Which of these things have you most often felt guilty about? 📼 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐏𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐬: Personal Development: tinyurl.com/y8dooleo Study, Success and Productivity: tinyurl.com/y6u47m7k Behavior to Avoid! : tinyurl.com/ybdt7tbs Work & Money: tinyurl.com/y6v98byu Inspirational Speeches: tinyurl.com/yazm69xv
I always think about where I was born! And it really makes me upset because I thought what if to be born in another place! But it's not that bad, I'm not also proud of it, and I respect and love all. Thank you for your video!
Summary: 1. Saying No 2. Wanting to Improve 3. Wanting to.get rid of toxic people 4. Not giving a damn about dramatic people 5. Where you are from 6. Spending the money you earn however you like 7. Things you have no control of 8. Taking risks 9. Saying when someone is lying 10. Your passions 11. Loving somebody
The ability to love is a truly great gift. It says nothing about whether the other(s) love you back, because it says nothing about whether or not they possess that gift themselves. As for what to do with that gift, be careful to protect it. Pearls and swine, so to speak. It's possible to get hurt too many times and end up pulling back completely. I know, I've been there.
I have felt guilty for all these 11 things at some points of my life. I wished my parents or someone could have told me earlier, Thank you for telling me now.
Getting rid of toxic ppl, having a good heart, i found that my encounters with ppl, ppl tend to be jealous or critical of my life choices to travel, hike or just try to be the happiest i can be
Number one is something that took me a lifetime to learn. I have always heard, if you are in a position to delegate tasks to people and you really need something done, that you should ask the busiest person you know to do it. The reason behind it, is that the person rarely says no and they feel obligated to complete the things they have agreed to. I was always THAT person and I never slept or had me time. The best thing I ever did for my health was to learn to tell people no. It would serve you well to learn that early. Obviously, don’t say no to everything, because you don’t want to be THAT person either. Find a balance between yes and no that affords you time to sleep a solid 7 or 8 hours at night and a couple of hours a day to do something you enjoy.
Always thought I would be a specific person’s friend until I realized they didn’t. It is hard to walk away when you care so much about them. I walked away and it is still hard but I have to do what is best for me.
Did you ever Try Real Direct relating or are you still playing the game . Perhaps you r friend is done wth people that can't honesty talk and reflect it so simple to mend when blame and shame behind doors gos away .let it go if it comes back it come back it yours of it lets you be bad guy it was never your. This my 5. Min of media .I can't live here no more .arrogant people never see truth always and forever point finger forever .gb dear one .thus is affecting my health now. Hoping loved one s find me in life ! Now my Dog is sick my daughter needs help my cousin wth m s. Is waiting fur call. life gets busy and i do have time but not play the STALKing game any more .everyone deserves more .I sorry I hurt you I sorry you felt not important I can't change thst but I will listen to you in Life all you ever had to do was say truth. Tell her you were sick open up . I am Done wth media and I didn't appreciate molly now sue - fly monkey is harassing .in narc subtle way. And i am a joke to the ones I cared about too esp my neice s and you got what I wanted from them too .I am not here to be ignored and pointed finger at anymore much narc abuse go o n on media by many .I am done and Colleen you are one thst chose punish over real apology sorry I can't deal wth that I know the good you did. Now it time to say sorry for Bethany to open up a bout sick and to realize when my dad died I had much responsibility to tackle .I didn't take you granted I was busy tired and you forget many things i did try to do and yes drift I get that now it time to no act like child no keep preaching on fb good and love but still hide and point finger. I done done done .
It is weird that at one time or for YEARS you think you and your bestie wil be friends for life...then just one day you realise he/she brings you down more than lifting you up...when you want to leave the friendship, he/she does not understand why you all of a sudden ghost them...it is because I can't tell a person who I was so deeply connected with in his/her face that we are not compatible anymore without offending them. Usually they think all is well, because they became the toxic ones...the problem is that I myself do not feel comfortable around them anymore, but I don't want to hurt another's feelings...so difficult 🙈
I can feel your pain, but I think that opening up to them directly could really be the best action you can take - maybe they don't realize what they are doing and think to be in good faith. After speaking to them, if they still don't understand it would probably be time to move on.
@@TheArtOfPersonalGrowth Thank you...I am going to have to spend time thinking about how I can execute this without too much damage...I am not good at this 🙈
The part about people who judge you for trying to improve while they just watch reality TV shows *cracked* me up! The most toxic person in my life is *that* person. Luckily, I cut them off months ago.
Great video! Except you do not choose who you love. You just love who you love, you choose what you do about it, yes, but you don’t choose who you love. Overall a well thought out and well done, wise video! Great drawings, too! Thank you!
Surround yourself with not positive people but real people who tells you the truth at the right times and is truly happy for you when you succeed on the right things
Wow, thought I'd never see the last one... But some may just feel guilty with themselves after everything goes wrong and ask "Why did I love her". Enough from me.
Be careful of judgmental people. They are toxic and their keen eyes to critique you and your decisions, choices undermine your special qualities and gifts. Just a warning from an 80 year old gal who knows the value of positive friends and family members.
Number 7 was the one for me I used to be afraid of the reactions of others when I asked the world for what I wanted I had felt that after the words left my mouth, the entire world was after me because I did not feel that I deserved it. It's Thanks to this video that I can now put that in the past tense. I am bold and appreciate it😁
Honestly know. Once I had an aunt who got upset with me for having cosmetic surgery and about a year later I had car trouble which led to a large expense, so she looked at it as an opportunity to shame me and expected me to agree with her. Well, I told her no, that I wasn't sorry. She never brought it up again. Loved it.
3. 4. and 9. have been hard for me, cause people in my life who've been toxic, dramatic, and/or liars have often been family, whether by blood or otherwise, and its been hard cutting them off completely cause you can't ever really escape family. i have been trying to work on the things on this list i can though, i've had many regrets and things to feel guilty about over the years, and learning to get over these things and accept my mistakes while trying not to make new one and accept those that i still do is quite the juggling act lol, i don't know how some people do it as easily as they seem to
I'm of two minds about this video. Each point made in isolation can alleviate a recurring problem. But as a whole the points in this video are part of a highly individualistic ethic, which while sure to be popular, eschews our role (or responsibility) in a given society or family. These roles are why folks endure some of these unpleasantries. The ethic of putting one's self first is not shared the world over but a defining characteristic of contemporary US culture.
"Spending money however you like." Is only valid to a point. If you make less then 100k a year, 100% agree. If you make a billion a year, no, you have a social responsbility to make the gears of economy run and help provide for those who can't provide for themselves, which, I would be more then willing to wager, 90% of the time, is because the profits of where they work were drawn off so hard that they are told the business can't afford to raise wages.
This is an excellent channel and sometimes it’s good just to hear your beliefs stated out loud by someone else. These insights would be particularly helpful to younger people who are trying to figure things out. Thanks and keep up the great work.
I particularly don’t really like the word “change” because when I hear that, I feel like it’s an obligation to change into something that’s not authentic. I prefer the terms “transformation” or “a work of art”. I’ve heard that people push others away because they were “taught that they should be accepted the way the are or get lost” but I don’t particularly agree with that, we are who we are and nobody is going to be perfect. It’s good to reflect but how would we know that it’s not just their problem and that it could be them that push us away? It’s ultimately not our responsibility to live up to other people’s perceptions of us
Thanks for taking my city as an example. Moqdishu is where I came from but I live USA almost 11 years. I gain alot of knowledge staying in USA and I'm hoping to spread the knowledge when I go back to moqdishu sooner or later. I appreciate the bottom of my heart for the American people.
Wow, the contrast of opinion and humbleness from the person from Santa Barbara and Moqdishu on the comments is quite apparent.. can’t control where you are from, but you can control your perspective and attitude about it 🌍
So, when my “best friend” got upset with me when I came out as lesbian and I told her I had a crush on one of our classmates, I shouldn’t have felt guilty. I also felt guilty when I became friends with one of my classmates that the same person who was upset I was lesbian got angry with me because, and I quote, “You’re MY friend, NO ONE ELSE’S!” She treats me like I’m some sort of award she gets to parade around and show off. She refuses to understand that I’m a human person. She degrades all my ideas. Not to mention whenever she forced me to do a group project with her, she’d make me feel guilty for wanting her to help! She also made me feel guilty about applying for School Captain in year 6 saying “You’re not allowed to because it’d take you away from me!” And she made me feel guilty for saying no to her when she wanted me to do something she wanted to do but I didn’t. But I drew the line when she flat out told me that I wasn’t allowed to have a social life outside of her and her twins sister.
Peyton’s World I managed to get rid of my only toxic friend ever. It was pretty intense. I said “if you are a true friend, say something to me. Otherwise im gone!” I felt guilty after that, since I wasn’t myself at that moment. So I sent my video diary of that day to her. Now I don’t care anymore, and I can run to my other friends if something would happen
Thank you The Art Of Personal Growth for this excellent video. I found your channel today and have subscribed. This resonates with me. I appreciate your help 💜😁💙
While I respect this video cause it is valid and relevant , ME? I only personally feel a sort of “guilt “ for not knowing “ something “ that could have saved someone I love from going through something that others around me knew when it was too late to stop it from happening I would say I would’ve saved myself from going through the same thing someone I loved went through but I would’ve rather went through it because it was deception that got me in it , but because I loved the person I never wanted them to be in the struggle , And when I figured out what others close to us knew it was too late to stop it no matter what I did to try and stop it from happening , REST in PARADISE ANGELA WARRICK
I agree with number 5, but not totally. Some people put you down by saying that, "I'm from a 1st world country, you on the other hand are from a 3rd world country. No way you are better than me".
Thank you for sharing, however this is a subconscious limiting belief. All toxicity negatively impacts your life. As you continue on your personal growth and development path, you'll learn this. Happy Global Ascension! Sending you Infinite Love and Rainbow Light 💖 🌈 XXX
To answer the question, though: I haven’t felt guilty about any of these things. I’ve definitely had to defend myself on many of them... but never felt guilty about it. (And, boy, were there arguments....)
Great video I agree with all of it but the last 1 number 11 at 8 minutes and 45 seconds when it says Falling in Love and you love whom you choose I don't think that's accurate I don't believe we have control over whom we love as far as being in love if it's family and friends we can choose who we love but when it comes to being in love and it's romantic if we could choose that it wouldn't be so painful
People who pathologically lie do not take criticism well, constructive or otherwise, so just nod and tell them you wish your life was as cool as theirs and pretend to be jealous so you can laugh with your real friends about it later
Yes. A friend just said sorry for the late message reply and I said messages are never late they are always on time and also I said you never ever have to apologize to me for anything. So anyway going to get in the bath now 💖💖💖💖💖💖
The one about the serial lier reminded me of a friend that I have known since high school he doesn't do it with me anymore thank goodness but when I first met him when I was in high school he lied about his Nationality he said he was French Canadian it wasn't long before I realized it was a huge lie he couldn't speak a word French but he was fluent in English Oh and every few weeks he was suposidly dating a girl from different nationalities. I only actually met 2 of the girlfriends. But whatever we are still friends now after about 15 years.
I really love this video, this resonates for me... I will say No to life purpose coz its not aligned to my religion as well as its not my desire to accomplish, its just I dont like doing that thing...
Guilt is not a Feeling. Guilt is a state of being. You are either guilty of something or innocent of it. The word you're looking for here is shame. Don't be ashamed.
Don't feel guilty for not liking or subscribing to this video it's your choice and you shouldn't feel pressured into liking it just cause they asked you to.
This is a very dangerous video because of the ambiguous statements made. A negative person can be defined as anyone who disagrees with your ideal: mom, pop, siblings, church, country, religion etc. We humans are fallible both in our ideals and actions. The best we can do is “be with them but not of them”🤫
I'm 82. I am saddened at the selfish tone of your "self improvement." The problem with society today, from my decades experience, is that the desire to give and care for others is seriously lacking. Whining "What about me" seems universal. Not many of this new generation sacrifice for others. Yet the greatest joy for many of my age is loving and giving, with some sacrifice, to others. No one should tolerate abuse from another, but often those annoying, clinging people (often childhood friends) simply need a word or a few moments time. What does it really take from us to give it? So, I dont agree, as you seem to imply , that it's ok to put one's self first. I believe that leads to self hate, unhappiness division and loneliness. We are social beings. Our survival, mental and physical, depends on supporting and caring for others. And they the same for us. Kindness and empathy tend to promote the same.
I doubt someone from a war zone like Somalia can just decide where they want to live. Another than that, I pretty much agree with everything you've said
Point 8 Taking Risks. Am I the only one who thinks comparing Napoleon and Hitlers invasions of Russia to not be an appropriate analogy of taking risks in a beneficial way! 🤣🤣
Be proud of and appreciate the culture that your genetic ancestors created, it is a reflection of the abilities you have within and if you move to a nicer area respect and adapt to the culture there because obviously their culture knows something more than yours did thats why you moved closer to them because they did a better job.
Which of these things have you most often felt guilty about?
📼 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐏𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐬:
Personal Development: tinyurl.com/y8dooleo
Study, Success and Productivity: tinyurl.com/y6u47m7k
Behavior to Avoid! : tinyurl.com/ybdt7tbs
Work & Money: tinyurl.com/y6v98byu
Inspirational Speeches: tinyurl.com/yazm69xv
I always think about where I was born! And it really makes me upset because I thought what if to be born in another place! But it's not that bad, I'm not also proud of it, and I respect and love all. Thank you for your video!
Summary:
1. Saying No
2. Wanting to Improve
3. Wanting to.get rid of toxic people
4. Not giving a damn about dramatic people
5. Where you are from
6. Spending the money you earn however you like
7. Things you have no control of
8. Taking risks
9. Saying when someone is lying
10. Your passions
11. Loving somebody
Thank you so much for this insight. 💕🙏😇
Thank you!
Thank you so much! You saved me 9:17 minutes of my boring life.
Thank you
Ty
05:44: Friends; 3 categories:
- Friends for a reason
- Friends for a season
- Friends for a lifetime
*Choose wisely* 🙂
For me falling in Love is always been a "One-Way Street," it is impossible to force the other person to love you back.
I feel ya Craig
@Bobs Slong
Don't Worry, I've seen Too Many Shit Relationships, don't want to fall in that trap.
@Bobs Slong
Not as a permanent situation.
The ability to love is a truly great gift. It says nothing about whether the other(s) love you back, because it says nothing about whether or not they possess that gift themselves. As for what to do with that gift, be careful to protect it. Pearls and swine, so to speak. It's possible to get hurt too many times and end up pulling back completely. I know, I've been there.
By learning to unconditionally love and accept yourself exactly as you are, you'll attract others who do too, in every aspect of your life 💖🌈 XXX
I have felt guilty for all these 11 things at some points of my life. I wished my parents or someone could have told me earlier, Thank you for telling me now.
Getting rid of toxic ppl, having a good heart, i found that my encounters with ppl, ppl tend to be jealous or critical of my life choices to travel, hike or just try to be the happiest i can be
Number one is something that took me a lifetime to learn. I have always heard, if you are in a position to delegate tasks to people and you really need something done, that you should ask the busiest person you know to do it. The reason behind it, is that the person rarely says no and they feel obligated to complete the things they have agreed to. I was always THAT person and I never slept or had me time. The best thing I ever did for my health was to learn to tell people no. It would serve you well to learn that early. Obviously, don’t say no to everything, because you don’t want to be THAT person either. Find a balance between yes and no that affords you time to sleep a solid 7 or 8 hours at night and a couple of hours a day to do something you enjoy.
Always thought I would be a specific person’s friend until I realized they didn’t. It is hard to walk away when you care so much about them. I walked away and it is still hard but I have to do what is best for me.
Did you ever Try Real Direct relating or are you still playing the game . Perhaps you r friend is done wth people that can't honesty talk and reflect it so simple to mend when blame and shame behind doors gos away .let it go if it comes back it come back it yours of it lets you be bad guy it was never your. This my 5. Min of media .I can't live here no more .arrogant people never see truth always and forever point finger forever .gb dear one .thus is affecting my health now. Hoping loved one s find me in life ! Now my Dog is sick my daughter needs help my cousin wth m s. Is waiting fur call. life gets busy and i do have time but not play the STALKing game any more .everyone deserves more .I sorry I hurt you I sorry you felt not important I can't change thst but I will listen to you in Life all you ever had to do was say truth. Tell her you were sick open up . I am Done wth media and I didn't appreciate molly now sue - fly monkey is harassing .in narc subtle way. And i am a joke to the ones I cared about too esp my neice s and you got what I wanted from them too .I am not here to be ignored and pointed finger at anymore much narc abuse go o n on media by many .I am done and Colleen you are one thst chose punish over real apology sorry I can't deal wth that I know the good you did. Now it time to say sorry for Bethany to open up a bout sick and to realize when my dad died I had much responsibility to tackle .I didn't take you granted I was busy tired and you forget many things i did try to do and yes drift I get that now it time to no act like child no keep preaching on fb good and love but still hide and point finger. I done done done .
The more you focus on your own happiness, the easier it will become.. they have their life to live and you have yours 💫
It is weird that at one time or for YEARS you think you and your bestie wil be friends for life...then just one day you realise he/she brings you down more than lifting you up...when you want to leave the friendship, he/she does not understand why you all of a sudden ghost them...it is because I can't tell a person who I was so deeply connected with in his/her face that we are not compatible anymore without offending them. Usually they think all is well, because they became the toxic ones...the problem is that I myself do not feel comfortable around them anymore, but I don't want to hurt another's feelings...so difficult 🙈
I can feel your pain, but I think that opening up to them directly could really be the best action you can take - maybe they don't realize what they are doing and think to be in good faith. After speaking to them, if they still don't understand it would probably be time to move on.
@@TheArtOfPersonalGrowth Thank you...I am going to have to spend time thinking about how I can execute this without too much damage...I am not good at this 🙈
I Never Said I Fancy You
It is NOT SELFISH to want a better life for yourself. So don't allow others to make you feel bad when you achieve something most others will not.
Gratuitously to make someone feel guilty is to personally injure, and so psychologically and emotionally maim them.
Thank you for your video and thank you youtube for suggesting it now. I appreciate.
The part about people who judge you for trying to improve while they just watch reality TV shows *cracked* me up! The most toxic person in my life is *that* person. Luckily, I cut them off months ago.
Great video! Except you do not choose who you love. You just love who you love, you choose what you do about it, yes, but you don’t choose who you love. Overall a well thought out and well done, wise video! Great drawings, too! Thank you!
Surround yourself with not positive people but real people who tells you the truth at the right times and is truly happy for you when you succeed on the right things
Wow, thought I'd never see the last one... But some may just feel guilty with themselves after everything goes wrong and ask "Why did I love her". Enough from me.
Or “him”...
Be careful of judgmental people. They are toxic and their keen eyes to critique you and your decisions, choices undermine your special qualities and gifts. Just a warning from an 80 year old gal who knows the value of positive friends and family members.
Number 7 was the one for me
I used to be afraid of the reactions of others when I asked the world for what I wanted
I had felt that after the words left my mouth, the entire world was after me because I did not feel that I deserved it.
It's Thanks to this video that I can now put that in the past tense. I am bold and appreciate it😁
I don't feel guilty for being single introverted girl and enjoying her life. 🙋💁😏. 😅#singlelifes
Honestly know. Once I had an aunt who got upset with me for having cosmetic surgery and about a year later I had car trouble which led to a large expense, so she looked at it as an opportunity to shame me and expected me to agree with her. Well, I told her no, that I wasn't sorry. She never brought it up again. Loved it.
This is right on. It’s taking me years to figure some of this out.
3. 4. and 9. have been hard for me, cause people in my life who've been toxic, dramatic, and/or liars have often been family, whether by blood or otherwise, and its been hard cutting them off completely cause you can't ever really escape family.
i have been trying to work on the things on this list i can though, i've had many regrets and things to feel guilty about over the years, and learning to get over these things and accept my mistakes while trying not to make new one and accept those that i still do is quite the juggling act lol, i don't know how some people do it as easily as they seem to
As long as you feel guilty about the way you may have treated you're parents or kids. Then that's half the battle.
thanks this is excellent! i love your videos.I appreciate it.I m seeing a psychologist now after so many years in turmoil and Im keeping it to myself.
Wonderful! Thank you very much Vince! 😀
I'm of two minds about this video. Each point made in isolation can alleviate a recurring problem. But as a whole the points in this video are part of a highly individualistic ethic, which while sure to be popular, eschews our role (or responsibility) in a given society or family. These roles are why folks endure some of these unpleasantries. The ethic of putting one's self first is not shared the world over but a defining characteristic of contemporary US culture.
Remember to like the video if you enjoyed it, everyone!
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This is a FANTASTIC video! Thank you for posting this! 🙌🏾
Favourite video till date!
Thank you
Glad you enjoyed it!
I learned a lot about life from this video! Thank you for making me feel better🍀✨
Thank you for this !☺🙏love it!❤❤❤
"Spending money however you like." Is only valid to a point. If you make less then 100k a year, 100% agree. If you make a billion a year, no, you have a social responsbility to make the gears of economy run and help provide for those who can't provide for themselves, which, I would be more then willing to wager, 90% of the time, is because the profits of where they work were drawn off so hard that they are told the business can't afford to raise wages.
This is an excellent channel and sometimes it’s good just to hear your beliefs stated out loud by someone else. These insights would be particularly helpful to younger people who are trying to figure things out. Thanks and keep up the great work.
I appreciate that!💙
I particularly don’t really like the word “change” because when I hear that, I feel like it’s an obligation to change into something that’s not authentic. I prefer the terms “transformation” or “a work of art”. I’ve heard that people push others away because they were “taught that they should be accepted the way the are or get lost” but I don’t particularly agree with that, we are who we are and nobody is going to be perfect. It’s good to reflect but how would we know that it’s not just their problem and that it could be them that push us away? It’s ultimately not our responsibility to live up to other people’s perceptions of us
Thank you so much for this
Thanks for taking my city as an example. Moqdishu is where I came from but I live USA almost 11 years. I gain alot of knowledge staying in USA and I'm hoping to spread the knowledge when I go back to moqdishu sooner or later. I appreciate the bottom of my heart for the American people.
Ma sharci baad raadinaysaa lol
@@Hargeysa ka ma hadlin sharci raadis. Fahan wx ka hadalay wlll.
@@Hargeysa sharci ma u bahni.
Wow, the contrast of opinion and humbleness from the person from Santa Barbara and Moqdishu on the comments is quite apparent.. can’t control where you are from, but you can control your perspective and attitude about it 🌍
Jealous scoffers who want to control and manipulate others are the types to avoid
So, when my “best friend” got upset with me when I came out as lesbian and I told her I had a crush on one of our classmates, I shouldn’t have felt guilty.
I also felt guilty when I became friends with one of my classmates that the same person who was upset I was lesbian got angry with me because, and I quote, “You’re MY friend, NO ONE ELSE’S!” She treats me like I’m some sort of award she gets to parade around and show off. She refuses to understand that I’m a human person. She degrades all my ideas. Not to mention whenever she forced me to do a group project with her, she’d make me feel guilty for wanting her to help! She also made me feel guilty about applying for School Captain in year 6 saying “You’re not allowed to because it’d take you away from me!” And she made me feel guilty for saying no to her when she wanted me to do something she wanted to do but I didn’t. But I drew the line when she flat out told me that I wasn’t allowed to have a social life outside of her and her twins sister.
Honestly, you are better off without this "friend", look to find a real friend that respects you instead.
The Art Of Personal Growth I’ve found a friend, had to keep that friend a secret because I’m figuring out how to let the toxic one down slowly
Peyton’s World I managed to get rid of my only toxic friend ever.
It was pretty intense. I said “if you are a true friend, say something to me. Otherwise im gone!”
I felt guilty after that, since I wasn’t myself at that moment. So I sent my video diary of that day to her.
Now I don’t care anymore, and I can run to my other friends if something would happen
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I was born in Texas and proud, but then I left and felt embarrassed when mom told me what the people were like
this list is quite under whelming !!!
Don't feel guilty about doing what's best for you......
but i do
@@behnamensafi9696 Think of it as a shit test for people wanting things from you. If they understand, then they care about how you feel.
Thanks You Verry much. From Indonesia 👍👍👍❤❤❤
Loving this channel
Great video! Loved it.. really!
Thank you so much!💙
I really love this videooo!! ❤️❤️❤️🌟
Glad you liked it!!💙
Thank you, your videos are the best
Thank you The Art Of Personal Growth for this excellent video. I found your channel today and have subscribed. This resonates with me. I appreciate your help 💜😁💙
Hi Margery, thank you very much and welcome to the channel! 🙂💙
I like how the thumbnail is 3D-ish. First one Ive seen. Good work!
Your right. Very true and correct.ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿🥷☯️😎
While I respect this video cause it is valid and relevant ,
ME? I only personally feel a sort of “guilt “ for not knowing “ something “ that could have saved someone I love from going through something that others around me knew when it was too late to stop it from happening I would say I would’ve saved myself from going through the same thing someone I loved went through but I would’ve rather went through it because it was deception that got me in it , but because I loved the person I never wanted them to be in the struggle ,
And when I figured out what others close to us knew it was too late to stop it no matter what I did to try and stop it from happening ,
REST in PARADISE ANGELA WARRICK
God Bless You , Thank You for your wisdom and insight
Thank you for this wonderful video ! More succes to your endeavors .
Thankyou
I agree with number 5, but not totally. Some people put you down by saying that, "I'm from a 1st world country, you on the other hand are from a 3rd world country. No way you are better than me".
Excellent tips...
This has been helpful.
Toxic friends are fine in moderation, as long as they aren't your close friends
Thank you for sharing, however this is a subconscious limiting belief. All toxicity negatively impacts your life. As you continue on your personal growth and development path, you'll learn this. Happy Global Ascension! Sending you Infinite Love and Rainbow Light 💖 🌈 XXX
I honestly don't get why I WOULD feel bad about any of these!!!!
I don't feel guilty about liking this video.
To answer the question, though: I haven’t felt guilty about any of these things. I’ve definitely had to defend myself on many of them... but never felt guilty about it. (And, boy, were there arguments....)
I couldn't understand my son's negativity.
I do now 😔
Strongly seconded !
Great video I agree with all of it but the last 1 number 11 at 8 minutes and 45 seconds when it says Falling in Love and you love whom you choose I don't think that's accurate I don't believe we have control over whom we love as far as being in love if it's family and friends we can choose who we love but when it comes to being in love and it's romantic if we could choose that it wouldn't be so painful
People who pathologically lie do not take criticism well, constructive or otherwise, so just nod and tell them you wish your life was as cool as theirs and pretend to be jealous so you can laugh with your real friends about it later
Yes. A friend just said sorry for the late message reply and I said messages are never late they are always on time and also I said you never ever have to apologize to me for anything. So anyway going to get in the bath now 💖💖💖💖💖💖
How about playing alone because the wife is in pain and can't enjoy the interaction?
Right. Or having some fun or rest or alone time - any balancing / self gratifying time - when your loved one can't through no fault of their own.
The one about the serial lier reminded me of a friend that I have known since high school he doesn't do it with me anymore thank goodness but when I first met him when I was in high school he lied about his Nationality he said he was French Canadian it wasn't long before I realized it was a huge lie he couldn't speak a word French but he was fluent in English Oh and every few weeks he was suposidly dating a girl from different nationalities. I only actually met 2 of the girlfriends. But whatever we are still friends now after about 15 years.
I love it ❤️ amazing I never forget thank you
Someone I like is probably what I feel guilty about cuz I like both white and black people (not to be rasict) but some people don't except it
I really love this video, this resonates for me... I will say No to life purpose coz its not aligned to my religion as well as its not my desire to accomplish, its just I dont like doing that thing...
Good video! :-)
#12 : eating chocolate donuts 😁
The third principal part of "lead" is "led."
Yeah, Led is the past participle of the Verb Lead
Never feel guilty for anything as at the end of the day as no one cares about you but yourself.
Absolutely True
Guilt is not a Feeling. Guilt is a state of being. You are either guilty of something or innocent of it. The word you're looking for here is shame. Don't be ashamed.
Don't feel guilty for not liking or subscribing to this video it's your choice and you shouldn't feel pressured into liking it just cause they asked you to.
you should never apologize for anything unless you did something intentionally to hurt somebody and later realize you were wrong
This is a very dangerous video because of the ambiguous statements made. A negative person can be defined as anyone who disagrees with your ideal: mom, pop, siblings, church, country, religion etc. We humans are fallible both in our ideals and actions. The best we can do is “be with them but not of them”🤫
I'm 82. I am saddened at the selfish tone of your "self improvement." The problem with society today, from my decades experience, is that the desire to give and care for others is seriously lacking. Whining "What about me" seems universal. Not many of this new generation sacrifice for others. Yet the greatest joy for many of my age is loving and giving, with some sacrifice, to others. No one should tolerate abuse from another, but often those annoying, clinging people (often childhood friends) simply need a word or a few moments time. What does it really take from us to give it? So, I dont agree, as you seem to imply , that it's ok to put one's self first. I believe that leads to self hate, unhappiness division and loneliness. We are social beings. Our survival, mental and physical, depends on supporting and caring for others. And they the same for us. Kindness and empathy tend to promote the same.
very SIMPLISTIC
I doubt someone from a war zone like Somalia can just decide where they want to live. Another than that, I pretty much agree with everything you've said
Could you please elaborate more . Thanks
@@alihamud322 Somalians can’t just decide to go live elsewhere, they don’t have the funds, the visa is difficult to get etc
@@Sofraso22 I got it. Thanks again. I live in USA and I hoping to run as president in Somali one day to eliminate that issue. Wish me luck buddy.
Should we feel guilty for saying the truth / being honest
Point 8 Taking Risks. Am I the only one who thinks comparing Napoleon and Hitlers invasions of Russia to not be an appropriate analogy of taking risks in a beneficial way! 🤣🤣
What if I love two people?
Be proud of and appreciate the culture that your genetic ancestors created, it is a reflection of the abilities you have within and if you move to a nicer area respect and adapt to the culture there because obviously their culture knows something more than yours did thats why you moved closer to them because they did a better job.
Loving someone not family approved
I don't feel Guilty. I get found guilty.haha.
What if you are that person
12. Eating
I have never felt guilty about these 11 things, why would you!
I don’t feel guilt
Not all on this video is meant for me, sometimes a little scenario on this video is not acceptable for me coz its not on my personality...
Facxxxx🔥🔥🔥🔥
I have led my team... Not I have lead my team.
I feel sorry for the 25 people who have this a thumbs down
Is it the guy from Santa Barbara? 🤷🏽♂️
i was born in santa barbara ..
Help toxic and dramatic people help them through the way of the God the Lord Jesus Christ
Why would anyone feel guilty about where they are from? That's weird.
Most of this is full on promoting narcissism.