I’m not sure you’ll see this comment since this video is older, but thank you for sharing your experience. I am a psychiatry resident, and I experienced a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks two months ago. I was devastated, but I have an amazing support system including my spouse, family, and my residency colleagues. Miscarriage should not be an experience women feel they have to endure alone. It’s a heartbreaking loss and everyone experience grief differently. The more we share our stories, the more we can lessen the stigma that surrounds miscarriage. ❤
I had a miscarriage January 28, 2024 at 8 weeks, 1 day. It’s absolutely heartbreaking, my husband and I are devastated. But we are so grateful to have a great support system, it has helped me so much to talk about it with friends and family cause I’m not alone. It breaks my heart for anyone who has had a miscarriage, and I’m thinking of you and praying for you. I want to thank all the women who share their stories and struggles about miscarriage, cause i don’t feel as alone.
Sending love to all those who are 1 in 4 💜 Thank you for sharing your story, it helps people see that even doctors can be effected by things like this.
Going through my second miscarriage now, with two embryos, after my second FET. It's absolutely devastating. I feel defeated, but hopeful to maybe get answers and try again. It's amazing how we can be going through something so traumatic and still so hopeful at the same time. Your personal story gives me hope, so thank you!
I had a miscarriage a few years ago. I found out I was pregnant when I had not planned to be. After accepting the fact that I was pregnant and deciding I wanted to keep it, I was happy and looking forward to having a baby. One month later on a Saturday, I started spotting. Google said it can be normal so I tried not to worry. The next day, I bleed more and I became concerned. I went to the ER to make sure everything was ok. They said they didn't detect a heart beat, but to meet with my doctor to confirm. They measured a gestational age of 6 weeks... that night I had major cramps and bled like never before. Heavy bleeding (changed pads about every hour) and pain all night. I cried and cried and then I fell asleep. I woke up 2 hours later and felt no pain. I felt empty. I went to the bathroom and I heard a splash as I sat. Then I saw my underwear and there it sat. My little baby came out. I only assumed one was the sack and the other the umbilical cord (not sure) but I just got both parts and put it in toilet paper and stared. I woke up my boyfriend who spent the night for support, and my mother. We were all in shock. I then cried and didn't sleep much. Although it was only for a month, I was very attached to the pregnancy and had may hopes. The miscarriage really affected my concentration and I felt depressed. I missed work and school for 1 week, but it took me about a month or 2 to regain my concentration and focus. It still affects me emotionally to this day every once in a while. I will never forget this pregnancy, and thankfully my parents, sister, boyfriend, and a friend supported me. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Thank you for sharing your story. I also had a miscarriage and was pregnant with 2 embryos. It was my first pregnancy and I was so excited. I went to my 8 week ultrasound appointment and the doctor could only see 2 sacs and not fetal pole or heart beat. My heart sank and I just wanted to burst out crying. I miscarried 3 weeks later and took over 3 months for my body to go back to normal. It's been so hard physically, mentally and emotionally. The only person that knows about everything is my husband. It's so hard because people keep asking when we are having kids and I just feel so annoyed. Hopefully I will get pregnant again and it will be successful.
I don’t know you but the story you narrated is 98% similar to mine. Miscarried less than 2 weeks ago & we have such a similar experience. From the way you find out , to Er, the sac releasing etc. I hope you are okay these days .
Thank you for this! Our first FET just ended in a chemical pregnancy. It didn't really feel like a miscarriage because I found out about the pregnancy at the same time I found out it was ending, but it's motivated me to learn more about different types of miscarriages and their causes. Really appreciate you addressing both the medical and the emotional aspects of pregnancy loss.
I tell all my transfers that. negative/chemical is a loss. Because *it is* different when we know there is an embryo that doesn't turn into a baby. It hurts differently than a negative cycle just TTC > sending love.
Thank you for posting this. I've never had a miscarriage but I could feel the pain in your voice talking about it and it breaks my heart. I cant imagine saying something so rude and nasty to someone who just lost a baby, no matter what you think of the person. I'm praying for Chrissy and John.
I’m 1 in 4 as well. Last year I suffered an early miscarriage and it took so long for my body to get back to normal (like 5 months to a normal cycle). It felt like I couldn’t get past it and I was so scared of trying again for months to follow. It was the worse experience both physically and mentally. Still trying for our rainbow baby. Thank you for making videos like this!!
When I got pregnant, my husband and I only told very few people, but after my miscarriage, we decided to be very open about it. Telling the people who knew about the pregnancy was much harder than telling those who didn't, but I feel like the people who knew have a much deeper understanding for the grief because they were there for the happiness as well.
Thank you for sharing your story as a woman who has had a misscairage you always feel that you need to grieve in silence but you need that support to make it through. I had my amazing fiance and mom and I thank heavens for them. Every woman and family deserves some support in a moment like that not judgement.
My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. Then I had our rainbow baby who now is 2 years and very healthy. Just recently had my 3 pregnancy and ended in 2nd miscarriage. I feel 2nd time to me is alot harder to recover from. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Just wish I had more answers.
Thank you, Dr. Natalie, for sharing your story. My heart aches for all the momma's out there who have experienced pregnancy loss... I am in full agreement regarding Chrissy and her own story. Such a brave soul.
Had a week 7 miscarriage three days ago. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences here, you made me feel less alone. And above all, thank you so much Dr. Natalie for being the first one to share and for educating us on such important topics.
1 in 4 here. Going on 8 months TTC - 2 MC. First medicated cycle failed and we decided to go right into IUI. I have never felt more broken in my life. Trying to find the joy and hope again going into IUI. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Thank you so much for your videos and posts. I recently lost my son Theo at 25 weeks and your Instagram and UA-cam videos have given me a lot of hope during this difficult time. ❤️ 💓
Firstly I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you because I know exactly what you went through. But I think doctors should also talk about cervical insufficiency because it's also a cause of miscarriage but is never listed or kept a look out for, unless it's too late 😔 and I see you also didn't include it. I lost my son at 5months because of it. I would really be happy if you did a video about it just to have more information.
I wish I’d seen this sooner. Have been following for a while but some how missed this one. I’m a paediatric nurse who works predominantly with babies. I was on night shift when I miscarried and didn’t say anything. I was so busy that I just kept changing my pad and moving on. I knew deep down what was happening but didn’t give myself the time to actually acknowledge it. A few days later it was confirmed and I fell to pieces. The best thing I did after that was talk about it with anyone that would listen. I realised very quickly. I shouldn’t have suffered on night shift in silence. I should have spoken up. There is still so much stigma in our industry. I didn’t say anything because I didn’t want anyone to know that I was trying. Now they all know and I don’t even care. I was met with so much love and support after the loss that I realised it doesn’t matter. Wanting to Start a family is normal and we need to normalise it in the health care industry. We can be healthcare workers and Mums! We are back to trying and hoping we get a rainbow baby soon but until then I will continue to tell my story because I’ve realised it’s opened the doors for others to tell theirs.
Thank you for this. This video felt like a warm comforting hug. Thank you for amplifying that sharing a miscarriage story is brave. We women shouldn’t feel the need to have to grieve in silence, if that’s not what we need in that moment. We should absolutely feel we have support & safe space to share our miscarriage losses. I’m glad this societal norm is starting to shift, but highly disappointed it’s taking us so long. Love your videos & all the education you give back. You’re a rockstar!
Thanks Natalie for sharing your personal story, like Chrissy Teigen, both of you are so brave to be vulnerable to the public like this. Keep doing what you're doing! You're great!
i had a miscarriage myself and I understand the pain and loss. I didn’t tell anybody except my husband, I think the opening up idea is correct because we all need support. I’ll tell more people earlier when I’ll be pregnant next time. thank you for your sharing and encouraging.
Thank you for this! I had a heterotopic pregnancy this summer. The ectopic burst through my tube resulting in emergency surgery and then I miscarried the second baby a month later. It was so hard and now we are trying again. I have PCOS and it’s been such a long journey.
I was pregnant as an Oncology resident doing my weekly clinic with 35 patients waiting for their chemo and first exam. I starter spoting, couldnt leave, kept on working the clinic. That pregnancy was ok and now I have a tenyearold son. Fast forward 10 years. I'm a consultant, assistent professor, relaxing as much as I vam and then..miscarriage. It's hard to go in the ER and your ex student doing the US and saying no heart beat at 8 weeks. You don't wanna believe it but you know it's a great US machine and a great future OBGYN diagnosing your missed ab.
Thanks for your willingness to share your stories!! I love everything you are doing to educate and help us brave our fertility challenges! I would love to see a video about the different types of miscarriages, the different management options for a miscarriage and then getting pregnant after a miscarriage.
Thats true. I also had an empty gestational sack pregnacy for 10 week. Doctor help me miscarriage 2 weeks. I was just so happy to complete my family at age 38. Now its all gone. Am literally dying inside. I dont know how to pass this its too personal to talk about with anyone am close to. I still need a child. But am so broken.
@@theresacameron4470 I'm so sorry that you have had to experience this. I know the feeling of being excited about finally being pregnant just to be disappointed when something unexpected happens. I recently had a missed miscarriage (or silent miscarriage), which is where the baby has stopped growing and no longer has a heartbeat but the body hasn't recognized it yet. Because of this it can take several weeks for the tissue to finally pass, and in some cases needs medical intervention. I honestly didn't know there were different types of miscarriages until this experience.
@@katherinehobbs5007 thats so true. I was so devastated when i did my ultrasound at 10 weeks and the doctor says i had a blighted ovum. There and them he prescribed treatment. Its something i wish no woman to experience. Am so sorry for everyone who is going through this.... somehow i find comfort reading all these comments knowing i am not alone.... Thanks for responding
Chrissy and John’s loss is so heart wrenching. And I’m so sorry you had difficulty getting pregnant too. The journey is so hard on the heart. I thought I was fertile murtle after 3 perfectly perfect pregnancies and deliveries until this year I suffered 2 miscarriages. The first being and blighted ovum and second a partial molar pregnancy. I totally don’t understand why I’m having a hard time now. I’m 32 and would love if you could pick apart miscarriage a bit more?? Am loving your videos btw!
@@NatalieCrawfordMD thanks so much! I’d love to get an understanding of each kind of miscarriage because I had no idea of all the different ones until it happened to me…
Might you consider doing a video on miscarriage: what to expect?A practical guide. It would explain: How to prepare yourself? Supplies to buy? For example: ultrasound (1st trimester) with no heartbeat... what to expect in a natural miscarriage at home? Appreciate your honesty and openness!!
I had a 10 week empty gestational sac miscarriage at home 2weeks today. I have no idea what next to expect. Or what to do before i start trying again Or when to try about Or what signs to look for in my body thats not normal Am just so last Am broken. I dont know how to explain my feelings to anyone and am afraid they wont understand so i cry alone day and night. Its just too sad. So sad
i get pregnant by IVF, i've had 4 miscarriages, no rainbow baby, no reason for infertility. The most difficult thing is to decide when to stop. We still have embryos "in the freezer" so i do want to use them and tomorrow ine will be transferred. Wish me luck. That's why i'm watching these videos, because its occupying my mind and i feel like i need to do something. when i saw the story about chrissy, i felt so much for her and i was so angry and upset about the angry comments she was getting. people are cruel.
I am currently going thro the loss of pregnancy #9. Lost all pregnancies 3,4,5,6,7,8 and 9. Pregnancy 3 and 9 were confirmed tubal. I've been ignored for all of them. I was left to rupture with pregnancy #3. I didn't even get an ultrasound til late week 13. With this current tubal, they refused to give me a ultrasound til 7w6d despite the History of 6 previous losses including a ectopic with rupture and being 38 yrs old. I'm in canada. Medical care here is trash. Your channel is empowering. Thank you.
@@MissSmurfey varying from week 7 to week 14. 5 miscarriages. 2 ectopic. They only started testing anything after loss 6. And the testing was a joke. I had symptoms of factor 5 leiden in both pregnancies 1 and 2 (living) but they refused to test ot treat. Ectopic one which was pregnancy 3 didn't even get an ultrasound til late 13 weeks and was basically left to rupture and die. I was also over 35 and had concerning symptoms. No testing nothing. With this last pregnancy, despite my age (38), history and symptoms along with hcg curve, they refused to do scan til 8 weeks. By this point the damage to my remaining tube was huge and my ovary sustained damage as well. In canada it's almost impossible to take drs to court. Sadly that is where I am. Neglect here is disgusting.
@@MissSmurfey they failed to give me scars with my 5 miscarriages. I was between 7 to 9 weeks for all those losses. The ectopic they refused to show me anything at the scan. I am in the process of requesting my records to have their ultrasound pictures. Losing babies in Canada is so degrading. And in general, reproductive care here is basically neglect in a nutshell.
My husband and I didn't tell anyone. Until I had a low grade and went to the hospital. And on the way to hospital I finally told my mom and I think my mother in law.
I had a miscarriage. Been ttcing ever since. I never thought it would be me since it was my 4th natural pregnancy. I have 1 child. He's 11. My baby was late to come out the sack. Almost 2 weeks later I no longer felt pregnant. At my ultrasound, the baby was out but had no heartbeat. I started laboring that night and miscarried in the early morning. Something I never want to feel again. We were together almost 10 wks. Now I'm 35 and scared I'll never conceive again. But I'm also scared to.
You are amazing, thank you! 💕💕💕 I have experienced one miscarriage and one ectopic pregnancy in the past 6 months... Also two aspirations and one laparoscopic surgery. What are the odds? 🤦🏼♀️ I really hope this can't happen three times in a row! I will be 35 years old soon and have had two perfect pregnancies in the past, so maybe it's the age?
I’m so happy for you! I can’t imagine how difficult the repeated losses had to be. If you don’t mind sharing, were you able to figure out what was causing your miscarriages or did it go unsolved? It hurts my heart that so many parents never get the answers to this to provide them some sort of closure.
I am still TTC and terrified about miscarriage if I ever do get pregnant. Going to the fertility clinic soon to figure out why there's no pregnancy yet.
Thank you Natalie for sharing all the information on miscarriage I suffered one myself it was the most painful thing i went through I was wondering do you know how long the bleeding last after a miscarriage
This might be an incredibly inappropriate time to point this out- but your dresser has a face. On a more serious note- Thank you for sharing your video, and being a source of constant Education for so many.
Thank you Natalie. As you say you should tell others to get support, would you say tell everyone, like all friends and family? I'm 7 weeks along, and only told immediate family, and want to wait until past the first trimester.
Anyone who you would need support from if something goes wrong - that doesn't have to be your whole world, but it may be. When we let people in, we get more in return. Hugs.
What did you do to help you have your rainbow babies? I’m such in a confused state I have had 6 losses and it’s unexplained. I really think something is really wrong. No one can help me 😩😢
Did anyone start to hsve round ligament pain again after a miscarriage. Im getting that now and did a test at the doctors which he only checked for 2 mins on a strip. I need a blood test for my HCG, hormone levels. So we'll see today. Why am i feel all the heaviness in my pelvic area, back, hips and legs still. I get slight aches in my breasts but have not changed and are still a bit fuller and havent gone down. Im still thinking im pregnant. The aches are annoying and feel like contraction pains but slows me down doing things. Has anyone been through this. Its really confusing
I’ve had 5 miscarriages in the first trimester in this year. 😢 My lab work and my husbands has been normal. I do have 1 live child who is 3 years old. We have gotten our genetic testing done. Now I have to go see a specialist once I get my next menstrual cycle. I really want my rainbow baby.
Thank you for sharing. I had a miscarriage at 7w6d. I am now 9w4d. My OB has been monitoring my hcg levels weekly since week 4 . My hcg was 116500 week 8 and 116000 week 9. Is this a concern that it dropped 500 instead of rising after 7 days from previous test? I had a dating scan 7w3d and BPM was 129. I am 40 years old, my miscarriage happened in November and conceived 2 cycles later. Please i would really appreciate response ❤️
I've miscarried at 17weeks. My pregnancy went ok,..., Right until it didn't. I got contractions and gave birth. My son was born alive, and perfect, just too young to survive. I found out he was a baby boy while holding his slowly dying body trying to breathe. No doctor could help. And it's the worst pain I've ever experienced. Holding my son, watching him struggle, and then fade, and grow cold. And I miss him.I still don't know what caused the contractions. All the obvious causes were ruled out. But the result is obvious. I was supposed to be changing nappies and breastfeeding right now, but instead I'm writing this.
Dr. Natalie - sorry if this is an invasive question but did you take progesterone with any of your pregnancies? I’ve watched you video about it & my doctor advised me to take it after my first MC for my 2nd pregnancy but I was apprehensive bc it just doesn’t make sense to me. If MC could be due to genetic issues, would progesterone just prolong the inevitable?
I had Miscarriage to on February 5 after near 17 years of try our 1st baby is gone 😭😭😭😭 I found out I have cyst in uterus the size 10cm but my fertility doctor gave okay get pregnant but my baby didn't make it I was so sad I don't try I am scary of miscarriage again ,,I was 4weeks 5days pregnant ,,,,I am 35
Dear doctor. I am looking for some advice on the internet but not having much luck and thought what better place to ask. I am currently 16 weeks pregnant after 3 very early miscarriages in the last couple of years. This is the first pregnancy through IVF and I was on Fragmin since the embryo transfer day. All seems to be going well so far. Today I was told I can now stop Fragmin. As much as it would he great to stop injections, I am very very nervous about just stopping it. Can I just add that I did not have a diagnosed problem with blood clotting Fragmin was given to me just in case, in addition to low dose aspirin. Is it really safe to stop it now and not worry sick?
Also have you seen the beautiful pictures of Hilary Duff’s at home labor? There just stunning. But you can see someone’s taking photos of her and there’s just so much pouring of love and support. My thought is, is bc it went well- had Chrissy’s labor gone well I would hope the reaction would’ve been of love & support. It just says a lot about how society views women. That we should grieve in private. I commend Chrissy bravery for letting us grief with her.
So I had an internal ultrasound and MRI to verify no uterine septum but had a vaginally septum that was surgically corrected. Do you think my chances are increases to have structural issues? I just had my first pregnancy and miscarriage.
So I had a positive test and wanted to do the progression line, I skipped yesterday but today my line is gone. I'm not bleeding. I did opk so I know when I ovulated and I should be 4w1d. This is my 4th child. Could I be losing the baby? I'm almost 39..... please help.
I just had a cornual ectopic and lost my baby at 8 weeks after 2 rounds of methotrexate. Can you please do a video on ectopic pregnancies and what the implications may be for future pregnancies and TTC again? My doctor didn't have many answers for me and I feel like there's not enough information about this topic readily available.
Hey if your trying to conceive fast and easy then the spell caster that helped my aunt manifest twins into her womb after many years of childless living can help you
could you please let us know about how far along when you had your miscarriages? I'm still in my first trimester, and im scared to death of having a miscarriage. So im literally counting days and hope the change of it decreases.
Not to scare you, but you can have a miscarriage in any trimester. I'm no doctor, but continue to stay calm, enjoy your experience, listen to your body, go to your appointments, and have faith that'll have a healthy baby. Xoxo
I had a miscarriage when I was 25. Now I am 30 and my husband and me are trying to have a baby since then. I feel so nervous and scared. It feels like your body failed you and the thought of it possibly happening again is terrifying. I also am scared somehow that I am not able to become pregnant anymore since the n, even if this is the first month we are trying.
I saw in a forum that they were blaming it on her Botox for her migraines. I think that is ridiculous to blame something so stupid with no evidence backing it up. Brave woman bless her.
Now she has changed her story and is trying to say that she had to have the abortion to save her life. So what is it was it a miscarriage or was it an abortion she changed your story! A miscarriage is painful and why did she photograph this horrible pain ?
Wow! Thanks for sharing. I recently lost my baby and it is hard. I am trying to get through it and dealing with postpartum depression is super difficult. I believe I am getting better. I still have my moments and days. If the Lord says the same my husband and I want to try again. So hopefully God bless us with our rainbow 🌈 baby soon. May God bless you doctors and this family. May God give them their hearts desires. In Jesus name. Amen!!
I’m not sure you’ll see this comment since this video is older, but thank you for sharing your experience. I am a psychiatry resident, and I experienced a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks two months ago. I was devastated, but I have an amazing support system including my spouse, family, and my residency colleagues. Miscarriage should not be an experience women feel they have to endure alone. It’s a heartbreaking loss and everyone experience grief differently. The more we share our stories, the more we can lessen the stigma that surrounds miscarriage. ❤
I had a miscarriage January 28, 2024 at 8 weeks, 1 day. It’s absolutely heartbreaking, my husband and I are devastated. But we are so grateful to have a great support system, it has helped me so much to talk about it with friends and family cause I’m not alone. It breaks my heart for anyone who has had a miscarriage, and I’m thinking of you and praying for you. I want to thank all the women who share their stories and struggles about miscarriage, cause i don’t feel as alone.
Sending love to all those who are 1 in 4 💜 Thank you for sharing your story, it helps people see that even doctors can be effected by things like this.
Thank you so much. That means a lot.
Going through my second miscarriage now, with two embryos, after my second FET. It's absolutely devastating. I feel defeated, but hopeful to maybe get answers and try again. It's amazing how we can be going through something so traumatic and still so hopeful at the same time. Your personal story gives me hope, so thank you!
Please don’t give up. I hope you have your Rainbow baby very soon 🌈
You got this! I'm sending you so much love, thank you for sharing. Don't give up hope.
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I understand. I had a second trimester loss in September it is such a journey emotionally.
@@cierrawashington4794 I’m so sorry. I gave birth to my twins May 2022. Hang in there ❤️ easier said than done. Trust me, I know.
Thank you for this, I had a miscarriage a year ago we are still waiting for our rainbow baby. Its good to know I'm not alone.
Fingers crossed and sending lots of love. I know how hard it is.
No you’re not alone I tough I was alone too
@@NatalieCrawfordMD Thanks baby Baker is due in December!
I had a miscarriage a few years ago. I found out I was pregnant when I had not planned to be. After accepting the fact that I was pregnant and deciding I wanted to keep it, I was happy and looking forward to having a baby. One month later on a Saturday, I started spotting. Google said it can be normal so I tried not to worry. The next day, I bleed more and I became concerned. I went to the ER to make sure everything was ok. They said they didn't detect a heart beat, but to meet with my doctor to confirm. They measured a gestational age of 6 weeks... that night I had major cramps and bled like never before. Heavy bleeding (changed pads about every hour) and pain all night. I cried and cried and then I fell asleep. I woke up 2 hours later and felt no pain. I felt empty. I went to the bathroom and I heard a splash as I sat. Then I saw my underwear and there it sat. My little baby came out. I only assumed one was the sack and the other the umbilical cord (not sure) but I just got both parts and put it in toilet paper and stared. I woke up my boyfriend who spent the night for support, and my mother. We were all in shock. I then cried and didn't sleep much. Although it was only for a month, I was very attached to the pregnancy and had may hopes. The miscarriage really affected my concentration and I felt depressed. I missed work and school for 1 week, but it took me about a month or 2 to regain my concentration and focus. It still affects me emotionally to this day every once in a while. I will never forget this pregnancy, and thankfully my parents, sister, boyfriend, and a friend supported me.
Thank you for sharing your experience!
Thank you for sharing your story. I am sorry for your loss. Sending you so much love.
Thank you for sharing your story. I also had a miscarriage and was pregnant with 2 embryos. It was my first pregnancy and I was so excited. I went to my 8 week ultrasound appointment and the doctor could only see 2 sacs and not fetal pole or heart beat. My heart sank and I just wanted to burst out crying. I miscarried 3 weeks later and took over 3 months for my body to go back to normal. It's been so hard physically, mentally and emotionally. The only person that knows about everything is my husband. It's so hard because people keep asking when we are having kids and I just feel so annoyed. Hopefully I will get pregnant again and it will be successful.
I don’t know you but the story you narrated is 98% similar to mine. Miscarried less than 2 weeks ago & we have such a similar experience. From the way you find out , to Er, the sac releasing etc. I hope you are okay these days .
Same story for me 🥺
I find it amazing how women keep trying for a baby after miscarriages thats so brave and inspiring
Thank you for this! Our first FET just ended in a chemical pregnancy. It didn't really feel like a miscarriage because I found out about the pregnancy at the same time I found out it was ending, but it's motivated me to learn more about different types of miscarriages and their causes. Really appreciate you addressing both the medical and the emotional aspects of pregnancy loss.
I tell all my transfers that. negative/chemical is a loss. Because *it is* different when we know there is an embryo that doesn't turn into a baby. It hurts differently than a negative cycle just TTC > sending love.
Thank you for posting this. I've never had a miscarriage but I could feel the pain in your voice talking about it and it breaks my heart. I cant imagine saying something so rude and nasty to someone who just lost a baby, no matter what you think of the person. I'm praying for Chrissy and John.
Thank you.
I’m 1 in 4 as well. Last year I suffered an early miscarriage and it took so long for my body to get back to normal (like 5 months to a normal cycle). It felt like I couldn’t get past it and I was so scared of trying again for months to follow. It was the worse experience both physically and mentally. Still trying for our rainbow baby.
Thank you for making videos like this!!
I'm sending you so much love.
Yes I know how you feel it took me 4 months and it's terrible. Physically, mentally and emotionally. Best of luck to you.
When I got pregnant, my husband and I only told very few people, but after my miscarriage, we decided to be very open about it. Telling the people who knew about the pregnancy was much harder than telling those who didn't, but I feel like the people who knew have a much deeper understanding for the grief because they were there for the happiness as well.
Thank you for sharing your story as a woman who has had a misscairage you always feel that you need to grieve in silence but you need that support to make it through. I had my amazing fiance and mom and I thank heavens for them. Every woman and family deserves some support in a moment like that not judgement.
sending you love.
My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. Then I had our rainbow baby who now is 2 years and very healthy. Just recently had my 3 pregnancy and ended in 2nd miscarriage. I feel 2nd time to me is alot harder to recover from. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Just wish I had more answers.
Thank you, Dr. Natalie, for sharing your story. My heart aches for all the momma's out there who have experienced pregnancy loss... I am in full agreement regarding Chrissy and her own story. Such a brave soul.
Thank you so much!
Had a week 7 miscarriage three days ago. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences here, you made me feel less alone. And above all, thank you so much Dr. Natalie for being the first one to share and for educating us on such important topics.
1 in 4 here. Going on 8 months TTC - 2 MC. First medicated cycle failed and we decided to go right into IUI. I have never felt more broken in my life. Trying to find the joy and hope again going into IUI. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Thank you so much for your videos and posts. I recently lost my son Theo at 25 weeks and your Instagram and UA-cam videos have given me a lot of hope during this difficult time. ❤️ 💓
1. Thank you so much for sharing your story and for everything you do.
2. Who in the world would dislike a video like this?
Thank you, and right?!???
You are such a brave and brilliant doctor. Thank you for your humanity.
Thank you for this. I'm pregnant with my rainbow baby, just 6 weeks. I'm both happy and scared. This was a beautiful video. Thank you for sharing.
Firstly I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you because I know exactly what you went through. But I think doctors should also talk about cervical insufficiency because it's also a cause of miscarriage but is never listed or kept a look out for, unless it's too late 😔 and I see you also didn't include it. I lost my son at 5months because of it. I would really be happy if you did a video about it just to have more information.
Thank you for this great video. Had a miscarriage in August.
I wish I’d seen this sooner. Have been following for a while but some how missed this one. I’m a paediatric nurse who works predominantly with babies. I was on night shift when I miscarried and didn’t say anything. I was so busy that I just kept changing my pad and moving on. I knew deep down what was happening but didn’t give myself the time to actually acknowledge it. A few days later it was confirmed and I fell to pieces. The best thing I did after that was talk about it with anyone that would listen. I realised very quickly. I shouldn’t have suffered on night shift in silence. I should have spoken up. There is still so much stigma in our industry. I didn’t say anything because I didn’t want anyone to know that I was trying. Now they all know and I don’t even care. I was met with so much love and support after the loss that I realised it doesn’t matter. Wanting to Start a family is normal and we need to normalise it in the health care industry. We can be healthcare workers and Mums! We are back to trying and hoping we get a rainbow baby soon but until then I will continue to tell my story because I’ve realised it’s opened the doors for others to tell theirs.
I'm going through my 8-week miscarriage now.... Very sad and helpless.... Thank you for sharing... 💜
Sending you courage 🌸
How are tou doing? Did you have an ultrasound prior to your loss?
Thank you for this. This video felt like a warm comforting hug. Thank you for amplifying that sharing a miscarriage story is brave. We women shouldn’t feel the need to have to grieve in silence, if that’s not what we need in that moment. We should absolutely feel we have support & safe space to share our miscarriage losses. I’m glad this societal norm is starting to shift, but highly disappointed it’s taking us so long. Love your videos & all the education you give back. You’re a rockstar!
Sorry for your loss it’s the most painful thing that I ever went through so I know how you fill I’m so sorry 😞
Thanks Natalie for sharing your personal story, like Chrissy Teigen, both of you are so brave to be vulnerable to the public like this. Keep doing what you're doing! You're great!
Thank you so much, that means a lot to me.
i had a miscarriage myself and I understand the pain and loss. I didn’t tell anybody except my husband, I think the opening up idea is correct because we all need support. I’ll tell more people earlier when I’ll be pregnant next time. thank you for your sharing and encouraging.
Thank you so much Dr. Crawford for sharing your story for all of us 💔 it gives hope and support to those of us who are hurting.
I'm so glad-sending love!
I really appreciate this video. I AM 1 IN 4. Its been one year and i am still searching for my rainbow.
Sorry for your losses, sending you much love.
Thank you for this! I had a heterotopic pregnancy this summer. The ectopic burst through my tube resulting in emergency surgery and then I miscarried the second baby a month later. It was so hard and now we are trying again. I have PCOS and it’s been such a long journey.
I am so sorry for this loss and emergency surgery. Sending much love.
I was pregnant as an Oncology resident doing my weekly clinic with 35 patients waiting for their chemo and first exam. I starter spoting, couldnt leave, kept on working the clinic. That pregnancy was ok and now I have a tenyearold son. Fast forward 10 years. I'm a consultant, assistent professor, relaxing as much as I vam and then..miscarriage. It's hard to go in the ER and your ex student doing the US and saying no heart beat at 8 weeks. You don't wanna believe it but you know it's a great US machine and a great future OBGYN diagnosing your missed ab.
Thanks for your willingness to share your stories!! I love everything you are doing to educate and help us brave our fertility challenges! I would love to see a video about the different types of miscarriages, the different management options for a miscarriage and then getting pregnant after a miscarriage.
Thats true. I also had an empty gestational sack pregnacy for 10 week. Doctor help me miscarriage 2 weeks. I was just so happy to complete my family at age 38. Now its all gone. Am literally dying inside. I dont know how to pass this its too personal to talk about with anyone am close to. I still need a child. But am so broken.
@@theresacameron4470 I'm so sorry that you have had to experience this. I know the feeling of being excited about finally being pregnant just to be disappointed when something unexpected happens.
I recently had a missed miscarriage (or silent miscarriage), which is where the baby has stopped growing and no longer has a heartbeat but the body hasn't recognized it yet. Because of this it can take several weeks for the tissue to finally pass, and in some cases needs medical intervention. I honestly didn't know there were different types of miscarriages until this experience.
@@katherinehobbs5007 thats so true. I was so devastated when i did my ultrasound at 10 weeks and the doctor says i had a blighted ovum. There and them he prescribed treatment. Its something i wish no woman to experience. Am so sorry for everyone who is going through this.... somehow i find comfort reading all these comments knowing i am not alone....
Thanks for responding
@@theresacameron4470 There are no words to describe the heartache of loss!! Take all the time and self-care needed to heal!!
@@katherinehobbs5007 Thanks so much
Chrissy and John’s loss is so heart wrenching. And I’m so sorry you had difficulty getting pregnant too. The journey is so hard on the heart. I thought I was fertile murtle after 3 perfectly perfect pregnancies and deliveries until this year I suffered 2 miscarriages. The first being and blighted ovum and second a partial molar pregnancy. I totally don’t understand why I’m having a hard time now. I’m 32 and would love if you could pick apart miscarriage a bit more?? Am loving your videos btw!
great idea. sending love, miscarriage is so hard.
@@NatalieCrawfordMD thanks so much! I’d love to get an understanding of each kind of miscarriage because I had no idea of all the different ones until it happened to me…
Might you consider doing a video on miscarriage: what to expect?A practical guide. It would explain: How to prepare yourself? Supplies to buy? For example: ultrasound (1st trimester) with no heartbeat... what to expect in a natural miscarriage at home? Appreciate your honesty and openness!!
I had a 10 week empty gestational sac miscarriage at home 2weeks today. I have no idea what next to expect.
Or what to do before i start trying again
Or when to try about
Or what signs to look for in my body thats not normal
Am just so last
Am broken. I dont know how to explain my feelings to anyone and am afraid they wont understand so i cry alone day and night. Its just too sad. So sad
i get pregnant by IVF, i've had 4 miscarriages, no rainbow baby, no reason for infertility. The most difficult thing is to decide when to stop. We still have embryos "in the freezer" so i do want to use them and tomorrow ine will be transferred. Wish me luck. That's why i'm watching these videos, because its occupying my mind and i feel like i need to do something. when i saw the story about chrissy, i felt so much for her and i was so angry and upset about the angry comments she was getting. people are cruel.
I am currently going thro the loss of pregnancy #9. Lost all pregnancies 3,4,5,6,7,8 and 9.
Pregnancy 3 and 9 were confirmed tubal.
I've been ignored for all of them. I was left to rupture with pregnancy #3. I didn't even get an ultrasound til late week 13. With this current tubal, they refused to give me a ultrasound til 7w6d despite the History of 6 previous losses including a ectopic with rupture and being 38 yrs old.
I'm in canada. Medical care here is trash. Your channel is empowering. Thank you.
I am so sorry for your losses! Hugs!
I'm so sorry for your losses. May i ask at what weeks did your losses happen? Wishing you all the best ❤️
@@MissSmurfey varying from week 7 to week 14. 5 miscarriages. 2 ectopic.
They only started testing anything after loss 6. And the testing was a joke.
I had symptoms of factor 5 leiden in both pregnancies 1 and 2 (living) but they refused to test ot treat.
Ectopic one which was pregnancy 3 didn't even get an ultrasound til late 13 weeks and was basically left to rupture and die. I was also over 35 and had concerning symptoms. No testing nothing.
With this last pregnancy, despite my age (38), history and symptoms along with hcg curve, they refused to do scan til 8 weeks. By this point the damage to my remaining tube was huge and my ovary sustained damage as well.
In canada it's almost impossible to take drs to court. Sadly that is where I am. Neglect here is disgusting.
@@tribelessoutsider i'm so sorry 😥 did any of your losses have a heartbeat prior to loss?
@@MissSmurfey they failed to give me scars with my 5 miscarriages. I was between 7 to 9 weeks for all those losses.
The ectopic they refused to show me anything at the scan. I am in the process of requesting my records to have their ultrasound pictures.
Losing babies in Canada is so degrading. And in general, reproductive care here is basically neglect in a nutshell.
How are the types of uterine abnormalities affected by age? Thank you for sharing your experience and making such awesome videos!
Uterine abnormalities are congenital (so you’re born with it). Age does not affect uterine abnormalities but it does affect the quality of your eggs.
perfect answer, thank you!
My husband and I didn't tell anyone. Until I had a low grade and went to the hospital. And on the way to hospital I finally told my mom and I think my mother in law.
/it is so hard, i'm sending love.
I’m inspired Chrissy! Let the universe bless you in all area you want
Chrissy's mom and John took the pictures from Chrissy's wish. Thank you for this video Nd sharing your experience ❤
No problem 😊
I had a miscarriage. Been ttcing ever since. I never thought it would be me since it was my 4th natural pregnancy. I have 1 child. He's 11.
My baby was late to come out the sack. Almost 2 weeks later I no longer felt pregnant. At my ultrasound, the baby was out but had no heartbeat. I started laboring that night and miscarried in the early morning. Something I never want to feel again. We were together almost 10 wks.
Now I'm 35 and scared I'll never conceive again.
But I'm also scared to.
You are amazing, thank you! 💕💕💕 I have experienced one miscarriage and one ectopic pregnancy in the past 6 months... Also two aspirations and one laparoscopic surgery. What are the odds? 🤦🏼♀️ I really hope this can't happen three times in a row! I will be 35 years old soon and have had two perfect pregnancies in the past, so maybe it's the age?
ugh i am sending you so much love and babydust
Are you TTC?
I’m so happy for you! I can’t imagine how difficult the repeated losses had to be. If you don’t mind sharing, were you able to figure out what was causing your miscarriages or did it go unsolved? It hurts my heart that so many parents never get the answers to this to provide them some sort of closure.
We never found out, unexplained.
@@NatalieCrawfordMD thanks for searching. So they never found out. You just keep trying to conceive until you was successful?
I am still TTC and terrified about miscarriage if I ever do get pregnant. Going to the fertility clinic soon to figure out why there's no pregnancy yet.
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Can you do a video that talks about just still birth and placenta abruption please 🙏🏽
Thank you Natalie for sharing all the information on miscarriage I suffered one myself it was the most painful thing i went through I was wondering do you know how long the bleeding last after a miscarriage
Bless your heart💙 Thank you for sharing your story. Were you able to find out what was causing your MC’s?
No we were never able to fid out.
This might be an incredibly inappropriate time to point this out- but your dresser has a face. On a more serious note-
Thank you for sharing your video, and being a source of constant Education for so many.
Thank you Natalie. As you say you should tell others to get support, would you say tell everyone, like all friends and family? I'm 7 weeks along, and only told immediate family, and want to wait until past the first trimester.
Anyone who you would need support from if something goes wrong - that doesn't have to be your whole world, but it may be. When we let people in, we get more in return. Hugs.
@@NatalieCrawfordMD thank you, that's good to hear!
What did you do to help you have your rainbow babies? I’m such in a confused state I have had 6 losses and it’s unexplained. I really think something is really wrong. No one can help me 😩😢
So sorry. May i ask what weeks did your losses happen?
Did anyone start to hsve round ligament pain again after a miscarriage. Im getting that now and did a test at the doctors which he only checked for 2 mins on a strip. I need a blood test for my HCG, hormone levels. So we'll see today. Why am i feel all the heaviness in my pelvic area, back, hips and legs still. I get slight aches in my breasts but have not changed and are still a bit fuller and havent gone down. Im still thinking im pregnant. The aches are annoying and feel like contraction pains but slows me down doing things. Has anyone been through this. Its really confusing
I’ve had 5 miscarriages in the first trimester in this year. 😢 My lab work and my husbands has been normal. I do have 1 live child who is 3 years old. We have gotten our genetic testing done. Now I have to go see a specialist once I get my next menstrual cycle. I really want my rainbow baby.
Thank you for sharing. I had a miscarriage at 7w6d. I am now 9w4d. My OB has been monitoring my hcg levels weekly since week 4 . My hcg was 116500 week 8 and 116000 week 9. Is this a concern that it dropped 500 instead of rising after 7 days from previous test? I had a dating scan 7w3d and BPM was 129. I am 40 years old, my miscarriage happened in November and conceived 2 cycles later. Please i would really appreciate response ❤️
Can you touch on incompetent cervix? I just went through this in my second trimester. And it was something I wasn’t prepared for at all.
I've miscarried at 17weeks. My pregnancy went ok,..., Right until it didn't. I got contractions and gave birth. My son was born alive, and perfect, just too young to survive. I found out he was a baby boy while holding his slowly dying body trying to breathe. No doctor could help. And it's the worst pain I've ever experienced. Holding my son, watching him struggle, and then fade, and grow cold. And I miss him.I still don't know what caused the contractions. All the obvious causes were ruled out. But the result is obvious. I was supposed to be changing nappies and breastfeeding right now, but instead I'm writing this.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love.
If chief residents of fertility clinics are looking up what to expect websites, then none of us should be judged! lol
My DIL suffered 3 miscarriages in 3 years. 2 of them were in 2022. Double 🌈🌈 baby girl is due in November.
Dr. Natalie - sorry if this is an invasive question but did you take progesterone with any of your pregnancies? I’ve watched you video about it & my doctor advised me to take it after my first MC for my 2nd pregnancy but I was apprehensive bc it just doesn’t make sense to me. If MC could be due to genetic issues, would progesterone just prolong the inevitable?
I had Miscarriage to on February 5 after near 17 years of try our 1st baby is gone 😭😭😭😭 I found out I have cyst in uterus the size 10cm but my fertility doctor gave okay get pregnant but my baby didn't make it I was so sad I don't try I am scary of miscarriage again ,,I was 4weeks 5days pregnant ,,,,I am 35
But my doctor said my eggs are age good there 27 but I am 35
I had questions you think I got miscarriage cause my cyst in uterus,,,, I was in treatment 5 month but on 6 month we got pregnant natural
@@maiagrace7765 awww no way ,,cool who can help
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Dear doctor. I am looking for some advice on the internet but not having much luck and thought what better place to ask. I am currently 16 weeks pregnant after 3 very early miscarriages in the last couple of years. This is the first pregnancy through IVF and I was on Fragmin since the embryo transfer day. All seems to be going well so far. Today I was told I can now stop Fragmin. As much as it would he great to stop injections, I am very very nervous about just stopping it. Can I just add that I did not have a diagnosed problem with blood clotting Fragmin was given to me just in case, in addition to low dose aspirin. Is it really safe to stop it now and not worry sick?
Also have you seen the beautiful pictures of Hilary Duff’s at home labor? There just stunning. But you can see someone’s taking photos of her and there’s just so much pouring of love and support. My thought is, is bc it went well- had Chrissy’s labor gone well I would hope the reaction would’ve been of love & support. It just says a lot about how society views women. That we should grieve in private. I commend Chrissy bravery for letting us grief with her.
So I had an internal ultrasound and MRI to verify no uterine septum but had a vaginally septum that was surgically corrected. Do you think my chances are increases to have structural issues? I just had my first pregnancy and miscarriage.
I had 2 miscarriages, because of T shaped uterus, I am already after operation.
@@maiagrace7765 not any more, I am 8 weeks pregnant, and everything looks great.
@@maiagrace7765 not really ❤. I wish all the best and good luck, baby dust to you
So I had a positive test and wanted to do the progression line, I skipped yesterday but today my line is gone. I'm not bleeding. I did opk so I know when I ovulated and I should be 4w1d. This is my 4th child. Could I be losing the baby? I'm almost 39..... please help.
I just had a cornual ectopic and lost my baby at 8 weeks after 2 rounds of methotrexate. Can you please do a video on ectopic pregnancies and what the implications may be for future pregnancies and TTC again? My doctor didn't have many answers for me and I feel like there's not enough information about this topic readily available.
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could you please let us know about how far along when you had your miscarriages? I'm still in my first trimester, and im scared to death of having a miscarriage. So im literally counting days and hope the change of it decreases.
Not to scare you, but you can have a miscarriage in any trimester. I'm no doctor, but continue to stay calm, enjoy your experience, listen to your body, go to your appointments, and have faith that'll have a healthy baby. Xoxo
I had a miscarriage when I was 25. Now I am 30 and my husband and me are trying to have a baby since then. I feel so nervous and scared. It feels like your body failed you and the thought of it possibly happening again is terrifying. I also am scared somehow that I am not able to become pregnant anymore since the n, even if this is the first month we are trying.
@@maiagrace7765 Hey, I am good thank you! I am currently pregnant.
@@maiagrace7765 Not at the moment, no.
I got 2 miscarriages one last year and another one 21 of june😩😩😢 this year
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I'm sorry. What weeks were you?
I saw in a forum that they were blaming it on her Botox for her migraines. I think that is ridiculous to blame something so stupid with no evidence backing it up. Brave woman bless her.
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Thank you for sharing this.
Know I’m just waiting for the rainbow baby 😊
She had shown hate to other people. She’s no angel. Yes it sucks she went through that.
Now she has changed her story and is trying to say that she had to have the abortion to save her life. So what is it was it a miscarriage or was it an abortion she changed your story! A miscarriage is painful and why did she photograph this horrible pain ?
Wow! Thanks for sharing. I recently lost my baby and it is hard. I am trying to get through it and dealing with postpartum depression is super difficult. I believe I am getting better. I still have my moments and days. If the Lord says the same my husband and I want to try again. So hopefully God bless us with our rainbow 🌈 baby soon. May God bless you doctors and this family. May God give them their hearts desires. In Jesus name. Amen!!
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Just miscarried for the 4th time