Tics in a VERY Quiet Classroom *how i cope*
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Tourette's syndrome is a neurological condition and disability which causes involuntary movements called tics. I use my platforms on social media such as TikTok, UA-cam and Instagram to advocate and raise awareness for the condition and show what it is like living with a disability as a teen in school.
My name is Zara Beth (zeezee25 on tiktok) and I post videos about tics, tic disorders and what its like to be a teen living with Tourette's syndrome, Functional Neurological Disorder (FND) and a seizure disorder (NEAD/NES).
I show what its like having tics and Tourettes in class and in school and college, vlog, and I also bake, do other challenges and answer all your questions in Q and A videos.
I am also an ambulatory wheelchair user so I show what life looks like using various mobility aids and how needs change from day to day!
I am also a musician! My newest release is my first single (original song) called "She's Mine" which is now available on all streaming services - I sing and play piano, guitar, ukulele and I write, produce, mix and master all my own songs and content myself!
I like how you said "Oh no, my tics have just figured out I'm sat next to a wall".🤣
Ikr, it’s like they have a mind of their own!
samee i love it TT
I also like when she said "I have got covid wow"!
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@@That1Eagle 0:52
Thanks for showing this. My tics also get quieter in quiet environments. It's important for people to know that the volume of our tics can be different. This gives me hope for when I go back to university this year.
you’ve got this
@@Zara_Beth Thank you
@@Zara_Beth question when ur in class and u know sometime u cuss during these do u get in trouble or no??
@@ILoveKitte I would think that she does not because she can’t control when it happens
@@ripleythedog8344 yeah that’s what i thought but uknow im curious
I love how no one started laughing at you thats how you know you have good people in your class
There’s actually some nice and normal people left in the world I guess
Even if they did laugh, doesn’t necessarily make them bad people because laughing can be hard to suppress if you consider something to be funny like if it’s unexpected.
@@blackqweenmars fair enough, unexpected randomness can be funny sometimes
I guess it's because they are used to hear this many times
and how the girl her tics kept causing her to hit was perfectly fine with it.
the people in my class arent so kind. I have a biting tic and i bite people close to me so i now have to wear a muzzle lick a dog-
having tics in a classroom can be especially difficult when there is a substitute teacher. my teacher is extremely respectful and if im having a really bad tic attack she always helps me through it. one time she was out sick and there was an extremely rude substitute. i cursed her out because cursing is one of my tics along with the middle finger, she did not take that well and started going off on me and the entire class could hear. a student tried to explain my tics to her, but she wouldn't listen and sent me to the office. even the office tried to explain to her that i just had tourettes syndrome and she still wouldnt listen. lets just say she got in quite a bit of trouble after school that day. just a friendly reminder to not let anyone judge you for what you can and cannot control.
Unrelated, but i just wanted to say if that's you in your pfp, you're super pretty!!
Teachers need to be more aware of mental and physical disorders or even just simple anxiety
@@ameliahayward8935 although I think anxiety should also be more recognised as my teacher teaches about anxiety but when it comes to telling her you have anxiety/feel anxious she will just disregard it as another regular emotion.
Tldr
@@Raven543o_oYour comment is too long, I’m not gonna read it
the person beside you is so wholesome. Im glad they don't mind your tics :)
Yes, such a good friend, so understanding!!!
She acts like she dosent even notice, its sweet
@@jazminemauro119 I think that's a guy
@@ItsB3enLikeThisits a girl, you can’t see their face clearly but in the other videos you can tell more lol
@@ItsB3enLikeThis I think the person besides her is actually a girl cuz when she accidentally slaps her arm she kind of smiles and we can see her face a lil bit
It’s so interesting to see how you deal with your tics in such a quiet and public place thank you for the video Zara
Have a good day everyone
Dang that’s sucks.
@@formalvocabularyproclamation like your mum.
I’m sorry-
@@mysocksarewet Man… go suck a lemon
@Lina thank you !!!!
@Lina also I love your Calcifer pfp
I love how your friends are so nice about your random tics and when she starts hitting the person next to her and that one "my tics have found out I'm sitting next to a wall"
I've been diagnosed with tourettes meaning I've had then for more than two years for sure (times fuzzy and I can't remember the exact time tbh) and I have "tic breaks" in a private environment outside of class and use fidget toys. The worse part personally is the people. My teachers are educated but have mistakenly pointed them out and my peers aren't very nice about it. They don't know I have tourettes but openly make fun of it with eachother. School starts soon (August 31st) and I'm quite scared. Seeing others with Tourettes really helps so I'd like to thank you! Hope you have a lovely day/night!
organise a meeting with staff and parents if you can, then they can be properly educated in a more formal setting and be told the medical facts backing up what support you need 💕
if you're in the UK, tourettes action can offer to come into your school and do a talk for you, educating the staff on Tourettes
@@Zara_Beth That's kinda what we do. My therapist who works very closely with Tourettes said she's going to help throughout the year if needed. A counselor does the talks with the staff, but only my teachers I assume because substitutes never seem to know which can be stressful. I also have a "504 Plan" that has my accommodations. It's a legal document and teachers aren't allowed to break it but of course they have. I've wanted to get an actual Tourettes group or something to go in and explain it for the longest time, but I've always been kinda dismissed. Luckily as I said my therapist is very on my side and ready to help if the school is being stupid lol
@@avawhiteley2658 i have a 504 for adhd, if a teacher breaks your 504 speak to them immediately when you can, if they dont listen report them. that is absolutely not acceptable. i hpe everything works out
@@tunastudios9234 The school apparently has had discussions. Everything is much better now because my teachers I have currently are actually good people-
Thankuou for doing this video. My daughter has been struggling so much with her tics and been a difficult year since secondary school with teachers not understnading! She does exactly these tics! shes been called attention seeker among other names and results in melt downs at school. This is great to watch and understand more myself also!
Glad it was helpful! She's never alone 💛
Yeah she’ll never be alone,I go through very similar with name calling and bulling,try organise for the school to let her out of class if she has a tic attack
Dear mel, as a high school teacher myself, I suggest you ask the principal to get your child's teacher to watch a few of Zara's videos. I have never had a student with tics but if I ever do, I hope I will be understanding and supportive. Zara Beth has helped me understand a lot. Thank you Zara for all you do!
@@Zara_Beth My heart goes out to you and people that are diagnosed with tics but all I can do is pray for them and prayers go out to you as well but your coping with it the best way you can may many blessings come your way Much Love 2 Ya Wonderful Zara😉☺️😊🤗🥰❤️💜💙💛✨💫⭐✌️👍👌💯
Hey, thank you for your informing videos! I don’t actually know anyone who tics but I find it important to gain knowledge nevertheless. Do you mind me asking- sometimes after a tic, you will stark laughing and smiling. Is that also a tic, or more of a reaction of embarrassement?
I know it’s just a tic but “you can’t teach fuck off” had me in stitches 😂😂😂
It’s so nice that you sit next to someone (maybe your friend) who completely understands you and doesn’t mind getting hit and slapped when your having a hitting tic episode
Not sure if you have any control or not when your having Tics but you seem to be able to keep the verbal ones quiet enough to not disturb the class
Hi! Someone with tics here! We can’t control when they happen or what happens but we can suppress them! Almost like a sneeze! It will end up happening if u hold it in like a sneeze but it temporarily stops for a while then comes out later! Hope this helps.
@@Aut_t thank you for the explanation :)
OMG FINALLY SOMEONE SAID THAT I THOUGHT THAT WAS SO FUNNY (she is beautiful and I’m not making fun of her I just thought it was kinda funny that she told the teacher to F off.)
I love how your friends support you
I’m going into public school for the first time in my entire life as a sophomore and I’ve had tics for abt 4 years now but they have progressively gotten worse- I’m always super self conscious abt my tics, especially in public bc I get weird stares and comments from ppl, so I’m super nervous abt going to school. I try to tell myself not to suppress tics bc that’s not good to do, but I can’t help it; it’s scary being stared at bc you know you’re doing weird things and you can’t help it
May be a phycologist can help you to learn taking your tics as something normal and smth, that people around you eventually get used to
Good luck with your school experience. I'm sure if you'll work on your fears, you'll have a good time at school👍💓
@@MsLoma1212 thank you for your opinion! I’m going to be getting psychologically evaluated soon to be tested for other things as well, but currently I do not have a doctor- however I have a therapist so I can maybe bring it up to her, but I get the feeling she’ll tell me that other ppl have it worse and I just need to brush it off- but anyways, thank you once again🖤
I literally though I commented this because I'm going into public school as a sophomore aswell as have tics, the only difference is mine are getting slower. but advice, if they ask explain. they shouldn't make fun of you for something you can't control.also you may want to explain to your teachers. :)
@@emilymae1252 lolol!!! Well I hope your school year goes amazing!!! :))) and thank you, I will keep that in mind :) I don’t want ppl to pity me, I just want to make them aware. I’ve been bullied online and in person for them, and I just hope this isn’t another repeat lolol but thank you again!
@@Tendercrisp_faggetti I hope your school years goes great aswell!
I like how your friends don’t laugh at you. If you laugh at your tics, they laugh with you. Your amazing
I’ve got Tourette’s and sometimes I find it difficult to watch ur videos without ticcing but I do seriously respect you for showing awareness and helping me understand that I’m not alone ❤️
I have a lot of vocal tics, and it is really difficult in class, because we do a lot of quiet activities.
I love how nobody cared about you having tics,fainting,and having seizure in class and they were so calm about it. That’s the best way to react and not super scared. I also love the fact that your bff sits next to you so if you hit something/someone it won’t matter because she is either used to it or doesn’t care❤❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😊😊😊😊
Thank you so much for showing this, It makes me calm watching you go through your tics especially in a quiet room:) It still makes me feel bad tho:
There's a boy in my class, and I remember how confused I was when he started grunting/breathing loudly and sniffing. At first, I thought he was watching something funny and laughing, so I looked over at him and saw that he was just quietly doing his work. The next few days, he did similar things and I was wondering what was going on. Later on, I got to know him pretty well and he mentioned his tics in one of our conversations, and even openly shared to the class that he has tourettes.
I'm not at all fazed by the fact that he has that condition, and it doesn't lessen my opinion of him at all. If anything, I think he's a really brave and strong guy for being able to socialize so freely even with his disorder.
Saying someone is brave for “being able” to socialize even though they have a disorder is such a backhanded compliment.
@@gaila.9852 whatttt
They mean that the boy was brave for talking abt his disorder. It took me weeks if not months to talk to even my parents abt it. It’s not a backhanded compliment what r u talking abt?
@@earth- No, that is not at all what they said.
@@gaila.9852 nahh fr though. im 100% sure that’s not what the person wanted that compliment to seem like though 😭
@@directionsminion Thank you for understanding!
I have Tourette’s and its so much easier when people act like it never happened it saves the embarrassment too 😭
wow, it seems like you're constantly going 😮 must be really tough, but it's great to see how aware your teachers and classmates are and literally don't give a f*** 😊
I don't have Tourette's but I've had tics since I was 5 (over 10 years). My anxiety makes me suppress my tics whenever I'm in a public place (and they end up being much more severe later).
Ty for this video! 😀 It helped me to re-enforce the knowledge that others struggle with tics and that it's not just me. 😊😊
Hey, I don't know a lot about tics. What's the difference between having tourettes and "just" having tics?
@@cookiequeen5430 So the Google answer was this: "Tics are defined as sudden, rapid, recurrent, nonrhythmic motor movements or vocalization, generally preceded by urge. Tourette's syndrome is defined as the presence of both motor and phonic tics for more than 1 year in patients with onset less than 18 years old."
TL;DR - tics are involuntary movements, while Tourette's is a syndrome (and tics are a symptom).
I've had bad tics since I was 5 (for example, harshly jerking my head forward, flaring my nose, raising my eyebrows as high as they can go, etc.), but have never been diagnosed with Tourette's. I don't know for sure if I have it or not, but right now I'm going with not. I just say I have really bad tics.
Hopefully this helped! 😁If you have any more questions, I can try and answer them for you!
i get adhd tics and my friend has Tourettes and i feel bad for her especially since the teachers yell at her and sometimes me aswell for rocking in my chair but shes very nice and we end up just laughing it off and its interesting to see what tics are like in a quite environment and im willing to learn more and educate myself
random question, do you ever pick up on or unconsciously start mimicking her tics? My brother had tourettes growing up (he's mostly grown out of it as an adult) but growing up, I was diagnosed with pretty severe ADHD as a kid, and as an adult I was diagnosed with comorbid Autism, but my brother had a LOT of vocal tics when we were kids and his most common was clearing his throat. I would get yelled at a lot by my parents for "copying" his tics but it was like, once I heard him do it the third time in a row, I involuntarily started clearing my throat too and COULDN'T stop. I tried to explain to my parents that I wasn't doing it for attention but I think it always came across as them perceiving me as copying bad behaviour to receive equal attention from them. I've never met any other sibling pairs who had an ADHD/TS combo in the family and I was just wondering if anyone else had the same problem with "compulsive assimilation" to other ND kids' actions.
I have adhd and did not know there was adhd tics I searched it up and realized I do have adhd tics
I couldn’t help but giggle a bit when your tics said ‘I have Covid 19.’ It eased my mind a little when I realised you and your friend next to you giggled too 😅
People love to stereotype tics, and I’m so glad you represent it so openly and honestly. Every experience is different for everyone ❤️ love your sense of humour, you’re such a cool person
I love how the girl next to you is so understanding ❤️❤️
The “ayy I got covid now” it was kinda funny 😆
I love seeing you dealing whit tics and how you handle it, I think people need to see that people whit tics is also normal people. And we need to treat everyone equally❤❤
‘Ive got covid’ bless your heart. You are adorable. I hope your studying is going well.
Your friend seems really kind! It's really a God gift finding people that undestands you and don't make you feel worse!
aww she seems so sweet, when she meowed it melted my heart ❤
It's so nice that you're spreading awareness :]
This is very interesting. Most tics are usually a few repetitive things at a time that a person subconsciously gets fixated on, the tics you are showing are completely different things at random, not a consistent repetitive fixation as expressed with most common tics.
I don't think that's true. This is how most tics I've seen (and the ones I have) normally are. You can still see the general pattern and the common tics here, they're just not in a specific pattern /lh
@@coraz6825 yeah I agree, she shows some same tics again but just not in a order pattern; she hits, meow, says f off
i love that your friend is so supportive 🥰
You're so brave for sharing this. I feel so much compassion. I have ocd/intrusive thoughts. Your meows are cute 🙂.
When i told my German teacher i had a tic disorder she called my mom to ask what to do if i insulted her in class 😭😭
So i took time to explain to her i don't have coprolalia and it's mostly abrupt movements that harm myself and people near me
She didn't really understand but she was okay with it as long as i didn't insult her
I can't even imagine how bad it would be with coprolalia
@@dantessa true
gl with coprolalia
I have coprolalia and I’ve cussed out my teachers before. They are very understanding and help me through it. Its very difficult though, especially in public spaces.
Your willingness to share your condition with others in order to educate and advocate for acceptance and understanding for those with neurodivergent conditions is laudable. It isn't for entertainment purposes. I and many others understand and appreciate what you are doing. Thank you.
I have tics and watching ur vids abt you having tourettes makes me feel better, the part I hate the most is quiet class rooms and that ppl will sometimes look at me bc of a tic, but thanks for they vids they help alot 🙂 ☺️
Figuring out you have ticks must have been scary as any loss of control is, its testament to how strong you are for being so open with it ❤️ all the support i can send 😊
I love how you said “ My tics have found out I’m sat next to a wall” and “Uh oh I’m stuck “ I love u videos
I've seen fakers at this yet the way she acts when not having a tic shows she clearly isn't faking, it's important for people who don't have see what they go through. Thank you for sharing with us
have you ever yelled at ur teacher? whats a new teachers reaction when u flip them off or curse at them
I loved how the girl next to you was so supportive ❤
I find this actually very fascinating, I do feel kinda bad you have to deal with this I can understand how tics can be difficult to have but it’s interesting how they work for me..and I’m glad you have a safe environment to be it❤
sending prayers to all who live with these conditions!! stay strong fighters!!
One thing im interested in is seeing how you edit! It’s already hard enough to edit without tics but with them i think would be even harder!
The person sat next to you is an angel to not be fazed after your tics hit her is just the best thing I've seen
Just like the person who sat next to you started giggling at the end, I would have started a while ago just from the reactions when you hit the wall, or hit the person next to you. You’re wonderful! And you made me smile and laugh.
My friend has been recently diagnosed with turrets the tics that she has she finds really funny but has 2 painful ones one is smacking her hand against the table so when we sit together I put my hand between hers and the table so it doesn’t get hurt
I don’t deal with this but..I have huge appreciation for people that have tics
I am so happy for this. I hate watching it not because of you but because it triggers things but it is educational and helps me to find ways to cope and suppress them. But also they aren’t always super loud they can be different volumes if it is quiet my tics will most likely be quieter a few aren’t quiet though. But I think a lot of people need to watch this to understand how they work or other things.
My son had a tic disorder for about 6-7 months as part of his PANDAS flare-up. He was in kindergarten. I remember a few teachers I work with thinking he was faking it . . . at 6! I explained that I was terrified he'd choke because his verbal tics would happen even when he was trying to swallow. He also couldn't pick anything up until he'd done some fluttering with his hands. He developed OCD and also needed to use the bathroom every 20 minutes. It went on all day, every day. Once he got diagnosed with PANDAS and put on antibiotics, all his symptoms completely disappeared within 48 hours. I got a doctor who understood PANDAS and knows to put him on antibiotics the second they start up again, and 9 years later he hasn't had another large episode like that. I really feel for you going through this long-haul. I hope someday they find a cure for Tourette's. Thank you for educating us all with your videos.
thank you for making this video.this really helped me understand what tics were.you are such a strong person
I was rolling on the floor when you said “you can’t teach, F off” in such a calm manner 😂
the little meow tic is so cute🥺 but i’m so sorry you have to deal with this, you’re a lovely soul
I find tics fascinating in a way. It’s just the way that people deal with them and the different types of them. Having 2 people in my family (who you remind me of) having tics has made me understand more about them and how to not trigger them to make them worse. This was kind of cool to see 😀
man ngl if someone meowed in class when it was dead silent that would literally make my day 10x better
She is so pretty like omg !
Bless that person sitting next to you; you've hit them a few times & they have not taken it personally in anyway; instead they let you know i sounded worse than it felt; to try not let you feel too bad about it; ohhhhh bless that persons soul, the world needs thousands more of that kind ❤❤
I just wanna hug you 🥰 I love how supportive your friends are ❤
your tics are cute, i understand that they are a real issue but you and your tics are cute
That girl next to you is soo sweet any other person would be yelling at you. Well besides me!
can i just say that i luv ur glassez and ur accessoriez r so pretty, i just luv ur whole style
I love her so much but I've never Commented on one of her videos saying how much I love her And I pray for you that your ticks get better
My tics get worse when it’s quiet 😭😭 I could never
mine do too! but i can (i think zara was doing this too) quieten my tics so they arent as loud but then it makes them more frequent but they get worse during quiet rooms because it makes you anxious!!
@@xenatwizell6669 yup!
mine go crazy after classes like this (if i don’t leave early and let them out before that lol!)
@@Zara_Beth haha same I love ur channel btw 💕
@@xenatwizell6669 yea ha
Omg Ms Fallon. What a legend
genuinely
You go girl! You got this. Stay strong.💕
Thank you so much for making these videos to create awareness xx
its so sweet how he doesn't mind your tics
It seems that having tics is hard but everyone who has then deals and takes it like a champ ❤
Hi this is actually the very first time I got to know about Tourette syndrome, thanks so much for sharing this video!
I know it’s not funny, but the part where she flips off the wall🤣✨✨
I love the quiet fuck off. And the oh no my tics have found the wall. I love the way u handle this and how everyone else does too. This just shows how much people care.😁
It must be so exhausting to sit there in class trying to stay quiet and also to divert from hitting the wall but you can do this ok you have to stay strong ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I also have Tourettes Syndrome, I feel you. Luckily mine is controlled by a powerful med, but it's still there. Like I keep rubbing my nose with my right hand - with my pointer finger. I can't stop speaking my mind's thoughts, I sound out ck and guh, case in point, I have similar tics like you. You are not alone, we are in this together!
I’m really impressed to see how it seems to be constant, it’s also probably bc it’s a video but your tics just never stop… can you concentrate and are you able to listen to the teacher ?
I love when you started flipping the wall of🤣 i have a friend with Tourette and they can only make people including themselves laugh. We all had a laugh when she accidentally flipped off the teacher
It is so good, that you have a nice girl next to you!
Thanks for showing this , this was so brave of u!
im so sorry. i know this is hard but you’ll get through this. you handle it well! you’re doing great.
Lolol the best part other than fighting the wall, is the tap a friend "got covid now". As difficult as it must be with these issues, it must be nice for those who understand, to be able to make light of some things and try and help a negative experience, be not so negative anymore.
I’m glad you teacher understands your tics an when you say things like F**k she know you don’t mean it and question what do you do when there’s EOGS because you can’t talk at all
"U can't teach, fuck off" got me :D
Them whistled were so clean
“You have Covid!” Is the cutest part!
You are so amazing. I could never deal with this.
You are so strong.
Your earings are so cute!
1st of all, I find it very brave of you to show us how you try to cope with your tics. It seems so tiresome to be having them all day. I was wondering how difficult it is for you to concentrate in class or doing your homework. Does it interfere your concentration when you try to focus on something like listening when someone is explaining something or you trying to focus or trying to do something. And if it does, does it take more time for you to get something done, like studying or making homework. Proud of you. Have a wonderful weekend. Greeting from the Netherlands. Hugs
Tics seem very unusual but unique it also seems they can be aggressive at times with is cool but it can get you in trouble btw you are very beautiful!!
You are so beautiful and wonderful and don’t let your disability stop you
“You can’t teach fuck off.” I need my inhaler cause I’m dying 😂
For me it's comfortable to know that other persons have tics knowing that it's hard to concentrate
I love your videos! Thank you for helping everyone who's watching understand what you and others may be going through : )
I was diagnosed with tourettes a few years ago I've noticed my are hell of alot worse when rooms are quite
Oh noo! Tics being worse in quiet rooms seems like a nightmare for you
Who needs doctors?
“You’ve got Coved”
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I love how the rock on sign is one of your tics that’s amazing no offense
I have tics like this aswell i have them in class the teacher always says when i get tick attacks( that is a attack from alot of tics at once) that i need to sit in the hallway there a teacher comes up to me and takes me outside for a lil while when it gets better i can come back inside again its great to see other people with tics love u so much zara❤
I’ve never been exposed to Tourettes thats worse than a couple similar face tics. These videos really have helped me learn a lot.
tbh at the last part of the video it looked like u were getting possesed😂 not to sound rude or anything but i have a few tics. ur look super cute tho!! ur outfit the the bomb!!
I love the very polite and quiet f-word off
Your handwriting looks so beautiful and neat.
I laughed when you said Oh no, my tics have just figured out I'm sat next to a wall 😂