I'm tired of being concerned about being pleasing in the eyes of others. I'm clean. Well groomed. I'm thin and I wear boots with heels and black velvet leggings. AND I LOVE IT. I'm 66. I'm not going to die without knowing how good it feels to be comfortable and sleek. So there! Enjoy fun things and run with it while you can; nursing homes don't give fashion shows. Also...bad posture will add 10 years at least, no matter what you're wearing. Also...I subscribed 😄
At 67, I still love fashion. Being retired, I wear comfortable clothes that are still stylish. I love straight leg jeans that have some stretch to them- and knit tee shirts and tops. I still love chunky winter sweaters too! I am rather slender so I still do wear leggings and jeggings with a long top that covers in the back. I found huge scarves to be too overpowering for me years ago so I stick to small ones that just tie around my neck. Margaret, I love the top and necklace- they are just beautiful like you!💕
WE should love fashion..it is the ONE thing we can control when it comes to not blending into the background..I too am 67..and I wish I had a more casual eye but I end up buying very dresy tops to wear with jeans..
I definitely agree with most all those mentioned. Wear what you love, that loves you. Accentuate modesty. Wear a delightful favorite parfume/ scent. And don't forget your smile.
Margaret, I'm with you - a lot has to do with body shape. I'm thin and my best physical attribute is long legs w/narrow hips; so for me, black leggings with booties and some kind of loose top is the go-to outfit for every day. I've gotten compliments on my look, so I'm sticking with it for a while!
I have just lost a lot of weight and now have a pretty good shape. I did not when I was young. Last year I would not have dreamed of wearing leggings. Now I have the shape that is good and since they are all the rage so now I wear them with the tunic tops and everyone is amazed at how good I look and I am 70!!
I'm 57...doing my best to stay in shape. Leggings are for bodies without bumps, bulges, and muffin tops...and that's for any woman. I agree with an earlier comment that the younger generation could stand to learn some fashion sense! Enjoying your channel. Thank you!!
I'm a big fan of scarves. They're either around my neck or in my hair. My personal take on the subject is I'm 61, I survived raising teenagers, and now have teenage grandkids. If I want to wear my bell-bottom jeans, I do it. Tight clothes and short skirts are out for me, but I enjoy being a woman in my 60's, even though everything is sagging and nothing is where it used to be. There's huge freedom in knowing I don't have to dress to impress anyone, but I still enjoy feeling pretty. I always enjoy your vids! You're a real joy to watch!!
Love your necklace! I agree about large scarves. Frankly I am no longer happy with turtlenecks and other things that draw attention to an aging neck. As for leggings, I only use them under dresses. But I think that is more a matter of body shape than age. There are younger women who should NOT wear them but do. The key is knowing and respecting yourself and your body. Also great points on underwear and bras. Thanks!
I love your non judgemental suggestions while encouraging women to do what feels good to us. I’m 69 and am again just now paying attention to and enjoying fashion & creating my own style. I’m thoroughly enjoying your channel. 🙏🏽 Thank you & all the best to you. R.
Very good advice. My oldest son says that leggings are NOT a right but a privilege. I prefer straight leg jeans. I'm only 5'1" so I have to be careful about length and bulkiness. Colours is where I let loose and have fun. I enjoy all your posts and appreciate them. Keep up the good work.
I’m very petite and wear skinny jeans and biker jackets I also have blonde shoulder length hair which I put rose gold through so it comes out a lovely pinkish tone. Also still wear a glittery nose stud that I had done many years ago this is my style I’m still in my 50s but I dress for myself and don’t care what others think off me strangely enough I often get compliments about my hair by young people never older lol I guess for some I am a walking faux pas lol 😂 Your hair would look great with pastel pink in too I’m sure you did it once before on a video. I wear leggings in doors as comfortable but don’t wear them out at all. I love dresses too. Blessings
I agree that we should wear what we like. Over sixty is just a number and if you have the figure it is ok to wear what looks good on you. I have a trim figure still, but really struggle with the idea of wearing leggings. My sisters, who do where leggings and have good figures don’t understand this. Do what you feel good in, but always consult your mirror and be honest. I do this everyday.x
I loved legging until I realized that the black or one color accentuated my slightly bowed legs. I will wear them just housecleaning or something. Also, we live in a college town and they are done to death by the co-eds who wear tem with t-shirts and crop tops with ball caps. Ugh! They are good under a peasant skirt when it is cold or you don't have a slip handy. I am more bohemian, old counterculture, and like funky but balanced, not like I am trying to be 21 again. Thanks so much. I love your channel. I am 67.
Leggings with tunic/long tops are my favorite fall/winter style.The long tops (some to above the knee or six inches or so above) cover the lumps and bumps. I love the scarf look on those who can pull it off, but they've always been awkward for me, so I prefer a cowl neck top with fun earrings!
As I have aged, I have become extremely sensitive to synthetic fabrics. It's cotton for me these days. And that greatly limits clothing choices. I've accepted it and work with it.
I think a perfect fitting denim shirt and denim jacket belong in every natural fiber wardrobe. Along with accessories, and over a basic black dress or slacks you can look great. Natural materials have their own elegance.
@@marlyswilliams9949 Yes, love denim. Just found some Old Navy denim jeans that are 99% cotton. They feel really nice. I have a jean jacket, but in corduroy. Love. Also, tencel is a very stylish and comfortable fabric. I cannot do the spandex/elastane fabrics; they feel slimy on my skin.
Let's be honest, most of these faux pas have to do with weight. If a person is slim almost anything will look good on them, no matter the age. I'm petite but currently carrying about 10 extra lbs that I hope to get off before too long. It makes all the difference!
Margaret, there was a statement in this post that women of color will notice immediately, as I did. For those of us who have skin tones that range from deep tan to brown to dark brown to almost black, a beige bra is not flesh tone for us. When I was growing up, light hose were labeled "nude," which was not nude for me. Manufacturers caught on slowly and began to give their undergarments actual color names. I'm not offended at all because it is a habit for white women to use the term beige for garments when thinking of skin color; however, I believe the habit is breaking. I noticed a similar response from Vera Bozinovski below. Thanks for listening, Margaret.
Anita M its flesh toned for her and since we don’t name nor decide how items are marketed why even bring this up. Why not take it to someone who has the ability to change the norm. I personally laugh at this sort of thing because I couldn’t imagine being the pressed about the name of colors or marketing terminology but hey everyone got their own mental stuff I suppose.
NORML Change always starts small. When you are part of a small group most people don’t ever think of your needs. My ethnic group is WAY smaller than white or black in the USA. ‘Course ya’ll in those 2 big color groups never think of OTHER colors in hardly any conversations...
I love leggings but I will only buy good quality ones in a thick fabric that do not show "lumps and bumps". I only buy black ones and always wear them with a tunic that is mid-thigh length. I find it is the cheaply made ones that look bad on most women. I am retired so I can be as casual as I want. I was surprised at the advice about the scarves but I have to say that it was a good point. They probably do look too "matronly" on older women. I don't know what the feeling is regarding turtlenecks but I love them in the winter and they keep my neck warm.
Lana - I like that look as well. Legging and jeggings are SO comfortable for running around all day. I only wear the thicker fabrics in dark colors with tops covering my bum or longer. I've seen women of ALL ages wearing lighter colored leggings, showing EVERY lump of cellulite. I think that purple is a flattering color for most women and I find a full-length mirror crucial for a quick peek on my way out the door.
The colors you have on are attractive. My style embraces classic clothes even though I no longer work and wear my classic clothes. Love scarves-they are colorful and a beautiful accent....just not the huge ones. Enjoyed your thoughts today.
I wore leggings in my thirties and more recently in my sixties. But one day I realized they just accentuated my slightly bowed legs, even though I wore with a tunic. Now I wear them just around the house. Many younger women wear them with short tops which is supposed to be a fashion Faux Pas. But, still, some look nice even though. I really don't care for the trend to dye one's hair an unnatural color like bright blue. I have seen some highlighted colors that look nice but I saw an older woman with a face full of wrinkles and bright electric blue hair. It just made her look very harsh. And I am not putting down wrinkles. They are part of aging and nothing is wrong with aging but this look just does not appeal to me. Thank you for your good information.
I absolutely agree with Melanie about leggings. Our knee and leg shape seems to change over 60 and a bulging knee shape is ugly and aging ...in my opinion!
I wear leggings under shorter dresses with boots for warmth. I have one pair of very heavy duty ones that I can weae with long sweatshirts or sweaters. I am not thin, but more of a medium build so not too lumpy LOL.
Thank you for the comment regarding scarves. I never liked anything to close around my neck, including chunky jewelry, and now I can repurpose the few larger scarves I own without guilt. ;-)
Some leggings are very soft but others hold you a bit firmly (lifting/anti cellulite) I mainly wear patio dresses with big pockets! I love fashion and think everyone should dress to delight themselves💙🌈💙 thank you for the videos!
Oh, I love this video 😉 All great points about faux pas. I am in the camp of not finding leggings to be attractive. I do wear long yoga pants at home for comfort but never wear outside. I do wear a pair of jegging-like jeans with knee-high boots and long blouses and cardigans in colder months. I admit, I do have to be aware and check for the “frump-factor”. I also learned something new from this video. I have been frustrated with scarves lately. Scarves used to be a signature fashion item for me. However, I began to feel overwhelmed by the bulk and never felt comfortable with the wrapping of layers. I now realize that bulky scarves do take the attention away from a clean elegant look. I will be clearing some of the bulky scarves from my closet and keep a few that will come in handy as a stay-at-home shawl 😂 Anyone feel the same about ponchos that have come back on the fashion scene the past few years?
I wish some shoe company would design a glamorous shoe for older women....pointed toe but wide shoe box/1-1/2" heel tapered so that it doesn't look like a block and even an open vamp for evening? Also pointed shoes with wide toe box but cut outs on the top.....and under $100! that would be a gold mine for some shoe company - oh and the shoe has to bend.....not a flat stiff unmovable platform!
Regarding the belt comments I am fortunate to still have a small waist in comparison to my hips but that the cut of trousers/pants currently made now do not flatter my waistline so I absolutely need a belt to add shape, otherwise I have a large gaping space at the top of my trousers.
You look terrific in this purple plum color! Thank you for this video about accentuating our assets. Yes, because of uplift, some bras give us a more youthful appearance. Love the modern seamless underpants. I am also experimenting with scarves and belts. Your timely message is on target...from Grandma Bunny in Arizona.
I love leggings, but I don’t wear them unless I have a top that’s long. But I don’t really care if my legs aren’t perfect. I have always had short stubby legs and I do not make myself suffer especially when it’s very hot and humid. Women are NOT all like Barbie dolls. Dressing neatly in clean clothes that are reasonably modest is JUST FINE WITH ME. Maybe you should suggest that only perfectly shaped women should be allowed out of the house. The rest of us can just order groceries online?
I will be 74 next month. I'll probably never be fully grey. Just isn't happening although I do have some. And I'm blessed in many ways so I don't have real complaints. But, as much as I love denim jeans, I am not comfy in them. Have always had a bit of a belly, even when I was young and thin, Just my nature. I love fashion for myself and simply because I like looking good. So, currently, I wear leggings on regular days (I'm also a power walker and that's what one wears!). I know they look better on skinny women but I do need to be comfy. I wear regular slacks if not walking/exercising/running errands. Margaret, love all your videos. You so so much to help and guide the rest of us. Thank you!
I agree about the leggings & always have; they are not pants & should be treated as tights. I have some jeggings that I Only wear around the house, with the requisite long tops, and I bought them in a big enough size so as to not show my celulite. I have a couple of those over-sized scarves, because they can be very pretty, but for me, at 68, and always having had a short neck anyway, I wear them as light weight shawls, to get the spark of colour & pattern, without the extra bulk.
If you do leggings, be sure even if you have a nice figure, that their fit and coverage is modest....Jackie O secret was modesty...not everyone should be privy to precious you!
Some things to think about . I do agree that there are a lot of women of all ages out there wearing some very unflattering leggings . The closest thing I have to leggings is a heavy weight cargo style that I bought a size up in so they are fitting more like a pant - they are very comfortable though . Recently I saw a woman wearing an ankle length legging under a looser cropped pant - I thought it looked ok and extends the wear of lighter fabrics into the fall . Might give that a try . Scarves are one of the easiest and best ways to finish an outfit but the bulky big ones are for the younger set I agree . This summer I discovered 'TeeHees' on Amazon - a little skin shaded toe covering for sandals or such . Fashion should be enjoyable at our age - we've earned it !
On the subject of bras, I wear the ones with the butterfly patch that covers your nipple so if you cold you don’t hv to worry about them sticking out and at 75( this is very distasteful, but hv worn these at least 20 years Then, panties Zi hv never worn since age of 30 do not ever hv to worry about lines Love your video and it is very informative
At 62 I stay away from leggings but some can wear them if they are a solid dark color made of quality material with a dress. No fun colorful patterns. I also wouldn't wear the ripped jean style. I couldn't imagine going out and finding myself dressed the same as a twenty-year-old
I agree with you about the leggings. I only wear around the house and to yoga class. I'm a jean girl myself and have been able to find ones that fit. As far as ripped jeans go, not for me, way to expensive.
Hi Raquel - this was another thrift store special! I am very fortunate to have a recycling center that often has lovely pieces - i donate a lot of things there too = so believe in good karma~ :-)
We all figure out what we love and what we do not. Usually what we love for ourselves is what others love. An ill-fitting bra is something we ourselves know about (uncomfy) and therefore does not look good. My mother always had a fight with bras and so I make it a point to not have that fight. I keep up on my measurements (because they do change) and purchase bras and under things that feel good when I wear them. I think then and only then can you feel good in the clothes you put over them....and tights?? Never happening in Orlando....LOL
Always the diplomat Margaret, I just love it! And Love your videos! I'm super skinny and super petite - sadly "tights/leggins" are the only "Pants" I can keep from falling off. My rule of thumb is to ensure the crotch area is covered by a long shirt or tunic. This often leaves me feeling frumpy because it conceals my waistline. What's a girl to do!?! I do wear scarves year-round because I get so cold in AC or cold weather. I have a huge selection, I twist, wrap, tie, or sling over my shoulder based on my outfit. Sometimes I tie it to my bag strap for a snap of color. I'm switching over to my "winter" collection now that temps have dropped. I'm often complimented by strangers on my outfits, so I'm thinking it must be working for me! Your neck is beautiful and I can see why she recommended showing it off! Happy Fall!
Yes, I think there are some things that a faux pas. My pet peeve is strapless dresses to church- I do not care if your church has no air condition! You look naked to those sitting behind you and that’s distracting from worshipping the Lord.. another thing I do disagree with a lot “ don’t wear this unless you want to look old - capris ( longer ones). I am older , I’m not going to look any older wearing them. To me it’s posture that gives you age away.
One big fashion faux pas that drives me bonkers is seeing a woman in her 60s dressed up in the style of a 16 year old. We can see your face,you don't look like a teenager. It's so undignified. I know women like this.
I’m petite 4’10 I have an apple shape and honestly nothing looks good on me. Sometimes I want to go out, but I change my mind after seeing myself in the mirror. 😢
I think leggings are fine at any age, if thick enough and covered by a top or layers covering the bum. Please, no hideous patterned leggings. Don't wear a thong under leggings because it SHOWS. I much prefer leggings to women wearing sweatpants or pajama pants in public. A large scarf or turtleneck works on taller women or those with a long neck.
At 66, and 5’1.5’, I have to be careful about clothes that overwhelm me. I want to wear the clothes and not have the clothes wear me 😊. I still wear leggings around the house and have one pair that is very thick that I wear out with a long sweater or shirt. Scarves - there are accent scarves then there are these blanket scarves which are great for at home as wraps on chilly evenings or even as home accents. I always wear a heavier scarf with my Fall/Winter coats. After seeing you wear colorful bead necklaces Margaret I may need to find one (or make one) as they go with so many things you wear!
Finding this 2 years after it was posted. I was struck by your constant assurance that we should wear what we like, which kind of contradicts the premise of the video, but all very gentle suggestions. I am 57 with legs that have long been an asset, and I have a ton of leggings that I normally wear with a top that covers the waistline but not necessarily the top of my thighs or my whole rear. Comfortable, and I often get compliments. Discovered the bra and seamless undie "secrets" a few years ago, to my delight. Haven't been able to enjoy scarves since menopause, still find them too warm, even the light ones! Will follow this channel from 2022, thanks!
Fashion?Meh... my wardrobe is Jean's, tshirts, polo tops and sweatshirts, with comfy shoes, and jewelry! I would rather buy a new pair earrings than a item of clothing!
At 73, I try to be comfortable, a bit stylish and yet not be a “grandma trying to dress like a teen”. My daughter is a good style-o-meter. I do ask if something isn’t age appropriate since she will be honest. I also have 5 grandsons who want the best for me...one even calling me Grandmafashionista. My legs are too skinny so leggings make me very self conscience. And after several breast surgeries, a more Boho look on top seems to make me feel more feminine. Margaret, I do agree with you...if you like something and feel good about yourself wearing it, go for it, but listen to advice and when it “fits”, follow it. Have a great day💜Pat
@@sixtyandme I have heard some stylists discourage this, saying that if you need them, you are just not wearing the right size. But the fact is that I am just barely a B cup with a nearly C cup rib cage. What am I supposed to do? The B cups just don't fit. I can't find an A cup or nearly B cup that has the right size for my rib cage (a 42). Even when I lost weight, I still had the problem. You do what you have to do to keep the ladies up there.
I have a problem with bathing suits! And now I’m starting to have a problem with my jeans now with my belly! 😂 it’s got rolls and I’m not fighting them any more! They are there and oh well all the gym work is just not going to get rid it! I would have to spend all my waking hours working out and well that’s not going to happen so I’ve been looking for long skirts to wear!
I think Melanie is right about the leggings. I see women out and about in them and in tights, using them as pants, and when you are trim or a runner, they can look good (you don't always look good in them if you are very thin), and I think this is just a mistake. One thing I would like to see is Melanie's tips for women who are struggling with their weight, maybe in the 200 pound range. What do you wear then to look good? Those mu-mu like tops are just awful. You already feel heavy and then seeing yourself in a photo makes you feel real bad. I think that's why women struggle with fashion. There isn't much made that's stylist for larger women. I am curious about StitchFix, though. Been thinking about giving it a try to see what they come up with. I like Loft and J.Jill's clothes, but again, their models are pretty thin. I think I've seen one or two catalogs with larger women but it's not a regular thing. Loft does a better job, but you can't find Loft Plus in stores to try on.
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Cowl necks have always worked better for me. The only scarves I wear are for warmth and to keep the snow/cold off my lower face by pulling them up for coverage!
I'm 77 and have yet to find a supportive bra that makes my clothes look good on me. Does anyone have suggestions as to a really good bra? I would prefer not to feel like I am wearing armor.
I have found Wacoal to work best for my body. Sometimes I add a bra extender to the back to be more comfortable. I think my back is wider than most, because the cups and front fit fine.
Finding the Chantelle line of bras has been fabulous! They have many styles; however, I buy their comfortable Minimizing one. The uplift makes my clothing fit in a far more flattering manner. I got a professional fitting at a store called "Dillards'. Yes, I would have chosen the wrong size. -;) Once you get the fitting, finding sales on them online will be easy. Highly recommend Chantelle. My daughter wears another style in this line and likes them.also.
Joan Rainwater-Gish I know what you mean!! I’ve had to upgrade my bras to something more “rigid” and I really felt uncomfortable at the start. But it will only feel like armor for a short while. The body will get used to it and it will also soften with washing and wearing.
Leggings, even a gorgeous body and legs should be reserved for those you choose. I think advertising your wares to everyone is not profitable to your soul, your self. It actually degrades who you are with others.
Margaret: Sorry to say, I no longer enjoy it. As I've gained weight, and my body changed, I feel invisible. I've tried hard to lose the weight to no avail. As I'm just give feet tall, I dislike my body now. I feel nothing looks all that attractive on me now. Sorry to sound negative.
@@roseyc.5846 Have you tried more vegetarian eating..lots of delicious vegetables, big, colorful salads served in mixing bowl, cut down on oils and processed " foods", oatmeal w berries and walnuts, ..I stopped eating meats ( still eat fish and eggs) and lost 24 pounds. Not intention, but for nutrition. I wish you well! Check out UA-cam Neal Barnard's, M.D. ❤
Always looking at fashions and love to mix it up a bit. I’ve finally found colours that suit me and my grey hair. Love good shoes and bags. Always wear makeup (had it done for me recently so I can recreate with some new looks). A good haircut too is so important. I’m 62 .
I do enjoy playing with fashion and style. I'm 4' 11" so finding things that fit is a challenge but that's the story of my life..lol. I resent having to shell out for alterations but they do make all the difference. I bought a navy blue pea coat recently and having the sleeves shortened cost me CAD $ 30. But it was worth it. Buying some of my clothes in thrift stores is a new thing for me and I've found some real gems. I find you have to spend a great deal of time going through racks and racks of used clothing, but hey it's a workout for the arms!
I'm tired of being concerned about being pleasing in the eyes of others. I'm clean. Well groomed. I'm thin and I wear boots with heels and black velvet leggings. AND I LOVE IT. I'm 66. I'm not going to die without knowing how good it feels to be comfortable and sleek. So there! Enjoy fun things and run with it while you can; nursing homes don't give fashion shows.
Also...bad posture will add 10 years at least, no matter what you're wearing.
Also...I subscribed 😄
You sound ADORABLE!
I agree, how about we just please ourselves instead of trying to win the approval of the fashion gurus? I also subscribed.
Peggy. Yes! Good posture is everything. And also healthy.
Personally I see more fashion Faux Pas on younger women.
I love listening to you, you're so positive and friendly, and not judgemental. I really appreciate that. :)
I love listening to her as well. Ideas without criticism. Love it.
At 67, I still love fashion. Being retired, I wear comfortable clothes that are still stylish. I love straight leg jeans that have some stretch to them- and knit tee shirts and tops. I still love chunky winter sweaters too! I am rather slender so I still do wear leggings and jeggings with a long top that covers in the back. I found huge scarves to be too overpowering for me years ago so I stick to small ones that just tie around my neck. Margaret, I love the top and necklace- they are just beautiful like you!💕
WE should love fashion..it is the ONE thing we can control when it comes to not blending into the background..I too am 67..and I wish I had a more casual eye but I end up buying very dresy tops to wear with jeans..
I definitely agree with most all those mentioned. Wear what you love, that loves you. Accentuate modesty. Wear a delightful favorite parfume/ scent. And don't forget your smile.
Margaret, I'm with you - a lot has to do with body shape. I'm thin and my best physical attribute is long legs w/narrow hips; so for me, black leggings with booties and some kind of loose top is the go-to outfit for every day. I've gotten compliments on my look, so I'm sticking with it for a while!
I have just lost a lot of weight and now have a pretty good shape. I did not when I was young. Last year I would not have dreamed of wearing leggings. Now I have the shape that is good and since they are all the rage so now I wear them with the tunic tops and everyone is amazed at how good I look and I am 70!!
I'm 57...doing my best to stay in shape. Leggings are for bodies without bumps, bulges, and muffin tops...and that's for any woman. I agree with an earlier comment that the younger generation could stand to learn some fashion sense! Enjoying your channel. Thank you!!
I'm a big fan of scarves. They're either around my neck or in my hair. My personal take on the subject is I'm 61, I survived raising teenagers, and now have teenage grandkids. If I want to wear my bell-bottom jeans, I do it. Tight clothes and short skirts are out for me, but I enjoy being a woman in my 60's, even though everything is sagging and nothing is where it used to be. There's huge freedom in knowing I don't have to dress to impress anyone, but I still enjoy feeling pretty. I always enjoy your vids! You're a real joy to watch!!
Modesty is good at any age.
Parler yes and then you can wear any color bra you want because you can’t see the color through your clothes. How sad to be restricted to beige bras.
Leggings (most) are the same as tights. Wear them as such. They aren't really pants.
Yes...see this every day and usually on someone who really, really shouldn't
I think it’s fine if you are thin and wear them with a top with a tail on back so all of your butt is not showing.
Love your necklace! I agree about large scarves. Frankly I am no longer happy with turtlenecks and other things that draw attention to an aging neck. As for leggings, I only use them under dresses. But I think that is more a matter of body shape than age. There are younger women who should NOT wear them but do. The key is knowing and respecting yourself and your body. Also great points on underwear and bras. Thanks!
I love your non judgemental suggestions while encouraging women to do what feels good to us. I’m 69 and am again just now paying attention to and enjoying fashion & creating my own style. I’m thoroughly enjoying your channel. 🙏🏽 Thank you & all the best to you. R.
Love the card behind you that says
"Start Aging Gratefully". ♡
Very good advice. My oldest son says that leggings are NOT a right but a privilege. I prefer straight leg jeans. I'm only 5'1" so I have to be careful about length and bulkiness. Colours is where I let loose and have fun. I enjoy all your posts and appreciate them. Keep up the good work.
You wear gorgeous bras for yourself, not anyone else. I will never restrict myself to revolting beige granny bras.
I’m very petite and wear skinny jeans and biker jackets I also have blonde shoulder length hair which I put rose gold through so it comes out a lovely pinkish tone. Also still wear a glittery nose stud that I had done many years ago this is my style I’m still in my 50s but I dress for myself and don’t care what others think off me strangely enough I often get compliments about my hair by young people never older lol I guess for some I am a walking faux pas lol 😂 Your hair would look great with pastel pink in too I’m sure you did it once before on a video. I wear leggings in doors as comfortable but don’t wear them out at all. I love dresses too. Blessings
I agree that we should wear what we like. Over sixty is just a number and if you have the figure it is ok to wear what looks good on you. I have a trim figure still, but really struggle with the idea of wearing leggings. My sisters, who do where leggings and have good figures don’t understand this. Do what you feel good in, but always consult your mirror and be honest. I do this everyday.x
My personal take, generally, dresses tend to be more flattering than skirts or pants. I do do layers, with thought, with my dresses.
I loved legging until I realized that the black or one color accentuated my slightly bowed legs. I will wear them just housecleaning or something. Also, we live in a college town and they are done to death by the co-eds who wear tem with t-shirts and crop tops with ball caps. Ugh! They are good under a peasant skirt when it is cold or you don't have a slip handy. I am more bohemian, old counterculture, and like funky but balanced, not like I am trying to be 21 again. Thanks so much. I love your channel. I am 67.
I think a nice scarf helps cover up my wrinkly neck and brings the beautiful colour near my face.
No belt to hold my pants up? If I dont, I'm always tugging my jeans up. Hmmm.
Leggings with tunic/long tops are my favorite fall/winter style.The long tops (some to above the knee or six inches or so above) cover the lumps and bumps. I love the scarf look on those who can pull it off, but they've always been awkward for me, so I prefer a cowl neck top with fun earrings!
As I have aged, I have become extremely sensitive to synthetic fabrics. It's cotton for me these days. And that greatly limits clothing choices. I've accepted it and work with it.
I think a perfect fitting denim shirt and denim jacket belong in every natural fiber wardrobe. Along with accessories, and over a basic black dress or slacks you can look great. Natural materials have their own elegance.
@@marlyswilliams9949 Yes, love denim. Just found some Old Navy denim jeans that are 99% cotton. They feel really nice. I have a jean jacket, but in corduroy. Love. Also, tencel is a very stylish and comfortable fabric. I cannot do the spandex/elastane fabrics; they feel slimy on my skin.
Harp, I've been a cotton girl all of my life. You're in good company! :D
Love that color of shirt on you and the beads are gorgeous.
Let's be honest, most of these faux pas have to do with weight. If a person is slim almost anything will look good on them, no matter the age. I'm petite but currently carrying about 10 extra lbs that I hope to get off before too long. It makes all the difference!
You are right Deborah!
Margaret, there was a statement in this post that women of color will notice immediately, as I did. For those of us who have skin tones that range from deep tan to brown to dark brown to almost black, a beige bra is not flesh tone for us. When I was growing up, light hose were labeled "nude," which was not nude for me. Manufacturers caught on slowly and began to give their undergarments actual color names.
I'm not offended at all because it is a habit for white women to use the term beige for garments when thinking of skin color; however, I believe the habit is breaking. I noticed a similar response from Vera Bozinovski below. Thanks for listening, Margaret.
Thanks for saying all of this so kindly. I've never thought of this at all. I am now educated!
@@lavenderperidot1359 You're very welcome, Teresa!
Anita M its flesh toned for her and since we don’t name nor decide how items are marketed why even bring this up. Why not take it to someone who has the ability to change the norm. I personally laugh at this sort of thing because I couldn’t imagine being the pressed about the name of colors or marketing terminology but hey everyone got their own mental stuff I suppose.
NORML Change always starts small. When you are part of a small group most people don’t ever think of your needs. My ethnic group is WAY smaller than white or black in the USA. ‘Course ya’ll in those 2 big color groups never think of OTHER colors in hardly any conversations...
I love your new hairstyle! You look so good with it.
I love leggings but I will only buy good quality ones in a thick fabric that do not show "lumps and bumps". I only buy black ones and always wear them with a tunic that is mid-thigh length. I find it is the cheaply made ones that look bad on most women. I am retired so I can be as casual as I want. I was surprised at the advice about the scarves but I have to say that it was a good point. They probably do look too "matronly" on older women. I don't know what the feeling is regarding turtlenecks but I love them in the winter and they keep my neck warm.
Lana - I like that look as well. Legging and jeggings are SO comfortable for running around all day. I only wear the thicker fabrics in dark colors with tops covering my bum or longer. I've seen women of ALL ages wearing lighter colored leggings, showing EVERY lump of cellulite. I think that purple is a flattering color for most women and I find a full-length mirror crucial for a quick peek on my way out the door.
The colors you have on are attractive. My style embraces classic clothes even though I no longer work and wear my classic clothes. Love scarves-they are colorful and a beautiful accent....just not the huge ones. Enjoyed your thoughts today.
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I wore leggings in my thirties and more recently in my sixties. But one day I realized they just accentuated my slightly bowed legs, even though I wore with a tunic. Now I wear them just around the house. Many younger women wear them with short tops which is supposed to be a fashion Faux Pas. But, still, some look nice even though. I really don't care for the trend to dye one's hair an unnatural color like bright blue. I have seen some highlighted colors that look nice but I saw an older woman with a face full of wrinkles and bright electric blue hair. It just made her look very harsh. And I am not putting down wrinkles. They are part of aging and nothing is wrong with aging but this look just does not appeal to me. Thank you for your good information.
I absolutely agree with Melanie about leggings. Our knee and leg shape seems to change over 60 and a bulging knee shape is ugly and aging ...in my opinion!
I wear leggings under shorter dresses with boots for warmth. I have one pair of very heavy duty ones that I can weae with long sweatshirts or sweaters. I am not thin, but more of a medium build so not too lumpy LOL.
Thank you for the comment regarding scarves. I never liked anything to close around my neck, including chunky jewelry, and now I can repurpose the few larger scarves I own without guilt. ;-)
Some leggings are very soft but others hold you a bit firmly (lifting/anti cellulite) I mainly wear patio dresses with big pockets! I love fashion and think everyone should dress to delight themselves💙🌈💙 thank you for the videos!
Thanks for sharing!!
Oh, I love this video 😉 All great points about faux pas. I am in the camp of not finding leggings to be attractive. I do wear long yoga pants at home for comfort but never wear outside. I do wear a pair of jegging-like jeans with knee-high boots and long blouses and cardigans in colder months. I admit, I do have to be aware and check for the “frump-factor”. I also learned something new from this video. I have been frustrated with scarves lately. Scarves used to be a signature fashion item for me. However, I began to feel overwhelmed by the bulk and never felt comfortable with the wrapping of layers. I now realize that bulky scarves do take the attention away from a clean elegant look. I will be clearing some of the bulky scarves from my closet and keep a few that will come in handy as a stay-at-home shawl 😂
Anyone feel the same about ponchos that have come back on the fashion scene the past few years?
Patricia Muir mm
I wish some shoe company would design a glamorous shoe for older women....pointed toe but wide shoe box/1-1/2" heel tapered so that it doesn't look like a block and even an open vamp for evening? Also pointed shoes with wide toe box but cut outs on the top.....and under $100! that would be a gold mine for some shoe company - oh and the shoe has to bend.....not a flat stiff unmovable platform!
I love scarves, especially my cashmere scarves for cool days. Have never been a fan of leggings, for the same reason that Melanie mentioned.
Regarding the belt comments I am fortunate to still have a small waist in comparison to my hips but that the cut of trousers/pants currently made now do not flatter my waistline so I absolutely need a belt to add shape, otherwise I have a large gaping space at the top of my trousers.
You look terrific in this purple plum color! Thank you for this video about accentuating our assets. Yes, because of uplift, some bras give us a more youthful appearance. Love the modern seamless underpants. I am also experimenting with scarves and belts. Your timely message is on target...from Grandma Bunny in Arizona.
I miss you sharing your morning cup of tea. 😟
Your make up and outfit are gorgeous today. Love the purple on you. Greetings from Chicago Illinois USA
You look great in that outfit Margaret. Thanks for this inspiration today! 😃
Thank you Sandra!
I love leggings, but I don’t wear them unless I have a top that’s long. But I don’t really care if my legs aren’t perfect. I have always had short stubby legs and I do not make myself suffer especially when it’s very hot and humid. Women are NOT all like Barbie dolls. Dressing neatly in clean clothes that are reasonably modest is JUST FINE WITH ME. Maybe you should suggest that only perfectly shaped women should be allowed out of the house. The rest of us can just order groceries online?
I will be 74 next month. I'll probably never be fully grey. Just isn't happening although I do have some. And I'm blessed in many ways so I don't have real complaints. But, as much as I love denim jeans, I am not comfy in them. Have always had a bit of a belly, even when I was young and thin, Just my nature. I love fashion for myself and simply because I like looking good. So, currently, I wear leggings on regular days (I'm also a power walker and that's what one wears!). I know they look better on skinny women but I do need to be comfy. I wear regular slacks if not walking/exercising/running errands. Margaret, love all your videos. You so so much to help and guide the rest of us. Thank you!
I agree about the leggings & always have; they are not pants & should be treated as tights. I have some jeggings that I Only wear around the house, with the requisite long tops, and I bought them in a big enough size so as to not show my celulite. I have a couple of those over-sized scarves, because they can be very pretty, but for me, at 68, and always having had a short neck anyway, I wear them as light weight shawls, to get the spark of colour & pattern, without the extra bulk.
If you do leggings, be sure even if you have a nice figure, that their fit and coverage is modest....Jackie O secret was modesty...not everyone should be privy to precious you!
Some things to think about . I do agree that there are a lot of women of all ages out there wearing some very unflattering leggings . The closest thing I have to leggings is a heavy weight cargo style that I bought a size up in so they are fitting more like a pant - they are very comfortable though . Recently I saw a woman wearing an ankle length legging under a looser cropped pant - I thought it looked ok and extends the wear of lighter fabrics into the fall . Might give that a try . Scarves are one of the easiest and best ways to finish an outfit but the bulky big ones are for the younger set I agree . This summer I discovered 'TeeHees' on Amazon - a little skin shaded toe covering for sandals or such . Fashion should be enjoyable at our age - we've earned it !
I really enjoyed this talk. But....would have loved to see examples of what you were talking about.
I thought the same then I went to her website and lo and behold there were examples x
On the subject of bras, I wear the ones with the butterfly patch that covers your nipple so if you cold you don’t hv to worry about them sticking out and at 75( this is very distasteful, but hv worn these at least 20 years
Then, panties Zi hv never worn since age of 30 do not ever hv to worry about lines
Love your video and it is very informative
I like chunky necklaces but because I'm short and pudgy, scarves seem to make me look dowdy. And thank the good Lord for leggings! :)
At 62 I stay away from leggings but some can wear them if they are a solid dark color made of quality material with a dress. No fun colorful patterns. I also wouldn't wear the ripped jean style. I couldn't imagine going out and finding myself dressed the same as a twenty-year-old
I agree with you about the leggings. I only wear around the house and to yoga class. I'm a jean girl myself and have been able to find ones that fit. As far as ripped jeans go, not for me, way to expensive.
Great advise. Love those cards.
By the way...you look wonderful!
Hair/ makeup/colors 👍👍👍‼️
You look especially pretty today! Love the necklace, & those colors are all lovely on you. Lipstick too!
I look forward to your wonderful advise! I have to keep motivated about using colorful clothes. Thank you for your ideas! Stay well!
Thank you! You too!
Saw several of your videos...and this one w/ the colors you have on wow= my first thought..looking good so I wanted tell you...
You’re so right no lines seamless 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸
Love love love your necklace! Where did you get it?
Hi Raquel - this was another thrift store special! I am very fortunate to have a recycling center that often has lovely pieces - i donate a lot of things there too = so believe in good karma~ :-)
I still love fashion.
Very nice necklace, and all these colors look terrific on you!!! Some visuals with this advice would be helpful. Shelley from San Diego
Thanks Shelley for the feedback!
We all figure out what we love and what we do not. Usually what we love for ourselves is what others love. An ill-fitting bra is something we ourselves know about (uncomfy) and therefore does not look good. My mother always had a fight with bras and so I make it a point to not have that fight. I keep up on my measurements (because they do change) and purchase bras and under things that feel good when I wear them. I think then and only then can you feel good in the clothes you put over them....and tights?? Never happening in Orlando....LOL
You look especially pretty today!
Meant to also say your eyes are gorgeous today, and I love your purple and teal!
I have super big legs (Bain of my younger life) & I wear leggings & love them. So comfortable.
But, I wear dress pants when ‘going out’
Agree with all your topics 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸
Lovely video! Thank You!
Love that necklace you’re wearing!
Wearing perfect color for you in this video.
Always the diplomat Margaret, I just love it! And Love your videos! I'm super skinny and super petite - sadly "tights/leggins" are the only "Pants" I can keep from falling off. My rule of thumb is to ensure the crotch area is covered by a long shirt or tunic. This often leaves me feeling frumpy because it conceals my waistline. What's a girl to do!?! I do wear scarves year-round because I get so cold in AC or cold weather. I have a huge selection, I twist, wrap, tie, or sling over my shoulder based on my outfit. Sometimes I tie it to my bag strap for a snap of color. I'm switching over to my "winter" collection now that temps have dropped. I'm often complimented by strangers on my outfits, so I'm thinking it must be working for me! Your neck is beautiful and I can see why she recommended showing it off! Happy Fall!
@Debbie Harding Truly great idea - but right now they are all too big! LOL thank you!!
Yes, I think there are some things that a faux pas. My pet peeve is strapless dresses to church- I do not care if your church has no air condition! You look naked to those sitting behind you and that’s distracting from worshipping the Lord.. another thing I do disagree with a lot “ don’t wear this unless you want to look old - capris ( longer ones). I am older , I’m not going to look any older wearing them. To me it’s posture that gives you age away.
Yes flower! Posture!
Good posture can make one look ten Years younger and elegant. Shoulders back, Tummy in. Head Up.
One big fashion faux pas that drives me bonkers is seeing a woman in her 60s dressed up in the style of a 16 year old. We can see your face,you don't look like a teenager. It's so undignified. I know women like this.
I’m petite 4’10 I have an apple shape and honestly nothing looks good on me.
Sometimes I want to go out, but I change my mind after seeing myself in the mirror.
😢
I think leggings are fine at any age, if thick enough and covered by a top or layers covering the bum. Please, no hideous patterned leggings. Don't wear a thong under leggings because it SHOWS. I much prefer leggings to women wearing sweatpants or pajama pants in public. A large scarf or turtleneck works on taller women or those with a long neck.
At 66, and 5’1.5’, I have to be careful about clothes that overwhelm me. I want to wear the clothes and not have the clothes wear me 😊. I still wear leggings around the house and have one pair that is very thick that I wear out with a long sweater or shirt.
Scarves - there are accent scarves then there are these blanket scarves which are great for at home as wraps on chilly evenings or even as home accents. I always wear a heavier scarf with my Fall/Winter coats.
After seeing you wear colorful bead necklaces Margaret I may need to find one (or make one) as they go with so many things you wear!
Finding this 2 years after it was posted. I was struck by your constant assurance that we should wear what we like, which kind of contradicts the premise of the video, but all very gentle suggestions.
I am 57 with legs that have long been an asset, and I have a ton of leggings that I normally wear with a top that covers the waistline but not necessarily the top of my thighs or my whole rear.
Comfortable, and I often get compliments. Discovered the bra and seamless undie "secrets" a few years ago, to my delight. Haven't been able to enjoy scarves since menopause, still find them too warm, even the light ones!
Will follow this channel from 2022, thanks!
Good advice as always!
Glad you think so!
I don't even know what shoe liners are.
Very useful content... Thank you! 😍
Glad it was helpful!
Fashion?Meh... my wardrobe is Jean's, tshirts, polo tops and sweatshirts, with comfy shoes, and jewelry! I would rather buy a new pair earrings than a item of clothing!
With you Delma!! I detest shopping. Have some great classic outfits almost twenty Years old and still look amazing. Good quality does not age.
Thank you Margaret! You are inspiring! ❤️
Your advice is valuable..♥️🤗
At 73, I try to be comfortable, a bit stylish and yet not be a “grandma trying to dress like a teen”. My daughter is a good style-o-meter. I do ask if something isn’t age appropriate since she will be honest. I also have 5 grandsons who want the best for me...one even calling me Grandmafashionista. My legs are too skinny so leggings make me very self conscience. And after several breast surgeries, a more Boho look on top seems to make me feel more feminine. Margaret, I do agree with you...if you like something and feel good about yourself wearing it, go for it, but listen to advice and when it “fits”, follow it. Have a great day💜Pat
Hi Margaret and All
I just bought bra extenders. My bras don't pinch now. So much more comfortable.
I use them too - such a small investment for a big improvement!
@@sixtyandme I have heard some stylists discourage this, saying that if you need them, you are just not wearing the right size. But the fact is that I am just barely a B cup with a nearly C cup rib cage. What am I supposed to do? The B cups just don't fit. I can't find an A cup or nearly B cup that has the right size for my rib cage (a 42). Even when I lost weight, I still had the problem. You do what you have to do to keep the ladies up there.
@@deniserogers3482 sometimes I buy two different bras, same size, but one is too tight. Bra band extenders do help with that.
The bra extenders are great! I am a powerlifter so I have a big back but smaller chest; I can’t find many 36 A’s.
I'm thinner now than I ever have been. I like wearing leggings. However they are not pants and their are rules with the top you wear with them.
Use a belt as an accessory and not as a necessity
I have a problem with bathing suits! And now I’m starting to have a problem with my jeans now with my belly! 😂 it’s got rolls and I’m not fighting them any more! They are there and oh well all the gym work is just not going to get rid it! I would have to spend all my waking hours working out and well that’s not going to happen so I’ve been looking for long skirts to wear!
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Also I like Yoga pants
I think Melanie is right about the leggings. I see women out and about in them and in tights, using them as pants, and when you are trim or a runner, they can look good (you don't always look good in them if you are very thin), and I think this is just a mistake. One thing I would like to see is Melanie's tips for women who are struggling with their weight, maybe in the 200 pound range. What do you wear then to look good? Those mu-mu like tops are just awful. You already feel heavy and then seeing yourself in a photo makes you feel real bad. I think that's why women struggle with fashion. There isn't much made that's stylist for larger women. I am curious about StitchFix, though. Been thinking about giving it a try to see what they come up with. I like Loft and J.Jill's clothes, but again, their models are pretty thin. I think I've seen one or two catalogs with larger women but it's not a regular thing. Loft does a better job, but you can't find Loft Plus in stores to try on.
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If bulky scarves are not the best choice, what about cowl necks? They are a little bulky?
Cowl necks have always worked better for me. The only scarves I wear are for warmth and to keep the snow/cold off my lower face by pulling them up for coverage!
Good pointers!
I'm 77 and have yet to find a supportive bra that makes my clothes look good on me.
Does anyone have suggestions as to a really good bra? I would prefer not to feel like I am wearing armor.
I have found Wacoal to work best for my body. Sometimes I add a bra extender to the back to be more comfortable. I think my back is wider than most, because the cups and front fit fine.
Finding the Chantelle line of bras has been fabulous! They have many styles; however, I buy their comfortable Minimizing one. The uplift makes my clothing fit in a far more flattering manner. I got a professional fitting at a store called "Dillards'. Yes, I would have chosen the wrong size. -;) Once you get the fitting, finding sales on them online will be easy. Highly recommend Chantelle. My daughter wears another style in this line and likes them.also.
Joan Rainwater-Gish I know what you mean!! I’ve had to upgrade my bras to something more “rigid” and I really felt uncomfortable at the start. But it will only feel like armor for a short while. The body will get used to it and it will also soften with washing and wearing.
I have had great success being fitted for bras at Nordstrom.
I also agree re: Chantelle brand!
@@Sunny-be1wg thanks, I'll check it out
you look lovely as always. thank you for the wonderful video. spot on about leggings
You are so lovable
Leggings, even a gorgeous body and legs should be reserved for those you choose. I think advertising your wares to everyone is not profitable to your soul, your self. It actually degrades who you are with others.
I'm just curious... do you guys still enjoy playing with fashion and style? Do you want to look good for others? Or just for yourself these days?
Margaret: Sorry to say, I no longer enjoy it. As I've gained weight, and my body changed, I feel invisible. I've tried hard to lose the weight to no avail. As I'm just give feet tall, I dislike my body now. I feel nothing looks all that attractive on me now. Sorry to sound negative.
@@roseyc.5846 Have you tried more vegetarian eating..lots of delicious vegetables, big, colorful salads served in mixing bowl, cut down on oils and processed " foods", oatmeal w berries and walnuts, ..I stopped eating meats ( still eat fish and eggs) and lost 24 pounds. Not intention, but for nutrition. I wish you well! Check out UA-cam Neal Barnard's, M.D. ❤
Always looking at fashions and love to mix it up a bit. I’ve finally found colours that suit me and my grey hair. Love good shoes and bags. Always wear makeup (had it done for me recently so I can recreate with some new looks). A good haircut too is so important. I’m 62 .
I do enjoy playing with fashion and style. I'm 4' 11" so finding things that fit is a challenge but that's the story of my life..lol. I resent having to shell out for alterations but they do make all the difference. I bought a navy blue pea coat recently and having the sleeves shortened cost me CAD $ 30. But it was worth it. Buying some of my clothes in thrift stores is a new thing for me and I've found some real gems. I find you have to spend a great deal of time going through racks and racks of used clothing, but hey it's a workout for the arms!
I sure do! I will be 70 in January