I had a 100% engagement rate working the ER on an Emergency Opiate Response team. I was a Recovery Coach I got fired. They said we were Advocates for addicts. Most are. What I am is a Mediator between the addict and the non addict.
Im an addict, my greatest weakness is my greatest strength. Being present and holding a space for someone else is my most joyful experiences in life. Its so great to see this. I didnt know then. I was called for my skills in interventions. It became very disturbing for myself and others as I would forecast an scenarion that involved death. Imagine that. Down to the time, location and cause of death. I retired because of it. It was traumatic. This is very healing. I had the experience, the skill, but notbthe knowledge. I do know. Thank You, God Bless.
As strange as it may sound to the people who believe the stereotypical description of the INFJ type, we are the people who act more than anyone else and the thing that makes us super powerful is that we are doing this not just by necessity because we are going against the flow and we need to be super powerful to withstand, it's because we have been given to do that withstanding more than anyone else and we doing it with ease.
I would say that knowing people rarely change but keep on thinking they might. I am trying to wrap my head around all this and so glad that Wenzes is here to help us figure it out.
I get a lot of people who tend to confuse my kindness with weakness, and when I give them a taste of introspection, some get their mind blown and quicky back off; others get defensive and demonstrate a lot of projection on their statements. I'll be honest, sometimes I find the latter tragically amusing, and it really depends if I want to help them, or if I realize they are just a waste of my time. If I want to help them, I will take them on a journey to their own biases and have them hit the brick wall a few times until they get the epiphany. If I realize they are wasting my time, I'll hit them with a couple of truths that will hurt just enough to have them chew on that for a little while and get the message. I don't actually enjoy traumatizing people, but sadly that has happened a few times, and it was never enjoyable. That said, at my age I am unapologetic about expressing my mind, although my default setting is politeness.
Here's a true INFJ I'm with you and we are more similar than we think. All of us. The ones on the fringe in the peripheral are the ones who saw it in psychology today took it on a rainy day where the dog peed on the floor and suddenly they're an INFJ. In reality most people would rather not triple down on their weaknesses know them experience them battle them and also pick up on the ones and others that they might not even see. I have a knack for calling miniature Nostradamus type s*** in my life and relationships and the news because I follow patterns. . We don't think and process emotion and information the same as others and they don't get as much as we do coming in. That's why sometimes we can almost be identified by another Infj by how you behave in public or conversation or at least I can. Other strangers in conversations randomly throughout life you're an INFJ. They say how did you know? I say what do you mean how do I know because of what you just said never mind you're not one. That's how the INFJ mind works
I got myself out of this one by saying: "since I like helping people so much, let me help myself. I'm a person too..." lol. The rest of them can suffer how they chose too, that's not your fault, not your responsibility.
0:00: 💪 Empowerment of INFJs to shift from surviving to thriving by recognizing their true power. 2:51: 💡 Harnessing inner vision leads to powerful actions and transformation in life. 5:21: 💪 The strength of an INFJ lies in their selflessness, mastery of survival, and ability to appreciate the present. 8:00: 💪 The strength of an INFJ lies in their ability to uplift others, tap into their full potential, and adapt quickly to any situation. 10:37: 💪 Unique power of INFJs lies in choosing unconventional paths, letting go easily, and moving on from the past. Recap by Tammy AI
When you realize you have to shed to thrive but accountability, responsibility, duties weigh you down because of some non decision you stepped into when you were young conforming to society. I have looked at my dark side and dwell on it without excuses, that's when I understand myself.
Adaptability: Ambiguity, Uncertainty, and Pattern Recognition are spot on. I work in business where people kind of throw me on an ill-defined problem, and then I explore the data and systems and come out with something.
Wenzes, you are a beautiful woman and a great inspiration. As a 57 year old man, I have only recently discovered my INFJ personality. Your videos have been instrumental in my life. Thank you and keep rockin' it girl. Jeffrey Z. in SC
they fear my narcissistic mode and my mind reading. i am extremely strong in it and people think i am a paranormal beeing. i hate it sometimes, because we really have quite few people or friends around us.
Very well said, I totally agree and I understand hollowing out one self to accommodate others. I did it all through college for classmates...love this conversation
Hey Miss Wenzes!.. I've been thinking about it for a while. I wanna share my thoughts with you all. Aam.. what if we all INFJs gather as a group? We can change the world together. It's always suffering when we try to fix things all by ourselves. And in the end, we sacrifice our lives... So I'm thinking... What if we work as a group? 1. We can help and guide the world. 2. If we are misunderstood or we need to get healed, we can heal or hear each other. We can be there for each other. Cause other personality types misunderstands us in the end. We can break the curse together. We can't remove the deep darkness with our shallow lights. The darkness will hide us.. it'll take our lights away as always. So let's gather together and become a big light... To protect the world.. I'll be looking forward to your replies.
Good day Wenzes, I wish to express my gratitude to you. Also, I can feel your selflessness, where you want to help INFJs out, and thank you. Your messages have been incredibly helpful ever since I discovered your channel and my personality. I have been practicing to step outside my comfort zone and I am glad to say that my life is moving and doing great. I'm grateful to hear your motivating and inspiring messages! Sincerely, Maria Fatima
Word class hospitality: reading body language, tone, to anticipate a need before being asked shows a genuine desire to be compassionate, welcoming, and obtaining personal satisfaction as well as happiness from seeing others be happy.
im a infj with OCD and Bipolar type 2 disorder. it feels like hell inside 🥺 , but still managing to survive and i still keep thriving towards the success.
@@manjeetkr.9003 we are infj's. we can't afford to loose more life bec of this disorders. i have lost my entire childhood bec of these disordeers . we need to change and get rid of these disorders.
Mrs. Wenzes, I have been watching your material for almost 2 years now and have found your channel incredibly helpful. I am only wondering if you might be willing to do a couple videos on INFJ's & romantic relationships. I feel like I am emotionally healthy, but I am constantly drawn into long term, toxic relationships. It gets frustrating. Thanks for everything
When you said we go down into the trenches. Lightbulb moment. I had the image today of being a roll of toilet paper, at the very end of the roll. I currently have the ability to issue a single, one-ply square each, to a limited number of loved ones. LOL
Increasing age, with a massive variety of life experience, multiplies exponentially my ability to do several things effortlessly. One is that I know when to stop and rest. Two is that I know I can draw out more from myself when I have to go that extra mile whether I feel like it or not. Three is being the rock for my husband who has had a traumatic mental illness the last two years which dragged me backwards and forwards around him and for him in order that he be safe. Four is still knowing I can draw and paint, as I’ve done for over 30 years despite now only being able to see clearly with one eye after 7 operations on the other eye 5 years ago. Five is being INFJ and still have never personally met another one, while being told all my life by those who’ve had contact with me that I am amazing and so different to everyone else they’ve met but none of this has changed my kind, humble attitude. Even after all the rest I’ll keep to myself, I am awed at myself as a 69y/o fit, strong, tall, attractive woman who has a lot of life in me to live, which is only possible by the grace of God Almighty! 💟✝️🇦🇺
I need you right now, just a few more days is all I need to go, but see no way I can go anymore. I know you will have the perfect words that will get me there. Jearl B.....
There is no given to others. I just can not do that anymore no matter what happens I've given so much of me financially emotionally physically. Over the years to my kids an others it's not my job to help the world or continuelly help others Francis saw first hand about the police not one time but twice when we were out few years back an. I ran out of gas in car an needed police help. An how was denied an left us sitting on side of road. So when ask me to help ppl directly my answer is always going to be no
I have played this out in my life. By not choosing myself and not showing parts of myself people would project onto me. It made it difficult to really have those deep connections an INFJ longs for.
These five points have been helpful for me. Sometimes in the past, I've seen them as weaknesses, or at least things that others perceive as weaknesses. But in this video, you have helped us see how they are actually strengths and how we can put them to use for our favor. You are showing us how to value what we were given to work with.
I embrace my dark side. It's what defines my strength to set firm boundaries, and to never be afraid to walk away or door slam. I remember a few years ago after I discovered my narcisister was spreading vicious hate to everyone behind my back (jealous!) when I asked myself: "Self, why does it matter so much to you what they think? They're total idiots who don't have any idea who you really are" - that's when I found the strength to shine on her entire extended family and friends list. I lived out of state away from them for a couple decades so none of them really know me, they just think they do because they knew me in high school; however, I am not that person any more. It's funny how narcissists insist that others cannot grow and change, not recognizing they are only projecting their inability or unwillingness to change for the better.
As an INFJ if I'm going to retaliate it's going to be like a thief in the night at a time that you least expect when you just forgot that my miserable ass exists and something is going to happen in your day that really sucks and changes the trajectory of a host of things. Got you b****. Revenge for 9FJ is simple because you've already subconsciously already done the research on this person so you should be able to draw up some pretty clever ways to pray on some of their weaknesses or areas in their personality that are contradictory and could be flanked with information or dismissal
Unfortunately, complex PTSD shuts down the part of your brain that creates and innovates. For us whose primary cognitive function is Ni, that can be really crippling. I feel like I'm asleep at the wheel when it comes to having a vision or message or something that I want to get out there or make happen.
I know this is not going to be my situation for ever but I need ppl to stop justifying why they refused to help me just to make self feel better I'm no longer even looking at the money I'm looking deeper an at the ppl behind it an the way they move. An things they say. An church bullshit as well an making my mind up based on these things if they are trustworthy and truelly the one or ones I want in my life. At all. See if u can do this to me now for so many years an have no heart or consense of what it is doing to someone else an it's all about your self an your needs. Do I really even want u in my life I had to msi choices years ago about my children one stealing from me an would tell me wtf he did another steaky would steal an blame others for it. So not just a thief alier as well. An then we have the baby very sneaky but does things for good cause so it's hard to figure him out an to decide to let him go but others yes ab and any one else that is that self centered an no consensus at all
Omg so I just did testing online this week because I kept coming across info that seem to apply to myself. So according to the test I’m on the lowest level.. which would probably make me high functioning autistic
Salem MO. police refuse to help me, im going to the FBI and then if I'm rejected by them, God have mercy on some soles in Salem, MO. because I'm all out. I been pushed and pushed.
Do you mean you yourself feel like you ARE a chrysalis? Or that you’re INSIDE one? (🐛to🦋) Used to think and feel like I was in one, but then it’s taking so long to open that now I’m worried I’ve rotted and can be of no use to anyone.
@@DHARK1873 Thank you for your answer. What I meant is it’s feeling like I’m on the inside, just like you said. I’m not really sure what does it mean and I’d like to find out if it’s a good sign or a bad one. It’s not like it gets in my way and is very disturbing, but I don’t really know how to deal with this. Thanks for reminder that I should have been more precise though. Anyway I hope you’re doing great and wish you a nice day! (Sorry, my english isn’t fabulous)
You mean, it feels like you live inside your head and are just observing the world around you? That’s normal. You will probably never feel like you fit in anywhere. The world is just observations and equations and we (infjs) are trying to make sense of it all, like it’s some game that can be solved. Our intuition tells us most answers but we don’t know how we got there. Weirdos for life ❤
@@Urmomlolllllll thanks for the answer! Sorry for late response though (thought I’ve already written). Your message helped me gain some additional insight into myself! Thank you for sharing your knowledge (Sorry, couldn’t come up with how to end my thought)
@@wcypikster9921 For English not being your 1st language, you’re doing great. I’m sure you’ll emerge from the chrysalis beautifully when the time comes! 🙂
you know we aren't the rarest personality type anymore right? I wish people would stop using that. We haven't been the rarest in years. And that's okay. It doesn't make us any less special. But even when we were the rarest, it didn't make us any more special than any other type. ENTJs are the rare ones now.
Based on a small sample size (16,773 in 23 countries) in 2018. The difference between the #1 and #3 (which 1, 2, and 3 together make up 5.3%) is approximately 85 people . Any statistic on "most rare" is at best just a guess. There are 4 very rare types: INFJ, ENTJ, ENFJ and INTJ (between 1.8% and 2.6%). There are 11 rare types of 4%-9.8%, and 1 somewhat rare type (ISTJ at 15.9%). And again, these numbers are far too small to be statistically significant in a population of over 7 billion. Add to that: the percentages naturally shift every year as people are born and die. So honestly no one should boldly claim most rare.
We are still the rarest type. Who else is more rarer than us. This still isnt sure information. If there are rarer types than we are it's probably at a 0.1% more, which still means we aren't common.
Who.. I'd be careful on a UA-cam chat room calling someone's self-absorbed in a video that's about basically self-absorption to understand who you are. I do think you're on the wrong channel though young fella
What are some of your superpowers as an INFJ that you underestimate too often?
I had a 100% engagement rate working the ER on an Emergency Opiate Response team.
I was a Recovery Coach
I got fired.
They said we were Advocates for addicts. Most are. What I am is a Mediator between the addict and the non addict.
Im an addict, my greatest weakness is my greatest strength. Being present and holding a space for someone else is my most joyful experiences in life.
Its so great to see this. I didnt know then.
I was called for my skills in interventions. It became very disturbing for myself and others as I would forecast an scenarion that involved death. Imagine that. Down to the time, location and cause of death. I retired because of it. It was traumatic. This is very healing. I had the experience, the skill, but notbthe knowledge. I do know.
Thank You, God Bless.
helicopter view - thinking out of the box & pattern discovery
As strange as it may sound to the people who believe the stereotypical description of the INFJ type, we are the people who act more than anyone else and the thing that makes us super powerful is that we are doing this not just by necessity because we are going against the flow and we need to be super powerful to withstand, it's because we have been given to do that withstanding more than anyone else and we doing it with ease.
I would say that knowing people rarely change but keep on thinking they might. I am trying to wrap my head around all this and so glad that Wenzes is here to help us figure it out.
I get a lot of people who tend to confuse my kindness with weakness, and when I give them a taste of introspection, some get their mind blown and quicky back off; others get defensive and demonstrate a lot of projection on their statements. I'll be honest, sometimes I find the latter tragically amusing, and it really depends if I want to help them, or if I realize they are just a waste of my time. If I want to help them, I will take them on a journey to their own biases and have them hit the brick wall a few times until they get the epiphany. If I realize they are wasting my time, I'll hit them with a couple of truths that will hurt just enough to have them chew on that for a little while and get the message. I don't actually enjoy traumatizing people, but sadly that has happened a few times, and it was never enjoyable. That said, at my age I am unapologetic about expressing my mind, although my default setting is politeness.
It's because I'm a Zen mike then I release my Samari Warrior and get what needs done!🔥😎🔥
Here's a true INFJ I'm with you and we are more similar than we think. All of us. The ones on the fringe in the peripheral are the ones who saw it in psychology today took it on a rainy day where the dog peed on the floor and suddenly they're an INFJ. In reality most people would rather not triple down on their weaknesses know them experience them battle them and also pick up on the ones and others that they might not even see. I have a knack for calling miniature Nostradamus type s*** in my life and relationships and the news because I follow patterns. . We don't think and process emotion and information the same as others and they don't get as much as we do coming in. That's why sometimes we can almost be identified by another Infj by how you behave in public or conversation or at least I can. Other strangers in conversations randomly throughout life you're an INFJ. They say how did you know? I say what do you mean how do I know because of what you just said never mind you're not one. That's how the INFJ mind works
Im a burned out INFJ...i am done w/trying to uplift all these losers out here. They got nothing to give back ya feel me.
I feel u.
Can't help em.
Giant asteroid 2024.
So many unaware, asleep, pieces of horse sh!t roaming the Earth. That for sure
I got myself out of this one by saying: "since I like helping people so much, let me help myself. I'm a person too..." lol. The rest of them can suffer how they chose too, that's not your fault, not your responsibility.
I feel the same way. I am just DONE. TIRED. EXHAUSTED w trying to help people. Txs for sharing.
Help those that are too scared or insecure to ask. People that constantly ask for help are likely just using you cause they know you’re a sucker…
0:00: 💪 Empowerment of INFJs to shift from surviving to thriving by recognizing their true power.
2:51: 💡 Harnessing inner vision leads to powerful actions and transformation in life.
5:21: 💪 The strength of an INFJ lies in their selflessness, mastery of survival, and ability to appreciate the present.
8:00: 💪 The strength of an INFJ lies in their ability to uplift others, tap into their full potential, and adapt quickly to any situation.
10:37: 💪 Unique power of INFJs lies in choosing unconventional paths, letting go easily, and moving on from the past.
Recap by Tammy AI
Thank you very much
Did u just paste the video link to tammy ai?
@@goldbrick2563 yes 😁, the content is so rich, I need a structure. Could be an INFJ thing 😋
@@mirzafarazbaig8945 i love when people post the summary so thank you. Im glad you included the ai source cos im going to try it out now for work
@@goldbrick2563 let's do the good work,🤝
You speak slower and calmer.
I love it. So serene.
Better than any meditation 🤍
When you realize you have to shed to thrive but accountability, responsibility, duties weigh you down because of some non decision you stepped into when you were young conforming to society. I have looked at my dark side and dwell on it without excuses, that's when I understand myself.
@6:50
Compassion Fatigue, its real.
I've never heard of it, and now I have a rabbit hole, and a new problem to deal with f***
@@KESJEDWJ Lol, burnout. INFJ Burnout.
Adaptability: Ambiguity, Uncertainty, and Pattern Recognition are spot on. I work in business where people kind of throw me on an ill-defined problem, and then I explore the data and systems and come out with something.
Thank you so much for helping me realize over the last few years how powerful I really am, how powerful I've been all along...
I completely vouch for this. It is all very true. We are masters at working it all out, now back yourself & walk the thoughts.
Thank you for sharing such insightful content. Very much appreciated.
Wenzes, you are a beautiful woman and a great inspiration. As a 57 year old man, I have only recently discovered my INFJ personality. Your videos have been instrumental in my life. Thank you and keep rockin' it girl. Jeffrey Z. in SC
How INFJ's flirt 101
they fear my narcissistic mode and my mind reading. i am extremely strong in it and people think i am a paranormal beeing. i hate it sometimes, because we really have quite few people or friends around us.
Very well said, I totally agree and I understand hollowing out one self to accommodate others. I did it all through college for classmates...love this conversation
Hey Miss Wenzes!..
I've been thinking about it for a while. I wanna share my thoughts with you all.
Aam.. what if we all INFJs gather as a group? We can change the world together. It's always suffering when we try to fix things all by ourselves. And in the end, we sacrifice our lives...
So I'm thinking... What if we work as a group?
1. We can help and guide the world.
2. If we are misunderstood or we need to get healed, we can heal or hear each other. We can be there for each other. Cause other personality types misunderstands us in the end.
We can break the curse together. We can't remove the deep darkness with our shallow lights. The darkness will hide us.. it'll take our lights away as always. So let's gather together and become a big light... To protect the world..
I'll be looking forward to your replies.
Good day Wenzes,
I wish to express my gratitude to you. Also, I can feel your selflessness, where you want to help INFJs out, and thank you. Your messages have been incredibly helpful ever since I discovered your channel and my personality. I have been practicing to step outside my comfort zone and I am glad to say that my life is moving and doing great. I'm grateful to hear your motivating and inspiring messages!
Sincerely,
Maria Fatima
Ps: Although, yes, we might feel or experience mixed intentions. I mean I do. Still, I wish to thank you Wenzes.
Word class hospitality: reading body language, tone, to anticipate a need before being asked shows a genuine desire to be compassionate, welcoming, and obtaining personal satisfaction as well as happiness from seeing others be happy.
im a infj with OCD and Bipolar type 2 disorder. it feels like hell inside 🥺 , but still managing to survive and i still keep thriving towards the success.
I empathize. I am an INFJ and I have bipolar too.
@@shg6460 Where do you have it at?
what? i didnt get u
@@KundaliniKing42
Arre Bhai bhaii same I've only bpd2😊
@@manjeetkr.9003 we are infj's. we can't afford to loose more life bec of this disorders. i have lost my entire childhood bec of these disordeers . we need to change and get rid of these disorders.
thank u 4 being u
Mrs. Wenzes, I have been watching your material for almost 2 years now and have found your channel incredibly helpful. I am only wondering if you might be willing to do a couple videos on INFJ's & romantic relationships. I feel like I am emotionally healthy, but I am constantly drawn into long term, toxic relationships. It gets frustrating. Thanks for everything
Will do in the near future 👍
YEAH THAD IS JUST THE PROBLEM VISIONARY ‼️ 4:47
When you said we go down into the trenches. Lightbulb moment. I had the image today of being a roll of toilet paper, at the very end of the roll. I currently have the ability to issue a single, one-ply square each, to a limited number of loved ones. LOL
You are simply amazing ❤
Increasing age, with a massive variety of life experience, multiplies exponentially my ability to do several things effortlessly. One is that I know when to stop and rest. Two is that I know I can draw out more from myself when I have to go that extra mile whether I feel like it or not. Three is being the rock for my husband who has had a traumatic mental illness the last two years which dragged me backwards and forwards around him and for him in order that he be safe. Four is still knowing I can draw and paint, as I’ve done for over 30 years despite now only being able to see clearly with one eye after 7 operations on the other eye 5 years ago. Five is being INFJ and still have never personally met another one, while being told all my life by those who’ve had contact with me that I am amazing and so different to everyone else they’ve met but none of this has changed my kind, humble attitude. Even after all the rest I’ll keep to myself, I am awed at myself as a 69y/o fit, strong, tall, attractive woman who has a lot of life in me to live, which is only possible by the grace of God Almighty! 💟✝️🇦🇺
I do love the thumbnails though, aha
Deine Stimme ist sehr beruhigend.. der Inhalt ist auch genauso motivierend. Danke dafür wenzes
Hey wenzes stay strong your great n, your creative work is fantastic
I need you right now, just a few more days is all I need to go, but see no way I can go anymore. I know you will have the perfect words that will get me there. Jearl B.....
There is no given to others. I just can not do that anymore no matter what happens I've given so much of me financially emotionally physically. Over the years to my kids an others it's not my job to help the world or continuelly help others Francis saw first hand about the police not one time but twice when we were out few years back an. I ran out of gas in car an needed police help. An how was denied an left us sitting on side of road. So when ask me to help ppl directly my answer is always going to be no
Your videos always resonate with me.
Thank you for sharing these legitimate insights.
I have played this out in my life. By not choosing myself and not showing parts of myself people would project onto me. It made it difficult to really have those deep connections an INFJ longs for.
INFJ facts right here
These five points have been helpful for me. Sometimes in the past, I've seen them as weaknesses, or at least things that others perceive as weaknesses. But in this video, you have helped us see how they are actually strengths and how we can put them to use for our favor. You are showing us how to value what we were given to work with.
I embrace my dark side. It's what defines my strength to set firm boundaries, and to never be afraid to walk away or door slam. I remember a few years ago after I discovered my narcisister was spreading vicious hate to everyone behind my back (jealous!) when I asked myself: "Self, why does it matter so much to you what they think? They're total idiots who don't have any idea who you really are" - that's when I found the strength to shine on her entire extended family and friends list. I lived out of state away from them for a couple decades so none of them really know me, they just think they do because they knew me in high school; however, I am not that person any more. It's funny how narcissists insist that others cannot grow and change, not recognizing they are only projecting their inability or unwillingness to change for the better.
I wonder if someone slowed down the speed on this video? she seems subdued or extra calm here
Thought that was good😊
I'll say one thing. If I had retaliated I wouldn't be sitting comfortably in my own home. 6:22
As an INFJ if I'm going to retaliate it's going to be like a thief in the night at a time that you least expect when you just forgot that my miserable ass exists and something is going to happen in your day that really sucks and changes the trajectory of a host of things. Got you b****. Revenge for 9FJ is simple because you've already subconsciously already done the research on this person so you should be able to draw up some pretty clever ways to pray on some of their weaknesses or areas in their personality that are contradictory and could be flanked with information or dismissal
You keep repeating the same formula and it keeps working props to you.
Chunk bar tottie roll game
I am the true fist of the North star and the inheritor of Hotoshinkin!
You're also a psych med patient
The point 5 is my fav
It's not up to me to share anything with anyone else they did not go through what I've been through they have had entire time while I have not.
This is how sublimation looks like.
Unfortunately, complex PTSD shuts down the part of your brain that creates and innovates. For us whose primary cognitive function is Ni, that can be really crippling. I feel like I'm asleep at the wheel when it comes to having a vision or message or something that I want to get out there or make happen.
I know this is not going to be my situation for ever but I need ppl to stop justifying why they refused to help me just to make self feel better I'm no longer even looking at the money I'm looking deeper an at the ppl behind it an the way they move. An things they say. An church bullshit as well an making my mind up based on these things if they are trustworthy and truelly the one or ones I want in my life. At all. See if u can do this to me now for so many years an have no heart or consense of what it is doing to someone else an it's all about your self an your needs. Do I really even want u in my life I had to msi choices years ago about my children one stealing from me an would tell me wtf he did another steaky would steal an blame others for it. So not just a thief alier as well. An then we have the baby very sneaky but does things for good cause so it's hard to figure him out an to decide to let him go but others yes ab and any one else that is that self centered an no consensus at all
I'm just me
Anyone else around here autistic? I feel like it adds another layer of complication to my life as an infj.
Oh man for sure, It adds visual and emotional dimensions not nearly explainable.
Omg so I just did testing online this week because I kept coming across info that seem to apply to myself. So according to the test I’m on the lowest level.. which would probably make me high functioning autistic
And yes it adds another layer I think! I would like to know if you got diagnosed yet?
Me! Self diagnosed in my old age! Explains a great deal.
@@adriana27100Same! I was talking with a friend earlier this week. He agrees that I could probably be diagnosed with high functioning autism...
❤💯 11:33
Where is the audio guide
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I do know for a fact that Francis is in danger cause others are aware
Salem MO. police refuse to help me, im going to the FBI and then if I'm rejected by them, God have mercy on some soles in Salem, MO. because I'm all out. I been pushed and pushed.
Margaret better stay e from him an Diane Gerald moocher as well I don't think Francis will talk much I think he will show them if they fuck with him
Hello there! I have one question I’d like to ask: Has anyone here ever felt like some kind of chrysalis or something like that?
Do you mean you yourself feel like you ARE a chrysalis? Or that you’re INSIDE one? (🐛to🦋)
Used to think and feel like I was in one, but then it’s taking so long to open that now I’m worried I’ve rotted and can be of no use to anyone.
@@DHARK1873 Thank you for your answer.
What I meant is it’s feeling like I’m on the inside, just like you said. I’m not really sure what does it mean and I’d like to find out if it’s a good sign or a bad one. It’s not like it gets in my way and is very disturbing, but I don’t really know how to deal with this. Thanks for reminder that I should have been more precise though.
Anyway I hope you’re doing great and wish you a nice day! (Sorry, my english isn’t fabulous)
You mean, it feels like you live inside your head and are just observing the world around you? That’s normal. You will probably never feel like you fit in anywhere. The world is just observations and equations and we (infjs) are trying to make sense of it all, like it’s some game that can be solved. Our intuition tells us most answers but we don’t know how we got there. Weirdos for life ❤
@@Urmomlolllllll thanks for the answer!
Sorry for late response though (thought I’ve already written).
Your message helped me gain some additional insight into myself! Thank you for sharing your knowledge (Sorry, couldn’t come up with how to end my thought)
@@wcypikster9921 For English not being your 1st language, you’re doing great. I’m sure you’ll emerge from the chrysalis beautifully when the time comes! 🙂
you know we aren't the rarest personality type anymore right? I wish people would stop using that. We haven't been the rarest in years. And that's okay. It doesn't make us any less special. But even when we were the rarest, it didn't make us any more special than any other type. ENTJs are the rare ones now.
Percentages of rarity are irrelevant, it is the lessons she provides that bring us out of the darkness that counts.
Well, they (ENTJs) are common in the software development field. lol INFJs are seldom found anywhere in my experience.
Based on a small sample size (16,773 in 23 countries) in 2018. The difference between the #1 and #3 (which 1, 2, and 3 together make up 5.3%) is approximately 85 people . Any statistic on "most rare" is at best just a guess. There are 4 very rare types: INFJ, ENTJ, ENFJ and INTJ (between 1.8% and 2.6%). There are 11 rare types of 4%-9.8%, and 1 somewhat rare type (ISTJ at 15.9%). And again, these numbers are far too small to be statistically significant in a population of over 7 billion. Add to that: the percentages naturally shift every year as people are born and die. So honestly no one should boldly claim most rare.
Who cares. We are awesome.
We are still the rarest type. Who else is more rarer than us. This still isnt sure information. If there are rarer types than we are it's probably at a 0.1% more, which still means we aren't common.
You are self absorbed beyond belief.
Who.. I'd be careful on a UA-cam chat room calling someone's self-absorbed in a video that's about basically self-absorption to understand who you are. I do think you're on the wrong channel though young fella
Because no one can stand it
Thank you for this video Wenzes
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