Yea, I feel the same way. I’m only 16, and a couple years back I was in a really rough time in my life, on the verge of killing myself from the end of 2021 all the way to around April of 2022. That whole time and until around September of 2022 I was in therapy and my god, I’m so thankful for everything that did for me. While someday I wanna be an artist or animator, if that doesn’t work out I think I would like to try my hand at being a therapist. The main thing I want to gain out of my career in the future is solely to change peoples lives, whether that be with the animated shows I could possibly make in the future, the tattoos I could make for people, or by giving people life advice they’ll never forget, and preventing them from death as I had witnessed first hand. It would be a hard road, but hey. My family and extended family always jokes around calling me the family therapist, as I’m always the person they go to for advice. Maybe I got a chance :)
I’m becoming a psychotherapist because I’m naturally good at it. Everyone uses me as their therapist I have a lot of empathy and understanding. Also I dealt with my own trauma and I don’t want anyone, mainly children to grow up feeling unheard and unseen
Only the one who learns to be humble will ever be a good psychotherapist that is actually able to help people! You can't compare advising your friends and family to really treating people with serious health issues. So maybe you are right, but there are also quite a few narcissists out there who are more than convinced to be the most empathic and wise people in the world. So in favour of all your future patients bear in mind that you might not be as perfect and gifted as you may think today...
It's really upsetting,that it is so financially stressful to become a therapist. I think,that the system in Scandinavian countries is much better, you don't have to drown in debt to get a degree there. I'm so glad,that you became a therapist regardless of the circumstances. Your videos helped me in my recovery more,than my in person visits to psychiatrist and therapist.
Maybe, but therapists in Sweden at least, do not hold a good quality. They frankly destroy one's life and make one more sick,sleepless, damaged, burnt out, isolated, and handicapped than ever before. I have sought a therapist for 42 years and wonder where they hide away their conscience, humanity, true self. I have worked to keep myself up and hopeful but am so traumatized and harmed and in crisis realizing now that I can't and won't even live like this much longer, and that my life and chances have neen squandered and that positive thinking.and self-control, forgiveness, research to see whether I and my needs are reasonable.. I want result now, get resources I have the right to and got accepted/promise dmany years ago. Some good advice, instructions or support, anyone? Thanks.
I also have my masters in clinical psychology (class of 2009). The best therapists are those who have struggled mentally themselves. You should never discourage someone who has had mental health issues to pass up the opportunity to help others in the capacity of a mental health counselor. Especially in the field of eating disorders- I have struggled with an eating disorder for numerous years. Having had this personal experience gives me an advantage in working in this field with others who are looking to someone who has “been through it” themselves.
I agree ! I want to be a therapist because I know what it’s like how it’s feel the mental anguish of being traumatised and my struggles are not in vain ! It’s meant to help light the way for others
Perfectly said, I know I want to be in a field that honors God and Jesus Christ . I am in the middle of battling a eating disorder myself. I know the church can make people feel bad for having tuff season, but, even when you read about king David in the Bible he had tuff seasons and was still loved by God. When we struggle we must know God still lives us. Jesus Christ said to God while being on the cross God why have You forsaken me. We will have troubles in this life but remember you are more than a conqueror in Christ! You can tell God your real honest to God emotions and still be respectful to Him. God does His many miracles through people so, I hate that the church at times say you don’t need therapy you need God. When He is in all things. Read the book of acts in the Bible (I read NLT) the disciples were learning to live life without seeing Jesus Christ with the naked eye, yet believing He was and still is here. Therapy aligns with God’s word so if you read it with an open mind knowing God and Jesus Christ actually love you and don’t want to just catch every fault and make you suffer then you can understand Their heart more. Please know that you are loved and make sure you let other people know as well. God bless you all and have a great day I pray that this helped, Amen 🙏🏻
I was in foster care as a kid and that experience had a crap load of so many traumas. I realize a lot of therapists dont understand the unique traumas and spiritual impacts of that experience and how it affects them. I want to help that community of people, current and former foster children.
I'm starting college in the fall and I'm majoring in psychology. I really want to be therapist. I want to work with adolescents. This video was so informative. Thanks, Kati!
Y’all may want to think twice. You’re likely gonna work in under funded over worked places and get burnt out. Not everyone wants help and in my experience you will work briefly with a lot of people and never truly make progress. The dream is to help people but really it seems to be more about just sitting with people through some of the worst times in their life then never seeing them again. It can be depressing and discouraging and can warp your view of the world. That and have a ton of student loans. Also, not to make much once out of school. Only made 35 k a year when just out of school. I could’ve been a manager at QT and avoided the loans. Just sumfn to consider. I wish I knew what to expect ahead of time. To end on a positive, I think it’ll be a good job I won’t have to retire from because it is mostly just sitting with people. And yea, it is most definitely an honor for clients to trust ya and to be allowed to hear their story.
A tough lesson I learned in undergrad is that your job satisfaction can't be connected to your client outcomes. It's ok to cheer them on when they do well, but it's their journey. Self determination can be a trip. Also, the loans 😑.
Really good point! Its hard to know when to draw the line with caring for your patients. How far are you willing to go to help them and not be dragged into their lives...so confusing.
That's actually my biggest fear! Not knowing how to separate my own emotions from my patients emotions! Not being able to sleep knowing what they're going through, idk!!
@@ingrid5944i've thought about this. now i'm just a clueless teen with no experience, but i think part of being a therapist or a doctor includes having to distance yourself from your clients. it's about them, not about you. your only focus should be to help them. and when you're out of the office, the focus is back on yourself!
Hi Kati, I’ve wanted to be a therapist since I was a teenager. I went to university right after high school, studied there for 5 years and finished most of my degree. Unfortunately, life got in the way, I was faced with all kinds of obstacles and lost sight of my goals. Now, I’m 29 and I’m returning to school to finish my degree and I Intend to go all the way to the masters. I realize now that this is what I’ve always wanted to do, I’m answering to a calling that’s loud and clear. Thank you for this video, it was so motivational and I’m sure I will see this a few more times. Happy holidays!
I am working on my MSW currently, and while I definitely have my own issues, I am motivated to use the experiences and therapy that I’ve had to really help other people. I want to work primarily with people who have complex trauma and BPD. I know that this population can be emotionally taxing to work with, so I’ve told my therapist that he’s on the job for the foreseeable future
My mother works in the mental health field and is one of those people that probably went into it unconsciously thinking it would resolve her stuff. Because she has a hard time admitting that she has any issues, she doesn't really believe in being in her own therapy. It's sad, because she could be doing more harm than good. She once told me she told her depressed clients to "snap out of it". Even I, completely untrained, knew this was terrible and harmful. I genuinely think there are a lot of therapists out there that think there's nothing wrong with them, they don't need their own therapy and that "helping" other people with their mental health makes them feel better about themselves.
she was probably getting sick of the whining but she signed up for it 🤷♂ theres no way she doesnt know some people with depression if not most have a chemical imbalance causing depression
@@Jesse-ex6pn I don’t know what she thinks of depression but I believe she experiences it herself. She’s never outright said “I have depression” that but that’d be my guess.
That first point about not bringing your issues to your work really hits hard. I've had a pretty bad experience with this because my first therapist actually spent most of the time in our sessions ranting about work than helping me out. It kinda felt like we did a switcheroo. I mean I'm glad they were able to vent and relax but I just come out of that office more confused than before I went in there
Yea, please speak up about it to them… maybe find another therapist if you don’t think that will work? I recommend, before each session, think or write down what you want to talk about specifically, so you can maximize the time you spend and on things that really matter to you.
Thank you for this post. After 7 years in an English literature phd, 4 of which were pretty much miserable, I just decided about 4 months ago to drop out to pursue a masters in mental health counseling. I'm very excited, and very scared. So hearing your experiences is really helpful. I just got accepted to my first program yesterday; so the path is hopefully finally beginning. So glad to have found your channel!
The scariest thing about being a therapist is the therapy. School is easy, practicing with other students is easy. All of that is easy. What's hard is getting into a session and implanting everything without overdoing it and doing it in a way that suits the client and making sure not to transfer your stuff to them. It's a very interesting process. Also, never get into this for the pay.. it's not about the pay.
I feel the opposite, I think making the journey to becoming a therapist is a gonna be challenging but when I’m face to face with somebody, I’ll relax and let them talk and everything will be ok
i wanna go into psychology and being a therapist was 1 of the jobs i was looking at, u said not to donit for the money and as much as i do want to help people i am looking for smth that pays decent too, any recommendations or ur opinion on the topic?
@@Bkay08 being a therapist can make decent money, I'm not sure what other career options there are, you could look into it further before going that route
I am a psychology student 🤩 but I came to it because of my weird life. However, I then started to want to help others and I hope to understand people. Thanks for your awesome videos 😍🌷much love to u .
I’m currently in practicum & a grad program working to become an LMFT! It’s SO frustrating not getting paid for the work 😓 I’m fortunate enough to be able to live at home so I was able to quit my job to just focus on practicum. But otherwise idk how others do it! 🙏🏼
I'm 47. I just started working but of course I don't have a masters in psychology. And I really want to go that route and I got an MBA instead. I listen to my friend instead of listening to my heart my heart told me to go towards psychology my friend told me to go toward a business degree because I can use it anywhere. And I can't afford to not get paid. Not everybody has a mommy and daddy that they can live with and not everybody has a brother or sister that they can live with. Not everybody has a spouse that they can live with that pays the rent. I paid my own rent. So for me to start a program now at the age of 47? The only way it's going to happen is if some magic person comes into my life and adopts me as their daughter and someone wants to become my mother or I marry someone
@@sandbar3000 Where there is a will there's a way. You could take out loans and pay them back later on. If it's your dream be prepared to go to great lengths for it.
As someone in their last semester in a Clinical Mental Health Counseling grad program, this is going to be so helpful for others curious about entering our field. I didn't have anything like this when I was in high school and undergrad and I would have loved to watch a video like this! I'm on track to becoming a Registered Play Therapist (RPT) so I'm working with kiddos :) I love every minute I'm in the playroom with one of my clients!
Wow, this video couldn't come at a better time Kati! I am 42 and will be getting my BA in Psychology next month. I struggle with ADD and it's been quite the challenge to finish school. I chose the " family first" path, and now here I am, wondering what I will do with my life. I know studying for me is not easy, even though I love the subject of mental health. My dream would be to become a therapist, I'm just not sure if it's even possible with my focusing problems. I've never tried medication, and I've always just gotten by. I have seen a therapist before, but we never really worked on skills for my ADD. Anyway, hopefully, I can figure out my life very soon, as I feel I can't waste any more time. Thanks for the very informative video!
I’m 12 years and found happiness in my life already. I’ve realized how many people actually need help with mental health and stuff. So I want to become a therapist and idc if I’m young, I wanna start right now. I’ve always been the therapist of the group and my friends at least say they feel better after talking to me. I think it’s important to dream big and work for your dreams. So, I’ll start already
Hey! Don't worry about being young, it just means you've found your calling early. Coming from someone who's 15 right now though, make sure to make room for your childhood too. I struggled to find a lot of balance between helping others early and spending time as a teen. Remember, you can't make others feel good if you don't feel good either.
I'm 16 and just figured out therapist might be my calling! If you want to start learning a little about neuroscience already there's a podcast called "no stupid questions" I enjoy! Don't forget to have fun and make sure your friends listen to your problems too!
I love the closing remarks. I watched this video because I want to be a therapist why because I love helping people by giving advice. I think I'm getting the hang of it now. Thanks
I’m a Psychology major still in my undergrad and I was fortunate enough to have a job as a Behavior Therapist for autistic kids. My goal is to become a clinical child psychologist but I’m slowly getting my experience through this different form of therapy and still being with kids. I want to thank you for this insight and I am ready to continue.
That's great !! I want to do that! What qualifications do you need to get that position? because I am a psychology major still in undergrad struggling to find a job tbh
Look into the Association for Play Therapy- they have 28 approved play therapy centers across the country where you can get a play therapy specialization with your counseling-related master's degree (typically Clinical Mental Health Counseling). I'm on this track currently and it prepares you to work with kids. I don't know how anyone works with children without getting formal play therapy education.
@@kluurp2655 I actually worked at a daycare for a year before I was given my current job and it definitely helped making my decision working with kids.
I’m a dietitian about to finish my masters degree and I could not be in a different part of the field than I thought I’d be lol! My internship was so eye opening and helpful. I was certain I’d do NICU for my entire career, and I’m doing independent consultant work in a geriatric population! 😝
As a 16 year old, I want to become a therapist in the name of, of course helping people. I don’t want to help them because I think I can immediately change them or show the magical light never seen. I want to help in the sense that if it doesn’t help now, maybe at some point in their life, it will. Being in the nursing field has taught me that physically, it’s great to help. But the biggest moments for me is when I actually get to talk to them. To understand how they feel, to have a moment where they don’t have to feel their pain alone. If I chose to become therapist, I can only hope that I make a difference to others.
Thank you, the first tip is absolutely the reason I want to go into therapy. I want a career that helps people, and as mental health gains more awareness it feels like an amazing career. I've been researching a degree in Gender Studies along with psychology. This is really helpful and makes me feel more like a better fit for a therapist
I am dropping out of art school to be a therapist , I also am doing my own therapy ! I want to help people they are not alone they are loved and special and they can get through anything ! This is my calling
I am so grateful for my current therapist as well as my previous therapist, they are so wonderful- God bless you all, you all are amazing!!!:) GOD IS GREAT AND COMPASSIONATE *ALWAYS*!:) So grateful for you too, Kati, and everyone doing amazing work online- thank you all! Take care and stay safe and healthy everyone!:)
So nice of you to share your experiences and give advice to others considering this type of work. If only everyone were as open, honest, and available. Thanks.
This is very helpful. Thank you!! I’ve been following you for years and decided to finish my BA and switch to psychology in January. Now I’m thinking of pursuing Music Therapy afterwards.
Thank you for this video, Kati. I've been going back and forth on the idea of pursuing psychology/counseling for a long time as well as social work and what the differences are. I know I want to help people overcome their challenges. I do have my own mental illness, and experiences that have, unfortunately, led to depression, in childhood, in adulthood, and even still today. Knowing that does make me feel nervous about pursuing my career in counseling. Even so, I feel, and even more so, after listening to what you said on that subject, that I can help people even if I need help myself. I am never going to get to that moment in life where all my problems go away, and because I know this, it's important to take the chance on this career path anyway. Plus, I LOVE learning and about self-help, psychology, wellness, etc. since I was 13 years old. All I want to do is help people with the information I learn about. But in my life, I do not have an avenue for such things. My family and friends don't come to me looking for advice, and I can't just bombard them with help when I see them struggling. I worry because I am a sensitive person, and I am afraid that I won't be strong enough for them. I am worried that I may get to close to my patients...Although most of the time when friends confide in me their pains and worries, I am pretty calm, understanding, non-judgemental, and serious about helping them when they ask. I know I need training, but I feel like this is my path. Again, thank you so much for this video. It really put some things into perspective.
This was so refreshing to watch! I am a recently qualified music therapist in Ireland and I am still finding my feet. Thank you for being so honest a lot of what you said resonated with me especially the importance of personal therapy!! In Ireland we are required to undertake ongoing supervision even as a licenced music therapist.
Thank you for the video! I’m in a Master of Social Work program. My internship is as a therapist. After graduation it’d be the same process for me to obtain licensure (LCSW). But I know the pay is higher than $14/hr now once I register for ASW. As a contractor it’s anywhere from $25-35/hr in California. And that’s without taking an exam.
i'm currently getting my masters in clinical psychology and just got accepted into a program (3 more years of school & practicum) to become a therapist. i'm having some doubts and am just so nervous for what lies ahead and this video was really helpful. :)
Good luck for u . It’s ok I guess all of us would feel that way too but take it easy and one by one 😊. I am still undergraduate but I felt nervous too😂.
I was in business for a while. Wanted to become a nurse. Took all the prerequisites. But decided to get my degree in Psychology. I've always wanted to get my Phd but life happens. This pass year I've thought about working on my master's. I know I can do it.
Might it be possible that it is a field of yours you have to work on? Might be that you learn a lot from that and be extra valuable for others. You have seen it, done that..and you will be able to recognize it in others...and help them...Because you have been there!
I love your videos. I am 46 and started studying psychology when one of my daughters was diagnosed dyslexic 2 years ago. Your videos are helping me with my research, and building strategies. I’m a long term academic, and entrepreneur but I’m happy to say I learn something almost everyday from your videos. I’m a new subscriber to your channel and still watching your 3-4 year old videos because that’s where I am in my studies. Thanks Kati. 😊👍
I've always seen myself drawn to this field, I have had amazing people in my life in this career and I just failed out of RAD school, I already have so many classes from my first year thinking about this career... I think i might give it another shot !
Congrats on paying off the loans! You so deserve it and what a hard career to accomplish that so early in. You should feel so proud for paying it forward! Love this video thank you!
I’ve always been so so inspired to be a therapist because I’ve always hated the feelings of anxiety and holding stuff in and I want to help people to not have to hold it it and be a good person for people so people know that it’s ok if you feel like that and you can just go to me and let it out
I'm finishing up my 2nd internship this week and will be graduating with my MSW in August. I agree... it's HARD work but I wouldn't wanna do anything else. It's my passion.
Hi Kati!! I've my Bachelor Degree in Psychology and my Master in Forensic Psychology and it's great ❤❤!! There's more to come however. Thanks for sharing and have a great week as well 😆😆!!
I'm 1 year away from my PhD in clinical psychology (about to go on internship) and share many of the same experiences as you. I agree that the terminology is weird - we have to do 2-3 years of practicum, 1 year of internship/residency, and then most places require a postdoctoral fellowship (plus passing the EPPP) to be an independent practitioner. Decided to pursue grad school after working at a psychiatric hospital. I initially thought I was going to be a pure clinician, but I'm now leaning towards a primarily research-oriented career within behavioral medicine/health psychology.
Hey Kati! I’ve never actually thought about becoming a therapist until recently. It’s started because some of my friends have some mental issues. And in the last two weeks it’s gotten out of hand for my best friend, and I knew I had to help her. Unfortunately I couldn’t help her in person because we are online friends, so we had to make do with Discord and WhatsApp. It was really hard even getting her to talk to me because she started shutting everyone out, left servers, gcs, blocked me on most social medias etc. So just getting to talk to her was a hard task. But once I got to the point of getting unblocked, it only started with step 2. Getting her to actually talk to me, even if it wasn’t about her problems. That alone took me an entire week. It made me extremely stressed, especially with school, work and my own personal problems, but I knew I wanted to help her, so I didn’t even consider stopping because she means so much to me. And once I got her to talk to me (at least kinda), she told me she didn’t want help and that she didn’t want to get better. So what I did was tell her that she might not know she wanted it until she gets it, so I said you’re getting help whether you want it or not. I wrote an entire essay, which was 2.6k words and many Discord messages long and sent it to her. She’d read it all and then we kept talking about it. She promised me she would try her hardest not to give up, and even though she almost did give up in the middle of the conversation, it ended with us both going to bed after making her promise to send me a text after waking up. The worst thing about this wasn’t the getting her to talk to me. It was the fact that I didn’t and still don’t really know how to help her, because truth is, I’m not a therapist, so how would I know the right thing to say? I really want to understand her and other people’s struggles because I don’t want anyone to go through them alone simply because *they don’t have to*. I basically went to bed yesterday and the last thing I told myself was “I want to become a therapist.” Yeaaaaaaaahhhhhh that’s it. I’m only 16, so I’ve got a lot ahead of me, but we will see what the future decides to bring. - Jayden
It was because of finding your videos in 2015 that I realized my passion for wanting to be a therapist and I’m still on the road to hopefully getting my license eventually but the financial side is stopping me progress further at the moment
This is truly uplifting and resourceful. Thank you so much for sharing this🙏🌻 I'm currently in grad school getting my degree on counseling & psychotherapy. I did my internship back in 2019 till mid 2020 to earn 1k hours and the amount of anxiety attacks I got was appalling😅 indeed it can be exhausting- working and fulfilling other academic requirements..but also very rewarding when you get to help people and gain experience. I still have a long way to go, but, grateful to have made it this far.
Being a therapist is very rewarding but can be pretty hard. I think it helps to have had your own history but have made your journey. For me the hardest part was being broke for years while working basically full time. I never found a paid practicum/internship. I still do a lot of pro Bono therapy as I work in a very poor/rural/under served area. I agree with mandatory therapy for therapists.
Quite the journey Kati and so many of us are glad that you made that journey. For myself, I shall continue pro bono therapy to the plants in my garden.
I have a hidden special ability to know what to do, how you feel, and being understanding never under pressure. I love helping people with their metal has I have been thru it myself and dealing with it all by myself with my own advice also I did learn some from others that I really deeply trust. I think this is for me
I'm finding as I have clawed my way out of my own depression and self-sabotage I've started realize how many people around me are exactly where I was. And I can see myself being decent at the job. Theres such a huge unfilled need (and loan forgiveness is pretty attractive ngl). Wouldn't have pursued this path if it weren't for my own therapist fighting for me to build myself up. I just wanna pay it forward.
I've been thinking of going back to school lately and I've struggled for the last 10+ years figuring out what I want to do. I've been thinking more about social worker (eventually maybe go for a masters in psychology) because I've always been passionate about helping people. But you're absolutely right.. I do need to work on my own issues and better myself before I go and through school for this
I never grew up wanting to become a therapist, but people often mention how deep and genuine I am towards others, and I normally like passing the surface-level talk and reallly talking about the important things. I am basically obsessed with Quora, i use the website whenever I feel like conversations get dry or if I feel like I have talked to an individual enough and I feel safe enough to get into in-depth questions.
You read my mind. I was thinking of writing to you as I find myself thinking of going back to school and pursuing a career as a therapist. I was just wondering what your school background was like. Thank you again for reading my mind and making this video exactly when you did. It helped so much!
Thanks Kati Superheroes may not really exist but you sure do make it seem like they do..you're a mental health hero and gave me a great boost when I was struggling with depression particularly when you urged anyone feeling depressed to get help I did...eventually. Am now fighting to help people rise above depression too ✨😊 Keep it up
Thank you so much for making this video. I am 32, and a mother of 4. It took me 6 years to get a BA in Psychology, mostly because I had to work two jobs, and raise kids, while attending school. I graduated with my BA May 2020 , and didn’t even get to walk the line hahaha (Story of my life). Any way. This last year, I have been homeschooling, pandemic mode . I told my spouse I wasn’t even sure where to start, sense I have been out of school for a year. Your video is exactly the motivation I needed. I always volunteered at shelters prior, and was a teen mom myself... so maybe I should look into going back to school just to help specific niches. Which one is the big question. 🪄🤷🏽♀️🤣. Any way. Thank you 🙏🏼
Hey Lynette, There's always things that come up in life to dissuade us so I encourage you to continue your studies. It may seem confusing but our path in life is rarely static. From someone facing turning 50 this Year & looking at a new career 🤔😧😫 I wish I could turn time back by ten years but I can't, so go for it Lynette!!!
Don’t let the gap stop you if want to continue your education! Some of my grad school friends had been out of school for 15, 18 or 20 years! It wasn’t easy but they all graduated, so you can do it too.
Thank you so much for making this video, Recently ive been doing some soul searching and really have been giving the thought of pursuing this Career some serious thought. I appreciate the video.
I've been wanting to go into psychology, I know how it feels to be not in the best mental state and I feel like I could connect to people. I don't want to be it to help myself, I just don't want others to have to deal with hard times themselves. I appreciate the video 😊
I’ve just started thinking about my future, I’ve always been a good listener so I want to get a therapy license to fall back on in case my dreams don’t work out.
Pay with a masters and doctorate degree can be very different and you will be more versatile as a Dr.. Psychologists can open private practice and make absolute bank. Doctorate programs also tend to provide a lot more financial support than masters so that couldve been worth mentioning too.
This goes out to all of my fellow humans starting on their path of wanting to become a therapist. It's a scary time full of uncertainty for us but if you're like me we must follow this flame of passion that burns within us. It's going to take bravery but we have an obligation within ourselves to do what fulfills our souls.
I watched this video while in high school and now I start my undergrad psych program in august! I so badly want to be a therapist. I really want to work with adolescence that deal with SA. I hope I make my dream come true.
Omg hearing that some therapists unload their own stuff onto clients makes my head do this 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 Literally nailed into our brains every second of every class for 3 years NOT to make anything in session about ourselves.
Practicum.... I wanted to go into psychology in 2005 or so. I was swayed to get a bachelor in business. Ugh. I got that in 2009 - then - in 2009 I entered my MBA program. In 2011 - I earned my mba. I think I need to go toward this masters in psychology. I'm 47. I'm not getting younger. Yet Practicum. I know it's not paid !
If you live in a country where therapy is not funded by taxes (at least partially) then be careful. I had one who was a narcissist, lacked empathy and actively gave me advice that made my situation worse so I would keep coming back with more problems. She actively set my development back about 2 years. Not to mention would start sessions late, end them early etc.. I was desperate and miserable and did not figure out what was going on until a long time after I decided to stop going. In countries where my therapy was not completely private, it only took a few sessions to really help me figure my shit out.
I am a trained psychotherapist in the field of clinical psychology from the State of Sudan, after I graduated from the university and entered the world of practical psychotherapy , I have my first sessions I got into real patients , which was very difficult as I was training in a prison psychology unit that I found my self face to face with Psychiatric patients and those with crimes , like were dealing with psychiatric patients alone It is not enough for a trainee , In addition to the very poor training system in my country , where you have to struggle yourself to get the experience you want. Indeed when I studied at the university , I did not expect that doing psychotherapy is a very difficult like that . To describe that I was suffering from a severe headache after every session I did because of the focus and the excess of information that I had to pay attention to, not to mention that everything I learned at university was not enough, not even to do the smallest treatment session , I still have about 6 months in the training program to become a licensed Therapist but day after day I increase my love and passion for what I do and I find it better to do. Like who Kate, said offering mental health care to others is the basis of this field in the end it is a field of human services , Thanks you very much Kate I am really I new in subscriber in your channel, But I can said you impersonation my in my journey , And I have many to learn from your informative and enjoyable videos.
Aww loved this vid man❤ I’m a freshman in high school barely doing any research on a career path, and anything health related is really calling my attention 🤗 this really gives me a bigger perspective other than the teachers I ask at my school and all that 😆
I’m in school now preparing to be a marriage counselor. I want people to have a wonderful marriage like I have. But I doubt myself because no one ever cares what I think about serious issues. I’m the comedian, the nerd, the gamer. My wife has ZERO knowledge about counseling but people flock to her smiling face and listening ear. It’s hard to believe I could help anyone.
I think being a “comedian” will really come in handy, especially if you know when to use humor vs. be serious! That’s a skill that’ll help your clients feel comfortable to talk to you. At least, it’s something that helps me-therapy isn’t all yelling and/or crying.
I'd rather have someone like you than a super serious and rigid therapist who thinks I'm a damaged "case" and not an actual human being with life experiences. Your heart is in the right place so just keep going. You'll do great!
All 👏🏻therapists👏🏻should👏🏻be👏🏻in👏🏻therapy👏🏻. To not project their own issues onto clients, reflect on personal bias, and to vent in a confidential place. Also for compassion fatigue. I’m learning so much in my clinical internship for grad school and love working with my population. I feel so confident to go on and get my LCSW licensure.
I know this question isn’t for me, and hopefully Kati will reply later. But yes, you absolutely can. However, you need to have good control over your illnesses and make sure that you’re not letting your own issues influence your practice, as this can do more damage than good. Most therapists or mental health professionals have had first-hand experience with mental illness and trauma, and this is often what draws them into the profession, and is why they’re so good at empathising with their patients! So mental health issues aren’t necessarily a solely negative factor in the therapy profession, however you would have to be VERY careful that you are receiving treatment and are very self aware in terms of making sure the therapeutic relationship will be a healthy one, despite your struggles. The studying, along with all areas of higher education, is hard and very stressful. Mental health issues may be a barrier, however it definitely isn’t impossible. There are plenty of professionals out there with diagnosed mental illnesses who are very good at what they do. Hope this helps and good luck with your future studies/career!
I am a psychology student and I have mental health issues too. Yes you can definitely be a therapist however you need to work on your own issues and put them under control . Try to see a therapist while you are on your way to become a therapist.
@@desireeluidens2080 I see your point but we are all humans therapists might also struggle sometimes. I might feel embarrassed a little bit first but you know what that’s a huge brave and strength that you worked on your own issues then you felt ok then you became a therapist who can help others to feel good as the way you felt good after therapy. I realized that my mental health issues and struggles let me understand and feel people more as a human not only as applying the knowledgeable I learn. Well if you don’t feel comfortable work in another place you didn’t have therapy in 😃.
Becoming a therapist is a serious job, people seem to get a degree because they need a job. No wonder most therapists are useless, they literally just listen without any feedback because they don’t know what to say. Waste of money time and effort for the client. I went thru a couple and still couldn’t figure it out. Life will teach one way or the other.
Those vignettes that you were talking about yes I heard of them before. I was dating a guy back in 2010 and he was telling me about his vignettes that he had to do. Actually in 2009 when I started my MBA program he wanted me to go into the same program that he was in a masters in Psychology. And I told him I would not enter in that program because I knew him sadly. Sadly I didn't know that he would do this until after I started dating him. He wanted me to do the work for him. While I was getting my Bachelor's in business as a junior and see here in undergrad in 2007/2008 he was asking me to do his papers and writing them and typing them up and he was in his master's program. It took him at least four years and I'm not sure if he completed that master's program. I can see why it was difficult for him get through all his classes. I remember him telling me about those vignettes that he had to do
It's probably 20 to 30 years too late for me. Although I must admit, that I do consider switching into this profession, but at least for now I could only do it as a part time job, besides the fact that I would have to go back to study at least 4 more years. But through you Kati and all the kinions I see that I really love to help people. So for now it is the question for me: turn my life upside down completely with uncertain financial outcome? Or stick with the professional field I am in for a living and get the education parallel and maybe in my retirement I can work as a therapist.
You're not alone in being at a big crossroads!! The TED talk below helped me figure out a different way of looking at hard choices -- maybe it can help you too. Sending strength and clarity, Christoph!!! ua-cam.com/video/8GQZuzIdeQQ/v-deo.html
Not too late. I decided at 50 to do a full stop career change to become a counselor. Graduate school at 50.. never expected it. But I'm so happy I did it. Now working for a private practice and it's so rewarding! So DO IT!!! Life is too short to be unhappy 💕
Props to you for working so hard! And thank you for all your videos, you are really helping me discover more about myself and holding on during this crazy time! I have a request: could you do a video about triggers? What can be a trigger and explain what exactly means "being triggered"? Thank you very much for all your constant hard work!
I’m thinking of becoming a trauma therapist. I already have one year down (freshmen year) that I finished in high school. I just hope it’s accepted since I graduated about 3 years ago but this video was very informational. Thank you.
Knowing all your accumulated debts and final exam fees and how awfully long it took through unpaid interns and work experience volunteers makes me feel bad. Especially those extra continuous learning courses you had to pay for as well. Isn't this pathway so financially stressful how is it that makes it worth it. How long after you officially became a therapist did you finally pay all your student debt? How long until you finally bought your own property? How limiting is it that after graduating you only really have three options: psychiatrist (no way!), clinical psychologist or researcher?
Thank you for sharing. That sounds like a long road to where you are now and still many rabbit trails to go on. I’m interested in really being an advocate for mental health within the emergency responder field. Planning on becoming a paramedic within the next 5 years and then I really want to work with mental Health cases drawing from my own experience having BPD.
Being a therapist takes a lot of strength. I admire everyone who is a therapist and makes a difference in people's lives!
yeah i agreat with that is true what you said
Yea, I feel the same way. I’m only 16, and a couple years back I was in a really rough time in my life, on the verge of killing myself from the end of 2021 all the way to around April of 2022. That whole time and until around September of 2022 I was in therapy and my god, I’m so thankful for everything that did for me. While someday I wanna be an artist or animator, if that doesn’t work out I think I would like to try my hand at being a therapist. The main thing I want to gain out of my career in the future is solely to change peoples lives, whether that be with the animated shows I could possibly make in the future, the tattoos I could make for people, or by giving people life advice they’ll never forget, and preventing them from death as I had witnessed first hand. It would be a hard road, but hey. My family and extended family always jokes around calling me the family therapist, as I’m always the person they go to for advice. Maybe I got a chance :)
@@pokeminion64keep going, you'll do great things :)
im hoping to go to school for counseling
I’m becoming a psychotherapist because I’m naturally good at it. Everyone uses me as their therapist I have a lot of empathy and understanding. Also I dealt with my own trauma and I don’t want anyone, mainly children to grow up feeling unheard and unseen
This comment! I feel the same way and hope I can use my natural talents to help others in therapy. I want everyone to be seen and heard too
This is sooo me!!!! I understand you and I want to start psychology graduation
What’s route are you guys all taking to become one? A masters in Behavioral Health?
Only the one who learns to be humble will ever be a good psychotherapist that is actually able to help people!
You can't compare advising your friends and family to really treating people with serious health issues. So maybe you are right, but there are also quite a few narcissists out there who are more than convinced to be the most empathic and wise people in the world.
So in favour of all your future patients bear in mind that you might not be as perfect and gifted as you may think today...
How did you find out you were naturally good? What are your main strengths that help you
It's really upsetting,that it is so financially stressful to become a therapist. I think,that the system in Scandinavian countries is much better, you don't have to drown in debt to get a degree there. I'm so glad,that you became a therapist regardless of the circumstances. Your videos helped me in my recovery more,than my in person visits to psychiatrist and therapist.
It’s nice to know videos on UA-cam are more helpful than in person visits. Saves a lot of time and money. Thank you!
@@abe_ismainit can be, if you don't need feedback, but sometimes you need a real person to talk to
Maybe, but therapists in Sweden at least, do not hold a good quality. They frankly destroy one's life and make one more sick,sleepless, damaged, burnt out, isolated, and handicapped than ever before. I have sought a therapist for 42 years and wonder where they hide away their conscience, humanity, true self.
I have worked to keep myself up and hopeful but am so traumatized and harmed and in crisis realizing now that I can't and won't even live like this much longer, and that my life and chances have neen squandered and that positive thinking.and self-control, forgiveness, research to see whether I and my needs are reasonable..
I want result now, get resources I have the right to and got accepted/promise dmany years ago. Some good advice, instructions or support, anyone? Thanks.
@@Medietos can you give some examples on how they might destroy or make your life worse? just curious
I also have my masters in clinical psychology (class of 2009). The best therapists are those who have struggled mentally themselves. You should never discourage someone who has had mental health issues to pass up the opportunity to help others in the capacity of a mental health counselor. Especially in the field of eating disorders- I have struggled with an eating disorder for numerous years. Having had this personal experience gives me an advantage in working in this field with others who are looking to someone who has “been through it” themselves.
Exactly!!!
Totally agree!
I agree ! I want to be a therapist because I know what it’s like how it’s feel the mental anguish of being traumatised and my struggles are not in vain ! It’s meant to help light the way for others
You're damn right
Perfectly said, I know I want to be in a field that honors God and Jesus Christ . I am in the middle of battling a eating disorder myself. I know the church can make people feel bad for having tuff season, but, even when you read about king David in the Bible he had tuff seasons and was still loved by God. When we struggle we must know God still lives us. Jesus Christ said to God while being on the cross God why have You forsaken me. We will have troubles in this life but remember you are more than a conqueror in Christ! You can tell God your real honest to God emotions and still be respectful to Him. God does His many miracles through people so, I hate that the church at times say you don’t need therapy you need God. When He is in all things. Read the book of acts in the Bible (I read NLT) the disciples were learning to live life without seeing Jesus Christ with the naked eye, yet believing He was and still is here. Therapy aligns with God’s word so if you read it with an open mind knowing God and Jesus Christ actually love you and don’t want to just catch every fault and make you suffer then you can understand Their heart more. Please know that you are loved and make sure you let other people know as well. God bless you all and have a great day I pray that this helped, Amen 🙏🏻
I was in foster care as a kid and that experience had a crap load of so many traumas. I realize a lot of therapists dont understand the unique traumas and spiritual impacts of that experience and how it affects them. I want to help that community of people, current and former foster children.
I'm starting college in the fall and I'm majoring in psychology. I really want to be therapist. I want to work with adolescents. This video was so informative. Thanks, Kati!
do it! I have been working with adolscents in therapy for 8 years now and its my fav population to work with
You have that therapist look
hows it going
Y’all may want to think twice. You’re likely gonna work in under funded over worked places and get burnt out. Not everyone wants help and in my experience you will work briefly with a lot of people and never truly make progress. The dream is to help people but really it seems to be more about just sitting with people through some of the worst times in their life then never seeing them again. It can be depressing and discouraging and can warp your view of the world. That and have a ton of student loans. Also, not to make much once out of school. Only made 35 k a year when just out of school. I could’ve been a manager at QT and avoided the loans. Just sumfn to consider. I wish I knew what to expect ahead of time. To end on a positive, I think it’ll be a good job I won’t have to retire from because it is mostly just sitting with people. And yea, it is most definitely an honor for clients to trust ya and to be allowed to hear their story.
A tough lesson I learned in undergrad is that your job satisfaction can't be connected to your client outcomes. It's ok to cheer them on when they do well, but it's their journey. Self determination can be a trip. Also, the loans 😑.
Really good point! Its hard to know when to draw the line with caring for your patients. How far are you willing to go to help them and not be dragged into their lives...so confusing.
That's actually my biggest fear! Not knowing how to separate my own emotions from my patients emotions! Not being able to sleep knowing what they're going through, idk!!
@@ingrid5944i've thought about this. now i'm just a clueless teen with no experience, but i think part of being a therapist or a doctor includes having to distance yourself from your clients. it's about them, not about you. your only focus should be to help them.
and when you're out of the office, the focus is back on yourself!
Hi Kati, I’ve wanted to be a therapist since I was a teenager. I went to university right after high school, studied there for 5 years and finished most of my degree. Unfortunately, life got in the way, I was faced with all kinds of obstacles and lost sight of my goals. Now, I’m 29 and I’m returning to school to finish my degree and I Intend to go all the way to the masters. I realize now that this is what I’ve always wanted to do, I’m answering to a calling that’s loud and clear. Thank you for this video, it was so motivational and I’m sure I will see this a few more times. Happy holidays!
I am working on my MSW currently, and while I definitely have my own issues, I am motivated to use the experiences and therapy that I’ve had to really help other people. I want to work primarily with people who have complex trauma and BPD. I know that this population can be emotionally taxing to work with, so I’ve told my therapist that he’s on the job for the foreseeable future
My mother works in the mental health field and is one of those people that probably went into it unconsciously thinking it would resolve her stuff. Because she has a hard time admitting that she has any issues, she doesn't really believe in being in her own therapy. It's sad, because she could be doing more harm than good. She once told me she told her depressed clients to "snap out of it". Even I, completely untrained, knew this was terrible and harmful.
I genuinely think there are a lot of therapists out there that think there's nothing wrong with them, they don't need their own therapy and that "helping" other people with their mental health makes them feel better about themselves.
she was probably getting sick of the whining but she signed up for it 🤷♂ theres no way she doesnt know some people with depression if not most have a chemical imbalance causing depression
Saying something like that should be grounds for termination, seriously!
@@Jesse-ex6pn I don’t know what she thinks of depression but I believe she experiences it herself. She’s never outright said “I have depression” that but that’d be my guess.
That first point about not bringing your issues to your work really hits hard. I've had a pretty bad experience with this because my first therapist actually spent most of the time in our sessions ranting about work than helping me out. It kinda felt like we did a switcheroo. I mean I'm glad they were able to vent and relax but I just come out of that office more confused than before I went in there
horrible. Does this happen a lot?
Yea, please speak up about it to them… maybe find another therapist if you don’t think that will work? I recommend, before each session, think or write down what you want to talk about specifically, so you can maximize the time you spend and on things that really matter to you.
And how does that make you Feel? 🤔
Same. My first therapist was constantly canceling sessions on me because she had health issues or her own mental health issues she hadn't worked on.
Thank you for this post. After 7 years in an English literature phd, 4 of which were pretty much miserable, I just decided about 4 months ago to drop out to pursue a masters in mental health counseling. I'm very excited, and very scared. So hearing your experiences is really helpful. I just got accepted to my first program yesterday; so the path is hopefully finally beginning. So glad to have found your channel!
Congrats on getting accepted! :-)
wow... how's it going now? Now a years passed. Hope to see more stories from you.
The scariest thing about being a therapist is the therapy. School is easy, practicing with other students is easy. All of that is easy. What's hard is getting into a session and implanting everything without overdoing it and doing it in a way that suits the client and making sure not to transfer your stuff to them. It's a very interesting process. Also, never get into this for the pay.. it's not about the pay.
I feel the opposite, I think making the journey to becoming a therapist is a gonna be challenging but when I’m face to face with somebody, I’ll relax and let them talk and everything will be ok
@@arod09 I think schooling was super easy. My internship made me comfortable in the therapy office with clients. Not school.
i wanna go into psychology and being a therapist was 1 of the jobs i was looking at, u said not to donit for the money and as much as i do want to help people i am looking for smth that pays decent too, any recommendations or ur opinion on the topic?
@@Bkay08 being a therapist can make decent money, I'm not sure what other career options there are, you could look into it further before going that route
@@irenegracelife i def will, thank you for ur feedback that was a lot quicker than i was expecting, have a great rest of ur day
I am a psychology student 🤩 but I came to it because of my weird life. However, I then started to want to help others and I hope to understand people. Thanks for your awesome videos 😍🌷much love to u .
Love your spirit!
Me too but I don’t know how to start
The Count of Montecito is onto the Therapy game now.
I’m currently in practicum & a grad program working to become an LMFT! It’s SO frustrating not getting paid for the work 😓 I’m fortunate enough to be able to live at home so I was able to quit my job to just focus on practicum. But otherwise idk how others do it! 🙏🏼
Some states actually pay their practicum trainees!
Why don’t you get paid for your internship during grad school?
I'm 47. I just started working but of course I don't have a masters in psychology. And I really want to go that route and I got an MBA instead. I listen to my friend instead of listening to my heart my heart told me to go towards psychology my friend told me to go toward a business degree because I can use it anywhere. And I can't afford to not get paid. Not everybody has a mommy and daddy that they can live with and not everybody has a brother or sister that they can live with. Not everybody has a spouse that they can live with that pays the rent. I paid my own rent. So for me to start a program now at the age of 47? The only way it's going to happen is if some magic person comes into my life and adopts me as their daughter and someone wants to become my mother or I marry someone
Thank you for doing it, praying you’ll make a great difference in ppls life
@@sandbar3000 Where there is a will there's a way. You could take out loans and pay them back later on.
If it's your dream be prepared to go to great lengths for it.
Omg I’ve been waiting for this video FOREVER!!!!
Melissa Hatfield. Hello just been watching kati s Monday video as I missed it I seen your name and wanted to say hi maybe we will meet here again 🙂
@@nikkimckay860 heyyy my buddy!
I'm so grateful to the therapists I've seen over the years. Heaven knows I wouldn't be here without them 🤗
this is why I want to become a therapist
As someone in their last semester in a Clinical Mental Health Counseling grad program, this is going to be so helpful for others curious about entering our field. I didn't have anything like this when I was in high school and undergrad and I would have loved to watch a video like this! I'm on track to becoming a Registered Play Therapist (RPT) so I'm working with kiddos :) I love every minute I'm in the playroom with one of my clients!
Wow, this video couldn't come at a better time Kati! I am 42 and will be getting my BA in Psychology next month. I struggle with ADD and it's been quite the challenge to finish school. I chose the " family first" path, and now here I am, wondering what I will do with my life. I know studying for me is not easy, even though I love the subject of mental health. My dream would be to become a therapist, I'm just not sure if it's even possible with my focusing problems. I've never tried medication, and I've always just gotten by. I have seen a therapist before, but we never really worked on skills for my ADD. Anyway, hopefully, I can figure out my life very soon, as I feel I can't waste any more time. Thanks for the very informative video!
I’m 12 years and found happiness in my life already. I’ve realized how many people actually need help with mental health and stuff. So I want to become a therapist and idc if I’m young, I wanna start right now. I’ve always been the therapist of the group and my friends at least say they feel better after talking to me. I think it’s important to dream big and work for your dreams. So, I’ll start already
Hey! Don't worry about being young, it just means you've found your calling early. Coming from someone who's 15 right now though, make sure to make room for your childhood too. I struggled to find a lot of balance between helping others early and spending time as a teen. Remember, you can't make others feel good if you don't feel good either.
I'm 16 and just figured out therapist might be my calling! If you want to start learning a little about neuroscience already there's a podcast called "no stupid questions" I enjoy! Don't forget to have fun and make sure your friends listen to your problems too!
I absolutely love my job as a counsellor. You're so inspiring, Katie and inspire me to keep going with my channel. THANK YOU
I love the closing remarks.
I watched this video because I want to be a therapist why because I love helping people by giving advice. I think I'm getting the hang of it now.
Thanks
I’m a Psychology major still in my undergrad and I was fortunate enough to have a job as a Behavior Therapist for autistic kids. My goal is to become a clinical child psychologist but I’m slowly getting my experience through this different form of therapy and still being with kids. I want to thank you for this insight and I am ready to continue.
That's great !! I want to do that! What qualifications do you need to get that position? because I am a psychology major still in undergrad struggling to find a job tbh
@@cece7504 Prior experience working with children and high school diploma
Look into the Association for Play Therapy- they have 28 approved play therapy centers across the country where you can get a play therapy specialization with your counseling-related master's degree (typically Clinical Mental Health Counseling). I'm on this track currently and it prepares you to work with kids. I don't know how anyone works with children without getting formal play therapy education.
@@kluurp2655 I actually worked at a daycare for a year before I was given my current job and it definitely helped making my decision working with kids.
I’m a dietitian about to finish my masters degree and I could not be in a different part of the field than I thought I’d be lol! My internship was so eye opening and helpful. I was certain I’d do NICU for my entire career, and I’m doing independent consultant work in a geriatric population! 😝
How do you like being a dietitian?
@@eliserhoads3364 oh I love it. Didn’t love school 😂 but now that I’m done it’s my dream 🫶🏻
As a 16 year old, I want to become a therapist in the name of, of course helping people. I don’t want to help them because I think I can immediately change them or show the magical light never seen. I want to help in the sense that if it doesn’t help now, maybe at some point in their life, it will. Being in the nursing field has taught me that physically, it’s great to help. But the biggest moments for me is when I actually get to talk to them. To understand how they feel, to have a moment where they don’t have to feel their pain alone. If I chose to become therapist, I can only hope that I make a difference to others.
Thank you, the first tip is absolutely the reason I want to go into therapy. I want a career that helps people, and as mental health gains more awareness it feels like an amazing career. I've been researching a degree in Gender Studies along with psychology. This is really helpful and makes me feel more like a better fit for a therapist
I am dropping out of art school to be a therapist , I also am doing my own therapy ! I want to help people they are not alone they are loved and special and they can get through anything ! This is my calling
Funfact: "Praktikum" is the german word for internship (I was surprised to suddenly hear you say a word so close to German :D)
Could you make a video about things you do and don’t like about being a therapist?
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@@cuppiesaur She is a therapist.
@@cuppiesaur how come You think she's not a therapist? Were You able to at least listen to her? Disappointing comment.
I am so grateful for my current therapist as well as my previous therapist, they are so wonderful- God bless you all, you all are amazing!!!:) GOD IS GREAT AND COMPASSIONATE *ALWAYS*!:) So grateful for you too, Kati, and everyone doing amazing work online- thank you all! Take care and stay safe and healthy everyone!:)
So nice of you to share your experiences and give advice to others considering this type of work. If only everyone were as open, honest, and available. Thanks.
I’m so glad you chose this career path Kati! ❤️😊
This is very helpful. Thank you!! I’ve been following you for years and decided to finish my BA and switch to psychology in January. Now I’m thinking of pursuing Music Therapy afterwards.
Thank you for this video, Kati. I've been going back and forth on the idea of pursuing psychology/counseling for a long time as well as social work and what the differences are. I know I want to help people overcome their challenges. I do have my own mental illness, and experiences that have, unfortunately, led to depression, in childhood, in adulthood, and even still today. Knowing that does make me feel nervous about pursuing my career in counseling. Even so, I feel, and even more so, after listening to what you said on that subject, that I can help people even if I need help myself. I am never going to get to that moment in life where all my problems go away, and because I know this, it's important to take the chance on this career path anyway. Plus, I LOVE learning and about self-help, psychology, wellness, etc. since I was 13 years old. All I want to do is help people with the information I learn about. But in my life, I do not have an avenue for such things. My family and friends don't come to me looking for advice, and I can't just bombard them with help when I see them struggling. I worry because I am a sensitive person, and I am afraid that I won't be strong enough for them. I am worried that I may get to close to my patients...Although most of the time when friends confide in me their pains and worries, I am pretty calm, understanding, non-judgemental, and serious about helping them when they ask. I know I need training, but I feel like this is my path. Again, thank you so much for this video. It really put some things into perspective.
We are literally the same person omg 🥲
This was so refreshing to watch! I am a recently qualified music therapist in Ireland and I am still finding my feet. Thank you for being so honest a lot of what you said resonated with me especially the importance of personal therapy!! In Ireland we are required to undertake ongoing supervision even as a licenced music therapist.
Thank you for the video! I’m in a Master of Social Work program. My internship is as a therapist. After graduation it’d be the same process for me to obtain licensure (LCSW). But I know the pay is higher than $14/hr now once I register for ASW. As a contractor it’s anywhere from $25-35/hr in California. And that’s without taking an exam.
Hey! I’m a LCSW in Chicago! I’ve made multiple videos about my journey if you’re interested! Either way, I’m wishing you all the best!
i'm currently getting my masters in clinical psychology and just got accepted into a program (3 more years of school & practicum) to become a therapist. i'm having some doubts and am just so nervous for what lies ahead and this video was really helpful. :)
Good luck for u . It’s ok I guess all of us would feel that way too but take it easy and one by one 😊. I am still undergraduate but I felt nervous too😂.
Thank you for sharing. Is it a US school? If so would you mind sharing your experiences with grad school search
@@artexpo8125 i'm in germany so i'm afraid i can't help :/ but the best of luck to you ❤
@@blondinevloggt sure. Good luck to you as well.
I was in business for a while. Wanted to become a nurse. Took all the prerequisites. But decided to get my degree in Psychology. I've always wanted to get my Phd but life happens. This pass year I've thought about working on my master's. I know I can do it.
Thank you for making things clearer. Your love for helping people through psychology is inspiring
Two of my therapists have suggested this to me. I feel like I would be an ok therapist but I would take home my work too often.
Might it be possible that it is a field of yours you have to work on? Might be that you learn a lot from that and be extra valuable for others. You have seen it, done that..and you will be able to recognize it in others...and help them...Because you have been there!
Any decent graduate program will teach you ways to learn how to leave your work at work. That is, if the program is CACREP accredited! (for US).
@@kluurp2655 I agree. While there are times where I still take home my work it’s not nearly as often as I thought it would be going in to it.
I've been researching becoming an art therapist this video came at just the right time thanks as always Kati!
Thanks for being you Kati! Glad there's someone straightforward like you who looks out for others. 💕💖🥰
Well, you are pretty awesome at what you do in educating us!!!
I love your videos. I am 46 and started studying psychology when one of my daughters was diagnosed dyslexic 2 years ago. Your videos are helping me with my research, and building strategies. I’m a long term academic, and entrepreneur but I’m happy to say I learn something almost everyday from your videos. I’m a new subscriber to your channel and still watching your 3-4 year old videos because that’s where I am in my studies.
Thanks Kati. 😊👍
I've always seen myself drawn to this field, I have had amazing people in my life in this career and I just failed out of RAD school, I already have so many classes from my first year thinking about this career... I think i might give it another shot !
Congrats on paying off the loans! You so deserve it and what a hard career to accomplish that so early in. You should feel so proud for paying it forward! Love this video thank you!
Thank you, Kati. 💗🙏🏾 You have been so motivating as I follow my path on a mid-life career change to become a licensed professional counselor.
I’ve always been so so inspired to be a therapist because I’ve always hated the feelings of anxiety and holding stuff in and I want to help people to not have to hold it it and be a good person for people so people know that it’s ok if you feel like that and you can just go to me and let it out
I'm finishing up my 2nd internship this week and will be graduating with my MSW in August. I agree... it's HARD work but I wouldn't wanna do anything else. It's my passion.
A therapist is a masters level clinician.
Hi Kati!! I've my Bachelor Degree in Psychology and my Master in Forensic Psychology and it's great ❤❤!! There's more to come however. Thanks for sharing and have a great week as well 😆😆!!
I'm 1 year away from my PhD in clinical psychology (about to go on internship) and share many of the same experiences as you. I agree that the terminology is weird - we have to do 2-3 years of practicum, 1 year of internship/residency, and then most places require a postdoctoral fellowship (plus passing the EPPP) to be an independent practitioner. Decided to pursue grad school after working at a psychiatric hospital. I initially thought I was going to be a pure clinician, but I'm now leaning towards a primarily research-oriented career within behavioral medicine/health psychology.
Hey Kati!
I’ve never actually thought about becoming a therapist until recently. It’s started because some of my friends have some mental issues. And in the last two weeks it’s gotten out of hand for my best friend, and I knew I had to help her. Unfortunately I couldn’t help her in person because we are online friends, so we had to make do with Discord and WhatsApp. It was really hard even getting her to talk to me because she started shutting everyone out, left servers, gcs, blocked me on most social medias etc. So just getting to talk to her was a hard task. But once I got to the point of getting unblocked, it only started with step 2. Getting her to actually talk to me, even if it wasn’t about her problems. That alone took me an entire week. It made me extremely stressed, especially with school, work and my own personal problems, but I knew I wanted to help her, so I didn’t even consider stopping because she means so much to me. And once I got her to talk to me (at least kinda), she told me she didn’t want help and that she didn’t want to get better. So what I did was tell her that she might not know she wanted it until she gets it, so I said you’re getting help whether you want it or not. I wrote an entire essay, which was 2.6k words and many Discord messages long and sent it to her. She’d read it all and then we kept talking about it. She promised me she would try her hardest not to give up, and even though she almost did give up in the middle of the conversation, it ended with us both going to bed after making her promise to send me a text after waking up.
The worst thing about this wasn’t the getting her to talk to me. It was the fact that I didn’t and still don’t really know how to help her, because truth is, I’m not a therapist, so how would I know the right thing to say? I really want to understand her and other people’s struggles because I don’t want anyone to go through them alone simply because *they don’t have to*. I basically went to bed yesterday and the last thing I told myself was “I want to become a therapist.” Yeaaaaaaaahhhhhh that’s it. I’m only 16, so I’ve got a lot ahead of me, but we will see what the future decides to bring.
- Jayden
Kati i Been watching you for the last 2 months I think You are amazing you have helped me out so much on Health issues Thanks from Uk
It was because of finding your videos in 2015 that I realized my passion for wanting to be a therapist and I’m still on the road to hopefully getting my license eventually but the financial side is stopping me progress further at the moment
Just what I needed. I start my BA in psychology next week! I know I am on the right path towards my goals...
It's a lot of work! And, as with everything, in order to excel, you have to be passionate about it.
This is truly uplifting and resourceful. Thank you so much for sharing this🙏🌻 I'm currently in grad school getting my degree on counseling & psychotherapy. I did my internship back in 2019 till mid 2020 to earn 1k hours and the amount of anxiety attacks I got was appalling😅 indeed it can be exhausting- working and fulfilling other academic requirements..but also very rewarding when you get to help people and gain experience. I still have a long way to go, but, grateful to have made it this far.
Getting my masters in social work right now to be a school social worker. I love your videos, they are all so helpful during school!
Being a therapist is very rewarding but can be pretty hard. I think it helps to have had your own history but have made your journey. For me the hardest part was being broke for years while working basically full time. I never found a paid practicum/internship.
I still do a lot of pro Bono therapy as I work in a very poor/rural/under served area.
I agree with mandatory therapy for therapists.
Quite the journey Kati and so many of us are glad that you made that journey. For myself, I shall continue pro bono therapy to the plants in my garden.
I have a hidden special ability to know what to do, how you feel, and being understanding never under pressure. I love helping people with their metal has I have been thru it myself and dealing with it all by myself with my own advice also I did learn some from others that I really deeply trust. I think this is for me
I'm finding as I have clawed my way out of my own depression and self-sabotage I've started realize how many people around me are exactly where I was. And I can see myself being decent at the job. Theres such a huge unfilled need (and loan forgiveness is pretty attractive ngl). Wouldn't have pursued this path if it weren't for my own therapist fighting for me to build myself up. I just wanna pay it forward.
I've been thinking of going back to school lately and I've struggled for the last 10+ years figuring out what I want to do. I've been thinking more about social worker (eventually maybe go for a masters in psychology) because I've always been passionate about helping people. But you're absolutely right.. I do need to work on my own issues and better myself before I go and through school for this
I never grew up wanting to become a therapist, but people often mention how deep and genuine I am towards others, and I normally like passing the surface-level talk and reallly talking about the important things. I am basically obsessed with Quora, i use the website whenever I feel like conversations get dry or if I feel like I have talked to an individual enough and I feel safe enough to get into in-depth questions.
You read my mind. I was thinking of writing to you as I find myself thinking of going back to school and pursuing a career as a therapist. I was just wondering what your school background was like. Thank you again for reading my mind and making this video exactly when you did. It helped so much!
Thanks Kati Superheroes may not really exist but you sure do make it seem like they do..you're a mental health hero and gave me a great boost when I was struggling with depression particularly when you urged anyone feeling depressed to get help I did...eventually. Am now fighting to help people rise above depression too ✨😊 Keep it up
I just want to give advice and be a listening ear for those who don't have anyone. Everybody deserves to have somebody to have a safe space with.
Thank you so much for making this video. I am 32, and a mother of 4. It took me 6 years to get a BA in Psychology, mostly because I had to work two jobs, and raise kids, while attending school.
I graduated with my BA May 2020 , and didn’t even get to walk the line hahaha
(Story of my life).
Any way. This last year, I have been homeschooling, pandemic mode . I told my spouse I wasn’t even sure where to start, sense I have been out of school for a year.
Your video is exactly the motivation I needed.
I always volunteered at shelters prior, and was a teen mom myself... so maybe I should look into going back to school just to help specific niches. Which one is the big question. 🪄🤷🏽♀️🤣.
Any way. Thank you 🙏🏼
Your journey sounds like my journey. YOU CAN DO IT!
Hey Lynette,
There's always things that come up in life to dissuade us so I encourage you to continue your studies. It may seem confusing but our path in life is rarely static. From someone facing turning 50 this Year & looking at a new career 🤔😧😫 I wish I could turn time back by ten years but I can't, so go for it Lynette!!!
You got it done despite the odds! Go you!
Don’t let the gap stop you if want to continue your education! Some of my grad school friends had been out of school for 15, 18 or 20 years! It wasn’t easy but they all graduated, so you can do it too.
Thank you so much for making this video, Recently ive been doing some soul searching and really have been giving the thought of pursuing this Career some serious thought. I appreciate the video.
I've been wanting to go into psychology, I know how it feels to be not in the best mental state and I feel like I could connect to people. I don't want to be it to help myself, I just don't want others to have to deal with hard times themselves. I appreciate the video 😊
Just be a good person. Annnd get a bachelor’s degree, a master’s degree, supervised experience, pass the test and then you are licensed.
I’ve just started thinking about my future, I’ve always been a good listener so I want to get a therapy license to fall back on in case my dreams don’t work out.
i have alot of respect for therapists who do it because they have been there too
Pay with a masters and doctorate degree can be very different and you will be more versatile as a Dr.. Psychologists can open private practice and make absolute bank. Doctorate programs also tend to provide a lot more financial support than masters so that couldve been worth mentioning too.
This goes out to all of my fellow humans starting on their path of wanting to become a therapist. It's a scary time full of uncertainty for us but if you're like me we must follow this flame of passion that burns within us. It's going to take bravery but we have an obligation within ourselves to do what fulfills our souls.
I watched this video while in high school and now I start my undergrad psych program in august! I so badly want to be a therapist. I really want to work with adolescence that deal with SA. I hope I make my dream come true.
Omg hearing that some therapists unload their own stuff onto clients makes my head do this 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
Literally nailed into our brains every second of every class for 3 years NOT to make anything in session about ourselves.
Practicum....
I wanted to go into psychology in 2005 or so. I was swayed to get a bachelor in business. Ugh.
I got that in 2009 - then - in 2009 I entered my MBA program. In 2011 - I earned my mba.
I think I need to go toward this masters in psychology. I'm 47. I'm not getting younger.
Yet Practicum. I know it's not paid !
If you live in a country where therapy is not funded by taxes (at least partially) then be careful. I had one who was a narcissist, lacked empathy and actively gave me advice that made my situation worse so I would keep coming back with more problems. She actively set my development back about 2 years. Not to mention would start sessions late, end them early etc.. I was desperate and miserable and did not figure out what was going on until a long time after I decided to stop going. In countries where my therapy was not completely private, it only took a few sessions to really help me figure my shit out.
Awesome video Kati. I just finished my undergrad degree and i have been contemplating on doing a masters degree in Sports Psychology.
I am a trained psychotherapist in the field of clinical psychology from the State of Sudan, after I graduated from the university and entered the world of practical psychotherapy , I have my first sessions I got into real patients , which was very difficult as I was training in a prison psychology unit that I found my self face to face with Psychiatric patients and those with crimes , like were dealing with psychiatric patients alone It is not enough for a trainee , In addition to the very poor training system in my country , where you have to struggle yourself to get the experience you want. Indeed when I studied at the university , I did not expect that doing psychotherapy is a very difficult like that . To describe that I was suffering from a severe headache after every session I did because of the focus and the excess of information that I had to pay attention to, not to mention that everything I learned at university was not enough, not even to do the smallest treatment session , I still have about 6 months in the training program to become a licensed Therapist but day after day I increase my love and passion for what I do and I find it better to do. Like who Kate, said offering mental health care to others is the basis of this field in the end it is a field of human services , Thanks you very much Kate I am really I new in subscriber in your channel, But I can said you impersonation my in my journey , And I have many to learn from your informative and enjoyable videos.
Really interesting Kati! I know just how tiring but rewarding the role can really be! ☺️
Thank you for sharing ! Love your videos !
Kiss from France 😌
Honestly, feels good to know where you came from
Aww loved this vid man❤ I’m a freshman in high school barely doing any research on a career path, and anything health related is really calling my attention 🤗 this really gives me a bigger perspective other than the teachers I ask at my school and all that 😆
I’m in school now preparing to be a marriage counselor. I want people to have a wonderful marriage like I have. But I doubt myself because no one ever cares what I think about serious issues. I’m the comedian, the nerd, the gamer. My wife has ZERO knowledge about counseling but people flock to her smiling face and listening ear. It’s hard to believe I could help anyone.
I think being a “comedian” will really come in handy, especially if you know when to use humor vs. be serious! That’s a skill that’ll help your clients feel comfortable to talk to you. At least, it’s something that helps me-therapy isn’t all yelling and/or crying.
I'd rather have someone like you than a super serious and rigid therapist who thinks I'm a damaged "case" and not an actual human being with life experiences. Your heart is in the right place so just keep going. You'll do great!
All 👏🏻therapists👏🏻should👏🏻be👏🏻in👏🏻therapy👏🏻. To not project their own issues onto clients, reflect on personal bias, and to vent in a confidential place. Also for compassion fatigue. I’m learning so much in my clinical internship for grad school and love working with my population. I feel so confident to go on and get my LCSW licensure.
Thanks for all the info and advice Katie! When I was in college I took 2 Psychology courses and loved them.
Wow, I didn’t know it was so difficult to become a therapist. Thanks for the knowledge.
11 seconds ago ahah. I think I’m first. I’m watching the video now. I’m sure it’ll be fab 🤗
Can i still be a therapist while having mental issues myself?
I know this question isn’t for me, and hopefully Kati will reply later. But yes, you absolutely can. However, you need to have good control over your illnesses and make sure that you’re not letting your own issues influence your practice, as this can do more damage than good. Most therapists or mental health professionals have had first-hand experience with mental illness and trauma, and this is often what draws them into the profession, and is why they’re so good at empathising with their patients! So mental health issues aren’t necessarily a solely negative factor in the therapy profession, however you would have to be VERY careful that you are receiving treatment and are very self aware in terms of making sure the therapeutic relationship will be a healthy one, despite your struggles. The studying, along with all areas of higher education, is hard and very stressful. Mental health issues may be a barrier, however it definitely isn’t impossible. There are plenty of professionals out there with diagnosed mental illnesses who are very good at what they do. Hope this helps and good luck with your future studies/career!
I am a psychology student and I have mental health issues too. Yes you can definitely be a therapist however you need to work on your own issues and put them under control . Try to see a therapist while you are on your way to become a therapist.
Thanks a lot! And how do you feel about working at the same place you've had therapy?
@@desireeluidens2080 I see your point but we are all humans therapists might also struggle sometimes. I might feel embarrassed a little bit first but you know what that’s a huge brave and strength that you worked on your own issues then you felt ok then you became a therapist who can help others to feel good as the way you felt good after therapy. I realized that my mental health issues and struggles let me understand and feel people more as a human not only as applying the knowledgeable I learn. Well if you don’t feel comfortable work in another place you didn’t have therapy in 😃.
Yes! Dr. Kay Redfield Jameson has bipolar and is at the top of her field. 😊
Thankyou for making this vid! Currently deciding if I want to switch from radiology to Therapy 😊
Becoming a therapist is a serious job, people seem to get a degree because they need a job. No wonder most therapists are useless, they literally just listen without any feedback because they don’t know what to say. Waste of money time and effort for the client. I went thru a couple and still couldn’t figure it out. Life will teach one way or the other.
Those vignettes that you were talking about yes I heard of them before. I was dating a guy back in 2010 and he was telling me about his vignettes that he had to do. Actually in 2009 when I started my MBA program he wanted me to go into the same program that he was in a masters in Psychology. And I told him I would not enter in that program because I knew him sadly. Sadly I didn't know that he would do this until after I started dating him. He wanted me to do the work for him. While I was getting my Bachelor's in business as a junior and see here in undergrad in 2007/2008 he was asking me to do his papers and writing them and typing them up and he was in his master's program. It took him at least four years and I'm not sure if he completed that master's program. I can see why it was difficult for him get through all his classes. I remember him telling me about those vignettes that he had to do
From what I understand, practicum vs internship relates to the length of time required to put into the agency.
It's probably 20 to 30 years too late for me. Although I must admit, that I do consider switching into this profession, but at least for now I could only do it as a part time job, besides the fact that I would have to go back to study at least 4 more years. But through you Kati and all the kinions I see that I really love to help people.
So for now it is the question for me: turn my life upside down completely with uncertain financial outcome? Or stick with the professional field I am in for a living and get the education parallel and maybe in my retirement I can work as a therapist.
You're not alone in being at a big crossroads!! The TED talk below helped me figure out a different way of looking at hard choices -- maybe it can help you too. Sending strength and clarity, Christoph!!! ua-cam.com/video/8GQZuzIdeQQ/v-deo.html
Not too late. I decided at 50 to do a full stop career change to become a counselor. Graduate school at 50.. never expected it. But I'm so happy I did it. Now working for a private practice and it's so rewarding! So DO IT!!! Life is too short to be unhappy 💕
Props to you for working so hard! And thank you for all your videos, you are really helping me discover more about myself and holding on during this crazy time!
I have a request: could you do a video about triggers? What can be a trigger and explain what exactly means "being triggered"? Thank you very much for all your constant hard work!
I’m thinking of becoming a trauma therapist. I already have one year down (freshmen year) that I finished in high school. I just hope it’s accepted since I graduated about 3 years ago but this video was very informational. Thank you.
Knowing all your accumulated debts and final exam fees and how awfully long it took through unpaid interns and work experience volunteers makes me feel bad. Especially those extra continuous learning courses you had to pay for as well. Isn't this pathway so financially stressful how is it that makes it worth it. How long after you officially became a therapist did you finally pay all your student debt? How long until you finally bought your own property? How limiting is it that after graduating you only really have three options: psychiatrist (no way!), clinical psychologist or researcher?
Thank you for sharing. That sounds like a long road to where you are now and still many rabbit trails to go on.
I’m interested in really being an advocate for mental health within the emergency responder field. Planning on becoming a paramedic within the next 5 years and then I really want to work with mental
Health cases drawing from my own experience having BPD.