. If someone tells me, oh I can't do that, or I'm too old, I tell them there are no rules, and if it makes you feel good, then it's ok. I'm 67, going to be 68 in November, and I've never felt better! Thanks Nikol for your videos!
YES! Aging is such a gift! I am 54 and critically ill. I need weekly infusions to live. In spite of that, my life has purpose and joy! Even though I cannot be as active as I used to be and my body has changed, I still have worth and beauty! I love what you overlayed on your video about God being the designer! Once I embraced that belief for myself, I began to see my body in a whole new light. I love this quote from beauty icon, Audrey Hepburn, "For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone."
At 55 almost 56, I feel blessed and privileged to age. I don’t try to change my face or do invasive procedures I just take care of myself. I want to be me as I age and I don’t want to erase a single moment or expression or experience. As you said we all have a story🙌🏻 I would also love to tell all women, you are enough! You will look back and you will say,” wow I looked good and I took myself for granted or I worried to much!” Enjoy this moment and remember aging is a beautiful gift. Wabi Sabi embracing the imperfections of life and in ourselves and aging, a gift. Thank You Nikol 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
Hi Nikol,i am not in control of "what happens in my life ". I live with chronic illness. Everyday is a living hell.Im 58.I have been ill for 24 years. Previously i had a career,a business. I raised three successful children. I looked after aging parents.Now i have four grandchildren. I cant enjoy them,i cant support my family as i want.I have excessive pain from head to toe 24/7.Im so limited its like being buried alive. I was a Colour Analyst, I taught all over Ireland. I was an Irish dancer, a singer.I have done TV. I was a radio presenter. Now,i am redundant against my will.So,maybe we could take a minute to realize, life isn't always within our control. ☘
I am sorry to hear about your chronic illness. I made a point of highlighting my IVF journey as I didn’t write that into my life story but I happened and we are not always in Control of what happens to us. I am the Co-Creator God is the one who writes my story I am here to help, inspire and hopefully make people feel better in the beauty category. Blessings to you my friend. 😘😘
Hi Jane. I understand exactly what you're going through. I have a chronic pain that I deal with as well. Mine came from a traumatic brain injury. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome. The pain that you go through on a daily basis is something no one can explain. Worse yet, there's nothing anybody can do about it. I'm educated and I had my own business for 15 years . And after my husband of 27 years passed everything just spiraled out of control. And you are correct, life isn't always within our control. But I did learn one thing from it all. And that is that I needed an Escape Plan. It doesn't always cure but it sure helps get over some of the larger hurdles. Believe it or not it's something as simple as changing your mindset; I look at my pain as proof that I'm relevant. When it gets rough, I shower and then Spritz my favorite perfume on myself and my pillow. It's called English Rose. Sometimes I use English lavender. I tell myself constantly that no matter what's going on outside or how I feel inside, I'm still glad to be alive! And both fragrances seem to lift my mood and though it doesn't take away the pain, it just makes me realize that I can go somewhere else in my mind and live peacefully. May God bless you and keep you safe.
I am so moved by your story. I know what it is like to live in chronic pain and I know the disappointment of losing a vibrant career. My pain was fixed with surgery, but that does not seem the case with you unfortunately. It is easy to say to bloom where you are planted, that is not so easy with chronic pain. I found solace in music - I meditated to it, I am a church musician so that literally gave me structure when the rest of my life was out of control. Take solace wherever you can find it, enjoy your family, and although I am writing from Canada I just want you to know you are not alone.
@@Cat-no8ts Hi Cat,thank you for reading my comment and taking your time and energy to reply.Its interesting i too use Rose and Lavender. I also spritz my pjs every night after a bath or shower. We take every little joy we can.Im tired,im sore and frustrated. However, i cant give up.Music keeps me sane.When the morphine doesn't make a difference, music does. I wish you pain free.Love from Ireland. ☘
@@sandygereau635 Hi Sandy,thank you.Your understanding is unique. I sang in church from i was very young. I could hardly reach the mic.My mother,a very wise lady always said " you will burn out,you do too much ". I quess mother was right. Music is my morphine. I can't imagine life without it.I used to travel far and wide to live concerts.I miss that very much. Thank you again. ☘
This is a little long...and I can't take credit for it...it is something sent to me, but it is very applicable 💜: "Love me or hate me. I don't care. I really don't. And it took me a long time to reach the point of being completely unaffected by someone else's opinion about me. It was hard work, but no one can take that away from me now. That soul work I did and all I'm still doing; its mine. I own it. It belongs to me. No one has the power to touch it, take it, or even look into the way I have rebuilt myself after freefalling for so long. I am free as I have ever been. Powerful, brave, graceful and strong; I did that and it's beautiful. No one has the power to turn it ugly. " God bless you Nikol❤
Of all the non-tutorial videos, this one is by far my favorite. What great advice and topics discussed. My quote: a shooting star is magical. (Technically, it's a star in its oldest phase and it is glorious).
Yes, such a positive video for us ladies! I really believe in physical movement to keep myself going strong. I am 62 and am a 20 year veteran at the big Farmer’s Market! Fresh veggies and move! I laugh a lot! Be happy! Be positive! “I laugh loud and live as brightly as possible!” Thanks, Nikol!
I’m with you all the way.... physical exercise a must. Eating veggies raw is forme. I’m 71 still wear a size 2 and teach a power yoga class that even the 30 plus can barely keep up with. I feel and look better than I did when I was 40. Positive attitude.🙏. Namaste
I tell my husband your only old if you feel old, we do not feel old we’re in our 70’s. We do what we want. Love your passion on this keep it going. Yes walking helps a lot which we do when it’s not too hot. We’re thankful of our age. We are not old!!!
I’m only 50 but you inspire me. Having a heart attack at 49 really puts life into perspective. I’m trying to get healthy. Have more me time and live life. Living it slightly slower but still living. Thank you for you weekly videos
I live by Thumper's words from Bambi - " if you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all." I love this video - older women have come into themselves, they have dealt with life's challenges and pains and frustrations and have come out on the other side. What I love about Nikol's videos is that I found them at a period of transition in my life and they have inspired me to take care of my skin and beauty, such as is it - I am in the best shape I have been in 25 years, my diet is the healthiest since I was an athlete, and I can fit into my suits from 30 years ago. I may not like some of the wrinkles on my face, but I have earned them and they are part of my journey. So I say, rock on girls and live life to the fullest!!
Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate you. Things are challenging for most of us. The past 18 months have been difficult. My friends are my blessings. I turn to them for a laugh or a kind word.!
When I was in my forty’s I didn’t want anyone to know my age, mainly because I worked with younger people. Today, I am 61 (and a half) and I have no problem telling people my age (obviously). I’ve come a long way - and I’m proud of my accomplishments and the knowledge I can impart when asked. As a matter of fact, I am graduating with my first bachelors degree next May! My motto is “it’s never too late”. After losing both of my parents, I knew two things for certain, I don’t want to leave this life regretting something I have the ability to accomplish/change (thus getting my degree), and if I can die knowing that I’ve made a difference in one person’s life, I will know that I have done what I was made to do. 🌺
Age is like a tree. All the fertilizer in the world won't help it blossom if there's no water. Knowledge is the fertilizer, wisdom is the water. Water our minds with inner beauty. Emerson said: "Though we travel the world over in search of the beautiful, we must carry it within us or we find it not!"
I prefer myself now than I did in my 30 and 40 I must admit it has taken me a while to come to this conclusion mainly due to ongoing health issues. Saying that I am here I am Alive and the rest and go do one I am now living my life as I want to FABULOUS at 56 and counting xxx
I am happy to say my age has never bothered me! I'm now 65 and I've always worn clothes and makeup that have been ME. I was a severe introvert growing up, but I finally grew out of that. The only thing different now is the flabby arms (yikes), saggy neck, and dry skin. Don't know what to do about that, but it doesn't bother me all that much. I hope to live to be 100 and be lucid.
I read this recently and it resonated deep inside me - I create my own path and I walk it with joy -I say it to myself several times a day and it never fails to make me smile-hope this helps someone- I enjoy your content so much ,thank you, much love Southampton, England X
Thank you so much. I am 69 years young and I am enjoying life so much. Everything you say is true. I do surround myself with positive people. My women friends have been with me for years and they are active and fun. My husband doesn’t always get it but I just do it anyway. Thank you and your channel it has kept me going this year.
What an amazing video Nikol!! Thank you! I turned 60 this year and feel great being this age. I feel as though I finally grew into myself! I wear what I want, I say what I want and I enjoy life although I have disabilities. At the moment my hair is pink but that may change next week-who knows lol. I have never felt so contented and centered. We need more women over 40 in key positions in the world. We need to shout louder! Love from Scotland xx
I am 68 still work, wear skirts above my knees, use self tanner, get Botox, have had lip injection, not over done have brown hair now with natural gray hi lites. Love my age.
I’ll be 70 in a few weeks. I was a very late bloomer for a variety of reasons. A late bloom far exceeds no bloom at all! The longer I live, the more joy I feel. From my perspective, it’s never ever too late!! Onward…
This is a video to be saved and watched again and again! This is a message girls should get from their mothers and at schools. We still live in a society where aging, wrinkles and silver hair (when it comes to women) considered something to be corrected. I am 43 and feel stronger and happier than ever. Thanks to information available online and otherwise, I am learning about so many things that help me, including mental health, psychology, fitness, beauty. Our mothers were brought up in a different environment and did not have access to information that could have helped them to feel more powerful and independent. But we do! Let’s share our knowledge and support ourselves and each other!!! One thing I am learning to do, and it is a process, is to enjoy every moment and do beautiful and fun things now, not tomorrow, not when “the time is right”. The time is NOW, ladies! Nikol, thank you so much for your videos! You are such an inspiration!
Love this! I would never want to be 20 again. Never, ever. I feel so good about the wisdom I have gained through various experiences, good and bad. I’ll be 64 in a couple of weeks. I know people who passed away, never having reached that birthday. I want to be the best I can be on this aging journey, because they didn’t get to. Thank you, Nikol.
I'm a 63 yr old young-at-heart married gal who often wears pigtail braids (white hair/thx pandemic + old blonde AND LOVING IT!); learned how to play the ukulele 2 yrs ago (UA-cam!); loves & collects Legos (the adult Legos are awesome!); uses your incredible makeup line (OMG, my 87 yr old mom says I "have never looked prettier!"); AND more importantly, I am FINALLY comfortable in my own skin. It Feels Fabulous! I could not have done it with you, Nikol. Your book, initially, sparked the fire under me, and your wonderful pep talk videos pushed me further to appreciate the true Gift of Aging. MATURITY RULES!!!! Hugs and love from Louisiana!!!
I;m 50 and I feel more beautiful and confident than ever!! I don't have to prove anything to anyone. In the past I spent so much time and enengy trying to meet other's expectations of what I shoudl be, according to my age, status, profession etc. Now, I feel I have the knowlegde, the experiance and above all the will to be the leader of my life. And I'll get the looks also by following you on this amazing journey to beauty.
It has only dawned on me in recent years that the societal views on aging are so much harsher on women. I suspect these views originate and are perpetuated by the beauty industry to create a need for their products or men who want to diminish women so that they can gain more power. Thanks for reminding us of our value and to be bold and accepting of our age!
Fantastic video and a true inspiration to all who know u. Thank you for making us ladies feel beautiful and confident no matter what age. Stevie Wonder " Isn't she wonderful isn't she beautiful isn't she precious" ...
Sorry I am so late in watching this, I have been busy with hospital stays and doctors. I just really wanted to tell you how much this inspired me. I have been going through a rough time growing old and this knocked my socks off, so to speak. I, for the first time in my life, have become crippled due to the hand of a brilliant surgeon that destroyed my back. I have been an athlete since I was four and I am having a hard time adjusting as I am reaching 70 next year. You have totally inspired me to see my life in a different way. I do not have to be a victim! Your words are amazing and I can't tell you how much you have changed me. I have had an amazing life, some very painful times and some of the most awesome times anyone would envy! It has all been part of God's master plan for the future and I feel revitalized that I have a future since watching you. You have inspired me greatly with your videos and I hope you will continue making me feel beautiful until you get old! Your experience with IVF was poignant and it deeply moved me. And the comparisons between men and women??? My husband was a very successful race car driver and I (had) to be a trophy wife, a role I proudly endured as long as we were in the spotlight. I worked so hard to maintain my appearance, as he barely aged and I became a cripple. We all become cripples in our lives if we own the lie that we are not beautiful. Thanks to you I will put my energy into being a beautiful 70. I will maintain that it is okay to grow old but I don't ever have to do it without using my great skincare and putting my make up on. My wrinkles will be healthy and beautiful! I just needed you to know that you have unleashed a monster! My favorite quote is be Bold, Fearless, and Unapologetic! Nikol Johnson
Melanie thank you for sharing your story! I am sorry you are going through a tough time with a previous surgery. I loved learning a little more about your past and how you are inspired to be Bold, Fierce and Unapologetic because it’s not easy! I say it many times in my video but when you slow down and say each word they are powerful! Sending love and prayers to you! Thank you for being here! 💋💋💋
I may not love all the things that come with aging such as health issues and thin hair etc but many are not given this privilege so lets just treasure everyday cause tomorrow isn't promised to anyone.
YESSS--love this video. The wisdom part for sure!!...one of my favorite lyrics from my fave band, Pearl Jam: "And the young, they can lose hope 'Cause they can't see beyond today The wisdom that the old can't give away, hey Constant recoil Sometimes life don't leave you alone..."
Aging is a privilege that we all should all embrace with open arms. To me , it’s just a number and how blessed am I to be 63 years young. Love this video Nikol ! Again… thank you !
You are amazing. I am 57 just nine days ago…..lol I love life, love everything about my age journey….it is a true gift to be able to celebrate every day we are here on this earth. I have faced many traumas in my life but everything passes and I truly believe that my belief in life as a gift helped me tremendously in every way. Getting to say yes I am….57, 60, etc…..is a true gift and even more so when we can have our health and abilities to live the best life possible. Thank you for this wonderful and powerful reminder that we exist, matter and are unapologetic.
It is indeed a privilege to grow older. I’m only 56, but one of the most important things I’ve gained just through getting older is perspective. The insight that whatever I’m going through at the moment, ”this too shall pass”. I’m a LOT less anxious than when I was younger, and much more comfortable in my own skin regardless of my cronic illnesses and other challenges that I may encounter.
I recently retired at 66, I am here and ready to get my "Rock this World" on... my motto for life: you are never too old for anything that is your heart's desire. 🤗
Nikol thank you for your wisdom. Listening to you made a light go off and brought me to tears. My wisdom quote to share would be “embrace yourself” if there is something you don’t like about yourself you change it for you. Not for someone else! Thanks for giving me a V8 moment!
Thank you! I needed to hear your words. I still love Botox and filler. For me, aging is about looking better, not younger. I am grateful to have so many products to make me feel pro-active. I feel good, and I admire women who choose to age naturally too. It’s a choice. 59 in a few weeks and I am rocking it! Be the best you ladies! No rules.
You are spot on! You rock! You've given me a lot to think about! Thank you, Nikol. I don't know why my picture doesn't show up ...it's just the letter "S"...? Listening to you, I don't feel like I have to hide! I love, love LOVE your channel!!!! God bless you, Nikol and also, God bless anyone who reads this comment.
You are so loved. I would never want to go backwards. I am very conformable aging and gaining wisdom, the freedom of being able to speak truth in a kind or sometimes firm way without fearing responses. I couldn't do that at 20. Maturity and wisdom is so nice to have. The women I see on your channel are really pretty and I love their acceptance of life. Aging is life......so I have never been able to understand why one would spend time worrying or being upset about aging. Just live and have fun! Inspire the younger women who you are around you. When I tell younger women that I am working on my "inner" beauty, they always love that idea.
There are always a million reasons why we can’t do something. We only need one good reason to go ahead and do it. And to not fall to fear, just keep going! Rattle the cage, laugh louder than you might, be generous and true with compliments. Keep stepping out of your comfort zone and you’ll find it grows!
I don’t think this country respects their older generation as other countries. And yes, older men are distinguished and older women are frumpy… thank you for working against that stereotype!
I totally agree with you Sarah. Mental health for women is so hard, I know because I am one of the women that feels this way. I feel frumpy, invisible and very lonely. Plus all of that I am a widow on 21 years and was forced to retire and I have no friends. Some days are harder than others.
Thank you for all your encouraging words about getting older.I feel great at 80.Doesn't bother me one bit about getting older.I can still drive my car, and get around without anyone taking me.
Thank you for using your forum to address aging in a way that many people are too afraid to do. Living a life of gratitude and acceptance is the best way to get that “ lit from within” glow that no high lighter can match.! When we affirm each other for who we are, lines, wrinkles, and all we are sending a powerful message. We are perfect in God’s eyes and our own. Thank you for all you do to help us age fearlessly!, ,
I’m 62 and I’m no longer afraid to ask the question…whatever it is! And I ask for what I need from others instead of waiting…hoping…things will get done.
Living in the moment....drinking a cup of tea and watching your video of inspiration...I spent many years putting limits on myself and dealing with all my insecurities. I've worked through all my insecurities and finally enjoying what life has offered me along with my salt n pepper hair and will be celebrating my 48th birthday in just a couple of weeks. Thanks Nikol 💖
I felt young and strong, I'm 66, but got on my eight year old Goddaughters scooter, was going downhill fast, wind in my hair, but when I wanted to stop I put my foot on the ground instead of the brake. I ended up on my head and shoulder breaking my clavicle. Had surgery two days ago, but man that ride was awesome! Next time I'll bring a Helmut and pads; still living, still learning.
I sleep great because of you Nikol! Winged Wellness has been a wonderful addition to my life. I love the Cosmetics I have received. The mascara is the best. I always had flaky clumped Eyelashes and Voila! they are beautiful. Life is what we make it. I am thankful to be here and I feel blessed no matter how old I get. I love your videos.
This is so exciting to hear!!!! I am so happy the CBD gummies are working for you and thank you for being a valuable client of my brand NiKOL Cosmetics 😘😘
Hi Nichol Thanks so much for being so uplifting. The first sign of great wealth is good health and mental health Is everything. Thank you for reminding women that we should be proud of aging and to use it to our advantage. Especially to enjoy our wisdom and our style. Always enjoy you! Carol in Kelowna Canada
Thank you, I needed this girl talk post. I always watch you when I am getting ready and this morning especially was what I needed. I have been contemplating attending a 50 year class reunion and have decided not for predominantly two reasons: 1) several girls I grew up with teased me or didn’t like me for various reasons (it changed often), 2) God did not give my husband and I children and I usually feel others judge or pity me when I say “no children”. I know I need to let go of both of these but they are issues that bring up sadness and/or hurt. Thank you for you sharing, makes me feel that someone might understand. Love your blogs and makeup products. Wish I was brave enough to go grey, not there yet. BTW-I am 69 years old 😀
My wisdom to offer is, go with the flow as the decades change. Have a solid relationship with the One true God, a tribunal God who bestows beauty. Don't be critical of other women...I say this to myself. Each passing decade comes faster and faster with so much change. The difference from 50 to 60 was huge in my body. Energy issues. Self-esteem issues where I used to be confident. Trust God first, seek Him..you will radiate! Trust your gut, too.
I’ve been watching you since your IVF days. Unbeknownst to you we went through those tough times together. We did have beautiful journeys now that we reflect back… but boy was it TERRIBLE at the time! I do struggle with my body changing with each year but I do love this perspective! It’s very encouraging
Well I would love to be 25 again, in such great health, it was a wonderful time and this miracle would mean I could spend more years with my loved ones who are no longer here. This said, I totally agree with you, with your outlook on life, your views and your brilliant, enthusiastic, empowering message to all women. (I think a lot of it applies to women under 40 as well: "be who you want and do what makes you happy" :) ) It is so positive and inspiring, including the part about solidarity between women.Thank you!
Loved everything about this video! Beautifully said! ❤️ “Every year is a blessing from above, to be savored with appreciation and thankfulness.” We women of a certain age are so needed! There are so many young women out there that need to hear our wisdom! Keep up the good work! You are one bold woman!
You can definitely rewrite your story, at any age. I am now 50, left a seriously abusive relationship at 40. In the intervening 10 years, my 4 children got diagnosed with mental health issues, I went back to college to train as a massage therapist, emigrated and married a really nice (much younger) guy. And emigrated. Life can change and you are more capable than you know 😉
Aging is slowing down and "being allowed" to take yourself out of the "rat race". The race to look young, act young, conquer. We can slow down now and really enjoy life!!! I am loving it!!
Two short weeks ago, my wonderful neighbor, who was younger than me, passed away suddenly in her sleep. She never got the opportunity to age. It hit me hard how lucky we all are to age.
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It is definitely a privilege to grow older, think of all those who do not. we must be grateful that we are getting older and everything we experienced- remember everything is a transition, nothing lasts forever, neither the good nor the bad things in life.
I am 74 and I feel privileged to be here and able to get around so well. Thank you for your videos! You are awesome!
Nikol. Listening to your beautiful video today I just cried my eyes out! It’s as though I were speaking, only mine falls on deaf ears! Lol you are my hero! I’m a 74 year old makeup artist and I’m beautiful. I have about 25 lbs I could lose, but I keep myself much like you do. Recently I have been discriminated due to my age. I’ve been a makeup artist and esthetician for over 30 years I have a beautiful little one person studio at home. I used to do bridal party’s every weekend and now that’s stopped. My clients are mostly over 60 and you’d think we were ready for a nursing home according to society. I have more experience in my ( very steady I might add) hands than so many younger women looking plastic. Like you said, I truly make no judgment about anyone’s choices as far as enhancement.. it’s my business to make women look their best, but I’m so frustrated with “ being left behind” because of my age. I’m in good physical shape so far and have SO MUCH ENERGY. I do yoga everyday for YEARS. We are a group of overlooked wimen who have money and so much to offer, so I praise you, thank you for being the voice that so many of us lucky girls have!! By the way.. YOUR STUNNING! P
Aging is a privilege and we should embrace all of the changes that go with it! Thanks for reenforcing that. At my age I’ve learned how to love who I am and have become. ❤️
We ladies over forty are so lucky to have you as a "fierce" advocate for our demographic. I feel very fortunate to be 69 years old and healthy. My husband and I have been married 46 years and have two wonderful children and four grandchildren. I raised our children telling them that they are only given one life and live it the best way that they can. It's not really a quote but my mantra. Enjoy your beauty conference Nikol. Love the new cut!
I used to be the one who was sad about getting old, but now I'm proud of my age, how I look and what I'm doing. My quote is from Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding, submit your ways to Him and He will make your paths straight. I tell everyone now, there are no rules. If someone tells me, oh I can't do that, or I'm too old, I tell them there are no rules, and if it makes you feel good, then it's ok. I'm 67, going to be 68 in November, and I've never felt better! Thanks Nikol for your videos!
Best quote! 🌷👑
YES! Aging is such a gift! I am 54 and critically ill. I need weekly infusions to live. In spite of that, my life has purpose and joy! Even though I cannot be as active as I used to be and my body has changed, I still have worth and beauty! I love what you overlayed on your video about God being the designer! Once I embraced that belief for myself, I began to see my body in a whole new light. I love this quote from beauty icon, Audrey Hepburn, "For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone."
Great video Nikol! I’m 51 rocking my long gray hair. I’m a cyclist that is my therapy.
“Well behave women rarely make history” Eleanor Roosevelt
Love the quote!!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
At 55 almost 56, I feel blessed and privileged to age. I don’t try to change my face or do invasive procedures I just take care of myself. I want to be me as I age and I don’t want to erase a single moment or expression or experience. As you said we all have a story🙌🏻
I would also love to tell all women, you are enough! You will look back and you will say,” wow I looked good and I took myself for granted or I worried to much!” Enjoy this moment and remember aging is a beautiful gift. Wabi Sabi embracing the imperfections of life and in ourselves and aging, a gift. Thank You Nikol 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
That was beautiful advice - thank you! 🌷
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Not sure if you meant me 🍑🙌🏻
Hi Nikol,i am not in control of "what happens in my life ". I live with chronic illness. Everyday is a living hell.Im 58.I have been ill for 24 years. Previously i had a career,a business. I raised three successful children. I looked after aging parents.Now i have four grandchildren. I cant enjoy them,i cant support my family as i want.I have excessive pain from head to toe 24/7.Im so limited its like being buried alive. I was a Colour Analyst, I taught all over Ireland. I was an Irish dancer, a singer.I have done TV. I was a radio presenter. Now,i am redundant against my will.So,maybe we could take a minute to realize, life isn't always within our control. ☘
I am sorry to hear about your chronic illness. I made a point of highlighting my IVF journey as I didn’t write that into my life story but I happened and we are not always in Control of what happens to us. I am the Co-Creator God is the one who writes my story I am here to help, inspire and hopefully make people feel better in the beauty category. Blessings to you my friend. 😘😘
Hi Jane. I understand exactly what you're going through. I have a chronic pain that I deal with as well. Mine came from a traumatic brain injury. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome. The pain that you go through on a daily basis is something no one can explain. Worse yet, there's nothing anybody can do about it. I'm educated and I had my own business for 15 years . And after my husband of 27 years passed everything just spiraled out of control. And you are correct, life isn't always within our control. But I did learn one thing from it all. And that is that I needed an Escape Plan. It doesn't always cure but it sure helps get over some of the larger hurdles. Believe it or not it's something as simple as changing your mindset; I look at my pain as proof that I'm relevant. When it gets rough, I shower and then Spritz my favorite perfume on myself and my pillow. It's called English Rose. Sometimes I use English lavender. I tell myself constantly that no matter what's going on outside or how I feel inside, I'm still glad to be alive! And both fragrances seem to lift my mood and though it doesn't take away the pain, it just makes me realize that I can go somewhere else in my mind and live peacefully. May God bless you and keep you safe.
I am so moved by your story. I know what it is like to live in chronic pain and I know the disappointment of losing a vibrant career. My pain was fixed with surgery, but that does not seem the case with you unfortunately. It is easy to say to bloom where you are planted, that is not so easy with chronic pain. I found solace in music - I meditated to it, I am a church musician so that literally gave me structure when the rest of my life was out of control. Take solace wherever you can find it, enjoy your family, and although I am writing from Canada I just want you to know you are not alone.
@@Cat-no8ts Hi Cat,thank you for reading my comment and taking your time and energy to reply.Its interesting i too use Rose and Lavender. I also spritz my pjs every night after a bath or shower. We take every little joy we can.Im tired,im sore and frustrated. However, i cant give up.Music keeps me sane.When the morphine doesn't make a difference, music does.
I wish you pain free.Love from Ireland. ☘
@@sandygereau635 Hi Sandy,thank you.Your understanding is unique. I sang in church from i was very young. I could hardly reach the mic.My mother,a very wise lady always said " you will burn out,you do too much ". I quess mother was right.
Music is my morphine. I can't imagine life without it.I used to travel far and wide to live concerts.I miss that very much. Thank you again. ☘
One of your best videos. Aging is like getting to know a new friend.
I like that last sentence
This is a little long...and I can't take credit for it...it is something sent to me, but it is very applicable 💜:
"Love me or hate me. I don't care. I really don't. And it took me a long time to reach the point of being completely unaffected by someone else's opinion about me. It was hard work, but no one can take that away from me now. That soul work I did and all I'm still doing; its mine. I own it. It belongs to me. No one has the power to touch it, take it, or even look into the way I have rebuilt myself after freefalling for so long. I am free as I have ever been. Powerful, brave, graceful and strong; I did that and it's beautiful. No one has the power to turn it ugly. "
God bless you Nikol❤
Of all the non-tutorial videos, this one is by far my favorite. What great advice and topics discussed. My quote: a shooting star is magical. (Technically, it's a star in its oldest phase and it is glorious).
Love this quote 😘
Yes, such a positive video for us ladies! I really believe in physical movement to keep myself going strong. I am 62 and am a 20 year veteran at the big Farmer’s Market! Fresh veggies and move! I laugh a lot! Be happy! Be positive! “I laugh loud and live as brightly as possible!” Thanks, Nikol!
I’m with you all the way.... physical exercise a must. Eating veggies raw is forme. I’m 71 still wear a size 2 and teach a power yoga class that even the 30 plus can barely keep up with. I feel and look better than I did when I was 40. Positive attitude.🙏. Namaste
I tell my husband your only old if you feel old, we do not feel old we’re in our 70’s. We do what we want. Love your passion on this keep it going. Yes walking helps a lot which we do when it’s not too hot. We’re thankful of our age. We are not old!!!
I’m only 50 but you inspire me. Having a heart attack at 49 really puts life into perspective. I’m trying to get healthy. Have more me time and live life. Living it slightly slower but still living. Thank you for you weekly videos
LOVE that you wrote that you are ONLY 50. 💖
This is the best time of my life! I am 58…our daughter is on her own and my husband and I are taking dance classes! ❤️
Wear your crown with pride. Be the queen you are 👑
I live by Thumper's words from Bambi - " if you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all." I love this video - older women have come into themselves, they have dealt with life's challenges and pains and frustrations and have come out on the other side. What I love about Nikol's videos is that I found them at a period of transition in my life and they have inspired me to take care of my skin and beauty, such as is it - I am in the best shape I have been in 25 years, my diet is the healthiest since I was an athlete, and I can fit into my suits from 30 years ago. I may not like some of the wrinkles on my face, but I have earned them and they are part of my journey. So I say, rock on girls and live life to the fullest!!
Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate you. Things are challenging for most of us. The past 18 months have been difficult. My friends are my blessings. I turn to them for a laugh or a kind word.!
When I was in my forty’s I didn’t want anyone to know my age, mainly because I worked with younger people. Today, I am 61 (and a half) and I have no problem telling people my age (obviously). I’ve come a long way - and I’m proud of my accomplishments and the knowledge I can impart when asked. As a matter of fact, I am graduating with my first bachelors degree next May! My motto is “it’s never too late”. After losing both of my parents, I knew two things for certain, I don’t want to leave this life regretting something I have the ability to accomplish/change (thus getting my degree), and if I can die knowing that I’ve made a difference in one person’s life, I will know that I have done what I was made to do. 🌺
Age is like a tree. All the fertilizer in the world won't help it blossom if there's no water. Knowledge is the fertilizer, wisdom is the water. Water our minds with inner beauty. Emerson said: "Though we travel the world over in search of the beautiful, we must carry it within us or we find it not!"
Wonderful quote 😘
This ….is so beautiful!!!
I prefer myself now than I did in my 30 and 40 I must admit it has taken me a while to come to this conclusion mainly due to ongoing health issues. Saying that I am here I am Alive and the rest and go do one I am now living my life as I want to FABULOUS at 56 and counting xxx
Thank you. I think of my grandma. She started playing tennis in her seventies, and wore shorts with over 80. And so we go for it.
That’s awesome..... I hope that’s me at 80👍
I am happy to say my age has never bothered me! I'm now 65 and I've always worn clothes and makeup that have been ME. I was a severe introvert growing up, but I finally grew out of that. The only thing different now is the flabby arms (yikes), saggy neck, and dry skin. Don't know what to do about that, but it doesn't bother me all that much. I hope to live to be 100 and be lucid.
I read this recently and it resonated deep inside me - I create my own path and I walk it with joy -I say it to myself several times a day and it never fails to make me smile-hope this helps someone- I enjoy your content so much ,thank you, much love Southampton, England X
When push comes to shove* we'll start pushing and shoving
Thank you so much. I am 69 years young and I am enjoying life so much. Everything you say is true. I do surround myself with positive people. My women friends have been with me for years and they are active and fun. My husband doesn’t always get it but I just do it anyway. Thank you and your channel it has kept me going this year.
You're 100 percent right! I'm 41 and loving my age. I feel beautiful, sexy and comfortable in my own skin.
LOVE THIS so much! I’m 45 and truly feel privileged to celebrate each birthday. I love your statement that there are NO RULES.
What an amazing video Nikol!! Thank you! I turned 60 this year and feel great being this age. I feel as though I finally grew into myself! I wear what I want, I say what I want and I enjoy life although I have disabilities. At the moment my hair is pink but that may change next week-who knows lol. I have never felt so contented and centered. We need more women over 40 in key positions in the world. We need to shout louder! Love from Scotland xx
I am 68 still work, wear skirts above my knees, use self tanner, get Botox, have had lip injection, not over done have brown hair now with natural gray hi lites. Love my age.
I am who I am not because I have to be but because I choose to be.
I’ll be 70 in a few weeks. I was a very late bloomer for a variety of reasons. A late bloom far exceeds no bloom at all! The longer I live, the more joy I feel. From my perspective, it’s never ever too late!! Onward…
This is a video to be saved and watched again and again! This is a message girls should get from their mothers and at schools. We still live in a society where aging, wrinkles and silver hair (when it comes to women) considered something to be corrected. I am 43 and feel stronger and happier than ever. Thanks to information available online and otherwise, I am learning about so many things that help me, including mental health, psychology, fitness, beauty. Our mothers were brought up in a different environment and did not have access to information that could have helped them to feel more powerful and independent. But we do! Let’s share our knowledge and support ourselves and each other!!! One thing I am learning to do, and it is a process, is to enjoy every moment and do beautiful and fun things now, not tomorrow, not when “the time is right”. The time is NOW, ladies! Nikol, thank you so much for your videos! You are such an inspiration!
Love this! I would never want to be 20 again. Never, ever. I feel so good about the wisdom I have gained through various experiences, good and bad. I’ll be 64 in a couple of weeks. I know people who passed away, never having reached that birthday. I want to be the best I can be on this aging journey, because they didn’t get to. Thank you, Nikol.
Thank you for your words. You are an inspiration. ❤️
I'm a 63 yr old young-at-heart married gal who often wears pigtail braids (white hair/thx pandemic + old blonde AND LOVING IT!); learned how to play the ukulele 2 yrs ago (UA-cam!); loves & collects Legos (the adult Legos are awesome!); uses your incredible makeup line (OMG, my 87 yr old mom says I "have never looked prettier!"); AND more importantly, I am FINALLY comfortable in my own skin. It Feels Fabulous! I could not have done it with you, Nikol. Your book, initially, sparked the fire under me, and your wonderful pep talk videos pushed me further to appreciate the true Gift of Aging. MATURITY RULES!!!! Hugs and love from Louisiana!!!
Nikol … u r the authentic real deal. I feel your passion! Your message is gold! Thx for being you
I;m 50 and I feel more beautiful and confident than ever!! I don't have to prove anything to anyone. In the past I spent so much time and enengy trying to meet other's expectations of what I shoudl be, according to my age, status, profession etc. Now, I feel I have the knowlegde, the experiance and above all the will to be the leader of my life. And I'll get the looks also by following you on this amazing journey to beauty.
It has only dawned on me in recent years that the societal views on aging are so much harsher on women. I suspect these views originate and are perpetuated by the beauty industry to create a need for their products or men who want to diminish women so that they can gain more power. Thanks for reminding us of our value and to be bold and accepting of our age!
Fantastic video and a true inspiration to all who know u.
Thank you for making us ladies feel beautiful and confident no matter what age.
Stevie Wonder " Isn't she wonderful isn't she beautiful isn't she precious" ...
Sorry I am so late in watching this, I have been busy with hospital stays and doctors.
I just really wanted to tell you how much this inspired me. I have been going through a rough time growing old and this knocked my socks off, so to speak. I, for the first time in my life, have become crippled due to the hand of a brilliant surgeon that destroyed my back. I have been an athlete since I was four and I am having a hard time adjusting as I am reaching 70 next year. You have totally inspired me to see my life in a different way. I do not have to be a victim! Your words are amazing and I can't tell you how much you have changed me. I have had an amazing life, some very painful times and some of the most awesome times anyone would envy! It has all been part of God's master plan for the future and I feel revitalized that I have a future since watching you. You have inspired me greatly with your videos and I hope you will continue making me feel beautiful until you get old!
Your experience with IVF was poignant and it deeply moved me. And the comparisons between men and women??? My husband was a very successful race car driver and I (had) to be a trophy wife, a role I proudly endured as long as we were in the spotlight. I worked so hard to maintain my appearance, as he barely aged and I became a cripple. We all become cripples in our lives if we own the lie that we are not beautiful. Thanks to you I will put my energy into being a beautiful 70. I will maintain that it is okay to grow old but I don't ever have to do it without using my great skincare and putting my make up on. My wrinkles will be healthy and beautiful!
I just needed you to know that you have unleashed a monster!
My favorite quote is be Bold, Fearless, and Unapologetic! Nikol Johnson
Melanie thank you for sharing your story! I am sorry you are going through a tough time with a previous surgery. I loved learning a little more about your past and how you are inspired to be Bold, Fierce and Unapologetic because it’s not easy! I say it many times in my video but when you slow down and say each word they are powerful! Sending love and prayers to you! Thank you for being here! 💋💋💋
@@NikolJohnson Thank you for taking the time to make such a difference in this world! You are so special ❤
I may not love all the things that come with aging such as health issues and thin hair etc but many are not given this privilege so lets just treasure everyday cause tomorrow isn't promised to anyone.
YESSS--love this video. The wisdom part for sure!!...one of my favorite lyrics from my fave band, Pearl Jam:
"And the young, they can lose hope
'Cause they can't see beyond today
The wisdom that the old can't give away, hey
Constant recoil
Sometimes life don't leave you alone..."
Aging is a privilege that we all should all embrace with open arms. To me , it’s just a number and how blessed am I to be 63 years young. Love this video Nikol ! Again… thank you !
You are amazing. I am 57 just nine days ago…..lol I love life, love everything about my age journey….it is a true gift to be able to celebrate every day we are here on this earth. I have faced many traumas in my life but everything passes and I truly believe that my belief in life as a gift helped me tremendously in every way. Getting to say yes I am….57, 60, etc…..is a true gift and even more so when we can have our health and abilities to live the best life possible. Thank you for this wonderful and powerful reminder that we exist, matter and are unapologetic.
It is indeed a privilege to grow older. I’m only 56, but one of the most important things I’ve gained just through getting older is perspective. The insight that whatever I’m going through at the moment, ”this too shall pass”. I’m a LOT less anxious than when I was younger, and much more comfortable in my own skin regardless of my cronic illnesses and other challenges that I may encounter.
I recently retired at 66, I am here and ready to get my "Rock this World" on... my motto for life: you are never too old for anything that is your heart's desire. 🤗
Nikol thank you for your wisdom. Listening to you made a light go off and brought me to tears. My wisdom quote to share would be “embrace yourself” if there is something you don’t like about yourself you change it for you. Not for someone else! Thanks for giving me a V8 moment!
Thank you for your honest talk Nikol!
Thank you! I needed to hear your words. I still love Botox and filler. For me, aging is about looking better, not younger. I am grateful to have so many products to make me feel pro-active. I feel good, and I admire women who choose to age naturally too. It’s a choice. 59 in a few weeks and I am rocking it! Be the best you ladies! No rules.
You are spot on! You rock! You've given me a lot to think about! Thank you, Nikol. I don't know why my picture doesn't show up ...it's just the letter "S"...? Listening to you, I don't feel like I have to hide! I love, love LOVE your channel!!!! God bless you, Nikol and also, God bless anyone who reads this comment.
You are so loved. I would never want to go backwards. I am very conformable aging and gaining wisdom, the freedom of being able to speak truth in a kind or sometimes firm way without fearing responses. I couldn't do that at 20. Maturity and wisdom is so nice to have. The women I see on your channel are really pretty and I love their acceptance of life. Aging is life......so I have never been able to understand why one would spend time worrying or being upset about aging. Just live and have fun! Inspire the younger women who you are around you. When I tell younger women that I am working on my "inner" beauty, they always love that idea.
It is a gift from God to age. Everything you said in your video is right on. Thank you for being so honest and open.
There are always a million reasons why we can’t do something. We only need one good reason to go ahead and do it. And to not fall to fear, just keep going! Rattle the cage, laugh louder than you might, be generous and true with compliments. Keep stepping out of your comfort zone and you’ll find it grows!
You are so right!! Thanks for your input.
I don’t think this country respects their older generation as other countries.
And yes, older men are distinguished and older women are frumpy… thank you for working against that stereotype!
I totally agree with you Sarah. Mental health for women is so hard, I know because I am one of the women that feels this way. I feel frumpy, invisible and very lonely. Plus all of that I am a widow on 21 years and was forced to retire and I have no friends. Some days are harder than others.
Find different people to surrounds yourself with. Worked for me. 😊
Thank you for all your encouraging words about getting older.I feel great at 80.Doesn't bother me one bit about getting older.I can still drive my car, and get around without anyone taking me.
Thank you for using your forum to address aging in a way that many people are too afraid to do. Living a life of gratitude and acceptance is the best way to get that “ lit from within” glow that no high lighter can match.! When we affirm each other for who we are, lines, wrinkles, and all we are sending a powerful message. We are perfect in God’s eyes and our own. Thank you for all you do to help us age fearlessly!,
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I’m 62 and I’m no longer afraid to ask the question…whatever it is! And I ask for what I need from others instead of waiting…hoping…things will get done.
Thanks so much for your encouragement. You are so right Nikol.
You always say the right thing to us . God bless you
Living in the moment....drinking a cup of tea and watching your video of inspiration...I spent many years putting limits on myself and dealing with all my insecurities. I've worked through all my insecurities and finally enjoying what life has offered me along with my salt n pepper hair and will be celebrating my 48th birthday in just a couple of weeks. Thanks Nikol 💖
I felt young and strong, I'm 66, but got on my eight year old Goddaughters scooter, was going downhill fast, wind in my hair, but when I wanted to stop I put my foot on the ground instead of the brake. I ended up on my head and shoulder breaking my clavicle. Had surgery two days ago, but man that ride was awesome! Next time I'll bring a Helmut and pads; still living, still learning.
I sleep great because of you Nikol! Winged Wellness has been a wonderful addition to my life. I love the Cosmetics I have received. The mascara is the best. I always had flaky clumped Eyelashes and Voila! they are beautiful. Life is what we make it. I am thankful to be here and I feel blessed no matter how old I get. I love your videos.
This is so exciting to hear!!!! I am so happy the CBD gummies are working for you and thank you for being a valuable client of my brand NiKOL Cosmetics 😘😘
My quote: "Let's age gracefully and gratefully" ... Greetings from Mallorca, Spain !
Amen Nikol
Hi Nichol
Thanks so much for being so uplifting. The first sign of great wealth is good health and mental health
Is everything. Thank you for reminding women that we should be proud of aging and to use it to our advantage.
Especially to enjoy our wisdom and our style. Always enjoy you!
Carol in Kelowna Canada
Thank you for being so down to Earth and positive. I'm 69 and I love it!!!! Grateful always !!!!💖
Love this channel! Simply awesome ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, I needed this girl talk post. I always watch you when I am getting ready and this morning especially was what I needed. I have been contemplating attending a 50 year class reunion and have decided not for predominantly two reasons: 1) several girls I grew up with teased me or didn’t like me for various reasons (it changed often), 2) God did not give my husband and I children and I usually feel others judge or pity me when I say “no children”. I know I need to let go of both of these but they are issues that bring up sadness and/or hurt. Thank you for you sharing, makes me feel that someone might understand. Love your blogs and makeup products. Wish I was brave enough to go grey, not there yet. BTW-I am 69 years old 😀
THIS!!! As a 32 year old - I enjoyed THIS!!!
YES YES YES! We are women hear us roar. Brilliant video 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
My wisdom to offer is, go with the flow as the decades change. Have a solid relationship with the One true God, a tribunal God who bestows beauty. Don't be critical of other women...I say this to myself. Each passing decade comes faster and faster with so much change. The difference from 50 to 60 was huge in my body. Energy issues. Self-esteem issues where I used to be confident. Trust God first, seek Him..you will radiate! Trust your gut, too.
I’ve been watching you since your IVF days. Unbeknownst to you we went through those tough times together. We did have beautiful journeys now that we reflect back… but boy was it TERRIBLE at the time! I do struggle with my body changing with each year but I do love this perspective! It’s very encouraging
Congrats on your new home!
Growing older is beautiful! Thanks for your inspiration!!
Such a beautiful and inspiring video. My thoughts exactly.
Life here on earth is temporary. Live it on purpose for yourself. If it means living for others as a choice, it’s still for yourself. 🌺
Well I would love to be 25 again, in such great health, it was a wonderful time and this miracle would mean I could spend more years with my loved ones who are no longer here. This said, I totally agree with you, with your outlook on life, your views and your brilliant, enthusiastic, empowering message to all women. (I think a lot of it applies to women under 40 as well: "be who you want and do what makes you happy" :) ) It is so positive and inspiring, including the part about solidarity between women.Thank you!
Your hair is honestly so gorgeous.
Thank you
Loved everything about this video! Beautifully said! ❤️ “Every year is a blessing from above, to be savored with appreciation and thankfulness.” We women of a certain age are so needed! There are so many young women out there that need to hear our wisdom! Keep up the good work! You are one bold woman!
Music dusts away the cobwebs of everyday life.
This is one of your best motivational videos! I wish women of every age could hear your message!❤️
Haha! I needed your pep talk today!❤️
Thank you Nikol for such an inspirational video.
You can definitely rewrite your story, at any age. I am now 50, left a seriously abusive relationship at 40.
In the intervening 10 years, my 4 children got diagnosed with mental health issues, I went back to college to train as a massage therapist, emigrated and married a really nice (much younger) guy. And emigrated.
Life can change and you are more capable than you know 😉
Aging is slowing down and "being allowed" to take yourself out of the "rat race". The race to look young, act young, conquer. We can slow down now and really enjoy life!!! I am loving it!!
Your makeup is beautiful today. Love the message 🥰
My advise at 60, keep moving and find a hobby. Hobbies can lead to new friendships and can help you through tough times.
Two short weeks ago, my wonderful neighbor, who was younger than me, passed away suddenly in her sleep. She never got the opportunity to age. It hit me hard how lucky we all are to age.
Getting older is a privilege. Not everyone gets to this age!! I’ll be 64 in October. I’m thankful for my health!
Women over 40 are confident and know what works for them.
Amen, Amen, Amen! Truth! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Aging is an opportunity to see how we have grown…. And a chance to begin again… it’s a time of discovery ⚡️🌟🙏❤️
You do you!
This video made me subscribe.
Thoroughly enjoyed this video. Best one I’ve seen. Remember as we age with grace “these are the good old days”🥰
thank you ,I needed that pep talk
We are redefying, redesigning and reinventing our age.
Lovely to see you
I am 74, I no longer color my hair, and I like the way I am. No excuses because I don't need to give them.