Jordan Peterson | How to Plan your Life Successfully
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
- Jordan B Peterson (born June 12, 1962) is a Canadian clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at the University of Toronto. In this clip, he talks about how to plan life successfully and the spectrum between exceptionality and life balance.
This is from his 2017 Maps of Meaning 06: Story and Metastory (Part 2), full video: • 2017 Maps of Meaning 0...
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For me the biggest mindset change came after reading the book 25 Money Secrets From Donald Trump, since reading it the only thing I think about is money
That’s what this pandemic taught me, that I was 110% wrapped up in my career & financial success. This time with myself has been incredibly amazing. I now realize that working 12-16 hours is a day is absolutely meaningless. Spending time with my wife, son, dogs, and activities that give me pleasure are more rewarding than grinding with a narrow vision of a large bank account. Now I feel I can reorient myself, and live a very balanced life.
Thanks Rona
Amen. I am really happy for you!
Very good implication to me as well. Thanks man.
You already have a wife, so there's really no need to pursue an exceptionally high status. As for me, being young and seeking an attractive partner, I’m prepared to sacrifice everything for my career.
I miss the classroom lectures
i miss my life
The bathtub is my new lecture Hall. Pure attention to the speaker at hand
@@brittaniberge 😲😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@@nekemli1491 Ay man, you good?
@@nekemli1491 get back to it.
1. Focus of mind in Career for Radical Success - requires sacrifice 80hrs/week
2. Family
3. Network of Friends
4. Activities outside of work
He’s just awesome! He’s so rational and intelligent!
Nah.
@@TheHomerowKeys Quiet, dummy.
Man I wish I found this dude in high school or even middle school 💯
Me too😂
To sit in the that room as a student, people like hime make learning for learning's sake enjoyable.
He really inspired me like i really would like to meet and sit and drink a cup of tea with him would be very great . what im focusing in my life is
1.Make money open a business to be sucessful
2. healthy lfestyle meaning ( spend time with my wife )
3.stable life
This is Truth.
Well Clarified TRUTH!!!
Misleading title says "How to plan your life successfully." Nothing much about how to plan for life in the video.
yeaaaaah....... are you and I the only ones who noticed that? :S
First you have to decide what you want. Without doing that, you have no direction, and without direction you can't plan.
@@NZyoutube no
Keith "miss the marker" Lee.
If you're male - go for perfection (150%), female - for balance (80% @5), do it together.
"Men went after perfection and Women went after wholeness" that's something to think about.
Thankyou so much 🙏👍🙏👍
When you with JBP was your lecturer in college.
If that is what you want that is what you do .
Jack of all master of life
I miss his positivity. He’s so dark and pessimistic now. Fame has not done him well.
0:40 to 1:40
Whats not sure? Just ask me if you wanna know further info about him, eagerest fan of him
our genious guy :)
Epic!!
He doesn’t talk about planning your life in this clip.
I dont think women "bail", I think they have other responsibilities. Of a woman gets pregnant she cant work 80 hours a week, especially not once the baby comes, but the man never even has to slow down. Women tend to do most or all of the housework and cooking for a household even without children. Also this whole 80 hours a week thing isnt that radical for the working class,my dad works between 70 and 80 hours each week in a factory with no chance of promotion (because theres no "better" job unless he literally owned the place) he just does it to make enough money to support his family. This is a very strange way of thinking
The kind of working he talks about is progressive. The kind of work that you do to become exceptional. No hate to your father, props to him for not giving up but imagine working 70-80 hours as a scientist. You can't just close your mind and automatize things, every second of it must be a mental challenge to become efficient because you are not trying to build something or you're working on something you are comfortable; you literally try to solve a random problem in the universe that no one in the human history has ever solved before. It doesn't have to be science. Imagine trying to become the best lawyer in the town, maybe in the whole world. Just solving more cases won't get you anywhere. First, you have to eat all of the knowledge on the market. Second, you have to come up with pure original solutions, niche ways of providing justice (or making money). In the book Deep Work, an MIT scientist Cal Newport talks about the knowledge work, which is deep and adds that you can only sustain a true deep work for a maximum of 3-4 hours a day. He is talking about a work that revolutionizes a field. It's a work which, to do that, you need to have the most violent storms of all in your brain.
Jordan Peterson has achieved a PhD and a career in clinical psychology. Yet he discourages young people from pursuing their career aspirations, lovely.
I already have a plan I’m 13 right now and once I turn 14 I’m getting a job then I’m going to save up once I get a car and my drivers licenses I’m running away to New York I’ll get an apartment in New York I’ll also get a part time job then I’ll try to get a scholarship and go to college to study astronomy. And hopefully I’ll become an astronomer
Good! But learn more about life first. Having money at young age is good, but your networking is as important.
You are laying down the path for a disaster, my friend. Planning your ways to achieve the goal in 20 years spectrum is very unsensible. It's much more reasonable to use any opportunity that you run across on your way up rather than indulging into the malicious and life jeopardising activity of creating a "life masterplan"
@@Sam_Bolic I’m still going to run away because I’m pretty sure if I stay in my house for another 3 years I’ll turn out like all my older siblings and that wouldn’t be too good lol
@@Sam_iscrazyy tell your story
@@Sam_Bolic ?
Good Stuff
The idea that men can have kids until they are 80 isn't correct. Physically, yes they can squeeze out a puppy, but IMHO a man needs 25 years with a child to fully raise it...maybe less if it is a boy. Thus, 50 is probably an effective limit to an average man having and raising a child.
I second to that
He's stating having the choice, not the ethics behind it. A man can decide he wants a child up until the end of his life and have the ability to procreate, a woman's body will become unviable to carry a child well before menopause.
More importantly, the quality of sperm decreases as a man gets older... the children are more likely to suffer from disabilities or die during birth.
He was talking about how It's biologically possible, not ethically. So Im not sure why you are debunking the fact that men Can have have the ability to aid reproduction at 80.
@@rfcalm I make that point because ethics is important. Not every point has to be a disagreement or correction. Sometimes a point is simply an addition of contextually relevant important information.
I wanna have 150% in my career because I know I don't have it in me to have 80% in 5 things 😭
I could say things I want to be a rock star or a celebrity I feel that I have wasted time not being a strongiest women and taking care of myself. I have not worked hard to who I am suppose to be my dream is suffering so bad I don't know what to do.
when you lose your reputation by your psychologist leaking your private information, this means nothing
I want more children.. I put in the hours.
I still have a lot to learn and a lot to love, though! B"H
As woman I am to constantly apologize for my success, well, I wont. I don't let the thing between my legs decide my fate,
Do your hormones affect your thoughts & decisions?
@@iamjust1normalgirlfromindi446 no never in my life, that is why as a women you need to have a balance in your life,
@@iamjust1normalgirlfromindi446 Hormones affect our decisions as men too
@@المراجعالسريع-ص2تin a good way
What I want in my life. "Comfortable" Healthy Lifestyle, Good Environment, Fucking Beautiful Women, Video Games and a great Jumpstart in life for my Future Sons to be perfectly honest
Nice!
Seems incredibly boring and ordinary
@@alfrediversen3338 Everyone wants different things from life. No harm in that.
enjoy it woman
You don't need "f*cking beutfiul women", you need women for you, you need love.
I keep expecting one of his students to get triggered and flip out.
Some people might feel bad if they don't fit the gender differences he outlines.
Feminism shattered = 3:21 majority of women bail on uni-dimentional careers, they won't put in the effort to continue. They don't value it enough. That is because ultimatley men are providers and feel more financial burden/responsibility to continue providing for family while the woman 'goes back into the kitchen' and raises a family. I have the utmost respect for a mother who has self respect for being a stay at home mother and caring for the home and providing for the home. These women are very rare these days. Feminism has shot itself in the foot.
I would use the example as 120% energy to focus on being good at one specialty. Or 45% in three different areas ( family, career, hobbies ) Women competing against a man who is fully committed to their career and progressing will always ( 90% of the time ) loose. Women who focus on their home and family will have a very good chance at succeeding at providing for the family and creating healthy and happy children and a happy satisfied husband. But feminism has shot this in the foot, by implying that women who do not go to university, study a STEM subject, make lots of money, reach the boardroom level of the company they work for, wear a pant suit, are failing their potential. No, their highest potential is caring for the home and children and husband.
I don't know what I want to do with my life Joyce Adegboyega is 38 years old living with her mother only no Dad .
Any smart dad could give the same lecture. Hell, I probably could. How is this an academic lecture? Sounds more like a pep talk.
Than why aren’t you a world famous/class speaker? Why will no one ever know about you?
@@lfrohling Cause I don't give a shit brah
wtf
This guy is really annoying. He comes off as preachy and arrogant. I agree with his stance on pronouns and gender nonsense but that's about all.
He is a professor. How is he preachy 😂
@@Hachimon8 he was a Professor. No longer.
@@gianthills you are literally watching a university lecture bro whats your point
@@Hachimon8 you have never been to university.
KERMIT THE FRAUD