How the 16 Personalities Make Decisions
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- Опубліковано 18 сер 2023
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Some of you might have seen this video released earlier with some of the types missing. I put the wrong version out and lost the finished version to the obscurity of my laptop folder abyss, so had to redo it.
I also momentarily thought I'd run out of teabags earlier.
It's been a trying day.
~ Nathan
Tbh I don't think I noticed, I only watched the INTP part. Regardless, I express sympathy to you in respect to your trying day.
That's okay. At least you got out the complete version.
☕
I was a very confused infp thinking my mind had drifted off and I'd missed it!
being out of tea bags would be very trying
Time stamps...
ESTP 0:02
ISTP 0:38
ENTP 1:15
ENTJ 1:54
INTJ 2:28
ISFP 2:59
ESFP 3:31
INFJ 4:08
ENFJ 4:55
INTP 5:33
ISFJ 6:21
ESFJ 6:55
ENFP 7:40
INFP 8:24
ISTJ 8:59
ESTJ 9:42
I love you
Thank you 👍🏽
You are welcome
Salamat❤
Thanks my ISFJ
ENFPs making decisions be like: can it go wrong? Yes. Are the odds against me? Yes. Does my heart want it? Yes. Ok, I guess I should do it then 😂
That sounds preferable to this INTP
@@Tmate4444we Ti doms be like heart pump blood not want
💯 Pretty much!
🥺 regretting it later when reality hits
ENFPs also do it to the nith. “If I’m doing this, I’m only doing this once so I’m…” riding from the front, jumping from the top, taking the longest route, whatever was the highest, fastest, farthest, last the longest, etc. because I’m only experiencing this once so I want it from the ultimate, best, biggest, POV I can get.
I'm glad you pointed out that fact that people overlook about INTPs: that Ne (a highly playful and speculative function) is wedged between Ti and Si, two very strict and demanding functions. I often find it hard to answer when people ask me "do you prefer to do things a usual way or try something out for the sake of experimenting?" I do both of those all the time and don't see them as contradictory. I like to look at things in a very factual and basic way, and then stop and consider if there's a link that may have been missed and come up with ideas that often astonish people. It's like looking at a jigsaw puzzle: you see every piece as it is first, and then begin to piece together how all those pieces come together to make a whole picture.
Absolutely. Risk versus reward. A little Ne-based innovation helps fuel Ti-based understanding sometimes, even when Si-based "because that's the way it always been done" screams otherwise... and even if the innovation blows up in our faces, it's still an opportunity for us to get that Si-based wisdom reinforced in our minds. Over time and with personal experience, I've found Si getting stronger, but the novelty of Ne never goes away.
Honestly, as ENTP I feel like a wannabe INTP with worse concentration and sadly intellectually inferior when you get down to it. I rather just scan an issue for the points of improvement or expansion and then yeah, I guess the most tempting fruit it is. To an untrained outside eye, this may seem similar but I unfortunately know the difference.
How does the INTP make decisions? Usually out of desperation-fueled panic from putting off the decision until we find ourselves on the precipice of disaster and the situation is of the "do or die" variety. Procrastination is its own reward. 😑
I think that's how a LOT of people who aren't INTP make decisions xD
ENTP here: I hate to make decisions where I can choose just one option. Had a nightmare of a time when I had to choose an institute for my PhD.
At least you made it to that point. Congrats, doc!
As an ENTP, I struggle so hard with making decisions that I use a random number generator for everything. Anything from life choices to what I have for breakfast. Its too hard to actually choose since I can find value and contentment in anything, so I just let randomness choose for me.
I've always sy that it is easier to adopt to the decision than to make one
now there's me who frequently changes her opinion after the decision is made. a struggle
Exactly and i'm never decisive about anything... Like ever!! Everything can go right and everything can go wrong
Fellow ENTP here, that is such amusing thing to do. I love amusing things 😊.
@@lepszemy thoughts exactly
I loved the way Nathan describes us ENFPs. A lot of other people just describe us as stupid chaos monkeys with no useful skills. Nathan kinda adds sense and reason to the chaos and I appreciate that.
He’s the only MBTI content creator who seems to respect us.
It's the same way for INFPs. Most creators dismiss us as weird depressed daydreamers, but I feel like Nathan actually understands and respects INFPs. (Btw I love ENFPs. Keep living 'out loud'!)
Very sad the timestamps person hasn't arrived😩
Be the timestamp person you want to see in the world. 😉
The irony is that 3 weeks later, the time stamper now has a comment right below yours
😂😂😂😂
Sometimes I feel like I’m the only esfj that watches this stuff. But we really don’t like making decisions in general. I think Nathan was being nice when describing our choices. Makes me wish I was a different type some times
No ESFJs are awesome! We need more of you guys in the online community
As an ENTP I have a hard time remembering not to voice my analysis to others. When going thru all the options, I normally include worse case outcomes and what to do if they arise. It totally freaks out different personality types out so much 😮, I find most people never examine that possibility in a given situation and is soooo surprised when it happens 🧐
I often had this in my job. I kept saying then "I told you so". HONK HONK
A decision that can't be changed might not be wise to make
- ENTP approved
ENTJ- I work through all of the possible outcomes and go through the next 8-10 steps for each outcome. I rarely get totally surprised.
I couldn't agree more. I had to pause and repeat some parts to listen to it again while thinking of every decision I have made through the years.
Actions entail consequences. It is imperative for me to think that no matter how small the chance of failure is, it will still happen and contingency plans are needed to be considered. If there's anything that annoy me, that is when people call me out for being "negative" or "to cross the bridge when I get there". Positive outcomes are expected but you should always be prepared when it fails... or in the process of failing to try to salvage and put it back on track.
What I have learned through the years is to not always aim for perfection but to learn to work with what is acceptable. It may sound contradicting at first glance but being too rigid has brought way too much stress for this aging vessel. The perfectionist in me is nothing more but a vestige of my former glory. Good times.
It may sound as if life has made me jaded; I cannot deny.
Though some things will never change... people are tiring. I'd rather spend more time, alone, in the comfort of my home and to only socialize, when needed.
- INTP in his mid-30s
I’m an INFP and couldn’t agree more with what you said. The North Star/framework building analogy is spot on
As ENFJ it’s precisely true
intp gal with esfp boyfriend and I think u explained it perfectly.. he usually asks me to help him make decisions on everyday/mundane things. My mom is also this way so it wasn't a huge shock for me but usually, on my side of things, if I ask for advice on decisions, its usually just to bounce off my ideas on someone, and get some outside perspective rather than leaving the descision completely to someone else like esfps would. That being said when a decision needs to be made on the spot, he's definitely the one to go to, as I would likely procrastinate with analysis paralysis weighing which is the better option... probably for a bit too long given an urgent situation.. haha
Now I know how to predict how my friends will operate when playing strategic board games 😂
ISFPs -they will make the choice when it stares them in the face - excellent said, which means basically they procrastinate and wait to make a decision until the very end. That's so true
I agree
that infp one is really accurate (and suitably poetic lol)
istp so real. tgank you sm for making this content, you have so much knowledge and actuyally go deeper with mbti
100% agree, a decision that can't be changed is rarely a wise one for me! The only exception has been getting married, but he's strange and ethereal, so really all I'm doing is living on the edge _with_ someone. It's not bad, actually.
As an INFP, I can say sometimes I feel like a chameleon morphing into different personality types based on where I’m at in refining my compass& how my mood is doing at the moment. Sometimes I go full INFP dreaming mode, draft all that mess out onto paper (sometimes I literally just go insane and my psyche explodes), and then after a bit I’m able to use particular functions to make sense of it all. This especially goes with stuff related to value systems (I’m currently working on my own modern manifesto). But stuff like writing poetry (no surprise) some very naturally to me& doesn’t require as much mental sorting or time. However I’ll say that my favorite moments are when I’m able to combine creative& logical stuff, or people with other personality types are able to explain to me how I can better do this& appeal to my type. It makes me feel very seen, esp as an INFP in STEM.
I think as INFPs mature& heal their traumas more, they’ll find& trust friends/colleagues with other personality types who are able to help them bring their creativity out into the world in a manner that can be really impactful to a lot of people. Please don’t allow your traumas& your history of being misunderstood to keep you isolated!! Also, another thing: your habits probably don’t work consistently like other personality types. I’m not saying you shouldn’t try to have daily habits (you should) but like your daily habits should include a lot of things to make you feel good (meditating, some time for hobbies& fav ppl, some time to focus on things that interest you) bc you probz cannot just “chug thru it” like other types. Or if you do you’ll burn out sooooo easily (I know from personal experience).
So yes, take it as steady as possible but also understand that having a framework that functions more on feeling/creativity, understand that there will be days more than other personality types where you’re just not as naturally functional (related mainly to work& practical matters)& be prepared to work on a different schedule than everyone else/adapt habits that make it easier on “those” days.
Take it easy INFPs, once you get to a steadier place practically, you can have more time to use your crazy minds to do amazing things!!! But DEF get started on those ideas even before you get to a stable place bc those “seemingly non-practical” things are what keep you happy& help you discover yourself. No offense to the other personality types (love yall) but INFPs are kinda the most human IMO and that makes it hard for us in a very machine-like, corporate-run competitive society. We can’t tap into our inner robot as easily as the other types LOL. (It’s funny bc I’m an INFP and ppl used to call me “robot” in high school I guess bc I was considered rlly smart but I was also a late bloomer& didn’t have romantic feelings like everyone else around me so ppl thought I was weird). Oh that’s another thing, INFPs accept being a late bloomer, nothing wrong with that!! You’re like fine wine, you get better with age😘😘and just a reminder, we do believe in logic& know how to use it; we just get easily very bored with the “black& white” of the world, are very sensitive about issues related to justice, and we just wanna see different. That’s all. Sometimes our boredom& hatred of reality is our biggest enemy and demotivater, that’s something we need to spend a lot of time figuring out how to get past as INFPs. We’re not a bunch of daydreamers in lala-land, we’re just a bunch of bored rebels and creatives who need to find better ways to channel our strengths!!
" ...shaving with Occam's Razor." lol
I've just started the video and I already wanna like it but decided to watch it till the end then like it lol. I've been binge watching your videos. I feel like you explain types better than any websites or test results. Sometimes you point out very specific things about my type that surprises me and makes me wonder how does one who's not the same type as me know this? I love your videos sooo much.
Thank you, Nathan! Love you!😇
INFJ description = spot. on. At least for me. Thank you for the preciseness AND accuracy of your synthesis Nathan, this level of true understanding really sounded beautiful to my ears and soul.
If I had heard THIS earlier in life I could have saved myself so much time. That is an unchanging thing with me, for sure. I would keep telling people, basically, unless we have the ability to do it - whatever it is- then there is no use in talking about if we would or would not do it. Though, that gave us plently of reason to figure out if we could marshal the resources or whatever.
INTP - slowly, thoroughly, and with disclaimers 🥸
Fwiw, this is also how we have sex...
USUALLY with disclaimers... 👍
Always glad to see you
Love your vids, your voice itself is just entertaining
Glad this video is up again. Here's hoping it stays this time. Always love your content.
As an INFP, I admire the way INFJs mix logic and feelings. I believe it would be extremely good in moral issues because of the clarity from the logic mixed with the great amount of empathy. Perhaps it’s because of the way us INxPs build frameworks and how we like to crystallize our knowledge, I find the INFJ’s process similar to the way I create solid ideas (using a bit of reasoning to what is most practical to the situation) from my values or important information and try to live up to it. This is what I’ve been doing as I matured, and I’ve really been trying to consider other things besides my own feelings to make decisions. Hearing these descriptions of INFJs, it seems like they embody the way I ideally want to think, empathetic yet can see the logical side of things and are much more firm in their resolves. Their way of energy conserving also adds bonus points. So overall, I think INFJs could be very admirable people and I strive for some of their qualities I hear from these type descriptions. (Just so you know, I haven’t met any irl)
I don’t know why I specifically talked about INFJs in this comment, ig they just stood out to me 😭😭😭
Agreed. Very good video.
I took detailed notes... thanks! 😊
Yes the ability to see all possible outcomes and act accordingly
Infp here, before making a decision I think about every possible outcome that might occur or the consequences that might come along with one decision and than go for the one that has the least negative consequences or outcomes. Of course I also put it through my value test but sometimes I have to go against my values if the estimated outcome of the "right" thing to do is worse than going with the other option that might seem morally wrong. For example I am absolutely against violance and don't wanna use violance. But in a situation I have to defend myself in order to protect myself it would be nuts not to use every tool possible to do so. That means In life threatening situations (and there are more than being attacked physically) I will protect my own self in any means.
Wow you really pinned me when it comes to how i make decisions in certain scenarios 😅 all though there are a Let of scenarios where i reli on what the most logical thing to do would be instead of following my heart but i guess thats also a way of following my heart huh 🤔 ya know since my heart and gut are both saying to go with the logical thing 🤷♀️ but i do totally come up with scenarios Where it comes to making decisions actually i come up with scenarios for most things before doing them just to see what the best course of action would be and to figure out which to follow though with and yesh if i keep on going im gonna go wayyy off topic i mean ive already written something long and theres no way anyones gonna really card about what u just said so i should probably just stop now since ive already gone a pretty long tangent and im just making it longer by the second sooo
~an ENFP who really needs to stfu
As a ENTP I do usually fall for temptation from whichever is funnier
Life is a story we are writing in real time, and any good writer will tell you that some of the best plot advancement comes from making the most shocking decision. The begger the hero just helped is a witch. Your new BFF is your arch nemesis in disguise. Your name is Baker, so you either give into fate and become the best pastry chef or become a hotrod racer and cook the competition in your exhaust fumes.
Now you're cookin' with gas 😉
You describe all of the types the best of anyone on YT.
As an INFJ, I like to say I have high standards and fluid morals.
My decision making must adhere to my standards, but the means to achieve could be swayed based on the morals of the current social situation.
a curious combination 🥸
Thanks for reuploading this video, Nathan. INFJs approach problems both logically and emotionally, keeping an even balance between them.
However, as an INFJ, I often find my logical side and emotional side at odds with each other. When that happens, I tend to eventually go with heart over logic, but only after agonizing about the decision and running round and round in circles in my head, analyzing from every angle. I want to somehow reconcile the leanings of my heart with the logic of the situation, but it's often not possible and can be extremely frustrating!
Why is this so on point 😂
Entp me making desitions by peoples common 5 -3 perceptions by using ne ti fe si
Ti funnel down the common thinking of people and does it make sense to me
So, we dont have infinite possibilies actually...its directly coming from reading peoples behind the sentences❤
But yes we have contengency for contengency always for the main plan
Like who u want to be in real life
Nobel or Einstein? (One has high level money and respect
One has highest level of respect in the world may be but average money)
ENTP too…I have realized respect and money r worthless life goals. I have been there, done that. My findings, FREEDOM to do anything u want to do when u wake up is The most amazing thing and one great goal.
8:24 INFP … I feel called out 🤣
MORE INFP VIDEOS PLEASE
Man, I miss these videos.
As an Isfp, this is so real. I always say, ah I'll think about it when it happens when my friend gives me a hypothetical scenario haha. Its like theres always too many nuances. You only know exactly what to do when you are aware of every context in the now
Tangentville is where I live.
ENTP - Spoiled for choice
(INTJ) As I get older, my decision making process has changed. In early childhood, intuition was the leader. Then through school, logic played a much larger role, while intuition observed and codified learnings into abstract structures. In early adulthood, that logic got too big for its boots, and I allowed that 6th slot Ti to lead me astray far too many times. Now, intuition is the leader again, with Fi internal values playing a much greater role in decisions. Te and Fi duke things out -- and Ti internal logic pops up too -- but ultimately Ni is used as final decider.
How do know when your being guided by intuition or logic?
@@hackpo1015Excellent question. Logic is a conscious process, whereas intuition is a process of the unconscious. This gives them very different qualities.
Whereas logic is concerned with crystallised ideas that can be verified and audited -- the foundation of rationality -- intuition is based more around pattern recognition, and compressing external sensory input into abstract forms that can be internalised.
At first glance, this makes logic sound clearly superior. It is absolutely the more rational of the two, and even trying to describe intuition will likely give a response of "WTF are you talking about?". However, you need to understand the order of how they come about.
Consciousness is an extension of the unconscious, not the other way around (see Freud and Jung's extensive rants about their loathing of the misleading term "subconscious" for more on that topic). From out of the body springs the unconscious, and from the unconscious springs the conscious mind. In psychodynamics, the conscious mind is often represented as a mere tip of an iceberg, whereas the unconscious is represented by the far greater portion below the surface.
What does this create in practical terms? Although conscious content is clear, focused, and crystallised, it is also extremely limited in its view -- especially a person's internal logic. Unconscious content may be much murkier and more abstract, but it is hyper-connected and can utilise the psyche (and body) as a whole, not just a limited area in the frontal lobes.
I don't think I need to explain how to know if something is using logic (it's simple "if a + b = c, then...." type stuff), but intuition will draw upon your body, your dreams, your drives, your feelings, spontaneous imagery, inadvertent behaviours, and so on. If you look at a dangerous bridge, your intuition can look at it and in less than a second say, "nope, not doing that", whereas a logic-driven computer would need to spend lengthy periods running through endless sequences of logic to reach the same conclusion.
Your body is a big factor. In my twenties in particular, the biggest mistakes I made in my life were times when my logic told me that something was the right thing to do. It was that "if a + b = c, then..." kind of thinking. My body would be screaming in opposition, with my fingers going heavy, my guts sinking, nausea, headaches, dizziness -- all sorts of obvious "stop doing this" signs -- but I went ahead and did it anyway, because it *made logical sense at the time*. 🤦♂
I remember a turning point when I was about to do something very stupid, and I had something that sounded like a clear, rational reason for doing so. I drove to a certain place and got out of my car, but when I started to walk, my legs started turning to lead. I kept trying to move forward, but my body was pulling me back and didn't want to go on. I stopped for a second and checked back in with how I was feeling and realised, "I don't want to be here". I drove home feeling kind of angry at myself, but later on I realised I had made the right decision, especially in the long term.
The more I do this, and allow my body and unconscious to speak, the more I make better long term decisions. My conscious ego with its personal logic will make little tantrums sometimes, but the intuitions always lead to a more mature decision that avoid heartache or simple unnecessary headaches. Sometimes it might be something simple like "do I text this girl this thing or not?", and when I'm in the moment, doing something that might seem like an inspired idea, my body may give off other clues and make me sluggish, forcing me to check back in with myself. Then the next day I realise that it would have been a stupid idea to have texted that thought and I was right to cool my jets! ;-)
🙌🏾 🎯 ISTP agrees 😅
I'm ISFP and this is so spot on. I hate when people ask me, what if this, what if that? and it gets me frustrated and i go, what if not? Stop overthinking. I'll solve things as they come, i don't see a point about thinking about things that might not even happen. SMH
The point is, if you're talking to someone who has a good track record of predicting likely outcomes, they are going to reject your choice and want a different solution before any action is even taken, to save time, effort, resources, frustration, and/or heartbreak. This can cause arguments that cause even more hurt feelings and wasted time.
The ability to make decisions on the fly is not a bad thing. Unless you often end up making choices that end in bad outcomes, which would undermine the trust people have in your ability to make good decisions. TRUST is the point here.
The funny thing is, those who predict may be wrong in their predictions - no one has life experience in everything, after all. But they have been right often enough in the past to trust their own predictions. As an INTP who is constantly gathering information, I'm on the fence. I do tend to let others make their own decisions and just observe what happens. If things go in a direction different than I predicted, I make a note of that and add it to my mental filing cabinet. But more often than not, things go exactly as I thought they would (whether that is well or poorly). People around me are used to hearing me say, "Yeah, I figured that." They also tend to trust my decision-making skills, to the point where I have to gently encourage some of them to make choices for themselves at times.
@@DreamQuillRose Well i'm no INTP, but i can easily predict if relationship will work out for people in a long term or not. Havn't been wrong in that area since i was like jokingly guessing since i was like 17yrs old .
As for doing something, it's not always the same. 2 people could make the same decision and have completely different outcomes, it's not due a decision itself, it's due a process you do once you make a decision and ability to adapt and overcome and follow thru, even if you fail, it takes legit few seconds to refrect on that mistake, and go forwards without doing the same shit again .
Im ENTP and so shocked at how accurate this is
Nathan, why don't you make the decision to speak about the 16 personalities' love compatibility ? 😛 Thanks for the content anyway 😊 ~ ENFP
Or what happens when two types are seemingly not compatible ❤
Yea ! Since Nathan is one of the best UA-camrs in the MBTI field, I think any advices and analysis about romantic relationships would be very helpful.
The most compatible are intj and enfp 😏
Me (INTJ) and my ex (ISTP). Very odd pairing but we learned so
much from each other. ❤️
Do you think so ? 🙂 I know only one INTJ, so I can't draw any conclusions, but my impression is that this type and mine would make better colleagues than a loving couple.. I'd be curious to know what the most common pairings are, among Love Who's community 🙂
Every single human being has all the personalities inside them..
I'm 5'2" small-petite. They don't all fit in this one container 🤯
🤭
@@TheQwuilleran Hehe cute take on it.. But none the less.. We do all have all the traits inside us, it is just different which ones we choose to give attention and present to the world. ;)
Istp. My daughter and possibly her dad. Very logical and independent. They have emotions but don't factor them in decisions
Who makes long-term Future plans ?
I am middle between enfp and entp
At some point making decisions is hard😂
ENTP’s (1:14) unite here.
We r the Best lol!
Why don’t you make videos on Socionics or other typology systems?
I feel subtle accent in your speech. Do you use any another language?
I think I need an ISTJ. Can I exchange my ISTP to an ISTJ???
As a homeschooling teacher of an ISTP teenage boy, how can I get him to realize the importance of a routine and/or the benefits of completing the whole program without a constant argument.
INTP: What is this "decision-making" you speak of?
Thank you for convincing me there's no way I'm an ENFP. 😂 Also, I feel like you keep outing yourself as an ISTJ... getting stuf done. 😂
He's an INTP
@@ladybluebell1598 has he confirmed a type? I missed it 😂
Y'all are LAZY if you need timestamps for this vid.
lol wow lovable infj
We don’t - INFP 😂😢
J.K. Rowling - 'It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.'
As an entp, it’s uncomfortable how much you know about us
You're ISFP 0:33
ENTPs! Where my excel spreadsheet heros at?? 👇🏼
Have you ever considered being an INFJ?
First!
ISTP seems like really the best class, can think, logical + Se, action, money etc + not overly emotional but Fe is better that Fi ofc + third Ni the is better Ni imho, second or first Ni it's just too creepy. Like literally, there are no competitor to them, only ENTJ maybe, but they are Te retarded + not cool. really wish i was an ISTP instead of INTP
How do INFPs make decisions? - Easy, they don't :D
INTJ = path of least resistance
Deliberate :)
ENTP here. I’ve never heard so far someone SO ACCURATELY describe HOW I was making my decisions! This is so helpful! Honestly, I didn’t even realise that this is how I made decisions and just assumed that everybody else was making decisions in the same way using this same strategy. This video is so cool and you have a brilliant way of explaining things! 🩵