Now that was interesting. And I might add that at least one of the interviewed girls worked as a hostess (maybe still works, depending on what are the services provided by Omoide Journey).
they can't honestly believe that, these same girls would have a total meltdown if they saw their man smiling or laughing while talking to a prettier girl than them
@@troysmith5749if she will have a breakdown for something like that, then she has to understand that her man will also feel the same when they talked and smile with some guy who's more attractive than them.
(intro) If “you can’t buy love” were true, how come the lack of money is one of the main reasons for not getting married in Japan? Perhaps marriage is, often, just a contract.
Marriage IS just a contract. That's the original purpose and the only one that is actually valid and the only one that will always be valid in any context. All the other interpretations of marriage are idealizations that come from culture, religion or politics, usually with the intent of a third party benefiting from the artificially inflated expectations about marriage, like selling all kinds of services. Perhaps, if people went back to seeing marriage as a contract, a FREE CONTRACT, in which they could decide by themselves all the details, marriages would adjust to the more heterogeneous ideas that we have today and would start being a more attractive institution, instead of this trend of declining marriage rates in the most part of the world.
First of all, that's a very cool video format, I loved it, thanks Meshida. I hope there will be similar videos on your channel in the future. Now, about the subject of the video, some of the answers were pretty insightful. However, there's one important thing that must be mentioned : the reason why many men use the services of professional women is that they're unsatisfied at home. And when I say "unsatisfied", I actually mean that they're in a state of sexual misery and utter frustration due to the lack of sex with their "official" partner (or the lack of a partner altogether). Of course, there are also men who just want to fool around and have fun with many different women but that's another story. There's a saying in France : In order to keep a man, the secret is to keep his stomach full and his balls empty. I don't know about the stomach part but there's some truth in the rest. And everyone watching Meshida's channel knows about the sexlessness of Japanese marriages. So it all makes sense after all.
I think to the majority of western women, if their partners went even to a hostess bar just to chat it would be considered cheating. And to the great majority of western men, they would consider cheating if their partners went to a hostess bar and paid a man just to chat with her like they do. I mean, almost no one would be happy about it.
Interesting perspective about this. I also asked similar questions to my friends from Japan too. (All of them are in a relationship) Of course, The second and the third question you asked is the same responses I got. I think in the end, every experience will be different, and it is up to you and your partner to discuss about it. Very good interview Meshida-San! 👍
It's very interesting to see the Japanese perspective on this matter. I would take that in the end what's more valued is that there are no feelings involved to determine whether it is cheating, though obviously it depends on the person's perspective.
Wait, doing it with a prostitute while not having any feelings for her isn't cheating!? Thanks for the incredible information, now I can finally tell my wife!
Thats a big No! Because u made vow to your wife.....thats the problem! You made a *Vow* ....unless you didnt and saying it to your wife then its fine....every alpha male does that because they have the guts and money.
Well of course they find it normal, if married woman never have sex with their husbands, they must look for some action out of the relationship and they come up with this mental gymnastics
If you have to go to a brothel to satisfy your desires, you are more/less telling your partner "You can't satisfy me". If you are cheating behind your partner, that means he/she means nothing to you. If your partner can't accept your desires, then both of you might need to space out a bit.
I think it is good that they can separate the concepts of family / romantic relationship and sexual desire. That way they can keep the family together when the sexual desire disappears.
Are you 19? I'm sorry, but in the adult world that isn't the reality. How you take something to be or how you feel about it - isn't the reality. It takes a long time to realize this but when you do - that's when you actually grow up.
@@immortalnightbodyagreed. He thinks that his opinion is the truth of relationships... As a young guy I loved a woman, I would give my life for her, but at the same time I wouldn't waste a chance of getting another woman to bed, you know why? Because I had to love myself first lol, opportunities dont come back and I as a young guy had to enjoy the chances, btw the girl I loved could leave me anytime so I would regret if I was monogamic if she dumped me, thats for sure.. Im not with her anymore so I was right you see.. Despite what this guy believe, non-monogamic ppl can love another person, and its not because I had sex with another girl that I dont love my woman.
@@Big-Wonka Allegedly, workers are expected, every so often, to go out "drinking" with their boss & coworkers after work. Not doing so is seen as having a "bad attitude" & is up there with skipping out on overtime work & taking paid vacations without making sure your coworkers can or will take up the slack.
I think some of these women aren’t really okay with their spouse/boyfriend seeing a SW but have convinced themselves it’s okay because most of their society says it’s okay.
Dragging men to brothels was very much part of German business culture until the 1960s. I remember when my father scored a major deal it usually ended in a brothel.
Not sure what you mean , Men usually pay for prostitution to satisfy their sexual desire. Relationship can be a separate thing, it's more into emotional and investment.
Fool sometimes they stay together for the kids. one side dont have much attraction for the other anymore. marriage in Japan is not for love in most cases more like a business.. all those reasons, oh and the guy may just like pussy so much that he want some different to taste.
Meshia, you asked the ladies in the context of if it was someone else, cheating or having sex with a p, ute, but now ask them how would they feel if there boy friend has just cheated on them, i bet there answer will change, one lady says its healthy to go to a pr,tute, has she ever been on a sexual health talk, does she understand about clamidia, herpease, gonarea HIV? syphalis.
Didnt expect a public interview but good insights. To me anytime a partner gets sexual/flirting with someone else its cheating. This video is similar to one Asianboss did & most Japanese said they'd be ok if partner went to a professional. One wouldnt think women would be ok with their men going to adult clubs
People are too immature to deal with complex emotions rationally so people resort to cheating. Everybody wants to be able to cheat but nobody wants to be cheated on. If you are with a cheater, that only says that you are in a toxic dependent relationship that often people who arent comfortable being alone get into. Have more respect for yourself. Your self esteem must be in the gutter to allow someone to toy with you.
Can we have a video why there are so many entertainment establishment for men as you introduced at the beginning? Does it mean is it a society, a custom where it is normal in a relationship or being married your partner will have intercourse with someone else ? What are the reasons? The couple routine? As far as I know based on my experiences working with Japanese colleagues, Japanese couple is not a couple anymore once gave birth to kid, they will not divorce or separate for the sake of their children, and men meet lover to seek for intercourse or romance. While in France, my country, we still love and have intercourse even after long relationship. Having intercourse with the person you love is the best feeling ever, even after 10years of relationship, just need to spice it up to make it work. Cheating with whoever = sadness= breakup. I feel like love does not exit in Japan, or probably it is but in a different way, by act of service.
France literally banned paternity testing because of how many men were finding out the kid isn’t theirs. So cheating seems much more common there than in Japan, which has one of the lowest paternity fraud rates in the world.
The translation issue. 浮気 don't mean cheting it literary says have feeling to other person. Also fuzoku is not prostitution but any sexual service excluding piv.
I am married to japanese women for almost 4 now and she consider going to such places as cheating nd goes crazy even if i mentioned it .when she was my gf nowy wife i did went to get that kind of massage nd when she found out the police were called up on me bcux the whole night she created a huge scene ,she had knife in her hand lol.
It's a different world many people in the west wouldn't see it as such only raise the question on what is it that they can offer that I can't? Sure you can see it as a business with that concept but how long till the partner feels like it's actually cheating and not a business transaction?
I mean, they already have partners so i don't see any reason why they shouldn't be doing "that" with their own partner. Seriously grow some spine, if you're not interested in your partner anymore then break up. These kind of things are the reason why there's many trust issues between couples nowadays
Prostitution is the oldest occupation exist in history. If it's a cause, then the world should have population decline a since the ancient Egyptians, Greeks or even Chinese. It is a small minor reason without addressing other major reasons that caused population decline - E.g. Rise of Radical Feminist (Women needs no man), decline of spending power of single men, increase numbers of Depression (Mental Health) and others to add in.
This isn't good for specific women cheating and or working in prostitution bars or hostels. When a man figures out of a GF, either playing or hiding both coins.
I think the answers would be even more interesting if sex worker services were as easily accessible. For example, I wonder what Dutch women would say and if there was a culture of cheating. My limited understanding about Japanese marriages is men and women start to see each other as family and non sexual, and due to this and other reasons like availability of services, both men and women can find what they want/need outside of marriage.
I guess it would depend if you see Prostitutes as competition or closer to masturbation or porn. Is there really that much difference? As long as both parties are aware, I feel cheating is the breach of trust and not the act itself which is why open relationships and polygamy can work.
I pity them and can't elaborate on how to explain in detail because I am biased in my belief and perception of my relationship with my partner. I love my partner no matter our differences, and there are ways to work out the relationship to grow.
Ladies, if you want your man to spend his time, money and affection on you all you have to do are these 3 things on a regular basis: 1) Sex. 2) Cook. 3) Give him the time and space to hang out with his friends and do his hobbies. I guarantee you most men will return this level of respect 10 times back to you if you do it properly.
So in terms of their morality, cheating is bad because he/she has feeling to his/her lover, but paying a prostitute is all about paying service... Well, I respect their moral perspective, but I had a different belief which is very similar with the western one because why would you have intercourse with another person (which we called "third party" for an obvious reason) while already in a relationship, so there's something wrong here and it's not a healthy relationship for having a third party involved even there's no feeling involved, unless have a polygamy like in the middle eastern country where you can marry anyone you like. For us, being satisfied with your relationship to your partner is enough, paying a prostitute doesn't even make an excuse for cheating... Ahhh! I cannot explain any further, this is so fucked-up.
Its not about the relationship....its se_x and stimulation.... having a perfect relationship is boring and dull.....so they wanted something interesting with flavor....people like this are rich and have a guts to play around😂.....to them se_x and love is different they are not the same. *Morality is just base on ego* you can create your own rules and law when you feel jelly or bitter u are free to change that thinking it was right forcing your opinion to others that they never ask or never need so u use public opinion to feel superior...seriously its just ego. Only deluded i_diots believe "true love" or "fated love" its just an invented word to make the ego feel comfortable or superior lol everybody is free to chose his or her path.
A cup of sake for you my brother. Anything that you can't do with your partner is best kept on the shelf or in the bin, because there will come a time when those desires will mean nothing. If your desires needs a 3rd person to be involved, your partner must partake in the activity. And if he/she doesn't want to, retire the idea at once.
If you are satisfied with your partner alone, you won't go to a prostitute anyway. But there are several reasons why that might not be the case, and none of them is cheating For example women's sexuality is much more dependend on their cycle as a man's. She may be really horny 10 days a month, but does not want to be touched for the other 20 days. Or one partner likes to do some S/M play that the other don't want to do. Or you are away for months in a different country. Or... Nothing of that is cheating. It's just satisfying needs that are there, if you want it or not. Cheating is, as the ladies said it, when feelings are getting into the equation.
Islam isn't even true Polygamy as only 4 official spouse is allowed.thoug you ar correct on middle east one,as South east Asian Muslims heavily frown upon polygamy.it will get you many enemies and troubles rarely worth it
I heard lots of stories like that were couple got divorce bcux the wife found out husband visit to such places to get paid smex. Japanese women hate such thing .
I want to ask weather Japanese people do racism or discrimination based on black skin colour people like indians?? do japanese people accept black/ brown skin indian as citizens ??? Please answer
@@tonygriego6382If they don't mind it, like they said, it is not a disrespect and it is not wrong. A relationship is an agreement, after all. Don't forget that they were not raised by the same cultural and religious principles than people from the west.
@@tonygriego6382 I don't know, it might be, but there are many different countries with radically different cultures experiencing low birth rates. It is practically impossible to attribute causality in this scenario. Also, combined with confirmation bias, it has become a way to justify anything people dislike about Japan: "Oh, this does not conform to my world views, that must be what's contributing to their plunging birth rate".
@daRich_X Not using protection is somewhat more common among Japanese professionals for oral or even full service. Even when protection is used, it cannot completely protect against HPV or herpes since other areas of the genital region may still come into contact. These annoying STIs are often asymptomatic in men, yet can still be transmitted to their partners and lead to cervical cancer. The higher number of partners that professionals see significantly increases the probability of them having one of these sneaky STIs.
That's not true. We wear helmets when doing pros but we may not use it when doing another girl, who may be cheating on her man with half the town. Professionals are safer
@@rejectwokeness1314 Two other things about Japan needs to be mentioned: Some sources claim it is the country with the highest rate of Condom usage in the world. Second: I've heard that many establishments require the client to wash before the act, this is only a thing in very high end establishments where I live.
@@rejectwokeness1314 With professionals, you are guaranteed to be with someone who has served hundreds or thousands of clients. This situation presents two issues: 1) BB services are relatively more common among Japanese professionals. 2) Helmets do not fully protect against conditions such as HPV, and the high volume of clients, often asymptomatic, significantly increases the risk of infection. Your argument is probably true about non-professionals who also partake in many casual encounters. In those cases, I also agree that professionals could be safer. However, this is not what these girls are saying. The girls are against infidelity when emotions are involved. On the other hand, when emotions play a role and you are familiar with your cheating partner or even form a relationship, you can significantly reduce the chance of being with someone who is prone to a high level of casual activities.
In not-shady establishments the professionals get STD checks on e.g. a monthly basis. The girl who sleeps with a different guy every week and has now landed in your bed, when did she have the last check?
So the NTR story (hamine or p0rn) are actually happens in Japan 🤣My dream land Japan what is wrong with your youths 🤦 my dream of going to Japan is decreasing day by day 😢 it's hurts man if you don't have a loyal partner ( why am I caring I already have someone 🤣)
Somehow I wonder if people don't understand that just because somethign is possible, you are not forced to do it. If you don't want to go to a prostitute, don't do it. That should be fairly easy.
It was a party organized by an agency that takes customers on guided walks through Kabukicho (if I'm not mistaken). One of those girls used to be a hostess.
I like how objective and pragmatic most of them are. The west is so prudish, idealistic, backwards, contradictory and hypocritical about sex and relationships.
Exactly. It's not cheating if your loved one goes to town with another person if he or she is PAYING for it. How backwards do you have to be to not be okay with a business transaction?
2 pretty girls in this video but the one wearing all black has exactly the same view as I am! Some may think that our views are twisted but actually that's how humans (woman and man) are. Especially the part where she said couples only have sex with each other for the next 30 years is a lie. Face it, deep down, both woman and man want multiple partners in their lives. Can you eat the same food for every meal for the next 30 years? Those who said yes, liars!!!
Careful! If the girl doesn't consider her BF going to a brothel as cheating, she might consider working in a brothel as not cheating either.
Now that was interesting. And I might add that at least one of the interviewed girls worked as a hostess (maybe still works, depending on what are the services provided by Omoide Journey).
they can't honestly believe that, these same girls would have a total meltdown if they saw their man smiling or laughing while talking to a prettier girl than them
@@troysmith5749if she will have a breakdown for something like that, then she has to understand that her man will also feel the same when they talked and smile with some guy who's more attractive than them.
And, uhhh, why should I considered this a problem? If you look at a different perspective, you can consider it as an additional family income, right?
Well, it isn't? What is your point?
(intro) If “you can’t buy love” were true, how come the lack of money is one of the main reasons for not getting married in Japan? Perhaps marriage is, often, just a contract.
You can buy love in a soapland
Marriage IS just a contract. That's the original purpose and the only one that is actually valid and the only one that will always be valid in any context. All the other interpretations of marriage are idealizations that come from culture, religion or politics, usually with the intent of a third party benefiting from the artificially inflated expectations about marriage, like selling all kinds of services.
Perhaps, if people went back to seeing marriage as a contract, a FREE CONTRACT, in which they could decide by themselves all the details, marriages would adjust to the more heterogeneous ideas that we have today and would start being a more attractive institution, instead of this trend of declining marriage rates in the most part of the world.
First of all, that's a very cool video format, I loved it, thanks Meshida. I hope there will be similar videos on your channel in the future.
Now, about the subject of the video, some of the answers were pretty insightful.
However, there's one important thing that must be mentioned : the reason why many men use the services of professional women is that they're unsatisfied at home. And when I say "unsatisfied", I actually mean that they're in a state of sexual misery and utter frustration due to the lack of sex with their "official" partner (or the lack of a partner altogether). Of course, there are also men who just want to fool around and have fun with many different women but that's another story.
There's a saying in France : In order to keep a man, the secret is to keep his stomach full and his balls empty. I don't know about the stomach part but there's some truth in the rest. And everyone watching Meshida's channel knows about the sexlessness of Japanese marriages. So it all makes sense after all.
I think to the majority of western women, if their partners went even to a hostess bar just to chat it would be considered cheating.
And to the great majority of western men, they would consider cheating if their partners went to a hostess bar and paid a man just to chat with her like they do.
I mean, almost no one would be happy about it.
My wife says I can only go to a hostess club if she can come too.
Ask Japanese men the same question!
The men will answer they do it coz their partner also cheating LOL
Interesting perspective about this. I also asked similar questions to my friends from Japan too. (All of them are in a relationship)
Of course, The second and the third question you asked is the same responses I got.
I think in the end, every experience will be different, and it is up to you and your partner to discuss about it.
Very good interview Meshida-San! 👍
Keep doing interviews! These are great!
Very good!
I liked specially the lady at 6:49 (a beauty and very fun giggle) and the Omoide Journey girl (Suemi I think its her name)❤🎉😂😊
Your Outro is Awesome Meshida
It's very interesting to see the Japanese perspective on this matter. I would take that in the end what's more valued is that there are no feelings involved to determine whether it is cheating, though obviously it depends on the person's perspective.
The sound on this video sounds amazing 😉
Wait, doing it with a prostitute while not having any feelings for her isn't cheating!? Thanks for the incredible information, now I can finally tell my wife!
A bunch of them said it is cheating though.
The opinions of a few Japanese women are irrelevant to your wife, what matters is her opinion.
@@Funkensturme relax bro i'm sure he is joking
Not if you have your wife's consent.
Thats a big No! Because u made vow to your wife.....thats the problem! You made a *Vow* ....unless you didnt and saying it to your wife then its fine....every alpha male does that because they have the guts and money.
Well of course they find it normal, if married woman never have sex with their husbands, they must look for some action out of the relationship and they come up with this mental gymnastics
Maybe just don't cheat at all.
you heard them, to the professionals!
Plot twist: They might be the professionals (Hostesses).
I think you can see this man's pulse by the way he holds the microphone 😂
If you have to go to a brothel to satisfy your desires, you are more/less telling your partner "You can't satisfy me".
If you are cheating behind your partner, that means he/she means nothing to you.
If your partner can't accept your desires, then both of you might need to space out a bit.
I think it is good that they can separate the concepts of family / romantic relationship and sexual desire. That way they can keep the family together when the sexual desire disappears.
Are you 19? I'm sorry, but in the adult world that isn't the reality. How you take something to be or how you feel about it - isn't the reality. It takes a long time to realize this but when you do - that's when you actually grow up.
If this was a latina woman she would have you by the throat if you considered either. They are very passionate people. XD
@@immortalnightbodyagreed. He thinks that his opinion is the truth of relationships...
As a young guy I loved a woman, I would give my life for her, but at the same time I wouldn't waste a chance of getting another woman to bed, you know why? Because I had to love myself first lol, opportunities dont come back and I as a young guy had to enjoy the chances, btw the girl I loved could leave me anytime so I would regret if I was monogamic if she dumped me, thats for sure.. Im not with her anymore so I was right you see..
Despite what this guy believe, non-monogamic ppl can love another person, and its not because I had sex with another girl that I dont love my woman.
Visit or Visiting prostitutes is also cheating. It's part of cheating, a sin for relationships.
My boss made me do it.
Lol that's what I got out of it too. "Sorry babe. I didn't have a choice. My boss forced me. I swear, it was only a business transaction"
@@Big-Wonka
Allegedly, workers are expected, every so often, to go out "drinking" with their boss & coworkers after work.
Not doing so is seen as having a "bad attitude" & is up there with skipping out on overtime work & taking paid vacations without making sure your coworkers can or will take up the slack.
I think some of these women aren’t really okay with their spouse/boyfriend seeing a SW but have convinced themselves it’s okay because most of their society says it’s okay.
It will interesting to ask these type of question to men 🤔. Please make a video
Meshida hangs out with men like Ken san who doesn't even have a main chick, how is he gonna cheat? 😂
@@rejectwokeness1314 Meshida could become a street interviewer. As a comedian, he would excel at this.
Dragging men to brothels was very much part of German business culture until the 1960s. I remember when my father scored a major deal it usually ended in a brothel.
In my humble opinion , if you need a profesional , why be in relationship ?
Just live by yourself . Cheaper and better for the nerves.
Human greed. People want to have their cake and eat it too.
Not sure what you mean ,
Men usually pay for prostitution to satisfy their sexual desire.
Relationship can be a separate thing, it's more into emotional and investment.
Who do you think will pay for my professional? I don’t work so I use my husbands money lmao
Fool sometimes they stay together for the kids.
one side dont have much attraction for the other anymore.
marriage in Japan is not for love in most cases more like a business.. all those reasons, oh and the guy may just like pussy so much that he want some different to taste.
It's your decision. And why not have both?
Adultery 101 with Professor Meshida.
They are great 💪💪💪
Meshia, you asked the ladies in the context of if it was someone else, cheating or having sex with a p, ute, but now ask them how would they feel if there boy friend has just cheated on them, i bet there answer will change, one lady says its healthy to go to a pr,tute, has she ever been on a sexual health talk, does she understand about clamidia, herpease, gonarea HIV? syphalis.
Something is jammed, either your keyboard or your mind.
You can get the same diseases from non pros, it's even riskier as they're not extra careful when doing the deed like a pro does.
Great video I live in Tokyo
To sum it up Health and hospitality service and snacking treat IS NOT considered as cheating.
Didnt expect a public interview but good insights. To me anytime a partner gets sexual/flirting with someone else its cheating. This video is similar to one Asianboss did & most Japanese said they'd be ok if partner went to a professional. One wouldnt think women would be ok with their men going to adult clubs
which is better, think before you take action.
People are too immature to deal with complex emotions rationally so people resort to cheating. Everybody wants to be able to cheat but nobody wants to be cheated on. If you are with a cheater, that only says that you are in a toxic dependent relationship that often people who arent comfortable being alone get into. Have more respect for yourself. Your self esteem must be in the gutter to allow someone to toy with you.
Don't expect someone to respect you when you don't respect yourself.
Can we have a video why there are so many entertainment establishment for men as you introduced at the beginning? Does it mean is it a society, a custom where it is normal in a relationship or being married your partner will have intercourse with someone else ? What are the reasons? The couple routine? As far as I know based on my experiences working with Japanese colleagues, Japanese couple is not a couple anymore once gave birth to kid, they will not divorce or separate for the sake of their children, and men meet lover to seek for intercourse or romance. While in France, my country, we still love and have intercourse even after long relationship. Having intercourse with the person you love is the best feeling ever, even after 10years of relationship, just need to spice it up to make it work.
Cheating with whoever = sadness= breakup. I feel like love does not exit in Japan, or probably it is but in a different way, by act of service.
France literally banned paternity testing because of how many men were finding out the kid isn’t theirs. So cheating seems much more common there than in Japan, which has one of the lowest paternity fraud rates in the world.
Japanese idea of what's acceptable in a relationship is very uncomfortable.
or pragmatic
@@Notme-tq4xs nothing pragmatic, only cheaters will think so
No. Uncomfortable is the thought that people really expect someone to have eternal love and monogamy, even thought humans are naturally NOT both.
@@steemlenn8797😂😂 whatt
@@steemlenn8797 uhmmm WHATT
They are very logical. For Asian in general love is a business and marriage the greatest investment
Seems like in Japan, it's more or less only cheating if it involves feelings? Much different definition overseas.
The translation issue. 浮気 don't mean cheting it literary says have feeling to other person. Also fuzoku is not prostitution but any sexual service excluding piv.
I am married to japanese women for almost 4 now and she consider going to such places as cheating nd goes crazy even if i mentioned it .when she was my gf nowy wife i did went to get that kind of massage nd when she found out the police were called up on me bcux the whole night she created a huge scene ,she had knife in her hand lol.
My boss made me do it!
These people never fail to surprise me….i really should meet Japanese women….but in Japan the ones in London are different
It's a different world many people in the west wouldn't see it as such only raise the question on what is it that they can offer that I can't? Sure you can see it as a business with that concept but how long till the partner feels like it's actually cheating and not a business transaction?
I mean, they already have partners so i don't see any reason why they shouldn't be doing "that" with their own partner. Seriously grow some spine, if you're not interested in your partner anymore then break up. These kind of things are the reason why there's many trust issues between couples nowadays
Now we know why Japan population is declining 😢
This is not the only problem, there is another reasons.
Because men have more sex?
Prostitution is the oldest occupation exist in history. If it's a cause, then the world should have population decline a since the ancient Egyptians, Greeks or even Chinese. It is a small minor reason without addressing other major reasons that caused population decline - E.g. Rise of Radical Feminist (Women needs no man), decline of spending power of single men, increase numbers of Depression (Mental Health) and others to add in.
Big problem @@adam_9_9
“When he cheats, he has feelings for her”
I dont even have feelings for my own gf. It’s just cheaper to buy her food than it is to pay a professional
Because shes just a gf....not a wife...you...date means trial or testing unless your an alpha male you can advance and get the meat😂
You're lucky to have a GF of very simple gastronomic preferences.
lol
This isn't good for specific women cheating and or working in prostitution bars or hostels.
When a man figures out of a GF, either playing or hiding both coins.
That beautiful one should appear here more often! You all know which one I'm talking about.
Ah the one at the end of the video. I think her name is Meshida
@@thewallsspeaktome3507 That's the handsome one.
Underrated comment 😂😂😂@@thewallsspeaktome3507
I don't, they are all pretty average
All of them mid af bro
Both fucked up.
I need to marry a Japanese woman! They are so open and understanding. ;-)
I would like to see interviews of American women asked these same questions...
no thanks
I think the answers would be even more interesting if sex worker services were as easily accessible. For example, I wonder what Dutch women would say and if there was a culture of cheating. My limited understanding about Japanese marriages is men and women start to see each other as family and non sexual, and due to this and other reasons like availability of services, both men and women can find what they want/need outside of marriage.
As the US is famously, hilariously uptight about those matters the answers would likely be different.
Result of too much religion instead of brain.
Well now that I've heard that now my thoughts. I wouldn't do either so for me it's answer C: NONE OF THE ABOVE.
5:12 is bae
nice.
😂😂 😂😂
Not normally , normal değil düşünceleri , aşkı bilmiyorlar ...
Ughhmmm who's that sista i see playing imposter irl 😂
Why even marry anymore…
To have kids if necessary
I guess it would depend if you see Prostitutes as competition or closer to masturbation or porn. Is there really that much difference? As long as both parties are aware, I feel cheating is the breach of trust and not the act itself which is why open relationships and polygamy can work.
I pity them and can't elaborate on how to explain in detail because I am biased in my belief and perception of my relationship with my partner. I love my partner no matter our differences, and there are ways to work out the relationship to grow.
Which is totally unrelated to occasional visits of prostitutes.
I would not accept any of both
Ladies, if you want your man to spend his time, money and affection on you all you have to do are these 3 things on a regular basis:
1) Sex.
2) Cook.
3) Give him the time and space to hang out with his friends and do his hobbies.
I guarantee you most men will return this level of respect 10 times back to you if you do it properly.
Staying in shape after marriage will also help your chances... 🤭
@@Funkensturme having sex on a regular basis and cooking 3 times a day will keep her in shape
Absolute truth but modern women are conditioned to act hard to get and be hard to love
What are the name and locations of these establishments. So i can be faithful and far away from them.
Lets go! 😉😉
So in terms of their morality, cheating is bad because he/she has feeling to his/her lover, but paying a prostitute is all about paying service... Well, I respect their moral perspective, but I had a different belief which is very similar with the western one because why would you have intercourse with another person (which we called "third party" for an obvious reason) while already in a relationship, so there's something wrong here and it's not a healthy relationship for having a third party involved even there's no feeling involved, unless have a polygamy like in the middle eastern country where you can marry anyone you like.
For us, being satisfied with your relationship to your partner is enough, paying a prostitute doesn't even make an excuse for cheating... Ahhh! I cannot explain any further, this is so fucked-up.
Its not about the relationship....its se_x and stimulation.... having a perfect relationship is boring and dull.....so they wanted something interesting with flavor....people like this are rich and have a guts to play around😂.....to them se_x and love is different they are not the same. *Morality is just base on ego* you can create your own rules and law when you feel jelly or bitter u are free to change that thinking it was right forcing your opinion to others that they never ask or never need so u use public opinion to feel superior...seriously its just ego. Only deluded i_diots believe "true love" or "fated love" its just an invented word to make the ego feel comfortable or superior lol everybody is free to chose his or her path.
A cup of sake for you my brother.
Anything that you can't do with your partner is best kept on the shelf or in the bin, because there will come a time when those desires will mean nothing.
If your desires needs a 3rd person to be involved, your partner must partake in the activity. And if he/she doesn't want to, retire the idea at once.
If you are satisfied with your partner alone, you won't go to a prostitute anyway.
But there are several reasons why that might not be the case, and none of them is cheating
For example women's sexuality is much more dependend on their cycle as a man's. She may be really horny 10 days a month, but does not want to be touched for the other 20 days.
Or one partner likes to do some S/M play that the other don't want to do.
Or you are away for months in a different country.
Or...
Nothing of that is cheating. It's just satisfying needs that are there, if you want it or not. Cheating is, as the ladies said it, when feelings are getting into the equation.
Islam isn't even true Polygamy as only 4 official spouse is allowed.thoug you ar correct on middle east one,as South east Asian Muslims heavily frown upon polygamy.it will get you many enemies and troubles rarely worth it
None!!!!
I heard lots of stories like that were couple got divorce bcux the wife found out husband visit to such places to get paid smex. Japanese women hate such thing .
I want to ask weather Japanese people do racism or discrimination based on black skin colour people like indians?? do japanese people accept black/ brown skin indian as citizens ??? Please answer
Both are best if there are no feelings😂
I wonder if a couple of these women aren't paying for it themselves?
From 7:42 what she said is...🗿. Japan is messed up.
You can buy love. No-one wants a poor boyfriend.
The Japanese female's perspective on this is....weird.
Why?
@@drelahnniedikhoff8005 Because cheating is wrong. It shows disrespect to the person you're in a relationship with.
@@tonygriego6382If they don't mind it, like they said, it is not a disrespect and it is not wrong. A relationship is an agreement, after all. Don't forget that they were not raised by the same cultural and religious principles than people from the west.
@@Funkensturme Perhaps thinking like that is what's contributing to their plunging birth rates?
@@tonygriego6382 I don't know, it might be, but there are many different countries with radically different cultures experiencing low birth rates. It is practically impossible to attribute causality in this scenario.
Also, combined with confirmation bias, it has become a way to justify anything people dislike about Japan: "Oh, this does not conform to my world views, that must be what's contributing to their plunging birth rate".
With professionals there is always a higher risk of catching annoying STIs like HPV or herpes, so the other option would be safer for them.
@daRich_X Not using protection is somewhat more common among Japanese professionals for oral or even full service. Even when protection is used, it cannot completely protect against HPV or herpes since other areas of the genital region may still come into contact. These annoying STIs are often asymptomatic in men, yet can still be transmitted to their partners and lead to cervical cancer. The higher number of partners that professionals see significantly increases the probability of them having one of these sneaky STIs.
That's not true. We wear helmets when doing pros but we may not use it when doing another girl, who may be cheating on her man with half the town. Professionals are safer
@@rejectwokeness1314 Two other things about Japan needs to be mentioned: Some sources claim it is the country with the highest rate of Condom usage in the world. Second: I've heard that many establishments require the client to wash before the act, this is only a thing in very high end establishments where I live.
@@rejectwokeness1314 With professionals, you are guaranteed to be with someone who has served hundreds or thousands of clients. This situation presents two issues: 1) BB services are relatively more common among Japanese professionals. 2) Helmets do not fully protect against conditions such as HPV, and the high volume of clients, often asymptomatic, significantly increases the risk of infection. Your argument is probably true about non-professionals who also partake in many casual encounters. In those cases, I also agree that professionals could be safer. However, this is not what these girls are saying. The girls are against infidelity when emotions are involved. On the other hand, when emotions play a role and you are familiar with your cheating partner or even form a relationship, you can significantly reduce the chance of being with someone who is prone to a high level of casual activities.
In not-shady establishments the professionals get STD checks on e.g. a monthly basis.
The girl who sleeps with a different guy every week and has now landed in your bed, when did she have the last check?
Just don't get the professional pregnant or you are screwed.
Japan Boss take workers to bordelo 😂 where can I find sùch job 😊
I like how Japanese ladies think man!
So the NTR story (hamine or p0rn) are actually happens in Japan 🤣My dream land Japan what is wrong with your youths 🤦 my dream of going to Japan is decreasing day by day 😢 it's hurts man if you don't have a loyal partner ( why am I caring I already have someone 🤣)
Somehow I wonder if people don't understand that just because somethign is possible, you are not forced to do it.
If you don't want to go to a prostitute, don't do it. That should be fairly easy.
@@steemlenn8797 If I have put in words -: It's cheating, that's it 🥱
Sex is exclusive in west cultures because of the prospect of children.
It’s not exclusive in the West, cheating is extremely common.
@@emperorpalpatine9841 of course, but the women aren’t saying it’s ok with them like these Japanese wives say.
It's not cheating coz every men in japan wants to be harem MC
in my opinion, both are no good.
thats so sick....
We don't know the background of any of those girls, plus the beers have been flowing - so its hard to believe what they are saying.
It was a party organized by an agency that takes customers on guided walks through Kabukicho (if I'm not mistaken). One of those girls used to be a hostess.
Well, do you trust interviews where they ask completely sober women if they have ever cheated?
I like how objective and pragmatic most of them are. The west is so prudish, idealistic, backwards, contradictory and hypocritical about sex and relationships.
Exactly. It's not cheating if your loved one goes to town with another person if he or she is PAYING for it. How backwards do you have to be to not be okay with a business transaction?
pragmatic is the key
2 pretty girls in this video but the one wearing all black has exactly the same view as I am! Some may think that our views are twisted but actually that's how humans (woman and man) are. Especially the part where she said couples only have sex with each other for the next 30 years is a lie. Face it, deep down, both woman and man want multiple partners in their lives. Can you eat the same food for every meal for the next 30 years? Those who said yes, liars!!!
Well, I can. Bot I don't want to 😅
Dumbest relationship? Japan of course.
Dumbest comment? Found!
Or you're just not smart enough to separate a transactional service from personal life.
電話番号を教えてよお兄さん I just want the phone number bro
10万円です。笑笑笑
@@Meshida 🤣🤣🤣
And that's why Suzuki-san thinks we are all creeps here!