Why Japanese Couples Stop Being Intimate | J Women’s Perspective

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  • @Meshida
    @Meshida  Рік тому +26

    Happy New Year 2024! This is my first UA-cam video this year! Please write your comment below!
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    • @HattaTHEZulZILLA86
      @HattaTHEZulZILLA86 Рік тому

      Hope your friends and family is okay in Japan!

    • @addemoss7684
      @addemoss7684 Рік тому +1

      youre my favorite japanese comedian meshida.

    • @pooyamazloomi6548
      @pooyamazloomi6548 Рік тому

      As a foreigner who is interested in Japanese culture, I really wonder if these are new things or if it has been like that before modern times?

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman Рік тому +100

    I have a Japanese wife. Man, it was so fast for her to evolve from being a cute girlfriend to a bossy Shufu.

    • @Scarcheeze
      @Scarcheeze Рік тому +1

      it"s a prank

    • @GinJ1337
      @GinJ1337 Рік тому +6

      damn so its true

    • @Ziggy9000
      @Ziggy9000 Рік тому +21

      Looks like you got yourself a real house Yakuza😂

    • @tsukikosora
      @tsukikosora Рік тому +6

      I feel sad for you.

    • @ubuntuber1619
      @ubuntuber1619 Рік тому +13

      i love bossy Japanese girls, especially when they slap saying "orra orra" and fart on face.

  • @tonygriego6382
    @tonygriego6382 Рік тому +33

    Eri and Nami need a cross-over episode. The level of culture in that room would reach a critical mass.

  • @tommyX.808
    @tommyX.808 Рік тому +5

    it's really good. there's moments when I think it's a bit too offensive towards the audience, but then you guys break out of character and I realize it was just your twisted humor. i love it

  • @fukkatsu4
    @fukkatsu4 Рік тому +3

    Thanks!

  • @buzchannel7894
    @buzchannel7894 7 місяців тому +4

    There are lots of married women pay guys to come with them to shopping mall , go out to have dinner ,walk with them travel and all .there are lots of different service provider in japan

  • @valdius85
    @valdius85 Рік тому +10

    Working long hours is the easiest excuse to avoid intimacy after being treated like a doormat too many times.

  • @AaronConcepcion
    @AaronConcepcion 11 місяців тому +3

    Happy New Year @Meshida-san, @Ken-san, & @Nami-chan! i hope there would be no more magnitude 7+ earthquakes that will happen in Japan.

  • @wiikends
    @wiikends Рік тому +3

    Good video recap & funny out of character Ken-san

  • @brunospfc8511
    @brunospfc8511 Рік тому +9

    always funny, love from Brazil

  • @lordthaps
    @lordthaps Рік тому +2

    OH MY AMATERASU. Only 27 seconds into the video and I'm already in love with Eri... Happy new year, Meshida... 🎊

  • @ShibaMcDripNu
    @ShibaMcDripNu Рік тому +17

    Meshida censors ince*t but not Ken-san's "STFU". 😂

  • @screwtape3223
    @screwtape3223 Рік тому +5

    Somehow, Nami-san's energy reminded me of Hange Zoë character from AOT.

  • @StigmaNYC
    @StigmaNYC Рік тому +5

    Eri-San is hilarious. Happy New Year everyone!

  • @jeffrydiamond
    @jeffrydiamond Рік тому +3

    My new year begins with laughter--thank you! Happy New Year everyone!

  • @Legendmuyui
    @Legendmuyui Рік тому +2

    Happy New year from the USA.

  • @sueanderson-gb8zw
    @sueanderson-gb8zw Рік тому +4

    This was hysterical! So cute!

  • @mosespray4510
    @mosespray4510 Рік тому +3

    The data here in America shows that a small percentage of people are having a whole lot of sex, but the number of men under 30 who are virgins has never been higher, and even young women are having less sex overall. I blame social media and too much stress.

  • @c0baltblue
    @c0baltblue Рік тому +7

    I see Eri-san I click! Happy New Year!

  • @KenyukoIMAdventure
    @KenyukoIMAdventure Рік тому +4

    LMMFAO!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I couldn’t stop laughing at Ken-san!!!

  • @ubuntuber1619
    @ubuntuber1619 Рік тому +8

    There was a massive earthquake, i saw on TV, hope you being safe, Mashida San

  • @ophelfromhell7748
    @ophelfromhell7748 Рік тому +5

    I'm jaded(it's rare when something makes laugh) as fuck but a lot of your videos have made laugh a lot Meshida.

  • @Californiansurfer
    @Californiansurfer Рік тому +10

    ❤❤❤. Meshida. I hope you are ok. I woke up this morning hearing the news of Japanese earthquake I hope everyone is good. 😂😂😂😂

  • @buzchannel7894
    @buzchannel7894 7 місяців тому +2

    I have japanese wife and we do it all the time ,married for almost 4yrs and second baby on the way .

  • @Funkensturme
    @Funkensturme Рік тому +3

    5:35 That was the best joke of all!

  • @darryl.a
    @darryl.a Рік тому +4

    4:23 this guy is really funny 😂😂

  • @armorbearer9702
    @armorbearer9702 Рік тому +10

    I have a question for Eri-san or Naomi-san. Do Japanese women talk about their sex lives with each other? There is an old saying that men talk broadly about sex with each other, but women talk about sex in intimate details. If this is true, it makes sense that women feel societal pressure in the bedroom(2:57). Eventually, their circle of girlfriends will ask about how her and her husband are in the bedroom.

    • @valdius85
      @valdius85 Рік тому +3

      The answer is yes, they do.

  • @Raul.94_
    @Raul.94_ Рік тому +1

    明けましておめでとう御座います。今年も宜しくお願いします!

  • @brucefeng5414
    @brucefeng5414 Рік тому +3

    I love Nami sensei, please feature her more.

  • @ayanokoji888
    @ayanokoji888 Рік тому +6

    I support ken-san's final statement as we consider them are family lol!

  • @valdius85
    @valdius85 Рік тому +2

    The “cure” for premature ej is frequency, emotional connection and few books on the subject. It’s fixable in three months if partner wants to be a part of the solution.

  • @treystephens6166
    @treystephens6166 Рік тому +1

    Happy New Year‼️🇯🇵🇺🇸🎆

  • @Pericalypsis
    @Pericalypsis Рік тому +3

    Watch out girls, Ken-san sees ... EVERYTHING!

  • @myvideosetc.8271
    @myvideosetc.8271 Рік тому +2

    9:14 As a spanish man that took me totally by surprise, I mean, the mediterranean "Gomez Addams" stereotype does not appear out of nothing.

  • @soonersciencenerd383
    @soonersciencenerd383 Рік тому +3

    ken-kun is funny- (chibi-sized).
    good videos!!!

  • @BigBlueandWhite
    @BigBlueandWhite Рік тому +12

    There's something wrong if the woman is still not in a relationship after her 30s. Judging from what I have heard from Meshida-san tellings about the yakuza boss's attitude it seems to be the biggest problem here.

    • @valdius85
      @valdius85 Рік тому +3

      This is what most Japanese men say.
      They don’t want to have the marriage their father had.

  • @_rymak_2044
    @_rymak_2044 Рік тому +7

    Ken-san got roasted to hell 😂😂😂

  • @herlordship
    @herlordship Рік тому +2

    I would like to volunteer to model @Meshida merch!!!

  • @tantaihuynh1509
    @tantaihuynh1509 Рік тому +2

    Happy New Year 2024

  • @drachior
    @drachior Рік тому +6

    "Men are selfish and bad in bed. Also I am too shy and considerate to say what i want even when it HURTS."
    ...
    That's like going to the restaurant and saying " Surprise me." when the waiter asks you for what you'd like to have.
    Then proceed to complain to everyone but the waiter about not getting what you wanted.

  • @silvae6870
    @silvae6870 11 місяців тому +2

    🤣 Essa disculpa de não dormir mais com a esposa por teve filhos é nova...

  • @ykhush
    @ykhush Рік тому +1

    LMAO
    This video shows the glimpse of all your uploads of 2023

  • @Carlosgsan
    @Carlosgsan Рік тому +12

    The main reason is the lack of communication, both men and women in Japan, this is a problem that's difficult to fix because of the culture. It's very frustrating if you grew up in a western country and you are living in Japan. Thankfully there are few people that are honest and you can talk openly, but finding those people is VERY rare.

    • @valdius85
      @valdius85 Рік тому +2

      When people actually care, limited amount of communication is required.
      If both parties care, no amount of communication is needed to keep some sort of sex life.
      No sex life means one or both parties don’t give a f anymore to make an effort.

  • @popcorn6931
    @popcorn6931 Рік тому +2

    This video is very funny because of Ken-San. Also very educational

  • @hangeishot7919
    @hangeishot7919 Рік тому +2

    Japanese Comedian Meshida.
    Happy 2024.
    And I hope you and your family are safe.

  • @trebhum_
    @trebhum_ Рік тому +3

    I'm a simple man. I hear Japanese man say, "shut the **** up" and I laugh 😂

  • @WaifuTrashWeeb
    @WaifuTrashWeeb Рік тому +8

    This is funny but at the same time a bit sad to know its such a common issue in Japan.

  • @Thedark.q123
    @Thedark.q123 Рік тому +1

    True fans have already watched this❤

  • @hanglee5586
    @hanglee5586 Рік тому +3

    Happy New Year from Boston, Massachusetts.

  • @zopheir5019
    @zopheir5019 Рік тому +4

    I hope you are safe and well after the earthquake, Meshida-san.

  • @michalm7404
    @michalm7404 Рік тому +4

    Please give poor Suzuki-San a break lol

  • @Stephen_Jabs
    @Stephen_Jabs Рік тому +3

    Im glad you have Eri and Nami as your guests they are smart , pretty and Hilarious, do they have boyfriends?

  • @EngineerSTG
    @EngineerSTG Рік тому +6

    What happened to Nami San? She has such a great attitude 😂

  • @GHO784
    @GHO784 Рік тому +3

    😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏i hope ur alright there

  • @Shiba_Inu_Des
    @Shiba_Inu_Des Рік тому +1

    Let's GO Ken Suzuki!

  • @Myriel67
    @Myriel67 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for enlightening me!! Now I know how to end my misery!!! I need to start cheating!!!!😂

  • @valdius85
    @valdius85 Рік тому +2

    So basically modern Japanese men don’t want to be treated like their fathers were.
    Why is it so hard to actually ask men?

  • @RaggedGothic
    @RaggedGothic 3 місяці тому +1

    One thing really confused me…when she said, “women between 30-50 who have finished raising their children.” How can someone be finished raising their children at only 30⁉ Unless Japanese children mature at 10 years old, or these women are having kittens, not babies, I just don't understand.😕🤯 🙈🙉🙊

    • @Meshida
      @Meshida  3 місяці тому

      She mean, the kids go to school and they have some time to do.🥹🥹🥹

  • @paul6925
    @paul6925 Рік тому +1

    Highlights of 2023 😂

  • @valdius85
    @valdius85 Рік тому +3

    Ladies, it you wan to be seen as a “woman” you need to put an effort.
    Ask your husband what he finds attractive and put some effort into it.
    The expectations from husbands are usually very low.
    Sex in long a term relationship is different than at the beginning. Effort is required from both parties.

  • @ayanokoji888
    @ayanokoji888 Рік тому +2

    Natsueri-san, Ohayo!

  • @hotpopcorncake
    @hotpopcorncake Рік тому +2

    Hahahahahaha hahahahaha Why ya roasting my boy

  • @daron20133
    @daron20133 Рік тому +3

    Personally, I think sex is like life, it's a personal discovery journey, you learn more about yourself as you grows and not everything you found out is likable. Life gives us limited options so we must work with the little we have. Kind of like Jav sex categories, there are over a hundred them, only people with $$$$$$$$$$ could try them all, but it's still not fun because paying people to act is not natural😂😂😂.Anyway happy new year, 2024.

  • @user-missSpeedyandMrBrown
    @user-missSpeedyandMrBrown Рік тому +1

    Hey Meshida are you okay are you safe yesterday i hear the news that earthquake hit the Japan

    • @Meshida
      @Meshida  Рік тому +2

      I'm Ok. Arigato!

  • @LordRixuel
    @LordRixuel Рік тому +1

    When Six Counselor Eri vs Wife-Life Nami-Sensei ? :P

  • @lordthaps
    @lordthaps Рік тому +2

    Nami-san has a lovely personality... Ken-san is still awkwardly funny...

  • @caseyadeyemi8817
    @caseyadeyemi8817 Рік тому +2

    Wow this is unhinged

  • @jasonreviews
    @jasonreviews Рік тому +2

    dry means horny or pervey in cantonese. LOLs // the more you know

  • @richt63
    @richt63 Рік тому +16

    Hilarious 😂 it's not a surprise. All women are bosses in bed. Especially where sex is concern. Love it when Eri-san smacks Meshida-san with her whip. Happy New Year to Nami-Sensei, Eri-san, and to you and everyone ❤ sorry 🙏 I don't remember the other guy's name. Lol

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... Рік тому

      All women are bosses in bed? You mean you let HER have a bigger pair than you? Yikes!😮

    • @treystephens6166
      @treystephens6166 Рік тому +3

      I think his name is Ken. 🤔

    • @richt63
      @richt63 Рік тому +2

      @@treystephens6166 cool, thanks. I have to admit. I was distracted by the pretty women appearing on the video. He became a background character. Lol 😂

  • @valdius85
    @valdius85 Рік тому +2

    No amount of communication will make a wife care if her husband is still attracted to her and her disrespectful behaviour is also not connected to the lack of communication.
    Limited amount communication is needed if both parties care about each other needs and desires.
    BTW: westerners sleep in separate beds as well with their Jp wives. Stop blaming the men for everything.

  • @mikeysmoooth5322
    @mikeysmoooth5322 Рік тому +3

    but whats the origin as to why you guys view your SO as a family member? That's some different psychological phenomenon right there.
    Also what about the people in Japan that just want an exclusive relationship and want to explore their sexuality with someone that they actualy geniuenly love and respect rather than cheating with somebody outside or by a professional?

    • @valdius85
      @valdius85 Рік тому

      Wives don’t care about their husbands. They disrespect them and treat like a wallpaper with an ATM setting.
      They don’t treat them like family, that is just the way they explain it because it’s easier to do so.

    • @Myriel67
      @Myriel67 11 місяців тому

      Ah no! That is not possible! They are not capable to love! They simply have no feelings.
      I have a Japanese husband. And after few weeks of marriage he once said; for a marriage love is not needed!
      Then I realized that I am not here because of love!!😢

    • @RaggedGothic
      @RaggedGothic 3 місяці тому

      @@Myriel67 That is so sad! 😢

  • @mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438

    But they be intimate with strangers🤔

  • @cbttrainee5961
    @cbttrainee5961 Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @Philoctetes_the_goatman
    @Philoctetes_the_goatman Рік тому +3

    🤣🤣🤣 They don't find a plain simple man 🤣🤣🤣
    All they do is after Handsome face and the height must be over 5,8- 7,0 such as Chewbacca or an Frakenstien. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Google-Volunteer-Lobbyist
    @Google-Volunteer-Lobbyist Рік тому +1

    Please use expert opinion to check comments that UA-cam technology performs with digital forensics. (Source: Wikipedia contributors. "デジタル・フォレンジック.") From, Wikipedia. Wikipedia, 19 Dec. 2023. Web. 11 Jan. 2024.

  • @Astres_Desu
    @Astres_Desu Рік тому +1

    Vasectomy? Like me, who don't want suffering of more generations, butt egoistically have some fun.

  • @WhiteDragon689
    @WhiteDragon689 Рік тому +4

    Funny and Sad...

  • @firstlast7719
    @firstlast7719 Рік тому +6

    I have a first time Japanese girlfriend. She's not shy after a few months ;-) lots of fun in the bedroom

    • @MionMikan
      @MionMikan Рік тому +3

      Wait till you marry her bro. Then the nightmare will begin

    • @firstlast7719
      @firstlast7719 Рік тому

      @@MionMikan it's been 4 months so not close to that stage. At first she was afraid now she's becoming greedy in the bedroom. She's so cute! Plus so tiny. That's my kryptonite. Weakness for tiny petite. Outside bedroom she's very direct, but communication has to be in person. Otherwise too many chances of a misunderstanding.

    • @TBoneSan
      @TBoneSan Рік тому

      @@firstlast7719 Lol ... just wait to the kids come

  • @konnichiwa7719
    @konnichiwa7719 Рік тому +2

    Eh???

  • @XXXkenshiro
    @XXXkenshiro Рік тому +2

    Solution: keep her as a gf, NEVER marry her !

  • @kmdreacts
    @kmdreacts Рік тому +1

    Soooo... Two Japanese wives??🤔

  • @th3mmch
    @th3mmch Рік тому +2

    😹

  • @beverlyhills7883
    @beverlyhills7883 Рік тому +2

    Self deprecating to the point I was uncomfortable watching it. Not funny anymore.