5 REASONS WHY BEING AROUND AN INFJ IS SO ADDICTIVE
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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: INFJs have a special type of charm - so much that people just can't seem to get enough! While it might sound like an overstatement, INFJs often find themselves surrounded by admirers and detractors alike. So why are so many folks drawn in? That's what we're tackling today; revealing the five reasons for their magnetic personalities and how everyone can benefit from them!
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Do you feel like people stay stuck on you? Even if they don‘t like you?
Indeed. Sometimes it just happens when we are being nice. Then they want to be more than just the conversation we had...then things get weird.
Yes! Specially for my friends. It must be nice to feel understood. I wish i can have an infj friend too.
Hhmmmm.. i am now in a point wherein i can totally accept the FACT that people will ALWAYS be there..but NOT FOR ME...not all... *some will be there just for the sake of BEING THERE
*some will be there only 4 d fun part
*some just wants some tea
*some are just bored w/ there lives they want someone else's business
*some just wanted to make sure they see u when u fall
*some are just stupid enough to stick around trying to figure out the alien part of u
*some only wants something but doesn't have d GUTS to ask..
But i am also grateful for SOME who have genuine & pure intensions who stayed.♥️
Solid 👊😊
Yes. There's a toxic relationship that I am constantly trying to get rid of but everytime I cut them off from my life we don't speak to each other but in the end they come back again convincing me to make them a part of my life. But the worst thing is that they think I am obsessed with them even though they are the one who try to convince to come back again
The fact that being an INFJ makes me different is the reason I keep to myself and am a loner. I'm friendly at work, but keep everyone at arm's length because if they knew I believed in a bunch of ufo stuff and paranormal stuff and am a peace activist, I'm afraid they might think I was strange.
Yes!!! Lol same
I stay also as a loner, and being happy with that. Have had enough fake people, betrayal of trust into my life.
I can totally relate as an infj
At work that's probably the best way to be.🙄
I've gotten past people thinking I'm strage. I've been called weird so much I wear it as a badge of honour 😂 I'm still selective with whom I discuss certain topics with because you can just tell that it's lost on some people. I do enjoy solitude and the arm's length is pretty much present.
People that keep away from me its because I could sense their true intentions .
It just dawned on me. Perhaps, as INFJs, we assimilate / align with people to make them feel seen because we are so different and often feel unseen that the process of making them feel seen serves both the function of allowing us (as othered INFJs) to connect and for them to feel special.
As I have began to accept that I am different and embrace the power of that, this has allowed me to show up more authentically and allowed me to give others the space to show up as they are in that moment - not as the potential I see in them.
This hasn’t changed the fact that I still see their potential; it has just changed my perspective on that potential - to know that I can reflect that potential to them for them to embrace and grow towards, but I do so with no expectations that this will happen. I remove expectations and exchange it for observation. I reflect small nuggets of their value to them, and then I wait and observe.
100%
This wholeheartdly is what my entire rational for living at this point.
❤❤❤i agree 🥰🔥
@@weber9320 beautiful.
Yep your so different, congratulations.
I’m a loner & I love it! I love my own company and I love showing up by myself, people can’t understand me so why try so hard, I have stopped caring about friendships. Too much work and I get nothing out of it. People’s minds are too predictable, they get stuck in problems I don’t care to associate with, everything is a choice. My choice is happiness and I don’t need anything conflicting with that.
Everything is a choice. That might as well be my mantra the last 2 years, I've said it so often.
You overestimate yourself. Enough of your pretentious spats
True people just disappoint not on purpose it's just the flaw of humans so it's best to keep to yourself because you just have your own problems and not multiple problems of others and I don't like conflict I like peace and quiet so I just have books as friends or nature
These skills will for sure make people stick around at the start but yes once the INFJ appears to know too much or starts to show who they really are, people might back off. And to be honest, those people backing off is for the INFJ's good at the end.
Just be yourself from the start instead of manipulating people is also an option.
@@TTrAAsTT i don't think you understand. The mere fact that you're acusing us of manipulation while this isn't even the case in this scenario tells me i shouldn't waste my time, but still let's do this. INFJs show you who they are from the start but very slowly. They are very complex individuals, even for themselves. This obliges them to reveal themselves little by little as long as they can trust you and think that you even deserve to be let in. Most people don't deserve that and we won't waste our time and energy on random people in order to get hurt. Shallow people who just can't be on the same level as INFJs or people who haven't acheived enough openess or self-awareness and avoid being really seen will back off. Cause the INFJ will be too intense, knows too much about them or totally on a different level. This isn't a bad thing at all. Thank God this happens. It's for the INFJ's good. What makes a person an INFJ and all the things that roam our minds and build our core cannot and should not be fully shown from the start. If you take a look at the functions stack of an INFJ you'll clearly see why this happens.
@@TTrAAsTT that part.
it's not like they mean to lol. and it's almost never malicious
I was in an intense relationship with a covert narcissist. In beginning, she was causing me so much pain cus I was confused of behavior. When my intuition showed me rage, deceit and insecurities of that person, I started playing her game. I love her til this day, but from a distance. She said I caused her a mental breakdown. She did it with her mind games that were so obvious to me
I had a lot of enemies when I was in the military. I was in trouble a lot and they tried to kick me out on multiple occasions but hated me because I outsmarted them because I used the truth and logic to win my case
People don't want to hear the truth
Some people just hated me also for pointing out injustices (I think if we're alike, you hated things that didn't make sense, and even if they did for a purpose just to control, you hated it even more). INFJs aren't meant for the military/police/airforce as its too rigid (Trust me. I left at the drop of a hat)
Hope you're doing better!
*5* *Reasons* *Why* *Being* *Around* *an* *INFJ* *is* *so* *Addictive:*
1. 0:53 The INFJ has something that is different (INFJ avoidant of judgement)
2. 3:12 The INFJ goes deep with great psychological effect (a. it's intriguing, b. it's painful; balancing the extremes)
3. 5:15 The INFJ sees the hidden parts in that depth (pain, insecurities in others)
4. 7:43 The INFJ sees your potential (INFJ vision/future oriented)
5. 10:18 The INFJ will make you feel seen (INFJ's makes space for others)
*Lessons:*
1. 13:35 The INFJ can be addictive because of who your skills rather than who you really are (people pleasing, with avoidance of rejection)
INFJ's need to *choose* *themselves* and take the risk of being rejected more often - the people that stay around will not have the push/pull relationship with you anymore. Then the other friends will not expect you to be a savior nor enabler but will expect the same thing in you.
Thank you! It's good to remember it all after watching the video
No more people please in for me! I am a lover, not a fighter, but I fight for those I love! Always will always have, and that is the way I am meant to be! Amen love, thy self first, as maker has loved us the sun, Gaia Prince family, this dimension and beyond if you stay positive, you’ll be positive I am positive woo hoo. 🎉😂❤❤❤
Ewe huemans are programmed backwards & basically fake faux real...
AGREED! It helps me to believe that I'm not rejected, just redirected. It has made a big difference for me.
A co-worker used to make snide comments about me. I later found out it was cuz she didn't like my "demeanor ". WTF!
As an infj, i have started seeing people for who they are and for not who they could be coz it could hurt us infjs in the end, it's better to accept and see people for who they are and not for who they could be in the future. But this is such an amazing video full of beautiful insights ❤️
I think this is more applicable to cognitive ISFPs as opposed to cognitive INFJs (Wenzes is a cognitive ISFP); the ISFP very much lives through archetypes & as you say can mistakenly transpose these on to other people
Been there and hurt by others so I am done with manipulative people mostly ehem extroverts.
I had this when I was younger. Either because people thought I was easy to pick on or as you said, I was apart or kept to myself. I tried to mix as a kid but it was rarely comfortable
You should do a video on all the infj wannabes. They're a dime a dozen. They try copying you and they don't even come close. Being an infj living with other humans the greatest comedy you can ever watch
Correction: Wenzes is a cognitive ISFP not an INFJ. People need to make a distinction between the behavioural INFJ which Wenzes is (empath, HSP) and the cognitive INFJ that is primarily an abstract rationalist. The Fi-Ni convergent pairing/attached Fi logic is evident through all her content and that of the commentators whereas Ni-Ti is woefully lacking...not that I'm placing a value judgment on this & Im just saying that cognitively everyone on here isn't an INFJ. The cognitive INFJ isn't primarily interested in humans, it's more of a secondary afterthought; as primary experiential, cerebral abstractionists they're quite happy reformulating theorem in their own head, not analysing other people unless it's from a rational standpoint. Anyone can feel free to debunk my Ni-Ti & argue that the arguments aren't of an attached logical (Fi) perspective but the Ne-Te commentary synthesised negates this. I hope everyone who feels like other people are 'wannabes' are well & truly humbled when they realise that ironically they are not a cognitive INFJ in the Jungian sense. The distinction of the 'wannabe' is why so many people identify as an INFJ in the first place; CPT does an excellent Ni-Ti thesis on UA-cam as to why this is the case. People would aid their process of individuation by ascertaining their actual cognitive type; ISFPs are a wonderful type & are intuitives as Fi-Ni convergents - the misappropriation of 'sensors' as somehow inferior does little to encourage people to seek out their true type. Ironically, Wenzes videos pertain more to personality traits as opposed to cognition that are inhabited by a lot of people and therefore, even more people jump on the pseudo scientific behavioural INFJ bandwagon. No offence, Wenzes gives some good generic advice & advice that is from, in part, a cognitive ISFP standpoint, but this isn't directly applicable to a cognitive INFJ and believe me I've watched a lot of the content. As a typologist I feel obliged to point out these illogical premises.
Do I feel like people stay stuck on me? Even if they don‘t like me? Yes. It's currently happening at my workplace. This video couldn't have come at a better time. It's spot on. The people who do this have some MAJOR control issues and enjoy being annoying. They seek conflict and do not care how unprofessional it is for them to be that way. I'm really not afraid of them. I just don't make the time for conflict when I have a mission to accomplish. So therefore, I have made myself small and not seen and heard any more than what is required from me. And I have limited who I speak with to those whom I know I can trust. Thank you for this video. It's encouraging.
Yep, that's me, I'm annoying, hello and how are you?
You need to stand your ground and create boundaries before you cave in with time...(learning the hard way, not everyone gets up from this you need more tolerance and that builds wisdom)
Either be heard(understood) or leave or chase away(boundaries) than tolerate.🤞🏾
I'm dealing with the same thing at my job. Thankfully, I'm retiring soon. The constant poking the bear, passive aggressive slights, insults and innuendos are just too much.
Excellent video Wenzes! I do feel like some folks get stuck on me, on occasion. And growing up, I did always wonder why I was target of people messing with me, or bullying me, seemingly out of nowhere. I wasn't a "nerd" or anything like that, I played sports, and was damn good at them. But I also never really fit in with the other "jocks" and always got along with everyone in all the different cliques that formed our school's population. But the older I got, the more I realized that high school didn't matter, and I don't even associate with any of those people at all anymore, so it never really mattered in the first place. 🤷🏼
Hope you have a great week my friend! 🙂🌹❤👍🏼
minute i hit colllege in NZ , high school for you say at 13/14 ...i was intop 5% students ... with in first term i could see what it was about ... programming us to be good plebs for them and condition us for their use (whoever they (their) were ) ... wasnt going to spent the only thing i had .. i knew yesterday was gone ,never comingback , knew tomorrow wasnt promised to come , seen death by then .. so make the most of each day , its a present cause you wake up with choice .... .. dropped out 16 , could gone to higher education ... but wanted no overlords or stupid society controls ... always live by 1 code ..... taught by mum ... always treat others as you wished to be treated yourself .... always be honest ... dont say something unless you can or are going to do it ... i was bullied and called strange when young (bullying didnt work , dad taught me how to use my hands and where feet should me ) but was alone alot ..
Thank you thank you thank you!!!!! I'm really living this shit...nobody understands this perspective over themselves. Thank you for asuring me i'm thinking the right way.
I had crowds of human beings who were addicted to all kinds of destroying my life and my destiny. They were all driven by the spirit of justice as I would not deserve everything that were good for me...Thank You!!:))!!👍🍀🌺💐🎁🌈⚓!!
You are a great coach, Wenzes❤️ I walked for a while trough my life, and I now know that there actually is the possibility also for me to be understod by human beeings, all through UA-cam and INFJ- talks. You are my favourite profile, thanks for sending out your power to my hidden place in the swedish forest🌸
The other day I told that person about my priorities and she started comparing me with her own self and didn't even appreciate me for creating the boundaries and saying them out loud.
The skill to see someone's potential was helpful for me in my manager role, some people actually took the advise and are now living and doing the job. Some didn't appreciate the advice and that's ok. I feel I had to tell them, it's up to the individual to take it and run with it or carry on with their life's.
The energy the healing the safety the feeling of stability without worry
Oof yesss avoidance is heavy. It’s all a defence mechanism. 🙈 it takes a lot of courage to go deep within myself. However with others it’s sooo easy. But you’re right many people aren’t ready to go deep. And it’s not right to push. There is a lot of dissociation in the human traumas.
Just found out tonight at 53 that I'm an INFJ personality type .
I'm glad you found a very effective way to express your passion as a result the world is a better place.
I pray that this newfound knowledge will bring blessings to the ones I seek to help free from inequities!!🙏
Welcome to the club!
I found out at 57!
It is life-changing!! I am so happy for you. YES! You will help everyone even more now that you realize your strengths and special gifts! 🌺🩷🙏🥰
I found out at 50 cheers 🥂🍾 now or never comrades!
My wife can’t grasp that I’m so different from the rest of the world because she is so caught up in social media and what people think but I’m not like that
Past experiences of sensing levels in people that they don't want to see themselves unfortunately has lead to confrontation or at the very least, discomfort. And....if potential employers are threatened by this ability.....you will NOT last at that job as they will make things difficult for you until you leave.
I think this is a great quality of Fi-Ni convergence 😊; I wish my Fi-Ni was conscious 😊
This video is EVERYTHING!! Thank you so lucky, Wenzes! Now I understand why I get close to ppl amd they do the push-pull or push or pull! Omg....now time for modification in how I relate. 🙏🏾 You are amazing!👏🏿💗
I agree completely this video is eye-opening! Appearing to be small and get the wrath of potentially being bullied or treated disrespectfully. Thank you for this video!🙂
I wasn't even aware until a few years ago that I was completely guilty of number 4. Taking a lot of work to get that part into balance. 🙏
O MAN, it is so REAL 😢
I'm an INFP-T and am madly in love with my INFJ-T. Strangely their other partner is another INFP-T.
We just have a beautiful, loving INF -T polycule.
There was this one girl i was addicted to and fascinated by. And i hated her. Yet i was still fascinated by her and wanted to study her behavior. She was something else.
Thank you for these insights. I get myself on a deeper level through your videos. It makes sense why manipulative people keep finding their way back into my life despite boundaries I put up. I struggle whether I need to reveal a manipulator and cut him out of my life for good. Maybe I need to use silence and distance myself because I don’t want to get hurt. Narcissists are vengeful people. I feel like they know exactly when you become weakened or triggered and then show up to drain your energy tanks. They ping to get a temperature read on you to keep tabs. It’s very controlling and manipulative behavior. I have a hard time cutting them off because they are supposed to be a parent figure. But it’s just an illusion they created to get close to me.
The amount of wisdom in this video is high af
So true. One of my personnel applied for promotion and when she saw my accompanying report she came to me astounded: she thought I 'hated' her because I was driving and exposing her to ensure growth and development. Thanks to this I could provide an unambiguous and honest recommendation for her promotion.
Much more easy to talk about Kim and Chloe than one of the Stoics and less painful too. Only strange people talk about Marcus Aurelius. Hard questions but no prizes are given.
Aurelius is awesome though. :)
I deeply appreciate these five step videos. They provide excellent structure and yet, are flexible. They help us to sort out ideas we've probably had going on in our heads for a long time.
I identified with all five of them, but especially the second one. We definitely "go deep," and at times I've often gotten embarrassed (probably unnecessarily) when I do. I get worried that maybe I'm seeing more in certain situations than others do, and then (1) get embarrassed and/or angry and then (2) get criticized. In fact, after listening to this, I think I found one of the reasons that I try to keep myself small.
But yes, there are people who like us for that very reason, and when we meet them, it sure is a great feeling.
Very insightful video. Thank you
Yes, people drag me towards them at work (clients), and I feel some pull sensation from them. They ask me more and more and I give it to them because it is my duty, at first gladly, until in few cases I somehow feel I should say I will do it later (if I am tired, or the request still takes its time to be granted) or No if I disagree (for example if someone is late to an appointment and wants to drag me during 30 more min when I have other things to do) They generally wait or apologize when I say that, very few of them ever went away complaining, but they were worth the denial. Not a problem.
Thanks for shedding light on this Wenzes. I've had 'highly qualified' specialists avoid this subject and turn their head when presenting this concept. It makes it now less weird. However....I also understand why. I too retreat from a certain level if I can feel a connection at a deeper level if I don't know someone. From past experiences, it's like opening a can of worms or.....taking the lid off of Pandora's box.
I find that ENFJs are pretty good at the last 3 as well, especially making people feel heard, which is the same reason why people who want to feel good and heard are also drawn to them.
I am utterly amazed with your wisdom as well as your ability to teach others at your young age. Another great video I needed to hear. I do not feel so weird now. I am an infj!!! 🎉
I'm misunderstood most of my life even if im 28 yrs old now. But i am starting to accent that. I am accepting that i am my own happiness carver. And i wish all INFJs that you are seeing yohrself as someone unique and needed even if outer world do not validate that! 🦋
Another wise and insightful content. Yes, I chose myself, finally!!
Thank you Wenzes! This video is very insightful!
Wow so good. I needed this‼️ Thanks 💕🙏
So so helpful. Thank you!
Very insightful! ❤❤❤
Great advice at the end!
Extraordinarily incisive, as always! Thank you, Wenzes! Thank you for all your help you provide for all of us who continue to benefit from your great guidance! God Bless you!
Hi Wenzes! I love your videos. They saved my life. Seriously! When does boot camp registration open? I’m on the waitlist
Great post Wenzes. I got a lot from this and drew a lot of clarity from it.. I appreciate your efforts to break down and explain this personality type❤️
Wow excellent discussion! very insightful, thank you!
Thank you Wenzes! 😊
Most people don’t want to go deep because they have something to hide
What constitutes as 'going deep' is going to be highly contingent upon your cognitive type. As Wenzes is a cognitive ISFP she constitutes 'going deep' as in the realm of attached abstract logic' as an Fi-Ni convergent whereas say an ESTP with Ti-Ni divergence would perceive talking about abstract logical theorem 'going deep'. The Se authority of the ISFP, like Wenzes, very much wants to talk about 'going deep' in the here & now whereas with many other types, expressing this in concrete reality is less of a necessity, including the cognitive INFJ. I think it's a misnomer that people have something to hide; it's simply a matter of perspective when looking at the context objectively from everyone's standpoint.
Yes is the answer to your question. Your expressed dept is relieving to hear. Thank you.
It was one afternoon of second week of May 2020 when I was chilling down on my living room sofa, watching videos on UA-cam when the word INFJ came to to the screen. I clicked it and watched --- it felt like it someone knew about me, my soul, and made a video of it__and I am watching it!
But, it was on the 3rd week of May 2020 that I came in contact with Myers-Briggs 16 Personality Test: I came in contact to the word INFJ once again through an article about a certain politician, a lady. Only this time I became so curious with the word INFJ that I started researching about it and it brought me to Myers-Briggs. I then took the test: yes, just like the first video I have watched about INFJ, I came out INFJ-A on my test.
Did it make me feel different or high and mighty? Not one bit, because it is my natural essence__what amazes me was, how accurate the report was. And, the report made me help myself became better and following my inner guidance as well as helping me distinguish my over-extending . I don't want to incapacitates someone just because I can do everything. So, I learned to delegates.
Knowing who you are can be liberating. But, to have a research who solidifies who you are can give too inner peace ♥️🙏For, you are able to enlighten yourself and can operate your life without having the weight of the world weights you down♥️🙏
Last Spring Semester 2022, the first homework from one of my classes was to open the link our Professor sent us and take the test and sent her the result___I came up INFJ- for the second time.
I am 47 yrs old now---it took me this far before I was able to balance out my feelings and emotions and is able to distinguish them, without a doubt, against others. This is really amazes me and at the same time I am relieved: there's a name as to why I went through what I went through, as to why I am who I am__an INFJ.
Thank you so much for your videos♥️🙏 It helped me a lot especially on the first year I learned about INFJ.🙏♥️ I am an now an enlightened Empath. And I now fully understand as to why I have this profound love and respect toward others🙏♥️And most of all, I also now know how to care of my Well-being
You are an INFJ in the behavioural sense but not in the cognitive Jungian sense (neither is Wenzes she's an ISFP cognitively speaking ). Online tests are predicated on the big 5 & not Jung and the stereotypes are propagated by the online community
One of your most interesting video!
You are such a young woman. Love your inside, your straight knowing about INFJ´s. And makes me happy to find people like you that are sooo positiv :).
Great explanation!
yes. which is why I tend to keep to myself or just hold strong boundaries.
They'd tell me I can't communicate. But they always get angry at what I tell them.
This is true AF.
I am an INFJ and I have Asperger's syndrome, I blurt out shadows without realizing it making people very uncomfortable and it's very unkind. I am very regretful
The saying "some people never reach their potential" that really changed they way I deal with people. But I still see peoples potential and make the attempt to encourage them when they are ready for it.
OMG why do they become obsessed with us and they don’t even like us? It’s weird. I think in a way they really envy us.
A circle, each concept from the two previous.
Love, Gentleness, Wisdom, Justice, Strength, Harmony, Beauty, Firmness, Kingdom, Crown.
HOLYYY APPLICATIONS BATMAN!!! 🎯🎯🎯 all the way! 🤯🤯🤯🙏🏼
Most of the time I relate to the line by Holly Hunter in Broadcast News (yeah, I'm old), "I feel like I'm beginning to repel people". Maybe because I am older and more authentic than I was when I was younger, and so people know who I am and what I believe in, and that I see through them. This is often off-putting to others who tend to be more traditional or insecure. BTW - I am in a group for folks who have the COMT genetic variation, many of us are also IINFJs, so that is interesting. I find the idea that some character traits have to do with genetics very fascinating.
A group of 3 of us go out - the others wld get attention right frm the start, but by the end of the night most visiting people are talking to me.
After decades it gets old. Hermit wears well. We have it all so alone, is really not. The cat - mouse game is a nope. Not your supply. Shallow....sorry no thank you. We already have an important Mission here, not them. We are here for a much more important reason. Most of us wake up and KNOW why we were put here. Spirit does not make mistakes. the others are a side - not the main part, of our reason for existence. We are lightening rods - for sure -we get it. Trust spirit. Some of them are here to block our path and stop the real Mission.
Stay safe and trust your Inner Being guidance. Ty for the great info as it does add clarity. Sweet! Appreciate your wisdom!
Thanks!
Honnestely I find them boring not addictive
This is well put, I would say it is a trap for a lot natural readers because they look to tune to who they address and do it without thinking, a so called know the, know myself situation.
i have to remember that people are not the idea i have in my head.
Good insights. All anyone has is Now.
My eyes went green at a work function
Vs my boss
Nobody believed my stories
I got fed up at showed them
Pretty much explains the way my sister treated me😂
Yes get away
I find this is very accurate for my INFJ friend
We are all heart and love! We just want everyone else to be as well but get a brutal reality check😬
I think every person no matter what type they are can form connections with others not just INFJ'S I think different types connect with people in different ways and when you have that in your life people will admire these different types .
Very true & just for reference Wenzes & the majority of people on this site are cognitive ISFPs. There's a perception that INFJs are empaths which just isn't the case.
Please help me point out where she said only INFJ has that ability.
@@mysteriouscliche all of her videos are focused on INFJ'S I've watched allot of them she thinks that only INFJ'S can understand every type goes through they're own challenges and it's pretty bold to say that INFJ'S can cause other types to focus on INFJ'S no one is addicted to her that's a bold claim .
Wow you nailed it even to the point of people being mean to me and I’m like ‘wtf I thought we were friends’ 😅
Sometimes if you want someone really it doesn't matter how they should be in next Five years because you start liking them in the current situation on their present characteristics so future characteristics are optional but present is what you fell for 😊
Ms. Wenzes... brilliant presentation! Thank you... this is really helpful stuff. Plus, you didn't do a "hair tuck" , that giveaway for female insecurity, for the first eight and a half minutes, & again at twelve and a half... and the expression is "kick me TO the curb..." 😉 Well done. Look forward to more of your clips.
Hair tucks are female insecurity lol? My hair is long thick and always getting in my face. Didn’t realize not wanting my hair in my face is female insecurity lol
Yes it's true.
Love your eyes btw
“I want to understand this thing”
Do you ever just feel like a thing?
Different from other things 😂
this is not something that has happened for me recently but in the past, definitely...
I am an average guy in most ways. But over the years I have had a number of very attractive women who could have virtually any guy they want but they gravitate to me. It always puzzled me as to...."Why me?" Time and time again these girls would tell me "I don't know what it is, but there is just something special about you. I can't put a finger on it. I just find myself wanting to be with you"
True
Thanks for explaining why my ex married me. I had no idea.
Question - I mostly find people very shallow -or- I find most people have NO curiosity, no interest in how things work, or how to make things better. Is this because I am a INFJ? I do not have many friends - maybe 3 or 4 and of those 3 or 4 not even one can I have a truly deep conversation with. Its kind of lonely.
Yes, same here.
I think it's highly contingent upon cognitive type as to what people constitute as going deep. Wenzes is a cognitive ISFP and constitutes going deep as looking at reality from an abstract emotional perspective & her Se authority wants to discuss this with other people. Conversely, say, an INTP will look at establishing truth through logical specificity and not necessarily need to discuss this with other people as their Ne authority is not grounded in the 'here & now'. Just because someone doesnt appear curious therefore doesn't necessarily mean that they aren't. Due to the ISFPs blind Ne-Te there can be a natural tendency to perceive others as shallow when this doesn't correspond with objective reality. All facets of 'going deep' have their own individual merits. It's also worth mentioning that Si dominates actually have the most vivid imaginations but they don't necessarily share this with others.
6:23 I tell people I'm a self made behavior specialist 😊 because I'm soooo good at reading people 😂😂❤
Wow word up🙄🙏🏼💕🎶
Even mothers of my ex students still want to hang out together 🤣😁, college classmates tried to find my contact and keep in touch, while we live far away. I'm myself surprised and dunno as infj can be so addictive lol 😆
I don't really like to around people most of the time. But people seems to love to hangout with me. Tiring for me.
I’m glad that I’m different
how do we scare people away fast initially....and not get reported at work
Hello Wenzes. Do you also work on relationships? Do you think an INFJ male and female are compatible? Thanks.
I wish I could see myself for who I could be.
ooooooh ! ⚘️ yoooo ⚘️
my thoughts before watching this video:As Intp i see the INFJ as the only drug I want to be on even if it kills me.
yuh
WE NEED TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT WE ARE AUTHENTIC. THE TRUTH IS, THAT THE WORLD NEEDS TO EXPERIENCE THE LOVE THAT WE HAVE.
IM NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX, IM TALKING ABOUT TE REALNESS AND UNDERSTANDING THAT WE HAVE THAT CAN HELP THEM.
WE ARE ONLY SO MANY BUT IF WE KEP THIS UP, ALL THIS TIMID BIT STRONG WHEN ONLY WE HAVE TO BE, INSTEAD OF JUST LIVING IN OUR BALANCED STRONG BUT SOFT AND TAYS OK.
IM STRONG BUT I HAVE GROWN WEAKER BECAUSE I HAVE NOT BEEN FULLFILING MY PURPOSE.
IF THIS RELATES, I CAN HELP YOU HELP YOURSELF.... HERE IT IS, STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT EVERYONE WILL FEEL LIKE, JUST BE THE PERSON YOU ARE AND BE OK.
YOU KNOW THAT YOU MOST THEN NOT, DID WHAT YOU COUKD, WHAT YOU THIUGHT WAS RIGHT SO... NO MATER WHAT HAPPENS YOU CAN WALL AWAY WITH NO REGRETS. ITS ON THEM NOW.
YOU DESERVE THE LOVE THAT YOU KNOW YOU DO, BUT YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOU THAT MUCH TOO!!!
MUCH LOVE!!
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