The Dr. Cloud Show | How adult anxiety relates to childhood bonding - Episode 121

In this segment of The Dr. Cloud Show, Roxanne is struggling with intense anxiety both socially and at work. She thought things would work out on their own, but they got worse. What does a healing plan for anxiety and detachment look like?
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[@Ijasrenee]

Whomever this woman is, she is very BRAVE for sharing !! 👏🏾

[@blessed7927]

Unavailable parents. She needs affection with boundaries. Appropriate boundaries.

[@tfi7867]

I hope this caller found some help, if not there’s a 12 step program called ACA that addresses the family system where we learn to reparent ourselves.

[@flamingrobin5957]

i find it strange that counselors often recommend therapy several times a week and to be in a growth group.......i don't find that is practical or available or atleast don't know how to find that or access help. most churches are clueless about human need and attachment.

[@dianalang3844]

God did not give us a spirit of fear…but of power, love and a sound mind

[@saras.2173]

Sounds like she is wanting an Internal Family Systems-oriented therapist that is also trauma-informed. Jaina Fisher is a psychologist who has a lot of good info on trauma and attachment.

[@flamingrobin5957]

recognizing people who are NOT SAFE TO ATTEMPT TO BE NEEDY AND ATTACH WITH is a real issue because we can be further triggered, rejected, traumatized shamed marginalized by people who are not healthy for us.

[@TheGatewayProductions]

Huge thanks for this video! Anxiety is horrible but we can fight it!

[@marystahl]

Thank you for all you do for us Dr. Cloud.

[@barbaramoran8690]

I was diagnosed with autism at 40 I failed to bond as an infant.

[@liberationexpressionsbyfre4241]

🩷

[@annak29]

Why wouldn't you recommend DBT for this person?

[@vivienrhodes4248]

Hi Dr Cloud What about people who have been to war and they return say 2nd world war and onwards None of the men etc had any debriefing etc What about the country having more counselling for men What do you think?

[@jennybtx]

There is lots of counseling for men. Most counseling is for men.

[@familypc8348]

Thank you sir! Your work is valuable

[@lauranicholls9421]

Thanks. Dr cloud great name. I was born via caesarean I’ve been told that this type of delivery is the worst for the baby especially over 50 years ago??
And is there ever closure for long term anxiety disorders?im not hopeful.

[@alexg7472]

Giving voice to your child parts

[@rebeccahayhurst442]

This is very insightful. Thank you Dr. Cloud.

[@rochellecaffee1417]

Happy New Year Dr. Cloud!! God bless you and thank you for all your 2023 support!! ❤😊

[@agnesdyck1179]

Anxiety is sometimes caused from guilt. Your own guilt or the guilt that others plant on you so you withdraw and feel uncomfortable.

[@angeladraper6960]

I can’t understand how people can talk to you and not cry. I can’t talk, for crying.

[@muskduh]

thanks

[@chrisahearn1735]

Thanks

[@Apokalypsiis]

My first impression of this call, also my first time watching you’re video, is that you interrupt quite often. I know you’re probably on a strict schedule but she was trying to relay a lot of details that I believe you could of been more patient with. Which would of allowed you to analyze her situation with more clarity.

[@Star-ts5re]

Dr Cloud is so healing.
This conversation brought to mind the book
“All Together You” by Jenna Riesmersma