How To Achieve Your Most Ambitious Goals | Jordan Peterson

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    Chris and Jordan Peterson discuss how to set your goals for success. What is the inner citadel according to Jordan Peterson? What is the best way to set your goals according to Jordan Peterson? What biblical quote does Jordan Peterson use to represent better goal setting?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 180

  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  8 місяців тому +32

    Hello you legends. Watch the full episode with Jordan here - ua-cam.com/video/WEP5ubPMGDU/v-deo.html Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first box at www.drinklmnt.com/mw

    • @victorious_youth
      @victorious_youth 8 місяців тому +2

      We are legends
      Really 😮

    • @trinabaker3186
      @trinabaker3186 8 місяців тому

      Hello ... I just wanted you to know ... Atlas holds up the universe, not the earth. Actually, Atlas is pushing the heavens away.

    • @ElderTimes
      @ElderTimes 8 місяців тому

      I’m so

    • @Things606
      @Things606 8 місяців тому

      Farming clips from an interview from months ago.

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 8 місяців тому +347

    I find no better life purpose than to perish in attempting the great and impossible.
    -Friedrich Nietzche

  • @chicoloco7108
    @chicoloco7108 8 місяців тому +89

    "Discovering your own errors is always extremely painful, especially those errors that you are in love with" that's a very telling and potent point one that I can certainly relate too.

  • @MonikaDaddarwal
    @MonikaDaddarwal Місяць тому +5

    I needed this. 2 points. Actually 3.
    1. Be humble enough to look at your own faults, even the faults you are in love with.
    2. Reduce the distance between your ideal and the current state, so that you can move forwards, to at least start doing so.
    3. It's not a linear path, Honey. The start is hard, but the way has your back. Be open and hopeful to pleasant surprises.
    Please feel free to add to this here.

  • @nate9198
    @nate9198 8 місяців тому +24

    Basically like the concept of creating SMART goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Timely)

  • @Razear
    @Razear 8 місяців тому +12

    The first step to acknowledging your own insufficiencies is to drop your ego. It's the #1 impediment to achieving progress. It's also a prerequisite for asking seemingly "stupid" questions.

  • @nuclear_AI
    @nuclear_AI 8 місяців тому +5

    I discovered these teachings from Jordan roughly 3 years ago following a nervous breakdown they changed my life

  • @raycharlestothebs
    @raycharlestothebs 8 місяців тому +14

    I could listen to these two talk for days

  • @mylesfarias9
    @mylesfarias9 8 місяців тому +6

    Love to see his confidence in having an answer for every question

  • @surprise8864
    @surprise8864 8 місяців тому +10

    How many of us hv started something but didnt complete it and when the result day comes and we fail it hurts . Now remember the pain and make sure u dont feel that way ❤❤

  • @garethgare9404
    @garethgare9404 8 місяців тому +3

    Man Jordan explains this so constructively. When you dont meet your lofty ideal the feelings on inadequacy can be a bit depressing.

  • @ETR12935
    @ETR12935 8 місяців тому +16

    Needed this one so bad 💪

    • @dll7658
      @dll7658 8 місяців тому

      Same

    • @stachowi
      @stachowi 8 місяців тому

      Take the smallest step you can imagine, but start

  • @benjaminhartson3326
    @benjaminhartson3326 8 місяців тому +7

    The conversational prowess at that table is staggering

  • @MikeLocke
    @MikeLocke 4 місяці тому +2

    Jordan Peterson have the amazing ability to say so much without saying anything.

  • @RAKESH-ie1vb
    @RAKESH-ie1vb 8 місяців тому +1769

    I WILL DO 1 PULL-UP EVERY LIKE THIS COMMENT GETS...

    • @jillpurtan9833
      @jillpurtan9833 8 місяців тому +27

      I see what you’re doing there… 🤣📈

    • @winstonsol8713
      @winstonsol8713 8 місяців тому +109

      Or you could take responsibility for your goals and do an admirable amount of exercise regardless of what anybody else does.

    • @carloking2163
      @carloking2163 8 місяців тому +45

      Vids or it didn't happen

    • @neillunavat
      @neillunavat 8 місяців тому +33

      imma make you regret this

    • @zeroconnection
      @zeroconnection 8 місяців тому +17

      Extrinsic goals are superficial and rarely result in long-term success. With that being said I'm a sucker for clicking the like button.

  • @blakedantin8282
    @blakedantin8282 8 місяців тому +3

    This clip is amazing. God bless you both!!!

  • @SebViveros
    @SebViveros 8 місяців тому +2

    BEAUTIFUL conversation. Love jordan. Always.

  • @kettlebellcarnivore-vr5cw
    @kettlebellcarnivore-vr5cw 7 місяців тому +1

    Did I ever need to hear this. Perfect timing. Thanks for this.

  • @jameshay8595
    @jameshay8595 5 місяців тому

    These two gentlemen are at the top of my list. I learn from both and draw motivation from both also.

  • @yvonnewennerlid2552
    @yvonnewennerlid2552 7 місяців тому

    This is incredible. 1) Distance between expectations and reality 2 )Referring to a dragon when comparing yourself to someone else. 3) The steps we take, small or big

  • @patricklight1433
    @patricklight1433 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @coliniesLIVE
    @coliniesLIVE 8 місяців тому +4

    Great interview Chris

  • @Lantanana
    @Lantanana 8 місяців тому +5

    As far as happiness is concerned, instead of being happy when you succeed (although that definitely makes you happy), if you can learn to enjoy the process, almost every day of your life is pleasurable. You can decide to be happy regardless.

    • @Eudaimonia239
      @Eudaimonia239 8 місяців тому +2

      Being grateful and content with what you have is a key, but also striving for a better version of yourself in all parts of life is equally important

    • @Lantanana
      @Lantanana 8 місяців тому

      @@Eudaimonia239 Yes. Not saying not to strive, just saying happiness is not only that 1 instant when you have a special success. It is through the entire process.

  • @JSVillatoro
    @JSVillatoro 8 місяців тому +4

    Great video, although it was frustrating that often Chris could not finish his thought without Mr. Peterson starting to answer midway

  • @DylanOle
    @DylanOle 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Chris

  • @KnoLove
    @KnoLove 4 місяці тому +1

    Right

  • @dealership_life
    @dealership_life 7 місяців тому +1

    Persistence overcomes resistance👊👊

  • @MrSimonw58
    @MrSimonw58 8 місяців тому +1

    Nothing to fear about failure, failure is learning. Rob O'Neil .... The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the becomes away... Marcus Aurelius

  • @wuziwu8148
    @wuziwu8148 8 місяців тому +4

    Jordan Peterson is very ground to 🌎and spiritual. Much respect ✌️🧘

  • @realheckertrustmebro
    @realheckertrustmebro 5 місяців тому

    DUDDDDEEE this is so fkin valuable. I know exactly what I gotta do after this, I gotta lower my ideal as it is creating resistance which I don't want. I'm struggling with the fear of failure against my ideal, which I can't reach as I don't have the tools to reach that at my current level. It paralyzes me.
    Jordan Peterson did two things from his explanation of exponential growth curve.
    1. decreased my fear of failure as even though my small increments are shameful, it's still progress.
    2. solved the issue of my uncertainty as even though small increments don't show fast results, I can still be certain that the compounded outcome would be exponential growth.

  • @zarinaalborti4761
    @zarinaalborti4761 8 місяців тому +4

    Hello. Chris first of all thank you for this episode. I want to say that everything is possible in this life. Jordan says exactly what one should do. It works always. One could rise up from the bottom to the top. Let´s talk I will explain you with my own example. Also would like to tell that another speaker that talked about genes and social status was wrong. I can proove it. We should always study, be persistant and act in balance between good analysis and risk. People should know that everything is possible and we always have a choice. Send you both my sincere gratitude from Moscow!

  • @adnanafzal9684
    @adnanafzal9684 8 місяців тому +1

    Great talk.

  • @housemusichistory
    @housemusichistory 8 місяців тому

    Great points well made as per usual! Freshly shaven JP is looking SHARPE! Love that blue jacket too 💫 Thanks for the snippet Chis 🫶🏼

  • @Who.Knows.Who2you
    @Who.Knows.Who2you 8 місяців тому

    Chris, show more if your iner world, so we can follow more easily. And keep the influence!

  • @jl9205
    @jl9205 8 місяців тому +2

    I like hearing about young JBP, the partying, dancing grad student.

  • @Zehahahaa
    @Zehahahaa 8 місяців тому

    Jordan petterson is just a brilliant communicator and wise man. About the Mathew principal, would anyone agree on what he says

  • @SandraSmith-e4l
    @SandraSmith-e4l 2 місяці тому

    I found my path! Thank you!

  • @Chronoflation
    @Chronoflation 8 місяців тому +1

    How long will it take for Neutonic to get restocked?

  • @t-spark
    @t-spark 8 місяців тому +3

    Which episode is this from? If there was that info in the description, I'd go find that episode (or eagerly await it).

    • @DepthWA
      @DepthWA 8 місяців тому

      A hyperlink for the Full Episode is pinned at the top of the comments.
      (If you watch this video to the end, Chris Williamson mentions the full Podcast and provides the opportunity to watch it)

  • @DylanOle
    @DylanOle 8 місяців тому

    I really needed this

  • @UNOPUNTOTRECE
    @UNOPUNTOTRECE 8 місяців тому

    Love the tie.

  • @ThePostmillennial
    @ThePostmillennial 8 місяців тому

    Great talk. In regards to the inner citadel, it’s also referred to as cope.

  • @lala_ho
    @lala_ho 8 місяців тому +3

    I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!

  • @killerbeuk
    @killerbeuk 8 місяців тому +5

    Jordan Peterson always forgets mentioning enjoying and having fun and satisfaction while working on your goal. Being very passionate about the topic produces the Christian Ronaldos of this world. Without that the effort will fail...

    • @SchrodingersPlatypus
      @SchrodingersPlatypus 8 місяців тому +3

      David goggins wouldn't agree with you

    • @Tucanazo69
      @Tucanazo69 8 місяців тому

      You rarely have fun tbh

    • @WijnandBeukema
      @WijnandBeukema 8 місяців тому +1

      @TheChrisReece Hi Chris, You fail to se my point. Fun to me is not pointless and limitless hedonism, just the fun and satisfaction of for instance Ronaldo felt playing soccer say 30 years ago with his childhood mates.
      I saw a lot of videos by JP and he always fails to mention this joy. Listening to him it is all about hard work, sacrifice, discipline and being conscientious. There is a huge lack in that: "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy!"
      Of course best policy always is put a little work into the play and vice versa....

    • @eightpercentdisciple
      @eightpercentdisciple 5 місяців тому

      In his lectures he talks about finding the balance of responsibility and reward; in one example asking students to think about the balance of studying time vs time spent playing video games. Essentially taking on the right amount of responsibility and then rewarding yourself. Then doing it again.

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 3 місяці тому

    Exactly that 💯

  • @ismaelhall3990
    @ismaelhall3990 8 місяців тому +1

    inmotion

  • @being_tra
    @being_tra 8 місяців тому

    if you can't get what you want, you must teach yourself to want what you can get.

  • @ephraimmillion547
    @ephraimmillion547 8 місяців тому

    Part 2 please

  • @burninglion2584
    @burninglion2584 8 місяців тому +1

    Mmmmm, this is bloody good.

  • @guardianwaldo
    @guardianwaldo 8 місяців тому +3

    Im tired of setting myself right, i dont care they can come to me my plan now is to go find a place grow food live without a women that is incapable of loving me, take care of myself serve the world not society or money and if someone says hey your not paying money to live this perfect healthy useful lifestyle, they will disappear i will make a better world and i wont give in to a poisoned world. Im no longer changing myself to be better the world will find my resolve

    • @guardianwaldo
      @guardianwaldo 8 місяців тому +1

      I am now against society you find me in the wild

  • @vbyrne5116
    @vbyrne5116 Місяць тому +1

    4:46

  • @YoshevElazarMikael
    @YoshevElazarMikael 7 днів тому

    This means if we dwell on fantasies that are positive in society for hundreds of hours we will act it out in a meaningful way. @1:29

  • @abcdeeeeff
    @abcdeeeeff 8 місяців тому +1

    But the real problem is, once we get to know about our stupidy, our weaknesses, our lack of knowledge about the world and opportunities in it we directly go down to severe depression and hopeless zone. Atleast that's what happening to me if not with others. Once we realise our own condition we get directly into depression.

  • @neillunavat
    @neillunavat 8 місяців тому +1

    Jordan's socks are so cuteee! 😂❤

  • @OhMyItsAdamOmen
    @OhMyItsAdamOmen 8 місяців тому

    Good stuff Chris!

  • @Farmingtoon
    @Farmingtoon 8 місяців тому

    11:20 jbp williamson

  • @junevandermark952
    @junevandermark952 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for honoring my freedom of speech.
    My most ambitious goal came about after believing for 70 years that the universe was created ... to change my system of belief to the scientific theory that in one form or another, the universe and energy always existed ... no creator ... no plan ... and to believe that suffering of all forms of life ... is natural.
    If people believe they can't be moral unless they have religion in their lives ... that is a sad statement about the mentality of humans in general.
    It's as though you are saying ... "I can't be moral unless I fear that a god is going to punish me if I'm not moral."
    I am almost 85 years of age now ... and I believe that if I treat each situation with as much kindness as it deserves ... I can't DO better than my best ... and "let the chips fall where they may."
    “Since the masses of the people are inconstant, full of unruly desires, passionate, and reckless of consequences, they must be filled with fears to keep them in order. The ancients did well, therefore, to invent gods, and the belief in punishment after death.” Roman historian, Polybius.

    • @marcd2743
      @marcd2743 Місяць тому

      You were created and you will be destroyed. Look around you, everything has a beginning and an end. You are much more than your atomic matter.

  • @alexwall9332
    @alexwall9332 7 місяців тому

    JP has become the modern day Epictetus

  • @waldgaengertom
    @waldgaengertom 8 місяців тому

    Like conquer new land

  • @akshmsra
    @akshmsra 8 місяців тому +1

    I will do one push per like

  • @victor_734
    @victor_734 Місяць тому

    11:16

  • @CaptainSugarToes
    @CaptainSugarToes 8 місяців тому

    Is this recent interview?

  • @ocho33
    @ocho33 8 місяців тому

    So Chris are you working directly for Peter Thiel or just unknowingly 😏

  • @monocyte2210
    @monocyte2210 7 місяців тому

    Man this is me

  • @miguelangelherrera7074
    @miguelangelherrera7074 8 місяців тому +28

    I will do 2 push ups, for every like.

  • @ozonius_6859
    @ozonius_6859 7 місяців тому

    I am a nice guy and thats where i need to develop

  • @lorenzopietrapiana4707
    @lorenzopietrapiana4707 8 місяців тому

    hmm but "wanting what you get" is not a bad thing , its accepting what you have, your destiny, your limits . its wisdom. Inner Citadel idea makes it sound too negative

  • @mariusxmeier2417
    @mariusxmeier2417 8 місяців тому

    I used to be a big Peterson fan. But more and more I am hearing some undertones in what he is saying that do no resonate with me. There is a harshness to him that I now perceive to be unnecessary, even or especially in the pursuit of greatness.

  • @Daddy_Mama_me
    @Daddy_Mama_me 8 місяців тому

    Dear Mr Peterson. I'm not sure you will see this BUT..))
    Keep in mind that you have incorrect posture. Very probably you will have neck/head pain/discomfort/dizziness or you have already developed some.
    Proper sitting position + stretch + some excersises)

  • @marquesjones3411
    @marquesjones3411 8 місяців тому

    Jordan’s suits are nexus level while his sock game is downright childish. Clearly a winning combination

  • @sinesaii
    @sinesaii 8 місяців тому +1

    Basically a renunciation of Christianity and Buddhism. Desire is the root of evil. Subduing it leads to enlightenment. Freedom is so much easier than greed.

  • @Users_rx
    @Users_rx 8 місяців тому

    the problem is… i dont have one. now how to fix that idk

  • @kengfaihui9575
    @kengfaihui9575 8 місяців тому

    You made a typo in your video title, Achieve 😅

  • @jayhxmo
    @jayhxmo 8 місяців тому +1

    Typo in the title: acheive → achieve

    • @TheBlueOrRed-Pill
      @TheBlueOrRed-Pill 8 місяців тому

      You have too much time on your hand to bring this insignificant error to people's attention. Don't sweat the small stuff

    • @TheBlueOrRed-Pill
      @TheBlueOrRed-Pill 8 місяців тому

      You suppose to notice it & move on, not bring people's attention to it because it's insignificant to the message been convey. Stay focus

  • @user-ot3ef6mb8j
    @user-ot3ef6mb8j 8 місяців тому +2

    Stay hard

  • @redmoondesignbeth9119
    @redmoondesignbeth9119 8 місяців тому +1

    Goals? I set them and "something" shoots me off in another direction. At 71 I totally believe we live in a simulation. I have SO many stories. Back in 1981 I was losing my mind because I was dealing with a paranormal situation. To cope I hired a shrink....and I did a book of collages to help me cope. 40 years later the book reads like tarot of what is happening NOW. One part was about ancestors of Geronimo. ??? That was in 81. My son was born in 84...and HIS kids have Geronimo DNA.

    • @skyhappy
      @skyhappy 8 місяців тому +2

      Seek psychological help

    • @redmoondesignbeth9119
      @redmoondesignbeth9119 8 місяців тому

      @@ZM-dm3jg He realized I was dealing with something BEYOND his ability.

    • @redmoondesignbeth9119
      @redmoondesignbeth9119 8 місяців тому

      I keep getting replies from names with numbers like ZM. Are these bots? Some kid in China who doesn't understand English? I wonder what their answer would be if I spoke in Pig Latin?? LOL

  • @tim712
    @tim712 8 місяців тому +1

    I am not achieving my goals because Neutonic is out of stock

  • @SirSydneyFrancis
    @SirSydneyFrancis 21 день тому

    Setting Goals are like creating imaginary steps that lead you to your future self..

  • @blogleftbanker
    @blogleftbanker Місяць тому

    Cool, he's like listening to a human fortune cookie.

  • @Chax9_1990
    @Chax9_1990 8 місяців тому

    Sorry but did you bring JP as a role model?!!!!! 😅

  • @estevesmartins7935
    @estevesmartins7935 8 місяців тому

    Privileged information…it’s all between the lines.

  • @optimizeyourlife541
    @optimizeyourlife541 8 місяців тому +9

    I WILL EAT ONE MINI DONUT FOR EACH LIKE THIS COMMENT GETS!!!

  • @bright-bo2fj
    @bright-bo2fj 8 місяців тому

    Jorden Peterson!😂 just give him money and he'll tell anything...😅

  • @Gilmarbarrioss
    @Gilmarbarrioss 8 місяців тому +2

    I will upload 1 UA-cam video every like this comment gets 📈📊

  • @isaacbidwell
    @isaacbidwell 8 місяців тому

    Eating an elephant one bite at a time.

  • @B1ggz13
    @B1ggz13 8 місяців тому

    Do people even still like JP ?

  • @Pump358
    @Pump358 8 місяців тому +1

    I noticed he calls Rogan dumb quite often 😅

  • @sarab7794
    @sarab7794 8 місяців тому

    Is Jordan the person who said “give him hell” he seems like he is so wise and compassion-- heavy sarcasm btw! A sheep in a wolf clothing.

  • @foxmercuryearthylog120
    @foxmercuryearthylog120 8 місяців тому +3

    The table is too fucking long man.

    • @ChrisWillx
      @ChrisWillx  8 місяців тому +10

      Really good spot. We actually choose them to specifically be long AF. I'll explain in a Q&A soon. Cinematography tings.

    • @activatekruger446
      @activatekruger446 8 місяців тому

      ​@@ZM-dm3jgNo, I don't.

  • @KensVideoSpot
    @KensVideoSpot 8 місяців тому +1

    Individual responsibility as a concept loses credibility when advocates of individual responsibility refuse to acknowledge that external conditions are largely stacked against the individual, more than ever today. Furthermore, it is the responsibility of those advocating personal responsibility to acknowledge that they had it wayyyyyy easier than those they are speaking down to now. Jordan Peterson -- at his age, and coming from his generation of opportunity -- well, his spiel is the classic "born on third base and think you hit a triple." (And then telling others that it's your fault that you aren't on third base.)

  • @anesu846
    @anesu846 8 місяців тому

    So religion

  • @Rob.Kisiel
    @Rob.Kisiel 8 місяців тому

    Blue and green should never be seen...

  • @normamagdaleno2486
    @normamagdaleno2486 8 місяців тому

    You speak rubbish you will pay your recompense.... Your out for the money.....

  • @dcktater7847
    @dcktater7847 8 місяців тому +4

    I failed on every possible level and i totally know i did nothing wrong. For a time i didnt understand why and bitched about it i thought it was an evil universe like literally seeing others doing it worse than me and still rakingi in...But it actually was a benevolent cosmos teaching me. Teaching to give all material endevors up and now i'm completely free from the burden of this world. (Most particularly women. I was wondering why the fk am i chasing this money shit? Ofc to get a gal. But why the fk do i want a gal soo badly? And there was no answer...it's just as an arbitrary bullshit as wanting a febergè egg or somethin...then i realised that i was fool all along. Women are the very things that pull men down from spirit to matter. Maya=mother=matter=matrix. Why you think it's called that? It's wmn who make men chase after money and infecting him with materialism. That's the real escaping the matrix in case you wondered. Who's with me? No one? Yeeea thought so...women are the very symbol of this world of this matrix once you give up on them totally it's game up you are free forever and beyond...)

  • @AdilMahmoodi-r3u
    @AdilMahmoodi-r3u 8 місяців тому

    Simple ISLAM ☪️

  • @Osama1-
    @Osama1- 8 місяців тому

    Free Palestine 🇵🇸

  • @okplld
    @okplld 8 місяців тому +1

    This guy clowning on Atheists and quoting from gospels. Never gives straight forward answers, heavily biased. Dangerous person to take advice from.

  • @kpeezy776
    @kpeezy776 8 місяців тому

    Love JP but he butchers scripture…

  • @deanjackson625
    @deanjackson625 8 місяців тому +4

    Jordan Peterson thought process is somewhat not important he not supposed to practice in Canada and he isn't a outdated conservative and he not.
    Take lightly with what he saying and only apply what you have opportunity to make changes.
    Remember in a relationship a woman has checked out of the marriage and relationship for 6 months to 1 or 2 years and nothing is going to change her mind and feelings about working on the marriage and unfortunately accountability and responsibility in the day to day friendships/roommates marriage and affair bye the wife is the nail in your coffin and marriage counseling is not going to help a broker marriage and only delays divorce.
    Men unfortunately need to protect themselves with a prenuptial agreement before marriage and relationship with their future wife , Remember marriage is a business agreement and woman look at it as a money 💰 grab they get the house and kid's and didn't want to invest their own money in the relationship never give 100% percent and accept less than she contributed 100 percent contributed money and stability and not playing games.

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    Get someone on the show who knows something about Palestine because Jordan does NOT