I met a loving God fearing man almost three months ago. He said he knew I was his wife the moment he saw me. The crazy thing is, by the second date I knew the same. He just proposed last night while we were working on a mural together. I said yes 🥰🥰🥰. Thank God
But doesn’t it? Aside from physical abuse - doesn’t love cause emotional pain? Cuz you love him so much? Like if you fight with your bf, your heart is going to ache!
Samee Omgad I’m used to always protect myself even from my family. The biggest enemy of a love is pride . Stubbornness is toxic . Exemple: When you have a feud and you know you’re part of the problem you will not make the effort to solve it. I need to drop that act first to love somebody fully
My virtual big sister! I love the way you're walking in your GOD given purpose. May you be strengthen and enriched. May what you pour in your viewers be returned x100000. 🔥❤️❤️
😭😭😭😭 the sad truth, am yet to be loved , like real love . I have loved without expecting anything in return yet I always end up broken to pieces I can't even put together. The day I am loved the right way I won't know how to act lol , and I can't wait to love him selflessly. Oh God I can't wait!!
Rita Mojawk When you are loved the right way you will know how to act, it will just be natural and you won’t have to think - you’ll just feel peace. I’m saying this because I’m experiencing it now for the first time and I felt the need to just tell you not to worry it will happen for you too. :)
@@gracemoses3062 No but you speak of her in a ratchet manner. Maybe you need to watch videos of hers on how you can sound more wise and speak with class Ms. "Grace".
Breeny- I'm watching this and I just started sobbing. I've been watching your videos this past year and I don't leave comments, but I needed you to know that this is what I needed to hear and wanted to thank you for making this video. I've been a in relationship with a man for almost 2 years, who has consistently broken my heart and disappointed me. I have done so much for this man, and given him so much of myself. Deep down I have known for awhile that his 'I love you's' have been empty. This man has been emotionally abusive and occasionally put his hands on me, and I've justified his actions by thinking it's my fault. The past month that facade has been withering, and I've been dealing with this painful relationship with my therapist. I know it's time to let go, no matter how much I want to hold on.
@@BreenyLee same here!! Let go sis.. Yes it'll be draining Like the jealous song said.. But it'll be worthy in a while. Cos in a little while you'll get great sis. Let him go and let Jesus in
Nuha E. H How can a loving and merciful God punish you? How can the idea of fear be induced, when you think about the perfect Father of us? You don’t need to fear God or Jesus. God gave people his Son to be killed so our sins could be forgiven. Jesus died so our sins could be forgiven. God is love, mercy, creation, forgiveness, but not fear.
Does the scriptures mention fear or is that a word we use? I always thought that fearing God just meant not to want to Disappoint Him. Just like he role of a parent that you look up to. I don't want to disappoint my earthy parent or father and I fear doing that despite knowing there is forgiveness. I always thought of God being loving and forgiving but STILL our disciplinary. Love doesn't excuse us from Learning lessons even of its through tough love. I could give personal examples how I've been disciplined and I appreciate it. Some of his children won't get it if we don't struggle with our bad choices.
‘fear’ in relation to God means, reverence! to revere him, not to be shaking in your boots so as to be too afraid to approach him. it says in scripture ‘draw boldly to the throne of grace’ - God wants intimacy with us first and foremost 💓
Edited : i actually teared up while you were describing Love. i loved every single word you said. I now know the true meaning of Love . It gave me a whole new perception
Breenyyy!! This is amazing! Have you thought about starting a Podcast? I’d love to listen to your advice without having to stay on the UA-cam app. Sending lots of love!
Lust falls on a bottomless pit while love falls on fertile ground and it grows 😍😍😍 So profound 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I needed to hear this today. You are my virtual big sister. ❤️
This just confirmed to me that I have loved hard! So much that I lost myself and had to become selfish and learn to love myself enough to stop sacrificing my happiness knowing that the other parties were selfish and didn’t ever love me at all, also what you said about associating love with your childhood, hit the nail on the head!!🙌🏽
I don’t know what I would’ve done if I didn’t find you 😭 you literally got me through this toxic relationship and gave me the strength to move on 🤍 thank you so much 💕💕
My favorite UA-camr by far, so grateful for your content you’ve helped me get through so many hardships. You’re videos have helped me grow as a person. I take notes on your videos as I watch. You have helped me grow as a person. My heart is full of love and appreciation for you.
Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Being cheated on hurts. But love is the only thing that does not hurt!
okay thank goodness someone finally said that love aint pain !!!! like yes everything comes with good and bad but i genuinely believe that love heals you more than it pains u and its the most beautiful thing that someone could ever possess and have
Wow can’t believe I was in a Almost 5 year relationship and the whole time he didn’t even really love me. That’s crazy. People can lead you on for as long as you let them. When I got pregnant I finally decided to stop setting. I saw the signs and I knew I deserve more and I didn’t want my child to see that. I want to lead by example and show my kids what REAL Love is. So I had to let him go 😌
"Real, genuine, authentic, beautiful, wonderful, delightful, perfect love is uncontainable, undeniable. It casts out fear. There is no concern, there is no doubt. Real love is overbearing. And when you experience is, there's gonna be no doubt in your mind that this is what real love is. Love believes the best in you. Love is kind. Love is gentle. Love keeps no records of wrong. Love will love your flaws. Love will encourage you, will support you, will change you. Love will not force itself on you to change. The fact that you are being loved makes you want to change. " - I loved that! THANK YOU
You made me realize that my own childhood of abuse can cause me to easily end up in an abusive situation. I’m so happy for you and I can see you’re glowing and truly in a healthy loving relationship and may the Lord bless it ❤️! I love seeing women loved correctly and appreciated. I pray that we all find that.
You're unbelievable with your words. I adore you. This video is has a permanent place in my life and I honestly vow to never forget these words. All of my loved ones are gonna find this in their inbox. Thank you dear Breeny I am so grateful for you and your content 💖
I’m in a emotional abusive relationship and I’m trying to end the relationship but it’s hard..Watching your videos is helping me to get there to end it. I deserve to be happy not feeling drained when I’m with him.
You are amazing Breeny 💕 💕 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV💕
🆘️"love is sacrifice" is a great way to rationalize codependence/door-matting/abuse/manipulation/emotional blackmail good read: Robin Norwood - Women who love too much
not at all. LOVE IS SACRIFICE. but sacrificing for an abuser who wants you to sacrifice so he can use and abuse you that is the worst and hurts really bad. to truly love and have that love abused. but if your love isn't sacrifical then you are also a selfish person who cannot truly love.
Can someone explains to me what exactly they sacrifice for love because the healthiest relationship I know don’t refer to sacrifice but more about your partner making you grow and teaching you self love. Actually these relationships don’t feel like sacrifice because the benefits that both partners are getting seems bigger then what they have to put on. Let’s not forget that everybody want to be loved differently. Anyway I would love to hear your perception of sacrifice. Thanks.
PREACHHHH GYAL! Snatched all my edges at work and Got me alllll together 😭! You have such an anointing ❤️ Praise him and thank you Breeny; You are a gift to us ✨
Your such an eye opener, not only was i in situationships but have never been loved too... I honestly have never experienced this kinda of love before coz all what i got in return was hurt. Absolutely a person who truly love you would never hurt you and the only person who has showed and given me this kinda of love that Breeny is talking about is mu mom 🤗😍
I'm so happy you found love, the kind of love we dream of but better, it gives me hope that I too can have a love so deep the ocean will be jealous AF!! I remember your video when you said you're done wasting time and you're ready for real love, commitment marriage and a family, it's happening and I'm so excited for you I just want to cry. I love that you talk about God's unconditional love and Jesus's ultimate sacrifice because for a while I thought God had forgotten about me. Thank you for this video Breeny.
Thank you so much for this video. This is a word from God on the 12th year of my wedding to an abusive husband...physically, mentally, verbally financially. I call it 12 years a slave. I did't get a gift or even a "happy anniversary." I got him walking out of the door and probably not returning until 3am as usual. I see the light. Thanks for the such an uplifting video.
Thank you for this video! I love how your talks are scripture-inspired and you talk about your own experiences which makes it really relatable. It is nice to know that I am not alone on this journey as you inspired me to embrace singleness, with a much clearer vision of what real love is. When you choose self-respect then real love can be the only thing you accept. Keep doing what you're doing Breeny, I love your message and truthful talks.
I think it all starts within. You need to love yourself, accept who you are 100% flaws and all and respect yourself first. Only when you are filled with love, do you overflow to give to others.
I feel like I've been on this journey with you Breeny since you posted your how to: Level up mentally video back in December. December of 2018 is when I was brought to my knees and realized I had to turn my life around. For the past three years I have felt like I had lost myself, I was slipping away from my faith and was rapidly losing any semblance of self-worth. When I saw that video, I saw with new eyes that my intrinsic value is NOT dependent any anything other than God, which I had heard in different words before, but your ability to reach me in that dark place changed me. I really believe God was speaking to me through you. It makes me so happy to see how boldly you proclaim your faith and I'm learning with time, He is the only one I have confidence in and He is transforming you, me, your audience, and millions more. Thank you for this video and for what you do. You have helped me more than you know. I'm so happy to hear you have found someone you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with and I think its like you said, you had to experience God's love to really know what love is. God is teaching me that lesson now, and will probably keep teaching me that lesson til the day I die. Anyways, I love you Breeny, God loves you. Thank you for sharing your experience and insights, they are really inspiring.
I’m always questioning what love really is because I feel like I genuinely don’t know, so thank you for this video, I think I now kinda know what love is. Continue to bring these types of videos, they’re really appreciated.
I love this video. When you grow up feeling unloved, it's the worst. I never defined it as love. I realized it wasn't the way I wanted to give or receive love . I am grateful to have that awareness as a young child. I didn't have words to express it. As an adult with various experiences, good and bad, I know I want to have healthier and loving relationships. I am working to the best to be the best me.
I absolutely love watching your videos, even if already seen i continue to watch. I love your content and i especially admire your voice it is so soothing for me and the way you talk it’s such a welcoming feeling. Your not delivering your messages in any judgemental way or to put anyone down. A lot of ppl giving advice don’t even notice when they do that! I appreciate you putting yourself out there for everyone and creating a beautiful channel to educate and understand and bring ppl together 💙✨💫
Please upload every couple of days with amazing videos like this! We value, appreciate and are grateful for you giving us wonderful advice! I hope you have an amazing day x
Hey, for the past few months I´ve been thinking really much about this topic and didn´t really come to a conclusion or an answer about what love is. I´ve been in 3 abusive relationships, some were emotionally and some physically abusive and I´m only 19 years old. About half a year ago I discovered your channel and you helped me to find out more about myself, and although I´m a very self-reflected person I don´t think I would have gotten so far without you sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. I finally managed to get out of my last relationship and I´m swearing to myself that I´ll never come to this point again where I let someone control me, abuse me or constantly bring me down and makes me question myself. I realized that none of my boyfriends really loved me because in the end they all put their needs above mine, and so it means I also couldn´t love them the way I want to love a person one day. I want to thank you for making me understand my worth and to motivate me to become the best version of myself every day. Your videos mean a lot to me and although I don´t believe in god, your belief told me so much about life. I´m wishing you all the best and that you reach every goal you´re aiming for.Much love from Germany!
Watching your video made me truly understand what Mark Gungor said that the reason most relationship doesn’t last is because one or the another chooses to become SELFISH. That’s when things go wrong. U r on point with this message 🙏🏾👏🏾 God bless u
you are beautiful, and everything you said was beautiful plz know that this actually made me cry because I feel like I have just understood something I've been so confused about for so long. Thank you
Thank you for your videos. I’ve been hurt so much that I’m not even sure real deep love like that can actually exist and last. I will try to remain focused and hopeful
The crazy thing is I've been watching your videos and I decided to get out of this abusive and toxic relationship. I'm currently loving myself and it just feels so great to know I'm learning how to love and how to give love thank you if it wasn't for you I would still be in an abusive toxic relationship because my perception of love with so screwed. My BIG SIS COMES WITH THE FACTS ALWAYS 💜
i'm pretty young and very self-aware, perhaps that makes me emotionally lonely for my age but i really appreciate these videos! these videos make me feel better and full!
You really need to start a podcast girl, i would love to hear your inspirational, straight up facts on my way to and from school to get through the day 😂 Your car talks honestly brighten my day❤ you're an amazing role model
I’ve been binge watching your videos. You helped me get out. I pray you and your relationship and your life is blessed with a double portion of provision, peace, joy and above all else love ❤️
Your words of wisdom is from above, with the unfathomable creation of our brains you are able understand a higher level of consciousness through meditation on god’s word, the Holy bible🙌🏽
I LOVE this video! My last relationship I gave and gave and never got back - he was a narc and it was lust from his part not love! So excited to fall in real genuine love one day 💛 Thank you Breeny lee🙌🏼🙌🏼
Breeny, Thank you so much for sharing this idea with everyone all around the world. This one, single video alarm my life, and now I can more clearly see/ realise what the true form of love is. I was able to admit the fact that some guys who were into me has lust, not love. But I also realised that the emotion that I had actually lust, not love to some guys. This is one ground breaking video that would change my life, in a much better way. THANK YOU.
Your words, are so powerful! Especially about the aspect of the toxic evil parents. My mother, and her husband, harassed me for over 5 years-- hired Private Investigators who harassed me. It never ended, they enjoyed inflicting pain. It got to the point where I had to give up my life, home, friends, etc. I am a 60 year old woman, who tried to be family, and ran, because they were so abusive. Now, in the last year, my step son, was brutally killed! I have had to flee my home, my life! I hope that some day, there is justice, real justice. It's just unbelievable that I am saying this, and writing this! Hopefully, there will be justice, and I don't have to feel like I am living overly protective. Love & Blessings!
I'm just very happy for you being in a stable, beautiful relationship with a real man! You deserve all the love in the universe and God is giving it to you!❤❤❤
Hey 👋🏾, love your videos, they’ve taught me so much !! I have 2 questions for you following this video in particular : 1.So should you give love continuously and become a walking force of love even to those who don’t give it back to you ? In the hope that by doing that one day someone who truly reflects/reciprocates that love you give so freely, naturally enters your life 2.And when someone isn’t giving the love ,you give so freely out, back to you, is that the time to realise your worth and leave ?
yesterday was my birthday and I've searched for you for so lonnnng i didnt know your channel name, i needed to hear things like this. I found you and I feel blessed thank you for everything you said!!!!! meant a lot to me, i decided to write journal daily to express more and to write things as you said in the video to keep reminding me of what I deserve. I'm 23 now and i feel I'm done with play/fuck stupid guys i'm dooone. grateful for your channel. so much love to you.
This just made me realize how lucky I am with my current partner. He loves me so much and I can literally see it in his eyes when he looks at me. He doesn't expect anything from me but still gives me what I need. Even though I know all of his flaws and his annoying traits, they just don't matter because of how much I love him. This also made me realize how my past relationships where never about love. My last (narcassistic) ex boyfriend didn't love me at all. At the beginning he was overwhelming me with gifts and romantic gestures but as time passed, he became a totally different person. He stopped doing all those romantic things, he didn't care if he had hurt me (he would become really defensive and even mad when I told him that he hurt me), he constantly made me cry so that I started going to therapy. I had the feeling that I was giving too much and felt drained. I know now, what a healthy love and relationship should look like. You won't see the other person as someone perfect, as someone you WANT to see. You will see every little flaw and get annoyed from time to time but that won't stop you from loving them and caring about them.
I love this video. I took away I never been in love before. When I do fall in love I won’t be so focused on what he can do for me. Before I fall in love in love with a man I want to fall more in love with God. I like that quote I hope you experience a love so deep that the ocean will be jealous.💕
Ugh I love you sm Breeny , you have practically been like my mother for 6 years, like the amazing older sister or mother I don’t have because they are both very toxic & not in my life ! 🤍 Thank you for everything 🥺
Thank you so many people get on my nerves about love and its Lust the whole time. It makes me think if Love even exists these days. This is true Love gives Lust is an endless pit of giving.
I once told my partner that he was like my favorite character in a tv show, because my favorite episodes are the ones where good things happen to him. I love him💗
You are so wise and I appreciate your advice. I think your view on love is so introspective. Lust really is selfish and love is giving for someone else’s benefit.
Who ever is reading I wish you Love, Health, Wealth and Happiness!
Kenjy Optimistic The same to you sweetie❤️❤️❤️
@@tammyschannel8809 Thank you! ❤
Kenjy Optimistic thank you! I wish the same for you
Thank u ...... I'll claim it!
Kenjy Optimistic amen sis
Some people aren't loyal to you, they are loyal to their need of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty!!!
So truuue!!!
Be_you _ that’s how my ex wife was. I truly understand
People change.
Breeny is a example of how worth it being single is until, the right person comes to join your life journey
Truee
True
I met a loving God fearing man almost three months ago. He said he knew I was his wife the moment he saw me. The crazy thing is, by the second date I knew the same. He just proposed last night while we were working on a mural together. I said yes 🥰🥰🥰. Thank God
Awww congratulations beautiful xxx
Congrats
DeAnna Mayes Congratulations 🎉
Congrats ❤️🌺
DeAnna Mayes ❤️❤️❤️ I’m happy for you
"Love does not cause pain" "Love does not hurt" preach Breeny. I now fully understand this. Thank you
But doesn’t it? Aside from physical abuse - doesn’t love cause emotional pain? Cuz you love him so much? Like if you fight with your bf, your heart is going to ache!
Love is not suffering... Love is not suffering anymore.
@@MovewithJenna you shouldn't be "fighting" disagreements but not yelling matches. That's a Toxic relationship. Not love.
@@CrystalSicily Called life , nothing perfect even love.
@@LexRuger718 Not perfect but when there's love and respect it's Wonderful!
After watching this I just figured out I'm the problem and I'm ready to make changes within me
Me too girl
❤❤❤❤❤... great first step! Updates?
Samee Omgad I’m used to always protect myself even from my family. The biggest enemy of a love is pride . Stubbornness is toxic . Exemple: When you have a feud and you know you’re part of the problem you will not make the effort to solve it. I need to drop that act first to love somebody fully
My virtual big sister! I love the way you're walking in your GOD given purpose. May you be strengthen and enriched. May what you pour in your viewers be returned x100000. 🔥❤️❤️
Uwimana Simon agreed 💕
Yesss God bless her greatly and inspire other to do the same
Amen 🙏
this is sooo meeee thanku JESUS
I needed this mahalo nui im waiting for my boaz🔥🙏🏼
A big thing I learned is that someone holding you doesn't mean they've got you. Physical affection doesn't automatically translate to commitment
I've never been loved the right way, I've just loved the wrong people the right way. It's time for a change.
Woooo! Boom!
Same
😭😭😭😭 the sad truth, am yet to be loved , like real love . I have loved without expecting anything in return yet I always end up broken to pieces I can't even put together. The day I am loved the right way I won't know how to act lol , and I can't wait to love him selflessly. Oh God I can't wait!!
You just hit the nail on the head. Well said.
Rita Mojawk When you are loved the right way you will know how to act, it will just be natural and you won’t have to think - you’ll just feel peace. I’m saying this because I’m experiencing it now for the first time and I felt the need to just tell you not to worry it will happen for you too. :)
You look like a glamorous rich woman! Love your frank advice
No too much skin she speaks wisely but dresses so rachet
@@gracemoses3062 you're so rude. That comment was uncalled for.
@GRACE MOSES she don't give a god damn shit about ur opinion!
@@gracemoses3062 No but you speak of her in a ratchet manner. Maybe you need to watch videos of hers on how you can sound more wise and speak with class Ms. "Grace".
“And now of course, you know, I can’t talk about love without talking about God.”
“Lust is selfish and Love is selfless”
- @BreenyLee
Breeny- I'm watching this and I just started sobbing. I've been watching your videos this past year and I don't leave comments, but I needed you to know that this is what I needed to hear and wanted to thank you for making this video. I've been a in relationship with a man for almost 2 years, who has consistently broken my heart and disappointed me. I have done so much for this man, and given him so much of myself. Deep down I have known for awhile that his 'I love you's' have been empty. This man has been emotionally abusive and occasionally put his hands on me, and I've justified his actions by thinking it's my fault. The past month that facade has been withering, and I've been dealing with this painful relationship with my therapist. I know it's time to let go, no matter how much I want to hold on.
Anya Marie ♥️♥️♥️
Anya Marie I’m supporting you sis on your letting go ♥️♥️♥️
@@BreenyLee same here!! Let go sis.. Yes it'll be draining Like the jealous song said.. But it'll be worthy in a while. Cos in a little while you'll get great sis. Let him go and let Jesus in
“We should love people because we see their value, not to us, to the world.” So much profound and practical wisdom as always.👌🏆
Yes I was dating this guy who told me that you can love someone and cheat and beat on them. If that's what you think love is I don't want it from you.
Beautifulsoul Boy bye!!
Beautifulsoul glad you walked away from that, you would have been miserable
@@lholcomb32501 yes I was love bombed at first and then that
OMG. Thank God you didn't fall for that bullshit! Hurting someone in ANY way is not love!
I love how u talk about God, I come from a different faith and have been raised to fear God first and foremost but Your words make me wonder!
Nuha E. H How can a loving and merciful God punish you? How can the idea of fear be induced, when you think about the perfect Father of us? You don’t need to fear God or Jesus. God gave people his Son to be killed so our sins could be forgiven. Jesus died so our sins could be forgiven. God is love, mercy, creation, forgiveness, but not fear.
Does the scriptures mention fear or is that a word we use? I always thought that fearing God just meant not to want to Disappoint Him. Just like he role of a parent that you look up to. I don't want to disappoint my earthy parent or father and I fear doing that despite knowing there is forgiveness. I always thought of God being loving and forgiving but STILL our disciplinary. Love doesn't excuse us from Learning lessons even of its through tough love. I could give personal examples how I've been disciplined and I appreciate it. Some of his children won't get it if we don't struggle with our bad choices.
... I guess that also falls in line with us reaping what we sow.
‘fear’ in relation to God means, reverence! to revere him, not to be shaking in your boots so as to be too afraid to approach him. it says in scripture ‘draw boldly to the throne of grace’ - God wants intimacy with us first and foremost 💓
Seek and you shall find. Pray
This made me realise my dog only loves me because I give him food. That little shi
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😂trust me your dog loves you with food or not ...
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Edited : i actually teared up while you were describing Love. i loved every single word you said.
I now know the true meaning of Love . It gave me a whole new perception
Breenyyy!! This is amazing!
Have you thought about starting a Podcast? I’d love to listen to your advice without having to stay on the UA-cam app.
Sending lots of love!
Barbara Sipos - yes I have but I feel like it takes up a lil time but I’m thinking about an alternative ♥️
Lust falls on a bottomless pit while love falls on fertile ground and it grows 😍😍😍 So profound 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I needed to hear this today. You are my virtual big sister. ❤️
This just confirmed to me that I have loved hard! So much that I lost myself and had to become selfish and learn to love myself enough to stop sacrificing my happiness knowing that the other parties were selfish and didn’t ever love me at all, also what you said about associating love with your childhood, hit the nail on the head!!🙌🏽
I don’t know what I would’ve done if I didn’t find you 😭 you literally got me through this toxic relationship and gave me the strength to move on 🤍 thank you so much 💕💕
My favorite UA-camr by far, so grateful for your content you’ve helped me get through so many hardships. You’re videos have helped me grow as a person. I take notes on your videos as I watch. You have helped me grow as a person. My heart is full of love and appreciation for you.
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Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Being cheated on hurts. But love is the only thing that does not hurt!
okay thank goodness someone finally said that love aint pain !!!! like yes everything comes with good and bad but i genuinely believe that love heals you more than it pains u and its the most beautiful thing that someone could ever possess and have
Wow can’t believe I was in a Almost 5 year relationship and the whole time he didn’t even really love me. That’s crazy. People can lead you on for as long as you let them. When I got pregnant I finally decided to stop setting. I saw the signs and I knew I deserve more and I didn’t want my child to see that. I want to lead by example and show my kids what REAL Love is. So I had to let him go 😌
"Real, genuine, authentic, beautiful, wonderful, delightful, perfect love is uncontainable, undeniable. It casts out fear. There is no concern, there is no doubt. Real love is overbearing. And when you experience is, there's gonna be no doubt in your mind that this is what real love is. Love believes the best in you. Love is kind. Love is gentle. Love keeps no records of wrong. Love will love your flaws. Love will encourage you, will support you, will change you. Love will not force itself on you to change. The fact that you are being loved makes you want to change. "
- I loved that! THANK YOU
Wow I just realized my last relationship was not real love and I’m mind blown.
You made me realize that my own childhood of abuse can cause me to easily end up in an abusive situation. I’m so happy for you and I can see you’re glowing and truly in a healthy loving relationship and may the Lord bless it ❤️! I love seeing women loved correctly and appreciated. I pray that we all find that.
You're unbelievable with your words. I adore you. This video is has a permanent place in my life and I honestly vow to never forget these words. All of my loved ones are gonna find this in their inbox. Thank you dear Breeny I am so grateful for you and your content 💖
Breeny Im left speechless and in thoughts... thank you so so much
I’m in a emotional abusive relationship and I’m trying to end the relationship but it’s hard..Watching your videos is helping me to get there to end it. I deserve to be happy not feeling drained when I’m with him.
Right on time! I was just talking about this today and God knows I need this. Thank you sis and thank you GOD
You are amazing Breeny 💕
💕 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV💕
🆘️"love is sacrifice" is a great way to rationalize codependence/door-matting/abuse/manipulation/emotional blackmail
good read: Robin Norwood - Women who love too much
not at all. LOVE IS SACRIFICE. but sacrificing for an abuser who wants you to sacrifice so he can use and abuse you that is the worst and hurts really bad. to truly love and have that love abused. but if your love isn't sacrifical then you are also a selfish person who cannot truly love.
Can someone explains to me what exactly they sacrifice for love because the healthiest relationship I know don’t refer to sacrifice but more about your partner making you grow and teaching you self love. Actually these relationships don’t feel like sacrifice because the benefits that both partners are getting seems bigger then what they have to put on. Let’s not forget that everybody want to be loved differently. Anyway I would love to hear your perception of sacrifice. Thanks.
some people are "selfless" only when other people are around.. this really hit home
PREACHHHH GYAL! Snatched all my edges at work and Got me alllll together 😭! You have such an anointing ❤️ Praise him and thank you Breeny; You are a gift to us ✨
Your such an eye opener, not only was i in situationships but have never been loved too... I honestly have never experienced this kinda of love before coz all what i got in return was hurt. Absolutely a person who truly love you would never hurt you and the only person who has showed and given me this kinda of love that Breeny is talking about is mu mom 🤗😍
Your dimple is so cute!
I'm so happy you found love, the kind of love we dream of but better, it gives me hope that I too can have a love so deep the ocean will be jealous AF!! I remember your video when you said you're done wasting time and you're ready for real love, commitment marriage and a family, it's happening and I'm so excited for you I just want to cry. I love that you talk about God's unconditional love and Jesus's ultimate sacrifice because for a while I thought God had forgotten about me. Thank you for this video Breeny.
My Sundays are always the best because the Big Sis talk is always therapeutic 😍🤗
Thank you so much for this video. This is a word from God on the 12th year of my wedding to an abusive husband...physically, mentally, verbally financially. I call it 12 years a slave. I did't get a gift or even a "happy anniversary." I got him walking out of the door and probably not returning until 3am as usual. I see the light. Thanks for the such an uplifting video.
‘When you love a man who knows how to love, it’s so beautiful’
TheLaLaLove2012 i dont get it
Thank you for this video! I love how your talks are scripture-inspired and you talk about your own experiences which makes it really relatable. It is nice to know that I am not alone on this journey as you inspired me to embrace singleness, with a much clearer vision of what real love is. When you choose self-respect then real love can be the only thing you accept. Keep doing what you're doing Breeny, I love your message and truthful talks.
Breeny Lee is out here changing lives through changing minds.😩💗 love you big sis!!
You’re so wise omg I love you ❤️❤️❤️
I think it all starts within. You need to love yourself, accept who you are 100% flaws and all and respect yourself first. Only when you are filled with love, do you overflow to give to others.
This is so incredible and I hope that your channel grows exponentially because everyone needs to hear the messages you put out!!
I'm here for it Sis!!🤗🤗❤❤❤ clicked right away so excited to hear you pour out your word of wisdom sis 🤗🤗❤❤❤
Precious Daniel 💖
I feel like I've been on this journey with you Breeny since you posted your how to: Level up mentally video back in December. December of 2018 is when I was brought to my knees and realized I had to turn my life around. For the past three years I have felt like I had lost myself, I was slipping away from my faith and was rapidly losing any semblance of self-worth. When I saw that video, I saw with new eyes that my intrinsic value is NOT dependent any anything other than God, which I had heard in different words before, but your ability to reach me in that dark place changed me. I really believe God was speaking to me through you. It makes me so happy to see how boldly you proclaim your faith and I'm learning with time, He is the only one I have confidence in and He is transforming you, me, your audience, and millions more. Thank you for this video and for what you do. You have helped me more than you know. I'm so happy to hear you have found someone you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with and I think its like you said, you had to experience God's love to really know what love is. God is teaching me that lesson now, and will probably keep teaching me that lesson til the day I die. Anyways, I love you Breeny, God loves you. Thank you for sharing your experience and insights, they are really inspiring.
I’m always questioning what love really is because I feel like I genuinely don’t know, so thank you for this video, I think I now kinda know what love is.
Continue to bring these types of videos, they’re really appreciated.
I love this video. When you grow up feeling unloved, it's the worst. I never defined it as love. I realized it wasn't the way I wanted to give or receive love . I am grateful to have that awareness as a young child. I didn't have words to express it. As an adult with various experiences, good and bad, I know I want to have healthier and loving relationships. I am working to the best to be the best me.
i’ve never been religious, but the way breeny talks about her relationship with god is so beautiful 😩
I had to listen to this twice to soak in all that wisdom into my spirit.. love your work❣️and u look beautiful by the way❤️
Your hair looks great! you look amazing ❤️
Her voice is so soothing and I feel like she is the big sister that we all need I'm so grateful to have found your channel 🥰🥰☺️☺️☺️
I absolutely love watching your videos, even if already seen i continue to watch. I love your content and i especially admire your voice it is so soothing for me and the way you talk it’s such a welcoming feeling. Your not delivering your messages in any judgemental way or to put anyone down. A lot of ppl giving advice don’t even notice when they do that! I appreciate you putting yourself out there for everyone and creating a beautiful channel to educate and understand and bring ppl together 💙✨💫
Please upload every couple of days with amazing videos like this! We value, appreciate and are grateful for you giving us wonderful advice! I hope you have an amazing day x
Hey, for the past few months I´ve been thinking really much about this topic and didn´t really come to a conclusion or an answer about what love is. I´ve been in 3 abusive relationships, some were emotionally and some physically abusive and I´m only 19 years old. About half a year ago I discovered your channel and you helped me to find out more about myself, and although I´m a very self-reflected person I don´t think I would have gotten so far without you sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. I finally managed to get out of my last relationship and I´m swearing to myself that I´ll never come to this point again where I let someone control me, abuse me or constantly bring me down and makes me question myself. I realized that none of my boyfriends really loved me because in the end they all put their needs above mine, and so it means I also couldn´t love them the way I want to love a person one day. I want to thank you for making me understand my worth and to motivate me to become the best version of myself every day. Your videos mean a lot to me and although I don´t believe in god, your belief told me so much about life. I´m wishing you all the best and that you reach every goal you´re aiming for.Much love from Germany!
Watching your video made me truly understand what Mark Gungor said that the reason most relationship doesn’t last is because one or the another chooses to become SELFISH. That’s when things go wrong. U r on point with this message 🙏🏾👏🏾 God bless u
you are beautiful, and everything you said was beautiful plz know that this actually made me cry because I feel like I have just understood something I've been so confused about for so long. Thank you
Your words truly touch my heart and they fill me with so much wisdom. Thank you for that ❤️
Thank you for your videos. I’ve been hurt so much that I’m not even sure real deep love like that can actually exist and last. I will try to remain focused and hopeful
Thank you so much Breeny for defining the true meaning of love, unconditional love cuz the way our world defines it is obscure
The crazy thing is I've been watching your videos and I decided to get out of this abusive and toxic relationship. I'm currently loving myself and it just feels so great to know I'm learning how to love and how to give love thank you if it wasn't for you I would still be in an abusive toxic relationship because my perception of love with so screwed. My BIG SIS COMES WITH THE FACTS ALWAYS 💜
i'm pretty young and very self-aware, perhaps that makes me emotionally lonely for my age but i really appreciate these videos! these videos make me feel better and full!
Hey, Can you do a video on forgiveness? I’m struggling to understand when and how to forgive someone.
What context of forgiveness are you talking about? A cheater?
Joe c Well when I thought of the question I mainly though of friends n family. Cheater would be a good to cover too.
she drops a video whenever people need it! luv u girl!
this is beautiful. thank you for opening my perspective of what true love is. as always you look stunning!
You really need to start a podcast girl, i would love to hear your inspirational, straight up facts on my way to and from school to get through the day 😂 Your car talks honestly brighten my day❤ you're an amazing role model
Ive always said that ive never been in love. And people never beileved me. I knew, it was true. This was beautiful.
I’ve been binge watching your videos. You helped me get out. I pray you and your relationship and your life is blessed with a double portion of provision, peace, joy and above all else love ❤️
Your words of wisdom is from above, with the unfathomable creation of our brains you are able understand a higher level of consciousness through meditation on god’s word, the Holy bible🙌🏽
Swear to God I could listen to you day and night. Preach baby, preach !! 🙏🙏🙏
Beeny Lee boutta be the best mommy and wife ever! God bless her fr fr!!!
I LOVE this video! My last relationship I gave and gave and never got back - he was a narc and it was lust from his part not love! So excited to fall in real genuine love one day 💛 Thank you Breeny lee🙌🏼🙌🏼
this video was perfect, am happy that i understand now that when a true guy really loves you, you know
Breeny, Thank you so much for sharing this idea with everyone all around the world. This one, single video alarm my life, and now I can more clearly see/ realise what the true form of love is. I was able to admit the fact that some guys who were into me has lust, not love. But I also realised that the emotion that I had actually lust, not love to some guys. This is one ground breaking video that would change my life, in a much better way. THANK YOU.
“Love is reciprocal”. Yessssss Brenny yessss!
Your words, are so powerful! Especially about the aspect of the toxic evil parents. My mother, and her husband, harassed me for over 5 years-- hired Private Investigators who harassed me. It never ended, they enjoyed inflicting pain. It got to the point where I had to give up my life, home, friends, etc. I am a 60 year old woman, who tried to be family, and ran, because they were so abusive. Now, in the last year, my step son, was brutally killed! I have had to flee my home, my life! I hope that some day, there is justice, real justice. It's just unbelievable that I am saying this, and writing this! Hopefully, there will be justice, and I don't have to feel like I am living overly protective. Love & Blessings!
I'm just very happy for you being in a stable, beautiful relationship with a real man! You deserve all the love in the universe and God is giving it to you!❤❤❤
Hey 👋🏾, love your videos, they’ve taught me so much !! I have 2 questions for you following this video in particular :
1.So should you give love continuously and become a walking force of love even to those who don’t give it back to you ? In the hope that by doing that one day someone who truly reflects/reciprocates that love you give so freely, naturally enters your life
2.And when someone isn’t giving the love ,you give so freely out, back to you, is that the time to realise your worth and leave ?
You looook soooo beautiful I mean what is new your always stunning but Breeny in braids Issa vibe 😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥❤️️❤️️❤️️ A QUEEN ✨👑
yesterday was my birthday and I've searched for you for so lonnnng i didnt know your channel name, i needed to hear things like this. I found you and I feel blessed thank you for everything you said!!!!! meant a lot to me, i decided to write journal daily to express more and to write things as you said in the video to keep reminding me of what I deserve. I'm 23 now and i feel I'm done with play/fuck stupid guys i'm dooone. grateful for your channel. so much love to you.
This just made me realize how lucky I am with my current partner. He loves me so much and I can literally see it in his eyes when he looks at me. He doesn't expect anything from me but still gives me what I need. Even though I know all of his flaws and his annoying traits, they just don't matter because of how much I love him.
This also made me realize how my past relationships where never about love. My last (narcassistic) ex boyfriend didn't love me at all. At the beginning he was overwhelming me with gifts and romantic gestures but as time passed, he became a totally different person. He stopped doing all those romantic things, he didn't care if he had hurt me (he would become really defensive and even mad when I told him that he hurt me), he constantly made me cry so that I started going to therapy. I had the feeling that I was giving too much and felt drained.
I know now, what a healthy love and relationship should look like. You won't see the other person as someone perfect, as someone you WANT to see. You will see every little flaw and get annoyed from time to time but that won't stop you from loving them and caring about them.
So inspiring, love doesn't hurt, love is not pain. I still believe there's love out here only that we haven't crossed paths yet
You glow different when ur being treated right sis ❤️
I love this video. I took away I never been in love before. When I do fall in love I won’t be so focused on what he can do for me. Before I fall in love in love with a man I want to fall more in love with God. I like that quote I hope you experience a love so deep that the ocean will be jealous.💕
Ugh I love you sm Breeny , you have practically been like my mother for 6 years, like the amazing older sister or mother I don’t have because they are both very toxic & not in my life ! 🤍 Thank you for everything 🥺
This is beautiful. Love is a verb, an act. Thank you Breeny!
Girl I love your shirt !!! Where is it from ????
Thank you so many people get on my nerves about love and its Lust the whole time. It makes me think if Love even exists these days. This is true Love gives Lust is an endless pit of giving.
I have been crying through the video, because man would never do something (loving, caring) like this anymore : (
I love the way u say : love is beautiful. U can see how much u feel the word LOVE. ❤👏🏽
this made me cry..thank you for making me realize so much. ❤️
I once told my partner that he was like my favorite character in a tv show, because my favorite episodes are the ones where good things happen to him. I love him💗
You are so wise and I appreciate your advice. I think your view on love is so introspective. Lust really is selfish and love is giving for someone else’s benefit.
Haven’t even watched it and I know it going to be good ❤️
Gurl!!!! Ur outfit sooo cute
Checked the dAte.. YAS GIRL! I’m so happy for you! I hope my blessing is coming! A non selfish/ loving / faithful man
This is the Definition of the truth shall set you free... honesty with oneself.