Which of the 10 profiles described in this video irritates you the most? 📼 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐏𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐬: Personal Development: tinyurl.com/y8dooleo Study, Success and Productivity: tinyurl.com/y6u47m7k Behavior to Avoid! : tinyurl.com/ybdt7tbs Work & Money: tinyurl.com/y6v98byu Inspirational Speeches: tinyurl.com/yazm69xv
MY advice? KEEP to yourselves, focus only your goals, dreams ,and agenda! MAKES life easier and simpler! GENERALLY, most people are indeed fake/full of crap, and anyone can pretend to be genuine for a MOMENT! I am a lone wolf, and always have been, for these reasons! YOU would rather be alone and deal with it until you meet one really good person, than keep wasting your time on losers/liars! WHY BOTHER?
I've always been like this myself my whole life even though I've always been working along with others both in school and in business. You can't just be all alone though. The best thing you can do in life is to find a suitable occupation and career path and go all in. You can never be 100% independent, you need to find an organization and rely on co-dependence and mutual trust. In addition, you should get yourself a good partner but I would avoid marriage and be very careful about having kids. You should both be striving for financial independence.
@@True38 That sounds like more of a you problem, yes have kids otherwise the worlds population would instantly start decresing masivley. Rember your a kid yourself. Also the top bit was exactly what he was saying. Not the smartest person are you.
Yes, I have come across a fake person, whom I thought was my friend. But, as soon as she used me up for her needs. She drop me like a hot potato. I was hurt to realize this about her, but I learned a lot from this experience.
Oh, but you see almost all humans are like this. People don't care about you at all unless it's in their self-interest. People only change their behavior when they have to and when their life depends on it. Otherwise, most people could care less about you unless you have really close friends. But life is a game and if you want to truly succeed, then I suggest you read all of Robert Greene's books.
im actually in search of a guide how to fake my own personality prescisley for this reason. everybody is fuckin fake why would i miss out oin all the perks?
@Ephemeral Man I agree 100%. Life is a game though whether you want to play it or not, we all participate in it. But you get to choose how you want to play the game, and that's the best deal you can get. You say you are a caring and unselfish person? Then perhaps the best game you can play is in the health sector.
I think insincerity happens to everyone, to some degree: I think it becomes "fake" when it is a habit, or an attitude that dominates the personality. I smile and acknowledge customers or people I work with, but I keep most at arms' length. I'm doing a job, not there on my personal time.
And you're not there to make friends. There's people at work who are of lowered intelligence. They sometimes engage me with some tale or nonsense. I'm polite and try to keep it short and move on. Am I being fake? I'm just trying not to get bogged down with them and be a rude person tell8ng them to get lost.
One dynamic I see of far people regularly is offering something that sounds quite nice. Like “Oh you must come round for lunch sometime” or “Yes you can stay at mine if you have trouble due to travel restrictions” When I have followed up on this, suddenly they go quiet. It was never a genuine offer.
@@theunitedof Yes, I see this all the time. I would rather they not say or offer anything. This paints a more sincere outcome. I try my hardest not to offer things that I know deep down inside that I am not capable of giving.
Your point on ghosting could be modified. The narcissist ghosts... but sometimes it’s necessary to cut someone off when you’ve done all you can and you realize the relationship is not healthy. Some people won’t take “no more” for an answer. At this point, for the benefit of everyone involved, a decision must be taken to walk away. Some friendships that are co-dependent or narcissistic in nature are not relationships so much as they are transactions of manipulation - from both sides. If you’re lucky enough to eventually identify this, then it’s not only right to walk away cutting off all communication, but it’s also necessary if you want to be healthy.
Exactly! I’ve always said, “If you listen to people long enough they’ll tell you exactly who they are.” Sometimes you have to listen for a long time to learn they’re not someone you want to be friends with.
I really appreciate your comment! I had to bail on a friendship because I realized that person was toxic. I’ve wondered since then if I was at fault for ending it, but after reevaluating it several times I now know there was no other way.
@@Mowzelle - Each person has to figure out what is good in their relationships and what is just bad and shouldn't be tolerated. Bailing on a friendship has never sounded to me like a healthy thing, but an arrogant excuse to look good. Virtue-signal. I have no clue if that is true for you, just giving my honest feedback on the phrase. Yes, relationships can be toxic, of course, and especially when abusive then it is understandable if the hurt one leaves. Or at least separates a bit in case the wrongful one makes changes and grows.
@thetamofmemes6968 - Your point can also me modified or nuanced a bit more. It can be right or it can be wrong to "walk away". Each relationship is unique and to be taken on a case-by-case basis. What I might not find right for you to tolerate might be doable for you and worth it. Vice versa. There is some commonality in how severely manipulative relations can be unhealthy. At the same time, one person's level of narcissism might match up well with another's level of narcissism. Granted, we ALL have narcissism to be aware of and keep in check. I'm with you on the "no more" types to enforce a hard boundary with. What is food for more thought is what we deem "healthy" vs boundaries vs relational commitment vs any hypocrisy on our part in the mix.
"#9. They are Gossipers." Years back I worked with a man who had something bad to say about Everyone!! Behind their backs, of course. One day I said to him: "You have so much to say about others. What do you say about me when I'm not around?" He never gossiped in front of me again (although, I am quite sure he maintained his ugly behavior with all others).
I like that man, it's a sad way to carry on though isn't it and having to live our lives round people like that though isn't it. N yes dogs are more loyal.
I recently experienced this with another mother in my child's school. It was obvious when we got in a disagreement and didn't speak to one another all summer long. Then when school started up again she texted me and apologized passive aggressively; "I think we should put the past behind us for the kids' sake." I agreed, out of peace for the kids, and didn't get too close this time. Then her son got in trouble in class and she automatically blamed MY child for the behavior. Calling my child manipulative (a 9 year old), and telling me that no one likes me at the school, etc. I learned my lesson. She's just toxic! Burn me once shame on you. Burn me twice shame on me!
It's sad, but I've met these toxic types. "No one likes you." Great! I don't like them either, and now they don't need to talk to me ever again. It should be noted that one out five (20%) won't like you no matter what you do. So just put them in that 20 percentile and move on and forget about them.
I have a few in my family, a few at work, a,lot at church! So you can assume I have to be careful about what I'm saying and doing at all times. Very good video ! Thanks!
I've been around an entire county FULL of people like this. Collectively, they're vultures hovering over a dying animal. How did I solve the problem? I moved out of that state.
The most common one I've dealt with is ghosting. Especially with covid causing lack of in person, people have gotten so comfortable with being able to ghost others and feel like they get away with it
Just listen to how someone talks behind their backs... My coworker smiling in front. As soon as the person walking out the door, they started talking very bad about the person like there is no tomorrow.
My experience is that our society is "sick". (Mostly due to the damnable internet.) As a result, Nobody trusts anybody, anymore. I try to do what is right, beneficial and un-selfish. Yet no one believes me. After 66 years of living, I have concluded: "No good deed goes un-punished." I am quite literally "tired" of living with this pain and frustration.
I don't have a ton of friends, but the ones I do have are supportive, and giving. I mean, trust is rare, and only given after a deal of time ----- I've known these people since I was 17. I've seen (and gone through) thick and thin, and they are still here. Blessed, man, don't I know IT!
I finally obtained a team leader position. Another was assigned to my department. I tripled timed my speed and work ethic only to make some mistakes. The mistakes were used to remove me from my position for the new complainer that dose not know everything about what needs to be done. He is supper kind to all.
As I have turned from a child to an adult to a girlfriend to a wife then a Mom, I observed people. Just by listening to that person talk you can tell what they really are. I don’t have many women friends and when I did they were always older and mature.
@@Ruth-vy1qj ...Preach it, sister!...Too much 'fakeness' in God's House...But intercede for such fake ppl, to repent & learn(even if necessary in a hard way) from their mistakes or blunders!... Lord, send a cleansing, purging & empowering, Holy Spirit revival to Your ppl, IJNA... Shalom.
I have, I was friends with someone who was fake and had me fooled. They fed me bullshit about their ex wife and when I called them out on it they stopped talking to me.
I refuse to be a part of any of these situations. So I have had to remove myself from several situations. My family is caught up in these behaviors. I am learning to change my thoughts and actions based on any of the points made here. It's been really difficult to admit to myself my codependency on just about anyone I can latch onto, I know when it began, I know why it happened. Some of these behaviors can be very subtle, but to realize that some of these traits are underlying my whole life is shocking to me. Thought I was further along the journey to autonomy. I am 63 years old so I am a little bit sad about all this not real living.
I keep my circle of trust very small and as soon as I see a sign of fakery, I pull my energy back very quickly and make them think it was their idea to take the trash out.
One easy way to figure this out is talking truths to a person They will get angry and debate u every step of the way When theyre wrong they wont admit and they'll try to make u feel bad for knowing stuff or saying the knowledge out loud because they are naturally against truth
Some of these false people like taunting, in that case, you have to be clever and patient. Act as if you don't know and let them fall into their own trap.
Yes, I know these fake people but you actually bought me to the realisation that I from time to time adopt a fake person to accomplish my goals. I will still prefer to think noone knows when I'm doing it
it's 2023 today - schools still don't teach you this :) Instead the teachers (some of them) impose on you "knowledge" which will let you think, there are more than 2 genders and you can change yours whenever and as many times as you want LOL Are these teachers fake puppets of the eveil forces? I believe so.
Yeah, the guy on our selling competion team who at the end of each day asked how I did financially. I took it for his reaching out in concern but he was plotting to be top seller. And he did beat me by a few dollars and won the competition. But he lost my respect permanently.
I'm so glad that God had given us the capacity to discern decency and distinguish between disciple and deviation- spot fake people right away. It's just dumbfounding that most of us were taught to see no evil/ hear no evil, stay in your lane, turn the other cheek. It's all good to give people the benefit of doubt- but some people are conniving! And we are supposed to just let it go?! The thing that gets to me is there's a stigma around calling fake folks out for their crap. It's crazy/ confounding/ disturbing that we got to be content/complacent with cleaning up their corruptions, controversies and lackadaisical contributions. Who clears the air and why wait until their lies catch up to them?! And it's an Almighty shame that some people can't be held accountable for what they say they will do. Since they lack accountability and grace, my prayers go out to their innocent unsuspecting victims, especially the children. There's a moral behind every great story. And we must give God His Glory. For Christ's sake, kick the stigma. Raise the bar. God's Children deserve His Amazing Grace.
I think Christianity has made me a fake person. Suppressing my raw human emotions just to please God. Ghosting people because I think they’re bad influence (even though Jesus sat with sinners) trying to find the fine line of being walked over or being unreliable. I hate gossip. I’m handsome but lack confidence. I’ve grown to hate the word fake so much because I felt it said about me (at least I think) I can’t tell what’s reality or paranoia anymore and it drives me insane. I feel fake is someone who deliberately just tells lies, like they consciously know they are lying just to get over on someone. Like you know good and well you cheated on your girl and she asks you and you tell the most crazy story. That’s fake, that’s just down right lying. People call me fake off of my body language like you say, but people don’t understand there’s traumatized people, people who just aren’t used to certain cultures, just down right nervous. Not everyone is so charismatic and friendly. Doesn’t make them dangerous or a threat. My dad and mom live quiet Christian lives and so do I, but people scoff at me, I don’t say it’s because I’m Christian I just feel like I’m doing something wrong, or in the sense “fake”. Just pray for me, I pray for myself and I know good and well God hears me but maybe he’ll make a way when someone else prays for me.
@@RaymondCJV Thank you. That was well said and well received. Did you know that once you feel like your prayers are being heard- you will realize that you are already on the right path? You are already within God's circle of influence. And maybe, you have always been on the right path? Your growth and development depends on your sense of agency and personal accountability. Or maybe your prayers are your own mission with a message to go do God's Bidding? Service to God gives you so much more purpose and perspective, that you begin to focus on a bigger picture; and focusing on exactly what you must do next becomes the sense of urgency for your personal agency. I believe God has always revealed different objectives to different people, and those revelations become the driving force behind each individual's mission with a message. And the results are a perpetuating cycle for guiding us back to doing God's neverending bidding and witnessing His everlasting Glory and being empowered by the Christ's ever loving example of Grace. My prayers are for people like you. I wish you the best. I still tend to wrestle with those kinds of internal battles that left me second guessing myself. I was easily distracted until I started to focus my thoughts and desires on my mission with a message that God has revealed to me. And my mission with a message has became my purpose and my cause and my call to action all bundled up to achieve one goal: Keep the beacon on God and beckon His people. And it is like the hardest job I ever had because I am currently the only one who can fully understand how important it is to deliver my mission with a message to God's people. So, I'm trying to create something for everybody, and it's seemingly impossible, but it is the day to day journey that keeps me going. The process to progress. I have to ask for help; knock on doors; and keep seeking. I had to pivot and push, rinse and repeat. My message is "help me help you help you." Even though we might not ever physically meet, my mission pertains to my good intentions to put something worthwhile in your hands as proof that God has blessed us all with the innate ability to manifest our own spiritual prayers, thoughts, and desires into deeds, progress, and reality. And His believers will manifest His Blessings by taking action. Fake people are just hypocrites that may never know how hypocritical they are being to God and His people. That's why their intentions rarely manifest in their favor. Did you know that Jesus Christ was not a Christian? Christ was a titled attributed to him because of what he represents. Christ is defined as the one who is chosen to be anointed. But we are allowed to be like Christ, bka Christians, once we accept him as our spiritual leader and our perfect example for how we know better to serve God and serve our neighbors. (WWJD)? King David is another perfect example for how to praise God- and although King David did the worst sin and broke God's commandments- he was still God's favorite. Every last one of us are some kind of sinner. But in today's world, the more appropriate word is hypocrite because we see fault in others but refuse to accept the faults within ourselves. In psychology, it's a narcissistic trait but we are all on the narcissistic spectrum. Being ready, willing, and able to do the Good Lord's Bidding is a blessing- psychotherapy helps us wrap our heads around objectivity, having strong family values helps us feel better about doing our individual part- but it's within the individual to fulfill his agenda. Self-efficacy is how we relay our intentions to God and His people. We can look at Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob for perfect examples of that being displayed. In today's world, we also have easier access to all kinds of distractions. You stay your course in serving God. It might even lead you to a whole new community away from the peers whose influence tends to leave you second guessing yourself and your obligation to God. Joseph and Job are perfect examples of faith. During my spiritual journey, I had to unlearn a lot of things we can call social norms today. The Biblical books like Mathews; Romans; Proverbs; Ecclesiastes; Job; and Genius revealed a stronger sense of objectivity to me that helped me better understand my small but significant role in this world. I have to live in this world, for Christ's sake, and keep my mind, body, and spirit prepared to be a vessel for doing God's Bidding. But sometimes I feel like I am blessed and cursed at the same time. And sometimes I know that I am blessed and I feel cursed because things are not manifesting in the way that I prayed for. Sometimes I know I am cursed and I feel blessed because I have been given a mission with a message that only I can deliver. I have to take all of the risks and be liable for all of the results. I have to ask for all of the resources. I have to reach. I have to recognize, recall, rely, relay, relate, release, relive, revive, reiterate, reap etc., etcetera until my physical life ends my contributions to my mission to do God's Bidding. What is my reward for endlessly trying to fulfill an everlasting mission? Well, the Good Lord has gotten me this far and I still haven't upheld my end of the bargain. Why should I even feel like I deserve a reward?
@@nodozhit yeah man i had read that twice, it really hit home, its really like you been in my exact same shoes but maybe like 4 years ago haha, this really changed my perspective and up until this point even ive been growing in a way that makes me ready to hear this, like perfect timing almost. i like those books of the Bible as well, to me they are the main ones that help me understand. Focusing on my mission, which i question because i question how humble i am to feel worthy of ever trying to complete some bidding for God. it was Jermiah that said his mission was burning in his bones and he just had to proceed with it. im a bit in fear of the persecution, even somewhere it says in the Bible "a prophet isnt received in his hometown" and it saddens me that i think im witnessing that, but then i even question that because honestly i hope thats not the case and its just all in my head, because it changes how i love them. i want to genuine love others before anything but i do feel i was called to complete some mission. fear of what comes with it is a huge block as well as my lack of self control.
I think most people are fake! All it takes is fear and insecurity which society runs on and you've got yourself a large group of self-important people, which is what confidence looks like to the insecure person.
I totally agree. Fake people are the majority now and it's quite scary. What's troubling to me is the length some people will go to make you feel bad just to compensate for their own insecurity. I've experienced this from close family members and it has resulted in the lost of that relationship. It is truly heartbreaking.
Sonja...ouch!...I feel convicted...what a hit below the belt!...Truth is often bitter, but it must be swallowed if we must improve or get well... However, everyone is flawed in some way. We need a Savior. Thank God, He's Jesus(Rom.3:23-24; 10:13). When we sincerely call upon Him, a spiritual encounter will begin, & positive changes become inevitable... Thanks... Shalom.
Until one finds his or her authentic nature, most people will appear to be fake, including oneself, who has been manipulated into human-doings and not to be an authentic human being. Good luck to all. Namaste 🙏
Dave Welby...U are talking sense, buddy!...Lord, help us to discover our true self & become human 'beings' instead of 'doings', Amen!...But I think this is too hard for most ppl to do without external help... However, if they sincerely call upon Jesus, He'll give them a spiritual encounter that will set them on the right course (Rom.3:23-24; 10:13)... Everyone of us is flawed in some way...& we all need the Savior!... Thanks... Shalom.
I disagree with number 3...I will cut someone out of my life when I suddenly realised that I no longer want them in my life.....that doesn't make me fake..
Exactly! Or maybe someone has been abused or suffered trauma and is afraid to love or receive love. Their self talk may also cause them to "ghost" others.
I've struggled with a-lot of these descriptions from time to time. I don't consider myself fake though. I think it is a human tendency to be selfish and exhibit one, many or all of these.. However, I truly believe, if a person wants to overcome these negative personal qualities, then one has to look to a person who exhibited none of these traits and work diligently to imitate Him and allow his spirit and character to take control of our lives. This person is the one, the only, Jesus Christ. If you look anywhere else, you might win a battle here and there, but you won't win the war.
I struggle with this tendency daily. At work, I'm tempted to take credit for someone else's work. Also, I feel the urge to make up an excuse of why I can't help someone at work. However, I'll do the opposite. God's given me enough strength to be able to do the right thing. I still have the URGE to be selfish though.
Most of the the people I grew up with(some are dead now obviously) were fake in one way or another and it wasnt until the pandemic hit and suddenly my situation and boundaries changed that their true natures became apparent. How did I deal with it? I stopped hanging out with them.
Cut ties, avoid them, go no contact if possible. If there are too many other people involved, question their positions and whether they are innocent bystanders or if they are enabling the fake person. If others pretend the fake person is fine bc they benefit somehow, avoid or cut ties with them too. U may find yourself needing to go no contact with more than one kinda fake person bc of one main fake person, but that's not ur problem. Life is short.
Hi number 3 is your absolutely correct because my boyfriend left me no reason he not answer my calls then I understand is just using me I am so upset 😔 like 6 month later I realise he's using me thank you for showing my thinking is real thank you so much ❤️
I'm too real, I'll be like "you flakier than Kellogs". My vibes are strong, so people can pick up that I see right thru them. Doesn't stop some from trying tho.
These kinds of people are all I have encountered in the region I live and in our extended families. There seem to be pockets of cultures that operate in fake personas. I have dealt more with this my entire life than kindness. However, when my husband and I left this region to go to the south we encountered more kind and genuine people and realized how strange our region was. We also lived in the midwest in small towns and saw the down-home friendliness without gile or phoniness. Now we are back in the region again and there is more fakeness than anything else. There is also hypersensitivity to correction or honesty.
5:02 This one depends on what "more efficient"; do we mean it in the traditional sense or as an euphemism for "bogged down by a million new complications", like the current definition of convince? These little details make all the difference.
ONCE you realize that someone is fake, simply and quickly MOVE ON, instead of stressing yourself out over their behavior! ALLOW them to move on and waste someone ELSE,S time ,NOT yours! THEY are just insecure, crying on the inside! FEEL good to put down others , which is sad! DONT waste energy, time on them! LIFE is too short, hold out for quality over QUANTITY!
I hope this is on a continuim. I have been this person I listen politely and respond politely to issues I don't always agree with or care about. Sometimes, you have to let people vent before you they can move on.
Some what generalised, not taking in to account the need to hide traumatic past, and masking, issues with this is people have a variety of dynamic changes that flip in and out of these. So all people are fake, until they maintain boundaries of self and acceptance of others suffering.
I understand that fake people deceive to get all the way to the top but I rather be real. Being real let's me discern from those that are fake and I cut them off.
The question to passiv aggression is, is it really worth the fight? To fight without opening the palms of hands. After analyising the person, people infront of me, aren't doing me any good just harming. Using acting skills to scary them away or get rid. This is situational. Remember let in the good ones Keep the bad ones out.
Also people who always use insulting others as a way to compliment you. Like, “wow, you do that so good, much better than those people.” This is not a genuine compliment, they are just using it and you as a means to vent their hatred for a certain group of people, and probably don’t even mean the nice thing they said to you.
I rely on God's spirit. This may not happen straight away, as God allows their dominion, but after awhile God will say no more. I can only quote the verse "The heart is wicked and deceitful above all things" and the verse "If anyone deceives others, he deceives themselves."
Very interesting video and well drawn. I have done my share of disappearing on people when i was younger. I was unable to tell them to their face l want comfortable with them, so l just vanished. It isn't a great behaviour but was the best i could do at the time as i was very shy and struggled with speech.
Not many, maybe..but they run with packs that enjoy the seeming perks of being slick. Sometimes, it's the best folks that are magnets for the type, which leave no time or room for better people to come into the frame.
People with various mental health issues can share some of these behaviours, doesn't mean their fake, just trying to deal with their own issues. Like social anxiety, fear of abandoment/rejection, fear of conflict and so on. This video doesn't take that into account at all.
I gossip about people who im staying I asked her daughter if she was mad at me and she told me no I just don't like it when you talk crap about my family. And she told me that I need to stop playing the victim.
I keep them from becoming aware that I know they are fake and just distance myself and limit my exposure to them to mutually beneficial reasons. Strictly business.
near all relationships will only continue if there is mutual benefit, if it stops then the relationship will end sooner than later. most people are phony and fake as they find out what benefits they can get out of yu. then if there is mutual interest the relationship could last months or it could last years until one or the other or both parties do not get a benefit anymore and have no interest in continuing the relation ship and it ends.. disapointing some of the times, but the more time gose by the less and less amount of "friends" a person thought they had will still remain.
Ex boyfriends flattery then bullying me putting me down. Telling me how better I look when I was younger and then go on to say they deserve better. What a joke. Also the kids father still a pain uses other distractions like work or other things so they don't have to look after my kids and they humiliate me when I stand up for myself. Met an ex yesterday he is 67 so old looking he has got a cheek thought he'd changed but no still putting me down. Im 40 quite attractive. Not only that they are hanging about me as if they are entitled. Not cool🤣🤪🤪🤪🤪. Im over it. Justice served.
I discovered I might be a fake person on several aspects of your video (ghosting, etc.). I don't trust people, same people who eat animals, I hate hunting, I don't like a society that praises workaholics and blame losers, 9 to 5 jobs, 5 days at work a week, parties, people who criticize others constantly, who cheat, steal, brag, etc. No sorry I don't trust people so I am necessarily a fake regarding your video.
@@essgee4225 you are conflating two different topics here, authentic behavior, your personality and the office behavioral code... displaying a professional behavior in an office setting is very different than showing your true personality... I bet you have been taken to HR several times since you don't know the difference...
@@lotusmojo even outside work, most people are fake. You really think the next person truly cares about you? Most people, key word most, could care less about you deep inside because they are wrapped up in their own worlds and have their own issues to worry about. Everyone wears a mask, you don’t know someones motive unless you’ve really analyzed what this person is about. In my case, maybe not yours, but living in a big city, 90% of people I interact with are fake.
@@essgee4225 I can tell you have been traumatized by something very horrible, and I feel sorry for your inability of feeling empathy for other humans, but when I see people around me even if I don't know them I care for them... in my defense I am not a Sociopath or Psychopath... I'm an empath the total opposite...I care for you darling but you may need to get some professional therapy, you seem to suffer pain from deep wounds in your soul...
I think people have gotten more subtle than this. We've become a generation of observers from watching tv all day and tv has become great in its psychological depth.
With a certain friend, I have learned to read between the lines. When she invites me over and/or wants to go to church - what that really means is: Loan me money, buy lunch and grocercies, and be the driver. No thanks!
I’m usually the person if I don’t bother you don’t bother me, but when you try to shut people up and silence them, that’s not good either, freedom of speech goes to those who earn it and it’s also a human right, a fearful person tries to shut people up for speaking truth.
Which of the 10 profiles described in this video irritates you the most?
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Fake praise and fake compliments
All of it.
No
I downplay a great deal of my achievements and I think I'm passive aggressive. But these hardly make me feel like a fake person. 😅
Better to have no friends than fake friends.
I toss fake friends to the curb the moment I realize they are fake, untrustworthy and disloyal.
The way you can tell someone is fake is by the amount of effort they will use to help you.
MY advice? KEEP to yourselves, focus only your goals, dreams ,and agenda! MAKES life easier and simpler! GENERALLY, most people are indeed fake/full of crap, and anyone can pretend to be genuine for a MOMENT! I am a lone wolf, and always have been, for these reasons! YOU would rather be alone and deal with it until you meet one really good person, than keep wasting your time on losers/liars! WHY BOTHER?
I hear you
I have met a couple genuine people but until then keep doing what you are doing! For sure there are tons of fake people!
I've always been like this myself my whole life even though I've always been working along with others both in school and in business. You can't just be all alone though. The best thing you can do in life is to find a suitable occupation and career path and go all in. You can never be 100% independent, you need to find an organization and rely on co-dependence and mutual trust. In addition, you should get yourself a good partner but I would avoid marriage and be very careful about having kids. You should both be striving for financial independence.
@@True38 That sounds like more of a you problem, yes have kids otherwise the worlds population would instantly start decresing masivley. Rember your a kid yourself. Also the top bit was exactly what he was saying. Not the smartest person are you.
Ima lone wolf but people consider me fake because of that? Do you get that too?
valid points . ghosting can also be rooted in depression
Yes, I have come across a fake person, whom I thought was my friend. But, as soon as she used me up for her needs. She drop me like a hot potato. I was hurt to realize this about her, but I learned a lot from this experience.
Oh, but you see almost all humans are like this. People don't care about you at all unless it's in their self-interest. People only change their behavior when they have to and when their life depends on it. Otherwise, most people could care less about you unless you have really close friends. But life is a game and if you want to truly succeed, then I suggest you read all of Robert Greene's books.
im actually in search of a guide how to fake my own personality prescisley for this reason. everybody is fuckin fake why would i miss out oin all the perks?
It you shouldnt of gave her you $. You think the last guy got her off because his "money"
@Ephemeral Man I agree 100%. Life is a game though whether you want to play it or not, we all participate in it.
But you get to choose how you want to play the game, and that's the best deal you can get.
You say you are a caring and unselfish person? Then perhaps the best game you can play is in the health sector.
Women are fake
I think insincerity happens to everyone, to some degree: I think it becomes "fake" when it is a habit, or an attitude that dominates the personality. I smile and acknowledge customers or people I work with, but I keep most at arms' length. I'm doing a job, not there on my personal time.
And you're not there to make friends. There's people at work who are of lowered intelligence. They sometimes engage me with some tale or nonsense. I'm polite and try to keep it short and move on. Am I being fake? I'm just trying not to get bogged down with them and be a rude person tell8ng them to get lost.
@SocialistDistancing 100% agree
One dynamic I see of far people regularly is offering something that sounds quite nice. Like “Oh you must come round for lunch sometime” or “Yes you can stay at mine if you have trouble due to travel restrictions” When I have followed up on this, suddenly they go quiet. It was never a genuine offer.
Yup, happened all the time. "When you need anything, let me know..." But when you call, they never answer. You actually just call to say hello... 😂
@@theunitedof
Yes, I see this all the time.
I would rather they not say or offer anything. This paints a more sincere outcome.
I try my hardest not to offer things that I know deep down inside that I am not capable of giving.
Your point on ghosting could be modified. The narcissist ghosts... but sometimes it’s necessary to cut someone off when you’ve done all you can and you realize the relationship is not healthy. Some people won’t take “no more” for an answer. At this point, for the benefit of everyone involved, a decision must be taken to walk away. Some friendships that are co-dependent or narcissistic in nature are not relationships so much as they are transactions of manipulation - from both sides. If you’re lucky enough to eventually identify this, then it’s not only right to walk away cutting off all communication, but it’s also necessary if you want to be healthy.
Exactly! I’ve always said, “If you listen to people long enough they’ll tell you exactly who they are.” Sometimes you have to listen for a long time to learn they’re not someone you want to be friends with.
I really appreciate your comment! I had to bail on a friendship because I realized that person was toxic. I’ve wondered since then if I was at fault for ending it, but after reevaluating it several times I now know there was no other way.
@@Mowzelle - Each person has to figure out what is good in their relationships and what is just bad and shouldn't be tolerated. Bailing on a friendship has never sounded to me like a healthy thing, but an arrogant excuse to look good. Virtue-signal. I have no clue if that is true for you, just giving my honest feedback on the phrase. Yes, relationships can be toxic, of course, and especially when abusive then it is understandable if the hurt one leaves. Or at least separates a bit in case the wrongful one makes changes and grows.
@thetamofmemes6968 - Your point can also me modified or nuanced a bit more. It can be right or it can be wrong to "walk away". Each relationship is unique and to be taken on a case-by-case basis. What I might not find right for you to tolerate might be doable for you and worth it. Vice versa. There is some commonality in how severely manipulative relations can be unhealthy. At the same time, one person's level of narcissism might match up well with another's level of narcissism. Granted, we ALL have narcissism to be aware of and keep in check. I'm with you on the "no more" types to enforce a hard boundary with. What is food for more thought is what we deem "healthy" vs boundaries vs relational commitment vs any hypocrisy on our part in the mix.
"#9. They are Gossipers." Years back I worked with a man who had something bad to say about Everyone!! Behind their backs, of course. One day I said to him: "You have so much to say about others. What do you say about me when I'm not around?" He never gossiped in front of me again (although, I am quite sure he maintained his ugly behavior with all others).
That is the the best saying. I wanna steal your quote and say it to gossipers.
Good on you for saying that You sure put him in his place!
Some of my family members honestly.
Same here
Same
@@georgias9211 even when you're independent they'll still let you down.
My sister is sincere ,she tells me she wants me out my mums house
@@bobbob9364 don't listen to her just stack your money and be independent
This is majority of people in society! If you want to survive in society don't put all your trust in a human being, having a pet dog is more loyal.
Or a cat
How true, sadly enough.....
WORD
I like that man, it's a sad way to carry on though isn't it and having to live our lives round people like that though isn't it. N yes dogs are more loyal.
I believe that Pets can make Better Companions than some people
I'm fake to the people I work for, just so I can feed and house the people i provide for....
Rock on the art of silence is what they hate. Always!
Even I don't like them, they would never know it 😂 not because I am fake. I call it being civilized. 😂😂🤣🤣
I just love how you have equated politicians, criminals and celebrities. Absolutely amazing!
I recently experienced this with another mother in my child's school. It was obvious when we got in a disagreement and didn't speak to one another all summer long. Then when school started up again she texted me and apologized passive aggressively; "I think we should put the past behind us for the kids' sake." I agreed, out of peace for the kids, and didn't get too close this time. Then her son got in trouble in class and she automatically blamed MY child for the behavior. Calling my child manipulative (a 9 year old), and telling me that no one likes me at the school, etc. I learned my lesson. She's just toxic!
Burn me once shame on you. Burn me twice shame on me!
Wow!
Yes, especially when it affects our children! Just not ok!
It's sad, but I've met these toxic types. "No one likes you." Great! I don't like them either, and now they don't need to talk to me ever again. It should be noted that one out five (20%) won't like you no matter what you do. So just put them in that 20 percentile and move on and forget about them.
@SocialistDistancing Exactly, with 8 billion people in the world some are bound to not agree with or like one.
Cut contact with such people - best thing to do for your health
So glad I came across your channel. There is always room for growth, so I am tuned in and listening 💗
I have a few in my family, a few at work, a,lot at church! So you can assume I have to be careful about what I'm saying and doing at all times. Very good video ! Thanks!
I've been around an entire county FULL of people like this. Collectively, they're vultures hovering over a dying animal.
How did I solve the problem?
I moved out of that state.
And what state was this? im in texas
The most common one I've dealt with is ghosting. Especially with covid causing lack of in person, people have gotten so comfortable with being able to ghost others and feel like they get away with it
Just listen to how someone talks behind their backs... My coworker smiling in front. As soon as the person walking out the door, they started talking very bad about the person like there is no tomorrow.
Now those are perfect words of wisdom you want to know how a man really is see how he treats those below him or children animals whoever
Bullying is for losers! Remember that always!
My experience is that our society is "sick". (Mostly due to the damnable internet.) As a result, Nobody trusts anybody, anymore.
I try to do what is right, beneficial and un-selfish. Yet no one believes me. After 66 years of living, I have concluded: "No good deed goes un-punished."
I am quite literally "tired" of living with this pain and frustration.
I don't have a ton of friends, but the ones I do have are supportive, and giving. I mean, trust is rare, and only given after a deal of time ----- I've known these people since I was 17. I've seen (and gone through) thick and thin, and they are still here. Blessed, man, don't I know IT!
I finally obtained a team leader position. Another was assigned to my department. I tripled timed my speed and work ethic only to make some mistakes. The mistakes were used to remove me from my position for the new complainer that dose not know everything about what needs to be done. He is supper kind to all.
As I have turned from a child to an adult to a girlfriend to a wife then a Mom, I observed people. Just by listening to that person talk you can tell what they really are. I don’t have many women friends and when I did they were always older and mature.
@@Ruth-vy1qj ...Preach it, sister!...Too much 'fakeness' in God's House...But intercede for such fake ppl, to repent & learn(even if necessary in a hard way) from their mistakes or blunders!... Lord, send a cleansing, purging & empowering, Holy Spirit revival to Your ppl, IJNA... Shalom.
@@Ruth-vy1qj come again.. couldn't understand a word of that nonsense.
I also used to see a lot of gossiping in church 🙄Now I practice my faith in my peaceful home God can here me the same in my home
I have, I was friends with someone who was fake and had me fooled. They fed me bullshit about their ex wife and when I called them out on it they stopped talking to me.
I refuse to be a part of any of these situations. So I have had to remove myself from several situations. My family is caught up in these behaviors. I am learning to change my thoughts and actions based on any of the points made here. It's been really difficult to admit to myself my codependency on just about anyone I can latch onto, I know when it began, I know why it happened. Some of these behaviors can be very subtle, but to realize that some of these traits are underlying my whole life is shocking to me. Thought I was further along the journey to autonomy. I am 63 years old so I am a little bit sad about all this not real living.
I have had to remove myself from filth I refuse to roll in the mud with swine
I am 74 & I feel the same
Most of the time it's family...
I keep my circle of trust very small and as soon as I see a sign of fakery, I pull my energy back very quickly and make them think it was their idea to take the trash out.
Thank you for your powerful video ! That helps big time
You pretty much described my ex-girlfriend! OH WAIT, I shouldn't have said that! 😂
hahahaha 😅
One easy way to figure this out is talking truths to a person
They will get angry and debate u every step of the way
When theyre wrong they wont admit and they'll try to make u feel bad for knowing stuff or saying the knowledge out loud because they are naturally against truth
Some of these false people like taunting, in that case, you have to be clever and patient. Act as if you don't know and let them fall into their own trap.
Yes, I know these fake people but you actually bought me to the realisation that I from time to time adopt a fake person to accomplish my goals.
I will still prefer to think noone knows when I'm doing it
Great video! I know people in pretty much all these categories!
Thank you!
I wish they would have taught this in school back in my days.
it's 2023 today - schools still don't teach you this :) Instead the teachers (some of them) impose on you "knowledge" which will let you think, there are more than 2 genders and you can change yours whenever and as many times as you want LOL
Are these teachers fake puppets of the eveil forces? I believe so.
I can tell a person is fake from the big wind-up key in their back.
Yes I found a person like that: I reacted whit zero contact.
So you ghosted.
@@basicdose.9872 not exactly. Before I explained him my reasons but after that I never wanted to speak with him.
Look up the definition of a sociopath. Think about the people you know.
My brother...
@@meb777 That's how I learned what a sociopath was.
I block them everywhere or simply curse them out or push them away.
That what I do if they mess with me for no reason over and over . they will be curse . I can't deal with negative unruly people
Yeah, the guy on our selling competion team who at the end of each day asked how I did financially. I took it for his reaching out in concern but he was plotting to be top seller. And he did beat me by a few dollars and won the competition. But he lost my respect permanently.
Yes, I have met a lot of fake colleague, After suffering a lot, I totally rejected them from my life.
I'm so glad that God had given us the capacity to discern decency and distinguish between disciple and deviation- spot fake people right away. It's just dumbfounding that most of us were taught to see no evil/ hear no evil, stay in your lane, turn the other cheek. It's all good to give people the benefit of doubt- but some people are conniving! And we are supposed to just let it go?!
The thing that gets to me is there's a stigma around calling fake folks out for their crap.
It's crazy/ confounding/ disturbing that we got to be content/complacent with cleaning up their corruptions, controversies and lackadaisical contributions. Who clears the air and why wait until their lies catch up to them?!
And it's an Almighty shame that some people can't be held accountable for what they say they will do. Since they lack accountability and grace, my prayers go out to their innocent unsuspecting victims, especially the children.
There's a moral behind every great story. And we must give God His Glory. For Christ's sake, kick the stigma. Raise the bar. God's Children deserve His Amazing Grace.
I think Christianity has made me a fake person. Suppressing my raw human emotions just to please God. Ghosting people because I think they’re bad influence (even though Jesus sat with sinners) trying to find the fine line of being walked over or being unreliable. I hate gossip. I’m handsome but lack confidence. I’ve grown to hate the word fake so much because I felt it said about me (at least I think) I can’t tell what’s reality or paranoia anymore and it drives me insane. I feel fake is someone who deliberately just tells lies, like they consciously know they are lying just to get over on someone. Like you know good and well you cheated on your girl and she asks you and you tell the most crazy story. That’s fake, that’s just down right lying. People call me fake off of my body language like you say, but people don’t understand there’s traumatized people, people who just aren’t used to certain cultures, just down right nervous. Not everyone is so charismatic and friendly. Doesn’t make them dangerous or a threat. My dad and mom live quiet Christian lives and so do I, but people scoff at me, I don’t say it’s because I’m Christian I just feel like I’m doing something wrong, or in the sense “fake”. Just pray for me, I pray for myself and I know good and well God hears me but maybe he’ll make a way when someone else prays for me.
@@RaymondCJV Thank you. That was well said and well received.
Did you know that once you feel like your prayers are being heard- you will realize that you are already on the right path? You are already within God's circle of influence.
And maybe, you have always been on the right path? Your growth and development depends on your sense of agency and personal accountability.
Or maybe your prayers are your own mission with a message to go do God's Bidding? Service to God gives you so much more purpose and perspective, that you begin to focus on a bigger picture; and focusing on exactly what you must do next becomes the sense of urgency for your personal agency.
I believe God has always revealed different objectives to different people, and those revelations become the driving force behind each individual's mission with a message. And the results are a perpetuating cycle for guiding us back to doing God's neverending bidding and witnessing His everlasting Glory and being empowered by the Christ's ever loving example of Grace.
My prayers are for people like you. I wish you the best.
I still tend to wrestle with those kinds of internal battles that left me second guessing myself. I was easily distracted until I started to focus my thoughts and desires on my mission with a message that God has revealed to me. And my mission with a message has became my purpose and my cause and my call to action all bundled up to achieve one goal:
Keep the beacon on God and beckon His people.
And it is like the hardest job I ever had because I am currently the only one who can fully understand how important it is to deliver my mission with a message to God's people.
So, I'm trying to create something for everybody, and it's seemingly impossible, but it is the day to day journey that keeps me going. The process to progress.
I have to ask for help; knock on doors; and keep seeking. I had to pivot and push, rinse and repeat.
My message is "help me help you help you."
Even though we might not ever physically meet, my mission pertains to my good intentions to put something worthwhile in your hands as proof that God has blessed us all with the innate ability to manifest our own spiritual prayers, thoughts, and desires into deeds, progress, and reality.
And His believers will manifest His Blessings by taking action.
Fake people are just hypocrites that may never know how hypocritical they are being to God and His people. That's why their intentions rarely manifest in their favor.
Did you know that Jesus Christ was not a Christian? Christ was a titled attributed to him because of what he represents. Christ is defined as the one who is chosen to be anointed.
But we are allowed to be like Christ, bka Christians, once we accept him as our spiritual leader and our perfect example for how we know better to serve God and serve our neighbors. (WWJD)?
King David is another perfect example for how to praise God- and although King David did the worst sin and broke God's commandments- he was still God's favorite.
Every last one of us are some kind of sinner.
But in today's world, the more appropriate word is hypocrite because we see fault in others but refuse to accept the faults within ourselves. In psychology, it's a narcissistic trait but we are all on the narcissistic spectrum. Being ready, willing, and able to do the Good Lord's Bidding is a blessing- psychotherapy helps us wrap our heads around objectivity, having strong family values helps us feel better about doing our individual part- but it's within the individual to fulfill his agenda.
Self-efficacy is how we relay our intentions to God and His people. We can look at Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob for perfect examples of that being displayed.
In today's world, we also have easier access to all kinds of distractions. You stay your course in serving God. It might even lead you to a whole new community away from the peers whose influence tends to leave you second guessing yourself and your obligation to God. Joseph and Job are perfect examples of faith.
During my spiritual journey, I had to unlearn a lot of things we can call social norms today.
The Biblical books like Mathews; Romans; Proverbs; Ecclesiastes; Job; and Genius revealed a stronger sense of objectivity to me that helped me better understand my small but significant role in this world.
I have to live in this world, for Christ's sake, and keep my mind, body, and spirit prepared to be a vessel for doing God's Bidding.
But sometimes I feel like I am blessed and cursed at the same time. And sometimes I know that I am blessed and I feel cursed because things are not manifesting in the way that I prayed for.
Sometimes I know I am cursed and I feel blessed because I have been given a mission with a message that only I can deliver.
I have to take all of the risks and be liable for all of the results. I have to ask for all of the resources. I have to reach. I have to recognize, recall, rely, relay, relate, release, relive, revive, reiterate, reap etc., etcetera until my physical life ends my contributions to my mission to do God's Bidding.
What is my reward for endlessly trying to fulfill an everlasting mission?
Well, the Good Lord has gotten me this far and I still haven't upheld my end of the bargain.
Why should I even feel like I deserve a reward?
@@nodozhit yeah man i had read that twice, it really hit home, its really like you been in my exact same shoes but maybe like 4 years ago haha, this really changed my perspective and up until this point even ive been growing in a way that makes me ready to hear this, like perfect timing almost. i like those books of the Bible as well, to me they are the main ones that help me understand.
Focusing on my mission, which i question because i question how humble i am to feel worthy of ever trying to complete some bidding for God. it was Jermiah that said his mission was burning in his bones and he just had to proceed with it. im a bit in fear of the persecution, even somewhere it says in the Bible "a prophet isnt received in his hometown" and it saddens me that i think im witnessing that, but then i even question that because honestly i hope thats not the case and its just all in my head, because it changes how i love them. i want to genuine love others before anything but i do feel i was called to complete some mission. fear of what comes with it is a huge block as well as my lack of self control.
"common behavior among criminals and politicians." The department of redundancy department.
I think most people are fake! All it takes is fear and insecurity which society runs on and you've got yourself a large group of self-important people, which is what confidence looks like to the insecure person.
Exactly, namaste 🙏
I totally agree. Fake people are the majority now and it's quite scary. What's troubling to me is the length some people will go to make you feel bad just to compensate for their own insecurity. I've experienced this from close family members and it has resulted in the lost of that relationship. It is truly heartbreaking.
@@ssdavis02 it is frightening...
Sonja...ouch!...I feel convicted...what a hit below the belt!...Truth is often bitter, but it must be swallowed if we must improve or get well... However, everyone is flawed in some way. We need a Savior. Thank God, He's Jesus(Rom.3:23-24; 10:13). When we sincerely call upon Him, a spiritual encounter will begin, & positive changes become inevitable... Thanks... Shalom.
Until one finds his or her authentic nature, most people will appear to be fake, including oneself, who has been manipulated into human-doings and not to be an authentic human being. Good luck to all. Namaste 🙏
Dave Welby...U are talking sense, buddy!...Lord, help us to discover our true self & become human 'beings' instead of 'doings', Amen!...But I think this is too hard for most ppl to do without external help... However, if they sincerely call upon Jesus, He'll give them a spiritual encounter that will set them on the right course (Rom.3:23-24; 10:13)... Everyone of us is flawed in some way...& we all need the Savior!... Thanks... Shalom.
I disagree with number 3...I will cut someone out of my life when I suddenly realised that I no longer want them in my life.....that doesn't make me fake..
i think this refers to the toxic like "discarding" of a person when their purpose is used up....not the healthier type you refer to
Exactly! Or maybe someone has been abused or suffered trauma and is afraid to love or receive love. Their self talk may also cause them to "ghost" others.
I've struggled with a-lot of these descriptions from time to time. I don't consider myself fake though. I think it is a human tendency to be selfish and exhibit one, many or all of these.. However, I truly believe, if a person wants to overcome these negative personal qualities, then one has to look to a person who exhibited none of these traits and work diligently to imitate Him and allow his spirit and character to take control of our lives. This person is the one, the only, Jesus Christ. If you look anywhere else, you might win a battle here and there, but you won't win the war.
You're not alone I feel the same way. I'm trying to be sincere. Thanks for the great advice.
I struggle with this tendency daily. At work, I'm tempted to take credit for someone else's work. Also, I feel the urge to make up an excuse of why I can't help someone at work. However, I'll do the opposite. God's given me enough strength to be able to do the right thing. I still have the URGE to be selfish though.
Most of the the people I grew up with(some are dead now obviously) were fake in one way or another and it wasnt until the pandemic hit and suddenly my situation and boundaries changed that their true natures became apparent. How did I deal with it? I stopped hanging out with them.
Keep up the great work 👏
Basically everyone at your work
Was asked, "What to do when this is a family member?" 🤔
Cut ties, avoid them, go no contact if possible. If there are too many other people involved, question their positions and whether they are innocent bystanders or if they are enabling the fake person. If others pretend the fake person is fine bc they benefit somehow, avoid or cut ties with them too. U may find yourself needing to go no contact with more than one kinda fake person bc of one main fake person, but that's not ur problem. Life is short.
I like how you use diverse artwork, like the women with the metal leg at 1:00
Thanks! :)
"Metal leg"? It's called a prosthesis, an artificial limb or body part.
Hi number 3 is your absolutely correct because my boyfriend left me no reason he not answer my calls then I understand is just using me I am so upset 😔 like 6 month later I realise he's using me thank you for showing my thinking is real thank you so much ❤️
I learned my lesson via hard ways ! Fake people!
If you know there is a problem and want to talk they will not want to talk, or take owner ship of their actions. They blame you behind your back!
I'm too real, I'll be like "you flakier than Kellogs". My vibes are strong, so people can pick up that I see right thru them. Doesn't stop some from trying tho.
Sometimes I act fake Infront of fake people . Hehehehe LOL
48 laws of power thats how you reveal the fake
These kinds of people are all I have encountered in the region I live and in our extended families. There seem to be pockets of cultures that operate in fake personas. I have dealt more with this my entire life than kindness. However, when my husband and I left this region to go to the south we encountered more kind and genuine people and realized how strange our region was. We also lived in the midwest in small towns and saw the down-home friendliness without gile or phoniness. Now we are back in the region again and there is more fakeness than anything else. There is also hypersensitivity to correction or honesty.
5:02 This one depends on what "more efficient"; do we mean it in the traditional sense or as an euphemism for "bogged down by a million new complications", like the current definition of convince? These little details make all the difference.
ONCE you realize that someone is fake, simply and quickly MOVE ON, instead of stressing yourself out over their behavior! ALLOW them to move on and waste someone ELSE,S time ,NOT yours! THEY are just insecure, crying on the inside! FEEL good to put down others , which is sad! DONT waste energy, time on them! LIFE is too short, hold out for quality over QUANTITY!
Or constantly asking questions about what you are doing or what you did on your day off work.
You literally describing everybody we all have insecurities the thing is to work on them
Yes ... took a long time to detached... and wasted my time and emotions... slowly pull my self out
I hope this is on a continuim. I have been this person I listen politely and respond politely to issues I don't always agree with or care about. Sometimes, you have to let people vent before you they can move on.
They love to stare thinking others will fall for their ploys.
Some what generalised, not taking in to account the need to hide traumatic past, and masking, issues with this is people have a variety of dynamic changes that flip in and out of these. So all people are fake, until they maintain boundaries of self and acceptance of others suffering.
I understand that fake people deceive to get all the way to the top but I rather be real. Being real let's me discern from those that are fake and I cut them off.
You keep learning. Good advice 🤟
there are plenty of them
gossipers, bullies and condescending peoples are the ones that irritates me most
The question to passiv aggression is, is it really worth the fight? To fight without opening the palms of hands. After analyising the person, people infront of me, aren't doing me any good just harming. Using acting skills to scary them away or get rid. This is situational. Remember let in the good ones Keep the bad ones out.
Thanks for the video,God bless!!!!
Thanks for watching!
Perfect description of a current day politician. Which characteristic applies??? ALL of the above!!!😏
Obama
These are good dating deal breakers too!
I'm glad that number 10 ends on a positive note.
I agree with all of this except the last one, there are plenty of fake people around!
Also people who always use insulting others as a way to compliment you. Like, “wow, you do that so good, much better than those people.” This is not a genuine compliment, they are just using it and you as a means to vent their hatred for a certain group of people, and probably don’t even mean the nice thing they said to you.
I rely on God's spirit. This may not happen straight away, as God allows their dominion, but after awhile God will say no more. I can only quote the verse "The heart is wicked and deceitful above all things" and the verse "If anyone deceives others, he deceives themselves."
Been seeing them all my life!
Very interesting video and well drawn. I have done my share of disappearing on people when i was younger. I was unable to tell them to their face l want comfortable with them, so l just vanished. It isn't a great behaviour but was the best i could do at the time as i was very shy and struggled with speech.
Not many, maybe..but they run with packs that enjoy the seeming perks of being slick. Sometimes, it's the best folks that are magnets for the type, which leave no time or room for better people to come into the frame.
People with various mental health issues can share some of these behaviours, doesn't mean their fake, just trying to deal with their own issues. Like social anxiety, fear of abandoment/rejection, fear of conflict and so on. This video doesn't take that into account at all.
So if you ghost someone who is fake, does that make you fake?
Ghosting can happen in any circumstances a person is going thru...doesn’t mean the person is fake.
people don't like truth seekers so they ghost
@@chiranjiv3313 people ghost when the other person is just draining one emotionally and mentally and not adding any value in their life...
A lot of "fake" people are just stupid and care about dumb stuff
Most of these "fakes" is called being human
Yup! So true
You got to fake it to make it.😀
I gossip about people who im staying I asked her daughter if she was mad at me and she told me no I just don't like it when you talk crap about my family. And she told me that I need to stop playing the victim.
I Hate Being Around With Fake People,
The basicness of most people like that in Scotland is quite hard to spot however the ones from England have better social skills.
"Bullying is for loosers" in the words of the queen herself "Lady Gaga"
Queen of Fake.
I keep them from becoming aware that I know they are fake and just distance myself and limit my exposure to them to mutually beneficial reasons. Strictly business.
near all relationships will only continue if there is mutual benefit, if it stops then the relationship will end sooner than later.
most people are phony and fake as they find out what benefits they can get out of yu. then if there is mutual interest the relationship could last months or it could last years until one or the other or both parties do not get a benefit anymore and have no interest in continuing the relation ship and it ends..
disapointing some of the times, but the more time gose by the less and less amount of "friends" a person thought they had will still remain.
Ex boyfriends flattery then bullying me putting me down. Telling me how better I look when I was younger and then go on to say they deserve better. What a joke. Also the kids father still a pain uses other distractions like work or other things so they don't have to look after my kids and they humiliate me when I stand up for myself. Met an ex yesterday he is 67 so old looking he has got a cheek thought he'd changed but no still putting me down. Im 40 quite attractive. Not only that they are hanging about me as if they are entitled. Not cool🤣🤪🤪🤪🤪. Im over it. Justice served.
I discovered I might be a fake person on several aspects of your video (ghosting, etc.). I don't trust people, same people who eat animals, I hate hunting, I don't like a society that praises workaholics and blame losers, 9 to 5 jobs, 5 days at work a week, parties, people who criticize others constantly, who cheat, steal, brag, etc. No sorry I don't trust people so I am necessarily a fake regarding your video.
I cut them off right away
RIGHT AWAY is the 🗝️
Everyone is fake, no such thing as someone being 100% real
You are a fake person, that's what a fake person would say... if everybody is fake then nobody is fake... easy escape
@@lotusmojo chances are you exhibit at least one of these behaviours, especially if you have a job. If you deny this you are a liar
@@essgee4225 you are conflating two different topics here, authentic behavior, your personality and the office behavioral code... displaying a professional behavior in an office setting is very different than showing your true personality... I bet you have been taken to HR several times since you don't know the difference...
@@lotusmojo even outside work, most people are fake. You really think the next person truly cares about you? Most people, key word most, could care less about you deep inside because they are wrapped up in their own worlds and have their own issues to worry about.
Everyone wears a mask, you don’t know someones motive unless you’ve really analyzed what this person is about. In my case, maybe not yours, but living in a big city, 90% of people I interact with are fake.
@@essgee4225 I can tell you have been traumatized by something very horrible, and I feel sorry for your inability of feeling empathy for other humans, but when I see people around me even if I don't know them I care for them... in my defense I am not a Sociopath or Psychopath... I'm an empath the total opposite...I care for you darling but you may need to get some professional therapy, you seem to suffer pain from deep wounds in your soul...
I think people have gotten more subtle than this. We've become a generation of observers from watching tv all day and tv has become great in its psychological depth.
With a certain friend, I have learned to read between the lines. When she invites me over and/or wants to go to church - what that really means is: Loan me money, buy lunch and grocercies, and be the driver.
No thanks!
💯 marvelous
I’m usually the person if I don’t bother you don’t bother me, but when you try to shut people up and silence them, that’s not good either, freedom of speech goes to those who earn it and it’s also a human right, a fearful person tries to shut people up for speaking truth.
Watched the 10 signs of intelligence first. It's amazing how many people claimed high intelligence. No one admitted to be fake 😂 .