It’s only in the past century women haven’t been subjugated. For the rest of history, women were basically second class citizens, and in some countries, they still are. As women we have to assert ourselves, otherwise many men will take advantage. We still live in a patriarchal society that expects women to play small. She also explained her history, which I’m sure has fed into her more assertive character.
They seem like a great match! He isn’t intimidated by stronger personalities.. although I think relationships should be 50/50 equality or mutually agreed to be complementary in whatever way they see fit and both want
A good relationship is...whatever % one needs at different times...50/50...60/40...at one point when hubby was ill...90/10...It is or should be We...We a unit...never I or me....
@@oliviahope3728 People who want to make time do , people who don't don't. How this is going to play out,- she will end up being demanding, he will try for a very long time to please her, because he really likes her, but he won't, she will then dump him and he will be back at square one, .. and so will she.. No give and take on her part part once in the relationship. In the end nobody wants to live with someone for life, when it has to be their way all the time. Six months on, I wonder if I am right?
So, he needs to be commited , a follower, a cook, a cleaner, tone/muscular...and in exchange for all, she's "pretty", knows the law in case of a divorce, argumentative and stubborn... Sound like a terrible deal.
She's an attorney candidate, she's not just pretty. People are allowed to have standards, preferences, and know their legal rights regardless of gender.
Chad happy to say yes, for a chance at intimacy, but does he want a domineering, opinionated, argumentative, woman that will certainly be pushing for marriage or children? I think not.
"I make the rules and you have to follow them" "There are not men out there who want serious relationships" I wonder why, Angelique, u can't find anybody..
Her: "all guys don't want relationship" Also her: "I'm very picky" What are the chances "all guys" are just the top 1% of men she's referring to in her checklist?
Exactly, if every guy is passing on you for a relationship, you're clearly not good enough. She's entitled and narcissistic with an awful personality. Prime pump and dump material, nothing more, nothing less.
@@ladistarlove it when buzz words are thrown around as if narcissistic is an actual character trait and not a medical diagnosis after proper analysis…maybe just go with egoistic next time instead, fits more accurately and doesn’t make you look uneducated by just picking up random trendy words
Definitely, and she has had to develop that false confidence and bravado to work in the legal world, which is well known for being shady, unethical, and cutthroat.
She is very humble and I quote: "Look at me"! She may very well be a catch, but when you call yourself one there may be some people in her past that would beg to differ!
we're all a catch for the right person but she sounds more arragant than confident.. it was the 'look at me' that got me... beauty is more than skin deep. Looks fade, character and personality do not..
As a non selfish person still have no true intentions of any relationship status will not destroy spoil or ruin it for genuine sincere people who are really looking for love
The stuff she was saying in the intro, was HORRIBLE!!! The man can't do that, he has to do this, I want. Just a shopping list without self-awareness. If this kind of talk was the other way around, oooooh dear!
People who haven’t found themselves are the ones sullying the perception of marriage. You must first be ready in order to care for another. That’s like a vegan trying to review a steak dinner, lol. See how that’s not in order. You must first be 100% with yourself.
??? They liked each other and want to have another date, why all the negative comments? As for the date, they enjoyed each other! I hope it continued to be good for both of them.
This was 5 years ago, so it would interesting to see how it all turned out with both of them. But she had quite an ego and a long list of requirements for a partner.
That intro was cringe, there are guys who would get into a relationship, but the having to be right all the time thing I can already say I wouldn't date her. Me personally I want some surprises, there are things that I wish I were wrong about, some things that if you are not wrong you will never improve, and some things not important enough to be right or care if your wrong.
She grew up without a daddy.... Explains SOOOOOO MUCH! And uet if she's not engaged in two years.... She's going to make her child grow up the same way! She's beyond selfish!
This girl is horrible! What does she bring to the relationship if the man makes all the money, looks hot, cooks, and cleans? What does she do? Seriously? It's pathetic!
Why is he 34 and single...true. but are we looking for something wrong? I like him. But also if he goes after women who don't want him that 🚩 That says self sagatage. Also self hatred. She has her flags too. She needs to learn to compromise or shes smother a person.
And....this is why she can't get a relationship. No man wants a masculine women thats argumentative, and controlling. We want fit, fun, friendly, nice and caring demeanor. I heard 2 mins of this and it's easy to see why she's struggling in the dating market.
100% I don't know why people go into dating like you're going into a wrestling match lol Just be nice and interested and if doesn't work then it doesn't work. This would be like a guy leading with his money or what he's packing in his pants. The type of person who's interested in that I'd probably not the type you want. She really has nothing to offer and is going to turn into a mean old bitter woman blaming men for her loneliness.
Masculine? I think you mean Strong and Assertive. Nothing wrong with that for the right guy. However her demands and "Look at me' Im a catch, is a turn off. We're ALL a catch for the right person...
Men , understand women don't need a man...this way they can justify leaving you. It's very telling when they say the wedding is for them. Don't need a man. I will take your house and children though .
Hard to be committed to someone who always wants her own way, even if the behaviour is ignored on for years, eventually it gets old and somebody wakes up and walks out..
Wrong. The guys you're going for don't see you as marriage material, so a hookup is all you're going to get. There are plenty of guys who'd like to settle down, but you don't see them
Two supposed to be smart and wanting smart people just picked out of the hat the star signs' argument?! 😳🤣🤣 Wow.. 🤦 well, at least they suit each other. All the best with the big enough part! 😁
Why do women always want to know about past relationships and ask why you’re still single like they’re a private investigator relax and get to know each other and leave the past behind
It’s a very telling question. Asking about ex’s shows how a man interacts with women even when they are no longer in contact. A man who can be respectful about his ex, usually is kind, a man who goes straight to she was crazy, I had 0 faults in a relationship, will usually wind up being a terrible partner and either a chronic victim or have narcissistic tendencies
@@ppumpkin3282 they can be for sure… but I can tell you almost any time a guy throws his ex under the bus like that, he’s usually the one with problems 😂 from first hand experience and you’ll find almost every women has the same experience with men like this.
So many negative comments. I thought they seemed to have a wonderful time with eachother. Peope have different dating perferences. Just because she is domineering doesn't mean she won't find a great man. Some men love (and need) a women to be more in control...also there's the kink aspect.
Nobody tells me what to do. I make the rules ! That is exactly why she is desperate and on a show !!!! Maybe you need to take a look at your self. Get your feet back on the ground and back to reality.
She is extremely picky, perhaps unrealistically so. I'm not sure he is so serious about settling down in a long-term relationship. I was blushing when he made the comment about "not being big enough"!
Her personality reminds a little of Natasha from Bridget Jones Diary, but she's gorg, and sometimes for men, that pardons everything. I wish them both the best!
Cancer and Taurus are a great combo! She maybe tough, but you can tell he has already brought down some of her walls. (Yes, some men like opinionated women)
Her biological clock is ticking hey !!!.... So what has she been doing for the last 7 - 8 yrs ? These are the type of up themselves girls who probably met some very decent guys but were not in the mood and passed them aside. Now she is panicking.
She is all about herself. She needs to understand, a relationship is about "WE". not "ME".
You could spend your whole life trying to explain that to women.
Women nowadays have "Main Character Syndrome."
It’s only in the past century women haven’t been subjugated. For the rest of history, women were basically second class citizens, and in some countries, they still are. As women we have to assert ourselves, otherwise many men will take advantage. We still live in a patriarchal society that expects women to play small. She also explained her history, which I’m sure has fed into her more assertive character.
@@Elle-vm3ge Women are free to do as they wish. Has that been a good thing? Only time will tell.
@@Elle-vm3gesoo true
" i make the rules and you have to follow them" i wonder how she would feel is a bloke said that to her , relationship are50/50
Good luck with that. That will blow up in your face. Strive instead for mutual equality and respect.
ehh did i not say 50/50 @@a.wilcox5690
She'll be single for life, guaranteed.
Really 🤦
No wonder she is single…..
I'm so glad Chad got a second date.! I'd take Chad and run out the door!!! He's funny, sensitive and very handsome.
I get the feeling she’s a handful
@@lunarsabbatical7906well, could be Very defensive from worn down cynicism.. This guy is a Catch! So LoVely. Wonder if he's worn her defences down...
They seem like a great match! He isn’t intimidated by stronger personalities.. although I think relationships should be 50/50 equality or mutually agreed to be complementary in whatever way they see fit and both want
A good relationship is...whatever % one needs at different times...50/50...60/40...at one point when hubby was ill...90/10...It is or should be We...We a unit...never I or me....
...been with my husband since 1990...we keep our vows!
He seems to be too nice for her. She is kind of a controlling.
He tells her how his dad died and she laughs
Only in South Africa
And this ladies and gentlemen is the reason why she's single.
As forever will be
Acting like when a woman is single it means she stops breathing, walking ,eating, sleeping, working, etc etc...😂😅😂😢😂😅😢 She's still ALIVE!!
Really? It’s not because she has a demanding job, spent years in school, and doesn’t have time to date? 😁
@@oliviahope3728 So why is she on a dating show if she is all of the above in your statement?
@@oliviahope3728 People who want to make time do , people who don't don't. How this is going to play out,- she will end up being demanding, he will try for a very long time to please her, because he really likes her, but he won't, she will then dump him and he will be back at square one, .. and so will she.. No give and take on her part part once in the relationship. In the end nobody wants to live with someone for life, when it has to be their way all the time. Six months on, I wonder if I am right?
She doesn’t want a relationship rather a golden retriever who will obey- run gentlemen!!
So, he needs to be commited , a follower, a cook, a cleaner, tone/muscular...and in exchange for all, she's "pretty", knows the law in case of a divorce, argumentative and stubborn... Sound like a terrible deal.
She's an attorney candidate, she's not just pretty. People are allowed to have standards, preferences, and know their legal rights regardless of gender.
She uses high standards to keep people away because she has unresolved trauma.
@@nattie911 Yeah, but egotistical people with their 'standards' stay perennially single.
Remind me, what is the rate of young women being unalived in SA…
"knows the law in case of a divorce, argumentative and stubborn". finally someone who saw all the RED FLAGS.
I am a catch, just look at me. Therein lies the problem.
This angelique sound more like a nightmare than an angel
It's not that men don't want a relationship. They don't want to have a relationship WITH HER.
Not long term anyway, not once the novelty of the good looking body has worn off and you have to live with someone who always wants their own way.
He sounds like a nice guy
But the whole deal about being with someone for 7 years only to say they weren’t compatible 🤦♂️
“I run the law, I wear the pants and you have to follow them”
And she wonders why she’s single, the mind boggles 🙄
She needs a simp not a Chad 😂
We all get that she doesn't need a man, but does she even want one?
Some people are just happy on their own.
‘I make the rules and you have to follow them’ mate for the sake of your self-respect RUN
She's a confident lady and he liked it, nothing wrong with that. Seems a nice match to me.
She seems very overconfident and he’s too immature to start dating
I wonder if it is such a lovely match seven months in?
"I make the rules and you have to follow them"
now imagine if a man said that...
That would be MASAGONY
''I make the rules and you have to follow them.''
Goodbye.
😂😂😂 exactly my reaction to that sentence!!
Yes Chad, it can be taken away quickly, but realizing that can make you enjoy and celebrate all the moments, not just the big ones.
Chad happy to say yes, for a chance at intimacy, but does he want a domineering, opinionated, argumentative, woman that will certainly be pushing for marriage or children? I think not.
Love this.... exactly... swings and roundabouts, hopefully she becomes more easy going with the 'right guy'..
C'mon, he just wants to hit and run!
@@samsongomah1318 Yup, 100% hit and run type. I'm the same. I know one when I see one.
He literally said he is unsure about marriage, I think he’s the one who needs to be convinced about kids and marriage, not her
Projection much? 😂😂
Chad is my kinda man , I will date him right away 😊 tall handsome charming & everything 😝
"I make the rules and you have to follow them"
"There are not men out there who want serious relationships"
I wonder why, Angelique, u can't find anybody..
Her: "all guys don't want relationship"
Also her: "I'm very picky"
What are the chances "all guys" are just the top 1% of men she's referring to in her checklist?
It's bullocks. Guys want a relationship...just not w that person
😂😂😂😂
☕️ women
Exactly, if every guy is passing on you for a relationship, you're clearly not good enough. She's entitled and narcissistic with an awful personality. Prime pump and dump material, nothing more, nothing less.
@@ladistarlove it when buzz words are thrown around as if narcissistic is an actual character trait and not a medical diagnosis after proper analysis…maybe just go with egoistic next time instead, fits more accurately and doesn’t make you look uneducated by just picking up random trendy words
Why shouldn't women be picky... And settle by anyone not to be happy?
I’d be willing to bet she’s very insecure and it’s a false confidence.
Definitely, and she has had to develop that false confidence and bravado to work in the legal world, which is well known for being shady, unethical, and cutthroat.
We are all actors😅.
"I am a catch because... well... look at me" says the exceedinly average looking woman who remains single.
She is very humble and I quote: "Look at me"! She may very well be a catch, but when you call yourself one there may be some people in her past that would beg to differ!
we're all a catch for the right person but she sounds more arragant than confident.. it was the 'look at me' that got me... beauty is more than skin deep. Looks fade, character and personality do not..
@@helenlingard7790 And, she doesn't seem to have much of a personality.
I don't think you know what humble means
@@CannabrannaLammer I don't think you know what sarcasm is? Good luck in life!
Did she totally forget about he needs to cook, clean, and have big arms? 🤷♀️
Oh I like this couple. I think he'd let her be boss which would definitely add to their compatability.
As a non selfish person still have no true intentions of any relationship status will not destroy spoil or ruin it for genuine sincere people who are really looking for love
The stuff she was saying in the intro, was HORRIBLE!!! The man can't do that, he has to do this, I want. Just a shopping list without self-awareness. If this kind of talk was the other way around, oooooh dear!
hes a sweetie hope she treats him kindly
It's crazy why some people like her cannot see y they r single
Red flags avoid her.
More red flags than a Chinese Communist parade. She likes to argue, wears the pants, and is stubborn????
OMG Chad is adorable, humble and his infectious laugh is pure joy. As an extra bonus, he is also incredibly handsome! Sigh from Canada..
💓
He is a single mom maker.
I completely love that he's humble.
😅
People who haven’t found themselves are the ones sullying the perception of marriage. You must first be ready in order to care for another. That’s like a vegan trying to review a steak dinner, lol. See how that’s not in order. You must first be 100% with yourself.
As a vegan, I support your analogy. 😉👏🏼🤣
And this woman is clearly not interested in anyone but herself.
@@samsongomah1318As a woman, I couldn’t agree with this any more.
@@lizzlebizzle5003 Thank you and have a wonderful new year.
I like them together. I wasn’t sure at first. But good match imo.
??? They liked each other and want to have another date, why all the negative comments? As for the date, they enjoyed each other! I hope it continued to be good for both of them.
Chad is literally just being Chad
She will be complaining when he doesn't want to marry her.
He’s a very nice guy. I’m sure he’ll treat her well. I hope she reciprocates in kind.
Modern woman, party of one, your table is ready.
This was 5 years ago, so it would interesting to see how it all turned out with both of them. But she had quite an ego and a long list of requirements for a partner.
Keeps commenting on his arms 🙄!!! Shallow of her. He’s the full package!
That intro was cringe, there are guys who would get into a relationship, but the having to be right all the time thing I can already say I wouldn't date her. Me personally I want some surprises, there are things that I wish I were wrong about, some things that if you are not wrong you will never improve, and some things not important enough to be right or care if your wrong.
She grew up without a daddy....
Explains SOOOOOO MUCH!
And uet if she's not engaged in two years.... She's going to make her child grow up the same way! She's beyond selfish!
It's almost as though you've never met a woman!
So she wants a dude who is a stay-at-home husband who just works out, cooks and cleans ? lol
Nah, just someone that’s capable of not being a slob
Not listening to what being said is see…
Yes, some men are all for it. Only women can do that?
This girl is horrible! What does she bring to the relationship if the man makes all the money, looks hot, cooks, and cleans? What does she do? Seriously? It's pathetic!
She lost father at 8 now makes sense why she is so bossy
Why is he 34 and single...true. but are we looking for something wrong?
I like him.
But also if he goes after women who don't want him that 🚩 That says self sagatage. Also self hatred.
She has her flags too. She needs to learn to compromise or shes smother a person.
Sounds like she’s been picking the guys that don’t want a relationship, time to try something new !
And....this is why she can't get a relationship. No man wants a masculine women thats argumentative, and controlling. We want fit, fun, friendly, nice and caring demeanor. I heard 2 mins of this and it's easy to see why she's struggling in the dating market.
Women also want their men - fit fun, friendly, nice and caring demeanour.
@@GeorginaJettExactly 👏👏
It’s giving sexism Stevan. You should be able to take care of yourself
100% I don't know why people go into dating like you're going into a wrestling match lol
Just be nice and interested and if doesn't work then it doesn't work. This would be like a guy leading with his money or what he's packing in his pants. The type of person who's interested in that I'd probably not the type you want.
She really has nothing to offer and is going to turn into a mean old bitter woman blaming men for her loneliness.
Masculine? I think you mean Strong and Assertive. Nothing wrong with that for the right guy. However her demands and "Look at me' Im a catch, is a turn off. We're ALL a catch for the right person...
The stuff she said before the date were hard to digest, but she was pleasant during the date, so they might work out
As a woman...this woman is living in the land of DELULU 😅😂
Men , understand women don't need a man...this way they can justify leaving you. It's very telling when they say the wedding is for them. Don't need a man. I will take your house and children though .
Chad has commitment issues
Hard to be committed to someone who always wants her own way, even if the behaviour is ignored on for years, eventually it gets old and somebody wakes up and walks out..
I like her independence however I think she's a tad conceited
A tad ... ?
Can’t be a catch when she’s single
She's not worth putting effort into.
Run my friend, run! She's the prime reason why women are single these days. Go buy some cars instead, that's all you deserve.
“I’m a catch “ then proceeds to explain why she is not a catch.
Wrong. The guys you're going for don't see you as marriage material, so a hookup is all you're going to get. There are plenty of guys who'd like to settle down, but you don't see them
Yikes. Why on earth is SHE single 😏😜
Two supposed to be smart and wanting smart people just picked out of the hat the star signs' argument?! 😳🤣🤣 Wow.. 🤦 well, at least they suit each other. All the best with the big enough part! 😁
Me, me, me... with an infinite list of demands. How toxic...
Disgusting mindset…. “Look at me, I make the rules, you can’t tell me anything “….and obsessed with big arms 😂
This girls is a fate worse than death.
Honesty if the grim reaper existed as a female it would probably be her
Must have 100000 things. 😂 gl with that
Why do women always want to know about past relationships and ask why you’re still single like they’re a private investigator relax and get to know each other and leave the past behind
well when she was told to ask that - I was thinking 'Ok he needs to say the same thing' it works both ways.
but will flip out asked about bodycount
It’s a very telling question. Asking about ex’s shows how a man interacts with women even when they are no longer in contact. A man who can be respectful about his ex, usually is kind, a man who goes straight to she was crazy, I had 0 faults in a relationship, will usually wind up being a terrible partner and either a chronic victim or have narcissistic tendencies
@@guyrose2350 Right because women are never crazy
@@ppumpkin3282 they can be for sure… but I can tell you almost any time a guy throws his ex under the bus like that, he’s usually the one with problems 😂 from first hand experience and you’ll find almost every women has the same experience with men like this.
I think his arms are huge. Im scared to see her ex boyfriends
How did she say her father died? I couldn't entirely understand her accent
''Men don't want relationships''
moments later: ''I want someone with big arms''
When did it become wrong to like yourself? I think they’re adorable together.
Guys want a relationship, they just don't want you.
So many negative comments. I thought they seemed to have a wonderful time with eachother. Peope have different dating perferences. Just because she is domineering doesn't mean she won't find a great man. Some men love (and need) a women to be more in control...also there's the kink aspect.
these videos bring out all of the mysogynists, incels, and dating experts apparently
True. I wish her the best
@@poshniallvery much true. Don't forget women with internalized misogyny.
@@hebahamid884 i said misogynists, you don’t need to specify women can also be misogynistic.
Nobody tells me what to do. I make the rules ! That is exactly why she is desperate and on a show !!!! Maybe you need to take a look at your self. Get your feet back on the ground and back to reality.
She is extremely picky, perhaps unrealistically so. I'm not sure he is so serious about settling down in a long-term relationship. I was blushing when he made the comment about "not being big enough"!
perhaps ? her first 2 lines and i already knew she crazy
How many episodes are they behind? 2019!!!!
She later found out he was hung like a gerbal
just RUN 🤣
Outsourcing questions mid courtship is mid
If man have to cook, clean, maintain, protect, serve. What is left for woman to do? Just asking for a friend?
have babies
They should both be able to do those things for one another. Add in compassion, companionship, nurturing, friendship, love etc.
Work and have children. Oh you thought they had to stay home? It is 2024.😂
Let your clock tick.
30 seconds in and I can't stand her already... Walking talking pretentious problem.
Why does she look green?
She is completely delusional, the awakening will be rough
Exactly. Full of red flags. Who is going to marry an argumentative woman, who is stubborn and wears the pants?
she wants a simp 🤦♂️
If married it would never be our children but my children. This is so common with women.
Her personality reminds a little of Natasha from Bridget Jones Diary, but she's gorg, and sometimes for men, that pardons everything. I wish them both the best!
Subscribed 😊
At first I thought I could understand why she’s single but she’s so lovely ☺️
She maybe a great liar to. Being lawyer.
Girl is delulu.
They seem a good match to me ….
Well she answered first. I was hoping she would. That means she does wear the pants!
Cancer and Taurus are a great combo! She maybe tough, but you can tell he has already brought down some of her walls. (Yes, some men like opinionated women)
Her biological clock is ticking hey !!!.... So what has she been doing for the last 7 - 8 yrs ?
These are the type of up themselves girls who probably met some very decent guys but were not in the mood and passed them aside.
Now she is panicking.
She was probably busy in law school
@@nattie911 Law school is four years. What about the rest of the time?
Whoop whoop....Amazing AGAIN.
Well done👏👏👏
It’s 2019????
both have shocking table manners
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I wear the pants lawyer... will she scewrer Chad on a stick?
Vote here. 😮
Wait 2019 ?