Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ This video has a lot of subtle points I've learned from many years of successes and failures in friendships, love, and business relationships. Let me know how it relates to you and YOUR experiences! Thanks, and I'll be back with more soon -Owen
@@davidfuturissimo467 You never fully get rid of it.. it's the operating system making sure you are improving and meeting its needs. More than likely you can get much happier and grateful though. You are probably distracting yourself with tons of low-level dopamine hits. Slowly cut all the crutches out of your life. Stuff like drugs, alcohol, caffeine, sugar, laziness, daydreaming, porn, tv watching, social media, video games, etc.. Figure out what your body is craving and build that lifestyle and mindset. Take yourself to the next level and then choose to embrace the now. Start loving the journey, start loving yourself, and most importantly start loving life. That includes all of its flaws. But understand everything is temporary including you and that's ok. That's what I did and I'm feeling so much better. Hope this helps you.
@@toltacoatl brother, RAS means what your brain chooses to focus on (because of certain conditions or events) for example when you buy a new car or any item you suddenly start SEEING the same car all around you because your focus is on that, and because your focus is on that, you start blocking other objects, this is meant to preserve energy as an evolutionary trait. This is the reason why some people live in scarcity or abundance, through certain life events, they’ve been wire to see (their RAS) the abundance or scarcity and block the rest
I went full in on RSD for 2 years, or maybe 3, cant remember. Improved myself and went from the clown good kid to owning myself and beeing me (carefree, etc all the things you learn on RSD); stoped watching and focused on other things (money, health, my own business and college). But sometimes is good coming back and watching or hearing some ideas just to stop and remember them.
@@ToxiicZombee lol I feel the same. I found RSD in 2012. Gamed for 4 years then met my current wife. It really does feel like as I went away from game to more self help so did RSD.
This is so powerful even after pausing and processing from chapter to chapter I am still grasping the Idea and I know it's really Big and will add this To Important re-watch playlist
Your content has changed my life man. Absolutely no joke. I'll be forever grateful to have found your videos and the community of people you've helped share their ideas. I grew up in SoCal and it took me listening to you to realize how good I had it, and how surrounded I was by amazing, warm people. I try to live by what you said 'I just assume everyone is my friend' when entering new situations and it's made all the difference. I could ramble on, but something about the way you deliver your message just clicked for me in a way that nothing else has. Thank you again, and I wish you all the success you deserve.
@@arunupreti2391 I'll admit I haven't bought a course, I've just been following the channel for a long time and trying to reflect on the lessons presented. I think in the future I'd like to invest in a more real way, but for now, just having a place where I can come and remind myself of the steps I need to take has been really fantastic.
Less views now... but the content is waaaay more meaningful. Not everyone will get this, it's beyond mainstream. This is Owen truly evolving. I love all of what you do for us, thank you so much!
The more I learn and experience, the more I'm convinced that our goal in life is to reach enlightenment. It seems like it's the only way to be truly happy and never toxic.
Owen Cook, as a young person, you inspire me so much to be the best version of myself every single day. I’ve got so much love in my heart and I want to do amazing things in this world. Hope you and your family are doing well
My takeaway in my own words: People overall may have emotional addictions that cause them to unconsciously screw their heaven up and turn it into what has traumatized them; abandonment issues, anger & frustration, loneliness, putting people on a pedestal, etc. Having boundaries for yourself means you have standards, when you have standards, you also attract others w standards So much more to this video than these two points, definitely going to rewatch! Thanks again Owen, I’m looking forward to coaching with you one day dude 🤘🏽
This content is wonderful man! I've been watching you for 8-9 years now... I'm in a great relationship for 6 year because of your channel! We meet in the club, after I went out meeting people for 2 years, 2-3 times a week. I had the confidence and basic skills to talk to her and take her home ( it wasn't that hard cause we liked each other a lot from the start, I just had to be good enough not to ruin the vibe ) and after that we started knowing each other better and better and we fell in love! Huge thanks for that! I see that the quality of your content is miles ahead of what it was a few years ago! It's much more organized and compact! You drop a lot of knowledge with fewer words and the way it's edited and organized makes it very easy to assimilate! Thank you for changing my life and so many others! You're an Angel Owen!
This is some real high level energy/quality content, if you actually listen deeply and grapple with the content of the information being gifted. At the same time, multifaceted levels of thought can access and obsorbe this information (according to ones own level of understanding and level of current stage growth)- very clever and mind alteringly powerful.
Owen, I just can't tell you how perfect the timing of this video is for me! You gave me exactly what I needed, when I needed it! I love you like a son loves their pops
This is unreal. I just had an experience last night, I was in emotional pain, but somehow it turned into gratitude. I felt connected to God, and all I could say through it was "Thank you". Love and gratitude, even for those that did you wrong, even for your "enemies". We are all on our journey, so when we practice love and forgiveness and understanding to those mentally afflicted by the chaos of the world and society today, then we can grow.
Owen just might have saved my entire professional future... the concept of building on low vibration tension building up, causing a RAS flip, causing you to push people away and later on realise it was mostly you having a negative RAS... Thanks for sharing this and the incredible explanation Owen
Same here, man. I used to just watch these videos and not even realize what goes into them; Owen and company make it look so easy, like it's as simple as just talking into the the camera. Once I started making videos, I discovered how much work goes in. I literally spent 4 hours to make a short video of a few minutes. Props to them.
Bro!! Love how you have transitioned from RSD to Life coaching, I use to follow you on RSD was so good helped me so much. Thank you. I hear you are good friends with Marczell Klein!! What a legend.
its kind of strange but when i grateful for things i have for now , it just come more to me os is just me , also once one man said me make peace be yourself and world already ready to peace .i really really aprreciate your videos you have super knowledge , thanks for trying to help and share .
Owen taught me through his videos to drop the "menvy" my envy towards other men that were doing Better than me, funny as it sounds my life improved dramatically after that.
Powerful stuff. I love the part where you mentioned to make a list of all the good and bad things a person brings to the table. I too made this list to cut off a long time friend and ex girlfriend of several years. Putting it on paper really makes it clear that some people really are toxic. I even did the tip of waiting several days before I acted on it to make sure I wasn't trippin. Ultimately it was best to cut both and my life has been more amazing since.
Quicknotes (I always take them quickly so they may not make sense but it's what I got) -Notes- Untargeted discontent - Triangulation Next Shinny Object Syndrome - Validation - don't leak validation easily Don't give away power easily Ignore them even more they chase more People subconsciousness think "don't put any more effort into this relationship they already like you" "but this person doesn't like you" Can't be the easily spun plate Gotta (non verbally) communicate you have other options, open to a synergistic relationship, but that (non vocalized) boundary is there There's always a little validation left to get from you there's always that little bit of mystery because you have substance. Leave a bit more to keep them engaged. Allow people the gift of missing you allow people the gift of anticipation. Allow people the space to create a win win Untargeted discontent, tension will start building and building towards that person (or thing) Fixating and fixating Ras (selective focus) flip Value and fear Can't enjoy the moment and lack gratitude Could be food or dopamine addiction Focus is being dragged by RAS and bad emotions flip Low vibration energy spreads People might feel the need to be consistent to it instead of having clarity Abandonment trauma Activity push you away till you do wind up annoyed and abandon them To reignite that trauma How are you doing this? Rationalizing personal boundaries Low vibration energy builds up and you don't release it Failing to have personal boundaries Evaluation on being weak on boundaries You don't know what someone will be like until a few months in or they dont need anything from you or until you are no longer the shinny object or they're not getting love chemicals from you When you first meet someone you're doped up on those love emotions and lust and physical touch and validation for the new shinny object You know you're both doped up Anybody can be nice when they're doped up like this Before I make any deep plans with them when they don't need anything from me anymore They are the person who their emotional state setpoint (emotional default when not being titillated). Shinny object, Halo effect, Are they expansive and giving and sharing Are they someone who can think lateral and find solutions How does this person solve conflict Inherint victim psychology People are going to be run by their personal evolution Someone who's released a lot of their untargeted discontent and trauma Drug and Alcohol problems Short term thinker Gotta look past the surface level Not gonna know who the new person is because you're the new shinny object. Gotta wait till those things wear off Takeaways Wait a day before cutting someone off Write down all good things they bring to the table Wait until the dust has settled So you don't regret it later, sleep on it. Are you someone that can have gratitude For air, body, family, food, life that you have, spiritual connection to earth, rare experience of being alive, that gratitude is who you are Spiritual disease (dis-ease) that stops you from feeling that gratitude
You were right. This is one of the very best videos you ever made. Honestly, I knew almost everything you said (just being honest personally - I know a lot of stuff) but all of it put together and all the depth you went into with all the examples and everything, and all the wrap up... it was extremely good. Might even be worth a re-watch that’s how good it is.
That "energy" that supposes that "the grass is greener on the other side" can be useful, for example: scientists trying to get humans on Mars- We just have to be cognizant of where these natural human emotions are directed at. There is always a use for negative emotions such as anxiety, fear, outcome dependence, and ungratefulness. Love and hate are two sides of the same coin
Well here we go! It's a start. Im nervous as fucking hell to show a single person this BECAUSE trust issues so I may as well show thousands to get it the fuck out of the way. My first journal(this shit really helped me after thinking it was cheesy for years lol) Just realized I have HUGE trust issues. And I can only realize things like this at 1am.probably because my brain can't slow down enough during the day to really resonate with things like this lol. I push away everybody that I really want close. My brain in the background is hijacking my RAS and making me think people might be using me even when they're showing no REAL signs and I start to think of our relationship as only that. A worry of them using me/trying to take advantage/screw me over And that worry Is so much in my focus that I completely forget all the beautiful parts of the person... And convince myself they're someone I need to cut out of my life before they really do something... Even when they haven't done anything yet. I've let myself become jaded from the very limited experiences like my father stealing from me l when I was young to.support his habit. I was bullied when I was younger he was the only person that I felt like I could really trust with my life. He was the person I looked up to, my hero. And all the shit he did to my mother. People it's CURRENTLY effecting right now; My whole family All my friends All my social & business connections Feel like it's dangerous to.tell people this because they can have an RAS flip and just think of me as a guy fucked up from trust issues... But maybe that's something to just trust and accept if it does happen. Just to practice trusting and even if that trust is broken I can become more anti.fragile toward the thought of someone "breaking my trust" wowww you big baby 😝 wawaaawaaaaa they broke your trust. Somebody else found out you like to have chickens watch you have sex(incase anyone ever steals my phone this is not legit calm down) because they "broke your trust" Wowww your WHOLE LIFE IS GONNA BE OVER WAHHH over a people knowing that (WAWAWA Donald duck voice) That last part was just to remind myself it's not that serious. Hope this helps or at very minimum resonates with somebody.
Lol I first didn’t notice the people at 23:00 are having a photoshoot, so I was like wow these people seem to really love each other and are intensely enjoying the moment. Hope for them they will have many of those moments!
Owen, thank you so much for your efforts. We love you and appreciate it. It’s weird you always release a video on a topic I really need help or whenever I need your energy the most. Right now I’m just getting into a relationship and I needed to hear this. Thank you so much
Yea I was thinking when im not in a relationship im not happy, then we find one and feel discontent and it ends, then after i go back to thinking i need a relationship and ill be good. The whole time presence was the answer and not "ill be happy when"
I always enjoy how you break down the hidden concepts and ideas that only a few of us talk about. Having a great filter and training that social filter is really something everybody should work on to know who they are dealing with for real. I hope one day we will meet and share a few thoughts, who knows... Respect!
I live in a third w country so his business ideas are not as successful for me but definitely helped. But i got all his old vids. Pimped my way into so many great environments. Tyler is the reason i dream of leaving my country for better life. Love you Owen! And max lol
In the book how to win friends and influence people they talk about how Abraham Lincoln wrote this nasty letter to one of his top generals who lost a battle during the civil war but luckily for him his wife quietly destroyed the letter, what you’re saying at 28:30 reminds me a lot about that situation
Everytime Owen posts a new vid: "Dude this is one the most important things you're ever going to watch ever!" Me: What? theres no way that every vid is the most important vid! Me after watching vid: HOLY SHIT HE WAS RIGHT
12:34 you walked right through their game😂 I love your stuff, man! Thank you for the deep insights and everything you do. I’d love to go to one of your seminars one day.
You may not see this tyler but you were a father figure to me in my 20s. Im now 29 and 4 months into TMA. But you really changed my fucking life. Hope that lands.
This is Owen AT HIS BEST! This is A GREAT VIDEO. I like the whole human relations business he so expertly explains regarding "UNTARGETED" DISCONTENT (THAT *SEEKS* A TARGET ON WHICH TO UNLEASHED THE PENT-UP "NEGATIVE" ENERGY) and the HUMAN DILEMMA OF "COMPULSIVELY" CHASING THE NEXT SHINY OBJECT - especially when one has a lot of time and money on their hands. The antidote to that is practicing gratitude: TO BE GRATEFUL AT ALL TIMES FOR EVERYTHING WE DO HAVE - ALREADY! CONGRATS on doing such A GREAT JOB on this pensive, insightful video. THANKS, Owen. :o) Ken
Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/
This video has a lot of subtle points I've learned from many years of successes and failures in friendships, love, and business relationships. Let me know how it relates to you and YOUR experiences! Thanks, and I'll be back with more soon -Owen
RAS ... is it basically a metaphor for the limbic system? if not: a differenciation-vid would be nice !!
@@davidfuturissimo467 You never fully get rid of it.. it's the operating system making sure you are improving and meeting its needs. More than likely you can get much happier and grateful though. You are probably distracting yourself with tons of low-level dopamine hits. Slowly cut all the crutches out of your life. Stuff like drugs, alcohol, caffeine, sugar, laziness, daydreaming, porn, tv watching, social media, video games, etc.. Figure out what your body is craving and build that lifestyle and mindset. Take yourself to the next level and then choose to embrace the now. Start loving the journey, start loving yourself, and most importantly start loving life. That includes all of its flaws. But understand everything is temporary including you and that's ok. That's what I did and I'm feeling so much better. Hope this helps you.
@@toltacoatl brother, RAS means what your brain chooses to focus on (because of certain conditions or events) for example when you buy a new car or any item you suddenly start SEEING the same car all around you because your focus is on that, and because your focus is on that, you start blocking other objects, this is meant to preserve energy as an evolutionary trait. This is the reason why some people live in scarcity or abundance, through certain life events, they’ve been wire to see (their RAS) the abundance or scarcity and block the rest
@@davidfuturissimo467 Train yourself in meditation;)
@@angel.carranco2 thats no answer to my question. is RAS a part or function of the limbic system?
I went full in on RSD for 2 years, or maybe 3, cant remember. Improved myself and went from the clown good kid to owning myself and beeing me (carefree, etc all the things you learn on RSD); stoped watching and focused on other things (money, health, my own business and college). But sometimes is good coming back and watching or hearing some ideas just to stop and remember them.
Great to hear. Which product/coach affected you the most?
I like to go back and watch mystery too.
Fr im married now but I love watching these new videos its like rsd grew with us
@@ToxiicZombee lol I feel the same. I found RSD in 2012. Gamed for 4 years then met my current wife. It really does feel like as I went away from game to more self help so did RSD.
@Slushy real social dynamics. It was a company founded by Tyler. Not sure if still around though
You really can't lose by giving unconditionally & choosing to be happy NOW
Life-changing concepts, man! Amazing vid! 💪💪
Thanks so much Jules -Einz2
This is so powerful even after pausing and processing from chapter to chapter I am still grasping the Idea and I know it's really Big and will add this To Important re-watch playlist
And thank you too..🙏✌😊
Julian, Max says you’re gay
Please Make an ONLY FANS for RSD so you can post content and not have to edit RSD CONTENT EVER. 100,000 people will pay $1 to $5 per month.
Your content has changed my life man. Absolutely no joke. I'll be forever grateful to have found your videos and the community of people you've helped share their ideas. I grew up in SoCal and it took me listening to you to realize how good I had it, and how surrounded I was by amazing, warm people. I try to live by what you said 'I just assume everyone is my friend' when entering new situations and it's made all the difference.
I could ramble on, but something about the way you deliver your message just clicked for me in a way that nothing else has. Thank you again, and I wish you all the success you deserve.
@@thereelaceofslayz3898 Couldn't agree more. Care to connect and compare notes?
@Trevor can you please tell me which course did you buy??
@@arunupreti2391 I'll admit I haven't bought a course, I've just been following the channel for a long time and trying to reflect on the lessons presented. I think in the future I'd like to invest in a more real way, but for now, just having a place where I can come and remind myself of the steps I need to take has been really fantastic.
Less views now... but the content is waaaay more meaningful. Not everyone will get this, it's beyond mainstream. This is Owen truly evolving. I love all of what you do for us, thank you so much!
I’m grateful that I got a car recently so I can cruise around Zagreb late at night and listen to Tyler bringing it.
@@mcpartridgeboy you can’t be serious lmao,
CAREEE :D legendo
@@mcpartridgeboy he's gonna be playing on extra easy mode lol
Did that tonight in LA . So dope you say that
Is it something jdm?
Gratitude lead to humility and humility destroys entitlement..FREEDOM
The more I learn and experience, the more I'm convinced that our goal in life is to reach enlightenment.
It seems like it's the only way to be truly happy and never toxic.
Owen Cook, as a young person, you inspire me so much to be the best version of myself every single day. I’ve got so much love in my heart and I want to do amazing things in this world. Hope you and your family are doing well
I'm 40 seconds in and taken aback by the production quality holy shit. Props
My takeaway in my own words:
People overall may have emotional addictions that cause them to unconsciously screw their heaven up and turn it into what has traumatized them; abandonment issues, anger & frustration, loneliness, putting people on a pedestal, etc.
Having boundaries for yourself means you have standards, when you have standards, you also attract others w standards
So much more to this video than these two points, definitely going to rewatch! Thanks again Owen, I’m looking forward to coaching with you one day dude 🤘🏽
This is something I've never heard talked about before. How giving away validation can lead to so many problems
these always come at the right time
Tyler has charisma for days!
Oh my man Calvin's here!
@@flowstateentertainment8395 let me know when you’re ready for that collaboration
This content is wonderful man! I've been watching you for 8-9 years now...
I'm in a great relationship for 6 year because of your channel!
We meet in the club, after I went out meeting people for 2 years, 2-3 times a week. I had the confidence and basic skills to talk to her and take her home ( it wasn't that hard cause we liked each other a lot from the start, I just had to be good enough not to ruin the vibe ) and after that we started knowing each other better and better and we fell in love!
Huge thanks for that!
I see that the quality of your content is miles ahead of what it was a few years ago! It's much more organized and compact! You drop a lot of knowledge with fewer words and the way it's edited and organized makes it very easy to assimilate!
Thank you for changing my life and so many others!
You're an Angel Owen!
13:01 disabled people who were previously abled have an incredible sense of presence
This is some real high level energy/quality content, if you actually listen deeply and grapple with the content of the information being gifted.
At the same time, multifaceted levels of thought can access and obsorbe this information (according to ones own level of understanding and level of current stage growth)- very clever and mind alteringly powerful.
Owen, I just can't tell you how perfect the timing of this video is for me! You gave me exactly what I needed, when I needed it! I love you like a son loves their pops
This is unreal. I just had an experience last night, I was in emotional pain, but somehow it turned into gratitude. I felt connected to God, and all I could say through it was "Thank you". Love and gratitude, even for those that did you wrong, even for your "enemies". We are all on our journey, so when we practice love and forgiveness and understanding to those mentally afflicted by the chaos of the world and society today, then we can grow.
It’s hard to be a realist and not turn into pessimism. Tyler teaches you to step into reality with a positive, optimistic, outlook 🙏
Gratitude is the catalyst for greatness
Those ppl at the beach are living their best life during this pandemic, unbelievable.
Got to keep on grinding! Solid work Owen!
Owen just might have saved my entire professional future... the concept of building on low vibration tension building up, causing a RAS flip, causing you to push people away and later on realise it was mostly you having a negative RAS...
Thanks for sharing this and the incredible explanation Owen
This was a particularly good one, and much love to my people in the background enjoying their day at the beach.
Sometimes it’s hard to tell when you’re authentic because your skills are so good.
Dude after starting a Channel, I now realize how much time Owen puts into his videos. Absolutely crazy probably one of the hardest working UA-camr
Same here, man. I used to just watch these videos and not even realize what goes into them; Owen and company make it look so easy, like it's as simple as just talking into the the camera. Once I started making videos, I discovered how much work goes in. I literally spent 4 hours to make a short video of a few minutes. Props to them.
@@matero30 exactly I know he had mention sometimes it takes about 100hours to edit his videos
Bro!! Love how you have transitioned from RSD to Life coaching, I use to follow you on RSD was so good helped me so much. Thank you. I hear you are good friends with Marczell Klein!! What a legend.
I am glad you put into words how hard it actually is to have an attitude of gratitude. It is a grind and a tough job to do to want what you have.
its kind of strange but when i grateful for things i have for now , it just come more to me os is just me , also once one man said me make peace be yourself and world already ready to peace .i really really aprreciate your videos you have super knowledge , thanks for trying to help and share .
Damn Owen, the type of content youve been putting out the last couple years is on another level! Absolutely fucking love it. Thanks for posting this!
Guy holding blue shield against your intruders is fucking awesome. He's most hard working in this video.
The quality & production in these videos is getting crazy. Better & better
Been following since project Hollywood. You are the truth brother. Let that light shine, TD
Owen taught me through his videos to drop the "menvy" my envy towards other men that were doing Better than me, funny as it sounds my life improved dramatically after that.
Owen your content is better than ever man.
Salamat sayo owen cook kahit hindi mo ko naiintindihan....Thank you from philippines.
The low can get so low. Never met you before but thank you Owen.
This video is ridiculously accurate. Love it.
Powerful stuff. I love the part where you mentioned to make a list of all the good and bad things a person brings to the table. I too made this list to cut off a long time friend and ex girlfriend of several years. Putting it on paper really makes it clear that some people really are toxic. I even did the tip of waiting several days before I acted on it to make sure I wasn't trippin. Ultimately it was best to cut both and my life has been more amazing since.
Quicknotes (I always take them quickly so they may not make sense but it's what I got)
-Notes-
Untargeted discontent -
Triangulation
Next Shinny Object Syndrome -
Validation - don't leak validation easily
Don't give away power easily
Ignore them even more they chase more
People subconsciousness think "don't put any more effort into this relationship they already like you" "but this person doesn't like you"
Can't be the easily spun plate
Gotta (non verbally) communicate you have other options, open to a synergistic relationship, but that (non vocalized) boundary is there
There's always a little validation left to get from you there's always that little bit of mystery because you have substance. Leave a bit more to keep them engaged. Allow people the gift of missing you allow people the gift of anticipation. Allow people the space to create a win win
Untargeted discontent, tension will start building and building towards that person (or thing)
Fixating and fixating
Ras (selective focus) flip
Value and fear
Can't enjoy the moment and lack gratitude
Could be food or dopamine addiction
Focus is being dragged by RAS and bad emotions flip
Low vibration energy spreads
People might feel the need to be consistent to it instead of having clarity
Abandonment trauma
Activity push you away till you do wind up annoyed and abandon them
To reignite that trauma
How are you doing this?
Rationalizing personal boundaries
Low vibration energy builds up and you don't release it
Failing to have personal boundaries
Evaluation on being weak on boundaries
You don't know what someone will be like until a few months in or they dont need anything from you or until you are no longer the shinny object or they're not getting love chemicals from you
When you first meet someone you're doped up on those love emotions and lust and physical touch and validation for the new shinny object
You know you're both doped up
Anybody can be nice when they're doped up like this
Before I make any deep plans with them when they don't need anything from me anymore
They are the person who their emotional state setpoint (emotional default when not being titillated).
Shinny object, Halo effect,
Are they expansive and giving and sharing
Are they someone who can think lateral and find solutions
How does this person solve conflict
Inherint victim psychology
People are going to be run by their personal evolution
Someone who's released a lot of their untargeted discontent and trauma
Drug and Alcohol problems
Short term thinker
Gotta look past the surface level
Not gonna know who the new person is because you're the new shinny object. Gotta wait till those things wear off
Takeaways
Wait a day before cutting someone off
Write down all good things they bring to the table
Wait until the dust has settled
So you don't regret it later, sleep on it.
Are you someone that can have gratitude
For air, body, family, food, life that you have, spiritual connection to earth, rare experience of being alive, that gratitude is who you are
Spiritual disease (dis-ease) that stops you from feeling that gratitude
Doesn't matter if I am high, sick, sad, on the street. I will stop whatever I'm doing to listen to Tyler.
The quality of the recent videos blows my mind. So much value, thank you!
You were right. This is one of the very best videos you ever made. Honestly, I knew almost everything you said (just being honest personally - I know a lot of stuff) but all of it put together and all the depth you went into with all the examples and everything, and all the wrap up... it was extremely good. Might even be worth a re-watch that’s how good it is.
I need love and i seek the approval & validation from people
haha the sarcastic intro is so good
Locked In. This is awesome. Please don't delete this Tyler
Love it!! Thank you for sharing this valuable knowledge 🫶🏼💥💯
That "energy" that supposes that "the grass is greener on the other side" can be useful, for example: scientists trying to get humans on Mars- We just have to be cognizant of where these natural human emotions are directed at. There is always a use for negative emotions such as anxiety, fear, outcome dependence, and ungratefulness. Love and hate are two sides of the same coin
Well here we go! It's a start. Im nervous as fucking hell to show a single person this BECAUSE trust issues so I may as well show thousands to get it the fuck out of the way. My first journal(this shit really helped me after thinking it was cheesy for years lol)
Just realized I have HUGE trust issues. And I can only realize things like this at 1am.probably because my brain can't slow down enough during the day to really resonate with things like this lol. I push away everybody that I really want close. My brain in the background is hijacking my RAS and making me think people might be using me even when they're showing no REAL signs and I start to think of our relationship as only that. A worry of them using me/trying to take advantage/screw me over And that worry Is so much in my focus that I completely forget all the beautiful parts of the person... And convince myself they're someone I need to cut out of my life before they really do something... Even when they haven't done anything yet.
I've let myself become jaded from the very limited experiences like my father stealing from me l when I was young to.support his habit. I was bullied when I was younger he was the only person that I felt like I could really trust with my life. He was the person I looked up to, my hero. And all the shit he did to my mother.
People it's CURRENTLY effecting right now;
My whole family
All my friends
All my social & business connections
Feel like it's dangerous to.tell people this because they can have an RAS flip and just think of me as a guy fucked up from trust issues... But maybe that's something to just trust and accept if it does happen. Just to practice trusting and even if that trust is broken I can become more anti.fragile toward the thought of someone
"breaking my trust"
wowww you big baby 😝 wawaaawaaaaa they broke your trust. Somebody else found out you like to have chickens watch you have sex(incase anyone ever steals my phone this is not legit calm down) because they
"broke your trust"
Wowww your WHOLE LIFE IS GONNA BE OVER WAHHH over a people knowing that (WAWAWA Donald duck voice)
That last part was just to remind myself it's not that serious. Hope this helps or at very minimum resonates with somebody.
Thank you owen for the video, very helpful.❤️ see a lot of things in my self from this video.
27:30 is very strong. Reallly love it.
Hell yes to all of these insights! Owen always providing a well spring of hope and encouragement. He’s a new sort of digital pickup messiah.
Thanks Owen for everything you have done for the world! :)
I will watch your videos just for the view and beautiful scenery
Lol I first didn’t notice the people at 23:00 are having a photoshoot, so I was like wow these people seem to really love each other and are intensely enjoying the moment. Hope for them they will have many of those moments!
Owen, thank you so much for your efforts. We love you and appreciate it.
It’s weird you always release a video on a topic I really need help or whenever I need your energy the most. Right now I’m just getting into a relationship and I needed to hear this. Thank you so much
every video is a major blessing of value bombs, dont know where we'd be without your passion
Yea I was thinking when im not in a relationship im not happy, then we find one and feel discontent and it ends, then after i go back to thinking i need a relationship and ill be good. The whole time presence was the answer and not "ill be happy when"
Mhmm
I'm grateful for you!
This man be saying it ALLL I love Owen Cook. No homo
Pretty sure Owen is the greatest psychologist alive
I always enjoy how you break down the hidden concepts and ideas that only a few of us talk about. Having a great filter and training that social filter is really something everybody should work on to know who they are dealing with for real.
I hope one day we will meet and share a few thoughts, who knows...
Respect!
Thank you Owen for creating this content. I'm always so excited when I see a new video ❤️ Lots of love from Argentina 😊
"Owen Lothbrok" 💯👌.
I live in a third w country so his business ideas are not as successful for me but definitely helped. But i got all his old vids. Pimped my way into so many great environments. Tyler is the reason i dream of leaving my country for better life. Love you Owen! And max lol
In the book how to win friends and influence people they talk about how Abraham Lincoln wrote this nasty letter to one of his top generals who lost a battle during the civil war but luckily for him his wife quietly destroyed the letter, what you’re saying at 28:30 reminds me a lot about that situation
Amazing video as always. Thanks you
just want to say thank you Owen. You rock, amazing content...life changing. Keep going RSD team!
The music you choose is always so perfect
And the audio mixing!
Before 2:07...I was like "what is he saying...let's close this video". xD
Everytime Owen posts a new vid:
"Dude this is one the most important things you're ever going to watch ever!"
Me:
What? theres no way that every vid is the most important vid!
Me after watching vid:
HOLY SHIT HE WAS RIGHT
You make so much sense sometimes Owen
Looking forward to your video on confidence. That Instagram live was 🔥
Actually best video you ever put out. Life changing. Eye opening.
I appreciate this Owen
This is so amazing place . What it calls . I loving it
This is just such a ridiculously beautiful video. ❤️ Such an insightful man.
This is the good shit right here man. Great video, and the info shared helps tremendously
Hello this is Sergio , i just talked with one of your guys :-)
12:34 you walked right through their game😂
I love your stuff, man! Thank you for the deep insights and everything you do. I’d love to go to one of your seminars one day.
You may not see this tyler but you were a father figure to me in my 20s. Im now 29 and 4 months into TMA. But you really changed my fucking life. Hope that lands.
Value bombs. Cant wait to be one of your good friends very soon
You're the best TD bless!
Your,re an Animal Owen, many positive vibes to you my brother.......keep spreading the light!!!!
Ngl bro. This video came at the perfect time, both in terms of my own growth, as well as someone I'm seeing now. Thank you for your insight.
i want more owen cook in my life. miss you man.
thank you Owen
Thanks Owen!
Please, keep going. Bless your lvl of granting.
Sincerely,
Listener.
This video is amazing...
u worried about the vaci? I feel like wont be alowed to get any foo< d if dont get the vaci, and people say ba< d stuff is in the vaci
You Thanosed your own content! 😢
Amazing video Owen, you gave me really positive energy at the start of the day! Keep up the good work.
You're great man.
This is heavy!
This is Owen AT HIS BEST! This is A GREAT VIDEO. I like the whole human relations business he so expertly explains regarding "UNTARGETED" DISCONTENT (THAT *SEEKS* A TARGET ON WHICH TO UNLEASHED THE PENT-UP "NEGATIVE" ENERGY) and the HUMAN DILEMMA OF "COMPULSIVELY" CHASING THE NEXT SHINY OBJECT - especially when one has a lot of time and money on their hands. The antidote to that is practicing gratitude: TO BE GRATEFUL AT ALL TIMES FOR EVERYTHING WE DO HAVE - ALREADY! CONGRATS on doing such A GREAT JOB on this pensive, insightful video. THANKS, Owen. :o) Ken
HAHAHAHA I was DYING at the intro!!
Amazing content.... Daaammmmm!
I like how Owen thinks this video is going to outlive windows