I'm of the opinion that men never fall in love with anyone other than themselves. Whatever they decide to pursue with a woman is driven by interests only or their needs in that specific point in time and only when it's in their interest to do so and not a day sooner. They're quite calculating and almost cruel.
I'm 22 years old and I like men over 40. What I usually see is that they are likely to have prejudice against women my age, mainly because they affirm we are "living different stages". They do not understand that we can be different in terms of age but still have same or similar objectives in life like having a relationship, living together, or even having a family. Many tend to see us as a kind of fulfilled fantasy and do not open themselves in terms of love. I just do not know why Jonathon... age is only a number, there is much more beyond. It's been a pleasure to watch and listen to your video! Greetings from Argentina.
I had a relationship like that in my 20's (he was 44). Now I'm 44 and he's much older ...and we recently rekindled what we once had...he actually admitted that even though he was totally smitten with me at the time he thought I was just after his money and wanted to trap him into marriage. Which was total bias nonsense because I never wanted children...yes he was rich but the money wasn't his appeal...it was his total ability to be raw and vulnerable with me that I fell in love with. Was so nice to finally be able to be open and laugh about missed opportunities ...never know what the future holds now.
"Girl you know you just want money say that." "haha and who are you?" he is obviously a man of science. statistically, he is absolutely correct. IF you are telling the truth, then you need to silence every other leech of a woman out their saying the exact same things you are saying, but only really wanting a man to support them. that train has left the station.
@@Ghryst "Statistically" does not mean that all women want the same. I do not care about "what I need" to do or say if I'm saying the truth. I do not need to prove anything, I know my truth in my heart. Hope you too. Hug!
to the people out here saying you’re in it for money you never even mentioned his finances who’s to say you don’t have more money than him 🤷🏻♀️. looking at my situation I’m 22 and my boyfriends 34. yes he’s more of a bread winner brings more in, but I have more in my accounts bc of the way I save and live. you’re not alone and age is definitely just a number !
I'm so tired of being a man"s housekeeper, entertainer, life coach and now therapist?, I'm at a stage where I just don't want to put any more work into any man because it's tedious, and he should really be doing this work himself. Then there's the man's confidence I need to boost and need to make him feel like a hero so he can step in and feel like a man, and in bed I need to give him positive feedback, so he doesn't bruise again. By that time I feel like someone who's fallen face down into her spag bowl and fell asleep there.
Do not deal with this type of man because they are immature and they are just a baby who needs a babysitter and the support of his mother. You are not here to serve him, but the duty of a man is to fly or walk with his life partner
So true!! Very well said Ulrike!! It seems like us women need to keep "conforming" to a man's needs/wants/ego. I don't want to have to be a man's "mother" ... it's just so weird 😳
I'm just not a guider. If a guy doesn't take charge and guide the relationship, I will just let it fail or lose interest. Being a guider is a bit masculine. Although...this is definitely why my current relationship is failing. He needs this and I just can't provide it.
I love how this is advice from somebody over 40 and not a whole bunch of people who are 20 giving advice on the Internet, it’s just a nice refreshing break from that, thanks!
Some of us got wounded, sure... and then we processed it and, though we continue to grow, we look around and see a whole lot of stuff we want no part of, so we stay single. Which, being 49, I've grown into. I know what I want, but also what I don't want, and unfortunately, the women I come across that aren't married, usually quickly remove all doubt. Domineering, loud, crude, flaky, and talking the 'hip-hop' lingo. No thank you. Going to take the hard pass.
Pink, the performer, said due to their dysfunctional childhoods, her husband and she wouldn't be together if not for couples therapy. I told my overseas man 3 yrs ago we would need that. He agreed.
You need to spend time on a nudist resort and getting confident in your skin. Your shell is just a shell women need to see past that to see the real you but you need to be confident enough to let go of tour fears.
Coach Jonathon This Specific Video Is Helpfulness for Ladies Over 40 50 60...I'm buying Most of The Books Your Recommending For us Ladies To Read Learn Apply in Our Beautiful personal Life. Taking Care Of Our Mens. They Need Us Ladies...🥰 Thank You Coach You Rock for Real 💪
I’m so happy you didn’t say “ men just want to be needed” lol I’m very outgoing and would like a partner that can hang and pull his own weight. I think I can take this advice. Appreciate it!
Please advise some men that's it's important to spend more time with their partners and children and not so much time with the boys having a drink and gaffing it gets lonesome being the only one taking care of the home 🏡 and the children...
I'm so in love of a man 20 years older than me. I'm 20 and he's 40. I KNOW It’s weird tho. But I feel like we’re soulmates, like if we’ve met on a previous life. I've never had this feeling before! And it's driving me insane because I desperately want him to know how I feel, but I'm also scared of his reaction. He's a super chill guy, but I do not want to lose his friendship from him and the group of friends we have in common. Is there any advice you guys can give me?
Tell him. A man who is in his 40's and you have a mutual set of friends means that there is a level of respect for you. Confession of your feelings will feel better for you and you might be surprised there is an attraction on his end. Quiet time and place, let it out!
I guess that’s the largest reason why long-distance relationships don’t work especially later on in life. But that seems so limiting because you want to have a different experience and you have more resources and time and mental capacity to have a different experience than when you were younger.
Thanks for your comments and I have something for you to consider. 93% of communication is non verbal. So, emails, texts and even phone isn't fully expressing what is said; therefore, it is through face to face that we fully engage with another. It takes to emotionally healthy people to be secure enough in themselves and committed to the process for LDR to work. Does that make sense?
Jonathon Aslay Yes that does make sense. I understand that a lot of communication is nonverbal, and it also depends on their love language. So your point brings up the biggest barrier “it is through Face to face that we fully engage”. though I can see that a larger part of the relationship will develop without having the physical aspect. You would get to know someone on a deeper level than you normally would constantly having contact with them physically or face-to-face. That being said that’s the awesome thing about technology these days. FaceTime is a game changer. At least it would help bridge the gap in LDR barriers.
Jonathon Aslay Actually, not at all. I have kids spread out across four different states and grandkids so it makes a big difference in how I can connect with them in a real sense and see them face-to-face and what they are doing. So if men connect and /or fall in love through activities and face-to-face, At least it would help. Although not as good as being in person!!
Jonathon, so a woman alone, without family and without friends, will never be loved!? He must like her and not her family or friends. And if middle age men don't value sex (they do) women do even if they don't say it or they don't know it. A good couple is: two persons that love each other (not their family and friends) and have good sex together. You are almost saying that being friends is enough to be a couple after the age of 50/60.
I've been alone since 1986 after a bad relationship. Only been with one man (older than me, on and off from 2005 to 2010). At 69 (3.5 yrs ago) I finally meet someone I really love being with. He's in S. Africa and can't get out. Am I lucky or what? I say don't wait too long, don't enjoy your own company too much. Years fly by and soon you'll be alone in your end years. My overseas man said he'd be with me to the end, look after each other. But the Universe makes us wait.
Definitely don't wanna meet someone in some online 'dating' site. Haven't seen much emotional depth the last decade & a half. If that's all that's available anymore, count me out.
I am 26year old and I am highly attracted to 39yr old men, i love this men so much .😅😅he don't know love him alot bcoz of my shy nature.i tried to express my feeling through the eyes but he think I am crazy...
I think the childhood drama and adultd hurts and the whole insane thing about self love is very cultural aspect and in this case very American. This search for self fulfillment is totally on the individual culture that is starting to manipulate the world. I dont believe in all that and cant apply it to my culture but it is sure interesting to listen to your point of view. .
I'm confused...😕 How is healing childhood and adult trauma through self love "manipulative"? This is the basis of nearly ever psychological and spiritual practice? Do you not believe in childhood and adult trauma causing wounds that persist throughout our lives? Or you do not believe that self-love can heal these wounds and allow for greater happiness in life and improved relationships? I do understand the part about it not being a part of your culture. I don't feel it is truly a part of ANY culture...but I do believe this awareness is increasing world-wide.
This was excellent! One of the best insights you’ve provided! I am certainly going to think about this and share with my friends who are looking for love! It makes sense because, although I’m not looking for a fully committed relationship, I am looking for male companionship to do activities with, accompany me to family events, be my “plus one” at a charity fundraiser, etc. it makes sense that finding someone who fits into that lifestyle groove would become increasingly attractive and even relied upon in a good way. But here’s the white elephant in the room, I think a lot of elderly people don’t want to “go the distance” to a fully committed marriage because of personal accumulated wealth, homes they may own, and dependents that are their first priority such as adult children and grandchildren etc. ... and it could get kind of messy regarding future inheritance.
"a lot of elderly people don’t want to “go the distance” to a fully committed marriage because of personal accumulated wealth, homes they may own" NONE of those things matter in a court of law. marriage does not matter. if you live with a woman for 6 months or more in a "relationship", that is all that is required for a judge to rule "DeFacto" and award half the shit to the women in alimony.
Love all your videos, the books you suggest, that I have purchased...please keep giving us the support we need in this dating world we live in these days...Thanks so much!!!
@@JonathonAslay @Jonathon I'm quite infatuated with words.... Thank you for exposing me to a new one. Will look up limerence ..... (Edit, I did) you used it perfectly👌🏾)
Jonathan love each show... found out so much, and have taken your great advice to heart. BUT! I'M 78 years young. Taken for a much younger age and in good health and a active great granny. SO, in my decade there's a huge difference as to what men want in a relationship in my decade n beyond. But of course at any age FWB ever gets old with males at any age. Some have been divorced up to 4xs or have been married 40 to 60 years n now widowed. At this age they just want FWB or "companionship"... not marriage. When I hear that.. I tell them... Hey you should get a dog! They make the best companions... or even a cat! But, most men already have one...lol I could tell ya some wacky stories about those sort of situations, and I do love dogs! Then you have FWB.. usually more B than F. So thats a Nada Adios. I would love to hear your opinion... for us gals in the golden prime years! Seems to be nothing out there for us. Sincerely Sandra
Acts 16:30-31 King James Version 30 And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved? 31 And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.
Maybe just friendship, especially if younger, men (AND) women need to know if they are sexually compatible too though. But yeah, generally, if they really like you, it will probably be an easy turn on.
I’m in my late 20s I’m seeing a man who is 41 with 2 kids. I have no kids, my only fear is the obvious one, that he won’t take me seriously. I have a young face and obviously age so idk if he’ll ever introduce me to friends or family or even his kids yet Bc it’s still too soon but I don’t want to be seen as a sexual fantasy or some naive dumb girl. I don’t view him as an old man who has failed relationships…so I just hope he’s open to the idea of love. Im also afraid of sex because he’s more experienced than I am.
I lately met good healthy handsome man he is 50 years old and he never married and he said he is virgin I'm 30 years he is gentlemen and I'm confused can u advice me please !!
Same!!!!! I've accidentally fallen in love he's 50 I'm 30. I don't want him to turn me into an older woman prematurely but i love the security n love he gives me. He tells me I did my makeup so nice I look like a little doll. I know that comes off weird but I melt in his arms. N im certainly not getting any younger so what should I do?
@@aladynamedSusan I feel that they look at us as a pretty dolls not as Serious Woman I left him cuz I felt he wants to change me as he wants cuz he us the old and always right I advice u to see if he is seriously good or just he wants to have fun
@@aladynamedSusan I felt also that he wants me to think like old women !! I want to live my age and live my new experiences not turn into old woman for him
Yes, there is some repetition because there are some basic commonalities for men are well as women. If you look back over the past 5 videos I posted, they are not the same though and my hope is that with each new video, I spark something unique in each.
why are you pandering to women? clickbait? you'd probably get more repeat-viewers/followers being honest instead of telling them what they want to hear.
Hate to say it.... But there is no such thing as a woman ever truly loving a man without conditions.... and "love" with conditions is not true love to begin with.... It's simply living a lie... It's why I decided to remain single, never married.... I'd rather remain single than live a lie with a woman who I know can't be trusted and just wants what I provide. That's not love, that's selling ourselves short as men. Stay single men..
I'm of the opinion that men never fall in love with anyone other than themselves. Whatever they decide to pursue with a woman is driven by interests only or their needs in that specific point in time and only when it's in their interest to do so and not a day sooner. They're quite calculating and almost cruel.
Lol calm down honey not all..that’s actually how most women act😂😂
Sounds like the men you've been around. Not all men are like that. Imagine if some guy was here talking about how all women are x.
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@@JonathonAslay ?
@@Daylesvk I'm calm honey. You're entitled to your opinion.
I'm 22 years old and I like men over 40. What I usually see is that they are likely to have prejudice against women my age, mainly because they affirm we are "living different stages". They do not understand that we can be different in terms of age but still have same or similar objectives in life like having a relationship, living together, or even having a family. Many tend to see us as a kind of fulfilled fantasy and do not open themselves in terms of love. I just do not know why Jonathon... age is only a number, there is much more beyond. It's been a pleasure to watch and listen to your video! Greetings from Argentina.
@Clowy Nicx haha and who are you? Poor thing...
I had a relationship like that in my 20's (he was 44). Now I'm 44 and he's much older ...and we recently rekindled what we once had...he actually admitted that even though he was totally smitten with me at the time he thought I was just after his money and wanted to trap him into marriage. Which was total bias nonsense because I never wanted children...yes he was rich but the money wasn't his appeal...it was his total ability to be raw and vulnerable with me that I fell in love with. Was so nice to finally be able to be open and laugh about missed opportunities ...never know what the future holds now.
"Girl you know you just want money say that."
"haha and who are you?"
he is obviously a man of science. statistically, he is absolutely correct.
IF you are telling the truth, then you need to silence every other leech of a woman out their saying the exact same things you are saying, but only really wanting a man to support them. that train has left the station.
@@Ghryst "Statistically" does not mean that all women want the same. I do not care about "what I need" to do or say if I'm saying the truth. I do not need to prove anything, I know my truth in my heart. Hope you too. Hug!
to the people out here saying you’re in it for money you never even mentioned his finances who’s to say you don’t have more money than him 🤷🏻♀️.
looking at my situation I’m 22 and my boyfriends 34. yes he’s more of a bread winner brings more in, but I have more in my accounts bc of the way I save and live.
you’re not alone and age is definitely just a number !
I'm so tired of being a man"s housekeeper, entertainer, life coach and now therapist?, I'm at a stage where I just don't want to put any more work into any man because it's tedious, and he should really be doing this work himself. Then there's the man's confidence I need to boost and need to make him feel like a hero so he can step in and feel like a man, and in bed I need to give him positive feedback, so he doesn't bruise again. By that time I feel like someone who's fallen face down into her spag bowl and fell asleep there.
Totally with you on that!!
Do not deal with this type of man because they are immature and they are just a baby who needs a babysitter and the support of his mother. You are not here to serve him, but the duty of a man is to fly or walk with his life partner
So true!! Very well said Ulrike!! It seems like us women need to keep "conforming" to a man's needs/wants/ego. I don't want to have to be a man's "mother" ... it's just so weird 😳
This is a pattern to follow. I give, he gives, he gives, i give, i give he doesnt, next time i dont give til he does again. X
😂
I'm just not a guider. If a guy doesn't take charge and guide the relationship, I will just let it fail or lose interest. Being a guider is a bit masculine. Although...this is definitely why my current relationship is failing. He needs this and I just can't provide it.
I love how this is advice from somebody over 40 and not a whole bunch of people who are 20 giving advice on the Internet, it’s just a nice refreshing break from that, thanks!
Glad it was helpful!
So true! Sadly here in the U.K. many men are not receptive to any introspection & any psychological work..
Stick to the ones who know more about books than bricks. Makes a big difference.
There's a lot of people wounded out there sounds about right!
Some of us got wounded, sure... and then we processed it and, though we continue to grow, we look around and see a whole lot of stuff we want no part of, so we stay single. Which, being 49, I've grown into. I know what I want, but also what I don't want, and unfortunately, the women I come across that aren't married, usually quickly remove all doubt. Domineering, loud, crude, flaky, and talking the 'hip-hop' lingo. No thank you. Going to take the hard pass.
@@Frank-n-Sense well bye
Pink, the performer, said due to their dysfunctional childhoods, her husband and she wouldn't be together if not for couples therapy. I told my overseas man 3 yrs ago we would need that. He agreed.
I believe you're recommended books are a good ideas to read and everyone has to remember hurt people hurt people. Activities are great and healthy
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This is every word I needed to hear right now. Solid advice! I will definitely check these books out. Thanks for the upload!
I feel so unnatractive at 40 that I doubt I will ever fall in love again. I'm tall and fit but I feel like I look old now. So I avoid it.
Johnny don't worry about how you re, u will meet a woman who will love you, Benedicta from Gh
You need to spend time on a nudist resort and getting confident in your skin. Your shell is just a shell women need to see past that to see the real you but you need to be confident enough to let go of tour fears.
@@dellchica2373 umm thank you I guess lol.
@@dellchica2373 the carribian huh?? Hmmm. I could use a tropical vacation lol 😂.
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Do men over 60 fall in love?
As always -GREAT video!! Damn how I wish I knew all this long ago. Never too late to discover and learn!!
Your comment made me smile... THANK YOU.
Kimberly C, you got a lovely smile
Coach Jonathon
This Specific Video Is Helpfulness for Ladies Over 40 50 60...I'm buying Most of The Books Your Recommending For us Ladies To Read Learn Apply in Our Beautiful personal Life. Taking Care Of Our Mens. They Need Us Ladies...🥰 Thank You Coach You Rock for Real 💪
Great video, Jonathon. But I gotta ask: Aren't most emotionally healthy men already married?
Lots of emotionally unhealthy people are married... lots! BTW, thank you.
Or they are gay... 😛
I agree: on the whole yes, unless a widower (but then one is competing against a 'ghost')!
Pretty much, or gay. Or both. They don't stay single long.
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Hugs, sometimes I wonder why I watch these to help get the right guy. But they aren't watching these so there is not improvement
I’m so happy you didn’t say “ men just want to be needed” lol I’m very outgoing and would like a partner that can hang and pull his own weight. I think I can take this advice. Appreciate it!
It resonates with me, especially with high quality men . Thank You 😍
You're very welcome.
I'm 25 and he's 41 we are LDR for 7 months..I don't know if this relationship is going to work but he will Vissit next month 🙂
Please advise some men that's it's important to spend more time with their partners and children and not so much time with the boys having a drink and gaffing it gets lonesome being the only one taking care of the home 🏡 and the children...
Video starts at 2:15
I'm so in love of a man 20 years older than me. I'm 20 and he's 40. I KNOW It’s weird tho. But I feel like we’re soulmates, like if we’ve met on a previous life. I've never had this feeling before! And it's driving me insane because I desperately want him to know how I feel, but I'm also scared of his reaction. He's a super chill guy, but I do not want to lose his friendship from him and the group of friends we have in common. Is there any advice you guys can give me?
Tell him. A man who is in his 40's and you have a mutual set of friends means that there is a level of respect for you. Confession of your feelings will feel better for you and you might be surprised there is an attraction on his end.
Quiet time and place, let it out!
I guess that’s the largest reason why long-distance relationships don’t work especially later on in life. But that seems so limiting because you want to have a different experience and you have more resources and time and mental capacity to have a different experience than when you were younger.
Thanks for your comments and I have something for you to consider. 93% of communication is non verbal. So, emails, texts and even phone isn't fully expressing what is said; therefore, it is through face to face that we fully engage with another. It takes to emotionally healthy people to be secure enough in themselves and committed to the process for LDR to work. Does that make sense?
Jonathon Aslay Yes that does make sense. I understand that a lot of communication is nonverbal, and it also depends on their love language. So your point brings up the biggest barrier “it is through Face to face that we fully engage”. though I can see that a larger part of the relationship will develop without having the physical aspect. You would get to know someone on a deeper level than you normally would constantly having contact with them physically or face-to-face. That being said that’s the awesome thing about technology these days. FaceTime is a game changer. At least it would help bridge the gap in LDR barriers.
@@meloniecurtis2675 I get a sense, you''re in a wonderful LDR, good for you.
Jonathon Aslay Actually, not at all. I have kids spread out across four different states and grandkids so it makes a big difference in how I can connect with them in a real sense and see them face-to-face and what they are doing. So if men connect and /or fall in love through activities and face-to-face, At least it would help. Although not as good as being in person!!
I JUST GOT MY BOOK EIGHT DATES!!!! YESSSSS
Jonathon, so a woman alone, without family and without friends, will never be loved!? He must like her and not her family or friends. And if middle age men don't value sex (they do) women do even if they don't say it or they don't know it. A good couple is: two persons that love each other (not their family and friends) and have good sex together. You are almost saying that being friends is enough to be a couple after the age of 50/60.
I've been alone since 1986 after a bad relationship. Only been with one man (older than me, on and off from 2005 to 2010).
At 69 (3.5 yrs ago) I finally meet someone I really love being with. He's in S. Africa and can't get out. Am I lucky or what? I say don't wait too long, don't enjoy your own company too much. Years fly by and soon you'll be alone in your end years. My overseas man said he'd be with me to the end, look after each other. But the Universe makes us wait.
Definitely don't wanna meet someone in some online 'dating' site.
Haven't seen much emotional depth the last decade & a half.
If that's all that's available anymore, count me out.
This deserves way more votes!
Thanks Jonathan 🙏 Helpful video 👍 Your knowing, compassion and positivity are a winning combination 💛🤗💯
You are so welcome
Great video. I appreciate your time, thank you.
I am 26year old and I am highly attracted to 39yr old men, i love this men so much .😅😅he don't know love him alot bcoz of my shy nature.i tried to express my feeling through the eyes but he think I am crazy...
I read this book and while it’s quite therapeutic I’m glad I got through it thx
Do you mean therapeutic in a good way or bad way
@@aladynamedSusan a little bit boringly factual . But the informations interesting
Another good one😁 Thank you!
I wonder if over anylisis, pigoen holing, compartmentalises what would normally be an organic process. Maybe this is the problem!
I think the childhood drama and adultd hurts and the whole insane thing about self love is very cultural aspect and in this case very American. This search for self fulfillment is totally on the individual culture that is starting to manipulate the world. I dont believe in all that and cant apply it to my culture but it is sure interesting to listen to your point of view. .
I'm confused...😕 How is healing childhood and adult trauma through self love "manipulative"? This is the basis of nearly ever psychological and spiritual practice? Do you not believe in childhood and adult trauma causing wounds that persist throughout our lives? Or you do not believe that self-love can heal these wounds and allow for greater happiness in life and improved relationships? I do understand the part about it not being a part of your culture. I don't feel it is truly a part of ANY culture...but I do believe this awareness is increasing world-wide.
I'm not into reading, though I wanna power through the books you recommended. 💪🏽😭 😊
This was excellent! One of the best insights you’ve provided! I am certainly going to think about this and share with my friends who are looking for love!
It makes sense because, although I’m not looking for a fully committed relationship, I am looking for male companionship to do activities with, accompany me to family events, be my “plus one” at a charity fundraiser, etc. it makes sense that finding someone who fits into that lifestyle groove would become increasingly attractive and even relied upon in a good way.
But here’s the white elephant in the room, I think a lot of elderly people don’t want to “go the distance” to a fully committed marriage because of personal accumulated wealth, homes they may own, and dependents that are their first priority such as adult children and grandchildren etc. ... and it could get kind of messy regarding future inheritance.
Yep... thanks. 🤗🙏💗🧂
"a lot of elderly people don’t want to “go the distance” to a fully committed marriage because of personal accumulated wealth, homes they may own"
NONE of those things matter in a court of law. marriage does not matter. if you live with a woman for 6 months or more in a "relationship", that is all that is required for a judge to rule "DeFacto" and award half the shit to the women in alimony.
Love all your videos, the books you suggest, that I have purchased...please keep giving us the support we need in this dating world we live in these days...Thanks so much!!!
Rock on man!!! I’m 30 my b.f is 45
How men over 40 fall in love? Easy , they see someone at his 20 and that's it, love at first sight !
Hard to do in a Ldr but I know what I need to do when he visits next month 😁
Im a 40 year old man and i dont agree. I fell in love at first sight at the age of 36
Most folks experience lust or limerance at first sight. You're the exception, not the rule.
@@JonathonAslay @Jonathon I'm quite infatuated with words.... Thank you for exposing me to a new one. Will look up limerence ..... (Edit, I did) you used it perfectly👌🏾)
Hi funny saw u on bumble😊
Oh really 😀
I'm 35 and met a 47 year old man I came here to listen
Helperful thanks
You should be coaching men not women.
I do on occasion.
Jonathan love each show... found out so much, and have taken your great advice to heart. BUT! I'M 78 years young. Taken for a much younger age and in good health and a active great granny. SO, in my decade there's a huge difference as to what men want in a relationship in my decade n beyond. But of course at any age FWB ever gets old with males at any age. Some have been divorced up to 4xs or have been married 40 to 60 years n now widowed. At this age they just want FWB or "companionship"... not marriage. When I hear that.. I tell them... Hey you should get a dog! They make the best companions... or even a cat! But, most men already have one...lol I could tell ya some wacky stories about those sort of situations, and I do love dogs!
Then you have
FWB.. usually more B than F. So thats a Nada Adios.
I would love to hear your opinion... for us gals in the golden prime years! Seems to be nothing out there for us.
Sincerely
Sandra
Acts 16:30-31
King James Version
30 And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved?
31 And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.
Awesome guy❤
Can a man fall in love if he doesn't have sex before marriage?
Yes. Sex is not love!
@@ChildrenofthelivingGod THANK YOU!
Maybe just friendship, especially if younger, men (AND) women need to know if they are sexually compatible too though. But yeah, generally, if they really like you, it will probably be an easy turn on.
I’m in my late 20s I’m seeing a man who is 41 with 2 kids. I have no kids, my only fear is the obvious one, that he won’t take me seriously. I have a young face and obviously age so idk if he’ll ever introduce me to friends or family or even his kids yet Bc it’s still too soon but I don’t want to be seen as a sexual fantasy or some naive dumb girl. I don’t view him as an old man who has failed relationships…so I just hope he’s open to the idea of love. Im also afraid of sex because he’s more experienced than I am.
I feel you
Girl, same boat!
Hold off on the sex. I personally believe in waiting until marriage and that weeds out a lot of the predatory ones who aren’t serious.
I am the man you have described :) Completely true
How so?
Jonathon Aslay too personal to talk about it here, sorry! But just think that men and women can overlap in many aspects.
I lately met good healthy handsome man he is 50 years old and he never married and he said he is virgin
I'm 30 years he is gentlemen and I'm confused can u advice me please !!
Same!!!!! I've accidentally fallen in love he's 50 I'm 30. I don't want him to turn me into an older woman prematurely but i love the security n love he gives me. He tells me I did my makeup so nice I look like a little doll. I know that comes off weird but I melt in his arms. N im certainly not getting any younger so what should I do?
@@aladynamedSusan I feel that they look at us as a pretty dolls not as Serious Woman
I left him cuz I felt he wants to change me as he wants cuz he us the old and always right
I advice u to see if he is seriously good or just he wants to have fun
@@aladynamedSusan I felt also that he wants me to think like old women !! I want to live my age and live my new experiences not turn into old woman for him
Even at the age of 50, he's virgin which also means that he's a leftover man. Choose wisely
Are you sure he's not gay? A-sexual?
Nobody "gives/,receives sex", sex is reciprocal.
Ypu know that you said this in a different video, right? You have not been saying anything new lately.
Yes, there is some repetition because there are some basic commonalities for men are well as women. If you look back over the past 5 videos I posted, they are not the same though and my hope is that with each new video, I spark something unique in each.
Men fall in love after 50?? Who knows??
Man are definitely a very complex creature. We women should all become lesbians.
Never
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why are you pandering to women? clickbait?
you'd probably get more repeat-viewers/followers being honest instead of telling them what they want to hear.
How so?
@@JonathonAslay doesnt you liberal use of feminist word salad make it obvious? have i stumbled into the blue-pill, pre-cuck zone?
Hate to say it.... But there is no such thing as a woman ever truly loving a man without conditions.... and "love" with conditions is not true love to begin with.... It's simply living a lie... It's why I decided to remain single, never married.... I'd rather remain single than live a lie with a woman who I know can't be trusted and just wants what I provide. That's not love, that's selling ourselves short as men. Stay single men..
Interesting viewpoint but why be on this channel Johnathan is about spreading love not limiting it