@@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley our pet stores only have cats from the local humane society, I didn't realize there were still pet stores that don't do it that way tbh :o
My father asked me last night why I would bother watching videos about MLMs when I would never fall for the scam. My response was "because people are fascinating". All I got was side eye.
This! I have often ran into recruiters but I HATE sales so I never never would bite. However I find these fascinating and I have actually woke up to some bs that I was previously unaware of soooo I love these too
In the early 2010s all of my cousins and friends were falling for these scams. I did not understand it at all at the time. Watching videos like this helps me understand the psychology of others.
My MLM mini-story for today: I'm cleaning up this morning in anticipation of an apartment inspection where they come in and turn on all the lights and run the faucets and such to make sure everything works. Which means they'll be peeking in my shower. Do you know what I did? I hid my shampoo 😂 it's a bottle that somebody gave me a really long time ago so I don't even remember who, but I only just noticed the other day that it's actually from Amway. So I'm using it of course, because why not, it works fine, but I don't want anybody thinking I actually buy from them 😂 super dumb, I know, there's no way they would actually notice. But there it is.
That story and that particular description of what the writer was seeing at the retreat definitely made me sit back and think hard about some of the "friendship" pictures and highlight reels I've seen of different social media personalities when they get together with others in their "genre."
Cat stories are always welcome. And, fun fact, adopting kittens in pairs is way better for their behavior towards their humans and their social development towards other cats. Having a playmate who bites back when they bite too hard is great for helping them learn self-restraint. 😂
The last time I had cats (way back as a teenager), I got a kitten for my birthday and about two weeks later, we got an older cat (older than the kitten by probably...8 to 10 months? Sugar, the older cat, was certainly no older than a year old). Spicy, my kitten, hissed at Sugar when she appeared. We didn't separate them and introduce them slowly because we didn't even know about doing that. But also, Sugar was chill. She took all of Spicy's hissing as she calmly drank from her bowl. But then, I suppose Sugar finally had enough and hissed one good time back at Spicy. Spicy shut up immediately. Sugar resumed being chill and Spicy continued to want her attention. I think by that very evening, they were crashing off the walls playing tag, already best friends 😂
I totally agree I got my cats from the same litter, let’s just say they’re both super cuddly, playful and vocal. They’re judgy and know how to share their opinions.
I bought two kittens, both brothers from the same litter, as a pair aND *I VOUCH THAT YOU'RE RIGHT;* as compared to my single kitten-to-cat growing up-they had individual personalities, got along together and with other animals, I could go on...😅😻😸
Yea it's definitely not normal to be forced to share a bed with a stranger on a work trip 😅 I worked for a travel agency for a number of years and they had a managers meeting/leadership conference every year that I went to 3 times. It was in Las Vegas, Cancun, and Austin the years I went. We did get put in a room with another colleague, however this was a large hotel room in a luxury hotel where everyone got their own queen or king size bed. They also paid for all of the flights, hotels, meals, activities, and even some of the liquor for our after hours hangouts. If I had to spend $1000 to go on these trips or share a bed with a stranger, I would have politely declined 😂
If I ever get a cold message, I'm definitely going to calmly say no 7 times in a row straight to their face so that the message gets across on the first try LOL.
see, I was considering that as well, but would that actually count as the seven nos or is that only one because its in the same encounter? Just wondering around
Love the cat adoption story!! My husband and I planned to adopt two kittens….and then we found a bonded trio of sisters who were not very adoptable because who would want three kittens at once? We knew we had to have them. Best decision ever - we love them so much!
My heart just breaks for that woman still working for Mary Kay. I think our senior citizens have EARNED our respect and to hear of them treated like that makes me so angry!
I made the mistake of looking at the influencers in the wild Instagram account that you mentioned in this video. I have no faith in humanity’s survival at this point.
My youngest cried in a Petsmart until I called my husband to ask if we could get her. We ended up getting her and I’m so glad we did. We have since adopted 5 more cats.
I remember Jessica Hickson said before how Instagram will block you from messaging if you send too many in an hour, so that's likely why she had two accounts.
I am sure this is the reason. Consultants with Paparazzi did this as well with Facebook. They would post too much or violate some sort of FB rule and get put in Facebook "jail" and have their account frozen for a few days. So they'd have to create another profile in order to continue to work their business.
It is also for when their Contacts block them personally! Having 2+ accounts allow you to circumnavigate personal blocks. I know I'll block any 'hey hun' message instantly.
My story for today: went to a cafe to do an online exam yesterday and saw a little girl with her mother, wearing an Arbonne scarf. Gave me flashbacks to being the daughter of an Arbonne rep.
I want someone to do a bait and switch How to Succeed in Social Selling masterclass where they tell hard truths. Just like, first thing out of their mouth should be, "It's already saturated. Your upline pushes you so hard because YOU are how THEY make their money."
I love Hannah's kitty adoption story - its a lot like mine! My husband knew I wanted to adopt a cat, so he brought home a litter of 5 kittens as a "temporary foster" situation (they were born in a co-worker's garage, and the coworker needed someone to take care of them while his family was on a weekend vacation). Well, I instantly fell in love with "Jack", who cried until I picked him up, then fell asleep in my hands. My husband fell in love with "Simba", who crawled up his shirt onto his shoulder and hung out there like he was standing on Pride Rock. We argued for quite a while about which one to keep, and finally just decided to keep both. They're nearly identical physically, but very different personalities and I love them both ❤
I wonder if she had two accounts to allow her to still message people if she was blocked on one of them. If that is the case, if you are annoying someone enough that they block you, do you really think messaging them on another account will make them think "hang on, this opportunity IS starting to sound real good..."
I really appreciate your covering Arbonne. During the pandemic, I was at my most vulnerable: trying to survive in an ab*sive relationship, trying to make money to leave said ab*ser. I’m the kind of person who rarely asks for help but I was at rock bottom and finally got the courage to reach out even if for just a word of encouragement. I realized I had no real friends as no one even texted me back. It was heartbreaking. An old “friend”/ Arbonne hun enters the chat and pitches me hard. I hadn’t the knowledge back then that I have now thanks to your channel. Once the hun realized I didn’t have money to “invest in my financial freedom”, she disappeared 👻 The more I watch your videos the more I realized how predatory and heartless my ex friend was… I haven’t talked to her since but I’ll be sending this video to her.
I used to work in central London and it was fascinating watching influencers doing their thing. I was once in a posh department store and I was in the section where they had the furniture set out like little rooms. A woman came in and took some sort of drink, books and other props out of her bag. She set them out in one of these ‘rooms’ and then got her friend to take lots of photos of her sitting there nonchalantly pretending to read her book and sip her drink. I assume she was trying to promote the drink and might have been a hun pretending it was her house!
I am shocked that YL payment scheme is legal. How can someone's paycheck on commissions be withheld unless they also have a certain amount in purchases? I would be a nightmare recruit because I'd be complaining all the time! And I also adopted two male kittens from the same litter when I really only wanted the gray fluffy one. But so glad I also took in the skinny orange one, because his personality is just TOO MUCH, lol. Orange kitties are so extra, lol.
That particular thing also applies to some streaming platforms. But at least for those, there's nothing for you to buy to add to your commission. You just keep doing videos and hoping people will donate to your channel.
That line in the first story don't "put it in your bio" is the exact opposite of every sales job I've ever had. They want you putting it there so if they do want to buy they know to contact you. Infaxt most places I've sold has offered bonuses based on external leads I could create outside of their own systems. Major red flag when they say don't put it there shows how bad the rep is in fact I've refused a selling job because after the interview I had a bad feeling about the company so looked up some the people who did the interview and their SM showed them as no job
I worked at a makeup counter and at a hair salon. The amount of MLM huns that came in and asked me to try their products or recruit me was so annoying.
I would assume that people in MLMs have 2 account just incase one gets banned from violating instagrams guidelines. Possibly for sending too many messages.
I remember the Mary Kay "retirement program." Sadly, both my old Director and her Sr Director have been in MK for YEARS and neither is even close to National Sales Director and both are approaching 65. So sad they've wasted all of these years!
Little story time .. I recently joined a Pilates class first week cool.. second week fine… third week I discovered the studio sells Dotera products, my instructor sells Seint and I think a few of the women taking the class are reps .. I was trying to check in last Wednesday and an older women came out and started to pump (dotera) pain relief lotion in front of me telling me it was so good before the class i immediately walked away 😂 I really hope no one try’s to pitch me I just wanted this 1 hr of me time to be peaceful
@@NurseEthel sadly I think they’re aware, and the next closest Pilates studio is 45 mins away. I’ve steered away from speaking to anyone and that’s been working. But sad to think if anyone else has fallen into that trap
I've heard from ex-Jehovah's Witnesses that the religion expects people to adopt a "new personality," which sounds curiously similar to how MLMs encourage people to act unnaturally.
I liked the point about them all being nice, polite and normal people once the cameras were off. My mum used to be a Jehovah's Witness and even though she has so much trauma from it, she always talks about how nice the people were and how they were all just ordinary people. Being in a cult doesn't make you a bad person
Can you even IMAGINE trying to tell the top earners/employees of a real company that they have to share a room at a conference? My dad has worked at the top of his company with the same few people for nearly 20 years and he would still NEVER share a room with one of them. It would be the biggest scandal in the uni’s department lol.
I have worked big tech for 30 years and they would never ask us to share rooms. My husband worked big farming/irrigation and they did. They managed stores but still made them share. I thought it was weird. He didn't think it was weird but didn't like it. So it does depend on the company. And maybe the positions.
35:40 The company calls it "buying back the business", so essentially they take the last 5 years of one's national area production/commissions and then picks the best 3 years and 60% of that amount is what's paid out to retired nationals for 15 years. I was with them for waaaaaay longer than I'd care to say. But I'm here to help me de-program from all the harm they did to my psyche and self esteem!!
When I was duped into an MLM we were encouraged to have multiple online accounts just in case one gets shut down by being reported too many times, so we wouldn't have to restart our social presence.
As I was watching this, I was attending to my toddlers snack requests and forgot to pause it when I walked into the next room. I missed part of the video due to my little ones chatter. Then I heard what sounded like an mlm video promising that people can skip the hard part and get right making money if they just buy a training session. I assumed I had missed what you had said and it was a clip you were responding to but when I got back to my phone realized it was a beach body ad playing on your video. I’m so glad these ads are showing up in your channel because this is the perfect audience to ignore their shady tactics. I thought it was interesting and had to share.
The "coaching" and "courses" scams have BLOWN UP. Even outside mlms, would love to see a video on this! They're language is often so manipulative and they prey on vulnerability
We also got our second cat as BOGO deal - Cookie did choose us basically, and we were promised Mr. Benji is bonded with Cookie but rather asocial with people, so we won't even know about him we just need to feed him. Two years later he is the cuddliest boy that sleeps on me every night.
Well we are in our 20s-30s and realizing we're never going to get a retirement too. Unfortunately these MLMs look more appealing when regular employment sucks too. Companies today also feel that they owe you nothing.
So MLMs offer you what, then?? Work your regular job and invest whatever money you can. I'm 70 and never worked a high-paying job with a pension, but I am comfortable in retirement. Never lived beyond my means and still don't. These MLMs, Ponzi schemes, are not the way to a happy future.
I have a friend in YL (we actually had a falling out a few years ago) and I’ve often wondered about her rank in the company. It makes me sad that she’s probably still working very hard for almost no return.
So not on topic but I just have to interject. I LOVE that you and the author of your first letter have adopted cats. We are a two cat family which means, of course, we have three cats. When our third cat “found me” at a shelter there was no way we were going to adopt him. The next day I was calling the shelter. I convinced my husband we would “try him out”. I even had people lined up in case it didn’t work out. After two days of my big furry boy on my lap, chest , head, I approached my husband with Lance (cat) in my arms and announced to him that “you can NOT make me give up MY cat!” 😂
The retirement story is heartbreaking. I can’t imagine devoting that much time and work just to not be offered anything from the company. Like I literally am going to have retirement money from a crappy part-time fast food job I worked in college years ago, but these MLM people get nothing.
Since you won't have a bonded pair, try to get a male cat for the second one. Male cats are more mellow (after they are spayed) and will pair well with another male or a female. Two females will have the more difficult time bonding because females are very territorial. There are exceptions to this rule of course but it's a good general guideline.
Facebook and Instagram mark you as spam if you send too much in 1 day or even a week and then you are completely blocked from the messaging function for a period. this is probably the reason for 2 accounts
Not about MLMs but I also was someone who just wanted one cat and ended up adopting two little girlies from the same litter and it was the best decision I ever made 🥰
The two account approach could be in case one of their accounts gets suspended, since you're technically not supposed to hawk mlm stuff on like Instagram, etc.
The Zeke story made me tear up! I also have a pair of bonded brothers, I can't imagine them ever being separated . I love the Zeke appearances, and super love the ultra rare Cooper appearances! ❤❤
Came across your channel recently and just love binge listening to you while sewing. You manage to really strike a balance between “calling-it-out” but being respectful of the person involved. Not an easy balance. Well done.
I always heard that it was better to get 2 cats at one time, I wasn’t convinced. In reality I am more of a dog person, but am not in a place to take on a dog, so I got a cat, a little more than 3 years ago. He has always been very needy, although affectionate. It was hard on him when I left him even for a day. I have friend who needed someone to foster her kitty Sue to her health. Well Sophie has been with us for a little more than a month. She is the sweetest thing, and when her Mama asked if I would keep her I didn’t even need to think about! So now my Rusty has a companion and is so much better of a cat.
Just welcomed our new baby this month and I'm currently up late pumping. It's so nice to sit down with your videos and take a little breather. Love the story about Zeke. How awesome!
I’ve traveled for work many times and with different companies. It has NEVER been asked that I share a room with someone. Especially not a stranger. Even with separate beds. My only knowledge of people sharing rooms for business are during canceled flights/booked out hotels/only one room available last minute situations. It’s way too much liability for a business to expect strangers to share what is typically a “private” space.
And just like THAT... 48 minutes have FLOWN BY. Great content. Bravo. I am a new content creator on another account and its freaking hard to do this. You are a natural!
The story about the Arbonne retreat is hilarious. I live in Vancouver, B.C. and have been to Vancouver Island countless times. Arbonne is definitely big here. I'm a teacher and see coworkers using their products constantly.
YAY!! I love Hannah Mondays!! Your voice is so soothing and videos so educational!! I got caught by a couple mlm’s a while back and have thought about sharing, but struggle to put my thoughts into words that others can follow lol. Any who love your videos!! Happy Monday 💕
I don't think you were clear that only 200 people have reached that rank plus 155 retired ones. That means that right now, only 355 people out of all their living and retired workers are eligible or receiving this. Of course their may have been some who died but for a current number of how many can receive retirement that is crazy. Out of 2.4 MILLION current consultants only 200 are eligible for retirement plans.
The only good thing about getting sucked into an MLM during 2020 was that I had a perfect argument for not going to any of the conventions/team-building nonsense. I mean, there was still some dismissive talk about my ~concerns~ about COVID, but it was hard to argue with everybody getting COVID at convention, then having to work while being sick.
Imagine working for an mlm for more than 5 years and then it goes under. Now you have to explain to a future employer why you weren't working during that time, since from my understandibg most jobs don't consider an mlm an actual place of employement.
Literally the only reason I post about my work trips is I’m in the travel industry so the point is to share the locations 😂 But when I worked in corporate or a non profit, it never occurred to me to do that with any trips I was sent on.
I remember pushing my mom to order Avon or Mary Kay, she was always resistant and now I know why! I definitely have a Kirby story almost identical to the story that was posted a while back. Your content is super eye-opening, please never stop spreading this message and I love your content on Influencers!
I was approached so many times in 2015/2016 to join a legging mlm and a couple others (makeup/oils/cookware) but thankfully I was too broke to buy in and hated everything they offered.
I, regrettably, was an it works girl for a few years, but the cold messaging, etc always felt icky to me so I never did that. I did like some of the products, but I eventually realized they weren't enough for me to keep spending what I was spending.
We love our kitties! We have three and in July when I came home with our sweet baby Nyx, my husband didn’t know I was getting another cat. I got home and he looked and said when do you take her back 😂 she along with the other two girls have him wrapped around their paws and he will go out of his way to make sure those sweet kitties have whatever their heart desires
I love your sharp introspection on that Arbonne retreat story. I also love the effort and perspective of the author. And I’m new here but chuckle a bit every time I hear you all refer to them as “huns” 😆 Also appreciate the other stories. Especially the sincere Youngliving one.
When I was a kid, we got two kittens who were sisters, and it's one of the best things we ever did. It was the same deal as Zeke and Cooper, last two of a litter, but the shelter wouldn't let one go without the other. They are great cats, but sadly one died years ago. I still have the other sibling, and she's a grumpy old fart but a sweet cat. Always get siblings if you can, it's fantastic
A very close friend of mine bought so much YL under her own name and her family's accounts under her, that she earned a trip to Hawaii about 3 years ago. She has SO much "stock" and a tiny handful of customers. She doesnt sell YL anmore because if drama within the company apparently. She is now into Amare (sp?). The one that promotes "happy juice "
You get multiple accounts because you can only send so many unsolicited messages in a specific time period. I didn't do Insta when I was in Amway, but I did hit the limit on Facebook once. I never got a second account but I know people did. Also some social platforms allow "report spam" and too many of those will suspend an account. Instead of waiting for the "pause" to be removed, some would create a new one.
This is why you’re my favorite anti-MLM creator. You ALWAYS make it a point to humanize the victims of these schemes. You never make fun, you never judge, and you always encourage viewers to display grace towards these people. Thank you so much for that! You’re the absolute best!
Well done Hannah for homing 2 shelter cats who waiting for someone nice to come along and take them home. Cats are such wonderful creatures, their beauty and personalities make them lovely companions.🐾🐾
I was catching up on episodes, not fully listening when I hear Vancouver Island! I didn't even know we had Arbonne salespeople in the area. Lots of Pampered Chef and Epicure, but apparently I've thus far dodged the worst of it. Yeesh! Love your content, Hannah! ♥️
Im not sure if the company i worked for for like a week was an mlm but it gave similar vibes. They were selling a fire alarm system but their employees only get paid by commision and do cold calls all the time to set up demos in peoples homes. I went through a week of training before i started going to demos with seasoned employees. I immediately got a bad feeling as i watched a family cry bc they couldnt afford the system that would 'save their lives' if they ever had a fire.
I heard you say in another video that said they wanted to hear "no" 7 times, if anyone tries to rope me in, I'm sending a "no" message 7 times. If they ask in person, I will say "no" counting to 7! lol
I also have 2 cats, they're siblings. The female is quiet, sweet and does her thing and the male is needy and loud and always hungry. I love them so much omg! I love the hun stalker! That would be me 100%
Can confirm that adopting two cats at once is the best. I have a pair of sisters that were also born at the shelter (and also free lol) and they're absolutely wonderful.
I remember when i was about 19 years old a lady came out to me telling my how pretty i was and asking me what products i use.... I was soooo happy to get that kind of compliment during those years. I was very awkward and coming into womanhood. But after she gave me a card and invited me to a "make up " party. I snapped outta it 😂.... I knew what the deal was
I'm glad you kept the brothers together. Our cats are brothers as well and I can't imagine them alone. They fight sometimes, but often are found snuggling together at bed time. They also don't eat alone. They will wait or even go look for the other when their cat food is put down.
I also am the owner of two cats, one of whom was free! I didn't get my cats at the same time (and in fact there was no intention for me to end up with any cats at all) but my ex partner adopted a lovely bundle of black fuzz from the shelter they'd named 'Trouble'. He was from a cat hoard of 22 and he had been returned so many times they were like 'this one is free'. I will never forget the site of the lady struggling to carry the box with him down the hallway as he pushed himself out through the small center opening and scrabbled for freedom like a deranged muppet. He only occasionally lives up to his name, more so when he feels like his person (he only truly likes one at a time) needs to pay him some attention. Not smart, but clever, he learned to steal my ex's key caps and where to sit on her computer tower to shut it off so he could have some dedicated time after she came home from work. Eventually my ex moved across the country and decided not to take Trouble with her, so I kept him and while he still tries to rescue me out of the shower and can be a handful I love him deeply.
Sometimes the two accounts is because one will get flagged for spam because they’re “Hey Girl” messages annoy people and they report it. so it helps ensure that they still have “active leads” if other account goes into jail
To the first story - I have so much admiration for those that write in to Hannah to have their stories shared. Some are really traumatic ! Some more light hearted, but they all seem to follow the common theme of personal experiences/attacks/etc. I have a friend who I've been very close with since childhood and she was on that Van Island Arbonne trip with a few other gals that I know. While I don't support MLMs or her Arbonne business, I can appreciate a few of the lifestyle changes it's given her. When girlfriends in our circle pass outside judgements and talk behind her back (and this is often), I'm always the one to defend her. I love her ! She's still a human outside of the company, and more importantly our friend. This story made me feel that same kind of defensiveness. Enjoy your vacation and let the girls have a girl's trip.
From watching your videos I have realized that I've been in the front seat of an mlm pitch. Thank you for sharing these so others know what to watch for.
Several years ago, I tried Optavia as a diet and it worked. Lost 15 pounds in 4 months. Fell for being a coach a year later due to my second job loss. Being a coach was so cringe and I hated posting to FB platitudes, asking open ended questions and references about weight. Stopped coaching a year after that and only had two clients. But I am still mystified about how those coaches made the big bucks and would find clients. I did everything right and did not get clients. Any MLM is not for the faint of heart
Every company I’ve ever worked for paid for a hotel room for EACH employee they sent to various work related events. Paying for work related travel is not at all standard and sharing rooms is a by and large a PR no-no because it creates a risk of liability for the company that outpaces the cost savings of making employees share rooms. I’m an attorney and have traveled for work at law firms and a bank I worked for prior to law school.
I was in an MLM company years ago for a quick 6 months or so. One of the “quotes” I would hear time and time again was…”fake it until you make it”. This was one of the reasons why I got out of this MLM and never looked back!
your husband standing there in the middle of a pet store convincing you to get 2 cats instead of one is a bouquet of green flags
They were adopted from a shelter, which is much better than a pet store 😊. But I'm really happy they got Zeke, his appearances are always the best.
@@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley our pet stores only have cats from the local humane society, I didn't realize there were still pet stores that don't do it that way tbh :o
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My father asked me last night why I would bother watching videos about MLMs when I would never fall for the scam. My response was "because people are fascinating". All I got was side eye.
This! I have often ran into recruiters but I HATE sales so I never never would bite. However I find these fascinating and I have actually woke up to some bs that I was previously unaware of soooo I love these too
In the early 2010s all of my cousins and friends were falling for these scams. I did not understand it at all at the time. Watching videos like this helps me understand the psychology of others.
My MLM mini-story for today: I'm cleaning up this morning in anticipation of an apartment inspection where they come in and turn on all the lights and run the faucets and such to make sure everything works. Which means they'll be peeking in my shower. Do you know what I did? I hid my shampoo 😂 it's a bottle that somebody gave me a really long time ago so I don't even remember who, but I only just noticed the other day that it's actually from Amway. So I'm using it of course, because why not, it works fine, but I don't want anybody thinking I actually buy from them 😂 super dumb, I know, there's no way they would actually notice. But there it is.
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This is gold XD
Not only do we get another Hannah video, but it's a horror stories one, and we even get a happy kitten adoption story! Who could ask for more??
I'm glad you finally realized that this was Zekes channel and he just let's you run it. 😂
“Performative friendship photos” is *chef’s kiss*
A perfect description
That story and that particular description of what the writer was seeing at the retreat definitely made me sit back and think hard about some of the "friendship" pictures and highlight reels I've seen of different social media personalities when they get together with others in their "genre."
Cat stories are always welcome. And, fun fact, adopting kittens in pairs is way better for their behavior towards their humans and their social development towards other cats. Having a playmate who bites back when they bite too hard is great for helping them learn self-restraint. 😂
The last time I had cats (way back as a teenager), I got a kitten for my birthday and about two weeks later, we got an older cat (older than the kitten by probably...8 to 10 months? Sugar, the older cat, was certainly no older than a year old). Spicy, my kitten, hissed at Sugar when she appeared. We didn't separate them and introduce them slowly because we didn't even know about doing that. But also, Sugar was chill. She took all of Spicy's hissing as she calmly drank from her bowl. But then, I suppose Sugar finally had enough and hissed one good time back at Spicy. Spicy shut up immediately. Sugar resumed being chill and Spicy continued to want her attention. I think by that very evening, they were crashing off the walls playing tag, already best friends 😂
Two kittens are always better than one! ❤️
I totally agree I got my cats from the same litter, let’s just say they’re both super cuddly, playful and vocal. They’re judgy and know how to share their opinions.
I bought two kittens, both brothers from the same litter, as a pair aND *I VOUCH THAT YOU'RE RIGHT;* as compared to my single kitten-to-cat growing up-they had individual personalities, got along together and with other animals, I could go on...😅😻😸
Hannah, I moved to South Korea last year, and your videos really help with the loneliness as I try to make friends. Thank you for the consistency!
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Yea it's definitely not normal to be forced to share a bed with a stranger on a work trip 😅 I worked for a travel agency for a number of years and they had a managers meeting/leadership conference every year that I went to 3 times. It was in Las Vegas, Cancun, and Austin the years I went. We did get put in a room with another colleague, however this was a large hotel room in a luxury hotel where everyone got their own queen or king size bed. They also paid for all of the flights, hotels, meals, activities, and even some of the liquor for our after hours hangouts. If I had to spend $1000 to go on these trips or share a bed with a stranger, I would have politely declined 😂
I might have not so politely declined! Lol that's downright offensive!
If I ever get a cold message, I'm definitely going to calmly say no 7 times in a row straight to their face so that the message gets across on the first try LOL.
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see, I was considering that as well, but would that actually count as the seven nos or is that only one because its in the same encounter? Just wondering around
Same
I was just thinking that!
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no - that's 7, go away! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Love the cat adoption story!! My husband and I planned to adopt two kittens….and then we found a bonded trio of sisters who were not very adoptable because who would want three kittens at once? We knew we had to have them. Best decision ever - we love them so much!
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Current mood: pausing an old Hannah video to watch the new Hannah video.
Lol fell asleep for a nap to a Hannah vid from a year ago and woke up to a new one, score! Making Monday more tolerable 😂
I love it when that happens 😂
Oh my God I know this cottage retreat on Vancouver Island!!! My family has been going there every year since the 50s.
My heart just breaks for that woman still working for Mary Kay. I think our senior citizens have EARNED our respect and to hear of them treated like that makes me so angry!
I made the mistake of looking at the influencers in the wild Instagram account that you mentioned in this video. I have no faith in humanity’s survival at this point.
My youngest cried in a Petsmart until I called my husband to ask if we could get her. We ended up getting her and I’m so glad we did. We have since adopted 5 more cats.
I remember Jessica Hickson said before how Instagram will block you from messaging if you send too many in an hour, so that's likely why she had two accounts.
I am sure this is the reason. Consultants with Paparazzi did this as well with Facebook. They would post too much or violate some sort of FB rule and get put in Facebook "jail" and have their account frozen for a few days. So they'd have to create another profile in order to continue to work their business.
It is also for when their Contacts block them personally! Having 2+ accounts allow you to circumnavigate personal blocks. I know I'll block any 'hey hun' message instantly.
Exactly this
Zeke's appearances are top tier UA-cam content imo. ❤ Glad AJ won. All the love to Zeke, Cooper, you, AJ, and the baby girl.
My story for today: went to a cafe to do an online exam yesterday and saw a little girl with her mother, wearing an Arbonne scarf. Gave me flashbacks to being the daughter of an Arbonne rep.
I want someone to do a bait and switch How to Succeed in Social Selling masterclass where they tell hard truths. Just like, first thing out of their mouth should be, "It's already saturated. Your upline pushes you so hard because YOU are how THEY make their money."
Or how to succeed in social selling -- step 1: forget the products and recruitment and focus on making classes like these. 😂
I love Hannah's kitty adoption story - its a lot like mine! My husband knew I wanted to adopt a cat, so he brought home a litter of 5 kittens as a "temporary foster" situation (they were born in a co-worker's garage, and the coworker needed someone to take care of them while his family was on a weekend vacation).
Well, I instantly fell in love with "Jack", who cried until I picked him up, then fell asleep in my hands. My husband fell in love with "Simba", who crawled up his shirt onto his shoulder and hung out there like he was standing on Pride Rock. We argued for quite a while about which one to keep, and finally just decided to keep both. They're nearly identical physically, but very different personalities and I love them both ❤
I wonder if she had two accounts to allow her to still message people if she was blocked on one of them.
If that is the case, if you are annoying someone enough that they block you, do you really think messaging them on another account will make them think "hang on, this opportunity IS starting to sound real good..."
The delusion is real with them
This is also what I was thinking.
Sometimes also in case one account gets banned they have a backup
I think there is also a daily message/friend request limit to prevent spam, and this is the work-around.
@@arh1234 this is a very plausible explanation!
I really appreciate your covering Arbonne. During the pandemic, I was at my most vulnerable: trying to survive in an ab*sive relationship, trying to make money to leave said ab*ser. I’m the kind of person who rarely asks for help but I was at rock bottom and finally got the courage to reach out even if for just a word of encouragement. I realized I had no real friends as no one even texted me back. It was heartbreaking. An old “friend”/ Arbonne hun enters the chat and pitches me hard. I hadn’t the knowledge back then that I have now thanks to your channel. Once the hun realized I didn’t have money to “invest in my financial freedom”, she disappeared 👻
The more I watch your videos the more I realized how predatory and heartless my ex friend was…
I haven’t talked to her since but I’ll be sending this video to her.
I used to work in central London and it was fascinating watching influencers doing their thing. I was once in a posh department store and I was in the section where they had the furniture set out like little rooms. A woman came in and took some sort of drink, books and other props out of her bag. She set them out in one of these ‘rooms’ and then got her friend to take lots of photos of her sitting there nonchalantly pretending to read her book and sip her drink. I assume she was trying to promote the drink and might have been a hun pretending it was her house!
😅is that “opportunistic staging”? I mean, it works, I guess! Like this be my living room yo…!
Almost 100k subs and 200 anti MLM videos?! Way to go, Hannah! 🎉
5 months later and she is at 208K!! 👏🏻
I don't normally comment but I LOVED the extra long story of the Vancouver Island excursion! Kudos to that viewer who gave you that A+ content!
I bet they went to Tofino hahahaha
I am shocked that YL payment scheme is legal. How can someone's paycheck on commissions be withheld unless they also have a certain amount in purchases? I would be a nightmare recruit because I'd be complaining all the time! And I also adopted two male kittens from the same litter when I really only wanted the gray fluffy one. But so glad I also took in the skinny orange one, because his personality is just TOO MUCH, lol. Orange kitties are so extra, lol.
That particular thing also applies to some streaming platforms. But at least for those, there's nothing for you to buy to add to your commission. You just keep doing videos and hoping people will donate to your channel.
That line in the first story don't "put it in your bio" is the exact opposite of every sales job I've ever had. They want you putting it there so if they do want to buy they know to contact you. Infaxt most places I've sold has offered bonuses based on external leads I could create outside of their own systems. Major red flag when they say don't put it there shows how bad the rep is in fact I've refused a selling job because after the interview I had a bad feeling about the company so looked up some the people who did the interview and their SM showed them as no job
I worked at a makeup counter and at a hair salon. The amount of MLM huns that came in and asked me to try their products or recruit me was so annoying.
Essential Oils: 🙄🫥🤮
Essential Zeke: 🐈⬛😻🥰
I would assume that people in MLMs have 2 account just incase one gets banned from violating instagrams guidelines. Possibly for sending too many messages.
That’s what I also came to say, they can avoid being put in instagram jail for sending too many cold messages at once
I remember the Mary Kay "retirement program." Sadly, both my old Director and her Sr Director have been in MK for YEARS and neither is even close to National Sales Director and both are approaching 65. So sad they've wasted all of these years!
Little story time .. I recently joined a Pilates class first week cool.. second week fine… third week I discovered the studio sells Dotera products, my instructor sells Seint and I think a few of the women taking the class are reps .. I was trying to check in last Wednesday and an older women came out and started to pump (dotera) pain relief lotion in front of me telling me it was so good before the class i immediately walked away 😂 I really hope no one try’s to pitch me I just wanted this 1 hr of me time to be peaceful
I would complain to the management of the gym/studio but if they're all "reps" it might be better to find another studio.
@@NurseEthel sadly I think they’re aware, and the next closest Pilates studio is 45 mins away. I’ve steered away from speaking to anyone and that’s been working. But sad to think if anyone else has fallen into that trap
I've heard from ex-Jehovah's Witnesses that the religion expects people to adopt a "new personality," which sounds curiously similar to how MLMs encourage people to act unnaturally.
MLMs, Cults? Same thing.
@@myheartismadeofstarsJW is definitely a cult. I have family that are JW & it’s definitely a little crazy.
@@Doesntmatter20 jehovas witnesses < Mormons < non cults
@@Doesntmatter20😂😂
I liked the point about them all being nice, polite and normal people once the cameras were off. My mum used to be a Jehovah's Witness and even though she has so much trauma from it, she always talks about how nice the people were and how they were all just ordinary people. Being in a cult doesn't make you a bad person
Can you even IMAGINE trying to tell the top earners/employees of a real company that they have to share a room at a conference? My dad has worked at the top of his company with the same few people for nearly 20 years and he would still NEVER share a room with one of them. It would be the biggest scandal in the uni’s department lol.
even when I was a poor doctoral student with only a mini grant for conferences, it was still enough to squeeze in a single room😂
I have worked big tech for 30 years and they would never ask us to share rooms. My husband worked big farming/irrigation and they did. They managed stores but still made them share. I thought it was weird. He didn't think it was weird but didn't like it. So it does depend on the company. And maybe the positions.
That’s very risky behavior. Not to mention cheap.
35:40 The company calls it "buying back the business", so essentially they take the last 5 years of one's national area production/commissions and then picks the best 3 years and 60% of that amount is what's paid out to retired nationals for 15 years. I was with them for waaaaaay longer than I'd care to say. But I'm here to help me de-program from all the harm they did to my psyche and self esteem!!
When I was duped into an MLM we were encouraged to have multiple online accounts just in case one gets shut down by being reported too many times, so we wouldn't have to restart our social presence.
As I was watching this, I was attending to my toddlers snack requests and forgot to pause it when I walked into the next room. I missed part of the video due to my little ones chatter. Then I heard what sounded like an mlm video promising that people can skip the hard part and get right making money if they just buy a training session. I assumed I had missed what you had said and it was a clip you were responding to but when I got back to my phone realized it was a beach body ad playing on your video. I’m so glad these ads are showing up in your channel because this is the perfect audience to ignore their shady tactics. I thought it was interesting and had to share.
Love the story of the stalker of the Arbonne retreat ! She’s my kind of gal!! Love hearing these MLM stories.
That Young Living story was such a great example of why people shouldn't join an MLM.
I loved hearing the Zeke & Cooper origin story 😺😺
The "coaching" and "courses" scams have BLOWN UP. Even outside mlms, would love to see a video on this! They're language is often so manipulative and they prey on vulnerability
“Huns on a cliff” that sentence made me laugh so hard! I just discovered your channel and I’ve been binge watching your videos, love them 🥰❤
We also got our second cat as BOGO deal - Cookie did choose us basically, and we were promised Mr. Benji is bonded with Cookie but rather asocial with people, so we won't even know about him we just need to feed him. Two years later he is the cuddliest boy that sleeps on me every night.
Well we are in our 20s-30s and realizing we're never going to get a retirement too. Unfortunately these MLMs look more appealing when regular employment sucks too. Companies today also feel that they owe you nothing.
So MLMs offer you what, then?? Work your regular job and invest whatever money you can. I'm 70 and never worked a high-paying job with a pension, but I am comfortable in retirement. Never lived beyond my means and still don't. These MLMs, Ponzi schemes, are not the way to a happy future.
I have a friend in YL (we actually had a falling out a few years ago) and I’ve often wondered about her rank in the company. It makes me sad that she’s probably still working very hard for almost no return.
So not on topic but I just have to interject. I LOVE that you and the author of your first letter have adopted cats. We are a two cat family which means, of course, we have three cats. When our third cat “found me” at a shelter there was no way we were going to adopt him. The next day I was calling the shelter. I convinced my husband we would “try him out”. I even had people lined up in case it didn’t work out. After two days of my big furry boy on my lap, chest , head, I approached my husband with Lance (cat) in my arms and announced to him that “you can NOT make me give up MY cat!”
😂
I love that you got Zeke on a BOGO! That’s gotta be my favorite story!
The retirement story is heartbreaking. I can’t imagine devoting that much time and work just to not be offered anything from the company. Like I literally am going to have retirement money from a crappy part-time fast food job I worked in college years ago, but these MLM people get nothing.
We love to hear about your cats! I just got a kitten last month, and my husband is already saying he wants another one😅
Since you won't have a bonded pair, try to get a male cat for the second one. Male cats are more mellow (after they are spayed) and will pair well with another male or a female. Two females will have the more difficult time bonding because females are very territorial. There are exceptions to this rule of course but it's a good general guideline.
@@fleabitz1474this is true from my experience our boy and girl love each other sm, got along quickly
Facebook and Instagram mark you as spam if you send too much in 1 day or even a week and then you are completely blocked from the messaging function for a period. this is probably the reason for 2 accounts
Not about MLMs but I also was someone who just wanted one cat and ended up adopting two little girlies from the same litter and it was the best decision I ever made 🥰
"This is Zeke's channel. I'm just a guest." I love that 😂😂😂❤❤❤
The two account approach could be in case one of their accounts gets suspended, since you're technically not supposed to hawk mlm stuff on like Instagram, etc.
Came here to say this same thing. Definitely suspect it is due to having a back up in case of suspension, reporting, or banning.
Also it used to be you can only follow so many people a day and send so many messages a day.
The Zeke story made me tear up! I also have a pair of bonded brothers, I can't imagine them ever being separated . I love the Zeke appearances, and super love the ultra rare Cooper appearances! ❤❤
Came across your channel recently and just love binge listening to you while sewing.
You manage to really strike a balance between “calling-it-out” but being respectful of the person involved. Not an easy balance. Well done.
I always heard that it was better to get 2 cats at one time, I wasn’t convinced. In reality I am more of a dog person, but am not in a place to take on a dog, so I got a cat, a little more than 3 years ago. He has always been very needy, although affectionate. It was hard on him when I left him even for a day. I have friend who needed someone to foster her kitty Sue to her health. Well Sophie has been with us for a little more than a month. She is the sweetest thing, and when her Mama asked if I would keep her I didn’t even need to think about! So now my Rusty has a companion and is so much better of a cat.
your husband knew how important zeke would be to your career😊
Just welcomed our new baby this month and I'm currently up late pumping. It's so nice to sit down with your videos and take a little breather. Love the story about Zeke. How awesome!
I’ve traveled for work many times and with different companies. It has NEVER been asked that I share a room with someone. Especially not a stranger. Even with separate beds.
My only knowledge of people sharing rooms for business are during canceled flights/booked out hotels/only one room available last minute situations. It’s way too much liability for a business to expect strangers to share what is typically a “private” space.
And just like THAT... 48 minutes have FLOWN BY. Great content. Bravo. I am a new content creator on another account and its freaking hard to do this. You are a natural!
The story about the Arbonne retreat is hilarious. I live in Vancouver, B.C. and have been to Vancouver Island countless times. Arbonne is definitely big here. I'm a teacher and see coworkers using their products constantly.
YAY!! I love Hannah Mondays!! Your voice is so soothing and videos so educational!! I got caught by a couple mlm’s a while back and have thought about sharing, but struggle to put my thoughts into words that others can follow lol. Any who love your videos!! Happy Monday 💕
10:11 zeke was a BOGO! That’s awesome. Best deal ever.
I don't think you were clear that only 200 people have reached that rank plus 155 retired ones. That means that right now, only 355 people out of all their living and retired workers are eligible or receiving this. Of course their may have been some who died but for a current number of how many can receive retirement that is crazy. Out of 2.4 MILLION current consultants only 200 are eligible for retirement plans.
That’s a staggering statistic! It shows how many people get scammed when they buy into MLM brainwashing.
The only good thing about getting sucked into an MLM during 2020 was that I had a perfect argument for not going to any of the conventions/team-building nonsense. I mean, there was still some dismissive talk about my ~concerns~ about COVID, but it was hard to argue with everybody getting COVID at convention, then having to work while being sick.
Imagine working for an mlm for more than 5 years and then it goes under. Now you have to explain to a future employer why you weren't working during that time, since from my understandibg most jobs don't consider an mlm an actual place of employement.
Literally the only reason I post about my work trips is I’m in the travel industry so the point is to share the locations 😂 But when I worked in corporate or a non profit, it never occurred to me to do that with any trips I was sent on.
I remember pushing my mom to order Avon or Mary Kay, she was always resistant and now I know why! I definitely have a Kirby story almost identical to the story that was posted a while back. Your content is super eye-opening, please never stop spreading this message and I love your content on Influencers!
Yes! Now my week can start! I love how the cats came into your life. I only wanted 1 cat too. Now I have 5 and a 55 lb staffy
My sister in law got a bogo on her kittens. They were sisters, and we joke that the one she picked out was her pet and the other was the cat’s cat.
I was approached so many times in 2015/2016 to join a legging mlm and a couple others (makeup/oils/cookware) but thankfully I was too broke to buy in and hated everything they offered.
I, regrettably, was an it works girl for a few years, but the cold messaging, etc always felt icky to me so I never did that. I did like some of the products, but I eventually realized they weren't enough for me to keep spending what I was spending.
We love our kitties! We have three and in July when I came home with our sweet baby Nyx, my husband didn’t know I was getting another cat. I got home and he looked and said when do you take her back 😂 she along with the other two girls have him wrapped around their paws and he will go out of his way to make sure those sweet kitties have whatever their heart desires
I love your sharp introspection on that Arbonne retreat story. I also love the effort and perspective of the author. And I’m new here but chuckle a bit every time I hear you all refer to them as “huns” 😆 Also appreciate the other stories. Especially the sincere Youngliving one.
The detective work on the second story, we salute you ma’am
When I was a kid, we got two kittens who were sisters, and it's one of the best things we ever did. It was the same deal as Zeke and Cooper, last two of a litter, but the shelter wouldn't let one go without the other. They are great cats, but sadly one died years ago. I still have the other sibling, and she's a grumpy old fart but a sweet cat. Always get siblings if you can, it's fantastic
A very close friend of mine bought so much YL under her own name and her family's accounts under her, that she earned a trip to Hawaii about 3 years ago. She has SO much "stock" and a tiny handful of customers. She doesnt sell YL anmore because if drama within the company apparently. She is now into Amare (sp?). The one that promotes "happy juice "
You get multiple accounts because you can only send so many unsolicited messages in a specific time period. I didn't do Insta when I was in Amway, but I did hit the limit on Facebook once. I never got a second account but I know people did. Also some social platforms allow "report spam" and too many of those will suspend an account. Instead of waiting for the "pause" to be removed, some would create a new one.
This is why you’re my favorite anti-MLM creator. You ALWAYS make it a point to humanize the victims of these schemes. You never make fun, you never judge, and you always encourage viewers to display grace towards these people. Thank you so much for that! You’re the absolute best!
I am so here for the gossip!!! I love these stories so much as I have had about 4 or 5 encounters of MLM’s
Well done Hannah for homing 2 shelter cats who waiting for someone nice to come along and take them home.
Cats are such wonderful creatures, their beauty and personalities make them lovely companions.🐾🐾
I was catching up on episodes, not fully listening when I hear Vancouver Island! I didn't even know we had Arbonne salespeople in the area. Lots of Pampered Chef and Epicure, but apparently I've thus far dodged the worst of it. Yeesh!
Love your content, Hannah! ♥️
Im not sure if the company i worked for for like a week was an mlm but it gave similar vibes. They were selling a fire alarm system but their employees only get paid by commision and do cold calls all the time to set up demos in peoples homes. I went through a week of training before i started going to demos with seasoned employees. I immediately got a bad feeling as i watched a family cry bc they couldnt afford the system that would 'save their lives' if they ever had a fire.
I heard you say in another video that said they wanted to hear "no" 7 times, if anyone tries to rope me in, I'm sending a "no" message 7 times. If they ask in person, I will say "no" counting to 7! lol
love love love the Zeke and Cooper origin story💗💗💗
I also have 2 cats, they're siblings. The female is quiet, sweet and does her thing and the male is needy and loud and always hungry. I love them so much
omg! I love the hun stalker! That would be me 100%
Can confirm that adopting two cats at once is the best. I have a pair of sisters that were also born at the shelter (and also free lol) and they're absolutely wonderful.
I remember when i was about 19 years old a lady came out to me telling my how pretty i was and asking me what products i use....
I was soooo happy to get that kind of compliment during those years. I was very awkward and coming into womanhood. But after she gave me a card and invited me to a "make up " party. I snapped outta it 😂....
I knew what the deal was
I'm glad you kept the brothers together. Our cats are brothers as well and I can't imagine them alone. They fight sometimes, but often are found snuggling together at bed time. They also don't eat alone. They will wait or even go look for the other when their cat food is put down.
I also am the owner of two cats, one of whom was free! I didn't get my cats at the same time (and in fact there was no intention for me to end up with any cats at all) but my ex partner adopted a lovely bundle of black fuzz from the shelter they'd named 'Trouble'. He was from a cat hoard of 22 and he had been returned so many times they were like 'this one is free'. I will never forget the site of the lady struggling to carry the box with him down the hallway as he pushed himself out through the small center opening and scrabbled for freedom like a deranged muppet. He only occasionally lives up to his name, more so when he feels like his person (he only truly likes one at a time) needs to pay him some attention. Not smart, but clever, he learned to steal my ex's key caps and where to sit on her computer tower to shut it off so he could have some dedicated time after she came home from work. Eventually my ex moved across the country and decided not to take Trouble with her, so I kept him and while he still tries to rescue me out of the shower and can be a handful I love him deeply.
Sometimes the two accounts is because one will get flagged for spam because they’re “Hey Girl” messages annoy people and they report it. so it helps ensure that they still have “active leads” if other account goes into jail
Speaking of sacrifice, have you ever thought about the irony of scrapbooking retreats?
To the first story - I have so much admiration for those that write in to Hannah to have their stories shared. Some are really traumatic ! Some more light hearted, but they all seem to follow the common theme of personal experiences/attacks/etc. I have a friend who I've been very close with since childhood and she was on that Van Island Arbonne trip with a few other gals that I know. While I don't support MLMs or her Arbonne business, I can appreciate a few of the lifestyle changes it's given her. When girlfriends in our circle pass outside judgements and talk behind her back (and this is often), I'm always the one to defend her. I love her ! She's still a human outside of the company, and more importantly our friend. This story made me feel that same kind of defensiveness. Enjoy your vacation and let the girls have a girl's trip.
From watching your videos I have realized that I've been in the front seat of an mlm pitch. Thank you for sharing these so others know what to watch for.
Thank you for raising awareness about these scams - cos that is what they are!!
Several years ago, I tried Optavia as a diet and it worked. Lost 15 pounds in 4 months. Fell for being a coach a year later due to my second job loss. Being a coach was so cringe and I hated posting to FB platitudes, asking open ended questions and references about weight. Stopped coaching a year after that and only had two clients. But I am still mystified about how those coaches made the big bucks and would find clients. I did everything right and did not get clients. Any MLM is not for the faint of heart
That retreat story was so good! Love the more unique ones!
About the 2 accounts question, could it be one account for selling and promoting the prodcuts and then another one for recruiting?
Every company I’ve ever worked for paid for a hotel room for EACH employee they sent to various work related events. Paying for work related travel is not at all standard and sharing rooms is a by and large a PR no-no because it creates a risk of liability for the company that outpaces the cost savings of making employees share rooms. I’m an attorney and have traveled for work at law firms and a bank I worked for prior to law school.
I was in an MLM company years ago for a quick 6 months or so. One of the “quotes” I would hear time and time again was…”fake it until you make it”.
This was one of the reasons why I got out of this MLM and never looked back!