Remember when you were crying, shaking, and hurting so much that you couldn't breathe, and you would lay on the floor, begging God or whatever you believed in to make the pain end? every single night? Girl, it ended. The feeling of loss may still be there; it's in your nature to feel that as a sensitive and feminine creature on this earth, but that pain of feeling so betrayed, confused, lost, hurt, and stuck because of how hard you love? You aren't stuck anymore. You can't feel those feelings or be affected physically like that anymore unless you keep holding on to them. Don't let those feelings plague you again. Don't let him plague you again. Don't go back to that place. You've been there, you've done that, and you don't want to go back. If you go back to him, you're most likely going back to that. Trust me, sweet girl, he was taken from you for a reason. As feminine beings, we tend to think with our emotions more than our heads. Practice thinking with your head more. Be strong, be kind, stay stoic, think balanced, love balanced, and support your sisters who need a little extra attention and love just like you do too. I'm still going through it. Trust me, I'm not just talking out of my ass; I'm speaking as one of those overlooked girls who needs that support too. I love you. You can do this. We can do this. please. PLEASE. respect yourself. If it is meant to be, it will come back in its own time, and he will come to respect you too. God bless you.
Omg your words touched me so much as I’m going through it myself it’s been a while so I’m just not bothering anyone with it but the feeling of loss is still there and it’s kinda embarrassing and painful to admit but it does still hurts. Wanna talk about it and support each other all along the way ? 🫂
@minaskim sure thing! Would be glad to be of a lil emotional support in the healing journey:) I feel bad that we don't really find it comfortable enough to express ourselves to the people around us :(
Thank you for this empowering message, it touched me❤️Going through a break up right now, I’m still struggling but feeling way better than some months ago, so I’m proud of myself. But still I’m afraid for the future and if I will ever find love again. I know the break up had to happen because he was possessive and toxic and didn’t really care for who I really am. But he was my first love and I miss the attention and care. I’m just worried for what’s next
Liz her videos are reality checks in your face and thats her main message. Sabina has a calm vibe who can deliver the message very well while staying in that vibe. The perfect sister duo we all need❤❤❤
shes so truthful, im not 18 yet but i can see myseld walking her path, i had seen it with my ''crazy'' aunt and i am most definetly supressed and i dont know how to release it safely because im not in an enviorment that can let me.
Can we talk about your voice for a sec? It's like soothing therapy, seriously. I'm all in for more of your moderator videos because you rock it like a pro. Ever thought about making it your gig? You're just that good! And those therapist-style videos? Always a highlight. But seriously, your professionalism is off the charts, Mashallah! Keep doing you, because the world needs more of your magic!🩷🩵❤️💞💗❣️🥰😘
Yes! I could hear Liz in my head preaching that aiming for the love _we_ want is not selfish and that that's what we should do 😄 But either way, I enjoy listening to each one of them, even if their messages and delivery styles are different.
@@i6tirhonestly i think it’s both. we can aim for the love we want & still accept love being given to us that may not be exactly what we had in mind. love also has the power to shift & change, so one love could even become both.
Sabina is like that kind of a person who approaches you when you have a downfall the first time; nurturing, calm, lovely, helps you stand up and Liz is this kind of a person that approaches you when you have a downfall after repeating the same mistake and instead of helping you stand up she’ll tell you “what did I tell you, when will you learn, stand up for yourself” and both sisters actually helps me with my people pleasing side, thank you girls, you’re the best
From the beginning of your video, I love how vulnerable and honest you are, you seem to be so loving, gentle and caring. I am mesmerized by your eyes and calm manner of speech. Now I need to watch video until the end, but I had to write this comment. Sending you love ❤
im blown away, just today i was telling my counsellor that i never felt loved, and because i didn’t think my mother loved me- i thought no one ever could and so i thought of myself as lovable. you used that exact same words as me. you were never alone, you are loved.
i love the way you deliver your experiences and the way you talk, it’s so calming and soothing while you speak about such deep topics, i simply love it. I can’t wait to see more videos of you talking again 💗🫶🏻 much love and support Sabina
8:39 "Being strong is all about being vulnerable" This hits!!! I agree 100%. Open your heart and share your vulnerability - that's a real courage for me. Thank you Sabina for sharing your story with us❤ Can't wait to see your next video ❤❤❤
Can we just talk about how freaking awesome you are? Your vibe? It's like a shot of espresso on a Monday morning-gives me life! And those moderator videos? Total game-changers! You've got this magnetic personality that just reels people in. Ever thought about headlining your own gig? You'd absolutely kill it! And those therapist-style vids? They're like a warm blanket on a chilly night. Seriously, your energy is through the roof, Mashallah! Keep being your badass self, 'cause you're making waves in all the right ways!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I kind of see myself in you. It’s crazy. I am so grateful to learn from you, that you can give a name to these feelings of mine. Your words mean a lot. Thank u
thank you for this. i'm going through a breakup rn and this video helped me to reflect how much work i still need to do with myself, and how i'd like my next relationship to be.
I've been a long-time follower of Liz, and I've thoroughly enjoyed all the videos you two have made together. Getting to know Sabina and seeing your relationship from a warmer and closer perspective, while having fun with your goofy conversations, has been wonderful. Now, watching Sabina's videos on her own gives me a different feeling. I love you both and appreciate your authenticity in various ways. As I said, this is a different experience and I enjoyed all of it. Sabina has a calming effect, and she articulates what she wants to say like an older sister, with a sincere and gentle touch that resonates with her soft nurturing nature. Lots of love to both of you... and the community ♡ ♡ ♡
8 minutes into the video and I started crying because I’m in this state of suppressing emotions and thank you a lot for speaking about this and being vulnerable I always search videos and videos they help but this video it’s just perfect and thank you a lot this helped me feel so understood thank you
The authenticity I wanna see from every sensitive people to express their feelings in healthy ways when somethings triggered us not only until they become rage
The way you speak and conceptualise things gives such a soul soothing, healing effect that feels like coming back to yourself and finding peace within.
Idk but I felt this special sadness from your face sab which i felt it inside myself too. at the same time the way you talk made me feel calm and kinda wanna cry. Anyway, so good to have you. With all love 🤍
Hey, just gotta say, your talk on letting go❤❤It hit different, in the best way possible. It's like you're in our heads, sorting through all the feels and making sense of it. Seriously, your vibe is like that friend who just gets it, ya know? Keep dropping those truth bombs, 'cause you're helping us all level up in life. Much love for you and your realness!
The timing is just perfect, going through a break up that was not giving me something where I can improve or be better, it felt comfortable but a lot of empathy was lacking in the relationship. Better to leave and focus on working on myself and eventually life will reward me with what I deserve. This is a process and I'm happy to start this new journey 💞
Thank you so much for making this. I have no words to describe how much this helped. You really made me feel like my emotions are true, and singlehandedly tore down all that post break up bs advice I read on the internet that is so harmful. I don't even know what to say other than thank you.
i have seen myself reflected on you for the things that you were saying, i even got surprised. i am a sensitive person and when i was younger i was constantly told that i was a cry baby or that i should stop crying so much, making me think that crying was something bad or something that i should hide and be ashamed of. when i was a teenager i went through a hard time because i had a very low self esteem, and it affected me so much that i am still working on it and trying to heal (i was like 14 or 13 and now i am 21). the thing is that i went through all of that alone. i have been trying to heal by myself, just because i have this internal belief that showing your vulnerability is something bad. sadly, i have accumulated a lot of sh1t through the years. what you said about those feelings coming out in a bad way is true, i also realized that this year. sometimes i have exploded with my friends and family and i've said and done things that later on ive regret, and that happened because i always kept everything inside, but those feelings must come out in a way. they could come out as anger, as tears, or even as an illness. so now that i have realized this, i am trying to get over it and i have been expressing my emotions much more, which is making me feel so much better. also, when i started going to university and i started getting attention from guys, i ended up having a lot of situationships. actually, i was desperate for a relationship and i ended up talking to a guy who was the complete opposite from me, i even had to ignore my values as a human being just to be with him, because he was a criminal. but now i know that the reason why i was with him was just the fact that he made me feel loved ''the way that i wanted to feel love''. looking back, i lit remember mysef feeling the need to have physical contact. he gave me that. and more things that basically filled the void i had inside of me. that's the reason why i was with him. i didn't love him, i loved the attention he gave me.
May Allah bless you Sabina in ways that you can’t even imagine. Thank you for this video. I can tell you’ve been through a lot, but as life got tough you got tougher. I really do hope you see this comment. This video was very much needed. A lot of this generation needs this video. It’s been 7 months since a relationship I’ve been in, and Alhamdulilah I have been doing better but fell down the rabbit hole of stalking him on social media to see how he’s doing. I have deleted instagram for 3 months, and started reading books again. I remember how I really felt so much anger, and wanted to show him that I’m “doing better.” I am so much more than someone who’s supposed to be “regretted” and yearned after. I have a life of my own. I will return to God at the end of the day, and he will ask me about myself. It’s so crazy to realize how much of my time and energy I’ve wasted on the people of this world, when I literally hate the people of this world. I feel like it was a waste of time, but it really was a blessing. I’ve learnt from this and will continue. I wish goodness for me and all of us. ❤️
I gotta say this came at a perfect time I was thinking about my ex for a while. This video helped me realize that I don’t love her instead I love the way she made me feel. Damn thank you for this.
it’s so crazy that i really needed to see someone talking about this topic and no one is better than sabina. I feel like i am having a conversation with my big sister. Thank you Sabina, i hope that you bring to us more videos like this ❤ love you.
That’s what terrifies me about relationships, cause when I like someone my feelings develop sooo fast and become dependent on that person they become my whole life which is dangerous and exhausting to say the least, anything they do effects me so much, if they leave I feel like I’m gonna die it feels like I lost it all. Now I’m so careful I don’t want to let anyone in my life anymore. In the past I was so detached I was the one who didn’t care in relationships and didn’t take anything seriously so I was the person who never got emotionally involved and leave whenever I wanted to, caused people pain I didn’t understand at the moment. Now everything changed when I started doing inner child healing and opening my heart and all that stuff I now feel so deeply and everything hurts so much and I can’t just not care like before. Maybe I shouldn’t have started this healing journey.
Because everyone wants to promote healing your childhood and trauma as a good thing or you’re gonna be happier. But be careful sometimes you’ll only get happier for a second there, after that it comes the real pain. Maybe there’s so much wisdom in holding to our pain, it’s like a shield which is needed to survive this world, let’s not romanticize how life is and can be like.
I rarely comment in videos. But I find myself, my soul, healed and warm, listening to you. Thank you for sharing your experience, your gentle comfort, advices and opinion. I am trying to let go of someone and this really helps. Bless you
Sabina, you’re so beautiful and your soul even more so. I’m so grateful for you and Liz’s wisdom as a 20 year old college student. May God bless you guys!
Sab😭😭😭🥺🤞🤞🤞omg same here… but I can build a strong relationship with my mom over time, my side of problem usually happened with my dad but I healed enough to share it … hope that’s what happened with you too!!! Let’s get vulnerable to be more open to the Universe!
Girl i understand your feeling. You are so strong. Just don't give up. Best wishes for you. Love you. You really are a goodness. God bless and help you always 🤍
Girl this video was so comforting for me, I am right now in a household that is exactly like you described it. I feel like I have to conceal everything, or my relatives will just think I am ungrateful or weak. I once burst in tears out of stress and sadness, and the only thing that my dad had to say was “ let her she’s crazy” to my mom. My mom herself didn’t take it seriously. That was a horrible feeling. Like my own parents can’t accept my sensibility, that’s why I felt everything you said 💗 the mentalities of my culture are also very harsh, and I feel like I will never escape that lifestyle
sab you are such a beautiful soul. you're the only person who's made me feel okay with texting my person as a step in my healing process. it's not about how he views it, it's about how good it feels to get everything off of my chest
As an eldest sister i relate alot to sab feeling unworthy because i was a single child for like a decade also my cousins refused to play w me which underneath created this thing that i need to shine brighter than ever just so that other people could think about me or give me validation after then partner comes and validates it its been almost 2 years ive started to forget him sometimes when i lay in bed i still think how would it feel to still be w him but then i realised no no it's okay im enough my healing journey has started hope and wish 4 me🙏🏻
Wow, just stumbled upon your UA-cam channel and I'm already hooked! 😍 Your content is like a breath of fresh air in the online world. 🌟 Each video is packed with so much inspiration and positivity, it's impossible not to feel uplifted after watching. 🚀 Keep doing what you're doing, because you're making a real difference in people's lives! 💖 Can't wait to see what amazing content you'll bring next!
My parents and siblings, they treated me like I was a invisible child the only time they saw me was when they were looking for someone to abuse. Now I grow up they still treat me like a sh*t but I don't stand it anymore and got exploded every time, they wonder what is wrong with me like they did nothing wrong, they call me toxic and monster and trying to blame everything on me. Now I am trying to gain back my inner peace and my positivity they hit me so hard on the ground and hurt me badly. I am tired of this sh*t and want to run away to another country and start a completely new life. No one should be treated like this and the sad thing is that my siblings think that the have the best family and life.
I have been going through my worst time alone, I have always been alone… watching this video I can relate 100% to the fact that my parents were always very cold and distant and saw my sensitivity as a weakness so rn, the smallest inconveniences are able to break me down so much, but I have had only bad experiences these years and I’m 22 years ild, I have never had a relationship and rn this hurts me so much that I al not even able to visualise myself in a relationship, I feel deprived of one of the strongest human needs and I also fel in love with this guy, who couldn’t care less about me, I always tried to be around him and show him how much I care about him, but he doesn’t even want to get to know me, he doesn’t even want to give me a chance and I am heartbroken and I see no escape from this pain cause i just can’t forget him, and I cannot lift myself up and get myself together, I cannot even live my life and function because I’m in too much pain Nothing is going my way, I have tried praying and taking my mind of but nothing works in my favor at all, and it feels like things are turning against me even more… I really need a lot of help and advice
I am 32 and had this same thing happen to me when I was your age. I met this guy when I was 16 and fell really hard for him but he didnt want me. It took me almost 10 years to finally let go. 10 years. It was hard but I finally did. You can too! (Hopefully, it will be a lot earlier than I did) The person that is meant for you will never miss you. I know its hard and it hurts so much. However, I promise you will. The pain that you are currently in gets less and less with time until one day its just a scar instead of an open wound. Everything is temporary, including this pain. You are only 22, God willing, you will have a long life! In that time, you will meet someone so spectacular that you will not even remember this point in your journey. Also, I want you to know that I am so proud of you! You were able to love someone so wholeheartedly and unconditionally. It may not seem significant but it is! Not many people can love this way. Now that you know this about yourself, you will be able to show this love to the right person when the time comes. In the meantime, keep showing up for yourself everyday. You can do thia through journaling, going on walks, working on hobbies, spending time with friends and family (or chosen family), or doing whatever else that brings your joy. Everything will be ok 🫂💛
Sooo gladdd you came on youtube to speak as an individual as well and we always love your duo with liz anyways🤍 Love and blessings Please continue making these types of videos! You are gorgeous! 🥰
This video really resonated with me and I feel like it really healed a part of me. You have such a beautiful and unique soul Sab, please continue to make these videos 🩷🩷
Her eyes are beautiful, who else agrees
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agreed, gorgeous! 🤩
It's so ethereal
She just reminded me of David Bowie. Love her eyes 💯
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Yes beautiful but is it a lense or that's her natural eyes..why her eyes is 2 different colors
Liz is like a friend who is giving you hard advice and Sab is the big calm sister. Best combination!
they're like yin and yang inside my mind
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the sisters are literally dominating youtube ❤️🔥
seriously! the best sister duo on youtube ✨✨✨
no for real!!!
I wonder how old is sab 🥺 Is she the older sister? Or liz?
@@viennajoelle6405 I remember hearing Liz call Sab her big sister one time! But I think they are very close in age (maybe she is 25 or 26?)
yes @@JourneywithGigi
Remember when you were crying, shaking, and hurting so much that you couldn't breathe, and you would lay on the floor, begging God or whatever you believed in to make the pain end? every single night? Girl, it ended. The feeling of loss may still be there; it's in your nature to feel that as a sensitive and feminine creature on this earth, but that pain of feeling so betrayed, confused, lost, hurt, and stuck because of how hard you love? You aren't stuck anymore. You can't feel those feelings or be affected physically like that anymore unless you keep holding on to them. Don't let those feelings plague you again. Don't let him plague you again. Don't go back to that place. You've been there, you've done that, and you don't want to go back. If you go back to him, you're most likely going back to that. Trust me, sweet girl, he was taken from you for a reason. As feminine beings, we tend to think with our emotions more than our heads. Practice thinking with your head more. Be strong, be kind, stay stoic, think balanced, love balanced, and support your sisters who need a little extra attention and love just like you do too. I'm still going through it. Trust me, I'm not just talking out of my ass; I'm speaking as one of those overlooked girls who needs that support too. I love you. You can do this. We can do this. please. PLEASE. respect yourself. If it is meant to be, it will come back in its own time, and he will come to respect you too. God bless you.
Omg your words touched me so much as I’m going through it myself it’s been a while so I’m just not bothering anyone with it but the feeling of loss is still there and it’s kinda embarrassing and painful to admit but it does still hurts. Wanna talk about it and support each other all along the way ? 🫂
@minaskim sure thing! Would be glad to be of a lil emotional support in the healing journey:) I feel bad that we don't really find it comfortable enough to express ourselves to the people around us :(
@@fathimaheenahasmi6706 Thatd true tho but that’s why internet can be a great tool also hahah for communities like this, do you have Snapchat ?
@@fathimaheenahasmi6706 do you have Snapchat ?
Thank you for this empowering message, it touched me❤️Going through a break up right now, I’m still struggling but feeling way better than some months ago, so I’m proud of myself. But still I’m afraid for the future and if I will ever find love again. I know the break up had to happen because he was possessive and toxic and didn’t really care for who I really am. But he was my first love and I miss the attention and care. I’m just worried for what’s next
Liz her videos are reality checks in your face and thats her main message. Sabina has a calm vibe who can deliver the message very well while staying in that vibe. The perfect sister duo we all need❤❤❤
Sabina your soul is so poetic, you are a walking poem
your words are ART
shes so truthful, im not 18 yet but i can see myseld walking her path, i had seen it with my ''crazy'' aunt and i am most definetly supressed and i dont know how to release it safely because im not in an enviorment that can let me.
This comment is so true
Best compliment you ever heard
I can literally listen to her for hours!!! Does anyone else want more videos like that?
yesss ❤
YES!!
She is calm and smart she's literally a queen
The way that you speak calmly makes me feel very comfortable, love you!!❤
It's like hearing Liz, the calm version
Can we talk about your voice for a sec? It's like soothing therapy, seriously. I'm all in for more of your moderator videos because you rock it like a pro. Ever thought about making it your gig? You're just that good! And those therapist-style videos? Always a highlight. But seriously, your professionalism is off the charts, Mashallah! Keep doing you, because the world needs more of your magic!🩷🩵❤️💞💗❣️🥰😘
that’s true about her voice cuz I was wearing my headphones while lessening to the vedio and her voice is so nice machalah
Yes its like therapy❤❤
It's not just me.
I love that she gives her own opinion even Liz thinks differently. Also I like her opinion more, shes so comforting!
Yes! I could hear Liz in my head preaching that aiming for the love _we_ want is not selfish and that that's what we should do 😄 But either way, I enjoy listening to each one of them, even if their messages and delivery styles are different.
@@i6tirhonestly i think it’s both. we can aim for the love we want & still accept love being given to us that may not be exactly what we had in mind. love also has the power to shift & change, so one love could even become both.
Sabina is like that kind of a person who approaches you when you have a downfall the first time; nurturing, calm, lovely, helps you stand up and Liz is this kind of a person that approaches you when you have a downfall after repeating the same mistake and instead of helping you stand up she’ll tell you “what did I tell you, when will you learn, stand up for yourself” and both sisters actually helps me with my people pleasing side, thank you girls, you’re the best
From the beginning of your video, I love how vulnerable and honest you are, you seem to be so loving, gentle and caring. I am mesmerized by your eyes and calm manner of speech. Now I need to watch video until the end, but I had to write this comment. Sending you love ❤
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I'm happy to see from Sabina!
same!!! 💕💕💕
@@JourneywithGigi wow ure so gorgeous by the way!
aww you’re too sweet, tysm 🥹🫶
this woman, her eyes, she's just beautiful wow!
The timing of this video was just crazy. Thank you so much sabina you’re a gem
So happy to see you! Love you and Liz!!!
they're my fav sisters on the internet!!! ✨✨✨
@@JourneywithGigi Yes!!!
So no one's gonna talk about her prettyyy eyes 💙💚
Fr is it contacts? Or the sun or smth
@@liivxcloudsshe have sectoral heterochromia
They’re fake. It’s laser eye color procedure
im blown away, just today i was telling my counsellor that i never felt loved, and because i didn’t think my mother loved me- i thought no one ever could and so i thought of myself as lovable.
you used that exact same words as me. you were never alone, you are loved.
i love the way you deliver your experiences and the way you talk, it’s so calming and soothing while you speak about such deep topics, i simply love it. I can’t wait to see more videos of you talking again 💗🫶🏻 much love and support Sabina
It’s like listening to an older sister I’ve never had🙏✨thank you for your genuineness Sabina x
8:39 "Being strong is all about being vulnerable" This hits!!! I agree 100%. Open your heart and share your vulnerability - that's a real courage for me. Thank you Sabina for sharing your story with us❤ Can't wait to see your next video ❤❤❤
It felt like it was a personal therapy talk!!! Every word felt so relatable! Much Love to you 🫶
Can we just talk about how freaking awesome you are? Your vibe? It's like a shot of espresso on a Monday morning-gives me life! And those moderator videos? Total game-changers! You've got this magnetic personality that just reels people in. Ever thought about headlining your own gig? You'd absolutely kill it! And those therapist-style vids? They're like a warm blanket on a chilly night. Seriously, your energy is through the roof, Mashallah! Keep being your badass self, 'cause you're making waves in all the right ways!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Omg her eyes.. she has 2 different eye colours and that too so rare colours ❤❤
She's so rare and beautiful ❤️
It’s not rare nowadays. You can get the laser eye color procedure like her in Barcelona.
I kind of see myself in you. It’s crazy. I am so grateful to learn from you, that you can give a name to these feelings of mine. Your words mean a lot. Thank u
thank you for this. i'm going through a breakup rn and this video helped me to reflect how much work i still need to do with myself, and how i'd like my next relationship to be.
I've been a long-time follower of Liz, and I've thoroughly enjoyed all the videos you two have made together. Getting to know Sabina and seeing your relationship from a warmer and closer perspective, while having fun with your goofy conversations, has been wonderful. Now, watching Sabina's videos on her own gives me a different feeling. I love you both and appreciate your authenticity in various ways. As I said, this is a different experience and I enjoyed all of it. Sabina has a calming effect, and she articulates what she wants to say like an older sister, with a sincere and gentle touch that resonates with her soft nurturing nature. Lots of love to both of you... and the community ♡ ♡ ♡
You are so wise and understanding. Im in love with your calm energy 💗💗
I love your calm voice , haven’t watched something special like this in a while
8 minutes into the video and I started crying because I’m in this state of suppressing emotions and thank you a lot for speaking about this and being vulnerable I always search videos and videos they help but this video it’s just perfect and thank you a lot this helped me feel so understood thank you
I can relate 100% and I love Sabina. Very calming energy, can't wait to see more.
The authenticity I wanna see from every sensitive people to express their feelings in healthy ways when somethings triggered us not only until they become rage
I like how your more calm when speaking, your sister is more loud, the two make a good team for sure.
Thanks. I had the same feelings and struggles growing up. Thank you for sharing your story and making me feel understood also.❤
The way you speak and conceptualise things gives such a soul soothing, healing effect that feels like coming back to yourself and finding peace within.
this was so therapeutic. we need more !!
Our big sister is here. We love you Sabina.
I cried three times during watching this video, she spoke from my heart, I've felt every word she said. I've lived every word , I'm deeply touched
Idk but I felt this special sadness from your face sab which i felt it inside myself too. at the same time the way you talk made me feel calm and kinda wanna cry.
Anyway, so good to have you.
With all love 🤍
She's a beautiful soul. ❤
i love how u talk, its calming and i feel safe listening to you, i also relate to you when you talk about your younger self
your voice is so calming, i feel so safe while watching this 🤍
Hey, just gotta say, your talk on letting go❤❤It hit different, in the best way possible. It's like you're in our heads, sorting through all the feels and making sense of it. Seriously, your vibe is like that friend who just gets it, ya know? Keep dropping those truth bombs, 'cause you're helping us all level up in life. Much love for you and your realness!
I love the way you and Liz are soo open about feelings and past experiences❤️ thank you for sharing ❤️❤️
I love how liz has the more “harsh” kind of advice, while Sabina has the more soothing/soft advice - both are very helpful and great! 💓
These are genuinely the most beautiful and awakening words that I have ever heard ❤ thank you
i didn’t know how much i needed to hear this, bless your soul🤍
you’re so comforting and sweet.. thank you so much Sab! looking forward to see more videos from u, ly ❤❤❤
The timing is just perfect, going through a break up that was not giving me something where I can improve or be better, it felt comfortable but a lot of empathy was lacking in the relationship. Better to leave and focus on working on myself and eventually life will reward me with what I deserve. This is a process and I'm happy to start this new journey 💞
Her voice is so comforting ❤❤
Thank you so much for making this. I have no words to describe how much this helped. You really made me feel like my emotions are true, and singlehandedly tore down all that post break up bs advice I read on the internet that is so harmful. I don't even know what to say other than thank you.
i have seen myself reflected on you for the things that you were saying, i even got surprised.
i am a sensitive person and when i was younger i was constantly told that i was a cry baby or that i should stop crying so much, making me think that crying was something bad or something that i should hide and be ashamed of. when i was a teenager i went through a hard time because i had a very low self esteem, and it affected me so much that i am still working on it and trying to heal (i was like 14 or 13 and now i am 21). the thing is that i went through all of that alone. i have been trying to heal by myself, just because i have this internal belief that showing your vulnerability is something bad. sadly, i have accumulated a lot of sh1t through the years.
what you said about those feelings coming out in a bad way is true, i also realized that this year. sometimes i have exploded with my friends and family and i've said and done things that later on ive regret, and that happened because i always kept everything inside, but those feelings must come out in a way. they could come out as anger, as tears, or even as an illness. so now that i have realized this, i am trying to get over it and i have been expressing my emotions much more, which is making me feel so much better.
also, when i started going to university and i started getting attention from guys, i ended up having a lot of situationships. actually, i was desperate for a relationship and i ended up talking to a guy who was the complete opposite from me, i even had to ignore my values as a human being just to be with him, because he was a criminal. but now i know that the reason why i was with him was just the fact that he made me feel loved ''the way that i wanted to feel love''. looking back, i lit remember mysef feeling the need to have physical contact. he gave me that. and more things that basically filled the void i had inside of me. that's the reason why i was with him. i didn't love him, i loved the attention he gave me.
May Allah bless you Sabina in ways that you can’t even imagine. Thank you for this video. I can tell you’ve been through a lot, but as life got tough you got tougher. I really do hope you see this comment. This video was very much needed. A lot of this generation needs this video. It’s been 7 months since a relationship I’ve been in, and Alhamdulilah I have been doing better but fell down the rabbit hole of stalking him on social media to see how he’s doing. I have deleted instagram for 3 months, and started reading books again. I remember how I really felt so much anger, and wanted to show him that I’m “doing better.” I am so much more than someone who’s supposed to be “regretted” and yearned after. I have a life of my own. I will return to God at the end of the day, and he will ask me about myself. It’s so crazy to realize how much of my time and energy I’ve wasted on the people of this world, when I literally hate the people of this world. I feel like it was a waste of time, but it really was a blessing. I’ve learnt from this and will continue. I wish goodness for me and all of us. ❤️
this woman is so wise 💖
I gotta say this came at a perfect time I was thinking about my ex for a while. This video helped me realize that I don’t love her instead I love the way she made me feel. Damn thank you for this.
You're absolutely killing it! Keep shining bright!❤❤
it’s so crazy that i really needed to see someone talking about this topic and no one is better than sabina. I feel like i am having a conversation with my big sister. Thank you Sabina, i hope that you bring to us more videos like this ❤ love you.
She is like angel. She voice is like therapy
Thank you so much for making this video ❤ you made me realize things abt myself that I didn’t fully understand
That’s what terrifies me about relationships, cause when I like someone my feelings develop sooo fast and become dependent on that person they become my whole life which is dangerous and exhausting to say the least, anything they do effects me so much, if they leave I feel like I’m gonna die it feels like I lost it all.
Now I’m so careful I don’t want to let anyone in my life anymore.
In the past I was so detached I was the one who didn’t care in relationships and didn’t take anything seriously so I was the person who never got emotionally involved and leave whenever I wanted to, caused people pain I didn’t understand at the moment. Now everything changed when I started doing inner child healing and opening my heart and all that stuff I now feel so deeply and everything hurts so much and I can’t just not care like before. Maybe I shouldn’t have started this healing journey.
Because everyone wants to promote healing your childhood and trauma as a good thing or you’re gonna be happier.
But be careful sometimes you’ll only get happier for a second there, after that it comes the real pain.
Maybe there’s so much wisdom in holding to our pain, it’s like a shield which is needed to survive this world, let’s not romanticize how life is and can be like.
I rarely comment in videos. But I find myself, my soul, healed and warm, listening to you. Thank you for sharing your experience, your gentle comfort, advices and opinion. I am trying to let go of someone and this really helps. Bless you
This video was perfectly timed. Thank you for this Sab I feel that I understand more about love now after listening to you speak on it.
So happy you have a channel now!! You are so so beautiful
Sabina, you’re so beautiful and your soul even more so. I’m so grateful for you and Liz’s wisdom as a 20 year old college student. May God bless you guys!
This was literally everything I needed to hear. Thank you
she sounds really genuine
loved it ❤
I want to send this angel immaculate amounts of love and success, she’s the most beautiful earth angel ever ❤️❤️
i can really relate with you.. I am in a process of realising my power and learn to accept me. be a better person everyday.
Sab😭😭😭🥺🤞🤞🤞omg same here… but I can build a strong relationship with my mom over time, my side of problem usually happened with my dad but I healed enough to share it … hope that’s what happened with you too!!! Let’s get vulnerable to be more open to the Universe!
Girl i understand your feeling. You are so strong. Just don't give up. Best wishes for you. Love you. You really are a goodness. God bless and help you always 🤍
Girl this video was so comforting for me, I am right now in a household that is exactly like you described it. I feel like I have to conceal everything, or my relatives will just think I am ungrateful or weak. I once burst in tears out of stress and sadness, and the only thing that my dad had to say was “ let her she’s crazy” to my mom. My mom herself didn’t take it seriously. That was a horrible feeling. Like my own parents can’t accept my sensibility, that’s why I felt everything you said 💗 the mentalities of my culture are also very harsh, and I feel like I will never escape that lifestyle
this video just healed something in me 🤧❤️
sab you are such a beautiful soul. you're the only person who's made me feel okay with texting my person as a step in my healing process. it's not about how he views it, it's about how good it feels to get everything off of my chest
I literally agree with all of the words that are coming out of your mouth woman❤
Love her voice face eyes everything she is from heaven ❤❤❤
It's so nice to see you back in UA-cam and with such a beautiful message. You look very beautiful and your voice is calming. Thank you.
I resonate with so much you shared, I'm so excited to see your channel grow Sabina! 🤍🤍🤍
Sabina I really love how calm you are you made me feel so calm. You’re so beautiful. Loved this video❤️
As an eldest sister i relate alot to sab feeling unworthy because i was a single child for like a decade also my cousins refused to play w me which underneath created this thing that i need to shine brighter than ever just so that other people could think about me or give me validation after then partner comes and validates it its been almost 2 years ive started to forget him sometimes when i lay in bed i still think how would it feel to still be w him but then i realised no no it's okay im enough my healing journey has started hope and wish 4 me🙏🏻
I feel like you guys are my big sisters and guiding me through the same life you got through, I love you guys 🤍🤍
Divine timing Sabina,I needed to hear this.I love You Sabina❤️
Going through some of the lowest points of my life but this made me accept my heartache
Sabina you are so unique !!! We love you so much and this video is amazing!!
Wow, just stumbled upon your UA-cam channel and I'm already hooked! 😍 Your content is like a breath of fresh air in the online world. 🌟 Each video is packed with so much inspiration and positivity, it's impossible not to feel uplifted after watching. 🚀 Keep doing what you're doing, because you're making a real difference in people's lives! 💖 Can't wait to see what amazing content you'll bring next!
You sound so wise and mature mashaAllah i can tell you have gone through a lot and learnt a lot and that’s beautiful to see ♥️
as a overly sensitive person and feels a lot this feels like a warm hug. sabin youre so full of love n im glad you would share this with us ilysm
My parents and siblings, they treated me like I was a invisible child the only time they saw me was when they were looking for someone to abuse. Now I grow up they still treat me like a sh*t but I don't stand it anymore and got exploded every time, they wonder what is wrong with me like they did nothing wrong, they call me toxic and monster and trying to blame everything on me. Now I am trying to gain back my inner peace and my positivity they hit me so hard on the ground and hurt me badly. I am tired of this sh*t and want to run away to another country and start a completely new life. No one should be treated like this and the sad thing is that my siblings think that the have the best family and life.
Thank you for being so honest and calm
good luck with your YT journey Sabina, stay strong people can be very mean here. Love from Bosnia ❤
I have been going through my worst time alone, I have always been alone… watching this video I can relate 100% to the fact that my parents were always very cold and distant and saw my sensitivity as a weakness so rn, the smallest inconveniences are able to break me down so much, but I have had only bad experiences these years and I’m 22 years ild, I have never had a relationship and rn this hurts me so much that I al not even able to visualise myself in a relationship, I feel deprived of one of the strongest human needs and I also fel in love with this guy, who couldn’t care less about me, I always tried to be around him and show him how much I care about him, but he doesn’t even want to get to know me, he doesn’t even want to give me a chance and I am heartbroken and I see no escape from this pain cause i just can’t forget him, and I cannot lift myself up and get myself together, I cannot even live my life and function because I’m in too much pain
Nothing is going my way, I have tried praying and taking my mind of but nothing works in my favor at all, and it feels like things are turning against me even more…
I really need a lot of help and advice
I am 32 and had this same thing happen to me when I was your age. I met this guy when I was 16 and fell really hard for him but he didnt want me. It took me almost 10 years to finally let go. 10 years. It was hard but I finally did. You can too! (Hopefully, it will be a lot earlier than I did)
The person that is meant for you will never miss you. I know its hard and it hurts so much. However, I promise you will. The pain that you are currently in gets less and less with time until one day its just a scar instead of an open wound. Everything is temporary, including this pain. You are only 22, God willing, you will have a long life! In that time, you will meet someone so spectacular that you will not even remember this point in your journey.
Also, I want you to know that I am so proud of you! You were able to love someone so wholeheartedly and unconditionally. It may not seem significant but it is! Not many people can love this way. Now that you know this about yourself, you will be able to show this love to the right person when the time comes. In the meantime, keep showing up for yourself everyday. You can do thia through journaling, going on walks, working on hobbies, spending time with friends and family (or chosen family), or doing whatever else that brings your joy. Everything will be ok 🫂💛
These advices is amazing sabina! I would like to see you more like this.
aww thank you for this video, Sabina!!
Sooo gladdd you came on youtube to speak as an individual as well and we always love your duo with liz anyways🤍
Love and blessings
Please continue making these types of videos!
You are gorgeous! 🥰
I find ur vibe really peaceful. Thanks for having ur own channel
I FEEL LIKE IM LISTENING TO SOUNDS OF HEAVEN. I JUST FEEL SO COMFORTABLE WHILE LISTENING TO YOUR VOICE
This video really resonated with me and I feel like it really healed a part of me. You have such a beautiful and unique soul Sab, please continue to make these videos 🩷🩷
Omgsh your eyes are gorgeous!!😍❤
Thank you so much for this video. It made me aware of a lot about how people show their love and what is love actually 🙏🙏