@nonsensetalk8953 😁🤣 Well... some people don't drink or are in recovery. But funny comment. I used to binge drink. It ruined my life for 7 years. Now I no longer Binge drink. Have a wonderful day 🕊❤️🕊🙌🏽
My family are from the boxing world, I know that sport, he isn't a bad boxer, but he isn't famous or well thought of, but if that's what makes him happy to think that, then let him be lol. Omg he doesn't or can't talk about anything else. Take te boxing talk away. He as nothing to talk about
Rubens....The British boxing fans know exactly who you are and how good you were...Respect and thank you for your commitment to the sport...Some great fights to watch
I'd rather see a date with nice people that doesn't work out (like this one) than see the horror stories I've seen on other First Date franchises. South Africa has a great version of the show!!
"I want somebody who can feed the dog when I don't want to" "stop with the personal questions" "who needs a man" "I drink, smoke and covered in tattoos" Him: "theres no spark" (thats because her pair bonding has been destroyed)
"jaded" is a true word, too much previous pair-bonding.. same reason most men and women are disconnected from each other these days too @@adamfirst9321
@@imvention5696 3 kids...been married twice since she was 20...looks markedly older than her chronological age...smokes and drinks...yeah I think a former athlete can do a bit better.
This dude has no game ..no vibes ...his childish and creepy tbh 😂 I don't blame her at all. Also ..she made zero effort ...Ur a woman ..out on a date...put some make up on and dress up a flirt a bit ..jeeezeee
Good he doesn't drink or smoke! He seemed like a nice man, someone will be happy with him. I find it strange they matched him with her if he wants to start a family - those should be questions they ask in the pre-interviews ?!! She's obviously had her kids already, and she seemed to have an attitude against him for not having kids nor having been married before.. Just not a good match.
This woman was awful! She was just mean to him. You don't have to call someone a liar on a first date. Just don't see them again. Also she didn't dress up or anything. She could have been going to the groccery store. He needs a younger woman that is into working out. Plus, she looks like she weighs more than him... sorry... just a bad match.
I thought he was so sweet, handsome & doesnt drink! Hes a total catch. Hope you bring him back for another date ❤🙌🏽
How is not drinking a positive?
@nonsensetalk8953 😁🤣
Well... some people don't drink or are in recovery. But funny comment. I used to binge drink. It ruined my life for 7 years. Now I no longer Binge drink. Have a wonderful day 🕊❤️🕊🙌🏽
Stop with the personal questions? Isn't that how you learn about each other 😂
She clearly felt bad about 2 marriages, was nothing wrong with that question.
she didnt even bother dressing up for the date ..looks like she is going to the grocery store
Was thinking the same thing. Also doesn’t have a fun personality like he does
She wants to take a good look at herself 😅
Him too.
Edit: heck, the bartender looks like he works at a grocery store. Are we sure this show isn't filmed at Aldi?
She came to the date looking like shes shopping at lidl😂
...she wanted someone to hug her well...he is that...BUT ...bad match!
This guy actually fought Carl Froch IN ENGLAND. That's as legit as it gets in boxing.
Not wrong. Dodged a bullet there that lad.
He has never been a World Champion in any class, that's the real truth.
He is a complete narcist
Ruben Groenewald
My family are from the boxing world, I know that sport, he isn't a bad boxer, but he isn't famous or well thought of, but if that's what makes him happy to think that, then let him be lol. Omg he doesn't or can't talk about anything else. Take te boxing talk away. He as nothing to talk about
All the best to both of them. Maybe they should spar 😂
This was a total mismatch from the beginning. These two simply don't have anything in common. Who decided to match them together?
I agree there
Probably the World Boxing Federation or however it's called haha.
Def not a match . Guy has warm personality. 😁
Probably Malena matched them 😂
As happens a lot on these tv shows they do it on purpose to create in their opinion great tv. What a plonker he was and she wasn’t the nicest.
I can’t quite put my finger on it, but she strikes me as someone who has a very nasty streak
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Yes, her personality is very off putting. He seems fun and has a good personality
And quite comfy from the divorces,I'll wager,RVs ,motorcycles etc
44, married twice, 3 kids and a bad attitude. Good luck lady
Great comment😅.
She hasn't got a bad attitude. I thinks he's nervous.
Rubens....The British boxing fans know exactly who you are and how good you were...Respect and thank you for your commitment to the sport...Some great fights to watch
It wasn't quite a match but I did really like how kind they were with each other.
I get the feeling he used to be a boxer.
You think 😂😂😂😂😂
Ye a boxer dog 🐕 🤣
😂😂😂@@bmc5075👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Ummm... 🤔 You might be onto something there.
@@julieoluna8887 😂😂You will never know😉
Doomed from the moment they set eyes on each other
She s thinking she s a catch. 🤣😜
Rubin just dodged a bullet with three kids😂
Yeah she thinks she’s a prize but with her personality she’s going to be married a few more times
She didn’t like him from the moment she saw him, and that’s ok. I didn’t like how she was talking to him, though…
She was dismissive. He was nice.
I don’t think she likes much of anything. Might be why she is divorced twice
I'd rather see a date with nice people that doesn't work out (like this one) than see the horror stories I've seen on other First Date franchises. South Africa has a great version of the show!!
"I want somebody who can feed the dog when I don't want to"
"stop with the personal questions"
"who needs a man"
"I drink, smoke and covered in tattoos"
Him: "theres no spark" (thats because her pair bonding has been destroyed)
You also forgot the part where she has been married twice and has 3 kids. She's a catch!
In a word.. “Jaded”.
Only Thor could get a rise out of her… and only If he flies her around on his Magic Hammer..
"jaded" is a true word, too much previous pair-bonding.. same reason most men and women are disconnected from each other these days too @@adamfirst9321
Damn bro. You're everywhere, just regurgitating nonsense. Go on a date. Live a little. Drop the phone for a couple of hours.
@@lav7161 Is he wrong though? This woman has no sense of reality.
Ruben Groenwald. Not a bad boxer by any stretch 🥊
She a red flag
She’s all the red flags 😂
Boxing is his entire personality. One dimensional
...just because he doesn't have a lady in his life....I think
I don't think he knows if he's serious or joking. Something just wasn't right about him.
Maybe a bit of a language barrier?
Everything about this episode is awkward
Horrible attitude from lady made him uncomfortable run
run faster
Unlike Fred in London, this maître d' has a rather unctuous way of greeting customers. A bit creepy for my taste.
....I wondered if I was the only one who thinks that...?...creeps
When he was boxing at the beginning, some of his moves wouldn't be allowed in boxing. Something not quite right here.
Googled him after he said he fought Anthony Farnell. Turns out that story is actually true 😂. Not sure why he was doing some MMA/Kickboxing moves tho
Ruben Groenewald vs. Anthony Farnell I.MW.2002.06.01
@@JamesCraigWhoop He also fought Carl Froch.
good....
She really didn't seem to like anything about him from the get-go, so I guess it's a no-go for boxing Joe.
He dodged a major bullet.
@@aron.gortmanyes, he deserve better
@@imvention5696 3 kids...been married twice since she was 20...looks markedly older than her chronological age...smokes and drinks...yeah I think a former athlete can do a bit better.
Horrid match for both....I think he seemed a nice guy perhaps nervous and the lady hmmm not sure .....
why do they match folks with NOTHING in common
They don’t do that with the British one…they seem to always get it wrong for these ones in other countries though. Surely it’s the same franchise?
He's a sweet guy. She's snarky.
I liked him. I'm free for a date if he's interested 😂
Speaking Africance. Love it
I can't hardly understand it. 😂
@melliemellieg Afrikaans
Afrikaans😂
First dates around the world is awesome 🤣🤣🤣
Do you think he’s a boxer? He didn’t mention it
Not sure. What gave you that idea?
Don't like her
Wait why did they kiss on the lips at the end?
That’s how they do it in SA😂😂
It's a common thing in SA
I think they are both lovely people and hope they find the one
4:25 what a weird woman
Boxers organize a match, win the match and suddenly they are "world" champion.
He fought Carl Froch in a title match in England. Thats about as impressive as it gets in the sport.
@@aron.gortmanagree . Give the man the respect he deserves
@@samoday2992Only the real Pinokkio deserves respect.
Drinks is on the house, he doesn't drink 🤣🤣
"To me he's still a kid". She's rather blunt and curt in her manner. 🙄
Simple: she's for the streets, judgemental has been!!!!!🤬👎
Married twice lol. Run
Was he a boxer?
Cute bartender!🎉
My thoughts exactly 🎉😅
This dude has no game ..no vibes ...his childish and creepy tbh 😂 I don't blame her at all. Also ..she made zero effort ...Ur a woman ..out on a date...put some make up on and dress up a flirt a bit ..jeeezeee
She obviously is the problem here- married twice bad attitude
I didn't like either of them lol
I don't thii she liked him when she first met him
Grrrrrreat match.....
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mmm dont know about these two
Good he doesn't drink or smoke! He seemed like a nice man, someone will be happy with him. I find it strange they matched him with her if he wants to start a family - those should be questions they ask in the pre-interviews ?!! She's obviously had her kids already, and she seemed to have an attitude against him for not having kids nor having been married before.. Just not a good match.
This woman was awful! She was just mean to him. You don't have to call someone a liar on a first date. Just don't see them again. Also she didn't dress up or anything. She could have been going to the groccery store. He needs a younger woman that is into working out. Plus, she looks like she weighs more than him... sorry... just a bad match.
Vile woman he’s a nice a guy
They look older than their age.
He looks closer to 50😮
The strong sun ?
Nothing about Ruben screams boxer..he doesn't have the cauliflower ears and he's just chubby..even his face doesn't have the boxer look to it...
Looks can be deceiving because you should research. This guy is a legit boxer
she's so horrible! lucky escape mate!
She didn't matbe wanted to hug or kiss him in the end 😂😂😂😂
....good hugs was ALL she said she wanted from a man !!!
Ruben Groenewald
Watching this gust buy him a boxing gloves so he can sleep with rhem😅
Did I mention I was a boxer??
u guys reckon he used to box?
She’s a nightmare
Why are they speaking English? Did the editors tell them to?
Poor guy whoever ends up with her.
This guy is such a liar.
I like a man that doesn't drink ❤
Run Rubin! She rides a motorbike and covered in tattoos,drinks,smokes, she is looking for a girlfriend not a boyfriend, just doesn’t know it yet
lol
she doesnt seem to know anything real about herself. thats why she keeps getting divorced.
HE seems nice…Her not so much >_>
His head is full of hot air. A lot of been full of egotisic
Shes a drunk
You never get a nice South African.
Tell me about it! Mistake learned.
Drinks, smokes and has tattoos..how original
For a boxer he looks like humpty and dumpty
What a nerd
1:47 not even 2 minutes in and I'm already annoyed by him
Absolutely no personality this guy would creep me out
World Boxing Union isn’t really a world title bro .
So...what have you done?
Yes it is
Ruben Groenewald vs. Anthony Farnell I.MW.2002.06.01
Dude he fought Carl Froch in a title fight. Doesn't get any more legit than that.
@@aron.gortman my bad 🙏
single mother
with 2 car crashes behind her ?
RUN 🪜