16 Personalities Confessing Their Love
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- The 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities Confessing their love to someone
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Me as an INFP trying to confess to my love to my crush:
We don't! We just rehearse all the fictional and imaginative scenarios in our head and awkwardly observe them from the sidelines.
That's horrifyingly specific
@@hadngyroland2007 Because I'm going through it myself! LOL
I bet, staring at their backs will help them realise how much we love them╮(╯_╰)╭
Telekinesis is real right
@@EmDecidesToExistToday I'm always going thorough it
As an INFJ I absolutely agree
Lol quietly dying on the inside emtionally is what being an InfJ is all about.
True , can relate.
Agreed
Yes indeed
Lol so true man.. :')
So spot on really, it's worrying. Infp
As an INFJ, that's painfully accurate. We just bottle up the emotions and take the rejection as sad music plays in our heads.
I'm sorry to hear that.
I suspect my husband is INFJ because he was stalking me. He tried the friends routine but I was like get lost I have a girl friend, full time job and university, I don't have time for friends or even one night stands.
He asked me to marry him 1 month after we met and we've been married for 8 year now. The INFJ mind control powers are creepy, I may be a hostage and not know it.
~INTJ
Can confirm, happened to me this week and in the same way ...
At least you guys get rejected, We INTPs are too scared to ask out the opposite sex. Cause, yeah! Being a Computer Nerd or Depressed Overthinking Robot is hot asf 😒
I normally kinda think predicting how people react based on their meyers briggs is such BS, but i just started watching these and the INFJ takes i feel personally attacked.... and now i'm down a rabbit hole watching all of them....
I could never confess to my crush because of my insecurities. Like they legit confessed to me and I was like…. Oh are you playing a joke on me?
My regret afterwards was immeasurable but I was too scared to ask if they were for real.
My boyfriend is an INTJ and I'm an INFJ. Actually, when he first confessed we were just quietly walking in the park and he asked if he could hold my hand, but then he just grabbed my thumb and we briefly shared our feelings. Two weeks later he kissed me for the first time, but I didnt know we had already established we were in a relationship, so I was like "uh... what are we?" And he goes "wait, I thought you were my girlfriend." And all could say was "since when?" Turns out the two of us really misunderstood each other and are just super awkward. Two years later and we still joke about it! 😅
I don't understand how this is possible
Im an Intj and I also dont know how this is possible
@@nattay9852 What part dont you guys understand? I'm curious to know lol Is it that I didnt know we were already dating? At that time, he told me he liked me, and I said I liked him. But just saying that doesn't automatically mean we're together right? In Korea, there's a culture of having a phase between first meeting and then actually being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. This phase is called a "Some" relationship. So I though that's what we were, while he assumed we were already boyfriend and girlfriend when he confessed. Does that make sense?
This is too accurate to my husband and I and how we got together. We’ve been together since high school and in 2005, we went to our high school winter ball. He actually just started holding my hand out of nowhere. For a couple of months, it was assumed by both of us (I am an INFJ and he is an INTJ) that we were “official” but we never said it until our friends pointed it out lol. We were unofficially “officially” together for two months until we made it officially official 😂
❤
That INTP beluga style of confession 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 stereotypical but hilarious
This is the crossover we need to see
I burst out laughing. My best friend is an INTP and she literally made a boyfriend through discord and it’s a long distance relationship
@@ozuray4307 p- please tell me they’ve at least video called or something
@@yourmotherspetunicorn I guess not. I'm an intp too, i did "date" a boy by messenger, and i quitted real quick when he asked for a cafe meet or video call
@@ozuray4307 🤣🤣
This INFJ sure hit the jackpot with an emotionally expressive INTJ.
Hi. Infj here with a intj partner.
I’ve waited 5 MONTHS to hear him say “I love you” 🥲
@@Selenaninphe aw, grand he finally did though!
I was a bit shocked when mine said it so soon; turned out he wanted to say it even sooner, but worried I’d be weirded out. 😂
@@Selenaninphe - it took mine 8 YEARS to say it and he started stuttering!
@@meagiesmuse2334 DAMN
@@meagiesmuse2334 W O W. 😱
As an INFJ, that was too accurate because
-Confesses if he for sure knows she likes him back
-Gets his intuition wrong, awful pain
-“Are you sure??” Always wanting to go beyond the surface like a therapist
-Hides the pain because it will hurt x100 more if he sees the other person feel bad about it
-Fails, which means complete destruction of an INFJ
this happened to me in the exact order as above:
-I know she likes me, and I like her back, gotta be 98 percent sure before confessing
-she's not into me at all and never was or will be apparently, ouch(really)
-really? what about all the signs and acting like a couple, etc. i must know why
-continue to work and live together for months, acting like nothing happened so not to make her worry
-she finds a new guy exactly like her ex and moves away, I feel like a fool
i feel you
That is why we get played. We believe in honesty and believe if someone is acting like they are into you, they are. But news flash....people can be unethical and players.
It hurts that our intuition was wrong, but we received what the other person was sending.
Then we do not trust anyone every again and have a peaceful life XD
@@madsismad9113aaand this is why im basically a volcel lololol
That's exactly why I'll never confess my feelings ever again, but that's also considering the chance that I might fall for someone which is very slim now
As an INTJ I couldn't stop laughing because I never imagined that's what I looked like to other people because I was so sure my expressions were already displayed very clearly.
the thing about emotions is theres differences between feeling them, being aware of feeling them, and expressing them.
Exactly. I'm just rethinking this right now.
I swear I thought the same thing, but I'm pretty sure I'm quite expressive. People laughed at the face I make when I'm confused even in front of authority a few times.
@@rafagasim8464 from what ive seen intjs are very expressive but literally every emotion expresses itself as anger or disgust lol
The thing is also that you can interpret an impression how you want. Also people with autism could have more problems with that maybe for example. So you never know. That's why you gave to talk about important emotions (for each other)
INFJ: "Yeah, let's be friends"
* but slowly cuts the person out of his/her life * 🤡
< INFJ ^ this.
Lmaoooooooooo so true
infp here but i do this 😗✨
Amen
Door slam incoming but the other person will never comprehend it as a protective measure for our own well-being.
"Do you reciprocate this neurobiological response?"
How is this guy not already married? 😂
My hubs ISTJ... Even his besties do not realize he likes them the most.
Ikr!
I mean... it would have worked on me 😅
-infj
🤣🤣
I think it is actually very attractive
As an INTP who confessed for the first time to a guy via DM(he was my senior in uni) and just kept hiding from him after the confession, this cracks me up. 😂🤣
As an INTP, somehow this never happened to me, at least never gone to the confession part.
Now, the rules are, "Everyone in the internet is a boy, until proven wrong."
As an intp who never got to confess anything and also kept hiding from that person, this is sad
I confessed via messages to my friend, my God the awkwardness.
he proceeded to ignore me the rest of highschool.
As an INTP who put Fe in the time out corner. I'll elude to my feelings, then do everything in my power to scare people away.
the ones that stick around are the ones to love. Even if some cant love back. (Oh hello Fe, welcome back.)
Neat efficiant system for love, now back to learning about mental disorders... Am... I... a... Narsissist?
OMG LOL
as an INFP, this is really accurate.
we never confess but make wild imaginative stories about them in our minds
edit-i never got over 10 likes. thanks guys
Us bro
that's so true it hurts
🤝
yes 😔
IKRRRR
INTP here and I actually texted, “I kinda sorta like you.” to the guy I kinda sorta liked. We’re married now and we celebrate our 14th anniversary this year. So glad he wasn’t a 55 year old woman. 😅
Imagine if he was......
Awwww so cute!!
Same here. I was in love two times and confessed both times via WhatsApp and I would do it again
Haha, same lol. We're on our seventh month 🥰
Congratulatons!
The gambit of emotions playing across the face of INTJ is far too relatable. When will people understand the subtle nuances between disinterest and love in our faces?
I think infjs will understand. ✨
The fact that I acknowledge your existence at all is clearly an indicator of at least mild affection. It's so simple.
‐ INTJ
If I can't control my body language at least I can still control my emotions into neutrality
Mate, I've got INTJ as functional type and this is super relatable, like, if I show you my emotions at all you can bet I kinda like you at the very least.
LOL 😂 Isn’t it great being INTJ
As an INTJ, remembering all my past confessions and it was spot on with the no expression face 🤣🤣
I'm an INTJ too
I just never admitted to anything. Ever.
As an aroace INTJ…wow, I feel represented!
you guys confess your love??? thats not very intj
@@meredithsmailes761 so true 😅
Yes same here 🤣🤣🤣
As an INTJ, i literally started off my confession with “I made it pretty obvious that I like you, so do you like me as well?” 😭😭
yes 🤣
I've never related more
I had an INTJ tell me "you could probably tell from the start how turned on I was " yet I had no idea.
“I thought it was obvious” 😅
as an infj, socializing with intjs is like being the dog in the "I LOVE YOU DOG!!!!!" meme. just being completely menticided with confusing signals, and then the intj unknowingly gets super alarming with me for expressing that i am super confused and scared.
intj: "what do you mean you dont understand me??? mad?? IM NOT MAD!!! WHAT DID I SAY THAT SOUNDED MAD????? IM NOT DOING ANYTHING TO BE SCARY, YOURE JUST STUPID!!!!!"
Timmy is back!!
Timmy is a 17th personality
TIMMY!!
Absolute destruction for the ESTJ that one
Yep, where would we be without good old Timmy?!
Bbh!
INFP: I was confused as to why he was expressing his feelings, then you realize it was all in his head.. Terrifyingly accurate.
As an INFP, I can see myself liking someone for 10 years and never telling them
I‘m INFJ and that’s true, we’d only confess our love to someone if we knew that the other person definitely has the same feelings, but this isn’t quite easy to tell, that’s why in this particular video I‘m more of an INFP guy 😂
Same 😭
woooow I related A LOT with the INFJ because I passed through a similar situation, and I'm an INFP!! Actually INFJs and INFPs have a lot in common but at the same time they're so different...
My INTJ husband is actually very good at showing his emotions. He gushes over me like gushing over a chocolate cake. But he treats the rest of the world like a keto diet.
Omg that's sooo cute 🥰
Most romantic/feeling INTJ:)) That is amazing, I am happy for you. Yeah, it is really a stereotype that thinking types are robots that cant have feelings, they can/do really care about their close friends/family/partner, at least I do. I am an ISTJ not INTJ and I am imagining the last part as I have never been in a relationship but still
@@oliviacolli9319 you mean "that's so sweet!" ?
💯 - if anyone else could hear what my INTJ husband says to me they'd probably barf, lol: adorkable cheesiness x a million
(that said, full disclosure, his first "statement of affection" towards me, so to speak, was, and I quote, "UGH. I guess I'm just going to have to care about you." 😂)
The Beluga reference was on point and absolutely hilarious!
I LOVE BELUGA AND IM AN INTP!!!!!!
I would've never imagined I'd see a Beluga reference in Frank James. Two of my favorite channels ever! This was great!
I'm an INTP as well.
I think that made my day.
@@joybelinda5095 same. You can sense my personality through the screen.
@@joybelinda5095 I think I’m an ISFJ
As an INTP I can confirm that I've fallen in love like five times and four out of five times were on the internet.
and how was your experience? do you find it worth it? have you met any of them irl at least once?
Same here, more than 5 times. Never dared to see any of them in real life, until I was convinced by one of them, he now became my INTJ husband.
I married my internet man in 2002, when internet dating sites were in its infancy.
Similar here😂😂 (infp)
I've fallen in love two times and both of them were on the internet... I don't talk to people enough for a real life crush to even really be an option-
(My cognitive functions test results label me an ENTP, but I'm definitely more of an INTP)
I am an INTJ. And my boyfriend is INFJ.
He is the best thing ever happened to me.
I urge to all the INTJs that if you want to be understood, date an INFJ. They are clearly our soulmates. Just that, INFJs need a lot of love and since I have been working on my tertiary since 4 years, I have started appreciating his little efforts which made a huge difference. It was 4 months of "Thank you for being so kind" even when I expressed my feelings and alignment. And then BAM one day, "I love you and want to marry you" + telling his parents (which Is a big deal in India). INFJs are the best people in this universe. They are mushballs, lovable, and absolutely adorable. My best friend and my brother, both are INFJs, as well. Trust me, a love like that is hard to find.
Thank you 😢😢😢
@@krims_kringle Guess what? We are engaged😅 And with every passing day, he loves me more. Every passing day, I get to see a better man. I love him, I pamper him in all the ways that are humanly possible. As an INTJ, I have been robotic my whole life, but he makes me human. He makes me a better person. A better doctor. A better everything. He is the love of my life. And he has a little bit of God in himself (if there is one). I grew up with INFJ mother and brother. And my father is ENFJ. So I know how to handle NFs but I didn't know the INFJs could figure us out so well. And you know what? He loves me as I am. Flaws and all.
@@sarahthomas2922 Honestly, I don't think, how someone is treated is a very generalized thing. But yes, I personally have had some of the experiences with my INFJs. My mother, my brother, my best friend of 12 years and now my fiance and even his sister, these 5 people in my life, who are actually in the very close knit circle of mine have had a mix of experiences. I have seen that only a handful of people are able to understand INFJs and treat them the level they deserve to be. Thankfully, I have an insight about this and I make sure that all my INFJs are being treated with the understanding and love they need to be the healthiest and most profound version of themselves. One thing I noted is,all of these have a very inherent and very deep emotional range (unlike mine) and even when they are hurt, they know how to function (which is not seen in INTJs -NiFi loop). I think what an INFJ wants the most is healthy respect, even more than love. They are so sweet and so hardworking. Excellent in their careers. Infact, we are all from science backgrounds. My mother taught Chemistry to highschoolers, my brother is a neurologist, my best friend is an orthopaedician,my fiance is a dermatologist, and i am a doctor, and now preparing for my speciality. Even my fiance's sister is in pharmacovigilance. I think, INFJs do wonders in healthcare and science. They are just amazing people who just are misunderstood and they have their little shells and their lovely, colorful self comes out in front of someone who loves them dearly and is close enough and vulnerable enough. I am in love with my fiance more than I can ever explain. He is the most amazing person in this entire galaxy. Coming from an INTJ, who had to work on this for years, to say it out loud, because My INFJ deserves every bit of it.
@@dr.aromakalra92 I am an INFJ. From Mumbai, India you are from which city??
As an INFJ, this was so accurate that I laughed out loud until I burst into tears
Yeaaahh. My current crush said we could be friends and then slowly faded out to go focus on work and cleaning and probably eventually finding someone else to share her biological responses with.
-infj
I think i said his exact words that one time i confessed to my crush, and he rejected me with almost the exact words she said
“Are you Sure??”
@@indeed_issy8254 for me he said yes...
and then after a while he said let's be friend
and he really truly became my friend unit i stop it.
You are not alone bro
INTJ: Personally, I was expecting the INTJ to say that he tolerated the person way more than most people, haven't quite smelled betrayal coming from them, and thus choose to show them loyalty back, which is the closest thing to saying they love someone.
This would have been even more accurate
@@TheBroadestOne I will even add to it with this analogy: INTJ in love is like our favorite move or weapon in a game with accuracy stats. We "love" the crappier weapon with 90% accuracy over the cooler stronger weapon with 60% accuracy. We don't particularly want either, but we trust one more...
you right
Exactly.
i totally agree. i really don't like the stereotype of intj's being cold and not having emotions and also don't really understand where it's coming from. i mean, we do have tertiary fi and (at least in my case) it's pretty strong. feelings and emotions are definitely there, i just have a hard time articulating/communicating them. though that's also probably more due to my mental health than my type...
As an INFP woman, here's how went my last love confession. I was 8 years old, took an hour to write a short passionate love declaration, then threw it in the trash in fear of rejection. Then I had a great idea. I asked my only childhood friend to subtlely ask him "if he loved me OR any other girls". Then my friend came back, told me "Sorry, he said he hates you." Then, my heart felt both painful from hearing that answer and light to know I avoided the worst humiliating moment of my life thanks to my childhood friend. Thank you again friend !!!
8 years? 😢
Oh, darling.
(background sound: Swan Lake finale OST)
Your comment brought back heartbreaking memories.
As an ENFJ this is too accurate. I just love people in general and I tell everyone how much I like them constantly. If you are reading this: I love you
Loveu too. ♡
Ehh I am ENFJ but.. I never told anyone including my family that i like them... Am i weird?
I am ENFP, but i relate to this more XD
Awww, I love you, too! 🧡
As an Infj, I see him getting more heartbroken because he got his intuition wrong
Exactly
Yes yes, I thought the same!
Yassssssssssh!!!! 🤕🤕 with all memories I calculate + people around me giving advice+ opinion = my intuition says "he loves you too, go on girl" then the rest is the heartbroken moment haha~ Welcome~~ another Friend-zone ~~ 🍻
they be probably staring at the ceiling and thinking where their calculations went wrong.
Why we always get friendzoned ;-;
i love the idea of being all romantic and vulnerable but am too scared to actually do so because I'm scared of getting rejected
-INFP
I'm scared of being embarrassed
im scared of being in love
As an infp, I confessed to my crush too fast and I repeatedly regret every single word I said from that day.
Lol I’m always vulnerable and I’ve been rejected by all my crushes I hate it here :D
ENFJ attractor
As an INFP this is accurate. I've only been on a relationship once and that was only because my crush liked me too and pushed me into confessing to her by asking directly to me whether I like her or not, and that was that.
And the odds of that happening again is probably zero. So I'm prepared of being alone the rest of my life.
😂😂😂😂same.. I'm girl though
Same I am a INFP too and a male so there is that.
Honestly, no one I will ever love will understand how deep my love could be for them and that just makes me want to cry already -INFJ
I have a crush on an INFJ girl as an ESFP and something inside me tells me that she loves me but she doesn't show it for a reason even after I asked her out and rejected by her in a polite manner and I let her be to have some space because I know space and alone time is essential for you. after that rejection she somehow stare at me with worried eyes like she just wants to tell me something but it seems I am unable to understand her right now, so I think I am somehow understand how you are feeling but this misunderstanding happens most of the time about INFJ.
"16 personalities confessing their love "
but Wait we don't do it here
~An Infp
I feel you man
were just like
*observe*
"oh good"
i imagined this situation in my head now that's never gonna happen
Accurate
~INTP
What is love? Who knows, who knows...
It’s so painful not to but I’d be so scared to lol
most of us being the most hopeless of romantics doesn’t help either
ISFP 0:58
ISTP 1:13
ISTJ 1:23
ENTP 1:30
ISFJ 1:50
ESFP 2:01
ESTP 2:14
ENTJ 2:22
ENFJ 2:34
ENFP 2:48
INTJ 3:01
ESFP 3:10
INFP 3:25
INTP 3:46
ESTJ 4:14
INFJ 4:30( Me)
No ESFJ?
@@brindygray4410 at 3:10. My bad.... i wrote p instead of j by mistake
Why are us INFPs almost always towards the end? 😔
Hi, appreciate your effort *wink in entp
You're cool
As an ENFP, once I'm done living out an entire relationship in my head before actually getting to know my crush through honest heart-to-heart talks about random controversial issues and our hopes and dreams for the future, I hope that I can genuinely have the option of choosing between seeking the thrills of novelty and settling down with the person I love... :)
You’re me…
i like the way you think... you can be friends wiith me. ☺️ - INFJ.
@@anna-maysalgado4294 thanks random internet person!
As a INFP in high school, i relate to this on a spiritual level. Honestly, every person I'm attracted to or I think i'm attracted to, i make up so many fake fantasies abt them. Then i end up hating reality waiting for some form of my fantasy to happen. I WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IN REAL LIFE FOR ONCE 😭😭😭😭😭
I'm a grown INFP. All of us INFPs have mental issues. Like that's a norm. What I can tell you is just wait, it'll happen, we tend to be pretty interesting for almost everyone when they get past the first stage of meeting us. But please, for the love of any deity you believe in or science or anything, keep your expectations in check. People can be cruel, specially when you are hyper sensitive 🥺
@@Nemo.404 Thanks for the amazing words of advice 🥹🥹 I’ll try my best to apply it to my current life 💜💜💜
I'm a healthy German INFP with teo children. My husband is ENTP (also the father of the children). I'm the INFP type that confesses her feelings pretty soon. When I was in fitht class it took me an entire year but hey I still confessed, I got rejected and it didn't take to long to get over the boy (he was very respecful and I excepted his desition right away) after that it took some years untill I actually confessed again (I had crushes in between but never confessed, thank god XD). I had a buch of relationships, they didn't last because I fell in love with someone else. It happened more than once. My husband is the only Person that confessed to me first, he is also the most enternaining. What I'm trying to say is I was never cheated on and no one of my Exes would have left me. It did break my own heart to break their hearts
INFP is embarrassingly true. It takes a lot of daydreaming for us to get brave enough
Safety makes the INFP brave. If the other person truly gets you, they will make the effort to make you feel safe, or it will happen organically. That is why an evolved INFJ can be a great match for an INFP. We will take the time to stand in your shoes and hear your story without judgement. A safe INFP is the most romantic creature I have encountered.
@@deborahgale I know two or three INFJs and you're right, it feels really comfortable to be around them. There's something very welcoming and warmhearted about INFJs :)
Always love you infp. My husband was an infp. It was a sacred delicate thing. Anyways, we fell apart because I wasn't his ideal. The love was there. But even with force I could only be me. My advice, is to accept who you love though it isn't what you visioned. Good luck and know that infj needs you, you really are the world.
@@deborahgale Exactly! When I feel comfortable around someone, I am able to express my feelings more clearly like this.
You guys also never seem to let a crush go. I have this INFP friend who had this mad crush on a coworker couple of years back. Didn't even confess anything just admired from afar. She eventually switched jobs and somehow still that crush remains. How? How is that possible? My crushes usually die out if I don't see the person for like roughly the same time I've interacted with them. So 2 weeks in 2 weeks out. I really don't get that. It just seems like obsession to me. No offence - ENTP
Next sketch: Timmy being told off by the 16 personalities
Yes, I would love this loll.
What is Timmy's mbti anyway? And I second this request
@@bluejay7805 He must have got 50% in all of the functions on 16personalities... Then even that website's server went down because of Timmy..💀🤣
@@bluejay7805 I've guessed at ISFP before but who can tell. That Timmy is elusive...
YES
I'm an INFJ man and had an ISTP woman finally "emotionally vomit" her love for me... And wow it was something I'll never forget. Mind your, it took close to 2 decades lol.
When an ISTP reaches to hold your hand, lays her head on your shoulder/wrap's her arms around you and sighs.. it's one of the best feelings ever, partly because it's a side of themselves they show no one else.
I want this so bad
INFJ be ready to hear the INFJ's anthem - "U have heard this before"
Is that a real song or just FJ singing?
@@rubyjulivre1136 I have the same question!
I want to know what song this is too??
This is the song used if you're wondering btw
ua-cam.com/video/VsF8pr6ORZU/v-deo.html
@@mokki2048 thank you soooo much comrade!
My heart aches for my fellow INTP.May he find his love in the metaverse.
Well, truth to be told, it happened to me. I didn’t express my feelings to him, but yeah I liked him and never met him. But, when I knew how he looked like, I liked him no more. And ghosting him, 🤣🤣🤣. So, the INTP part is quite accurate
us intps gotta stick together yknow 👊 not in person of course but I’m here for ya in spirit
as a male intp neckbeard, i am hopeful that i find a VR girl who loves me
As an ENTJ, this is on point lol I had the urge to message my crush that i am fascinated by them and I would like to know them better so that I can realign my perspective on the unexpected but not unwelcome emotional situation i was in.
As an ENTJ, this was 100% accurate, I basically made her sear on everything possible before confessing. She was so overwhelmed at that point...
INFJ one is the exact scene I have been repeating in my head every time I had a crush and prevented me from the disaster that was getting rejected and the reason I have been upholding my single status for 28 years
If you get rejected plus ghosted be like: Hell is rlly hot and heavy ;-)
literally same with all my crushes. it's always that exact scenario
Same here 😢
Same, that's why I never confess my feelings to my romantic interests because of the fear of rejection and the awkwardness that comes after (especially the fact that all of my crushes are usually my close friends) but I'm glad that my girlfriend made the first move, if she didn't, we probably wouldn't be together rn lmao
that's so sweet of her, lucky you!
As an INFP, we just imagine our love stories like our favorite romances from books, movies, and shows. I'm definitely gonna need a slightly extroverted man to be willing to get through the introvert wall I've built lol being small for my age and not liking makeup or fancy clothes doesn't help lol
same...
Haha, I am afraid my imaginary romances are better than the real ones could ever be. So I am staying in my shell. Help...
@@Andrea-hc4mm I know, we all have these fantasies that could never come true, then when it comes to real love nothing will live up to our expectations
@@Andrea-hc4mm too relatable……
So, and now imagine hoping for that and being a straight passing tall gay guy.
That's me. Fuck my life.
ISFP was 100% accurate to how I asked someone to prom last year, who is now my boyfriend. Scary accuracy, but amazing none the less
Ooohhh, is there maybe also a “16 personalities receiving a confession“ or something? To see the contrast? Kinda think that would be fancy :)
Niice
that INTP sketch was gold.
Fast forward a few years (decades) and the INTP may wake to their senses and do a background check
"Do you reciprocate this neurobiological response?" is just beautiful
yes, quite lol
Infp here: I do imagine scenarios in my head and usually avoid confessing but one time I was bold and wrote all my feelings in a letter. I left it by his stuff and he didn't bring it up for a week. I eventually asked him if he got it (he did) and told him there was no pressure to respond. He never did so that told me everything I needed to know. I'll never do that again. I'm seriously just planning to be single and live vicariously through the relationships of those around me and in books/movies.
I feel personally attacked by the INFP one. I'll have you know that I have gotten very close to confessing to my crush of 3 years and I totally did not help them get into a relationship effectively ruining my chance at anything between us.
Married INFP here: my ENFJ husband played me a song to tell me he loved me for the first time. I heard the lyrics and said "I love you too"
That's just our little story :)
I hope I can find my soulmate INFP, but mostly the INFP that I've met is only my best friends - from an ENFJ
You are living the INFP dream and I as an INFP I am so happy for you!!!!!
Omggg yesss!! That's exactly how it happened for me as well 💕 We INFPs love romantic, sweet things
I'm an INTJ and i really don't know how am I supposed to express my feelings
So I'm just gonna take notes from Frank here!✍️✨
yeah same
@Farran Hill that's pretty much how i confessed lol.. direct and short: "you make me feel good, i like you."
So did the notes workout for u? lol
If anyone has watched the Chinese drama 'The Untamed', one of the characters is an INTJ - Lan Wangji. He is the epitome of INTJ
@@jennareynolds6424 Yes, I agree !
I’m an ENFP and two years ago, I confessed my love to my crush. He just walked away. I was so sad and couldn’t get over it, and now I’ve been terrorized with being in the same class with him for the past two school years after that.
As an infp i bravely said to my long-time-crush-bestfriend that i love him
And still being rejected at the end, but somehow im proud that im being honest with him hahaha
It's important to move on
As an INTJ, I would say " I tolerate your existence" as my form of love ❤️
I'm ENTJ and I literally told my friend that I appreciate his existence. I think he got what I meant
As an enfp I can never be with someone who shows love in this way, but hope you find yourself a good partner
@@CamilaVanilla that is better, I have seen entj girls are very good at making the first move that is what I like the most about entp and entj girls
idk, this quote seems too fake and memes
hur dur I tolerate your existence, I'm batman
*disappears
I love the unique attribute of each personality in the videos:
ISTJ: _glasses_
INTP: _NASA_ t-shirt
ESFP: colorful, bright shirt
ESTP: tank top
INFJ: sad music
You forgot ESTJ: Anger lol
INFJ here, I was just vibing to the music lol
INTJ: Black T - shirt
ENTJ: blazer
as an istp, it’s really hilarious, like letting the person decide for themselves if they think I like them or not. It’s very relatable
Ok as an INTJ I really do think that my emotions are all over my face and was not expecting myself to look like that to other people 😂😂
Same. I feel 100% sure they can tell how obviously embarrassed I am, but apparently I just look like I don't give a damn.
My INTJ friend is about as expressive as a concrete grain silo standing in a field. And ive know the guy nearly 18 years. Still have no farking idea how he feels about anyone. And im an INFJ trauma therapist, I'm outstanding at reading other people, especially stuff they want to keep hidden.
YES, SAME! Once I thought I was smiling but then I looked at myself in the mirror and I LOOKED EMOTIONLESS 😂😂😂
When I saw the INTJ one I was a bit confused because I have an INTJ friend and I don't think she is expressionless because I usually know what she is feeling by looking at her. I like talking about different things and topics with her, and I think I can hear genuine intrest and excitement in her voice. After reading these comments I think she is more expressive because her older sister is an ENFP and they have a very good relationship between them.
P.S: Sorry if I butchered up the grammar 😅, English isn't my first language.
Damn it, I always think I'm showing all my inner feelings actually too much, but I never considered asking someone if it's true or if I just look emotionless all the time 😮😭😂
Dying Alone: An INFJ Guide.
At least imaginary relationships will never let you down, though they’re terrible at contributing to the rent.
I've had some fantasy relationships that were a lot more fulfilling than real life interactions which is the saddest testament to my perpetual loneliness. I'm sure I've missed out on truly rewarding long term relationships because I always end up focusing on what could be instead of what is actually there.
@@BigTexan7 I feel you, mate.
This. So true dude.
The birth of an INFP
Lmao
As an INFJ, this video was directly taken from my memories and slapped in this video 😭😂
Haaaahaaaa, 👍
Sameeeeee
Same here
Same here
Same
As an INFP, I hid my crush for almost 4 years, and when I told him I just walked him to his car, and when he got it I just “just letting you know I’ve had a thing for you for the last like 3 years, so yeah” he looked like he had an existential crisis, and I left.
What happened after that? 😅
@@Cuteemogirl94 I texted him awhile after and he said “I don’t see our relationship moving forward atm” whatever the hell that means. (He did also say that what I said didn’t change how he viewed me). I just ignored that and took it as a no because I was trying to move on anyway. I was doing pretty good until around Christmas he was really flirty and I was very confused. At this point I’ve just decided that that’s his problem if he doesn’t know what he wants. Because I’m not really interested and want to move on. He’s a nice guy but immature and I do not have the mental stability to deal with that. I just wanna be friends and he doesn’t seem to know what he wants.
As an I INTJ, I once confessed my feelings to someone. I prefaced with "I'm so obvious, you probably already know this..." they had no idea.
As an INFJ that really hurts by the fact it happened to me.
It seems like a pattern w/INFJ guys :'( Do we just pick the absolute wrong type of girls to like or? T_T
F
Same
I should add it happened to me twice
Yep me too that's why I don't confess anymore
The INTP one killed me. It was literally a discord chat! XD
One of the funniest things as an INTJ is that people have told me that I am extremely reserved and don't show much emotion, but have also said that I have a very expressive face. I have no idea what to make of this or which statement is accurate. Is possible that both are true? Is it even possible for both to be true? I just don't know. One of life's many mysteries I guess.
Even funnier, people have literally thought that I don't like them, even though I have a solidly neutral stance on their presence. No idea why XD
Same here. Haha. I've had people call me unapproachable and seemed like I was always in a foul mood, when really I was at a pretty neutral disposition towards them.
I've been told the exact same!
If you're neutral to someone, then you actually don't like them. But by "don't like" you meant 'dislike' which is not the same.
@@gabor6259 you are right but many people dont really make that distinction
I'm an INFP and I also used to get both of those. Some Fi types can have a bit of a disconnect between what they're feeling on the inside and what they're expressing on the outside. Sometimes this means we fail to outwardly express what we're feeling at all, and other times, it just seems to pour out raw and unfiltered. Whereas Fe types tend to have much more natural awareness of how they come off to others and do more modulating of how they express themselves. With time, I've developed that skill to some extent, but I used to be clueless about it.
INFJ here and several months ago, I mustered up the courage to ask out someone I have had a crush on for months, only to get rejected and subsequently cried afterwards (not in front of him). I thought I was being such a wuss but thank goodness, it's just my personality type 😅
as an ISFP, this really happened to me. i gave a letter to the boy i liked, but i was scared about his reaction, so i just gave it to him and ran away.
as an ENTP I feel offended that I can't even argue against your portrayal because that is 100% totally how it goes
It literally is. I hate it.
I haven't talked to girls in forever so I can't relate :(
@@tubax926 but tubax you have agario and more!
every confession I intend to make begins with some kind of scene like that, good thing that I'm ace lol
Not only confessing feelings, but complementing too. I yelled my friend and crush at the time HEY YOU ARE CUTE and yelled back THANKS. And cry in the inside cuz she thought I was just messing up with her.
As an INFP, the first time I decided to confess my love to a significant other, I literally sat in silence for 20-30 minutes while I rehearsed my lines over and over again. Then I finally took the plunge and started to explain how I felt, but when my partner didn't respond as I had planned, I gave up and never actually said, "I love you."
The second time I tried I was so scared but the feelings were deep and intense and I couldn't hold them in any longer. I mustered all my strength and whispered, "I love you." Then he responded, "Did you say something?" and I laughed and said, "never mind..."
unfortunately, the only option is to get into a situation where not saying it is worse. Like, you start texting the roses are red, violets are blue thing, but then you say you love cookies instead. And then you feel bad so you feel obligated to tell them that you wee just kidding and that you love them.
Disclaimer: I am not a therapist, my advice is probably terrible
@@kaboomgaming4255 I think it falls apart at TEXTING.
ITS SO TRUCKING TRUE OML I DID THE SAME SMHHH
@@patriciarose2342 Lol I texted my crush.. it was too late tho, but it could work!
@@liamsammon6123 I'm guessing your crush is a girl? Texting not so good 😉
As an ISFP, I can confirm that I feel much more comfortable writing out something complex like confessing my love for someone than verbally blurting it out. I can also confirm that, sometimes I don't want to be around for people's reactions to my writing.
I’m an INFJ who knew about 1 month into meeting my now partner of near one year now that she was “the one” compared to others. My confession was the scariest part of my life lol. My partner’s an INTJ. I scared the crap outta her because instead of the usual “hey I really like you, do you feel the same?” I hit her with the “If I only get one chance to say this, I’m gonna say it right. I love you. I love making you smile and laugh. You’re beautiful.” I was so scared about that confession that I sent it via a video chat instead of being on call (we’re long distance but moving in together later this year) and knocked out immediately afterwards, forgetting the whole thing until I saw the group chat. The scary part was she wanted to ask what I really meant to see how sincere it was and we even hashed out how we both felt. It took two hours and I was just slowly talking and stuttering. Now though I can say “I love you.” “Let’s have a family.” Even “I want to marry you some day.” She knows I’m dead serious, as I always am. Until her there was literally nobody I’ve ever felt I could be open with but now suddenly it was worth the wait.
Anyways, thanks for reading my story I guess. Idk why I even posted this. There’s hope for you fellow INFJs though, I promise. And don’t wait too long.
As an ENTP I can confirm that flirting is much more exciting than whatever other romantic nonsense is supposed to follow it.
Next you're supposed to move on to picking on them in a joking way so they still feel singled out, stealing bits of their food when they're eating so they feel physical closeness, and figuring out some kind of deep topic they care about so you can have an intellectually stimulating debate with lots of eye contact. At least that's what I would expect. 🤔
As an enfp i can confirm this is true for me as well. Also love your username
Edit: clarification
yes lmao
@@bluejay7805 it's what i would expect from an ENTP
you'd be surprised what romantic blah blah feelers come up with
ENFJ with commitment issues agrees
THE ENTP ONE 😭
That one is very very accurate. He would sometimes try to be sincere while telling me something important and say something like, “I’m not joking don’t laugh” and I just end up giggling and he found it so contagious. Of course I took him seriously during those time but his presence just made me so giddy haha
- infp who dated an entp
I am the ENTP, and this is our coping mechanism, hide behind jokes so they never know if you're being serious until they're being serious too
@@adwitiyapaul2831 same im that entp too we're both that entp :3
kokichi ouma noises
True too I'm an entp
I’m an INFP and can 100% relate to this
@@adwitiyapaul2831 samee
4:35 OMG this is how I had my first heartbreak 😫💔 I'm INFJ and I did exactly as it is in the video, I stayed in the friendzone and cried a lot because I thought my feelings were reciprocated 😔🥲
Oh man this is hysterical and amazing! I'm an ENFJ and my ex was an ISTP. You nailed that one (and all of them)!! I guess that match up was a disaster waiting to happen. Also, my twin sister, my best friend, and my other good friend are all INFJ's and we get along so well, it's crazy how this all works, but it's so true.
All of these were great, but my favorite one has to be the INTP. I was not expecting a Beluga reference here, with the music, sound effects and everything. It was excellent! Frank James and Beluga are two of my favorite content creators on youtube, so this was by far my favorite one of them all.
I'm an INTP btw :)
Me too
👍🏻🥰
Try not to get catfished on Discord then:)
What's beluga? Also, first time getting catfished?
I can’t stop watching it 😂
When you said '10 years' I was sure it was an INFP!! I've literally been in love with one person for more than half my life and I never said anything either LOL
true 😭 i always wait until i don't like them anymore and then i say something like "hey, remember when we were in high school, i liked you back then!" and they always say i should have said something- oh, well 🙂
Can totally agree it's been nearly 5-6 years and I just can't say it
Guys I'm INFP too but like I can never stay that long and just shut up! Do something about it!
@@batoolewina8340 wish I can. I'm on my 6th year now still in love with this guy. Can't say anything since he's already in a relationship with someone and he seemed to be happy about it.
... Not to mention he's been my best friend for 6 years now so I feel like I'm risking a lot here
@@jinkurosana5546 I think you should try your best fo move on.. it's too late..if he broke up with her I think It's gonna be suitable..but Just you better stop wasting time!
Move on darling!
My best friend loved me for a while..we were bestfriends for over 4 years..
I refused because it was late!
Timing is really important!
Or just say it and nothing should matter!
INFP here, totally true... unless I'm sure that the other person is interested, in which case I can be very quick to confess.
as an ISTP, i can confirm this is 100% what i would feel like if i was confessing my love to someone.
Fr
I'm an ENFP and an INTJ friend of mine confessed and it was basically like..."I have noticed that I have developed feelings for you. I understand this might take time to process. I was hoping we could discuss this further"
I just wish he hadn't chosen the week after my worst break up ever to do this, or I would have loved every second of this honesty.
That was so cute!
So true. But sure! Discuss it further and just be honest about where you're at. And if he confessed right after your breakup then he probably knows your recent breakup. All the best!
Why is this so adorable holy shit
As a felow ENFP, I think this might happen a lot to us. I have lliterally had my friends tell me that they knew I had just broken up but they felt as if they didn't tell me that someone else would get to me first.... So although sweet, it sets up a real issue with us.... My thought when I read this was... "IF you really knew me, then you would realize it takes me about a week to process that I need to do the dishes let alone how long it is going to take me to process my terrible break up... and now having to process even THIS... " I think because we have a hundred ideas we can throw out at people in an instant, they also think we can process our feelings that fast. So yeah, I have been there where if the timing was right, I may have started something with them or even tried but hopping from one relationship to the next is not at all what people in general need to do, let alone an ENFP, that can take a while to realize what reality we are living in. I have learned that I DONT tell ANYONE when I break up with someone.... let me process it.... AND THEN tell everyone.
this is absolutely how i am as an INTJ lmaoo
As an INTJ I don't think I can ever do a confession to the certain someone. Because probably I couldn't understand my feelings or not be able to confess it properly. And if somebody come and confess me then I probably refuse and don't talk with them after because I will be uncomfortable around them...
Dazaiii pfpp ~ INTJ
Ouch hurtful.
I'll try to get to know someone first as friends and only open up to them when im sure we are compatible. So far, my intj second mind, i mean heart (eww) only agree to open up to another intj. And that only happen once in my lifetime lol
You will. And you'll grow past this. You'll get hurt a bunch of times in the process, but it's a necessary part of the "human" experience. Until you've had your heart walked all over, you won't really understand the emotional references everyone else uses. The first one hurts like crazy, but it gets easier each time. Go out there, get rejected. Repeat until victory.
TRUE
INFJ has now quit their job, moved country, sought out 4 different therapists, introspected a LOT by way of productive procrastination and has written many poems after slowly and gently freezing out the other person who is now completely obsessed with INFJ and not sure why. Nevertheless, INFJ remains single…. and NOT happy about it!
Maybe I’ve been there a few times 😇
I'm an INTJ but sort of related more to the ISTJ confession lol
Also I'm VERY emotionally expressive if my emotions hit a certain threshold (0-to-60 type thing), hence why I always would avoid any crush I've ever had like the plague to avoid acting fucking weird as hell around them :D
The intp one had me rolling on the floor 😂💀
It was the best one in my opinion.
Oh boy... Have you ever watched an INTJ confessing his love? I feel like I am a chicken which, all of a sudden, wants to fly.
I learned that INTJ women express their love for you by deleting your number and blocking you on all social media because you're a distraction from world domination.
@@FalconOfStorms I can relate to that! I also try to get more things done during the day and keep my mind busy to stop daydreaming.
@@FalconOfStorms i blocked my boyfriend a couple days ago bcz i can't tolerate myself wasting all this time. I really tried to stay but i couldn't handle the anxiety nd the remorse
@@haruka2802 what too many people realize unfortunately too late in life is that only relationships and truth matter in the long run. Without love, we have nothing.
@@FalconOfStorms idk Seraph the problem is that whenever i fee resentful of myself for giving passion a space in my life meanwhile I could hardly study or work, I put all my upset on my bf, or take a break from the relationship. I always be very toxic in relationships. I can't make a balance between my emotions nd my goals.
As an INFJ girl, I'm the one friend zoning everyone who likes me. And I never let anyone break the walls, but the ISFJs know to emotionally break them & trap me with no any other options but 'I love you too'
And I'm still afraid, and afraid of every single move.
ESFJ and INFP are so accurate. We remember all shiz about them and make up random scenarios imagining what we'd say if we were to ever confess our love
The INTJ part lmao. This happens to me when I was in Junior High. I was sure as heck that my face looked so stupid everytime my crush looked at me. I was so afraid that he would find out fast. Then, 2 years almost pass and I confessed. This is what he said when I confessed: "wait? You have liked me this whole time? Wow, you are really good at hiding it because I never knew". I was stumped 🗿
On the bright side you never looked stupid which is something i envy you INTJs for because my face says it all and it's embarrassing
I want his and my face to say it all but I guess it doesn't. The other thing is even if it did, I don't accept it until it is verbally said, like some sort of a declaration - An ENTJ who never likes to assume anything positive like that even if it's kinda obvious, I want to be thorough
0:58 ISFP
1:14 ISTP
1:21 ISTJ
1:30 ENTP
1:50 ISFJ
2:03 ESFP
2:14 ESTP
2:23 ENTJ
2:33 ENFJ
2:49 ENFP
3:00 INTJ
3:10 ESFJ
3:25 INFP
3:47 INTP
4:15 ESTJ
4:30 INFJ
5:00 end
I wish you pin this 🙂
Tyyy
4:12 Now THAT'S something I would get revenge for.
ESFP is freakishly accurate 😂 whenever somebody says ‘that’s cute’ or ‘that’s so weird’ I’ll say ‘yeah just like you.’ It’s kind of a reflex now. Once I accidentally called my little sister hot because of it-
yeah I also confirmed this as an ESFP :)
I could tell the INTJ even before he started to speak. I managed to marry one, somehow. On our 13th anniversary I asked why he’d decided he wanted to marry me, and he got super uncomfortable and said it had just seemed like the next logical stage of our relationship. (sigh) I can promise you, though, if you can crack their hard shell, there’s a sweet nougaty center hidden deep inside there. Just takes someone who’s up for the challenge.
🤣as an INTJ, that is definitely something I would say! Except, I've been single my whole life and I'm completely clueless to when people like me and therefore just assume no one does most of the time... but other than those factors, that's totally how I would respond 🤣
Sounds like you married a Vulcan!
As an INTJ, that makes perfect sense. You married a good one.
as an INTP I actually confessed by text... I'm offended by his accuracy nooo...
Intp and Im slightly offended... But the first time I ever professed real feelings for, I did do it online.... But it was skype lol
Ik same!
Ok, I have the traits of an ENFJ and you’re just spot on!!Its It’s hilarious! 😂😂You have such a gift to portray each type so well! Keep up the good work!
As an INTJ, this feels inaccurate but hilarious. Absolutely adore these videos. Your acting is amazing.
I'm an INTJ (Woman) and my lover is an ISTP (Man). Even though I am autistic, I'm very self aware and extremely analytical, so the moment he threw me a subtle flirt (complimenting my hair in private chat), I noticed, but because I have ASD I decided to wait and see if there was a pattern.
Then, the second flirt happened and I was 99.999% sure, but thought to myself "I need more data" while preparing a counter flirt. As soon as the third flirt hit I launched my missile (I said "You have no business being so suave with me!", I think I saw his heart sink for a second, but then we burst out laughing). Then I threw a flirt back. We then proceeded to officially ask each other if we liked each other, then started talking about when we realized it was happening. This happened in a span of 2 days 😂
The way I first described I was in love (hadn't realized it yet), I was talking to my friend and I was "Men like this exist?! Whaaaat?!" My friend (INFJ) was like "OOOOOH YO LIKE HIIIIIM". I was confused but I revised my previous experiences and after thorough analysis, I determined she was correct.
All I can say, is that, it was hilarious and an efficient process, and I don't mind. 😂
Nicee, im kinda like on the other side lol, im a ISTP male and ive been talking to this girl on msg for more than a month now, we immediatly clicked the moment we started talking, and we kept the conversations going as we started to know more and more about each other. we would talk for hours at times about everithing from generall sumbjects to the aspects of our lives, and i have geniuine feelings for her and made sure to show my appretiation for her company.
Tho i tend to over think details and aspects and making myself have doubghts if im even good enough for her (i have ADHD and ive had bad experiences in about everything regarding people for my whole life, i alwais have the costant fear that people think im weird and judge me behind my back and that people will reject me. So i got used to assume people think of me that way and its left me very fragile and doughbtfull even when having a simple conversation, basically scarring my social skills and self esteem) but when i talk to her she completely cancells all these toughts and simply just makes me geniunly happy to be there talking with her. I stop the costant thinking and worring about the issues and problems in my life and lets me think that i might actually have a shot at love and happiness in life and that i can overcome the obstacles blocking me from having a normal life. So decided i would try to tell her about my feelings. At first i started with some very subbtle flirts here and there and just complimenting as usual, and they where real compliments i said nothing i actually ddnt think and just told her what i really thought, but i needed to actually confront her about my feelings. So one day i got all my courage, took the offortunity of the subject of one of our usual talks we where having and asked if we could be in a relationship, it was a subtle question but i think she understood what i meant, and to my surprise she ddint say no and actually talked to me ab it, and we mutually agreed we should get to know each other more before we get together. I am so happy becouse this is the first time i got the courage of asking out someone, and i think the fact she ddnt reject me and even considers the possibility is amazing, so i consider it a sucsess and i think the result was fantastic!
The only real obsticle is the time difference but im certain we can overcome that too if we work together!
@@sandern69 Hey, I get where you're coming from to an extent. My lover and I started the same, just talking with each other and we just love being in each other's company.
I have ADHD as well, I am autistic and have a plethora of other mental and physical health issues due to much abuse and diseases that just came along with life. I constantly question if I'm good enough as well. He's 10 years older than me, so he's a bit more experienced than I am, even if we are both very mature and we feel as equals, it sometimes gnaws at my self esteem.
The thing that really help us out is being direct in how we feel. I am the more emotional one, for sure, but he is incredibly supportive and quells my intrusive thoughts. It helps that he used to suffer from generalized anxiety disorder as well, so he knows where I come from and reassures me. On my side, I always try to be understanding, using my more logical side, to not let the emotional disregulation of the ADHD take over and jump to conclusions.
@@linn4511 oh wow. Its nice to know that there are other people out there with ur same issues that are overcoming them, and im happy to know that your partner sees your point of vew and gets you.
You are both very lucky to have found each other, relationships like this are very rare, and i hope mine can go as well.
Tho i am still tring to overcome my adhd im sure that with time il be able to fight it better. How are you getting along with it? If you got any tips for me id be so thankfull! Any advice is like pure gold for me. Also happy that you could get over the age difference, me and my love are about the same age so we dont need to worry about that.
@@sandern69
As for age. I'm 24 years old, he's 34. We just started our relationship last year. For reference, I have a Master's in Public health and epidemiolgy and am working as an epidemiologist currently, and am debt free. He works repairing telecommunication devices for the federal government.
For my ADHD, I tried various medications. The one that worked for my ADHD was Strattera. Unfortunately, much like the stimulants I tried, it worsened my anxiety and I started having daily panic attacks, so I had to discontinue meds.
The things that have worked with managing my ADHD the most are mostly environmental modifications. Being able to modify your environment is very powerful. I took a month to just declutter and throw everything that I didn't need away. The less things you have, the less mess around. I made sure to assign a dedicated space to each item in my desk/drawers etc. I reduced everything so that, when it gets messy, it takes no more than 5 minutes to organize.
Minimize the amount of distractions around.
Another tip is, DO NOT rely on your memory, EVER. Write everything down. I carry a notebook with me where I write everything. You can also try to use a personal Discord server for that, since you can access it on your phone anytime. I also schedule everything in one place: Google calendar, I forget to check physical agendas, but not my phone. I have the default notification reminders on GC to be the day before and 4 hours before the event, then leave the notification on my phone so I can see it every time till it's done. If possible, "add guests" to your events, as they will receive notifications and can keep you accountable.
Make a household inventory and make it a thing to check it every week so you don't run out of toilet paper. I have found that, so as not to forget to do these things, I assign days to tasks. For example: Sundays are cleaning and inventory days. That way I don't forget, because that's what I do on Sundays! Then I check on my Discord the list of things that encompass cleaning and inventory.
I have been using an app called Finch which helps with mental health and can serve as a goal setting app.
Make sure to get good sleep. Bad sleep worsens ADHD symptoms considerably.
If you are prone to leaving things misplaced, put some baskets or boxes in the rooms. These are your "For later" baskets, so if you don't have the time or bandwidth to deal with wrapping these gifts or something, just drop them there, that way you don't misplace them, and they are not on the floor or in the way.
Don't waste extra energy in things that aren't necessary and not important. Like, do you really need to fold your underwear perfectly everytime? Just chuck them on their corresponding drawer, it makes the chore of putting away clothes a lot faster and more bearable too.
At work, whenever the possibility is there, do not say "I'll call you", rather ask the other party to call you, it takes pressure off of your memory.
Email yourself things you need to remember. Even better if you can schedule it for the appropriate date. Also, for work emails or other important emails, I use the snooze everytime I know I can't take care of the issue at the moment and have to resolve it later in the week. Since my brain does a memory formatting from one day to the other, having the email snoozed and pop up again at 8 am the next day is a godsend.
Take care of taxes and other documentation as soon as you can. Do not delay it EVER. Make it a numbers game if you want. Taxes are a game where you know the rules from the beginning, so plan accordingly and you'll be fine.
Organize your computer folders very neatly. Sync them to Google Drive so you can access documents at any time from your phone. It's a life saver for when you forget a document at home but can access it and send it through email or whatever.
Make cooking as easy as possible. Non sticks and gadgets that turn off automatically or have a loud timer are your friend. Make it a routine to move any frozen food to the fridge to thaw the night before, so you don't have to worry about thawing the next day (plus you're indirectly planning your meal)
Hope this helps!
(INFJ) I don't know why but I never need to hear INFP expressing love. They make it so obvious that you don't need reassurance. They don't even say anything specific, they're just radiating this 🥰😊😳 aura thinking we don't see how they become a sunshine around person they love.
I can tell too 😅
-infj
XD well we still wanna put it into real words rather then just perception
As an INFP, I was listening and thinking how I'd never say anything like that and be that bold....then it was in his head and I knew I'd been called out XD He got me good lolol
At first I thought that the ESFJ thing wasn't that accurate, but as I dug deeper, I realized that this exact scenario most likely isn't. That said, the fact that the ESFJ remembered all of the ice cream toppings *is* accurate. Being an ESFJ myself, I know that this type has a killer memory, especially when it comes to somebody they like. Heck, I remember my sp's restaurant order after going there as a group *one time!* So I can confirm, that *this is so freaking accurate* 😅