He's looking for intelligence? He needs to work on his emotional intelligence. Big difference between being an introvert and having zero personality. 😮
A beautiful, intelligent woman shows up, tries to engage you in conversation, and you blow your nose at the table a few times, then clam up and say nothing for long periods of time. You totally blew it, Greg.
Man, what’s up with this guy. Beautiful, charming, intelligent woman who’s REALLY trying to engage with him. I thought they could have been a good couple
Not sure why he was grumpy. The tattoo on his left arm at the beginning might have a deeper meaning to his childhood. "BROKEN" And the tattoo on the right arm said "SCARRED".
The way he behaved at the table gave the message he's not interested in her... Was quite surprised to hear he did like her! Wonder what made him 'grumpy' to a point he couldn't hide it? It's one thing to have a bad day and another to have a bad day and act borderline rude to someone you've just met.. Shame, because he's probably a nice guy, just sent off the wrong message.
She’s lovely, with a warm personality. He’s a bit of a diamond in the rough. And comes across as moody and sullen, not necessarily introverted. Removing his beanie when indoors would be a nice start, that’s just good manners. If he doesn’t have a cold, he might want to consult an allergist for the nose blowing. He’s not a bad guy, he just needs to give some effort in the back and forth of conversation.
This was a sad date. She was lovely and did everything to try to keep the date going. He actually seems like a genuine, decent guy who understands his weaknesses but really needs to work on himself.
the beanie man: character: tense, low confidence, overthinker, conscientious, principled, depressed, stubborn, unapproachable, guarded behaviour analysis: blowing nose: faking illness as an excuse for failure, and to avoid the present moment beanie inside: lack of confidence, no self assurance, trying to look tough and scary lack of eye contact: lack of confidence im not a big talker: lack of confidence, cover for being nervous "broken", "scarred" tattoo: speak for itself Greg, take it easy man. You are a classic, all the best
She was nervous and overcompensating for the fact he wouldn't even talk to her. She likely fell back on teaching skills that can help regain the interest and enthusiasm of a bored student by showing she is happy and engaged. Can you imagine the pressure of being on a televised first date, and then your date shows ZERO interest in anything?
I feel for both of them. She really tried to engage him in conversation, but he is so quiet and introverted it just didn’t make for a good date! I understand both sides. I consider myself an introvert and can’t/won’t open up until I get to know someone. At the same time I do like to have fun.🤷🏻♀️. I wish them both well!
Reshma is a dream: tall, dark, and a beautiful positive person. I don't think Greg is ready to date anyone quite yet. What the comment section is telling me is that all I have to do is look like a meathead, and there are still some women who find that I'll be 'gorgeous', 'cute', 'hot', or a 'sweetheart' or 'hunk'. Since I have no personality, I'll just head to the gym for some hypertrophic training. ;-)
😂 aww i have the same, it wouldnt have worked out if they couldn't both enjoy some silence. silence with a loved one is heaven for me, but if the other person doesn't know they might take it as rejection which it isn't at all.
You’re 45, right? You show up n give it your best, no excuses such as I am having a grumpy day. I think that’s how you usually are then. Other than that, you r very attractive!
What does his age got to do with his behavior. Maturity is not defined by age., it's defined by experience. @ The Meisaku you got alot of growing up do. Your the immature one. Your age shaming people
HAAHH...saw a comment on here "why is he such a downer-" life in South Africa dude, and in general...LIFE. Life puts us back into our shells. Like he said - he's "had too much drama in life."
He's gorgeous. Looks like he's been thru the wringer. Has melancholic eyes. I'm sorry it turned out that way but she was doing all the work and that get's a bit exhausting at the end. She was not as extroverted enough for this particular situation, not her fault at all. She also looked surprised at the lack of input from him, who wouldn't be ? If she was more of a chatterbox it would have be way better. She asked him lots of questions yes but a super-extrovert would have talked about herself or general subjects. I believe she may be in reality a very sociable person and possibly not a real extrovert or maybe a small extrovert. It's too bad though that on a first date with a woman he found attractive (look at his eyes when he said so !) he didn't work better at small talk. He should plan different subjects he enjoys for the next date. Sad it turned out this way as he seemed like a terrific guy.
I'm a certified Business Analyst and a major part of the job is actually talking to people from the various departments of a business and/or stakeholders. if you don't develop a rapport with people, they don't tell you what you need to know to get the work done as a Business Analyst. Dude must have voodoo powers to get people to talk lol
I just loved him in his interviews but on the date he was very closed. I'm introverted as well and can totally appreciate what he said about people versus animals, being with people in general and being quiet. His energy was not a good match for hers at all, however, and I felt badly for her.
I'm watching this for the second time and by what they said they want they should be perfect for each othere.He's buff and kinda handsome and she's a natural beauty and as a teacher she must be inteligent. For some reason he was silent a lot and she kept asking questions but the conversation just wouldn't flow. I think he liked her but there's something up with him.
I really did like this guy, it was ‘just’ the Blow to the nose and hand 👃🏼around after, I don’t like that stuff (Sorry). But he was so relaxed, I like that, and I am sure as a woman he would protect you, and Familiy - I Love animals too (more than people/don’t like people at all). ☮️
Wow, this was the most painful episode i think I have watched. Maybe he was sick and not feeling good, but in that case he should have cancelled. She was trying so hard and was really lovely. He made no attempt at conversations, yet he said he wanted an intelligent woman he could talk to! This one was cringe!
He was very unlikeable but i really respect how he manned up at the end and admitted he's had a bad day. Clearly he was very annoyed with himself. I wish he got another chance because i believe he could and would do much better. We all have bad days.
Dang. I would give a hunk like that at least three dates before making a decision. Maybe five. Maybe twenty. It takes a while to break the ice sometimes. 🫠
It’s like giving up on a stallion just because he’s a little shy and introverted. Gain the trust of a man like that and you’ve got a champion for life.
He's looking for intelligence? He needs to work on his emotional intelligence. Big difference between being an introvert and having zero personality. 😮
Reshma is trying so hard to keep the conversation going, he's not giving anything back. I feel sorry for her, they wasted her time.
its just the way he is
she said, that she is into introverts
so they matched her with just what she said she d like
It was painful to watch, he forgot the reason why he was there
A beautiful, intelligent woman shows up, tries to engage you in conversation, and you blow your nose at the table a few times, then clam up and say nothing for long periods of time. You totally blew it, Greg.
And the snappiness got me, so rude, when everyone around him were really trying.
Reshma was my 5th grade teacher. I didn't expect to see her on here.
She's already 41,about time she needs to find someone..❤
the man is too serious, chill out man. all I can say is that poor lady making so much effort I feel so sorry for.
Get over it!
Man, what’s up with this guy. Beautiful, charming, intelligent woman who’s REALLY trying to engage with him. I thought they could have been a good couple
Dude is used to getting women without having to work at it because of the bad boy image.
He scary.
Not sure why he was grumpy. The tattoo on his left arm at the beginning might have a deeper meaning to his childhood. "BROKEN" And the tattoo on the right arm said "SCARRED".
The way he behaved at the table gave the message he's not interested in her... Was quite surprised to hear he did like her! Wonder what made him 'grumpy' to a point he couldn't hide it? It's one thing to have a bad day and another to have a bad day and act borderline rude to someone you've just met.. Shame, because he's probably a nice guy, just sent off the wrong message.
I think grumpy was an excuse , that's just how he is
not always easy to control steroids cycle
She’s lovely, with a warm personality. He’s a bit of a diamond in the rough. And comes across as moody and sullen, not necessarily introverted. Removing his beanie when indoors would be a nice start, that’s just good manners. If he doesn’t have a cold, he might want to consult an allergist for the nose blowing. He’s not a bad guy, he just needs to give some effort in the back and forth of conversation.
WOW !!!!....This guy would make an awesome MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER..........at a MORGUE !!
Greg. Throw that hat away and creepy 'earrings'. That will help.
It's going to be a tough life if he doesn't get it together! It's already a late start.
I feel bad for both of them. I wish he could have either postponed the date or did something to get himself in a better mood beforehand. Too bad.
he may need social course
This was a sad date. She was lovely and did everything to try to keep the date going. He actually seems like a genuine, decent guy who understands his weaknesses but really needs to work on himself.
If he destroys it himself he's in control and his feelings protected, shame he seems like a nice guy.
It’d have been more entertaining for Reshma talking to a cardboard cutout 🙄
😂😂😂
the beanie man:
character: tense, low confidence, overthinker, conscientious, principled, depressed, stubborn, unapproachable, guarded
behaviour analysis:
blowing nose: faking illness as an excuse for failure, and to avoid the present moment
beanie inside: lack of confidence, no self assurance, trying to look tough and scary
lack of eye contact: lack of confidence
im not a big talker: lack of confidence, cover for being nervous
"broken", "scarred" tattoo: speak for itself
Greg, take it easy man. You are a classic, all the best
bingo
Why is he such a downer
I wrote a post under the video but he looks like he's been thru the wringer. Maybe it was too early for him to date ?
He said, he doesn't like drama, yet he created much drama. Self destructive.
He acted like he didn't really want to be there and she was very kind how she did not mention him blowing his nose at the table. That was so tacky
And he wonders why he can't get dates. What a bore.
He's got a very dull personality and zero manners.. Not excusing himself to the bathroom to go blow his nose showed enough right there...
He's cute!! I'd date him. He's someone I'd feel safe with
she laughs at everything
She was nervous and overcompensating for the fact he wouldn't even talk to her. She likely fell back on teaching skills that can help regain the interest and enthusiasm of a bored student by showing she is happy and engaged. Can you imagine the pressure of being on a televised first date, and then your date shows ZERO interest in anything?
Very rude man not even looking to her when she was talking.
I feel for both of them. She really tried to engage him in conversation, but he is so quiet and introverted it just didn’t make for a good date! I understand both sides. I consider myself an introvert and can’t/won’t open up until I get to know someone. At the same time I do like to have fun.🤷🏻♀️. I wish them both well!
Reshma is a dream: tall, dark, and a beautiful positive person. I don't think Greg is ready to date anyone quite yet. What the comment section is telling me is that all I have to do is look like a meathead, and there are still some women who find that I'll be 'gorgeous', 'cute', 'hot', or a 'sweetheart' or 'hunk'. Since I have no personality, I'll just head to the gym for some hypertrophic training. ;-)
😂 aww i have the same, it wouldnt have worked out if they couldn't both enjoy some silence. silence with a loved one is heaven for me, but if the other person doesn't know they might take it as rejection which it isn't at all.
Silence with a loved one definitely, but here they're total strangers. You're right about the rejection.
He is a weirdo
I find him intriguing. He's someone I'd probably try to get to open up to me to find out who he is underneath. He probably has quite a story.
He says that's what he looks for but is it? She was great and he was borderline rude
He is a little bit a nuttcase 😂
That was rough... That guy has zero game. Step it up brother
You’re 45, right? You show up n give it your best, no excuses such as I am having a grumpy day. I think that’s how you usually are then. Other than that, you r very attractive!
What does his age got to do with his behavior. Maturity is not defined by age., it's defined by experience. @ The Meisaku you got alot of growing up do. Your the immature one. Your age shaming people
ouch that was a mis match!
I don’t think he was too interested in her anyway.
HAAHH...saw a comment on here "why is he such a downer-" life in South Africa dude, and in general...LIFE. Life puts us back into our shells. Like he said - he's "had too much drama in life."
Greg 💜
He's gorgeous. Looks like he's been thru the wringer. Has melancholic eyes. I'm sorry it turned out that way but she was doing all the work and that get's a bit exhausting at the end. She was not as extroverted enough for this particular situation, not her fault at all. She also looked surprised at the lack of input from him, who wouldn't be ? If she was more of a chatterbox it would have be way better. She asked him lots of questions yes but a super-extrovert would have talked about herself or general subjects. I believe she may be in reality a very sociable person and possibly not a real extrovert or maybe a small extrovert. It's too bad though that on a first date with a woman he found attractive (look at his eyes when he said so !) he didn't work better at small talk. He should plan different subjects he enjoys for the next date. Sad it turned out this way as he seemed like a terrific guy.
I'm a certified Business Analyst and a major part of the job is actually talking to people from the various departments of a business and/or stakeholders. if you don't develop a rapport with people, they don't tell you what you need to know to get the work done as a Business Analyst. Dude must have voodoo powers to get people to talk lol
I just loved him in his interviews but on the date he was very closed. I'm introverted as well and can totally appreciate what he said about people versus animals, being with people in general and being quiet. His energy was not a good match for hers at all, however, and I felt badly for her.
When you work hard for your body, not your personality.
I ❤ This Show!
He’s a caveman 😅
Why did he even go? Just to be on the show I guess.
The bartender was totally flirting with him!
better chemistry
he did say someone who not a woman who
The first lady laughs too much for me but she IS pretty.
I'm watching this for the second time and by what they said they want they should be perfect for each othere.He's buff and kinda handsome and she's a natural beauty and as a teacher she must be inteligent. For some reason he was silent a lot and she kept asking questions but the conversation just wouldn't flow. I think he liked her but there's something up with him.
If hes better at listening he should be asing her quesions so she can talk
Green Irish coffee?
he is an onion. doesn't talk doesn't interact or flirt just eats and gives short answers.. i feel bad for the girl
Oh my gosh I wanna date him! What a sweetheart!
Whats the full name of the guy?
He reminds me of Darryl from Walking Dead........great guy
If you are going on a First Dates show, its not exactly for the shy and withdrawn types
This guy is funny ❤❤ I like himz
He wasn't attracted to her. If he was he would have put forth more effort.
Nice people ❤
I really did like this guy, it was ‘just’ the Blow to the nose and hand 👃🏼around after, I don’t like that stuff (Sorry). But he was so relaxed, I like that, and I am sure as a woman he would protect you, and Familiy - I Love animals too (more than people/don’t like people at all). ☮️
He blew it
literally 😤👃💦☔
🐽🐽🐽
Number one rule smile and always compliment a beautiful Woman. And don’t blow your nose at the table!!!
In my prime I would rarely compliant a women figuring she must have heard it 1000 times. But then I'm single living with a cat.😅
I would love a man like this.
TAKE YER STOCKING HAT OFF, it's a nice restaurant ya ninny.
Looks like he was expecting a 'coloured' super model
Nothing to do with that. Why did you have to include race for?
@@gregk199 u clearly aren't South African if u don't understand the implications of what was said
Wow, this was the most painful episode i think I have watched. Maybe he was sick and not feeling good, but in that case he should have cancelled. She was trying so hard and was really lovely. He made no attempt at conversations, yet he said he wanted an intelligent woman he could talk to! This one was cringe!
Love her ❤
This is so awkward 😩
Into animals to peoples, red flag that pets come first over anyone else, sad, he needs another animal lover to avoid each other.
What a shame he is not living in Sweden! He would match me perfectly! 😅💖
He's so hot!
😂
Right?! Who needs a personality when you’ve got a physique like that!
He’s awful. Yuck.
She looks good for her age. Looks younger.
Buff and bald andy serkis
He was exactly what she wanted, according to her initial description, yet she turned him down. She'll probably stay single and "independent".
Physique-wise. Personality-wise and conversationally, no.
He was very unlikeable but i really respect how he manned up at the end and admitted he's had a bad day. Clearly he was very annoyed with himself. I wish he got another chance because i believe he could and would do much better. We all have bad days.
day was fine before that. thinking he didn't measure up/incompa and self-sabotaged it
& true he didn't blame her is aware enough get help do better or find permanent onion peeler
Dang. I would give a hunk like that at least three dates before making a decision. Maybe five. Maybe twenty. It takes a while to break the ice sometimes. 🫠
My thought exactly.
It’s like giving up on a stallion just because he’s a little shy and introverted. Gain the trust of a man like that and you’ve got a champion for life.
might as well marry him and see how it goes