8 GROWN WOMAN habits girls learn TOO LATE

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  • @shaliniekka232
    @shaliniekka232 Місяць тому +1134

    1. Self defence (know how and when to defend yourself)
    2. Staying quiet (learn when amd where to stay quiet)
    3. Going in different direction (taking bold decision for yourself)
    4. Goals management (breaking down major goal into small and achievable targets)
    5. Self discipline (cut out distraction)
    6. Boundaries (learn to say no to protect your time and peace)
    7. Independent (doing stuff on your own)
    8. Correcting your path (it's not late to start now, take firm decision for you life)
    9. Categorizing your friends (certain friends are for certain things ,based on similarities)

    • @nodrvgs
      @nodrvgs Місяць тому +4

      thank you❤

    • @iamaleo247
      @iamaleo247 Місяць тому +1

      Thank You!!!!
      Much appreciated ☺️

    • @Buplr
      @Buplr 26 днів тому +4

      the last one was hard for me i always want to make every friend family

    • @mobstercrow7515
      @mobstercrow7515 22 дні тому +12

      Categorizing friends is VERY useful. Don't bring your lazy boring nerd friend on a 3 hour hike, or to the gym. Don't bring your vegan friend to a bbq. Don't bring your athletic, hyper, active friend to the movies. Don't study with your friend that hates studying and would rather be watching tv. I have a list of all of my friends, their traits, strengths, weaknesses, and some other things. When you categorize your friends and do stuff you both like to do, it improves your bond and you have a better time with them. Think about this, you're a really active healthy person and you love hiking, exercising, walking through parks, going to the zoo, and visiting animal shelters. BUT one of your friends ALWAYS wants to eat in a restaurant and do nothing else. Isn't that boring? I'd rather spend the day at the zoo or hiking, then eat a healthy meal after. I don't want to go out to eat them go back home every single time. I have a few friends that are like that sadly, it is VERY boring. I like spending time with them, but when you are eating in a restaurant you don't really get to connect or bond, you just spend 10 minutes talking, then your food arrives and you go silent, then it's over. It would be a lot nicer if we could at least walk around a few stores before or after we eat so we can find out what each other likes, that would make birthday and holiday shopping a lot easier.

    • @prettyjahnie
      @prettyjahnie 18 днів тому

      Friends are dangerous my dear don't let it teach you the hard way​@@Buplr

  • @Berrrrryl
    @Berrrrryl 24 дні тому +205

    The intro immediately got me to sit up straight like my mama caught me doing something 😂

  • @Sunsunie
    @Sunsunie 17 днів тому +119

    Also! 2 thing i just learned as someone with adhd!
    - learn to not over explain why we do/say things (sometimes it ends up with us yapping a bunch abt ourselves. 😢)
    - dont put ourselves into other people’s shoes to relate to them or to find ways to talk to someone. Sometimes people just want to be listened to.

    • @Nutellabiss
      @Nutellabiss 17 днів тому +4

      These are great. I've tried to become a better active listener and listen not to respond but just to listen.

    • @issheprettyfromthebackk45
      @issheprettyfromthebackk45 11 днів тому +2

      thank u! i also have adhd and it makes it harder.

  • @simonaslechtova4653
    @simonaslechtova4653 2 місяці тому +790

    Translation for my European fellows: "You need to START acting your shoe size" 😅

    • @its_sabrinak
      @its_sabrinak Місяць тому +21

      Haaaa😂

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +55

      😂😂🫶🏾

    • @plt414
      @plt414 Місяць тому +5

      You're funny 😂

    • @Bria.W
      @Bria.W Місяць тому +8

      Why did I have this joke in my head too 😂😂

    • @simonaslechtova4653
      @simonaslechtova4653 Місяць тому +3

      @@Bria.W ❤quality sense of humor 😄🤜🤛

  • @lipz1399
    @lipz1399 26 днів тому +127

    as a girl just entering her 20s, i needed to hear this. Ive been procrastinating doing so many things since highschool. Im so ready to mature and make better choices for myself starting now, thank you. 🙏

    • @elloriee
      @elloriee 13 днів тому +5

      I feel like a lot of content in the self-improvement category (like this!) instill a sort of urgency to make these huge changes in our personalities and lives. I'm not saying that we shouldn't all want to be our best selves as soon as possible, but be able to distinguish if this sudden want for change is because the video/post/book is creating a sense of urgency, or because you have a deep yearning to change that comes from within.
      But props to this creator! Awareness is the first step to change.

  • @ElizabethDollen
    @ElizabethDollen Місяць тому +380

    Another one I'd add is spreading your knowledge, learning new things, becoming smarter, I started off with a book about feminine power on synfla and I never looked back since.

  • @charlieianthe9072
    @charlieianthe9072 2 місяці тому +418

    I was watching this thinking how spot on you are and was waiting to read the comments to find out you only have 40k subscribers. It's still a lot don't get me wrong but I was expecting you to have a million plus. Thank you for your advice, you deserve more love!

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  2 місяці тому +51

      Thank youu and yes i have faith i will definitely be hitting that million plus one day but for right now i’ll just keep showing the people why i deserve it lol🫶🏾

    • @Bubblegum_bxtch
      @Bubblegum_bxtch Місяць тому

      I had the same reaction bc she clicked me as soon as the video started playing 💀🤚

    • @sarahgloriousofficial3261
      @sarahgloriousofficial3261 23 дні тому +7

      I agree with you, the confidence is top notch ❤

    • @joyakpeji492
      @joyakpeji492 3 дні тому

      On a 💯💯

    • @joyakpeji492
      @joyakpeji492 3 дні тому

      Definitely on point

  • @elizabethstewart443
    @elizabethstewart443 Місяць тому +66

    When you began on the topic about friends, it hit home. A lot of people don’t realize you can’t all your friends the same thing

    • @elizabethstewart443
      @elizabethstewart443 Місяць тому +1

      Do you have a public instagram page 🥺

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +4

      Not at the moment, I’m taking a little social media break besides UA-cam to just clear my mind a bit

  • @sydneyjanet5240
    @sydneyjanet5240 19 днів тому +19

    It's funny because I'm watching at 27 and these are lessons I've learned in the past few years. I've recently put them into action, and planning to actively, fully step into it in 2025. I think this is a fated message, showing me that I'm on the right track and putting words to things I've been contemplating for the past few years
    Mind you, I don't really watch this kind of stuff on UA-cam.

  • @angellove7127
    @angellove7127 Місяць тому +13

    You changed my life. You read me like a book. At 32 years old you shifted my mindset & made me realize that it’s not too late
    You’re the guidance I needed all along 🥹🥹thank you for this😭 I wish I could hug. I’m super grateful

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому

      Yes I love to hear that and I’m so happy I could do that for you🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @user-yj1ic8qd3n
    @user-yj1ic8qd3n 12 днів тому +5

    I’m 42 and I can honestly say that you are wise beyond your years, hun! Your mindset will set you apart…with good reason 😊You are sure to reap the benefits. ❤

  • @xomich.
    @xomich. Місяць тому +34

    WE NEED YOU ON SPOTIFY

  • @TatiMariee
    @TatiMariee 26 днів тому +10

    This video came to me at the right time. It’s been a month since I’ve made 22 and Im really struggling with self-discipline. I would claim that I would get all of these activities done and not actually putting the work into it which leads to procrastination and I find myself always being late. Watching this video made me realize that if you want something, you literally have to go after it which means literally putting in the blood, sweat, and tears if you really want to achieve your goals. Thank you for this video, it woke me up real quick.

  • @MalaysiaTashay
    @MalaysiaTashay Місяць тому +38

    1:07 yesss cause speak up with my current bf and he tell me im a crash out which is insane cause i never spoken up for myself. I tend to hide how i feel cause i don’t want to be labeled as a crash out but then I know I deserve to speak up for myself

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +15

      Exactly people love to keep you small‼️ they hate to see you stand up for yourself because they know that means they can’t treat you how they truly want to

    • @MalaysiaTashay
      @MalaysiaTashay Місяць тому +1

      @ thank you for this amazing video

    • @MalaysiaTashay
      @MalaysiaTashay Місяць тому +2

      @ it’s just a battle everyday with me like I know how to speak but I’m exhausted with confrontation

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +10

      @ sometimes we have to know when to separate ourselves from situations, it will hurt at first but you can’t heal a wound if you keep letting someone open it🫶🏾

    • @MalaysiaTashay
      @MalaysiaTashay Місяць тому +1

      @ you are amazing thank you ❤️

  • @chroniclesofbithia
    @chroniclesofbithia Місяць тому +130

    As someone with a tiny shoe size , the intro made me choke a little bit lol

  • @La-TanyaFasinae
    @La-TanyaFasinae Місяць тому +212

    girl you literally just put me in my place 🤣🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️rightfully so

  • @Jada455
    @Jada455 Місяць тому +46

    i’m watching this on my 18th birthday 💚. needed this

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +6

      Yess I love that for you happy birthday🫶🏾

    • @Jada455
      @Jada455 Місяць тому +1

      Omg I’m seeing this so late. Thank you so much 🫶🏾

    • @TheMcDonaldWorkers
      @TheMcDonaldWorkers 29 днів тому +2

      Happy birthday I’m about to turn 20 I’m glad I seen this now

  • @bubblyky11
    @bubblyky11 24 дні тому +8

    i struggle with feeling a lot of overwhelming regret but your advice has helped lots with helping me shift my mindset. thank you girl doing gods work fr ❤

  • @loyluma1
    @loyluma1 20 днів тому +7

    Wow, I love how this video goes straight to the point, not losing time, everything is clear and, essentially, a hard fact. I'm young, but I recognize I've been doing these things for a long time, of course there's still work in some points you make, and for that I'm grateful, this video reminds me of keeping the hard work going for my life to grow in the way I want.

  • @Chardayvia
    @Chardayvia Місяць тому +15

    Watching this at 25 🙌🏾 thank you !

  • @kizil2014
    @kizil2014 Місяць тому +24

    The beginning part got me..I feel so small. I am very short and even preteens are taller than I am and it makes me feel like them. I'm 5'2 and I have youthful face. (I'm 20.)

  • @trnt4240
    @trnt4240 8 днів тому +1

    I’m about to turn 18 this year and I NEEDED this never delete this omg 😭😭🙏🏾

  • @anwesharaul2818
    @anwesharaul2818 День тому +1

    Learning to do things alone was needed cuz i am that way, ur right, will change thank uuu

  • @nakiayawn1391
    @nakiayawn1391 26 днів тому +3

    Wow, I love the sound of a passionate black woman speaking

  • @funsizedmyah3853
    @funsizedmyah3853 2 місяці тому +35

    I needed this video at 26 so much is changing for me making me realize I have to change as well 💕😮‍💨

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +3

      🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @ruthmaduka6631
      @ruthmaduka6631 Місяць тому +2

      Same here, 26 going on 27 and I’m glad I saw this. I needed it ❤

  • @Ooo7ljs
    @Ooo7ljs Місяць тому +10

    Honestly this video was SO helpful i HAD to share it to my sister’s and mother. FROM the bottom of my heart THANK you!

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому

      I’m glad you liked it and thank youu so much for sharing it

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 2 місяці тому +17

    Omg boundaries! My biggest lesson thus far cause baby the way people will test my boundary and cross them is scary no fs given

    • @RalstonWebb
      @RalstonWebb Місяць тому +3

      Some people have no respect for boundaries.
      These people are handlers and monitoring spirit.

  • @morgan9855
    @morgan9855 14 днів тому +1

    the intro definitely called me out. this video is so helpful considering that i am soon becoming a grown woman. thank you posting this video, this will help and inspire many older and younger women.

  • @edithasd2806
    @edithasd2806 26 днів тому +16

    I felt like this when I was 19. Then I learned you can't always start all over again sadly. Sometimes money, health or loved ones never come back again. It's important to make wise choices and think about it before taking big risks

    • @brigitretana8009
      @brigitretana8009 4 дні тому

      i hear you! i thought about the same thing when she mentioned that, but i think it means YOU start again. how will you make sure you won’t repeat your own history again? how will you make sure you don’t lose like that again?

  • @danielafeliciano1766
    @danielafeliciano1766 14 днів тому +1

    As an 17 year old girl struggling and feeling behind at everything, although I recognize I’m still in time to achieve goals step by step, this video is such an motivation with a big reality check at the same time. Thank you for making this video and help other women to achieve their goals.❤

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  13 днів тому

      Aww thank you I’m so happy I could help🫶🏾

  • @mikeysslice531
    @mikeysslice531 2 місяці тому +23

    You’re my “Thewizardliz” the things you say resonate with me so much! Thank you

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  2 місяці тому +2

      Aww thank you so much I really appreciate that❤️

    • @Ooo7ljs
      @Ooo7ljs Місяць тому +1

      I love both of their content 😭😩

  • @JynxsQuest
    @JynxsQuest 18 днів тому +4

    Okay okay 😭😭 Ill stop procrastnating!
    I swear the universe sent me this PERSONALLY rn 😂❤

  • @Ninini-q2v
    @Ninini-q2v 15 днів тому +2

    One of my fav UA-camr. You are totally a gem 💎❤️ . You deserves followers in millions.

  • @Crystallll114
    @Crystallll114 8 днів тому +1

    This was great advice! Especially about knowing when to speak up or keep quiet! Whew!! A word was given lol

  • @kirkhammetluvrrr
    @kirkhammetluvrrr Місяць тому +10

    watching this at 15 SO helpful. thank you

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +1

      🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @elisacoded
      @elisacoded Місяць тому

      these are good tips but you are young. now is the time you should be learning these things yourself. you should be able to freely explore every path and fuck it up, without the voice of someone pushing 30 in the back of your head. you have a few years to be reprimanded of your behavior, let that happen. these are only things women “learn late” because they never learned about themselves in the first place. if you’re here, i can assume you have at least a bit of self awareness. that will take you far on its own, you don’t need this (easily searchable) advice. on that same note, save this video for when you’re 18, it’d serve a better purpose then 😊

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +4

      @ … first off I’m only 24 not pushing 30😂 and second the whole point of the video and my entire account is to break down self growth and make it understandable. With that being said I do understand experiencing things for yourself but I also understand how dumb it is to make a mistake that could have been easily avoided if you just had good advice. These are things that some people don’t learn from older siblings or even their parents so to you it may seem like easily “search able” advice but for some others it can be just what they needed to hear! And trust me you have your ENTIRE life for making mistakes and I’m sure you’ll be fine if you learn how to avoid just 8 of them😂

  • @Dkays393
    @Dkays393 26 днів тому +1

    I went through so many of the things you mentioned but never thought that that was what was happening. Thank you for this

  • @itsdav5574
    @itsdav5574 18 днів тому +2

    real asf i am extremely grateful for this video

  • @Yiriyiri
    @Yiriyiri Місяць тому +9

    This helped me define everything I’ve been feeling. Thank you 💕

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому +1

      I’m happy I could do that🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @sherenachristmas5557
    @sherenachristmas5557 Місяць тому +4

    UA-cam recommended this video. I am now subscribed! You spoke right to me. Thanks for sharing!

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому

      Thank youu for supporting🫶🏾

  • @laurasebalj5939
    @laurasebalj5939 Місяць тому +41

    me, an european: I should not act like im 38? okaay! 😂😂

  • @Alexz5040
    @Alexz5040 Місяць тому +2

    Yup👏scared I was missing something I’m doing pretty good ❤God has already helped me learn these lessons early 🙏stay blessed

  • @trish6116
    @trish6116 24 дні тому +12

    The other day I was speaking to this guy and just saying what’s on my mind. How I quit one of my jobs because I felt I wasn’t getting respected and don’t personally believe in “earning respect”, how I felt I could have something better etc. And he said “are you ever happy with anything?” .. if he doesn’t shut his dumb ass up tryna sound deep and make me question myself. He goes on to say how sometimes you need to earn respect at work. I said that him asking me if I’m ever happy or satisfied with anything made him sound like my parents ….. I just believe that if something is not up to my standards, if it feels like I’m sacrificing my mind, peace, body and not even being compensated decently for it then no I don’t need to put up with it. All my life it’s been a constant of family, men or others trying to make me feel like I’m wrong for knowing I deserve best and not wanting to settle for anything but! Honestly I have slipped a few times I’m human but I’m really trying to uphold it as much as possible especially now that I am a grown woman and need to embody that .

  • @aaji74
    @aaji74 Місяць тому +4

    What a beautiful video, May the Lord bless the words that flow from your heart🙏🏾💕

  • @Salomex1412
    @Salomex1412 14 днів тому +1

    Hey this is a great video, i recently turned 18 so i have the feeling i need to become more mature. And this video surely is a great stepping stone to that!

  • @PNAMIRACLES
    @PNAMIRACLES 2 місяці тому +15

    You ate with the ending! “She was never supposed to leave happy hour” 😂❤

  • @dinmajoy05
    @dinmajoy05 22 дні тому +1

    I love your videos so much. Thank you i really loved this one, especially the part of categorizing friendships. This is something I as an individual know i need to learn well, I've been hurt so much by sharing too much with everybody and anyone and it's a change I pray to make next year 🙏🏾

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  22 дні тому

      Thank you for the support and yes you got this🤞🏾

  • @Samuel-e7u9b
    @Samuel-e7u9b 26 днів тому

    I'm 17 years old and so far I have been brought down by my age mates and felt so so low.To be sincere,thank you for making this video and I have learned a lot from this.Kindly spread that same spirit to inspire other girls 😊❤❤❤

  • @lyah1801
    @lyah1801 7 днів тому

    As a three year old adult (23) I needed this. Thank you

  • @j4ythenobody
    @j4ythenobody 24 дні тому +1

    the callout in the beginning! yes ma'am! 🙇‍♀

  • @HellomynameisGuts
    @HellomynameisGuts 15 днів тому +1

    This was just what I needed to hear today. 😭❤

  • @Stoney_Roselle
    @Stoney_Roselle Місяць тому

    I appreciate how you talk your ish, its tough love thats needed and clear crisp. Definitely proud of you and your success, I'm excited to hear more on the podcast.

  • @acdemeraldfione
    @acdemeraldfione 19 днів тому +1

    You Preaching!!! 👏🏽 Perfect video I needed to watch and I know others need ti watch! Thank you for taking time to make it! ❤

  • @kelseyacaesar
    @kelseyacaesar Місяць тому +5

    The shoe size comment slapped me silly. lol Love it!

  • @DJKPATT
    @DJKPATT 4 дні тому

    I agree but it is also how you deliver the message. Especially in corporate America.

  • @iamezmeh4307
    @iamezmeh4307 3 дні тому

    FRENNN THE VIDEO JUST STARTED LMAOOO. Thank you tho i love you S2

  • @Cherish-Ugo
    @Cherish-Ugo Місяць тому +13

    I can't speak up in my house because my mom finds an issue with it.

    • @Honeymoonhun
      @Honeymoonhun Місяць тому +1

      Same when i talk back to her she gets very mad which i respect with empathy. But when it comes to publicly defending my self or in social areas like school for example she had taught me to stand up for my self. But i still love my mother infinitely no matter what she does.

    • @KrystalAri
      @KrystalAri Місяць тому +5

      Many parents think "respect" is the unquestionable obedience from their kids. They have absolutely no leadership skills. My parents included. I WON'T be taking care of them as old people

    • @Cherish-Ugo
      @Cherish-Ugo Місяць тому +1

      @@KrystalAri I can't wait to move out

    • @daisyfombe8041
      @daisyfombe8041 24 дні тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂same​@@Cherish-Ugo

  • @tiki2964
    @tiki2964 24 дні тому

    I needed to hear this thank you. Been pushing my current chapter for too long. Time to grow the fuck upppp.

  • @jjaalen
    @jjaalen 28 днів тому

    I just subscribed, I needed to hear this! I recently moved away from my home state and realized I needed to get serious about working on myself.

  • @jocef4839
    @jocef4839 19 днів тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video! 🩷

  • @Itsgivingpettty
    @Itsgivingpettty 9 днів тому

    I found this video at the right time😩 thank you thank you!! I REALLY needed to hear this video

  • @5oul5park
    @5oul5park 6 днів тому +1

    Needed this ❤

  • @briannaayafor
    @briannaayafor 2 місяці тому +4

    I love your videos 💓 you speak truth and I love learning from you. Keep doing what you’re doing and creating!

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate that!🫶🏾

  • @berthnishaulysse
    @berthnishaulysse 29 днів тому +1

    Thank you so much I TAKE NOTES ❤ KEEP GOING

  • @chyahnagoodridge8708
    @chyahnagoodridge8708 2 місяці тому +6

    This video blessed me thanks for sharing !!

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  2 місяці тому +1

      You’re so welcome! I’m glad it resonated with you. 💕

  • @AlishaNamakula-d3e
    @AlishaNamakula-d3e 19 днів тому +2

    15:41
    This
    Around here
    Probably changed me the most

  • @eternalplaneofconsciousness
    @eternalplaneofconsciousness Місяць тому +6

    absolutely, Iove the path one because its crazy how many people don't have this idea especially the "im 18 mindset"

  • @Belindah-tz8ti
    @Belindah-tz8ti 12 днів тому

    You deserve some flowers❤️

  • @emiliatchinji
    @emiliatchinji 21 день тому

    OMG THIS IS SOOO ON TIME speacilly the last one thank you Chamia 😍🥰

  • @GrowWithAmirah
    @GrowWithAmirah 21 день тому

    This was very helpful and a wakeup call for me. My self discipline is TRASH man 😅😅 needed to hear this

  • @pytnunu
    @pytnunu Місяць тому +22

    I’m 18 and learning all of this the hard way. It’s working for sure and it will continue to improve!❤❤
    Btw, I’m making a big change. I’m changing my major from music education to nursing. Pray for me y’all!😩

  • @CiiThaCancer
    @CiiThaCancer Місяць тому +3

    this video came at the perfect time ❤️!

  • @emilykrall2324
    @emilykrall2324 8 днів тому

    You are very insightful, and I needed to hear this. Thank you

  • @lilylily2069
    @lilylily2069 Місяць тому +1

    it's crazy as I get older how many things I already started doing and things I need to still do 😮

  • @nekia2much
    @nekia2much 13 днів тому

    This video was filled with gems.

  • @roe3753
    @roe3753 Місяць тому +1

    Yess girl!!!! Everytime i dont want to do something, i think of you saying, your life is gonna go inna direction regardless. So figure out the direction you want to go.. 🫶🏻 your like my personal therapist girl

    • @ChamiaTiarra
      @ChamiaTiarra  Місяць тому

      Awww thank you so much I really appreciate that🫶🏾

  • @IniOluwaOluwasina
    @IniOluwaOluwasina 14 днів тому

    Wow, this is so needed. Hard truth

  • @peresofogbor9885
    @peresofogbor9885 Місяць тому

    Every point hits home.
    You just gained a new fan, would love to hear more from you ❤

  • @brittanihaywood2760
    @brittanihaywood2760 День тому

    Subscribed!! Love the vid girl so helpful!!

  • @bambidash9076
    @bambidash9076 15 днів тому

    This advice is so spot on. Thank you ❤️

  • @joyakpeji492
    @joyakpeji492 3 дні тому

    I needed this especially today and this year🙏🙏

  • @lonelyfallenstarr6252
    @lonelyfallenstarr6252 20 днів тому

    Finna be 21 next year, this was recommended at the right time.

  • @TheeBaptiste
    @TheeBaptiste 12 днів тому

    Clicked cause you fine, stayed because that was A WORD👏🏿👏🏿new sub !

  • @lemmesleep1858
    @lemmesleep1858 24 дні тому

    this is gonna help me tons, i need to work on like every point you made but its ok

  • @shenshen4808
    @shenshen4808 Місяць тому

    Watched this twice, back to back... Thank u Love ❤

  • @brittanysanford3420
    @brittanysanford3420 19 днів тому +2

    I just turned 27 and I’m ready to address and change

    • @bri.szz17
      @bri.szz17 15 днів тому

      that is a very significant part in growing and changing which is amazing! not a lot of people make that first step. keep going with the right efforts you will reach your goals. i believe in you!

  • @JennLiu7
    @JennLiu7 Місяць тому

    Loved this! Incredible advice, really.

  • @honeybluu
    @honeybluu 22 дні тому

    This was so needed for me today girl!! I subscribed!

  • @ceeceebful
    @ceeceebful 18 днів тому

    Whew baby this is a word! Preach!

  • @natmarquez1616
    @natmarquez1616 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for the advice!💓

  • @rottenalienteethh
    @rottenalienteethh 14 днів тому +1

    your opening had me too alert, like you were talking to me fr fr

  • @mariahJanae2424
    @mariahJanae2424 День тому

    I love this video, just subscribed ❤

  • @MegaSierra79
    @MegaSierra79 Місяць тому

    If i could thumbs up this video a million times!!!! ❤🙌 girl, you hit, and hit, and hit that nail on the head.

  • @solangel8002
    @solangel8002 22 дні тому

    thank you, i needed this ♥️

  • @NokuthulaDlomo-f9i
    @NokuthulaDlomo-f9i 21 день тому

    ❤Needed to hear this.. Thank you so much

  • @kwadzokpuibridgeta7994
    @kwadzokpuibridgeta7994 Місяць тому

    It's quite refreshing listening to you,i've really learnt alot here,thank you for enlightening us🙏🙏🙏

  • @southernhea
    @southernhea Місяць тому

    learned all of these things my whole 20s im 30 now and yesssssss!

  • @audreymaduike3989
    @audreymaduike3989 Місяць тому

    Girl this info is amazing!

  • @Kearabetswe-d4s
    @Kearabetswe-d4s Місяць тому

    As a varsity girl....I will definitely keep u in mind😊❤❤❤❤

  • @ASWInspiresYou
    @ASWInspiresYou 7 годин тому

    "she wasn't supposed to leave happy hour" 😭

  • @SaniyyahNIyahJames
    @SaniyyahNIyahJames 10 днів тому

    Girl thank you and can I say your gorgeous babesss