I love her so much I just graduated 2 months ago and can’t stop thinking about her, what makes it worse is I never told her and she doesn’t know and that might been my last chance 💔.
But.. What if you really liked that glass? And, what if you were forced to see that broken glass everyday, taking away the possibility to fix it AND to forget it? How do you stop hurting..? (And I'm talking about a friendship)
Hey, I had the same thing. But I told him. And I was right. And he was a very close friend. It’s about two weeks ago and I have to see him everyday. It hurts and I can’t move on, no matter how hard I try, I just can’t. I loved him for five years. I just know it was right I did that, because now I really know. It’ll hurt, but just tell him. You have the 50% chance he’s feeling the same.
And sometimes, even if you know this person doesn't love you back, you just stay by their side as a friend who is always happy and joking around and it is killing you inside but you don't want this person to be worried so you just pretend and stay...
I met her at fourteen, I started to fall for her, I told her, she said she was just trying to figure herself out, I said I'd wait a million years for her, I watched her fall in love with someone else, I told her I'd move on, I gave her relationship advice, I watched her relationship grow, I gave her a loan for her wedding, I held her hand as she met the surrogate, I watched her give birth, I held her child as she kissed her wife on the head, I babysat when it was date night, and I will continue to do so. Did I ever stop loving her? No. Did I ever move on? No. Will I ever move on? I don't think it's possible.
I met him 3 years ago and have helped him through 2 relationships, the entire time I've loved him, I'm still helping him to this day hurting evrey, single, day. I love him, but he loves someone else, he loves my ex friend... I love him, but he loves her
Me: Why is it called falling in love? My friend: because it’s up to the person to decide on whether to catch you from the fall or let you keep falling until your broken
*me in my head wishing i could say to my ex even tho he broke me and wants to be all buddy buddy* if i tell u i love you then i mean that sh*t, and if u take that for granted and u leave my life knowing your hurting me then leave and never come back, u cant come to me when you have no one else. i don't lie when i say those three words, even if u do. so don't u dare come crawling back and say you need me. because i needed u, so fucking bad. u didn't care. u left. u were gone in seconds. calls were declined, messages were ignored, cruel words were said, u found someone new, so don't hurt me again, because this time i might not make it out alive.
It really hurts when the person you love is unreachable and you know that there is no possible way of anything happening or any feelings being returned. Opposed to how great love can be, one-sided feelings can be the worst of all.
Yeah but you also gotta realize there are tons of people on this earth. And that one person who's not showing you effort or their time of the day. They're not the one.
@@itshaley9325 We know they're not the one. We just don't want to admit it to ourselves. We don't want to have to give up on our feelings if there's even a tiny chance of them loving us back. Because above all, we hope, we hope for them to love us back.
It's MISERABLE ABSOLUTELY MISERY knowing the one u wanna spend forever ever with is literally right in front of u and u don't stand a fuckin chance . That despite all the begging and pleading and crying and suffering just dying for him to show me an OUNCE of the love I have for him, he looks right at me n refused to lay with me and just simply love me. Instead he went on n on bout how HES the damnn victim of broken hearts... Wtaf
yeah, especially when you've already been through it. it's hard to ever feel the same way again about someone, to let your guard down at the most inopportune moments, to let someone else in to your mind again. it's really hard to find that trust again, and my sense of it has been demolished ever since. but, i'm no martyr. things get better, i hope.
@@matiasaureighkianv.578 Bless you! They are both pains, so they both hurt, but one hurts more than the other. At least now you know where you stand and you will never regret not having spoken your mind. May God bring many blessings into your life.
I feel like i did this to someone as well. We weren't official but we were something atleast , we would say i love you to each other. But one day , i left her. LDR is lonely , i couldn't get to talk to her or video call her because i was *embarrassed of my ugly face and ugly voice*. After that , she just found someone else after a week , it's funny that i regret it up until now. I still think of her sometimes here and their.
"True love is not real unless it is returned. Do you agree?" Well, I don't... Quite the opposite actually. I believe love is meaningful because it is the ultimate risk. A stab in the dark. To lay your soul bare for all the world to see, vulnerable, hoping for the smallest chance, praying to all the gods, that somewhere, out there, maybe, there is someone willing to do the same for you. It is the uncertainty of it being returned that makes it so valuable.
USK Gavvo not actually true. We need love to survive. It makes us feel like we belong. If you don’t feel loved then you are lonely and depressed. If you don’t feel love then you are sad and want to die because you know that no one loves you. If you don’t have love then that means that even your family doesn’t love you. We all need love to live. It gives us meaning. And without it, we would be nothing we would have no purpose and we would feel empty inside and we would all be depressed and/or want to die because we are so sad. Love gives us happiness and comfort. It gives us a reason to live. Without love we would all be empty and on the edge of death. We wouldn’t be ourselves. We would be... Empty and alone.
i fell in love with this audio long ago, and today i got to her the first part in its original form- it’s from the tv series HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER ep. 17 s. 9 called sunrise Ted tells it to his ex. When i heard it today i could still remember it by heart. thank you for making this audio.
*If you fall in love because someone makes you laugh, what happens when you no longer find them funny? If you fall in love because someone is beautiful, what happens when that beauty fades? If you fall in love because someone can provide for you, what happens when they lose wealth? Real love defies all reasons. When you truly love someone, you do not look for reasons, you see beyond reasons*
Then he or she doesn't deserve you because I'm sure you are amazing and there will be someone who adores you, treats you the right way and cares about you (sorry if there are any mistakes I am from Germany)
Amanda Yanez worst get left on read every single fucking time even to just wish them a good day bc they don’t give a fuck abt u but I’m still there trying giving my love to someone that doesn’t deserve it (my ex btw ) He said to me ur perfect for me , that he loved me, that I was the most beautiful person in the world, that he wouldn’t want anyone else bc I’m amazing, unique and perfect for him then he broke up with me and all that were just words maybe he meant in the moment but the feeling fade away maybe it was my fault, omfg I’m crying now..... I did loved him I still love him so much and now he has another girl and he is telling that to her... it hurts so bad that the person that once loves you now hates you and no matter how many hurtful things he says I’m always gonna love him a care for him. I’m not perfect but he made feel like I was now all the I have left is the pain bc everything reminds me of him and every good moment makes me wanna miss him.... it’s hurts like no other pain I felt before. (Btw he broke up with me and I didn’t do anything wrong he just found someone better) now I just get left on read for everything and if I get mad I’m being the mean one and if I talk to other guys trying to be happy I’m the hoe one 😭😭 life is hard so hard and i don’t think I can do this Ik it’s stupid to just wanna give up but my life is not stable rn I can’t even sleep and I hate taking the medicine bc it makes feel like I’m crazy or need medicine to be ok when Ik damn well I’m not
"can I ask you something" "sure" "why do nice people chose the wrong people to date?" "we accept the love we think we deserve" That hit me because I've been there and I never thought much of myself that I never really deserved anything and that no matter what I did I'd never be enough.
You will, but it takes patience. Wait for them. Tell that coffee barista they're cute. Ask the person from the library out. The more people you meet, the more hope you have. That's also something you need. Hope. Hope that there's a better tomorrow, hope that they are right around the corner, hope that they'll notice you. When you meet them, it also takes work. The Greeks didn't find their temples already built. They found a nice clearing, maybe some water nearby, some trees. And they say: This could work. Now let's get started.
PSA: just because everyone says you're "perfect for eachother" doesn't mean you really are! I was in a relationship that both my partner and I weren't fully happy in for way to long because we thought it was "meant to be" and "everyone says we're perfect together" but in the end it's all about your own happiness.
me: trying to move on youtube: i’m about to end this man’s whole career (edit: hey everyone! it’s been 6 months since i wrote this comment. i’m so happy to share that i’ve moved on. i’m so much happier for it. i sincerely hope that whoever is reading this also gets the closure they deserve. it does get better. i love and believe in you all. good luck.)
Just look at me I can't forget one person Its been like more than 8 yrs , he's in my heart. But now I'm gonna tell him this year that I love him and can't live without him. I can never move on Edit : I recently just got to know that he loves me too It's August 2020 Yay!!
Man... I found this video years ago, and I couldn't understand it because I didn't speak english. So I saved it to my favorites playlist and promised myself that I would come back one day, when I learned the language, because I knew that what I was going to hear here, would be special. I'm back now, after years improving my english, and I could understand.
Karson Stamper I don’t want to be in a relationship because everyone makes such a big deal about it. Like I love this persons attention now leave us alone.
If it’s the right person they wouldn’t hurt you, all the fun times, the laughs, the kisses would make it all worth it. Don’t be afraid to love it’s a beautiful thing.
I'd rather be surrounded with friends, lots of them, you know, just to talk to. I forgot how to place trust in someone who'll eventually betray it anyway. It's better to have friends and fuck buddies, than committing yourself to self destruction that's called love!
It's crazy to think every single people here are crying for the same stupid reason but wen you went help someone you can't because wen you give a wold it's like this wold destroy you at the same time.
@@lasagnalamp5284 It's okay, that just means you weren't the one for him and he wasn't the one for you. That only narrows down the amount of people you'll have to date until you find the one :)
It won’t. It never does. You learn to manage it and live with it. It will knock on your door when you least expect it. But it will be with you for the rest of your life.
A part of me wishes he’d text and tell me he didn’t lose his feelings for me, another part wants him to say he loves me and then there’s the part that simply wants to forget.
He said to me ur perfect for me , that he loved me, that I was the most beautiful person in the world, that he wouldn’t want anyone else bc I’m amazing, unique and perfect for him then he broke up with me and all that were just words maybe he meant in the moment but the feeling fade away maybe it was my fault, omfg I’m crying now..... I did loved him I still love him so much and now he has another girl and he is telling that to her... it hurts so bad that the person that once loves you now hates you and no matter how many hurtful things he says I’m always gonna love him a care for him. I’m not perfect but he made feel like I was now all the I have left is the pain bc everything reminds me of him and every good moment makes me wanna miss him.... it’s hurts like no other pain I felt before. (Btw he broke up with me and I didn’t do anything wrong he just found someone better)
Heyitsana similar happened to me as well. And I’ve heard all these words too. From what I know now, the right man will not have to tell you all of those things, he will prove them to you. He will act the right way. But until then, love yourself, I know it’s difficult but essential.
fivenineblurry _ ye.... Ik my worth but I don’t realize that I’m actually worth that hard to explain....now I’m all sad,missing him, can’t sleep at night bc I think of him knowing damn well he doesn’t give Not 3 fucks not 2 fucks not even 1fuck abt me.... it’s hard bc I love him a lot my 1st actual love I’m still learning to let go I don’t need him in my life I just have rlly good memories with him and it just hurts
i can relate so much with this comment. I literally wish he never lost feelings for me, because i still like him. But then again i’m not surprised this didn’t work out for me, everytime i’m close to finding love it always ends.
@@jackiee5737 it sucks because everything reminds me of him but I'm trying to "overwrite" the memories. I never got an explanation or a why and I think that hurts me so much that I can't really want him back. I guess what we hang on are the memories, not always the person.
@Shella Sebree are you taking about my name?? If so, I put it as WhatIfIAmGayMOM?! because she thinks it’s just a phase about me being gay and she doesn’t believe me, but little does she know I’ve been gay since third grade. I’m proud that you have been a gay mom for 26 years! I would love to have a mom that understands me:/
@@hupenderdreiradfahrer2428 what you and that piece of shit go through so much together that when you see it go down the toilet bowl, it brings a tear to your eye, beautifully heartbreaking
You know sometimes really late at night I listen to this. I found it when I was young and it used to be one of the only things that made me cry. Now I have even less things and this now longer helps me to get those tears out. But I still find myself crawling back to remember when hard times were easier.
Imagine waking up everyday alone in your bed and thinking about them, but they are already in a realationship and then imagine after some years waking up in your bed and feeling a hands wrapped around you, then turn around to see that it's them 🥺. Look, i just wanna say, don't give up, they might be in a realationship, but that doesn't mean anything, you have to learn something and that is that in this life random things happen, so it can be you that is in their hands after years. Don't feel sad guys, please. 🥺🥺🥺I know how bad it can hurts, but you don't need to ruin your mental health just because of them. If they're meant for you then you'll get together, but if not, then don't get upset, it only means that there is someone even better, even if you don't belive it, once you see them, you'll know it, belive me. Just please belive me. There is a hope, no latter in what situation you are, there is a hope that you can get together. The fact that you already met, means that you can get together. When you belive it, it becomes true, i know it from experience.
You might be scared of losing them but at least you got to have them. I wake up every single day with less and less hope that someone could love me. So now im learning to love myself instead. If no one else can I least I have myself
Caylee S i have a question if you don’t mind. How long did you wait to check (asking out or otherwise) that they didn’t like you. I have a theory going and I love it if you helped me out. Just FYI my theory is that we wait to long and create this perfect image in our heads of the person and then when we finally talk to them we realize they’re still just human. But if you don’t want to reply I understand it’s very personal and hard to talk about.
Caylee S so you were in a relationship? That must have been tough. I understand and if you felt it was toxic than you made the right decision at least I think so for what it’s worth.
"I want you to promise me something. If you love someone, you tell em. Even if you're scared it's not the right thing, even if you're scared it'll cause problems, you say it. You say it loud." - Mark Sloan 🥺 Best advice I've ever received from a T.V. show.
she made me unable to love anything. she was my best friend and she broke me down to the point where i no longer feel human. i feel empty and destroyed. it’s so hard but i know that cutting her out was the best decision.
I was with someone in a relationship. They broke up with me because of a misunderstanding... They didn't believe my side of the story when I was honest. Then he asked me back and I couldn't say no. Then I had to break up with him, I knew I should have a long time ago but I never could until I did. I am strong, I was strong but it was hard and it hurt. I'm good now and it still hurts sometimes but I started to feel less hurt lately & I am always happy about letting them go even if it hurts so much 💪❤️
I had a best friend, or I thought I did, over the years he became distant when he would come over his sister would sleep in my bed, I told her I didnt mind but after a would I did, we stopped playing with each other he was too busy talking to his friends from school, and before I even knew it we became complete strangers, and I loved him, but I guess that we were never meant to be, and its hurts everytime I see him now, to the point that I can feel my heart ache.
But we all know the old "Not their type" is basically im not gonna date u cuz i think ur a little ugly I mean i wouldnt say ur not my type to kate upton(if she hits on me) lol
“if you admire someone, go ahead and tell them. People don’t get flowers while they can still smell them.” -Kanye West yall heres the explanatian for those who dont understand: If you love or admire somebody tell them, because sometimes people only get praised and loved after death, hence the "People don't get flowers while they can still smell them" thank you for your time
Coming back to this 3 years later. I've experienced many forms of love and have learned that I have mistaken and confused a blur of emotions into the form of love. But if I've learned anything, it's that love isn't some checklist you cross off to know you're in it, it isn't something you look for and get, it's random, it catastrophic, it's beautiful, and it's tormenting. It's one of the most beautiful and terrifying feelings I think anyone can experience. It comes into our lives in what feels instantaneous, yet when love fails, it doesn't stop or cease. Love lives long, it continues to live and maybe it can change forms, but I know that it doesn't just disappear, at least not the true kind of love. I am still learning about love and growing from it, wondering how I could ever fall deeper than I had with him, but I'm hopeful. Hopeful of the stars aligning for us again, hopeful of his love being as true as mine still, but most importantly I'm hopeful of us both finding the love we need, even if it's not with each other.
is there rlly reasons to be happy. I haven’t felt happy for a while. I can’t find things that make me happy. Not even one. Tell me what’s wrong, I need help. I hate feeling like pain in my heart everyday
Sometimes love isn’t the kind you share with a significant other, sometimes it’s those days you hang out with your parents. Sometimes it’s the child you raised, sometimes it’s just watching your siblings grow up. Sometimes you can find love in a friend, someone who you can love platonically, knowing that the only future you see with them is cheering them on. And talking. Sometimes love, is finally accepting yourself. Love comes in all forms, so don’t forget that.
Most people expecially younger people think that love only comes from there significant other, think about the other people in your life appreciate them first, love them first, show them you care show them you know they love you and you love them twice as much
This is beautiful. It's sad what modern society makes the word "love" mean. It's undermined. What a beautiful word and what a beautiful projection. Just wait and good things will come. Just rush and you'll end up the fool.
hey stranger whom I'll probably never cross paths with again, it's all going to be okay someday, somehow, everything will work out you'll sit all snuggled up with the person who you love and loves you watching sunsets together just talking and laughing it will always get better I promise i love you okay never give up on hope 🥺 virtual hugs edit: omg I didnt expect this I wish you all the best in your life journeys! if you're feeling for a stranger to listen to you for awhile I'll be here
To that little old man I crossed paths with in the Orlando airport...I think about you everyday. Your trembling hand and wide, fearful eyes filled with tears as we made our way together to our gates. I felt our souls connect in our short moment together. I lost my father and you lost your wife. I thank God everyday for that sweet moment. I hope things got better for you. I told my husband about you and discovered that our paths were united in past relationships of our families...thousands of miles and lifetimes apart. I will always think of you and wish for the best for you. I love you.
youtube really recommending this to me 5 minutes after i just got rejected, thanks now im crying and confused edit: woah this comment blew up a lil lol 😳🥺 but thanks for the support sisters
;( sending you a big virtual hug stranger, i hope everything is better than before. if not, it’s okay. it’s okay not to be okay. just give it time, and have strength and hope that they’ll come sooner than later.
My mouth says "I'm fine." My fingers type "I'm okay" My heart says "I'm broken." And people don't understand why. I don't understand why myself. I feel lost in my emotions. And I'm alone.
it’s okay, everything is gonna be okay. love yourself. you are beautiful! you can do whatever you want so do it. we have only one life so why do we spend it like that? i know it’s hard but you are strong that’s why you need to keep going forward even if you think that you can’t. you can do e v e r y t h i n g
You know what gets me? You look at a grave stone or memorial of some kind and you see two dates. And between those two dates is a line. Someone's entire life - their first memories, they first love, their first child etc... is in that line. Anything good and anything bad that they did is in that line. Years of memories all held together as one tiny little dash. And you know what. That's YOUR line. No one else's. YOU are responsible for YOUR line. YOU have the power or deciding whether you will stay miserable all your life or if you actually stand up and do something about it. YOU are responsible for your own happiness. So really all I have to say is: "Have a good line and make it the best one."
I ran across your video on auto play and I have to say that it made me feel a strong emotion. I- I really wanted to tell a friend of mine that I really liked her but I couldn’t do it, and this video sorta gave me comfort with all the comments of people saying they’ve dealt with the same. So I have to say that this was really beautiful.
"I'm in love with her, okay? If you're looking for the word that means caring about someone beyond all rationality and wanting them to have everything they want no matter how much it destroys you, it's love. And when you love someone, you just, you don't stop. Ever. Even when people roll their eyes or call you crazy. Even then. Especially then! You just-- you don't give up because if I could give up... If I could just, you know, take the whole world's advice and move on find someone else, That wouldn't be love! That would be.. that would be some other disposable thing, That is not worth fighting for."
I things that one of the most hurtful things is that you know you disappointed someone and you try your best to make up but you only do worse and they remark it
I believe love is some connection that you feel for them with or without them. When thier energy match your vibe even if they are silent. When you can't stop ever. When you feel you don't need anyone ever more than that person. When you ready to go out of your comfort and that doesn't make you feel strange because you loving it because she's loving it, you make fool of yourself for her smile her happiness. That's soulmate.
I did and she broke up. True story. She was just 'in love' with me and apparently for this actually pretty intelligent girl that was different to 'love'. Be careful and not to quick with this
@@lovemax58 Thanks. I just wish it was because of some real fault I made. Instead it seems that as I just presented myself as 'the safe one' ("I love you") she lost interest. Does not matter anymore. Loving someone means also to set them free and let them go, which I never thought to be that hard. But: who knows what's for the best in the long run? There have been far worse breakups we all surly know about from others. And though better times may be far ahead they'll come eventually
@@nelsontheodoreblack7573 You will get there i'm sure of it. You will find someone and if you don't then eighter way i hope you have an amazing life and experience amazing things.
When you love someone, you stay when they stuggle and you stay when they prosper. Some love and its not returned, other never get to love, and some get that love for a short time, then get it taken away. Life is a cruel mistress but she is also beautiful and amazing, showing us love like never before while also taking it all away just as fast if not faster.
But i don't think of anyone. I'm just so confused rn. I have or had a crush on this guy for over a year now, but i think i kind of just gave up, but it's really weird, cuz I DON'T KNOW, if I still feel about him this way or not. I'm so confused with my feelings right now😔✌
@@julija7796 does he seem to like u back of not I'd advice u to stop crushing on him I taught myself to stop crushing on people just to keep myself okay
Damn, this reformed me a lot, after breaking my friendship with my best friend i almost commited suicide, and by some type of motivation and just a bit of love by all the good things in my life... I've seen this video after a destroying my heart and carrying a 8 year depression and how i am and feel nowadays... I've returned to this video after meditating and remembering how much it helped me to know one of the reasons to tell that person that I loved her and all the pain that her rejection and distance from her entailed, but today I am proud of how all that pain could be transformed into discipline, perseverance and authentic love towards myself and my close ones; I even consider myself a person who sows good and helps others whenever possible, I practice martial arts and do streetworkout, really thank you for everything, God bless you
@@Cupidteez8 Well, every cat shows their love in their own way. I have 2 cats, Lizzie and Capucino (Thats her nickname: Capucino). Lizzie shows her love toward my mom and i by sleeping near us, and if you try to grab her, she out of the house in 2 seconds. Meanwhile Capucino, is totally different. She likes to sleep with us, kisses us, (yes, cats kiss you by licking your face, or they just want to bathe you.) bites ur feet, and the list goes on. I always think Lizzie is more of a tsundere. 😂 Maybe your cat did really love you, but showed it in a different way. Anyways! Sorry you had to read about my ramble. Have a nice day/night. 😊❤
I don’t know how, but UA-cam has shown me the most relatable thing I could think of right now. I feel like I’m becoming the worst version of myself. It’s been over two years, and we’re just friends-or maybe not even that. I don’t think my presence or absence makes any difference to her. I love her so much; she’s my first love, and I can’t even remember what life was like before she came into it. I think about her every day, every moment, every second. I want to confess my feelings to her, but I can’t. She’s the most beautiful girl in our school, and I’m not even an average-looking guy. That’s the only reason for my low confidence.
I’m only 16 and I’m crying to this cause this hits deep. I can relate to this. I love her so much but I don’t know how to tell her. I would do anything for her. Forget physical attraction, this is emotional lust. She is the light to my depression.
tell her🥺 if she's that special for you, don't loose her. i hope you're gonna be happy with her. i know how hard is it to tell someone that important, that you're falling for them. talk with her. you never know how she feel about you, unless you'll ask.
I understand. My problem is I waited too long and now he's gone. So please I know I'm late, but take the risk. Just because you're 16 doesnt mean anything. Go for it . Before you miss your chance.
i love you. i love you and it hurts because you don’t love me. but that’s okay. i wouldn’t fall for me either. edit : i got over him for the best. i hope you guys do too. i found someone that always treats me the way i’ve always wanted to. they are days i still hate myself more than anything. but thank you for everyone that commented such amazing things. i hope you guys realize you’re in love with someone that isn’t real. a version of them that doesn’t even exist. i hope you take this the heart because i used to read these typos of comments & never take it to my heart . but even if this at least makes one person happy, that is okay. i promise things get better. please hold on. i love you more than you could ever know. & i don’t need to know you to love you. because you are a human. & that enough wants me to just take away all the pain living in ur soul.
Why wouldn't you? You are beautiful just the way you are and you deserve the world. Never think of yourself less. We all deserve to be loved in the most pure way and no one can tell you otherwise.
I. Stipancevic you made my day. like 100%. you are so amazing, just thank you. thank you so much. you deserve the world & only happiness. i promise you. there is so many days were i feel so empty. but honesty, this comment just makes me feel true happiness. thank you. you deserve everything good :,).
It is i have 2 more years to live ( im 18 rn ) and i love her since im 12 wer been best friends for all the time now she told she feels the same but its been to long
@@christopherstoeckmann8406 you may not want to talk about it, which is fine, but why do you have 2 years? Once again, perfectly OK if you decline, just curious.
My Brother: Why does God always take the good people first ? Me: What type of Flowers do you pick from the garden first ? My Brother: The Ugly ones Me: Exact- Wait what ?! My Brother: Ugly flowers don't belong in my garden Brother
facts about love; > when two people are in love, their heart beats synchronize to match one another. > a happy heart is a healthy heart, being in love is proven to make you live longer > love is addictive. the human brain reacts to love almost the same way towards cocaine. these are directed more towards long distance couples > long distance relationships are more effective in building trust and communication between the couple. > around 23% of long distance couples end up marrying their partners.
You don't have to be in love with a person to love and to be loved. There is universe. We are all universe. Once you realize that you will experience something so profound that you probably won't need a man/woman to feel loved ever again. Piece
CRUSH: “Hey can I tell you something?” “Sure.” CRUSH: “I kinda like this person...” “Omg who?” CRUSH: “I really like Jessica can you help me get with her?” “Oh... Yea, sure!” I know y’all can relate to this don’t lie
Kind of, you tell me if I should relate : During a night where we drank quite a bit, my crush asked me what I thought about someone (she seemed to be kind of into it). Up to here, it's quite similar but what's next still confuses me. I told her what I knew of him, which in this case was that he wasn't really reliable, which was the truth. She literally hugged me 15 seconds straight while telling me "you are better anyways". Couldn't last longer as we were in a rush going back to the hotel. (was a study trip so we had to get back and our teacher didn't want us to stay as long as my crush's teacher let them) To this day, I still don't understand why she told me that that way... (Things went on and I now know it's not reciprocal).
Bruh I just tell them, dude dafuq! Am I your pimp or what ffs LMAO .... used to help others but years of being run over morphed into a ruthless ass that I am now.... smfh
“True love is not real unless it is returned” “Do you agree?” “I do not believe in love” “If we cease to believe in love, why would we want to live?” -Vampire Diaries : S2 EP19
"If you love someone tell them" You should, even if they say that they don't feel the same way atleast you have closure and you understand your position in that person's life. Having to love someone and have them love you back is a feeling that can't be replicated by any other pleasure in life. So why waste your time loving someone who doesn't even care about you. Or about how you feel. Loving the people who frown when you text or call them. Or try and avoid being alone with you. Stop wasting your time loving the ones who don't deserve it.
I loved this audio for so long and in march of this year 2023 I got my first tattoo “these are what we stay alive for” in my mom’s hand writing. Robin Williams will always be one of if not my favorite actors and people to ever live. today I listened to this after probably almost a year and cried a little through it but almost bawled when I heard his voice it will always hit so deep for me and this will always be one of my favorite videos to show people
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When you love someone you have to be brave brave enough to tell them you love them or be brave enough to watch them love someone else
Which is the sad truth😔
telling them won’t necessarily prevent them from loving someone else)
especially when their straight bc you can’t change them and you have no control :(
I’m going through that rn
I lost them to someone else I hate the fact I was to late
"Why do nice peopke choose the wrong people to date?"
"Because we accept the love we think we deserve"
-Perks of Being a Wallflower
fave movie and line ever.
Rebecca S Have you read the book? It’s even better
Alexa_Karelle Petil my crush introduced that movie to me and 🤧🥺
Laynie Rearick no i havnt, i was even searching for a new book, thank you so much
🥺
We're not afraid to fall in love, we're afraid not to be loved back.
Loved** ;)
😭
Facts..
But I'm affairs if she don't love me back.
Yeah I am sooo scared to tell my crush I like them bc I’m scared they won’t like me back
The worst feeling is when you cant stop thinking about them but you know for a fact they don't think of you..
I fucking relate to this
Why the F did you have to say it :( 😭😭
Facts 🥺
facts bro
I love her so much I just graduated 2 months ago and can’t stop thinking about her, what makes it worse is I never told her and she doesn’t know and that might been my last chance 💔.
*you know that you've cried too much, when you can't even cry anymore*
I felt this on a spiritual level. That's how it is for me right now 😓
No more liquid comes out as you stare off into the distance as your heart shatters silently.
ain’t got no tears left to cryy...im sorry
Facts!! It’s like I lost my feeling and the water💔😩
Why can I relate so much..
you know, the sad thing is, no one has ever broken my heart. I've broken it myself, over and over again.
Elizabeth Rausch yeah and it really sucks :/
Elizabeth Rausch Press this link, it’s deep✨👉🏽 ua-cam.com/video/xCcEn_lFg1E/v-deo.html
Nice person chose wrong person to date..lol
@@cozmos1553 yea i guess haha
From my personal opinion, being rejected by yourself is worse than being rejected by someone else.
The worst feeling in the world is knowing the one person you love more than anyone is in love with someone that isn’t you...
Dude for reaall. The worst painful reality...
or finding out someone you love is apathetic
I hate reality if I could I wouldn't be here anymore but I don't want to make my familie more disappointed in me
That hit harder than I expected
relatable, my ex that i still love is dating my best "friend".
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
'when you look at someone through rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags'
why is it so hard
House of glass by Jon caryl
But.. What if you really liked that glass? And, what if you were forced to see that broken glass everyday, taking away the possibility to fix it AND to forget it? How do you stop hurting..?
(And I'm talking about a friendship)
This
“It's time to say goodbye, but I think goodbyes are sad and I'd much rather say hello”
-*our idol Spongebob*
Stop making me cry with spongebob
Don't say goodbye, because goodbye means going away and going away means forgetting
@@TheDoctor2805 And people don't understand
How much that hurt to somebody who just don't want to say a Goodbye!!!
I've never once watched SpongeBob-
“It’s not goodbye it’s goodnight, it’s goodnight for her but not for me” Arnie Grape (from whats eating Gilbert Grape)
The most heartbreaking thing is wanting to tell him more than anything, but knowing he dosent love you back, so you can’t tell him and just move on
Zoe Frioni helll no i felt
Zoe Frioni MEEEE RIGHT NOW
Zoe Frioni man...I feel you. Exactly. The guy I like has a gf he likes sm and I just...you know...
This is the definition of hell, I've been through this for 4 years ، but believe me all you need is the time to move on. It's just a temporary cloud.
Hey, I had the same thing. But I told him. And I was right. And he was a very close friend. It’s about two weeks ago and I have to see him everyday. It hurts and I can’t move on, no matter how hard I try, I just can’t. I loved him for five years.
I just know it was right I did that, because now I really know. It’ll hurt, but just tell him. You have the 50% chance he’s feeling the same.
“Why do nice people choose the wrong people to date?”
“We accept the love we think we deserve”
What a terribly beautiful way to put it
ikr xD
The perks of being a wallflower is sooo good
The perks of being a wallflower love that movie ❤️
It sucks
@@QueenMsp How about you DON'T say "ikr xD" on something like this. It's not an aesthetic, it's not a joke.
And sometimes, even if you know this person doesn't love you back, you just stay by their side as a friend who is always happy and joking around and it is killing you inside but you don't want this person to be worried so you just pretend and stay...
oh my god, this is my situation down to the word
I met her at fourteen, I started to fall for her, I told her, she said she was just trying to figure herself out, I said I'd wait a million years for her, I watched her fall in love with someone else, I told her I'd move on, I gave her relationship advice, I watched her relationship grow, I gave her a loan for her wedding, I held her hand as she met the surrogate, I watched her give birth, I held her child as she kissed her wife on the head, I babysat when it was date night, and I will continue to do so. Did I ever stop loving her? No. Did I ever move on? No. Will I ever move on? I don't think it's possible.
@@poopyharding1657 what is With your Heart?
I met him 3 years ago and have helped him through 2 relationships, the entire time I've loved him, I'm still helping him to this day hurting evrey, single, day. I love him, but he loves someone else, he loves my ex friend...
I love him, but he loves her
I'm In that exact situation just hoping she will at some point fall in love with me.
"perfect relationships arent real, real relationships arent perfect" - NF
realmusic
What song
@@complexity3551 pretty sure it was just a one of his tweets
@@grrimley6571 damn
Real Music til the day we die
“why do nice people choose the wrong people to date?”
Why all the person asking themself this never meet person who s asking the same questions, why nices person just meet and let the bad together😅
Because they love those people unconditionally and never realize their mistake before it's too late
“We accept the love we think we deserve”.💗
@@fer.roblesb and why would someone think that they deserve someone bad?
@@abbe5410 the quote is from a movie called The perks of being a wallflower😌 100/10 recommend
Me: Why is it called falling in love? My friend: because it’s up to the person to decide on whether to catch you from the fall or let you keep falling until your broken
*me in my head wishing i could say to my ex even tho he broke me and wants to be all buddy buddy*
if i tell u i love you then i mean that sh*t, and if u take that for granted and u leave my life knowing your hurting me then leave and never come back, u cant come to me when you have no one else. i don't lie when i say those three words, even if u do. so don't u dare come crawling back and say you need me. because i needed u, so fucking bad. u didn't care. u left. u were gone in seconds. calls were declined, messages were ignored, cruel words were said, u found someone new, so don't hurt me again, because this time i might not make it out alive.
marina sotelo that’s a real friend. Keep her. Everyone needs someone like her.
you fall for them and fall again when u r breaking.
marina sotelo that hit different
That was deep
It really hurts when the person you love is unreachable and you know that there is no possible way of anything happening or any feelings being returned. Opposed to how great love can be, one-sided feelings can be the worst of all.
Yeah but you also gotta realize there are tons of people on this earth. And that one person who's not showing you effort or their time of the day. They're not the one.
@@itshaley9325 We know they're not the one. We just don't want to admit it to ourselves. We don't want to have to give up on our feelings if there's even a tiny chance of them loving us back. Because above all, we hope, we hope for them to love us back.
It's MISERABLE ABSOLUTELY MISERY knowing the one u wanna spend forever ever with is literally right in front of u and u don't stand a fuckin chance . That despite all the begging and pleading and crying and suffering just dying for him to show me an OUNCE of the love I have for him, he looks right at me n refused to lay with me and just simply love me. Instead he went on n on bout how HES the damnn victim of broken hearts... Wtaf
Same resonate to me
*We’re not afraid to fall in love , we’re afraid to be the one that falls.. while the other pretends.*
that’s why i haven’t told him yet i love him- i already know he’s the one but i bet he doesn’t think of me. it’s devastating.
Why is it called "falling" in love and not "rising" in love..? Because love isn't what movies show us. Love hurts. Always at some point.
@@Ki_10 that’s wise
and smart
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yeah, especially when you've already been through it. it's hard to ever feel the same way again about someone, to let your guard down at the most inopportune moments, to let someone else in to your mind again. it's really hard to find that trust again, and my sense of it has been demolished ever since. but, i'm no martyr. things get better, i hope.
The pain of regret is much stronger than the pain of rejection so yeah confess your love
Agreed. At least you won't live wondering "What if..." all the time.
I felt them both ,guess im just different
@@matiasaureighkianv.578 Bless you! They are both pains, so they both hurt, but one hurts more than the other. At least now you know where you stand and you will never regret not having spoken your mind. May God bring many blessings into your life.
Ur right I could lose the opportunity
I'm scared if I confess my love that he will reject me .
Mind : calm down he's just a crush.
Farah Belloum felt that😂
Fucking same 😭
Mind: Calm down she doesn't know you exist.
Mind: Calm down, Its just love nothing personal
felt that...
Sometimes it is not "we accept the love we think we deserve", it is " We accept the love we get "
It’s kinda the same if you really think about it
This is the truth
“Why is it called a crush? Is it because that’s how you feel when you know the person doesn’t like you back?”
-Words from a guy that liked my friend
no he copied that from pinterest stfu
bananaseok Lol that little b*tch
Stans BTS
Oml 😂
bananaseok that’s so true honestly I’ve never thought ab it that way honestly
“You don’t have to be a superhero to find the right girl. The right girl will bring out the superhero in you...”
-Deadpool
❤️😔😔✋️
Respect 💔
Most beautiful comment I've seen here lol
Ayo das fax
Facts tho❤️❤️
i meet someone > we talk > i get attached > they leave > i meet someone, rinse and repeat.
Check out for UA-cam video: "Exurb1a - And nothing can ever ruin this"
funny how strangers experience something you thought only happened to you
:")
Well at least you rinse--
I feel like i did this to someone as well.
We weren't official but we were something atleast , we would say i love you to each other.
But one day , i left her.
LDR is lonely , i couldn't get to talk to her or video call her because i was *embarrassed of my ugly face and ugly voice*.
After that , she just found someone else after a week , it's funny that i regret it up until now.
I still think of her sometimes here and their.
"True love is not real unless it is returned. Do you agree?"
Well, I don't... Quite the opposite actually. I believe love is meaningful because it is the ultimate risk. A stab in the dark. To lay your soul bare for all the world to see, vulnerable, hoping for the smallest chance, praying to all the gods, that somewhere, out there, maybe, there is someone willing to do the same for you. It is the uncertainty of it being returned that makes it so valuable.
Ur thinking is so deep
We all wouldn’t be alive if love didn’t exist.
PapiGrxce some of us still would be if love didn’t exist
USK Gavvo not actually true. We need love to survive. It makes us feel like we belong. If you don’t feel loved then you are lonely and depressed. If you don’t feel love then you are sad and want to die because you know that no one loves you. If you don’t have love then that means that even your family doesn’t love you. We all need love to live. It gives us meaning. And without it, we would be nothing we would have no purpose and we would feel empty inside and we would all be depressed and/or want to die because we are so sad. Love gives us happiness and comfort. It gives us a reason to live. Without love we would all be empty and on the edge of death. We wouldn’t be ourselves. We would be...
Empty and alone.
I shouldn’t be here then
If love didn't exist some wouldn't desire it❤
@@imgavvo5671 woah
"We accept the love we think we deserve"
Sad facts
I'm a clown even my dik went sad 😭
my friend wrote that before she stopped being my friend so rip.
Yo u have the first three letters of my name ‘sol’ lmao
@@ishipit6608 :0
sol xD
The hard pill to swallow: He’s smiling at someone else’s texts right now.
Plot twist, it's one of his family members sending him a stupid, but funny meme.
other way around for me :(
K W what sucks the most is he’s smiling at my bsfs messages even tho she has no
Intrest in him
that hurted me.
thank you for making my heart break again.....
i fell in love with this audio long ago, and today i got to her the first part in its original form- it’s from the tv series HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER ep. 17 s. 9 called sunrise Ted tells it to his ex. When i heard it today i could still remember it by heart. thank you for making this audio.
Video title: *if you love someone, tell them*
Me: No, I don't think I will
I am inevitable
It's hard to take risks but you'll never know. Maybe that person feels the same way. Just my thoughts hehe.
krstncssndra vlvrde Haha that’s really funny because she left me on read
Her lost then. You seem like a great guy, guess she can't see that or maybe she has a bf? Dunno.
@@krstncssndravlvrde739 Osht, I actually never thought about that, maybe she does q.q
*If you fall in love because someone makes you laugh, what happens when you no longer find them funny? If you fall in love because someone is beautiful, what happens when that beauty fades? If you fall in love because someone can provide for you, what happens when they lose wealth? Real love defies all reasons. When you truly love someone, you do not look for reasons, you see beyond reasons*
@Elaina Miller Oh god this comment would probably mean alot more if i wasnt taking a fat shit
@Elaina Miller Yeah man now that its gone im beginning to miss the adventures we had together
@Elaina Miller it brought a tear to my eye watching it swirl around the toilet bowl, so elegant and beautifull
Wise words, am so touched
So true.. 🥺❤
I would send this to someone but... they wouldn’t care
Then he or she doesn't deserve you because I'm sure you are amazing and there will be someone who adores you, treats you the right way and cares about you (sorry if there are any mistakes I am from Germany)
Alina M. Omg thank you so much this gives me hopes! 💕😊
Same.
@Amanda Yanez i hope you will get what you want.
Amanda Yanez worst get left on read every single fucking time even to just wish them a good day bc they don’t give a fuck abt u but I’m still there trying giving my love to someone that doesn’t deserve it (my ex btw )
He said to me ur perfect for me , that he loved me, that I was the most beautiful person in the world, that he wouldn’t want anyone else bc I’m amazing, unique and perfect for him then he broke up with me and all that were just words maybe he meant in the moment but the feeling fade away maybe it was my fault, omfg I’m crying now..... I did loved him I still love him so much and now he has another girl and he is telling that to her... it hurts so bad that the person that once loves you now hates you and no matter how many hurtful things he says I’m always gonna love him a care for him. I’m not perfect but he made feel like I was now all the I have left is the pain bc everything reminds me of him and every good moment makes me wanna miss him.... it’s hurts like no other pain I felt before.
(Btw he broke up with me and I didn’t do anything wrong he just found someone better) now I just get left on read for everything and if I get mad I’m being the mean one and if I talk to other guys trying to be happy I’m the hoe one 😭😭 life is hard so hard and i don’t think I can do this Ik it’s stupid to just wanna give up but my life is not stable rn I can’t even sleep and I hate taking the medicine bc it makes feel like I’m crazy or need medicine to be ok when Ik damn well I’m not
"can I ask you something"
"sure"
"why do nice people chose the wrong people to date?"
"we accept the love we think we deserve"
That hit me because I've been there and I never thought much of myself that I never really deserved anything and that no matter what I did I'd never be enough.
UA-cam just recommended me this in New Year’s Eve, I-
Kenzie :D same but day
I saw it today to
Same here, and I’m actually hiding my love from someone 😅
+Julian macias you go and tell that person Man... Don't have regrets in your life
Kenzie :D I love your pfp
I just wanna find someone who makes other people say “They’re perfect for each other”
I feel that.
you will but it takes time
You will, but it takes patience. Wait for them. Tell that coffee barista they're cute. Ask the person from the library out.
The more people you meet, the more hope you have. That's also something you need. Hope. Hope that there's a better tomorrow, hope that they are right around the corner, hope that they'll notice you.
When you meet them, it also takes work. The Greeks didn't find their temples already built. They found a nice clearing, maybe some water nearby, some trees.
And they say: This could work. Now let's get started.
PSA: just because everyone says you're "perfect for eachother" doesn't mean you really are! I was in a relationship that both my partner and I weren't fully happy in for way to long because we thought it was "meant to be" and "everyone says we're perfect together" but in the end it's all about your own happiness.
@Gracee Lathrop I love your comment so much. Thank you
me: trying to move on
youtube: i’m about to end this man’s whole career
(edit: hey everyone! it’s been 6 months since i wrote this comment. i’m so happy to share that i’ve moved on. i’m so much happier for it. i sincerely hope that whoever is reading this also gets the closure they deserve. it does get better. i love and believe in you all. good luck.)
sometimes it be like that
it be like that
Just look at me
I can't forget one person
Its been like more than 8 yrs , he's in my heart. But now I'm gonna tell him this year that I love him and can't live without him.
I can never move on
Edit : I recently just got to know that he loves me too
It's August 2020 Yay!!
Omg same
notcha :3 Can i end my own life , to rest forever and escape from depression, my mind keep telling me to commit suicide but i can't :(
Man... I found this video years ago, and I couldn't understand it because I didn't speak english. So I saved it to my favorites playlist and promised myself that I would come back one day, when I learned the language, because I knew that what I was going to hear here, would be special.
I'm back now, after years improving my english, and I could understand.
This makes me incredibly happy! I’m so proud of you
Anybody else afraid to be in a relationship because they’re tired of being heartbroken over and over again? Is it just me?
Being heartbroken is what help us have the strength to relaize that love hurts love is really painful and you can never ease thw pain
Karson Stamper i know what u mean, so scared to let another person so close to me, because i know they’ll break my heart at one point.
Karson Stamper I don’t want to be in a relationship because everyone makes such a big deal about it. Like I love this persons attention now leave us alone.
If it’s the right person they wouldn’t hurt you, all the fun times, the laughs, the kisses would make it all worth it. Don’t be afraid to love it’s a beautiful thing.
I'd rather be surrounded with friends, lots of them, you know, just to talk to. I forgot how to place trust in someone who'll eventually betray it anyway. It's better to have friends and fuck buddies, than committing yourself to self destruction that's called love!
Crazy how we’re all here listening to this but thinking about someone different
Fuck man
its crazy how we are here thinking of someone but they are thinking of someone else
Gaby Ventura what’s the meaning of life
The sad thing is... I don’t think of anyone- I’ve never been in love and it’s the one feeling I wish to feel with someone.
It's crazy to think every single people here are crying for the same stupid reason but wen you went help someone you can't because wen you give a wold it's like this wold destroy you at the same time.
i absolutely love him.
he left me
@@sammieschulenburg4966 I'm sorry.
he ditched me
@@lasagnalamp5284 He isn't worth your time
@@lasagnalamp5284
It's okay, that just means you weren't the one for him and he wasn't the one for you.
That only narrows down the amount of people you'll have to date until you find the one :)
I don't regret loving you. I regret not loving myself enough to let you go when you weren't good for me.
Video: “if you love someone, you tell them”
Me: well now I’m not going to do it
Krystin Mitchell 😂😂😂
JUST DO IT ⚡
Well i can’t I’m soo scared of ruining our friendship and the problem is he has a girlfriend
Tae Tae IM IN THE SAME SITUATION GIIIRL what r we gonna dooo
you need to tell me
anyone else just put their headphones in, and stare at the wall while listening to this with tears streaming down your face? no just me? ok
No,,I do that too
No me too.
You’re not alone...
Same here
It’s not just you bby keep your head up
I came to this audio listening as two different souls. One with a hopeful heart and one with a broken heart.
So did I and it’s so confusing :(
Same here
My boyfriend had sent me this video when we were together. Coming back tonight, months after our breakup. I still love him.
Yes
Same
I was in love with someone, I told her, 15 years later, my heart still hasn't healed. 💔
♥️
Let it heal by itself ❤️
Know the felling my ex cheated on one of my freinds
It won’t. It never does. You learn to manage it and live with it. It will knock on your door when you least expect it. But it will be with you for the rest of your life.
A part of me wishes he’d text and tell me he didn’t lose his feelings for me, another part wants him to say he loves me and then there’s the part that simply wants to forget.
He said to me ur perfect for me , that he loved me, that I was the most beautiful person in the world, that he wouldn’t want anyone else bc I’m amazing, unique and perfect for him then he broke up with me and all that were just words maybe he meant in the moment but the feeling fade away maybe it was my fault, omfg I’m crying now..... I did loved him I still love him so much and now he has another girl and he is telling that to her... it hurts so bad that the person that once loves you now hates you and no matter how many hurtful things he says I’m always gonna love him a care for him. I’m not perfect but he made feel like I was now all the I have left is the pain bc everything reminds me of him and every good moment makes me wanna miss him.... it’s hurts like no other pain I felt before.
(Btw he broke up with me and I didn’t do anything wrong he just found someone better)
Heyitsana similar happened to me as well. And I’ve heard all these words too. From what I know now, the right man will not have to tell you all of those things, he will prove them to you. He will act the right way. But until then, love yourself, I know it’s difficult but essential.
fivenineblurry _ ye.... Ik my worth but I don’t realize that I’m actually worth that hard to explain....now I’m all sad,missing him, can’t sleep at night bc I think of him knowing damn well he doesn’t give Not 3 fucks not 2 fucks not even 1fuck abt me.... it’s hard bc I love him a lot my 1st actual love I’m still learning to let go I don’t need him in my life I just have rlly good memories with him and it just hurts
i can relate so much with this comment. I literally wish he never lost feelings for me, because i still like him. But then again i’m not surprised this didn’t work out for me, everytime i’m close to finding love it always ends.
@@jackiee5737 it sucks because everything reminds me of him but I'm trying to "overwrite" the memories. I never got an explanation or a why and I think that hurts me so much that I can't really want him back. I guess what we hang on are the memories, not always the person.
*I am one of those people who cry themselves to sleep every night, and act like I’m okay outside of my bed*
ur not alone
@d19mc yeah thanks it’s sad how many people do this as well😕
Same💔
What do you mean. Been a gay mom 26 years. I'm human
@Shella Sebree are you taking about my name?? If so, I put it as WhatIfIAmGayMOM?! because she thinks it’s just a phase about me being gay and she doesn’t believe me, but little does she know I’ve been gay since third grade. I’m proud that you have been a gay mom for 26 years! I would love to have a mom that understands me:/
Love is the most beautifully heartbreaking thing this planet can give someone.
You know a fat shit is also beautifully heartbreaking
@@donttouchmycrowbar3452 wtf is wrong with you
@@hupenderdreiradfahrer2428 what you and that piece of shit go through so much together that when you see it go down the toilet bowl, it brings a tear to your eye, beautifully heartbreaking
Can’t express it enough 😥
noctis infernae ur really funny kid
You know sometimes really late at night I listen to this. I found it when I was young and it used to be one of the only things that made me cry. Now I have even less things and this now longer helps me to get those tears out. But I still find myself crawling back to remember when hard times were easier.
isn’t it scary? having to wake up every single day and wonder that maybe today’s the day you won’t be able to make them happy
my eyes widened when i saw this comment just that made me tear up :):(
Or you aren’t the reason why they are so happy and moving on
Yes or that today might be the end of things
Imagine waking up everyday alone in your bed and thinking about them, but they are already in a realationship and then imagine after some years waking up in your bed and feeling a hands wrapped around you, then turn around to see that it's them 🥺. Look, i just wanna say, don't give up, they might be in a realationship, but that doesn't mean anything, you have to learn something and that is that in this life random things happen, so it can be you that is in their hands after years. Don't feel sad guys, please. 🥺🥺🥺I know how bad it can hurts, but you don't need to ruin your mental health just because of them. If they're meant for you then you'll get together, but if not, then don't get upset, it only means that there is someone even better, even if you don't belive it, once you see them, you'll know it, belive me. Just please belive me. There is a hope, no latter in what situation you are, there is a hope that you can get together. The fact that you already met, means that you can get together. When you belive it, it becomes true, i know it from experience.
You might be scared of losing them but at least you got to have them. I wake up every single day with less and less hope that someone could love me. So now im learning to love myself instead. If no one else can I least I have myself
he never loved me. he never cared. and unfortunately, i cared too much.
Caylee S im sorry
Caylee S i have a question if you don’t mind. How long did you wait to check (asking out or otherwise) that they didn’t like you. I have a theory going and I love it if you helped me out. Just FYI my theory is that we wait to long and create this perfect image in our heads of the person and then when we finally talk to them we realize they’re still just human. But if you don’t want to reply I understand it’s very personal and hard to talk about.
King Le our, relationship, i guess, was a long process, it lasted for almost a year before i realized it was toxic and i cut him off.
Caylee S you made a good choice btw happy new years
Caylee S so you were in a relationship? That must have been tough. I understand and if you felt it was toxic than you made the right decision at least I think so for what it’s worth.
"I want you to promise me something. If you love someone, you tell em. Even if you're scared it's not the right thing, even if you're scared it'll cause problems, you say it. You say it loud." - Mark Sloan 🥺 Best advice I've ever received from a T.V. show.
I'm agree whit You
hady ram but what if you’ll loose them
Y would I if he dont?
Emma Dee I did it. I told her right now.
@@amyqaqa I'm so happy for you 🥺
If you love someone and they don’t
but need you
don’t stop.
If they don’t love
and don’t need you.
Let them go in another kind of love.
she made me unable to love anything. she was my best friend and she broke me down to the point where i no longer feel human. i feel empty and destroyed. it’s so hard but i know that cutting her out was the best decision.
Happened to me aswell he was my bestfriend and it hurts
I was with someone in a relationship. They broke up with me because of a misunderstanding... They didn't believe my side of the story when I was honest. Then he asked me back and I couldn't say no. Then I had to break up with him, I knew I should have a long time ago but I never could until I did. I am strong, I was strong but it was hard and it hurt. I'm good now and it still hurts sometimes but I started to feel less hurt lately & I am always happy about letting them go even if it hurts so much 💪❤️
I'm going through the same
I had a best friend, or I thought I did, over the years he became distant when he would come over his sister would sleep in my bed, I told her I didnt mind but after a would I did, we stopped playing with each other he was too busy talking to his friends from school, and before I even knew it we became complete strangers, and I loved him, but I guess that we were never meant to be, and its hurts everytime I see him now, to the point that I can feel my heart ache.
lexhxiii right there w you broski
REMEBER you’re not ugly, you’re just not their type.
But we all know the old "Not their type" is basically im not gonna date u cuz i think ur a little ugly
I mean i wouldnt say ur not my type to kate upton(if she hits on me) lol
But I wanna be his type :(
H N, Yes but thats what im saying THEY may think Ur ugly cus Ur not there type. But someone else will think Ur pretty cus you’re their type ;)
Karissa Normann, Same sis ;(
ZZZ RRR “you’re not ugly, you’re just not you’re type” helps me more personally
A little advice: LOVE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE LOVING SOMEONE ELSE.
Sincerely,
The girl who's doing the same (Me)
My problem is I need someone to show I’m worth it. Worth being cared abt. Worth loving.
it's hard when the person you love is the reason you love yourself and without them you just can't
You dont have to love yourself before you love others🥺👉🏼👈🏼 why dont we just multitask
Loving yourself doesn’t always comes first.
If you can’t love yourself, how the HELL are you gonna love someone else? - RuPaul Charles
“How do you know if you love someone?”
“If you care more about their well-being than you do your own, that is love.”
❤️
I never care for my well being 🤣
That's more of loving the whole world. If just love everything, it means nothing.
“if you admire someone, go ahead and tell them. People don’t get flowers while they can still smell them.”
-Kanye West
yall heres the explanatian for those who dont understand:
If you love or admire somebody tell them, because sometimes people only get praised and loved after death, hence the "People don't get flowers while they can still smell them"
thank you for your time
Let's Play ....whot?
Maddy ortiz I don’t get it
Let's Play tf bro...he’s alive...😐
Let's Play chill
Daniel Marston yeah me neither let’s just pretend like it’s so deep or whateva
i love how all of us r coming together to help the people who tried and they got hurt
Jackson Dearmore LOVE your SELF❤️👉🏽 ua-cam.com/video/UXA6qUvVZIk/v-deo.html
It's just a shame that we can't hook each other up with each other. 😉
when ur the 200th like
Hey.
Kellyveg1980 no one ever said we couldn’t
“ and when u love someone, you just, you don’t stop. Ever.”
yez i feel it ..
to my decades crush;-;
who's quote is this?
@@fadhiilnaufals Ted Mosby from HIMYM
Taiga. I just saw Taiga. I love Taiga.
man, i felt this the day i saw the episode;(
That’s what you search not give... Then you will find the onw.
Coming back to this 3 years later. I've experienced many forms of love and have learned that I have mistaken and confused a blur of emotions into the form of love. But if I've learned anything, it's that love isn't some checklist you cross off to know you're in it, it isn't something you look for and get, it's random, it catastrophic, it's beautiful, and it's tormenting. It's one of the most beautiful and terrifying feelings I think anyone can experience. It comes into our lives in what feels instantaneous, yet when love fails, it doesn't stop or cease. Love lives long, it continues to live and maybe it can change forms, but I know that it doesn't just disappear, at least not the true kind of love. I am still learning about love and growing from it, wondering how I could ever fall deeper than I had with him, but I'm hopeful. Hopeful of the stars aligning for us again, hopeful of his love being as true as mine still, but most importantly I'm hopeful of us both finding the love we need, even if it's not with each other.
to the person who’s reading this, I hope you find the love that you deserve. Don’t be sad there’s millions of reason to be happy.
You tooooo~
thank you for your words :')
its make me better,thank you btw
y’all are wonderful, have a good day everyone.
is there rlly reasons to be happy. I haven’t felt happy for a while. I can’t find things that make me happy. Not even one. Tell me what’s wrong, I need help. I hate feeling like pain in my heart everyday
Like they say “You met the right person but just at the wrong time..”
Yes your the love was fake but the pain is real💔
maybe one day?
@@polinesoriao4831 😔😔
Nope, not with Love.
@@Yomama.47 so with friends???
Sometimes love isn’t the kind you share with a significant other, sometimes it’s those days you hang out with your parents. Sometimes it’s the child you raised, sometimes it’s just watching your siblings grow up. Sometimes you can find love in a friend, someone who you can love platonically, knowing that the only future you see with them is cheering them on. And talking.
Sometimes love, is finally accepting yourself.
Love comes in all forms, so don’t forget that.
What a comment 🙏❤
You are beautiful soul
@@dorad5885 i have never seen a nicer compliment. Speechless
Most people expecially younger people think that love only comes from there significant other, think about the other people in your life appreciate them first, love them first, show them you care show them you know they love you and you love them twice as much
needed this🙂
This is beautiful. It's sad what modern society makes the word "love" mean. It's undermined. What a beautiful word and what a beautiful projection. Just wait and good things will come. Just rush and you'll end up the fool.
Okay I’m sad right now :(
Honestly, same 😔
I can relate
Same
😔😔
Aah!! Same
hey stranger whom I'll probably never cross paths with again,
it's all going to be okay
someday, somehow, everything will work out
you'll sit all snuggled up with the person who you love and loves you
watching sunsets together just talking and laughing
it will always get better I promise
i love you okay never give up on hope 🥺 virtual hugs
edit: omg I didnt expect this I wish you all the best in your life journeys! if you're feeling for a stranger to listen to you for awhile I'll be here
I love you too *virtual hugs back*
VIRTUAL HUGS :p
Oh my god I love you so much sending love and one billion virtual hugs from Chicago 🤗🥰🥰 add me on snap if u want @bhillgoth
To that little old man I crossed paths with in the Orlando airport...I think about you everyday. Your trembling hand and wide, fearful eyes filled with tears as we made our way together to our gates. I felt our souls connect in our short moment together. I lost my father and you lost your wife. I thank God everyday for that sweet moment. I hope things got better for you. I told my husband about you and discovered that our paths were united in past relationships of our families...thousands of miles and lifetimes apart. I will always think of you and wish for the best for you. I love you.
I love you.
youtube really recommending this to me 5 minutes after i just got rejected, thanks now im crying and confused
edit: woah this comment blew up a lil lol 😳🥺 but thanks for the support sisters
;( sending you a big virtual hug stranger, i hope everything is better than before. if not, it’s okay. it’s okay not to be okay. just give it time, and have strength and hope that they’ll come sooner than later.
oh god you really need a hug im sending u one too
lizzy hope you’re okay,, sending hugs too. everything happens for a reason 💘
You:*confused crying*
I'm so sorry I know how it feels :(((
i am so glad that the ted’s monologue is the first one out here. it’s so beautiful.
My mouth says "I'm fine."
My fingers type "I'm okay"
My heart says "I'm broken." And people don't understand why. I don't understand why myself. I feel lost in my emotions. And I'm alone.
sounds familiar to me...
same bro...
it’s okay, everything is gonna be okay. love yourself. you are beautiful! you can do whatever you want so do it. we have only one life so why do we spend it like that? i know it’s hard but you are strong that’s why you need to keep going forward even if you think that you can’t. you can do e v e r y t h i n g
You’re not alone
Fr
"The Worst Day Of Loving Someone
Is When You, Lose Them"
Chills
that hurt my heart beat
The vampire diaries😭❤️
Just every time it gets worse 💔
Don't cry because it end, but smile because it happened
You know what gets me? You look at a grave stone or memorial of some kind and you see two dates. And between those two dates is a line. Someone's entire life - their first memories, they first love, their first child etc... is in that line. Anything good and anything bad that they did is in that line. Years of memories all held together as one tiny little dash. And you know what. That's YOUR line. No one else's. YOU are responsible for YOUR line. YOU have the power or deciding whether you will stay miserable all your life or if you actually stand up and do something about it. YOU are responsible for your own happiness.
So really all I have to say is:
"Have a good line and make it the best one."
amen.
thank you.
okay that made me cry. But thanks
This is so deep! Forced me to pause for a moment to reflect. ty :)
Thats crazy but beautiful and sad all in one !
I ran across your video on auto play and I have to say that it made me feel a strong emotion. I- I really wanted to tell a friend of mine that I really liked her but I couldn’t do it, and this video sorta gave me comfort with all the comments of people saying they’ve dealt with the same. So I have to say that this was really beautiful.
"I'm in love with her, okay?
If you're looking for the word that means caring about someone beyond all rationality and wanting them to have everything they want no matter how much it destroys you, it's love.
And when you love someone, you just, you don't stop. Ever.
Even when people roll their eyes or call you crazy. Even then. Especially then!
You just-- you don't give up because if I could give up...
If I could just, you know, take the whole world's advice and move on find someone else,
That wouldn't be love! That would be.. that would be some other disposable thing,
That is not worth fighting for."
Ted mosby my hero
"you're lucky if you fall in love at the same time."
@@rile8001 i’m happy for you
@@eunoia991 Thank you
Then I guess I was little to early.
@@rile8001 I'm happy for you
@@debasheesh well thanks.
Everyone here is talking about how they had a tragic break up and how much it hurts but I think knowing you disappoint someone you love hurts more
It does. It hurts so bad.
I things that one of the most hurtful things is that you know you disappointed someone and you try your best to make up but you only do worse and they remark it
Yeah I get that, I left her and let her down
I believe love is some connection that you feel for them with or without them. When thier energy match your vibe even if they are silent. When you can't stop ever. When you feel you don't need anyone ever more than that person. When you ready to go out of your comfort and that doesn't make you feel strange because you loving it because she's loving it, you make fool of yourself for her smile her happiness. That's soulmate.
"It's harder to love somebody than to walk away from him"
- Amelia Sheperd -
The dislikes are the people who cried so they mis clicked
I did and she broke up. True story. She was just 'in love' with me and apparently for this actually pretty intelligent girl that was different to 'love'. Be careful and not to quick with this
@@nelsontheodoreblack7573 Im sorry for you. Stay strong alright
@@lovemax58 Thanks. I just wish it was because of some real fault I made. Instead it seems that as I just presented myself as 'the safe one' ("I love you") she lost interest. Does not matter anymore. Loving someone means also to set them free and let them go, which I never thought to be that hard. But: who knows what's for the best in the long run? There have been far worse breakups we all surly know about from others. And though better times may be far ahead they'll come eventually
@@nelsontheodoreblack7573 You will get there i'm sure of it. You will find someone and if you don't then eighter way i hope you have an amazing life and experience amazing things.
Nelson Theodore Black stay strong i know you are strong I feel u so much I know damn well how you feel keep doing you ❤️💯
"if we cease to believe in love,
why would we want to live..."
Sai Tadikonda 😭
Katherine Pearce🥺 FROM TVD
When you love someone, you stay when they stuggle and you stay when they prosper. Some love and its not returned, other never get to love, and some get that love for a short time, then get it taken away. Life is a cruel mistress but she is also beautiful and amazing, showing us love like never before while also taking it all away just as fast if not faster.
When tears don't wanna fall even if u try .....
Oh god this shit wont come out, oh god i shouldnt have accepted that hotdog from that foodtruck, oh man i think i have food poisoning
Because you feel numb :(
@@Natalia-daria I wish i felt numb with how painfull that monster i shit out was
@@donttouchmycrowbar3452 👁👄👁
ME ME RN ME!!!
i’m in love with him, but he’s not in love with me.
Relatable.
Im here for you
Did you tell him clearly?
Ouch I felt this one💔
I feel ur pain
Everyone that sees this, I hope one day you’ll be what you want to be with the person you think of when listening to this
Thats most likely not possible
But i don't think of anyone. I'm just so confused rn. I have or had a crush on this guy for over a year now, but i think i kind of just gave up, but it's really weird, cuz I DON'T KNOW, if I still feel about him this way or not. I'm so confused with my feelings right now😔✌
@@julija7796 does he seem to like u back of not I'd advice u to stop crushing on him I taught myself to stop crushing on people just to keep myself okay
I'm thinking of him even though he broke my heart.. i don't think there is a chance for us to be together anymore😭
I did end up with that person...
Damn, this reformed me a lot, after breaking my friendship with my best friend i almost commited suicide, and by some type of motivation and just a bit of love by all the good things in my life... I've seen this video after a destroying my heart and carrying a 8 year depression and how i am and feel nowadays...
I've returned to this video after meditating and remembering how much it helped me to know one of the reasons to tell that person that I loved her and all the pain that her rejection and distance from her entailed, but today I am proud of how all that pain could be transformed into discipline, perseverance and authentic love towards myself and my close ones; I even consider myself a person who sows good and helps others whenever possible, I practice martial arts and do streetworkout, really thank you for everything, God bless you
It hurts asf when u love someone and u can't tell them that cuz u know that u aren't meant to be together
That’s happening to me I don’t know what to do no more
@@MarioAlvarez-cp8ox wanna vent?
There is no such thing as “not to be meant to be together”
@@toniazzoD how so?
Sometimes religion and race are too large of a Barrier
Title: “If you love someone, tell them”
Me: *telling my cat i love her..* 🥺
Diana made my day
I used to have a Cat and I told the Cat I love him.
And he just slapped me walked away like: Bich you thought! 👁️👄👁️
@@Cupidteez8 Well, every cat shows their love in their own way. I have 2 cats, Lizzie and Capucino (Thats her nickname: Capucino).
Lizzie shows her love toward my mom and i by sleeping near us, and if you try to grab her, she out of the house in 2 seconds. Meanwhile Capucino, is totally different. She likes to sleep with us, kisses us, (yes, cats kiss you by licking your face, or they just want to bathe you.) bites ur feet, and the list goes on.
I always think Lizzie is more of a tsundere. 😂
Maybe your cat did really love you, but showed it in a different way.
Anyways! Sorry you had to read about my ramble.
Have a nice day/night. 😊❤
Me crying on the phone with my friends
Bet she loves you too and she's lucky to have you ❤
when you love someone you just have to love them it's not their responsibility to love you back, and I think thats the saddest part of falling in love
I don’t know how, but UA-cam has shown me the most relatable thing I could think of right now. I feel like I’m becoming the worst version of myself. It’s been over two years, and we’re just friends-or maybe not even that. I don’t think my presence or absence makes any difference to her. I love her so much; she’s my first love, and I can’t even remember what life was like before she came into it. I think about her every day, every moment, every second.
I want to confess my feelings to her, but I can’t. She’s the most beautiful girl in our school, and I’m not even an average-looking guy. That’s the only reason for my low confidence.
I’m only 16 and I’m crying to this cause this hits deep. I can relate to this. I love her so much but I don’t know how to tell her. I would do anything for her. Forget physical attraction, this is emotional lust. She is the light to my depression.
tell her🥺
if she's that special for you, don't loose her. i hope you're gonna be happy with her. i know how hard is it to tell someone that important, that you're falling for them. talk with her. you never know how she feel about you, unless you'll ask.
RhettMann i’m 12 people call me crazy
tell her
I understand. My problem is I waited too long and now he's gone. So please I know I'm late, but take the risk. Just because you're 16 doesnt mean anything. Go for it . Before you miss your chance.
I’m not going to call you crazy I’m twelve and I’ve already overdosed gone through heart break and depression I understand
I love him alot. But I let him go and now I can't stop loving him.
Me too :|
And 1 more problem if she/he is in relationship :/
if you let him go you don't love him. Heared the first part? If you love someone you fucking fight for them!!
@@Lukas46093 very true
Samee
i love you. i love you and it hurts because you don’t love me. but that’s okay. i wouldn’t fall for me either.
edit : i got over him for the best. i hope you guys do too. i found someone that always treats me the way i’ve always wanted to. they are days i still hate myself more than anything. but thank you for everyone that commented such amazing things. i hope you guys realize you’re in love with someone that isn’t real. a version of them that doesn’t even exist. i hope you take this the heart because i used to read these typos of comments & never take it to my heart . but even if this at least makes one person happy, that is okay. i promise things get better. please hold on. i love you more than you could ever know. & i don’t need to know you to love you. because you are a human. & that enough wants me to just take away all the pain living in ur soul.
Why wouldn't you? You are beautiful just the way you are and you deserve the world. Never think of yourself less. We all deserve to be loved in the most pure way and no one can tell you otherwise.
I. Stipancevic you made my day. like 100%. you are so amazing, just thank you. thank you so much. you deserve the world & only happiness. i promise you. there is so many days were i feel so empty. but honesty, this comment just makes me feel true happiness. thank you. you deserve everything good :,).
@@unk-m2o I am so happy that I made you smile. I wish you all the best and never think of you less.
I. Stipancevic PERIODTTT 😔💖👏🏽👏🏽💞💘💝💕💝
i felt that
A year without you, is making me fall apart slowly. Realizing what I done..
Breathe darling. This is just a chapter. It’s not your whole story🖤.
🥺
😭🥺
It is i have 2 more years to live ( im 18 rn ) and i love her since im 12 wer been best friends for all the time now she told she feels the same but its been to long
❤️
@@christopherstoeckmann8406 you may not want to talk about it, which is fine, but why do you have 2 years? Once again, perfectly OK if you decline, just curious.
me: mom why does god always take the good people
mom: what type of flowers do you pick from the garden?
me: the most beautiful one
but does the most beautiful flower smell as good as the one that's wilting away?
copied yet emotional.
😢😢😢
that hit hard
My Brother: Why does God always take the good people first ?
Me: What type of Flowers do you pick from the garden first ?
My Brother: The Ugly ones
Me: Exact- Wait what ?!
My Brother: Ugly flowers don't belong in my garden Brother
facts about love;
> when two people are in love, their heart beats synchronize to match one another.
> a happy heart is a healthy heart, being in love is proven to make you live longer
> love is addictive. the human brain reacts to love almost the same way towards cocaine.
these are directed more towards
long distance couples
> long distance relationships are more effective in building trust and communication between the couple.
> around 23% of long distance couples end up marrying their partners.
Jordan Richards facts on loving your self completely 👉🏽 ua-cam.com/video/UXA6qUvVZIk/v-deo.html
You don't have to be in love with a person to love and to be loved. There is universe. We are all universe. Once you realize that you will experience something so profound that you probably won't need a man/woman to feel loved ever again. Piece
i’m gonna marry him.
So that means I'll marry my partner.
I needed that, about long distance relationship
Here we all are. Here we are together watching this same video. Only difference is that we are all thinking about a different person while doing so.
CRUSH: “Hey can I tell you something?”
“Sure.”
CRUSH: “I kinda like this person...”
“Omg who?”
CRUSH: “I really like Jessica can you help me get with her?”
“Oh... Yea, sure!”
I know y’all can relate to this don’t lie
Kind of, you tell me if I should relate :
During a night where we drank quite a bit, my crush asked me what I thought about someone (she seemed to be kind of into it). Up to here, it's quite similar but what's next still confuses me.
I told her what I knew of him, which in this case was that he wasn't really reliable, which was the truth. She literally hugged me 15 seconds straight while telling me "you are better anyways". Couldn't last longer as we were in a rush going back to the hotel. (was a study trip so we had to get back and our teacher didn't want us to stay as long as my crush's teacher let them)
To this day, I still don't understand why she told me that that way... (Things went on and I now know it's not reciprocal).
Bruh I just tell them, dude dafuq! Am I your pimp or what ffs LMAO .... used to help others but years of being run over morphed into a ruthless ass that I am now.... smfh
Me names jessica-
Baby W0rmŚ lmaoo
Omg Jessica your so crazy stoooop like omg
“True love is not real unless it is returned”
“Do you agree?”
“I do not believe in love”
“If we cease to believe in love, why would we want to live?”
-Vampire Diaries : S2 EP19
Bronwyn M Experience my new episode 🌷 ua-cam.com/video/xCcEn_lFg1E/v-deo.html
I love that show! I remember that❤
I didn’t REMEBER the show or the line but I REMEBER the voice and I was like OMG ITS VAMPIRE DIARIES
Katherine had the most fire lines
I started reading the comments to read if somebody actually commented this!!❤😂
"If you love someone tell them"
You should, even if they say that they don't feel the same way atleast you have closure and you understand your position in that person's life. Having to love someone and have them love you back is a feeling that can't be replicated by any other pleasure in life. So why waste your time loving someone who doesn't even care about you. Or about how you feel. Loving the people who frown when you text or call them. Or try and avoid being alone with you.
Stop wasting your time loving the ones who don't deserve it.
That quotes from Mark on Greys Anatomy 😔 *SPOILER* he was on his deathbed. SAD
I loved this audio for so long and in march of this year 2023 I got my first tattoo “these are what we stay alive for” in my mom’s hand writing. Robin Williams will always be one of if not my favorite actors and people to ever live. today I listened to this after probably almost a year and cried a little through it but almost bawled when I heard his voice it will always hit so deep for me and this will always be one of my favorite videos to show people