The Ability To Adapt | Our Love Journey Podcast

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  • Опубліковано 29 сер 2024
  • #ourlovejourney #mpoomyandbrenden #abilitytoadapt #lovegoals #couplegoals #roadto200k

КОМЕНТАРІ • 273

  • @pilisapiliso9647
    @pilisapiliso9647 3 роки тому +58

    Mpoomy and Brandon are basically raising me and teaching me morals and values coming from a black home where parents really don’t talk about things expect for saying no to everything, THANK YOU and may God continue blessing you guys ❤️

  • @tebogorammutla1160
    @tebogorammutla1160 3 роки тому +136

    "The longer you take to learn the lesson,you will keep having to learn it"..this hit home😫

  • @nosikurosie6904
    @nosikurosie6904 3 роки тому +121

    You guys!!! I don't think you have an idea how many lives you touch or even how many lives you change.. there's some of us who don't even comment half the time but we watch. I love this channel. I enjoy every time I watch! I've unsubscribed from a lot of you tubers because honestly I wasn't getting anything from there. But everytime I watch you guys I leave different seriously, I've never watched and never felt not moved.. NEVER!! I learn more on each video.
    Love ya both!!

  • @tinyikongobeni1418
    @tinyikongobeni1418 3 роки тому +31

    What makes my boyfriend really romantic is his consistency in kindness, being able to stand in long queues for my personal things, waiting for me to enter inside my house even when we’ve both had an argument. Things have just gotten more authentic and that’s what I’m also finding romantic, the sentimental stuff

  • @rejoicetomas3874
    @rejoicetomas3874 3 роки тому +4

    "You have no control over anything. The only thing you have control over is your response " I felt that

  • @angienkuna4416
    @angienkuna4416 3 роки тому +77

    Anointed couple. Divinely appointed.God bless this beautiful union.

  • @rorisangmathikha1383
    @rorisangmathikha1383 3 роки тому +71

    Exactly, my friends have accepted that I don't like parting and enjoy being indoors and just being in my own comfortable space...it's blissful

  • @madimetsamashiane383
    @madimetsamashiane383 3 роки тому +26

    One of the books that helped me with adapting , is the book 'Who moved my cheese' , its about adapting to change and different kinds of adapting

    • @Survive_
      @Survive_ 3 роки тому +1

      Sammmeeee, I'm currently reading this book like 8 pages in and I'm already realizing how scared I was of change (I have always been scared of change) now I'm working on it.
      This book really called me out, shuu😭

    • @lifeandwellnesswithsine2387
      @lifeandwellnesswithsine2387 3 роки тому +1

      It needs to be my next read🙌

    • @kudzaisharonkandemiri3030
      @kudzaisharonkandemiri3030 3 роки тому

      It's an interesting read.

  • @chiedzachuma2026
    @chiedzachuma2026 3 роки тому +13

    Mpoomy I'm learning not to listen to your channel without a notepad and pen ready. Definitely food for my soul, thank you for feeding me

  • @changwechami8449
    @changwechami8449 3 роки тому +16

    "The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not" point taken📝

  • @tinyikongobeni1418
    @tinyikongobeni1418 3 роки тому +29

    I’m making a decision now to snap out of it. I’ve spent the last three years not actually knowing what my purpose is and honestly I’m done being depressed and having the situation with our world encourage my “stress”. Almost like I have an excuse to be depressed because our current situation is so difficult. This has aged me a lot and I’m actively making a decision to snap out of it, just deciding to taking full responsibility. Thank you guys 🙏🏾

    • @beautytebadi1216
      @beautytebadi1216 3 роки тому +1

      Can we be friends 🤗, you seem like a breath of fresh air... I can actually relate to what you just said, I hope you find the purpose that you seeking for...Am starting that journey too, sending you love and light 💕💕

  • @Syndzz
    @Syndzz 3 роки тому +43

    Yes I'm 18 and single but i love you guys!!!!

    • @Gabisile..
      @Gabisile.. 3 роки тому +2

      You and me both Siyanda 😂

  • @kundaicrwayisva6516
    @kundaicrwayisva6516 3 роки тому +20

    Is it just me who enjoys the videos? I enjoy seeing them together, their facial expressions and the way they gaze at each other when one is speaking. I saw the podcast notifications in the morning but l waited for the video. Y'all are just a blessing. I enjoyed the podcast. The best one yet!

  • @ewonkendwandwe6881
    @ewonkendwandwe6881 3 роки тому +23

    I can't believe how much I really enjoyed this podcast! You guys are amazing, I am 22 and single but I find so much relevance in your content.

  • @MillenialKay
    @MillenialKay 3 роки тому +14

    "Lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned"🙌❤

  • @RealTalkWithNthabi
    @RealTalkWithNthabi 3 роки тому +9

    The quickest way to learn who you are is learning who you not.
    I can't agree more 💯💯💯💯

  • @esihle_mkosana_
    @esihle_mkosana_ 3 роки тому +5

    “The quickest way to know who you are is to know who you’re not” ! Okay okay 🔥🔥. Such an inspiring podcast, definitely enjoyed watching this.

  • @Leetso
    @Leetso 3 роки тому +13

    Allow me to take notes📝
    Because wisdom is raining here❤️💯

  • @silindokuhlekhubone
    @silindokuhlekhubone 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with you guys ...The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not !!!!I tried drinking alcohol last year at the age of 27 because I thought why not ...it didn’t work ..I would really not enjoy it ..I would ask myself why am I not enjoying it cos everyone else is and I would not even sbwl it ..I sat down with myself one day and I was like it’s just not who you are and you need to make peace with it !!!!But that doesn’t make me a better person than the next person ❤️

  • @ziziphobridgetntlantsana3090
    @ziziphobridgetntlantsana3090 3 роки тому +7

    "The quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you're not"
    I totally enjoyed this video! Thank you Ledwabas 💯🙌

  • @migalmahlangu9871
    @migalmahlangu9871 3 роки тому +8

    The first thing I wanna say is I love u love I learn so much from u guys 💕💕
    Listening to u I realised how much i had to adept over the last 14 years, got married was in an abusive relationship had kids, got divorced. I had to learn and unlearn so many things I am super grateful to u guys because u made me realise that I can adept and to be kind to myself 🙌🏽

  • @confessionsofacheapskate4112
    @confessionsofacheapskate4112 3 роки тому +1

    "The quickest way to know who you are is today know who you're not "

  • @tapiwasilumbu4358
    @tapiwasilumbu4358 3 роки тому +24

    Who dislikes such content and inspirational words

  • @girleyngcobo2678
    @girleyngcobo2678 3 роки тому +6

    "You always have to control your emotions or you will lose yourself everytime "....Brenden just reminded me of this saying with his first point.
    Always happy to listen to you guys ❤❤❤.

  • @zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194
    @zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194 3 роки тому +37

    I'm so excited, I got 'The 5 am Club' by Robin Sharma🙈🙈

  • @FufuSithole
    @FufuSithole 3 роки тому +11

    Brendon is hilarious 😂

  • @TheDoreenTube
    @TheDoreenTube 3 роки тому +13

    Listened to this in the morning but I’m still watching because this is probably my best episode yet!🥺❤️

  • @AS-ue9kg
    @AS-ue9kg 2 роки тому

    I am an older adult and I love listening to you two. I learn so much from your conversations! They are relevant, genuine and always reflect the love of God to me. Keep growing in this grace guys, God bless your family!

  • @Olivia8355
    @Olivia8355 3 роки тому +2

    Agggggg 😭😭😭😭 y’all speaking to me... as a single lady I have intentionally started learning “Who I’m not”...❤️beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @wezizweginindza7129
    @wezizweginindza7129 3 роки тому +6

    So profound guys!! Yho, I couldn't help but laugh and smile the whole 22:29 minutes of this episode! That's what you do, bring so much love and light to this platform.
    God bless you.

  • @lovenesspearlnyuke5954
    @lovenesspearlnyuke5954 3 роки тому +5

    We don't have a choice but adapt'profound'👌believe you me you're saving a lot of souls....May God keep you guys for us....

  • @herworkoutswork
    @herworkoutswork 3 роки тому +5

    Hahaha! Literally smiled the whole way through this. I thoroughly enjoyed it and I relate 100% to the importance of adaptability. I love Mpoomy's mom's advice about how our job is to become more of ourselves. This is so true. I can relate to your story Mpoomy, I left my career as a Scientist to pursue my passion back in 2019. (I remember going to work in the morning, looking forward to going to the gym afterward) It was not easy, but through this journey, I now trust God more than ever before, and I'm completely at peace. Loved this podcast! It was funny too 😂

  • @mapasekankomonde3797
    @mapasekankomonde3797 3 роки тому +6

    Indeed " we not in Control of what happens, but we rather in control of our reactions "
    Amazing wisdom shared.

  • @charityngubo8000
    @charityngubo8000 3 роки тому +5

    I'm older than you guys but learning a lot from you. Big ups.

  • @Tanatswanashe
    @Tanatswanashe 3 роки тому +1

    “The quickest way to know who you are is to know who you’re not.” 🔥

  • @nothandondlovu1145
    @nothandondlovu1145 3 роки тому +6

    This conversation was so fruitful. I felt like I was also part of it, also throwing my opinions here and there even when I'm alone in the room lol. Love you guys xoxo

  • @queenmasiya9776
    @queenmasiya9776 3 роки тому +5

    These conversations are always refreshing, educational and funny. I always enjoy listening to you guys💕

  • @tapiwasilumbu4358
    @tapiwasilumbu4358 3 роки тому +6

    Yes l am also a young lady and your sermons and podcasts are actually preparing me for what is to come in the future👏👏👏👏

  • @ketsiak.makola2398
    @ketsiak.makola2398 3 роки тому +2

    Mpoomy & Brenden !!! Y’all make me say a prayer to God after almost every video
    I’m always learning. Marriage is beautiful, teamwork is the way to go!!! I want to do it God’s way 🤍

  • @bonisiwe_bhiya
    @bonisiwe_bhiya 3 роки тому +4

    Girl listened to the podcast in the morning and now I'm here doubling up. That's how much I love these conversations ❤

  • @sthembilekobe9267
    @sthembilekobe9267 3 роки тому +4

    I love your podcasts and i am learning a lot, you adding so much wisdom in my singleness season so that i never settle for nonsense.

  • @hopem03
    @hopem03 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for this, exactly how I needed to end my evening. I’m all smiles because this just confirms scripture. Wow, there is fruitfulness when we subdue and have dominion over our good/bad situations... because we are intentional ❤️
    May God bless you for taking your time to share yourselves ❤️

  • @lethukhumalo3119
    @lethukhumalo3119 3 роки тому +4

    I listened to the podcast and took down notes, I enjoy listening to your podcast and watching the UA-cam video as well. I'm in awe

  • @segomosh
    @segomosh 2 роки тому

    I remember I went to Rosebank college together with Mpoomy.. Both studying Business Administration.. One day one of your friends/acquaintance told us you decided to quit school and said you felt like you didn't belong there.. That takes courage hey
    Great to see that you found your real purpose in life.. You doing really good for yourself! 💯

  • @sinethembalanga7436
    @sinethembalanga7436 3 роки тому +6

    It's the flirting for me❤

  • @boldforpurpose
    @boldforpurpose 3 роки тому +4

    You guys are a blessing,
    may your love grow even deeper.

  • @mhelukajuliana8375
    @mhelukajuliana8375 3 роки тому +4

    Much love mpoomy and brenden ❤🥰🤗😊you bless me ohhhh

  • @thethinkerscircle
    @thethinkerscircle 3 роки тому +4

    Our favs, your content is so refreshing and on each video we learn something❤️

  • @pertuniamasike372
    @pertuniamasike372 3 роки тому

    Mpoomy, I so resonate with u when it comes to teaching our kids Bible scriptures, I also learn at the same time with her, even better than b4. My daughter is 10 years old and I,ve always had to tech her in the most simplified /age appropriate manner for her to understand. I love God for his grace 🙏
    Love u and Brendan so much, thanks for always sharing ur Real Life Experiences with us. May God bless u

  • @Langathiwe_Nkomo
    @Langathiwe_Nkomo 3 роки тому +2

    Yep had to listen to it twice...! There's a lesson to learn that life is tryna teach me, the quicker you learn the better

  • @Princessss5721
    @Princessss5721 3 роки тому +1

    I just love these seat downs 🥺 I've got my journal and pen
    I must say your love journey is wonderful, I'm learning a lot everyday from your videos started following you when I watched your dating testimony.. I'm just 20 but these really expose me to how much I need God in my life and how I would like to mould my life.. Thank you for the great and authentic content. ❤

  • @tsholofetsomanana5411
    @tsholofetsomanana5411 3 роки тому +2

    I really love listening to you guys and enjoy your chemistry. This is my first time commenting and I wanted to say keep doing great things and glorifying God!

  • @GracefulYvonne
    @GracefulYvonne 3 роки тому +24

    You guys are effortlessly fun, insightful and interesting... bathi... "Iclub akusi i society😂😂😂... I also never know what to do there...
    😂😂😂Brenden is so funny bathi usually wen we first meet siya actor.... YiFilm😂😂😂funny truth....

  • @rejoicetomas3874
    @rejoicetomas3874 3 роки тому

    "Quickest way to learn who you are is to learn who you are not"😊... hits home

  • @babuirapoo
    @babuirapoo 3 роки тому +4

    Aowa I smiled the whole time
    So much wisdom then the video ended😭

  • @M.A.Wahome
    @M.A.Wahome 3 роки тому

    This topic is so important , I wish I heard this at 22 it would have saved me a world of heart ache. Thank you for talking about this .

  • @zinhlekhoza8326
    @zinhlekhoza8326 3 роки тому

    The best way to learn who you are is learn who you are not... Powerful!! Thank you for this

  • @nonhlanhlamlangeni1519
    @nonhlanhlamlangeni1519 3 роки тому +5

    Definitely believe it was God who made sure I don't swipe pass this! I remain utterly humbled at the Wisdom of God! Truly I am learning and as older as I am , Wow Wow Wow 👏 God Bless Your Union Haleluya 🙏

  • @nelisalayini3847
    @nelisalayini3847 3 роки тому

    This is not what I ordered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you guys are great and I'm growing from your podcasts.

  • @shupiwevakaira9470
    @shupiwevakaira9470 3 роки тому +2

    It's always refreshing listening/watching you guys and your humor is everything for me♥️

  • @nokuzolamnikathi993
    @nokuzolamnikathi993 3 роки тому +3

    I'm here for this content.. 🥺 wisdom 🤍 I love I love

  • @prettyshabangu5862
    @prettyshabangu5862 3 роки тому +5

    Super profound... Lols now I can't wait to meet my life partner 🙈

  • @rirhandzushivuri
    @rirhandzushivuri 3 роки тому +3

    I've spent my time well on this video... thank you guys.

  • @nokuthulamampa1503
    @nokuthulamampa1503 3 роки тому +2

    Nooooooooo maaan nooooooo😭😭😭😭😭this i needed to hear, definitely sharing with my partner... Thank you soooo much guys... Like wow👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @eleanordewee1602
    @eleanordewee1602 3 роки тому

    The 2 of you are just too cute. Thank you for the insightful and inspirational podcast. What you are sharing is so relevant and as a married woman one draws so much knowledge and wisdom from you guys. Ya"ll are absolutely adorable

  • @Keekssithole
    @Keekssithole 3 роки тому +1

    So much wisdom. May God continue to bless your union ❤️

  • @alfredinemay8052
    @alfredinemay8052 3 роки тому +2

    I'm so glad I subscribed to your channel... You guys are absolutely such a blessing. 🙏😇💕

  • @renengoasheng
    @renengoasheng 3 роки тому +1

    Love this 😍Thank you for sharing the wisdom God has given you guys and allowing him to speak through you guys😍

  • @ramadimetsamachete5705
    @ramadimetsamachete5705 3 роки тому +1

    It's in the little things we do " in passing " that kinda take form and shape as we grow up.
    I'm realizing it right now when I've left my career to find my peace in the little things that bring me soo much joy. Just like Mpumi... I'm glad I realised it now in my 20s. And im sooo excited for my 30s cause the peace of just knowing that.. yeah man! I've GOT this now. Life and I are kinder vibing now. Even becoming friends...

    • @b_reshoketswe2777
      @b_reshoketswe2777 3 роки тому +1

      Wow that's inspiring..I can't wait to be in such a space in my life too

  • @zamandlovu8515
    @zamandlovu8515 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much you guys. I'm. 33,single and absolutely love your podcasts.

  • @precioushudge6163
    @precioushudge6163 3 роки тому +4

    Mpoomy l love you and your the best ❤️❤️

  • @brianward8368
    @brianward8368 3 роки тому +2

    I Love you guys!! God Bless everything you do!

  • @siyabonganhlakaniphomatheb1039
    @siyabonganhlakaniphomatheb1039 3 роки тому +1

    "We got here cos you wanted to get here..." And then "Ok, the moral of the story is it gets better" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ashleybrady2010
    @ashleybrady2010 3 роки тому

    This was such a pleasure to watch!
    Thanks for just being awesome! May GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS you richly

  • @mokgadihlongwane6284
    @mokgadihlongwane6284 3 роки тому

    Oh my word, you guys are so real and inspirational. I can relate so much with what you are saying. Talk about not comforming to the standards of the world. Thank God for you.

  • @nonhlanhlakhumalo5714
    @nonhlanhlakhumalo5714 3 роки тому +2

    It's the last sentence of me 🤣😂🤣. Watching and listening to you guys is soooo much fun and insightful.

  • @chelseaxihlukemashaba4851
    @chelseaxihlukemashaba4851 3 роки тому +2

    NOOO you guys cut my favourite intro song, this was beautiful and encouraging because we tend to give up when we encounter challenging conditions but then I know now that a person just need to adapt and control how you react towards them.....thank you the Lidwabas

  • @gracemaingire9315
    @gracemaingire9315 3 роки тому +1

    It surely gets better with time & i'm now loving your content more & more. Love you guys 🇿🇼🇿🇼

  • @mrsdokotela
    @mrsdokotela 3 роки тому

    Hi Mrs Mom ur guys podcasts are amazing...I drive 1hr15min to work and listening to ur podcasts honestly makes the drive a lot easier...I listen to ur podcasts on Tuesday mornings cos on Mondays am at work from 7am and at the end of the day I am flushed cos am a health care worker so its really hectic...thank you guys for lifting us up and teaching us...🤗

  • @zinhlebuthelezi3749
    @zinhlebuthelezi3749 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this, I'm slowly learning that I'm not in control and it's been very uncomfortable and painful. Having to adapt to not having the things you wanted by a certain age, losing things that matter the most etc

  • @nothandondlovuraw7388
    @nothandondlovuraw7388 3 роки тому

    The longer you take to get the lesson...yeyi I experienced this😁

  • @nangamsoflatela3176
    @nangamsoflatela3176 3 роки тому

    Jeeeez! 😭 I needed to hear this because of how I’ve been struggling to adjust to a lot of changes this year.
    Thank you guys 🙌🏾

  • @busisiwengwenya4450
    @busisiwengwenya4450 3 роки тому +2

    We are within!! So excited haven't even heard anything

  • @constancematsimela2609
    @constancematsimela2609 3 роки тому

    I am in awe of how much you guys know and are so willing to share with the world, at such a young age nogal! May God continue to bless you🙏😇💝💝

  • @HopeMakola
    @HopeMakola 3 роки тому

    Wow you guys are soooo gifted I’m just so in ore of how your currently speaking life, joy and peace into my situation. I’ve been practicing how to control the way I choose to respond since the middle of lockdown last year and I tell you it’s helped me guard my heart, happiness, mind and spirit.
    Thanks for such golden nuggets😘

  • @hossianathompson1127
    @hossianathompson1127 3 роки тому +2

    WISDOM 😩🙏 this hit home!!!!

  • @RealTalkWithNthabi
    @RealTalkWithNthabi 3 роки тому +2

    Great topic Abuti Brenden 💯💯 it was lit

  • @reitumetsetumza6072
    @reitumetsetumza6072 3 роки тому

    I'm a 23 year old lady, and I truly enjoy your content ❤❤ pen and paper always by my side😃

  • @etherl.chakopo
    @etherl.chakopo 3 роки тому +3

    Lots of love from Zambia..😍

  • @kamogelovenoline2571
    @kamogelovenoline2571 3 роки тому

    I really enjoyed the watching this.. I am intrigued.. I have been procrastinating because I didn't have time.. But finally I am here.. And woow.. This is soo amazing.. "Learning the lesson" "when life happens you gotta ask life what are you trying to teach me" point taken..❤️ Love you both

  • @thulisilemthimunye8020
    @thulisilemthimunye8020 3 роки тому

    You guys are a breath of fresh air... like I learn every time I visit your channel.

  • @nomsiegrace1019
    @nomsiegrace1019 3 роки тому

    As much as this is a broadcast, I make sure ukuthi I sit down and have my tea when I listen to you guys. I enjoy listening to the two of you.
    "The quicker you adapt, the easier it will get"
    I hope that the people at the back heard that.
    Stop fighting reality and things that you can't change.

  • @tefoboitshepo1900
    @tefoboitshepo1900 3 роки тому +3

    I have never been this early♥️♥️♥️love from Botswana

  • @zamakhathidekubheka3731
    @zamakhathidekubheka3731 3 роки тому

    Lol, yaze yamnandi iPodcast..truly beautiful!

  • @yonelantsangani3326
    @yonelantsangani3326 3 роки тому

    Wow. So powerful. Yall are such a blessing!💛🔥🔥

  • @siphosihlenoqayi9600
    @siphosihlenoqayi9600 3 роки тому

    Lol...You guys are so funny. Its beautiful to watch your interaction...thank you for the wisdom, We appreciate it so much. We're getting to appreciate life more indeed💝. God bless you even more

  • @aviweyenge4455
    @aviweyenge4455 3 роки тому

    Woow this is informative thanks guys ,I can relate so much with this topic.

  • @nasiphingceza4627
    @nasiphingceza4627 3 роки тому +4

    You know when its Monday💃💃❤

  • @ayaskosana3689
    @ayaskosana3689 3 роки тому

    Hai i love you guys...am 28 going to 29 soon,the kind of relationship you guys have...(God in it) is the kind of relationship i've always wanted...you guys are so inspiring,Thixo anigcine always ❤

  • @palesankondlo1395
    @palesankondlo1395 3 роки тому

    Man we love you guyz❤️😍😂 I love how your content applies to both single and married people💯