#TiegeHanley #BoldFortune Jeremy I love watching your videos and always have great advice and just love to sit back and enjoy what your advice on whiskey and Cigars while smoking and enjoying a good cigar myself Happy Holidays and gonna have to try this beard oil scent as well cheers my friend!!
Yeah, work harder, folk. That's all that corporations need from you. In order to get even more loans for a useless blsht stuff you MUST work waaay harder. Like a slave. Be a slave so that you could think of yourself that you are a real alpha male. Stupid.
Thanks for this, Jeremy. I'm 62, and yes, I look back on being in my 40s and reflect on what an idiot I was sometimes. The main things a guy in his 60s has figured out: Every person we meet knows something we need to learn, what we think matters way more to us than to anyone else, and we've lived longer than we have left, so we can't afford to spend time doing useless stuff like worrying about what other people think.
Gramps, if you think you were an idiot in your 40s, as you put it, then you'd better not look towards your 20s. I'm barely 30s and I wish to wipe my 20s from my memory.
@@Hynotama Gramps?? I am in effect a grandfather, but have I somehow earned that often derogatory title? I think not. I see that in your 30s you haven't yet learned to respect your elders.
@@rangersmith4652 When did "gramps" become derogatory? And I'm no expert, but it seemed rather rude if called you "bro", as kids do these days. That was my attempt at acknowledging the age difference and showing a modicum of respect. Then again, I'm not american, nor am I a native english speaker, so maybe those ways of addressing someone come across differently to me, because of the cultural and linguistic differences. You'd think a 62 year old man would have learned not to make assumptions about strangers. And don't ask for respect just because you existed 6 decades. It's not nearly as impressive as people think. Respect is earned, not demanded. Maybe elders should remember that.
@@Hynotama Thank you for your reply and explanation. One might call his own grandfather "gramps" or some variation thereof, but it is otherwise a term one uses to imply that the person being addressed has seen better days and due to age has lost his relevance or ability to make a difference. If one is uncertain how a term might be interpreted, one could simply not use it. That's part of what we older folks have learned, or ought to have learned anyway. To summarize, your reply need not have included the word at all, and had it not, I would have taken it as 100% positive.
Realizing that I’m a man and that I’m responsible for keeping my family feeling safe, secure, and able to lean on me was the greatest thing I’ve ever been told when I was in a deep, deep slump that I almost didn’t make it out of. I could’ve lost everything but it wouldn’t been at my own hand. I wasn’t allowing that to happen anymore. Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Keep that chin up, kings. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Perfectly timed. I'm getting out of a nearly 25 year marriage to a narcissistic woman and this video hits on multiple layers while navigating this process and rediscovering who I am. Thanks you!
Amen brotha. Hard work and persistence is a big thing that people miss. I'm in my 50's and pretty happy with where I'm at but with that said there's always room for improvement. I still remember growing up my Dad asked me one day when I was job hunting "Did you get the job?" (He was a baby boomer) When I replied no he asked me how much effort I had put in to it. We had a long talk and the thing he said to me stuck even to this day. "If you want the job then don't call. Get off your a$$ and go down there. Show up. Show them that you want the job and you're willing to work for it. They'll either give you a job or they'll get a restraining order." When I was in my 20's I had worked fast food, factories, roofing, etc. but I wanted to get in to computers. For six months I would drive or make contact with the company I wanted to work for. I still remember the day I was hired. My A/C was out in my car and it was 100+ in the Texas sun. I showed up though covered in sweat and upon talking to the manager he learned that I only drove an hour just to see if they were hiring and then turning around to head another hour back home. He went and got the owner of the company and apparently expressed what I was doing. I was hired on the spot and after 8 years with that company I've been in computers ever since. The gist is if you put in the work then people notice. It doesn't always get you what you're shooting for but at least you make a positive impression.
The last one is important. I grew up in a religious family and was always taught to be obedient and to disregard my own needs/feelings in favour of getting along with others. Also my father was a bit overbearing and volatile so i learned to walk on eggshells to avoid trouble. These qualities are dangerous around the wrong people and if you're this kind of person you may attract people who will take advantage of your good nature. I've had a friend who I eventually figured out was a narcissist, he was controlling and abusive and he knew how to get away with it. Normally if you dislike how someone treats you, you just distance yourself and eventually they are not part of your life. Narcissists refuse to leave, they won't let you go but they won't treat you right and you can become trapped in this situation...until you accept that YOU HAVE TO BE THE BAD GUY. Now, its obviously them that's destroyed the relationship but you have to take the blame.
Yup, 100% agree on all of this. It took a long time for me to understand that people will dislike me no matter what and that I should just live how I want to live my life. Have been happier ever since I adopted that mindset.
I needed this. I lost my father a few years ago and I miss getting these bits of truth from him. He was a veteran and one of the best people that I ever knew. Your "be nice until you're not" comment hits home that was one of his lessons as well. We called him "Mr. Perfect" not because he was "perfect" per se, but he worked hard and never complained. He got the job done and never whined about it. That is what I truly miss about him. At any rate, I find your videos and wisdom are down to earth and people need to hear this worldwide. Thank and have a merry Christmas. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
I lost my father a few years ago too... just as the world seemed to start going mental and its been hard to make sense of it without him. It's hard to lose your father but I think there is some comfort in the fact that they live on in a very real way through us... I take greater pride and care in what I do now.
@@supertrooper6011 I lost my dad in 2016 to lung cancer, 2 months before the election. He wasn't always nice, But he had integrity and always lived by what he thought was right, even when It didn't make sense to me. I'm still learning from him even now, videos like this remind me of his wisdom.
Thank you for putting this video out. I have 2 boys aged 14 and 10 and I raise them to understand these truths every day. This video reminded me of a quote that I think was Mike Tyson, "Too many people got comfortable talking shit behind a keyboard and not getting punched in the face for it." Hey, Merry Christmas, Happy New Year and a wonderful holiday season to you and your family. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
actually, if folks want to use their own facts, or make stuff up, they are completely free and entitled to do so…there always will be ramifications for this, however they can do or say whatever they want
Awesome video, Jeremy. My Dad shared similar things with me growing up. One I always try to abide by is “The less you worry about what people think of you, the happier you’ll be”. Keep the bangers comin. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Here is a quick lesson my dad taught me. I came home bitching and moaning one day about work and how I did not think it was fair that folks working in one department were getting bonuses and I and my department were not. Here is what he said to me. “Steve, if you want that bonus go get that job”. Lesson learned. This is how he was, no lectures, just straight and to the point. Of course, this was just one of many things he taught me.
I have some in-laws that live off gossip and negativity and it drains the life out of me. All of their relationships with parents, kids, and siblings, friends are toxic and it’s sad. I’ve been distancing myself from them and I feel so much lighter less angry and strive to not judge others for being different. judging others and talking bad about EVERYONE is toxic and I am committed to fight that temptation the rest of my life
Your sentiments are good, but you have to realize that morality still matters. You can’t be so “non-judgmental” to the point that you’re giving evil pieces of shit a free pass.
These truths are for everyone, men and women both. These are the same things my dad instilled in me and I am a woman. He also taught all of his daughters to be independent and not 'need' a man to survive. My mother never had an 'allowance' like most of the women on our block. She was on the checking account, new what their budget was and made decisions about how to spend the household money. Big money decisions were made by them together. And she worked outside the home when we were all in school because she liked to work. Something not done often by their generation. I feel I was very lucky to be raised by such 'outside the norm' parents.
Life’s too short and don’t sweat the small shit!👍🏻 be patient, calm and be friendly and enjoy life !👍🏻 sometimes a smile from a stranger is the best daily gift !
I've spent my whole life being reserved and being nice to people. I kept my mouth shut and basically tolerated everything. Only recently have I started standing up and saying how I feel. I absolutely feel liberated. So now every time I'm eating my pineapple pizza and someone makes a complaint or says eww, I simply say don't eat it and stfu about it because you're not changing my mind about how good it tastes. Lol.
I grew up in a family full of feminist women who control their husbands. In turn they want me controlled by women. They are opinionated, and expect you to stay quiet. I tell them how misogynist I am and they shut up quick now.
I love this video. I know it posted about 5 month ago but I promise you it will still be relevant today, tomorrow and 10 years from now for all those who truly believe that anything worth having is worth butting in the work.
I don't know how I just came across you're channel but glad I did. It's so nice to hear people speak the truth about how life should and could be if people quit worrying about what someone says or what they can get for free. As another northeast Florida guy keep up the good work and thanks for the great content
Life isn't fair. Been needing to hear that recently. Its easy to get stressed out because other people are "ahead" in life and it seems you are stuck in a rut. Thanks for the pearls! #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
Your video explains exactly how I’ve been feeling lately and it is also how I aim to raise my kids. It took me 36 years to realize this and looking back at 20 years old me, wow !! It’s amazing we make it past 20 when we think about it. Great video, very inspiring and I must say, nice beard !
Thanks Jeremy and Hello 👋🏽 I just came across your UA-cam channel and I wanted to see what you had to say about the title of your video. And I’m impressed 😎 I started growing my beard and having a shaved bald head at the start of the 2020 pandemic and the family couldn’t stand it. My wife, my kids, my In-Laws but I was committed to growing it because I have connected with several Men that are younger, same age group as me and older men like Rich Cooper and have bald/ shaved heads like me. I just turned 38 years old in October and I’m gearing up for my 40’s after 39 but definitely getting prepared sooner is key. I’m definitely going to order some Tiege Hanley products from your online store. I was always a fan of smoking cigars since I was 18 but that was in my smoking weed blunt days. I just connected with a guy that is a small business owner that owns a cigar store in my area called “The Cigar Quarters” you should Google him and connect with him on Alignable. I’ll definitely checkout your other videos on your channel. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
Being 20 and raised without a father, lesson videos like this are always very much appreciated by me. Cos I gravitated towards videos like this at the age of 13 and they really taught me how to be the man of the house. I know how valuable hearing this info is and I'm thank you for sharing it so more disaffected young men can hear these lessons. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
For real man. Never had a father figure in my life either and I had to develop my masculinity over time. I appreciate strong men spreading positivity. It motivates me to be the best man I can be and pass that on to my children and other men missing a father.
That’s a really interesting perspective that hadn’t occurred to me. I’m glad there are videos like this to help guide you, and others in a similar situation 😊
Coming from a military background and having times of bad headspace I can always count on you Jeremy to upload a video that just makes people feel good and relatable. Thank you for being you and making amazing content brother. Happy holidays to you and the family!! #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Wise sage advice my brother. People these days get too caught up on hating each other and being “triggered” instead of being themselves and letting others be their own person. Hope you and yours have a great Christmas. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
One more thing I like to keep in mind more and more is “tomorrow is a new day.” Meaning today May have been an SOB and nothing went right or was a bad day. But tomorrow is not today and you got through the BS today so you can do it tomorrow also. Let that shit go and start tomorrow on a positive note. Good list definitely words to live by. Happy holidays to you and yours.
Well said! As I man about to become a dad in a few weeks I have been reflecting more on what it means to be a man and how I can be the best dad I can for my new little girl. These are some great reminders. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
I really enjoy these little "man to man" chat videos you do. They remind me of my favorite Lynard Skynard song, Simple man. It's the type of wisdom I try to pass on to my son. It's important to be reminded of these simple truths from time to time. Merry Christmas to you and yours, Jeremy. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Well said! As I approach my 30’s with a new daughter. I not only have to become the man that I want to be, I also have to show my daughter what a man should be and how she should be treated later on in her life. Merry Christmas from my family to yours! #boldfortune #teigehanley
Just stumbled on this vid. Me, just turned 50 two days ago, can confirm every single you make. Though the last point I came to approach a little different..just like I tell teen son, always be polite even if you might not like someone or a situation. See if you can leave but if you can't and you feel forced to be somewhat blunt, be blunt. Same goes for a fight (yeah, yeah, I lived through that time), if you can avoid it then stay polite and avoid however if you feel forced to then f ing fight. But always see if nobody sees you because you won't be treated that polite. Love the vid, will make shure to drop in more often, keep going! Greetings from Netherland
A saying that my old principal/ teacher had was "Life's tough, its tougher when your stupid." He was the kind of guy that told us how it was without the sugar coating that people today use. He would also critically challenge us on what we believed in whether it was something stupid or a serious subject. The way he thought about things always fascinated me to a degree so I would occasionally just talk with him about stuff, anything really just to learn how his thought process worked. I can honestly say he was one of my major role models in my early and late teen years that has made me who I am. leading to what I wanted to say, every one of these truths he taught me over the years. Ive gotta say I was pretty lucky in that aspect to learn them when I did and didn't have the growing pains of maturity like others do. I took it for granted then but as Ive grown I see it more and more the lessons he taught me. seeing you teach these things in the same no bs manner gives me hope that my future kids and grand kids will have the same role models we did. Thank you.
Liked. good vid, nothing offensive. In my 40s also and would add a few; 1. Manage expectations, if someone disappoints you, its not them but you, that expected a different outcome. 2. The only respect you owe others is "live and let live", understand trust is earned and giving it away prematurely, is you being nice only, and not something you should default to. 3. Love, hate or anger are on opposite spectrum's and show a level of involvement, by default its better to be indifferent to anyone until they prove some reason to act otherwise. Just my 2yen, back to my bottle of Chablis.
Hey Jeremy! I've really been enjoying the content, especially the "man talks", I think it's sad how our society has taken a steady decline over the past few years. Change starts one person at a time! I hope you enjoy the holidays with your loved ones and keep up the great work! #boldfortune #tiegehanley
I just discovered your channel been going through your videos. And I just got say I’m 26 years old and I agree with everything that you are saying. Now I had to grow up quicker than maybe some people so maybe mentally I am more mature than some people my age
Rediscovered your videos after a long time of them falling off of my radar. As a man in his late 30's, it wasn't until I was in my 30's that everything you said became relevant and hard wired. My life isn't perfect nor is anyone else's, so I put in the work and get what I need and occasionally the things I've wanted for years. Keep up the good work and my the gods smile upon you. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Merry Christmas everyone! Jeremy you have become a big inspiration to me when watching your videos. The UA-cam lifestyle and the extreme man shit you talk about hits hard with me. Thank you for being such an inspiration to me man. Happy holidays!
I thank god my parents raised me proper and that my old man (rest in peace pop) instilled these things in me at a young age. Gentlemen be a parent you are not their friend. They may hate you for being a hard ass now but down the road in a few yrs they will understand and thank yuou for it. Thanks for the reminder Jeremy. My Dad isnt here anymore and sometimes you need a reminder. Or a swift kick in the ass as my Dad use to say. I miss him more everyday.
I'm brand new on here; this is the first video I've seen of yours. I didn't hear anything negative. Every word you said is the unadulterated, honest truth. I'm going to play this for my son. He needs it. This video should be part of the growing up experience of every male in the country.
I hope everyone watches this video with open ears and eyes shut so they absorb the 5 harsh truths.... Growing up in the 80s was a privilege to this new "I'm offended" era. Thank you Jeremy and Mrs. Siers for doing what you do and hope you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. By the way, I love and cherish the Whiskey and Cigar Bibles! #boldfortune #teigehanley
That second point that nobody owes you anything, I wish my former coworker could hear He was lava level mad that I had a week booked off the week he came back from paternity leave. I’d booked a cabin six months ahead, he kept extending his leave from 6 weeks to 8, then 12, then 16. He had an absolute hissy fit that I’d booked the week off his first week back. The level of entitlement was off the charts 😅
Been away from the channel for a while, came back today looking for some cigar advise. This was a great video, well said. My kids should watch this video. Thanks.
While I agree with the sentiment, it's always people who had well-off parents who gave them a bunch of money or a house (at least!) for nothing who go around preaching how you're not entitled to any help in life... I'd also like to add that the entire point of this thing we've evolved over the millennia called "society" is necessarily to help support each other in a civilised caring manner, looking out for one another as collective and furthermore constantly trying to improve that support and stability as a collective. Now, suddenly, we seem hell bent on going backwards and dismantling anything we've worked so hard at for so long to support others. Since the corporate world has become so bloated and greedy, with an increasing number of billionaires holding more than 1/3rd of the entire world's wealth and still going up, we're all being conditioned into following some ideology of self destruction, hatred of anyone who supports social collectivism and supporting one another and an endless rabid greed for personal status and wealth while poverty in our own countriees and around the world is increasing on an unprecedented scale and hardly being talked about in the news. The media (all of it owned and influenced by these billionaires btw...) seems far more desperate to constantly make you angry with your neighbours for being "woke" or "millennial" or "bleeding hearts" or "commies" or "nazis" etc etc. I find most people of all views and walks of life are generally great people, and the media cherry pick a few neurotics and/or play up certain situations or views to wind you up. So...considering YOU, sir, were given a lot of money and support by your fortunately well-to-do parents, it's pretty rich you preaching to everyone about entitlement and hard work while merely using this as a platform to pose in your expensive big house and to advertise dodgy products on yet another billionaire's social media cash cow - the very same social media platforms you deride for helping cause everyone to become so "entitled". It sure is a trendy fashionable aggressive point of view to preach for money on youtube, that makes you sound all manly and tough and successful. No doubt all your mindless hipster followers, mostly also sporting daft beards to desperately feel more "manly", will get offended by these facts being pointed out and start trying to defend such weird double standards, arrogance and corruption.
Preach, brother! We can only play the hand we’re dealt so quit whining about the next table over and start laying down those chips! #boldfortune #tiegehanley
My guy greetings from Bronx NY this was SPOT ON. These mental jewels are gold man and more people should listen to this video. Maybe create some merch with this written on something.Well done brother cheers!!!
Thanx for this Jeremy! It's nice to hear a corresponding and refreshing opinion from a guy that also enjoys a good drop and toke.... I'm 20 years older than you so..... expletive you for that!
Just came across your channel, and have to say, Dig it Brother! The Anger that is out there is sicking and dangerous. Whether it be political etc. It's sad. Keep up the good work my Brother 👍. Cheers 🍻
The mind is our most powerful tool, it is the source from which our reality is created. There are a few pumping out a false reality and the masses are eating it up. Guard what you let in your mind. Our world is a beautiful place 👍😁
I don't know how you got into my feed but I am so glad you did and I shared your video with several.people. your advice was spot on and yes... about every 20 years you WILL look back and think, oh my gosh..Was I stupid back then! #BoldFortune #TiegeHanley
There are sooooooo many problems out there, that could be solved with a little bit of listening to what you said. To convince people about that thinking is and will be on my list for life! The world will be a better place! how much better depends on how many you can convince!
Didn’t watch this till after the new year but a great talk and a lot of sense. I used to worry a lot about stuff that really didn’t matter. I’ve got to an age where I’ve learnt not to worry, I be myself go out dance not give a rats ass that I can’t dance I’m enjoying life. Probably going to get my son to watch this his 19 and going through those insecurities that a lot of us went though at that age but didn’t admit.
I always enjoy your videos. The only thing I don’t like is I realize how lacking my man cave game is when I see your setup. I actually started watching you for coffee products and stayed for the rest. Keep putting out the good content. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
Currently in a job I took because I needed it. But it is something where I’m forced to not be my natural introverted self. Essentially, gotta nut up or shut up. I think more people need to hear what you have to say. Damnit it’s true.
The gods told Socrates "you are the wisest of all men" Socrates says "the only difference between me and them is they think they know and I know that I know not" gods - "and THAT is why you are the wisest of men" The point is that he knew there were many things he did not know NOW, not looking back twenty years.
Landed on this channel for gaining knowledge on drinking whiskey, now I'm seeing a different side to this channel too. Especially the kind of guidance what guys in their late 20s like me, are looking for these days. Big thanks to you Jeremy and I look forward to more insightful videos like this on your channel ! ✌🏼 Cheers 🥃
When I was growing up it was frowned upon to talk about political views and we were taught to agree to disagree. It blows my mind that everyone shares their opinion about everything and hate you for having a different view.
Great video! Especially the "he is not me" which is something we should all remind ourselves of everyday. On a different note, do you mind sharing the brand name of the watch you are wearing? I like the color combination of the dial. It looks good.
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Jeremy I love watching your videos and always have great advice and just love to sit back and enjoy what your advice on whiskey and Cigars while smoking and enjoying a good cigar myself Happy Holidays and gonna have to try this beard oil scent as well cheers my friend!!
Great video with content that good for the mind!
BTW most people like Pineapple on Pizza. Do you hate all sweet and sour or only on Pizza? What about Apricot Chicken Pizza?
Yeah, work harder, folk. That's all that corporations need from you. In order to get even more loans for a useless blsht stuff you MUST work waaay harder. Like a slave. Be a slave so that you could think of yourself that you are a real alpha male. Stupid.
Thanks for this, Jeremy. I'm 62, and yes, I look back on being in my 40s and reflect on what an idiot I was sometimes. The main things a guy in his 60s has figured out: Every person we meet knows something we need to learn, what we think matters way more to us than to anyone else, and we've lived longer than we have left, so we can't afford to spend time doing useless stuff like worrying about what other people think.
I just turned 62, I could not have said it better and couldn’t agree more!!!
Gramps, if you think you were an idiot in your 40s, as you put it, then you'd better not look towards your 20s. I'm barely 30s and I wish to wipe my 20s from my memory.
@@Hynotama Gramps?? I am in effect a grandfather, but have I somehow earned that often derogatory title? I think not. I see that in your 30s you haven't yet learned to respect your elders.
@@rangersmith4652 When did "gramps" become derogatory? And I'm no expert, but it seemed rather rude if called you "bro", as kids do these days. That was my attempt at acknowledging the age difference and showing a modicum of respect. Then again, I'm not american, nor am I a native english speaker, so maybe those ways of addressing someone come across differently to me, because of the cultural and linguistic differences. You'd think a 62 year old man would have learned not to make assumptions about strangers. And don't ask for respect just because you existed 6 decades. It's not nearly as impressive as people think. Respect is earned, not demanded. Maybe elders should remember that.
@@Hynotama Thank you for your reply and explanation. One might call his own grandfather "gramps" or some variation thereof, but it is otherwise a term one uses to imply that the person being addressed has seen better days and due to age has lost his relevance or ability to make a difference. If one is uncertain how a term might be interpreted, one could simply not use it. That's part of what we older folks have learned, or ought to have learned anyway. To summarize, your reply need not have included the word at all, and had it not, I would have taken it as 100% positive.
Realizing that I’m a man and that I’m responsible for keeping my family feeling safe, secure, and able to lean on me was the greatest thing I’ve ever been told when I was in a deep, deep slump that I almost didn’t make it out of. I could’ve lost everything but it wouldn’t been at my own hand. I wasn’t allowing that to happen anymore. Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Keep that chin up, kings.
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Great video! My #6 would be “No one is coming to save you.” Be ready, be accountable; physically, financially, etc.
Perfectly timed. I'm getting out of a nearly 25 year marriage to a narcissistic woman and this video hits on multiple layers while navigating this process and rediscovering who I am. Thanks you!
We waste our lives pleasing women who have no desire to be happy. Just create new problems to keep us attached
I'm also in a similar situation. Same problem at a different geographical location. Women everywhere on this earth have lost touch with reality.
Amen brotha. Hard work and persistence is a big thing that people miss. I'm in my 50's and pretty happy with where I'm at but with that said there's always room for improvement. I still remember growing up my Dad asked me one day when I was job hunting "Did you get the job?" (He was a baby boomer) When I replied no he asked me how much effort I had put in to it. We had a long talk and the thing he said to me stuck even to this day. "If you want the job then don't call. Get off your a$$ and go down there. Show up. Show them that you want the job and you're willing to work for it. They'll either give you a job or they'll get a restraining order." When I was in my 20's I had worked fast food, factories, roofing, etc. but I wanted to get in to computers. For six months I would drive or make contact with the company I wanted to work for. I still remember the day I was hired. My A/C was out in my car and it was 100+ in the Texas sun. I showed up though covered in sweat and upon talking to the manager he learned that I only drove an hour just to see if they were hiring and then turning around to head another hour back home. He went and got the owner of the company and apparently expressed what I was doing. I was hired on the spot and after 8 years with that company I've been in computers ever since.
The gist is if you put in the work then people notice. It doesn't always get you what you're shooting for but at least you make a positive impression.
The last one is important. I grew up in a religious family and was always taught to be obedient and to disregard my own needs/feelings in favour of getting along with others. Also my father was a bit overbearing and volatile so i learned to walk on eggshells to avoid trouble. These qualities are dangerous around the wrong people and if you're this kind of person you may attract people who will take advantage of your good nature. I've had a friend who I eventually figured out was a narcissist, he was controlling and abusive and he knew how to get away with it. Normally if you dislike how someone treats you, you just distance yourself and eventually they are not part of your life. Narcissists refuse to leave, they won't let you go but they won't treat you right and you can become trapped in this situation...until you accept that YOU HAVE TO BE THE BAD GUY. Now, its obviously them that's destroyed the relationship but you have to take the blame.
Yup, 100% agree on all of this. It took a long time for me to understand that people will dislike me no matter what and that I should just live how I want to live my life. Have been happier ever since I adopted that mindset.
I needed this. I lost my father a few years ago and I miss getting these bits of truth from him. He was a veteran and one of the best people that I ever knew. Your "be nice until you're not" comment hits home that was one of his lessons as well. We called him "Mr. Perfect" not because he was "perfect" per se, but he worked hard and never complained. He got the job done and never whined about it. That is what I truly miss about him. At any rate, I find your videos and wisdom are down to earth and people need to hear this worldwide. Thank and have a merry Christmas. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
I lost my father a few years ago too... just as the world seemed to start going mental and its been hard to make sense of it without him. It's hard to lose your father but I think there is some comfort in the fact that they live on in a very real way through us... I take greater pride and care in what I do now.
@@supertrooper6011 I lost my dad in 2016 to lung cancer, 2 months before the election. He wasn't always nice, But he had integrity and always lived by what he thought was right, even when It didn't make sense to me. I'm still learning from him even now, videos like this remind me of his wisdom.
Thank you for putting this video out. I have 2 boys aged 14 and 10 and I raise them to understand these truths every day. This video reminded me of a quote that I think was Mike Tyson, "Too many people got comfortable talking shit behind a keyboard and not getting punched in the face for it." Hey, Merry Christmas, Happy New Year and a wonderful holiday season to you and your family. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Mike is the man! And he is dead on with that one. 😉👍🏻
"Everyone has a plan, until they get punched in the face" .
People are entitled to their own opinions, but not their own “facts”; especially, based on lies, false narratives, or the “straw man” argument.
@@jerrodlopes186 Strawman is a well known term. Maybe just read more.
actually, if folks want to use their own facts, or make stuff up, they are completely free and entitled to do so…there always will be ramifications for this, however they can do or say whatever they want
Some people think that their emotions are paramount. Feelings arent facts.
Tell that to the religious drones
False narratives like the bible, Koran, Talmud and Santa Claus
Awesome video, Jeremy. My Dad shared similar things with me growing up. One I always try to abide by is “The less you worry about what people think of you, the happier you’ll be”. Keep the bangers comin. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Here is a quick lesson my dad taught me.
I came home bitching and moaning one day about work and how I did not think it was fair that folks working in one department were getting bonuses and I and my department were not. Here is what he said to me. “Steve, if you want that bonus go get that job”. Lesson learned. This is how he was, no lectures, just straight and to the point. Of course, this was just one of many things he taught me.
Sounds a lot like my dad. We can all learn a lot from the older generations…different breed back then.
@@JeremySiers I believe you live in Kentucky, correct? if so what county? I am born and raised here and never left. I live in Boone County.
@@sharthun2009 I'm sure it's Florida......
I have some in-laws that live off gossip and negativity and it drains the life out of me. All of their relationships with parents, kids, and siblings, friends are toxic and it’s sad. I’ve been distancing myself from them and I feel so much lighter less angry and strive to not judge others for being different. judging others and talking bad about EVERYONE is toxic and I am committed to fight that temptation the rest of my life
Your sentiments are good, but you have to realize that morality still matters. You can’t be so “non-judgmental” to the point that you’re giving evil pieces of shit a free pass.
Unfortunately I know a few families like that. Sad Fuckers
These truths are for everyone, men and women both. These are the same things my dad instilled in me and I am a woman. He also taught all of his daughters to be independent and not 'need' a man to survive. My mother never had an 'allowance' like most of the women on our block. She was on the checking account, new what their budget was and made decisions about how to spend the household money. Big money decisions were made by them together. And she worked outside the home when we were all in school because she liked to work. Something not done often by their generation. I feel I was very lucky to be raised by such 'outside the norm' parents.
Life’s too short and don’t sweat the small shit!👍🏻 be patient, calm and be friendly and enjoy life !👍🏻 sometimes a smile from a stranger is the best daily gift !
I've spent my whole life being reserved and being nice to people. I kept my mouth shut and basically tolerated everything. Only recently have I started standing up and saying how I feel. I absolutely feel liberated. So now every time I'm eating my pineapple pizza and someone makes a complaint or says eww, I simply say don't eat it and stfu about it because you're not changing my mind about how good it tastes. Lol.
I grew up in a family full of feminist women who control their husbands. In turn they want me controlled by women.
They are opinionated, and expect you to stay quiet.
I tell them how misogynist I am and they shut up quick now.
@kol7117 you and me both brother
Pineapple its great in sweet pizzas.
I abhor your taste, but love your sentiment! Welcome to the club, you old son of a bitch you!
I love this video. I know it posted about 5 month ago but I promise you it will still be relevant today, tomorrow and 10 years from now for all those who truly believe that anything worth having is worth butting in the work.
I don't know how I just came across you're channel but glad I did. It's so nice to hear people speak the truth about how life should and could be if people quit worrying about what someone says or what they can get for free. As another northeast Florida guy keep up the good work and thanks for the great content
I’m not a man and I found this informative. Thank you for a good laugh as well, and the Beard is on point.
Life isn't fair. Been needing to hear that recently. Its easy to get stressed out because other people are "ahead" in life and it seems you are stuck in a rut. Thanks for the pearls!
#BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
Yep, I'm guilty of that.
Thanks brother. VERY well said. One of my favorite sayings: Hard work beats talent, when talent don’t work hard. Has served me well.
“Bubba, that ain’t how shit works” should be a shirt. There is a lot of people who are never taught that.
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My dad was spot on. Do what the parent/teacher/boss want done. Not what you think what is to be done. I learned this early on and that is SO RIGHT
Your video explains exactly how I’ve been feeling lately and it is also how I aim to raise my kids.
It took me 36 years to realize this and looking back at 20 years old me, wow !! It’s amazing we make it past 20 when we think about it.
Great video, very inspiring and I must say, nice beard !
Thanks Jeremy and Hello 👋🏽 I just came across your UA-cam channel and I wanted to see what you had to say about the title of your video. And I’m impressed 😎 I started growing my beard and having a shaved bald head at the start of the 2020 pandemic and the family couldn’t stand it. My wife, my kids, my In-Laws but I was committed to growing it because I have connected with several Men that are younger, same age group as me and older men like Rich Cooper and have bald/ shaved heads like me. I just turned 38 years old in October and I’m gearing up for my 40’s after 39 but definitely getting prepared sooner is key. I’m definitely going to order some Tiege Hanley products from your online store. I was always a fan of smoking cigars since I was 18 but that was in my smoking weed blunt days. I just connected with a guy that is a small business owner that owns a cigar store in my area called “The Cigar Quarters” you should Google him and connect with him on Alignable. I’ll definitely checkout your other videos on your channel. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
Being 20 and raised without a father, lesson videos like this are always very much appreciated by me. Cos I gravitated towards videos like this at the age of 13 and they really taught me how to be the man of the house. I know how valuable hearing this info is and I'm thank you for sharing it so more disaffected young men can hear these lessons. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
For real man. Never had a father figure in my life either and I had to develop my masculinity over time. I appreciate strong men spreading positivity. It motivates me to be the best man I can be and pass that on to my children and other men missing a father.
That’s a really interesting perspective that hadn’t occurred to me.
I’m glad there are videos like this to help guide you, and others in a similar situation 😊
Videos are cool if they’re right, but the best manual for life is the Holy Bible. Jesus Christ is the very example of manhood for all men.
I gravitate towards this at 26 dad was a POS lol we're all in this together brothers!!
@@chriskourliourod1651 Amen! He worked with his hands, prayed daily, forgave his enemies and loved everyone
Coming from a military background and having times of bad headspace I can always count on you Jeremy to upload a video that just makes people feel good and relatable. Thank you for being you and making amazing content brother. Happy holidays to you and the family!! #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Wise sage advice my brother. People these days get too caught up on hating each other and being “triggered” instead of being themselves and letting others be their own person. Hope you and yours have a great Christmas. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
One more thing I like to keep in mind more and more is “tomorrow is a new day.” Meaning today May have been an SOB and nothing went right or was a bad day. But tomorrow is not today and you got through the BS today so you can do it tomorrow also. Let that shit go and start tomorrow on a positive note. Good list definitely words to live by. Happy holidays to you and yours.
Well said! As I man about to become a dad in a few weeks I have been reflecting more on what it means to be a man and how I can be the best dad I can for my new little girl. These are some great reminders. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Truer words brother, keep on keepin on...
I really enjoy these little "man to man" chat videos you do. They remind me of my favorite Lynard Skynard song, Simple man. It's the type of wisdom I try to pass on to my son. It's important to be reminded of these simple truths from time to time. Merry Christmas to you and yours, Jeremy. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Needed to hear these today, thank you. Subbed.
Well said! As I approach my 30’s with a new daughter. I not only have to become the man that I want to be, I also have to show my daughter what a man should be and how she should be treated later on in her life. Merry Christmas from my family to yours! #boldfortune #teigehanley
Just stumbled on this vid. Me, just turned 50 two days ago, can confirm every single you make. Though the last point I came to approach a little different..just like I tell teen son, always be polite even if you might not like someone or a situation. See if you can leave but if you can't and you feel forced to be somewhat blunt, be blunt. Same goes for a fight (yeah, yeah, I lived through that time), if you can avoid it then stay polite and avoid however if you feel forced to then f ing fight. But always see if nobody sees you because you won't be treated that polite.
Love the vid, will make shure to drop in more often, keep going!
Greetings from Netherland
A saying that my old principal/ teacher had was "Life's tough, its tougher when your stupid." He was the kind of guy that told us how it was without the sugar coating that people today use. He would also critically challenge us on what we believed in whether it was something stupid or a serious subject. The way he thought about things always fascinated me to a degree so I would occasionally just talk with him about stuff, anything really just to learn how his thought process worked. I can honestly say he was one of my major role models in my early and late teen years that has made me who I am.
leading to what I wanted to say, every one of these truths he taught me over the years. Ive gotta say I was pretty lucky in that aspect to learn them when I did and didn't have the growing pains of maturity like others do. I took it for granted then but as Ive grown I see it more and more the lessons he taught me. seeing you teach these things in the same no bs manner gives me hope that my future kids and grand kids will have the same role models we did. Thank you.
Liked. good vid, nothing offensive. In my 40s also and would add a few; 1. Manage expectations, if someone disappoints you, its not them but you, that expected a different outcome. 2. The only respect you owe others is "live and let live", understand trust is earned and giving it away prematurely, is you being nice only, and not something you should default to. 3. Love, hate or anger are on opposite spectrum's and show a level of involvement, by default its better to be indifferent to anyone until they prove some reason to act otherwise.
Just my 2yen, back to my bottle of Chablis.
Hey Jeremy! I've really been enjoying the content, especially the "man talks", I think it's sad how our society has taken a steady decline over the past few years. Change starts one person at a time! I hope you enjoy the holidays with your loved ones and keep up the great work! #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Sometime we all need to pause and reset and get things back in line for the new year # bold fortune # tiegehanly
watching this as a 21 year old hoping for the best really trying to change some habits, all of this spoke to me so much.
I just discovered your channel been going through your videos. And I just got say I’m 26 years old and I agree with everything that you are saying. Now I had to grow up quicker than maybe some people so maybe mentally I am more mature than some people my age
Rediscovered your videos after a long time of them falling off of my radar. As a man in his late 30's, it wasn't until I was in my 30's that everything you said became relevant and hard wired. My life isn't perfect nor is anyone else's, so I put in the work and get what I need and occasionally the things I've wanted for years. Keep up the good work and my the gods smile upon you. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Si, great content as always!
Merry Christmas everyone! Jeremy you have become a big inspiration to me when watching your videos. The UA-cam lifestyle and the extreme man shit you talk about hits hard with me. Thank you for being such an inspiration to me man. Happy holidays!
I thank god my parents raised me proper and that my old man (rest in peace pop) instilled these things in me at a young age. Gentlemen be a parent you are not their friend. They may hate you for being a hard ass now but down the road in a few yrs they will understand and thank yuou for it. Thanks for the reminder Jeremy. My Dad isnt here anymore and sometimes you need a reminder. Or a swift kick in the ass as my Dad use to say. I miss him more everyday.
I'm brand new on here; this is the first video I've seen of yours. I didn't hear anything negative. Every word you said is the unadulterated, honest truth. I'm going to play this for my son. He needs it. This video should be part of the growing up experience of every male in the country.
I hope everyone watches this video with open ears and eyes shut so they absorb the 5 harsh truths.... Growing up in the 80s was a privilege to this new "I'm offended" era. Thank you Jeremy and Mrs. Siers for doing what you do and hope you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. By the way, I love and cherish the Whiskey and Cigar Bibles! #boldfortune #teigehanley
From one Kentucky Boy to Nother I’m proud of you! I appreciate your advice…. it’s much needed in today’s world! #BoldFortune #TiegeHanley
That second point that nobody owes you anything, I wish my former coworker could hear
He was lava level mad that I had a week booked off the week he came back from paternity leave.
I’d booked a cabin six months ahead, he kept extending his leave from 6 weeks to 8, then 12, then 16.
He had an absolute hissy fit that I’d booked the week off his first week back. The level of entitlement was off the charts 😅
Been away from the channel for a while, came back today looking for some cigar advise. This was a great video, well said. My kids should watch this video. Thanks.
Thank you very much for speaking truth! Merry Christmas!
Spoken like a true rogue scholar! I think it was on point and probably what we all need to hear especially lately. #boldfortune #tiegehanley
The sound quality on this channel is next level! So is the message.
While I agree with the sentiment, it's always people who had well-off parents who gave them a bunch of money or a house (at least!) for nothing who go around preaching how you're not entitled to any help in life... I'd also like to add that the entire point of this thing we've evolved over the millennia called "society" is necessarily to help support each other in a civilised caring manner, looking out for one another as collective and furthermore constantly trying to improve that support and stability as a collective. Now, suddenly, we seem hell bent on going backwards and dismantling anything we've worked so hard at for so long to support others. Since the corporate world has become so bloated and greedy, with an increasing number of billionaires holding more than 1/3rd of the entire world's wealth and still going up, we're all being conditioned into following some ideology of self destruction, hatred of anyone who supports social collectivism and supporting one another and an endless rabid greed for personal status and wealth while poverty in our own countriees and around the world is increasing on an unprecedented scale and hardly being talked about in the news. The media (all of it owned and influenced by these billionaires btw...) seems far more desperate to constantly make you angry with your neighbours for being "woke" or "millennial" or "bleeding hearts" or "commies" or "nazis" etc etc. I find most people of all views and walks of life are generally great people, and the media cherry pick a few neurotics and/or play up certain situations or views to wind you up.
So...considering YOU, sir, were given a lot of money and support by your fortunately well-to-do parents, it's pretty rich you preaching to everyone about entitlement and hard work while merely using this as a platform to pose in your expensive big house and to advertise dodgy products on yet another billionaire's social media cash cow - the very same social media platforms you deride for helping cause everyone to become so "entitled". It sure is a trendy fashionable aggressive point of view to preach for money on youtube, that makes you sound all manly and tough and successful. No doubt all your mindless hipster followers, mostly also sporting daft beards to desperately feel more "manly", will get offended by these facts being pointed out and start trying to defend such weird double standards, arrogance and corruption.
You had me at: "In today's world of trigger warnings and participation trophies..." :D Cool video. All the best in 2023 to you!
Beautiful human right here. Nothing but a treasure of gems. Thank you. And I appreciate you.
Preach, brother! We can only play the hand we’re dealt so quit whining about the next table over and start laying down those chips! #boldfortune #tiegehanley
This was a very refreshing video. A plain speaking man is a delight.
My guy greetings from Bronx NY this was SPOT ON. These mental jewels are gold man and more people should listen to this video. Maybe create some merch with this written on something.Well done brother cheers!!!
Solid points made! Wish I knew this sh!t ten years ago, but hindsight is always 20/20. Keep on keeping on! #tiegehanley #boldfortune
I just found this channel and I’m 19 at the moment and am loving the content!
Also your beard is fabulous👌🏻
Greetings from Sweden
Thanx for this Jeremy! It's nice to hear a corresponding and refreshing opinion from a guy that also enjoys a good drop and toke.... I'm 20 years older than you so..... expletive you for that!
Jeremy, you rock brother..... Keep on doing what youre doing, Look us up if you get back to Austin.
The truth hurts. Good advice. 👌🏽
Wise words, my friend. The beard speaketh the truth! Merry Christmas to you and the family! #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
You rock Jeremy, ‘be kind, be true’ take care, cheers
Just came across your channel, and have to say, Dig it Brother! The Anger that is out there is sicking and dangerous. Whether it be political etc. It's sad. Keep up the good work my Brother 👍. Cheers 🍻
Love it! Good to have a little sit down sometimes and speak the truth!
Be nice until it’s time to not be nice!!! Merry Christmas to you and your family #boldfortune #tiegehanley
Jeremy, this vid is going to age like a fine wine. Such great points and so many things to grasp hold of.
The mind is our most powerful tool, it is the source from which our reality is created. There are a few pumping out a false reality and the masses are eating it up. Guard what you let in your mind. Our world is a beautiful place 👍😁
I don't know how you got into my feed but I am so glad you did and I shared your video with several.people. your advice was spot on and yes... about every 20 years you WILL look back and think, oh my gosh..Was I stupid back then!
#BoldFortune
#TiegeHanley
I love the truth! And you are spitting some truth. The beard kicks ass. Love the channel.
There are sooooooo many problems out there, that could be solved with a little bit of listening to what you said.
To convince people about that thinking is and will be on my list for life!
The world will be a better place!
how much better depends on how many you can convince!
Didn’t watch this till after the new year but a great talk and a lot of sense. I used to worry a lot about stuff that really didn’t matter. I’ve got to an age where I’ve learnt not to worry, I be myself go out dance not give a rats ass that I can’t dance I’m enjoying life. Probably going to get my son to watch this his 19 and going through those insecurities that a lot of us went though at that age but didn’t admit.
Men in the world need to watch this. Thank you for putting this out there!
Win or Lose! You have a Merry Christmas Sir! And cheers to 2023!
#BoldFortune #TiegeHanley
I always enjoy your videos. The only thing I don’t like is I realize how lacking my man cave game is when I see your setup. I actually started watching you for coffee products and stayed for the rest. Keep putting out the good content. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY
WORD🤘 those words made my day and direct me the way to have a good christmas... i wish u and your family the best
This is just good advice for everyone. Hell yeah, brother.
Like your video and the stuff you were talking about. Holiday greetings from Germany.
Excellent and well-delivered advice for everyone--even this 61YO woman. Thanks much for it. Happy new year, Jeremy!
Hi Jeremy
This video was long overdue! It was so "real", I made my 21 year old son watch it. Can't wait for the next one.
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#TIEGEHANLEY
Good stuff! Guys in their teens, twenties and thirties should watch this.
Currently in a job I took because I needed it. But it is something where I’m forced to not be my natural introverted self. Essentially, gotta nut up or shut up. I think more people need to hear what you have to say. Damnit it’s true.
Thank you so much for this... I needed it... I am wishing you and the family a wonderful year from Morocco ❤️
The gods told Socrates "you are the wisest of all men" Socrates says "the only difference between me and them is they think they know and I know that I know not" gods - "and THAT is why you are the wisest of men" The point is that he knew there were many things he did not know NOW, not looking back twenty years.
Good stuff Mr. Siers. Thanks for spreading the truth.
Landed on this channel for gaining knowledge on drinking whiskey, now I'm seeing a different side to this channel too. Especially the kind of guidance what guys in their late 20s like me, are looking for these days.
Big thanks to you Jeremy and I look forward to more insightful videos like this on your channel ! ✌🏼 Cheers 🥃
Hhmmm, seems to still apply in 2024 😂, thanks Jeremy.
Just discovered you and your channel on a fluke - awesome!
When I was growing up it was frowned upon to talk about political views and we were taught to agree to disagree. It blows my mind that everyone shares their opinion about everything and hate you for having a different view.
When people's lives are on the line it becomes more than a mere disagreement.
Dude you are a man's man love the channel and the content the truth is the truth weather you like it or not stay true peace
This is dad coaching 101. Good advice!
This is excellent content and a necessary counterpoint to the participation trophy culture. Merry Christmas
Great video! Especially the "he is not me" which is something we should all remind ourselves of everyday.
On a different note, do you mind sharing the brand name of the watch you are wearing? I like the color combination of the dial. It looks good.
Feel very fortunate to have landed on this square. I just found a great tribe! :-)
Good Talk Jeremy and Love Your Gig! Keep it up man! Good Shit!
I love this shit!!!! Keep blessing folks with the facts!!!👍🏾🙌🏾🥃
Spot on dude. So simple but yet so true.