Dr. David Goldbloom on Suicide
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- CAMH Senior Medical Advisor Dr. David Goldbloom, one of the most esteemed psychiatrists and mental health advocates in Canada, says better identification and better treatment of mental illness would have a significant impact in the area of suicide prevention.
This world is so cruel……it won’t let you live and it won’t let you die…..
@jazr3232 I've done that so many, many times and got no answer. No intervention from a god, that's why I don't believe anymore. We must help ourselves, no god will help you. And in the end, it's survival of the fittest.
@Freeasabird699: About 30 years ago I had to make a life changing decision that was going to take me 1,200 miles away from home. I Leaned towards not moving - yet I kept getting “signs” - “synchronicities” that I should go -- so I followed the signs and it ended up being the most fulfilling wonderful decision that I ever made in my life. I’ve always wondered what it was - that was giving me all of those “signs”? It made me think that there is “something” going on all around us that we are not aware of. - A God ? A higher power ? Some kind of living entity ? I would love to know.
DANG THIS IS SO TRUE
@jazr3232 Shut up, stooge.
Sad but true….
I'm 22 had so much going for me developed skitzophrenia lost my family and girlfirend I don't know how I'm gonna continue
You don't have to
It is very hard to be here -- on this planet. Brutal for some.
Everyone dies because they’ve had enough. If they didn’t have enough in the current body they’d live forever in it, until they did have enough.
It’s hell here, no matter how much I try to talk positive.
I listen to stores of people in so much pain but make out their past life was wonderful; fact their past life wasn’t wonderful or else they’d not be in alignment with pain. They’ve just leant to lie to themselves and not in a beneficial way or else they’d not be suffering pain.
And yes those people that live though suicide somehow changed their mind.. than they’ve made life even worse now living with a disability and was it really worth changing your mind! Or did you have no control over your mind an something changed it for you? Whose to say we can even actually commit suicide! Sure, family might bury the person but in suicides mind they are NOT dead l, they are living and now they are living an even worse life because Eg they blew their head off but some creep saved their life because it’s actually impossible to take your own life, not that you know that as your busy living the illusion..and actually think you can commit suicide because in your reality you believe others have.
And you can’t even think about how fucked up and miserable your life is because this thought alone makes it even worse.
And when you get older you hear stories of Eg men injuring themselves really bad and at this same time the woman in their life walked out on them or Eg refused to allow them access to their kids but you’ve learnt that it’s not true any of it. It’s just their perception and the way they think about women that gave them that outcome these same men that you thought were actually quiet nice thought that terrible about the woman they’d entangled with that they walked out on them. Instead of them holding them in faith. And it seems the reasons we pray for others it not actually for them as they don’t really exist as they are you and it’s your believe in them that makes them exist. But when you dissect their life it’s pretty fucken up… and is that just because your own life is fucked up that anyone you’ve bothered to take the time to get to know is equally fucked up or just because your fucked up that you made them ducked up and as said the reason why you need to pray for them is not for them but because they are you. And to heal them is to heal you.
Why the hell to we come here to do so much healing!! Even Jesus wasn’t exempt from the pain.. as if he was we living in hell would have never saw him.
And fact is if people are chopping off their penis in your reality than you too are in hell as this type of thing can only happen in hell! But as said it’s cause you are me.
@@Rebecca-ys3cb im sorry for what you’re going through right now. Sending love and kindness to you, and I know you may be dealing with struggles right now, so I encourage you to talk with a trusted person or a trusted professional. And although you said Jesus wasn’t exempt from pain, Jesus chose to go through pain all for us. He chose to die for us and our sins. But He rose from death and has given us life everlasting as we turn and go to Him. So know that there is hope. And He does know what you’re going through. He is there and truly cares. And He can help carry your burdens with you so you’re not alone 🤍 I hope this helps my friend, does this help?
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirit
Psalm 34:18
You okay friend?
Nope!
@@maryhelen-pu6wb hey there you okay? If you’re feeling like this is as well, I just want to encourage you to seek help. You are incredibly valuable and worth so much. And whatever struggles you’re facing are not better than you, you can overcome them. Know that you have Jesus who loves you, died, and rose for you to give life. He is there to fight for you , so you aren’t alone 🤍
Lets be honest. Who wants to be here
Here? On internet? Or on the planet?
I might leave next summer
I dont wanna be here on this video… his slow deep voice messes with my head
I honestly believe that my parents had me so they can have a punching bag, I cringe every time I hear “ life is a gift” or some bs like that
@@vld7975 I don't know why they had me
I just don't get how life is worth it. Most people work low-paying jobs every day for 30+ years and for what? So they can pay for the car that they use to get to said job? So they can pay for the house that they spent away from all day because they're at work? It makes no sense.
it makes no sense and the job is completely demoralizing and mostly the reason for the anxiety & depression
@@SAPHYTYRA I agree 100%
I have anxiety (General Anxiety Disorder) I think mainly due to me being so heavily bullied when I was younger along with other trauma I picked up, so because of that it’s really hard to keep a job as an adult. It’s hard to do any job when you have anxiety flowing through you, especially if you’re working for an employer, your body just doesn’t function properly. I nearly got fired from a few jobs because of it (I quit before I got fired). And because of the high toxicity at a lot of my previous jobs with customers, co-workers etc, my anxiety flares up even more making it much more harder to function properly. So I think in terms of job toxicity it’s most likely be the same in the future. So then how am I supposed to have somewhat of a normal life with this level of job insecurity? I’ve come to much better understanding of why people become homeless, mental illness prevents them from having a job. And look at how society treats them for it, just cast them to the side and let them starve to death. The cruelty of this world is unreal. Im not in that situation because of family, but because of my own mental illness I realize such a possibility is not off the table. And of course I’m lonely, I have no friends or relationship from my anxiety, further worsening my anxiety. And it’s ridiculous that society doesn’t offer any help, or the help they do give, you have to pay all this money in which a lot of us don’t have. For these reasons and others I’m thinking of leaving some time in the future
Yes and add to that having evil family you had to go no contact with. Add to this poverty that gets you stuck in abusive relationships with men..add no health insurance so no treatment options.
It's so ironic, you work your whole life to stay alive and then you die anyway. What's the point. It's good for those people who accomplish great things in life, but for most of us it's just the same mundane thing, with all the struggles, and then you die.
As someone who's survived an incredibly serious suicide attempt that should've killed me and left me in hospital for weeks I can tell you people don't change their mind out of some sudden permanent shift towards loving life. It is simply fear of the pain. Once that disappears the thoughts come back. It's disgusting that we don't have the "right to die". Our freedoms have been robbed by those with reasons to live, who couldn't possibly understand.
I’m sorry for the pain you’ve gone through, or the pain you’re currently going through. I don’t know what you’ve specifically experienced, but I understand that life is hard. I just want you to know and feel that you’re not going through this alone. Although life is difficult, there is always hope and help out there. You’re worth so much, and every breath that you take counts. I know it can be hard for you to see that, but it truly is real because this life would be different without you. Life is painful, but there can also be beauty to it as well, such as the simple things like birds chirping in the sky or the leaves changing colors during different seasons. You were placed here in this life for a purpose by a wonderful and loving Creator. Jesus understands the pain you’re going through. He went through pain Himself for you. But He wants to give you life everlasting and abundantly. He finds so much worth in you, that He died on the cross for your sins and the world’s sins, so that He can give eternal life to whoever goes to Him. He is the true Healer and source of life, and as St. Augustine says, our hearts are restless until they rest in Him. He is the reason we live.
@@goofygoober6213L preaching
@@goofygoober6213 I have lost the joy of seeing and hearing birds chirping since I have become depressed and sewy cidal. I'm glad you can still enjoy such simple things though like I did 3 years ago. Also, believing in Jesus does not make pain IN THIS LIFE go away. Quite the contrary... Jesus warned that His followers would experience MORE pain and persecution. I believe in Jesus and therefore I KNOW I have eternal life, but that does NOT make THIS life and world a better place. My brain is still defective and society is also defective and cruel still. Therefore I can't wait to rest in the grave and wake up in my resurrected body on a sinless/painless new earth after the return of Christ. Don't make the gospel into some kind of magic spell that will magically cure depression. Our religion is about the NEXT life, not this current life.
They lose control over us if we have free will.
The government ought yonoperate suicide centers where you can off yourself relatively painlessly
But what if mental illness has nothing to do with it? What if it’s because of actual circumstances?
The actual circumstances cause the depression 🥺
in the case of a burning building or someone quite literally without a single doubt in existence physically being at the end of their rope and there's no other potential chance for survival.. that's not suicide that's preventing further pain.
I think suicide is a mindset of the preoccupation with WANTING death but not practically having it done unto you.
Why live for people who will just walk away from you anyway when you don't wanna be here
Suicidal people don’t actually want to die. We just want the pain to stop.
Some of us actually wouldn't mind dying.
I hope your doing ok and I hope you have a good day.
What Pain & Why is Death the Answer? I Want To Understand, Life Has Ups & Downs There's Always a Blessing After The Storm
We're All Connected, May Love & Happiness Find You Path ❤❤❤
Man this is the end of the road for me.
I've been in constant severe pain for close to 20 years. Not chronic pain, constant pain. I'm tired of being treated like a 18 year old who just lost his first girlfriend
Those who ruined you continue to live, they move on with their lifes, like nothing happened, they move on without you. and you are stuck, frozen in time and space for years. There is no movement anymore. No connection. You dont get better, no matter how much you try and how much efforts it costs you. Nothing matters anymore. You have nothing to lose, even they say you have. Like your life, and family. But when you lost yourself and lost God even such priceless things as life and family lose any value. The only thing why I still didn't kill myself is hell. It's crazy how hard life can get. One day you are a happy child, next day you are an adult who wishes be dead.
Thank you for this, good expression of "this".
Yep it’s the only the thing
Hell
Hell doesn’t exist, to believe it does, is illogical
@@orion9977I hope you’re right 😢
@@graemegeorgeharrison2468 Well if I am wrong, and a torture chamber actually exists in the afterlife, then I will see no reason to worship god. Why should I bow down to an invisible dictator in the sky who plays judge jury and executioner with his own creation? Why worship a god who tortures you if you happened to be in the wrong religion? According to the Bible, anyone who isn’t a Christian will burn for eternity. That is not the product of a loving god.
For many it's not depression. It's the material conditions - trying to survive financially in this sick capitalist system/society
When you realize no one cares
that's a lie a devil lie
I don’t know exactly what the final straw is but I’m feeling it coming down the line
Hang in there. Life comes in waves and the pain definitely doesn’t outweigh the pleasure even if it feels like that. Make a list of all the pleasures you find in life and all the pain you find in life then compare and contrast. Life is a rollercoaster. Hang in there and keep yourself cozy
Facts lol but we can’t do it because our souls will be lost in hell for all eternity. If we stick it out maybe we’ll be lucky and die in the next 40 years or less
@@YAHWEH_TSIDKENU ???no
far less I hope I will die in one year, I am 25 atm... I was raised in a neoprotestant family so I know the risk of suicide, it is eternal punishment and I am scared but I want to die...@@YAHWEH_TSIDKENU
@@YAHWEH_TSIDKENUyeah worshipping a God who burns people for eternity is not my cup of tea unfortunately. Really unfortunate
It really doesn’t help that we live in such a “virtual” society now. Nobody goes out, nobody really talks - everybody lives life through a phone. I think that’s a huge culprit - no meaningful conversations take place any more. Life is drab, isolating, depressing and far too “virtual” - nothing feels real. The number of mothers who cross the roads, or walk down the streets ignoring their children whilst texting - they don’t care if a car is coming down the road they cross. People grow up nowadays being completely ignored in favour of staring at a phone. And we wonder why so much depression and suicide in modern life.
People do go out. It's the ones that don't that get bitter because they wish they had the courage to go out and make connections.
Compound that with meaningless bad paying jobs and that person is a ticking time bomb.
I agree somewhat, but not all bad-paying jobs are meaningless, in fact the opposite. Take Support teachers for example, or carers, my brother works with homeless people and autistic people because he's a caring person who wants to make a difference, yet he gets paid peanuts. Business development people and estate agents get far more money than he does. I don't think high-paying jobs are always meaningful and low-paid jobs have no meaning. I am a careers adviser and have a good grasp on the world of jobs and pay....@@419chris419 but you may have a point about people who don't or can't go out, some are victims of domestic violence or assault and have anxiety about going out, I don't think we can just cast blame on everybody who is not feeling confident in a world they see as threatening.
The more I go out the more I want to just be home with my internet and movies. Here I don't have to deal with the shit from shitty people in the "real" world.
That's false. People still go out, just surround yourself with the right people. Depression or suicide aren't caused by a cell phone, I don't know where you're getting that from. My depression and anxiety wasn't caused by that. My suicidal thoughts were caused by trauma and abandoment. I could care less who spends too much time on their phone, I would just stop talking to them if they ignore me.
Sometimes the hopelessness and dark emptiness of it all simply becomes overwhelming, it washes over everything and you just want it all the be over, you stop thinking and just let go. No more anything
I think the hardest part of dealing with depression and suicidal thoughts is that most people don't understand anything about it and they don't say the right things. As someone who deals with this regularly it gets very frustrating because so many people give me crap when I tell them how I feel but when they tell me I have nothing to be depressed about and dismiss me it makes me not want to open up at all. Then those same people complain that you get silent and don't let them in I just don't understand. I've experienced this with certain family members and it's excruciating. If you genuinely don't care about my struggles and what I'm going through and don't listen to me please don't expect me to open up to you or discuss it with you because I will not.
The story of my life.
Life is meaningless
They change their minds on their way down because of instincts. Nor because of logic
Exactly this
My wife wanting divorce, lumbar surgery that may screw my career, I need a total hip replacement from osteonecrosis of femur and I'm only 42....you need to be able to have a way to back out of it like be able to stand up if you lower yourself etc....I wish I was just born a tree in some untouched forest, racing to sunlight and then falling without sound
Suicide is not about being depressed.people need to stop thinking it is
Tell me more
You’re an idiot. Suicide is definitely from people being depressed.
This. I don’t think I’m depressed, at least how I understand it. Definitely not diagnosed. But if I wasn’t such a coward I would have been gone so long ago.
Idiot
Lame statement, then of course no follow-up
I just feel like I can't do this anymore 🧠
@jazr3232 you’re a f--ing m-ron
Suicide thoughts come from hopelessness, suicidal people want to live, and they probably have had a great vision of themselves once, they are more hopeless than tired, if they were tired they would rest and restart but they know that no matter what, somethings that contribute to their hopelessness never change and hence they stay hopeless and yearn to die once and for all. They would try a million more times if they had hope as they are the strongest people alive.. and the irony is when they are told that they are not alone and will be taken care of but they are left to rot and eventually die and those same people will then say why, why did they do that couldn’t they just live and be happy like us. Life will go on and honestly no one cares
I just want to be gone
Or, they could just be fucking drained, Dr. Like me. NOTHING is changing!!!!! Ok?
Pray that God will take my life. I always ask, and I never get my wish
Same
Real😊
In your experience ???? Come on throw that depression word around some more!!! All your doing is making money of people using a worn out phase.......
I just want to rest.. I need rest so much and I can’t rest and my body and soul is in excruciating pain. That’s my reason to want to die, but I stay because of my dog and family
Someone close to me jumped in a 10 feet pool, he's only 4'8 that time... we saved him though but after that incident, when we asked him how he is... he just stared into nothing and told us that he wondered how everyone thought who have had the same experience as him because from his perspective it feels "calm" and it's a lot "quieter" down there...
Very good video. I watch from abroad. My country is Hungary we have the highest suicide rate in the world.
Joska
16 Egressy Gabor Street
Budapest Hungary Europe.
@josephstorc7148: Are there places in the area where you live to have a cup of coffee or tea ? A coffee or tea cafe’ ?
And that to me, is what no one except you and I are listening to. He is telling us exactly what he needs and can't find any other way, yet the professionals ignore what they haven't been addressing in treatment, which is how to help, which is how to actually prevent him from wanting to die.
@@josephstorc7148 Wow, I was not aware of that, and that must make it difficult to live there. Anyone actually helping people?
@@josephstorc7148 why would you dox yourself bro
My husband committed suicide because he was in so much pain
Iran here. As someone suffering from a severe condition (anxiety or whatever it is), I've been ready to go for 22 years now (just not brave enough to commit anything, you know). Lucky those who live in countries when eu.tha.na.sia is legal.
Being unloved is the saddest feeling
Being unloved is the saddest feeling
I'm close to giving up.
There is a song by Smashing Pumpkins and one of the lyrics starts off “The World Is a Vampire.” Life is a double edged sword. People are hyper critical and hyper competitive. It’s worse than before. If you can hike through a forest, you will feel the peace from the spirit of the trees. We become our environment and sometimes we can’t escape the situation we are in until later on in life. Hang in there and don’t let go. I have found that people will feel better if they avoid gluten. Sometimes foods, especially sugar can trigger depression. Food can create mood, but life also dishes it out all the time. I am so sorry for your pain. Bless you.
Monitor 😢😢😢
Sometimes when your surrounded by people who don’t have your best interest and are just their to bring you down in life. You kind of find a getaway when you think about committing suicide. Unfortunately waking up in the morning is harder then trying to go to sleep. It never ends.
I want to end it all because I’ve made awful choices in this life and have zero connection with anyone now 😢😢😢😢
Am I the only one that gets excited at the idea of death? I find it like the only source of light and the only thing I want in my life?
Dont' you guys agree? Ppl areound me disagree and it's so weird
Going under for a surgery, that blackness brought me so much peace, I want the forever. I've just had enough ❤️
Tiredness tips them over. They’re just can’t fight anymore & think the fight will never end. Just tired
They pay psychiartrist all this money but are they really helping people. Is the mdication they provide working or is it another drug that makes your body depenedent on it and die if you dont take it
Very unhelpfull speaker..poor information told....sad..very..very sad.
“Better treatment”? Yeah right. The only reason feign to care is to keep an indentured servant on this earth.
last 3 years have been horrible & ive never thought about it so much. wtf is the point of living if all a person does is work work work. For what? just to lose it all to the ridiculous cost of everything - food, rent, gasoiline, insurance, is #1, a normal person cant get ahead in todays world, will never own a home.
I just wake up early day in and day out to work a crappy job with long hours with crappy pay doing tedious mind numbing tasks all day
Then I go home and I’m just alone. What am I suppose to do? How am I suppose to he happy in a life like?
I’m already at the point where I just don’t want to take it anymore.
My dogs are the only reason I get up every day.
Happiness is with you. find it.
My life is brutal, hurtful pointless I'm showing signs of liver problems from my drinking I'm very aware of what's happening .fly little butterfly fly
Im thinking about it now. Fuck this shit. Fr,
The tipping point is literally losing the last thing you love..
It’s not having friends or family and the once person that stuck around let you down
I find this extremely insulting, in terms of reinforcing the stereotypes of suicidal people into simplistic characatures sp? that DO NOT ALWAYS FIT. And that means so many will never find hope.
To substitute (and paraphrase) 'drugs and alcohol can lower the barriers that would allow people to be more susceptible to acting on that impulse' for real understanding, or even attempts to understand is extremely offensive to me because it just tells me this is what you are content to believe. Yet, this has not reduced the suicide rates, so theres that slight detail you leave out.
@jazr3232 oh God and I have many conversations about all the different perspectives on this. Its a deep conversation that I wish more people were allowed to talk about, without being immediately shut down.
really think do you really wanna be here ??
For me, it’s such a strange paradox. The first 20/25 years of my life were bliss. Then, my selfishness, irresponsibility, immaturity…whatever, resulted in dreadful (predictable but), dreadful consequences. Now, I wake up every day feeling as though the very fabric of the universe is repulsed by my continued existence.
Can someone talk to me
Hello…. How are you ؟
Try listening to Dr Jordan B Peterson videos on UA-cam or podcasts . He will give you hope and/or try attending your local Christian church and someone will listen to you and offer you Christian prayer
“What’s the final straw?” There is no straw, there is nothing,
It is way too much I cannot to go on like this
Every suicidal knows that point when they hit their "last straw". Thats the moment you realize the ppl you care about and don't wanna see you expired don't matter anymore. Honestly no purpose and reason to live is an existential hell for me
We have homelessness. Low income. Cannot afford things the way we used to. They don't talk about that
long term physical pain, no home , not much money left, no family and sooo much pain and two years of 2-3 hours of sleep or less a nigh
Being on this planet has been the worst thing ever, being a college graduate in a foreign country where no one will hire you, cast to fend for yourself only cause you left your country for a better life - what other option do I now have than to take my own life?
Hey do you need to talk? On here or some other way? I’m sorry things have been difficult for you, I know it gets tough. But please please don’t give up. I know it may not seem right, but your life is worth so much that it shouldn’t be taken away like that. There is always another way in life. Please know God is there watching and taking care of you. Jesus loves you, died, and rose for you to give you everlasting life as you turn to Him, so please don’t give up! Reach out if you want to talk friend. You are loved and you matter sooo much
Hang in there and don’t let go. You bring value to this world. Teach English for now. Many opportunities. Life is like a river and it just takes us places, without us knowing maybe where we are headed. You won’t know if you are no longer here. You matter too, even though we live in a world like we do. You matter. Give it time. Life will dish it out like this. Hang in there. Blessings.
It’s just fitting that the medication has so many adverse side effects too.
Trading off one set of unpleasant realities for another.
When everyone are against you or just stopped to care, it is very hard to find the will to live.
I just want to encourage anyone out there who may be thinking about taking their own life not to. I know a lot of young people put a lot of pressure on themselves with both work and school but always rememeber you are precious to the Lord, God bless.
We'll likely never know but I wonder how much meds play into it. Some meds help numb everything so you are always just "okay" but the side effects of others can make you manic and feel that much worse. Some drugs to reduce SI will actually react bad and make it much worse. Yet the doctors (psychiatrists) can sleep easy blaming there mood that caused it not the new med they prescribed.
I am on meds, and have been for a long time. Unfortunately, its not an answer, and yet thats all thats offered, and the success rate of meds is more dismal than anyone is willing to admit. Bottom line, there is no real interest in society to try to understand suicide because if they did, they would be asking and listening to the experts: the people who are thinking about suicide.
Wrong. Thinking of/considering suicide does not render a person depressed..it’s often a light speed glance. Of course it’s a fucking option. Don’t tell me only the depressed think of this. Sadness alone doesn’t kill or cause depression.
i think fundamentally it is a feeling of hopelessness; a belief that it is the proper thing to do in response to a situation. whether or not that manifests via depression, is a case by case basis.
Psychiatrists are professional gaslighters. Mind rapists.
I have lost all attraction for men. I say to myself no one could possibly love you or want you. I have accepted that and I spend a lot of time with myself 😂. I wish things could be different but that is pure fiction. smh 🤦🏼♀️.
In my opinion, the idea of suicide crosses everyone's mind especially a person with a mental illness or substance addiction. Talking about suicide and mental illness is a way in understanding it more and breaking the stigma attached. By talking about it, the sharing of the experience of the human mind brings a little more comfort to the individuals. Improving the quality of life takes both parties and not only the single individual's actions can achieve success.
Kevin Cheung ua-cam.com/video/-9Qfzvghs30/v-deo.html
why does it help to talk if no one really listen. for people like me who started with a whole piece of paper now trying so hard to cling to the only liittle piece I have there is no way in or out I'm just not here anymore
800,000? And it's voluntary. Consensual. It's very popular then. Definitely trending! Must be have something going for it. Worth a look. Thanks for the heads up.
So true. My boyfriend had bipolar, was depressed, got drunk with his brother-in-law, and, hence, his guard was down. No resistance. He felt (obviously) wholly depressed and hopeless, and he was also drinking and therefore his normal resistance was definitely down- or gone. Thank you for your answers. I'll never know the entire truth- but this was helpful to hear.
I love my father. But his expectations from me is driving me crazy.
I don't have the will to live anymore.
We give up. But people don’t see it. When they see it they turn away.
I surrender all the pain, the darkness, the grief and the self judgement.
I am ready to have it all transmuted to joy, comfort, bliss, miracles,
magic, beauty, happiness, and strength, and aliveness...
I hate how professionals are assuming this is all about self hatred, adding to the stigma that adds to the judgment people feel that they must be a loser to consider suicide. Does not help.
that judgment of our self hurts more than the pain
Life is an illusion its the pain of the process leaving that keeps us trapped in this relm. Find a way to leave n be free.
I sometimes think of ending my life when i realize my parents and doctor had my foreskin removed at birth and i will never know what the physical act of love actually feels like.
WHY DONT YOU TALK ABOUT THAT DOCTOR?!
"The thought of suicide is a powerful comfort; with it one can come safely through many a dreadful night." -F. Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil, 157
Thompson Dorothy White Steven Rodriguez Gary
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but suicide is taking your pain and giving it to the people who love you. I’ve had suicidal thoughts all my life, and this is how I deal with them..
When you’ve lost faith on humanity. That includes family and friends. I would rather take a short cut and see my creator.
If doctors would help people with chronic pain we would want to live, pain medication something
There is another way to solve a problem besides suicide. It is to do the most basic things to ensure that you can breathe, eat, and have a place to sleep. The other things can be solved later.
Terrible awful chronic pain and no help from doctors
...es boqiito dificil este topica porque por muchas personas hay muchas machismo o machisma
The whole world hates me, and I am alone. What's the point of trying anymore, just to keep failing?
I don’t hate you. I actually wish we were in the same room. I’m going through my own stuff but something says we might be able to just sit down and cry together.
i´m about to so i could tell you.... But i wont, and no one cares. 🙃
200 reasons why you should live
1. your family
2. your friends
3. the feeling you get when you’ve finished something
4. the feeling you get when you get a compliment
5. the feeling you get when you buy new clothes
6. the feeling you get when you try on new clothes
7. the feeling you get when your room is tidy
8. the feeling you get when you're laughing hesterically.
9. the feeling you get when you make a new friend
10. the feeling you get when you make someone smile
11. you’d have to watch your family and friends grieve.
12. you’ve never been to that place you always wanted to visit.
13. you’ve never been to disney world.
14. you’ve never been skinny dipping.
15. you’ve never swam in a lake.
16. you’ve never met your idol.
17. you haven’t gotten married.
18. you’ve never decorated your own house.
19. you’ve never saved someone’s life.
20. you haven’t learnt to drive.
21. there is music you haven’t listen too.
22. you have so many more people to meet.
23. everyone who thought you’d do well in life, would have been wrong.
24. the people who said you’d end up no where, would have been right.
25. all the fake people would pretend to like u and post u on their stories.
26. you would have been the best mom or dad.
27. you haven’t lived the ‘my funeral will be packed’ type of life.
28. your friends would suffer.
29. your mum would never be able to walk into your room.
30. you haven’t apologised to people you have hurt.
31. someone loves you.
32. you are not alone.
33. i’m here for you.
34. the clothes you’re buried in might be gross.
35. you haven’t truly loved yourself yet.
36. suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems.
37. you haven’t watched your kids open their christmas presents.
38. you haven’t watched your kids grow older.
39. the pain you feel right now, isn’t forever.
40. there are so many foods you haven’t tried.
41. you’ll never get the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day.
42. finding your person.
43. really soft pillows.
44. eating pizza with your kids and partner.
45. you’ve never danced in the rain.
46. you’ve never kissed someone in the rain.
47. there are so many hobbies you haven’t tried.
48. you’ll never have a sleepover with your best friend again.
49. your friends would blame themselves.
50. your mom's smile.
51. your best friend's laugh.
52. your sister would lose her best friend.
53. your cousins that look up to you.
54. hot chocolate on cold days.
55. ice water on hot days.
56. getting a tan.
57. hearing ‘i love you’.
58. not being able to sleep the night before and exciting day.
59. your birthday.
60. you’ve never been to a nightclub.
61. long hot showers.
62. long steamy baths.
63. freshly shaved legs.
64. perfectly smooth hair.
65. watching people trip over small objects.
66. you could have a huge impact on someone’s life.
67. you would regret dying.
68. you can’t change your mind once you're gone.
69. you wake up everyday for a reason.
70. stars.
71. you will always be enough.
72. movies that make you feel warm when they’re over.
73. reading powerful quotes.
74. genuine smiles.
75. the crunch of autumn leaves.
76. christmas.
77. christmas eve.
78. decorating the tree.
79. long meaningful hugs.
80. sunsets.
81. ice cream.
82. you never got that puppy.
83. you are so brave, it would be a waste to let the fire go.
84. rainbows.
85. travelling to new places.
86. funny stories.
87. funny jokes.
88. inside jokes.
89. coffee.
90. your talents would go to waste.
91. the feeling you get when you’re truly happy.
92. all nighters with friends.
93. cuddling.
94. reconnecting with old friends and family.
95. smiling.
96. capturing perfect moments on camera.
97. swimming on a hot day.
98. feeling cozy in blankets.
99. helping other people with the same thing you got help with.
100 becoming successful.
101. cute babies.
102. cute old people.
103. love stories that make you jealous.
104. telling crazy stories.
105. watching lightning.
106. watching rain.
107. star gazing.
108. recovery.
109. melted chocolate.
110. freshly baked cookies.
111. late night adventures.
112. overcoming fears.
113. sunday mornings.
114. friday mornings.
115. you’ll be dead, forever.
116. you will make a difference to people.
117. picnics with friends.
118. waking up late.
119. waking up late and ending up being on time.
120. to prove them wrong.
121. to prove them you can.
122. to prove you're strong.
123. to love and be loved.
124. the ocean.
125. pets.
126. very loud music.
127. days out.
128. finishing a book.
129. conversations that just flow.
130. learning new things.
131. you are important.
132. you are wanted.
133. mistakes.
134. snow.
135. sun.
136. flowers.
137. flowers that look gorgeous but smell gross.
138. new bed sheets.
139. new home decor.
140. roller coasters.
141. theme parks.
142. smiling at strangers.
143. random acts of kindness.
144. the sound of water.
145. visiting a place from your childhood.
146. to look back on all the things you got yourself through on your own.
147. to feel proud.
148. reassurance.
149. cute nicknames.
150. long stares that make you feel loved.
151. meaningful gifts.
152. blowing out candles.
153. meeting online friends in real life.
154. success.
155. to work the job you always wanted.
156. the live the life you dreamt of.
157. babies smiling.
158. sleep.
159. slingshots.
160. breaking rules.
161. dreams.
162. the last day of school/work.
163. taking pictures.
164. brownies.
165. bubbles.
166. water slides.
167. holidays.
168. to fall asleep on someone.
169. to feel protected.
170. to grow taller.
171. to grow stronger.
172. to grow old.
173. to make memories you’ll cherish.
174. to laugh at old pictures.
175. to be loved by a pet.
176. the first signs of summer.
177. the first signs of autumn.
178. the first signs of winter.
179. the first signs of spring.
180. to binge watch a series.
181. to live independently.
182. to get somewhere in life all by yourself.
183. to not have broken any promises.
184. to fulfill your promises.
185. to breathe.
186. so you can tell your children stories of when you was there age.
187. so say you’re alive.
188. to know you’re stronger than you think.
189. falling in love.
190. you’ve never snuck out.
191. you’ve never not smashed your phone.
192. you’ve never stayed out all night.
193. you are a kind soul.
194. you have a warm heart.
195. you care for others.
196. the smell of pancakes.
197. when you walk over frosty grass.
198. you haven't truly apologized to all the people you've hurt
199. someone loves you.
200! to say you made it.
its beautiful but it still wont stop people that just have enough
I'll just say I can come up with a counter argument for almost everything
What’s the point of life anyways!
Why or why not 😂😂 people only truly understand stand it when they get to that point themselves and come back to tell about it discovering that ultimately your life is truly yours and you can choose to take it or choose to live is a very powerful thing most people never experience this and there for will never truly understand It or they just don’t get that we just want the pain to go away it never stops like for me I’m a whoops baby I didn’t ask to be hear mom was abusive used me for a paycheck was an outcast in school and have continued to be an OutKast most my life I relapsed last night burnt myself I’m a burner then got a bottle wasn’t going to went for a snack and they didn’t have it so I guess that was the trigger or maybe the isolation no I know what it is I’m a wage slave 😂 when back to my storage shed started drinking I’m not proud of it then I almost hunt myself out of no wear I’m like hey lest not do this so I left I’m like why don’t I reach to my so called friends I been there for them well the only person who answered was my ex and that didn’t go well she basically let me down pretty hard I’m like ok I’ll go to a friends house but who the one I know that won’t judge me darn there not home I’m like well I’ll reach out some more know one answered I’m spinning but this time tell myself I just need someone to talk me down call some more no answer then I call one last number by this time I’m like well last shot then I’m headed out it rings and rings then finally she answered the fucking homeless lady that lives in her car says hello I’m like hey thanks for picking I said I need you to talk me down she did for an hr needless to say I’m recovering the next day I put the suicide hotline in my contacts don’t tell someone your there for them when you know there going threw a hard time and then not pickup when it’s late at night and they keep calling you gave them hope then when they needed it well you wer not there don’t offer if your not gunna be there I realize now I’m alone and I might need to call someone again and we’ll I didn’t want to put the sucide hotline in my phone but last night I was close and no one cares and the people that said they did proved it I’m not shure when the urge will happen again I’m just gunna call the hotline and talk to some random person and spill it out maybe they will care because there getting paid to just shut up and listen
It’s a sad world
The gilt
Self hate
The shame
The disappointment in myself
Fear of judgment from others
People who have never attempted self harm or sucide don’t get it there like it’s a cry for attention
There immature but really it’s the feeling of something that is hard to put into words it’s a constant pain that won’t go away some days it’s not as strong other days it’s unbearable now I’m counting the days again
Think of it
Plan it
Set it up
Then the catalyst
If only someone from the dead want to take my life for em to live again im down so bad
I don't like anything in this world I feel like die daily
Hopeless.
It's all about chronic pain
Doesn’t the last sentence in the following paragraph carry a poignant message?
From the book Suicidal: Why We Kill Ourselves … author Jesse Bering.
And because depression also makes us more sensitive to signs of social rejection, we begin overestimating how much people actually care about our shortcomings. Of course, we really are being judged by others much of the time; it’s just that other people don’t actually care about our foibles and flaws as much as we think they do. They’re too busy worrying about what others think of their own.
My mind is not working sir
I was adopted and it never bothered me until adult life. I just feel I float in life no roots no future. I'm just here. I always had awful anxiety from a child that's left me in a dead end job just because I can't push myself to better it. The anxiety and low confidence has already killed me.
I watch the world and how people carry on in life and I just can't be that person to get ahead in life. I feel like I'm in some experiment and I'm watching from the outside looking in. I know I'll end things before nature decides. I just don't know when down the road that will be.
They want to address mental health but not what's causing it. Bullshit
These people can literally have you molested if they think it will help you. They can set up any situation in your life to probe you or try and figure you out. Have you physically assaulted or anything else its crazy.
Which people? The medical personnel in the video?
What?
Medication will push the influence out but the influence needs to be given direction and science cannot do this.
@jazr3232 I was unfortunate I took on board what Satan was implying. I doubted . The blessings instantly disconnected me from the will of God. Everything granted was taken back. The abyss . I heard god has a son.. here I am . Mat 7.21. Now forever more.
@jazr3232 I know believers are everything to jesus and to God those that believe in jesus. We only need to say his name every single atom and molecule acknowledges his name . I believe his presence is in the eurcharist. Plus we all have guardian angels and they were given charge over us. Quickening of the flesh in the bible. They have a task involving us. I ignored mine that's why Satan watched me. God jesus and all his servants let the rope out so to speak i was given direction at the start of the journey but I didn't know those people are my guardian angels.
Loosing, failure, embarrassments, drugs and relationships are some of the leading causes of suicide followed by some sort of mental illness...but the bad part is that moments before suicide nobody thinks about their family so they only think about themselves
I'm 22 had so much going for me developed skitzophrenia lost my family and girlfirend I don't know how I'm gonna continue
How do you know what they think about?
@@Slidehhy Back in 1996 when I prayed to accept Jesus as my savior from the very second that I opened my mouth till I said the last word from the prayer of salvation, an electricity/Holy Spirit came on me from the tips of my toes to the top of my head.
Not the kind of electricity that painfully shocks you. It was a good electricity. I KNEW it was the Holy Spirit of God unseen by fleshly eyes. He is spirit and around us all the time.
The Holy God Jesus LOVES us more than anyone else in the universe. If anyone reading this wants to turn away from sin and accept the Holy Ones offer of salvation then say the prayer below out loud and with a little faith and be saved.
Lord Jesus, for too long I’ve kept you out of my life. I know that I am a sinner and that I cannot save myself. No longer will I close the door when I hear you knocking. By faith I gratefully receive your gift of salvation. I am ready to trust you as my Lord and Savior. Thank you, Lord Jesus, for coming to earth. I believe you are the Son of God who died on the cross for my sins and rose from the dead on the third day. Thank you for bearing my sins and giving me the gift of eternal life. I believe your words are true. Come into my heart, Lord Jesus, and be my Savior. Amen
Wrong *Trump Voice*
My family is evil and I haven't spoken to them in several years. Due to poverty I am stuck in these relationships with who mistreat me.
You are like this generic anti suicide articles that say just go to family for support. All because that's an option for YOU.
You look like the main guy of Jackass. Johnny Knoxvillle but an older version
Oh so and so was sad here n there? Oh shit! He had depression! No no no, not always. Sometimes people just snap and make an awful decision
I wouldn't change my mind
Ive only heard about 1 guy who jumped then rethought it. Doent even sound feesible when you're plummeting at some terrifying speed yhat you're even able to think clearly or for any duration of time cud it dont take thT long to hit that water. Life can really suck for those with severe suicidal sepression panic attacks and extremely narcissistic family who push you over the edge even when they witnesses multiple suicide attempts. Its like being in Hell..
Eh. I would end it right now if I absolutely knew it would be instant and would for sure kill me. I know if I suffered, my bodily response would be to attempt to try and keep myself alive, but I know that’s just a reactionary thing.