If you decide to love someone.

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  • Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
  • Footage edited from Mura Masa's Love$ick directed by Yoni Lappin
    Song in the background is Heartbeats by Jose Gonzalez
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    If you decide to love someone,
    Surrender your heart,
    Remove the guards and relinquish their shields
    You need to feel this thoroughly
    Love was never meant to be safe or measured,
    So love irrationally
    Jump of a cliff without considering consequence
    Love specifically,
    Pay attention to the smaller details of the bigger picture
    Love unconditionally,
    Because there will be days when you don’t like her
    But the love must remain
    And in the event that love breaks you,
    Let it break.
    Do not close yourself off
    Or shut yourself down
    Your heart will be shaped and reshaped
    But in the end, it will still be yours
    As humans we are blessed with the skill of adaptation
    It’s kept us here for eons
    You will adapt
    Miles Carter

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  • @Feber2001
    @Feber2001 3 роки тому +15220

    "She deserves the best, and I can't see her with anyone else. So, I became the best."

    • @luzmanhasif6071
      @luzmanhasif6071 3 роки тому +171

      Damn..... This is good

    • @mercifulserventurdu1753
      @mercifulserventurdu1753 3 роки тому +51

      Dayumnnn boy !

    • @sanskritim6855
      @sanskritim6855 3 роки тому +14

      Hm hm... truuee

    • @IAmMyself3504
      @IAmMyself3504 3 роки тому +85

      Nice feministic propaganda. Why should anyone change what they are for another person ?

    • @sanskritim6855
      @sanskritim6855 3 роки тому +279

      @@IAmMyself3504 exactly...they shouldn't ..but if the change is good for themselves they should...like people who get angry often should change that or try to atleast it'll be beneficial for both of them or he or she will eventually loose the person they want to be with

  • @adeadchannel1909
    @adeadchannel1909 5 років тому +5510

    "There are days you won't like her, but the love must remain" I felt this one.

  • @katanagrrl
    @katanagrrl 3 роки тому +2435

    Being in love in the initial phases of a relationship is what people think love is. That’s not love. That’s excitement, novelty, infatuation, lust. Love is arguing but finding a resolution. Love is waking up together on a Sunday morning and sleeping in to cuddle a little longer. Love is sacrificing yourself for your partner, taking them to hospital, making them soup when they’re sick, waking up everyday and choosing them no matter how annoyed you are with each other. Love is trust, love is loyalty, love is vulnerability, love is open. Love is finding your soft place to fall when the world around you is too much to deal with. Love is finding your best friend you can partner through life with.

    • @kailybaily2992
      @kailybaily2992 2 роки тому +24

      All you're doing is confirming this...but love is subjective

    • @jees9179
      @jees9179 2 роки тому +6

      So if she cheats on me, it never was love?

    • @DaughteroftheMostHigh77
      @DaughteroftheMostHigh77 2 роки тому +5

      THIS.

    • @owen2002
      @owen2002 2 роки тому +10

      This is an unbelievable paragraph

    • @dandylion2837
      @dandylion2837 2 роки тому +12

      If I wake up in world war 3, I see destruction and poverty and I’m sleeping in Grand Central Station ... it’s okay as long as you’re sleeping with me . -Whitney Houston

  • @Vinispicks
    @Vinispicks 6 років тому +19641

    *bold of you to assume that it was a decision*

    • @michellalbaA
      @michellalbaA 6 років тому +579

      To love someone is a choice

    • @allyf757
      @allyf757 6 років тому +82

      sbmd how so? I don’t really understand?

    • @bean-nj5dw
      @bean-nj5dw 6 років тому +481

      Plastic Bag you choose to give someone all your love, open up to them, and to accept all of their flaws

    • @valeriaxcx4625
      @valeriaxcx4625 6 років тому +182

      It’s not a decision at all

    • @bean-nj5dw
      @bean-nj5dw 6 років тому +355

      Ayame Noel yea, you dont choose to be infatuated with someone, you choose to stay with them and love them

  • @NGlitchesFTW
    @NGlitchesFTW 5 років тому +8363

    “Ur heart will be shaped and re shaped” damn that hit me man:(

  • @liavidal_
    @liavidal_ 4 роки тому +3675

    I’m deciding to love myself right now

  • @michellenathalia2488
    @michellenathalia2488 6 років тому +5903

    "because there will be days thay you don't like her but the love must remain"
    this is such a huge slap for me that when this kind of day happen always immediately thinking that i dont have any feeling for them

    • @cutecutexox
      @cutecutexox 5 років тому +8

      same

    • @jacobf.9578
      @jacobf.9578 5 років тому +76

      Okay, there might be some days you don’t like her. But you should always be loving her.

    • @drowsypinkswan5904
      @drowsypinkswan5904 5 років тому +130

      infatuation fades, but love stays. Dont let this discourage you, if you know you want this person by your side and once you learn to love them deeply, things such as this wont matter as much. Its true that most couples lose the spark, but like i already said, love stays and thats the only thing that matters

    • @0066samir
      @0066samir 5 років тому +8

      EBW no mate. Sometimes anger can get over you. Man in anger can do, say and think anything. Unfortunately we do get overwhelmed by our anger pretty often

    • @0066samir
      @0066samir 5 років тому +37

      EBW this is extremely deep topic. Being a kid or even an adult, we do get angry and have a terrible thoughts on our Mothers, fathers and loved ones. But it never means that we do not love them. For me love is an ability to go through everything, including your anger and just be besides beloved ones.
      We are all human, sometimes we even hate ourselves. Not liking someone for a day, because of bad conditions or stuff, never means that love is gone

  • @raysierra5910
    @raysierra5910 6 років тому +9744

    do “if you decide to leave someone”

  • @cherry6813
    @cherry6813 4 роки тому +7458

    Seeing this reminds me of my conversation with my cousin in law 5 years ago. Him and my cousin were going through a very tough time in their relationship. He admitted to me that he had lost the thrill and spark he feels in their relationship and he said that most days when he look at my cousin he felt nothing. Like she's any other person on earth, it doesn't make his heart race anymore. Sometimes he dreaded going home and their just too tired of seeing each other. But he said those won't make him leave her, those reasons are not real reason to leave her. I was a little confused about it because one: I was 17 and have no experience in love and two: he sounded like he didn't love her anymore. But he explained to me that 'Love' isn't about the spark and thrill. That was just the fun in it, it's just the phase of knowing you're in love. He said love is when you're comfortable with someone, when your heart is at ease. When everything just felt like it's going wrong and tiring but you still want to stay. There are days when you feel like love is less and when love is more. There are days when you feel nothing but that doesn't mean you're not in love anymore.
    It had been 5 years ago but his words are still engraved in my mind. He became my favorite cousin in law because of that haha... Him and my cousin are still together and going strong. They're expecting a baby girl in two months.

    • @whatupwhatup4206
      @whatupwhatup4206 4 роки тому +281

      Your cousin I’m law has a good head on his shoulders.

    • @abbie_bour
      @abbie_bour 4 роки тому +316

      This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing

    • @gokulvijayan4267
      @gokulvijayan4267 4 роки тому +172

      A great short story

    • @dissolvedtruths
      @dissolvedtruths 4 роки тому +343

      Thankfully he’s smart enough to believe love isn’t about the rush. Good for them.

    • @chorizojoe8282
      @chorizojoe8282 4 роки тому +76

      This is so beautiful and such amazing story!

  • @PJ-vz1pu
    @PJ-vz1pu 5 років тому +5924

    Watching this makes me have nostalgia for memories I never had

    • @amaanali4614
      @amaanali4614 5 років тому +12

      Yoo sameee

    • @thomasperreault7127
      @thomasperreault7127 5 років тому +18

      PJ Pritchett your comment hit me like a train

    • @ilovebosgc
      @ilovebosgc 5 років тому +4

      PJ Pritchett watching this makes me have nostalgia for memories I did have..

    • @tribesmen2417
      @tribesmen2417 4 роки тому +6

      Those memories were real. They just weren’t put into reality but the feelings were there king 👑

    • @unaboramashala2485
      @unaboramashala2485 4 роки тому +1

      Deeeeepppp

  • @Angela-ui8xx
    @Angela-ui8xx 6 років тому +4946

    That was Frank ocean type beautiful 😭😭😭

    • @lordy1343
      @lordy1343 5 років тому +25

      asiya mahamed Song: Jose Gonzalez - Heartbeats. Video: Mura Masa - Love$ick ft. A$AP Rocky

    • @albertaoun1254
      @albertaoun1254 4 роки тому

      Angela Kilgore FRRRRR

    • @hazelgrace6791
      @hazelgrace6791 4 роки тому +2

      Good one!

    • @Vaeren222
      @Vaeren222 4 роки тому

      you said it best

    • @JumpingJacksism
      @JumpingJacksism 4 роки тому

      ☠Rip😰🕺 🎈frank☻ 🙈ocean!🎖🔥

  • @jesscallisto5907
    @jesscallisto5907 4 роки тому +427

    “your heart will be reshaped and reshaped. but in the end, it will still be yours.”

  • @EmoZix
    @EmoZix 5 років тому +1655

    UA-cam's algorithm has been very good lately

  • @ICANTHEARHER2222
    @ICANTHEARHER2222 6 років тому +9787

    If I ever fall in love, this will be the only way. I’m sick & tired of people on social media drooling over a false concept of love & quickly expressing how meaningful someone is to them when they never even get past the infatuation phase & talked for a very short time period. Some of them are obsessed with comforting their loneliness & desire a relationship to display for social media. I have never gotten past the infatuation phase because it is hard to embrace others’ insecurities and your own insecurities & your upbringing plays a role in how you react to a relationship, but I believe one day I will be ready. I’m usually the heartbreaker because I fail to reciprocate feelings to the same degree as the other person when talking to someone, but I hope to one day see past the flaws of my partner and overcome my unnecessary jealousy and trust issues & fall without a second’s hesitation. There are a couple of amazing women who could’ve easily qualified as a soulmate for me, but you cannot force love nor can you force fate. True love will find you in due time.

    • @joyitadarling5815
      @joyitadarling5815 6 років тому +209

      Zero holy fuck you're me

    • @k.suliman8539
      @k.suliman8539 6 років тому +59

      Yeah can easily relate, and all these issues broke hearts of boys that could've been great soul mates, good luck anyway.

    • @tsheringyolmo11
      @tsheringyolmo11 6 років тому +123

      This comment literally resonates with me on an unimaginable level

    • @ICANTHEARHER2222
      @ICANTHEARHER2222 6 років тому +40

      I didn’t expect for so many to relate because I felt like the only one

    • @ICANTHEARHER2222
      @ICANTHEARHER2222 6 років тому +2

      Bree Lewis Why lol

  • @hilou-rc9jn
    @hilou-rc9jn 4 роки тому +726

    this made me fall in love with someone that don't even exist

    • @firstname1317
      @firstname1317 4 роки тому +1

      Good Cook Shane is that you?

    • @brandonweibolt9832
      @brandonweibolt9832 4 роки тому +2

      Maybey she does

    • @hilou-rc9jn
      @hilou-rc9jn 4 роки тому +2

      @@brandonweibolt9832 don't give me hope like that..

    • @brandonweibolt9832
      @brandonweibolt9832 4 роки тому +11

      I am not giving you hope, it’s already there. You just don’t know it yet

    • @hilou-rc9jn
      @hilou-rc9jn 4 роки тому +5

      @@brandonweibolt9832 wow... i'm just amazed by this simple sentence, it made me feel somehow loved.. thank you

  • @harrietscren5505
    @harrietscren5505 6 років тому +2648

    Now THIS is truly what love is. Not some relationship where everything is perfect and you are always happy. You really have to fight and work for love, even if it is extremely rough at times. Lots of people want love just to experience the good moments, but there will always be problems hidden underneath whether you like it or not. In most circumstance if you and your partner do fight for each other, everything will be alright.

    • @Mrdrockxx
      @Mrdrockxx 5 років тому +4

      What you can still love someone and for everything to be happy, then you just found a great relationship and a good partner if you do feel like that

    • @mahedelamo
      @mahedelamo 4 роки тому

      what if they cheat tho

    • @tasha1377
      @tasha1377 4 роки тому +6

      Pronto Te then the love was never there in the first place

    • @raaauc
      @raaauc 4 роки тому

      Well said 👌🏻

    • @hrituvarn1307
      @hrituvarn1307 4 роки тому

      @@hatergeneral4298 hii, I wanna know more about 😄

  • @MsToolzz
    @MsToolzz 6 років тому +2768

    And love WILL break you....

    • @haileygallinari3264
      @haileygallinari3264 6 років тому +56

      Nokuthula Gama but we have been given the gift of adaptation and you will adapt :)

    • @deh2651
      @deh2651 6 років тому +40

      It is worth it in the end

    • @wesselconway3920
      @wesselconway3920 6 років тому +41

      No, only a person that doesn't know how to love will

    • @toswagtogag6154
      @toswagtogag6154 5 років тому +2

      FACTS

    • @gxniie1825
      @gxniie1825 5 років тому +7

      To bring us to the right person

  • @Mercyforthewicked
    @Mercyforthewicked 4 роки тому +4454

    Gen z is great at a lot of things, but love and relationships ain't one

    • @kim.sanchez06
      @kim.sanchez06 4 роки тому +113

      For reall mannn

    • @babyblue707.
      @babyblue707. 4 роки тому +562

      we aren’t good at being mentally healthy either 🥱

    • @markcorrigan9485
      @markcorrigan9485 4 роки тому +336

      @@babyblue707. nah we’re better, we just diagnose things more accurately now bc we have more awareness of these issues

    • @mo_7199
      @mo_7199 3 роки тому +118

      You know what? There's an inate desire in each and every one of us to love. Some people just choose to ignore it.

    • @killroy3815
      @killroy3815 3 роки тому +93

      Yall 15 shut up

  • @vitsmrkovsky2674
    @vitsmrkovsky2674 4 роки тому +980

    It's crazy, yesterday I met a girl..oh man, she is so special I cant describe it.. after like 6 years of being heartbroken I met her. Trust me, I will come back with her and show her this video.

  • @iciecube
    @iciecube 4 роки тому +391

    *You will adapt.*
    3 Simple, yet powerful, words.

    • @theskylighter27
      @theskylighter27 2 роки тому +1

      What does it actually convey.....
      Will i adapt after break up
      Or
      Will i adapt to accept her rudeness in fight
      (Where I feel broken)

    • @rahulyadwar1508
      @rahulyadwar1508 10 місяців тому

      Fight hard🤜🤛

    • @TheBiggestClown
      @TheBiggestClown 10 місяців тому

      Mahoraga be like:
      Nah id adapt

    • @king_supreme1102
      @king_supreme1102 10 місяців тому +1

      I think the adapting that actually happens in reality, is often becoming cold towards love. Which it initially said not to do.

  • @annaamaryllis6268
    @annaamaryllis6268 3 роки тому +293

    Lemme clarify an important point for y'all , sometimes u fall in love but that person doesn't love with u back , n sometimes u meet ppl who are truly in love with but u can't love them back , mutual love is soooo rare where both parts share same amount of luv for each other . Plz when u find her/him never let them go .

  • @louiexalfaro
    @louiexalfaro 6 років тому +1409

    Tbh, i need this message right now at this moment.
    Thank you sir.

    • @Kai-wf3dt
      @Kai-wf3dt 6 років тому +5

      Yami Louie me too .. I’ve been talking to this girl for awhile and we’ve both opened up to eachother and I think I’m literally falling in love with her . Idk dude . It’s crazy

    • @louiexalfaro
      @louiexalfaro 5 років тому +1

      @kylie 5 months ago i was going thorough a break up, so this really was good to me. Many months later I'm still here and happy. :) single but happy.

    • @raimund4901
      @raimund4901 5 років тому

      @@Kai-wf3dt wish you the best hope im not too late

    • @raimund4901
      @raimund4901 5 років тому +2

      @@louiexalfaro im going trough that stuff right now. But if you survive i will survive as well i think

    • @miabam7369
      @miabam7369 5 років тому

      Dueltainer Louie i did too

  • @iyoushhh
    @iyoushhh 10 місяців тому +17

    I lost my girlfriend to a horrific accident a couple of years ago. This video reminded me of her & made my eyes well up for the first time since her demise...
    I hope you found peace, my love

    • @maratesfaye
      @maratesfaye 9 місяців тому +2

      i‘m so sorry ❤️‍🩹

  • @puddleofhoodies1759
    @puddleofhoodies1759 6 років тому +1372

    all the footage is mura masa’s from his music videos

    • @anthonyprovenza
      @anthonyprovenza 5 років тому +19

      puddleofhoodies and the song is heartbeats by Jose Gonzalez

    • @siilentscliips2580
      @siilentscliips2580 5 років тому +7

      Actually Mura Masa could’ve taken the footage from this huh ever thought about that

    • @mrmovieguy1000
      @mrmovieguy1000 5 років тому +29

      ​@@siilentscliips2580 No because the Mura Masa video came out almost 2 years before this... Not to mention all these are clips from Mura Masa's full video anyway so..
      EDIT: Not to mention the description literally says "Footage edited from Mura Masa's Love$ick directed by Yoni Lappin"
      Damn man why don't you look around just a bit before talking XD

    • @roxyeo8620
      @roxyeo8620 5 років тому +1

      Kevin Deegan and what if I go

    • @jomillz548
      @jomillz548 5 років тому

      Right. Copyright??

  • @justchillin4083
    @justchillin4083 5 років тому +163

    the only thing is, we don’t decide to love someone, we decide to give this person the love we feel or not.

  • @mishamasemola7165
    @mishamasemola7165 2 роки тому +91

    I come back here once in a while just to remind myself of what I promised myself to do if ever I found myself in a relationship.

  • @haleyconley2392
    @haleyconley2392 4 роки тому +50

    love is scary, but also beautiful when the person you’re willing to surrender your heart to knows how to love you.

  • @rzarktawoe7760
    @rzarktawoe7760 4 роки тому +196

    I once was so madly in love with this girl that I've met in college. I had shown her this video, hoping for a smile of agreeing but all she did was to look at it puzzled, not hearing the message but criticizing everything this videos was showing.
    Beware you all, what you want might not be what you need. Love is a sacrifice, and both sides must be willing to do the act.

  • @zoeallen9880
    @zoeallen9880 3 роки тому +114

    i just spent about 2 hours searching for this video. i remember watching it about a year ago and i remember how much it moved me. i wanted to come back and listen to it again. this is possibly my favorite video on youtube, i’m glad i found it again. :)

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      @jeffreywilson7225 3 роки тому

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    • @geineveguerra2128
      @geineveguerra2128 Рік тому

      Same 🤧

    • @pixelzebra8440
      @pixelzebra8440 11 місяців тому +1

      I love ur pfp it is probably the lofi girl thingy where you can make it look like yourself right?

    • @xta_xo
      @xta_xo 8 місяців тому +1

      Same here 😢

  • @tweehuh
    @tweehuh 5 років тому +126

    love breaks you down in unimaginable ways yet it’s one of the most beautiful gifts that we’ve been given as humans. there isn’t a word in the dictionary nor a phrase that could express ones yearning to be with another human being. it truly is amazing how there is a human being out there that when we look at them, flaws and all, our hearts are infatuated.

    • @travisskeans2511
      @travisskeans2511 3 роки тому +3

      Roses are dead love is fake wedding are basicaly funerals with a cake.

  • @marii6636
    @marii6636 5 років тому +99

    “But In the end it’ll still be yours” that hit me

    • @zalanaz6014
      @zalanaz6014 5 років тому

      When u knw.u cant make it all right anymore😢

  • @uhzyfo
    @uhzyfo 4 роки тому +91

    I haven't given up, but im so close to forgetting about her. I crave the emotions I once had with her, but now with someone new. It's just a matter of time, anyone reading this, it gets better I promise.

    • @somerandomchick2899
      @somerandomchick2899 4 роки тому +8

      Cant forget someone for many months, i feel it will never end...

    • @musicgaines7170
      @musicgaines7170 2 роки тому +1

      Fuxking same. How's it going rn tho? Did it get better?

    • @amalksuresh2538
      @amalksuresh2538 10 місяців тому

      I never recovered.Its been 4 years.Im depressed still.

  • @jessienguyen6770
    @jessienguyen6770 5 років тому +60

    I watch them every so often to remind myself that it’s okay to wear my heart of my sleeve and it’s okay to let people in, the ones with good hearts and good intentions.

    • @DD-kv5uu
      @DD-kv5uu 4 роки тому +2

      I struggle with this, not only with love interests, but everyone and anyone in general. Horrible attribute to possess
      Working on change🌕

  • @BuzzBravo
    @BuzzBravo 5 років тому +25

    “And in the event that love breaks you..
    Let it break.” 👏

  • @lemonmelon2889
    @lemonmelon2889 4 роки тому +188

    "because there will be days when you don't like her, but the love must remain". Duuuude that hit hard cause I really hate it when I see or hear or read something that says that if you are in love with a person you don't feel anything other than love. And that makes me feel guilty. Cause whenever I get a little mad or i don't like something my girlfriend did it makes me feel like Im not loving her in the right way or somethin.
    Edit: she cheated on me so yeah

    • @ad8128
      @ad8128 3 роки тому +5

      U r a good man. Always love her. Take care of her small things. Respect her. Keep her happy.

    • @baralike6258
      @baralike6258 3 роки тому +5

      Omg SAME!! It makes me miserable

    • @reneepeters5051
      @reneepeters5051 3 роки тому +8

      Love is not a feeling, it's a choice. As long as you make that choice everyday man, NOTHING you feel will change the truth.

    • @lemonmelon2889
      @lemonmelon2889 3 роки тому +2

      Man I didn't even know this got these many likes, and im really thankful im not the only one who feels this way.

    • @lemonmelon2889
      @lemonmelon2889 3 роки тому +5

      @@reneepeters5051 I am, and I will always choose to love her no matter what.

  • @ajmulenga2532
    @ajmulenga2532 4 роки тому +82

    I’m ready to go all in and lay everything on the table. That’s how much I love her.

    • @bhagatyumlembam6818
      @bhagatyumlembam6818 4 роки тому +3

      How does it feel to be in love? (Just some random person who has never been in love before being curious.... )

    • @geargrinder69
      @geargrinder69 4 роки тому +23

      @@bhagatyumlembam6818 It's terrifying and comforting. You have someone you can tell everything too; your deepest fears, insecurities, hopes, dreams and aspirations. But little things can hurt so much more than they should and the same for big things. There will be hurt. There will be times you feel you don't love them and you question everything. But...you do love them and they love you. They will stand by you as long as you stand by them and in some instances, they will be there when you don't want anyone.
      It truly is a wonderful experience. Even in the event that the love breaks or ends, it will still be one of the greatest moments in your life where it will be a moment that changes you forever. Peace, and I hope you find love

    • @alyssagonzalez6664
      @alyssagonzalez6664 4 роки тому +2

      Kendrik Doughty ✊🏻

    • @ad8128
      @ad8128 3 роки тому +4

      @@bhagatyumlembam6818 Love just happens. U don't search for it or wait for it..U will know when u will meet that special someone...
      And it will be very different from simple attraction/lust/crush...

    • @savannaduarte5414
      @savannaduarte5414 3 роки тому

      Hey, did you tell her?

  • @braydengraham8258
    @braydengraham8258 6 років тому +213

    I'm sobbing rn this is so beautiful

  • @callofdoody21
    @callofdoody21 4 роки тому +289

    I wish someone would "decide" to love me back lol

    • @ghloreey_army297
      @ghloreey_army297 3 роки тому +8

      Aww....don't worry you will soon find THE ONE
      Just be patient and always be yourself 💯
      Love yourself and you will find unconditional love ❤️

    • @breathe139
      @breathe139 3 роки тому +2

      Felt lmaoo

    • @ad8128
      @ad8128 3 роки тому +8

      Same here. I am never even been considered as an option by anyone...Whosoever I loved didn't have same feeling for me...🥺😞

    • @asthaaggarwal.7270
      @asthaaggarwal.7270 3 роки тому +5

      I wish I can love someone haha at this point I think I don't have emotions, the "love talk" makes me laugh

    • @literallynobody8580
      @literallynobody8580 3 роки тому +1

      Same dude

  • @mahogany.5693
    @mahogany.5693 6 років тому +380

    I absolutely love your videos! Love broke me in March and I'm still picking up the pieces. I still cry over him and I shut all of my friends out a while ago (just starting talking to them again). You're right. I'm learning to adapt to a life without him.
    Thank you for this.

    • @dianasalazar6184
      @dianasalazar6184 6 років тому +7

      mahogany. Love broke me in August, I know the feeling.

    • @MrLerrab
      @MrLerrab 6 років тому +9

      It took me over a year to pick up the pieces. I still dream about this girl from time to time. I wonder if I will love again the same way.

    • @alanmckinney5299
      @alanmckinney5299 5 років тому

      Wonder if i will ever love again. Picking up the pieces are hard. They keep falling sometimes. Stay strong.

    • @hybui123
      @hybui123 4 роки тому +5

      You all will learn to love. Stronger and more pure than before.
      Let the cuts sting, let them burn and let them heal.
      Let the cracks in your heart be filled with gold and let it mend.
      I promise you guys we’ve all had our hearts shattered by love but I promise we’ll all be okay.

  • @hiraya5769
    @hiraya5769 3 роки тому +48

    Deciding whom to give all your love is a leap of faith. You dont know whats gonna happen next but at least u have zero regrets. If it fails, it is not the one yet.

  • @mikehunt3420
    @mikehunt3420 8 місяців тому +2

    In 2019 i cried to this so many times. In 2024 i finally understood the words. You will adapt.

  • @theairy175
    @theairy175 3 роки тому +7

    I come back here every time my heart is reshaped and strangely it makes it easier to let go and live again

  • @alejandrinar.971
    @alejandrinar.971 6 років тому +25

    I love how you had a video clip of friends together on the couch when you said, “You will adapt.” Adapting and recovering from heartbreaking is so much easier when you have a strong support group of friends.

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 3 роки тому +11

    "There will be days when you don't like her, but the love must remain." My favourite quote from this💛

    • @kmmyemily3825
      @kmmyemily3825 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @kmmyemily3825
      @kmmyemily3825 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

    • @kmmyemily3825
      @kmmyemily3825 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**

    • @kmmyemily3825
      @kmmyemily3825 3 роки тому

      ___+ 2::3::4::81::40::79::93::23...

  • @ethanjohnson995
    @ethanjohnson995 6 років тому +566

    please make one on depression

    • @lenaSfbx
      @lenaSfbx 5 років тому +3

      ea. zy wtf why - nobody needs negative vibes

    • @Bbronson
      @Bbronson 5 років тому +21

      Lena Cola how about to help depressed people?

    • @lenaSfbx
      @lenaSfbx 5 років тому +2

      Bronson how will one video help a mental illness

    • @nivesrosy
      @nivesrosy 5 років тому +14

      @@lenaSfbx maybe it can't heal, but it can help. Depression comes in many varieties

  • @OkaysoKat
    @OkaysoKat 5 років тому +85

    I'm so glad I clicked on this.

  • @bekkourialae9025
    @bekkourialae9025 3 роки тому +3

    im not used to write comments on youtube but at this point i feel like showing the whole world how i feel about my boyfriend, i love that boy more than words can ever tell, he makes me feel things i never thought i could ever feel , a happiness i never dreamed of , makes me feel loved , cared about, wanted , also lucky and blessed to have an angel like him. He deserves the world and id die for him , he genuinely loves me unconditionally and makes me feel that with every word and act and every way possible, its only our 2 year together and i can already tell that i want to spend the rest of my life with him , he turned my life into a heaven on earth and im so blessed to have him , i love him unconditionally ❤️

    • @queenvivian3401
      @queenvivian3401 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ❤❤❤

    • @queenvivian3401
      @queenvivian3401 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯

    • @queenvivian3401
      @queenvivian3401 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**

    • @queenvivian3401
      @queenvivian3401 3 роки тому

      ___+ 2::3::4::81::08::76::26::52...

  • @staycgurls309
    @staycgurls309 5 років тому +44

    i just fought with my boyfriend and this seriously cleared my head up. thanks for this.

  • @alissaortega9143
    @alissaortega9143 6 років тому +46

    I saw this on instagram before UA-cam i fell in love with the “because there will be days where you dont like her but the love must remain” part. Thank u for this💕

  • @ekeneanazodo4387
    @ekeneanazodo4387 День тому

    I’ve been looking for this video for years and years, I’m grateful to have finally found it. Definitely well worth the wait

  • @kungfukatherine
    @kungfukatherine 6 років тому +129

    this was so beautifully portrayed and well said. thank you for shining a different light on love.

  • @alexisalejandro3489
    @alexisalejandro3489 4 роки тому +8

    this is still the most beautiful message i have ever heard. it’s one of those messages i find myself constantly coming back to. i don’t believe in love , but this makes me want to.

  • @aditii1698
    @aditii1698 3 роки тому +2

    you know something that I really hate is that there are people who go through one or two breakups and like to blame it on love. there seem to be so many people on social media going "fuck love", "love is fake" or just "single forever" but I feel like it's just ignorant of them to be like that, just because something doesn't work out for you doesn't mean it's not meant to work at all so only because you don't have the best experience with love, don't try and prove it as a wrong concept in itself because love is beautiful. love is scary. love is dangerous. but most importantly, it's the reason we stay alive.

  • @55dark94
    @55dark94 3 роки тому +38

    Even though we couldn’t be together I still feel the same for her. I have accepted that our roads ended way back and even though how much I want how much I try I can’t have how it was all together. I can’t hate her I am not upset with her, it’s just I feel sometimes what more I could have done to make her stay. I still sometimes day dream so many things we should do together, but then I realise that we won’t. Can’t believe myself who used to anxiously wait for her call to ring now months gone not even spoken in months. There is not even a day passed when I didn’t thought about her. Every single she is on my mind yet I know we can’t be together. I tried moving away to someone else just like how she did but I can’t, guess my heart won’t accept anyone else. 愛してます

    • @glaya7548
      @glaya7548 3 роки тому +4

      Then I hope your heart at least could accept other forms of love)
      Friend's love, familial love,general human love, love for those who near -- that's great too.
      You should adapted ;)
      I feel for you.
      I hadn't the same situation, but I have the same constancy of feelings)

  • @basumi0023
    @basumi0023 4 роки тому +5

    Exact reason why i don't want to fall in love. I do not want to get hurt and spiral into something I feel less in control of than anything else

  • @ch1ccynugg1e
    @ch1ccynugg1e 4 місяці тому +1

    a reminder to myself every time i come back here:
    stop and breathe. take a step back. things will work out, they always do in some silly way. you won’t always feel this way. don’t forget to love yourself too.

  • @mars8r
    @mars8r 3 роки тому +3

    Dam the emotions, the music, the nostalgia, It all hit with this video. Just wish it was longer..

  • @bagasalber853
    @bagasalber853 6 років тому +5

    man i love how warm his voice is

  • @miandyou6445
    @miandyou6445 8 місяців тому +1

    found this years ago when i was younger and i still carry it in my heart, literally one of my favourite poems ❤

  • @deepaknegi5935
    @deepaknegi5935 5 років тому +32

    Wow, I'm not ready for this, I think I'll never be.

  • @luisribeiro6146
    @luisribeiro6146 4 роки тому +3

    I've been going through some dark time this last year, I shut myself down from everything ans everyone. I still haven't find my balance and I feel it getting worse. This 1 minute of video helped, thank you

  • @ASH-cd9lq
    @ASH-cd9lq 3 роки тому +2

    i thought she deserved the best, so i did became the best and she acknowledge that but at the end no matter how good you are for the person if their heart doesnt belong to you then all i can say my friend is that it is amazing how hurt you are and still love that person like that.

  • @chasdecker8169
    @chasdecker8169 6 років тому +51

    This is so powerful man. You’re doing awesome work and you’re one hell of a writer.

  • @SOCIALJUSTICEJN
    @SOCIALJUSTICEJN 10 місяців тому +3

    I just broke up with my girlfriend for two weeks so I doubted I could mentally handle this video, but how glad I am that I watched it. My heart will re-form like a flower. Yours will too.

  • @curlztarantula
    @curlztarantula 3 роки тому +1

    I can confirm, unless you are lucky, living like this breaks you over and over.

  • @LilNuggzzz
    @LilNuggzzz 4 роки тому +13

    I am out here tearing up... I need to be ASLEEP.🥺🥺🥺

  • @khuketoassumi432
    @khuketoassumi432 2 роки тому +3

    "As humans we are blessed with the skills of adaptation"
    That was deep!HIT ME

  • @jtabel
    @jtabel 10 місяців тому +1

    I've jumped off too many cliffs for people who would never do the same. How do I learn to move on from that when being broken is all I've ever known?

  • @rubikashree7724
    @rubikashree7724 3 роки тому +3

    im so glad i came across this, the thought of being broken eats my brain bit by bit

  • @seb0216
    @seb0216 5 років тому +7

    "True love will find you in the end”

  • @rahmahz5187
    @rahmahz5187 7 місяців тому

    this has helped me throughout my teenage years. here i am at 21, just passed my birthday, i came back. and this helped me again. thank you miles.

  • @madisonhagen7515
    @madisonhagen7515 4 роки тому +5

    2 years later and still the best piece of art

  • @beawest2923
    @beawest2923 5 років тому +32

    I don’t even want it, though. Why endure the heartbreak when I can just.. avoid it altogether?

    • @emmajean2386
      @emmajean2386 4 роки тому +14

      Because those ( maybe few ) moments drenched in love are so worth it. For a feeling that outlives that moment.. and memories to last a lifetime. ❤️ ( This is just my personal answer..)
      "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

    • @geargrinder69
      @geargrinder69 4 роки тому +4

      @sa My fiancé left me three weeks ago. Yes, it hurts like hell some days, but I would never take any of it back. Not even for a second. Because I know without that heartbreak, I wouldn't have learned what I have. Like he said "we will adapt."

    • @SuperAdventureR1301
      @SuperAdventureR1301 3 роки тому

      @@emmajean2386 "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." I really hate this quote. I would absolutely choose to have never loved. I was happy before i met her, then i lost her. Now i'm a fucking shell of my former self. Shit aint worth it.

    • @user-jk4jj4nm1q
      @user-jk4jj4nm1q 3 роки тому +2

      @@SuperAdventureR1301 I've debated the same thing. I recently read a comment, "no one can ruin us unless we let them". I figure, after coming out on the other side of this ruination, if I manage to piece my sense of self together, it will be a stronger one than the one before. Maybe we have that to look forward to

  • @hridaansari4883
    @hridaansari4883 2 роки тому +1

    I love how the comment section is filled with different perceptions of love and it's scary yet humbling to see the complexity of human minds ❣️

  • @hershe7310
    @hershe7310 3 роки тому +3

    If you decide to love someone, BE CAREFUL!!

  • @insha7556
    @insha7556 3 роки тому +3

    I find this suffocating.
    Never ever fall for an egocentric person. Then again we never choose to fall, attachment occurs naturally...

  • @palesaramurunzi5035
    @palesaramurunzi5035 11 місяців тому +1

    I just came here to say that this video got me through the WORST break up of my life. I would watch it everyday, thinking I would never be okay or find love again but I’m happy to report that there’s SO much love out there. You will find it again and you will be okay ❤️

  • @Rosegold.energy
    @Rosegold.energy Рік тому +3

    Five years later and I still come here whenever my heart is broken. When my future husband asks for my hand in marriage, I want to give him a heart that I grew, reshaped, and adapted just for him ❤

  • @beutylove667
    @beutylove667 5 років тому +7

    I’ve watched this so many times and each time it just gets more beautiful

  • @krishkrishna7481
    @krishkrishna7481 10 місяців тому +1

    Commenting only so that I come back here often to remind myself this.

  • @starrdarrisaw8096
    @starrdarrisaw8096 5 років тому +4

    Whenever I’m feeling emotional I watch this and I have it saved on my phone it just calms my nerves

  • @talkative8121
    @talkative8121 3 роки тому +2

    “you hearts will be shaped and re shaped but it will still be yours, as humans we are blessed with the skill of adaptation.”
    Damn.... These are facts that hits the spot..!

  • @morganbaguley4489
    @morganbaguley4489 4 роки тому +2

    “Your heart will be shaped and reshaped but in the end it will still be yours” you had no right to come for me like that

  • @papillonikki
    @papillonikki 3 роки тому +3

    I was so miserable tonight and I stumbled upon this video.. Really needed to hear this. Thanks ❤

    • @jeffreywilson7225
      @jeffreywilson7225 3 роки тому

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      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,,,.......

  • @timschavusky
    @timschavusky 4 роки тому +7

    this is beautiful. it felt like this brought me directly through the lenses of the author. art is indeed a wonderful experience.

  • @marielle0nizhoni
    @marielle0nizhoni 10 місяців тому +1

    I come back to this video often.

  • @joshshaver676
    @joshshaver676 5 років тому +9

    This was recommended to me at the perfect time, it’s like the universe knows what’s up rn lol

  • @han8388
    @han8388 5 років тому +5

    We do not decide to love someone, everything happens automatically

  • @sayheygk
    @sayheygk 3 роки тому +2

    "Jump off a cliff without considering consequences"
    Man, that line hit different! For the longest time, I was so afraid to fall with someone. I made myself believe that I was meant to be alone, that I don't want heartbreak anymore. But I was wrong. Being in love doesn't guarantee a happy ending. So whatever happens in the end, let's seize the moment, make the most of what we got. It's time to be free -- to love.

  • @maryrabelo.s.wagner8346
    @maryrabelo.s.wagner8346 5 років тому +12

    To love someone is more than a choice, is surrender, to give oneself, to dive into the deep... I did it.
    Happy Valentines, everyone. ❤️

  • @ashtonsanchez1069
    @ashtonsanchez1069 3 роки тому +3

    I watched this every single time I have anxiety due to my relationship I love him and he loves me and this video definitely has kept me at peace with my thoughts thank you so much for this amazing video

  • @lilmsnd
    @lilmsnd Рік тому +1

    A year later and I still remember vividly how every second felt, the day he broke my heart. Your heart will be shaped and reshaped, but there's something like muscle memory that lasts indefinitely

  • @lilverson1333
    @lilverson1333 6 років тому +68

    The fact the last 10 seconds was from the muramasa asap Rocky music video makes me want to sub to you

    • @Jarline
      @Jarline 6 років тому +7

      Chii Mate the first minute is also from another muramasa video

    • @onyxvanity2863
      @onyxvanity2863 5 років тому +11

      Lmaooo the whole fucking video was

  • @nitinsawariya2023
    @nitinsawariya2023 2 роки тому +4

    But the problem is “we can’t decide to love anyone, it happens unknowingly”

  • @briannamueckay2837
    @briannamueckay2837 Місяць тому

    i still come back to this years later, keep making art like this miles :,)

  • @DepressionTalks1
    @DepressionTalks1 5 років тому +9

    This was beautiful to watch. Well done Miles!

  • @kcheesa3700
    @kcheesa3700 3 роки тому +3

    I’ve never been in love. However I can feel the powerful pull love has on the people around me. I hope I get to experience it soon.

  • @itskirahere
    @itskirahere Рік тому +1

    i always come back to this video. thank you, miles.

  • @onlymuchemi
    @onlymuchemi 4 роки тому +8

    Nostalgia is the food for the soul. You miles carter provide it in plenty.

  • @amoykeishing6663
    @amoykeishing6663 4 роки тому +12

    My girl left me after 8 years of relationship and this came at the right time